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Yeah I know. Read some of the “own your shit daily threads” in Reddit. You will see how they really talk and about “you”. They also do the Pavlovian conditioning which is different from dread game -so why he cuts convo short/abrumó you. Best of luck girl 🙏🏽
/r/ExRedPill30/11/23 03:43 PM
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Yes the making you jealous part is the dread game . Read the 12 steps of dread.
/r/ExRedPill30/11/23 06:45 AM
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I don’t think mine wanted to lose me either. Honestly sadly I think it was kind of the way he thought he would be able to keep me. Like I’d see him as the alpha he is and would never leave sort of thing. I don’t know honestly I took so long trying to sort out/through all the ideas to really comprehend what he was thinking every step of the way. And honestly I was just fing my own self up even more trying to sort i through it. Bottom line I don’t want to confused or scared in my relationship -and…
/r/ExRedPill30/11/23 02:35 AM
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Look into dread game and Pavlovian condition in marrow dredmpill. Also read some of the field reports in married red pill. Just to get an idea of what you may be actually dealing with under the surface/ie the parts he’s not actually saying to you may be worse thta what he is actually saying to you -depending on how deep in he is. Had to break up with my ex who turned RP-only I had no idea he was into it or what it even was until. I just feel him turning into someone else’s and I couldn’t underst…
/r/ExRedPill29/11/23 09:51 PM
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It’s very hard. Can’t imagine after 10 years with kids. Mine was hard after only shorter relationship but it happened I also had to leave in the end for my own well being. The egg shells threats etc, and seeing the reality of it happening and knowing you can’t change it. It’s a hard pill /reality to swallow -pun intended.
/r/ExRedPill30/10/23 07:12 PM
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It’s hard to watch that transition in someone and hard to be on receiving end of it . Sending 🙏🏽
/r/ExRedPill30/10/23 05:09 PM
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How are you handling this new dynamic in your relationship?
/r/ExRedPill30/10/23 06:03 AM
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Thank you 🙏🏽
/r/ExRedPill09/10/23 09:04 PM
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I’m willing to be wrong he was trp from the beginning. But too many things don’t align with Rp that he said to me in early days of the relationship and not to mention I’m 10 years older than him (which I think would’ve eliminated us dating for him to begin with if he was rp from the start. He also was super vulnerable and sweet about his feeling for me before we even kissed and said he wanted me to know a how he felt before even kissing and that he wanted something serios with me and didn’t want…
/r/ExRedPill09/10/23 01:49 AM
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🙏🏽 yes it was horrifying. Thank you for supportive words.
/r/ExRedPill07/10/23 08:04 PM
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Curious why /how RP ruined your life -what aspects specifically? It seems like there’s more you’re trying to understand/ask but without saying too much-so just wondered.
/r/ExRedPill07/10/23 06:22 AM
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Good to know -that was probably added to the list of my Rp ex that I didn’t even know. The list keeps getting bigger of of how I see he’s been weeding me out for months when I thought he was trying to understand /know me.
/r/ExRedPill06/10/23 09:53 PM
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If he’s red pill he won’t agree to being friends. The fact hes saying “give me a headache” he’s probably referring to your duty is to be supportive and “not give him a headaches” depending on what he’s watching leaning into. The irony is they are the ones likely causing the headaches with demanding/angry energy that leaves the other person caught off gaurd and confused. Look at married red pill. He may start doing dread game (make you fear losing the realtionship threaten to break up /make you j…
/r/ExRedPill06/10/23 09:49 PM
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Same -know how you feel. I’m 7 months post breakup with similar situation. We weren’t together as long but it was traumatizing nonetheless. Mostly becuae i had no idea where it was coming from (knew nothing of him being into RP Andrew Tate fresh and fit until a couple of weeks before we broke up. But I was so confused before that by slow but drastic at the same time changes and 180 of behavior-the kind of constant critical eye (thinking I’m looking at other men etc) and paranoid thinking as well…
/r/ExRedPill16/09/23 08:57 AM
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My pleasure -definitely do not want to cause any discordant feelings for anyone. 🙏🏽
/r/ExRedPill05/09/23 02:12 AM
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Apologies, I didn’t mean to offend or assume or regurgitate the “all women” idea either or speak for all women ( parenthesis is my preference but should have framed it more that way you’re right). Definitely each has their own preference of what they are looking and has to be worked out through conversations / agreements made in each relationship to navigate those dynamics-and yeah assumptions do like of lead to those kinds of conflicts in relationships so thank you for pointing that out so I ca…
/r/ExRedPill05/09/23 12:06 AM
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Agree, and at the same time-to some degree both are victims. At least in my case I see it this way. He became a victim to “this is what women secretly want -to be dominated” (as one commentator in this thread mentioned earlier ) and want men who are ahole with IDGAF attitude because it’s attractive idea, and woman becomes victim to the behaviors that come from that idea. The reason it becomes pervasive is that there are some truths to the basic principles. I do believe women like strong men who …
/r/ExRedPill04/09/23 06:22 PM
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Glad you have worked through and found someone to share your life with. Yes I agree with a healthy sense of interdependence (and both wanting to maintain individuality as well as have interdependiente in the relationship is best). It was pretty shocking to watch him 180 on so many things - and even if he seemed pretty healthy in the beginning (ie wanting to talk through our differences i. Healthy way and go to therapy) and seemed to be wanting a healthy relationship ship in the beginning-there i…
/r/ExRedPill04/09/23 09:20 AM
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Thank you for kind words. Actually what made this a little more traumatizing is that I have spent years studying healthy relationships and healthy masculine /feminine energies and also worked in mental health coaching DV victims (which I think was why I was able to recognize his early abuse -ie devaluing and withdrawal of affection punitive behaviors)-which I verbalized -to his denial. And in the early “love bombing” stage I did express to him some concern of feeling it was too much at times and…
/r/ExRedPill04/09/23 08:48 AM
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Yeah exactly. he will brag about wining you over with tactics -or will blame you as being like all women who leave if you actually leave. It’s a no win situation either way-but better it be no win for him than you completely losing yourself in his delusional mind game.
/r/ExRedPill04/09/23 06:53 AM
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I hate to say this-becusee I really am not one to just not try to work through difficulties in a relationship-but it is probably best if you leave before it gets worse. Sorry this is so long. . I recently got out of a relationship with a man who turned rp in the course of our relationship. He went from my best friend before we were together-super sweet relaxed and accepting and always patient and kind even when telling me hard things or being honest about something difficult and we were talking …
/r/ExRedPill04/09/23 05:21 AM
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