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5

I trust my wife more than any bro or male friend. Are you really that open and maskless with other guys?
/r/seduction23/04/26 05:18 PM
1

Are you always this anxious? You should probably talk to a therapist. You need to stop assuming what other people may or may not be thinking about you. A person may find you creepy but that’s not something you may even have 100% control over. They may just be racist, classist, ableist, sexist, or bigoted against you for some bullshit reason.
/r/seduction01/04/26 08:40 PM
1

Don’t even need a boat.
/r/seduction31/03/26 06:10 PM
1

Good hygiene, a stable job or income, your own place, and a willingness to go out on dates, travel, and/or dance. Bonus points if you also dress well, can hold a conversation, take care of your skin, and don’t smoke.
/r/seduction31/03/26 06:06 PM
1

Child care, education, nursing.
/r/seduction15/03/26 07:51 PM
1

It’s not complicated. You can just ask women what they like in the bedroom. Women are actually human just like men. The problem is that way too many guys are incapable of actually feeling empathy and treating women like they are human. Men want to be treated like a king but then forget that maybe the woman wants to also be treated like a queen.
/r/seduction13/03/26 03:54 PM
3

Just go to a nicer motel. That’s what they are for.
/r/seduction11/12/25 02:30 AM
1

Sure, but don’t include others in your weird fetish without their consent. If he has a fetish of watching his mom fuck his bully then I’m sure he can find an online community of like minded individuals to indulge him.
/r/seduction10/12/25 01:23 AM
3

I wish I didn’t know this post was about his fetish for watching his mom get fucked by other guys. I think I’m done with the internet for today.
/r/seduction09/12/25 04:28 PM
2

Depends on how bored I am and what the plans are. Basically, the second date is just an excuse for me to get out of the house if I have nothing better to do. If she shows up then cool, if she doesn’t then I’m already out and I’ll try to meet people or reach out to other people who may want to come hang out.
/r/seduction29/11/25 11:20 PM
1

Easy, find a girl with a house and move in with her.
/r/seduction25/11/25 02:09 AM
1

Mansplaining how they are not affected by inequality and that male privilege isn’t real. Then telling them how you are more informed than them about feminism and how most women don’t really know anything about feminism and just hate men because of past bad experiences. That is a pretty bold strategy. I hope it works out for you.
/r/seduction13/11/25 03:49 AM
1

The fact that you treat this all like some sort of social experiment comes off as very transactional and is the epitome of “nice guy” syndrome. You’re only being “nice” to see if it works to make girls get with you. Why would girls think you’re a “fuck boy” for genuinely being nice to them but also to the not so attractive girl, the elderly, guys, kids, the disabled, the poor, or any other demographic that has nothing to offer you?
/r/seduction10/11/25 02:45 PM
7

Are you sure they are as submissive and spineless as you think they are? I find that guys who try hard to project their masculinity are often just insecure and overcompensating.
/r/seduction21/10/25 11:01 PM
1

Lowered my standards a bot then just started going on dates and having fun. Then hotter and hotter women started showing interest. Also tried to dress better and get in shape.
/r/seduction04/07/25 12:10 PM
1

The one by Steven C. Hayes with the Mark Manson quotes on the top.
/r/seduction30/04/24 01:16 AM
13

Good book. I also read The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck. Much of it is based on Steven C. Hayes work on RFT and ACT. He has a book called A Liberated Mind which Mark Manson himself endorsed. A lot of it can seem like common sense but I find that they serve as a good tool for helping you focus on improving yourself as a person.
/r/seduction29/04/24 08:05 PM
2

Just keep on dating other girls and don’t worry about it. She’s now your backup plan that will likely fall through but if it happens, it happens. Just don’t go too out of your way to accommodate her.
/r/seduction19/04/23 06:13 PM
1

The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck - Mark Manson A Liberated Mind - Steven C Hayes
/r/seduction12/09/22 03:55 PM
4

He said High school. From what I remember, real world advice doesn’t really apply there. At that age; breaking the law, taking unnecessary risks, and being a sociopath is what made kids popular and attractive to the opposite sex.
/r/seduction11/09/22 11:29 AM
3

Cut a quarter inch off your inserts every time you see her for the next twelve days.
/r/seduction05/09/22 02:11 PM
7

It’s just like making a friend but that friend is attractive and they think you are attractive. You can call this friend up to hang out or play video games or whatever you’re into. You meet up to hang out and then you’re like, “hey, you want to go watch a movie, go somewhere with people and music, or maybe stay home and play video games?” Then they’re like, “sure, but I’m hungry. You wanna go eat something first?” Then you’re like, “for sure, I’m down to try that new place I heard about at work …
/r/seduction29/08/22 03:22 PM
4

Just date a divorcee. They usually know what they want and will be down to be FWB without the drama. You’ll find them at whatever bar specializes in cheap mixed drinks.
/r/seduction09/08/22 10:22 PM
7

Tinder. Spent a couple months having a conversation using only gifs. She eventually decided to meet. Then she decided she wanted to fuck.
/r/seduction23/07/22 09:07 PM
2

I did reach a point where my game was good enough to where I was dating like three girls at once. It consumed a lot of my time and the sex got boring and impersonal but it did increase my confidence to know that I could. In the end, I chose to be with one awesome girl instead of choosing to keep dating the crazy girl that was down with having a threesome.
/r/seduction21/07/22 07:38 PM
0

She sounds like an ugly human in more than just the physical sense. I have been rudely rejected by a less attractive girl one day and then hooked up with a girl thought was out of my league the next day. People are just unpredictable like that. This girl may not even been out looking for sex or a relationship. Maybe she is the type to hook up with unattractive older men who pay her bills. Is that even what you are looking for? All you know is that you thought she looked attractive but you don’t …
/r/seduction20/07/22 01:01 PM
1

Groups and clubs, depends on what you are into though. What are you in to?
/r/seduction11/07/22 03:12 PM
5

Reciprocal eye contact and respectful touching. Then again, I once had a girl come on to me a make out with me after a date where I thought she wasn’t into me. She said after the date, “are you not into me? You haven’t made a move.” I just replied “hell yeah, I’m into you”. So yeah, it can be tricky.
/r/seduction24/06/22 12:50 PM
6

Definitely tricky to find that balance in the “me too” era. More so if you are starting off and don’t have the best social skills. I’m talking about just going in for a kiss or putting your hand around a woman. Asking can make you come off as a dork but not asking can get you labeled a creep. In the past I had girls who said I was coming on too hard and some who said I didn’t come on hard enough. It took me a while to learn that most of that feedback really depends on how the girl felt about me …
/r/seduction24/06/22 12:44 PM
1

Neither makes a difference, I have a healthy sex life and I do both.
/r/seduction04/02/22 02:56 AM
4

My cousin was a bottle girl in Miami while in her 20s. Guy she married is a pretty average dude, parents are well off and he has a decent job in tech. They met while she was working as a bottle girl on south beach. She’s been married for about ten years now, has two kids and a stable relationship. She says it was a fun way to meet people in her 20s, it helped her make money, learn to deal with people, and network. She says the industry is filled with shady people but that it’s just like any othe…
/r/seduction01/02/22 12:27 PM
1

Yes, I date women to see if I’m attracted to them. There’s more to women than just their looks. That said, there are limits to how physically unattractive or how shitty a personality I would be willing to date or hook up with.
/r/seduction19/01/22 03:52 PM
1

If you grind on a straight guy’s penis, he will very likely get aroused. Doesn’t mean they aren’t trying to have a friendly good time but just how friendly will depend on how much you escalate or allow them escalate.
/r/seduction17/11/21 05:05 PM
3

Don’t just choose one approach. Do them all. Try to level up every skill or strategy that will increase your odds of meeting women. More exercise, better diet, your career, number of dating apps you use, times a week you go out, number of women you approach. Make self-improvement and meeting people your hobby. Practice having conversation and setting up dates with other people, even platonic dates. Just get comfortable talking to people, making plans with them, and following through. You can eve…
/r/seduction08/11/21 02:13 PM
2

Be bisexual, lower standards, post nudes online.
/r/seduction04/11/21 02:54 PM
2

Be funny and flirty. Open with some banter. It’s ok to be a little sexual or corny but try not to be overly sexually aggressive or use too much dark edgy humor unless they seem to be moving in that direction. Overall, don’t worry too much about any one person or conversation. There are no magic words you can say to get everyone to like you and sometimes the silliest dumbest conversation are the ones that end up working best.
/r/seduction02/11/21 10:11 PM
1

Is a gay man who’s into straight men, heterosexual?
/r/seduction20/10/21 05:16 PM
3

She’s hobosexual.
/r/seduction20/10/21 04:53 PM
34

He went from having his girl eat is ass to learning how to find the right size condom to learning how to lose his virginity with an escort and now he’s pulling hot women every night to go watch cobra kai and take LSD. All in just three months. I’m impressed.
/r/seduction15/07/21 01:00 PM
1

Just text the next girl. You won’t get dates from every girl you talk to, just like you won’t end up talking to every girl you meet. You also won’t have sex with every girl you kiss and you won’t kiss every girl you take out on a date. Good job on talking to a girl, now you know you can do it again and maybe the next one will work out. Maybe this one will work out when you start talking to the next one, it happens. Just don’t waste your energy on her, have some self respect.
/r/seduction14/07/21 03:33 AM
3

Keep approaching and talking to other girls. Have fun on your date, make sure you intentions are clear, and don’t stress. You’re getting better at getting dates, that’s a win. Now do it again. If you go on enough dates, you’ll get laid.
/r/seduction07/07/21 08:21 PM
1

Your thinking seems rather transactional to me. Have you tried just being nice. Maybe you can bring pizza rolls the next time and wean her off./s
/r/seduction02/07/21 06:00 PM
2

That was around the age I started to really break out of my shell after feeling just like you. Then I spent like two year going on dates almost every weekend and having all the casual sex I could ever want. I don’t regret that I didn’t start sooner and that I was mature and stable enough to live that lifestyle. It’s not too late to learn and put yourself out there. I just started dating a lot and even going on dates with girls that I didn’t intend to have sex with. That is what built up my confi…
/r/seduction26/06/21 03:45 PM
6

Do you mean they aren’t mutually exclusive? If they were not synonymous then you would be saying that they are incompatible (i.e. you can’t have non comital sex if you’re in a serious relationship). However, I did already acknowledge open relationships so I’m not sure what you’re trying to say.
/r/seduction25/06/21 12:13 PM
4

Exactly, nothing wrong with that but unless you’re in an open relationship then it’s not very conducive to a serious relationship.
/r/seduction25/06/21 11:09 AM
13

You found your husband while you were a virgin and now that you have a high body count, it would probably be a bad idea for any subsequent paramour to want to try getting into a long term relationship with you. Having a committed long term relationship with someone who is polyamorous is not for everyone and getting into a committed long term relationship with someone who already is in a committed long term relationship also has a high probability of failure. You do you though, I don’t judge. I’v…
/r/seduction25/06/21 11:04 AM
14

A serious relationship usually includes some level of commitment. If you date a lot and don’t commit, then either you don’t like commitment or you have some flaw in your personality. Neither is good for a relationship. Personally, I have never really cared but that has mostly been my experience.
/r/seduction25/06/21 10:46 AM
1

Don’t ever say alpha male again. Just be an ordinary confident man.
/r/seduction03/12/20 04:32 PM
41

That makes you sound lame until you realize that the girl you are talking to is also pretty lame. Actually, we all are in some way. We tend to think that other people experiences are perfect and interesting but our own are flawed and boring. In reality, the flaws are what make our life experiences interesting.
/r/seduction30/01/20 02:58 PM
5

By the time my girlfriend realized, she had already fallen for me. I also realized she was like me and it worked out.
/r/seduction30/01/20 02:45 PM
1

What do you really value? Would you rather have a more attractive girlfriend with a worse personality? You may also get both if you keep waiting or put in more time. I personally don’t value looks over everything else and personality makes a person more attractive to me but it won’t completely make up for looks.
/r/seduction30/11/19 05:41 PM
1

It’s happened to me a few times. Every time it has never been an issue. For me personally, every time it has happened I ended up in a great relationship. At this point I feel like it’s good luck. Have you also considered how this might affect her? You might be thinking that you’re not man enough when in reality she might feel like she couldn’t turn you on. For all you know, it may have made her want you more. Don’t feel shame, shit happens and you were being a responsible adult by getting medica…
/r/seduction18/11/19 12:07 AM
2

Some girls fuck around like that because they can. It just gets easier as you get older and gain confidence in yourself. Don’t over think it and don’t worry about fucking with girls that like to play games. Just find yourself a girl willing to get to know you. Don’t focus on flirting, focus on learning how to socialize with everyone. Also, learn when to leave but be consistent in going to social gatherings.
/r/seduction20/10/19 01:27 PM
-1

He can but it won’t be easy. Nobody deserves a girlfriend and people have to make choices as to whether their need meet someone is stronger than their need to be a loner. There’s nothing wrong with wanting to become an olympic athlete but it will become really hard to become an olympic athlete but not wanting to have to exercise. Likewise, meeting people requires socializing and that requires going out to places where people socialize. Being a social butterfly that lives in his own bubble is an …
/r/seduction10/10/19 04:42 PM
-3

If you hang out here long enough then probably aren’t very good.
/r/seduction10/07/19 02:37 AM
1

Just say, “That’s okay sweetie, of course we can be friends. Let me know if you ever want to hang out.” After that just leave it up to her if she wants to be a friend. Go out and date other women and don’t worry about this girl anymore.
/r/seduction03/05/19 02:13 PM
2

Spend your energy somewhere else. If you ever do hook up with her, it would probably be after you date someone else first.
/r/seduction18/04/19 03:01 PM
10

Yes
/r/seduction15/04/19 02:12 PM
3

AKA, I don’t want to date you but I’m trying to be nice about it. I would only bother if somehow I reconnected with her under different circumstances but you should really consider moving on. Your odds are better trying to meet someone new.
/r/seduction12/04/19 03:11 PM
3

Gurrrrrrrl, bye!
/r/seduction12/04/19 03:00 PM
1

Don’t expect more than if asking out any other girl. The odds that she’ll want to date you are probably even worse than if she was a stranger. Don’t bring up your history together, you’ll just remind her that you were in her friend zone all this time. It simple, ask her out like if you had just met her. Expect to be rejected at the same rate you would when asking out girls you have just met.
/r/seduction06/04/19 03:44 PM
1

Liberalism or income inequality? If you want to politicize this then you should probably look at whoever caused the recession.
/r/seduction30/03/19 02:48 PM
1

Seems to be around the time of the recession. Anecdotally I’ve heard women say that they would rather be a side chick than date a broke guy who lives at home.
/r/seduction30/03/19 02:44 PM
2

Mid 20s. I also tend to attract mostly smart nerdy college girls. I’m from miami and although there is big clubbing scene, I’ve never really been into that lifestyle. Then again if I was I’d probably be meeting girls at clubs instead of on a dating app.
/r/seduction29/03/19 07:15 PM
2

At least planning logistics. Something like, “You from the area? I’d like to meet up with someone new this weekend. I’ll be free on Saturday afternoon if you’re also interested in meeting new people”
/r/seduction29/03/19 06:38 PM
0

Focus on being more interesting instead.
/r/seduction29/03/19 05:08 PM
2

Ask her out to grab lunch somewhere informal like a sports bar. Talk about what you guys like to do for fun. Eat. Pay(only if she's been cool and considerate, I'm a gentleman but I ain't no punk. If she been on her phone and not showing any interest in me then I'm splitting the bill.) At this point if she seems anxious and has expressed wanting to move on with her day then tell her you had fun and should do this again soon. If she seems to have been having fun but doesn't seem like she is ready …
/r/seduction29/03/19 02:43 PM
0

Remember that there is large amount of women who don’t even plan on meeting people on tinder. They are on there for the validation and conversation alone. Most girls I’ve hooked up with on tinder were receptive about meeting in person even if they were cautious to the degree you would expect from someone meeting a stranger. If you she responds with something like, “I don’t know but where, how, when?” After you ask her on a date, its probably a good sign. I usually ask almost immediately after in…
/r/seduction29/03/19 02:05 PM
2

Learn from it for when you go on your second tinder date. You got one date, you’re starting to do something right. Keep it up!
/r/seduction05/03/19 04:34 PM
1

If anything I feel like the main advice on here has always been to work on yourself, whether it’s exercise, social skills, style, or hygiene. Other than that there’s a bunch of gibberish but the main points seem to be repeated often enough.
/r/seduction29/11/18 02:48 PM
13

Don't give "a girl" attention. Give "your girl" attention. If she's not currently "your girl" then find another girl. Always push to hangout in person. If she's still not interested after that then just move on. You'll find girls with who you share a mutual attraction but you can't make every girl find you attractive, at least not by the way you act towards her anyways. Meet women in person and work on being a better person.
/r/seduction28/11/18 03:15 PM
3

You’re all losers to me. Clubs suck. I’m only saying this so that you don’t feel awkward because really, you’re the normal one.
/r/seduction18/11/18 06:52 AM
2

That’s why step 1 is to not seek validation. You learn how to be likable but that doesn’t mean you need them to like you. You have to be likable for yourself, it’s a skill that you choose to use or not.
/r/seduction09/11/18 01:11 AM
11

If a woman tries to abuse you then just bounce. Basically, I just don’t have a problem with being alone or respecting myself. I don’t need a woman. If a woman is good to me, then I’m good to her and I’ll stick around as long as we both make each other’s lives better. Step 1: Be ok with who you are and fuck getting approval from others. Step 2: Learn to make people around you feel comfortable and happy. It doesn’t matter if you’re good at it. Every time you see another human, just think about wha…
/r/seduction08/11/18 11:15 PM
2

Four girls flake, so you quit?
/r/seduction07/11/18 12:43 PM
3

Just hit up your back up. Just live your life and who ever wants to join, bring them along. I never bring up exclusivity first. I date girls and eventually one asks me to be exclusive. That’s when I know if a girl is serious. At that point I decide if I agree or not.
/r/seduction01/11/18 02:24 PM
1

Have you tried dating outside your race or going to comic book conventions? How about moving to a poorer country where you might have more status as a man?
/r/seduction21/10/18 04:59 AM
3

I was honest but I didn’t get into details about it. I kinda said it in a confident way and then banged her in a confident way that she accused me of lying. Just tell her the truth and don’t worry so much about her believing you. Ask her, what do you think?
/r/seduction09/07/18 03:30 AM
1

Don’t focus on being more masculine. Be like Prince, just be more sexual instead of rugged. Do what you like to do and own it with confidence. Work with what you have and better yourself in all aspects; physically, sexually, mentally, socially, artistically, athletically. There is no ideal form of masculinity. Being masculine just means to be dominant instead of submissive. You can dominate in a fight but you can also dominate in art and you can dominate in business.
/r/seduction03/07/18 03:48 PM
6

It makes it harder for sure but not impossible. Last girl, I took to a motel after a couple dates and after that, I brought her home to "watch TV". She got over the initial shyness after the first time and realized that it didn't really matter and it was just more convenient to come over to my place. Girl before that, she had her own place and I would just go over whenever. Of course, there have been other girls that I probably could have "brought home" if I had my own private place.
/r/seduction27/06/18 04:07 PM
3

Best to just be stoic. Genuinely stop giving a fuck.
/r/seduction29/05/18 01:22 PM
1

Yes, we will probably react the same way as when a man asks out or pursues a woman. The standard advice goes both ways though, be interesting, have good hygiene, dress well, keep frame, don’t be needy, don’t have oneitis, don’t put the dick on the pedestal. If you wouldn’t respond to a guy’s advances for any of these reasons then don’t expect that just because it’s a guy, that you wouldn’t have to try just as hard. Only difference I perceive is that men would probably be ok with having sex with …
/r/seduction15/05/18 12:08 AM
5

The way you mention this girl was talking to you and explaining her situation seems to indicate she was already intrested. At that point I go with my gut and show as much flexibility as she is showing me. Her response was thorough as fuck.
/r/seduction10/05/18 07:26 PM
3

I think you need to just date more girls and not worry about the girlfriend part. Date some girls that aren’t as attractive as you’d like. Have fun and learn from the experience. Just focus on having fun, meeting new people, and having new experiences. Practice seeing how far you can take things sexually with the girls you date. Then when you get over that fear of messing things up, you can date more attractive women without feeling so much pressure. Sure you don’t want to mess it up with this r…
/r/seduction10/05/18 04:37 PM
1

Good bot
/r/seduction20/04/18 05:33 PM
5

Most likely. Don't force anything. Remember that no means no but that doesn't mean you can't keep making her feel comfortable until she herself will want what you want. Seduce her, turn her on, touch her body, look in her eyes, make her feel safe, the friend thing is not something she can keep up if she gets turned on by you. Remember, women are vulnerable to being labeled a slut, it's not always easy for them to say what they want upfront, she needs to make sure that you're cool and mature enou…
/r/seduction20/04/18 05:29 PM
1

Just practice approaching less attractive girls if you are not attractive yourself. Either that or make yourself more attractive through exercise and having an interesting life. Better yet, combine both until you get better at both looking more attractive and picking up hotter and hotter women.
/r/seduction17/04/18 04:42 PM
1

If you truly provide social value then perhaps you just need to market yourself a little better. Do you now have the ability to make the lives of people around you better. Do enough people know this?
/r/seduction16/04/18 05:01 PM
4

Eventually you’ll find someone special. Then you will probably fuck it up. Then you will find a bunch more girls you don’t want to commit to. Eventually you’ll find someone special again, you might also start getting bored of wasting your time chasing girls, bringing different girls to every social event or party. Maybe she won’t mind being in an open relationship, but soon you realize that she is actually enjoying it more than you. Yeah, you have a few threesomes and a couple one night stands b…
/r/seduction08/04/18 05:37 PM
2

It’s called hooking up and if that’s what you want then it’s important that both people know nobody is going to get too attached. Getting drunk or acting drunk is actually an integral part of hookup culture since it allows people to get intimate but also be able justify not developing the relationship.
/r/seduction06/04/18 11:45 PM
3

You probably did yourself a favor but It’s not unlikely that she still would have fucked. Her current relationship could be either open or not too serious or she was lying or whatever. If you were cool with banging her under those conditions then you fucked up. No point in leaving it open because she will still be that same person when she ends her current relationship. You’re either cool with a girl like that or you tell her straight up that if she single and wants to fool around then you don’t…
/r/seduction04/04/18 03:54 AM
31

Good, because you’re cute!
/r/seduction17/03/18 04:36 AM
90

Why? Are you trying to hit on me?
/r/seduction17/03/18 12:17 AM
2

There are other girls. You will meet many more. You can’t make every girl like you and not every girl will be ready when you are. It’s not always meant to be. The only thing to regret is not trying and knowing for sure what could have been. Go get your answer and your closure. Worst case scenario you get rejected and you will learn from your mistakes so that next time you have a crush you’ll be ready.
/r/seduction08/03/18 07:48 AM
2

She rejects you when you make a move. She’ll probably say something like, “I’m not into you, I was just being friendly”.
/r/seduction04/03/18 02:29 PM
7

Also, when you do start dating multiple women, make sure they are worth your time. One thing I learned once my game started to get good was that some girls aren’t really worth your time. Others can be fun people to know and hang out with but may not necessarily be relationship material, even if they do want to have sex with you.
/r/seduction03/03/18 12:14 AM
2

I guess context is also important. I said it after she said she was doubting whether or not she wanted to come in to my house for the night and she had previously mentioned something about having had shitty hookups and not wanting to move too fast. I think she took it more in the “oh well, I have fucked worse guys in the past that I regret. You’re definitely not gonna be my biggest regret” sense. I don’t know, my pick up game is to just say a bunch of funny shit, admire their beauty while I talk…
/r/seduction02/03/18 06:23 AM
32

A line I used last week that totally worked was, “hey, I promise you I won’t be the worst mistake you’ve ever made”.
/r/seduction02/03/18 06:02 AM
1

Usually I’ll go to a bar near other activities for a first date. A bar by a club where you can dance. A bar by an arcade. A bar by a bowling alley. Basically I plan for the date to be at a fun venue but to first meet at a nearby bar. I feel like having this next event removes the pressure from how the date is going at the current venue.
/r/seduction02/03/18 04:14 AM
8

There is definitely a timing for it. It comes a little more natural for me but just to be clear, you don’t just stare. Actually, you just have to really take the time to admire their beauty and eyes after you break the ice and already found at least one topic in common and she seems interested in continuing the conversation. Basically, the person is already interested but the eye contact is what’s going to reassure then that they are not boring you. You have to wait until they start to seem like…
/r/seduction25/02/18 11:36 PM
3

If you’re using apps and not meeting people then you’re probably not meeting people without apps. There is something you need to work on but I wouldn’t blame the apps.
/r/seduction21/02/18 07:09 PM
1

“I bet I can lift you.” Then, try to physically pick her up.
/r/seduction21/02/18 01:36 PM
27

I thinks this is wrong. When you date somebody you’ve met online you still need game when you show up to the date. Once you have successfully seduced a few women you have met online it can give you the confidence to do it in real life. In fact I think that the more people you meet and more dates you go on the better you will get overall.
/r/seduction21/02/18 01:31 PM
2

You really never know who is going to end up being a good lay and sometimes you even end up really clicking and having good sex with somebody you might not have initially thought about sleeping with. Even if you eventually end up getting married, you still have to figure out what really matters to you. I’ve changed my values a few times after experiencing different relationships with different people. I’m never again going to be in anything long term with a girl that sucks in bed no matter how n…
/r/seduction06/02/18 01:21 AM
5

Not where you are yet but I’m getting there. It’s like I just stopped giving a fuck. I’m willing to give more girls chances now and realized that when being picky you can’t even be sure what you’re being picky about because I wasn’t really getting to know people.
/r/seduction06/02/18 01:01 AM
1

Definitely go for really fun intense experiences spread out. Also, make sure it’s things she likes.
/r/seduction27/01/18 04:00 PM
3

This. My current fling only wants to be FWB and it’s the first time I actually wanted to keep a girl around without getting bored them.
/r/seduction27/01/18 12:30 PM
2

Going on a second date today with a girl that I just kept sending gifs to for a month. Try that maybe?
/r/seduction14/01/18 11:26 PM
1

Casual invite to somewhere not super romantic. When you get there ask her, “ hey how about we ditch this place and grab a drink somewhere else”. Play around and talk about sexually charged subjects. Make good eye contact, smile and enjoy watching her get nervous about the eye contact. Go pee, come back and sit close to her. Gauge if she pulls away or wants to get closer. Look for an excuse to touch her. Maintain eye contact. Keep touching and casually moving your face closer while gauging if she…
/r/seduction14/01/18 12:57 AM
25

As a guy who had taken many risk and had served multiple prison sentences, I should be close to becoming mega successful.
/r/seduction05/01/18 11:52 PM
1

Please do. There is nothing more annoying than when one girl wants to play a serious contact sport with the guys.
/r/seduction05/01/18 01:54 PM
1

Never thought of doing this with a woman but it makes sense. I’ve always felt that playing basketball with my friends is what has led me to know what type of person they are.
/r/seduction05/01/18 01:51 PM
3

You have to diversify your portfolio.
/r/seduction29/12/17 06:30 AM
1

One of them will probably die first. They might not always have the healthiest relationship. Those that do are probably just comfortable but not clingy or needy.
/r/seduction29/12/17 06:25 AM
1

We’re talking about OPs situation. Are you dense? Good for you for choosing to be with a girl that won’t flirt with me. OPs girl seems to be a bit different from your girl. My advice is for that situation. The one where OPs girl gets hit on by her exFWB in front of him and she just says, I’ll take care of it and does’t really do or say anything.
/r/seduction24/12/17 12:03 AM
1

So you’ll say something then? Or you just going to watch your girl flirt with me while you jerk off confidently in the corner? Where do you draw the line, kiddo? I’m only her exFWB, I’m escalating and she’s not telling me to stop or back off. You don’t think you can find somebody else who would respect the relationship? Seriously, where do you draw the line? Sleep over? Make out with her?
/r/seduction23/12/17 11:08 PM
1

I have no problem if a guy hits on my girl but I do expect to be respected. Having a guy hit on your girl is disrespectful and being nice by not acknowledging the disrespect makes you a beta as fuck nice guy. If that guy doesn’t fuck your girl then I’m going to try because you obviously have no spine and your girl doesn’t respect you.
/r/seduction23/12/17 10:57 PM
3

I’m secure enough to know that I can find someone else who respects me. Letting her ex FWB hit on her blatantly like that without taking any action about it is disrespectful. That’s crossing the line whether she is letting him hit on her to boost her ego or because she doesn’t want to hurt his feelings or some bullshit like that. If she wants loyalty she needs to show loyalty. It’s a two way street. If she can’t respect the relationship then I’m confident that I can find somebody else that will.…
/r/seduction23/12/17 04:51 PM
11

I don’t want to hear that she will handle it after it’s happened four times. Why the fuck wasn’t it handled the first time? How hard is it for her to tell him to fuck off? I’m sure she would expect the same from him if an ex FWB kept on hitting in him.
/r/seduction23/12/17 07:03 AM
14

Personally, I don’t believe it would be right for me to hang out with an ex FWB if I could avoid it. If for some reason I had to go somewhere where there was an ex FWB of mine and she hit on me knowing I’m in a committed relationship, I would in a serious tone tell her to fuck off. If she hit on me again, I would tell her off in a very public and assertive way. I would say something like, “ fuck off, I’m out of here, you’re being fucking disrespectful and I don’t appreciate what you’re doing”. I…
/r/seduction23/12/17 06:58 AM
2

Move on. Your problem is you need to meet more girls and get rejected more often. You need to learn that getting rejected is not a big deal and that you won’t end up hooking up with every girl that initially showed interest in you. It’s not going to be what you say to her or do for her that will make a girl like you. It’s your social circle, your social status, and your lifestyle.
/r/seduction10/12/17 12:57 AM
2

From asking her out, not the club.
/r/seduction10/12/17 12:45 AM
1

I know that there’s this expectations that guys have to be able to get hard and fuck anything with a vagina at a moments notice. Recently I learned that’s not true at all. I had a short lived relationship with a girl recently that really fucked with my head. I couldn’t perform as usual with her and didn’t really get turned on once we we’re in the act. Before her I was the man, I believed that it didn’t have to do anything with the girl, I had the fucking magic stick. I thought it might be me, ma…
/r/seduction26/11/17 12:24 AM
1

You are essentially talking about the Ben Franklin effect. Google it.
/r/seduction09/11/17 05:05 AM
1

Personally, I don't give a fuck. I'm not proud of all the girls I have slept with. I don't regret any of them either. My friends have ragged on me for some girls I have been with. I'm ok with that, I'd do the same to them given the dynamic of my friendship with them. Just don't bad mouth or give out too many details about what you do in private with another person. Word gets around and you don't want to get a reputation for not being discrete. Even hot girls are insecure and they wouldn't want t…
/r/seduction02/11/17 12:49 AM
1

You need to be more confident. Not just with the person you want to flirt with but with everyone you encounter. You need to practice your banter with the bros and your game with the girls. You will come across a bit awkward. Some people will hate you even if you're not doing anything wrong. Some girls will be so hot that they won't have very good social skills. They will seem rude and they will judge you negatively despite you not being a creep. Now if every girl you talk to thinks you are a cre…
/r/seduction01/11/17 11:57 PM
9

I only masturbate in to flower vases. I was hoping to move up to potted plants soon. Is that too far?
/r/seduction21/10/17 01:58 PM
6

That stupid bitch had no idea how well she was going to be treated. Like go die in a ditch if you can't see how empathetic and caring I am.
/r/seduction01/10/17 04:18 AM
1

Yeah but to take your analogy further. Sometimes you're better off working on the skills that will make you attractive to sport recruiters than just walking on to every team with nothing to offer.
/r/seduction21/09/17 03:18 PM
11

You wanna fuck?
/r/seduction17/09/17 04:09 AM
8

I hurt my back a month ago. Shit sucks.
/r/seduction28/07/17 07:23 AM
6

You need to open IE first to get that message and those people are either really young, really old, really dumb, using it to download a replacement browser, or just using it to explore really weird sex fetishes.
/r/seduction24/06/17 06:25 PM
1

"X restaurant/coffee at 7 before the movie?" Meeting at the movies is a bit awkward IMO.
/r/seduction13/06/17 04:04 PM
5

Profesional poker player/ Instagram pseudo-celebrity jet setter playboy/ fitness enthusiast.
/r/seduction06/06/17 11:17 PM
1

I'm going to tell you about a recent experience I had in case you can relate. I recently broke up with a girl that would constantly get angry and needy. I liked this girl but she didn't seem to understand that I also have responsibilities. Sometimes I just had to put aside the hedonistic pleasures of being with my girlfriend to work, exercise, rest and unwind. She would work herself up trying to make it up to me. Problem was that there was nothing to make up for, I just needed my personal space …
/r/seduction05/06/17 08:02 PM
1

Everything you improve on helps create a better whole. Sure you can keep a basic wardrobe and attract girls with your personality, career, physique, artistic talent, conversation skills, etc. If you are rich or famous or in really good shape you might not even need any other attractive attributes but if you're not extremely talented in one dimension then it helps to work on all areas.
/r/seduction31/05/17 02:18 PM
2

Only 22, already hooked up with various girls including one considered hot. What more do you fucking want? A line of pornstars at your door begging to suck you off?
/r/seduction20/05/17 11:32 AM
1

Ask her if that is something she would be into or if she has ever thought about it. If not then move on. Don't force it. You either both feel it's time to commit or you just keep it casual as FWB and if someone else comes along then you let her know that things might soon change depending on how your new parter feels about it.
/r/seduction19/04/17 03:03 AM
1

There is a difference between what people say and what people do.
/r/seduction31/03/17 06:55 PM
3

Make money, work out, let them chase you, fuck hotter bitches with better personalities. Actually just fuck all the bitches. Practice makes perfect and women like to gossip and brag.
/r/seduction05/03/17 04:51 PM
1

Play basketball or join crossfit.
/r/seduction04/03/17 07:56 PM
10

Be direct with him and stop fucking lying. If he still keeps fucking you over then he's not a real friend. I find it weird that this guy keeps getting your girl. Are you hanging out with the wrong girls? Are you getting friend zoned and your friend perceives this and moves in knowing you blew your chance? I'll personally wingman for my buddies with pure intentions but if the girl is attractive and the girl makes it clear that she is not interested in my buddy then there's no harm in me taking a …
/r/seduction03/03/17 05:50 PM
3

Any single person trying to go out and hook up on Valentine's Day instead of just getting over it might be a little desperate. In women it might manifest as clinginess in men it's probably guys that don't usually bring value to those around him.
/r/seduction15/02/17 01:35 AM
1

Think of it like the scientific method. If you have a seduction hypothesis then test it out with a large enough sample size. Don't let your emotions affect your experiment.
/r/seduction05/02/17 09:30 PM
2

She had a good time and you got a happy face emote. Yeah, you're doing pretty good. But... it's only a start. Now you just have to keep her interested by being interesting. I suggest something like an evening coffee date near some bars and clubs or some other interesting venues. Meet for coffee and escalate. Start off talking over coffee, change venues, dance or drink at a bar, do something physical, kiss...ect.ect.
/r/seduction24/01/17 05:31 PM
5

Unless you get to know that person and they suck. I try to be awesome and it always has affected me in positive ways but I don't pretend that most people are good. Have you ever worked retail? Most people have sad stories but they don't give a fuck about you. They are just neutral. The bystander effect at a smaller scale. Good people exist but they are rare and you should hold on to them.
/r/seduction21/01/17 01:42 AM
1

Just say, "Ok sure". I then proceed to find another girl that is interested in spending time with me. You still want to fuck the flake because she's hot and then move on? Just post about your night with the other girl on Instagram or something. This might motivate her to not flake and actually go out with you but I personally wouldn't try to do much else other than bang the flaky girl at this point.
/r/seduction17/01/17 03:45 AM
3

Everything is about sex, except sex, sex is about power.
/r/seduction15/01/17 10:32 PM
9

It's my experience that the older I get the more desirable to women I become. I have more money and freedom while women my age are freaking out about their biological clock and having kids. I can always date younger girls so that's not really a problem for me and younger girls don't usually mind dating older men who are more mature than the guys their age.
/r/seduction15/01/17 10:31 PM
3

Date girls you see some potential in. Give them some love, show them what it feels like to be in a mature relationship. Show her how a real man treats a woman. Respect her when around other people. Be a good partner. If after a few dates nothing clicks then if you did things right you would have build some solid PR and some other girls will see you as a solid partner. Don't start any drama. Don't gossip. Don't bad mouth them after you break up. This would give you some solid character reference,…
/r/seduction02/01/17 01:52 AM
2

Love yourself and try to be the best person you can be.
/r/seduction31/12/16 03:12 PM
5

I'm not saying to use her either. Looks aren't everything and there's always another hotter girl than the one you got. Sometimes the hotter girls suck at sex and have horrible personalities. You also don't want to get a bad reputation. If you force it and feel and act like you're better than the girl you're with, she and other girls will pick up on that. It's hard to explain but by being happy with what you have you just might get what you need.
/r/seduction20/12/16 09:10 PM
11

Find a good girl even if she's not the hottest. Girls are more forward when they see you with another girl. If you're out of her league she will constantly give you an ego boost. You'll also learn how to treat a girl right. Practice and soon you'll be more confident being around hotter and hotter girls. You might even realize what you really want from a girl.
/r/seduction20/12/16 08:15 PM
1

All the exercise. Just work out more and your posture will get better unless you have some medical condition that affects your posture. When you force yourself to be more athletic, your body will adapt to become more efficient at doing physical activity. That adaptation happens to be better posture.
/r/seduction14/12/16 06:20 AM
1

If he's your bro then you don't have to worry. If he doesn't wing then he's no real bro, fuck that guy he's just using you to seem cool.
/r/seduction14/12/16 05:22 AM
5

Fuck an ugly chick. You'll learn how it feels to be put on a pedestal and how fast it becomes annoying.
/r/seduction09/12/16 07:39 AM
2

Eh, when it's that easy I lower my standards a bit. Sometimes the ugly girls are a better lay but that's just me. Being the hot one in the couple can be pretty nice too and raise your self esteem. You also get the benefit of having hot girls look at you like why is he with her? Bitch because you like to play games, maybe next time you could get this dick if you weren't acting like your pussy is some rare commodity.
/r/seduction09/12/16 07:35 AM
1

And the implication ;)
/r/seduction30/09/16 05:09 PM
13

I've had some success with approaching a girl and just saying Hi and a little small talk just to run into them again and again. Point is that you don't have to go into the interaction and seduce them at that moment. Meet enough people and you will probably keep running into them. Seeing the same person at a different venue makes it easier to approach them later and talk more.
/r/seduction09/09/16 12:49 AM
2

I invite multiple people out to do things and invite certain people I vibe with to particular things depending on whether I think they might also enjoy it.
/r/seduction25/08/16 04:05 PM
1

Yeah it matters but unless you're hideously deformed then it shouldn't stop you from having at least some level of success.
/r/seduction25/08/16 03:40 PM
1

Don't let it get to you. Push her to say meaner and meaner things. Wait for enough people to see how much of a bitch she is being. When the time is right you say, "Wow, that's a pretty fucked up way to treat people". Now either everyone will take your side or you just realized that you are hanging out around really shitty people and move on with your life.
/r/seduction29/06/16 07:26 PM
1

Volunteer in something with children or animals.
/r/seduction20/05/16 06:52 PM
1

Ah yes, the Dennis system.
/r/seduction10/05/16 03:58 PM
1

Remember that no expectations goes both ways. You're not tied down and you don't owe each other anything. Just be present, have fun, and escalate. BTW, escalating is about testing not to pushing. You being ok with backing off if she's uncomfortable allows her to feel secure. Sometimes girls just want to see how you react when she essentally tells you to back off.
/r/seduction07/05/16 04:17 PM
2

Usually by the types of drinks they serve. Cougars love their weird mixed drinks and wine.
/r/seduction14/04/16 04:56 PM
1

Introduce her to your other friends. Tell her she can bring some friends too.
/r/seduction31/03/16 09:20 PM
1

Because you're in a group, not leading it. I hate following and I hate being the center of attention. Solution, make your own group and lead it. This can be done by inviting people to events, being the main attraction at an event(be good at music, athletics, any thing people compete or perform in), throwing parties, being more attractive, having good stories/conversation skills.
/r/seduction18/03/16 06:11 PM
1

I find that it works only if it's relatable and not used as an outlet for your insecurities.
/r/seduction15/03/16 05:17 PM
3

Don't have a child. Make money and get in shape. At 30 is when you usually get financially independent and you are able to reach your physical peak. Being a man isn't hurting my chances at all. Maybe if I was some looser and let my self get fat it would have been negative.
/r/seduction12/03/16 04:02 PM
6

You haven't heard enough Latin music then. Every other song has the word seduction in it.
/r/seduction29/02/16 02:14 PM
1

Not being self conscious about the women I date.
/r/seduction19/02/16 09:19 PM
2

As a somewhat tall guy myself, fuck yeah being tall gives you an advantage.
/r/seduction15/02/16 12:41 AM
1

You'll just look like some popular athlete.
/r/seduction15/02/16 12:38 AM
-4

She might have low self esteem if she is putting up with a loser that won't stop texting or she's the one asking to be texted.
/r/seduction04/02/16 06:31 PM
1

Don't, get a life. Women like guys that have a life and aren't texting them every day.
/r/seduction04/02/16 03:45 PM
1

Do you like that you are not humble?
/r/seduction22/01/16 03:07 AM
1

Sure, probably as much as you value it in others. How many overweight smart girls did you hit on recently?
/r/seduction22/01/16 03:04 AM
2

No, but it sure does feel nice. The meaning of life is to achieve your goals. One of my goals right now just so happens to be bang more chicks.
/r/seduction22/01/16 12:58 AM
1

I find that male bonding is usually goal oriented. Find a hobby. Personally I lean more towards hobbies that require athleticism. There is a reason why jocks are usually pretty popular.
/r/seduction22/01/16 12:55 AM
0

Get fit. In every species the most physically fit male is usually the one getting all the females. We are no exception.
/r/seduction22/01/16 12:45 AM
1

Do you like yourself? I like myself because I try to be a better person everyday. It might make me vulnerable sometimes but in the end I know I'm a good person that works hard to get ahead. This isn't about them, it's about you.
/r/seduction22/01/16 12:43 AM
1

What would make you like yourself? Would being fit, smart, well groomed, ambitious, fearless help? It takes work but it's doable. It won't get handed to you, there is no secret. You have to put the work in.
/r/seduction22/01/16 12:38 AM
5

So much easier when you have something to say and you are attractive. I'm not making excuses, I got off my ass and started working out every day, I learned how to dress, and I started approaching women once I became a person I can respect.
/r/seduction22/01/16 12:33 AM
1

You need a cocky and funny frame so you can suceesfully engage in some banter. Push and pull is what you do to reduce tension so that you don't seem like too much like an asshole or too much of a pussy.
/r/seduction20/01/16 10:29 PM
2

I'm not a fan of his music but I get his example. His music is mostly about being cocky and confident.
/r/seduction18/01/16 01:11 AM
2

Meet more girls. Some will flake and some won't. If you're a cool guy it's their loss.
/r/seduction18/01/16 01:05 AM
3

It doesn't matter what you answer it's pretty much a dead end at this point. Depending on the situation I just walk away or make a joke. If she seems like a nice person letting me down easy I just say something like "must be a lucky guy" or "I should have known, because the pretty ones are always taken".
/r/seduction11/01/16 05:33 PM
1

There's a bit of both. It depends on the source. Look into Carl Jung.
/r/seduction08/01/16 12:50 AM
1

Do you know what your MBTI personality type is? Some consider it a bit pseudo scientific but I personally believe it helped me understand what I needed to work on. I'm an INTP btw.
/r/seduction07/01/16 06:50 PM
6

Yes, until they start wondering why not me. What people say they think and what they actually think aren't always congruent.
/r/seduction05/01/16 03:16 PM
4

Sure if it makes you feel better. Do you think she should have fallen only for your looks or personality? If you were a girl would you have been attracted to yourself that night?
/r/seduction22/12/15 02:15 AM
1

She's physically attractive but do you really know her well enough? Focus on getting to know her as a person.
/r/seduction18/12/15 01:34 AM
1

Tell about your hobbies and experiences. Show your hobbies and experiences.
/r/seduction15/12/15 11:03 PM
2

It's not really worth it in my experience. I always convince my self to do it anyways but you'll always end up with a reputation at work. People will start to treat you differently. It's hard to explain so you're probably going to do it anyways but just know that there will be drama at some point.
/r/seduction14/12/15 03:59 PM
5

Obviously it didn't matter to her until she needed it as an excuse. A great man once said "you look like the type of girl than can use two". Make your intentions clear. If she ain't game then bounce. You're not there to stroke her ego.
/r/seduction13/12/15 05:43 AM
1

I'm not a fan of the gym either but I see it as necessary for my health. Also remember that when you're fit you don't just look better but you also move better and feel better. It has consequences that may not seem obvious right now such as getting better at different sports faster, people wanting you around, people respecting you, promotions at work, customers seeking you out, invites to activities. If you stay at the gym long enough people will start inviting you to those fun alternative activ…
/r/seduction06/12/15 09:08 PM
24

She just wants the tip.
/r/seduction05/12/15 10:48 PM
1

No, I need someone to balance me out. Two people like me together would be bad for society.
/r/seduction05/12/15 01:36 AM
4

Now that you are comfortable asking a girl out maybe start talking to more girls. That's where your energy should be focused on. If it's only your first time getting this far then don't get your hopes up too much. Remember that any skill you learn is about practice. Right now just text her "Hey it's name, save this number".
/r/seduction04/12/15 06:53 PM
1

When ever you have a short coming you're not comfortable with just face it head on. Sometimes you convince yourself that you aren't a type of person and that you don't do this or that. If you want to be manlier there is no shame in that. You can be metrosexual, artistic, intellectual, whatever and still lift or do sports. If you want to seem like a man then you have to look and act like one. Just work with what you have and do you.
/r/seduction03/12/15 06:57 PM
1

It really depends on your mindset and particular situation. Are you more of a neckbeard living in your parent's basement type or a struggling musician/entrepreneur/athelete with a dream? What are you doing with your life? Why did you lose your job? Are you working towards something? Why do you want a girlfriend?
/r/seduction01/12/15 06:13 PM
1

Do you work out? Do you play any sports? Do you play any instruments? Do you make money? Do you dress well? Are you social?
/r/seduction30/11/15 07:10 PM
10

Reading comprehension, motherfucker, do you have it? Isnt it weird that our best game is when we're not trying. It's like the only activity on earth thats like that.
/r/seduction29/11/15 04:29 AM
27

Dude have you never played a sport or an instrument? It's always when you're not over thinking but you've practiced enough that you get in the zone. Every activity is like that.
/r/seduction29/11/15 02:15 AM
2

In this type of situation you're better off not doing anything. Be a good friend but focus on dating other girls. I would seriously not even think about it unless she made a move first. She probably doesn't see you that way(for now) and you would have known if she did by now. You probably only like the fact that she gives you attention.
/r/seduction21/11/15 10:55 PM
3

When you have reached enough insight and confidence to not care if you get rejected. Girl flakes, you go read a book or to the gym. Later that week you see a girl you like, you say what's on your mind. The hardest part is when you actually try but you fail. If you can do that then you're good. It's about personal growth.
/r/seduction21/11/15 06:44 PM
3

Know when to stop. Focus on meeting other girls too. Keep communication functional until you both are together participating in a leisure activity.
/r/seduction21/11/15 06:32 PM
2

Failure is part of the process. The sooner you allow yourself to fail, the sooner you can start again. Every time you start again you will start with wisdom that can only come from having failed in the past.
/r/seduction20/11/15 08:00 PM
1

Four is good enough for some girls. By the time a girl is looking at your dick you pretty much are over the hard part. Now all you have to do is fuck her with confidence. The fact that you're asian and according to you there is a stereotype only means that any girl you pick up already knows what she's getting. I imagine it's like girls with small boobs. They are always so self conscious but even though I like big titties there are plenty of girls with small titties that I wouldn't like any other…
/r/seduction20/11/15 07:26 PM
2

If you are genuine and passionate you will attract like minded individuals. If you are shallow and you fake it, you will still attract girls but you will have to keep up a facade that only a crazy girl with low self esteem will tolerate.
/r/seduction19/11/15 12:37 AM
3

Being vulnerable takes balls. Ask her out on a date to a bar this Friday. It will probably fail but you will feel better about yourself and you will be more prepared for the next girl that comes around. At this point it's a long shot but the experience will be one of the most important moments in your development as a person.
/r/seduction18/11/15 07:08 PM
0

She either likes you enough for you to fuck her or she just wants you as social currency. Nothing you do will change her opinion. Your job is to find out. Everyone fails with some girls sometimes but you won't fail with every girl every time. You need to talk to more girls.
/r/seduction17/11/15 04:48 PM
26

Work out, play an instrument, throw parties, make more friends. Become the person you would want to hang out with.
/r/seduction16/11/15 07:42 PM
0

Get a loan or work more and move out. There are problems in life that don't have easy solutions.
/r/seduction16/11/15 04:27 AM
1

You should be honest but you don't have to put it in way where you sound like a desperate relationship virgin. Just tell her you were working on yourself and weren't ready for a relationship.
/r/seduction13/11/15 10:06 PM
2

Nope, some girls are just not going to like you. She might be married, asexual, homosexual, in a committed relationship, you look like someone she hates, you're too fat, you're too skinny, you're too poor, you're too sheltered, you're too cocky, you're too shy. However, any girl could be the one that let's you get(?) her.
/r/seduction12/11/15 09:25 PM
2

I come to this realization every time I get high. I forget once I'm sober.
/r/seduction09/11/15 01:50 AM
21

I always go through that infatuation stage. I just love women and sex so much that I can't help myself even if I know I'm going to fuck it up. Luckily I always come back to my senses. It's like I know what to do but my dick is too stupid to trust my brain and I end up listening to my dick.
/r/seduction05/11/15 06:29 PM
6

Assume attraction and escalate does work but since she works with you and she is so shy/insecure there is a good chance that other people might start to take notice that you are running game before she gets the hint. If she gets called out on it she might close up. Don't escalate too much at work and try being discreet until you're somewhere where she would feel safe from being judged by her coworkers.
/r/seduction04/11/15 08:03 PM
1

Option 1: You invite her to something you are already doing. Option 2: You invite her as if you were going to do that anyways. Bonus: You end up going anyways and have fun. You can take a friend or another girl.
/r/seduction02/11/15 08:11 PM
1

Always talk as if you want to be heard.
/r/seduction02/11/15 08:06 PM
1

It's just gossip. Don't worry about it. Things don't always work out and shit happens. Also, don't use lines.
/r/seduction02/11/15 07:16 PM
1

Are you sure? Even if you don't get rejected it could still go down hill eventually. Even if it goes well it could still have an effect on your group. If you really are willing to take that risk and it's worth it then fuck it, don't half ass it.
/r/seduction02/11/15 03:38 PM
1

Just compliment her an how pretty she looks. See how she responds. Make another post and we'll take it from there. Maybe?
/r/seduction01/11/15 01:55 AM
6

Take it from a guy that just got called out for getting too friendly with a coworker. Whatever you do don't touch her at work and everyone knows exactly what you are doing so keep it professional.
/r/seduction30/10/15 08:08 PM
5

I'm sure it also depends on how you smile. There are submissive smiles where you are looking to be acknowledged and validated and there are confident smiles in which you acknowledge someone without looking to be validated.
/r/seduction27/10/15 05:50 PM
4

Depends, I might text her or I might not. If I do then it depends on what type of connection we had the night before and where we left off in our conversation before sex.
/r/seduction24/10/15 06:27 PM
5

If you're rich enough then you can go to any party school you want.
/r/seduction24/10/15 06:12 PM
2

Nice video. From a behavioral perspective this should help you advance quickly.
/r/seduction23/10/15 07:25 PM
1

I just watched a movie about child soilders in africa. If kids are able to deal with murdering innocent people approaching a girl seems pretty easy in comparison.
/r/seduction21/10/15 05:37 AM
43

I doubt you at first but holy shit it works.
/r/seduction16/10/15 11:39 PM
1

You'll never master it but the pain was necessary and it will hurt less next time. Everyone has to start somewhere and remember not to over think next time. The lesson you should learn from this is that you're an awkward weirdo and you try too hard but really we're just jealous that you went for it because some of us don't have the balls.
/r/seduction06/10/15 08:28 PM
3

Do you like her as a friend or would you rather bang her? Be honest with yourself and let her know you like her. If rejected then take it with confidence move on. If she stops being your friend it's because she only used you to boost her ego or because you didn't let it go.
/r/seduction02/10/15 05:53 PM
2

Just do it and see where it goes. Stop over thinking what excuse she might give to flake. You are already planing on her flaking and it might just become a self fulfilling prophecy.
/r/seduction02/10/15 05:47 PM
3

Yes but you'll either need to have other interest as well or be really good at it and be able to make it interesting for your target demographic. There is a fine line between nerdy and beta, just make sure you really are nerdy and not just using it as an excuse to be shy. Vin Diesel comes to mind, he plays D&D but seems to also be confident and works out.
/r/seduction28/09/15 06:53 PM
7

My father is voting for Donald trump and hates black people. I think I should kill myself now and spare the world.
/r/seduction28/09/15 02:34 AM
1

Invite girls to the festival and make sure to invite the ugly ones too.
/r/seduction26/09/15 01:51 AM
1

Me too we should do this again soon.
/r/seduction25/09/15 06:01 PM
1

Meet more girls.
/r/seduction10/09/15 10:54 PM
3

Do you even lift bro?
/r/seduction09/09/15 08:19 PM
1

It's not good for an actual relationship but if it's just a casual hookup role playing is just part of the fun.
/r/seduction08/09/15 08:01 PM
2

To better yourself.
/r/seduction03/09/15 06:13 PM
1

Compare yourself to who you were in the past.
/r/seduction03/09/15 05:57 PM
2

It really depends on how she is responding. If you want to move on just move on and remember that it doesn't always work out and that's ok too.
/r/seduction29/08/15 12:05 AM
2

Make assumptions such as, I bet you were x in high school. If you're right she can elaborate if not ask what her thing was. Now listen and ask questions.
/r/seduction28/08/15 11:46 PM
1

I'm not in great shape or anything but exercise really puts me in a good mindset. I feel assertive and confident. I also listen to hip hop while working out look at myself in the mirrors because I'm the shit.
/r/seduction28/08/15 05:26 PM
1

Personally I think I would play it off or say something like "I didn't correct you because it was also true".
/r/seduction25/08/15 04:38 AM
1

I move on but I might try again if I have no one better to do.
/r/seduction18/08/15 06:23 PM
2

Yes, except for Tuesday in my experience. Monday because it's the first day of the week and it's stressful. Wednesday is the middle of the week. Thursday is college night.
/r/seduction16/06/15 01:57 AM
2

She was my younger cousins friends older sister. I visited my cousin and she was there. My cousin had a jacuzzi and we all bathed in it during the day. She stayed until late at my cousins house where we flirted a bit. After everyone went to sleep she tells me we should get in the jacuzzi again. In the jacuzzi she asks me if I didn't like her and when I looked up her tities were out. We made out and then went in the house, showered together and she "slept" over. She sneaked out the next day after…
/r/seduction23/03/15 05:51 AM
1

Be friends. You won't really know if she was just playing games until she say "fuck off creep I hate you". Try escalating and see if she reciprocates.
/r/seduction20/03/15 05:45 AM
1

He's wealthy and famous for his looks.
/r/seduction17/03/15 05:11 PM
1

As long as you're not fat and out of shape. There's a reason Bruce Willis, Jason Statham, and Vin Diesel are movie stars.
/r/seduction17/03/15 05:10 PM
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She might be a manipulative shitty person that likes the attention and getting things from men by leading them on. She might also not be very faithful or respectful of her current relationship. Don't worry about it since it only gets in the way of getting laid. This is seddit not findtheloveofmylifeit.
/r/seduction14/03/15 06:57 AM
2

Not a place but a tip. Try taking some alternative form of transportation during the date. I like to ride bike, longboard, walk or take a subway. You can start off in a car but go some place downtown and tell her that parking might be difficult and if she's willing to rent a bike or take a cab there.
/r/seduction04/02/15 05:07 PM
1

Honestly all these rules are bullshit and more like suggestions. The important thing is to not do anything boring, cliche and predictable.
/r/seduction04/02/15 05:01 PM
1

In Miami where I'm from most girls will dump you. Unless you have enough for a good time or you are a really fun person to be around.
/r/seduction16/01/15 06:15 PM
4

It was some local single girl.
/r/seduction12/01/15 03:56 AM
11

Hey speak for yourself. I have approached 14 girls in the last hour on the internet and all of them wanted me to see their webcam.
/r/seduction11/01/15 08:21 PM
1

Can't get any worse. Also, you might have been at the wrong club. I'm from miami so this might be location specific but some clubs here are full of vain girls looking for very specific types of guys. It's the type of place where getting rejected 50 times is common for even the riches, hottest guys. My advice is to follow the first commandment, Thou shall be outcome independent. You have a sample size of one, trust other people's advice and no matter how much you suck you can always learn to do a…
/r/seduction11/01/15 08:17 PM
2

Get a job, get fit. Try some new hobbies. Don't try to be Tony Stark. Do things because you believe that's how it should be done, not because you are afraid of being judged.
/r/seduction30/12/14 12:08 AM
3

How to be a man. It was on netflix, not a great movie but it was entertaining.
/r/seduction08/12/14 05:29 AM
11

Reminds me of this
/r/seduction08/12/14 01:33 AM
2

If it's not fun then why do it? The first rule should be to have fun.
/r/seduction28/08/14 04:57 PM
1

Don't hate on crossfit. It's a structured plan that with some common sense it works. If you are a big guy the cardio will help you lose the fat. Mix in the olympic lifting, good diet and some weight training and you will definitely see the results you want.
/r/seduction28/08/14 04:55 PM
2

Sports are fun but it's more fun if you win and you know how to play. There might come a point where moves come natural to you but the first step is to learn the basics. The same applies to anything you want to get good at whether it's seduction, music, art, sales ect.
/r/seduction25/07/14 09:57 PM
0

You need to follow up on that once she see you're clean(if you are).
/r/seduction25/07/14 05:50 AM
1

Probably depends on the self esteem of each person and the value of the other person to them. If it's a girl you just fucking and she gets attached she might be worse off. If it's a relationship that you put time and effort then it will probably hurt you more.
/r/seduction24/06/14 06:30 PM
11

I like to go fishing. Sometimes I have caught big fish and sometimes I catch small fish. Today I caught a fresh water fish with a salt water lure. Girls are the same sometimes bad game works and sometimes your best game falls flat. Don't sweat it but don't stop trying.
/r/seduction14/06/14 11:12 PM
1

Make your own way in the world. Once the whole world makes you bitter and you have so much responsibility that you feel as if you are trapped in a life you hate, then you won't be so childish. It's not all it's cracked up to be you're better off enjoying life and being childish sometimes.
/r/seduction01/06/14 09:51 PM
2

But don't forget that it won't be easy but nothing worth it ever is.
/r/seduction20/05/14 06:43 AM
1

You never forget your first but learning to deal with loss is important for growing as a person.
/r/seduction15/04/14 05:37 AM
3

You end up looking like a barky chihuahua. Just be confident, it looks good on everyone and you won't literally look like you're overcompensating.
/r/seduction30/03/14 04:29 PM
1

She likes the attention. Don't center your plans around her and see how it plays out.
/r/seduction16/03/14 03:30 PM
3

I approached a 10, asked her for her number and got rejected in front of my friends. It helped relieve my approach anxiety since I knew it was a long shot anyways. My friends were like no way you just asked her for her number. Other girls were looking at me as if they wanted to be approached too. I ended up talking to some other girls.
/r/seduction13/03/14 02:51 AM
1

Asking her is the only way to know for sure.
/r/seduction26/02/14 06:18 AM
1

Be in the moment and you will know when to be a jerk and how much of a jerk to be.
/r/seduction06/02/14 06:04 PM
1

Maybe we should trade places.
/r/seduction21/01/14 08:08 AM
1

I'm a manly man and I feel as though you guys have it easier now days. In my experience there are plenty of girls into people like you as long as you make your intentions clear from the get go.
/r/seduction20/01/14 11:04 PM
1

You are really funny. I really like your neck beard character he sounds bad ass.
/r/seduction19/11/13 05:17 PM
8

I have learned that this is true. Just don't try to prove a point by being a jerk.
/r/seduction04/11/13 12:12 AM
1

I hope they also forced all the girls that recently broke up to give half their cupcake to their ex.
/r/MensRights29/10/13 05:34 AM
1

More like take everyone hostage and force them all to make cupcakes then distribute them equally while keeping most for yourself.
/r/MensRights29/10/13 05:29 AM
2

You know how women always complain about how they can never live up to the standards of women in the media. It affects both men and women equally but in different ways. Men have probably become more vain when it comes to looks and women well, they expect men to all be Mr.perfect. It's not men or women the problem is that our emotions and perceptions have not evolved as fast as our intelligence and ability to be rational.
/r/seduction20/10/13 06:51 AM
12

Me too :) but the girl did all the escalating and basically pulled out her boobs and asked if I wanted to fuck her. :/
/r/seduction02/10/13 03:42 PM
17

I just walk like this.
/r/seduction09/09/13 07:33 PM
4

I think the system at the very least tells us how the seducer felt about approaching the seductee.
/r/seduction28/08/13 07:23 AM
8

It's only creepy if she wasn't interested in the first place. Even if you are creepy eventually some girl will like it. Creepy is very subjective. I have heard stories of girls fucking stalkers and have experienced girls talk about how creepy a guy is because he bought her flowers or said hi.
/r/seduction17/08/13 06:36 AM
1

Learn to touch people. This might mean doing some sports. Play football, basketball ect. and get used to touching and being physical with other humans in general. Once you are comfortable with that try taking some type of dance class (BTW dancing is also a good way to learn to touch women) ballroom, salsa ect. Finally take your new found confidence and touch people outside of these classes.
/r/seduction14/08/13 04:39 AM
3

If I have been learning anything on here is exactly the same thing you said. Learn to love my self. I have not seen many post that suggest we should put up a front or anything like that. I might have come here with some preconceived notion like that but honestly this subreddit is just about self improvement and I believe it has taught me to be better today than I was yesterday, be myself and not dwell on comparing myself to others.
/r/seduction31/07/13 04:39 AM
6

It's like making fun of the mentally ill.
/r/seduction11/05/13 06:03 AM
1

For me it all happened in one day. I was hanging out with one girl and bam kiss that day unvirgin in all aspects.
/r/seduction06/03/13 03:17 PM
2

I'm new to studying logic now and I might be looking to much into this but what is the premise and what makes this a reductio ad absurdum?
/r/seduction25/02/13 07:59 AM
1

Nothing, but seriously get the fuck off reddit right now.
/r/seduction29/01/13 07:26 AM
-1

Reddit needs more smart thought out comments like this.
/r/seduction29/01/13 07:22 AM
6

Also LIKELY TO COMPLY is the key component to this strategy.
/r/seduction29/01/13 07:19 AM
3

Only if you give her a request she is likely to comply with first. i.e can I sit here; save this seat for me; get me a glass of water; some light touching; buy me a drink; ride to her house; sex; ride back home; breakfast.
/r/seduction29/01/13 07:17 AM
3

You are somewhat right it is actually the "foot in the door phenomena" but cognitive dissonance is the mechanism behind it. Read this study because citing shit makes me more legit. Hopefully my undergrad psych degree might give me some validation in the form of internet points. Maybe.
/r/seduction29/01/13 07:07 AM
3

It might be because you are the first post on seddit I read today, but thank you for your inspiration. I got so close yesterday and failed spectacularly. Any tips for a college student that can't afford going out everyday?
/r/seduction21/12/12 04:30 PM
2

Thats something you would call an actual girlfriend it might be too forward.
/r/seduction22/11/12 04:53 AM
1

Except when only gay guys are hitting on you then you might be like "wtf, do I look gay".
/r/seduction28/09/12 09:03 PM
1

I use to be that guy and even tho I was a nice person i would let my loser friends talk me into this whole lets talk to bitches and let get our dick wet mentality. In retrospect I think the problem was that they did not know how to talk to girls and wanted to be too cool to hang out with girls that they did not intent on trying to fuck. I just naturally ended up just hanging out with more girls because the girls just wanted to have fun and my friends were all caught up in trying to hook up.
/r/seduction15/08/12 08:31 PM
2

Do not worry about being "friend zoned" unless it has become a problem that happens often. Do not try to have sex or hook up with girls initially. You must first become friends with many girls and must make it so that you do not hit on them, at all. After being a good friend it would be preferred if you try and hang out with these girls but only as a normal not desperate human being. If you respect and treat these women as friends it will come more natural to actually know if and when you can hi…
/r/seduction14/08/12 03:06 PM
6

I usually just go for the Bill Murray in lost in translation but only because my perfect girl is scarlett Johansson.
/r/seduction16/07/12 06:10 AM
4

But how do you tell if you can flirt and what do you say? If the conversation starts good and it kind of just ends too soon because of awkwardness not because she looks bored what are my options. I'm actually so bad at this that the first time I got laid I thought the girl was not interested in me. That same day at night she ask me in a confused manner "do you think I'm good looking?" I was like "Hell yeah" she replied by saying "wow, I was worried you might be gay because you never made a move"…
/r/seduction18/04/12 05:28 AM
1

That when you tell them that you made a bet with your friends that she was a bitch and won. Actually, why not make this bet that way if she really does this you at least get a drink from your friend and your friend will be motivated to help you succeed.
/r/seduction18/04/12 05:11 AM
10

I think about this often. I feel like there are about seven different girls I see every day that are interested in me or would consider going out with me. I NEVER say anything because I'm so fucking shy. The worst part is that for some reason I am able to act completely confident and outgoing. I feel that there are a bunch of girls that think I'm out of their league but don't realize that it's not that I'm not interested in them, just really shy around girls I like and it makes me look like I'm …
/r/seduction18/04/12 05:06 AM
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