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Not just that.... if your just starting out, having a solid wingman can be great for pushing you to approach, building you back up if rejection bothers you. Also if you get a bit stumped, you have someone to talk to. Of course, you also need someone that respects you as a friend, otherwise it just becomes set stealing. Been there, experienced that. Finally... if you have some wings that are decent. Don't make everything about Game, like just meet up and play pool one night or something. Bond.
/r/seduction05/12/24 07:43 AM
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Are they in love with you? Are you sleeping with them? Or is it just oneitis? These are two very different things.
/r/seduction05/12/24 07:38 AM
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Don't put them on a pedestal (unless its to look up their skirt). Do you get "invested" talking to friends, family, random people. Treat women like you would a normal person.
/r/seduction05/12/24 07:37 AM
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You don't laugh, you just carry on talking. Some guys are like blah blah blah innuendo..... pause..... pause and its just wierd Just leave it in your language, her subconcious mind will process it "I had a really long day at work today. Some of the jobs really felt blow me, Fuck me. Have you ever had a day like that. Anyway this conversation is boring me lets move it in a nude erection. The other day I was watching some youtube program on rollercoasters, after coming down a giant ride and reachi…
/r/seduction05/12/24 07:35 AM
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No more than 3. 2 regular, 1 floater. Anymore than that, I do not the time.
/r/seduction04/12/24 10:47 AM
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OK... well I guess I can see point to it if your using apps and deciding which photos to use. Was actually a genuine question from a guy that dosn't use apps.
/r/seduction03/12/24 06:57 PM
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How does this enhance your life and/or improve your game? Or is it just you need external validation.
/r/seduction03/12/24 06:48 PM
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I don't really care what I am on a scale. I don't care what women are on a scale. I am attracted or I am not. If I am attracted, I believe I am totally in her league (note: belief not necessarily reality, but you only miss 100% of the shots you don't take). I do like guys rating themselves thogh, chumps cock blocking themselves with their negitive beliefs makes the game easier. Keep it up guys, keep telling yourselves you incel bullshit, imagine you were to believe it even more and those thought…
/r/seduction03/12/24 05:57 PM
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Change your internal representation, change the way everyone responds to you!!! Cause and effect.
/r/seduction03/12/24 12:07 PM
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Well whatever state serves you the best when approaching. For me, a positively confident state with a genuine curiosity about the people around me. That serves me the best. As an example, I went to a social even on Friday after work. Not straight after, however I had nuts deep in scripting and .csv files all day, so I was in a logical mood and a bit worn out. When I got home to get ready and go out, I got myself into the more sociable state that I described above. If I am going to a bar or party…
/r/seduction03/12/24 12:06 PM
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I am not a fan of Misery Method and its DHV stories. But if you go that route there is plenty of material on youtube on story telling. But why are you asking this? Do you have low standards and are needy. If you truly have standards and are not needy, it will come across in the way you behave, not as something you say, A needy man will be excited because he is talking to a woman and will care about the outcome. If your mindset was "I am going to enjoy my life regardless of you being in it or not…
/r/seduction03/12/24 09:19 AM
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Cngragulations, you are her girlfriend with a penis. Regarding Mystery as you mentioned him, what did you do to build attraction, did you make her qualify herself before you showed interest. The 7 hour rule, is it takes 7 - 10 hours, for a girl to fuck you and want to see you again, as opposed to buyers remorse. In this case it does not matter, your just her new girlfriend. As per Misery method you went straight to comfort.
/r/seduction02/12/24 07:31 PM
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Just want to add - the state you want to be in when you approach, Rehearse it, so your body knows it. Get into that state before you leave the fucking door.
/r/seduction02/12/24 07:26 PM
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No you didn't "Fuck up", you learnt and will hopefully grow from this. Part of learning is doing things and then realising you could do them differently.
/r/seduction02/12/24 05:09 PM
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Find new leads. If the girl who rejected you wants more, let her be the one chasing you. Not sure why you are being downvoted tbh, this sub is wierd.
/r/seduction02/12/24 04:41 PM
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OKK so if we had a guy who freaked out talking to women and was anxious as fuck, How would he go "natural". I actually don't follow the Misery Method by the way. But using that initially helped me get used to opening 2 sets, 3 sets, 4 sets, dealing with AMOGS, etc. And changing from my old interview type questions. But say I hadn't done any of that. Still blushed bright red speaking to women, unless drunk. How would I "assume I am the source of value" as a noobie?
/r/seduction02/12/24 02:56 PM
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Are you creating rapport, or just getting the number and leaving? Are you taking them on "instant dates"?
/r/seduction02/12/24 01:21 PM
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Because you are not building rapport. Unless you record your approaches, or let someone see you in action, no one will be able to help. Just asking why women flake and giving no details about the approach and interaction itself is going to get you nowhere. There is no magic forumulae here, no magic pill for you to take,
/r/seduction02/12/24 01:21 PM
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2 of Hypnotica's products that I know of feature the Limiting Belief exercise. I have done it countless times. It really changes things. Awakening Dominant Male Attitudes (Best version I have found) Ultimate Inner Game
/r/seduction02/12/24 10:42 AM
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If you want the easy route, be vague. If you want to be authentic and grow, tell her the truth.
/r/seduction02/12/24 08:41 AM
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Not a coach here. I have done daygame approaches, I have done nightgame game approaches. Forget the woman the guy approached, forget her number. What the guy did, probably altered the way he viewed himself and got rid of a load of negitive beliefs he had. That will go a lot further than telling someone who prob ably has a load of shit running in their head to just "accept it". And if your scared of approaching and talking to women in general, how else do you work on it other than going out of yo…
/r/seduction02/12/24 01:29 AM
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Marketing "Man talks to women" doesn't have the same appeal
/r/seduction02/12/24 01:26 AM
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dude... seriously... chill the fuck out.
/r/seduction01/12/24 11:21 PM
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Were there behaviours you were using just to "get her" or was everything authentic and just you being you (I hate that phrase by the way)?
/r/seduction01/12/24 09:21 PM
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I wasn't here in the olden days. OK, there are a few field reports written by me with a very old account. But mostly I was on some forums, an internal forum for the lair I was part of and on and still am on various FB groups. I never went down the RSD rabbit hole, but I lurked on RSDnation a few times, and even that seemed better than this dumpster fire. I'm not even sure why I am here now tbh. I have weekly calls with a small select group from within a (not so) small FB group. The only thing wi…
/r/seduction01/12/24 09:10 PM
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Despite my previous response to you. In full agreement here.
/r/seduction01/12/24 09:04 PM
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Yeah if your dumb enough to try to master it all at once. Babysteps. Practice, repetition. A bit at a time. Build it up. I don't know "The london Daygame Model", but if it has 5 stages. Well maybe its just me, but I would work on Stage 1 and get good at that before moving onto Stage 2. Do you have a degree? Did you just write a dissertation on Day 1, or did you build up the skills and knowledge to do it bit by bit Can you drive? Did you try everything needed on the test on your first lesson. Or …
/r/seduction01/12/24 09:04 PM
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Canned stuff is just about learning a different way to speak, Lets look at what chumps say and do on dates. They ask boring questions "What do you do for work", "What are your hobbies". These are all factual and boring. If you can put it on a spreadsheet or it sounds like facts and figures, don't fucking say it. Yeah I know this is "outdated PUA advice", but personally I still think it stands. But anyway.... its OK saying what NOT to do. That never answers the question on WHAT TO DO. Talking abo…
/r/seduction01/12/24 09:00 PM
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Are you putting yourself out there?
/r/seduction01/12/24 08:48 PM
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First of all props for taking action. Secondly, props for going for a 4 set. Most guys would sit behind an app because talking to 4 other humans would be too scarey for them. Thirdly, whilst we all want to help our friends. They must need to want to change themselves Have sent you a DM regarding better communities, where people actually understand lingo and will actually help as you do seem to be taking action and want to learn, instead of making excuses.
/r/seduction01/12/24 09:58 AM
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Are you illiterate?
/r/seduction01/12/24 09:55 AM
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Cocky/Funny has a place, but its for creating attraction. You say yourself, I'm in a social circle where I tend to be well regarded, most mature/oldest, What do you need Cocky Funny for in this scenario? Your probably already attractive. occasionally there's room to escalate but I noticed even struggling in the step of trying to build rapport in the moments before. So your issue is building rapport. Well rapport = Comfort + Trust. Cocky funny will not assist this, if anything it will do the oppo…
/r/seduction01/12/24 09:47 AM
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Theres people on here, who are doing more than saying shit like "I am a 10/10, why do women never approach me". However, it takes digging through a lot of shit. Then use what should of been Robert Greens 49th Law of Power, "build your own kingdom".
/r/seduction01/12/24 09:26 AM
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This place is a joke. Theres better places to go. But given the dumb questions asked on here, those people will never get into those groups. People should at least read the Wiki and learn to use Google.
/r/seduction01/12/24 08:25 AM
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Harsh blunt truth - you either did not vibe as well as you claim or they had a change of state when you texted them. If you build deep rapport, they will be texting and it will become annoying because they won't stop.
/r/seduction30/11/24 09:03 AM
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Well written.
/r/seduction29/11/24 02:58 PM
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I have a routine. For example Daytime - work Evening after work - Gym After Gym - Self development Inner Game or Mall for sarging Weekends - Daytime Sarging/Night Time Sarging Every other week - Hiking/Kayaking First thing Saturday morning Clean Up But it is not a fixed thing, as long as there is consistancy, I take it a week at a time. It is not set in stone.
/r/seduction29/11/24 12:57 PM
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£500 a call, we have a deal. You can buy 10 calls and get one free, if you buy in bulk. DM me.
/r/seduction29/11/24 12:07 PM
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From my own experience, able to go deep is what makes a date happen or a second date. Stay on surface level bullshit, where the impact? But whatever works for you.
/r/seduction29/11/24 12:04 PM
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Eye contact is not the be all/end all Yes looking away out of awkwardness will not do you any favours. But just because you are making eye contact, it does not mean nothing else matters. Its like baking a cake, eggs are important. But with only eggs, there is no cake.
/r/seduction29/11/24 12:00 PM
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Finally, if you are single whilst self-improving, the best thing to do is to remain single, especially if you're over the age of 25 (by then you should have SOME sexual and dating experience to warrant waiting). Hooking up and dating people just to get laid/feel something is a waste of time, money, and your nerves. Improve to the point where you'll attract most everybody, then pick someone who is greatly valued themselves, and not just some promiscuous vagabundo that's an easy catch. I disagree …
/r/seduction29/11/24 11:58 AM
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Why would you take a friend on a date. Just treat her like a friend and ask if she has any single friends that are hot. Make it clear she means nothing to you, instead if trying to win her over and thus g9ving her validation.
/r/seduction28/11/24 09:50 PM
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It's a basic form of fractionation. You lead the person through different emotional states alternating. So I may talk about death (loss and grief) and partying (fun and letting go). As the person re-enters each state they go in deeper. Soon they are cravi g the positive state like a junkie craves crack. This is basic game. Learn to google.
/r/seduction28/11/24 09:40 PM
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For me personally, it means I put less effort into Cold Approach and social skills. Also, most dating apps are owned by Match.com and walking out my door is free. Secondly personally I get no enjoyment using dating apps. I enjoy meeting people IRL, so I feel no need for the use of apps. That is not a "cop out", anyone can sit behind a screen. I get more enjoyment putting myself out there.
/r/seduction28/11/24 02:40 PM
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DO you speak your mind? Are you authentic or do you change yourself to match the woman? Are you afraid of rocking the boat or do you see conflict as part of life? Do you have boundries or do you let people walk all over you? Are you willing to walk away?
/r/seduction28/11/24 11:59 AM
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I think what your saying is the cop out. I mean yes if I was scared of talking to women IRL, I may take your advice. But I would rather just talk to a woman, than use an app as the middle man.
/r/seduction28/11/24 11:40 AM
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I think there is some truth to this on the dating apps. But in the real real world, having belief in yourself is what matters.
/r/seduction28/11/24 10:48 AM
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Your reality wraps itself around your beliefs. If you believe you "Have" to be 6 foot tall, 6 pack, 6 figure income and you truly believe that. Well a woman who is unsure of you will buy into your frame, why wouldn't they? Congrats though bro, you have a strong frame. albeit an ineffective one.
/r/seduction28/11/24 10:48 AM
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We’ve all seen it. Them guys who shoot their shot with a girl. They see the opportunity, walk right over and whisper something in their ear and have the girl giggling like no tomorrow. What TF are they saying? What they are "saying" does not matter. Its the vibe they give off. You can have the most interesting thing to say, but have shit delivery. You can deliver the most boring thing ever in an exciting way. How does someone make a person laugh so much with one comment when they don’t even know…
/r/seduction28/11/24 10:46 AM
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Nice article bro. Sadly though, those of us who understand this, probably don't need this advice. Those who need it, probably don't understand it. My own frame for dating and meeting up with women (I don't like setting the "Date" frame, it creates expectations), is I am there to relax and explore my genuine curiosity about the woman I am meeting. I also want to eliminate those who do not share a similar outlook on life as it will save time, energy and effort for us both.
/r/seduction28/11/24 10:38 AM
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Yeah, but your nightgame sucks, I get it your good at online game. Anyway, thanks for field report of shut game, it made me laugh, cringe and want to cry all at the same time.
/r/seduction27/11/24 08:52 PM
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Only speaking for myself, but beg to differ. Granted not that versed in daygame, but I have dealt with my fair share of BS in night game. Its part of what creates character and confidence.
/r/seduction27/11/24 08:47 PM
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Why don't you just say that then. Why do you need to "prove" that dating apps are "better"?
/r/seduction27/11/24 08:45 PM
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Part of game is learning how to deal with social situations. You have just demonstrated that although you are great behind a screen, i the real real world, your path leads to getting AMOGed and having women stolen off of you. Yeah.. thanks but no thanks.
/r/seduction27/11/24 06:40 PM
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