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| 1 | Tragic footage of a woman bound by patriarchal marital traditions.Eh so a photo from the ‘highlight reel’ of having a kid. The other 95% of the time it’s not as easy, fun or idyllic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 05:55 AM |
| 0 | Women are allowed to complain about the suitors they get but men can'tLol catch 22, unfortunately complaining it about it as a Man communicates that you’re low value and can’t get the options you want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/23 08:48 AM |
| – | Why do Red Pillers (and men in general) have such a doomer mentality about divorce?Because marriage is a bad business contract with an unacceptably high level of failure and potentially life destroying consequences. No thanks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 10:04 AM |
| 190 | App for lonely men -"Men just want to feel like someone cares"Monetising loneliness. Sociopathy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/23 03:44 PM |
| – | Why are men so obsessed with carrying on their bloodline?Biology and the illusion of immortality. One day the sun will blow up and none of this will matter | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 11:24 PM |
| 1 | Women can be borderline autistic, even mentally and socially retarded and they will still be able to get guys, have dating options, overall, still be able to get into a relationship, but not so much the other way around.True but as an autistic guy I can see the potential for exploitation/abuse to be high. Like maybe if you’re knowingly or unknowingly willing to let yourself be used for sex it’s easier, but that comes with its own string of complications. That said I do feel on balance neurodivergent Women are subconsciously judged less by Men, than ND Men are judged by Women for dating/sex/relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 07:48 AM |
| – | It appears that women don't want menThis does my head in, how a fat Woman online in a bikini will get more positive attention than a shirtless guy who just spent a year getting in shape. Any displays of physicality from most guys (however slight) seem to repulse Women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/23 09:08 PM |
| – | There is a 50/50 male to female ratio, but somehow more than half of young men are single. How does this make sense?As an 6/10ish average guy, it’s because average isn’t good enough for most Women anymore. Even below average Women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/23 09:55 PM |
| – | “its how we evolved” is a horrible excuse and it needs to stop being an argumentYou can’t front-brain out millions of years of evolution in 70 years my dude | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/23 09:54 PM |
| 3 | The male 'aesthetics' popular in South Korea are not attractive to western womenPart of their appeal is social proof, i.e. they’re attractive because other girls think they’re attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/23 09:52 PM |
| 1 | The people who say “women should settle down in their 20s and doing that in their 30s is a bad idea” are manosphere guys, bible thumpers, and successful conservatives. In general, it’s a bad idea.It is but build in the time to find a partner, get to know them and seriously consider kids. That’s probably 2 years per person and attempting to have kids after 40 gets progressively harder and also arguably reckless as the risk of birth defects and disorders rockets. So 2 years, 30-40, that’s a max of 5 partners and that’s assuming you find them immediately and don’t fall out half way through. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/23 04:23 PM |
| 30 | I'm convinced that about 5-10% of men ruin it for everyoneAnd 95% of that 25% are probably taken at any one time, the hot cool girls don’t last long without options calling | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/23 04:21 PM |
| 1 | The people who say “women should settle down in their 20s and doing that in their 30s is a bad idea” are manosphere guys, bible thumpers, and successful conservatives. In general, it’s a bad idea.Honestly I agree except for if she is hell bent on having kids. Stephen Shaw who was on Chris Williamson’s and Jordan Peterson’s show recently said from studies - if a Woman is childless at 30, she has at best a 50% chance of ever having kids. It doesn’t bother me in the slightest whether they do or not, individual choice, but for those who would be forever depressed by not achieving that, it seems like waiting until 30 to start dating seriously is a pretty horrible idea statistically, consideri… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/23 06:28 AM |
| 1 | If you have sex with someone who wants to be in a relationship with you, does it mean you take advantage of them?This is complicated. Ultimately only the person knows themself but they should aren’t in a contractual arrangement to enter a relationship upon the delivery of sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/23 07:25 PM |
| 1 | You need to have a popping Instagram account to be able to date successfully as a guyThis is true to a degree if your insta indicates displays of fun, wealth and social proof, i.e. popularity with other men and especially women then it’s only going to be an asset | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/23 05:49 AM |
| 1 | Most peole today are not ready for loneliness, and yet that is probably what is coming for most of usNeed to find some ultimate cope distractions, I’ve been thinking about this too. Brave New World style with some low risk but effective drugs, video games, hang with the bros etc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 10:11 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Casual sex has never been easier for the average man in today’s generationYou’re conclusion that guys probably aren’t getting laid because of participation in misogynist communities has a slither of truth to it, but not because of the misogyny, rather what type of life and appearance and experience drives someone to start reading and posting in those spaces? Misogyny isn’t an automatic disqualifier from sex, considering that studies have shown Women are attracted to ‘benevolent sexism’ and as long as a guy isn’t overtly shooting his mouth about Women’s issues, I’ve se… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 06:45 AM |
| 15 | Online dating for women is not "better"Put it this way, if I was looking to get into college. I’d rather 80% of the colleges including the worthless, weird and rubbish ones proposition me for a place, rather than have to proactively apply to tons of them and get rejected by 99 out of every 100 I apply for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 06:37 AM |
| 3 | Society should embrace non-monogamySo I think this works well for Women until their 30s and high value Men maybe until they’re 50. But then if a guy is so powerful and attractive that he can pick, he’s just going to replace those mid-late 30s Women with younger Women in their 20s. Taking this to its logical endpoint, this will lead to is a ton of depression and loneliness in later years for Women first and even the high value Men later, as they themselves become too old to play the field and have nothing resembling longevity or l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 06:16 AM |
| 2 | The “modern woman” is changing, and the “modern man” needs to adapt to the changeTrue, but the flip side of this is that most modern Women aren’t worth the effort. If you think most guys are becoming the best version of themselves just to get a chance with a entitled landwhale then you’re not living in reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/23 07:41 AM |
| 4 | The wall does not existOk put it this way… Do most Women look better at 25 years old or 50 years old. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/23 04:41 PM |
| 1 | CMV : Women are so militant and unforgiving with guys they're dating because they’re almost 100 percent confident “their perfect man” is waiting for them in the futureThis | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/23 07:18 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Western men have always been an undateable messThe problem is as a guy, you’re needing to ‘improve’ often just to get your looksmatch, so for a lot of guys I can see the juice just not being worth the squeeze. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/23 08:56 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Western men have always been an undateable messWhat does ‘adapt to the times’ even mean? Do more housework? Lols | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/23 08:54 AM |
| 1 | Women's selection criterion have changed, but men have remained largely the sameCouldn’t disagree more. Women’s selection criteria have remained the same, it’s just relative to Women the number of Men who are good enough has declined. Women are essentially pricing themselves out of a relatively quality mate by competing in the status hierarchy they select from. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 08:32 PM |
| 62 | “Whoever invites pays” is just a way for women to get out of saying “men should pay” (first dates)Good middle ground here is to go for something inexpensive first, then if you hit it off then you can go bigger on the second date. If she’s put off by a low cost first date then maybe says more about her intentions and personality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/23 08:12 AM |
| 1 | Do men become "Beta Bucks" after kids?Simple solution to all this, don’t have kids. The world is a mess, your ancestors will forget you in three generations and the sun will blow up one day, it’s all an illusory evolutionary mindfuck | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/23 06:44 AM |
| 23 | Both women and men don’t need each other and why this is a good thingWhat if monogamy only truly worked generally because we needed each other? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 08:57 PM |
| 3 | Men in your 30s, do you actually not want to date women in their 30s?M32, my dating range is 23-33 and I would say my preference is 25-28, where its a good intersection of youthful beauty and “mature enough” personality-wise. If I was up to me I’d probably date late 20s for the next 20 years but i think you need some serious SMV as a guy to date young Women, if you’re in your 50s. It’s not always the case but anecdotally it does seem like nearly all the attractive cool Women are deep in LTRs by the early 30s, which I suppose isn’t surprising but quite depressing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/23 07:19 AM |
| 3 | Do you plan on having children?The best time ever and yet still a horror show. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/23 12:45 AM |
| 5 | Do you plan on having children?No. Existence is a shitshow and we’re governed by corrupt sociopaths in a reality filled with more suffering than joy and the future is even bleaker all things considered. Disease, murder, starvation, abuse, torture, deceit, exploitation… is it really fair to bring sentient life into such a reality? And that’s without even starting on the cost, sacrifice, energy and effort needed to do as good a job as possible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/23 12:44 AM |
| 1 | Money does not have the influence that many men here believe it hasBad boy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 02:28 PM |
| 2 | What impact would a male birth control pill have on the dating and marriage market?Based | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/23 08:09 AM |
| 2 | Could "baby trapping" be underreported and much more common than we think?“If you’re not using contraception you control and you get pregnant, you earned it. Take responsibility for yourself”. Except Women still have a choice at this stage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/23 05:35 PM |
| 1 | Seen repeated claims “there are more attractive women then men.”Men are just way more visually turned on as a single cue than Women are. Gay men don’t seem to have many problems in this area for example | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/23 10:31 AM |
| 1 | Statistics on single women buying properties on their ownWomen are judged way less for living at home with their parents in their 20s and even 30s to save money on rent for a house purchase. A lot of them could be saving 25-50% of their salary by doing this compared to Men who would never get laid or taken seriously living at home. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/23 10:29 AM |
| 8 | Is pre-selection actually real?Yeah social proof is a hell of a drug | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/23 10:21 AM |
| 1 | AI personal assistants will soon come to dating apps like Grindr and TinderThis sounds like dystopian hell | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/23 10:45 PM |
| 2 | When a woman earns more, her man should be proud of her and support herI wouldn’t mind them earning slightly more, but frankly it’s emasculating and esteem-destroying to be in a position where you can’t afford to do the same things because they earn a lot more than you. I would also have an underlying feeling that I’m a failure and need to overcompensate in other areas of the relationship like physical attractiveness and housework, both of which aren’t desirable to do more often than them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/23 06:11 AM |
| 1 | Is there something we can do to help raise women's self-esteem?I think social media is a huge issue, previously Women were maybe competing with the village, now that’s scaled to the world | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/23 02:50 PM |
| 5 | Why is sex framed as something a woman “gives” and a man “takes”?Because it takes most Men more effort to achieve the experience of a sexual encounter | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/23 09:57 AM |
| 1 | It's exhausting to make female friendsMost female friends disappear when they get a boyfriend in my experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/23 03:26 AM |
| 1 | Here is why traditional women/wives are becoming more and more rareSo slavery haha… No one is guaranteed that salary forever there are so many variables here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/23 09:19 PM |
| 1 | When does dating market decline for men?Lol I’m 32m and you’re putting a rocket up my ass rn | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/23 09:18 PM |
| 0 | Here is why traditional women/wives are becoming more and more rareThe last sentence. If you get a worse job through change or being fired you still have to pay the same | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/23 08:01 PM |
| 1 | Here is why traditional women/wives are becoming more and more rareThis is scandalous if true | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/23 07:45 AM |
| 15 | Where did this idea that younger women make better partners come from?A few things I can think of in no particular order: older Women generally have more baggage, so it’s more likely with a younger Woman that she’s experienced a smaller number of bad relationships Men biologically prefer younger Women for innate fertility signalling As a M31, more Women at my age are way more ready and wanting to have kids. Dating a Woman age say 24-28 gives you more years of breathing room to enjoy the freedom of a childless relationship before that idea becomes stronger Women on… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/22 04:28 PM |
| 2 | How many men admit to following trp In dating?The first rule of fight club… The way I see it, there are some elements of TRP that unfortunately work. I say unfortunately because Women seem to inherently love it if you’re a minor dick but I would like to simply be a nice person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/22 06:45 PM |
| 1 | As a leftist man, I believe that men are better off not pursuing progressive/feminist/leftist women for long-term relationships.Yeah that’s because it’s not the USSR anymore… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/22 08:12 AM |
| 1 | As a leftist man, I believe that men are better off not pursuing progressive/feminist/leftist women for long-term relationships.Lol if you want to believe no totalitarians were ever left wing then you do you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/22 07:11 PM |
| 3 | As a leftist man, I believe that men are better off not pursuing progressive/feminist/leftist women for long-term relationships.He’s economically left, that’s enough. That’s the horizontal axis on the spectrum. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/22 07:06 PM |
| 1 | Men should push for less gendered dating/engagement normsI suppose in order to do this one would also need to be happy getting no sexual/romantic attention also - which is a hard sell for most guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/22 03:38 PM |
| 4 | Should anything be done about the low birth rates and high single parenthood in western countries?I would be fine with never being born. There would be the absence of joy but also pain. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/22 01:16 PM |
| 17 | Should anything be done about the low birth rates and high single parenthood in western countries?The world is a shitshow, I’m not bringing anyone new here from a moral standpoint. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/22 06:11 PM |
| 1 | Stabilize the dating scene by making men as comfortable being single as women.Thought about this before. Men are just more easily horny than Women that is the problem. It underpins our drive to do almost anything. If they came up with a pill to massively dull our sex drive this might work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/22 10:44 AM |
| 1 | If you could change genders, would you do it?That’s just silly. Bodybuilding is slightly objective but still largely scored and athletics is won by speed or distance. You can be skinny, slim, curvy or fat, or do some really niche fetish and still make loads on OF. There was a woman who dresses up as a dog making $15k/month. What’s the sports equivalent of that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/22 06:55 PM |
| 1 | If you could change genders, would you do it?You think I’d earn as much sucking dicks for 12 years as I would on OF as a hot girl building a sales funnel through social? I only have one mouth I can’t scale to enough dicks honestly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/22 04:23 PM |
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