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False AccusationUzzer_lozer19/r/MensRights18/07/20 08:58 PM
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FeminismUzzer_lozer19/r/MensRights13/07/20 11:27 AM
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Uzzer_lozer19/r/Divorce_Men04/11/19 10:25 AM
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Just find an example online and amend it for your situation, the lawyers and judges would rather keep it as vague as possible as they really don't care as they want the case out the door. But either way if your partner doesn't agree then you'll have to compromise so it depends on what the judge feels is appropriate.
/r/Divorce_Men12/03/23 04:39 PM
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Nope, she'll have lawyers and "friends" saying she can get more out of you.
/r/Divorce_Men10/03/23 03:06 PM
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Mediation is an easier option but a word of warning as it can be a waste of time and money until you both sign on the line at the end. From experience you can spend hundreds on sessions, lawyers, files and documents only for them to walk away at the end with no punishment
/r/Divorce_Men10/03/23 02:59 PM
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That guy must've had the worst lawyer in the world to get that judgement
/r/MensRights07/03/23 11:59 PM
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Yes
/r/MensRights25/02/23 11:18 PM
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"And the judge reckoned it was a one-off..." I wondered if that would fly if she had murdered him as I'm sure there's a whole bunch of them in prison who only done it once.
/r/MensRights23/02/23 10:42 PM
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Yeah it all sounds good but overall it seems her family have been looking for some loophole or excuse that someone else was to blame and not her for assaulting her BF.
/r/MensRights13/02/23 09:11 PM
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"The IOPC also asked the Met to apologise to Ms Flack's family about there not being a record of the rationale to appeal the CPS decision...." So she still assaulted her boyfriend and the police stand by that but they only apologise why they didn't have an explanation of why they said that she assaulted her bf when she... assaulted her bf.
/r/MensRights13/02/23 05:24 PM
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My unpopular opinion... I don't find her funny.
/r/MensRights20/01/23 04:15 PM
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Not that this should really matter but in what scenario does this happen to you? E.g. the gym, at work, on public transport
/r/MensRights30/12/22 10:44 PM
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It's a terrible article and has no scientific basis at all as what happened was... "What we did We conducted two studies with more than 1,000 women from around the world, in relationships with men. All our participants had children under the age of 12." They've not factored in the age of the adults, duration of relationship, if either are a stay at home, if either partner works full time or part time, what backgrounds / areas they're from? This is an absolute trash article as you could easily pr…
/r/MensRights25/11/22 04:44 PM
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OK so that's good you have statements. If none of the payments have no reference then she'll have a harder time proving what that money was for. Good you have evidence of the bills as that mean you can qualify what you paid for vs what she pays for. Even if you don't want money but you will have to offset what she's claiming. In England it's worse as (I think) she can claim a percentage of your whole pension pot and not just what you contributed during your marriage. Even if she's not mentioned …
/r/Divorce_Men19/11/22 05:51 PM
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Basically thr short answer is get all the receipts and bank statements covering the relationship and get a spreadsheet together with shows everything you paid for the rent (she should still be liable for this), mortgage, bills, amenities.... anything she can claim. Also make sure if you done any money transfers they were marked with refs "money for bills" or "my share of council tax" but not likely you done that at the time. Also we're you married in Scotland or another country as the way pensio…
/r/Divorce_Men19/11/22 11:08 AM
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I didn't even realise Buzzfeed was still a think anymore
/r/MensRights17/11/22 05:18 PM
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Being an sexist outdated authoritarian snob doesn't make you a good teacher either
/r/MensRights26/07/22 04:43 PM
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Next time just say "yeah like you've claimed to have a headache" If she says no then you can follow up with "looking at you I don't think you would need to."
/r/MensRights26/07/22 12:40 PM
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Whow dude chill, they do have a point though. To look at it another way a "man cave" can be seen as a safe space where someone can decompress or have some degree of escapism. Even when my parents divorced my dad had a proper home office in a spare room. It was so he was away from me and my brother as we knew not to go in there at any time. He could work or read sports or listen to music without being bothered by us. I really only remember him using it a couple of times to get away from us when w…
/r/MensRights19/12/21 12:08 PM
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Seconded, you can do litterly everything legal that a marriage provides without having to get married or do a prenuptial or suffer the fallout if divorce
/r/Divorce_Men11/12/21 07:05 PM
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It's sad to hear but it's interesting articles, posts and papers. Thanks
/r/MensRights05/11/21 02:34 PM
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There are some who want equality, some who want more, some who want to punish men and some who want rid of men. Feminism is a bastardised concept with people using it for their own gain. It's the same with politics only you could maybe have a rational debate with a politician. I would say also look into interview and debate techniques so you are not drawn into never ending debates. Having key questions like "what would you need to prove this to you?" Allows you to answer their responses without …
/r/MensRights31/10/21 10:37 AM
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You can't really as feminist views have so many different types, views and subfactions that no one person could really know. Basically try to research the main feminist icons from the past 150 years and their views and quotes. It would be hard for a feminist to disagree with their own history. I'd also prep for allegations of "mansplanning", "gaslighting", "gender pay gaps", "maternity disputes" all of the usual things that get thrown about when they don't have a valid defence
/r/MensRights31/10/21 10:28 AM
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You'd probably need to contact Google or the document owner. Depending on which country you are in the law enforcement may or may not be able to help but it's unlikely.
/r/MensRights20/10/21 08:35 PM
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Wow please tell me more Dr?
/r/MensRights04/10/21 07:43 PM
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Agreed but the view or point should be as wide as both. I was trying to get the point from the OP if they were just upset at circumcision or was it all forms of MGM. Its still a valid point but one that would fall over in an argument unless they had the same view or point as you have stated in your reply.
/r/MensRights04/10/21 03:23 PM
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It depends if that is what OP was on about, it was quite a general statement so I wanted to see if it was just an attack at circumcision or if there was a wider point to be made.
/r/MensRights04/10/21 03:21 PM
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Yeah but OP is only on about circumcision and not the other types, that was what I was trying to get at. It's more widespread than just circumcision.
/r/MensRights04/10/21 03:19 PM
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So what's the classification for MGM as I've heard about FGM and what happens in cases?
/r/MensRights04/10/21 04:14 AM
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Can you cite some examples or cases that have been in the press?
/r/MensRights04/10/21 04:00 AM
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It's kind of the same as the ideal woman, no one can quantify it but everyone draws comparisons
/r/MensRights26/09/21 07:09 PM
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It's a valid point they have just poorly executed. The people who implemented this are probably so old, fat and impotent that lack of sex is just another day for them and a blessing for their wives and mistresses.
/r/MensRights16/09/21 04:43 PM
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Agree on the first point but I don't really understand the "feminist" argument about sex and sexulisation or what the act of abstaining from sex will achieve.
/r/MensRights16/09/21 04:30 PM
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OK so normal individuals and not sex workers? I mean it's a form of peaceful protest but it won't really change anything. Abstaining from sex will just mean that the facilities for the women who need them won't be used and may help justify the case to keep them closed. From my limited understanding on the topic it seems to only be around abortion services and not the wider health care that should be supplied to women who need it (I.e. smear tests, health checks, accessible contraception). Person…
/r/MensRights16/09/21 03:59 PM
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INFO: what and who is part of these "sex strikes"?
/r/MensRights16/09/21 03:48 PM
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That's a temporary agreement
/r/MensRights31/08/21 08:45 PM
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Because going for full custody is very difficult for men and more so if the kids already live with the mum.
/r/MensRights31/08/21 09:57 AM
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I'd lawyer up if I were you but this will effect your life now once its out in public. Sorry
/r/MensRights31/08/21 08:13 AM
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It only helps men to show that women aren't the weak innocent people they sometimes claim to be. "Feminism", "Patiarchy" and "Gaslighting" are all buzzwords used when a valid view or defence for unfair treatment cannot be conveyed in a sensible or intelligent manner.
/r/MensRights29/08/21 11:15 AM
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Take my upvote
/r/MensRights28/08/21 11:29 AM
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Debt is something to consider as well. Always keep that in your mind as if someone's is wanting some of your assets you can reduce what they are owed if you can prove they are liable for the debt
/r/Divorce_Men26/08/21 10:19 AM
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But.... assets and debts are split or offset against each other.
/r/Divorce_Men26/08/21 08:25 AM
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Technically there's no paper trial so it would be hard for anyone to prove unless you posted it somewhere or they got an affidavit from that family member
/r/Divorce_Men26/08/21 08:18 AM
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Technically yes but..... Depending on how vicious a future ex partner is or their lawyer or local laws, you may need to prove that all and any assets that have been obtained after the date of marriage are solely for you and nor anything she could claim I.e. if you get a large payout that goes to your private pension she could claim half of your total pension pot and not just what you put into it. Just get a watertight prenuptial and make it future proof
/r/Divorce_Men26/08/21 08:09 AM
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In the UK there is an online calculator for parents to get a estimated cost of living and looking after kids. However this does not include certain things e.g. computer games and school supplies. Depending on where you are in the world see if there is something for your area or country although this won't be legally binding unless you go through a lawyer so good luck
/r/Divorce_Men16/08/21 08:11 AM
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Yes it is normal, and youve got it right as this is the simplest solution if you are certain. Try to focus on something else apart from the thing you're worrying about (easier said than done) as you've gotten this far in the process it's just this last supper.
/r/Divorce_Men15/08/21 10:35 PM
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Agreed it's a kind of a cliche line for married guys who try to get a bit on the side. If you're dating other women it means its best to file and get the whole thing over with first as trying to have a relationship and get divorced is stressful for anyone let alone their new partner
/r/Divorce_Men10/08/21 06:28 PM
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I think it should be a level higher and more around teaching your children not to be swayed by bad thoughts or not to do harm to others
/r/MensRights09/07/21 03:13 PM
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This
/r/MensRights09/07/21 03:11 PM
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INFO: Which country / state are you in?
/r/MensRights25/06/21 04:15 PM
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Fair point but I just needed to clarify. From personal experience I would be very very black and white about how things are going to play out I.e. "you need to move out by X date and you have Y weeks to move the rest of your stuff out otherwise it will be dropped at your new address or trashed. I offer to help with the first months rent only and I this sum should be paid back in equal installments over the next year with no interest or additional charges being applied."
/r/Divorce_Men22/01/21 11:04 AM
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"Well we had sex....." Have you had sex since the decision to divorce was made?
/r/Divorce_Men22/01/21 08:52 AM
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INFO: Which country did you get married?
/r/Divorce_Men16/01/21 11:18 PM
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Nope, just rip it off like a band aid. You don't need to let anyone know who's not important to you. Maybe when you start dating again you can let the other person know but I wouldn't lead with it. Overall, look at it like a save as it would've been worse for you both further down the line
/r/Divorce_Men12/01/21 06:04 PM
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Sorry I saw it on the local news so I can't even remember the company but it was a cream the guy had to rub on his chest and his ribs because of his glands
/r/MensRights07/12/20 08:00 PM
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There was a trial at the end of last year in the UK of a cream men could rub on their chest daily which acted the same as the pill. I think it was stage 2 of human trials.
/r/MensRights07/12/20 07:57 PM
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If he punched them they would go all out saying womens abuse. The bouncers here are very restrained for the abuse they are getting. Those women are an embarrassment and you can see from the folk around them not backing them up
/r/PussyPassDenied16/11/20 08:04 AM
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She can't be made to sign anything so thats the first issue. But depending on where you are in the world the law is different for how long you have to wait for a divorce if the other party disagrees (unless there is evidence of abuse, violence or adultery). Best to speak to your lawyer about the law where you are but definitely tell them you want her to cover any extra cost due to the delay.
/r/Divorce_Men04/11/20 09:44 PM
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It sounds like it wasn't meant to be, if she and her families beliefs aren't anything you can live with then it would make sense to call it a day. Did anyone tell you it might not have been a good idea?
/r/Divorce_Men10/08/20 10:35 PM
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So you didnt live together before you got married? What about any other issues prior to the marriage?
/r/Divorce_Men10/08/20 09:53 PM
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Was everything OK with your relationship until the wedding?
/r/Divorce_Men10/08/20 09:45 PM
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Why wasn't the case thrown out and he was released right away? If its his record youre worried about im sure you can apply to have it expunged afterwards so it does not effect their life
/r/MensRights21/07/20 09:01 AM
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Exactly, this is what parents do with drink as well. Stay at home and have some drink in a safe environment or have a small party with a group of friends so we know what you're drink and that you're safe. Instead of it being a bunch of randoms in an unfamiliar situation drinking various quantities of unknown substances
/r/MensRights19/07/20 10:10 AM
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It doesn't, its a headline to try and make you think that's the story but its implied that at some point he could willfully supply her with drugs.
/r/MensRights19/07/20 10:07 AM
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This
/r/MensRights13/07/20 07:27 PM
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Thank you, it seemed to be used as an defensive tactic for someone to be portrayed as the victim. I don't think I've ever heard of someone be told they've been gaslighted
/r/MensRights13/07/20 03:13 PM
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I kind of is but it more focuses on the little things and the smaller manipulation to cause the harm and distress. Like the old adage of boiling a frog, it will jump out of boiling water but will stay put if you raise the temp slowly.
/r/MensRights13/07/20 03:03 PM
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I can't disagree with you but psychological manipulation seems unbiased where as gaslighting there is always a victim and a predator
/r/MensRights13/07/20 03:01 PM
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I'm only going off of the initial reply but people who I know have used the term 'gaslighting' don't come across as narcissists so I'm wondering how they justify using it incorrectly or assuming they are just stupid.
/r/MensRights13/07/20 03:00 PM
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I see it as more outdated (originally from 1938) and superceded by other terms.
/r/MensRights13/07/20 01:34 PM
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Actually another question, what would the term be for a narcissist admits errors, doesn't dress immaculate and does not flaunt their achievements unless threatened? Would this be a narcissist / sociopath?
/r/MensRights13/07/20 01:33 PM
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Not a lot of people do, it related to a 1938 play so very old terminology. Today people would tend to say psychological abuse or manipulation: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gaslighting
/r/MensRights13/07/20 01:15 PM
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Its not really the act but more the term itself that I hate. I think the whole thing is terrible but it is ultimately complex to prove from either side or even get a narcissist to accept it. It feels like an oversimplification of a long and painful process for a victim, if it were to be broken down to give it scale i feel it could be used correctly
/r/MensRights13/07/20 01:12 PM
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Wait, eh what, I'm confused 🤣🤣🤣
/r/MensRights13/07/20 01:09 PM
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I've had to have residential custody every 2nd weekend but had dinners during the week. The dinners didnt work out as it's not quality time but my kids realised that early on.
/r/Divorce_Men18/06/20 09:55 PM
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I've been with a few idiots in my time but it doesnt mean I need to reach them. In any case it might be more useful to let them learn by example so seeing where there arent discrepancies or disproved ones.
/r/MensRights16/06/20 03:39 PM
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Then why would you waste your breath with someone like that?
/r/MensRights16/06/20 03:33 PM
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I think with these stats its probably higher but due to the stigma attached to it they probably go unreported.
/r/MensRights16/06/20 03:29 PM
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You seem to have covered the legal side of things but it could get messy as your ex wife gets jealous of your new partner. My advice is to tread carefully
/r/Divorce_Men07/06/20 09:55 PM
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Agreed I'm equally impressed if a 6' guy comes in an benches 80kg or a 5' 4 girl does. The girls in my gym who do properly work have a great routine and form, they could mop the floor with the other guys in the gym when it comes to deadlift, pullups or hammer lifts but it doesnt mean I am attracted to them.
/r/MensRights13/05/20 09:31 PM
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Honestly yes I do, but again this is for purely selfish reasons. As a guy I feel uncomfortable if there are a bunch of women near the machines the same way if there are a bunch of steroid junkies. I think having some degree of segregation is ok. Instead of it being 'Women only' maybe 'Casual Users' if they are not in a routine. Again that sounds sexist but apart from 3 women at my gym most turn up and casually walk, row or do HiiT for an hour then leave. No routine or plan which can really mess …
/r/MensRights13/05/20 01:20 PM
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I dont know but in my experience straight guys usually give straight answers and find it harder to brush things off than my gay friends.
/r/MensRights11/04/20 07:52 PM
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Hassle is what way? Legal, financial, career, relationship?
/r/MensRights11/04/20 06:27 PM
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Right here also, my kids are with their Mum due to COVID-19. I get infrequent calls and they're not really interested in Skype or talking. Evening just sitting with them playing with their toys or a game is the thing I miss the most. It is painful but whenever I get to see them again I know I will love them more than I ever thought I could. Stay with it man, the fact that you feel bad means that you care and want to see your kid.
/r/Divorce_Men27/03/20 12:55 PM
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Jesus I hope not!!!
/r/Divorce_Men15/03/20 06:22 PM
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What the fuck ARE men rights. She clearly has no concept of what it is
/r/MensRights12/03/20 04:13 PM
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Here here!!!
/r/Divorce_Men02/03/20 06:55 PM
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You just struggle unfortunately
/r/Divorce_Men01/03/20 02:36 PM
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From my experience of being divorced I think the legal term is Crazius Bitchus
/r/Divorce_Men24/02/20 09:43 PM
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Like pictures and a diary, its quicker and easier to note down things than doing it on a computer later.
/r/Divorce_Men24/02/20 09:31 PM
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YIP, keep evidence of it and a paper record of it for divorce reasons.
/r/Divorce_Men24/02/20 09:25 PM
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If you like a sporty dad then gym, sports events or even sport pitches or sports parks. For social dads maybe try bars but more cosy settings, there is sometimes single supper clubs in cities which is another option for dads. For other options I would go for events and things you like and just see who is there. It would be likely that you will have things in common with dads simmilar to your age.
/r/Divorce_Men16/02/20 07:54 PM
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It depends on what type of guy you would be looking for? If you mean dads who are single but not with their kids then the usual places like bars, gyms, ect.... If its dads with their kids then the usual indoor or outdoor things like soft play, museums, sports events, play parks with their kids. Going to the games with your neice and nephew is a good call as single parents can worry about the initial reveal of having kids.
/r/Divorce_Men16/02/20 07:44 PM
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Yeah drop them on a memory card or pen drive and get them off your computer. With applications they way they are now pictures get copied from system to system and end up appearing in the strangest of places. I had a wedding pic copy from my dropbox to my pc to my one drive to my xbox then as a screensaver.... scared the shit out of me in the office when I seen her face appear on my 27' monitor one day!!!
/r/Divorce_Men10/02/20 09:34 AM
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If they are digital move all of them to a memory card then throw it in a safe place then delete the ones you dont want from your computer. If they are physic, and regular 4x3, then put them in a little cash box (the ones you would see at carnivals or stalls) then lock it and leave it at a family members house not your own but you keep the key somewhere safe.
/r/Divorce_Men10/02/20 08:21 AM
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That's a very very sexist remark, not every woman wants to be pregnant or go through labour. Yes I will concede that it has benefits and a relationship with your child throughout pregnancy that other people dont get but I wouldnt say definitely that ever woman wants to get pregnant. It is a joint decision to have a child and all parts of the endeavor should be considered part of that decision and compromise. Personally I was there for 16hrs with my SO in a birthing suite then another 2hrs for an…
/r/MensRights03/02/20 07:51 AM
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Another article written by the owners of a clinic with no studies (even though they conduct their own) to back this up. Again this hasn't been peer reviewed or published anywhere further than this blog and is actually less credible that the last article you posted. Also some of the comments in the article are concerning such as "midline episiotomy puts you at risk of fourth-degree vaginal tearing, which extends through the anal sphincter and into the mucous membrane that lines the rectum..." thi…
/r/MensRights03/02/20 07:45 AM
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TBH I sont think the wife 'wants' to be going through labour but this is the situation they find themselves and they should really be going through it together supporting one and other.
/r/MensRights02/02/20 10:44 PM
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Yes one article (not a publish or reviewed medical paper from a reputable medical journal) which was written by the editors of the same site that published it and reviewed by one registered nurse who seems to write articles and blogs more than actively participating in medical studies... oh and all this was from 2016 with no updates from them. I mean even an article from GooP! Would have more science in it... ok sudo-science but still science.
/r/MensRights02/02/20 10:41 PM
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Yes they may get torn open when a baby passes through the birth canal but not in the same graffic manner the OP suggested and I would be concerned if any individual were to "watch a vigna being torn open". There is no medical consensus and no dr or nurse who are even slightly credible would agree to that. I personally know GPs, surgeons (neurological and soft tissue), midwives and nurses and none of them would agree to that. Even Darryl O'Brien did I sketch about that and not a single person in …
/r/MensRights02/02/20 09:50 PM
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I didnt say that but the description of "a vagina being torn open" is not only over the top, macabre and shock tactics it is also a reflection of a disturbed, uneducated or warped individual
/r/MensRights02/02/20 11:46 AM
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It's not a debate, my reply was an opinion then a question then another opinion. If you are not looking for a debate then I would take this post somewhere else other than Reddit
/r/MensRights02/02/20 11:44 AM
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I agree with the point on men having a say wether or not they wished to be involved in the actual birth of their child should be a consideration. personally I’m not a fan of blood or watching vaginas being torn open Which births have you been involved with that could be described like this? Men being in the delivery room results in longer labour’s, The woman getting angry or upset with the father for not doing things the way she wants him to do them I completely disagree with this statement as m…
/r/MensRights02/02/20 01:07 AM
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Sounds agreeable for both of you but it may be best to get her stuff out the house sooner rather than later encase things turn hostile.
/r/Divorce_Men26/01/20 08:23 PM
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Ok not sure about the law in Canada, there maybe a legal advise r/ for that as theres one for UK. I would suggest seeking if you can pack it all up and put it in a spare room or thr garage if you're not using it. That means it's out your way but easily accessible and removable by her if needed. In the UK though, if it's a matrimonial home (a home purchased and lived in during the term of the marriage), then she will be legally allowed access. But if you move everything of hers to the garage then…
/r/Divorce_Men26/01/20 06:07 PM
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Which country are you in?
/r/Divorce_Men26/01/20 03:23 PM
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It's not really needed and gets in the way when using a condom so what's the point in it?
/r/MensRights19/01/20 06:51 PM
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Hmmm not really sure on this one as many bouncers will let in girls to a club than guys to make it more 'fun' or 'desirable'
/r/MensRights17/01/20 11:51 PM
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The problem I think is feminism is so interchangeable it's hard to tell what someone believes or not. The most vocal and bad examples are the men haters but there are others who want better rights for women, equal rights to men, acceptance to make their own way, the oppertunity to do their own thing.... and that's only a few. I'm sure there are some that wish to enslave men because they hate them so much but if men are so bad at things then why would you want one as minion?
/r/MensRights15/01/20 06:54 PM
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All the best and remember to lawyer up early if you need to
/r/Divorce_Men29/11/19 09:55 AM
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That could fall under psychological abuse also if it stops you going to see friends or family then that is also abuse.
/r/Divorce_Men27/11/19 10:47 AM
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They should know what is going on but maybe leave that to the 2nd it 3rd date encase they make assumptions and get scared off
/r/Divorce_Men19/11/19 08:22 AM
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Date yes, broadcast or share no
/r/Divorce_Men18/11/19 09:28 PM
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Unfortunately 1 day at a time.
/r/Divorce_Men01/11/19 09:16 AM
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