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Outer Game Useful-Personality38/r/seduction01/02/26 10:29 PM
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If your woman has waited too, yes definitely. If I could go back and do that I would
/r/seduction28/04/26 09:14 AM
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They only chase the top 10-20% of men
/r/seduction23/04/26 12:38 AM
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Yes unless you think you have extremely good game and looks
/r/seduction19/04/26 09:16 AM
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3 is high, though optimal would be 0
/r/seduction03/04/26 11:15 AM
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If you like to drink alcohol, clubs and bars are probably the easiest
/r/seduction26/02/26 11:24 AM
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On the street, malls, train/bus stations, book stores. I think conventions or festivals are also good
/r/seduction26/02/26 11:06 AM
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This isn't much. I've gotten 5 rejections or more in a day. You need to approach more and don't be too focused on the outcome. It's already a success to be able to approach girls just like that which many guys are too nervous to do. With every approach you get better. Also your chances at the gym are pretty low. You can still approach there but don't have high expectations
/r/seduction26/02/26 10:12 AM
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women should stop sleeping with men--including YOU Yes please. Wait till marriage. Bring back modesty and self respect. Sex is the most intimate act, that's why you lose value when you do it with multiple people. It should be reserved for your future husband/wife. Almost all cultures in history have valued purity. This is nothing new
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 10:32 PM
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The men who have 100+ are like 0,1%. You really don't know how difficult is to get sex for most men
/r/seduction02/02/26 09:56 PM
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The majority of women nowadays sleep around to some extent and don't get trafficked. It's hard to find a woman who hasn't slept around
/r/seduction02/02/26 09:15 PM
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There are plenty of women who sleep around like crazy. But they don't need to pay for it, they just go to clubs and pick the hottest guy for the night. As a woman you can literally pick one out of hundreds if not thousands of guys and dictate how you want to do it. If you still don't feel safe keep a gun under your pillow or something lol
/r/seduction02/02/26 09:03 PM
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If that would be possible and it's only with women I'd do it yea. I get to have sex and even get paid for it. Sounds perfect to me. I don't think you know how difficult it can be to get sex as a man even if you're above average looking. But women would never pay for a male prostitute. Because they don't need to, they can have sex whenever they want even if they're old, ugly or fat
/r/seduction02/02/26 08:21 PM
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A woman could traffick a man as well if she just spikes his drink. Even easier for women because it's easy to seduce men. Many guys are looking for relationships. Personally I'm just looking for sex, but not with a prostitute because I want to feel desired and her to enjoy it as well. A prostitute would actually be cheaper for me because with a normal girl I have to pay for dates, put in time and effort etc.
/r/seduction02/02/26 08:20 PM
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Said no man ever. We'd love to get approached. If I could be a male prostitute for women, I'd sign up today
/r/seduction02/02/26 07:59 PM
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Do men get approached? Is that a bad thing? I'd feel so flattered if I was approached. I think you have a very skewed view. Being a man can suck as well, literally noone cares about you if you are a man and getting women can be extremely difficult for men. You are expected to be tall, strong, show no emotions, make more money than your wife etc. Men are seen as expendable and of little value. There is a reason why we send men to die first in natural disasters/catastrophes and send them to war in…
/r/seduction02/02/26 07:52 PM
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Uhm, because we enjoy sex. And I don't think any woman would pay a man for sex lol
/r/seduction02/02/26 07:35 PM
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I don't think I understand what you mean. Why do you see yourself as lesser and not equal? To whom?
/r/seduction02/02/26 07:33 PM
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Well most girls actually like to be approached. I've never had a bad interaction, I'm super polite
/r/seduction02/02/26 07:27 PM
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It's definitely effective if you become good at it and make it a habit in day to day life. So if you're out doing something else and see a cute girl you can just approach her. I usually approach at shops, libraries, malls, train stations. That said, it definitely takes time. But even if you don't get her number it's still good because you're getting more experience and confidence. It's like a skill you're getting better at and each time you do it you get better. Eventually you can approach in gr…
/r/seduction02/02/26 07:23 PM
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No, don't chase
/r/seduction02/02/26 01:06 PM
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Certainly don't sleep with him anytime soon. I can tell you guys at that age are very rarely dating for marriage unless they are Christian. I'd see him already calling you baby or sexy as a red flag. If he puts in effort, show him affection but in a non-sexual way. If he doesn't, then he doesn't deserve you. Don't overthink it, there are many guys out there
/r/seduction02/02/26 11:56 AM
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I like girls bro
/r/seduction01/02/26 11:05 PM
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Well said, I'd rather be single forever than with a woman like that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 08:46 AM
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Yep, that's why it's easier to get into a relationship. The same girl wouldn't have hooked up with him because for hookups she has higher standards in terms of attractiveness Though even in relationships you sometimes see an ugly guy with a pretty girl. But she would never hook up with an ugly guy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 08:43 AM
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Even the ugliest, poorest, fattest guys I know have girlfriends. For hookups you need to have very good looks, status or charisma which very few men have. If hookups were easier to get, more men would choose hookups but they can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 08:38 AM
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Any guy can get into a relationship but only the top percentages of men can get hookups
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 08:35 AM
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Yea that's what I'm saying. Women are naturally hypergamous
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 08:44 PM
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I didn't say it was
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 04:48 PM
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Well I would say the vast majority of people Yep, that's why I'm not going to be unbroken just to get with a broken person. But you seem like the evil type, not the broken type. Well you're not the one to judge
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 03:49 PM
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There is many broken women too. Promiscuity is either result of being broken or inherently evil. Well the vast majority of women is broken then There would be no wars without patriarchy, it's not my problem, it's all patriarchy. Partriarchy doesn't exist. But I'm talking about natural disasters or catastrophes, not wars. When a ship is sinking, women and children are saved first and men are potentially left to die
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 03:44 PM
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Because he is lying to them. Sociopaths are very good at lying and deception. What if he's not lying? Many women are just down to fuck No, it's just patriarchy bullshit. Everyone has inherent value. Then why do we send men to die first in catastrophes? you must have something broken in you. It's not my fault the world is the way it is
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 03:40 PM
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No, it shows he is dirty and disgusting and evil zero value sociopath. Then why do so many women want to sleep with him if he has no value? Everyone has inherent value. Some have less. That's why send men to war and to die first in catastrophes And if they make an honest mistake and repent it is purified and come back. You can't be pure if you're already tainted. You think Bonnie Blue could be purified after sleeping with 1000 men?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 03:32 PM
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Better to be than using them than to be the one settling for them after they were used by others. That's just a humiliation ritual. I can't be used if noone is using me. If a man sleeps with many women it shows he has value. Otherwise so many women wouldn't be into him. Women have inherent value, they need to protect it. Men have no inherent value, they need to build it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 03:26 PM
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Nobody is using me. I'm the one using them
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 03:22 PM
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As I said men can't be sluts. It's different for men and women. Being a virgin man is no achievement
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 03:15 PM
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No I'm not a virgin At least it was an honest mistake and I repented from it. I mean it still happened. The same lips that your husband kisses have been around another man's cock. Not saying I am better than you in that regard since I'm also not a virgin but I could just never really love a non virgin woman. Putting so much effort and love into a woman who was just one of the girls another man fucked. I'll still marry because I want kids but I'll emotionally detach myself from her so I don't go …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 03:05 PM
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I mean whatever you say your intention was other men still had their way with you. Why should I marry a woman that has been fucked by other men? What does she bring to the table? I have to pay for dates, buy flowers, provide for her etc. while she spread her legs for other guys? Why should any decent woman touch a promiscuous male slut like you? Men can't be sluts and most women don't seem to care about bodycount or actually prefer more experienced men. There's a reason virgin is used as an insu…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 02:53 PM
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I never had casual sex. I never had desire for "experience", I just wanted to find the one. I'm sure that's what every girl says and they still end up with high bodycounts. I see no point in buying flowers or putting a ring on a girl that was just a fling for another man. That would be humiliating
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 02:42 PM
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I don't want just one. The same way girls don't. They sleep around and expect to get a love story afterwards. I'm not gonna wait for her while she is sleeping with other guys I don't get what you see in Henry Cavill. Women go crazy over him
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 02:36 PM
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But it's different type of men for each woman. Sure everyone has preferences. But the number of women that would say no to someone like Henry Cavill or Brad Pitt is very low. Someone like Clavicular has women screaming when they see him and throwing themselves at him. And there is only one true soulmate for everyone. Oh I envy you. That must be a nice mindset to have. Very far from reality though
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 02:11 PM
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Hahah of coursee. There is lots of data on this. Women find the vast majority of men unattractive but swoon over a handful of very attractive men
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 01:51 PM
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Women are still hypergamous today. They fight over the top 20% of men who are the best looking and have the highest status
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 01:44 PM
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Women can choose who they want nowadays and they choose to be hypergamous
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 01:43 PM
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In a normal state women are naturally hypergamous
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 01:42 PM
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No, they sleep around just as much. Probably even more but they use protetction
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 01:39 PM
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He gives away his body He's not giving away his body he's taking someone else's. How is his wife supposed to feel like sex is special when he had tons and tons of sex and it “never meant anything”? Fair point. Depends on the wife. Most women don't seem to care about a man's bodycount or have slept around themselves He’s just a nasty loser with a virgin deflowering fetish. Who says they only go after virgins? I wouldn't have casual sex with a virgin as I said. But if she's not a virgin she's alre…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 09:30 PM
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But, I mean we know that there are lots of incels. What's wrong with them if casual sex is easy to get for men? 27% of men under 30 in the US are still virgins and the number looks to be rising. This was from a survey in 2018 <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 02:40 PM
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How do you know that women want to marry so they don’t die alone? Logic maybe? Hahah Because from what I know women typically outlive their husbands, so marriage wouldn’t prevent them from dying alone, and women are less lonely in general because they have more friends Well then you still spend decades alone and I doubt anyone plans exactly how long they or their spouse is going to live. My grandpas both lived longer than my grandmas. Friends are good but they aren't a substitute for a romantic …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 02:32 PM
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No, that was statistics. That was data. Data says that marriages are going down. Not why that is. If it's more prevalent among poor people it does not mean that money is the cause. There are so many more factors at play. Please google the difference between correlation and causation so I don't have to explain it. OK, but you just said they were desperate for it so which is it? Not all people are the same. There are many women desperate for marriage but also many that are focusing on career or ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 02:08 PM
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As of now men with higher earnings and education are more likely to get married than less educated lower earning men. In fact when you look at the data the marriage rate for high earning educated men actually has not gone down by much. Most of the drop in marriage rates for men has been for the low earning ones. If losing half was the concern and the reason men weren’t getting married one would expect men with something to lose to marry less. The reality is women have chosen not to marry broke l…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 01:27 PM
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They totally can be, and many are No, the male equivalent of a slut would be a simp because he's giving away value (time, effort, money) for nothing in return. The same way a slut is giving away her body for nothing in return. Women are inherently valuable and need to stay pure to protect their value. Men have no value to begin with. They're expendable. That's why we send men to wars and expect them to do the dirty work. They're impure from birth. A man isn't protecting anything by staying a vir…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 09:34 AM
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Yes marriage rates have plummeted because people don't see a reason to since they aren't religious anymore. For men it mostly just means more responsibility and potentially losing half of everything in a divorce. If you want to get married as a man you really just need to be nice and maybe somewhat kept together. There are many women desperately looking for a man that will commit to them To get hookups you need to be in the top 20% of men
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 12:44 AM
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Being husband material is not better than being FWB or hookup material as you stated most of the time such men could easily find someone to marry if they wanted to. So basically the majority of hookup/FWB guys are “husband material.” Husband material just means being nice. Literally any guy can get married. Very few guys can get casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 12:07 AM
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Vaccination for STDs or what lmao Just use a condom or don't sleep with people that have a high bodycount
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 11:49 PM
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Just use protection
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 11:20 PM
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Women offering casual sex are functionally very hard for you to find. Well obviously they don't go around offering casual sex like a prostitute. They probably don't even always intend to have casual sex but it just happens when they go out to party or on a date with an attractive guy. You glorify the male sluts who fuck around and lie to women rather than the men who are actually respectful of women waiting for sex, meaning you do not actually respect women who wait. You glorify and defend the v…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 10:13 PM
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Women offering casual sec are far far rarer— that’s why you are so obsessed with them. It is why so many men actually basically worship women who offer casual sex, and why they have nothing but disdain for women who wait to have sex. Not at all, most women have casual sex at some point so it's not very rare. They marry after they have had their fun and slept around. I have a ton of respect for women who wait with sex or even wait until marriage. It shows self respect and modesty Those rando fuck…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 07:26 PM
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It is not a compliment from a dude who resents or hates marriage. Well he wouldn't say it in the first place. But as I said, a good wife is more rare so it can still be a compliment You think this way because you glorify casual sex. Women do not think this way about fuck boys becasue for women, it is trivially easy to get fucked. Well yea for women it's easy to get sex, so they are free to choose the best men for that. For marriage they can't choose as freely because not every hot guy wants to c…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 06:44 PM
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And I envy you for not seeing it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 05:54 PM
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Tbh I think a hookup is still a bigger compliment for a man than marriage. Hookup means that she has genuine raw attraction to you whereas for marriage it could be that you're just a nice guy who pays her bills. Marriage in itself also feels uneven since it's mostly the man that has to serve the woman
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 04:31 PM
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You can be detached but it will eventually make you too numb and making real connections with people will be harder the more you detached and isolate from others Yea then you are free to focus on yourself and don't depend on your partner. Noone can be trusted 100%. That's not my fault
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 04:10 PM
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I'm just going to go with detachment. Otherwise I will go insane. I'll never trust a woman 100% so I cannot let my emotions depend on one
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 04:04 PM
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Idk about that. Usually girls lose interest when you become too clingy and show too much affection
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 03:54 PM
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Why are there so many incels then?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 03:51 PM
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No for women it's the other way around. Any woman can hookup, not every woman can be a wife. Whereas not every man can hookup. But every man can be a husband
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 03:49 PM
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But they get women
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 03:48 PM
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Husband material just means you're nice. Hookup material means you're attractive and fun
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 03:48 PM
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Many women are like this but don't admit it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 03:45 PM
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But they all fucked a fuckboy. Women choose their husbands after they were run through
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 03:45 PM
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But the more sex you have as a man, the more emotionally disconnected you are from your feelings and connecting with others on a romantic level. Yes and that's a benefit. The less you care the more you will be desired. And it will be better for the man's sanity to never be too attached to a woman. She can leave you or cheat on you anytime. Better for him to focus on himself
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 03:43 PM
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I tell no guy about what I'm doing with girls I just want validation from girls
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 03:41 PM
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Husband material just means you're nice
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 03:40 PM
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Everyone needs outside validation. It's in our genes. If noone likes you why should you be happy with yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 03:39 PM
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Husbands get sex in change for serving their wife. In hookups you just get sex without having to do anything extra. The woman is just attracted to you
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 03:35 PM
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Well you can't apply the same logic to men. For men, it's more special to be good hookup material. Anyone can be husband material, just be nice. To get hookups as a guy you don't just need to be in the right place at the right time. Otherwise there wouldn't be so many incels
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 03:34 PM
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Men and women are different. You can't apply the same logic. Wife material is a compliment because every woman can be a good slut but not every woman a good wife. Husband material is not a compliment because every guy can be a good husband. You just need to be nice and serve your woman. Being hookup material is very rare as a man because you actually need to be attractive and offer value.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 03:32 PM
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Yea I'd still be enthusiastic about it. It's more special. Any man can be husband material but hookup material is rare
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 03:29 PM
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