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Yeah this is what I think. I think you fall into 3 category’s. Very good looking 8-10 or a “chad/Stacy”. 5-7 “normie to high tier normie”. 1-4 which is “sub 5/incel”. Basically there is some differences in opinion from people. Like a 5 might be a 7 to one girl because he has blonde hair and blue eyes and she has a big thing for that, but at the end of the day he is still an average/above average guy that will never be a “chad”,. Probably 90% of women will agree that he falls somewhere between 5-…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 07:14 AM
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As someone who isn’t an ugly/ or short man. Ugly to average tier men aren’t offended that “hot” women don’t want to date them (at least the ones I’ve seen). They’re offended that women on their looks level have increasingly become delusional with their expectations of they want out of a man when they’re not really in a position to demand it. There are 4/10 women brutally rejecting 5/10 guys because they feel entitled to higher tier men because of online dating and the way the modern dating marke…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 06:37 AM
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No I understand what you’re saying. I personally don’t view it that way but can’t deny it’s pretty much true these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 09:45 PM
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Yeah I mean that’s what I mean. If you’re willing to settle and you’re average looking you can find a situation like that. But as far as being average looking and finding a relatively attractive woman that’s willing to settle down with you with all the online options she has, forget about it, it’s highly unlikely.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 09:23 PM
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For a relationship? I’d say you still have a decent chance if you’re willing to settle for someone below your looks level. For casual sex? Almost non existent, you’ll get opportunities if you are socially outgoing but they’ll be few and far between, and it usually won’t be with a woman you are attracted to . Even attractive women that may end up being into you are almost never going to let you hook up. They’ll usually expect a relationship. Women are only hooking up with the top 20% (arguably ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 01:12 PM
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I promise you, you will maybe get like 1 in 100 girls that will message you first, and usually the ones that do aren’t going to be your first choices. The only time you may get opened by women semi regularly is if you are an 11/10 total giga chad. Having interesting openers is also underrated here I’ve noticed. I get not wanting to be try hard but definitely think a bit about what you want to say. Catch her attention because if she is very attractive she definitely has a ton more options than an…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/21 05:04 PM
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I’m glad someone else agrees with me. Logic would tell you I just need to improve my account but I have 1000x better pics than I had a couple years ago, look better overall etc and I’m doing worse on it. In retrospect my old account was kind of cringey and I still got pretty good matches.
/r/askTRP19/06/21 07:28 AM
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Just something I’ve noticed but tinder at some point in the last year and a half or so has become a resource almost exclusively for the top 10% of guys imo. It was always rigged in their favor but a couple of years ago having a good bio and good pics could get most guys matches unless you were completely hideous. I’m not sure why changed but it’s just something I noticed lately. My advice would be unless you are in the top 10% looks wise to just find other means of dating. It’s a complete waste …
/r/askTRP18/06/21 10:51 PM
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It is pretty crazy. They can usually pull the rug from under your feet pretty suddenly. A lot of times you didn’t even realize anything was out of place. That’s why when they do it the first time just nope away from that girl for good don’t ever talk yourself into there being a reason for it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 12:43 PM
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If you grew up just being a natural with women you don’t really have a need to find out what TRP even is as a young man because you already for whatever reason are naturally inclined to follow it’s advice. Most of us who are younger and are actually aware of the RP being a thing are here because we were terrible at attracting women, or if we could attract women we got taken advantage of and burnt by them all the time and didn’t know why. However usually these guys will “settle down” with some go…
/r/askTRP14/06/21 10:39 PM
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That’s the way you have to do it man. Most arguments with other people are pointless to get into anyways, but especially with women.
/r/askTRP10/06/21 04:32 PM
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Arguing with women is a waste of time. Women will feel whatever they want to feel, and no logic you use will sway their opinion of anything. It took me a very long time to be aware of this but once you see it it’s clear as day. There are certain situations where you have to make your point because a woman is trying to walk all over you, or you just have to stand up for yourself about something that was done or said but that applies to men or women. Discussing politics and controversial topics is…
/r/askTRP10/06/21 01:44 PM
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The answer to your question lies in your own words. By some of the things you mention in the first part of your post it already has gotten better. The road ahead is hard, and will have plenty of challenges. But you’ve already overcome plenty of adversity. Everybody sometimes wishes we could remain ignorant, but the further along you come the easier it gets to deal with harsh reality, and realize there is still a lot of good things to be in this world.
/r/askTRP08/06/21 04:37 PM
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There’s nothing “soy boy” about saying thank you . Please is a bit different depending on the context, but is generally just being polite ( example: “Yes, please” in response to a question) as long as you don’t make it sound like you are begging for someone to do something . Being polite is not being beta, sometimes I feel like people think you have to be this ultra giga chad that is rude and inconsiderate to everyone in his path, which is not the case. Everybody deserves a baseline amount of re…
/r/askTRP07/06/21 05:34 PM
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This. A lower class chick might actually be intimidated by a guy that has his shit together and grew up in a decent family environment. Often times they did not have a father figure (or a good one if they did) and they’re seeking some kind of protection by being with these kind of guys. I got burnt pretty bad by a girl like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 09:07 PM
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This has actually happened to me several times. To be real , a lot of chicks will send you nudes if you ask at the right time (late night when they’re feeling some type of way/when it’s relevant to a conversation etc) and aren’t a total weirdo about it. Does not necessarily even mean that they want to smash/are interested. I’ve had girls send me a pic of their ass or something and just be really nonchalant about it. Another one literally told me she will send nudes to just about anyone because s…
/r/askTRP26/05/21 04:53 PM
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Especially considering over half the female accounts I encounter on dating websites are incredibly low effort/all selfies/bad pics. I’ve started swiping how they swipe. If you have bad pics/all mediocre selfies I’ll usually swipe left.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 12:49 PM
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The painful truth
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 11:11 PM
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I think it’s circumstantial how it should be reacted to. Ignoring the drunk guy talking shit and trying to start something at the bar thats just gonna get you arrested is a smart decision. Ignoring people in prison or somewhere similar where people are going to think you’re a pushover? That’s a situation where you have to do something to prove a point.
/r/askTRP20/05/21 09:49 PM
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Most snap ads in general are cringe
/r/askTRP18/05/21 12:28 AM
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Things like this have no definite answer, because it depends entirely on the situation. I believe you are correct in a sense but sometimes they’re better off divorcing and trying to co parent rather than forcing themselves to stay in an extremely toxic situation for the “benefit” of the child. My parents tried to do that and I genuinely believe if they had just seperate I’d be better off. Now I’m an adult and they’ve been miserable together for almost 25 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 06:09 PM
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Misery loves company
/r/askTRP14/05/21 02:24 PM
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Disagree in this case. If a woman is afraid of you she will do everything in her power to avoid you.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 01:55 AM
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That’s up to you to believe. But I’ve been in situations like that and it’s almost always not true. Like when the girl I was with lost our gold heart on snap and I thought it was weird bc it was a guy and she told me he was a coworker she’d been talking about something work related with. It ended up being her next boyfriend, so just take that with a grain of salt, in my personal opinion chicks don’t just forget shit like that. Especially if it’s guys. Why would she have reason to block them from…
/r/askTRP11/05/21 12:57 AM
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Do you really have to ask what’s going on?
/r/askTRP11/05/21 12:53 AM
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You were assertive. Do you know how many guys probably beat around the Bush about trying to hit on them? Even if they have a boyfriend it’s likely they’re probably attracted to you and it registered that you’re an option. Keep approaching girls the way you’re doing it, it’s probably working. I’d take this as a good sign. I can’t speak for every situation but I don’t think women stare at you when you creep them out or they aren’t attracted to you, why would they even wanna look at you if that was…
/r/askTRP10/05/21 11:18 PM
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10% roughly. Those 10% are at varying levels of it. Of that 10% probably 9/10 are naturals and 1/10 is self taught.
/r/askTRP10/05/21 12:16 PM
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I agree with the top commenter, you will never fully be over it. However this will get easier to manage, sort of like losing a loved one it never goes away but you become more used to it and accepting over time. The more you realize the better position you are in. You will be hurt more in life, by not accepting these things than you would be by accepting them. trust me. There’s a lot to dislike about the world but a ton more to actually like. Keep grinding and improving yourself and in time you’…
/r/askTRP28/04/21 11:59 AM
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I think he means to not get hung up on texting all kinds of dirty shit to her, which I agree with. Making a sexual reference or joke here and there I think may actually be a good thing because it’s masked as a joke but it still puts the idea in her head. I think when you’re sitting there sexting for like some extended period of time that’s when she starts feeling like that she’s agreeing to sex.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/21 10:47 AM
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I don’t think most women who are in an LTR of 6 months carry around condoms in their handbag, especially if you guys don’t use them. I mean yeah I guess she could’ve forgotten them but bro how likely does that sound when you say it out loud? Either way she owes you an explanation for sure. That’s definitely weird. Put it this way if you had been in an LTR for half a year and didn’t use condoms would you be carrying them around in your wallet?
/r/askTRP14/04/21 05:55 PM
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You’re good 99.99999999% of the time but that 0.00000000001% chance is the risk you take having sex with anyone
/r/askTRP12/04/21 12:21 AM
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I guess it’s situational but I just meant mostly she might be more receptive to you hitting on her at some later point. I had an instance where a girl was sort of not wanting to hang out with me, and seemed low interest. So I just stopped talking to her, but a couple months later she posted a snap story and I replied with something relevant to it, and she started talking to me, and eventually I smashed. I guess you could say don’t give up, but don’t invest anything and continue to pursue other w…
/r/askTRP11/04/21 07:14 PM
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I’d say generally speaking no. But I’ve had instances where a girl was really low interest and some point down the line something sparked interest. But you definitely shouldn’t go out of your way.
/r/askTRP11/04/21 06:45 PM
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Someone on a similar thread that I can’t remember on askreddit made a good point that asking people who need to use photofeeler to rate your pics on photofeeler should be taken with a grain of salt as to what they say. Just use common sense. No stupid poses. Nothing that makes you look super young. Use pictures of you being social, and pictures of you, not taken by you.
/r/askTRP09/04/21 04:33 PM
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You are not your parents. Very seldom to people actually change their toxic ways, you just have to accept what you cannot change and continue to save up until you are able to move out. You will waste valuable time trying to change people that don’t want to be changed bad enough, leave them be and if they actually want to change they will seek you out for help.
/r/askTRP04/04/21 03:54 PM
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Porn
/r/askTRP29/03/21 10:37 PM
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Sounds like a typical time waster from these apps. I’d give it one more shot just in case and if it happens again I’d next. Some of these tinder chicks are really good at stringing you along for prolonged amounts of time by flaking and then faking interest in you again at a later point just to be able to flake on you again. It’s happened to me many times before when I was BP. Sometimes it can still be hard to not fall for it if the girl is hot enough.
/r/askTRP26/03/21 08:53 PM
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Yeah. This is it. They’re still in the mindset that obtaining a high value woman is about climbing high enough to get noticed by girls like that.
/r/askTRP22/03/21 01:08 PM
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Because they aren’t actually high value women. Having a good job, and being a nice person doesn’t mean that a girl is high value.
/r/askTRP21/03/21 09:27 PM
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I’ve said this before. There are plenty of people on here that take this too seriously, or go too far with what they say, but that’s with any community.
/r/askTRP21/03/21 04:21 PM
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Oneitis/and LTR’ing damaged goods . I’ve latched on to girls that were genuinely just bad for me in every way. Stayed in relationships that I should’ve left and would’ve left (left sooner in some cases where I was the one to leave them) if I was living how I live now.
/r/askTRP19/03/21 07:27 PM
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I’d just take forever to reply to her, and then if she’s still acting like that next her. I’ve had girls shit test like that sometimes though, and once you start doing it back they get quicker at replying. So if you really wanna smash it’s worth a shot. But as always keep talking to other girls and don’t bank on that working.
/r/askTRP19/03/21 01:33 PM
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Absolutely this. I relapsed recently after 60+ days and my motivation and self confidence in general is just so different. I think a lot of people put a little too much stock into it, but other people don’t put nearly enough. It definitely makes a difference.
/r/askTRP15/03/21 01:46 PM
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It differs from friend group to friend group. You guys will have you own boundaries you follow, but don’t make the error of bringing this into other friendships. Not everyone jokes around like that. When I was younger, I used to be socially unaware in the sense me and my friends said and joked about very offensive things together but I would bring this into conversations with other people, and it made me look like an insensitive weirdo.
/r/askTRP10/03/21 12:52 AM
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Yeah like if you took a picture in the mirror and you have an android.
/r/askTRP08/03/21 11:58 PM
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This lol. Dead ass had a girl tell me she’d swipe left on people for having a fucking Android lmfao
/r/askTRP08/03/21 02:09 PM
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There’s always going to be people who take whatever they believe in too seriously and become fanatical about it. You can say this regarding basically any group of people and it will be applicable. I personally don’t notice an excess of ridiculous comments that I wouldn’t see on any other subreddit about whatever that sub may be pertaining to. It can be annoying to read ridiculous comments made by uninformed people who sound ridiculous but you’re going to be doing that on any sub you go to becaus…
/r/askTRP03/03/21 04:43 PM
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As with anything. It depends. If you are a simp/beta/ very blue pilled guy, that is naturally very attractive, and at least somewhat social, there are still going to be sex opportunities for you. Not nearly as many as if you are RP aware, and actually working to better yourself, but they will still present themselves from time to time. I think it is quite literally where the concept of “getting lucky” comes from, as a lot of people call it. It happens when you’re attractive and sort of in the ri…
/r/askTRP01/03/21 01:52 PM
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Lol dude my parents have been together over 20 years and their marriage is the opposite, it’s a nightmare. It had the same impact on me basically. My dad has tolerated all sorts of disrespect from my mom that he should’ve left her for. It really is unfortunate, and very hard to change your ways when that’s all you were exposed to.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/21 09:54 PM
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I love super setting it saves me a ton of time( probably cuts in half the time I’d normally be in the gym) and keeps me rolling so I’m not sitting on my phone looking at Reddit for 400 years every time I finish a set.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/21 05:20 PM
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Generally speaking. No. Like 99% of the time it’s not worth it. The problem with this is generally is it really worth it. This girl has huge responsibilities raising this child. Whether you like it or not if you are going to LTR a single mom you are agreeing that this child will be in some ways your responsibility. If the father is still involved in raising the kid it may take some burden off you but most younger single mothers do not have the child’s father in the picture from what I’ve noticed…
/r/askTRP22/02/21 06:21 PM
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If you did this to a woman do you think that she would want to see/talk to you again? Exactly. Block this woman on everything fuck her feelings, I was terrified just reading half the shit you described.
/r/askTRP21/02/21 01:01 PM
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I get the most success from tinder and it still isn’t much. I get a decent amount of matches but they don’t go anywhere. As for bumble or hinge, absolutely no success in any way. I’m fairly good looking but not the most photogenic person, and you need good pics to have success on any of them.
/r/askTRP19/02/21 09:46 PM
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Guys don’t even really peak until their mid 30’s. That is provided you are taking care of yourself and working to better your life. I’m only 23 so I can not speak from experience but from what I gather being a single attractive guy in your 30’s is when a lot of things start to go your way, if you’ve been grinding.
/r/askTRP09/02/21 08:38 PM
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I’m not saying to not help people. I’m basically saying that if you have a tendency to go out of your way to help people when it is not warranted, basically don’t go around letting people make their problems yours. Sometimes it is hard to tell people no when you are inherently a nice person. I would regularly get caught up in things I wanted no part in and was sort of a pushover about doing things for people for a long time. I think this is a lot more important than some people realize.
/r/askTRP08/02/21 03:11 PM
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Say no to people a little more often. I’ve found that before I was sort of always trying to do favors, appease, and help out people that would never return it to me. I think it’s good for your frame to just practice looking out for your own interests and not always try to be so nice to people. Maybe that’s not an issue for you but it was for me.
/r/askTRP08/02/21 05:44 AM
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You sound really bitter about something really inconsequential. Why not just go out and meet another girl while you’re in town.
/r/askTRP05/02/21 07:48 PM
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I’m 23 and what I can mostly tell you is that you are in a very good spot to learn social skills. High school is a good place for trial and error. This sounds cliche but a few years after high school you are most likely not going to see any of those people again other than a few here and there. I doubted that it was true, but It happened to me and happened to a lot of other people. Use this time to develop your game, and sort of get a feel for what works for you and what doesn’t. If you are actu…
/r/askTRP02/02/21 05:10 PM
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Facts. My dad has been with my mom for 24 years (I’m 23) and he’s extremely miserable.
/r/askTRP25/01/21 06:47 PM
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Never let a girl friend zone you. If you want to just be friends cool. But if you were put there you are disrespecting yourself by even interacting with her like that .
/r/askTRP25/01/21 01:10 PM
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I think he’s definitely somewhat successful. I just think he’s very unhappy. The way he speaks about other people is like he feels like he has to put people down or talk down on them which I don’t think people who are happy in their own skin tend to do.
/r/askTRP04/01/21 12:15 AM
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I’ve said this before. I think he overall has some good advice on certain topics. But I think overall he is cringeworthy and says some things that are pretty ridiculous (you can never tell any woman you love her, never dating a woman over 25, having tattoos means you’re an idiot etc) The way he talks about people also just seems bitter and makes me cringe. He will be describing someone who did something wrong or someone he knew and describe them like “this big fat fucking stupid ugly loser I kno…
/r/askTRP03/01/21 02:00 PM
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“I know what I deserve” “I love you but I’m not in love with you” “I won’t let anyone treat me wrong” “I’m more confident than I’ve ever been” Etc etc
/r/askTRP16/12/20 11:58 PM
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Lmao I’m saying man, I hope he was joking.
/r/askTRP16/12/20 01:16 PM
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I wear Bleu De Chanel EDP, and Polo Black EDT mostly. Those are my favorites personally. To be fair though I have more colognes than that and I get complimented about as much with any of them. I think as long as you like the scent, and you don’t put so much on that you smell like a department store, you’re good with pretty much whatever you like. The only other thing would be that some old school fragrances can be a little off putting to younger women as they “smell like old man”, so I’d say sti…
/r/askTRP15/12/20 11:15 PM
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I find some of his advice on certain topics pretty good or helpful, but then he will make a point that completely throws me off and I’m kind of like dude wtf are you even on about 😂
/r/askTRP12/10/20 09:48 PM
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It could be delayed grief. My grandmother who had helped raise me died several months ago and the first few days I barely felt different but it suddenly hit me at work one day and I grieved for days after.
/r/askTRP07/10/20 07:24 PM
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