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I just started! Week 3 starts tomorrow, last week was rough not knowing what to do with my time since I was working 70 hours a week. But this weekend I was able to make a to do list that hopefully will keep me busy for this 4 day week!
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/22 01:07 AM
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I’m not sure! I’ll bring these up to him. Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/22 03:49 PM
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Thank you for these helpful suggestions I will try them!
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/22 03:38 PM
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Does he have male friends? Encourage him to get involved with vet groups? No he doesn’t, the first thing I did when we moved here was take him to a VFW and American Legion, but he won’t go unless I go, and I’ve been too tired. Maybe I’ll bring it up again when everything has settled.
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/22 03:34 PM
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I wish I could upvote this 100x or give you an award. Thank you so much!! Yes he usually wants to escape from his problems. Thank you for the advice
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/22 03:28 PM
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I had my own life until he asked me to be stay home because he was feeling neglected (to be fair I was working 70 hours a week). I am trying to focus on my own transition from career woman to home maker. Tbh I’d rather not have him ask me things like im his mother and have made it known I want a husband not a son. But overall I can see how many questions seem intrusive and not helpful.
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/22 03:26 PM
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Thank you!!!! I’m glad I found this community. Yes I am fully ready for letting him take charge because honestly I am tired of leading. I think I’m having a difficult time with letting him lead because he comes to me to figure out all of his problems. Even finding this community I had no idea what this was but reading the comments and posts made me think this is what I need. The advice I’ve gotten from other subreddits is “leave him” and that’s not helpful.
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/22 03:20 PM
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It’s nice to hear it isn’t personal. I will try to remember this. Do you want him to have his job? Yes, of course, we met in the Army and after he got out he has been absolutely depressed since finding a job hasn’t been easy for him. Since he left in 2020 I’ve helped review and refine his resume for every position he has applied to. In the army he went from Combat where he was an armorer (fixing weapons) and tank mechanic to Admin / HR, and he been unemployed for 2 years and told me this year he…
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/22 03:10 PM
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I can understand this. Thank you for putting it very clearly.
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/22 02:45 PM
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Thanks for commenting and providing the link. I think I didn’t do a good job explaining in my original post why I asked him these questions. So I’ll provide them here since I think you have a lot of insight that I would love to hear. Please read, but I understand it’s a lot. I just want to get more understanding of what’s going on, so I can be more helpful to him. He started a new job days ago. He can’t clock out. The conversation happened because on his second day of work, he called me around 4…
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/22 02:37 PM
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Thank you this is helpful. A little more about the phone number: yesterday he asked me if I could help him elect for health insurance because he didn’t know how. I said yes and he gave me a pamphlet. I read the pamphlet but it was only an overview of the different plans and the coverage. So I suggested we go through his email to see if they sent anything on how to actually sign up for it. They didn’t. So then we went through all the apps in his work phone to see if they had anything on health be…
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/22 02:26 PM
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I don’t understand what I’m doing to make this worse? I’m crying now because I feel like I am making it worse but I don’t know what I’m doing wrong.
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/22 02:06 PM
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I can understand this, I brought this up yesterday when I tried to understand why he was very stressed out about my question. I asked him “I’m noticing I upset you by asking, honestly I was just curious, do you think I would say anything inappropriate if I did?” And he said no. I know his previous exes and even his mom called his previous jobs before. But I’ve never done this. I think it’s unfair that his exes skew his idea of me.
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/22 01:19 PM
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