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Problem with that type of offerings from mother is they usually are test which men who say "yes" fail. But how do you know that? I honestly wouldn't have cared either way. It was a genuine offer. I feel like women can't do it right. The mother genuinely offers something and then the father feels obligated to decline said offer in case it's a test and then the mother thinks all is good but secretly the father feels betrayed? How would that be a happy relationship in any way? I just feel that woul…
/r/MensRights10/12/23 08:44 AM
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I personally do understand that someone would want to know whether a child is truly their biological kid. I mean I, as the mother who freaking birthed the kid, won't ever have to wonder, whether my kid is my kid as he came from my body. So I offered my husband a test and he declined. But I can also somewhat see the person who, out of the blue, gets told by their partner that they want a paternity test, especially if it's something that they just didn't have on their radar. I don't even think the…
/r/MensRights09/12/23 08:35 PM
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Exactly. Then suddenly he thinks abortion would be a good idea and gets mad if she doesn't want to and feels "trapped"
/r/MensRights19/12/22 08:29 AM
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I would say that's pretty much it. Some people think themselves too important, and also that they could get "baby trapped"...how about buying and using your own condoms...
/r/MensRights28/06/22 01:47 PM
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Honestly, I'm a woman and I never felt like this was necessary for a man to "get me". I'm a feminist (of the old kind, one that actually wants equality) and I'm just as capable of chasing and I personally always thought it was way more interesting if both the man and I were kind of "chasing each other", treating each other to dates, just enthusiastically showing that we are interested etc. I've also never been into games. If someone was pretending to not be interested, limiting the texts/calls, …
/r/seduction16/06/22 07:57 AM
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I think it is the sense of danger but without the actual danger. Kinda like riding a rollercoaster, you have the feeling of danger cause you "fall" but you know you won't. You are still in control and are not at risk of losing your life.
/r/MensRights30/04/22 06:39 PM
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I mean, it would be interesting if it was offered as an option during a birth class with your pregnant wife. I think it would be an interesting thing to do just to see what she's going to go through during labor.
/r/MensRights07/04/22 12:27 PM
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I acknowledge that you feel so passionate about this. I can just say, that women who are pregnant are perfectly capable of standing and those who aren't, are usually not found in buses or trains. I would have never asked anyone to give up their seat and neither has anyone offered me one, which is perfectly fine. If i cannot take a train due to my physical circumstances (whether it's a broken foot or pregnancy), I take my car or a taxi. If i can't afford a taxi to take me somewhere I need to be c…
/r/PussyPassDenied03/03/22 03:59 PM
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I can assure you, I have gone through pregnancy, had swollen feet, had a hurting back, lightning crotch and hormonal changes (which I now have the pleasure to experience in reverse, hello hair loss!). But I think it's outrageous how entitled some women feel because of it. Pregnancy is not a disability, even though some people want to be treated like it is (and for a small number of high risk patients it kind of is but that is the minority and they're definitely not the ones riding the bus).
/r/PussyPassDenied03/03/22 03:46 PM
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Feel free to check my post history
/r/PussyPassDenied03/03/22 02:26 PM
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I honestly think this is hilarious. As a recently not pregnant any more person, I do agree with this guy. I chose to let someone cum in me without birth control, I better deal with the consequences.
/r/PussyPassDenied24/01/22 08:38 PM
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In Germany, if you aren't married, the father to be has to go to the registrar's office with the pregnant woman and acknowledge the kid that is expected to be born from this pregnancy is his. If he doesn't there is no father listed on the certificate. Furthermore, the woman has sole custody of the child as soon as they're born unless the (unmarried) parents to be head to the child's office and declare that they want to share custody from birth If you're married, the husband automatically is list…
/r/MensRights11/09/21 02:13 PM
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Hm im reading that sentiment quite often, but I personally (woman here) think he is right. I would have done the same (albeit petty) thing. Why the f would he sponsor someone who apparently doesn't care about him and was never interested in making a future together. Only thing I'm wondering is, can he still get a divorce like that and would it cause him trouble going through that procedure? I'm in no way criticizing his actions just wondering and hoping he took all necessary precautions to get r…
/r/PussyPassDenied21/08/21 09:32 AM
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Omg, so now you're denying science haha ok I got it. Have a nice day.
/r/MensRights20/08/21 06:00 AM
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I personally don't care about those people, they can have their foreskins cut off of they please. But I would never do this to my child for no reason. I see you claim it is allegedly beneficial due to STD prevention and penile cancer. In Germany (where under seven percent of men are circumcised) merely 0.8 in 100.000 men get this disease. The problem can be avoided by boys receiving the HPV vaccine, since that's the culprit in most of those cases. In the US it's 1 man in 100.000 who are diagnose…
/r/MensRights19/08/21 07:15 PM
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I actually did post a statistic haha but nice try. As I said, you apparently have no knowledge of personal hygiene and how it is sufficient, so you do not have to cut body parts off- I hope you figure it out eventually!
/r/MensRights19/08/21 03:48 PM
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You know how you know someone has not a single valid argument? By them attacking your character (as in "you're not sounding like a good mother") There are no benefits to circumcision, you can achieve those alleged benefits via cleaning your dick. You never wondered why Europeans don't cut their sons? The rate of circumcision is below seven percent in Germany (and those who are are cut due to medical reasons and some for religious reasons, German doctors don't even cut your child unless medical r…
/r/MensRights19/08/21 02:59 PM
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I will never und why people want to do this to their child. My partner is American and I'm German were living in Germany and it's just not a thing here to cut the baby boys. I'm currently pregnant and my man brought up the idea of getting our son circumcised. I usually take pride in being willing to compromise and debate about things with my partner, but I did state right away that I have a strong opinion on this topic and that I am not willing to make this (permanent!) Decision for our child. H…
/r/MensRights19/08/21 12:06 PM
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I'm just saying, it's the statistics that say you're not necessarily right. But if it's not for you that is alright, I'm not trying to convince you to get married or anything, I personally wish you happiness internet stranger :). But unless you have data to prove otherwise, the above point outweighs your "no way".
/r/MensRights19/05/21 06:54 PM
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i just want to put the info out there - statistically speaking, married folks live longer and to quote the article This is particularly true of men, who previous studies have shown derive more health benefits from marriage than women. of course it sucks if you choose the wrong person, which is undoubtedly horrible and it's a possibility. But on the other hand it does (statistically) show benefits especially for men. https://www.webmd.com/a-to-z-guides/news/20191010/marriage-tied-to-longer-life-s…
/r/MensRights19/05/21 06:23 PM
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I've always been doing this, but upon realizing that it's a rarity for many guys I've really made a point. Also I really like seeing them smile :)
/r/MensRights14/05/21 05:47 PM
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i always make sure to compliment guys. Obviously my guy gets more compliments (and also random things that show my appreciation for him) than the rest, but in general I like to mention how they look so handsome today or how I like how their hair is done or whatever strikes me as particularly good looking in that moment :)
/r/MensRights14/05/21 05:40 PM
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Pre-nups are capable of being rejected. yes they are, if they fundamentally disadvantage one partner over the other - which they should not or they are fundamentally wrong in and of itself I think what is happening is you are looking through very privileged glasses and much of the rest of the world has a very different life and rules and it is for them where men are being demonised, that we are pushing for redress and rebalance. I do not agree with me being very privileged - I think that the nar…
/r/MensRights04/05/21 06:48 AM
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I would not say I have huge power over my partner, he'd be absolutely fine without me and vice versa. We don't have to be together for any reason but we choose to be because we really want to be. Just cause I objectively earn more money doesn't mean he could not technically provide if i wanted to be home and he would be willing to. But I'm a "feminist" as I understand it. To me being a feminist means being equal, he is my partner, in parenting, in earning for our household, in our partnership. I…
/r/MensRights03/05/21 06:01 PM
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The marriage "contract" has been implemented in a similar way for many millennia. It enabled a balance between what a man wanted and what a woman wanted: effectively resources and protection (for child rearing) in exchange for ready access to sex. Seems like a reasonable trade to me, especially if sex is supposed to be pleasurable for both. so what about couples where both parties earn their share? what is the contract even? I personally don't see a single point meaning "contract" in what it mea…
/r/MensRights02/05/21 01:53 PM
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I honestly wouldn’t feel comfortable reaching out to some exes simply because you outgrew the person and nothing about them is enticing me to connect the bridge again. and that is absolutely ok - nobody has to do it after something we had fell through and you choose to come back to be nosy / ignore my boundaries then your getting ghosted or blocked if you try to reach out. it is your right to interpret it like that - I just care once a person has touched my life and it is your right to feel like…
/r/seduction24/02/21 07:40 PM
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I may have a slightly unpopular opinion and that is ok - so here goes: even when I haven't talked to a person I've slept with/dated in a long time, that doesn't mean i don't still care. I'm just a person who cares about other people, even if they didn't turn out to be a partner. So, after giving people some time, i still like to reach out and see how they're doing. Sometimes people appreciate that and we do become good friends and sometimes they really don't want anything to do with me unless th…
/r/seduction24/02/21 01:25 PM
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love that one...like why would I date anyone with a kid, when I already know I'll never be their number one person? I want to be priority so fuck that and go raise your kids without me.
/r/PussyPassDenied16/04/20 12:51 PM
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absolutely - who the fuck does she think she is? and why would anyone even want to go out to a super expensive restaurant for the first date? that's when you go grab a coffee together and just chat.
/r/PussyPassDenied30/03/20 07:52 AM
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I can, cause I know people like you, you have no scientific knowledge nor sound arguments,which is why I won't engage. you showed with your comparison. rape is illegal - abortion is perfectly legal, as it should be. i don't know how much more logical it gets.
/r/PussyPassDenied06/03/20 05:41 AM
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since you're absolutely a troll, I won't argue with you, I can abort as many babies as I want, you don't have to. problem solved and you're welcome.
/r/PussyPassDenied05/03/20 05:03 PM
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welcome to reality my love, fetuses aren't people, they have zero rights, our constitution says you become a person the moment you are born so unless you're born...there's no rights for ya cell clumps
/r/PussyPassDenied05/03/20 08:53 AM
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you're welcome to troll someone else, we all know that abortion is a woman's right and I'm glad that's the way it is. have a nice day :)
/r/PussyPassDenied05/03/20 04:11 AM
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they are? or whose body does the fetus grow in?
/r/PussyPassDenied04/03/20 05:38 AM
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it's not ok to question anyone's bodily autonomy. neither when it comes to vasectomies, tubal ligations and abortions. it's all part of ones personal sexual health and should be respected as such.
/r/PussyPassDenied15/02/20 07:42 AM
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hm i guess you have a point, I also would not pay this crazy amount for basically compressed coal
/r/PussyPassDenied08/02/20 06:04 PM
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hm, if it helps, mine doesn't, I've never cared about a dudes height and find big differences in height between me and a guy to be inconvenient
/r/PussyPassDenied08/02/20 02:05 PM
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OMG what's up with chicks shitting on guys below 6 feet? when did this even start and why is that even a thing?
/r/PussyPassDenied08/02/20 10:17 AM
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I agree with yellow comment, I feel like his reaction was over the top imho, he does establish his personal boundary, but if I had been in a position where I couldn't leave work because something absolutely important came up, I'd hope the person I'm about to date would understand that I could not make it. considering she is being a bitch, making shit up just to "test" him, he did dodge a bullet. although, as I said, I wish someone I wanted to date would understand if I were actually in the posit…
/r/PussyPassDenied08/02/20 07:38 AM
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I'd take dick as a Valentine's gift, so there's that
/r/PussyPassDenied06/02/20 02:04 PM
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awwww I love it!
/r/MensRights11/12/19 12:43 PM
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they do realize men are just as human as any other gender? with feelings and such? gosh, it never even occurred to me, that people might consider men 'exempt' to body image issues...
/r/MensRights28/11/19 09:33 AM
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not that I would need any more reasons to think circumcision (without medical indication) is pointless and dangerous...a friend of mine is pregnant and the father to be (who is American) wants the baby to be circumcised right after birth (because that's how it's done where he's from, or that's the reason he gave) - she gave him a rant that she didn't try for a baby for years, just to mutilate him and cut perfectly healthy tissue off of her baby boy. luckily it's not allowed to circumcise a baby …
/r/MensRights02/11/19 06:10 PM
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mood swings are one thing, but murdering someone is an entirely different thing. I won't deny hormones are a super powerful thing and I've been 'victimized' by my own body a lot of times and regularly am during pms time, but never could this justify hurting another person, like, at all. wtf.
/r/PussyPassDenied29/10/19 07:54 AM
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Where did I say penalize? you're not even reading your own comments do you? why are men penalized men aren't, that's my point I've said numerous times in my proposition that the funds should go to children in social services no you have started out by saying that "men should get paid for the psychological distress they face at being denied Parenthood" you just tried to get out of that statement later on. Just like the father has no say in whether he's on the hook for support and neither is the m…
/r/MensRights22/10/19 08:09 AM
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saying there should be a financial consequence for that decision. exactly, you even said it yourself, that you want to penalize women for "not using birth control correctly" Just like how there is one for the male. and you still have not understood, that child support is not exclusively paid by men. it has nothing to do with the gender of the parent paying it, but with who is the primary caregiver. you do not understand laws, do you? If he wants to keep the baby and she doesn't, she should pay t…
/r/MensRights21/10/19 12:24 PM
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just to begin with, I'm fine with gender neutral bathrooms, I really couldn't care less who uses which bathroom. but maybe there is a structural problem with the bathrooms (toilets clogged, renovations etc) and they decided to set up portable toilets so they don't have to make the bathroom "gender neutral". I mean maybe there is no I'll intent here.
/r/MensRights21/10/19 09:11 AM
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first of all, I never commented on "financial abortion" I'm not describing anything like what you're saying. I'm saying, a woman should be allowed to do with her body what she wants which is the same right a man has. which, surprise, is equality. if you're trying to argue with that, then you're just a lost cause. and have no concept of what equal rights mean.
/r/MensRights21/10/19 06:25 AM
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you're bringing up strawman arguments to make your point. it's not working. men have bodily autonomy in every regard without being penalized and so do (and should) women. that is equality. period. there's no question of what a second party wants, it's not about money or not. the entire thing revolves around bodily autonomy.
/r/MensRights20/10/19 05:04 PM
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no, I have given a teleological interpretation of why women have the right to abort without punishment/penalty. I have given explanations in previous comments, several times. but you do not want to accept the truth and that is why you keep bringing up unrelated arguments revealing your lack of intelligence.
/r/MensRights20/10/19 03:12 PM
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haha no you just don't understand and it's actually kind of hilarious. it's very entertaining how you're bending over backwards to justify your suggestion and it's just not working. if you would like to read many comments over this one, I have already explained my point that already debunks your argument.
/r/MensRights20/10/19 06:11 AM
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If the law was applied equally I'd think it was a fantastic idea but unfortunately it's not. and you're suggesting to create inequality in law to make it supposedly "equal". good joke.
/r/MensRights19/10/19 04:08 PM
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no I'm not defending false rape. it is as much if a crime as rape is. I'm just pointing out that you have nothing to support your argument and now are trying to justify it by "women commit crimes as well".
/r/MensRights19/10/19 05:40 AM
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I won't even get into the false rape claims that lead to men's lives being ruined false rape claims don't even support your argument.
/r/MensRights18/10/19 04:12 PM
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rest assured, women are not "coddled by the law" and equality is not going to be achieved my mysoginists like yourself
/r/MensRights17/10/19 08:41 AM
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you might as well, since you're so sure you're right. I'm glad I will never have to live in the world of opression and unfairness you want to create.
/r/MensRights15/10/19 05:55 PM
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no, it's you, who wants to punish other people because you THINK you are treated unfairly und thus try to twist reality. but I think we need to agree to disagree. I won't accept the bs you're trying to sell as equality and you won't accept the truth
/r/MensRights15/10/19 01:07 PM
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well, you may think you got it figured out, but we all know you don't. it's ok to be wrong sometimes. and you still have not understood that child support is not a financial penalty. that is just mind boggling to me. it is about taking care of a child. it's not a punishment for a man to have had sex, hence, a woman should not be punished as well. do you get it now? does your brain understand?!
/r/MensRights15/10/19 12:16 PM
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and here we go with mental gymnastics, I'm baffled how you are trying to justify this. are you aware, that women have to pay child support, just like men do? it's not a gendered thing, if it is please point me to the law that specifies this, there's no inequality. in your scenario, a child does not exist, if the woman has aborted. there is no child to pay anything for. the purpose of child support is not to "penalize a man/woman for having unprotected sex" it is to support the child that was bor…
/r/MensRights14/10/19 08:59 AM
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I was actually just offering my theory on why incels might have gotten a bad rep not arguing a point or anything
/r/PussyPassDenied13/10/19 08:28 PM
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I guess it might be tied to people committing mass shootings who identified as incels before their crimes. and a lot of the incel community is celebrating them for their actions (Elliott Rodger for example).
/r/PussyPassDenied13/10/19 05:22 PM
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no, you apparently are just not mentally capable of understanding what equality means.
/r/MensRights13/10/19 05:11 PM
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and there we go, I guess I see the problem with being nice
/r/PussyPassDenied13/10/19 05:08 PM
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So equality to you is one party having complete control over the situation no it's not, but that is exactly what you are suggesting. you want to give anyone but the woman herself control over what happens to her body by forcing her to either give birth or pay. a man, should an unwanted pregnancy happen, in your scenario, would have the option to either be a dad or nothing would happen. the female would have to either pay and/or care for a child or pay for not having a child. you see the differen…
/r/MensRights13/10/19 12:42 PM
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I don't understand this problem tbh? like, can't you just be a decent human being to anyone who approaches you? I feel so super flattered, when something like this happens. and honestly, even if you don't feel like this, a simple "thank you, it's appreciated, but I'm not interested" or something polite isn't that hard. there's no need to be a dick just because someone tried to approach you and you didn't feel like it.
/r/PussyPassDenied13/10/19 09:48 AM
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yeah equality means equal. but what you are suggesting is not equality, as I have explained several times, and that is my entire point but you hope, if you keep saying I'm wrong it will make your point more valid but it doesn't. you seek punishment or, as you called it, "monetary incentive" for "women to be more careful with their birth control" by making them pay a fee for 18 years to support a child that has never been born. you do not understand the purpose of child support, it seems. child s…
/r/MensRights13/10/19 06:04 AM
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and you don't understand that making a woman pay "fake child support" is still trying to control women on their reproductive behavior. you even said it in your own comment further up. maybe some reading comprehension would suit you. accusing someone of being against equality over and over again does not make your point any better and does not make you any more right. I really wish you would understand what equality means. but I feel like all hope is lost in your case since you have not even unde…
/r/MensRights12/10/19 09:20 PM
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no you are not. the child support paid is for the child and to financially support the child. you suggest a penalty for women who have an abortion, since the money would not be for the kid but for the man alone.
/r/MensRights12/10/19 05:56 PM
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no, you're not reasonable because you think that enabling men to control what women do and don't with their bodies by penalizing it for 18 years is equality.
/r/MensRights12/10/19 11:44 AM
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no, you're the only one making claims here and trying to sell them as reasonable and "equality"
/r/MensRights12/10/19 11:03 AM
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after 6 weeks the baby has a heartbeat going and that is when it is truly alive! if it was, it could survive outside the mother.
/r/MensRights12/10/19 09:24 AM
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no you cannot argue that someone needs to be paid for not receiving something he does not have a right to.
/r/MensRights12/10/19 08:06 AM
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She chose to have unprotected sex knowing the potential consequences and so did he, you cannot argue this, it takes two for this to happen. you cannot have it both ways. and yes biology is not a weak argument here it's the strongest of all. you cannot make biology equal in this case. the right to abort or not is tied to a woman's bodily autonomy and not to whether or not she wants to deny a man fatherhood. since a man physically cannot carry a baby you cannot give him this right. it's not about …
/r/MensRights12/10/19 07:50 AM
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At the very least we agree that leaving the decision to the female parent alone isn't really right. we don't agree on this. it's 100% right to leave this decision to the woman alone. as long as the child is dependent on the mothers body she gets to decide whether it can continue to develop or not. anyways, the point here wasn't to discuss pro life or pro choice but whether a man gets a say in the matter or not.
/r/MensRights12/10/19 07:46 AM
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it's not a baby. it's not alive. it has the potential to become life and as long as it cannot live outside you, it is the choice of the woman period. luckily law is on the right side in this regard.
/r/MensRights12/10/19 07:42 AM
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it is actually scientifically just a clump of cells it is not sentient and it cannot make a choice whatsoever. it has the potential to become life at some point but that's all there is to it. Doesn't matter if the woman goes through changes or not! oh ok, then it's absolutely fine for others to make life changing decisions your body regardless of you having to risk your life.
/r/MensRights12/10/19 07:41 AM
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but if a man has custody, the woman does have to pay, doesn't she? there is a disparity in the choice to abort or not but this is based in biology, beyond that, when a child has been brought into this world, then both parents are equally responsible financially
/r/MensRights11/10/19 04:45 PM
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I see and respect your point of view, but I cannot agree with it. it is unfortunate that there is this inequality when it comes to the decision whether to abort or not, but I feel like this is just biology. I would not want a court to have the power to decide what happens to my body, because this is so personal that I would feel infringed in my human dignity (laid down in art 1 of my country's constitution). I don't think a consensus on this is a possibility, I feel like the right to your own bo…
/r/MensRights11/10/19 04:36 PM
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you are aware that the woman has to also pay money in order to raise the child? I mean, it's not for free for women to be mothers. child support paid by fathers (in my country) does not even cover half the cost of what a kid actually requires.
/r/MensRights11/10/19 04:23 PM
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the reason for offering abortion is the same reason why we make heroin illegal, in order to protect women from illegal abortions that can lead to death. the fact that men can't decide on whether or not to get an actual abortion (not talking about the idea of financial abortion) is just biological. it is not up to anyone else but the woman who has to carry the child to decide whether or not to terminate. I don't agree with circumcision as a practice that is performed for cultural or religious rea…
/r/MensRights11/10/19 04:21 PM
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ever considered that maybe you should not have sex if you don't want to pay for a kid you don't want? So yeah, cut the crap exactly, grow a Brain
/r/MensRights11/10/19 03:31 PM
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but what if the woman hides her pregnancy until it's too late? or what if the woman doesn't know before it's too late? it is not unusual for women to have very irregular cycles and not even worry when the period does not show up for two months
/r/MensRights11/10/19 03:30 PM
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you do realize that pregnancy does carry the risk of death? that even your rib cage expands (for many permanently) as do your hips become wider (thanks relaxin), autoimmune issues are triggered (hello Hashimotos), hair loss, incontinence, high blood pressure, you want me to continue? most of those are not fatal and some are aesthetic issues, but do you want to have to live with this because someone else decided you'll have to? maybe you should do some actual research instead of telling anyone to…
/r/MensRights11/10/19 03:27 PM
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thank you! I feel like this point gets ignored all the time in a discussion like this. even if some people here claim, that they have seen "effects of pregnancy first hand" they do not seem to realize that pregnancy is different for everyone and it does bear a significant risk for the woman going through with it. pregnancies often cause autoimmune diseases like Hashimotos, cause permanent aesthetic changes, can damage your vaginal muscles permanently, can cause post partum depression (not as rar…
/r/MensRights11/10/19 03:18 PM
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but if the woman doesn't want the child but the man does it's totally fine to force her to ruin her body, risk death and permanent changes/physical ailments because the dude said so?
/r/MensRights11/10/19 03:12 PM
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there is none. because, as a matter of fact, you cannot force a woman to provide her body to bear a child for the man. enabling the "abortion block" for men to put in place would only increase illegal abortions and possibly the unnecessary death of women. I know this is an unpopular opinion, but in this case, the woman's right to decide what happens to her body overrules the man's wish to have the baby. plus, as I said, illegal abortions are/would be a thing and considering the situation before …
/r/MensRights11/10/19 03:09 PM
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you're welcome
/r/MensRights11/10/19 12:12 PM
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u/bluefootedpig has posted citations further up Edit Custody: https://www.huffpost.com/entry/dispelling-the-myth-of-ge_b_1617115 which cites Pew Research. And in case you don't like huffpost... https://erlichlegal.com/blog/single-fathers-single-mothers-child-custody-statistics/
/r/MensRights11/10/19 08:14 AM
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although you do have to admit that "not applying in the first place" does reduce the chances of winning to zero and skews the statistics and they are not viable for this argument as a result. the argument is "women are favored in custody battles" but there are, as you admitted, not that many custody battles because fathers may already feel defeated before even trying. it becomes a self fulfilling prophecy.
/r/MensRights11/10/19 08:13 AM
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wtf? just because some women are forced to experience genital mutilation (which might, to an extent, be more impactful on a woman's life than 'regular' male circumcision) that doesn't make either form of genital mutilation ok? I'm glad that 'intactivism' is a thing and I wish people would be more understanding of the impact it can have on a man's life. I don't understand why it is deemed necessary to perform a surgery on a perfectly healthy newborn exposing him to risks that might negatively imp…
/r/MensRights04/10/19 08:37 PM
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but wouldn't that be good old "getting to know each other"? like... isn't that how people find out whether they are compatible on a character level? i mean, what OP described in his post, it seems like she said mean stuff, telling him he's not her type and not worthy basically. I don't feel like this is something every woman does, she was just being a bitch, from what I can tell.
/r/seduction18/07/19 01:03 PM
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I don't wanna seem stupid... but I have not grasped the concept of "shit tests" like, what exactly is it? why are women supposed to do it? is it a conscious thing? should I start doing it? is it possible, that I subconsciously started doing it at some point? do men do it and should I look out for that?
/r/seduction18/07/19 12:08 PM
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I agree with this so much but also question, whether society as a whole does this Generally speaking society continually says "What is wrong with men?" but never addresses "What's wrong with women?" I personally neither see "what is wrong with men" nor "what is wrong with women" being a question being continuously asked throughout our society. and from my personal perspective, I ask myself "what is wrong with people" sometimes but I do not perceive the "gender debate" the way it is frequently po…
/r/MensRights28/06/19 01:25 PM
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I like the way you look at this. I was wondering the very same thing. it is horrible that men commit suicide more frequently than women, its sad that primarily men have to sacrifice themselves on the battlefields of this world (although, concerning this statistics, I feel like we're about to see a change, since women seem to be allowed in more combat related MOS in the army - so we may see at least a bit of a change there... but still, I don't feel like this is an issue that is relevant for the …
/r/MensRights04/06/19 11:42 AM
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Yeah. if the dude said he was buying but put it on her instead, that is definitely a dick move. it's not necessarily that she expected to receive free drinks. but apparently he said he would do it and then just conned her because it made him feel like "the man" having "tricked" her into buying her own drinks and "teaching" her a lesson
/r/MensRights01/06/19 11:09 AM
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I totally see your point, but it doesn't sound like "reproductive equality" but more like shifting "reproductive responsibility" entirely to females and to me, this begs the question, whether we, as a society, want that. I think the problem is more that birth control methods for men are severely lacking and that this problem would be solved when a more viable option (with less "loss of comfort" than condoms, which seems to be the primary reason for a lot of men not using them [my experience, ane…
/r/MensRights31/05/19 12:16 PM
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I see what you are saying here, but it somehow doesn't sit right with me. don't you think there should be a certain degree of accountability and responsibility for men in this scenario? wouldn't we just shift all the "baby-problems" to women and society as a total by saying "men can have unprotected sex with whoever they want, they won't have to deal with consequences (except stds)"?
/r/MensRights31/05/19 08:10 AM
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They had the affair six years ago sorry, I was careless when reading this. Given that artificial insemination does happen, I'm surprised you are credulous a woman can do it herself. oh, my line of thinking was more like "and she had a turkey blaster waiting in the bathroom for this?" cause I figured that would raise suspicions with the guy and would be an entire different level of "premeditation" and "using the fingers" would make it even less likely to work out with the insemination - I failed …
/r/MensRights30/05/19 04:16 PM
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the couple in this article had an affair for 6 years. I doubt they exclusively had oral sex so I guess that the pregnancy occurred during regular sex. he merely used this accusation to get out of paying child support. the court apparently did not even bother "dissecting" this accusation of "sperm theft" since it was out of the question what the result of the trial would be. whether it's sterilizing all the sperm instantly or not is not necessarily relevant. most sperm die within minutes after ej…
/r/MensRights30/05/19 01:38 PM
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but it's not always the choice of the woman to go ahead and have the baby. there's lots of women who don't even notice they're pregnant within the first 12 weeks and abortion is already impossible by then (in my country). and I can 100% see how this happens, I know many women that do miss their periods for months on end for stress related reasons and suffer from pms (which can also be pregnancy like symptoms) the entire time. so would the woman just be screwed if the man "opted out" of parenthoo…
/r/MensRights30/05/19 01:20 PM
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because sperm can't survive after it has been in your mouth. saliva is designed to start digestion in breaking down your food (that's why bread tastes sweet the longer you chew it cause the carbohydrate chains are broken down by enzymes) and thus would also damage the sperm so it can't get to the ovum anymore
/r/MensRights30/05/19 12:44 PM
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oh my gosh. as I said before, we agree to disagree, ok? and please stop trying to tell people what they do or don't think. you do not know and have no right to tell them what they do or don't think. I'm not sure why you refuse to have an adult discussion about this and insist on making me your opponent. but nothing can change this narrative that you made up for yourself now. because you don't want to and I can't do anything about it. I wish I could say I enjoyed the discussion with you, but I th…
/r/MensRights25/05/19 08:15 AM
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for fucks sake you have understood nothing! im not opposing anything, but it seems like you are, since you are seeing pro life everywhere you go. I haven't said "roe v wade" is about body autonomy, I've said it's important for bodily autonomy. learn. how. to. read. and not just the first sentence in Wikipedia.
/r/MensRights25/05/19 07:26 AM
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OK, I don't think any discussion will do any good here, since you are so badly trying to make pro life arguments yourself. I don't know why you so badly want this, but you do you. and I'd like to give you a piece of advice, learn to read. maybe that would help. and learn to understand (constitutional) law, maybe that would help understand why bodily autonomy isn't a "supportive argument" but the ONLY argument for abortion. that's why roe v wade is so important. abortion rights is about when the …
/r/MensRights25/05/19 07:02 AM
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You sure make a lot of boilerplate anti-abortion arguments... im obviously not, you're just doing your absolute best to twist every word so you can satisfy your arguments, that fairly, are horrible at best Another excellent anti-abortion argument. Reproductive rights for men would just be "signing a piece of paper" and people oppose that, just imagine how they feel about killing an unborn baby. again, not anti abortion argument. the fact that I am opposing this has nothing to do with the fact th…
/r/MensRights24/05/19 01:21 PM
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I am in no way anti abortion, I'm 100% pro choice, but do not agree with what some people call "financial abortion". "opting out" of parenthood by signing a piece of paper is in no way comparable with "opting out" of a pregnancy by terminating it. the option for men to get out of a pregnancy is by preventing it in the first place. the hurdles women are forced to cross to do this, the hormonal/physical changes they have to endure, the fact that the procedure can also fail and make it impossible t…
/r/MensRights24/05/19 07:24 AM
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but by saying "women have a 10x greater motivating responsibility" you entirely disregard that men have to take 50% responsibility for what happens if a pregnancy occurs, since it's 50% their fault, there's just no denying that, since they KNOW they are fertile every day and could impregnate a woman at ANY time, they CANNOT rely on the woman for birth control and then whine that they don't want to be fathers. and that means they have to tale responsibility for the child that is born from this. t…
/r/MensRights24/05/19 06:00 AM
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it is highly reversible though, there's studies about it. and this talking point emerges from the fact that a lot of people argue, that "only condoms" aren't a good birth control option for men. there are studies that have looked into the reversibility of those procedures and it is pretty good. and taking into account that men are basically always fertile and women only 3 days a month there should be something done about that. it seems like, as another commenter mentioned, pregnancy is considere…
/r/MensRights24/05/19 03:26 AM
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I'd be curious how you would implement this "choice" of not wanting to be a parent? to me, the right to have an abortion isn't about not wanting to be a parent, it's about having the right to choose what happens to your body. the fact that you have to go through a physical and mental ordeal carrying a baby plus the life long consequences for physical and mental health that can be induced by birth. since men can get post partum depression for example, I'd assume that this "right to their own body…
/r/MensRights23/05/19 06:15 PM
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OK, I can get behind the common enemy thing, but what is the goal after they divided? world domination?
/r/MensRights23/05/19 03:37 AM
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but wh, counter unreasonable hate with more unreasonable hate... it's not like it has led to any good at any point in history... I see your point though
/r/MensRights21/05/19 05:10 PM
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what the heck is the thing with people bashing "white cis men" recently??? and this entire toxic masculinity? I honestly do not understand why someone decided that this skin color and gender combination is a threat to humanity and for what reasons? do they have the belief that there is some inherent evil to this? or what's the deal?
/r/MensRights21/05/19 04:34 PM
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the argument that fathers don't have to pay child support since women can choose to have an abortion only checks out if the woman is allowed to "abort" the child until its 18th birthday... and considering that I see a lot of comments about "women should only have sex with men who would pay child support (if a pregnancy occurred)" I guess a lot of you would have to live celibate as a consequence
/r/MensRights25/03/19 04:19 AM
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