Uttzpretzels Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	How do I pursue a man as a woman?		Uttzpretzels	/r/seduction	14/04/22 12:18 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	I slept with 56 girls in a year and this is what I learnt...(Part 2) Well now I’m confused. You went from saying relationships ARE codependent to they aren’t. I’m not you even know what you want. I got A LOT OF HATE LAST night because I was drunk. Don’t do what I did lmao.	/r/seduction	14/09/22 12:39 AM
1	I slept with 56 girls in a year and this is what I learnt...(Part 2) I’m a little confused by what character assignation means. Women invest a lot more in sex. It’s natural for us to bond and fall in love after having sex with the same person repeatedly. Not every lady but speaking on biological terms. That’s literally how it is for us. Oxytocin in released from sex and it causes us to bond. Usually we want a relationship when we bond. Have you heard of attachment styles? Maybe find out yours. Do you really view relationships as codependent? that’s an extremely p…	/r/seduction	13/09/22 08:19 PM
0	I slept with 56 girls in a year and this is what I learnt...(Part 2) Wtf 😂 okay thanks for motivation	/r/seduction	12/09/22 01:49 PM
-1	I slept with 56 girls in a year and this is what I learnt...(Part 2) Facts	/r/seduction	12/09/22 08:55 AM
-2	I slept with 56 girls in a year and this is what I learnt...(Part 2) Where did I actually say a slut is weak minded? No where	/r/seduction	12/09/22 08:51 AM
1	I slept with 56 girls in a year and this is what I learnt...(Part 2) Ahhh. No	/r/seduction	12/09/22 06:04 AM
-10	I slept with 56 girls in a year and this is what I learnt...(Part 2) Incorrect. About the cheating. Y’all need to stop assuming and just ask. This is seriously pissing me off. IF YOU ATE NOT COMMUNICATING NEEDS. IF YOU ARE NOTT SHARING THOUGHTS. HOW THE FUCK AM I(such a big capital) supposed to know. Please communicate? It’s healthy. It’s okay. It tried building healthy communication with. Guy I wasn’t even dating. All I wanted to do was talk about how to lessen my confusion while doing to sex thing. What I gay was way more confusion	/r/seduction	11/09/22 11:52 PM
-4	I slept with 56 girls in a year and this is what I learnt...(Part 2) If you have an iq and read my comment, It wasn’t toward weak minded women or sluts. It was towards men that prey on them. But you know a special thing I learned Every woman knows a woman that has been sexually assaulted but not every guy knows a guy that has hurt a woman. Make it make sense real quick y’all. Go right ahead hate me cause sheesh. ASK ME. I DARE YOU	/r/seduction	11/09/22 11:40 PM
-6	I slept with 56 girls in a year and this is what I learnt...(Part 2) Mmm. I don’t think so.	/r/seduction	11/09/22 11:15 PM
-1	I slept with 56 girls in a year and this is what I learnt...(Part 2) I’m also in the dating scene. It sucks. We have people telling us to do x,y,z. But then also have OTHER people saying the same x,y,z advice. This may come as confusing but I’m just gonna unleash here I’ve been single for two years. I take some pride myself in for it. When men are telling you game (anywhere) its cause you’re not the first. He’s had practice.	/r/seduction	11/09/22 11:09 PM
6	I slept with 56 girls in a year and this is what I learnt...(Part 2) Neither does your comment. What reaction would you like?	/r/seduction	11/09/22 10:58 PM
-4	I slept with 56 girls in a year and this is what I learnt...(Part 2) Show me where he spoke about his intentions	/r/seduction	11/09/22 10:57 PM
37	I slept with 56 girls in a year and this is what I learnt...(Part 2) Sounds stressful and not gratifying	/r/seduction	11/09/22 10:31 PM
3	I slept with 56 girls in a year and this is what I learnt...(Part 2) Because… I’m… like… a woman? I also commented on a comment that had nothing to do with winning validation from sleeping other women. I just agreed with his point.	/r/seduction	11/09/22 10:29 PM
174	I slept with 56 girls in a year and this is what I learnt...(Part 2) It can’t be fulfilling. It’s just filling a void with validation	/r/seduction	11/09/22 09:49 PM
29	I slept with 56 girls in a year and this is what I learnt...(Part 2) I’m also really proud of the other men on here that are like “wtf????”. Which is actually the majority which also makes me happy tbh	/r/seduction	11/09/22 09:47 PM
15	I slept with 56 girls in a year and this is what I learnt...(Part 2) You need therapy lmao. Clearly something is amiss if your ego is that big and you’re praying on sluts and weak minded women. Have fun having zero emotional connection during your life time. Ew lmao	/r/seduction	11/09/22 09:45 PM
0	My gf cheated on me. Here's what I learned You probably jut like whores without even knowing it	/r/seduction	11/09/22 09:07 PM
35	My gf cheated on me. Here's what I learned I’m really sorry for you. As a women it hurts me to hear your story of a another women causing you pain. It honestly just sucks to constantly get the reality check that there are shitty people out there. I really hope you heal and don’t become jaded. Although I can sense that’s what you’re dealing with now. Talking on Number one. While I can agree that ldr’s are hard and a lot of trust needs to go into them with the right person they work and it’s extremely gratifying. I’ve been there. Yes I was…	/r/seduction	11/09/22 09:05 PM
3	Are there women who pretend to like you for the sake of attention? And if so, do you call them out on it? She sounds like the type of woman you are assuming her to be. Next time she throws herself at you just shrug her off and walk away. That will send a clear message to her that you know she’s fake.	/r/seduction	07/09/22 10:09 AM
1	Why do girls say they " don't usually do this " Yes 100%	/r/seduction	03/09/22 11:10 PM
1	Why do girls say they " don't usually do this " The first time I used this type of term (specifically “I’ve never done this”) recently and I can give you thought by thought in my head and what happened. We were banging (I’m f28 he’s m26). He was switching things up a lot. Which I genuinely like because dominance and stuff. But he puts me in a position I haven’t done since I was like 17. The guy who I did this specific position with was someone I was with for 4 years total. We lost our vCards to each other. Anyway me and vCard dude try this po…	/r/seduction	03/09/22 11:09 PM
3	Question: How to know whether you’re giving up too early or walking away with your self-respect intact? I agree with atomant. If you don’t show direct interest why should she? The odds of this girl taking advice from the internet just like you are probably is higher than you think and most advice women get are the same things men do but with a “twist” to appeal and make sense to women. So again. If your game is to not show interest and create uncertainty then what makes you think she’s not playing the game right back? Be direct and mature that’ll probably make you stand out. If you get a nah then …	/r/seduction	24/08/22 10:33 AM
7	Absence makes the heart grow fonder I wouldn’t say feeling cheated on is how women feel with this. I would say that if you show consistency In The beginning it’s expected throughout. If you come in setting the bar high for yourself it has to be maintained. If it dies off after only a few weeks it’s seen as a loss of interest which we accept and move one or some women are smart and realize what you showed in the beginning was not the real ‘you’ and find it to be a turn off.	/r/seduction	31/07/22 10:44 PM
1	How can I show my interest if I am naturally reserved and don’t know how to express how I feel. Well yes of course. It can be started with the basic day to day task	/r/seduction	08/07/22 12:34 AM
1	How can I show my interest if I am naturally reserved and don’t know how to express how I feel. Hmm. We sound similar although I’m a woman. Therapy has helped with the unnatural feeling of expressing animation. Anyway. You should look into the psychology of performance anxiety. Often when a person has anxiety about performing a task before it’s even begun they’ll fail or have subpar results in performing the task. This goes beyond sexual performance. In shorter terms faking until you make it can actually work and it’s all about your mindset.	/r/seduction	06/07/22 09:47 AM
2	How do you get over regret? You have a lot of lessons you can take from this unhealthy and unhappy relationship. You now know what you DONT want from a partner. How you DONT want to be treated again. Small red flags your partner had in the beginning that turned horrible in the end will now be more noticeable when getting to know a new potential partner. From all these DONTs and red flags and bad traits you should be able to piece together what you DO want from your next. If you continue the mindset of woe is me I’ll never …	/r/seduction	05/07/22 09:39 PM
1	When girls call you out on negging. What to say? Any women with an ounce of self respect would not be giving any form of contact info to a boy who calls them disgusting. “Teasing” or not. I would have walked away after the gym comment.	/r/seduction	29/06/22 12:20 AM
1	Girl told me she likes my company and that she loves me then stopped responding Oh lord. Run	/r/seduction	27/06/22 12:15 PM
2	Girls who flex about stuff other guys are providing them I don’t use what other guys give me to make other guys want me cause I don’t have to lmao. There’s such a thing as receiving and staying humble and not using material items and other people to flaunt my value. You’re point is moot if for some reason you’re trying single me out for my comment. Thanks for trying tho.	/r/seduction	27/06/22 12:21 AM
5	Girls who flex about stuff other guys are providing them That too	/r/seduction	26/06/22 09:52 PM
71	Girls who flex about stuff other guys are providing them That is so cringy 😂 give your attention to women who flex what they can do for themselves not ones that clearly use and moonch off others.	/r/seduction	26/06/22 07:51 PM
5	Are women really intimidated by tall guys? Hell no. I’m 5’3 and want to climb them like a tree	/r/seduction	22/06/22 11:42 PM
9	Why do guys put girls on a pedestal? What the actual fuck does this even mean	/r/seduction	18/06/22 11:32 AM
4	Women, do you like getting approached in public? As long as it’s tasteful and not a desperate plea then yeah I do like being approached	/r/seduction	18/06/22 02:46 AM
2	Why do obese guys become attractive to women after losing weight but being already in shape doesn’t have the same effect? The self devotion and growth are more apparent.	/r/seduction	06/06/22 10:21 PM
1	A super easy and simple trick to make sure that once you ARE the boyfriend, how to not fuck it up. Maybe so, but I don’t think anyone wants to be treated like a vapid unworthy pos.	/r/seduction	26/05/22 01:38 PM
5	A super easy and simple trick to make sure that once you ARE the boyfriend, how to not fuck it up. Clearly. You’ll be in relationshits.	/r/seduction	26/05/22 05:14 AM
5	Ended first date on first base and interest in sex, but was told "you gave off friend vibes". Had a hard time physically escalating across a table in a restaurant, could I have done better? You know how y’all say things to create some uncertainty and get into a woman’s head? Yeah. She just did that to you and worked cause you made a Reddit post. Just go with it. And let it unfold naturally. If you initially push too hard she’ll probably pull back even harder. Especially if she’s told you she doesn’t want to be seen in that light	/r/seduction	20/05/22 12:38 AM
1	Matched on dating app with woman who says she is moving to my city While I feel your advice is solid, placing all women in that category is unfair. He also said flirty, not sexting. Huge difference imo. And likely to most women. Op, as a women myself, expect that she is also talking to other men on the app. However, the fact that she has circled back is a good sign of reciprocated initial interest. Personally I didn’t do that unless I have interest or later realized I’m interested. Also take into the fact that youre both established adults with careers and busy…	/r/seduction	18/05/22 07:43 AM
1	Do girls like and want to have sex too? Yes? Wtf kinda question is that 😂	/r/seduction	17/05/22 05:42 PM
3	Sending a text after several months. In a similar situation. I met a guy on a dating app. Things went well for a month. But miscommunications happened and I dropped contact with him because I was getting a not very into me vibe from him. Reconciliation and a decent discussion happened but proceeded down separate paths. A few months later he shot his shot again. I was surprised but very cautious and guarded at first so I’d expect the same reaction if she’s single and even slightly interested. My advice is to be friendly, open, patie…	/r/seduction	02/05/22 04:12 AM
0	How to have fun doing new things/new places? Get comfortable with doing those new things and seeing new places alone. A little uncomfortable at first but learning to enjoy your own company will definitely lower your need for another person.	/r/seduction	26/04/22 05:39 AM
0	Anyone here successfully build a social circle starting with none? But you’re a guy so I’d trust what you have to say about it. I was trying to give some empathy towards a similar experience but it probably can’t be solved the same way	/r/seduction	17/04/22 05:33 AM
2	Anyone here successfully build a social circle starting with none? I will say that there are also some straight dudes trying to “be friends” with ladies too.	/r/seduction	17/04/22 05:31 AM
7	Anyone here successfully build a social circle starting with none? I’m in my 20s and moved to a new area about two years ago. Most of my coworkers are my age and we get along great but they’re all the try that like to complain that their bored but do nothing about it. Like go for a hike, try something new etc. I found a really great friend on bumble friends 😅 she’s a local so I’ve gotten to experience more of what the city has to offer and she’s always wanting to do new things together. I don’t know how male friendly that app is but it worked for me. Maybe try …	/r/seduction	17/04/22 02:24 AM
1	How do I pursue a man as a woman? Damn are you calling me stupid? 😂😂😂 Are his hints what I described above?	/r/seduction	14/04/22 11:41 PM
1	How do I pursue a man as a woman? I figured. But as the person having the game played to. How do I react/Respond? To my knowledge it’s usually men having this done to them.	/r/seduction	14/04/22 05:25 AM
1	Do girls talk to each other about a guy they think is hot? Absolutely	/r/seduction	08/04/22 04:39 AM
1	PSA: Don't waste time on girls who don't like you We play hard to get to gauge interest and intent. I only do this when I’m confused by him or know that he’s been around the block a few times. It’s not cause we lost the ability to keep a good man. It’s to weed out the shit ones and find the good ones. Y’all play other crazy games too to makes us crazy about you so I don’t wanna hear it 😂	/r/seduction	03/04/22 03:44 PM
1	PSA: Don't waste time on girls who don't like you Hold on so if I’m naive and don’t pick up on the flirting right away. I’m going to be dropped? Man wtf. I work with nothing but guys and all they do is make sexual jokes in conversation. I’ve just adapted to that being normal talk from men and continue regular conversation especially through text. I think this guy was into me. He dropped innuendos everywhere. I’d just laugh react and continue on. Lmaooooo omg 🤦🏻‍♀️ should I text him?	/r/seduction	03/04/22 03:40 PM