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ComprehensiveV4NC/r/seduction17/10/24 06:53 PM
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Fundamentals V4NC/r/seduction08/09/24 01:34 PM
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Field ReportV4NC/r/seduction29/04/24 12:52 PM
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Field ReportV4NC/r/seduction14/04/24 09:22 AM
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ComprehensiveV4NC/r/seduction03/03/25 03:46 PM
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Fundamentals V4NC/r/seduction25/04/24 04:08 PM
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Outer Game V4NC/r/seduction06/04/24 04:24 PM
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Okay that makes sense i was confused with the definition
/r/seduction05/03/25 06:43 AM
1

I totally agree, is that the common definition?
/r/seduction04/03/25 12:19 PM
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I can handle it but its not like i dont care about that but maybe youre right
/r/seduction04/03/25 10:07 AM
1

That was not my question my question was why ghosting makes people suffer
/r/seduction04/03/25 01:44 AM
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I didnt talk about ghosting before a date
/r/seduction03/03/25 06:11 PM
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Well said
/r/seduction03/03/25 06:10 PM
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I said that i found it more painful being told straight up then the contact fading away with ghosting
/r/seduction03/03/25 04:18 PM
4

Whats your problem
/r/seduction30/01/25 04:43 PM
2

Exactly. If they are attracted to you they idealize your age
/r/seduction18/10/24 08:26 AM
1

It means you trust each other.. match the dots
/r/seduction18/10/24 07:05 AM
7

You expected too much from casual sex. It feels fun for the moment but it does not last. I realized that „working“ for casual sex and fucking around is pointless as hell. If it happens it happens but investing into a girl you just want to fuck is so dumb.
/r/seduction16/09/24 05:52 PM
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I was talking about doing something fun not manipulating
/r/seduction10/09/24 05:07 AM
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Not a bad idea
/r/seduction08/09/24 04:37 PM
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You say you tend to like the old fashioned way why not try the real life then
/r/seduction09/08/24 09:33 PM
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i thought this was common sense. nobody thinks that arnold has an attractive body. to have a body that is attractive to women you just need some muscle mass and a low bodyfat
/r/seduction05/08/24 11:30 PM
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this doesnt make sense. you dont want to date down but also not date up? maybe you are just not in the stage of your life where you are ready for a relationship and you need to keep working on yourself
/r/seduction05/08/24 11:29 PM
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can you elaborate?
/r/seduction05/08/24 11:28 PM
8

you cant generalize it but i would agree that this applies to many women.
/r/seduction05/08/24 11:27 PM
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oh wait that was your first time sex in life? well then its basically impossible to be good but itll get better fast
/r/seduction05/08/24 08:48 PM
75

Good job man, well done. But why do you say the sex was awkward and bad, what was the reason?
/r/seduction05/08/24 08:40 PM
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Be proud of yourself that you had the balls and accept the rejection. Thinking about the reason why will drive you crazy as there are plenty of possible reasons.
/r/seduction03/08/24 09:39 PM
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I dont like texting myself but i dont understand how someone can take 20h to respond on average
/r/seduction29/04/24 02:43 PM
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I am talking about average 20h to respond
/r/seduction29/04/24 02:37 PM
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To save her feelings i should just ghost her?
/r/seduction29/04/24 01:28 PM
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For me slow responding is a sign of low interest and she is a nice girl so i dont want to ghost her without her knowing the reason
/r/seduction29/04/24 01:24 PM
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Yes thats what i wanted to do but via a phone call instead of writing a paragraph. Wouldnt it be better?
/r/seduction29/04/24 01:21 PM
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Why poor woman?
/r/seduction29/04/24 01:18 PM
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Of course you dont. Learn russian if you want to speak to russian girls
/r/seduction27/04/24 09:37 PM
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Yea depends on the person and situation but usually guys wait longer to have sex if they are genuinely interested in the girl
/r/seduction26/04/24 09:55 AM
73

Bro this type of girls are for the streets and you sound like you are trying to wife them
/r/seduction25/04/24 08:47 PM
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Would you mind saying where youre from and what country you live in? Stuttering sounds more like you are nervous and are scared to say the wrong word. This will get better the more you talk to women or people in general in this language. Stuttering definitely is bad, you shouldnt overthink what to say and to have more time to find the word you can speak slower
/r/seduction25/04/24 08:43 PM
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I dont know what you are talking about from my experience being from abroad and having a broken language is very attractive for girls. Maybe your problem is that you think its turn off which makes you appear insecure. Keep talking slow and appear more confident. You can say some random shit and they will laugh if they find you attractive.
/r/seduction25/04/24 08:27 PM
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Just talk to new girls. No matter how attractive you are its always a number game. You will never be liked by every girl you meet and there are tons of possible reasons for that, many of them are not related to you. So its normal to be rejected, especially in the beginning when you are inexperienced and have poor social skills. Think about what mistakes you made with that girl and improve it on the next girl. Possible mistakes: you appeared to needy or you didnt show any attraction and made the …
/r/seduction25/04/24 08:20 PM
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Damn thats so smart
/r/seduction25/04/24 08:07 PM
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Whats your guys age? You can initiate a conversation about what he is looking for, whats your relationship and what he sees in you etc on your next date. How far did he go already? I am a guy and i would say its a good sign that he goes on several dates with you but didnt instantly try to have sex. If i think a girl is only interesting for sex i wouldnt invite her on several dates, i would just invite her to my place. But if a find a girl interesting i would invite her to a couple dates before t…
/r/seduction25/04/24 07:37 PM
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Are you male? What country?
/r/seduction25/04/24 06:13 PM
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I get your point but geography plays a huge role in dating and i am not american. I had a couple experiences with girls from LA, NY and Boston and honestly i could never take any of them seriously. Sex on the first date and cheating is not as common in my country.
/r/seduction25/04/24 06:11 PM
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My first gf also had more experience than me i think it was good to start collecting experience
/r/seduction25/04/24 04:38 PM
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Hmmm possibly
/r/seduction25/04/24 04:24 PM
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Probably
/r/seduction25/04/24 04:23 PM
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I am 23, had a 2,5y LTR and a couple ons. I only would commit to a relationship if she is wifey material. I wonder how people can have 3 or more relationships in my age.
/r/seduction25/04/24 04:20 PM
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Yes thats a good point
/r/seduction25/04/24 04:18 PM
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In expensive gyms
/r/seduction25/04/24 03:59 PM
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I think the best way would be to build as much trust and rapport as possible with her. Talk her, ask her how she feels about the event and have a funny, comforting conversation, create insider jokes and if possible, talk to her then go away and talk to her again later when you see her again. This builds trust. Then you tell her that she has something unique, some special vibe and tell her you should go on a date and take her number. Be the guy that has a fun vibe and talks to many people and be …
/r/seduction22/04/24 10:20 AM
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Just start by trial and error or read a book and practice the things in real life
/r/seduction20/04/24 09:20 AM
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Thats complete bullshit to try to pickup wasted girls in the morning lol they have been partying and doing nasty things the whole night and you go there as the first thing you do in the morning
/r/seduction17/04/24 09:02 PM
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Yes
/r/seduction14/04/24 08:11 PM
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Thank you my guy thats a good advice. So i guess i have to have more balls on the next date and do more risky stuff
/r/seduction14/04/24 03:39 PM
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Oh man i get your point now i realize that this component was really missing. Should have said stuff like this. I thought its a good thing to be a good listener but i forgot that you have to be flirty to get a girl to really like you. Need to practice this. Now exactly when i was writing this she messaged me that she wasn’t feeling the date. Atleast a got a little practice. Can you tell me what exactly you mean with doing sexual and romantic stuff? You mean what you plan to do on the date?
/r/seduction14/04/24 03:13 PM
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If its considered a good date when i pick her up, we go for a walk and have a smooth 2h conversation without much flirting or kiss or anything
/r/seduction14/04/24 02:56 PM
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I know there are sluts but maybe its the type of women i like that is not so open about it. I really doubt she has a high body count. When i went to the date i did not expect more to happen because i think a first date where you just walk and talk is good. What should i do different to call it a good date? She asked for a date and at one point i tried to be direct and said „what about me did you like to much that you were begging to go on a date with me“ i did that so she can tell me what she fi…
/r/seduction14/04/24 02:55 PM
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But its the most easiest way to go for a kiss to just look her in the eyes and give her a compliment and see her reaction
/r/seduction14/04/24 02:51 PM
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Yes bro that’s because how i imagined how it should work , our date was similar where she talked 70-80% and i occasionally gave her a sincere compliment and i put my arm on ger shoulder a couple times but she reacted neutral, she didnt mind but also didnt do body contact back. Maybe it was just that she was tired
/r/seduction14/04/24 02:50 PM
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Take phenibut
/r/seduction12/04/24 11:10 PM
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What city? This make a big difference
/r/seduction07/04/24 03:53 PM
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I can see that you are a person who hopes a lot
/r/seduction07/04/24 09:07 AM
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You should always slowly escalate when you are with her to see if she likes you. First you do it via conversation, then you try breaking the touch barrier and look how she reponds and then keep doing more body contact until you are comfortable enough to keep your heads close together when talking. From there you can go for a kiss. I would say this should happen on first date or if she is shy on the second but not later. It is crucial to do that because it helps builing a connection via release o…
/r/seduction06/04/24 04:12 PM
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introduction small talk find common interests build rapport
/r/seduction06/04/24 12:52 AM
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