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Not specificly hating women but that im an in**** or just an ugly loser and so on or that i have to do more even if i explain i cant because of my condition. I wrote "Its hard for me to date because sometimes i sleep 12 hours or more because of my heart condition. How do i explain this situation especialy with a women i just met. And how can i handle situations like that." "Dude women are so nice wtf are you talking no women has a problem with it. You are just lying you are an ugly loser thats t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 12:46 AM
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Realy good explanation thank you !
/r/MensRights15/08/23 03:46 PM
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Im crippled had a heart attack and even i get called all kinds of weird stuff lol I mean it i wanted to talk about how to deal with my illnes in a relationship but it goes EVERY time in "you just hate women" direction lol. Or "just be confident bro". People are just ignorant aggresive and stupid. I mean i struggle with my blood pressure.....but thats mysogonie for some reason rofl
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 03:44 PM
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No! You are an atractive guy or you are not. Yes atractive guys dont need to aproach. But not aproaching women doesnt make you more atractive. Women think "wow that 6 feet guy with a sixpack is so sexy i need to do something to get into contact with him." NOT! "wow that guy doesnt even look at me he is so sexy because he ignores me." Perhabs you can push yourself from a 4/10 to a 5/10 okay perhabs or some "im unsure" thing okay fine. But realy chancing the situation no way. I cant just drive bac…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 03:09 PM
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Yeah we wouldnt have unhealthy food too if it wouldnt be about irational emotions.....But sometimes you need to eat a burger smoke a cigarette and drink a beer.......beeing human and having all kinds of weird emotions make it hard to deal with.....
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 07:41 AM
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The problem with this is different. People thing they can chance someone with it. But that doesnt work. Sure you can see if someone wants more then just sex with it....in part......But you wont put someone into a relationship with it. We had the talk about this stuff when i was 15 and there where a few naiv ones in this age fine. With 18+ i dont knew girls/women that didnt understand it. What they said was "I want more then just sex and i want to at least date him 3 times to see what his intenti…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 06:29 AM
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How the fuck can a women not answer when i DONT USE OLD. I said i dont want to have anything to do with OLD women lol Guys are different they are depresive and sad i hate it but not arogant idiots. Dude i dont care for them my problem is they are literaly insane weirdos you cant socialise with im not talking about dating. "Hey can you please move......hello ??!?!?!?! HELLO !?!?!?! I NEED TO GO THERE." Women ignore guys that are working im not joking they are so insane that you cant do your work …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 06:19 AM
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I would like people getting a T branded on there forehead so i dont need to talk to those people lol. I think its a lost case its melted there brains women and men alike in a different way sure but it made people insane..... But in reality its similar......"yeah 10 dudes talked to me" yeah but 10 ugly dudes that doesnt mean you can be an arogant ashole to the nice guy you like i mean you can but wont work lol. I dont even understand how you can debate this stuff. Of course just because some peop…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 01:44 AM
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Yes but that is the question are we what we are internaly or are we what we are in society. The end of the original NGE comes from some philosophical book but i forgot which one.^^ Especialy in a relationship the person you are in the dynamic with the other person makes you of course a different person. But in a good one a better person. I personaly dont want to be just myself the effect family and friends and sometimes strangers have on me makes me a better person and i like myself more in this…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 12:24 AM
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I dont disagree but that is a complicated philosophical question ! What am i ? My personal will or the product of a compromise of myself and the rules of society and other people. I personaly am not what i am alone in the dark without boundaries. I see myself as the person i am in society with other people. The real me is the person that is behaving WITH someone and not only with himself and pushing himself onto someone. The boundaries or lets say wishes of another person chance me and are part …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 11:26 PM
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Dude NO thats not the point. Im at a Bar sit around and watch what is happening around me. Touching grass does NOT mean activly participate in it ! But the reality is not as extreme as the stuff on the net. People are not even 10% this extreme then how they describe themselves. And the whole lying part. Look i go out and walk literally on grass at the park (i dont touch it but yeah lol) and see what people in reality are doing. I had an argument that "people dont want to cuddle" in reality the p…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 10:29 PM
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I know so many hot model looking single women that would take nearly everyone just if he would be willing to make children with her ( i mean not too extreme of course).......I literaly talked with a 9/10 ultra nice sexy women about exactly that and why she cant find anyone....She was honest "because i want to start a family...." I mean put "i realy want children" into an OLD thing and you should get spammed. The problem is if you want a childless women and dont want to start a family. Guys are s…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 11:19 PM
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Yeah i guess i should have been more clear about it. Its not like men are losing in this system more like yeah good and bad sides but as a whole better i guess. But the 20% of men did win extremly...... Like 80% of men get a 50% raise and 20% get 2000% raise or something like that.^^ Its just to complicated to explain for me :-( It is extremly hard for an under average dude BUT if he get someone its much better then before. Sure he have to fight and perhabs be alone till 30 and even take a women…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 10:35 PM
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No i told it wrong my bad......20% have an extremly easy gold plus lifestyle that doesnt mean the other ones have no option its just not that easy for them like before but yeah wasnt good before too its not beeing in a "forced" relationship is something nice. I mean there are smart women that are just more active and just talk to an average but nice fine guy. I see all the time chubby average or below women with not the elite but realy good guys......Its not the fault of guys from what i see in …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 10:24 PM
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No its not true. Look people where together because they had to, now we have the option to be single that is the reason ! Nothing directly to do with social media. It makes it more extreme but the factor is beeing able to live a good live as a single even with a normal income. Hookup culture existed before but only for the rhich elite like kings and so on. Do you think the farmer cousines married each other because they loved each other ? They needed to not starve to death. Even not that long ag…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 05:14 PM

Oh my fail of course they exist but they are the nice ones they are not just average they are one of the nice ones two of course ! It was more about realy realy nice ones and realy realy bad ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 01:15 PM
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I experience it like that in this specific case yes ? I actualy dont know any gym girl that isnt extremly bad or extremly nice. The same with guys too. Its a realy realy small amount of aholes but they are....actualy mafia guys im german so its yeah look it up knife fight at the gym is a daylie accurance. The rest of the guys fine cool dudes like family.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 01:31 PM
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There are two kinds of "gym girls" real ones that like sport and are cool and fine. And mentally ill attention whores that are only there to start drama and trouble but most of the time you see it directly because they dont even do sport lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 12:19 PM
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Confidence is thinking you know something. Every Academic can only laugh at such a concept. Relaibility and Validity is how it works and those are not yes or no those are sliding scales. In short reality works with a Stochastic Process but that is to complicated for most people so they want some "cheat code". Perhabs they think it works like a magic spell. Reality works the way you can analyse something to a certain degre and do a risk reward calculation and use the most rational option. But eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 04:45 AM
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In germany we have specific names "sexuele Belästung / sexual molestation" is what you would call that. Rape in german is "Vergewaltigung" more or less "a forcing" We have the "Belästigungskultur" that would be the "rape culture". The problem is just that there is a big difference between molesting someone and forcefuly insert something. I think the biggest problem is the undiferenciated conversations about it. We dont have that problem in germany because its absolutly clear what its about and w…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 05:19 AM
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In Germany the debate is about Heidi Klum or Helene Fischer beeing better looking soooooo yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 07:59 AM
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I dont believe that its some active "technique" that people use. Its often just how people feel or think at that moment. It can be genuine feelings just a fantasie of a what if scenario. If you dont seperate that as fiction then sure it gets weird. But in itself im sceptical if its as a strong factor as people make it believe. I mean marrying someone is something nice talking about it is fine just not directly of course just about liking the concept. And what does buying drinks have to do with i…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 04:05 AM
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What childish stuff is that. Think for yourself, sure watch videos or whatever. But getting some other dude telling you how to live your live ? WTF dude use your brain. Role Modell stuff is for children He-Man was cool sure. And there things you can say are nice traits. But trying to be someone else......Be yourself build yourself up. Sounds like some religion. Weird stuff...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 02:16 AM
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Perhabs its a german thing but our women WTF you dont do this stuff you will get crushed destroyed and humilated for it. The trust system is ultra important for women. And misusing it dont you dare! Im old but i remember stuff like that. "No fuck off" was sometimes the reaction when she understood another women was just trying to ruin it. Or stuff like "wait give me a few minutes......YOU FUCKING FAT PIECE OF SHIT JUST BECAUSE YOU CANT GET SOMEONE DONT RUIN MY STUFF I HATE YOU FUCK OFF.....hey i…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 02:41 AM
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You do as a 20 year old man 30+ women and if you are 30+ you date 20 year olds. That its how smart people do it. Realy realy easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 01:02 AM
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Wow so people want to go the the US and would fuck a granny for it imagine MY SHOCK My friend had a brasilian model i mean he actualy wasnt bad looking but yeah after 4 years and her german passport she didnt felt the love anymore oh noooo... And some people have a Granny fetish soooooo what ? Dont kink shame lol This is showing nothing. Its like fishing for the small amount of granny fetishes and the green card fuckers
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 12:59 AM
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At work people scream 30 minutes because someone forget to take the trash out. Its nothing special if someone got a hammer thrown at his face everybody no at least one story like that. But if it comes to this they completly forget this stuff and "nagging" the lowest form of "aggresion" is seen as sooooo evil and bad. Man complain so much more and are so much more aggresive. I prefer it in a female settting at work because its so much nicer in general. "oh sorry you forget this could you...." And…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 12:42 AM
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I mean there will be guys that use an AI to talk to as much girls as possible and yeah that will get weird. And scams will be higher. So i guess its the end of OLD stuff its impossible to block this stuff. And i like it lol REAL LIFE RULES
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 03:50 AM
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What is absolutly true is the happy thing. Just because you can "have" many people doesnt mean it makes you happy. But if a women explains this she is called evil lol. You twisted one thing. Atractive people have many options so it isnt as important if it is not the big love of course. Its not like they are atractive because they treat people as like you called it "disposable" but those people are "disposable" because they are atractive. The perspective of those people is "there are 20 other wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 12:42 AM
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Of course not ! Thats why my text was so long. It only works of course with a big amount of other factors and calculationg the circumstances. I gave exactly because of that reason examples that it can mean very different things. Like first get a "profil" in a long conversation with a person know the circumstances and other things. And then use this information with the other ones together.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 05:55 PM
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That is so stupid on so many levels i cant even comprehend ist. Yes generall rules of logic apply to humans to ? Whats next "gravity is sexist" lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 03:22 AM
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No that is true im a guy and even i get some weirdos that want pictures just because i could be an underage happened yesterday here lol. I am outside and i see what is happening. Because you dont see women you are not interested with you dont count them. Men dont count older women most of the times. They are invisible for most.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 08:10 PM
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And that is the problem its as a whole to complex to even know what is realy the right thing. And so we only get get try to get more near to it. But its nice to see that there are people that are trying :-)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 08:02 PM
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Everything here is black and white......and that in the purple pill debate. I mean its Blue or Red i guess lol Women Bad/ Man Bad seems the only way that works here and i doubt it will get us anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 10:29 AM
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That is something relativly new. 20 years and more ago women where like. "Sure i can have sex with many men but there are not many that would marry me...." I dont hear and see that mindset that often anymore. The "women controll sex and men controll marriage" is in the most cases true. Yes its absolutly not fullfiling it doesnt have to be the big love. But you need to know someone and work on it. You cant just have a good time. Its trust and knowledge that you can only get with time and effort. …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 09:31 AM
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The amount of guys that try to date 20 year younger girls is so much higher then the other way around. And not because there are not women that wouldnt like it. Didnt Cher date a 40 year younger guy ? I think at least in the hollywood circle it starts. Or Heidi Klum a much younger guy but yeah its heide klum and germans dont count we where weird before it was cool. Women are like "100 guys want me" but they include every age look and so on. Men are not like "dude there where 200 women that wante…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 09:24 AM
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If you get a paket from something you ordered online. You can say if you hold it with the weight if its seems plausible. Is it an absolute indicator? sure not. But its some and if you know what is important it can help in part. Only the Body count sure its weird. But with other factors it can help. That it is extremly overestimated sure ! But its one of many factors that can give an indication. A women that says she is searching for the right men since childhood and have sleept with 100 guys see…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 06:06 AM
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Perfect does exist. If you are in love with a good partner independent if he/she is perfect. Your brain can reach its limit of feeling happines. Im scared if i see the "carot on the stick" with so many things. "I need a faster car.....okay now i need an even faster one...okay if i get some car that is much faster then..." And they never achive happiness. A women once explained to me why a cigar smoker is sexy....."He is showing that he can take his time and enjoy things, he doesnt run around cha…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 05:07 AM
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Dont ruin the scale please leave space for real weirdos ! Or sooner or later it will get to SSS+++ Rank and other inflation stuff like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 03:06 AM
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Perhabs the problem is he is adverstising himself as good as possivle and is dating women that are high value and he cant then hold them in reality ? I think too there are many women that would be happy to be with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 03:05 AM
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What the most interesting part for me is. Why do you or some other people think he is a 1% guy in atractivness ? In money sure but atractivness ? He can get dates but after the Video i completly understand the only 1 date part. I dont think any women would feel like he likes her its just some object too and other weird views and behaviour. Sure he can pay for stuff and is trying to be nice.....
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 03:03 AM
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How can it be solved ? My problem is people get angry when i even imply "you are not perfect dont expect it from other people". They dont want to hear anything negative. Im old we put(puteded? whats the past form lol not my native language) each other "on the ground" in our times. I think the "you are so perfect and fine" just ruining it because people then expect more or lets say too much from others.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 02:57 AM
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Do you think the problem is the negative view in itself or that it is holding them back ? I mean dependent of the expectations everybody is negative. If i say if a man dont look like henry cavil and every women like (i dont know some instragram modell that is important those days) the looks are negative. I just have the feeling the expectations are extremly high and people dont accept that they are not the best. Or high in some ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 02:20 AM
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I was sad that i dont have children. But those are some factors why its okay for me. Its a mixed feeling. Would like to but would make me sad to see the live and the low oportunities they have. Im fine with my income for myself but for children.....no i fear to have to let them go into a public shool....
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 12:26 AM
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If someone has a hard clinical depresion or is a psychopath or something extreme sure. But for not extreme medical cases it doesnt matter. With general discusions i stay in the 95% area because of it. And Most people have other problems than Attitude. In Theory sure. But reality is that most people are doing something. And ore not complete anti social. So it doesnt matter in most cases. Most people are trying and improving themselfes. In different fields sure. But the view that most people are h…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 11:42 PM
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That is soooo true. Its realy an extreme small amount of "chads" that are sleeping around. Perhabs very joung ones but the older the more extreme it gets.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 10:43 PM
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That is true a few realy bad ones can be worse then lets say 20 ones they didnt realy cared about. A phase of this beheaviour is not as important as behaviour over a long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 05:27 AM
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I not sure about that. Women often want "bad boys" and men often "bad girls". Especialy the so called "conservative" men. Im pretty sure a tattooed wild bad girl is atractive for most men. They wouldnt complain so much if they where not interest just dont date them i guess. I mean sexual interest seems to be there.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 05:26 AM
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Yes that is the point its just an insult and it rolls fine of the tongue. Sounds bit disgusting too and harsh. No one ever mean that the mother of someone is a prostitute if they are called "son of a b*****". Or having sex with his toaster if it dont work "f**** toaster, why you dont work."
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 05:22 AM
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In the long run we all die. In the even longer run the whole universe will die the heat death sooooo......Everything is meaningless deepending on the viewpoint. Everybody has a different line where it has a meaning. Many people are divorced in there second third or even more marriage. I dont know what is right and wrong. Perhabs we have the luxury this time that we dont need to be in a relationship and it chanced so much. Biological i mean from an evolutionary standpoint. Relationships are only …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 04:07 AM
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I dont know what user means sorry english is not my native language. So what why are you doing it ? I mean you shouldnt expect sex for it but similar favours of course. I had it one time in my life that a friend ask for too much i screamed at her what she is even thinking. And then she invited me to her place and cooked nice stuff and we watched my favourite tv show and everything was fine lol And if i even get the feeling they want to abuse me i just go. Is user something like abuse ?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 03:43 AM
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I have the feeling that social media got so important that it is manifesting in real life. The extremes show in many situations in live. Internet is mainstream these days and especialy Reddit is big. Its not everyday but i see in RL beheaviour like that. And of course people beheaving with the "advice" from extremes. But in RL more Red Pill then Blue Pill at least where i am.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 03:40 AM
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What does "user" mean in this context ? I dont understand what you want to say. Do you have Sex with them and feel bad because you "bought" it or ? So you want to just have sex ? Or that they do stuf for you ? Can you clearify ?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 03:02 AM
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Isnt it questioned all the time ? Didnt the mens right stuff started in part because with this question ? I hear it all the time. Indirectly often from women too. "why cant i aproach a guy i like" "wtf of course you can". My opinion but its not fixed is. That women just dont want to most i mean. Of course its better to be in the recieving position. Or a few realy realy smart ones i see in RL that get man they wouldnt get normaly but because they where active.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 02:00 AM
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Like you say you are okay with it or not. You cant agree on it realy. Its nothing that is negotiable i guess ?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 12:51 AM
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There is no rule or objective thing about it. Its something emotional and everybody is different. In this case the only way is to beheave like you feel about it. For me its a deal breaker an absolute no go. Truth is my instinct tells me "Her womb is used by another guy now you cant have children with her". I dont say its okay or whatever but that instinct, i cant do anything about it. I dont even want to have directly children with her. But yeah feelings are feelings. The other more advanced par…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 12:40 AM
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That is the nicestest thing i heard here all day :-) Let people be like they are and search for fitting people :-)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 12:29 AM
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Yeah i guess that is the/a problem. In my age we had to work on it so we would be able to talk to strangers. But the new generation didnt had to. Its absolutly not the fault of the people. I completly understand its hard today and they didnt get the chance to learn it. We could be realy stupid first and learn it step by step. But today its like getting thrown in the cold water. The whole live seems to be the Internet existence. Its all so weird from my perspective. I see people in real life and …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 12:25 AM
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Yes thats the point they have to.^^ Guess i said it wrong i mean its skewed in favour for men. At least in the sexual market. Relationship its relativly fair i guess.... What i see are younger americanised girls that dont understand that they are not living in the US. And skrew themselves over here. What i like the most is that people here are not that unrealistic about this stuff. Last time at a bar. "Of course people want to do things with you look at you you are cute...hey you dude its normal…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 10:55 PM
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But its true
/r/MensRights27/02/23 05:53 PM
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I didnt but the experts did. Just use google and then NEWS. Its so much about that. Body Dsymorphia has gotten to a mainstream problem. They do it through many different kind of studies. Through the internet you can collect realy big amounts of data. But would be to much to explain it here. Why do you think I did it ?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 05:33 PM
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Ah thanks....what wait but the thing i got was even harsher than what i said. And i wanted to say that i get treated like that. But i even got treated worse lol Its weird. Yeah but thanks for your input
/r/MensRights27/02/23 05:29 PM
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This ! People think confidence make them atractive but it doesnt work this way its a one way street.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 04:32 PM
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And men dont ? I think women are willing to go for other traits than looks more then men are. I mean going for money isnt nice too but yeah lol. Its nice if you are not like that! But in my RL i see it everyday that looks are all
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 04:10 PM
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In germany the average age of marriage is now 34,4 for men and 31.9 for women. I guess us is similar...Its much lower with 28 women and 30,4 for men. But the tendency is getting higher and higher. If people even are marrying. And the sad thing is i guess most people dont enjoy there bodys it seems :-( In generall dont enjoying live as much as they should.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 03:55 PM
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ott ? i dont know what that means ?
/r/MensRights27/02/23 03:49 PM
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The 200 women guy....omg our hero its 15 years ago i think. It was the start of online dating stuff. And he was like "omg i need a new car i drove 160k KM the last 2 years." "What why ?" "you know those internet sides the single women with children?" "Yeah what....ohhhh". But yeah this extreme was first many years ago and only once in my life. I dont think that there are many guys that realy want to have sex with much different women as possible. Especialy that dont care for looks as much. Im of…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 03:48 PM
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"Perhabs im wrong" but yeah i get directly atacked for no real reason. The weird part is i talked about them beeing agresive and how he twisted it. I guess its projection
/r/MensRights27/02/23 02:05 PM
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This is true men are agresive and atack each other and dont support each other. Most will rather simp for some women then have a nice time with their mates. I see it here so often. Just ATTACK ATTACK ATTACK. First men need to learn to be nicer to each other and care more for each other. But will never happen saddly.
/r/MensRights27/02/23 05:25 AM
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Define easily ? Even if you "only" need a date and go for a dinner with 200 women it will get expensive and time consuming. 200 Women in a lifetime sure. But if you want later to have a family lets say you have from 16-26. 10 years so 20 women a years. that means 2 Weeks for one Women. That will get hard. But yeah guess you are right
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 05:01 AM
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Lol you are sooooo right with the Effort part! I guess the start is the Problem cant build up the necesarry inertia for it. But yeah if its starts it works like that that TRUE! I mean yeah reality is people switch partner who is marrying one time in his/her life..... The last part i dont get what you want to imply ? Cheating in a relationship? Sure happens all the time. I mean you can calcualte with it but that would be sad. Dont get me wrong i dont see it from the "how can you force something" …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 04:53 AM
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Ohhhh yes internet stuff im old. And have my RL knowledge from bars and clubs (and bars that are clubs weird but cool i like it drinking coffe but there is a dj). Tinder seems to be realy extreme. But in reality its sooooo different. I guess it chanced the last few months and more people are trying to get more in contact in real life because they know how bad tinder is (for both).
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 03:39 AM
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No its good looking guys that just want to have sex with as many women as possible. People assume a 8/10 guy is having sex with 200 8/10 women but that is not how that works. Its a 8/10 that is having sex with a 2/10 women every day. People here mix the amount of sexual atractivness with the amount of sex. That is not how it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 03:37 AM
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Look no one looked if every living beeing has a brain. But im 100% sure that every living human has a brain. Because we figured out how stuff works. I even would say even living beeing dont live in an enviroment that is over 1000 degre hot.....Do i know 8 billion people ? So it can be that there are brainless firepeople that can melt lead with there bodys..... Is this your logic ?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 03:32 AM
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Dude your examples dont have the most important factor in it....Its for a very very long time and ONLY this one. If you can only chose ONE car for the rest of your life you will say "f***** it i will take my time and buy the ferrari". If you can only hire ONE person you will take the best. Cant just marry 10 women/men (i mean perhabs dependings where you live and i guess only men can marry more then one women.) Example 3.....Its more like "What Restourant you will take for the rest of your life …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 03:16 AM
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Yes ? Reality is a bit more complicated. Its starts with having the money and the time. One is archivable but both are ultra hard and luck based. In my friend group we had a few ultra chads. Played sports had a perfect body with six pack above 6 feet nice face and so on. But with 16 (germany drivers licence at 18) they/we couldnt drive. So they didnt had much sex because they couldnt get to the girls often. But they lived in the (small) city sooooo they had more sex then the chads from the small…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 02:47 AM
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And then after the children are old enough it chances to looks again. Its only for the time the children are small and need a stable family.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 02:05 AM
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People not men or women. People in general as if men dont settle for something "less" then they desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 02:00 AM
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Its like a discusion about the sun beeing real. Just go outside in every liberal western country and see it for yourself. If you go into ANY club/bar and stuff where single people are searching you WILL see how it works in real life. Does every man do it no. But the men that can and want it do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 01:42 AM
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Where do you get your numbers from ? Everything i see is extremly low gen z even with a 75% single quote. I read about worrys that 45% will never start a family and stuff like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 02:52 AM
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Amen ! i wouldnt say they are completly at fault. But if you let people step over you sure...But of course for all people in all kinds of positions dont let people treat you bad
/r/MensRights17/01/23 01:31 PM
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I mean it is intimidating i guess. He looks like he could hack my pc
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 04:22 AM
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I dont say it is good but if you can have someone that is doing stuff for you its understandable they use it. I mean simps are the problem of course!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 04:12 AM
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What wait if there are people that simp that is not a delusion its a reality. If people do X that means there are people that do X. Im mean they can have it soooo.....yeah its real and they dont need to do anything i guess ? So why put in effort just from this logical point.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 04:04 AM
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Yeah thats IT omg googling "sexy homeless" is weird lol. But they do exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 11:55 PM
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Dude the 90s......you wouldnt believe them soooo radical and early 2000s. The amount of member berries i take omg.... Times chanced so extreme.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 11:45 PM
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Yeah that is the point people that look like that cant be like that. You see that he cares for his health and cant be lazy
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 11:22 PM
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No one that looks like that live like that it is literally impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 11:21 PM
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"Would you rather go out with me or get stomped by a herd of elephants" Oh you you like meeeeeeeee yyyeeeaaahhhhh what the elephants noooooo
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 11:21 PM
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Realy ? looks more like a troll to me
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 04:57 AM
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Cheating is if you break the rules. So you have to know the rules. And they are different for everybody. So thats why you cleary have to state your rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 04:45 AM
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WTf 45min for that amount of text rofl In my opinion completely wrong. Everybody need to do something for his/her body. No one can just eat anything and dont do sport. Inteligence is nothing without wisdom its for all people. Women grow too even sexuality is not only about looks. Especialy here where people expect women to be active there. That is hard and you need to learn. Damaged goods. We all have problems and are damaged we are all like repaired goods at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 03:45 AM
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I mean yes there are things that are better as a man and we have many priviliges. That doesnt mean we shouldnt try to reduce the problems we have. Independent for gender just in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 03:39 AM
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People with Kinks dont care lol Sapiosexuality is when people are atracted by inteligence. I dont know if i would call it a kink but yeah could be. If you meet someone that need a women that dress like pikachu in bed then he wont care as much for your looks too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 01:35 AM
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Because after 6 it doesnt matter its a realy steep curve. But under 6 it gets yeah steep lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 01:31 AM
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Reductio at Absurdum You need to do sports. "so i need to make 20 year long sport before im allowed to talk to women." You need hobbys. "so i should take a lone and get 100k in Gunpla". The right one will come along someday. "so the perfect 10/10 modell with perfect behaviour will just sit on my lap when im at the bar". No one is talking about 10/20 year long improvment phases.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 04:51 PM
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That is true. Im not sure if tinder is better or worse. I mean deepends on how many goats you have. What wait isnt this today in some countrys like that ? So do people write there "i have 20 goats". Or stuff like that ? I mean it is something like "i have a ferrari" i guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 12:52 AM
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Oh of course ! that is the specific situation. I just wanted to add that it is not that special with humans. Its a big part of the possibilities we have today. But this specific case sure what should i say people here got it already!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 12:14 AM
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Realy easy we live in different times. We have systems where we arent pressured into marriage. In the middle ages you couldnt divorce or use tinder so people had to marry. There where everything but happy. And today even if it seems worse it is much better. I mean even like 100 years ago people just hadnt dna tests if they would...lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 11:41 PM
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The problem is the feedback you get is deependent on your life circumstances. Born rich/poor and which social circles. There are no Amish guys with low confidence i guess just as an example. The validity of the feedback is often more deependent on outside factors. Then the mixing of academic, sport working success with atractivity. People dont feel specificly into something. They feel it as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 04:23 PM
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I mean 2 troll points i guess lol can happen dont worry^^
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 04:17 PM
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Realy Realy well written thank you for the insight seems completly accurate. Could it be that anti social is defined differently. Even if it is a destructive form in parts, it is a form of socialising. But it seems people define anti social as everything that has a negative impact ? I mean specificly as a tool of building a hirarchy that is of course for some negative but a social function.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 04:16 PM
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I read an article that BI men are the most "non acepted" anywhere. Never heard of a BI man i guess they lived all gay. Perhabs if you can choose you chose dudes lol But yeah no one are happy with it it seems. Except freddy mercury i guess but didnt seem to worked that nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 03:43 AM
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It is not my opinion. But i heard many talks about what is masculine and what is feminine and protecting seems to be a masculine thing. Standing by your partner is important for both of course. But defending im not sure. My personal opinion is "stay away from a battle women i dont want you to get hurt".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 01:35 AM
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This is the scene from Vacation where Chris Hemsworth comes into the room lol At the end they talk about "you know only want to sleep with me because you saw him lol. Cant find it with that ending lol https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=02FH8xv4BSE
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 12:41 AM
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Real MGTOW has nothing to do with internet MGTOW. First of all 99% of MGTOW people dont even know the term. Its just man that they dont date. The internet thing is like 99% cope for people that cant get into a relationship. "No im not fired im quiting!" mindset. I know it just form a newspaper. I dont know which one i guess it was "der Spiegel". But in Germany normal newspaper are factual Red Pill stuff. Like "tinder is bad for men" There is no community. Its like saying "the community of people…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 11:21 PM
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That is a realy interesting question where unrelated battle start and where a war begins. I mean if there is something specific that is the underlying reason....Its hard i guess to realy define it. But yes that seems to be true. Thanks for the input! Do you think there is one specific point you could say why it got so much worse ? Or perhabs feel much worse then before ?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 10:16 PM
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Of course. Im just realy careful because of it. If im not completly sure. What is it called need to google..... In dubio pro reo
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 10:13 PM
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I mean dating in the sense of not knowing someone and giving him/her trust directly. I understood it as you should start to date with trust. But you dont start with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 03:49 PM
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So war doesnt exist because there are battles ? I understand what you mean. But the impact of generell gender conflicts has an influence. How many conflicts wouldnt escalate that much without the underyling view of gender things. I dont know but i guess its not small.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 03:36 PM
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What dating and partner are not the same ? I cant have trust in A partner i can have trust in a specific person i know but if i date i start with zero i mean the normal trust you give people you dont know. Trust is something that is building up over time. I see what is happening and after a while i know it. But just trusting sounds stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 02:30 AM
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okay you won you are right i am wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 01:43 AM
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What ?!?! You cant go to any big apartment block and dont hear at least one pair that screams at each other. 1 in 3 women and 1 in 4 men have domestic abuse issues. And thats the harder part im not talking about things that are not in the statistics. https://ncadv.org/STATISTICS#:~:text=1%20in%203%20women%20and,be%20considered%20%22domestic%20violence.%22&text=1%20in%207%20women%20and,injured%20by%20an%20intimate%20partner. And thats for relationships the kind of bad sexist bad beheaviour from b…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 01:15 AM
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I thought its clear that i implied it for a stay at home women or he is doing 50/50 work like doing hard stuff building the furniture gardening and so on. Sure its a stupid oversimplication of reality but we cant write 10000 pages for every thing we want to say here lol I think its all so mean spirited and over aggresive here i mean here on reddit not this specific place lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 12:57 AM
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This is realy complicated i dont say its right or wrong i just only hear about privilege in the sense its enough if you have it independent from using it. Things you get but dont even want....yeah that is complicated too. The whole discusion about red pill blue pill is build upon avaliability and privilege. If we all would say "only things you activly have and do count" it would chance it in every direction. The whole "men are trash because X" wouldnt work too. Like "its more dangerous for a wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 12:31 AM
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isnt it a cope not a hope ? The MGTOW and RedPill rate is high at gyms and the most with people that got a divorce lol How can people even be redpilled if they never dated lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 12:16 AM
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Look up the "hot waitress index" Its realy interesting lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 12:14 AM
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And make up to be fair. I would say dont be fat and use make up lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 12:13 AM
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If someone would give me something and i dont accept it doenst mean i couldnt have it. Priviliges dont mean you use them. And it is a big difference in knowing you could.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 11:28 PM
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I got downvotes in another thing because i said "i wouldnt like to pay a women/buy her things, i want to have sex with". Yeah i get the love/hate relationship on the one side you shouldnt buy a women on the other you should pay her stuff. In germany it is or was i dont know im old like "you fu*** douchebag do you think you can buy me im no prostitute" if you bought expensive stuff while dating. A drink was okay but like a fancy dinner for a first date would be seen as pressuring her into somethi…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 11:06 PM
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search for "Hikikomori " (with the country and then news) you will be shocked how many there are in any country. And that are only the extreme ones and that are statisticly known.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 10:58 PM
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Yes and Yes . Except of course the first year i literally cant breastfeed lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 05:25 PM
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No it wouldnt i live in germany with legal and cheap prostitution. Clean offical for 39,99 euro and worse for 20 euro at a train station lol, or all you can f**** for 120 all day and night with food alcohol and wellness massage and so on. And we have the same problems. I should clearly be legal its better that way sure. I can say one think clearly its not about the sex for those people. Most want a relationship. If it would be about that we wouldnt have the problems here too
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 05:17 PM
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How can you see people that stay at home all day ? I mean i never see americans because i live in germany but i dont think americans dont exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 05:12 PM
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There is a big difference between atracted to people that happened to be older and attracted because they are older. Dont make it much more complicated then it is. People like specific things about people and if you find it in someone that is older/younger then so it is. And many things that makes a man atractive comes with age. So it happened that 3x guys are more atractiver then 2x year old most of the times. With women its different because other things are important.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 04:25 PM
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I mean if he is the "Workstud" and is working every day hard get money is doing the crafty things and is romantic on demand its fair lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 03:11 PM
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Ohhhhhh.....now you did talk about that they where bad.^^ Its fine! But i thought first it was "hey good guys just didnt wanted to have more with tem". Now with this knowledge it is a realy big difference. Sorry to hear you sound like a cool person i guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 02:12 AM
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The only difference between you and other women is you dont complain about them. Most of the time i hear "i dated this guy and that guy and then that guy but i cant find anyone". Its like you dont have the urge to talk badly about them lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 01:24 AM
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Im not sure if they are willing to compete more. I would say there are more men then ever that are like "dude f it dont fight for a bi*** like that lets play video games together" But i guess its more at 30 and above. 20 years and more ago we just insulted each other never ever said a guy to another "you are good". Men got much much more nice to each other. Women where the caring ones. In our groupe of friends women did the social nice stuff. Thats why i think everything is weird. No women are a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 10:45 AM
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That is the point "if we have the option". But people dont. Our society is telling women "you are perfect and should have the best". First why dont they tell it to men too ? Second its sad that there are so many people alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 05:59 PM
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Amen!!!!!!!!! Simps are the worst lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 05:56 PM
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Sure "men are more dangerous". I personally would tell him. "Its for your safety". Ohhhh could be hard on the long run. "Men CAN be evil" "women are always" good. That is dangerous of course
/r/MensRights09/01/23 05:48 PM
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Yeah then its of course sexist i just didnt understood it lol
/r/MensRights09/01/23 05:46 PM
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But it means a man can go to the womens room. If men are predators shouldnt they make it safer for the room where women are ? I realy dont get it. "Men are alle predators so lock the men room up but the women room can be just opened".
/r/MensRights09/01/23 05:11 PM
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Soooooo guys that are not fathers just go through it ? Ands thats why they closed it so if someone with a child is there men dont go through it ? Did women used the women thing as a shortcout too ? I wouldnt want people to use it as a shortcut if i would be with my child there. But for both of course !
/r/MensRights09/01/23 05:07 PM
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I dont understand. So its safer for men ? Men get extra protection ? So if im with my child im more protected then a mother with her child ? Sooooo what did i get wrong ?
/r/MensRights09/01/23 04:27 PM
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Exactly that. But i get downvotes to oblivion. Mensright gets more and more like cringe feminists. I am a Man i want my rights. But i will never get them. But not because of women. Because of man like that that are ruining everything we tryd so hard for.....
/r/MensRights09/01/23 10:32 AM
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Mens right will never work because people here dont accept reality and build a stupid child like all women are evil all men are good view that is ruining the whole view of Mens right. Stopp making a f**** clown show out of Mensright! Just put "women get beaten in public no one helps" into google or something like that. It happens all the time too. Do you realy realy wanne sugest that is normal everyday beheviour thats happening in this video ? Mens right is about dont get beaten to death from wo…
/r/MensRights09/01/23 10:29 AM
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I dont know anything about you so i have to ask. First of all im handicapped too (tl dr heart thingy). There are many many people that are handicapped not everyone is like someone without arms and legs. Disc prolapse as an example is nothing special even more after a certain age (sadly) Second it was not my first thought. Are you a mind reader ? You sound realy arogant and condescending. "Im perfect and if someone is even questioning me he has to be evil. Now i know everything about him." You do…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 10:03 AM
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Im pretty sure its more about your pose. With a bit of a heel you will stand better and more atractive. The same for women you just stand better with a heel
/r/MensRights08/01/23 04:57 PM
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Lying = Evil Lying = looking better then you are Evil = looking better then you are ( in this context) ​ Every evil guy i knew had success because he lied. The nice normal guy ? "I have things that are bad with me". The evil guy "sure baby i love you i will make a baby with you and buy you a house". Dont make it more complicated then it is
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 04:54 PM
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I dont think that is has something to do with gender more with shitty people beeing shitty. All of them men and women beheaved shitty.
/r/MensRights08/01/23 03:59 PM
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Its literally a sign that she wont have long term relations. Does it mean she is bad ? Of course not it can have many many different reasons. It deepends on the context. "I had a lot of different guys when i was younger". Sure why not dont care. Did she chanced now cool why not. Does it have a bad impact on mental health ? Sure....it is something important no nothing that cant be fixed and far from realy bad mental problems. And thats for men too. It will chance your beheaviour but that doesnt m…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 03:55 PM
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I see it everyday when i go outside. I mean it literally every single day. For me it wasnt like some internet stuff it was like seeing it in real life and then googling it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 02:32 PM
2

Do you date Ill women too or "normal" ones?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 02:28 PM
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I want to hear how is is beheaving in a date lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 02:21 PM
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I knew one that looked like a Nosferatu (exaggerated of course) was an extreme alcoholic dressed realy weird and bad. Was mentally unstable aggresive next minute cried. Lied about people was a controll freak....and so much more. BUT 20 years ago of course he got a vew GFs and married i think. There where many weird guys. Even heroine addicts but they slept around sure with other drug people but yeah. I saw thinks i dont want to talk about here because they are going into serious crimes and missb…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 02:20 PM
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You are right and people are weird for complaining about it. Its one of the nicest things you can say to someone
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 02:05 PM
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Im Germany wine is legal at 16 and normal for people to drink it at this age, i guess in your country its something out of the ordinary? In Germany strictly following rules is seen as something extremly bad. I guess i dont need to explain why lol. And thats why its hard for women too there are things you only knew after a while and are hard to handle. "why dont date this nice guy" and then its like something like that lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 11:29 AM
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THAT is exactly the big lie that makes it so weird. Like you said no a women wont just jump on your cock. And then there are some dudes that expect it and dont understand that even that 6 feet guy had to do stuff. And get realy weird because they think "why im i not good enough". I mean it exist. If a guy is a 9/10 guy and flirt a bit with a 4/10 or under then it would work. Or at the olympic games they do it like rabbits lol (read it if you dont believe me but they used cardboard beds so they c…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 11:22 AM
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Amen !
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 11:07 AM
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In the good old times we just got more and more near someone and saw where the line was that was okay....Cant imagine how you can meet with someone you think is atractive and dont try something lol The only thing that women are ruining is when a man try to get more near they say no and are like "wtf why did he stopped trying". No is No. If i try to touch a titty and she says no its over of course. In my times women did at least say "its to fast for me i like you but calm a bit down". So you know…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 11:06 AM
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I literally just talked to a women a few weeks ago with a guy "friend" that payd for everything and was cleary in love/wanted sex. They where at the table next to me. And i got in a conversation with them. And yes of course did he said nothing to chance it lol. She told me "yeah hes a good friend and i dont think he wants more....(looks at him) its like that or isnt it?" and he "yes yes of course im so happy to be friends with you". I got the feeling he was aroused perhabs it was some cuck thing…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 11:00 AM
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Women dont have a preference? okay you are trolling....actualy it took me a long time lol kudos 10/10 troll
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 12:53 PM
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Do you want to say people that like a specific look are racist ? Do you think people are like "i think she/he looks realy good but its the wrong race".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 12:46 PM
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Yes there where but they are a realy tiny amount overall. Yes at the university especialy economy there are many high status men. But overall no. Thats like looking for it. If i go to an exotic fish shop i cant say those are not exotic fish because its full of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 12:32 PM
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Handicaped people get atacked too. I often saw it they are cleary incel because of their condition. Its realy scary how weird people got.
/r/MensRights06/01/23 12:24 PM
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Yes that seems to be a good guideline.
/r/MensRights06/01/23 12:21 PM
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I dont think castration would make sense in this case. More like "reeducated".
/r/MensRights06/01/23 12:19 PM
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Its a big warning sign if someone is caring for "doing manly/adult things". Seems like someone isnt feeling "manly/adult" enough lol Feels like children playing adults and not beeing adults. The difference today is there are many adults without kids. There wasnt a long time you stopped playing with toys and started to play again but with your children.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 12:08 PM
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Yeah that is the point. Its not about having hobbys its about starting to use them to "escape from reality". An American thing ? In germany it seems to be the same i think.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 12:05 PM
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exactly this! there is nothing to get from it. Just go away.
/r/MensRights06/01/23 12:02 PM
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Okay im seeing it from a 1st world country perspective. Yes people in an North Korean prison wont archive it thats true. People in desert sure many african tribes are a bit more skinny but in generall its not that different. Work out how do do it yourself ? Its literally law in Britain that every food has a calorie label on it. People should be able to count till 2000. Trainer for going for a walk 10km...go outside an walk till you walked 6miles. Push up sit up...doe british people dont know how…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 12:01 PM
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And i tell you im a giraffe from Mars.....does it make it true ? You have medstudent in your name dude. They know you will get a big income dont be naiv.....
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 11:47 AM
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WTF caring for discrimination doesnt mean they marry someone. What kind of weird world view do you have. "Yeah i dont liked him but i married Jun Park because it would be a discrimination if i didnt." Never ever happens in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 11:44 AM
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The only thing is with realy shy people i guess. I cant draw an exact line. But yeah if someone is telling friendship is nice then sure his/her fault. The line of beeing friends is after the 3rd time you meet up with someone i guess? Be friends for years is cleary not working lol Just in realy realy rare cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 07:51 AM
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No number one 1 is "we are realy just friends" That he pays for everyting drive her around ans similar stuff is "normal" lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 07:44 AM
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No its about taking advantage of someone. That is the point. Everybody do his fair share than its a friendship. People taking advantage of it then its the "friend zone". You dont expect him to pay for a date.....fine no problem! He pays then you are evil. And with any other things that take money/time/energy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 07:37 AM
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No i dont believe it. No one ever dont understand if someone gives much more then he recieves. Money is realy realy easy if its not a 0 sum game than she knows exactly what she is doing. Taking time for someone talking and so on. If she does take her time if he needs her then there is no reason to complain. Or going out where he wants no reason to complain. But if its from one side. F her/him
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 07:35 AM
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Thats is not the point. Its about like he has to pay for everything take care of her but she doenst do anything. If she is realy treating him as an equal its not the "friend zone" its just beeing friends. If he pays for something to eat fine....then she pays the next time...fine!! Its about women that take advantage of guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 07:28 AM
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The solution is realy realy simple. Expect from her what you give to her. If she doesnt scream at her for beeing a shitty friend easy as that
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 07:26 AM
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This is just a realy realy stupid word for something completly different. What people realy mean and hate is the "parking him as a last option zone" or "take advantage of his feelings for money/food or drinks zone". I have ZERO compassion for people that dont state what they want, after a while at least. You tell her/him its okay to be friends ? Then dont cry about it. And of course taking advantage of feelings of other is disgusting too.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 07:22 AM
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So you want to tell me that a body like him is not achivable?!? Sure the face and the height of course not. But a body like him is liiterally just living a healthy livestyle. Dont put everything out of context i never told you need to be as famous you dont need too. Just looking like that guys is enough. And now tell me looking like Schwarzenegger is easier or what?!?!!?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 06:53 AM
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Thats the nicest thing i read here all day lol. White pill stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 01:16 PM
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Sounds nice. Then i dont know where there could be a problem with it. Doesnt seem you did something wrong. Im sad i would love to help Regular clothing is sooooo different. In Germany its at 30+ outdoor sport stuff lol. I often see Hilfiger neutral stuff in general. But yeah deepends on country age and so on.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 01:12 PM
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Sure absolutly! It was in the context of "you need to have a partner that lust after you for a working relationship". My opinion is that this is not realy possible or a much to high standard. ​ Where i draw the line.....Thats the point i have no clue im thinking about it i dont know. Even for myself. I only know that there are things that make me horny but how it is part of a women im not sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 11:56 AM
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Sounds realy nice 5.10 180lbs in shape is realy good. Body care routine i guess its called. Do you groom your beard / clean shave. Pick out nose hair. Shave your body. Use moisturiser if needed. And so on. What is regular clothing? Like a t shirt and blue jeans with sneaker? Its so extremly different what people see as regular.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 11:54 AM
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Im a BDSM fetish guy. Im a well educated 6 feet athletic guy (except my english writing lol but i try to learn it here). im nearly 40 i had till i was 20 many sexuel encounters but then i knew i needed the kinky stuff. I had many women that liked the sexy time. That was never my problem. But both a relationship that works too? Could i pressure women into something they dont want....i guess...but that would be disgusting. I dont have one night stands because its with this kind of sexy time not po…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 11:00 AM
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TL. DR. Chad Sexington just google it lol I mean i dont know every guy on this planet. But all of my friends ( with average or under GFs...oh and women actualy too more or less) where like "i mean im fat so i can be glad that i have her" or even directly "i dont think shes atractive but i cant get better". "i know my boyfriend is not realy atractive but he is nice". And indirectly i see it every day with guys ( in a relationship even with a ring on the finger lol) sitting at the bar and dreaming…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 10:05 AM
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Are you a troll? I mean you are a troll clearly. Its from Dictionary com What does insecure mean? Insecure means subject to fears and doubt, as in Sally was such an insecure person that she didn’t believe she did anything well, even when she got A’s on her tests. Insecure can also mean anxious or uneasy, as in Tom was insecure about his chances for a promotion, worrying about it so much that he couldn’t sleep at night. Insecure can mean not secure, that is, exposed to danger or risk. A safe with…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 08:46 AM
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Wanting to have something to put your penis into it is not lusting after someone. Nearly all average and under average women i knew have realy shitty "im drunk and came from a bar need to stick it into something" kind of sex. Realy lusting after someone no....Its normal for men to go out watch some 20 year old sexy women till you are hard and then have sex with your wife. Realy lusting after HER and not SOMETHING yeah thats the difference. Sure if someone only wants some thing to put it in/ get …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 08:43 AM
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I guess its redpill time.... If you are not in the at least top 20% ( i guess its much lower) you wont have a good sex life. No they wont lust after you. No you cant chance it. It will forever be a transaction with money, time etc. The big ugly women? She will do it with you but she wont lust after you it will be a "i cant get something better". Oh and of course its the same for women too. If you are not a slim fit young women no chance. It will be a 1/1000 chance to have someone that realy lust…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 08:26 AM
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of course its hyperbolic ? Does everything need to be absolutly perfectly acurate describiton. Its just an analogy something to describe it. Then extra for you..... Many men drive dangerous fast cars. A very Few drive Rocket Cars and nearly die. Many women date abusive or bad men. And a few even date serial killer. ​ Is that correct enough to get the point acros? Its about many men and women do dangerous stuff but its different dangerous stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 07:54 AM
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What???? No insecure dont have a specific definition. It means not Secure. Not being safe from danger or harm. Everything else is a contextualised use of the word. And you need to explain in which way you use it. Insecure dont mean "something bad will happen" it means "something bad could happen". And that on a sliding scale.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 07:47 AM
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Could you give a estimate about the male/female distribution. I think its true in general but i saw it from women too. Is it more like 80/20 or 95/5 or what would you say? Like "women do it too" but how often and with wich intensity.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 07:31 AM
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What did you tried? Whats your height weight your body routine. What clothes do you wear and so on.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 07:06 AM
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What realy? Thats like the One Punch man routine at max. 10KM running/walking 100 Pus Ups 100 sit ups a day. And eat "european normal". Mark Wahlberg, Henry Cavill, Hulg Hogan, Schwarzeneger or Christian Bale that are Body types that are an unrealistic standard. (Or lets say steroids are bad and no one should use them for health reasons) But Harry Styles, sure the height you cant do anything. Or the face of course. That you cant have a six pack the whole year around sure. Its more in the summer …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 06:26 AM
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After 16cm you can ram it into stuff and it can hurt. Its weird but its about the right size and of course diameter not length is the important factor. A straw isnt good lol I just think its massivly overestiamted how important PIV sex is. Fifty shades of grey as an example. And yes if its extremly small its like nothing for the women sure. But then you could argument that condoms should be forbidden because its bad for the feel of the man. Sexuality is a compromise every time. Thats why i perso…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 11:17 AM
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That doesnt make sense. First of all do you run around naked?!? Untill the time a women sees the thing in generall you are in bed with her. Second there are tounge, hands and toys. Reality is most people have better/only orgasm with those things. I never heard in real life that there is realy a problem with it. Sure i heard a few women talking about someone having a nice Penis sure. But important no i dont believe it. Even guys with micro penis he had to use his tongue more and it was okay. ​ I …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 11:04 AM
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Its dangerous and you dont do it because you can get hurt but because your body releases neurotransmitter and you get a high from it. Like with with SPH i think its not about feeling bad about your pee pee but getting a kick from it. Yeah not the best analogy lol Was about doing something not because A is happening but you get B from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 10:14 AM
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I think it has more to do with releasing hormones. Its like riding a rollercoaster a safe way to get the thrill. I mean not specificly SPH (im not sure i googled it do you mean small penis humiliation?). I dont think its about a deep feeling on a rational level more getting the instinctive feelings. Its like driving a fast car the danger feels good i guess its even more stupid to bring yourself in danger but we are human beeings.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 09:45 AM
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The problem is the "regular men" is actually the Elite the 10% when women talk about him. So it seems like a contradiction but in actuality women are just not realistic. In Germany the regular men is a fat alcoholic that only know about his football team and is coroscending aggresive and then starts to cry in the next moment lol. But women dont mean this when they say a regular men. Do i expect from a women to date someone like that? No! But i expect women to be realistic. The friendly clean fit…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 09:35 AM
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The Problem is men listen to other men and have completly stupid standards. He Man!....Schwarzeneger in Phantom Commando.... While Women where like "the beetles are sexy.....James Dean is sooo cute....David Bowie is a sex god.....Michael Jackson......" Whats now trendy ? Harry styles i guess. Or this Machine Gun Kelly ? Its not realy hard to archive lol. I mean from a body standard. Men do care about style but not the ones women like and vice versa ! Men want to look like Solid Snake or the olde…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 08:09 AM
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Istn it called Emcels? emotionaly involuntary celibate?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 07:22 AM
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Blade was born perfect with all the strength and none of the weeknesses. I guess its changed at about 2010. But yeah in cinema men were strong and good and women evil usless and weak. From pretty women "you are just a prostitute *slap*" ond only through chancing everything she had a chance to be more than just a toy, while he was literally perfect. To Titanic where its like "you cant do anything except being born rich but its okay you are a women". Sarah Conner is the only exception i guess. But…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 07:21 AM
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Alone is much much much easier! The problem the most people make is going with a groupe of friends and its hard to talk to a group. Especially men. Sure its realy nice for a women if a groupe of 6 drunk loud guys scream at her "hey sexy lady". lol The other prolem is that is see daylie is that guys are fixated at getting laid. I saw someone wrote here "like a groupe of hungry wolfes" exactly that, its scary. Just be nice and have fun with people and be as open as you can. A few rules Know your p…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 06:13 AM
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Oh thanks that explains a lot :-) Its the same here i guess. I have a few friends that dont go outside and complain about not meeting women lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 08:54 PM
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Is there even a neurological mechainism for wanting to make children? "Sex good" seems to be the motivating factor. Seems to be like "sex good make sex" for men and "good strong man make sex" for women. There is the rational modern way of abstract thinking of making children. But is it something deep rooted or something from our "modern" times ? I mean modern in evolutionary terms speaking? I mean it in the sense of an abstract need like wanting a lamborghini. Nature didnt seems to have a direct…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 08:50 PM
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Watch the movie Idiocracy! Thats the start of it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 08:44 PM
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What wait......You are working in service but dont want to date someone in service? What why? Arent those girls in the same situation as you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 08:31 PM
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In germany we have "Studentenkneipen" Bars for university students/academics. Its realy easy, trashy people go the the club and the other to those places. Or art thingys open air movie night with old movies. Art galleries and so on. Age doesnt matter all age groups are there. Young academics and older ones. Or in the trashy places its the same. Then we have Coffe Shoops and cocktail bars for "finer people" or "Saufkneipen" (drinking bars) for trashy people. Its actually realy realy easy in germa…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 08:29 PM
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Wait there is a BIG failure in it. Good looking guy = can have Sex, can have a relationship where he gets much out of it Bad looking guy = cant have sex, get a relationship where he has to give everything ​ I dont share this logic its a bit more complicated but it just dont make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 08:17 PM
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Thats not true there are men that care more for personality! I mean its like 1/100 perhabs 1/1000 but they exist! lol Yeah i guess you are right in generall. I cant count the times where i saw lovely nice average looking women get completly overlooked while the whole bar/club walked around the prettiest women there who where acutally often realy nice but just couldnt date the 20 guys that wanted her lol) And of course the guys cried how unfair it is lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 07:30 PM
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I guess its about different world views. For me its "having a fullfiling happy live with a loving caring relationship" And for many here its. "Have sex have a partner thats all". The saddest part is that many people just newer had a loving relationship and dont know the difference. They often just had someone and never the right one.... Or even no one at all...thats realy sad
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 06:53 PM
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But she have to choose a guy that fit all this and then get coments why she is soo picky....
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 06:43 PM
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Doesnt Redpill mean reality and Bluepill fantasy? In the Analogy of the Red and Blue Pill there is no Blue in reality that makes it a little weird because Blue is wrong by default ? You cant live in the Matrix in reality because we dont have the Matrix. Would Make more sense with three Pills Like good Fantasy, Reality, bad Fantasy. So the Purplepill is the in this sense the Redpill. And the Red Pill the bad fantasy and the blue the good fantasy. As far is i understand its about dont getting into…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 06:14 PM
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Its all so weird its like seeing people discusing if eating is more important than drinkink and then someone comes and scream "breathing is the most important part". I dint say relationships are bad. But that doesnt mean they are good. Its not a yes or no thing. It can be anything. And thats why the 70% dont say anything. Do people realy think just having a relationship will make there live great? If they are all happy why is it that a big part is "relationship problems" ? Its about a good relat…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 05:16 PM
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Just because people are in a Relationship doesnt mean they are happy! That is realy bluepilled lol. The reality is in the middle the purple pill..... The version of "a relationship means people are in love and happy" is bluepilled unrealistic stuff. It doesnt mean they are unhappy or have a bad life. But dont that everything is fine....
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 04:03 PM
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Just because people are in a relationship doesnt mean they are atracted to each other. From Money to dont want to be alone there are many reasons. Today its much easier then ever before the pressure is (depending on the country) like zero. Especialy on middle Europe with a big social care. The Red pill is the "people are not together because they love each other". The Blue pill is the "people today care more for real love then ever before". So its a purple pill now i guess?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 03:59 PM
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