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| 2 | Navigating young adulthoodI’m sure there are many men here or elsewhere that have more experience evangelizing to atheists. In my limited experience the harder the heart the more you need to ask questions - not in a way where you are seeking to win an argument, you want to win the person. If someone says there is not objective truth, kindly ask them about a behavior that points to a belief about objective truth. For example, “I’m confused, how can xyz be ‘wrong’ if there is no objective truth?” If they get salty or it ca… | /r/RPChristians | 19/03/21 05:17 AM |
| 2 | Navigating young adulthoodYou seem to be actively struggling, so I’m going to take this a step farther. Your mission is weak because it isn’t specific. How do you plan to make disciples? Through playing sport and evangelizing? Getting into ministry? How do you want to spread God’s word? What, specifically are you doing now to further that mission? Are you learning Hebrew? Arguments against atheism? How to share the gospel with curious non-believers? How to share your faith with someone hostel to the Gospel? I’m not sugge… | /r/RPChristians | 18/03/21 10:37 PM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (03/17/21)Welcome. Thank you for sharing. It sounds like you are on a good path, or at least the start of one. You mention some evangelizing you are doing online (in the new group). Do you have a mission that involves making disciples? I know that the lack of direction can make commitment to the spiritual disciplines you describe more difficult. | /r/RPChristians | 17/03/21 03:35 PM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (03/17/21)OYS #7 32, 6’2” 180.6 lbs. Married 5, together 11, no kids. E1RM - Squat 222; DL 274; Bench 127; OHP 100 Physical: I'm still not back to lifting, but I've been eating clean and that's making a huge difference. I got up early the past two days. I know I need to be lifting. I'm getting there. I haven't been to any sort of doctor for 8 or 9 years, so I'm going to get some blood work done to check everything out. Specifically adrenals, thyroid, testosterone, etc. Mental/Emotional: I'm feeling better… | /r/RPChristians | 17/03/21 03:27 PM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (03/10/21)I would move beyond STFU. Maybe I’m wrong in your case, but I think STFU is the beginning. It is to break old habits of saying unattractive things, placating, and feeding you wife logic that only causes more ‘hamstering.’ Once you’ve broken your old pattern you need a new one. One that pulls he out of her negative emotional state and into your positive one. | /r/RPChristians | 14/03/21 05:35 PM |
| 2 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (03/10/21)That was dumb of me. I moved it. Thanks! | /r/RPChristians | 10/03/21 09:57 PM |
| 5 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (03/10/21)You mentioned your wife being frustrating, references pregnancy hormones, and gave an example of “does this make me look fat?” How much do you care about her emotions? I don’t mean about her well being or if she’s in some deep depression. But, when she gets upset is your primary motivation to somehow get her to stop being upset or a pain in the butt or is it the same as before she was upset? Her upset/rudeness/hamster/etc. is just another hurdle to overcome in whatever mission you’re on. u/red-c… | /r/RPChristians | 10/03/21 09:56 PM |
| 3 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (03/10/21)OYS #6 32, 6’2” 180.6 lbs. Married 5, together 11, no kids. E1RM - Squat 222; DL 274; Bench 127; OHP 100 Physical: I haven't lifted or done any working out (other than being generally active) for the past 2 weeks. This is really unusual for me. I'm having trouble waking up early and with a 9-5 and other commitments I'm not good at making the time. I'm looking to go remote if I can lift at home whenever or potentially join a gym by work to lift on my lunch break. I'm thinking my tiredness may be … | /r/RPChristians | 10/03/21 07:35 PM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (03/03/21)I’ve read that Ribbon Farm essay series and I don’t know that I follow what your suggesting exactly. I’m also not sure I’m a huge fan of that model, because being in the corporate world drives me nuts. I want to find a work-from-job so I can play guitar, read, or work on something of value to me during my down time. | /r/RPChristians | 05/03/21 03:50 PM |
| 2 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (03/03/21)As far a quitting porn goes, I struggled with this for years. What it took to finally quit was the Holy Spirit changing my heart. I don’t have a desire for it any more. I say that to remind you to pray, when you aren’t feeling tempted, for God to “create in me a clean heart, O God, and renew a right spirit within me.” I’m not suggesting you stop doing anything you are doing to prevent using porn, but it’s easy to try to handle these things ourselves instead of asking God for the change we need. … | /r/RPChristians | 03/03/21 07:25 PM |
| 3 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (03/03/21)OYS #5 32, 6’2” 184.6 lbs. Married 5, together 11, no kids. E1RM - Squat 222; DL 274; Bench 127; OHP 100 Physical: I'm switching to a body weight routine for the time being. I'm planing on 6 exercises broken up 2 a day 6 days a week and hitting 3 work sets per exercise. I'm not thrilled about not lifting, but I have to find something I can do in 30 minutes before work like brushing my teeth until I'm not up until 1 AM reflooring and painting the house. I'm back to meal prepping but I didn't make… | /r/RPChristians | 03/03/21 07:21 PM |
| 2 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (02/24/21)OYS #4 31, 6’2” 184.6 lbs. Married 5, together 11, no kids. E1RM - Squat 222; DL 274; Bench 127; OHP 100 Physical: Diet and lifting are falling by the wayside. I'm really struggling with the area, which is new for me. This is usually my strong point. I'm at a 9-5 day job for the first time since I got out of college, we're prepping our house to sell, I'm also starting a side business, and spending time on the 7 basics. I usually meal prep, which I need to get back to, since it actually saves tim… | /r/RPChristians | 24/02/21 03:08 PM |
| 3 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (02/17/21)OYS #3 31, 6’2” 184.6 lbs. Married 5, together 11, no kids. E1RMSquat 222; DL 274; Bench 127; OHP 100 ***I was copying and pasting my stats and didn’t remove the x5 when I switched to calculating my E1RM. All posts here are E1RM. Physical: Diet and Lifting - I've started tightening up my diet. Basically eating the same thing everyday except for dinner. The scale has been staying the same so I'm adding in some more calories over the next few weeks. I missed a lift last week, which I'm going to ma… | /r/RPChristians | 17/02/21 08:00 PM |
| 2 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (02/10/21)That’s helpful, thanks for the reply. I’m new to taking God’s law seriously, and there are a lot of conflicting sources on this information. Give a lot, cheerfully, and often to those that need it seems right to me as well. But. I’m also learning that what ‘seems right’ to me is often sinful. I really appreciate he direction. | /r/RPChristians | 12/02/21 04:58 PM |
| 2 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (02/10/21)Thank you for taking the time to share those links. Your story is really powerful, and there was a lot to think about and work through in the mission/vision/frame posts you linked. | /r/RPChristians | 11/02/21 07:11 PM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (02/10/21)OYS #2 31, 6’2” 184.6 lbs. Married 5, together 11, no kids. Squat 222x5; DL 260x5; Bench 105x5; OHP 92.5x5 Physical: Diet and Lifting - 6/7 days on the diet and 4/4 on the lifts. Moving in the right direction. I could be eating more. I go back to the office next Monday, and I'll be able to meal prep more consistently. Porn - Thank you all for your help with this last week. I haven't watched porn since before my last OYS. I don't know how to explain it, but I feel like I have more control over my… | /r/RPChristians | 10/02/21 05:06 PM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (02/03/21)Thank you, you are absolutely right. And, I agree, my 'excuse' is ridiculous. It's me choosing sin (porn) over God's gifts (sex within the marriage covenant). u/rocknrollchuck gave me some bible verses to memorize, and I'm starting in 1 Corinthians, but I'm going to add some from Genesis in there. Genesis 2:24 + 1:28. Mark10:9. | /r/RPChristians | 04/02/21 05:30 PM |
| 2 | Question.Yes, sex outside of marriage is a sin. I'm answering this in some detail, because I struggled (and still struggle) with sexual sin and temptation. I'm hoping this can help some of the single men with perspective. I'm one of the men who has spent time jumping through etymological hoops trying to discern 'original intent' form the Greek, so that I could justify my sin. It doesn't work that way, God's law is clear. Now, I'm not saying sex is wrong, bad, or evil. I heard two analogies in sermons rec… | /r/RPChristians | 04/02/21 04:57 PM |
| 2 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (02/03/21)Thank you. I'll start the book, and I joined the discord. Also, I'm starting those verses. | /r/RPChristians | 03/02/21 11:10 PM |
| 2 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (02/03/21)Thank you for your detailed reply. >This is excellent. I don't deny the need to dig in deeper, but how familiar with Scripture are you at this point? Not well enough. Which I'm sure will be my eternal answer. I can't list the kings through Judges and I still forget the order of the patriarchs. I know where to find the sermon on the mount and the similar sermon in Luke. I know the psalms are for worship and prayer and proverbs are not law. I know Jesus is the culmination of the law which Israel c… | /r/RPChristians | 03/02/21 07:41 PM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (02/03/21)(cont) Spiritual Assurance of Salvation - I have a lot of work to do to follow Jesus, but I know He's taken the burden of my sin and saved my soul. Quiet Time/Devotional - This needs more focus. I take time to pray and sit silently, but its stolen moments throughout the day, not a planed 30 minutes in the morning. Bible Study - I'm reading using M'Cheyenne's program (4 chapters a day, bible in a year). I'd like to be reading whole books through at the same time, as well. I've done this with Prov… | /r/RPChristians | 03/02/21 02:38 PM |
| 3 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (02/03/21)OYS #1 (14 over at MRP) 31, 6’2” 184 lbs. Married 5, together 11, no kids.Squat 202.5x5 DL 250x5 Bench 100x5 OHP 90x5 Read: MRP side bar, Most books 2x, slowly working back through taking detailed notes Reading: Sidebar pdf, WISNIFG I've be 'christian' culturally my whole life, but the Holy Spirit changed my heart recently. I now know Jesus was crucified, died, was buried, and rose from the dead and sits at the right hand of the Father as much as I know the sun will rise tomorrow. This is new fo… | /r/RPChristians | 03/02/21 02:37 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - January 26, 202131, 6’2” 184.2 lbs Married 5, together 11, no kids. Squat 202.5x5 DL 250x5 Bench 100x5 OHP 90x5 Thing that went well: The new job is going really well. I keep getting more responsibility and I'm learning the new field quickly. Having a regular schedule is helpful for me. It's easier to have habits when there are blocks of time to schedule it around. I get home at 4:30 and lift. It's become automatic. I've been working from home (really going to a coffee shop) so I can get my work done efficientl… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 26/01/21 04:09 PM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - January 19, 2021OYS #13 31, 6’2” 181.4 lbs Married 5, together 11, no kids. Squat 202.5x5 DL 250x5 Bench 100x5 OHP 90x5 Things that are going well: Started a new job, which is fantastic. I'm doing well, the company is great, and my finances are back on track (or will be by mid-February). This is an industry change for me, and I have a longer term plan in place for starting my own business in a tangential field, and while this isn't permanent it is a step in the direction of my (current) goals. Sex twice last we… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/01/21 03:55 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - January 12, 2021OYS #12 31, 6’2” 180.6 lbs Married 5, together 11, no kids. Squat 202.5x5 DL 250x5 Bench 100x5 OHP 87.5x5 Thank you to the guys who took the time to review my OYS on the live stream. I'm back from a 14-day ban for rule 9. I also took another week off, since I was on vacation. I got it about the navel-gazing. I'll cut that out. Seriously, thank you all for taking the time to go through this for us. Just some clarity on the 'I need to be gaming in everyday life' comment I made in my last OYS. I'm … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/01/21 02:15 PM |
| 1 | OYS Weekly Livestream 12/15/2020Yeah, makes sense. That was dumb of me. Thanks. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/12/20 03:17 PM |
| 1 | OYS Weekly Livestream 12/15/2020I’d like to sign up for feedback. Thanks for taking the time to do the live stream. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/12/20 01:39 AM |
| 3 | Own Your Shit Weekly - December 08, 2020OYS #10 31, 6’2” 190.6 lbs Married 5, together 11, no kids. Squat 202.5x5 DL 250x5 Bench 100x5 OHP 87.5x5 Read: NMMNG, MMSLP, MAP, Pook, WISNIFG, MAP, Sidebar, WOTSM Reading: WISNIFG, Bang, Unchained Man I've been really depressed the last week or so. This is something that I've had on and off most of my adult life. I believe that it is my fault and it is mostly (if not all) because I've let my discipline slide and I became a 'drunk captain' - mostly checked out of my life. However, my dad had s… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/12/20 04:43 PM |
| 3 | Own Your Shit Weekly - December 01, 2020OYS #7 31, 6’2” 189.9 lbs Married 5, together 11, no kids. Squat 202.5x5 DL 250x5 Bench 100x5 OHP 87.5x5 Read: NMMNG, MMSLP, MAP, Pook, WISNIFG, MAP, Sidebar, WOTSM Reading: WISNIFG, Bang, Unchained Man I still haven’t caught up to where I was before my lazy break from lifting, specifically on squat. I’m back to my routine, but I’m frustrated with myself for making excuses and taking time off. I’ve just added in some ‘find it and grind it’ and stretching mobility work to loosen up my hips and fi… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/12/20 06:27 PM |
| 3 | Own Your Shit Weekly - November 24, 2020OYS #7 31, 6’2” 190.6 lbs Married 5, together 11, no kids. Squat 220x5 DL 240x5 Bench 110x5 OHP 85x5 Read: NMMNG (x2), MMSLP, MAP, Pook, Sidebar, WISNIFG, MAP Reading: WISNIFG, Bang, Unchained Man I missed 2 of 3 lifts last week. That was dumb. I know better, but I got lazy and took a few days off because I was being a pussy. I’ve noticed over the last few weeks that I run my life in a predictable cycle. I have a bunch of motivation and start a bunch of projects. I'll have 15 habits I’m trying t… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/11/20 10:58 PM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - November 17, 2020OYS #7 31, 6’2” 190.6 lbs Married 5, together 11, no kids. Squat 220x5 DL 240x5 Bench 110x5 OHP 85x5 Read: NMMNG (x2), MMSLP, MAP, Pook, Sidebar, WISNIFG, MAP Reading: WISNIFG, Bang, Unchained Man I was banned for 14 days for my last OYS. I said ’she' 13 times in a relatively short post. My initial reaction was to be butt hurt. I was all worried about randos on the internet not liking me. Fuck that. Rule 9. I forgot is way OYS, not bitch about your wife. My bad. Physical: Overall this is going w… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/11/20 02:08 PM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - October 27, 2020You're right. Thanks for pointing that out. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/10/20 04:39 PM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - October 27, 2020Looking forward to reading more. Thanks for compiling that. Huge turning point for me. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/10/20 04:38 PM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - October 27, 2020OYS #6 31, 6’2” 190.6 lbs Married 5, together 11, no kids. Squat 205x5 DL 215x5 Bench 102.5x5 OHP 75x5 Read: NMMNG (x2), MMSLP, MAP, Pook, Sidebar, WISNIFG, MAP Reading: WISNIFG, Bang Why I’m here: I’ve been unhappy in my marriage since the beginning. Some things are good, but most things could be better, and some are unacceptable. As soon as I got a picture of the message here (everything is my fault and responsibility) I knew I was in the right place. I didn’t do an OYS last week, because for … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/10/20 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - October 13, 2020OYS #5 31, 6’2” 188 lbs Married 5, together 11, no kids. Squat 185x5 DL 205x5 Bench 95x5 OHP 70x5 Read: NMMNG (x2), MMSLP, MAP, Pook, Sidebar Reading: WISNIFG, MAP, Bang FINANCE: Most of my time is going to working to get this new business off the ground. I’m making progress. PHYSICAL: A little less physical than last week, but overall moving in the right direction. My diet has been much better this week and I’m up in weight for the first time in about a month. PERSONAL: I reconnected with some … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/10/20 09:50 PM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - October 06, 2020OYS #4 31, 6’2” 186 lbs Married 5, together 11, no kids. Squat 180x5 DL 205x5 Bench 90x5 OHP 70x5 Read: NMMNG (x2), MMSLP, MAP, Pook, Sidebar Reading: WISNIFG, MAP, Bang FINANCE: The new business is going well so far. I don’t have any sales, yet, but things are moving forward. I’ve got two sales calls this week so far, so we’ll see how it goes. If I can land three clients I’ll be able to make this my main focus job wise. PHYSICAL: I’ve about doubled the amount of time I’m working out. It feels g… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/10/20 05:19 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - September 29, 20201st week of September. I'm not sure if you don't get this in that it's so dumb in general or if my explanation is just so poor it's confusing. I'm not trying to be romantic, I'm trying to 'arrange' shit so I don't have to face rejection. Instead of trying to fuck her and facing a possible 'no' I'm waiting for her to jump me. I try to 'arrange' it so she will. I'm not saying I see this as a positive. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 30/09/20 12:21 AM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - September 29, 2020Heard. 20 since the relapse. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 30/09/20 12:10 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - September 29, 2020OYS #3 31, 6’2” 186 lbs Married 5, together 11, no kids. Squat 165x5 DL 185x5 Bench 85x5 OHP 65x5 Read: NMMNG (x2), MMSLP, MAP, Pook Reading: Sidebar, WISNIFG GENERAL: I’m 91 days into no PMO, with one relapse. Stupid of me to relapse. I lost focus, thinking I had it handled. I’ve corrected that system, and that’s going strong. FINANCES: This is my biggest area of focus. I’m at a job I currently don’t enjoy. It’s commission sales which I’m good with, but I couldn't care less about the product, a… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/09/20 04:30 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - September 22, 2020I hear you there. I had one relapse a little bit ago. Otherwise, I'm 88 days into no PMO. I have that there as a goal, because the one time I relapsed it was because I thought I'd been so long without a craving I didn't need to worry about it. Stupid. I'm starting some of those other goals as next steps. I'm not watching porn, so now what? That's what I'm figuring out. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 26/09/20 04:05 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - September 22, 2020I’m having a hard time answering this question clearly- which is probably the problem you’re pointing out. Setting targets at the current gig is so I don’t slack off there while I build the new business. Building the new business is to gain more control over my life and finances, doing something I’m good at and enjoy. PMO leads to depression for me, spending 2 hours a day watching porn was what started my slide into beta-dom and where I got off track to begin with. The other stuff is to start br… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/09/20 04:21 PM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - September 22, 2020OYS #2 31, 6’2” 188 lbs Married 5, together 11, no kids. Squat 150x5 DL 175x5 Bench 75x5 OHP 62.5x5 Read: NMMNG (x2), MMSLP, MAP, Pook Reading: Sidebar, WISNIFG WORK: I’m grinding on my new business, and it’s going well. I’m still probably about 2 weeks out form acquiring clients, and this feeling that ‘I can handle whatever happens’ is new. I’m in a place of pressure and change, but I feel excited and good. A year ago I would have felt that I needed to include my wife in any business venture, t… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/09/20 02:47 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - September 15, 2020OYS #1 31, 6’2” 188 lbs Married 5, together 11, no kids. OHP 55x5 Squat 135x5 DL 155x5 Bench 70x5 Read: NMMNG (x2), MMSLP, MAP Reading: Pook, Sidebar, WISNIFG BACKGROUND: I married the girl I was dating after a somewhat rocky relationship- mostly me being rocky because of some family garbage I didn’t know how to handle when I was young. I was aggressive and went after what I wanted in my life. After my family had a huge falling out my rock solid Fram turned to jello, and I just grabbed onto my w… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/09/20 03:08 PM |
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