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| 3 | Truth & stats - men are statistically more vulnerable to divorce and its deleterious effectsStill better than letting them play Roblox for 15 hours a day. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/01/25 04:52 PM |
| 5 | For average looking guys out there who successfully started dating again after divorce was finalized, what strategies worked for you?Bathing suit in the ladies’ room. Got it. :) | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/01/25 06:44 AM |
| 2 | Just heard something brutal on the radi0…And vacuum the house, mop the floors, cook dinner, walk the dog, plan date nights, organize storage, buy the kids iPads, take them for haircuts, make sure they brush before school… She handled DoorDash pretty well I suppose. Knew everything on Netflix. And put together lunches of Cheetos, fish crackers, and occasionally a banana. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/01/25 07:26 PM |
| 6 | Can I make it or living a solitary life after divorce is only a fantasy?Of course it’s doable. With the kids older now the financial hit won’t be as bad. Being around the same age as you, and having just moved out myself, the worst part at this stage was the actual labor of moving and setting up in a new place and figuring out all the logistics with getting the kids set up nicely. I’m not young anymore and my back lets me know it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/01/25 07:48 AM |
| 2 | The Positives of Divorce?I know right, fucking Chad over here is making me feel insecure 😆 | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/12/24 02:19 AM |
| 0 | What do I do with her stuff?Cum on them lol | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/12/24 01:39 AM |
| 8 | Wait at least one year after Divorce before dating.Your local gloryhole heals all wounds. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/11/24 02:03 PM |
| 2 | Wife suggesting we won’t make it as a married couple. All because of Trump.I wouldn’t assume that. They have peer groups that in time will also recognize the insanity of that extreme behavior. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/11/24 05:25 PM |
| 1 | Divorce with slightly older children?My autistic son seems to be handling it very well. The others, not so much. About the same ages as yours. It’s difficult to know whether it’s teenage angst or if they actually hate my guts now. I wasn’t ready for it TBH. Now I understand how kids might grow to not speak with their father. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/10/24 02:55 PM |
| 13 | Modern women aren’t worth itWomen are like sports cars. Nice to look at but expensive as hell and they don’t even work half the time. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/10/24 08:27 PM |
| 1 | Divorce whole still living together? Or wait until house is sold?It’s whatever you agree to really. You can do it either way. If you’re still sharing bills I’d just wait until it’s final or someone moves out. (I’m doing this now. It works if you’re amicable.) | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/10/24 05:39 AM |
| 4 | Financial ruin (divorce) vs. Wasted life (stay)Baby-rabies manifesting as temporary Love-bombing. Once babies are born, in some relationships we’re only needed for our utilitarian labor and financial support. Same old sitch. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/09/24 05:22 PM |
| 6 | Did any of you have mental health issues as a result of your marriage or divorce?Or third eye opened | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/07/24 03:27 PM |
| -2 | After a failed marriage and seeing vows broken out of anger, I struggle to see the benefit of marriage. It seems many women's loyalty is conditional, depending on their options and the state of the relationship./menslib checking in 😂 | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/07/24 02:04 AM |
| 1 | Struggling with STBXW’s glow-upJust adding my two cents that music jogs are not helpful for me: it tends to allow my mind to wander and get distracted by intrusive negative thoughts too often. Without music, I am forced to focus on my breathing, gait, pace, etc with much more intention. YMMV homies :) | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/07/24 01:46 AM |
| 8 | Struggling with STBXW’s glow-upFrom the wisdom of Paul Simon: “Whose gonna love you when your looks are gone?” | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/07/24 01:40 AM |
| 16 | Red flags in possible future wives!A vagina | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/07/24 12:26 AM |
| 4 | Were signs there before your divorce? Pre-marriage specifically?Are you me? 🙃 | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/06/24 02:41 AM |
| 1 | Why do i feel like ending life is a solutionGuys OP is not necessarily a woman | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/06/24 06:53 AM |
| 2 | The idea of dating again disgusts me… 2 yrs post/divorceLove style: Presents and thoughtful gestures | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/06/24 08:45 PM |
| 16 | The idea of dating again disgusts me… 2 yrs post/divorceMy dog offers all the true companionship I need. That’s real love, lifelong (for them anyway) and mutual with no conditions. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/06/24 08:43 PM |
| 1 | Songs that help you get throughFaces - Ooh La La and Whitesnake -Here I Go Again (shoutout to The Simpsons on that) | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/06/24 05:29 PM |
| 3 | Women and reality of life. Are they far fetched?That Rod Stewart song is dead-on:”I wish that I knew what I know now, when I was younger…” | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/05/24 11:43 PM |
| 2 | Women and reality of life. Are they far fetched?I mean, pets can be major besties with anyone. Mine takes up most of my mornings and sleeps in bed. Worth disclosing, but only on a first date IMO. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/05/24 11:42 PM |
| 2 | Getting Bought OutTherapy is great advice for the kids. Be prepared to take the blame for a while. It should get better over time. For what it’s worth, I’m better friends now with my STBXW - still living at home with the kids. We literally haven’t fought once since I got served. She only served me because I asked her to. I regret not doing it myself just out of emotional fortitude. Cooperating is important for the kids sake. It’s better than projecting bad vibes all the time. I talk to my kids about different nei… | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/05/24 02:30 AM |
| 8 | Money Making after child SupportIs.. is that money laundering? 😂 | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/05/24 01:36 AM |
| 7 | Marriage insurance for menJust get a prenup | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/05/24 04:20 PM |
| 6 | I almost feel like during the separation, she completely managed to deconstruct our history and relationships to accommodate her decision to separate.M counselors are not for men, they’re for telling men that they’re wrong and she’s right. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/05/24 01:54 PM |
| 3 | Post divorce dating adviceDogs are better than friends anyway :) | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/04/24 04:53 AM |
| 3 | In the state of Virginia, is it okay to marry again and have kids during a divorce?This is a support sub for men going through divorce. It’s not where you’ll learn how to destroy someone like that. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/04/24 12:47 PM |
| 2 | Does your STBXW wish you a happy anniversary?Give her time to adjust | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/04/24 01:14 AM |
| 6 | Dating a person with little to no net worth at age 40?She’s looking for happiness and stability. And under the circumstances your role includes financial stability. Personally I wouldn’t unless it’s a golden pussy, and even then it’s short term. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/04/24 11:52 PM |
| 2 | Back into monk modeTen months is nothing in this sub. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/04/24 02:51 PM |
| 1 | How did you level yourself up?You could say that you’re the Master of your domain. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/04/24 06:19 AM |
| 11 | Got a Vasectomy TodayGod mode unlocked | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/04/24 05:05 AM |
| 1 | LuckyWas he ripping and tearing at hedonism? | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/03/24 01:24 AM |
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