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Read the words I typed again. You are not discussing the same topic as me. You are discussing social constructs of sex. Not reproductive biological sex. The definition of sex you are using is primarily from developmental biology (a different field, and not a "hard" science on this topic). I'm done with trying to help here. My time is being wasted if you can't understand I already know what you are talking about, but you do not understand what I am talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 04:10 PM
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This is a great example of political bias and culture clouding someone's interpretation of facts. Reproductive biological sex is not a spectrum in our species. We come with either a penis or a vagina at birth as a dimorphic species. Genetic defects/mutations do occur on rare occasions, where a person is born intersex with both external genitalia, but the internal biology can only be one or the other (i.e. either the penis or the womb are infertile and only one urethra can excrete from the bladde…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 04:51 AM
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14% would be unhealthy for a female, but for men it basically just means your stomach is mostly flat and your upper abs are visible (but no shredded six pack like magazines)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 05:22 PM
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Red pill is a made up internet term. It means whatever a person wants it to mean. It basically signals your political bias and where you live. Also, gender and identity are not hard sciences. The RP guy is saying we have two biological sexes in our species. While you are saying that the culture you live in allows people to construct social concepts of sex (gender) and places more importance on the fairness to people's emotional whims and wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 05:20 PM
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Well I don't want to gild the lily too much, but I am often told so from people who meet me. I am a bilingual international executive that has lived in five countries. I keep pretty fit (around 14% bf) and have an above average "face card". More importantly though, I'd say the experiences of my life are very wide and varied, so I have a really pleasant and adaptive mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 03:31 PM
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No real red flags there... but as you mentioned she's fairly average/unremarkable. It depends on what you mean by personality is "typical modern feminist". If she is like 4th/5th wave feminist, that means something very different from 2nd/3rd wave. I also tend to immediately get the ick if someone's identity politics is their excuse for a personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 03:19 PM
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I'd say that holds true for most women. A guy can get whiplash from the speed at which women go from no interest vs. everyone interested if you're flirting on that line into the "unicorn" segment.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 03:26 AM
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You haven't established that is the why. You suggested it is and it's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 03:18 PM
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I agree with that, his word choice was extremely poor and likely he feels on the defensive so he may be inserting it to provoke debate more than it being relevant to his point. Male rights are supposed to be the flipside of the coin to feminism, so I'm not sure why people (both men and women) tend to think of it as a trade off, but there is a lot of hostility to men mentioning their issues in general. I've experienced it a number of times personally. And likewise Male rights lead to Feminist out…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 03:03 PM
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In addition to teaching Astronomy to kids at an NPO, I worked two years in what is called a retention center. It's where you spend the 72 hours on "suicide watch" these days instead of jail. I'm not sure why you feel the need to jump on me and start blasting off stupid presumptions like "get your hands dirty". At any rate, society as a whole sets men in that direction, and the expectations of women (their "desired partner") define a lot of what we as men value and how we behave, so it's not just…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 02:50 PM
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There is a finite amount of energy, interactions, and time in a day. Because of this, there is also a finite amount of attention any one human has to give to a cause. No one is blaming feminism, but the point is to begin shifting more concern and attention to male issues (not to completely disregard feminism) -- and the vast majority of male issues are not found at a men's shelter, which typically requires substance abuse for admittance. Male issues are found in daily life with the guy grinding …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 02:33 PM
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Go you. I think the point though is that people are afraid of talking about male issues because people will assume you are talking against Feminism, and OP's point is kind of proven in your reply here no? Anyways, as we were saying, men have a suicide epidemic going on and rarely get support from society.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 02:20 PM
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Anyone wanna trade "nice guys"? I got you if you got me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 06:19 AM
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Well you might be more secure in yourself than most people. Or maybe it's easier for you to depersonalize yourself from my example as this specific use case does not apply to you. In either event, all humans feel slighted when attempts at intimacy are shutdown by someone they care about. Whether that be in the bedroom or out of it. And when a past partner is added into that mix, comparison can lead to jealousy in many of these situations. No one is claiming it is the "right" and "mature" thing t…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 03:55 AM
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Yeah exactly. The OP was saying exactly this. There are two possible things you might be saying by it as you pointed out, but this sub has a tendency to jump on guys if they are hurt by the first example... accusing them then of trying to pressure someone who is saying the second or third example you provided.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 02:36 AM
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This was a 5 year relationship and we were engaged. It's easy for me to speak casually now that I'm over it, and you're picking up on that more than the reality of what it was at the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 12:36 AM
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Tattoo artist community is small and sure plenty of screw loose types (she's a tattoo artist, as were both the ex bfs after me, but I'm a corporate no tatts dude so was a weird matchup). Specific kink dynamics of the relationship but I don't want to go overly into detail as I'm not sure where the line is in what she personally would be fine with me sharing in such a public way.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 11:35 PM
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Most recently? My ex Ash lol... I ran into two of her ex bfs this year who dated her after me and I'm apparently the standard (she talks about our sex a lot still apparently) but yeah idk that was a weird trauma bond turned bdsm thing tbh. At any rate it happens. I think a good female equivalent would be if you were dating a new guy and out with his friends and they kept bringing up the "Anal bunny" ex and your bf is laughing along when its clear he enjoyed it... then a few days later you want t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 11:15 PM
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Happens fairly often. Had a few exes do shit "only with me" and likewise have been with a few girls who were pretty into certain things with an ex but didn't feel that vibe with me etc. I didn't mind since she wasn't like "the one" for me either, but if our relationship HAD been there I would have expected full intimacy and been hurt by anything less than everything. As for how I know, well I simply asked. If nothing else, all my relationships have had pretty open communication. It's fine if any…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 10:44 PM
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Birth rate is higher btw under normal conditions. It only recently decreased (very well btw) because they initially produced too many. They are extremely well organized as a population. So over a 50 year span, they are higher, because they wanted more babies. Over a 3 year span, they said oh shit too many nice job guys but chill, and congrats yes it's lower atm (and about to increase again).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 03:21 AM
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Yeah so true. Especially in a country where we arrest men who rightfully cannot pay due to war disabilities while the wife is claiming support for the three kids from guys she fucked while he was sacrificing his life. I mean women who raped children get to sue for child support when he is 18. What the fuck are we doing? We can pick extreme examples on either side of this. Just grant men equal rights, and I'll standby yours as well. Why does this have to be a slippery slope? Why don't we just be …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 03:12 AM
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And it says so much that the assumption in this hypothetical wasn't "against your consent". I didn't specify any of that, and of course it would impact it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 03:04 AM
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k, but like we are risking a lot here so I hope you have numbers to support that (and I looked but didn't see any)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 02:23 AM
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Says the person downvoting me for trying to just provide a little feedback on how it feels when you're born another gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 02:12 AM
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Don't change this to a barrage of questions -- you are attempting to distract from my counterpoint: 1) Human beings (both male and female) have a right to pursue their interests. Although that was implied through most of your original post (you aren't being reasonable or fair to men as human beings), you added this specific comment: it is pathetic and evil btw 1b) Doing so is not evil (in response to the quotes above), it is human nature. It's fine if we don't align on what we want. You keep doi…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 02:01 AM
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k, but like that doesn't relate to the fact men can be motivated by whatever they choose -- and since that's what I'm saying here I don't see why you can't just say "yeah sure more power to em". I'm replying to the claim that it is inherently pathetic and evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 01:34 AM
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FTFY: "I personally have no idea, but want to bet it won't break down society or that would just fucking suck, and since I have the option to fuck my way through a partial apocalypse, good luck to everyone else and their 'bloodline' "
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 01:23 AM
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Well I mean if that is our truth, why should anyone listen to you encouraging people to disregard it? Even if you feel one of our core reasons for existing is irrelevant to you, it doesn't make it pathetic or evil. We have the same rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 01:16 AM
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Based reply.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 03:29 PM
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OKC didn't originate it. It was a prior study and concept and OKC just saw it replicate in their independent data. I'm always hesitant about data and studies from a for-profit company, so I'm not sure I would accept that "pop" science or the insights they are advertising. Too much room for corrupting the bias and wording to match a corporate agenda.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 09:43 PM
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What he is trying to point out is how when men do the "attractive or not" judgement we are a lot more lenient on women than they are on us. About 15-30% of women are dating potential to any given guy versus .01%-5% for women. Several studies have shown this is a discernable pattern with women in the US/UK. It's a cultural issue and these women have a lot to learn from the women outside of their cultural bubble. In 80 years, there will either be less of us left for it to matter or there will be a…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 09:31 PM
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Not the topic of discussion. Cute manipulation tactic but please stop suggesting arguments you imagined in your head and distracting with an emotional blackmail attempt. It isn't helpful to anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 04:06 PM
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k. gl with all your feelings and stuff ig.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 04:02 PM
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That's not how logic works. When you use the operator "AND" it means that you are exclusively talking about the class of things for which BOTH statements are true. It does not mean you get to choose either of the listed topics (that's what OR is for). I don't have anything else to say to you on this topic because you don't have anything of value to offer me in return.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 03:58 PM
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In your own words, what do you think the logical operand AND means as opposed to OR? I don't debate that many people at that time were unhappy in some ways and felt a range of emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 03:36 PM
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In 1950, you are dealing with a society that had lead poisoning en masse, is coming out of world war 2, and survived/grew up in the great depression on the tail end of a MAJOR christian fundamentalist movement. During hard times, a lot of men and women got married. A decade or two later, no fault divorce becomes a thing and a lot of people in dead marriages opt for it. There isn't really anything unusual or remarkable about the fact the new thing a lot of voters waited for was "exploding". More …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 03:15 PM
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Yeah pretty much. This is all just fake shit. Ive been just turning it off. A shame too, I used to learn a lot on this site.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 01:37 AM
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just to add another point I feel is important... while the companies saw that Russia spreading disinformation to attempt to sway elections etc was kinda bad, they at the same tine realized they make crazy ad revenue off people arguing... so the winning strategy for them at the bank these days are to show you as much shit as they can that can make you mad enough to engage and keep refreshing to argue etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 01:11 AM
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Pretty spot on. Was going to post something similar, but you nailed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 07:21 PM
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Sure there have. Bhutan is a modern example, but with some caveats. Historically it is the rarer of the two power arrangements. However, being rare doesn't mean it never has been attempted: Mosuo (China): The Mosuo people, living in the Yunnan and Sichuan provinces of China, are often cited as one of the best-known matriarchal societies. They practice what is known as "walking marriage," where women can choose and change partners freely, and children are raised by the mother's family. Property i…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 02:15 PM
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Well you can dodge the question if you want, but don't presuppose what I say or think. There are societies where women have the dominant power both now and historically. It largely turns out about the same as the reverse, so I just don't find it a very fascinating thought. For the most part human nature is the same in both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 02:18 AM
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I'm not sure I agree with that premise. All of mankind is already trying its best to make them as safe as possible within an economic balance. I don't see how having more women in the field would guarantee more competent results, and some of these jobs are just inherently dangerous or hazardous to health (coal mining, war, powerline maintenance, etc)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 02:12 AM
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Good question. If the idea of a female dominated society isn't much different from our current reality, perhaps women already have a lot of power. What would one look like to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 10:10 PM
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Yeah as I said I don't think much would change. If it were a free market society, the pay would likely be lower or nonexistent because men would be pushed not to pursue higher education but instead to find a basic trade or infrastructure job (increasing the supply of workers)... and perhaps tie it to a punitive process like paternal responsibility abandonment or crime... much like we currently do in the for profit prisons for men. Interesting side note on that, male prisoners are forced to do a …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 09:00 PM
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Thanks for recommendation, I'll check it out. I would argue the world wouldn't be much different, and we can already see what the world is like currently with many female dominated fields/facets of society. My issue with this question is that it is a bit too broad. Reversing the gender roles for example would not affect the underlying truths of reality and game theory, so I doubt that anything substantial would change. More than likely, the only things I could see happening are men being given m…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 08:14 PM
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Mmm "happy to see me" is the bar I set for friends. For a woman, I require her to be sexually exclusive to me, open to letting me have my freedom and supportive of my goals/not a hindrance to achieve them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 09:09 PM
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I wouldn't say he's fully delusional. I mean he makes a lot of sweeping assumptions and is maybe being a bit reductionalistic/naive... particularly about the sex drive of women. Women have different priorities I'd say than men, but fucking christ they can have high sex drives. Most guys think they want to date a nympho until they actually do... there are girls out there that will literally fuck your brains out 16 hours a day if they can and leave you raw to the touch.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 12:11 AM
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I'm fucking dead. Best thing I read today.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 12:08 AM
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Ah I see... Which country is it if I may ask? Many European countries have been following the profit trends that US Pharma set in recent years (at least to the extent that their local laws allow). What do you think is the cause of this in your own country?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 06:33 AM
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Well that's what you get with a profit based healthcare system tbh. I guarantee you that if you walk into a doctor's office with a wad of cash and literally any complaint, they can find something to diagnose relating to that. It is what I believe is happening in the US atm with these fully functioning "autistic" people who literally just match maybe 1 - 2 vague symptoms.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 06:09 AM
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Yeah a good portion of the posts are "look at me" attempts. This OP seems very legitimate, but I'm not going to bother reading the comments. There is a pretty wide spectrum where you have kids like my nephew who can only eat cheez-its and other orange colored foods etc. to people who are likely neurotypical but want to feel special and overplayed their "symptoms" to a doctor to get TikTok clout + a victim card to use when convenient.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 03:10 AM
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Boo you marked off the post from answers from the rest of the community. I'd recommend opening your future posts on topics like these to more than one small group of flair users, otherwise you are just as guilty of avoiding data and being closed minded. At any rate, here was my censored post which was meant in good fun: I'm guilty of this. I've always been a Star Trek fan and the simple fact is that DS9 had better personal stories and character development, especially regarding characters like D…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 10:00 PM
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Not sure it helps -- but the girlfriends I've had that are able to climax (some just aren't even in masturbation) definitely have the same sense. Body shaking "don't touch me" instinct as the muscles reset and then sleepy and calm... so yeah most girls have similar effects from their orgasms to men assuming all else is normal and functioning.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 07:43 PM
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Or read the context of this comment thread. We are discussing how cheating is likely less about sex, loyalty, or love... and more about validation of underlying issues such as insecurity. If this were the case, men "jump at the opportunity" because that opportunity is rare and provides them validation. If sex opportunities were less rare, it would probably provide less validation, and then men would likely cheat more for the same reasons women do. I don't think gender has much to do with it beca…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 08:58 PM
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Wealth per capita doesn't hold up as a good metric once you calculate in a few things. Minus out cost of living, health care, etc... Then adjust for the group you'll be dating in which is generally English speaking, educated families abroad... At any rate, I would probably be considered a "passport bro" as I am multilingual and lived overseas most of my life. I absolutely "slay" in the US too, but again I just don't care for Americans in a relationship. Might be worth noting it isn't just women.…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 07:46 PM
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Yes. Passport Bros is anyone going abroad and many of the countries are richer than the US and dont necessarily involve immigrating your partner into the US. It is more or less just international dating/marriage of any type with a mild emphasis on avoiding American women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 02:20 PM
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Stop being sensible. I'm here to argue. rabble rabble rabble
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 03:23 AM
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lmao fr *channels his inner caveman energy into a penis beam* Submit or be destroyed, ladies.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 05:03 AM
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Ahh I lived fo 1-5 years each contract so I was a bit more open to something long-term. For me, as counter intuitive as it sounds, I just don't really have a preference for Asian women and tbh I never even considered them "my type" until I had been living there awhile. Given my dating options at the time, I became adjusted to it, but I mostly dated them for personality more than physical attraction (albeit they usually had looks in spades -- just saying I have a preference for European girls).
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 01:29 AM
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Same here -- pretty world traveled 30s male. Not a digital nomad, but multilingual and worked in many tech companies. For me the age gap isn't a big deal. I've dated older and younger women. It's more important to me that they have similar life plans and the ability to execute them around the time I plan to as well. E.G. at this point I won't date university girls/med students most likely because I don't want to wait for them to graduate, but if I hit it off with a 20 year old who wants to settl…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 11:02 PM
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Just blew up on you for suggesting I was a predator in the other comment. Think it may be some sort of miscommunication though. Gonna just drop this and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 05:05 PM
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As I said, use common sense and read the other person's ques. Not all communication needs to be verbalized. You don't need to get consent on every minute detail. If shes wants you to choke her with your dick and consents/begs for that action, it would be highly unusual for her to be adverse to seeing it in the process. Its an unavoidable and included act that precursors what she consented to. This has never once been an issue in my entire life from any partner, and if its not a problem for my pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 05:03 PM
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In the middle of sexting? Just use common sense. If she's wanting assertion and is roleplaying that can be a mood killer... Especially if it is light dom/sub roleplay etc. Like all communication it really depends on the person and situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 04:50 PM
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Hm? You misunderstood something. I already said I dont do that and I am recommending to other guys not to too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 04:43 PM
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Oh yeah totally agree. That's exactly why I wait lol. Even putting aside the "piggish" aspects -- I worry about timing -- Noone wants to see genitals while you're eating dinner with your family, etc. Plus bonus for me, she can actually do something with it if it's the right time.. which is pretty hot. I've gotten nudes from girls randomly too out of context, and it was sorta just unexpected/not a huge turn on.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 08:11 AM
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Well I think your method was just sending it 100x to get the 1% who would cold respond to it right? I do a little more work getting to know her and what she likes/mutually getting in the mood with build up and flirting. Either way works, but you find genuine people going at a more natural pace. And I'm more interested in a continued relationship personally. ONS bores me. The 1% flat responding with "Yes plz dick" aren't really a huge amount of interest to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 08:05 AM
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And from a guy's perspective that doesn't flash dick pics to strangers... it has a huge impact if the convo goes great and the chemistry leads to sexting... and if she's a little bit sub or kink or horny... that's a good time. 100% success... well as close to 100 as you can get without asking
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 07:59 AM
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Yeah it's actually pretty cool. Lots of cute sexy santas etc at the clubs/bars... need a reservation for love hotels... and KFC's busiest night of the year hah. Have a great day man!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 09:18 PM
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It's closer to Valentine's Day in the US. You go on dates and eat fried chicken. The reason we celebrate it is the same reason you do for any holiday: traditions. It was an imported holiday by missionaries a few centuries ago, banned at one point, then repurposed to a date night in more recent generations. It is not a national holiday though and you still have work/normal life going on that day.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 08:05 PM
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This is exactly the type of hypocritical crap I've come to expect from redditors on this sub. Girls don't exist either so stop trying to make it sound like they do /r/girlsarentreal
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 07:53 PM
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It's 25 in a lot of countries. In Japan we call it Christmas Cake. It's left over from the 25th and no one ate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 10:45 PM
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Their loss.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 03:04 AM
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I think it has a lot to do with how you build the chemistry and comfort level. From there, its of course how attentive you are in bed (which doesn't mean being a sensitive guy always, it means being attentive to ques and being dominate/primal if she's responding to that or adjust to more sensual if that's what she's into). It takes a little work to get onto a mutual sweet spot, but if you're giving her good orgasms and she likes you a lot then tbh I've never really known many girls who don't hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 01:09 AM
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"The greatest trick the devil ever pulled was convincing the world he didn't exist." Enough with your wiles, succubi! I'm onto you!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 07:51 PM
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It isn't worth the emotional manip and drama imo. Plenty of well-adjusted girls with kinks and a high sex drive. I'd be honestly worried of a baby trap or drugs/bad habits getting involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 07:45 PM
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I'm an ENTP. While I was skeptical of the idea, once you understand how it works you'll realize it just points out about 16 archetypes that have some common patterns in behavior. It doesn't tell you who someone is or anything beyond that. It's just 8 common traits and the possible combinations of how a person might use that in their behavior/interaction with others. From that baseline you can make some educated guesses about their personality, but that's not 100% accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 09:47 PM
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Ah yeah forgot about the upward mobility marriages. Fair addition.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 10:26 AM
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Thirding this. A tri-fecta of mutual experiences. You generally don't see rich men or EXTREMELY good looking men running off with Single mom's in their 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 08:46 AM
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You mean like doing OnlyFans? I'm fine with that and have had ex-gfs who have done it. Prostitution or meeting those men IRL however is not OK. Despite me being OK with that though, you are again comparing two completely different things. I don't upload pictures of my dick to women on the internet. They never meet me, see me, or interact with me when I happen to see a naked picture of them. The key aspect is that for it to be FANTASY and not PERSONAL. One of the two parties shouldn't interact wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 10:33 AM
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Credible to associate a causative relationship? Disappointing to hear that as someone who claims to dissect studies. Edit: Waiting for an update on PC so I'll add a few issues with those studies. No study exists that shows humans with healthy brains before are then corrupted after viewing pornography. The likely scenario taking place in these correlative studies is that subjects with low-functioning brains are more likely to engage in dopamine seeking behaviors such as porn. So effectively, the …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 08:40 AM
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Yeah sure it can be fine in moderation and when used correctly. Either way I don't really mind much because I don't get jealous easily. RE: "Studies about porn" -- there is a major cultural bias historically and modern day in the US for puritan religious beliefs (and really hard line christianity in general). You can find thousands of corrupt studies on this subject tainted by religious and conservative agendas like "masturbation leading to blindness" etc. In the modern day, the "brain rot" (old…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 08:28 AM
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That's a terrible analogy. Porn includes fictional scenarios/fantasies/animated and edited engagements by paid actors. There is no risk of being coerced or forced into sex. It is very different from getting to know a couple and letting their man see you naked and masturbating. I don't send the porn actress my dick pic every time I need to get off to sleep and I can't see my gf/wife. I'm fine with a one way fantasy, and she is perfectly welcome to watch w/e porn she wants -- in fact we can watch …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 08:21 AM
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Yeah it's all subjective, but porn is a masturbation aid, so I'd much prefer dating a girl who watches porn over getting ego kicks on IG/TikTok etc... but they check different boxes. Visual stimulation does nothing for some people.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 07:15 AM
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The effects of social media on the brain/personality are pretty rough too. It's just less researched atm due to Social Media being new... but we can start with lowered attention span, skewed worldviews, etc. Anything psychologically addictive can have a negative impact on the brain/life of people if overdone... that all said, the issue that is being discussed here isn't even about a legitimate health concern. It's a woman being jealous. I don't think pulling random biased studies about obscure p…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 07:13 AM
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As opposed to seeking actual attention from actual other people? Who cares if a person's brain gets stimulation from visual aids? Likewise, I don't care if she wants to go on IG etc and get approval from randos. It's pretty much the same concept and it would be one-sided to forbid normal porn consumption while still allowing her to have social porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 06:25 AM
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Oh Nobel Laureates lol... How far back are you stretching for that one? Are you not aware that it was largely an institutionally racist award until the 30s-50s? You can find such famous quotes as "The white man is superior to the negro in physical form, industrialism, and cognitive function." Don't attempt to appeal to authority to reinforce your racist bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 01:02 AM
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You need to take an inventory of your logic and reasoning. Travel a bit and look into history. I'm sure you didn't intend it, but you are flat out a bigot in that post.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 12:52 AM
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No. It's racist. You're making broad stroke comparisons of the appearance of poorer developing countries, many of whom WE caused to be in poverty. There isn't a genetic superiority due to our selection process. If you were dumped in rural India as a baby, your ass would look the exact same but probably paler. And are you forgetting that during our exploitation of these countries, we in fact largely still had arranged marriages ourselves? 1937 in the US, it still wasn't unusual to see a 35+ year …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 12:46 AM
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Err.. sorry... Did you just equate 300 years of imperialistic ancestry + the economic advantages that come with it as some sort of proof that hypergamy works better? I can't even make sense of point 2. Travel the world a little and shut up until you have.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 12:38 AM
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Yeah. This sums it up well. You wont die without sex if you have the hormones that demand it. But you certainly wont be at your best.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 06:36 AM
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2014 was like the HEIGHT of online dating/social media. You had a large dating advantage when you were young like most people. You're starting to see now that "chads" will pick based on age just as you picked them based on height etc. You're now the 5'8" guy on the dating app. Learn a lesson from it and decide what type of person you want to be moving forward.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 12:13 AM
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Yep. In particular people with power who are avoidant types. They have control over their daily surroundings and plenty of power, but really want approval from an authority on a core level, and daily life doesn't satisfy that. It's way more complex than that, but in general both men and women of power "More Often" have a fetish for being degraded and submissive. The opposite has been true in my experience too. Men and women who have little agency in their own lives crave to be dominants more fre…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 07:24 AM
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Err... There is the confusion between us. Re-read my comment. I said it is a POWER thing. Not all Millionaires/Billionaires have power dominance. A lot of them are rich born suckers seeking validation by spending cash.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 05:33 AM
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Worked with a lot of C-suite executives + VC firms and millionaires... This is fairly common as a fantasy in high power circles. Holding two technical degrees probably wouldn't make the cut off for that level of "I can do anything I want and no one can stop me"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 12:44 PM
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You're disregarding and discrediting his views in favor of your own without addressing them... And then have the nerve to require that he addresses yours. Like you said above, you're just engaging maliciously and being unhelpful. I see he is naive and agree with you there, but really just chill and stop combating people who need advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 07:10 PM
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lmao TV announcer voice... that is hilariously accurate and effective
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 07:00 PM
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Yeah code switching is a big one. I grew up "in the hood" (compton/barrio logan) as a white guy so most my friends growing up were chollos and black peeps. I saw a lot of them go on to do great things, and a lot who fell to drugs before their time etc., but you'd never guess their background if you didn't know where they were from. I got a bit more used to code switching myself as I moved overseas to a few countries once I was in HS/university. The same shit happens over there with Asian women w…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 06:58 PM
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lmao I can respect it. The idea that men need to have massive dicks to please a woman is so far off. I have reasonably above average length and girth and my experience has been mostly that it hurts if I'm not extra careful with most of my ex gfs. Sex isn't as enjoyable when you can't go balls deep and the extra size does fucking nothing for her beyond an ego trip. What's the saying for tits? more than a handful is a waste
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 06:50 PM
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Just don't answer the question then?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 07:15 AM
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"Is English your first language" ... the new "I'm diet racist/prejudice"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 07:14 AM
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As the ambassador of Reddit, I would like to offer up a majority stake of our women to the bidders. Package deal, No refunds.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 04:22 PM
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Yes.. it was about 50/50 if there was a complication during that time... but 50% or "Often" != Always Men who die in wars at young ages never have children or lives (speaking about men who were traditionally shipped out from 12-14). Given the choice between definitely dead or maybe a piece lives on, I'd choose the latter.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 03:12 PM
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I'm sorry you see historical facts as a form of anachrony. Get well soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 02:38 PM
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We are a Democratic Republic in the US. We only get a vote on the items that representatives put forward in control by the constitution. So the right to vote was really just about choosing A or B that the existing assholes put forth. The Suffragettes were a group founded for allowing Women voting rights in the early-mid 1800s. The primary purpose was property ownership and rights. They did not have slaves, yes true... but that was mostly because they didn't have property in which to enslave. It …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 02:01 PM
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northern suffragette ? So your argument is that during the slave trade + genocide of Native Americans, it was an absolutely pressing matter that you had a political vote on which asshole killed them. And please don't say you never passively benefitted (and often actively) from slave/Native lands.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 01:53 PM
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Not really. Dying in childbirth means your genes have already passed on or will (if the child was saved). That's not the same as dying in battle before you've ever even been given the chance to have life. Your post also implies that women had to "suffer" passing on their genes as if it largely wasn't a choice. Your statistics you researched should have excluded women who were happily and willingly married who simply died of a medical complication in a birth of their choice. Alternatively, you sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 01:41 PM
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Yeah that sums up the points quite well. Men (both traditionally, and to a large degree currently) struggle through life and if you aren't born lucky enough, or aren't strong enough to maintain your advantages, society implies "kill yourself"/"sacrifice your life". We go into a rage as a society at the idea of a girl having sex with someone she isn't particularly into... but we don't bat an eye when a guy is raped by his school teacher, or he is shipped off to a foreign country at 18 to die, etc…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 01:37 PM
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I'd agree. I'd even go so far to say that the idea women were "oppressed" historically is sort of a stretch. The "traditional order" was very much a symbiotic benefit for both women and men that worked for millenia. Women didn't come out of the dark ages and suddenly realize they are people too in the 1960s USA. Sometimes women didn't like the partner their family chose for them and sometimes men didn't want to go off to war at 12 years old... but it's how shit worked then. Given the choice of m…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 01:02 PM
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I don't think it's primal or natural. And it certainly can't be genetic, because height comes with several disadvantages. While I think what you've said is true for Western societies like the US/UK, it just is completely irrelevant in JP (and probably a few other SEA countries, minus Korea that has strong West influences). This is purely speculation, but my guess would be US/UK associated height with strong warrior-class Norse invaders for historical reasons, while in many other countries height…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 08:03 AM
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In many cases the mere act of speaking or looking in her direction is a violation to some women. In those cases, that's just totally unreasonable and sorry (not sorry) if you feel briefly "violated" by our shared, brief existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 12:57 AM
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Interesting question. There is definitely a bias that we as people have for the "grass being greener" in some imagined scenario/fantasy. I'd even argue that this culture emerged as marriages became less about the collective good (arranged marriages) of a family and more about individual preference. Well, in order to settle you need to be entitled to something, and in this case that "something" is just some ego shit that you imagine. I don't really think we settle. And I don't think we end up "ri…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 03:27 AM
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Ah yeah I see what you mean. The term is usually referred to as "evolutionary fitness" I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 01:24 AM
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Could have been worded in a more digestible way as others have said, but I don't disagree with the premise. I feel like your post is going in five directions at once though, while missing some of the main points. For example, our species does NOT evolve by strong vs. weak, and never has. We wouldn't have made it out of the stone age if that were our evolution mechanism. Our evolution has more to do with physical endurance than strength. Sweat glands combined with bipedal movement allow us to tro…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 12:35 AM
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Yeah very much this. Women can see through other women pretty easily. I would say that on a superficial level, women are more likely to empathize with someone of the same sex and give them "the benefit of the doubt" initially, but that turns to dust pretty quickly when they see reason to start doubting the girl. I think the same is true for us guys? I generally give other dudes the benefit of the doubt, but the second I pick up on his little "tells" I know his bias almost immediately and can pla…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 11:07 PM
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lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 11:28 AM
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Sounds hawt. I have been in this type of relationship before and it was pretty good tbh. I cooked/cleaned and she made the money. Face sitting is something I enjoyed as much as her. What I found from that situation tho was that she would not have been attracted to me if I wasn't an expert in my field already. She is in a similar field (founding member at TikTok)... so we would eat dinner and debate topics on adtech in the SM/SNS industry etc. Was pretty cool and I still respect her intellect. I …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 09:22 AM
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k... sex sex sex sex sex want to make sure I can maintain your quota ma'am.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 09:49 PM
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Women ignore or manipulate shit just as much as men. And they do it just as well or better.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 09:28 PM
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Yeah, and by that logic... it's her fault she got raped? =/
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 09:00 PM
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What's the point of this pandering. No men are not sex zombies. Yes it is an issue that discredits men unfairly.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 06:31 PM
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OK and by that logic would you be saying "women belong in the kitchen/at home, as many of them say themselves" back before the women's rights movement in the 60s last century?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 06:10 PM
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Doesn't really matter what I want since it's more of a "western male" issue than anything. But I imagine just being realistic about men being complex humans too (whether that means not joining in on the jokes or speaking out against it etc) would help a lot. And if you mean ignore it when the guy is saying it about himself? Well you could try asking him. He has a lot of societal pressures to keep up that charade though so idk if he has ever even considered it as anything but "the natural order o…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 04:46 PM
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Well women could realize there is more nuance in the multi-faceted complexities of life... even if it is the societal norm atm to have this basic stereotype against men. So although yes, men also need to work away from this, and many are... They also need a space where they won't feel judged, humiliated, etc to do so, and when women echo the same sentiments as foregone facts it sure as hell isn't helping.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 04:11 PM
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I'm fine fighting for both, but I've never met a ruling class person who suffered the same identity issues of our class, so I simply prioritize the class issue before all else. It's real friggin hard to be a bigot when the black transwoman you hate so much has the economic power to match or destroy you. Edit: I also want to add one point... Doing the identity issues at the same time as the class struggle can potentially mean societal backlash against a disproportionate number of innocent people …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:06 PM
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I think it's an over exaggeration. Plenty of women dump their uni boyfriends etc after graduation as he starts to bald or something. And some men might leave their LTR partner for a younger girl... but I'd say most people aren't that petty/superficial.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 04:07 PM
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It's just annoying that no one recognizes the division of wealth classes in the US, the most wealth dispersed industrialized country to ever exist. People want to argue about gender politics and identity issues, dividing our working class against each other over pennies, while the elite and corrupt perpetuate their exploitation of all of us. Nearly NO ONE is becoming CEOs or Politicians as upward mobility disappears. Not successful ones anyways. If you want to become a politician, have 11-15 mil…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 01:25 PM
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Yeah me too. Instead it's only true for the younger generation. If we can hurry this along we can try for balance by the time I'm dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 05:45 PM
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Wait -- the 50% of humans born with higher testosterone levels in their brains have territorial/aggressive tendencies? I'm being kind of a dick there, but that's basically how I view a lot of these questions. Man vs Woman = Yes we are biologically different and yes that SHOULD mean we have some fundamental differences in wants/needs/emotion/physicality that are just simple chemistry and fact. I'm still on the fence overall because I am socialistic with heavy progressive bias... but really the US…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 04:28 PM
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Wow, this is exciting news. Which one of my political or cultural leaders do I need to overthrow to pre-order?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 02:19 PM
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This is part of the neoliberal prejudice against men in the US. Effectively it is a type of sexism you aren't familiar with which probably has lots of historical and political reasons for existing. Americans however, are not willing to discuss this on the whole because they literally cannot process the fact that they aren't the authorities on cultural values and self-determinism.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 01:52 PM
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Can't speak beyond my own experiences, but it happened twice on my college campus and it was just considered cool. On what would now be a less cool note, between 14-18 I also regularly performed acts for women 25-40 on camera... and in some cases accepted money to meet with them in person and do stuff. My mom drove me there. Wasn't even a secret.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 02:03 PM
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Fuck this "Dear" -- fake news... down it with some bleach and you'll be flying like a kite.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 08:04 PM
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As a self identified deer I appreciate the insights and opportunity to speak here. First off, wind direction is key guys. We need a soft down-wind scent that is welcoming and says "I want to eat you through winter". Nothing gets me going like elderberries tbh. Secondly, stop "AIMING" and start #aiming. We can smell the desperation and it's not a good look. Focus on AIM. Accessing your emotions. Internalizing their relevance. Making a difference. AIM is everyyyything
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 07:00 PM
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OK. Mass murder is solved now. Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 02:42 AM
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I don't understand your English fully, but yes... Many people "here" associate blue pill people with mass death and harm. It's a distraction of class and power dynamics. Make us fight with each other so the politicians and companies can benefit off of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 11:50 PM
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Cause and effect. Selective bias. Population selection. Name your poison?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 11:39 PM
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Semantics. You know what happened. If you were the last choice for promotion, that might speak to you more than it does to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 10:25 PM
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. I've seen men all around me get promoted while being happily white and CIS gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 10:22 PM
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Is it possible that they literally live for their jobs and that's why the got promoted over you? I'm for equality, but I am very much the type that lives for their job. If you want proof I'll provide it in DM. Klarna, Meta, Google, and other tech companies flatout hire (at least overseas) with an unapologetic agenda of being PC. My friend was black and Jewish... he got hired to TikTok Japan as a Director despite having no experience. They did two weeks of photoshoots with him for the website and…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 10:18 PM
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Oh I see... So RP is followed for male extremism... but BP = pregnancy issues. I see plenty of women in tech discriminating against men and ruining their lives.. They practice "proactive diversification" on the surface to get more women and people of minority into power. Sounds pretty fucking ethical right? Well here is a guy expected to provide for his family while being passed up for 10+ years on any raises or promotions... and having to fucking train the women who got promoted above him on ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 10:04 PM
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No one here has done that. Why do you presume guilt. Is it possible that the presumption of guilt/malintent leads to desperate people following through with this societal expectation? I'm not red pill. I'm not blue either. I just see comments like this as a huge problem that might as well be the equivalent of "women = baby factories"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 09:40 PM
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... sounds like women are really stupid and weird in US and need repercussions for being shitty people. Also, I did laugh about your example. You equate it to playing the lottery -- the time spent cashing in tickets that are free is still your cost. If you wanted to hit that "one in a million chance" even 50% of the time, you'd have to spend 9.5 years STRAIGHT without sleep cashing in the tickets (assuming you spend 5 minutes each ticket to scratch or check numbers/redeem). You are literally goi…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 04:56 AM
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Yeah I've seen a few too many "self-proclaimed 7s" that were closer to a 3 or 4 tops and exclusively dated men who were 8-9s. The most recent was a few days ago. The claim was "Well, I think it's fine to aim a little higher. If he's the same as me exactly then he'd have to be rich or like my soulmate or something" ... and I'm just thinking in my head... the fuck she smoking? ... like having big tits doesn't make you a 7 if you're just a fat natural B-cup. Guys do this delusional crap too, sure, …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 04:34 AM
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That's a shitty reaction. Don't let judgmental people define you. Sex doesn't define your life, but it is certainly important to the natural evolution of life if for nothing else than procreation. Naturally, we tie sex to identity since it traditionally plays a huge role in our history and the process of life up until present time. I'd be careful about completely shutting it out of your life if you have a drive for it though, it's a thoroughly enjoyable and healthy act to follow your instincts.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 02:39 AM
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Exactly how do you think you were born then? Being born is a necessity of living, and although some technology is emerging to provide alternatives, you are a product of sex. Every human being that has ever existed is. Before you even have the instincts of survival including food/nutrition/stimulation, someone else had to have sex. That's why it is considered on the same level with Self-Preservation models. It falls under basic survival needs. You are your gene line. It ends when you die unless y…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 02:28 AM
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Yes, (if the girls know each other) another alternative is to do a group lunch date. 3 guys 3 girls. Make it clear from the start that you are interested in the one you like. When you walk in, walk next to her and talk with her a bit. When you get to the table take charge and pull a seat out for her and then sit adjacently. The other two girls will have the other two guys to work with. No one goes home butthurt, and you come off as a great guy for trying to help out the other girls.
/r/seduction28/01/12 08:50 AM
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I'm with you on this one. You aren't going to be sexy while you are stumbling out a mangled Korean sentence with a shitty ass nasal accent. If OP really wants to learn the language, I'd recommend that he does most of his practicing with Korean guys (this will also help solidify your reputation as an actual human being and not just another ignorant fucktard looking to stick his dick in some asian pussy). You'll have far more success treating them like people. If the question comes up about dating…
/r/seduction28/01/12 05:58 AM
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I have a lot of experience with Japanese girls, and a little with Korean girls. Due to culture differences, a lot of the advice on Seddit won't work very well (hell, some of it will be downright catastrophic on the average Korean/Japanese girl) unless you modify your game plan a bit. Each of these girls are talking about you to each other right now. Being a foreign exchange student means small community, and both Japanese and Korean girls do a shit ton of talking (especially if they are having p…
/r/seduction28/01/12 05:29 AM
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