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I haven't had a crush or daydreamed on a man since I started taking things they do or say as if they're always intentional. No benefit of the doubt, no wondering "what if (this)?" Most liberated I've ever felt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/22 04:08 PM
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You don't need to stay with this guy because he's helped you out in the past. He clearly didn't respect you, or take your side, in front of people he doesn't even consider 'friends.' I'm so sorry you felt alone in this instance. Sometimes our own gut feeling is the only thing we can trust.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 09:49 PM
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Long term hormonal BC use is also known to cause liver cancer, and put us at increased risk of heart attack & strokes, etc. so fuck your life, scrotes! Men act like women can take this one small pill daily "no big deal," everything is magically fine and she will never get pregnant, which is also untrue.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 09:43 PM
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Emotional damage
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 04:31 PM
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Men do this because they don't want to be bothered to learn our names, it's disrespectful. They would never do this to another man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 05:07 PM
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Literally, same. First casual encounter I had out of a 10 year relationship and I was naive, got a STI. I was ashamed of myself for being stupid, but really woke me up to how not worth it casual sex is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 06:00 PM
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I'm celibate as well, and will be until I find a worthy, invested, and giving partner to make me orgasm. I realized a few months ago that I had actually never orgasmed from a casual encounter and only ever within the two long term relationships I've had. "Casual" sex is not worth it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 05:51 PM
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Yeah...they're married now. This is fucked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 10:17 PM
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There are several red flags here already, and you definitely don't know that new guy is 'high value.' In fact he sounds potentially abusive considering he's significantly older than you (power imbalance) and "wants to see [you] every day" which comes off very controlling already. So, how long should you give it? Not another day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 06:45 PM
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This is so cute! I'm finally getting to this mindset, and also happy cake day!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 02:30 AM
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Learned my lesson in community dick in early 2021. I had gotten out of an abusive LTR at the end of 2020 and was craving intimacy from a sexual partner. Or so I thought. Got my first (and last) STI from said community dick, found this sub, and drop ghosted the guy. I'm lucky it wasn't a forever STI and was easily treated. I did my due diligence in telling him, but I'm sure he's out there infecting other unsuspecting women. Fuckbois for never 👎
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 09:27 PM
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@ModernWarrior @Chrystheauthor @domesticblisters @underthedesknews @hankgreen1 @devriebrynn @drewafualo @toriphantom Some of my favorites.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 03:39 PM
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"Didn't your mom tell you where to find it" Lol this reminds me of an encounter a few years ago, as a 29yo homeowner. This tree cutting guy comes by to ask if we're interested in their services but first asks "if my parents are home." I said probably, but they don't live here. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 04:52 PM
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I'm sick of seeing this too, especially considering women are expected to simp all the time in their relationships. Oh you couldn't put your dirty shit boxers in the laundry? I'll do it for you honey. And I'll be sure to suck your dick too so you know I love you 🤮🤮🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 02:56 PM
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Ok wait wait, is the "liking one wipe poops" thing because he expects his bangmaid mommy to wipe his ass????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 06:34 PM
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"Dad body without the kids" energy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 06:32 PM
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You don't need to analyze this guy any further. Host of red flags: you paid for his breakfast? All day walk date? 3000$ for a dating coach? Asked you out the same day for a "date" the next day? You already listed a ton of reasons to next him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 06:30 PM
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Or it's "are you going to pay your dog more attention than muh peepee???"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 09:53 PM
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Thank you for this post! My sadboi narc NVX hit every single point on this list. I can't believe I was so naive, I wish I had found this sub and more like minded women sooner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 03:38 PM
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It's safe to say this guy doesn't actually like women and their anatomy. He just wanted to stick his 🍤 in something.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 03:36 PM
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Same! Everyone made fun of me growing up because I said he is my favorite actor, but he's an even better person 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 02:47 PM
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The OA is a seriously genius piece of television 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 02:05 PM
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Normalize not giving men the 'benefit of the doubt,' hold them accountable. It's past time to raise the fking bar.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 04:15 PM
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BRB, charging my vibrator 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/21 10:16 PM
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Handbook this please, Mods!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 04:03 PM
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Second moving the evidence to somewhere less visible (and backed up). I keep mine in my hidden folder and even forgot about it once. Definitely do not delete it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 03:36 PM
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I don't think we individually need to fight every fight that comes our way. You're tired and just trying to make it through the day with work. If that's all you can handle right now, then be confident in that. When the time comes (if it does) and you have the energy to take this to HR, then you will. Honestly, if you had retorted it probably would've just spurred the LVM into further innuendos. Keep on, sis 💪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 08:23 PM
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Ha! No TP at all. If they had to have a bowel movement they left the house and went down the street to the university (this is while they were all students there).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 05:36 PM
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Ew. Reminds me of a former male acquaintance who lived a bunch of other dudes and they didn't keep toilet paper around. So that all the women they invited over wouldn't stay the night. How is this a flex? Guarantee anyone they initially invited over never came back because of this and also they were all single BWAHAHAHA.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 04:24 PM
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This happened to my grandma. Three different times. When we, her family, tried to tell her these "men" were scamming her she didn't want to listen. Had written checks to them totaling $30,000, and she's retired with only savings and social security as income. It was heartbreaking, but my parents had to take control of her finances through power of attorney to keep her from writing more checks to fake oil rig workers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 02:49 AM
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Handbook material. I had a similar experience with my NVX's family expectations, he never wanted to make an effort with mine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 04:58 PM
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Yes, thank you! Just another way men try to make women feel abnormal & inferior. Scrotes think sexuality = personality 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 01:20 PM
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How is the patriarchy beneficial to women though? Isn't this sub about maximum female benefit?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 08:05 PM
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Another curly girl, hey 👋 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 08:19 PM
127

2nd amendment supporter, must love guns
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 07:41 PM
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It's ringing bells with that "financial infidelity" post
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 02:23 PM
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That is deranged.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 12:44 AM
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They only suck the labia.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 02:41 AM
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Right?? How much free time do they really have to be maintaining multiple relationships? Maybe start with actively parenting your kids and get some fucking hobbies. I seriously think only people absolutely desperate for external validation are the ones involved in Poly/"ENM" relationships.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 01:21 PM
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If you're not going to change your number, though, best not to engage. He texts you from random number? Block and delete that one, no response. Drives scrotes mad and keeps your peace from not having to interact.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 05:23 PM
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Her 'advice' does not benefit women. She's says it's "totally normal" for her to not get what she wants and that her boyfriend is "doing it for her." Doing what exactly, sis?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 11:27 PM
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Wow...their penises are that limp?!? JK I'm not surprised
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 10:29 PM
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I would expand on that point that you literally CANNOT be supporting someone if you're allowing their poor behavior to slide. I'm in pickme recovery ladies, so I need your reminders. Thank you 🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 05:48 PM
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I totally agree, there's no way I'd trust someone else with my fertility. It's still infuriating that the option doesn't yet exist in the market.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 05:41 PM
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Men can't get pregnant so they just don't fucking care. And male BC has been "in development" since the 1970s. Two ENTIRE generations ago 🤯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 11:39 PM
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"If I wanted your opinion, I'd give it to you." totally using that one in the future 🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 05:28 PM
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☠️☠️ at "popped out from behind a tree!" I was browsing THAT sub last night, briefly because it was so cringe, and a post from this LVM: field report. Guy had to cold approach at least one woman every day before he allowed himself to go to sleep. 11PM and hadn't "approached" a random woman yet? Can't sleep MUST HARASS!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 07:39 PM
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It's on Moms to make sure their sons send in transcripts, JFC 🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 10:32 PM
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Mine was when NVX drunkenly self harmed and said "Look at what YOU did to me!" I was sober and finally had the clarity that, no matter what I did or didn't do, he would find a way to blame me for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 05:50 PM
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Thank you 💜💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 07:14 PM
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It took me months to delete photos, messages, etc. When I finally did it I wondered why I had waited so long.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 07:14 PM
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Wait thought of a better one, ask me what I 'bring to the table' 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 07:29 PM
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Neg to give me a reality check since he's out of my league obvi
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 05:25 PM
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Nah, it smells pretty bad. Just got used to it 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 01:00 PM
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The two days was WAY harder than I thought it would be!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 12:59 PM
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Absolutely. Dude's an idiot for going this far into debt, but the system is totally messed to allow someone to borrow this much plus interest 🤯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/21 12:51 AM
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Dude must've idolized step brothers...god damned bathmat 😷
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/21 12:45 AM
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But if you ask them "why do you 'love' him?" They can't answer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/21 12:23 AM
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Not washing their hands with soap and water 🤢 Should be freaking basic but I'm surprised by the amount of dudes who think they can touch their dicks without washing up afterwards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 09:17 PM
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Lying is disrespectful. Choose peace & growth by not letting men disrespect you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 07:44 PM
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This response is giving me life! I need you around whenever a pining thought, however brief it may be, comes into my head 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 07:44 PM
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She will be chewed up and swallowed by this King
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 03:06 AM
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Yeesh, I was hoping this was "FDS humor" instead of an actual profile 🤢🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 08:14 PM
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The vibes are immaculate 💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 06:35 PM
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Yeah, does she think it's a flex to sleep with a bunch of nasty dudes?? 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 04:10 PM
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Great post, thank you for taking the time to break this down! Will definitely check out the easy vanguard option!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 10:40 PM
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Can say all of these things were true about my depressed NVX. I spent years trying to get him to therapy and visit a doctor for anxiety treatment 🤡 When I finally saved enough money to move out and stopped enabling his behavior I felt so much relief and peace. Anyone I'd date in the future would need to be in therapy or have done the work to heal their traumas.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 04:33 PM
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You've made many valid points, and I do agree with you that usually MD/DO healthcare providers are of higher value because of their formal training and knowledge. I also had a valid experience where that wasn't the case and think it's important to let others know that it's possible to have a high value experience with NP.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 05:58 PM
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My main point that I should've expressed more clearly is that we should be wary of all types of healthcare providers and do our own research when possible. I feel that too often patients think they just have to trust in medical providers because we don't have the same training they do. It's a precarious situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 05:13 PM
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I understand NPs, and similar, have less formal education. And I made sure to express that this was my personal experience. I just don't think you can discount all physicians who aren't MD or say that all NP provide substandard service.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 05:11 PM
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In my case the NP wasn't less educated or knowledgeable. I had better, not substandard, service with them 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 03:58 PM
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In general I agree always a female doc and MD when situations are complicated. I've had an amazing experience with a NP though, who became my PCP. She was the one to order tests for an autoimmune disease meanwhile the MD specialist (male) continued to misdiagnose me even with my test results SHOWING I HAVE AUTOIMMUNE ANTIBODIES and suggest ineffective treatment plans.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 03:29 PM
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LVM are the least creative bunch out there. I don't care if no one wants to have sex with me because sex isn't even top 5 most important things in my life. But it's sure #1 for scrotes. The more they project, the more my eyes open to their bullshit behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 02:13 PM
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Typical LV behavior: "you were supposed to stay, because pRomIseS, while we all abused and used you!" NOT THE ASSHOLE. Will and his kids certainly are though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 12:39 AM
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I'm just a woman, asking to be flaired please 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 07:27 PM
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I'll be honest, I see this as Bare Minimum behavior. Like if your partner isn't doing these things it's a problem. He's also not "helping" with anything. It's his home too and he should be taking care of it. It's still nice to hear that there are male contributors out there 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 06:12 PM
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I've seen too much "women need to care more about men and do better by them" for today on Reddit. I'm exhausted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 11:43 PM
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Females (because I'm including both girls and women) are taught to ignore their instincts for the benefit of men, from a very young age. Good on you for listening to yourself, I wish I had done this at an earlier age. Your safety is the most important thing 💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 06:33 PM
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I was at a baseball game for a work event recently and several men sitting behind me were discussing creepy older men. "These guys must not realize the girls they're lusting over are 14." 🤢🤬 Yes, they do. And it's fucking wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 05:18 PM
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I am a single mother, and I would not date a single father 😬 seeing as how it took me years to leave my own NVX I have a feeling I know how a single father ended up that way. I also wouldn't expect someone who is currently child free to date me, a single mom. I'm so freaking tired of a few basic standards being viewed as unacceptable: child status, height (because it's a problem for men), and dick size.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 05:07 PM
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I don't mind seeing maybe 2-3 examples every Friday, but last week I had to scroll through many to get to other posts. Also, I'd prefer the examples be more selective 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 12:11 AM
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Yeah, good call. It was getting to be too much 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 11:24 PM
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I don't have a single HVM in my life. Also doubt I've ever met one, it's really disheartening.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 01:41 PM
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