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Some forms of ADHD are a red flag then for me, if it makes the relationship dysfunctional over time. Also, r/hoarding can be seen as a mental health issue on its own, but doesn't make it any better in the end.
/r/MensRights12/01/25 07:30 AM
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For one, any habits which show she doesn't consider the space, needs, and perspective of others. Like constantly leaving items, bags and clothes in places where they clearly shouldn't be, as in a doorway or on the stove. It suffocates you slowly with annoyance and comes across as you being argumentative or controlling having to point things out. Clearly I should have paid more attention early to the hoarding, compulsive shopping and lack of organizing skills. I found myself in a jungle of unnece…
/r/MensRights12/01/25 06:23 AM
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Thank you for sharing your support. I believe we as humans develop male and feminine qualities and features naturally, together with our core personality from birth on. That's just who we are and what we become and the environment just adds to it. Hence we shouldn't shame one another but be supportive to our development instead. There are too many forces striving on alienation, conflict, sexism and endless division unfortunately. Sometimes it's just for the attention in media and politics, I sug…
/r/MensRights09/01/25 12:10 PM
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Some key passages from the article worth reading: The Australian feminist Bettina Arndt, in her recent book #MenToo, also argues that radical feminism, where men are presented as violent and sexist, is guilty of manshaming and destroying what should be a bond of mutual acceptance and respect between the sexes. In her essay titled "The demonisation of men – our anti-male society", Arndt makes the point that in society, media and the law there is a pervasive “anti-male bias” – a bias that in areas…
/r/MensRights09/01/25 11:48 AM
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Quoting: Two Louisiana high school students have been charged with fabricating “inappropriate messages” they claimed were sent to them by a teacher to frame him as a sexual predator. The Lafourche Parish Sheriff’s Office said they launched an investigation on Dec. 18 after two female students at Central Lafourche High School in Mathews — about 45 miles southwest of New Orleans –claimed an unidentified male teacher had sent them X-rated messages. However, a two-week-long investigation soon reveal…
/r/MensRights09/01/25 04:54 AM
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I think it's a good takeaway for people who are still in the game, even though it's not an entirely new principle to me
/r/MensRights05/01/25 07:39 AM
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Good thing
/r/MensRights02/01/25 01:46 PM
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Well noted. That's abhorrent, like fighting tooth and nail to frame women as vulnerable and victims.
/r/MensRights02/01/25 12:55 AM
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Very noteworthy response from the x thread (Link): 4 times divorced. Let's walk through what we're dealing with here: Only the first guy gets a pass...although with that attitude on this woman... he barely gets a pass. Mr. Magoo could see what she is, but let's be fair. She was young and probably hot. He was probably the first to give her a kid also The second guy knew exactly what she was and he dove right in. Maybe she told him a sob story about how bad her ex was. Frankly, I doubt most men ne…
/r/MensRights31/12/24 03:12 AM
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If all men suddenly resorted to dating escorts only, feminist politicians would find a way to have them hand over their income and assets too.
/r/MensRights27/12/24 09:34 PM
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Well, I hate AI voice overs (and this robotic woman voice in particular) like nothing else, but this topic has something to it. I didn't know this policy existed before.
/r/MensRights27/12/24 09:07 PM
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I'm glad being a guy means I am probably much less entangled in superficial relationships, social settings and the latest craze around beauty/food/health/people and that's accepted.Women of all ages are an immensely targeted group for advertising, product development and social agenda setting.
/r/MensRights27/12/24 04:25 PM
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Agree on that, could rather say the way he had been socialized.
/r/MensRights25/12/24 08:11 PM
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"Because I have a feeling that if that were to happen, reddit would have turned Luigi into a misogynist, who can't handle seeing a woman in power." - That's not just a hunch, you are right on the money. We would be discussing "femicide" instead, or worse. I also believe that Luigi, coming from a civil and Italian-European family, would not have killed a female CEO.
/r/MensRights25/12/24 05:15 PM
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Time for you to learn about Adverse Inference and forced Encryption Key Disclosure in UK law.
/r/MensRights18/12/24 03:55 PM
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"If that young girl (the alleged victim) had been put before the court, a barrister would have eaten her for dinner." Yet we don't see the name of the wrongfully accusing girl being circulated anywhere, as that could cause some harm and distress, wouldn't it? Further, the victim's relatives are even preoccupying themselves with concern for assault cases not being brought for fears of the presumed victim being disregarded. So kind!
/r/MensRights18/12/24 12:49 PM
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Last time I read about this, she also presumably said "you're next" on top of it. That within the context of what she referred to with the three words was a threatening statement.
/r/MensRights17/12/24 12:01 PM
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Not "being without a father" includes a fair chance to parental rights, visitation, and shared custody, and protections thereof including holding the single mother accountable.
/r/MensRights16/12/24 01:19 AM
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I'm also puzzled why cheating seemed to be the only option for her in that scenario. 5 years without intimacy? Were they married? Seems like a questionable story, but the public responses are what we're talking about.
/r/MensRights15/12/24 09:43 PM
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You are right with that. A woman cheats, it's generally ascribed to the circumstances, or she is given no agency because her feelings in the moment matter more, or the influence of alcohol did it, something must have been missing in the relationship, the guy was just a loser anyway, you name it. The guy who cheats, though, is not deserving of being with another woman ever again, he's basically a sex offender now. Then again, some of the more attractive/popular guys are given a lot of leeway to b…
/r/MensRights15/12/24 09:18 PM
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Also this: Charlotte Proudman, who has represented many parents accused of parental alienation, said it was a "great step forward". The charity Women's Aid said it was "a positive step in the right direction". Given the practice of family law, this is entirely pro-woman. The alienating behavior already starts with the female ex-partner withholding the children legally and practically, estranging the kid effectively. Then comes the rationalisation: "Why can't I spend more time with dad?" - "Becau…
/r/MensRights14/12/24 07:17 PM
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Did you even read the article? "The father had the right to contact with the children, supervised at first, but three years later, the father came to court saying contact between him and the children had broken down. A psychologist, Melanie Gill, was asked to provide a "global assessment" of the family, which she filed in 2022. She said the mother had unconsciously turned the two secondary school-age children against their father, something which the father seized on."
/r/MensRights14/12/24 06:09 PM
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Wednesday's report from the advisory Family Justice Council says "despite the lack of research evidence, and international condemnation, reference is still made to the discredited concept of 'parental alienation syndrome'." This is the idea that children show a recognisable pattern of behaviours if they have been manipulated by one parent against the other. The guidance describes this as a "harmful pseudo science". Hint: The "pseudo science" lies in the guidance's commentary itself.
/r/MensRights14/12/24 06:05 PM
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Yes, these exist. You'd end up wondering why she doesn't love you anymore while abusing every day and letting you down until the answer becomes obvious: she never did and used you from the start for children and financial obligations. So first test how much she truly cares for and accepts your personhood and separateness, and if she can take any blame/responsibility ever when you fight. If not, it's just toxic/narcissistic and not worth it.
/r/MensRights14/12/24 11:57 AM
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I personally use it a lot (pondering topics for myself). Mainly the essay-like setup and the structure with bullet points, summary and suggestions. Take one of my reflections with GPT the other day for example: https://chatgpt.com/share/675d6632-7c3c-8000-8688-a9671db93216
/r/MensRights14/12/24 11:05 AM
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OPs post is all ChatGPT
/r/MensRights14/12/24 05:05 AM
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So what do you suggest doing if the head of a bordering realm decided to invade your homeland, wiping out towns and people in the process? Wars do not always start as a mutually caused contest of some phony brick heads, as the dollar store pacifist implies, and even if it were, you'd be facing the same dilemma for your livelihood.
/r/MensRights07/12/24 10:11 AM
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Ultimately, despite the Marxist rhetoric about "the elite" you bring, tribes, communities and nations need to be able to fight and defend themselves, because acts of aggression and conflicts over land and resources have always existed. Therefore, if it comes down to the question "are you willing to defend the livelihood and freedom of your family and loved ones?", there will always be a need for fighters. Modern armies and warfare in the system of industrial nation states is just the contemporar…
/r/MensRights07/12/24 04:07 AM
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Do it, please. Report back
/r/MensRights24/11/24 04:12 PM
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Right now, got nothing to add, very good collection of facts and arguments on this issue.
/r/MensRights23/11/24 06:12 AM
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As you mention the cancellation of F1 grid girls for an example, it occurs to me how performative feminism resembles a cult of puritanism with the central tenet of "sex = bad". There are many cults of puritanism out there currently, like the veganism movement, and they all carry a big deal of self-righteousness and virtue signalling and being hypercritical in a Marxist way. In the end they lead people into a pit where they can't be happy with life or with themselves. About the radicalization and…
/r/MensRights20/11/24 02:03 PM
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We see a troubling trend in aggressive car posing and boy racing (along with road rage), but the issue is a culture shift brought on by a rise in a rather reckless and maladapted demographic as well. As we are not supposed to mention it, and rarely allow ourselves to speak of harsher rules and punishment (except for placebo/alibi issues, where politicians allow themselves to act tough), calls like going against all men are ironically easier to bring forth.
/r/MensRights13/11/24 06:31 PM
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Sounds like the infinite downvote glitch
/r/MensRights13/11/24 06:12 PM
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Emergency! Paging Doctor Beat, Emergency!
/r/MensRights11/11/24 07:25 PM
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The extremist, hostile feminism with their mindset (including shameless bigotry/narcissism and constant victim narrative at the expense of men's potential and well-being) is a circle jerk playing out in media, politics and academia that we have been seeing unfold and being perpetuated for far too long. It is deeply embedded within left contemporary narrative of what the political issues of our times supposedly are and it does take a bold shift within our system and culture to counteract that. I …
/r/MensRights11/11/24 03:51 AM
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All good, nice convo!
/r/MensRights10/11/24 05:58 PM
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Thanks for adding your experience. I agree that ultimately, the adults should know better, be responsible and uphold the boundaries. On another note, I don't think you can sign up for dating/meetup apps being under 18, as in your case, but that's what horny does. I remember having regular "crushes", vibing with and fantasizing about the adult women throughout my day, some teachers, remote friends, staff at the halls, the typical nurse at the clinic, you name it, when I was between 14-18 years. I…
/r/MensRights10/11/24 05:14 PM
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I suppose there is a double standard in condemning men and women to a different extent in such cases. Nonetheless, I'm not condoning or justifying any of that. Like, an adolescent son "scoring" with his adult teacher, vs. the daughter having been exploited and solicited, would be the difference in public view. Maybe others see it differently, but it's a scary subject. Better to live in a world where there is a clear legal and moral boundary, because such affairs on the regular erode a trustworth…
/r/MensRights10/11/24 04:14 PM
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To be honest, remembering the horny 15 year old that I have been, I would tried to make this work if I had been into her. Just a thing of keeping this a secret for 3 years, especially with the parents. But imagine the genders had been reversed in that scenario though.
/r/MensRights10/11/24 03:31 AM
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In most modern western countries you'll find who disproportionately ends up in the labor intensive, high risk jobs with trade-grade pay, and who you'll find doing the skilled and academic pay grade work in the offices. But remember, a couple of men in management still is a sign of oppression, patriarchy and the pay gap - got it!
/r/MensRights08/11/24 04:56 PM
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That's very interesting and a good thing, thanks for sharing
/r/MensRights08/11/24 04:50 PM
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At least in Germany, the social system compensates for times of childcare in terms of benefits and pension payouts, even alimony settlements after divorce. And still leftist-feminist media here brings up "gender pay gap" on the regular to beat the horse of oppression and patriarchy.
/r/MensRights08/11/24 04:48 PM
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If you've been paying any attention to the campaigns or at least to the last two terms with a Democratic and Republican white house, there obviously are political differences and programs other than calling it a "clown show" or just attacking each other. Take medicare, international affairs, voting rights, and the "anti-woke" culture war sentiment for example, which translated into abortion banning and banning of books even. There is just no both-siding this in a believable manner to anyone who …
/r/MensRights07/11/24 01:03 AM
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This is a common experience for men being the minority among women on the same level. The gossip, conflict and outcasting cannot be avoided. But who is addressing this and standing up for men's safety and well-being in corporate, media and politics?
/r/MensRights06/11/24 10:14 PM
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I think by both-siding the campaigns as a "clown show", he gave himself away as trump-leaning or at least tolerating. But that shouldn't matter, he should have avoided the topic altogether if OP wants to stay under the radar. An accountancy department full of stable, cozy, skilled, part-time eligible office jobs primarily staffed with women banding together is the epitome of male disadvantage in the job market. Their team lead or C-suite representative may be a man, and that's enough for them to…
/r/MensRights06/11/24 10:07 PM
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That's where I'm going
/r/MensRights04/11/24 08:30 PM
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And if it "doesn't happen that much", it must be very exceptional, which means, that the case and the "reasons" of the woman need to be considered very carefully before forming any judgement...
/r/MensRights04/11/24 05:27 PM
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What?
/r/MensRights12/10/24 03:03 PM
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The thing is, I'm not about seeking out enemies, but accepting reality. I myself have been too naive a couple of times. There are only some scenarios chatting with a woman I consider safe, they involve having common friends and family, or having a setting where nothing can be made up. It's the most dangerous when you think you know and can trust each other, but you aren't actually friends (yet).
/r/MensRights12/10/24 02:59 PM
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All it takes is one random, personal interaction with a female in a public or private context where she doesn't like you and she thinks she can get away with talking shit about you, from minor inconveniences ("such a stalker/creep") up to more serious allegations.
/r/MensRights12/10/24 02:44 PM
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Social power and privilege is the point, regardless of inconsistencies. Modern western feminism has become a strange way of having your cake and eating it too, with nowhere to stop with the bigotry and victimhood.
/r/MensRights28/09/24 07:08 AM
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The palestine bots are just everywhere.
/r/MensRights03/09/24 08:15 PM
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Sometimes it's justified like here due to massive risk and abuse. However, too often feminist and single-mother advocates will pick such stories to advocate against fathers in general and purport parental alienation, to say, the sole control of the mother as "the better parent" in all cases. And we shall not forget the capabilities to manipulate other and push out hyped-up allegations of female covert narcissist - deeply insecure people who thrive on control.
/r/MensRights02/09/24 11:53 AM
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Devision, conflict, extremes, and everything sex sells in the media and discursive space. Normalcy and sense aren't as valuable.
/r/MensRights10/08/24 09:07 AM
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Rather, piggy-backing the top comment to talk about the post. But I agreed and expanded on the "capitalism 101" here.
/r/MensRights07/08/24 11:29 AM
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Then I guess, from a merely consumerist viewpoint, I find the whole framing of gender-specific markups as "tax" absolutely nonsensical. In the capitalist world we live in, everything from the cradle to grave is being crafted by product designing and marketing management to people, including solutions to problems and attitudes the system creates. Not everything is bad though.
/r/MensRights07/08/24 11:11 AM
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Fitness and Sports Equipment: There is also a benefit for your general health and well-being. You should see it that way. Yet, going to a gym just to meet up to masculine expectations doesn't make you a victim of society. "Vehicles marketed as muscle cars or those emphasizing power and performance often come with hefty price tags." ...Well, no shit! Just don't be a victim of toxic masculine stereotypes and "must haves". Buy what you can af/ford and what makes you happy personally. Tools and Hard…
/r/MensRights07/08/24 10:42 AM
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If anything, it might be the other way around: "you go girl, it's okay to break up and live your life, don't chain yourself to misery", are the voices I'm talking about. But that's just a generalisation and a guess. I know both men women who cared a lot about their partners, even with mental health involved.
/r/MensRights08/07/24 09:56 PM
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Didn't say otherwise or disagree. You've been asking and that's my theory on how such things happen other than force enticement. Nevertheless, I don't know what happened in this case.
/r/MensRights18/05/24 01:55 PM
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Girls in puberty have crushes, so it's not unthinkable that there was chemistry/attraction involved in their affair, irresponsible though. A celebrity getting involved with fangirl minors is similar to me legally and morally, and not the same as being forced or coerced.
/r/MensRights17/05/24 12:19 PM
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