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I’m over 6 feet tall and haven’t dated in 8+ years. I’m currently 27 and after losing a lot of hair recently, now bald. I’ve basically just given up on dating completely, God seems to be telling me it’s over
/r/AllPillDebate22/10/22 04:02 AM
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I mean that’s the data we have, 70% of women match with just 5% of men on apps. You can pretty easily deduce those 30% of other women aren’t very desirable
/r/ExRedPill31/08/22 12:35 AM
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Only the bottom 30% of women do, who are usually very obese and gross looking
/r/ExRedPill31/08/22 12:22 AM
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They do, but they don’t match with them on dating apps. And you have to match with a girl before you can date her. And that’s why male sexlessness has tripled in the past decade.
/r/ExRedPill31/08/22 12:16 AM
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They don’t really. Tinder is the worst and it’s only 70/30 from what I’ve heard. Bumble is 60/40 and I still got zero matches on there The major issue is 70% of women like just 5% of men. And it’s the same 5% every time
/r/ExRedPill30/08/22 11:56 PM
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Write it again. I frankly don’t think you ever wrote it
/r/ExRedPill30/08/22 09:24 PM
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I do have counters You literally don’t. I don’t think it is ethical COPE better therapist There are no other therapists near me taking patients. My doctor offered me antidepressants but I refused as they do not work better than placebo The problem isn’t me, I used to be able to date women and get laid before dating apps destroyed the world. I didn’t change, society didn’t.
/r/ExRedPill30/08/22 08:43 PM
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I’ve been in therapy 6 months, it hasn’t helped I’m right about everything and you have no counter arguments
/r/ExRedPill30/08/22 07:43 PM
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that’s not going to happen Oh it easily could. Birthrates in the west are dropping drastically and dating apps are making it worse. Many politicians want to ban social media apps or severely regular them, it could easily happens here is an article …by a woman. Women don’t really understand what’s happening because they’re primarily responsible. What’s happening is women have far more access to men via dating apps. So they tend to hook up with very attractive men and don’t date as often with less…
/r/ExRedPill30/08/22 07:09 PM
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I’ve been in therapy for six months, it hasn’t helped I’m never gonna get a girlfriend regardless of what I do
/r/ExRedPill30/08/22 07:01 PM
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I’m not talking about compelling people to have sex. I’m talking about asking questions like why the fuck has male sexlessness tripled in the past ten years and how to be go about reversing that trend? To start, I would ban all social media and dating apps
/r/ExRedPill30/08/22 05:45 PM
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Make sexlessness tripled in ten years. Let’s see what the next ten have in store for us society won’t collapse It will once the majority of men stop having sex entirely. And we are much closer to that than you realize
/r/ExRedPill30/08/22 05:44 PM
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gets them the opposite of what they want They want society to move back to the patriarchal order. How is that not them getting what they want? like what For start, ban dating apps. Ban social media. Force single people to socialize with each other. Restrict suburban living to married couples. Force single people to live in urban environments, ban them from owning cars, make them be around other single people as much as possible. That sort of stuff. what solution is there that doesn’t infringe on…
/r/ExRedPill30/08/22 01:10 AM
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Women are not men. Men are not women.
/r/ExRedPill29/08/22 10:06 PM
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no inherit difference between men and women in behavior 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 placing women on an entirely “otherly” tier They are the “other” compared to men
/r/ExRedPill29/08/22 10:03 PM
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life isn’t pointless without a partner That’s not what I said, I said life is pointless for men without women. And it absolutely is and you’re just completely lying. women as actual people They’re people and they’re also women. They aren’t men
/r/ExRedPill29/08/22 09:07 PM
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Nah
/r/ExRedPill29/08/22 08:17 PM
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I don’t make the rules, it just isnt
/r/ExRedPill29/08/22 07:35 PM
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If all your friends came from vidya, in my opinion, you don’t have friends
/r/ExRedPill29/08/22 07:10 PM
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Yeah I can’t make friends
/r/ExRedPill29/08/22 06:56 PM
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life is not pointless without women I mean maybe if you’re gay. But otherwise, no life is 100% pointless without women. You’re just straight up lying, no heterosexual man believes that.
/r/ExRedPill29/08/22 05:57 PM
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https://finbold.com/chinas-economy-on-the-brink-of-collapse-like-the-u-s-in-2008-heres-why/
/r/ExRedPill29/08/22 02:29 PM
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I don’t think it should be on demand, but society should be doing something if sexual liberation is leaving millions of men feel it’s something like they will never have. If we don’t, I can assure you, Western liberalism will collapse and fascism will return in full force. It honestly is probably already too late. Look at how many men were excited Roe v Wade was overturned
/r/ExRedPill29/08/22 02:29 PM
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70% of women like 5% of men on dating apps, which in turn caused male sexlessness to triple
/r/ExRedPill29/08/22 02:24 PM
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China will never surpass the US, the economy is literally about to collapse
/r/ExRedPill29/08/22 11:42 AM
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modern women have more freedoms and power than ever It won’t last. Again, look at pictures of Iran in rhe 70s before the revolution. That’s what’s coming our living conditions are improving Give climate change 10-20 years to knock you guys back a hundred global power shift to the east Not really, we’re just exploiting you guys for stuff we’re too lazy to do. And even then your economy is pretty much a scam
/r/ExRedPill29/08/22 10:18 AM
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Women don’t want to build a connection with some pathetic guy like me harassing them in public. They can “build a connection” with a much better looking guy from a dating app whenever they want.
/r/ExRedPill29/08/22 10:16 AM
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Right and Western women are going to be right back where you are within a decade or two (many already are) This is what redpill stuff is, it’s fascism. It’s as old as time. Men like me are drawn into it (LIKE me not literally me) because we can’t fulfill our most basic male need, sex and love with a woman. We don’t like how society is structured so we tear it down and start again. And that’s already begun and it can’t be stopped. Climate change will be the final nail, once resources get tight th…
/r/ExRedPill29/08/22 09:31 AM
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dilemma they can’t escape Being a woman is a dilemma they can escape. You can be hurt and killed by almost all men because you’re smaller and weaker women should be able to have a choice I think so too, but unfortunately that social structure seems to not be very stable, which is why it hasn’t existed very long and will probably be gone soon. Even seen photos of Iran in the 1970s? if we become dependent on men they’ll abuse us again Probably. maybe that’s true Of course it’s true try my best to …
/r/ExRedPill29/08/22 09:28 AM
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I mean it’s happening as we speak. Roe v Wade was just overturned. State election laws are being changed to favor Republicans. Majority Latino districts in Texas are going Republican. Most Muslims in Europe want aspects of Sharia Law (I’m sure you can guess which ones) Western liberalism is doomed, climate change will accelerate its collapse into fascism.
/r/ExRedPill29/08/22 09:24 AM
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men having sex is more important that women having freedom and rights I don’t know what you mean by important. Society can’t function if most men realize they will never have sex, they will tear it down. It CAN function if women don’t have freedom and rights though, just objectively many societies like that exist. I wouldn’t want to live there though justification for rape You seem to think any interaction between men and women is rape
/r/ExRedPill29/08/22 09:21 AM
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Because all of those systems will collapse too once enough men realize they’re never going to be able to have sex I bet you smell
/r/ExRedPill29/08/22 09:12 AM
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You sound very ugly. I’m guessing that’s why you’re mad at men.
/r/ExRedPill29/08/22 09:07 AM
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DING DING DING DING I have no interest in talking to a bigot, you can leave
/r/ExRedPill29/08/22 09:07 AM
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That isn’t always enough money to support herself, especially if she has dependents like children. And it certainly doesn’t offer her protection, in a society without functional police You’re just lying now because I’ve proven you wrong over and over again. Anyone can look through my comments and see I do not condone violence, unlike you who wants men to kill themselves. I’m guessing you’re an uggo
/r/ExRedPill29/08/22 09:00 AM
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Reported for encouraging violence, penalty is a site wide ban
/r/ExRedPill29/08/22 08:56 AM
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Completely different situation that has nothing to do with the one I mentioned. No one is locking a woman in a basement, if a woman wants food or money, historically the easiest way was to start a sexual relationship with a man who has it. That’s just trading, no one is controlling her or forcing her to do anything. Also I’ve reported your comment for encouraging violence. That’s a site wide ban, you know they right?
/r/ExRedPill29/08/22 08:55 AM
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They probably won’t but when the mass shootings and suicides keep going up they will eventually be forced into banning them, if the government doesn’t completely collapse
/r/ExRedPill29/08/22 08:53 AM
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still rape Literally, it’s not. It’s bartering and it’s completely fine. I’m guessing you’re a SWERF, probably a TERF too
/r/ExRedPill29/08/22 08:52 AM
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MGTOW and redpill are both wrong. Life is pointless without women, love, and sex. And you can’t fundamentally change your position on the social hierarchy unless maybe you take anabolic steroids. Dating apps and social media have already destroyed society and we are living in the ashes. Unless they get banned, nothing will ever recover. Male sexlessness tripled in the past decade. It keeps getting worse. Record levels of suicide and drug overdoses. The only way out is suicide.
/r/ExRedPill29/08/22 08:51 AM
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You don’t convince them, you convince Congress.
/r/ExRedPill29/08/22 08:47 AM
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Women aren’t being forced into it you racist, they’d just rather be married than starve. rape apologists and mass shooters If you actually want it to stop you have to be willing to change society. I’m not sure we need arranged marriages, I think the first place we need to start is banning dating apps and social media, and potentially all internet use that isn’t work related
/r/ExRedPill29/08/22 08:47 AM
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Arranged marriage is not the same as rape, don’t give me that racist bullshit.
/r/ExRedPill29/08/22 08:43 AM
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We can ban all dating apps for a start. In fact we should probably ban all social media.
/r/ExRedPill29/08/22 08:42 AM
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This isn’t a mental healthcare problem. I’m literally already in therapy, it doesn’t work. The issue is how society is structured. Most dating and interaction between men and women now occurs via apps, which favors around 5% of men. The vast majority of men have a miserable time and thus in the past decade male sexlessness is tripled https://medium.com/hello-love/the-number-of-sexless-men-has-tripled-in-10-years-why-e97e7165d2a1 raping women and shooting children Rapes have actually gone down in…
/r/ExRedPill29/08/22 08:40 AM
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So you do not think society owes individuals anything? Like feelings of love and security? When large swathes of people feel completely disconnected and that their only way out is killing themselves (and we have record levels of drug overdoses and suicides right now) you don’t think hmm maybe society should do something? therapy I’ve been in therapy for 6 months, it doesn’t help. The issue isn’t me, it’s the way our society is structured. Until it changes, this stuff won’t stop happening.
/r/ExRedPill29/08/22 08:33 AM
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Yes you do. Otherwise you end up killing yourself (like I’m going to) or shooting up a school, like many young men end up doing (but personally I would never hurt another person)
/r/ExRedPill29/08/22 08:29 AM
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Cold approaching does not work for men who can’t already easily get laid from dating apps. It’s completely pointless, unless you just really want to go out with a very ugly girl (who you could just as easily meet on a app)
/r/ExRedPill29/08/22 03:09 AM
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if you can’t you have to just deal with that And you guys wonder why mass shootings keep happening. Do you think society owes people anything? Like food, shelter, protection? Of course. So then why is love not included?
/r/ExRedPill29/08/22 03:07 AM
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Because the Chads don’t want to raise kids with them, the women can use birth control or condoms. And this is really a phenomena since the advent of dating apps, during which time make sexlessness has tripled
/r/ExRedPill29/08/22 03:06 AM
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Most men do not have a gf though. And the ones that do have girlfriends have value through wide social networks usually, if not also through very good physical appearance. But it’s clear women are more interested in hooking up with me better looking then they are then anything else
/r/ExRedPill29/08/22 03:05 AM
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income is irrelevant Agreed, I’m just as unsuccessful as when I was unemployed profile setup, texting and messaging I’ve tried many profile setups, I just don’t get matched
/r/seduction19/08/22 04:15 AM
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why Because other guys on here should know that if they’re trying their best and still failing, it isn’t their fault find something else What’s the point? I can’t fulfill my most basic purpose on earth, finding a mate
/r/seduction19/08/22 04:14 AM
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Clean shaven every day, I brush twice a day, floss, I don’t use cologne but I’ve been complemented on my deodorant (old spice timber, it’s a vanilla scent). I don’t wear leather shoes. I don’t have bad breathe. I honestly just don’t think cold approaches work for 90% of men
/r/seduction19/08/22 04:13 AM
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they’re going to end up being your whole world Dude I don’t even get that far. I can’t even get a date. work on being fulfilled Men cannot be fulfilled if they can’t even get a date making new friends I’ve tried. It’s almost impossible after college
/r/seduction19/08/22 04:12 AM
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Even when I was in a major city I never got dating app matches. Regardless, I can’t move because I have grandparents I have to take care of
/r/seduction19/08/22 04:11 AM
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I rock climb some times, but I’m in a smaller town and I never played sports growing up
/r/seduction19/08/22 03:57 AM
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White, 6’1”, 180 pounds, black hair, green eyes. I’ve been told I look like Donnie Darko. I was able to successfully cold approach a few times in college but that was 8 years ago
/r/seduction19/08/22 03:39 AM
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https://features.inside.com/why-arent-men-in-their-20s-having-sex/amp/ models is a beginner book Well I’m a beginner and it didn’t help me at all. So what the fuck is the point of it? social skills can be learned Not after a certain age, I suspect you have a horrible mindset I’ve tried every piece of advice on here for an extended period and it isn’t working. Am I just supposed to lie to myself and say that it is?
/r/seduction19/08/22 03:31 AM
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I’ve tried for many years and can’t figure out how
/r/seduction19/08/22 03:27 AM
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I’m white, 6’1”, 180 pounds and I make 200k a year. I look normal. I deleted my profiles after 6 months without matches (I would get some here or there but they were either morbidly obese or didn’t respond)
/r/seduction19/08/22 03:26 AM
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In ten years make sexlessnes doubled. It’s probably even higher than that because most men lie about how much sex they actually have. try the courses I will, but Models didn’t help and everyone on here says that’s the best one I doubt it will 6 foot, white It really isn’t the benefit you think it is. Social skills are something you develop in high school and college or not at all. I have zero.
/r/seduction19/08/22 03:25 AM
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I don’t even get numbers or matches dude
/r/seduction19/08/22 03:23 AM
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I didn’t make friends in high school or college so I don’t have a social circle
/r/seduction19/08/22 03:22 AM
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I’m in a small town there’s not a lot to do
/r/seduction19/08/22 03:21 AM
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I can’t move, I have elderly grandparents I have to care for. 60 approaches is not a lot It’s literally 10% of the women available to me. I’m supposed to cold approach 60 a day? Then I’m out of options in a week
/r/seduction19/08/22 03:19 AM
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I truly do not believe a straight man cannot have a fulfilling life if he can’t at a minimum date women.
/r/seduction19/08/22 03:18 AM
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say you lost your friends I’ve done that before, it seems pretty transparent bar crawl meetups I’m not in a big city, they don’t have those
/r/seduction19/08/22 03:17 AM
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what other option is there Suicide. But I’m waiting at least until my grandma dies first
/r/seduction19/08/22 03:14 AM
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I don’t have friends so I don’t really go to bars, I haven’t approached there before. any hobbies Not really. I go rock climbing occasionally but there’s not a ton of people and I can’t go regularly or I’ll get injured again
/r/seduction19/08/22 03:14 AM
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It’s mostly old people. I’m 27, so my dating range is around 21 to 35 realistically. Only women. So maybe 2000 women? And of those maybe 1400 I find attractive. But they’re usually in groups when in public or just busy. And then half are in relationships, so then what 700? Either way, 60 is a lot and I’ve never had any success. With 10% of the total possible women gone, it doesn’t feel very good moving forward
/r/seduction19/08/22 03:13 AM
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I’ve been trying in general to get dates for 8 years but I’ve been following the advice here for a year, weightlifting, better clothes, cold approaching, apps. It doesn’t work.
/r/seduction19/08/22 03:10 AM
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Personally I don’t think dating apps are worth it at all unless you’re an incredibly hot man, and if you are you already know it
/r/seduction19/08/22 03:08 AM
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I guarantee your approaches sucked The advice on here regarding cold approaches is incredibly non-specific, “just talk to her”. What am I doing wrong? That’s not double. That’s also just in the past year, pretty different than “impossible to get a date”. I’ve gone a year without it, and if I wanted to I could probably do it 50+ times a year with different people. There are not men who could have sex but choose not to. No, they aren’t relevant because you can’t just point to an overall trend and …
/r/seduction19/08/22 03:06 AM
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I’ve tried enough to know this stuff doesn’t work for most men
/r/seduction19/08/22 03:00 AM
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Yup, why would women settle for less when it’s all available at their fingertips
/r/seduction19/08/22 03:00 AM
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No, it isn’t. Men here are being lied to on here. Yes, working out and clothes and apps and cold approaches can help SOME guys. And it’s worth trying all that to see if you’re one of them. But more likely that not you aren’t and you can’t ever change that. I’ve spent the last year figuring they out
/r/seduction19/08/22 03:00 AM
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they’ll get there eventually I doubt it, they had neoliberal capitalism in the 70s and rejected it. Watching the West fall will just confirm their belief that it’s a toxic ideology and further strengthen their non-secular culture
/r/seduction19/08/22 02:58 AM
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Exactly. It’s always the same group of genetically gifted men getting laid on apps
/r/seduction19/08/22 02:56 AM
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Both are to blame.
/r/seduction19/08/22 02:56 AM
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There’s nothing I or anyone else can do to change their dating situation if they have truly put in the effort and not seen results at all
/r/seduction19/08/22 02:56 AM
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By blaming myself even through I’m trying my best and still failing I’m just making myself feel worse. Your problems literally can be outside of your ability to fix them. A man with no legs is never going to walk through no fault of your own Dude I’m 6’1”, 180 pounds, I make 200k a year. I’ve tried so goddamn hard to be a better man and it doesn’t work. No matter what I do the results are the same. anyone can be successful This literally is a lie
/r/seduction19/08/22 02:55 AM
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Because those guys are just genetically more attractive than I will ever be or they’re getting with morbidly obese women Or most likely if all they’re just lying
/r/seduction19/08/22 02:53 AM
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blaming anyone else will not help Society has problems. Acting as if they don’t exist won’t make them go away there’s normal average guys getting laid There’s very few that are doing that these days, those guys are incredibly lucky and probably have large social groups from college and high school they meet people through. I don’t do all you can to fix it I mean I literally have
/r/seduction19/08/22 02:53 AM
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I’ve done 50-60, 3-4 numbers, zero dates. It doesn’t work
/r/seduction19/08/22 02:51 AM
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I read Models and I’m guessing it’s more of the same, gym, clothes, cold approach bullshit. None of it works, I’ve tried for nearly a year.
/r/seduction19/08/22 02:50 AM
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Europe will fall first, then other countries. I no longer have any profiles. After 6 months without any dates I deleted them. I have cold approached 50-60 times in the past few months, it’s hard where I’m at because it’s a town of under 50k people. how good was the approach I don’t know. Most of the advice on here is very nonspecific when it comes to cold approaching. link https://ifstudies.org/ifs-admin/resources/figure1newlymanincel-w640.png not relevant Yes they are relevant because social tr…
/r/seduction19/08/22 02:49 AM
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Cold approaching doesn’t seem to work either
/r/seduction19/08/22 02:45 AM
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I mean I’ve tried dating apps and I get zero matches with anything but morbidly obese women or women that don’t message me back. I try cold approaching women, not even super hot ones but very average or even below average and I either don’t get their number or the few times I do I don’t get a date I’ve been doing this for over a year, the advice here does not work. I’ve also been lifting and getting better clothes to improve my appearance, it doesn’t help
/r/seduction19/08/22 02:34 AM
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Yeah pretty much. But it’s society’s fault
/r/seduction19/08/22 02:32 AM
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I read it, it didn’t help either.
/r/seduction19/08/22 02:31 AM
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Islam will overtake Christianity in 30 years tops. Climate change will cause mass migration to Europe. That’s when the change happens you clearly haven’t tried everything Yes I have. short to below average guys who pull off success Maybe with the bottom 10% of women. I’m willing to date about 70% of women my age but not below that. would still say if you’re 6 foot and decent looking you’re good I literally get zero dating app matches and have cold approached countless times, it’s not enough If y…
/r/seduction19/08/22 01:51 AM
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it’s not because guys can’t date It clearly is though, look at the birth rates. I doubt it will take hundreds of years, maybe 30-50 at the most you absolutely can date and have children I have tried everything. I have tried dating apps, cold approaching, self improvement, exercise, new clothes, nothing works. I’m over 6 feet tall and decent looking and I still can’t get a date. The few times I have they don’t go well. The problem isn’t just with men, it’s also with women. Women in the West have …
/r/seduction19/08/22 01:34 AM
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I already go to the gym, eat well, and read books but none of it helps. I don’t have friends and when I try approaching women, they never even give me their number, let alone a date. It’s pathetic
/r/seduction18/08/22 08:26 PM
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Ok then is asking “do you want to be exclusive?” really that big of a deal?
/r/seduction18/08/22 07:16 PM
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You talk about tinder a lot, what do you mean “I’m not talking about tinder”? hitting up girls in real life I’ve tried that plenty, girls don’t really seem to like it. In college I was able to cold approach a few times, I haven’t been able to successfully pull it off since
/r/seduction18/08/22 07:16 PM
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Have you gotten physical yet?
/r/seduction18/08/22 07:12 PM
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That’s how much new grads in software engineering companies make if they get to FAANG, you can Google it if you don’t believe me. How exactly am I supposed to get laid? I don’t get dating app matches, I don’t even have friends. I’ve tried cold approaching and I’ve never even gotten a date from it. Women don’t just offer you sex if you tell them you make 200k a year.
/r/seduction18/08/22 05:56 PM
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putting yourself in fun situations This isn’t that easy if you don’t have any friends
/r/seduction18/08/22 03:23 PM
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I don’t even get 6s swiping right on me. The few times they do they don’t respond
/r/seduction18/08/22 03:22 PM
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it really isn’t that difficult I mean if you get matched on dating apps it isn’t. But many of us get literally zero matches and it’s pretty difficult
/r/seduction18/08/22 03:19 PM
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I’m not convinced this is true to be honest. Or you aren’t actually trying to meet many guys
/r/seduction17/08/22 05:42 AM
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find something you love I mean there’s nothing. I just want to die
/r/seduction16/08/22 10:14 PM
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I’ve been to several therapists and they’ve never helped me at all.
/r/seduction16/08/22 10:13 PM
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RU is a research chemical that isn’t intended for human consumption. men in your state put guns in their mouths That’s my plan too. you have a lot more value than you realize I have exactly zero value. full hormone liver kidney CBC and vitamin panel How do I order this? gaming I play zero video games testosterone is low I mean it was normal when I got tested everything you listed is solveable Maybe for some guys, but I’ve tried many times and never solve anything no good woman wants to get sucke…
/r/seduction16/08/22 10:13 PM
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Again, it lets say 10 random men your age, what percent approximately would you consider dating just from looks alone? My guess is around 1/10
/r/seduction16/08/22 09:14 PM
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long term and short term goals My only goal is getting a gun and blowing my brains out. I hate my life so goddamn much
/r/seduction16/08/22 07:31 PM
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personality matters a bit more to me than looks That might be true but you still likely aren’t considering the vast majority of men your age as dateable
/r/seduction16/08/22 02:34 PM
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Why would a guy with so many positive attributes, like being adventurous and tall and outgoing want to settle down at such a young age? The vast majority of men are nothing like that. Men like that KNOW they’re incredibly lucky and of course only want to hook up because they’re the only group of men who can reliably pull that off. Like most people on here, you probably have way too high standards. Just give an estimate, out of let’s say 10 random guys your age, what percentage of them would you …
/r/seduction16/08/22 01:48 PM
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I would never hurt another person. My plan is to kill myself and ruin my parents life
/r/seduction16/08/22 12:50 PM
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Yes it is and you know it. You even posted your gigantic engagement ring. We know what’s going on
/r/seduction16/08/22 06:46 AM
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I don’t think people can really change who they are why most people don’t have these thoughts I don’t know or care
/r/seduction16/08/22 06:46 AM
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I know. That’s why I’m ready to die
/r/seduction16/08/22 06:45 AM
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I’m prepared to go to Hell That said I think religion is a fuckinf lie
/r/seduction16/08/22 06:44 AM
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someone out there loves you I didn’t choose to be alive, I don’t owe anyone anything. I’m waiting till my dog and grandma die and then that’s it you can get through this No I can’t Nietzche I’ve read it. Eternal return is nonsense and life doesn’t have meaning no matter how much he tried to convince himself it did give it meaning You can’t. volunteer with a youth I literally don’t care what happens to anyone. Why should others be happy when I never will be? something out there holds enjoyment fo…
/r/seduction16/08/22 06:44 AM
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Just listen to his symphonies in order
/r/seduction16/08/22 06:38 AM
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It doesn’t matter. I’ve lifted and didn’t feel better. There’s worse looking guys that me that have girlfriends. My issue isn’t how I look, it’s that I’m a miserable worthless person who was abused as a child and that isn’t going to change. I just want to die
/r/seduction16/08/22 06:38 AM
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That isn’t revenge and I’m never gonna be fulfilled or happy.
/r/seduction16/08/22 06:37 AM
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Because I’m a worthless person. If people wanted me around, I would have friends. I would have had at least one girlfriends. I’ve never had that and never will do people really walk up and ask people out Women do that to guys if they’re hot enough. Guys on here do that to women and fail over and over again.
/r/seduction16/08/22 06:36 AM
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I’ve done that many times. It helped for a day or two but then I’m back to my lonely depressed self
/r/seduction16/08/22 06:35 AM
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Why? I’ve climbed mountains, I didn’t feel better
/r/seduction16/08/22 06:35 AM
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Beethoven
/r/seduction16/08/22 06:34 AM
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Guys who do easy majors get lots of sex and friends and are far happier. I make 200k a year and think of killing myself every day.
/r/seduction16/08/22 06:34 AM
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I’ve read that book, he killed himself too, just indirectly
/r/seduction16/08/22 06:33 AM
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Why? I know I’m not attractive enough for women to match with me on apps or walk up to me and ask me out, what’s the point?
/r/seduction16/08/22 06:33 AM
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/r/PSSD Im not taking SSRIS
/r/seduction16/08/22 06:32 AM
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they won’t give a shit when you’re dead Maybe not, it won’t really matter once I’m dead. But I’m sure their friends will silently judge them, I know I would.
/r/seduction16/08/22 06:32 AM
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I have before, I didn’t feel better. I used to run 5 miles a day and it never made me feel better at all.
/r/seduction16/08/22 06:31 AM
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I’m not willing to go on when they’re gone
/r/seduction16/08/22 06:30 AM
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I get the feeling most guys on here are like me
/r/seduction16/08/22 06:30 AM
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I’ve done that stuff before, I didn’t feel like life was worth living after either
/r/seduction16/08/22 06:30 AM
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Fuck the military
/r/seduction16/08/22 06:29 AM
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Thanks anyway. I know I’m at the end
/r/seduction16/08/22 06:29 AM
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there are many others In the same They can all Jill themselves tok for all I care so you might as well push it as far as you can I have. I’m at my limit.
/r/seduction16/08/22 06:29 AM
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it’s not really you who wants to do that Yes it is. why do you think you can’t Because I’m not a fun person to be around. I’m just annoying and pathetic
/r/seduction16/08/22 06:28 AM
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I have posted pictures on dating apps, I don’t get matched, what’s the point?
/r/seduction16/08/22 06:27 AM
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My life doesn’t feel worth living. I don’t want it. Having a good life would tell them they did something right. They need to suffer forever
/r/seduction16/08/22 06:27 AM
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Because I’m a traumatized person whose father abused him. I’m ready to die
/r/seduction16/08/22 06:26 AM
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workout I used to run 5 miles a day and never felt better you probably have a hobby I read depressing books, that’s it. It’s not a social hobby travel I have travelled plenty, I never enjoyed it
/r/seduction16/08/22 06:25 AM
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Therapy is a fucking scam. I want my parents to suffer for what they did to me
/r/seduction16/08/22 06:24 AM
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I won’t for much longer
/r/seduction16/08/22 06:24 AM
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I’ve traveled plenty, it’s not that fun. I just wanna die
/r/seduction16/08/22 06:23 AM
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Yeah
/r/seduction16/08/22 06:23 AM
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gym I used to run 5 miles a day for 2 years. I never felt better. I’m very weak and done like lifting weights, I just end up feeling worse getting massive I tried that, I just ended up getting fat. And there’s guys on Reddit with lots of muscles who still can’t get pussy. try heroin I have. It’s alright, not a big fan do shit that scares you Suicide scares me but I’m doing that
/r/seduction16/08/22 06:23 AM
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I’m done waiting. It isn’t worth it
/r/seduction16/08/22 06:21 AM
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Yup
/r/seduction16/08/22 06:19 AM
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meet more women I’ve tried, they don’t like me. I can’t even make friends
/r/seduction16/08/22 06:19 AM
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I’ve tried enough. I’m done trying. I’m ready to die
/r/seduction16/08/22 06:18 AM
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It will never get better. Therapy is a fucking scam. I don’t want to live. My parents deserve to suffer for what they did to me
/r/seduction16/08/22 06:18 AM
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If I had friends and a girlfriend I probably would want to live. I’ve tried many times to get both and I can’t. It’s been long enough. I’m ready o die
/r/seduction16/08/22 06:17 AM
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The problem is the whole “therapy” process, not the therapist. I don’t care about myself or anyone. I know I won’t get better. I’m ready to die get over it I will by dying the world doesn’t owe us Oh I know that no one to complain to Agreed the game is cold and isn’t for everyone Yup there’s gotta be something else you’re good at I mean I make a lot of money but it doesn’t matter to me or women. They want a guy who is hot and fun, it doesn’t matter if he makes 200k a year or 20k
/r/seduction16/08/22 06:16 AM
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Yes I’ve been diagnosed with depression. Therapy isn’t helping. what you can do for your country I truly wouldn’t care if every person on earth died tomorrow. we all have an obligation No we don’t
/r/seduction16/08/22 06:13 AM
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then protect them from grief I don’t owe them anything. I didn’t choose to be alive, my parents did. If my life ending causes them pain, it’s their own fault. you can get through this I can’t there’s a light at the end There isn’t something out there must make you happy Thinking of killing myself and reading books about depressed and suicidal men like myself are the only things I feel compelled to do. super hard drugs Oh I’ve done those plenty. I don’t bother anymore, even heroin is just boring …
/r/seduction16/08/22 06:12 AM
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Yes I’ve been seeing a therapist for 6 months. I don’t want to keep trying, it’s been nearly a decade, I’m done. When my dog and grandma die, I’m ending it.
/r/seduction16/08/22 06:10 AM
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I want to try yoga but I’m very bad at sports and feel too insecure to try a class
/r/seduction16/08/22 06:03 AM
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I don’t go to the gym. But in times of my life when I was running several miles every day I what are your hobbies Books, that’s pretty much it. I like books about depressed characters, Houellebecq writes a lot of ones like that. I tried rock climbing for a little while but got tendinitis. I’m not good at sports, trying them makes me feel insecure fashion sense Dark colors, khaki pants, hoodies
/r/seduction16/08/22 06:03 AM
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10 days of silence and yoga with monks I haven’t but I doubt it’s going to change anything. I’d likely feel better for a bit and then miserable once I got back to normal life. I’ve done psychedelics before and it’s the same thing. Life feels new and different and worth living. And then you get back to real life and you’re isolated and pathetic just like you were new experience Again I’ve noticed the pattern I mentioned above and new experiences don’t really mean that much to me anymore
/r/seduction16/08/22 06:00 AM
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I don’t find any of the stuff you listed fin except reading books. But the only books I like are about depressed guys like me. I like Houellebecq. They don’t make me want to keep living though. doesn’t make life better for anyone I don’t give a fuck, they can all go die too for all I are people you can talk to I’ve been in therapy 6 months with zero progress. I’m done
/r/seduction16/08/22 05:58 AM
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I’m in therapy and have been for 6 months. It hasn’t helped imbalance The “chemical imbalance” theory of depression was recently disproven
/r/seduction16/08/22 05:56 AM
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Life has no meaning, but pussy makes us think it does. Going without it long enough like I have makes you see how truly pointless life is
/r/seduction16/08/22 05:56 AM
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how are you different to your father My father abused and neglected a small child, not a grown man like I am now. We aren’t the same, he’s far worse how come you have no friends Because people don’t like me and I don’t blame them. I don’t like myself and never have if I were your friends what would it be like I don’t know, I haven’t had friends in a long time
/r/seduction16/08/22 05:55 AM
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I’ve been seeing one since February, it hasn’t helped
/r/seduction16/08/22 05:54 AM
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I can’t even be completely honest to my therapist. I don’t want to. I don’t want to admit to my porn addiction or prostitute fucking or constant suicidal thoughts. I just want to die. play elsewhere This is part of seduction. Everyone tries. Some succeed. Others don’t, like me. You just want to mislead people, I don’t
/r/seduction16/08/22 05:53 AM
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I’m in CBT, it’s pretty much the same and doesn’t help at all
/r/seduction16/08/22 05:52 AM
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it’s good to have but it’s not the ultimate goal There is no ultimate goal, but sex, love, and friends are some of the only ways to make life feel worth living. doesn’t mean that you are worthless Yes it does always a possibility for change It’s just playing the lottery, sure there’s technically a chance but it’s never realistically gonna happen. I’d rather die than keep pointlessly waiting go to therapy I’m in therapy. It’s not helping. It’s been 6 months
/r/seduction16/08/22 05:51 AM
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Do you REALLY feel like suicide when you’re sleeping in bed with her? Or making her cum? Or getting her to suck your dick? Maybe you’re just not fucking her enough, I don’t know. Personally I think you’re full of it. you will find purpose There’s no point, I’m still just gonna die anyway
/r/seduction16/08/22 05:49 AM
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I’m not planning on wallowing anymore, I’m planning on dying
/r/seduction16/08/22 05:47 AM
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Am I wrong? You literally married some old guy because he’s filthy rich and you know it.
/r/seduction16/08/22 05:47 AM
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My father abused and neglected me. I hate him almost as much as I hate myself
/r/seduction16/08/22 05:46 AM
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can you tell me you’ve tried I used to cold approach back in college and it worked a few times. I don’t deny that it can work if you do it enough, I just can’t do it anymore. I hate everything about myself, I’m not that bad looking of a guy, I’m tall, white, probably somewhat attractive (not exceptionally so though, I’m pretty skinny and do terrible on dating apps). But I fundamentally hate myself and wish I was dead. Therapy has not helped. I hate that I’m not a guy that has friends or has ever…
/r/seduction16/08/22 05:46 AM
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You married a rich guy because he had a ton of money. How is that supposed to make me feel better?
/r/seduction16/08/22 05:40 AM
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I’ve been in therapy since February. It isn’t working
/r/seduction16/08/22 05:39 AM
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need help I’m in therapy, I’ve been in it for 6 months. I’m not getting better this subreddit is for those who want to try I have tried and I failed, like many here have. I’m done. no you haven’t I have tried the best I can manage. I used to be able to cold approach and I just can’t anymore. Im older and less able to socialize. I don’t want to make women uncomfortable. I’d rather just kill myselr
/r/seduction16/08/22 05:34 AM
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Maryland
/r/seduction16/08/22 05:32 AM
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tying your self worth to women I don’t even have friends dude. It’s not a man/woman thing it’s a social reject thing. I have nothing to offer anymore. one woman who thinks rationally will come your way When? When I’m 50? When I’m 60? The truth is, they won’t. I’m killing my self when my dog and grandma die.
/r/seduction16/08/22 05:32 AM
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your time will come When? When I’m 50? When I’m 60? Why am I forced to wait so long, if not forever? Why is my life destined to be this way? Why should I want to live?
/r/seduction16/08/22 05:31 AM
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I don’t have any friends. Therapy hasn’t helped
/r/seduction16/08/22 05:30 AM
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Many guys on here feel the way I do.
/r/seduction16/08/22 05:30 AM
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I’ve seen prostitutes before, they don’t make me feel better. I’ve done every major drug and many less popular ones. I seen no point in doing any of that stuff anymore
/r/seduction16/08/22 05:29 AM
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if I didn’t care about my mothers life Like I said in the other thread, I care about my mother too. But the fact is I didn’t choose to be alive. She chose that for me by choosing to not have an abortion. If her deciding to give birth to me causes her pain because I kill myself, it’s her own fault and she brought it upon herself The only reason I’m still alive is because of my dog and grandma, that’s it. When they are gone I can end my life
/r/seduction16/08/22 05:19 AM
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people want you here That’s selfish. If they would rather me be alive and in pain than deal with the discomfort of going to my funeral, they’re narcissistic people everything else can and will improve It never does. Things just get worse. I’m done waiting. I’m ready to die
/r/seduction16/08/22 05:18 AM
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your luck will come It won’t. I work from home and don’t have friends. Most guys meet women through friends, school, or work. Or dating apps which I’ve tried and failed at. I’m done being alive. When my grandma and dog die I’m ending it
/r/seduction16/08/22 05:17 AM
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start a man long enough and he will try anything My current plan is to buy a gun and blow my brains out everybody has to develop their own method Some guys never do find something that makes you a fan of life I’ve tried.
/r/seduction16/08/22 05:00 AM
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dust the rust off I just can’t bring myself to do it. I don’t know why. Maybe I don’t wanna make a woman feel uncomfortable for no reason, considering I’m almost certainly not going to get anything out of it. And I’m not a huge fan of life anyway so I’m ok with dying alone
/r/seduction16/08/22 04:42 AM
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I’ve been told I’m handsome but I’m not sure. Cold approaching has worked for me in the past but I haven’t done it in nearly 9 years
/r/seduction16/08/22 04:24 AM
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But that can only happen if at some point you aren’t rejected. And not everyone even lives in an area where they can afford to be rejected that many times, eventually you will literally run out of people to approach
/r/seduction16/08/22 03:22 AM
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I’m traveling right now and I can’t even get myself to approach women here. I used to be able to 8 year ago when I was in college, but I lost it.
/r/seduction16/08/22 01:45 AM
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How many girls did you ask for numbers?
/r/seduction15/08/22 03:10 AM
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Where else but coffee bars? I was thinking of trying museums more
/r/seduction14/08/22 03:24 PM
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How are you meeting them?
/r/seduction14/08/22 02:03 PM
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Bars and clubs are difficult if it’s just groups. Stick it trying to talk to one woman, maybe two or three at the most.
/r/seduction14/08/22 04:49 AM
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I’m 6’1” and I haven’t been on a date in 8 years. Height ain’t all it’s cracked up to be
/r/seduction14/08/22 04:45 AM
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I’m interested in how often the guys on this sub actually get laid. I’m fairly sure the vast majority don’t at all, like myself. Personally I don’t think I can be helped, I hate myself
/r/seduction12/08/22 03:28 AM
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I don’t want endless sex with beautiful women though. I just want a committed relationship with one woman, I’ve never had that. But the fact that I have no dating options makes me tremendously unattractive to any women who might even consider me.
/r/seduction11/08/22 09:01 PM
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It absolutely is bad. I’m 27 and I have never had a girlfriend. I can’t even get a date. I have zero friends. I’m nearly bald. I can’t build muscle. My life is fucking horrible
/r/seduction11/08/22 08:55 PM
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I’m not Vin Diesel. I’m not muscular. Over a year of going to the gym regularly and eating 10% of TDEE yielded zero results, I just got fat. I’ve tried finasteride which is what MPMD uses, I got bad side effects and had to quit. does a no kill you It makes me want to kill myself make a plan It won’t work, I’ve tried everything to get dates and nothing works.
/r/seduction11/08/22 07:08 PM
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If your goal is to meet people, be more grateful, loving and generally being more interested in others people lives, the outcome is a lot easier and health I’m not even interested in my own life, how could I possibly be interested in others? Human life just seems completely worthless to me at this point I will read the book though
/r/seduction11/08/22 07:04 PM
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I’ve tried going to bars alone, it isn’t fun. Even going to bars with other people back when I had friends years ago wasn’t fun
/r/seduction11/08/22 06:56 PM
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I’ve tried, I never get any payoff
/r/seduction11/08/22 06:53 PM
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My attitude won’t change anything. My attitude is the result of my awful circumstances, not vice versa. 10% calories over TDEE, Jeff Nippard’s fundamentals of Hypertrophy program 3 days a week, full body, 1.2 grams protein per pound. I never gained muscle, I just got fat. I ate healthy, chicken, eggs, quinoa, tracking everything with my fitness pal. My lifts never really increased either. I’m very weak, in particular my wrists and legs
/r/seduction11/08/22 12:49 PM
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Yeah I’ve pretty much just given up on life. I’m ready to die
/r/seduction11/08/22 12:47 PM
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outcome dependent I mean outcomes matter. We wouldn’t do anything if they didn’t comes off as super needy I don’t know, I mean I don’t even get matched on dating apps and I haven’t bothered cold approaching in years, it just doesn’t work anymore. fix your depression Oh believe me I’ve tried plenty. I’m never gonna. I’m already in therapy, been in it for 6 months. It doesn’t help. I’ll look into the book.
/r/seduction11/08/22 12:44 PM
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When I was your age I was still able to get laid. You’ve got friends, which is great, I don’t anymore. If you’re in college, you really don’t even need to go to bars. Just walk up to girls in the cafeteria or in the dorms and talk to them. It really is just that easy. I haven’t gotten laid in 8+ years, but back when I did in college that’s all I did
/r/seduction11/08/22 12:41 PM
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Not everyone deserves to like themselves
/r/seduction11/08/22 12:20 PM
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no one gives a shit that you haven’t gotten laid in 8 years Yes they do. It’s completely humiliating and deservingly so. It shows that I’ve failed at probably of one the most basic human instincts and have completely wasted what should have been some of the best years of my life. My life is a waste. isn’t going to help anything It won’t, but nothing will. And I get to meet other guys going through the same stuff. write out goals you can personally achieve Plenty of guys workout for years with ne…
/r/seduction11/08/22 08:50 AM
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it doesn’t impact your game I didn’t claim it does, there’s a few engineers I know who can pull. But the vast majority of us cannot, you know that as well as I do. don’t have the mentality that engineers don’t get laid The vast majority of engineers don’t get laid, we both know that. You’re just a rare exception. Good for you, I’ve tried for enough years over and over again to know I definitely am not. you literally killed yourself with the workload Passing university has very specific requireme…
/r/seduction11/08/22 08:26 AM
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Why is what?
/r/seduction11/08/22 08:20 AM
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Because I didn’t ask “what things are there to do in my area”. I’ve lived here most of my life, I know how to figure this out, there’s nothing for a guy without friends to do. I don’t feel like doxxing myself and I have given our enough personal info
/r/seduction11/08/22 08:19 AM
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Well Holmes died of AIDS and Jeremy is a rapist. But they both had tons of fun before their downfall, I never did and never will.
/r/seduction11/08/22 08:18 AM
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shitty attitude My attitude is just the result of a decade of failure. I’ve tried every avenue to make friends and date and nothing has worked. Neighbors, coworkers, bars, gyms, classes, literally everything available to me and I’ve never made friends or been able to get a date. and you’ll put on muscle I mean again I tried for over a year and never had any visible growth. I might have hormonal issues or something, I got blood testing and they didn’t find anything but they only tested free test …
/r/seduction11/08/22 06:59 AM
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I’ve tried Google, meetup, even the town’s subreddit. There’s literally just bars. I mean there’s like community college classes I guess but I’ve taken dozens of college classes and never had success with friends or dating. I’ve tried several gyms, cold approaches, hiking, coworkers, neighbors, literally everything. Nothing works. At some point you need to know when to accept failure.
/r/seduction11/08/22 06:56 AM
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I mean I already know, there’s bars and that’s literally it. I’ve tried going alone plenty, it’s awful.
/r/seduction11/08/22 06:50 AM
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I’ve tried all that stuff. After years and years of failure, I can’t keep doing it. It feels even worse than doing nothing and the result is the same, no friends, no dates, just nothing. 30s or 70s I mean my plan is to blow my brains out when my dependent grandparents and elderly dog are gone.
/r/seduction11/08/22 06:49 AM
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that doesn’t stop you I mean it literally has. I’ve tried for years to make friends and date and I’m just unable to. It won’t happen. There’s probably a few exceptions but once you reach a certain point, in most cases you will never be normal.
/r/seduction11/08/22 06:35 AM
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I don’t agree with this. All the evidence suggest that we have stages of social development we have to go through at certain points of our life. Our primary socio-sexual development appears to occur from 16-20. If you miss that or go long enough without using those skills developed there, they appear to be lost for good. For example, if you do not acquire language abilities by age 10-12, you can never become fluent in any language at all, we have tons of examples from kids raised in the wilderne…
/r/seduction11/08/22 06:22 AM
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Good work
/r/seduction11/08/22 06:07 AM
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You’re 25, you can find a guy that doesn’t live with his mom. The fact that you’ve had opportunities for intimacy with lots of guys shows that you can try again and find success very easily. I’ve tried a lot and I haven’t had the opportunity for sex in a decade, I can’t even get dating app matches. So think of all the ways in which you’re lucky. You can find a guy to go on a date with whenever you’re ready, it’s up to you. Just stay positive and hope for the best, it really isn’t that difficult …
/r/seduction11/08/22 06:05 AM
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They don’t apply to me, I mean I have no goals. All I want are friends and a girlfriend and I can’t get either no matter how hard I try. I can’t even get a date, let alone a relationship
/r/seduction11/08/22 05:50 AM
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No, you really haven’t. Dating is pretty simple, attractive and confident get laid, unattractive and unconfident men don’t. I know which group I fall into. I’m so old now I have no will to go on. I have tried plenty for years and had zero success. I’ve tried apps, hobbies, meeting in person, cold approaches, nothing works. I know when I’ve been beat
/r/seduction11/08/22 05:50 AM
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weirdo at the next comic con or anime convention I mean what kinds of guys do you expect at those places? Of course they’re gonna be weird don’t have great self esteem You don’t need that when dating as a woman. You literally just need to make yourself available. ugly duckling You also do not need to be attractive to date as a woman. You just need to be available. along comes by an easier piece and one is tossed aside Ok so the guy you were interested in had other girls who would have sex with h…
/r/seduction11/08/22 05:47 AM
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go to social meetups I’m in a town of under 50k, those like aren’t a thing here.
/r/seduction11/08/22 05:42 AM
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My dog is blind, she gets around by memory, a new home would give her severe anxiety and confusion. She doesn’t need that. She likes the suburban yard I have. maybe your situation is quite impossible Yeah where your parents are They work a lot, over 40 hours a week. My mom tries to help her parents the best she can but she works odd hours (medical field) so it’s not possible for her on her own. My dad has his own parents to look after the process seems challenging No the process seems impossible…
/r/seduction11/08/22 05:41 AM
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working out would solve the skinny It never has. I’ve tried for years and I just get fat when I try to bulk, I never gain muscle six foot tall is tall enough And they’ll just find someone taller who has actual social skills and friends and isn’t skinny like me put the advice into action I mean the advice is just to meditate and stay present but it doesn’t help much what celebrities can you think of with nice style I mean they don’t look like me because there’s no good looking balding celebrities…
/r/seduction11/08/22 05:36 AM
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get rid of the negative attitude Literally why should I not have a negative attitude? My life is completely awful and worthless. Your attitude is the result of past experiences, if they’ve been terrible for a decade of course you’re going to have a bad attitude take up a hobby I’m in a town of under 50 thousand people, most of them old people as it’s very rural. There’s not many hobbies beyond ones I’ve already tried. Last one was rock climbing which gave me tendinitis what others in your neck o…
/r/seduction11/08/22 05:33 AM
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Betterhelp has some pretty terrible reviews and you can’t use insurance. I’m just not sure how that’s any better
/r/seduction11/08/22 05:28 AM
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random guys wanting the goods Well, yeah. It’s a dating app. As a woman, you get hundreds of matches in a few days. You can look through some profiles and find a guy that seems like he’s looking for a relationship. He’s probably less attractive and has fewer options (maybe zero like me) and thus would be more inclined to a long term relationship over a hookup because he’s not going to be able to get another hookup, he can’t get any, Of course the fact that a man is not desirable will likely make…
/r/seduction11/08/22 05:27 AM
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Obviously if you wanted to you could make a dating app profile and get hundreds of matches with a few days. You’re free to do whatever you want, I just find it interesting you’re on this subreddit.
/r/seduction11/08/22 05:21 AM
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I have one friends who is thousands of miles away. You’ve got a girlfriend which I’ve literally never had, your life is miles better than mine.
/r/seduction11/08/22 05:06 AM
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If you can get laid, why do you want to die?
/r/seduction11/08/22 05:05 AM
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There’s guys on here who aren’t 8s and do well on them. I’m just very low value, no friends, no dating history, celibate for a decade. some girls will Ike tall and lanky Literally none do. I would know by now if there were. I’m almost basically bald at this point how long did you actually go for I spent over a year lifting and eating a lot of protein. I just got fat, no visible muscle at all. It was pathetic. good enough for someone Maybe an incredibly obese woman I’m not attracted to or someone…
/r/seduction11/08/22 05:04 AM
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you can get out of anything I will literally be cut off by my family. I mean maybe it is an excuse but it’s a better use of my time than trying and failing over and over. I’m a bald, nearly 30 man who hasn’t gotten laid in a decade. My life is over
/r/seduction11/08/22 04:59 AM
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When I was your age and in college I could talk to girls and get laid. That part of my life is behind me. I’m nearly 30 and balding. I haven’t gotten laid in a decade. I wish I was dead. constant fun My life is never fun.
/r/seduction11/08/22 04:56 AM
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I’m in a small town, I can’t move because I have grandparents I have to help care for. I’ve tried cold approaches back in college, they did work a few times but in my small town I can’t really do that. There’s so few people that going where girls are That would mean going to bars alone which I’m just not going to do. I’ve done it before, it’s humiliating R4R I messaged a few, no responses you won’t be in your prime for 19 years I’m literally balding dude, my prime is behind me doing things or in…
/r/seduction11/08/22 04:55 AM
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I don’t have hobbies and I’m in a small town I can’t leave because of family obligations. I have no idea how I’m supposed to make friends, I’ve never been able to and now I’m like fucking 30 and it just feels like my life is over going to a bar I have been to bars alone, it’s humiliating. The worst part is the potential that someone that knows me would see me there alone. Even when I’ve gone to bars with other people years ago I never had fun
/r/seduction11/08/22 04:51 AM
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NB?
/r/seduction11/08/22 04:47 AM
2

Ok then text him right now and say hey do you wanna have sex. Like just be up front if you want a fwb relationship, 90% of guys would jump on that shit. If he’s one of the 10% that doesn’t, just message one of your other tinder matches. The vast majority of guys on there would love a FWB situation
/r/seduction11/08/22 04:33 AM
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work I work from home school Out of school, didn’t make any friends church It’s just old people and I’m not religious. conventions/conferences They don’t have them where I live so there’s no point, even if I made friends they would live near me so I’d never see them.
/r/seduction11/08/22 04:32 AM
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Ok so I’m thinking this post is just about one guy in particular? I wouldn’t generalize an experience with one guy. last night he was super excited I mean I’m guessing he was trying to get laid last night. If he doesn’t wanna hang out in other circumstances, he probably just wants you for sex. If you don’t want that kind of relationship, find another guy. You literally have hundreds of matches to choose from just because I have people to choose from doesn’t mean my problem isn’t valid Uh yes it …
/r/seduction11/08/22 04:31 AM
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You don’t need to throw in the towel if you don’t want to, I mean go ahead and try the usual stuff, cold approaches, hobbies, dating apps. I did for several years and none of it worked so I’ve given up. I mean feel free to try all that, I just doubt it’s going to work.
/r/seduction11/08/22 04:24 AM
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What do you mean “see each other again”? Do you mean after a date or after hooking up? If it’s after a date he felt you weren’t interested. If it’s after hooking up, he got what he wanted and moved on. If you want a guy that is more interested in a long term relationship, pick someone less attractive. More attractive guys have more options on dating apps so they’re less likely to want to be monogamous. Also try to appreciate how nice it is you can get matched at all, it’s very easy for women, mo…
/r/seduction11/08/22 04:23 AM
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Personally, yes I believe so. I’m 27 and I’ve never had a girlfriend. I haven’t even gotten laid in 8+ years and I’ve tried everything. I have no experience and my self esteem is rock bottom with no real way of building it up. I don’t even have friends I feel if you miss fundamental stages of social development, around ages 16-20, you’ve pretty much become stunted for life. There’s probably a few exceptions to this rule, in particular men who are very very attractive. But for the vast majority o…
/r/seduction11/08/22 04:16 AM
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I’m in a town of 50k in the south, I can guarantee you it’s only gay guys where I’m at.
/r/seduction11/08/22 04:13 AM
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haven’t smashed in a month I feel like this isn’t a serious post and you’re just trying to brag/lie
/r/seduction11/08/22 03:48 AM
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I haven’t gotten laid since I was in college like you’re gonna be, but when I was it wasn’t difficult to get laid. You just go up to girls and talk to them. Ask them if they wanna hang out, get food, etc. Just keep it casual. After hanging out once or twice, be like oh there’s this show on Netflix I wanna show you (or ask them to show you one they’ve mentioned). Once you’re alone in their room next to them, you can try a few things. You could be upfront, but that’s more difficult to pull off. I …
/r/seduction11/08/22 03:42 AM
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My dry spell has lasted nearly a decade and I mostly just think of ending my life these days
/r/seduction11/08/22 03:28 AM
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I mean at least you’re getting laid, most guys on here can’t even get dates, myself included. Consider yourself lucky
/r/seduction11/08/22 03:25 AM
1

Divorce?
/r/seduction11/08/22 03:24 AM
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Divorce?
/r/seduction11/08/22 03:24 AM
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That’s not bad. I could still get laid when I was around your age
/r/seduction11/08/22 03:24 AM
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Probably not, I think they just don’t wanna deal with the possibility of bad reactions/harassment. I mean honestly is being told “hey I don’t think we really had a connection, sorry” gonna make it any easier? Just move on.
/r/seduction11/08/22 03:23 AM
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not possible It’s technically possible, but will almost never actually happen. It’s like winning the lottery. this conversation isn’t going anywhere Because my life is pointless and there’s nothing I can do to change it.
/r/seduction11/08/22 03:20 AM
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he doesn’t pull ugly chicks According to him he doesn’t, I have no idea if they’re ugly or not. it’s possible to change you life I literally can’t move because of family obligations. Even when I was in a big city I never had success. I can’t get myself to go out alone and I have no friends.
/r/seduction11/08/22 03:08 AM
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From what I can tell he’s in Las Vegas and constantly goes to night clubs. I mean yeah if I was doing that and hitting on ugly girls I probably could get laid a few times. But I don’t live in Vegas or even a big city, I’m in a small town of under 50k I can’t leave because of family obligations. I’m completely screwed and all I think of is dying.
/r/seduction11/08/22 03:00 AM
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I haven’t gotten laid since your age, over 8 years ago now. But when I did it wasn’t that hard. Literally just walk up to a girl in college and talk to her about something. I would go up to girls in the cafeteria who looked like they were alone and just ask if they wanted to eat together. That works way better than you might think. You’re probably better off going for less conventionally attractive girls who get less attention from guys
/r/seduction11/08/22 02:55 AM
2

A lot of guys feel that if they don’t get a kiss or something on the first date they’re never gonna.
/r/seduction11/08/22 02:53 AM
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There’s plenty of guys I relate with on here, why leave? I would argue the vast majority of men on here are much more like me than you. I also literally have nothing else to do with my time Basically no men are going to actually start getting laid because they read posts here. You either develop those skills on your own around 16-20 years old or you never do and your life becomes a pit of despair. The vast majority of guys on here straight up do not get laid at all, they probably don’t even get …
/r/seduction11/08/22 02:48 AM
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Because you have friends and had fun in your 20s. You grew as a person and lived and became more mature. You have positive experiences that allowed you to develop socially. You’re ready to enter your 30s with a well of accomplishments to keep your outlook positive and your ability to accomplish further goals high. I have spent the greater part of 10 years in a room alone. No friends, no dates, nothing. My life is completely devoid of meaning. I’ve become physically and emotionally stunted to the…
/r/seduction11/08/22 02:46 AM
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I mean I’m already nearly 30. I’m never gonna just turn my life around. I’ve missed out on a decade of socializing and making friends. My personal development is just permanently stunted. Therapy hasn’t helped at all When my grandparents pass I’m taking my grandpa’s gun and blowing my brains out.
/r/seduction11/08/22 02:38 AM
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Yeah that’s tough. I got laid a few times at 19 and never since.
/r/seduction11/08/22 02:32 AM
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defend yourself I mean I would probably just get like a gun future kids I haven’t gotten laid in 8+ years, I’m never having kids rock climbing gym I’ve climbed plenty I went three times a week for nearly a year once, I never improve and end up with tendinitis. I’ve literally tried everything people suggest to me here. Nothing works
/r/seduction11/08/22 02:31 AM
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I can’t, I have elderly grandparents I have to help take care of. They won’t go to a nursing home and at-home care is difficult to find around here. I did decently when I was in the Bay Area, I mean relatively speaking (I was able to get two dates, neither of which ended with sex or even kissing, but for me that was an accomplishment considering now that I’m back home, I don’t even get a single match for weeks on end).
/r/seduction11/08/22 02:16 AM
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There’s not any in my area that look good enough to me I’ve looked into personal trainers but there’s very few around me and they don’t look that muscular to be honest. I’m in a rural town of less than 50,000 people, they don’t have basically any of that stuff. I’ve been to dozens of college classes in my life and made exactly zero friends anyway, I doubt that stuff would help.
/r/seduction11/08/22 02:12 AM
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Again, I’ve tried that. I literally just get fat, I’m not strong enough to build muscle. You have to overload pretty hard and I’m just weak.
/r/seduction11/08/22 01:49 AM
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Yup.
/r/seduction11/08/22 01:35 AM
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I wouldn’t really call that mild success if you got laid. That’s just success, you’re far, far more successful than 99% of guys on here
/r/seduction11/08/22 01:34 AM
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Yeah my last was early December 2014. It’s been rough
/r/seduction11/08/22 01:34 AM
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I’ve tried them all. I can’t build muscle at the gym, I’m incredibly weak and I’ve tried for years with zero results, I just end up looking fat, I never get toned or muscular. I can’t make friends, it’s next to impossible after college and I have very little in terms of social skills or ability to flirt with women. My lack of any success during what should be the most exciting decade of my life has destroyed any remaining self confidence The fact that I’m now balding is just the cherry on top.
/r/seduction11/08/22 01:27 AM
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mild success I’m guessing just dates but never sex? Yeah I had a few of those. I personally haven’t been laid in nearly a decade. The way I see it, most of those girls statistically have had one night stands before, so if they don’t do it with you, they likely never will.
/r/seduction11/08/22 01:25 AM
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I’m 6’1”, 180 pounds, white, I work remote for a tech company, I make around 200k a year, I’m balding (Norwood 3), no friends, no social life, no muscle mass (I’ve tried at the gym for years, I just can’t ever seem to build any). I had some success in college but I’ve just been striking out ever since. Online dating has been a huge waste of time for me. There’s really nothing else to me
/r/seduction11/08/22 01:24 AM
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I’ve pretty much given up hope at this point to be honest, I mostly just think of offing myself these days
/r/seduction11/08/22 12:46 AM
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You could try dating apps but I’ve been on them for years and never had any success. Maybe try a new hobby or something?
/r/seduction11/08/22 12:45 AM
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All three. I mean my face is decently attractive and I’m over 6 foot, but I’m skinny and my head is big so I look even skinnier. I don’t have friends or a social life so I don’t have decent pictures doing anything fun. I’m also balding unfortunately (not diffuse but I’m like a Norwood 3.5), and when I do finally do shave it I’m gonna look 10 years older than I am (27) I haven’t gotten laid in 8+ years
/r/seduction11/08/22 12:42 AM
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I’m not attractive enough to get matched on apps unfortunately. I got a few when I was in the Bay Area but they never seemed to want sex, just free food/drinks
/r/seduction11/08/22 12:22 AM
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Literally just post your photos and bio. You can blur your face and name, you’re not gonna get doxxed If you actually wanted to help guys here and not just brag (or lie) you would do it.
/r/seduction10/08/22 11:59 PM
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Show us your profile pics then, you can blur your face
/r/seduction10/08/22 10:47 PM
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Most of those girls are just looking for Instagram followers so that they can become influencers and not have to get a real job
/r/seduction10/08/22 10:46 PM
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I am mostly looking to make friends and seem like a more well-rounded individual to women I would meet other EMTs, no?
/r/seduction10/08/22 03:18 AM
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Yeah no hobbies
/r/seduction09/08/22 04:12 PM
3

Bumble friends is just gay guys from what I here
/r/seduction09/08/22 05:20 AM
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It just seems weird to ask for favors from a bunch of guys that just wanna have sex with me. And I don’t think there’s a ton of gay guys in my town
/r/seduction09/08/22 05:19 AM
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I’ve tried it, it’s mostly just gay guys
/r/seduction09/08/22 05:06 AM
1

I’ve been in therapy for six months
/r/seduction09/08/22 04:35 AM
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Honestly I already resent them. I just can’t get out of my obligations
/r/seduction09/08/22 04:34 AM
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I don’t have hobbies, I work remote, I don’t know how to become better at socializing
/r/seduction09/08/22 04:25 AM
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travel I just feel alone buy stuff What? hookers That just makes me depressed.
/r/seduction09/08/22 04:14 AM
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Even when I was in a big city dating was basically impossible online for me. I got 2 matches in a few months and then no matches the third month.
/r/seduction09/08/22 04:14 AM
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if you want pity just say that I want pity great suggestions I mean it’s usually just “use tinder” or lift weights which I’ve already tried and hasn’t helped. Or use meetup which doesn’t have anything near me. Or move which I can’t do try and make friends I truly do not know how.
/r/seduction09/08/22 04:13 AM
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Ok
/r/seduction09/08/22 03:49 AM
1

Maryland
/r/seduction09/08/22 03:49 AM
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I probably should get a personal trainer, I agree. I just don’t see how playing the guitar is going to get me laid. I already know how to play and used to play it a lot and it never did.
/r/seduction09/08/22 03:49 AM
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I don’t know.
/r/seduction09/08/22 03:45 AM
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I can’t move because I take care of my grandparents
/r/seduction09/08/22 03:45 AM
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This nonspecific advice can’t help me much
/r/seduction09/08/22 03:42 AM
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bad view of yourself I mean at least it’s accurate. I’m completely undesirable by women, what am I supposed to do, lie to myself? you make extremely good money, you have a good height Women just want a hot guy and I’m too lanky. I’ve tried to gain muscle and I just never can, even working out 3-4 times a week for 2 years I just got fat. And I was eating tons of protein always going to be some guys that’s taller, richer, better looking That just makes me want to give up. Like I’ll never be good e…
/r/seduction09/08/22 03:42 AM
0

I don’t think dancing is something I’m gonna do.
/r/seduction09/08/22 03:39 AM
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ballroom dance classes I’m pretty uncoordinated and way too insecure to do something like that. I don’t think swing dancing has been a thing since the 1990s
/r/seduction09/08/22 03:39 AM
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you will end up dragging her down I mean probably but I could buy her a bunch of shit and she wouldn’t have to work you can’t blame anyone There’s clearly family obligations I have outside of my control addicted to your own misery Maybe, I mean I’ve felt this way my entire life you refuse to let people in I was abused as a child, that’s usually how traumatized people end up give other peoples advice a shot I’ve literally tried everything that’s been suggested. I’ve tried tinder, I’ve tried hobbi…
/r/seduction09/08/22 03:37 AM
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There’s plenty of guys who workout regularly with muscle who still can’t get laid
/r/seduction09/08/22 03:34 AM
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I’ve talked to them. They need to be in a nursing home but won’t go
/r/seduction09/08/22 03:34 AM
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Yes, I can’t get a new one because there aren’t any near me taking new patients
/r/seduction09/08/22 03:33 AM
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hiking I do that sometimes but I don’t meet people doing it tinder I swipe right on everyone and get zero matches
/r/seduction09/08/22 03:33 AM
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This is worth considering
/r/seduction09/08/22 01:23 AM
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Because they aren’t good ideas. And there’s no point going 50 miles from my home because that’s not where I live. bigger problems than trying to meet girls Yeah
/r/seduction09/08/22 12:15 AM
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I’m in a small town, there isn’t any Meetup activity.
/r/seduction09/08/22 12:14 AM
1

Because nothing goes well for me
/r/seduction09/08/22 12:13 AM
1

I’ve been going to therapy since February and it hasn’t helped
/r/seduction09/08/22 12:01 AM
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Redscare, mssecretpodcast, purplepilldebate, stupidpol. I like podcasts I guess. I read different genres, I like Blood Meridian. I just got Dream Story in the mail today. I like older movies. I don’t play many video games I don’t know what activity to try. I do hike sometimes but it’s not an activity where you meet people
/r/seduction08/08/22 11:54 PM
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I don’t really see an advantage. I’m very skinny and the times I’ve gone out there’s always guys taller than me. There’s no reason they’d pick me and never do I’m already in therapy, I’ve been going for 6 months. It hasn’t helped I don’t know what clothes women like or where to buy them. We have a mall in my town but it’s most clothes for teenagers
/r/seduction08/08/22 11:07 PM
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6’1”, 180 pounds I’ve been going to therapy since February. It hasn’t helped
/r/seduction08/08/22 11:00 PM
0

He got beat up by a high schooler
/r/seduction08/08/22 10:59 PM
0

The nearest club is over an hour away. I don’t speak other languages. We don’t have clubs, I’m in a very small town. There’s no Meetup events near me.
/r/seduction08/08/22 10:59 PM
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Browse Reddit, read books, that’s about it. I used to do rock climbing but I felt it was damaging my tendons.
/r/seduction08/08/22 10:58 PM
1

I’ve had bumble and tinder, I got zero matches on both in my small town after over a month. And I even paid for premium
/r/seduction08/08/22 10:56 PM
1

I need Twitter and IG to talk to women I don’t know? cute cashier I’m 27, aren’t most cashiers like girls in high school?
/r/seduction08/08/22 10:56 PM
1

I don’t know how. There’s not much to do in my town
/r/seduction08/08/22 10:54 PM
2

Yeah I don’t even spend my money. I don’t know what to do
/r/seduction08/08/22 10:54 PM
1

It doesn’t make me feel better. What would you do in my position?
/r/seduction08/08/22 10:32 PM
1

I mean I can’t get dates
/r/seduction08/08/22 10:04 PM
1

Right but not after 40 and according to most people here I could MAYBE start dating in my mid 30s
/r/seduction08/08/22 09:47 PM
1

Why would a horny girl not be on dating apps? Isn’t that what they’re for? I don’t get matched on them anyway
/r/seduction08/08/22 09:37 PM
1

There isn’t actually evidence of this. Hypertrophy has more to do with sets per week rather than the number of days in the gym
/r/seduction08/08/22 09:26 PM
1

There’s no evidence you get more Hypertrophy from going more than 3 days a week
/r/seduction08/08/22 09:26 PM
1

What?
/r/seduction08/08/22 09:20 PM
1

I’ve used every app, the issue is have terrible pictures because good pictures usually friends and having fun. And I don’t really do either of those things
/r/seduction08/08/22 09:19 PM
1

I have no idea what to do
/r/seduction08/08/22 09:12 PM
1

Yeah but for me this has been a decade. It just feels like who I am at this point.
/r/seduction08/08/22 09:11 PM
1

I don’t know how to have a hard reset
/r/seduction08/08/22 09:07 PM
1

I work remote
/r/seduction08/08/22 09:07 PM
1

I’m guessing you get dating app matches. I don’t
/r/seduction08/08/22 09:06 PM
1

I haven’t really been able to find anything like that, I mean if there are church groups it’s just old people not people my age
/r/seduction08/08/22 09:05 PM
1

I can’t get dates
/r/seduction08/08/22 09:05 PM
0

I can’t get a date dude
/r/seduction08/08/22 09:04 PM
1

After their 30s it becomes far less likely women can reliably have a kid. Most women resort to crazy stuff like freezing eggs at that point
/r/seduction08/08/22 09:04 PM
1

I get tons of contradictory information when I look at different calculators
/r/seduction08/08/22 09:02 PM
1

I can’t move, I have grandparents I care for
/r/seduction08/08/22 08:23 PM
0

Right but then I’m not meeting people in my town
/r/seduction08/08/22 08:12 PM
1

You can’t be shredded without first building muscle. I can’t get enough protein as a vegetarian and I’m unsure how many calories I need
/r/seduction08/08/22 08:06 PM
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I can’t move, I take care of my grandparents.
/r/seduction08/08/22 08:05 PM
0

I’m in a town of 50k, there aren’t any in person events on meetup around me
/r/seduction08/08/22 08:04 PM
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I don’t have any options
/r/seduction08/08/22 07:48 PM
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“Hey I know you’re gay and wanna have sex with me but I’m straight can you help me find a woman for sex because I’m also pathetic?”
/r/seduction08/08/22 07:48 PM
0

Right but then you can have one kid and no more. Women rapidly begin losing eggs at 30
/r/seduction08/08/22 06:43 PM
1

I can’t move, I have grandparents I take care of.
/r/seduction08/08/22 06:42 PM
0

I don’t have friends, it’s embarrassing when people can see how few connections I have on social media
/r/seduction08/08/22 06:42 PM
1

Yeah
/r/seduction08/08/22 06:41 PM
0

I cannot find things to do, I don’t know how. I don’t use social media
/r/seduction08/08/22 06:26 PM
2

I’ve considered it
/r/seduction08/08/22 06:25 PM
1

I can’t find anything
/r/seduction08/08/22 06:25 PM
1

I can’t move due to family obligations
/r/seduction08/08/22 06:25 PM
0

I can’t figure out either
/r/seduction08/08/22 06:25 PM
0

A 32 year old woman has only a few years left o have children.
/r/seduction08/08/22 06:25 PM
0

This isn’t advice
/r/seduction08/08/22 06:24 PM
1

My life definitely is miserable due to circumstances outside my control
/r/seduction08/08/22 06:24 PM
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I don’t think they just want to be friends
/r/seduction08/08/22 05:59 PM
2

Not many are in my age range
/r/seduction08/08/22 05:23 PM
2

I’ve been in therapy since February, he hasn’t helped. There aren’t other therapists taking patients near me
/r/seduction08/08/22 05:22 PM
3

Yes I have a lot of money. I don’t even spend it. My gradparents are unwilling to move. They want to stay in their cluttered home
/r/seduction08/08/22 05:09 PM
1

parents and sibling take over They won’t. They aren’t even around here, they’ve already moved far away clubs and groups I really can’t find any therapy I’m already in therapy and it hasn’t helped antidepressants No thanks, /r/Pssd
/r/seduction08/08/22 04:57 PM
0

all the details I’ve pretty much posted all the details. There’s not much more to my life. many women will find that attractive They don’t apparently therapy I’m in it already. It hasn’t helped gym I’m a member but I never see any visible muscle growth drugs I’ve done basically every one
/r/seduction08/08/22 04:53 PM
1

Because they have dementia and they are scared of nursing home staff. I can’t say I blame them even though it does seem selfish from my perspective
/r/seduction08/08/22 04:26 PM
1

maybe they need to be put in a home They absolutely do but they won’t go and I can’t convince them to. I don’t know what to do they wouldn’t want you to sacrifice your youthful happiness for their old comfort They have dementia so they honestly think they can care for themselves. They say oh you don’t need to help us when they can barely walk.
/r/seduction08/08/22 04:24 PM
1

internet games I don’t play video games dating apps I don’t get matched even in a town of 20,000 I mean it’s technically possible just incredibly unlikely for someone like me with zero friends your are the only one who can change you life I don’t really think I can
/r/seduction08/08/22 04:23 PM
12

I’ve tried that, it’s just gay guys
/r/seduction08/08/22 04:21 PM
1

I have basically zero muscle, yes. I’ve tried at the gym and never really seen results. I’m also vegetarian which makes it even harder
/r/seduction08/08/22 04:21 PM
0

Yeah but I can’t exactly date a 20 year old woman when I’m 50, it would seem weird
/r/seduction08/08/22 04:20 PM
-1

I honestly doubt it. Life seems very pointless
/r/seduction08/08/22 04:19 PM
1

try something new There’s nothing around here to try. It’s a small town
/r/seduction08/08/22 04:19 PM
-4

I’ve said many times, I can’t move and if you’re reading my other comments you already know why. take control of your own life I can’t until my grandparents and dog are dead. And by then I’ll probably be too old to care about trying anymore.
/r/seduction08/08/22 04:18 PM
1

I’ve gone to the gym for a while and never noticed any changes in my appearance
/r/seduction08/08/22 04:17 PM
2

My plan is to off myself eventually. My life seems pointless
/r/seduction08/08/22 04:14 PM
0

I can’t, I have elderly grandparents I have to care for. I can’t find at home care for them because it’s a small town and my relatives aren’t close by
/r/seduction08/08/22 04:14 PM
3

I’ve never been diagnosed but maybe
/r/seduction08/08/22 04:13 PM
2

Online therapy seems like a complete scam
/r/seduction08/08/22 04:12 PM
-2

No, I won’t. I’ve gotten used to being alone. I just do nothing most of the time. If she doesn’t have friends maybe her standards would be low enough to date me
/r/seduction08/08/22 04:12 PM
26

I work from home. I don’t see anyone but my grandparents most days. We don’t have classes like Zumba around here. We have gyms but I’ve never felt more confident from going.
/r/seduction08/08/22 04:11 PM
1

I mean I can’t leave because I have family I have to care for. But I do think of killing myself quite a lot
/r/seduction08/08/22 04:11 PM
1

I mean there aren’t any. It’s a town of under 50k, there’s nothing to do here.
/r/seduction08/08/22 04:10 PM
-5

I can’t move, I have elderly grandparents I have to care for. I wish life was shorter to be honest
/r/seduction08/08/22 04:09 PM
1

There aren’t other therapists taking patients in my small town
/r/seduction08/08/22 04:09 PM
9

I’m 27, no friends, software engineer, make around 200k a year, 6’1”, 180 pounds, white, live in the mid-Atlantic in a town of under 50k that I can’t leave because of family obligations. Never had a girlfriend, haven’t dated in 8+ years. But I’m not a virgin at least
/r/seduction08/08/22 04:08 PM
1

I can’t figure out either
/r/seduction08/08/22 04:07 PM
0

just by getting shredded That literally takes years and most apps don’t even let guys post shirtless photos. none of this is particularly difficult Getting shredded is incredibly difficult
/r/seduction08/08/22 04:07 PM
1

club or activity It’s a small town, under 50k. We just don’t have much of that stuff here what else do you want Honestly just friends and a girlfriend
/r/seduction08/08/22 03:49 PM
1

I don’t really think I can do either
/r/seduction08/08/22 03:49 PM
4

I’m in a very small town, there isn’t much here
/r/seduction08/08/22 03:48 PM
-3

I’m pretty sure I’ve never been able to do that. It just doesn’t come naturally to me
/r/seduction08/08/22 03:48 PM
1

sick parents It’s elderly grandparents, I can’t move.
/r/seduction08/08/22 03:47 PM
1

I can’t. I have elderly relatives I have to take care of. I’ve tried getting at home care, there’s not enough available
/r/seduction08/08/22 03:47 PM
1

Ok. I don’t really think I’m gonna make gym friends though, I’m very weak
/r/seduction08/08/22 03:43 PM
-1

I don’t know how to do any of that. I’m in therapy, it doesn’t help
/r/seduction08/08/22 03:42 PM
1

I’m not in a city, it’s a small town, under 50k
/r/seduction08/08/22 03:42 PM
-4

insta I don’t have social media. ask to connect I don’t know how to do this
/r/seduction08/08/22 03:41 PM
1

Thanks
/r/seduction08/08/22 03:25 PM
1

It seems like there’s a lot wrong with that. I mean women have a limited amount of time they can have children
/r/seduction08/08/22 03:25 PM
1

What?
/r/seduction08/08/22 03:25 PM
0

They don’t if you live in a small town. I’ve tried to find them online
/r/seduction08/08/22 03:25 PM
1

I’m in a small town, there’s not really any meetup groups around here
/r/seduction08/08/22 03:24 PM
-4

I’m 27, it just seems like I’m starting something that’s going to take decades. I’m not even sure I want to really live that long
/r/seduction08/08/22 03:23 PM
1

I’m in a small town, there’s not really any opportunities
/r/seduction08/08/22 03:22 PM
1

I’m in a small town, there’s not many opportunities
/r/seduction08/08/22 03:21 PM
0

I’m in a small town, we just don’t have much of that kind of stuff.
/r/seduction08/08/22 03:15 PM
1

I’ve tried going to the nearby cities but I have no friends and it just isn’t enjoyable. If just makes me more depressed. Plus I have to sit in traffic and that isn’t fun either
/r/seduction08/08/22 03:14 PM
1

I’ve never really been able to
/r/seduction08/08/22 03:12 PM
1

they’d appreciate you looking after your relatives I mean they don’t. I haven’t ever had a girlfriend and haven’t been on a date in 8 years. Women like guys with fun social lives, not pathetic family obligations get some cover Again this isn’t as easy as it sounds. It’s incredibly difficult to find home care, the most I’ve found is someone who can go a few days a week for an hour or two. That’s not enough get family to cover for you The don’t live near them or just won’t do it. I’ve tried take b…
/r/seduction08/08/22 03:11 PM
2

I can’t, they don’t have anyone else to care for them regularly
/r/seduction08/08/22 03:09 PM
2

Some of that stuff is true, but I feel obligated because they don’t have anyone else. I’ve tried to find caretakers and it’s not as easy as it sounds. They would be much better off in a nursing home but they don’t want to go
/r/seduction08/08/22 03:09 PM
0

You’re probably right
/r/seduction08/08/22 03:07 PM
2

Yeah. I have zero
/r/seduction08/08/22 03:07 PM
35

I don’t know what to do.
/r/seduction08/08/22 03:06 PM
1

It just really doesn’t come naturally to me. I don’t know what to do
/r/seduction08/08/22 03:01 PM
1

I literally don’t know how to make friends and date
/r/seduction08/08/22 03:01 PM
1

Yeah this is pretty much what I’ve been thinking
/r/seduction08/08/22 02:59 PM
2

I’m not in college, I’m 27.
/r/seduction08/08/22 02:56 PM
1

My guess is they have a lot of high school friends they can meet people through, but i don’t
/r/seduction08/08/22 06:34 AM
-4

The other guy is right
/r/seduction08/08/22 06:33 AM
0

Yeah
/r/seduction08/08/22 06:33 AM
1

He didn’t say all women, he said all types of women
/r/seduction08/08/22 05:36 AM
1

Because mine isn’t patchy, I don’t have diffuse thinning, just a very receding hairline.
/r/seduction06/08/22 05:13 PM
0

I can’t get prescribed TRT because my test levels are normal. I don’t have diffuse thinning but my hairline is awful. I don’t play video games, I just am afraid of socializing. I never really had friends growing up.
/r/seduction06/08/22 04:31 PM
-1

I’m nearly 30, bald, can’t gain muscle, never had a girlfriend, and have zero friends. It’s not as easy as just saying “ok I’m gonna change my attitude”
/r/seduction06/08/22 04:25 PM
0

I don’t know how to get them, I can’t be prescribed them because I had my test levels measured and they were normal
/r/seduction06/08/22 04:23 PM
0

My current plan is to off myself
/r/seduction06/08/22 04:01 PM
1

I can’t grow muscle no matter how hard I try, I’m so tall and lanky
/r/seduction06/08/22 04:01 PM
1

I’ve tried to build muscle, I just can’t seem to get any visible growth. I can’t grow a beard. Some women don’t mind bald guys but usually not women in their 20s
/r/seduction06/08/22 04:01 PM
1

I mean why shouldn’t I feel sad? I have no friends, I’ve never had a girlfriend, I have no life at all
/r/seduction06/08/22 04:00 PM
1

I’ve literally never had a girlfriend
/r/seduction06/08/22 03:59 PM
1

Yeah, with high protein. I just got fat
/r/seduction06/08/22 02:20 PM
1

I’ve been seeing a therapist since February. It hasn’t helped
/r/seduction06/08/22 02:19 PM
1

I’ve tried finasteride, I got bad side effects. I can’t get a transplant if I can’t stay on finasteride
/r/seduction06/08/22 02:15 PM
1

I don’t think I will. My loss isn’t stress related, it’s androgenic
/r/seduction06/08/22 02:15 PM
2

Yeah I’ve considered TRT. Since I’m shaving my head anyway I guess I might as well try test, as it can cause hair loss but that won’t affect me
/r/seduction06/08/22 01:54 PM
2

Yes, it can. The molecular weight of finasteride is very low, it goes systemic pretty easily
/r/seduction06/08/22 01:53 PM
1

Sure, less morning wood, weaker erections, dry eyes, depression, poor sleep. And orgasms felt less strong and just kind of weird
/r/seduction06/08/22 01:51 PM
2

He’s rich, famous and muscular. I’m somewhat rich but I can’t grow muscles due to poor genetics
/r/seduction06/08/22 01:49 PM
1

Nope, I was on topical finasteride and it still gave me bad side effects
/r/seduction06/08/22 01:49 PM
1

I don’t tolerate minox or finasteride, I can’t use them I’ve worked out for years and never seen results, I have very poor genetics for muscle growth
/r/seduction06/08/22 01:48 PM
1

Nope
/r/seduction06/08/22 01:47 PM
1

I know. I’m thinking of offing myself
/r/seduction06/08/22 01:47 PM
1

I’m not great looking though
/r/seduction06/08/22 01:47 PM
1

I probably will not having to deal with hair but it depresses the shit out of me
/r/seduction06/08/22 01:46 PM
0

I have poor muscle genetics. No one I’m related to has big muscles, I’ve tried for years and can’t grow any visible muscles. I can’t get a transplant because I don’t tolerate finasteride
/r/seduction06/08/22 01:46 PM
1

Yeah women in their 30s and 40s might not care but I’m in my 20s dude. And I already can’t pull
/r/seduction06/08/22 01:43 PM
0

And also genetics and I think mine are terrible. I’m very tall and lanky and even when I do get stronger I don’t get visible muscle
/r/seduction06/08/22 01:43 PM
2

Then you’re probably fine if your dad looks ok too
/r/seduction06/08/22 01:42 PM
0

I really don’t think women in their 20s are interested in bald men.
/r/seduction06/08/22 01:42 PM
1

I mean they usually aren’t sexy. When I see bald guys they usually just look sad
/r/seduction06/08/22 01:41 PM
1

I can’t get a hair transplant because I can’t tolerate finasteride
/r/seduction06/08/22 01:41 PM
1

I can’t get a hair transplant or use medication because I’ve tried minoxidil and finasteride and they both gave me bad side effects
/r/seduction06/08/22 01:41 PM
1

I can’t grow a beard and I’ve been trying to bull for years with zero success
/r/seduction06/08/22 01:38 PM
2

some girls will go nuts I can guarantee you it won’t be girls my own age, I’m in my 20s, most guys don’t go bald this young.
/r/seduction06/08/22 01:35 PM
1

Finasteride gave me bad side effects
/r/seduction06/08/22 01:34 PM
1

I’ve been going to the gym for a while and never had much growth
/r/seduction06/08/22 01:34 PM
1

I’ve been trying to bill for years and can’t. I can’t tan either, I have no pigment in my skin, I’m really pale
/r/seduction06/08/22 01:34 PM
1

I’ve been trying to bulk up for years, I still haven’t had much growth at all I’m in therapy I make 200k a year
/r/seduction06/08/22 01:33 PM
1

Objectively it makes it a lot harder to pick up women
/r/seduction06/08/22 01:32 PM
1

I guess? How does your dad/grandpa look?
/r/seduction06/08/22 01:32 PM
0

I can’t grow a beard and I don’t notice any growth even lifting weights regularly.
/r/seduction06/08/22 01:31 PM
3

Usually not women in their 20s dude
/r/seduction06/08/22 01:31 PM
1

I’ve tried working on my muscles and I’ve never gotten much in terms of results. Plus now I’m nearing 30, it’s just gonna get harder and harder
/r/seduction06/08/22 01:30 PM
0

I can’t grow decent facial hair and I’ve never really seen any results working out
/r/seduction06/08/22 01:20 PM
0

I’ve tried that shit, it didn’t work and gave me side effects
/r/seduction06/08/22 01:18 PM
5

Andrew Tate is a sex trafficking rapist and he’s worth millions of dollars and jacked, of course he’s more confident than me
/r/seduction06/08/22 01:12 PM
1

He’s actually 6’1”
/r/seduction06/08/22 01:12 PM
0

We literally don’t know what that percentage of men is because Merck manipulated their studies and was successfully sued for it I honestly do not recommend starting finasteride
/r/seduction06/08/22 01:11 PM
-7

Even with a full head of hair and being 6’1” I can’t pull girls
/r/seduction06/08/22 01:10 PM
2

Minoxidil made me very tired and I felt it was causing my skin to wrinkle
/r/seduction06/08/22 01:01 PM
-8

You don’t understand how they work. I make 200k a year, I could get 10 hair transplants. Have you ever seen a picture of the back of Joe Rogan’s head? There’s a big long scar. Rogan had a transplant, possibly multiple. Why doesn’t he have hair then? Because it failed because he didn’t take finasteride, one of the most dangerous and life destroying drugs on the market. If you don’t destroy your male hormones and erections with finasteride, your transplanted hair will fall out and you just wasted …
/r/seduction06/08/22 05:32 AM
-11

Honestly, why shouldn’t I be insecure? I’ve never had a girlfriend, I’m bald, I have no friends, my life is a complete waste. Why shouldn’t I feel horrible? My life is horrible of. get fashion and earrings to help you accept yourself Again, I’m not gay.
/r/seduction06/08/22 05:23 AM
6

Yup I’ve got zero friends either. I don’t really hate my parents but my dad used to beat me a lot
/r/seduction06/08/22 05:21 AM
5

Yeah I already can’t get dates and have never had a girlfriend. And even though I’m losing badly on normal difficulty, now I have to play on extreme difficulty. I honestly just wanna off myself
/r/seduction06/08/22 05:18 AM
-16

do you hate yourself Yes. Absolutely get some earrings What? fashion I’m not into guys. benefits that come with it I honestly can’t think of any
/r/seduction06/08/22 05:17 AM
-11

You want me to rub a girl’s vagina using my bald head? What? doesn’t change shit I mean it literally does. It’s going to make me look 10 years older and women are objectively less attracted to bald men.
/r/seduction06/08/22 05:08 AM
1

I mean there’s definitely guys without friends who have a girlfriend
/r/seduction05/08/22 03:57 AM
1

No I’ve never gotten my profile reviewed. Again, I don’t have friends, there’s not a whole lot I can do. Like I can’t get someone to take a picture of me
/r/seduction04/08/22 10:16 PM
1

It’s mostly just me in different clothes smiling at the camera. I don’t have fun slice of life stuff because I don’t have friends or fun.
/r/seduction04/08/22 08:11 PM
1

I think my face looks alright. I’ve been told I look like Jake Gyllenhaal in Donnie Darko by several different girls throughout my life. Like 3-4, none of which knew each other I still don’t get matched though
/r/seduction04/08/22 06:04 PM
1

Slightly above average. I’m 6’1” 180 pounds, which puts me ahead of most US man my age, who is 5’9” and 200 pounds.
/r/seduction04/08/22 04:07 PM
1

He has butthole eyes and Crohn’s disease. He has disgusting tattoos and zero muscle tone. average guy from NYC Which for celebrities is considered very ugly.
/r/seduction04/08/22 04:02 PM
1

He’s attractive because he’s weird looking and dating a weird guy gets you on the cover of magazines if you’re famous. It’s like getting a dumb haircut
/r/seduction04/08/22 03:44 PM
1

Again I don’t believe celebrity relationships that get a lot of media coverage and are featured in a fucking reality show are actually real.
/r/seduction04/08/22 03:09 PM
1

Yes, I’ve met guys with social skills. It’s mostly just looking hot and being outgoing. Davidson is not hot
/r/seduction04/08/22 02:56 PM
1

Again, I really don’t think he has actually relationships. They’re just PR stunts. There’s nothing to learn here
/r/seduction04/08/22 02:25 PM
1

I’ve seen that man do comedy and act, he has zero charisma. He’s just tall and he’s popular for being popular. Like the fact that he’s not actually that good looking causes women that date him to get in the news more, that’s literally it
/r/seduction04/08/22 01:47 PM
-8

so what does that tell us That famous women like dating guys who dated other famous women because it will get them in the news more. Duh. There is literally nothing for anyone here to learn from Skete Davidson. I get what you’re implying, you’re just wrong.
/r/seduction04/08/22 06:42 AM
6

They have dated him primarily because other famous women have dated him. That’s literally it, they both could get much hotter guys with actual muscles and non-shit bodies. He’s just popular for being popular, but he won’t be for much longer
/r/seduction04/08/22 06:14 AM
-5

He’s below average attractiveness. It’s literally just because he’s famous and frankly he’s already well past his peak because he isn’t actually talented.
/r/seduction04/08/22 05:00 AM
1

See for me that seems like it would make talking to women even more overwhelming for me, but I already can’t seem to do it and I do jack off a lot. I’ve been trying to quit but it really is an addiction.
/r/seduction02/08/22 04:47 AM
1

I literally have no options. I have no friends and I can’t make them, I’ve tried so many times. I can barely leave the house.
/r/seduction31/07/22 04:15 PM
1

They don’t want people realizing the advice here doesn’t actually help
/r/seduction31/07/22 04:01 PM
1

Yup
/r/seduction31/07/22 04:00 PM
1

Bipolar depression
/r/seduction31/07/22 03:57 PM
1

I’ve been before. They just put you on a bunch of pills and make you fill out worksheets. It’s literally the dumbest thing ever
/r/seduction31/07/22 03:47 PM
3

I agree with this, but it doesn’t make me want to live
/r/seduction31/07/22 02:13 PM
1

I’m in CBT and it doesn’t help, schema sounds like the same thing
/r/seduction31/07/22 01:28 PM
-2

gym therapy and proper diet and meditation would benefit I don’t deny that. They have benefitted be somewhat, but not enough that I can actually allow myself to feel safe and comfortable enough around other people that I can actually make friends and get a girlfriend. I have a history of childhood abuse and trauma and a genetic disposition towards depression and mental illness which runs in my family. I don’t get matched on dating apps. I can’t talk to women at all. I just hate being alive, ther…
/r/seduction31/07/22 01:28 PM
-12

I’ve tried therapy, exercise, diet, meditation, nothing helps.
/r/seduction31/07/22 12:51 PM
0

This literally isn’t possible for all guys. Many men have physical or mental abnormalities that make it impossible
/r/seduction31/07/22 12:39 PM
1

It’s not like the job market at all. At least in the job market if you apply enough, SOMEONE will give you a chance, I mean they have to make money too and they need lots of employees. But a woman is only going to want one man at a time and frankly it’s usually the same guys over and over again dating women. They pick guys with dating history, that have good social lives and experience with women and that’s it. I literally make 200k a year, I’m nearly 30 and have never had a girlfriend. I probab…
/r/seduction31/07/22 12:37 PM
1

I can’t. The perspective change I need is the belief that I have value and that women desire me when I know for a fact they don’t and have no reason to. There are thousands of normal men with normal social lives they can pick over me. I’ve tried so many times to become normal and I can’t, I likely exist somewhere on the autism or Asperger’s spectrum.
/r/seduction31/07/22 12:35 PM
-20

I don’t hate women. But I don’t love them, I don’t even love myself. Frankly I wish I wasn’t alive
/r/seduction31/07/22 12:33 PM
6

I have zero entitlement personally. I’m an average looking guy, 180 pounds, 6’1”, I have seen much less attractive and shorter men than me with attractive girlfriends. I would personally be fine with an unattractive girlfriend so long as she isn’t morbidly obese, which is mainly just because I’d like to be able to go on long hikes and climbing with her. women are right and you’re wrong I believe that. I think women are justified in not wanting to date me, I have little social skills and zero dat…
/r/seduction31/07/22 12:32 PM
1

You didn’t answer my question. Those are reasons value SHOULD be inherent, not WHY I have value that’s inherent. I don’t think I do, I don’t think my life matters at all and I often wish I was dead
/r/seduction31/07/22 12:11 PM
1

Why is my value inherent? Isn’t value intrinsically linked to accomplishments?
/r/seduction31/07/22 06:27 AM
1

Well at least unlike a guy you could get a relationship pretty easily if you want one. I can’t even get a match on a dating app
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 05:01 AM
1

I think of suicide constantly. I’ve been going to therapy but it doesn’t help
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 04:34 AM
8

If no woman wants me, how am I supposed to think I have value?
/r/seduction30/07/22 11:31 PM
2

Not really, but I didn’t like how I felt. I’m also not in college anymore, the real world is very different
/r/seduction30/07/22 11:27 PM
1

No I’m just desperate and pathetic
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 07:30 PM
2

I’m nearing 30 and haven’t dated in nearly a decade. I’m just planning on offing myself once I hit 30
/r/seduction30/07/22 06:34 PM
3

You can’t really do that in a small town
/r/seduction30/07/22 06:32 PM
6

I used to walk up to girls who seemed like they were alone in the cafeteria and ask if they wanted to eat together. That worked a few times and even got me laid once or twice. Haven’t tried anything like that in years
/r/seduction30/07/22 06:28 PM
-6

Honestly I don’t care what he does. I’ve never had a girlfriend and probably won’t. But if I did, a girl going out and getting drunk with her single friends would seem very weird to me.
/r/seduction30/07/22 06:23 PM
1

The other version is becoming overly attached to your mother, either due to an abusive or absent father. You end up connecting female love with the platonic mother relationship and unable to pursue romantic female partners. I’ve been going to therapy but it doesn’t help. I think of ending things a lot
/r/seduction30/07/22 05:35 PM
4

Her friend clearly could get a boyfriend, she doesn’t want one. She likes hooking up with random dudes and she probably wants your girlfriend to get back into that lifestyle. Honestly you should put your foot down. Either she lets you go with her sometimes, which is perfectly normal, or no more of this shit.
/r/seduction30/07/22 05:32 PM
9

Yup
/r/seduction30/07/22 05:30 PM
2

Snap is fine because you can’t see how many friends you have, she has nothing to gain unless she’s selling onlyfans
/r/seduction30/07/22 05:29 PM
1

2 months I mean you probably didn’t need this place. I’ve been coming here off and on for 10 years and never had a girlfriend
/r/seduction30/07/22 05:28 PM
1

I haven’t done any workbooks but I’ll download some. I probably need it. I’m not really interested in medication, you’re probably on an SSRI and those can have side effects
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 04:26 AM
1

I’ve been to therapists and psychiatrists before, I’ve been diagnosed for depression and anxiety. But they’re both probably linked to my inability to socialize which does seem autism or Asperger’s related. It’s not as severe as many cases but it’s definitely there. There isn’t medication for autism though. I’ve been doing cognitive behavioral therapy. It doesn’t help much but I guess it helps a little. I have trouble opening up about my issues in therapy, about how I’ve never had a girlfriend an…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 03:16 AM
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I’m 6’1”, I make 200k, I’m not overweight, I’m physically active, my job isn’t that time consuming, and I don’t watch superhero movies. I don’t get dating app matches and I’ve never had a girlfriend though. Also I don’t really have friends either, I’m probably somewhat on the autism spectrum but I’ve never been diagnosed
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 02:52 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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