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| 2 | I’m confident talking to women. I just need a “conversation, escalation and maintenance framework” to follow.My go-to is set her up to share something intellectual she’s interested/passionate about and then hit her with a “ooooooo so you’re one of those sexy nerdy girls”. Girls don’t just want to hear they’re sexy, they’ve heard that a billion times. But if you compliment their intelligence, now they feel validated on a deeper level, but you’re ALSO telling her you’re attracted to her. Now when you’re trying to find things in common, you’ve already qualified yourself because she thinks you think she’s … | /r/seduction | 29/07/26 02:12 PM |
| 2 | Best countries to get laid?Kenya. There’s an Indian presence there too so if you want an Indian girl you got a few options. | /r/seduction | 29/07/26 01:58 PM |
| 12 | Do Women Really Have That Many Options?The saying is old as time. Women fuck who they want to. Men fuck who they can. Men marry who they want to. Women marry who they can. | /r/seduction | 13/07/26 08:47 PM |
| 4 | Bro, You're Not Gonna Change HerIf she’s done, she’s done. But sometimes I like to fish for a reason. I’ll say something like “Did I do something wrong? Or do you have other stuff going on?” That way if you really did fuck up, she has a chance to tell you without it coming off as aggressive. If she tells you she’s just been busy then you can just move on and charge it to the game. | /r/seduction | 08/07/26 02:52 PM |
| 4 | Going to be at a camp as a camp leader, what should I expect?Being at the top of any kind of hierarchy gets girls loose anyways. As a camp leader you’ll probably have some leverage to get laid. Do with that info what you want. Ethics is a different conversation lol. | /r/seduction | 08/07/26 10:38 AM |
| 3 | How To Ask A Woman Out On A Second Date?Just say “When can I see you again?” She’ll either give you a direct answer or she’ll tell you she’ll let you know. Keep the ball in her court but keep the pressure on. | /r/seduction | 24/06/26 05:14 PM |
| 1 | Met a girl on a plane. Instant intense chemistry and i got ghosted.Maybe she’s an exhibitionist lol | /r/seduction | 22/06/26 03:57 AM |
| 2 | Met a girl on a plane. Instant intense chemistry and i got ghosted.Something in your story isn’t adding up. One out of two possibilities. Either she felt cornered and felt uncomfortable of displeasing you, or she has a bf and reality kicked in as soon as she got home. | /r/seduction | 22/06/26 03:40 AM |
| 1 | Gym baddies…how toYea don’t approach women during their workouts. Wait for her to be on her way out | /r/seduction | 11/06/26 03:45 PM |
| 1 | why are we such perverts?The biological nature between men and women. Women naturally try to maximize the probability of their offspring surviving and thriving. This translates to selecting wealthy and powerful partners with really good genes. For men, they’re more prone to planting as much seed as possible, regardless of who or how many he’s planting seed with. This is the nature of biology. This is where biology and religion split. If you can understand this, you can understand HALF of the psychology of women. | /r/seduction | 10/06/26 02:21 AM |
| 1 | why are we such perverts?You’re bumping into the nature of men and women with your questions. Men are visual creatures so they’re naturally going to watch more adult content. Women don’t consume it as much because they don’t need it to climax as much during self pleasure. Men pay for sex because of the inequities between men and women. Have you ever heard the phrase “the top 80% of women chase the top 20% of men”? That means the bottom 80% of men are not engaging in regular intercourse unless they’re settling for the bo… | /r/seduction | 09/06/26 09:53 AM |
| 3 | why are we such perverts?They want all of those things and more. But they’ll never admit it to someone that they don’t feel safe sharing their fantasies with. Women would rather take their secrets to the grave than be slut shamed. | /r/seduction | 09/06/26 01:18 AM |
| 43 | Jealousy among women is realThis is half true. If you intentionally hurt a girls feelings by talking to other girls in front of her, she will likely not respond the way you want unless she’s really insecure. Subtly telling on yourself that you have options and she’s got competition will work more in your favor. | /r/seduction | 08/06/26 02:55 PM |
| 0 | How to escalate for a kissGet close and look into her eyes. Then look at her lips, then back to her eyes twice. Then move closer. She’ll get the hint and move in if she’s actually ready. If she pushes back on kissing, just ask if she wants to take it slow. She’ll probably say yes. Agree to take it slow and don’t take it personally. Then wait for her to give you the look (signal) when she’s ready. Could be 5 minutes later. Could be at the next date. Some girls test your self control before they are willing to have sex wit… | /r/seduction | 08/06/26 12:45 AM |
| 3 | Can you be misogynist and successful with women at the same time?Only if you’re really good at faking your feelings | /r/seduction | 03/06/26 08:22 PM |
| 3 | Not sure if this life is for meIt’s a cycle for me. I get in a relationship,have emotional fulfillment and good sex, get bored and lose the spark, then break up and go back into the lots of sez with different partners then repeat | /r/seduction | 27/05/26 05:04 PM |
| 1 | Do you think men enjoy giving head or they just fake it?Troll much? | /r/seduction | 27/05/26 04:31 PM |
| 1 | Do you think men enjoy giving head or they just fake it?Don’t believe me? Try it. If you give immaculate head it’s basically condom optional rules. | /r/seduction | 27/05/26 03:23 PM |
| 12 | Age gap dating and the perception around it18 vs 23 isn’t that big of a gap. The goal is to meet some dudes still in their 20’s but out of college. College kids can get judgy about being around people out of college unless you’re providing all the booze and weed. | /r/seduction | 27/05/26 01:31 PM |
| 4 | how often should you have sex?Libido changes a lot depending on the person and the time in their life. Some people are fine with once a week. Some need it twice a day. | /r/seduction | 27/05/26 12:37 PM |
| 2 | Cold Approach might be KeyIt’s imperative that you can do both if you want to maximize pussiah | /r/seduction | 27/05/26 10:18 AM |
| 19 | Do you think men enjoy giving head or they just fake it?I like giving good head first because usually if the girl cums first she lets me do what I want. | /r/seduction | 27/05/26 10:01 AM |
| 1 | Help. Girls become upset and feel betrayed when they don't become my girlfriend.You should give her a reason to hold out on dating you. Tell her xyz happened and it’s put you in a very emotional dry spot. You’re not ready to date right now. Taking a break from dating but you still want to see her. Carrot on a stick. | /r/seduction | 18/05/26 09:51 AM |
| 2 | How often do you work out?I go to the gym in short bursts of exercise because my motivation is as random as the wind nowadays. For health reasons you should be averaging at least 3 hours of exercise a week (AHA recommended). For vanity reasons you should be in the gym 6 hours a week. Just remember that looks isn’t everything. If anything it’s for your own self confidence. The rest depends on your game | /r/seduction | 17/05/26 11:38 AM |
| 35 | How often do you work out?Abs are half aggressive core workouts and half aggressive dieting. You basically do it once and then decide that abs aren’t worth the labor lol. | /r/seduction | 17/05/26 11:33 AM |
| 1 | Anyone willing to wingman A 25 year old incel in Connecticut?It’s not about the friends. It’s about making connections with people you don’t relate to well. | /r/seduction | 15/05/26 12:05 PM |
| 3 | Anyone willing to wingman A 25 year old incel in Connecticut?You should practice making friends first. Learn how to make friends with dudes you don’t like. | /r/seduction | 14/05/26 10:16 AM |
| 13 | Anyone willing to wingman A 25 year old incel in Connecticut?You should probably keep looking bro. | /r/seduction | 14/05/26 10:15 AM |
| 1 | How do you handle the 'friends trying to save her from you'?3 options. Wingman to play defense for you. Just get her number and dip. Or just pull the ugly chick instead. | /r/seduction | 13/05/26 12:09 PM |
| 2 | How can I tell if eye contact means interest or is just random?If you don’t approach you’ll never know. | /r/seduction | 11/05/26 09:12 PM |
| 2 | Girl “likes” me but said she doesn’t want to have sex?She’s either seeing someone or she doesn’t want rumors to spread around the office. Make her feel confident that anything that happens between you two stays between you two. And don’t let anyone else in the office see or know what’s up. | /r/seduction | 11/05/26 06:05 PM |
| 1 | My dating life recentlyYou sound like you’re 24+ | /r/seduction | 10/05/26 02:51 AM |
| -1 | I want casual but exclusive, she wants emotional connection. Is this doomed?Yea so you have to basically dangle the carrot in front of her. The relationship is the reward that she needs to put in work for. If you’re up front about your intentions, most girls will say no. | /r/seduction | 10/05/26 02:27 AM |
| 1 | Going out alone tonightThis | /r/seduction | 09/05/26 10:09 PM |
| -1 | How hard is it to actually seduce women consistently?Yea guys don’t understand the creep factor. But until you’ve unintentionally creeped a girl out you don’t really get it. That’s the lack of social aptitude that comes off as creepy to women. | /r/seduction | 09/05/26 04:29 PM |
| 1 | How hard is it to actually seduce women consistently?You either misread my comment or you’ve never been around a woman that’s ovulating. Sure, men ON AVERAGE have a higher sex drive. But remember, it’s a numbers game, and context really matters here. The men that pull women constantly usually have looks, height, money, and moves. Everyone else has to use context to their advantage. For us average guys, like I said, we have to use those variables I mentioned earlier to our advantage. And I said getting laid monthly it’s not a crazy amount of sex. | /r/seduction | 09/05/26 04:27 PM |
| -2 | How hard is it to actually seduce women consistently?Scare little kids? | /r/seduction | 09/05/26 03:53 PM |
| 6 | How hard is it to actually seduce women consistently?Something important to note is that women get just as horny as guys. Depending on the time of month, they can be way less horny or way more horny due to hormones. The difficulty in bagging a girl is more to do with your own ego, fear of rejection, and your ability to not come off as a creep or a weirdo. Lastly your social proximity to women. If you can address those variables it’s really something you could be doing at least monthly with minimal effort. | /r/seduction | 09/05/26 12:24 PM |
| 2 | Dancing one of the most attractive things a man can doIf you can go to some free/cheap ballroom dances, you can gain some serious skills. American youth has more or less abandoned ballroom and folk dances. Girls will be impressed even by the simplest skills. If you’re chasing latinas, you’ll do even better. I took a girl dancing who was a better dancer than me and shortly after she gave me her v card. Not to mention the girls who dance regularly are crazy hot. Unpatched method to pull. | /r/seduction | 07/05/26 06:33 PM |
| 1 | Low confidence - any tips to develop it?Definitely. As long as you actually convince them that you’re not a dirty dog that only sees them as an easy lay. | /r/seduction | 04/05/26 06:03 PM |
| 1 | If flirting isn’t your cup of tea, is it bad necessarily to just straight up have a discussion with the girl about if she wants to get intimate?Start with big girls. Or get tinder gold and switch your location to somewhere like Mombasa Kenya. They love Americans and will talk to you on the phone all day. | /r/seduction | 04/05/26 06:02 PM |
| 1 | If flirting isn’t your cup of tea, is it bad necessarily to just straight up have a discussion with the girl about if she wants to get intimate?If you somehow beat the odds and meet a girl as socially inept as yourself, sure. For the other 99% of interactions, you better be practicing | /r/seduction | 04/05/26 04:47 PM |
| 2 | Low confidence - any tips to develop it?Plow some chubs. I hate to say it but if you can’t flirt with and bag the ones you don’t find attractive, you’ll always choke with the ones you do find attractive. Plus, big girls need love too. They give great feedback but are way more forgiving. | /r/seduction | 04/05/26 12:05 PM |
| 2 | South East Asians in the US.You might have luck making some American-born male friends. Pay attention to how they socialize with each other and then with women. Learn their demeanor so that women don’t feel too off. Also if you wanna benefit from the Asian stereotype, try to emit some Korean pretty boy vibes. Girls are going crazy of Korean boy band stuff rn. | /r/seduction | 03/05/26 02:15 PM |
| 1 | I have absolutely no idea how to attract women. Any ideas?Gym Make friends with guys that go to social events Make friends with girls that go to social events. Gym Get a job that forces you to interact with people Practice talking to girls in a friendly way Practice talking to girls in a flirty way Gym Get off your computer Go outside Socialize Develop a personality that attracts women Make enough money to afford dates Gym Ask girls on dates Don’t let rejection stop you from asking others | /r/seduction | 03/05/26 01:15 PM |
| 18 | For the men who have casual sex a lot, how physically attractive are you?As a fat guy with a 6 figure income, I usually don’t have much luck with pulling in public mostly due to my own lack of game. But dating app pre selection and doing a lot of work texting improves my odds a lot. | /r/seduction | 02/05/26 04:38 PM |
| 5 | Men: how often do you get approached by women at clubs?I hate that brief eye contact is the extent of the interaction on their part but I think you’re right | /r/seduction | 01/05/26 02:59 PM |
| 1 | Getting out of the friend zoneI too enjoy the push-pull method 😏 | /r/seduction | 30/04/26 03:53 PM |
| 1 | For those who are very experienced with women, has dating made you trust them less?It definitely does. That’s why I started speed running through girls until I found one that prioritized logic over feelings. It took a lot of first dates. I finally found someone who saw life the way I do. I’ve been in a happy relationship for 18 months now. I’m planning on marrying her and getting out of the meat market for good. | /r/seduction | 23/04/26 08:54 PM |
| 300 | For those who are very experienced with women, has dating made you trust them less?I’ve been in the game for a while now and you can trust that most women are going to do what they’re biologically prone to do. Not all women. But most. That means date up, use sex as a method to secure their financial future and safety. Lie to you when their truth is more important than your feelings. Prioritize how you make them feel over what you actually do for them. A whole can of worms. | /r/seduction | 23/04/26 01:30 PM |
| 1 | ‘I'd really like to see you again’: needy or not needy ?Ayyy that’s what’s up! | /r/seduction | 22/04/26 02:14 PM |
| 1 | ‘I'd really like to see you again’: needy or not needy ?Hmmm ok hope she got the joke | /r/seduction | 22/04/26 01:09 PM |
| 1 | ‘I'd really like to see you again’: needy or not needy ?Charge it to the game and keep it pushin player | /r/seduction | 22/04/26 12:56 PM |
| 1 | ‘I'd really like to see you again’: needy or not needy ?Offer to come help take her mind off things. Make it ambiguous so her mind wanders a little. Maybe throw in a winky face. | /r/seduction | 22/04/26 11:42 AM |
| 1 | ‘I'd really like to see you again’: needy or not needy ?Not needy but doesn’t always send the right signal if you actually like her. I prefer the line “When can I see you again?” This way she’s on the hook to give you some feedback. If she REALLY likes you she’ll make herself available in the next 0-3 days. She likes you, next 7-10 days. No definite answer is “I’ll let you know” and you can safely assume she doesn’t feel the same way. Either way it displays confidence that you want more of her time. | /r/seduction | 22/04/26 11:39 AM |
| 8 | Why women don't chase men?The top 80% of women chase the top 20% of men. Look up hoe.math on social media he breaks everything down really well. | /r/seduction | 22/04/26 11:23 AM |
| 8 | if you had to choose between investing into either salsa/bachata or yoga as a hobby to maximize the chances of finding a future girlfriend, what would you pick?Dance classes are great. Also Pilates. Great workout even for men and the girls there have tight tight waists | /r/seduction | 17/04/26 06:53 PM |
| 1 | How to fix a babyface as I have a feeling it is my biggest barrier to a successful dating life.You can strengthen/tone your jaw line. They sell products to do that but you can also do exercises that target your upper core (like crunches) that force you to flex some of your neck muscles to tone up the muscles under your chin. Losing the baby fat will help with this a lot. | /r/seduction | 17/04/26 11:18 AM |
| 1 | Flirty friends with boyfriendsThat’s what I’m saying | /r/seduction | 17/04/26 12:31 AM |
| 0 | Why does it feel like good first dates randomly die out after??You need to leave them wanting more. Scratch their ego. Get them boozed up. Feed them. Get them excited for the next date. | /r/seduction | 16/04/26 07:04 PM |
| 1 | Flirty friends with boyfriendsIs it possible you’re mistaking flirting for the friend zone? Or that they think you’re gay? If not, just flirt back in a very innocent playful manner. | /r/seduction | 16/04/26 04:45 PM |
| 1 | fastest way to find a FWB/Fling?Bro if you’re short you have to work out even harder | /r/seduction | 16/04/26 04:36 AM |
| 3 | fastest way to find a FWB/Fling?Work out. Swipe while you’re in college areas. Deliver good D. Maybe buy her some food and drink. | /r/seduction | 16/04/26 04:05 AM |
| 3 | I don’t deserve p*ssyBro you gotta make your mistakes and learn from them. Charge it to the game. Consider it a lesson learned. Try again. | /r/seduction | 15/04/26 01:37 AM |
| 2 | Best way to recover/ avoid hangover?Stick to clear liquor with no sugars (clean vodka, gin, tequila). Liquid IV BEFORE YOU GO TO SLEEP. Liquid IV when you wake up. Smoke a blunt. Eat some food before and after. 5 drinks or less. | /r/seduction | 14/04/26 02:01 PM |
| 3 | Is the life of promiscuity worth it?Same | /r/seduction | 13/04/26 12:51 PM |
| 14 | Keep taking Ls with women?Getting a girls number at a rave is usually low success rate. Girls are usually on something and sniffany isn’t going to remember you once she comes down. | /r/seduction | 09/04/26 06:50 PM |
| 2 | Anyone here who has success with dating apps?Some basic rules: 1. You’re using an app that makes most of its money off of engagement. The more you engage with matches (even if you don’t like them), the more they’ll reward you by making your profile visible to others. Swipe right on the ones you don’t like too (more matches helps your ranking) but not all right swipes. 2. Pictures of you doing stuff and pics of you with friends. One full body and one close up. 3. The matches you actually like you need to get them off the app asap. 10 messag… | /r/seduction | 08/04/26 07:28 PM |
| 10 | How to balance between girls and having a lifeTime is money. Girls take money and time. Spend 2/3 of your time making money and 1/3 of your time on girls and you’ll end up with no money, no girls, and no time. Wait that doesn’t sound right. | /r/seduction | 06/04/26 09:16 PM |
| 1 | Is pipe-smoking a turnoff?It’s not the 70’s and 80’s. No one wants to taste tobacco on someone else’s lips. I like pipe tobacco too but that habit will probably be rejected by most girls looking for something serious. | /r/seduction | 06/04/26 09:11 PM |
| 2 | How do you learn this stuff when good old fashioned practice isn't helping?You need to build some healthy social habits first. Ask the cashier how her day is going. Give a stranger on the bus a compliment. There’s podcasts out there on how to hold engaging conversations. Once you’ve learned how to talk to girls as comfortably as you talk to guys, then you can figure out how to flirt. | /r/seduction | 06/04/26 07:42 PM |
| 1 | Asking her what she likesI’ve found that if you can make a girl finish from her clit, you’ll get a text back and a second round. If you can make her have both a clit and a g spot orgasm, she’ll move you to the front of the roster. | /r/seduction | 06/04/26 05:23 PM |
| 6 | Asking her what she likesFirst off, not every girl can finish from penetration. Full stop. Second, almost every girl can finish from clit stimulation. Third, you will need a lot of practice and feedback working on the clit. Best to start now | /r/seduction | 06/04/26 04:52 PM |
| 2 | how do you know if a girl has a boyfriendYou can’t. And even if you ask, she may or may not be truthful to you. The best thing you can do it make a good impression and just ask her out anyways. Do the full bit and try not to disqualify yourself before you ask the question. 🙋♂️ | /r/seduction | 06/04/26 04:47 PM |
| 0 | How the fuck are meant to meet women if you don't like socialising?You should work more on addressing why you don’t like being around people and less on how to meet girls. Being cripplingly introverted is going to exclude you from the vast majority of the female population | /r/seduction | 05/04/26 07:23 PM |
| 11 | Where to meet women?No girl gets ready in the morning and says “oh boy I sure hope I don’t fall in love today.” | /r/seduction | 04/04/26 12:08 PM |
| 1 | Never try to understand emotions.She will legit turn on you if you don’t lean into the emotional side of the problem lolol | /r/seduction | 04/04/26 01:34 AM |
| 26 | Never try to understand emotions.Don’t try to understand what she’s feeling. Just tell her what she’s feeling so her feelings are validated. “Omg that’s awful you must feel so upset about this” goes so much further than trying to help her work through the problem. | /r/seduction | 02/04/26 10:31 PM |
| 6 | I really want 8s and 9s but I only can attract 5s and 6sPlow some chubs with rubs to get your game up. Trust me you’ll see things differently after that. | /r/seduction | 31/03/26 03:30 PM |
| 42 | How should a 74 year old male spark attraction from a female?A 74yo will have to have a genuine connection with an older lady. Younger ladies unfortunately his only option is to flex his wealth. | /r/seduction | 30/03/26 07:02 PM |
| 0 | Ex says we're over, but still picks up when I call.She probably just feels guilt. Or worried about your mental health. You need to cut it off clean. Delete the pics. | /r/seduction | 27/03/26 11:56 PM |
| 2 | How do you handle dead chats when girls suddenly go cold and stop responding?I usually just text their name to them as a last ditch effort. If they don’t respond, I move on. A lot of times girls like you just texting their name so they know you still wanna talk. | /r/seduction | 25/03/26 01:27 PM |
| -1 | Some golden rules from a learned naturalGirls don’t care if you’re not authentic as long as you appear to be having a good time. Sweet nothings aren’t welcome unless they’re sweet. | /r/seduction | 23/03/26 06:43 PM |
| 7 | How do you guys learn game?Best thing you can do is practice some ideas with big girls. Same feedback but they’re a lot more forgiving. Low risk of rejection too. Take the basics from wherever and just practice until you have your own game that can’t be replicated. Girls love a guy that has moves they’ve never seen before, makes you appear more genuine. | /r/seduction | 18/03/26 11:25 AM |
| 3 | Why is getting into a relationship significantly easier than finding a hookup.Understand that every stranger a girl hooks up with is a risk. She doesn’t know what diseases you have, how crazy you are, and if you’re going to put up a fight about using protection. Most girls will choose familiar dick over stranger dick every time. | /r/seduction | 18/03/26 11:17 AM |
| 1 | First time trying to socialize in Miami (volleyball meetup to nightlife) and I accidentally burned $2400 at a strip club. Lessons learned.It is If you didn’t agree to the price | /r/seduction | 08/03/26 05:37 PM |
| 1 | First time trying to socialize in Miami (volleyball meetup to nightlife) and I accidentally burned $2400 at a strip club. Lessons learned.Depends on your bank and if you used a credit card or debit card | /r/seduction | 08/03/26 05:36 PM |
| 2 | First time trying to socialize in Miami (volleyball meetup to nightlife) and I accidentally burned $2400 at a strip club. Lessons learned.Contact your bank and tell them it was fraud | /r/seduction | 08/03/26 03:53 PM |
| 1 | Thinking of visiting Madrid or Barcelona?Have you asked the ppb subreddit? | /r/seduction | 06/03/26 07:29 PM |
| 1 | How can I put myself out there more to meet more single women?Went to college at Western Oregon in Monmouth and then moved around and landed in Portland. | /r/seduction | 06/03/26 06:31 PM |
| 1 | How can I put myself out there more to meet more single women?Your best bet is to pick a bigger sized city on i5 and gravitate towards the busy college areas | /r/seduction | 06/03/26 06:15 PM |
| 2 | How can I put myself out there more to meet more single women?I grew up in Oregon and rarely had luck outside of Portland. Moved to Atlanta 3 years ago and started drowning in options. | /r/seduction | 06/03/26 04:32 PM |
| 2 | How can I put myself out there more to meet more single women?The Pacific Northwest is notoriously difficult to meet single girls. Your best bet is to spend time in the heart of Seattle where young people like to hang out | /r/seduction | 06/03/26 04:05 PM |
| 72 | Manufactured pre-selection is the ultimate cheat code. Here is exactly how I fake it.I’ve found just casually dropping a line about your “friends“ and keeping the gender intentionally vague is just as effective. | /r/seduction | 03/03/26 08:41 PM |
| 4 | Previous high interest girls “forget” they ever had high interest for no reason?Girls have a high sense of pride. If they feel like they were rejected for any reason they will turn cold and you’ll have to put in extra work to win them back. Best to just take them out on a date once and then ghost until you have availability again | /r/seduction | 02/03/26 08:32 PM |
| 1 | Dealing with my Energy on a DateAlcohol and zero expectations | /r/seduction | 02/03/26 05:50 PM |
| 3 | What is meant by "Treat her like your little sister"?I think it is supposed to mean don’t be nervous around her. | /r/seduction | 02/03/26 04:20 PM |
| 5 | Anyone notice patterns in the girls they attract?Yes. They ALL have daddy issues. | /r/seduction | 02/03/26 03:56 PM |
| 1 | 25F Keep getting feedback I’m attractive but intimidating and hard to approachYou literally just have to make eye contact and smile. Guys are so easy | /r/seduction | 02/03/26 02:51 PM |
| 3 | When a girl asks for your Instagram while texting, is that a shit test?Some Girls will judge you based on your ig. Just make an account custom tailored for girls. Couple thirst traps, a bunch of fun trip pics. | /r/seduction | 28/02/26 11:36 AM |
| 2 | I can’t turn it offDude is suffering from success lol | /r/seduction | 24/02/26 02:46 PM |
| 1 | Came out of depression, started lifting again, but attractive women feel colder — calibration issue or SMV gap?Your bmi is 15%-17%? | /r/seduction | 13/02/26 12:37 PM |
| 1 | Feeling hopeless in collegeI didn’t go on a date or have a gf until I was 20. You need to 1. Go to the gym. 2. TALK TO GIRLS. Not to hit on them or ask them out. Just talk to them so you get comfortable with it. 3. Practice scheduling dates on online dating apps in 10 messages or less. Do not let the conversation grow stale. Ask a girl out to get food and drink. Even if you are too young to drink, just do it. Have an upper class man pick up a bottle for you and after your date suggest you have some drinks back at your pla… | /r/seduction | 13/02/26 06:24 AM |
| 1 | How do you become "that guy"?You need to be fit, have money, and give off daddy vibes. Ask me what daddy vibes means. | /r/seduction | 11/02/26 03:13 PM |
| 5 | No girlfriend title until after sex. What are your thoughts?This is an unspoken rule for most people, guys and girls. The thing though is that you don’t talk about it. Just don’t say anything. Girls don’t like to talk about it because it makes them feel sleazy. And the rule is you don’t make a girl feel sleazy until you’re already inside her. | /r/seduction | 11/02/26 02:55 PM |
| 1 | How many of you have herpes?Are you experiencing an outbreak? Have you ever experienced an outbreak? | /r/seduction | 08/02/26 12:25 AM |
| 2 | How many of you have herpes?Most people don’t get tested because it does more damage knowing you have it than just living your life. Unless you’re getting a serious outbreak, it’s best to just not worry about and know that you probably have and so do most people. | /r/seduction | 07/02/26 10:48 PM |
| 1 | how to find things to talk about on a date?Do you know what she likes? Do you know what you have in common with her? If so, you have stuff to talk about. If not, you better start asking. | /r/seduction | 06/02/26 04:50 PM |
| 1 | Slept with 65 girls last year.. here’s what I learned65 is a bit much lol. I’d rather have 2 fwb’s and then save a day out of the week for any unicorn dates with 9’s or 10’s. Basically what I did in 2024 before I met my current gf. | /r/seduction | 06/02/26 04:47 PM |
| 38 | Slept with 65 girls last year.. here’s what I learnedPasta and a bottle of wine gets em every time lol. Although I usually save that for the third date. I need to vet them for crazy factor before they know where I live. | /r/seduction | 06/02/26 04:09 PM |
| 1 | Is casual sex or relationships easier to find as a man?You’re oversimplifying female psychology. Looks are very important. But remember each time a woman has sex it’s a risk. Her biology drives her decision making and in that sense, she’s weighing multiple factors. Values such as physical attraction (genetics of the potential partner), chances that if she does get pregnant will the partner be able to protect and support her and her offspring (ie financial stability and emotional stability). This is true for both short term flings and long term partn… | /r/seduction | 06/02/26 03:10 PM |
| 5 | I am 24M met 18F online. Should I go for it? (Concerned about age gap)I second checking the ID. CYA | /r/seduction | 04/02/26 04:29 AM |
| 1 | Getting ghosted on tinder! what do they want to hear??You have to understand that you’re competing against a huge amount of other males. Girls get overwhelmed with hundreds of matches and have to choose who they spend their time and attention on. If you’re not the hottest match or the most interesting match, you fall to the back of the line. So unless you have the muscles, fancy career, or chiseled jaw line, I suggest you start making those first impressions as interesting as possible | /r/seduction | 04/02/26 03:42 AM |
| 1 | (Only people from Seattle please comment) I am curious if what I am going through is only isolated to a Seattle specific problem or if it's nationwide.I know you said Seattle residents only. But came to say this is true for Portland too. My bet is this is the case across the pnw. You should try switching your location to somewhere like Atlanta and you’ll immediately realize the culture change. | /r/seduction | 30/01/26 03:40 PM |
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