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| 1 | Men who've never struggled with dating and hooking up, what do you do differently than the rest of us?I just worked on myself in ways that attract the type of woman i want. And constantly put myself out there. And understanding the type of woman i want | /r/seduction | 30/07/26 09:53 PM |
| 0 | How would you proceed with cold approaches?If you're getting repeated eye contacts that's also a warm approach yes | /r/seduction | 20/07/26 11:29 AM |
| 1 | How would you proceed with cold approaches?When you're cold approaching a woman you're going in blindly. Which means now you're in a position to convince her to like you. When you warm approach it's a mutual attraction. You see a woman you like. She see a man she like. Cold approaching you're making it one sided by defualt and now have to convince her to want to receipericate that mutual attraction. Which most time doesn't work out unless you're chasing Which as a man you should never do. If a woman likes you she will make things more si… | /r/seduction | 20/07/26 12:45 AM |
| 1 | How would you proceed with cold approaches?Don't do cold approaches. Do warm approaches. Cold approaching is a waste of time | /r/seduction | 19/07/26 11:39 PM |
| 11 | Women Who Say They Don’t Want FWB but Do…Woman do alot of Plausible deniability. Learn why they do it. It will help you in a long run | /r/seduction | 16/07/26 06:18 PM |
| 1 | Female Boobs or Ass for clothing?Notice what's the best thing on you and just focus on displaying that more. Works evey time | /r/seduction | 17/11/25 07:10 PM |
| 1 | Women, any advice?I gave you the truth and you don't want to take the advice. And this exactly why people like you struggle with woman. Because you guys have a poor mentality on what woman really want. You guys go off of what social media says or what people say but never want to listen to the people that genuniely actually pull woman. It's not about money, it's not about height, it's not status and so on. There's men out there who pull woman temporarily then theres man out there who actually pull long term. It's… | /r/seduction | 17/11/25 05:24 PM |
| 3 | Women, any advice?Work on being the best version of yourself and woman will gravitate towards you. When you do that then you can choose what woman you want. The ball is in your court. Never chase woman. Do not do cold approaches, only warm approaches. If a woman really likes you she will show you signs. Some signs are subtle. Some signs are obvious. You have to really pay attention to the signs or you will lose your chance. No matter how much a woman likes you. Most will not come approach you. There's only a smal… | /r/seduction | 17/11/25 05:13 PM |
| 1 | Women, any advice?Bro. There's one side of woman that don't want to be approached. Then there's one side of woman who do want to be approached. There's one side of woman thst perfer a simple date. Then theres other woman who want some next level date. If you seriously want to get woman. It's best to ask a man. One that actually gets woman. You asking a woman doesn't help you at all. Doesn't mean what they say isn't valid. But you can't use what their saying as pure advice entirely. Most woman can say they want to… | /r/seduction | 17/11/25 05:08 PM |
| 0 | Women, any advice?I read the post clearly you mentioned dating apps and I'm making it clear to you to just stay off of it completely and never go back on it even if you're not making progress in real life. Focus on getting woman in real life. And ask men how to get a woman. Do not ask a woman. You will not get the answer your looking for | /r/seduction | 17/11/25 05:03 PM |
| 0 | Women, any advice?You're asking the wrong people on how to get woman. the best way to get woman is in real life. Do not rely on dating apps | /r/seduction | 17/11/25 05:00 PM |
| 4 | How to filter out gold diggers?Literally! People be worrying about gold diggers but don't even have the type of funds to get a gold diggers | /r/seduction | 12/11/25 10:31 PM |
| 6 | How I stopped getting friendzoned instantlyThen you leave. Woman make it obvious when they like someone and when they don't like someone. Woman are really good at expliciting men because men allow it. Once you show her you like her and she doesn't see you in that way then you need to cut ties and leave. If you stay hoping she'll change. She'll simply use you platonically, while you're treating her like a girlfriend. Never do that again. A woman will respect you more when you walk away and not let them use you like a puppet | /r/seduction | 11/11/25 02:57 PM |
| 10 | How I stopped getting friendzoned instantlyThe best way to stop getting friend zone is to never put yourself in that situation to begin with. When you meet a woman you like. You need to show her you're interested in her whether its words or through action | /r/seduction | 11/11/25 02:50 PM |
| 1 | Benefits of being a short manDon't hope. Just work towards being the best version of yourself everyday. And woman will gravitate towards you. Back then nobody wanted me. Now I have endles options. And I'm only 26 | /r/seduction | 11/11/25 04:07 AM |
| 1 | Benefits of being a short manHeight doesn't matter at all. If you think it does that's truly sad | /r/seduction | 11/11/25 02:55 AM |
| 1 | Benefits of being a short manI don't need to be short to have common sense. Theres so many shorty men out there with woman taller then them. Even dwarf are pulling woman thats normal height. If guy is short and can't pull, that sounds like a him problem he needs to work on | /r/seduction | 10/11/25 10:44 PM |
| 6 | women want to be "just friends" these days?You are doing something wrong. When talking to woman you always want to make your intentions clear on what your looking for. If she aligns with that continue with her and make something happen. If she doesn't align with that. Move on | /r/seduction | 10/11/25 06:22 PM |
| 3 | How often do you guys get approached by womenThat's all it is literally | /r/seduction | 10/11/25 03:48 PM |
| 15 | Guys who find it easy to get sex on the first date -how?Only go for the woman who likes you first | /r/seduction | 10/11/25 01:19 PM |
| 1 | Benefits of being a short manHeights don't matter | /r/seduction | 08/11/25 03:36 AM |
| 6 | Benefits of being a short manWoman really don't care about height as much as you think they do | /r/seduction | 08/11/25 01:28 AM |
| 1 | What is attraction ?A woman can be attracted to you way before you say a word to them | /r/seduction | 04/11/25 09:26 PM |
| 0 | Confrontation Openers Are Amazing!Best results are ones that are simple and not pick up lines | /r/seduction | 03/11/25 01:51 PM |
| 1 | There Are Guys In This Sub Who Don’t Know The Difference Between “Sexual Attraction” and “Physical Attraction “😳I second this 👌 | /r/seduction | 02/11/25 08:32 AM |
| -2 | Question: How do you NOT be this guy in this situation:Do you talk to her like that? | /r/seduction | 02/11/25 12:10 AM |
| -4 | Question: How do you NOT be this guy in this situation:Always show a woman your intentions upon meeting her. Just be a good man | /r/seduction | 01/11/25 11:46 PM |
| 6 | Do you feel guilty for approaching college girls when you’re older?Love this and taking notes 📝 because I relate to this heavily | /r/seduction | 28/10/25 03:07 AM |
| 1 | How good can one get good at game like can you get laid in every 1 to 6 approaches?It's possible but the odds of that happening is really low. It really all depends on the type of guy you are and the type of woman you cold approach. Woman don't operate the same way we operate. They have to really feel something for them to want to sleep with a person. Cold approaching your just gambling with that honestly. To get maximum results just do warm approaches | /r/seduction | 24/10/25 10:41 PM |
| 1 | Why you should NOT aim to smash on the first dateYou're right. I'll keep that in mind | /r/seduction | 24/10/25 07:56 PM |
| -1 | Why you should NOT aim to smash on the first dateApparently im wrong cause I got so many down votes. Like if i was wrong. Most men today wouldn't be complaining about how men that ain't shit getting all the girls and unlimited sex. From all types of woman. Woman biology is emotions. They are emotion driven first. Logic is second. Most woman don't really like these guys they be with. Just cause she tolerating you doesn't mean she likes you. That's why men get so confused when they cheat or leave them for someone else THAT'S better in terms of m… | /r/seduction | 24/10/25 07:39 PM |
| -2 | Why you should NOT aim to smash on the first dateSo a woman that doesn't make a man wait that long doesn't have self control? Is what you're implying. And fact you're still stating a "woman that doesnt have restraint. And sleep with someone she likes more quicker is because she loose, less intelligent and drunk?" For a person that claims he's dated woman all over the world. You should know better that just because a woman background, career, education, family upbringing, lifestyle. And all these other things you mentioned. Doesn't mean just be… | /r/seduction | 24/10/25 07:09 PM |
| -2 | Why you should NOT aim to smash on the first dateI've been with a lot woman. Number 1. A woman job/background doesn't change her biology. They all operate the same. Number 2. For you to sit here and say you got sex quickly because the woman are "dumb, unimpressive, loose". Is extremely disrespectful. It doesn't matter what the woman is attraction is attraction. If a woman really likes you shes gonna want it just as much as you want it. A woman not gonna make you wait if she wants it badly. You're just not the guy she really likes to trigger th… | /r/seduction | 24/10/25 06:42 PM |
| -6 | Why you should NOT aim to smash on the first dateShe doesn't really like you then if that's the case | /r/seduction | 24/10/25 06:24 PM |
| 5 | Why you should NOT aim to smash on the first dateFam it doesn't take long for a woman to know if she would sleep with someone or not. Woman want sex just as much as a man, sometimes even more. If a woman makes you wait for it. She simply doesn't like you like that. And don't tease woman. That's stupid. You've never heard that saying woman says "what one men won't do another man will" woman do not struggle to get sex. You teasing her is a stupid thing to do. Theres woman out there that would go out with you. And then say they got to go home ear… | /r/seduction | 24/10/25 06:04 PM |
| 1 | Do you guys prefer a direct or indirect approach?I always do a direct approach. Works better | /r/seduction | 21/10/25 04:24 AM |
| 3 | 10/10 Girl At BarJust be yourself. No pick up lines, no tease | /r/seduction | 21/10/25 04:22 AM |
| 28 | 10/10 Girl At BarYou literally just disrespected her When teasing a woman or whatever that was you tried to do. Don't do that because in her eyes you sound jealous, inscure, controlling. And no woman wants neither of that. You're not her boyfriend, she can talk to whoever she wants too just like you can talk to whoever you want too. | /r/seduction | 21/10/25 02:59 AM |
| 2 | Stop looking for excusesAnd then they want to blame woman for the lack of their capabilities | /r/seduction | 14/10/25 11:49 PM |
| 3 | Difference between a "nice guy" and a "good guy" is based on how attractive he is.There's literally dudes that have no job, no car, no money to his name With woman that look like they can be on a magazine covers. I don't understand why you guys have this conception woman only go for this and that or only care for this and that. When If you look around you There's alot of men that have woman. And they don't even have the status nor the looks | /r/seduction | 14/10/25 07:48 PM |
| 1 | Difference between a "nice guy" and a "good guy" is based on how attractive he is.Okay but you're making it sound like that it's needed.. none of that is needed at all | /r/seduction | 14/10/25 06:33 PM |
| 1 | Difference between a "nice guy" and a "good guy" is based on how attractive he is.A man doesn't need status to get a woman | /r/seduction | 14/10/25 06:30 PM |
| 0 | Difference between a "nice guy" and a "good guy" is based on how attractive he is.Not even that | /r/seduction | 14/10/25 06:24 PM |
| 1 | Difference between a "nice guy" and a "good guy" is based on how attractive he is.Woman do not care so much about looks the way a lot of you think they do | /r/seduction | 14/10/25 05:47 PM |
| 7 | Anyone else lose complete interest in girls who play hard to get?It's always been the case. It's never been changed. If a woman doesn't like you. You're literally convincing her to like you. Which is a waste of time. A woman that wants you will not be difficult. That doesn't make any sense for them to do that | /r/seduction | 14/10/25 05:36 PM |
| 17 | What are your guys’ go to openers for when doing day game?I don't do any pick up lines. I just approach and say whatever fits in that moment. People get nore further when you do that. Instead of relying on pick up lines | /r/seduction | 14/10/25 12:27 AM |
| 10 | Anyone else lose complete interest in girls who play hard to get?If a woman really likes you shes gonna make it easier for you | /r/seduction | 13/10/25 10:18 PM |
| 21 | Anyone else lose complete interest in girls who play hard to get?If a woman really likes you shes gonna make it easier for you | /r/seduction | 13/10/25 10:18 PM |
| 1 | You shouldn’t ONLY be texting a woman in the beginning!What exactly is your question? I'm confused | /r/seduction | 29/08/25 07:58 PM |
| 3 | You shouldn’t ONLY be texting a woman in the beginning!Not just an attractive woman. Any type of woman. Women get a lot of attention in public and on social media (If they have any) best thing to do is to approach a woman in person. Be respectful, show interest. Get the number and bounce. Talk to her for a little bit and tell her when you want to see her again. If she's interested she'll let you know. If she's not then move on don't waste your time. Or even when you're talking to her at that moment plan to see her later or the next day or even somet… | /r/seduction | 29/08/25 07:55 PM |
| 1 | Women I dont want want me and women I want dont want meYou got to work towards being the man that your type want | /r/seduction | 18/08/25 12:14 PM |
| 42 | Why men obsessed with analysing women's signals keep failing with them and why men just need to follow their desiresI took the time to read every second of this and you're 100% right. Before I would always wait for the perfect sign. Or try to figure out what the woman is thinking etc. Or I care about what society thinks or the people around me think etc. But the reality is if I want a woman I need to go get her. Sometimes women don't even know they like you until you speak to them. And sometimes a woman will like but show no clear signs at all that she likes you. Their way of shooting their shot is simply jus… | /r/seduction | 15/08/25 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Women I dont want want me and women I want dont want meAlways go for the woman who likes you. It's better that way. | /r/seduction | 15/08/25 03:22 PM |
| 10 | HAVE YOU EVER BEEN DIRECT AND TOLD A WOMAN?: “LET’S FUCK.”A lot of times and still do. It never fails | /r/seduction | 11/08/25 11:38 PM |
| 2 | Best way to get a FWB as an average guy?You just need to be good all around. For me they always come back for more. Even if they moved on in a new relationship or we haven't talked in god knows long. If you're a good man. And know how to make a woman feel something. And hit it right she's always gonna want it. Happily too | /r/seduction | 22/07/25 05:15 PM |
| 2 | How do you respond to awful rejections?Just show genuine interest. The majority of the time I get the woman I want (regardless of how they look) by just being genuine. Not pedestalizing them. Not thinking their above me or below me. Just bond with them. Try to get to know them. And share mutual interests etc. But don't put yourself in the friend zone. When you're doing that show her that you want her by adding a little flirt. Nothing too crazy. Women get hit on all day every day. With dudes saying the same thing about her looks. Or t… | /r/seduction | 13/07/25 02:13 AM |
| 3 | How do you respond to awful rejections?Never approach a woman and immediately start showering her with compliments. He shouldn't even entertain the conversations he should of told her to have a nice day and keep it moving. No point in trying to convince her | /r/seduction | 13/07/25 01:08 AM |
| 1 | I want to improve my game and to get laid moreThe best thing to do is focus on yourself until the FOCUS is on yourself. Focus on being the best version of yourself every day and women will sense that and want to be with you or even around you. Go for the woman who likes you first. It makes things better that way. Women show interest indirectly so make sure you pay attention when she does do things that are subtle or subconsciously that show she likes you and then make your move. Cold approaches aren't the best thing to do in my opinion beca… | /r/seduction | 11/06/25 03:03 PM |
| 2 | Need tips on how to talk to random girlFind a reason to walk in that direction. If you want her. You'll find a way to get her attention. If she doesn't wave back, then she's not interested, and you keep on to the next, but most likely she'll have back. A simple wave is always nice and friendly. | /r/seduction | 07/05/25 12:17 PM |
| 1 | Too early to ask for a date?Don't sugar coat nothing with females. They know what you want. They want to see if your man enough to stand your ground and say it how it is. Just make sure you speak respectful is all | /r/seduction | 07/05/25 12:12 PM |
| 2 | Too early to ask for a date?Definitely is. If a woman likes you first, everything else becomes easy. You got this, soldier 🫡 | /r/seduction | 07/05/25 06:09 AM |
| 3 | Too early to ask for a date?Yeah, waiting too long gets you know where. Literally, the other day, I still regret waiting for the right time to make a move on this girl. Now she's not paying me any mind. Anytime you meet a girl, always show interest that you like her. Immediately. Show you're attracted to her and want something more than friendship. It could be a relationship, or a hook up, or whatever you want. But show that intentions upfront. She'll pick up on it and decide if she feels the same way or not. If she does, … | /r/seduction | 07/05/25 06:00 AM |
| 1 | Need tips on how to talk to random girlMake eye contact with her. If she sees you wave at her and do a simple smile. If she waves back or smiles. Say hi | /r/seduction | 07/05/25 05:48 AM |
| 4 | Too early to ask for a date?One of my biggest problems that I noticed when it comes to having interest in a woman that I kept doing is playing the waiting game. I've done that so many times and failed every time. If you're interested in a woman, go for it and apply that pressure. Do not wait for the right time, cause there never will be a right time. If you want her, go get her, and if she wants you too. She's gonna go with you. Only time a girl says you're moving too fast is if you're trying to get in her pants or if she … | /r/seduction | 07/05/25 05:44 AM |
| 2 | Labeled as a playerGirls always say to me, "You look like you got hoes," or "You look like an F boy." They say all of this, and then proceed to sleep with me. STILL. The majority of women do like a man who can get a lot of girls, or a lot of girls want them. That's just how it is, unfortunately. I used to hate being labeled as that, but it's honestly a compliment in disguise tbh | /r/seduction | 07/05/25 05:04 AM |
| 1 | How to initiate a 3some/ ask for oneIt would be better if your gf was the one to bring up the idea to her. That's normally how it goes. | /r/seduction | 05/05/25 08:45 PM |
| 2 | If your approaches feel weird or forced, read thisVery true. Now when I'm interested in a woman I just talk to her normally without expecting anything. But also talking to her in a way that shows I find her attractive. And I pay attention to how she responds because she'll know that I like her and if she likes me too she'll show some form of interest that she does and if she does it just makes things easier for me and less scared to lead the interaction | /r/seduction | 05/05/25 06:49 PM |
| 1 | The blind should not lead the blindYou can learn from anyone of all types of backgrounds. They may never experienced it but they probably saw someone going through it. " A Smart person learns from their mistakes, but a wise person learns from other mistakes" You don't always have to be experienced to share knowledge. I don't need to be a math teacher to say 2+2=4. But someone who doesn't know that answer can learn from me despite me never being a math teacher or claiming to be heavily experienced in math. | /r/seduction | 05/05/25 06:06 PM |
| 1 | Most approach anxiety is just fear of looking cringeThank you sir! | /r/seduction | 01/05/25 02:59 PM |
| 1 | Most approach anxiety is just fear of looking cringeWhere can I find your guide? | /r/seduction | 01/05/25 12:32 PM |
| 1 | How to escalate? At what point do you ask to kiss/shag and how?Yeah, don't ask her about her first kiss. What I normally do is wait for layups. Really pay attention to what she's saying and what she's doing and bounce off of that. | /r/seduction | 22/04/25 02:43 PM |
| 5 | How to escalate? At what point do you ask to kiss/shag and how?This is true. My biggest obstacle was trying to figure out what to say. How to say it? When etc. But once I start letting my hormones take over because of how much I want the girl. The way I talk, the way my tone is, the way I look at them, touch them, etc. It kinda just does it by itself without me thinking and it works the majority of the time. Cause women want it just as much as you. But you got to make her feel wanted, appreciated, loved, etc. Despite everyone trying to get her in her pants.… | /r/seduction | 22/04/25 02:39 PM |
| 1 | Can a woman abstain for engaging in physical intimacy with a guy if she thinks he is a player ?Depends on the type of guy you are. Most women I encounter say i look like I'm a player and still end up being with me. | /r/seduction | 13/04/25 03:34 PM |
| 1 | Seeing unattractive guys with beautiful girls.Focus on yourself and be the best version of yourself and Don't put women on a pedal stool. No matter how good she appears to be you're capable of having her if you work on yourself and have your shit together | /r/seduction | 17/01/25 02:15 AM |
| 1 | How can I attract older women?I Love older women. I'm 25 and I've been with a lot of older women, all the way up to the 50s. The best thing to do is be respectful and mature. The way you carry yourself matters to them a lot. Especially the way you speak. The things you say around someone your age or younger, most of the time will not fly with a woman much older. In their eyes, you need to look like you're a young man and not some boy. Someone that knows what they want in life. And is mature and doesn't like to play games. | /r/seduction | 02/01/25 07:54 PM |
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