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| 1 | So many women are married to gay men and they don't realize itfeels like we need to see a few case studies. Let be honest, we hear the common tropes of a very conservative/ religious woman marries a man with low libidinal. They have a non existent bedroom action, and both are okay with that arrangement. I think people marry who are compatible to their needs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/25 08:11 PM |
| 4 | Why are men putting less effort in pursuing women than before?Why buy the cow when everyone gets the milk for free | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/25 05:59 PM |
| 7 | If you are celibate, you can't expect your partner to not have sex with others, nor does he have to tell youOP said it was her date. Honestly, it up to him to keep seeing her, or move on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/25 05:20 AM |
| 1 | If you are celibate, you can't expect your partner to not have sex with others, nor does he have to tell youShe can expect whatever she wants. We'll see if reality conform to those expectations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/25 05:19 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Tinder's new filters will help men in online datingDo women pay for premium membership on dating app? I could see different type of membership where you can filter by height, maybe see a visible score of how often guys send out message, and how many matches they get. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/25 06:07 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Tinder's new filters will help men in online datingIs tinder still around? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/25 06:04 AM |
| 18 | Me want wedding. No want be wife, WEDDING.she a major lefty | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 27/05/25 03:22 PM |
| 14 | Women only care about men's issues when the ramifications of it starts affecting them directly. Men at the same time are expected to acknowledge female struggles and if men show an indifference towards plights of women, they ae shamed and guilted into conforming"i can't pay my phone bill" You walk in on cheating : " i can explain " You know it a bad an idea to meet a female for worker for drink: "men , need to reach out to women and mentor them." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/25 06:28 AM |
| 36 | Women only care about men's issues when the ramifications of it starts affecting them directly. Men at the same time are expected to acknowledge female struggles and if men show an indifference towards plights of women, they ae shamed and guilted into conformingOnce you stop caring and recognized manipulation tactics, the shaming and guilt trip don't work. Once I hear, " a real man would," I instantly stop caring and ignore everything they say. I simply walk away. Also, once they start crying , I also walk away. That all you need to do. Pro- tip: It drives them crazy when you walk away instead of arguing or listen to them cry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/25 12:45 AM |
| 2 | People will fight to the death to make sure the social expectation for men to approach to women is still kept as a social standard. Despite the many women complaining about creepy men.How do you that? By walking away, that how you do that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/25 10:22 PM |
| 1 | People will fight to the death to make sure the social expectation for men to approach to women is still kept as a social standard. Despite the many women complaining about creepy men.Wrong. You only need to talk to other men about it, and the women who want to listen. The reason why the RP is hated is because it likes the matrix , it exposes that men power the system. By voting with your feet , walking away, or simply not fighting them (yeah , that what they want) that how you win. 80% of the world problems are caused by men. Why, because they refuse of their weak attitude or enabling bad behavior. When she tells you, " oh my ex we're bunch of loser," go ahead and dump her. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/25 10:07 PM |
| 4 | People will fight to the death to make sure the social expectation for men to approach to women is still kept as a social standard. Despite the many women complaining about creepy men."Oh wow, you are right we women were wrong for to expect men to approach , but we complain are creepy men." GTFO You have a better chance of winning the lottery than a woman holding themselves accountable. If anything, you punish yourself by trying to hold them accountable. You are better off is telling them to telling them "i don't care," ignoring them , or not helping them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/25 09:57 PM |
| 3 | People will fight to the death to make sure the social expectation for men to approach to women is still kept as a social standard. Despite the many women complaining about creepy men.Why are you still listening to women? If the RP logic follows to never take dating advice from women or they can never be honest, why bother listening? When I hear them complain about the situations they created, I simply go deaf or hop on the phone. Honestly, stop enabling bad behavior by bailing people out for poor choices. At the very least, they she take some form of accountability . (Yeah off track, but the only way to solve the problem. Yes, telling them " i don't care" when they complain … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/25 07:39 PM |
| 1 | Most men won't succeed on dating appsIsn't that usually the norm? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/25 05:41 PM |
| 8 | Most men won't succeed on dating appsIf you don't get looks or attention from women (in a good way) in real life, the same thing will happen online. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/25 05:41 PM |
| 2 | How would you feel about your current or future partner asking to have different beds/bedrooms?That why pre nubs exits, and the concept of separate finances. Hey, inflation is bad, so another roommate to split the bills is okay. Maybe turn the house into a duplex. On a serious note, I known couple who had that arrangement, and it worked well. Some people snore, some sleep talk , and some are night owls. Maybe the idea of two separate beds wasn't that crazy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/25 10:08 AM |
| 1 | I am sick of hearing about being stuck in the FRIENDZONE from menI'm assuming you're saying ,for you or your social circle that behavior is not acceptable(expecting free meal). However, you more likely to associate people who share your beliefs. Sadly, that not the norm in certain parts of America. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/25 04:49 PM |
| 1 | I am sick of hearing about being stuck in the FRIENDZONE from menThe problem lies in expectation, and not setting boundaries. I had one "friend" tried to get me to pay for her share of brunch and her female friend from work. I said, "no, you invited me and your portion is way higher." They started fuss, and I ended up paying for my own bill and left. They're guys who are like that, but it less socially acceptable. As for talking about lives, guys do that. However , guys are more blunt and want to correct the problem. Example, " oh my gf cheated on me, and I w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/25 04:40 PM |
| 5 | Quick question do red pillers actually believe that hot women in 30s with kids can't get hvm to wife them up and even play step daddy?"In the end, the nice guy wins." 🤣🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/25 02:05 AM |
| 3 | I am sick of hearing about being stuck in the FRIENDZONE from menAs a male, being a friend with a women is vastly different from being friend with a women. All guys have to to is simply treat female friends like male friends: stop paying for meals, tell them to shut up when complain about the loser guys they are hooking up, stop being an emotional tampon. 9/10 they stop being your friend , and you keep the real ones | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/25 06:27 AM |
| 3 | Females, you're not single because a lack of quality men. Its because you're not pretty enough to get a rich one.What women are you talking about. The women you talking about only represent a small subset of the female population. Instead of focusing on loud minority that you don't want , focus on gals that show you interest and likewise are your type. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/25 07:20 PM |
| – | Men should just listen to women now and stop approachingThe women sampled from the population only represent a loud majority. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 04:40 AM |
| 2 | Society is unintentionally creating more and more angsty single menStop listening to media. All they do is fear monger, promote weirdo ideas , and never held accountable. Where are the weapons of mass destruction in Iraq? If they were hyping us up to go to war because of WMD, what should there punishment if there never not begin with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/25 10:54 PM |
| – | Men have no options.This is great advice . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/25 10:27 PM |
| – | Men have no options.You have options, they might not be good options or maybe they are too picky. It could be a mixture of both. If you some good traits (attractive , muscular , appear well educated , successful, etc), you would get a choosing signal to approach . Stop focusing on gals who don't show interest, or ones you woudlnt be involved in. Simply, focus on being the best version of yourself. I'm not talking about meditation or channeling, but working on your health, career , fitness , education , etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/25 10:18 PM |
| 1 | "Womanese" - a guide to basic yet complex things women say and do without telling you what they meanstart dating her friend | /r/seduction | 02/05/25 06:06 PM |
| 19 | Q4M: Whats more radicalizing - actual dating experience or the manosphere?Most guys won't share their terrible dating experience . Growing up, people would make fun of you if your girl cheated on you. The internet gave guys a way to share notes on their experiences. Over time, guys in those spaces started seeing trends and responded accordingly. For example, it was very common to take a girl out on a date. Now, we know that a date doesn't mean she likes at all. More guys now vent with a simple coffee date. Another good example, you hear the typical story of "my ex was… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/25 05:33 PM |
| 6 | Women's standards are perfectly reasonable, their "type" however eliminates most guys before they even have a chanceHonestly, i want to protect myself from being an emotional dumping ground. After you hear all these stories, you stop caring. I don't want to be a jerk, but it draining. I'm not a therapist, they get paid a good amount when listening to patients. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 01:44 AM |
| 12 | Women's standards are perfectly reasonable, their "type" however eliminates most guys before they even have a chanceSay, " i don't care," when they start complaining. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/25 11:44 PM |
| 10 | Is there anyone here with a 4/10 physical appearance who manages to date women (regulary) with a 7.5/10 or higher physique? What’s your secret?money | /r/seduction | 23/04/25 10:33 PM |
| 1 | Redpillers think that women in the past were perfect, but they often just hid it betterYou can move to a new city, and start your new life. With social media and internet, we can never erase our past. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/25 09:02 AM |
| 2 | Men embrace redpill because mainstream advice is dogshitIf anything, the mainstream is afraid losing influence , and control. Guys aren't buying into the narrative, and aren't playing the same game. Let say, the red pill movement is the market correcting itself . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/25 07:20 PM |
| 2 | Men embrace redpill because mainstream advice is dogshitThe red pill is like Kurt Cobain's Nirvana. In the beginning , grudge was response to mainstream's consumer culture and anti corporation. Later, grudge scene was simply co opted, and the message softened. If you think about it, the mainstream only cares about selling products. They would target women, and guys would follow. However, when guys decided to check out the whole the thing. They came in and started marketing directly toward men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/25 07:07 PM |
| 2 | Toxic masculinity keeps getting reproduced via women's dating patternsHere a secret: We can't fix , or save people. We don't have that power to control people. If you want to help someone, never get into a romantic/ sexual relationship with that person. Predators come in all shapes and sizes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/25 06:14 PM |
| 6 | Toxic masculinity keeps getting reproduced via women's dating patternsIn America women have a good deal of freedom, but they complain like they are living in Saudi Arabia. If women can't vent and pick quality men, maybe we should go back to having arrange marriages. Men who "ditch" their wives are a minority. If anything , we shame men who won't take back a cheating wife, man up to raise an affair child, or stay in a toxic marriage. If you think women are oppressed by system, why are they never prosecuted for paternity fraud and required to payback the child suppo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/25 05:52 PM |
| 2 | Toxic masculinity keeps getting reproduced via women's dating patternsHey, Why don't you call out these gals who chose to have unprotected sex with felons, losers, jerks, or drug addicts In particular , I don't care about Andre Tate or his overall message. However, there still women that want to sleep with him, have his children, or chose to associate with him. If anything , you will try to shame men about not over looking her past, and "man up" to raise another guy's child. Here a pro tip: If a gal tells you her ex was blah blah or she only attracts (sleeps with … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/25 05:31 PM |
| 9 | Toxic masculinity keeps getting reproduced via women's dating patternsI always ask guys who up in fatherless homes, did your mother ever say, " your father was a jerk, creep, a hole." They will always answer yes. I simply say," hey, your mom was attracted to a holes, and decided to sex with them." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/25 03:57 PM |
| 1 | Does bodybuilding really increase my chances twentyfold?broad shoulders, strong back, great posture showcasing tricep, and muscular legs | /r/seduction | 20/03/25 07:57 PM |
| 16 | Best Jobs for Maximizing Seduction Opportunities?Focus on the big 3 factors that women find attractive: money, power, and fame. | /r/seduction | 13/03/25 05:32 PM |
| 8 | "Do Men Even Like Women Anymore?"Gas lighting method | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 22/02/25 09:50 PM |
| 1 | Seeing many stories where a girl cheats on her boyfriend with her EX, what qualities/traits could the EX have? What kind of emotion does he invoke in the girl?being familiar | /r/seduction | 13/02/25 10:46 PM |
| 1 | Is she actually interested in me or just stringing me along?You are better off deleting her number, and muting her stories/updates on social media. All this wasted time could have been better used on something useful like fitness, education, etc. Let say, you don't and end up dating her. Well, she still going to play the "hot cold" game. If she was actually interested in you, she wouldn't be playing hard to get. | /r/seduction | 09/02/25 11:56 PM |
| 1 | So no one told you life was gonna be this wayJennifer Aniston is criticizing JD Vance for comments he made in his past about women without children.Aniston shared a screenshot of Vance’s appearance on her Instagram stories, and wrote, “I truly can’t believe this is coming from a potential VP of The United States.”In a 2021 appearance on Tucker Carlson’s former Fox News show, Vance, who was then a candidate for the Ohio Senate, told Carlson that the United States was being run by “a bunch of childless cat ladies who are miserable at their o… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 23/09/24 07:09 PM |
| 2 | Wash away all your bad choices and bungled relationships with Abusive Ex™️The biggest red flag is a poorly written bio. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 23/09/24 06:57 PM |
| 1 | Woman tries to set man up for false rape.Bangalore officially Bengaluru is the capital and largest city of the southern Indian state of Karnataka. It has a population of more than 8 million. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 21/09/24 07:24 PM |
| 8 | Where do I go to find an older man who wants a wife not fwb or games?narcissist = someone who gets laid, and doesn't have to jump to hoop | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 21/09/24 05:56 PM |
| 4 | Where do I go to find an older man who wants a wife not fwb or games?What does she consider a narcissist? Does her bf have a current diagnosis by a board-certified medical professional? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 15/09/24 09:25 PM |
| 1 | For those wondering why fewer men intervene when a woman is abused.Police officers know the domestic V*, are some of the most dangerous types of incidents to arrive on scene. You can go in, and the gal will instantly retract their statement. They might have called a 3rd party to punish the other person. They might end up attacking the police officer for taking the man. The issue lies on a much deeper level. They might like that type of behavior. They also have a good deal of other factors: they are psychologically dependent, they might be mentally trapped in th… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 15/09/24 06:45 PM |
| 2 | Are our standards unrealistic? Should we settle? What is good enough? At what age should we just give up?Saying, 'Oh, did things work out with xxx." That can be seen as an attack on the matriarchy. Best Advice: Avoid accepting people's offer to play matchmaker. They might match you with someone who is way below level or out of your league. If someone asks about your dating life, " I'm not single, I'm unmarried. " | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 15/09/24 06:37 PM |
| 1 | Are our standards unrealistic? Should we settle? What is good enough? At what age should we just give up?Did the co-worker go on the date? What happen? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 15/09/24 08:23 AM |
| 2 | Back to square one.Don’t beg her. If she cared , she wouldn’t be this disrespectful. The best revenge is living well, and moving on with your life. Your ex is not your problem, you only care about your children. She probably only flaunting the other guy to get a rise out you. The moment you start dating someone who younger, more attractive she will come back running to you. Work on yourself. Your ex is no longer your problem. I don’t care if gets diagnosed with cancer, you are not there to an emotional tampon or a… | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/08/24 12:26 AM |
| 2 | No more dates with girls that have no kids🤣🤣🤣🤣 You are going to pay one way or another. If she not taking one guy to the cleaners, she would probably want you to step up | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/08/24 05:22 AM |
| 3 | No more dates with girls that have no kidsThe money gets taken out of your account and goes to your ex. The money is supposed to go to the kid, but we all know she is out drinking. SMH. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/08/24 01:13 AM |
| 2 | No more dates with girls that have no kidsEnd of child support payments | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/08/24 12:22 AM |
| 1 | No more dates with girls that have no kidsThere too many variables ( you, the ex, the kids, the new gf) to assume things will run absolutely good. Not to mention friends and in law. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/08/24 12:22 AM |
| 2 | No more dates with girls that have no kidsYou are single father who has active relationship with your ex. It doesn’t matter if it a good relationship, or bad relationship… she still in the picture. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/08/24 12:19 AM |
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