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This is also the reason why i HATE when people blame women for "choosing" shit fathers, when discussing single mothers or situations where the woman is dealing with an absent/deadbeat father to their children. Often times men don't show how LV they are until it is too late. Many women choose what seem to be lovely, attentive partners. It is only when the baby becomes a reality (i.e. when they actually face hard work and experience how overwhelming it can be) that they show their true colours. An…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 12:55 PM
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In my country nobody uses text messages anymore, all communication is through whatsapp. I would find it extremely weird if someone insisted we do not use whatsapp to communicate. So im guessing it varies. Or i am the side chick to literally every person I know...lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 07:13 PM
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Give it time i guess. I have the same thing. But i keep reminding myself that it is the relationship it could have been that I'm reminiscing about, not the actual relationship we had in reality. Its the way he made me feel in the good times that i am missing, not the way he actually treated me. You're missing intimacy, and the feeling of being loved by someone else, not necessarily him as a person. You deserve better than someone who cheated on you. Take peace in having walked away from that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 09:41 PM
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I think the majority of which are related to publishing/distributing the photos/videos. This guy showed them, which could mean just showing his own phone pics, which cant be traced in the same way publishing or sharing can.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 08:32 PM
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I love shallon too! Some of her advice is..... questionable-at best; and some of her stories are clearly from her own imagination, but bless her, she has a good heart and a lot of what she preaches is correct, and her overall message is sound. I love her!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 11:09 AM
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You probably will feel shitty tomorrow (been there, done that) But push through it. Will all be worth it! Well done! x
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 12:57 PM
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Yep, there is a lot to be said for calm, peace of mind. Best of luck xxx
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 11:38 AM
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A lesson is sometimes best learned the hard way. You got all the "what ifs" out of your system and can close that chapter now. Can you tell I'm speaking from experience lol, i got the what ifs out of my system way too many times! From someone else who made the same mistake and is still healing- i wish you all the peace and happiness. I finished my post grad soon after we broke up- first class honour- you will feel so proud having done it without him! Keep your chin up and your eyes on the prize,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 12:17 AM
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Yeah i remember saying to someone how abusive the main guy is in 50 shades and they were like "no its all consensual, some people like that domination stuff". Like no girl, I am not referring to the sex. The emotional abuse and manipulation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 02:23 PM
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Sometimes those who give the best advice aren't the best at actually taking their own advice. I know this because i am the same. I will rant and rave at my friends about how they deserve better, meanwhile i am still hung up on a POS. I'd bet my house she knows he is wrong for her and knows deep down what she should do, her heart just wont let her. Yet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 08:26 PM
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I mean this without any judgement, and im not sticking up for them if they say it in a rude way, but if you're wearing coloured contacts and your eyes look as if they may not be a natural colour, then its probably not meant to be an insult if they ask about it. Moreso that your eyes look dramatic/interesting. My hair is fairly long at the moment and people ask if its real or if its extensions, its not meant as an insult, they are just curious as so many people have extensions. I understand that …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 12:31 PM
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This is funny to me because when i was with my ex i got a really nasty cold, so much so i missed work. He had offered to bring me medicine and stuff but i said no that i had some. We were texting later and he asked "what are you wearing?" Now in fairness to him, he hadn't seen just how bad a cold it was but like all colds are shit, you never feel in the mood for sex chat. I just responded "im gonna assume you're asking for my well being, hoping I'm wrapped up warm". It wasn't an issue at the tim…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 06:46 PM
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Its really tough. I've been there. But as others have said already. Don't claw your way out of the well only to jump back in again. You will be strong enough to stand up to both your family and him, just keep working on yourself. You deserve to be at peace, and he clearly doesn't offer you peace.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 09:26 PM
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If it makes you feel any better, he probably still thinks (knows?) that if he asked you back tomorrow you'd be straight back to giving him chances, or at least hearing him out. So of course he is fine with you "ending" things, you've shown him in the past that endings mean nothing. Its only when he sees you moving on and ignoring him completely that he'll start to panic and then he'll probably come running back. Thats gonna be the hard part for you, ignoring him when he does.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 09:05 PM
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This is the truth. I hate people blaming women for "choosing" pos fathers when often times, the men just chose to be shit fathers- but only once they realise how difficult a baby/child is. Many of them are involved in the pregnancy, treat the woman like a queen, help do the nursery, and are wonderful when the baby is newborn and things are all new and cute, when friends and family are around to gush over how cute he is holding the baby. The second all that stops and its just him and a crying bab…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/19 10:48 AM
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