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I feel like there is also blame from the other party at place. I think most people are autistic and stupid to be clear about what they want and how to reciprocate messages. This isn't just common in dating situations but just average conversations..
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 01:28 AM
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However one can tackle each these questions and still be left in the dark specifically with how most women perceive them. Not the most important thing in life sure but it's still a problem. You are doing it... blaming others in this case women for your own faults. No, you are so wrong. Also I'm relatively new here so I'm not sure what the majority population this sub is but I'm certain not every person here is a incel/neckbeard or whatever. Those who complain the loudest majority of the time com…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 05:12 PM
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No. Why are there so many incels and neckbeards in this sub reddit. They are clearly too fixated on sex but try to be very subtle about it. I can see through most of you loser's bullshit. You really want to attract a partner? Maybe start reflecting on yourself and I mean do some really deep introspection. Ask yourself, would you date yourself? What don't you like about yourself? What do you do like about yourself? How can I be a better person? How can I improve my character? What makes you a goo…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 04:44 PM
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CMV... and then you go on a strange rant...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 04:53 AM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 01:49 AM
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Okay predator. Also it doesn't matter what the sex or gender is. That is too much of a gap and says you have issues. Good luck dealing with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 07:38 PM
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At 18. However it is funny how people don't have a problem that 16 year olds can drive and work. We all know 25-26 is the age where the brain fully develops but it is funny how people love to cherry pick the age they think is correct. Also the issue for me is that 4 years apart is not as bad as 25 years especially when we are still talking about a very young adult and an old person.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 06:01 PM
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Your point seems fair especially in previous times and even current times. 20 - 16 regardless of sex have a closer experience than a 45 - 20..
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 04:56 AM
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yikes. You have issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 04:55 AM
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More lives in 2022 were ruined because of parenting and childbirth. Most went to some form of debt, narcotics, substance abuse etc. Having kids or being a parent is not worth having a miserable life. People say that there is joy to having kids. I say yes there will be times when you will feel joy but it is not like you will be feeling like that every single day at every given moment. Most people never mention the extra hurdles and sacrifices for their kids. Some people realize it too late and ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 07:46 PM
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Crying is a turn off. Who the fuck gets turned on when some is crying. I think people who cry a lot for pity is a turn off regardless of gender. Some one who cries because of passion and empathy or with a good reason is attractive. When you cry about something it shows that you really care about it even if it is something stupid. It shows you have sentimental value. People fake cry or cry because of hormonal or pity reasons which those are not attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 06:36 PM
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They do but he who controls the most wealth sets the standard. Most religions, most countries and most powerful people are men. It has nothing to do with physiology because there are many women with fetishes as there are men. Women are more insecure and keep them disclosed to society and others than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 05:54 PM
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I mean sex is one of many endgoals. Simps are people who would do whatever to get affection and attention regardless of gender or sex. I have seen guys simp for other guys. Girls simp for other girls. It is very unhealthy and weird. Also not everyone that simps wants sex some just want comfort which is why many people simp in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 09:32 PM
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Women do simp as much as guys people just tend to give them a pass when they do and really don't call it out. Women can be awkward and autistic as guys too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 05:09 PM
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Again, you seem not to understand what I am saying. Conscious and Subconscious are abstract issues. Abstract issues are the most difficult to even prove because they are above what human's are capable to master; hence abstract concepts/issues are not so easy to deconstrue. Just because you have two studies that give off some hypothesis doesn't mean they are true since we are dealing with abstract concepts. If we can't even understand how a conscious truly works and what it is capable what makes …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 07:05 PM
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Lizard brain subconscious? If scientists/professionals don't fully understand what that is what makes you a professional in that matter; hence Pseudo Intellectual. You speak out of your ass. Also humans have gone against their urges, humans are sentient and capable to overcome such challenges. Just because you can't doesn't means others can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 05:48 PM
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Yes because people who say that humans at the end of the day are lizard brains and you can't go against nature and all this pseudo crap because at the end of day look at where we are at. You are using the internet. Can lizard brain folks do that? People ignore how sentient and self reliant humans are. We have created social constructs that go against your human nature logic. We have created things or discovered complex and unorthodox ideas that go against nature and lizard brain thinking. One go…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 05:43 PM
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OP is so wrong. People cheated with others even when birth rates where really damn high. Men don't incentive low birth rates. Education (contraception and sexual education), better living conditions than before for many folks and women/minorities having more liberty/rights is the reason why. Look at all developing countries which are also having the same issue and I don't think your argument is valid.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 05:36 PM
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I found the Pseudo Intellectual.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 05:32 PM
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No it isn't. People who blame Porn are ignorant. Easy to blame one thing and call it a day then to take time and actually deal with the issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 10:47 PM
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fair point
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 02:53 AM
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People go on here to vent. Most people on here are toxic. Most people on here are hypocritical too. There are good people but the loudest are always going to be the trashy ones who want everyone to be/feel like how they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 11:32 PM
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Dude every one has had bad experience with people. Men to men, Men to women, women to women, women to men etc. People are just finding excuses to vent their toxicity. Doesn't matter if you are in a relationship, have a great career and is part of the exclusive club in society. A toxic person will never be happy and they envy others so much they want everyone else to seep to their level. No one is that special.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 11:30 PM
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Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 09:28 PM
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Homophobia and malevolence. Women are just as competitive as men well women who don't have confidence and feel insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 12:02 AM
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I am not talking about a woman hack. Not everyone is clear with what they want and it helps those with some reassurance by using the standards of others to craft their own. It might even lead to them to explore new things that they might not have known. I good example is that guys are more welcome for big and tall women like Amazonian type. What once was refer to as weirdos or too dominant for guys they are now welcomed and beloved. When certain guys see there are others with similar insecuritie…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 11:25 PM
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Yeah and that is fucked up. It is a power move. It has everything to do with these type of people trying to control others. It looks more toxic when a straight person does it to a gay person because society standards. Straight people are more welcomed and the majority. With that said it still doesn't give gay people the right to force themselves onto straight people either. I have seen this shit happened both ways and on all four sides. It is grotesque and has to do more with the individuals pre…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 11:02 PM
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Yes. People on here who say no are lieing. The only reason people dislike the Kardashians is because of their success and the way they got to their success. Many of these people on here would date or even marry someone like Kim if she became a bit more humbled and less into drama.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 10:55 PM
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Yes. Obesity makes people less attractive. it is quite simple to do a pros and cons on why people perceive skinnier people more desirable than obese. I am not saying skinny people can't fall into these issues as well but they mostly correlate to obese folks. When you see an obese person first issues that you can assume already is that they don't take care of themselves. So by that itself is already a huge red flag. Lack of hygiene (Fat itself smells pretty awful which makes people BO awful), mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 10:52 PM
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true but I think Op is looking for some people's standard or "guide" which I kind of understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 10:35 PM
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holy fuck she looks below average. Most if not all celebrities look like this (most women). There are only a few that are gifted with natural beauty that they need little to zero tools to make them look gorgeous.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 10:34 PM
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You are making great points. I think the more people have these types of dialogues the more welcome and less insecure they will feel around such topics and issues. That is why we see people keep reiterating these topics politically. Although they might come off as redundant or even obnoxious to some what it is trying to do is to give people not only reassurance but normalize it to a point that people won't be fearful or uncomfortable about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 07:41 PM
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More like dude is literally fucking over his health and life just to get a crumb of pussy. He thinks he is putting a lot of effort only. Man this is what a loser looks like. This screams out very pathetic. This implies that he lacks confidence and personality that he relies on external factors to get him at the "top".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 05:47 PM
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I can see it. Most men used to be against certain "taboos" or unorthodox things such as guy sexual toys, homosexuality, feminine styles, make up, pedicures/manicures etc. I remember when pegging was frowned upon and many guys were against it and now you see so many straight guys doing it. Also eating ass was frowned upon too. Many guys were so insecure about their asses and now they let women eat their assholes. Funny how there are people who still go against things that don't seem very taboo on…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 05:35 PM
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Not forcing, just giving advice. A lot of people on here are having trouble finding SOs and come of as miserable and develop a form of contempt or malice towards others. How can people have an opinion on things when they themselves had not experienced them. I am a cis male and I think I would not mind dating a trans women. I find them extremely more attractive in a plethora ways compare to cis women. They are easier to talk to and have a way with understanding my struggles (Hmm I wonder why) and…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 11:55 PM
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Force attraction. I bet most people wouldn't know the difference someone who has modified their body if they are attractive. From nose jobs, boob jobs, etc. There are some trans women who look 10 times hotter than cis women. It isn't just the surgery but their attitude, their open mindness, their confidence, their affection etc. People need to ask themselves if they would really limit themselves even at the cost of finding some form of happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 11:48 PM
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No. Simping is very unhealthy. A simp is attentive and submissive to women. You don't put women on a pedestal, you have to treat them like an equal. On top of that, show some respect for yourself. Simping says that you are beneath others and don't have confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 11:05 PM
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I think men should be more open to trans women. I learned that when you limit your objections you are often left with choices you might not enjoy. There are a lot of amazing trans women who are more down to earth and reasonable than cis women. Plus they would understand you better since they were once men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 11:03 PM
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The problem with the old people is that they can't distinguish from hooking up to actual relationships. Most people on these forums are always talking about the former when it comes to dating. I just say that if you plan to find a relationship by using hooking up apps such as tinder, bumble, grindr you are being in denial. There is a reason why only a miniscule end up in actual relationship using those apps. Everyone wants to have the best of everything. They want to have the young excited and c…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 06:06 PM
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So you really don't have any stands or convictions? Got it. You just like arguing for the sake of argument. You argue based of not actual willing to understand but to reinforce your echo chambers for your own benefit. Got it. I don't understand why people argue with others when they themselves don't follow their own logic. I still find it hard that you still don't think women are as desperate as men when it comes to relationships. It is prevalent from the constant validation to modifying their b…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 05:34 PM
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Casually dating. Okay. But do you have a stable relationship? Anyone can date? Shit the term dating has been water down to mean between talking to someone to fucking with out actually being in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 05:20 PM
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Viewing everyone as an option is very immature and comes off as indecisive. Biggest mistake when it comes to dating. Don't be upset when women see you as a option every time. People need to learn to know what they want. This is why so many guys and girls end up in terrible relationships or none at all because they don't know what they want and when they see others who do they try so hard to emulate and find some out of desperation.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 04:46 PM
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or grow facial hair. I look very young when I shave but when I don't I look old regardless of my size.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 08:20 PM
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You better wake the fuck up because you are not going to get what you want boy. Be more realistic because what you are asking is just to artificial. I know men and women like this and this comes off as being very insecure. By demanding your ideal SO you are avoiding conflict, hurdles, struggles and even compromise. Avoiding such things means that you lack confidence in actually overcoming things because you want to be in control for your own well being. This is a red flag in itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 10:39 PM
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I am curious did you get your answers that you were looking for reading among the hundreds of comments? Opinions are opinions. People will shame others for things they don't agree with. Not all guys shame women for the same reasons and not all guys shame women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 11:53 PM
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Excuses? Why are you hating that these women are hustling and making that cash? I wasn't saying they will be homeless I said it would throw a huge wrench in their stability which again last time I check if someone has control over your stability then they have more control over you which proves my point that I was arguing against that this market is heavily control by men. Men are the consumers, men are the owners and men are the gatekeepers. Men are the ones who also create the laws (politician…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 09:23 PM
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I wish people would listen to your advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 09:11 PM
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This. People made poor choices and they expect not to be judge? Society judges everyone on every little thing that makes you think you are the exception to that rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 08:56 PM
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Why are you fixated in such a thing? Liberty is such a privilege and people have no idea how lucky they are. Also people have opinions and different ways of thinking. Not everyone has a logical or emotional attachment to their opinions and it is fine. Every man just like every woman has a different outlook on this issue. Some might overlap but the beauty of having able to have your own standards is that none of them are wrong regardless if you agree or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 08:52 PM
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Women do not control the sex market. Who owns all these websites that women must pay a cut towards to? Men. Social media, networks and other entities are ruled and owned by a lot of men. There is more autonomy and power to women in the sex industry but holy cow men still control the sex market even in 2021. Look at Onlysfan situation and how many of the women on there were about to lose their stability. Who owns Onlysfan? Follow that trail and then come back to me and tell me if women still cont…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 08:40 PM
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I do agree we still have work to improve the equally and standard of society to appease both sexes and every gender but we have come a long way to see that things have gotten better yet people (some women and some men) hate these forms of progress. The reason can be a plethora of things however one thing for certain is that some folks don't like it because it doesn't give them any advantages or are too lazy to put in effort. OP is a perfect example of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 08:37 PM
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Women do not mature faster.. That is complete bull. There are lots of women out there who lack self independence, social skills and ambition just like men. Go talk to a 20 year old man and woman about what their goals, plans and responsibilities are as they move forward. Regardless of gender they both are probably going to have flaws in their ideas. Who ever came up with the idea that women mature faster doesn't really understand women in the first place. Society because it is heavily ruled on p…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 08:30 PM
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Wrong. The reason why men find it more interesting when someone does it for free is because it proves that they are enjoying themselves and shows that they are very confident. People who do it for money just like everything else when it comes to work related are probably doing it out of necessity and will find ways to maximize their profit and will lie to you to do so (capitalism is to make profit and any means and people hate being deceit so that is why so many guys have this disdain towards on…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 05:49 PM
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Are you serious? Instragram and facebook are the best indicators.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 07:14 AM
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Saying something doesn't mean that you believe in it. Ask them if they would date or marry a man who has engaged in homosexual behavior at some point in their life? Most would disagree. Nicest most relaxing people to hangout? How is that relevant? Also that is not true. You are assuming all gay people are nice and relaxing to hang out. There are also petty and malicious characters or people in that group too. Women are very as much as territorial as men when it comes to their inner circle such a…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 12:59 AM
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Both can be petty but women tend to be more petty and malicious towards others. Someone posted a statistic about how women come off more homophobic than men. Women tend to avoid a male who has engaged in homosexual behavior more than a man would towards a women. I am not judging them based as men being the default. I am just correctly the notion that women tend to be less competitive than men which is not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 12:55 AM
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This is true because women hate gay guys because they perceive them as competition. I brought this point a few times that the only reason women don't see straight ugly guys as a threat because they don't steal their Chads but if that were to happen oh those girls would be malicious towards them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 11:46 PM
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Not all women are like you. Instagram/social media is a perfect example. Look at who posts more for attention and recognition. Those likes mean a lot to them and people would use them to compare and contrast towards one another. It is crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 11:43 PM
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Yes they do. All the women in my family compete with each other in pettiness ways. The guys are more chill and supportive and I am talking about grown ass women with children some what. Women are by far more competitive and petty than men. Men compete for fun, women compete out of malice/attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 11:40 PM
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Stop being toxic. What is this post trying to promote? I swear many of you are a bunch of miserable fucks who circle jerk into the same arguments day in and day out. I am not a woman nor I don't go around having sex. I am somewhat an Incel because I am so lazy but I don't fault women for me not having sex. I just don't put any effort. I have decent relationships with both genders and I am social. Man half the shit I read on here is so stupid and you can tell people have no idea what they are tal…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 03:11 AM
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Yep. Vapers, Cigarette and drinkers are people you should avoid. Red Flags.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 02:38 AM
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Yes because that is a huge generation difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 02:28 AM
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Whatever the reason they lied it should not matter that much. It should not make you angry or emotional. If little things like that make him or them mad then when real adversities become present they will have a hard time dealing with them because this rejection fib situation is literally what children or highschools argue about. And they didn't lie about something that serious. Being rejected and even because of a lie isn't something you need to defend. So pathetic. People lie. I bet he/they li…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 11:20 PM
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They will find any dumb excuse to get angry when things don't go their way. Second point okay. Saying you need to go and leaving might be one way out. Yeah I notice and I can tell you are a narcissists. It is all good. These other situations seem more serious than being lie to on a rejection. If people can't do some simple compare and contrast on what situations seems heavier to deal with then maybe they should not be dating. Rejection is the excuse for their to let out their frustration and thr…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 09:44 PM
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Amen. This is a smart rebuttal.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 07:37 PM
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Corruption is such a cop out of an answer. You should. It affects you as woman. Do you care about Abortion laws? Do you care about women's rights to their own body? Again. This should be something you deeply care. What about gender equal pay? Or equal representation in both the public and private sector?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 07:06 PM
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It isn't a you = me. It goes into the whole tread and how most of the folks on here actually feel mainly fear and envy. Don't you wish we live in a matriarchy based society here in the USA. Wouldn't that be an interesting turn of events? How would social and cultural norms change for the better or for the worst?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 07:02 PM
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That is fair. Humans can be greedy so I don't get why many people on here pretend to give a damn about trying to make relationships better if we all know many of you don't follow what you preach. I keep hearing all these holier than thou about being the upmost standing person. Have confidence, look good, build your character etc. but many of you don't do that. Many of you are probably have terrible diets, substance abuse, have terrible listening or communication skills, live under the fear of be…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 06:57 PM
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Get off your high horse. People lie all the damn time. I bet you have lied too even the people closest to you. Focusing on the lieing aspect shows that you have zero understanding of the adult conversation people are having around the actual matter. Getting lied during a rejection isn't a big deal and people who make a big deal shows they won't have an easy time dealing with the real world. Stop preaching like you are some divine law biding person. It is so damn cringe. Have you ever lied? If so…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 06:32 PM
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I agree with this and I am a guy. No one is entitled to anything. I also believe a man is not entitled to pay on the first date. I wish we live in a matriarchy just to see how our society would function.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 06:23 PM
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Okay dude. The same way men are not entitled for the women to be honest with them. I understand that people want honesty but lets be honest here. I bet there were times when you lied or tweak the truth to prevent an awkward or terrible situation? I know I have. Who cares if they are not being honest about how they rejected you. This is so petty and immature. I am a dude and this seems very pathetic. I swear some people on here are very immature and focus on the stupidest smallest things than the…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 06:20 PM
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Yes it is. Women want security more than anything else. As much as I hate to agree but I think women would not stick around with an SO that is slowly building themselves up. They rather just find someone who is already at the finish line even if they themselves are no where near it. I am not talking about just Heterosexual relationships but even homosexual relationships among woman to woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 06:08 PM
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It goes both ways. Crazy people are everywhere and they don't have to be your Ex. Look at all the online videos of random people just snapping for the smallest dumbest reasons. Unhinged or tense people are not avoidable. As for the dangers part, well you need to look at people's red flags and be aware. You can never control the actions of others and even if you make a move or not the odds of them coming after you physically is still there regardless of your actions. You are never in control of e…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 05:50 PM
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You do you. As long as it is legal and there are no problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 12:05 AM
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