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1	What motivates you to be monogamous vs ENM? Such a great counter argument you have there Everything I said is true Have you spent much time around typical men that you know like fish and play sports and know theit dad and weren’t abused as a child by their mom’s weird druggie friends? Mentally normal men cannot bond intimately and meaningfully with a woman that has had another man’s cock in her mouth an hour earlier It’s sorta like how normal people don’t like the smell of roadkill but there’s probably a few freaks that like it	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/25 04:21 AM
-2	What motivates you to be monogamous vs ENM? I could never have an emotional connection with a woman I know is getting railed by another man This is normal for heterosexual males This is the default setting for these men Almost all straight men are like this Most of those that aren’t are bisexual or have a mental health issue	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/25 10:15 PM
1	Is there any evidence that conservative men prefer liberal women? Ok You’re talking about dressing as if you want to repel attention versus modest but attractive	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/25 09:46 PM
0	Is there any evidence that conservative men prefer liberal women? Consider that you became more attractive to men with the spine to walk up to women they don’t know Many men prefer a woman that is demure and classy	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/25 07:20 PM
1	Is there any evidence that conservative men prefer liberal women? Men respond to classically beautiful women and also women that seem easy to bed Beautiful modest women attract many men that want a relationship but don’t get the cheap attention garnered by waving around the possibility of easy sex A lot of women get this wrong They dress with boobs out and get a new tattoo and think it made them more beautiful because now random men are hitting on them….no that’s not why	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/25 07:18 PM
1	Men don't care much about women's socioeconomic status, though if given the option may even make the effort to go for lower socioeconomic women It’s partly proximity That’s who they are around To say a male doctor would not if exposed to a wonderful woman is wrong	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/25 06:09 PM
1	Nice Guys want shallow women because theyre the easiest to fuck. Otherwise, they wouldnt care assholes get these women. Nah I’m just holding you to account to debate fairly	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/25 06:08 PM
0	Nice Guys want shallow women because theyre the easiest to fuck. Otherwise, they wouldnt care assholes get these women. I said something You said something that made no obvious sense I point that out Now you want me to offer more? That is wild How about you make sense first ?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/25 10:21 PM
1	Nice Guys want shallow women because theyre the easiest to fuck. Otherwise, they wouldnt care assholes get these women. That’s not true Some of the most promiscuous women I know are smart but crazy and attention hungry	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/25 10:20 PM
1	Nice Guys want shallow women because theyre the easiest to fuck. Otherwise, they wouldnt care assholes get these women. You don’t think there is a correlation between extreme promiscuity or sex work and mental issues? I’m talking about consensual sex here to be clear.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/25 08:00 PM
2	Nice Guys want shallow women because theyre the easiest to fuck. Otherwise, they wouldnt care assholes get these women. Nope Your comment is still orthogonal to my own What I said makes all the sense in the world. Something having an implication you or others don’t like has nothing to do regarding with if it is true or not. I should not have confused you with my aside regarding hypothesis testing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/25 07:58 PM
8	Nice Guys want shallow women because theyre the easiest to fuck. Otherwise, they wouldnt care assholes get these women. How does your comment have any bearing on mine? Implications of statements don’t make the statement true or false, unless the implication is part of hypothesis testing (by way of data prediction and comparison)	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/25 05:07 PM
23	Nice Guys want shallow women because theyre the easiest to fuck. Otherwise, they wouldnt care assholes get these women. No Mentally ill women or those with no self worth are the easiest to bang	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/25 04:46 PM
6	Men typically have an external locus of control mindset when it comes to dating and generally underestimate the effectiveness of working on themselves Men have more an external locus of control compared to what? Women? That’s hilarious.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/25 04:39 PM
–	Why do fat women who don't exercise try to date fit men? Yeah you have a fetish	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/25 04:38 PM
–	Why do fat women who don't exercise try to date fit men? You’ll take a fat woman with a pretty face over a gym goer? Why is that?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/25 04:15 PM
–	Why do fat women who don't exercise try to date fit men? I have also liked the feminine girl next door type that isn’t high maintenance and is cute but not hot Subconsciously I know it is because women hotter than them will either reject me or treat me poorly Even within that 5 to 7 range within which I’ve dated, the 7s treated me more poorly They are roughly on my level which of course made them think they could do better because they regularly got male attention	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/25 01:55 PM
–	Why do fat women who don't exercise try to date fit men? They don’t like them A lot of gym bros are compensating for being short, ugly, on the spectrum, or something else They get fit and the hot women still don’t want them	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/25 01:52 PM
2	Why are unmarried childless women way more stigmatised than unmarried childless men? What? Unmarried men are feared and assumed either a loser or pervert or closeted gay Women can be seen as just doing her own thing You have this backward in the US at least	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/25 06:41 PM
4	Men don't care much about women's socioeconomic status, though if given the option may even make the effort to go for lower socioeconomic women BS If she is beautiful and kind, a doctor will 100% marry a waitress	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/25 05:26 PM
0	Men don't care much about women's socioeconomic status, though if given the option may even make the effort to go for lower socioeconomic women I would never seriously date a woman that is much more successful than myself Or much better looking Because eventually they will start to care about that and either leave, cheat, treatment poorly, or not respect me despite appearances	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/25 05:25 PM
1	Women can seem unapproachable these days hence why we don’t do it. Non feminine boss babe chicks with a colored short Karen cut and body art are kind of scary to many men I expect a huge attitude Feminine women that appear kind are approachable	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/25 05:20 PM
1	Only 2-10% of rape allegations were determined to be provably false Yeah If they had their way, men accused of assaulting a woman would have to prove their innocence but women would have the usual burden of proof in all things Reminds me of my dipshit, super liberal cat lady ex co worker that supported feral cat colonies She told me once “do you know that it has never been proven that feral cats have ever caused the total extinction of a bird species?” I couldn’t believe anyone was brainwashed or dumb enough to think that was a fair point	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/25 04:49 PM
–	What’s up with “attractive men are bad and not interested in monogamy, unattractive men are good and loyal?” This is area specific and for certain areas and certain properties is dumb advice	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/25 04:46 PM
2	Only 2-10% of rape allegations were determined to be provably false You can’t technically prove most things to be false. It requires a very specific set of rare circumstances to prove a negative. I’m not surprised that feminists don’t know this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/25 02:57 PM
–	Women don't really want equality relationships as evidenced by women in society Yes Please start liking men It would do a lot for us	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/25 09:10 PM
29	What’s up with “attractive men are bad and not interested in monogamy, unattractive men are good and loyal?” My parents rented for years and had some bad renters What I figured out from the outside is that the people that charmed their pants off, so to speak, at the first meeting were the worst renters Con man vibe Good and genuine people hit different You need to observe others and learn to spot this	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/25 07:49 PM
53	What’s up with “attractive men are bad and not interested in monogamy, unattractive men are good and loyal?” Yep slutty Chads interact with a lot of women Similarly Cluster B women go through a lot of men, so even though probably less than 10% of women have those strong traits, most men end up dating one at least once	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/25 07:47 PM
–	Women DO lie about their preferences, and research shows it. They are attracted to personality once the minimum physical attraction is met. So few men are hot to women, that women don’t even know how to act around legit top 1% men. You all don’t realize it but you behave so goofy and obvious even with your husband next to you. At bare minimum, you blush, act nervous, and start Fing with your hair. Men find around 1/4 of women pretty damn hot, so we are practiced as far as how to act around them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/25 04:57 PM
0	Gen Z males are not dating as much, but what about gen Z women? Someone ban this weirdo	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/25 11:39 PM
0	Gen Z males are not dating as much, but what about gen Z women? I look to be around 38 and I’m in good shape etc but I’m actually in my 40s (minimal gray hair, only wrinkles on body is like one line on my neck) I have women in their 20s check me out and flirt pretty regularly I think you’re just unhinged and probably miserable	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/25 02:25 PM
0	Gen Z males are not dating as much, but what about gen Z women? lol And your point is?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/25 08:42 PM
1	The only women who go after obvious assholes are mentally ill, shallow, or assholes themselves. As a woman that does not play the same in the male dominance hierarchy, you probably view what makes a guy an asshole differently. Let’s consider the domineering, overly assertive guy that subtly is always trying to dominate other men and get their way, but he’s confident and charismatic about it. Another guy with self respect will often get tired of his crap. Women are much more likely to spin this as masculine and ambitious or whatever that explains the tingles.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/25 02:28 PM
–	Women are so quick to ask for money But they feel way less weird or guilty about you spending money on them than the converse, most likely.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/25 02:25 PM
4	Quiet people are always assumed to be “too scared and self-conscious to just socialize like normal people”. However, some times this is not the case. Some people aren’t shy, they simply have a blank mind through no fault of their own. This effects men’s dating prospects more than women’s… Some more reserved people just don’t like most other humans because most people are kind of dumb and dysfunctional I for one don’t play dominance hierarchy games I do not seek to dominate or be dominated, and half of all random social interaction is just that, whether you realize it or not I can and have been in dominant positions many times, where others were kissing my ass, and it does nothing for me except make me want to build them up	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/25 05:39 PM
–	Sexual liberation may lead to civilization collapse What super libs think of as progress is often just reverting to a feral state Like all these Karens thinking getting in touch with and following your emotions is enlightenment No, your emotions are how the primitive parts of your brain influence what makes you different from other animals, which is your human intellect	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/25 05:37 PM
1	Madonna/Whore: the male dual mating strategy, and how women can protect themselves from male resentment It has been shown experimentally that men respond sexually to women that are classically beautiful and probably seem like a good commitment option and also women that seem more easily sexually available. This fits our dual mating strategy. Women need to know this because a lot of women can’t differentiate different types of attraction. They get a visible tattoo, piercing, funky hair, and provocative clothes and get more male attention. They wrongly think “this made me more beautiful.” No, it sig…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/25 05:14 PM
–	Ladies: The reason why you don't encounter the type of women that men complain is because these type of women are normally decieving you. I asked a specific person a specific question And then you give me your usual, which is to argue with a specific person by referring to vague others You should highly consider that you aren’t as smart as you’d like to think I detect some mild ‘tism from you, and all folks I know like that overestimate themselves	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/25 05:12 PM
2	People simply don't understand each other, and this impacts empathy People feel it is okay to snipe at people or judge people harshly that they feel are in a superior position. This can come down to physical size. An average man is massively stronger than the average woman, especially in upper body strength but also lower. So, we are these big ogres walking around. I’ve seen way more men make an honest attempt at understanding women than the converse.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/25 02:27 PM
1	This sub treats men and women like hive minds Humans are insanely tribal We break out into groups for freaking sports and then fight over it Most humans are dumb as fuck and let someone else think for them and care too much what others think and about fitting in with a group	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/25 01:31 AM
6	Ladies: The reason why you don't encounter the type of women that men complain is because these type of women are normally decieving you. How do you know how women act privately in romantic relationships? Also, I think the male and female definition of toxic is different and solipsistic For instance, there’s probably some stuff your friends do to men that you don’t consider toxic but you would find it unacceptable if they did it to you or another woman	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/25 01:30 AM
–	Ladies: The reason why you don't encounter the type of women that men complain is because these type of women are normally decieving you. Yep Women know that other women won’t put up with their crap and women seem to care more about their social impression among the group than they do the opinion of their male romantic interest Women get up to all sorts of things away from the public eye This simply has to be true to some to degree and for a fair number I remember a seemingly well meaning post by a younger woman here recently Whenever she read a male complaint she’d offer sympathy but then underline that she is sure none of her fr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/25 01:26 AM
1	Women Aren't Going to Openly Discuss and Comment About the 20+ Short Term Relationships She Had, But It's Significantly More Common Than BPs Want to Admit Define “bald man” This is a trick	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/25 05:24 PM
0	Women Aren't Going to Openly Discuss and Comment About the 20+ Short Term Relationships She Had, But It's Significantly More Common Than BPs Want to Admit Yep but you’re keeping it casual Are you the type to marry and cherish a woman that has been ran through?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/01/25 03:53 PM
1	Women Aren't Going to Openly Discuss and Comment About the 20+ Short Term Relationships She Had, But It's Significantly More Common Than BPs Want to Admit Women determine what guys you will find out about from their past from family and various sources. They include those in their back story. Then they determine any gaps in relationship history that you’ll question. They sprinkle in just enough short term or finding herself to make it plausible. That then becomes her story and representation of her n count. Only a super liberated boss babe will tell you “yeah, I used to bang guys I met on Craigslist”. This is why women won’t say “in a relationship…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/01/25 03:13 PM
0	Men's perception of high standards and women's perception of high standards are different. They don’t want to be saved.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/25 02:00 PM
3	Empathy gap is real: Mother attempts to murder-suicide her son, people go, "Awww, poor women." If the perpetrator was a father, people would go, "Men are evil" Well It could also be that recently pregnant and crazy woman uses it as a get out of jail free card	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/25 01:09 PM
11	Empathy gap is real: Mother attempts to murder-suicide her son, people go, "Awww, poor women." If the perpetrator was a father, people would go, "Men are evil" Doesn’t change the point even if true And the infidelity surveys are marred by women being less likely to admit infidelity and also more likely to spin it as not infidelity For instance, women and their friends will often agree that cheating to secure a new boyfriend at the end of a failing relationship isn’t really cheating because the relationship was basically over anyway They would answer that they have not cheated My sense is that at least 25% of both men and women have cheated at least onc…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/25 11:16 PM
1	For people who are coupled: how many of these posts seem to be from people who just need better parents, aunties, uncles? So you’re saying that People in a dysfunctional society would have less problems if they could be put into a rare and more functional bubble You don’t say!	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/25 10:20 PM
–	Empathy gap is real: Mother attempts to murder-suicide her son, people go, "Awww, poor women." If the perpetrator was a father, people would go, "Men are evil" It’s a women are wonderful thing If a woman kills her kids, then everyone jumps to post partum depression in order to let her off the hook Same as when a woman cheats, it’s due to things outside her always	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/25 10:17 PM
–	What's actually a normal dating progress most men feel comfortable with? Yeah, most folks don’t set aside Saturday only for their new interest. Now, it’s typically bang after knowing each other 2 weeks, and if it was good for both people, then they want to replicate that at least every 3 days or so, unless they are super used to casual sex and so sex isn’t even a big deal. A former supervisor is on the spectrum, and he would schedule all his work out a year in advance (which is unreasonable for what we did) and then freak when he couldn’t do on a certain day what he …	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/25 08:23 PM
2	What's actually a normal dating progress most men feel comfortable with? He’s spacing them out at 1 week intervals and so reasoning 1.5 months is 6 dates That’s the issue If you meet someone and really hit it off, no way you’re only seeing each other once a week The 1.5 months to be exclusive is maybe typical But in that 45 day time you’ve hung out probably 20 times, talk a bunch on the phone, and been banging for a few weeks That is if you both really like each other, no way you wait more than 3 days to see each other unless unavoidable	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/01/25 04:39 PM
2	I have a weakly held view that many red-pillers underestimate the success of the average man because they overuse dating apps, and there are tractable ways of improving their luck. Awkwardness is female kryptonite Awkward and insecure are 2 of the worst things a woman can say about a man The woman saying it can also herself be those things in spades I have no idea why you all are so overly repulsed by these traits, but you are and it seems genetic Probably why you are also more concerned with social status which is due to ancestral women being unable to survive alone without a social group There are many true stories of men living in the woods alone as trapper or some such…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/25 04:16 PM
5	I have a weakly held view that many red-pillers underestimate the success of the average man because they overuse dating apps, and there are tractable ways of improving their luck. 100% Bad boy kink more common than nerd kink In fact, there isn’t any genre of erotica for women that involves nerds vs violence is very common	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/25 04:13 PM
–	We need to bring back witches and sirens and other evil female archetypes to teach young men Expected response from someone that preemptively corrects grammar in their tag line	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/25 02:49 PM
1	Being unable to hold a conversation on a date is not a gendered issue. It’s an effort issue. Unless she is painfully shy around new people or has social anxiety You can usually tell the difference though Still might not be something you want to deal with Also, common for two people to be chatty at the beginning and then become quiet as they realize they don’t really have enough in common and then break ups occur	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/25 08:04 PM
1	Women that say it’s controlling if a man doesn’t like their girl showing a lot of skin online or where other dudes can see: do you actually want us to agree that you do it for yourself not for men? Yep It’s weird that people here think that men should not bond with a woman until they have close to full knowledge or that you can get close to full knowledge so easily by talking and looking at their Facebook or something In almost all break ups, people think “if I’d known what I know now, I wouldn’t have gotten involved.” Take me and my worst 2 exes The person they were the first few months was a farce and that combined with my rose colored glasses made me bond with them Then their true selve…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/25 02:28 PM
1	Women that say it’s controlling if a man doesn’t like their girl showing a lot of skin online or where other dudes can see: do you actually want us to agree that you do it for yourself not for men? You hear this But let’s say you meet a woman out at a bar She is dressed skimpy You think “maybe this is just because she is single and wants to meet a guy” You get in a relationship and fast forward a few months you go out to a bar She goes with tits and camel toe out I think “well I was like this when you met me” is a bit hollow This also goes with behavior An ex flirted with my male friends and family too much and just paid them way too much attention compared to other women and even me at ti…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/25 01:47 PM
1	The "If she did it with an ex, she should do it with me" rule applies to pegging A man that wants the same exact sex act is a bit petty However, him wanting the same desire that facilitated the past sex act is what he wanted Let’s say he somehow finds out she gave enthusiastic anal to past BF and loved it She now has a medical problem and can’t do it But she also has vanilla obligation sex with him once a month At that point it isn’t about anal sex, but I can see why some folks would cast it as such	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/25 01:35 PM
1	The "If she did it with an ex, she should do it with me" rule applies to pegging Like an anal Sisyphus	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/25 01:30 PM
1	Immediate sex is not needed to prove desire. You just want sex. Actually, men back in the day often liked the steady build up, so long as the woman showed genuine desire. My first serious GF (we were both in college) made out on the first date and second date (kissing only), got to second based on third date, got to third base after almost a month, and didn’t have full sex for like 3 months. But I knew she was inexperienced, like me, and nervous. And I also knew that she badly wanted it based upon her verbal and nonverbal cues. By the time we finally had sex…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/25 05:31 PM
–	The Red Pill is Making Men Weaker, Not Stronger Men have agency. You don’t need this mythical “free will” to have a will and agency. The entire free will debate is improperly framed and I can’t believe more philosophers don’t see it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/25 05:25 PM
1	What do you mean you can’t be vulnerable?? Yeah that’s bad But it’s sometimes a light switch	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/25 04:01 AM
2	What do you mean you can’t be vulnerable?? It can be both But just because a woman uses it against you or loses attraction doesn’t mean that she consciously set out for this to happen like a trap Perhaps they aren’t communicating well plus it helps your debating position to not read between lines like you are not just now Plenty of other guys are writing more subtly	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/25 08:37 PM
–	Unless you do a paternity test you can only ever be about 90% sure that you actually fathered a child Electronic communication is now seen as throwaway and not important But it is important Modern folks can’t imagine a time when communication was land line, letter, or in person Women had a much harder time keeping up these supposedly innocent communications with other men And if a guy was calling her, writing her, or visiting her then it was suspect Now it is considered normal for your GF to have nearly daily hidden communications with other men This would be seen as crazy by past generations In…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/25 08:09 PM
1	What do you mean you can’t be vulnerable?? Women obviously want to be the special one and the star in the relationship	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/25 08:01 PM
3	What do you mean you can’t be vulnerable?? No one is saying it is a conscious and deliberate plan Duh	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/25 07:59 PM
0	What do you mean you can’t be vulnerable?? BS victim blaming here and you ironically prove the point Men say women do this And you just must defend women and put it back on men Hilarious	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/25 07:59 PM
1	What do you mean you can’t be vulnerable?? It’s like women noticing “Hey men tend to like full breasts and butt and a thin waist” And then a bunch of men swinging in like “no we don’t”	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/25 07:57 PM
2	What do you mean you can’t be vulnerable?? Yep When her friend loses attraction and leaves a man Does her female friend give her the full story? Does that friend even know themselves that well? Probably not And she says the politically correct thing that doesn’t make her look bad	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/25 07:53 PM
6	What do you mean you can’t be vulnerable?? You’re taking the word of cheating woman seriously And you shouldn’t Likely everything she said was BS	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/25 07:50 PM
1	What do you mean you can’t be vulnerable?? The kind of men that would pursue and bang a married woman are by definition delusionally confident and entitled Women like that and that they’d take a risk because she is so desirable Hence why a small set of men have so many affairs	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/25 07:49 PM
1	What do you mean you can’t be vulnerable?? Just look at what actively turns most women on It’s the opposite of vulnerability Pretty clear cut	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/25 07:43 PM
1	What do you mean you can’t be vulnerable?? Here’s a pattern I see in your replies A man states something that commonly happened You then state that that is evil etc This sounds like support But I think you are also distancing yourself from it and trying to make it seem rare When it is common How would you view a man responding to a female complaint with “I know a lot of other men. And none of them do that or I would know. And none of them would because doing that would be bad and I know that these men are not bad men.” And it wasn’t over…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/25 07:41 PM
1	What do you mean you can’t be vulnerable?? You can’t see them losing attraction to their partner somewhat based on this? I think you might have rose colored lenses There is no way you know the true unfiltered reality of so many intimate relationships	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/25 07:28 PM
2	What do you mean you can’t be vulnerable?? You’re right that a decent woman wouldn’t do that This is not inconsistent with most or very many women doing that however	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/25 07:25 PM
0	What do you mean you can’t be vulnerable?? What makes this even worse is that women commonly shame or try to interfere with close male friendships that give their man support They will call it a sausage fest or “are you talking to your boyfriend?” This is in part because if a woman is the man’s only source of emotional support and closeness then she had greater value and control	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/25 07:21 PM
2	Young chronically single men thanks to their mothers Many parents are frustrated with their lives and want to be too dominant at home. Others need nurturing from their kids. In these cases, the parents fail because they had kids because of everything they need and not because of everything they had to give.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/25 06:22 PM
1	Nearly every woman has been in an abusive relationship, yet they still claim they aren’t drawn to toxic behavior Eh Most men have also Even if the person is super healthy, probably 1 in 5 people are toxic and hide it at first If you’ve dated a handful of people then just by odds you’ll be in one at least once	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/25 03:04 PM
1	How true is the myth that conservative women cheat less than their liberal counterparts ? And this is why women report lower infidelity rates than men also	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/25 06:18 PM
1	How true is the myth that conservative women cheat less than their liberal counterparts ? And this is why those surveys are flawed and underestimate female cheating in part because women will even lie to themselves that something was cheating “Well it was towards the end of the marriage and he was mean, so that isn’t cheating” Etc They should design a survey somewhat like this thread For instance, if almost every woman says her best friend has cheated, then guess what that means? I’d put lifetime cheating at at least 25% for both genders	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/25 06:13 PM
1	The "If she did it with an ex, she should do it with me" rule applies to pegging I think if a man was submissive to a woman that derived sexual pleasure from that and then he gets a new girlfriend and she is similar and wants to dominate him Then it’s fair the woman would feel a bit cheated It’s a weird version of he ate one girl out but not another (unless her vagina has a foul odor or taste because then it isn’t apple to apples) It’s just that so few men want to be pegged or will allow it and there are so few women that enjoy the act of pegging, that this never comes up So…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/25 02:28 PM
1	Genuine question; what do you want me, a random guy, to say/feel when you brought up a problem about men and/or gender inequality? He is fucking up the venn diagram Yes most killers are men Yes most men do not kill	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/25 04:04 PM
2	How true is the myth that conservative women cheat less than their liberal counterparts ? It’s not entirely due to liberalism directly, it’s just a correlation and so an indicator Mentally ill women, women without an outside source of morality, women with troubled families or women that crave attention cheat more and most of these women are liberal If you see a woman with colored hair and body art drinking at a bar and eye balling or talking to a bunch of men, that isn’t who you look for for fidelity She also almost 100% super liberal	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/25 02:26 PM
2	“Love” will be considered a scam 150 years from now The replies here are conflating romantic love with familial love and also other forms “Love isn’t a scam because I love my grandma” Yeah, not a point	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/25 10:51 PM
3	“Love” will be considered a scam 150 years from now Friendship and familial love doesn’t require you to believe and feel unrealistic things about another person Romantic love is irrational	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/25 10:49 PM
1	“Love” will be considered a scam 150 years from now The only way a woman loves a man the way a man defines love is if the woman is star struck almost and thinks she can do no better She cannot actually love a man she considers a secondary choice At that point, it’s just a mercenary deal	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/25 10:48 PM
1	“Love” will be considered a scam 150 years from now Women simply do not on average love or empathize with or understand men the way men are encouraged to for them Men finally see this because the internet allows everyone to talk anonymously And the replies will kind of prove my point Women will just dismiss this and say “yes we do” which is what you would expect if my statement was true If my statement was false, they would actually take it seriously But women probably can’t wrap their head around that one It’s like if someone I respect told me “…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/25 10:43 PM
1	If you have no kids, there´s honestly no reason not to leave your boring, unappealing husband/boyfriend and seek a better life Half or more of female sexual strategy is playing the field subtly while acting like they aren’t so they can still enjoy the upsides of having a committed guy. Lady’s night Going to lunch with an ex to catch Grabbing coffee with the new guy from work Going out to the mall all the time by yourself Are innocent or just playing the field in plain sight depending upon the woman I have women do it to me They are masters of plausible deniability and giving the guy a deniable opening that he can exploi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/25 07:18 PM
1	If you have no kids, there´s honestly no reason not to leave your boring, unappealing husband/boyfriend and seek a better life “You only live once” can be used to justify the most selfish things imaginable. Parents sick and needing you and decide to move to Florida and block their call? YOLO baby	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/25 07:15 PM
1	The empathy gap is real: A photo of an enslaved woman in Libya rocks Reddit They are both often cluster b disordered But it varies in expression Are they dumb and blatantly self destructive? Probably low class and often jailed Are they instead smart and just totally self interested to an antisocial degree? Clintons	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/25 03:20 PM
1	The empathy gap is real: A photo of an enslaved woman in Libya rocks Reddit Are you trying to ironically prove his point?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/25 03:16 PM
1	Everyone is wrong about the reason for declining fertility rates. Life was way different pre internet and smartphone People did things because many things simply for lack of easy stimulation TV was more boring etc You had to do something to fill your time because wasting time was more excruciating	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/25 07:56 PM
-2	Why do we as a society make up these random fallacies about women? Oh yes The fact that I like peanut butter and jelly indicates that I like peanut butter less than someone that doesn’t like jelly	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/25 07:38 PM
0	Why do we as a society make up these random fallacies about women? Women finding most men unattractive, including average women finding average men unattractive, could indicate that they simply have very high standards or require a super stimulus for arousal due to lower baseline libido. Your argument is similar to saying a connoisseur does not like food as much because they are “too good” eat a hot dog.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/25 04:40 PM
1	How can a man not feel worse when he realizes that his girlfriend/wife behaves more restrictedly and less passionately with him than with her past partners? Uh huh So someone can just dump all their crap on you and you’re supposed to be a man and just take it and have it make you love you even more Got it How about you realizing men are allowed to have some standards and not just take whatever scraps they think they deserve When I think of the kind of guy you are advocating to be it’s some emotional tampon that’s just happy he’s with a crazy woman	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/25 07:03 PM
1	Whats your opinion on what men think the female gaze is? Dad bod is now middle aged guy that isn’t thin and also doesn’t do steroids but works out every day. Women don’t understand male bodies and fat distribution.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/25 03:32 PM
15	Generally speaking, women are more empathetic than men. Empathy isn’t the same thing as compassion	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/25 08:41 PM
5	True alpha men are extremely rare You’re describing a domineering asshole that you’ve heard of on the internet or saw in movies. It’s no one I admire. It’s enough simply to have balls and a spine. Asserting yourself over others and not giving a shit is a modern idea about what a real man is born from weak men on the internet. Men that are really like this have been traumatized and mentally ill. So you’re basically talking about a narcissist with the physical and/or mental chops to actually pull it off.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/25 03:26 PM
1	It’s not unreasonable to ask your partner to stop watching porn I did not mention a contract I meant that if a woman wants no porn then her being nonsexual as well isn’t going to work well	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/25 04:19 PM
–	How can a man not feel worse when he realizes that his girlfriend/wife behaves more restrictedly and less passionately with him than with her past partners? So a woman spilling the beans without thinking she did isn’t a thing? Come on	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/25 05:10 PM
–	How can a man not feel worse when he realizes that his girlfriend/wife behaves more restrictedly and less passionately with him than with her past partners? You asked how a man would know without watching And I told you That’s all	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/25 04:54 PM
1	I'm starting to think that finding a relationship is dependent only on your luck Partly But it goes too far in people’s thoughts For instance, I’m a bow hunter and I primarily hunt large bucks for the challenge A family member that isn’t successful wants to act like it’s all luck to explain away their lack of success It is always a good bit of luck But let’s say with skill I can raise my odds on a given day from 1% to 5% Still a lot of luck but over time my success rate will be 5X if we hunt the same amount So it’s like black jack….but with card counting	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/25 04:52 PM
2	Post-divorce “hoe phase” from a woman married at 19 and divorced 5 years later. Would she still be considered a HVW? If all autistic people are different Then you wouldn’t even know that you were Sure there are differences but there must be a core element for it to even be a concept I’m just being logical and honest here Think about it	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/25 04:43 PM
–	How can a man not feel worse when he realizes that his girlfriend/wife behaves more restrictedly and less passionately with him than with her past partners? Women will straight up let stuff like this slip that provides strong clues Sometimes it is on purpose to hurt or manipulate the partner Sometimes it’s because the woman talks about herself too much For instance, I learned my last partner was likely highly promiscuous at certain points just by letting her talk and noting timing and what she said and didn’t say etc When we broke up, I told her “one reason for this is that you constantly lie about your past and so I don’t really know you” and she s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/25 04:32 PM
–	How can a man not feel worse when he realizes that his girlfriend/wife behaves more restrictedly and less passionately with him than with her past partners? I think the pretext is more that they found out after some time and feel somewhat deceived or exploited It isn’t something where they built a life with eyes fully open	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/25 04:29 PM
3	Post-divorce “hoe phase” from a woman married at 19 and divorced 5 years later. Would she still be considered a HVW? Another standard cope, from the autistic community and anyone else that feels oppressed or unfairly judged Yeah, no one can know anything without exact firsthand knowledge….yawn By your logic, since you are all different, then you can’t talk about it either except just yourself See how your argument becomes silly and somewhat self-defeating? You’re also demonstrating the trait that annoys me most about autistic people All folks that have mild autism and are even somewhat above average….you all t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/25 04:07 PM
7	It’s not unreasonable to ask your partner to stop watching porn If a woman wants a man to stop watching porn She should be having sex with him a minimum of 3 times a week	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/25 03:44 PM
–	Post-divorce “hoe phase” from a woman married at 19 and divorced 5 years later. Would she still be considered a HVW? Nope I’m in STEM So I’ve just known a bunch of them Including a supervisor This got me interested and I have read about it and looked at the reddits and such for those folks	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/25 03:39 PM
3	CMV: You are responsible for your orgasm - no excuses So now you are resorting to the “most” qualifier (51%) Gee I didn’t know that was the assumption You just can’t be even slightly wrong or needing to modify or qualify Congrats Must be a difficult life	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/25 03:18 PM
–	Post-divorce “hoe phase” from a woman married at 19 and divorced 5 years later. Would she still be considered a HVW? Sure Are all limestone rocks exactly similar? No Is it still useful to have the category limestone in comparison to sandstone? Yes What you are parroting is one of the primary coping mechanisms of the autistic community Do some people overgeneralize? Sure Does that disprove the utility of careful generalization (which is what categories are for)? No	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/25 02:55 PM
–	Post-divorce “hoe phase” from a woman married at 19 and divorced 5 years later. Would she still be considered a HVW? If they are all so different Then why is it a category? You can’t have a category of totally dissimilar things	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/25 02:44 PM
3	CMV: You are responsible for your orgasm - no excuses I don’t think you get it I know all these things You are giving advice on how to deal with a woman with decent mental and sexual health I’m saying fewer women than you think have that health This is similar to a book on how to deal with people that specifies the person has no significant issues as a starting condition	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/25 02:22 PM
4	CMV: You are responsible for your orgasm - no excuses Yep, I agree But then if you don’t immediately know how to get them off, they can be upset about that Honestly, I think it comes down to how attractive you are to them When I dated women where I was there exact type, they were more orgasmic and these sexual issues didn’t exist I didn’t have to read their minds as much	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/25 06:05 AM
7	CMV: You are responsible for your orgasm - no excuses The discussions here often take into account the full range of men, including dysfunctional ones But it seems that when discussing females we are to stick to normal healthy and typical I’d guess 25% of women have significant sexual dysfunction due to trauma, medication, or something else For instance, one woman would only have sex in the missionary position because she enjoyed symmetry and doggy and cowgirl felt slutty	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/25 09:54 PM
6	CMV: You are responsible for your orgasm - no excuses They had strong nonverbal clues perhaps by being naturally more sexual people Not hard to figure out	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/25 08:29 PM
14	CMV: You are responsible for your orgasm - no excuses I have had around 15 partners. I’ve had women that provided guidance as I did to them in a sexy way. It’s hot to teach each other about our likes. But of course this is stereotypically male. I would more have a mildly dominant, nice trainer vibe and all women responded well to that. I’ve had women that were evident in their arousal but it was mostly nonverbal. But I’ve had one that didn’t even know how to get herself off, one that sat back and silently judged me for not knowing her idiosyncrasie…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/25 05:35 PM
0	CMV: You are responsible for your orgasm - no excuses The ideal sexual man is kind of a sex god robot though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/25 05:30 PM
2	CMV: You are responsible for your orgasm - no excuses You’re assuming a stereotype in your head that lets the woman off the hook and blames the guy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/25 05:26 PM
59	CMV: You are responsible for your orgasm - no excuses Women say in one breath that every woman is different and in the other they judge a man for not knowing how to get them off and want the guy to just get it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/25 09:53 PM
2	How is dating in your 40s different than 30s? It’s true of men in a way If you are the guy without a family you are considered odd and they want to try to figure it out If you ask a guy if he wants to do a manly thing even but one on one (like shooting basketball, gun range etc) then if you are single many men will assume you are gay and hitting on them As a woman, you don’t see this subtle dynamic It is much safer to meet men through family stuff first, prove you aren’t a creep or something, and then transition to being one on one friends …	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/25 09:41 PM
1	How is dating in your 40s different than 30s? One difference is that now I realize that if I am not at least engaged to the woman that she feels entitled to meet other men and see if they are a better match The only real taboo is that you shouldn’t get physical until you leave the relationship But this thing of not looking around or entertaining options until completely single is gone from my head as far as how I expect anyone I date to behave This is in part why women fight so hard to be able to have male friends that they communicate with…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/25 09:26 PM
3	How is dating in your 40s different than 30s? I live in a town of 15,000 Socializing past a certain age is largely child-centric, unless you go to bars and put up with those downsides I’m over 40 and male and reasonably attractive and so people just think I’m odd, troubled, or gay	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/25 09:21 PM
6	We should stop gender splitting in competitions where brain power is the only deciding factor Men excel in all those things because past a certain high threshold (pick an iq level like 150) it’s mostly men based upon how the distribution curves look This idea that women don’t win Fields Medals due to discrimination is tired	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/25 04:50 PM
6	Q4W: how common is it that women masturbate without an object of desire? I think your last point applies mostly to men that are lonely	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/25 02:43 PM
1	CMV: A romantic relationship between a very rich woman and a man with an average salary is not only unfeasible, but also un-natural. I would never get serious with a woman that was much wealthier or more successful than me. There’s many reasons. One is that I don’t like being super concerned with pleasing assholes that I don’t like, which is basically half of what work is for most people. So, she would likely be perplexed why I’m fine with working below my potential and staying in a technical field that only leaves me middle class pay. It’s because I put in my time to live and then fuck these people, I’m out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/25 02:26 PM
2	Women seem to be considerably more competitive and envious of each other Ancestral environment Men cooperate to play positive sum games Women compete for what men bring back which is a zero sum game	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/25 01:31 PM
3	Main problem with promiscuity is not even that they are bad If an attractive woman pursues me, then that’s the first red flag!	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/24 08:32 PM
4	Main problem with promiscuity is not even that they are bad And that’s why I don’t mess with them It doesn’t matter if banging 100 men at a sex club caused the damage or the damage caused the behavior or some of each The 2 go together like guns and bullets and the high correlation makes it a useful index Mentally healthy women do not routinely make themselves vulnerable to strange men	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/24 07:26 PM
3	A general criticism of the “but they slept with x person on the first date, why not me?” You don’t get my point	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/24 04:51 PM
3	A general criticism of the “but they slept with x person on the first date, why not me?” It doesn’t Something that explains everything actually explains nothing	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/24 04:13 PM
9	Why do men crave romantic interest so much? As a guy, I can only open up to family and my 2 male friends I’ve had since childhood. Men you meet later in life will not be okay with this. And if you ask them to grab a beer outside of a group or shared hobby, then they will think you are hitting on them. And you know what? Women are some of the biggest enforcers of this because they like being this important to men. The wives of my 2 best friends are jealous of our friendship because it isn’t about them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/24 04:03 PM
1	A general criticism of the “but they slept with x person on the first date, why not me?” Who do you think came up with this rule/convention and who enforces it? People that are proud of their past or people that aren’t?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/24 03:58 PM
2	A general criticism of the “but they slept with x person on the first date, why not me?” Why do you think using those words are a magical spell that wins debates? You forgot “insecure” Just tell a guy “you sound insecure” and you ein, didn’t get that memo?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/24 03:54 PM
2	A general criticism of the “but they slept with x person on the first date, why not me?” This is why it is common for their to be a rule to not talk about the past too much	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/24 03:52 PM
0	A general criticism of the “but they slept with x person on the first date, why not me?” Same reason you’re s fool to date a woman that has a strong type but breaks it for you For instance, she has always dated and lusted after muscular bikers but they broke her heart and so she has decided to try out you the nerdy accountant that drives a Honda CRV	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/24 03:50 PM
7	A general criticism of the “but they slept with x person on the first date, why not me?” Physical attraction plays a huge role and it’s obvious Just look at guys that have had numerous ONS, FWB, or sex on first date and compare them to guys that have not	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/24 03:47 PM
-1	A general criticism of the “but they slept with x person on the first date, why not me?” Honestly, most of you are	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/24 03:46 PM
4	A general criticism of the “but they slept with x person on the first date, why not me?” Yes If a woman knows her husband wants another woman more than her then she shouldn’t like that	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/24 03:45 PM
12	A general criticism of the “but they slept with x person on the first date, why not me?” Why is a man being insecure (even when justified) the ultimate trump card debate ender? It’s nonsense. A guy could talk at length and you’d just say “you sound insecure!”	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/24 03:44 PM
10	A general criticism of the “but they slept with x person on the first date, why not me?” You’re a dude so you’re supposed to accept a convoluted explanation that lets women off the hook for whatever they happen to do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/24 03:37 PM
1	TRP is basically mainstream and most men are waking up to reality, despite women claiming it is still some fringe minority of embittered rejects I see hardly any hot women with ugly men unless it’s obviously the guy was once good looking but let himself go	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/24 03:10 PM
5	TRP is basically mainstream and most men are waking up to reality, despite women claiming it is still some fringe minority of embittered rejects Yes, if you disagree with blue piller or lib then they demand a PhD dissertation or a formal logical argument progressing from first principles	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/24 03:09 PM
0	TRP is basically mainstream and most men are waking up to reality, despite women claiming it is still some fringe minority of embittered rejects Red pill now means anything “based” and not standard narrative	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/24 02:30 PM
1	TRP is basically mainstream and most men are waking up to reality, despite women claiming it is still some fringe minority of embittered rejects You don’t have to know Tate to agree with some red pill truths when stated in a more gentle fashion	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/24 02:29 PM
2	TRP is basically mainstream and most men are waking up to reality, despite women claiming it is still some fringe minority of embittered rejects This is largely due to social media and women communicating anonymously on the internet and men sharing notes and stories on the internet It’s similar to how only boomers and diehard libs still trust the mainstream media	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/24 02:29 PM
1	TRP is basically mainstream and most men are waking up to reality, despite women claiming it is still some fringe minority of embittered rejects Most men just don’t talk about it People have this weird thing where if someone doesn’t disagree with them openly (but also does not actively agree) then they assume the person does agree with them	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/24 02:24 PM
1	CMV: Desire is not binary Female attraction is much more binary than male’s because the state of pregnancy is binary	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/24 02:23 PM
5	Main problem with promiscuity is not even that they are bad Every highly promiscuous woman I’ve known was damaged prior to becoming that way Sure, some loudly proclaim “that’s not true of me!” with their crazy eyes darting	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/24 02:21 PM
0	When it comes to how women experience “desire,” men have to accept that “carnal attraction” is MORE than “looks” Yes it is also about money, status, physical power, social dominance, and propensity to do violence on the woman’s behalf	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/24 02:17 PM
-1	Women's Sexual Fantasies More Self Focused Compared to Men's Standard lib writing “citation needed” You are defining attraction as “want to build a life with this man” and I am not	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/24 02:16 PM
1	Women's Sexual Fantasies More Self Focused Compared to Men's Gee my experience is my experience and means nothing….wow how original and easy and convenient to say. Literally everything but a PhD dissertation level of research is needed to give you pause….so long as it disagrees with your world view. And PS when studied, grape fantasies are extremely common in women	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/24 02:14 PM
4	Women's Sexual Fantasies More Self Focused Compared to Men's My friend’s wife loves anal gangbang porn. Several of my exes admitted that their main fantasies were either grape, prostitution, or being gangbanged And some of these were seemingly innocent and bookish women It’s in part that they need that stronger stimulus because they don’t get horny as easily as men One admitted that when we had sex she always shut her eyes and had one of these dark fantasies because it made her cum harder. Really fucked the mood up for me…”oh Heather has her eyes closed….…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/24 12:18 AM
13	Women's Sexual Fantasies More Self Focused Compared to Men's The sex often obsessed with fashion, home decor, etc aren’t visual? No, women are highly visually aroused by very attractive men. It’s that women have lower libido on average and so it takes a stronger stimulus, and even above average men don’t do it for them. There are in fact giga-chads and probably half of all women would cheat on their husband with one if they had the chance.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/24 11:22 PM
1	Unconditional love doesn't exists Does that mean no parent’s love unconditionally? I think your bad examples should be limited to those examples.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/24 06:40 PM
1	Unconditional love doesn't exists It can from parent toward child.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/24 06:39 PM
1	The idea of "Enthusiastic Consent" and "Yes doesn't always mean Yes" by Feminists is wrong. If a Woman says Yes towards Sex then she has Consented. I’m open to being wrong about almost everything	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/24 09:16 PM
1	The idea of "Enthusiastic Consent" and "Yes doesn't always mean Yes" by Feminists is wrong. If a Woman says Yes towards Sex then she has Consented. I see your trick It can’t work on me By definition, you believe what you believe Duh However, it is in openness to possibly being wrong that is the difference and wanting to abandon incorrect thoughts and not being insecure about that process	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/24 08:56 PM
1	The idea of "Enthusiastic Consent" and "Yes doesn't always mean Yes" by Feminists is wrong. If a Woman says Yes towards Sex then she has Consented. I’ve changed my mind about tons of things throughout life	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/24 08:46 PM
6	There are no consequences to being a "bad person" and no incentives to be a "good person" when dating for short-term. The most effective way for average men to get sex short term is to lie and act like you are wanting a relationship with the woman It’s sad but it has always been this way It’s why I’ve counseled female friends to take things slower, which they sometimes construed as slut shaming rather than advice It’s called evil beta game	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/24 07:14 PM
1	The idea of "Enthusiastic Consent" and "Yes doesn't always mean Yes" by Feminists is wrong. If a Woman says Yes towards Sex then she has Consented. No In every comment, you live up to your name of always thinking you are right Which ironically guarantees you will be wrong into the future more than necessary You are actually exhausting to converse with You would say outlandish things if it was required to maintain this orientation towards the world	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/24 07:12 PM
1	Urging your lover to lose weight would be more okay if you insist on exercising and dieting with her/him. Yeah My office’s secretary is pudgy I’m 6 foot, 185 lbs, and muscular with low body fat I had to ask her to please stop calling me “skinny” all the time and to stop making comments when she sees me eating Pure projection/insecurity She is also on the spectrum To her, nonfat people are skinny and undesirable	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/24 07:08 PM
1	The idea of "Enthusiastic Consent" and "Yes doesn't always mean Yes" by Feminists is wrong. If a Woman says Yes towards Sex then she has Consented. Yeah your posts scream “big dick energy”	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/24 07:06 PM
1	The idea of "Enthusiastic Consent" and "Yes doesn't always mean Yes" by Feminists is wrong. If a Woman says Yes towards Sex then she has Consented. Expected reply Nothing gives you pause	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/24 05:14 PM
1	The Red Pill perpetuates itself by setting men up to fail I have no idea what the red pill is exactly now However in the past the idea was to fix what you can and that improvement is possible	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/24 05:13 PM
7	Urging your lover to lose weight would be more okay if you insist on exercising and dieting with her/him. You don’t get men vs women Men almost universally like fat tissue on a woman if in the breasts and butt Blessed women put it on there first In comparison, men put fat on at the belly and only women with dad bod fetishes think that a pot belly adds to a man’s looks	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/24 04:56 PM
–	The idea of "Enthusiastic Consent" and "Yes doesn't always mean Yes" by Feminists is wrong. If a Woman says Yes towards Sex then she has Consented. If you have to check in verbally and consciously then the sex is bad	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/24 04:54 PM
–	The idea of "Enthusiastic Consent" and "Yes doesn't always mean Yes" by Feminists is wrong. If a Woman says Yes towards Sex then she has Consented. You are extremely closed minded and seemingly narcissistic	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/24 04:53 PM
–	The idea of "Enthusiastic Consent" and "Yes doesn't always mean Yes" by Feminists is wrong. If a Woman says Yes towards Sex then she has Consented. I’m saying that neurotypicals don’t need all these weird rules	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/24 04:52 PM
1	Comparing how Women view Straight Men to how Straight Men view Gay Men is an Incorrect Comparison. It’s wrong in that a straight man wants no gay men sexually Vs a straight woman probably wants some men sexually Where it is accurate is the feeling straight guys get when a gay or bi guys goes after them and especially when they are insistent I’m not married so this has happened to me countless times	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/24 04:51 PM
5	RP says men should have their shit together before they get married which I totally agree with. But shouldn’t women also have their shit together before marriage? True Also, if you are the rare non-degenerate around degenerates Then expect that eventually their problems will visit you You are not special	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/24 04:45 PM
4	Urging your lover to lose weight would be more okay if you insist on exercising and dieting with her/him. The point might be that men and women are different in both bodies and perceptions So they will differ	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/24 04:43 PM
2	Would you date someone from the purple pill debate reddit ? Some women here seem reasonable and lovely Some seem to have personality issues and to hate men I’d date the former, even if they were nominally blue pill I’m more MGTOW which is now considered non-existent or incel Both red and blue pill can agree they don’t like voluntarily celibate men	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/24 04:41 PM
–	The idea of "Enthusiastic Consent" and "Yes doesn't always mean Yes" by Feminists is wrong. If a Woman says Yes towards Sex then she has Consented. You need help	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/24 04:38 PM
–	The idea of "Enthusiastic Consent" and "Yes doesn't always mean Yes" by Feminists is wrong. If a Woman says Yes towards Sex then she has Consented. Thankfully People are still mostly smart enough to know a married woman having begrudging duty sex isn’t an SA victim simply because she was annoyed and treated it as a chore one time However give the SJWs time on this one	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/24 04:37 PM
1	The idea of "Enthusiastic Consent" and "Yes doesn't always mean Yes" by Feminists is wrong. If a Woman says Yes towards Sex then she has Consented. The issue is that you don’t even ask or say anything until the answer is almost certainly yes Then if she says no at all Then you stop I’ve had this where we were buck naked and I was laying between her legs…all half her doing and she was obviously into it I asked if I should grab a condom She said no If she said no when she obviously wanted it on some level Then you know the no comes from a place of a mental decision and is firm (not to imply it ever is not) and then you don’t ask again What I …	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/24 04:32 PM
–	The idea of "Enthusiastic Consent" and "Yes doesn't always mean Yes" by Feminists is wrong. If a Woman says Yes towards Sex then she has Consented. No I think it is more that autists came up with all this crap to begin with when it wasn’t a problem that needed detailed for the rest of us So don’t apply your world view to one you can’t understand that is what most others experience	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/24 04:27 PM
–	The idea of "Enthusiastic Consent" and "Yes doesn't always mean Yes" by Feminists is wrong. If a Woman says Yes towards Sex then she has Consented. You are interpreting enthusiastic consent in a way that makes sense and not as SJWs mean it For instance, you have a functioning brain and so if a woman has been naked with a man for an hour and he is erected and she puts a condom on him and then climbs on top as he is smiling and guiding her hips Sounds fine? Nope, she’s a potential grapist SJWs want you to say some loud awkward shit and then reaffirm it regularly I’m sure they have a math formula…like once per 20 strokes	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/24 04:24 PM
–	The idea of "Enthusiastic Consent" and "Yes doesn't always mean Yes" by Feminists is wrong. If a Woman says Yes towards Sex then she has Consented. What if both people are super drunk and both consent?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/24 04:15 PM
–	The idea of "Enthusiastic Consent" and "Yes doesn't always mean Yes" by Feminists is wrong. If a Woman says Yes towards Sex then she has Consented. All or nothing Characteristic of autists and cluster Bs and ideologues and young people Are you now surprised Reddit is filled with it?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/24 04:14 PM
1	Alot of guys dont learn about ‘female nature’ from experience. It comes from their own prejudice. No You are inserting the idea that the men are making incorrect generalizations that they apply to all individuals	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/24 03:16 PM
–	"Things being done TO you by an assertive partner alleviates shame" vs "men want a bangmaid mommy fall into their laps". Being taken by a strong and dominant male that is overcome by their desire Is not primarily due to slut shaming This is just feminists trying to turn something about women into men’s fault, which is typical Being desired by a strong and bold male makes obvious evolutionary sense However, parts of this are also evolved coping mechanisms for what unfortunately happened to women a lot in the past (and now but less so) before the rule of law Invaders would kill the men and take the women, and it is …	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/24 03:13 PM
–	The idea of "Enthusiastic Consent" and "Yes doesn't always mean Yes" by Feminists is wrong. If a Woman says Yes towards Sex then she has Consented. A lot of this is pushed by weird autistic cat ladies that have never had good sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/24 02:35 PM
2	The disconnect between perceived SMV and actual SMV is the primary reason so many people fail in the dating world I recall a study where men across cultures valued loyalty in women above all other non-physical traits. So, ladies, your soy boy that is cool with you hanging out alone for drinks with your male friend from work is the exception that proves the rule.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/24 08:59 PM
3	For those that believe many of men's problems would be solved by having more sex, how you would feel if it was only pity sex? I’ve dated mean/mental women that tried to make up for it with wild sex whenever I wanted it. Eventually it got old and I moved on. It’s kind of gross and makes you lose respect when “give coochie” is a woman’s primary relationship skill.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/24 07:03 PM
7	Men treat men worse than women do The difference is that when a man treats another man poorly then other people notice and also there are society approved steps….including physical altercations in extreme cases. This is not nearly the case when women treat men poorly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/24 03:54 PM
1	The Anti-Woke is now just bigots and neckbeards. The folks that think wokeness has gone too far and needs to be put in its place…. is a huge and diverse crowd. Painting them with a broad brush is ridiculous.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/24 03:52 PM
1	Why "Marriage Material" isn't a compliment to men and being the "hookup guy" is often superior My original point is women can sit on their ass and be attractive so long as they don’t get fat and have good genetics to hold fat well It’s because men like fat on women…just in the eight spots which are butt and boobs In comparison, there is no place on a mans body where women prefer fat So to have nice bodies, men have to train And you’ve supported my point, it just seems easier for you than average	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/24 08:37 PM
1	Why "Marriage Material" isn't a compliment to men and being the "hookup guy" is often superior So you box competitively Ok, then you work out and so I don’t get why you disagreed with me	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/24 08:25 PM
1	Why "Marriage Material" isn't a compliment to men and being the "hookup guy" is often superior Yeah You’re rare as hell and probably have naturally extremely high testosterone levels OR You’re super skinny Abs on a skinny guy don’t count I could have them too if i just didn’t eat and got week Even if you gained 15 lbs If you went from 150 to 165 lbs at 6 foot Then big deal, still not attractive to most women	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/24 07:23 PM
1	why do most of u continue the rigged games, even if it leads nowhere? What? I said voluntary abstinence of something (like dieting and food) is easier than involuntary. How is that not reasonable? Then you say I don’t make sense. Please.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/24 01:39 PM
23	Why does the perception that "most men are physically unattractive or below average" exist among women? Women are very visual They just have very refined taste It’s because you have lower baseline libido and so need a strong stimulus In comparison, men are like that time you were starving and that McDonald’s burger tasted like the best thing ever	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/24 03:01 PM
2	Progressivism has failed men by treating them as scapegoats rather than partners in the pursuit of equality It got called Men Sent Their Own Way By the red pill, PUAs, and man hating feminists I guess they couldn’t compute straight men not prioritizing sexual relationships with women It united both sides, which is hilarious and telling	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/24 02:53 PM
1	If Ukrainian men are locked in the country and forced to fight, Ukrainian women should also be locked in and either forced to fight, be pregnant, or be raising a child under 3 It’s largely a way for low T soy boys to feel tough. They are tough because they want other people to die. Also, it moistens their mangina like how some women like seeing men fight. These guys probably have never shot a gun or been in a real fist fight (slapping and pulling hair in 3rd grade doesn’t count).	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/24 02:26 AM
1	why do most of u continue the rigged games, even if it leads nowhere? I’ve been voluntarily celibate for years I have family, friends, and hobbies Ive also had GFs and have had sex I now take care of my urges by wanking it a few times a week, so I guess I’m not totally celibate It gets the poison out and I go about my day I’m fine If I’d never had sex and this wasn’t voluntary then it would probably feel bad Sorta like how hunger from dieting probably hits different than hunger from poverty You bringing up jail and such is only a distraction	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/24 08:43 PM
1	Progressivism has failed men by treating them as scapegoats rather than partners in the pursuit of equality Men going their own way Check it out Yeah mgtows are mostly live and let live moderate libertarian types that don’t want to bother others or be bothered Wise man that lives alone on the outskirts of the village vibe So unless you hurt people or try to push ideas then they wouldnt care	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/24 08:38 PM
2	why do most of u continue the rigged games, even if it leads nowhere? I’ve been voluntarily celibate for years. I get female indicators of interest all the time. Hell, a married co-worker wants to have an affair with me right now. It’s more people projecting onto you. For instance, a good friend is obese and drinks a 6 pack a day for the last 20 years. He’s on his second marriage to a woman on her fourth marriage. He’s worried about me though because I don’t have a GF. Lmfao I love the guy like a brother, but he thinks like that because being married is one of the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/24 07:18 PM
2	why do most of u continue the rigged games, even if it leads nowhere? Huh? You can’t be literal. I’d agree that without human interaction we go nuts. But you act like people die if they ho without sex for too long.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/24 07:12 PM
1	If you were a billionaire, would you still pursue a romantic relationship/marriage? Why/why not? I certainly wouldn’t let people know my net worth.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/24 07:08 PM
2	Women are simply lying about this pretty consequential thing You can’t say that women and men are similar or whatever and also say women don’t lie about things like this. The mental gymnastics of people to hold both beliefs is amazing. I’ve known women that I 100% believe would lie about sexual assault. Everyone has.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/24 07:07 PM
16	Progressivism has failed men by treating them as scapegoats rather than partners in the pursuit of equality BS The entire MGTOW is this. I guess they got rebranded by folks like you as incels and forgotten about. MGTOWs reject chasing women and the standard dominant and submissive paradigm that you are supposed to fit into. I’m somewhat of this stripe. I am fine with emotions, but I don’t cast my pearls before swine or emote around people that will use it to hurt me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/24 07:02 PM
-1	If Ukrainian men are locked in the country and forced to fight, Ukrainian women should also be locked in and either forced to fight, be pregnant, or be raising a child under 3 They certainly did promise that. You’re just unaware.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/24 08:58 PM
3	If Ukrainian men are locked in the country and forced to fight, Ukrainian women should also be locked in and either forced to fight, be pregnant, or be raising a child under 3 Your reaction to it is what shows that. Basically, read the opinions of people that disagree with you. I’d probably start with Glenn Greenwald. He’s gay so your programming won’t allow you to immediately hate him.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/24 08:56 PM
-1	If Ukrainian men are locked in the country and forced to fight, Ukrainian women should also be locked in and either forced to fight, be pregnant, or be raising a child under 3 The west promised many years ago that NATO would not expand and they have expanded and become too large a threat They are simply too stupid to out themselves in the shoes of Putin or think that sometimes they might be acting in their own rational self interest Western politicians love to act tough towards Putin for political points You are caught in the middle The politicians that fund you don’t actually give two shits about you or they would not have done this All the help they now give only en…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/24 05:50 PM
-2	If Ukrainian men are locked in the country and forced to fight, Ukrainian women should also be locked in and either forced to fight, be pregnant, or be raising a child under 3 No idea what that is Im an independent All this is incredibly obvious and tons of independent journalist and thinkers say this The fact that you think only caricatures disagree with you means you are yourself one Shouldn’t you be sniffing Pelosi’s farts in a jar you purchased?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/24 05:46 PM
3	If Ukrainian men are locked in the country and forced to fight, Ukrainian women should also be locked in and either forced to fight, be pregnant, or be raising a child under 3 It’s incredibly obvious if you aren’t a brainwashed ideologue Any explanation I could type here would be wasted on you given that this suggestion is foreign to you, when literally 1,000s of hours have been spent outside your echo chamber detailing this My suggestion is to google and read some of things the bad boogeymen outside your inner sanctum have to say In short, liberals support a massively destructive war that is a political statement and a way for people to get rich….it violates every id…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/24 05:43 PM
2	Is there anyone here who feel like they did everything right but their relationship failed regardless? Anyone that thinks they did everything right can probably be ignored However i have been in several relationships where the other person became toxic while i stayed pretty normal The pop psychology thing of all relationship issues are 50/50 is stupid In the cases where the woman became toxic, it was in all cases due to an expression of entitlement and unreasonable expectations They all needed or wanted a near perfect partner When i showed my humanity then they couldn’t handle that while i was ex…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/24 05:33 PM
-26	If Ukrainian men are locked in the country and forced to fight, Ukrainian women should also be locked in and either forced to fight, be pregnant, or be raising a child under 3 Your country and the west (mostly the west) did everything possible to provoke this You are now fighting a war of attrition that you will lose while others get rich off of it You should negotiate a peace treaty now while there’s still something left This should have been done a long time ago Once you remove emotions, this is all obvious I’m an american citizen	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/24 05:21 PM
10	If Ukrainian men are locked in the country and forced to fight, Ukrainian women should also be locked in and either forced to fight, be pregnant, or be raising a child under 3 Entire war is a shit show and underlines that moderns libs have no principles but rather engage in groupthink and are easily manipulated	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/24 05:17 PM
–	Young men are turning to right wing and manosphere ideologies due to being shut down and treated terrible in mainstream/progressive spaces, not from being brainwashed by "Redpill gurus" or "right-wing media". It detracts from the feminine mystique.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/24 06:59 PM
2	Young men are turning to right wing and manosphere ideologies due to being shut down and treated terrible in mainstream/progressive spaces, not from being brainwashed by "Redpill gurus" or "right-wing media". I used to do this as a kid. If I saw something that challenged my worldview, then I hated the cognitive dissonance. I would think about it until I restored my worldview. Once I decided to instead believe the most likely thing then my life got much easier and any mental health issues I had were pretty much resolved within 5 or 10 years. Changing your mind should feel good.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/24 06:57 PM
1	Young men are turning to right wing and manosphere ideologies due to being shut down and treated terrible in mainstream/progressive spaces, not from being brainwashed by "Redpill gurus" or "right-wing media". It’s just genetics. Women only deeply care about men that they share genetics with (son, dad, brother). They are only attracted to men they want the genes from. They cannot see men as fully human. Men can be bad and slaves to their genetic imperatives also. But almost everyone that sees it and has broken free a little bit and become a little bit less of an NPC…..is a male.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/24 06:26 PM
14	Men should generally never take dating advice from women. Isn’t it weird how women instinctively try to benefit women they don’t even know at the expense of men they do know? Very hive mind and NPC ish Your own mother will even do it It’s like a brain sickness that makes smart people stupid through reflexive action with no perspective or self analysis	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/24 03:57 PM
-4	Q4W: What would you say about a man who is 8+/10 but is shy? If you’re serious Get help And leave people alone By the way, everyone genuinely like that is a deceptive coward Because if they were upfront, then they couldn’t operate and in times past you’d be rejected by the tribe and die alone in your misery	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/24 03:32 PM
6	Q4W: What would you say about a man who is 8+/10 but is shy? Kind of false dichotomy There exist cool and compassionate men that are also extremely confident and outgoing	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/24 03:32 PM
1	Ladies do you agree with this hot take? No You’re not picking up what I’m putting down Never mind	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/24 07:46 PM
0	Ladies do you agree with this hot take? Can Sure, you are pretending I’m using absolute statements because it helps you Here’s the thing You meet a dominant guy and submissive wimp Which one is more likely to be into domination in bed?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/24 07:16 PM
0	Ladies do you agree with this hot take? No I can’t know “hey that guy is into scat?” Unless maybe he stinks and has dirty fingernails But dominant people tend to be dominant in all areas etc It isn’t perfect but how someone behaves in one area of life is decent predictor for others	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/24 06:56 PM
–	Would you date a broke woman? There’s a difference between dating down and dating a broke lazy woman that will be a sponge	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/24 06:50 PM
0	Ladies do you agree with this hot take? Huh? Your personality impacts everything about you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/24 06:43 PM
2	THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD Thanks	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/24 06:28 PM
0	THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD Thanks	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/24 06:28 PM
2	THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD Thanks	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/24 06:28 PM
1	THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD Thanks	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/24 06:28 PM
1	THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD Thanks	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/24 06:28 PM
2	THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD I think other people can’t see my comments Can one person reply to this if you see it? I wouldn’t put it past Reddit to shadow ban me	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/24 05:48 PM
1	Feminists promote unhygienic behaviour to "stick it to men" Weird one is no crotch shaving Men groom down there some in part because it makes oral sex more pleasant for their partner Hippy women with a full jungle bush means you get hair in your mouth more Also, after a day of peeing and such…women with full bushes have a urine odor in their bush and also more body odor down there Source: 2 of my 7 LTRs had jungle bush, 2 fully shaved, 3 just trimmed it neat	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/24 02:07 PM
1	How often do you fear that you'll be romantically rejected because you're not feminine enough? I’m a bow hunter Guys with cute wives that bow hunt with them are envied bigly	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/24 08:15 PM
1	Women who get the ick = porn brained men Women that read a lot of books (or consume other media) with male leads that they make their “book boyfriend” have a strong tendency to do this. Reading a ton ton of fiction is a yellow flag to me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/24 03:13 PM
1	Studies consistently show that women do not all perceive the same type of men as physically attractive, that a high majority of women prefer long term relationships and that a man’s social status/abilities and economic security are far more important than his looks Sorry man Life isn’t fair	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/24 06:52 PM
0	Why is Autism basically a contraceptive for men? I have worked with several people on the spectrum. One male and one female, recently. They are annoying as fuck and there’s no way I could be in a relationship with one. These are STEM folks. Every person I’ve met on the spectrum enough that they don’t or can’t mask AND they are somewhat above average….think they are always right and act like they are the smartest person ever, even when they are only like top 5%. They will also correct people rudely when the other person is actually correct. So …	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/24 07:14 PM
–	Reddit is misandrist to an absurd degree. All moderated or tweaked spaces with modern liberal owners and workers turn into shit holes, since these folks are typically narcissistic authoritarians now (the cool old hippies with principals they haven’t abandoned don’t fuck with you people much anymore). I’d actually prefer narcissistic authoritarians that just said “it’s this way because it benefits me in some way.” Instead, we have these (self) deceptive assholes that dress it up as them doing it for every one else’s benefit, which they a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/24 03:12 PM
2	Common misconception: The fourth wave of feminism didn't descend into men-hating. Feminism was a men-hating movement from the beginning. Slight agree I still contend that they are not respecting the fact that words have specific meanings and that if you want to change that then it needs to be explicit and hopefully agreed upon So word salad light	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/24 02:39 AM
–	The conversation has been hijacked by undesirable men, the REAL issue is that actual DESIRABLE men are being viewed as beneath average-below average women Not true Chads and Chad Lites still get flirted with all the time and women really enjoying just being near them and interacting with them	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/24 06:23 PM
–	The conversation has been hijacked by undesirable men, the REAL issue is that actual DESIRABLE men are being viewed as beneath average-below average women This sums up why I’m voluntarily celibate I screwed up and prioritized school and career and dated women not in a hurry for marriage and kids Now, the remainders are usually “last socks left in the bin at the thrift store” and I’d rather just enjoy my own company I will say that I have a lot of women around my age or older shoot their shot and then get mad, embarrassed, or insulting when I decline	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/24 06:18 PM
1	Why and how do people fall out of love or "lose feelings" or "lose attraction" in a relationship? What made you laugh? The bird part? It’s true and they so nasty. Ornithologists call it cloacal kissing. They bang their holes together through which semen or eggs and their mix of urine/feces (exact term escapes me) both pass. That’s like dirty scissoring or something.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/24 05:53 PM
2	Why and how do people fall out of love or "lose feelings" or "lose attraction" in a relationship? Because lifelong monogamy is not natural to us but rather imposed as a technology to promote a healthy and stable society in which to live and raise children This is why every society with it started without it and the societies that independently developed it tend to thrive more (but there’s also a chicken and egg thing in effect as well which doesn’t change things as much as some would hope) Also, every pair bonding species studied cheats sexually Even those birds building a nest together are …	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/24 02:22 PM
16	Studies consistently show that women do not all perceive the same type of men as physically attractive, that a high majority of women prefer long term relationships and that a man’s social status/abilities and economic security are far more important than his looks Yes, every man dreams of a woman wanting him for his economic security It’s a true panty dropper	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/24 08:17 PM
3	Common misconception: The fourth wave of feminism didn't descend into men-hating. Feminism was a men-hating movement from the beginning. That is word salad	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/24 08:09 PM
1	Nowadays women usually have the upper hand in relationships No I just don’t like people like you and it often shows	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/24 08:09 PM
6	Common misconception: The fourth wave of feminism didn't descend into men-hating. Feminism was a men-hating movement from the beginning. No, you are smuggling your specific definition of “movement” into this conversation. Even if I accept your premise, then there is still an obvious spectrum.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/24 04:23 PM
1	Nowadays women usually have the upper hand in relationships Men are punished for it and it is seen as “acting like a woman”. Women do it much more and often don’t notice (like breathing) or have a justification. Masculine men (aka benevolent patriarchs with measurable testosterone) call each other out on this all the time, often saying “stop acting like a woman.” It’s common but you probably don’t know many men like that (aka have testicles larger than pistachios).	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/24 04:08 PM
6	Common misconception: The fourth wave of feminism didn't descend into men-hating. Feminism was a men-hating movement from the beginning. Yes when it is a radical and ideologically driven movement But there are certainly movements that aren’t like this	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/24 03:01 PM
4	Nowadays women usually have the upper hand in relationships Nowadays? So long as a guy isn’t a stereotypical patriarch or male chauvinist or the woman submissive; women have way more power in relationships. They have society, the law, nagging, manipulation, and pussy power in their corner.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/24 02:58 PM
1	Do you genuinely believe feminism is for equality of the sexes? Or just helping women? Modern feminism is now a female lobbying group with no stopping criteria. The more mundane their complaints (like toy stores sorting toys by gender with girl toys being pink more likely), the more sure we can be that society is doing okay. In 200 years, based on current trajectory, feminists will be complaining about absolutely stupid or scary shit that we could hardly imagine (like a man not saluting a woman and averting his eyes ritualistically according to their dictates). I think if they cou…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/24 03:59 PM
1	Many women and men on this sub are willfully ignorant about male genital mutilation Folks like you suddenly get upset that the abstraction to prove a point is not the exact thing under consideration, not realizing that if it is the exact thing then it is no longer an illustrative abstraction So yeah, you don’t get it, perhaps because you are engaging in motivated reasoning You’re the type to criticize Forrest Gump because life really isn’t a box of chocolates	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/11/24 07:18 PM
1	Many women and men on this sub are willfully ignorant about male genital mutilation I think you are an NPC incapable of abstract thought or changing your mind due to a fragile and so therefore enlarged ego	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/11/24 12:42 PM
2	Many women and men on this sub are willfully ignorant about male genital mutilation You don’t get my point It’s like someone raised on pizza being asked “hey how do you feel about pizza?” when they have never tasted filet mignon You presenting a result without understanding the basic logic I’ve stated is YOU being dishonest Don’t get it twisted	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/11/24 02:28 AM
3	Many women and men on this sub are willfully ignorant about male genital mutilation Because they don’t know what it is like being uncut Your argument is as dumb as saying “People that have their pinky fingers removed at birth adapt and answer surveys that they don’t miss the pinky finger”	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/24 05:49 PM
2	Many women and men on this sub are willfully ignorant about male genital mutilation Dads don’t want to admit what was done to them was wrong and that they have less pleasure as a result 50% of people are dumb as holy fuck	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/24 05:46 PM
1	Many women and men on this sub are willfully ignorant about male genital mutilation Narcissistic parents that did this will defend it to avoid guilt or admitting they were wrong	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/24 05:45 PM
1	Being misogynistic does not have an impact on your dating prospects Lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/24 05:22 PM
1	RP men use dating strategies that attract specific kinds of women, which reinforces their stereotypes about women in a vicious cycle One thing they get wrong is that women that don’t bang immediately aren’t attracted to you There’s tons of women that don’t want to get ran through by jerks and maybe only kiss on the first date	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/24 02:54 PM
3	Do women who engaged in lots of casual sex, inherently love the man they wind up marrying, differently than those who did not? Casual clothing	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/24 02:51 PM
1	Do women who engaged in lots of casual sex, inherently love the man they wind up marrying, differently than those who did not? As a guy, you either find a true unicorn or relish your role as a disposable utility	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/24 02:23 PM
5	Do women who engaged in lots of casual sex, inherently love the man they wind up marrying, differently than those who did not? While wearing a velvet track suit and slippers	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/24 02:19 PM
1	Do women who engaged in lots of casual sex, inherently love the man they wind up marrying, differently than those who did not? Um Most things are complicated	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/24 01:04 PM
4	Why do women dress provocatively if they don't like most men? Yep Look how women dress when no men are around or will be around I can’t believe any man actually believes that women dress in skin tight shit with their boobs out for any reason but the obvious Even the older married women at work, when they spent extra time on their hair and makeup that day and are dressed a little bit more risqué….give me a look like “you see what I did here?” with a little coy smile of anticipation	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/24 11:35 PM
1	You're wasting your time chasing party girls Now they often aren’t telling people they have herpes The modern reason is “well most people have it even if they don’t have outbreaks” I’m sure genital warts and HPV are even worse per this reasoning	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/24 04:58 PM
1	The modern "loneliness epidemic" could be considered, in part, a consequence of how contemporary feminist narratives influence social dynamics and individual mindset I was taking loneliness as overall and not just female companionship People ijn general are lonelier now	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/24 09:17 AM
1	The modern "loneliness epidemic" could be considered, in part, a consequence of how contemporary feminist narratives influence social dynamics and individual mindset Most Gen Xers would disagree We clearly remember pre cell phone	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/24 12:23 AM
4	The modern "loneliness epidemic" could be considered, in part, a consequence of how contemporary feminist narratives influence social dynamics and individual mindset Why did it accelerate after smart phones and social media ?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/24 08:39 PM
2	Second-wave feminism led to unsolicited dick pics This epitomizes why I don’t like interacting with you	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/24 03:32 PM
1	Why are Passport Bros against sex tourism? I can’t imagine going to Thailand to use my big American money to bang the local men’s women right under their noses I’d assume they would hate me and I’m surprised more sex tourists don’t come up missing I know if like Canadians were traveling to my neighborhood and had enough money to bang people’s daughters then men would be taking shots at their cars with deer rifles	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/24 03:25 PM
0	Second-wave feminism led to unsolicited dick pics I don’t always read usernames	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/24 03:22 PM
–	Firsthand experience learning looks aren't shit. Yeah That’s the issue Even so, if you are hot, then men with no self respect will date you and many horny men will have sex with you and keep it casual You should be able to find a simp or a fuckboi	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/24 03:20 PM
-5	Second-wave feminism led to unsolicited dick pics I didn’t realize I had replied to you I won’t discuss anything with you again	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/24 03:19 PM
–	Firsthand experience learning looks aren't shit. No social skills in that you are shy? Or on the spectrum? Or no social skills in that you come off mean and/or not mentally well? Only the last point would explain what you’ve experienced A hot autistic girl will have nerd boys drinking her bath water	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/24 02:59 PM
-6	Second-wave feminism led to unsolicited dick pics Most people attempt to avoid accountability for their actions, all of them when the outcome is or could be negative However, women do this more and also women are excused for doing it So accountability for everything When women have a bad outcome, for instance, the thing now is to blame men and misogyny	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/24 02:57 PM
2	N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD No one is going to read your unsolicited novel	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/24 02:45 PM
-5	Second-wave feminism led to unsolicited dick pics Well, you want to avoid accountability so anyone bringing anything up like this probably feels oppressive	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/24 02:42 PM
1	Not men's fault (re-upload due to lock, reason has been rectified) It’s like libs blaming swing state voters while not realizing that Texas being red also impacted the election	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/24 02:40 PM
7	“I want a man that takes the lead” doesn’t free women from taking initiative I think it is a feature not a bug This weird mix of emotions which doesn’t make any sense allows a woman to rationalize rejecting any man that does not hit their reproductive and survival urge in the right way If a man is tall, strong, rich, and handsome Then women suddenly become more reasonable and conciliatory If she starts to think she can do better, then suddenly the poor guy gets caught in a mine field of her wanting contradictory traits with his needle needing to sweep as she internally d…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/24 02:38 PM
1	The debate on men and women's positions on infidelity and divorce needs to be settled Same reason why a single mom can give up her kid entirely but she can keep some ONS dude on the hook for 18 years if she wants It’s about protecting women and her feels but also getting a guy to pay so the state is relieved of their burden somewhat	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/24 02:15 PM
1	Women can't complain that men voted for Trump, men are just sticking up for themselves Libs made most of their opinion up over around a dozen things Trump said (some of which were taken out of context or just second or third hand hearsay) “OMG did you hear that some guy said he called soldiers losers?” On one hand we have that and on the other we have modern libs letting third world street gangs take over apartment complexes while minimizing it as “well only like 200 US citizens were affected by that”	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/24 02:01 PM
1	Love doesn’t really exist and it’s detrimental for most people to seek after it I mean I don’t get it If you were raised thinking God exists and built your life around that and then suddenly realize God doesn’t exist….why would that make you uncomfortable at all and want to talk about it? I mean you are getting upset over something that doesn’t exist, right? /s You people are utterly ridiculous	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/24 01:57 PM
3	If feminist pages and women in general talked more about different issues that men face, that would help get men out of the red pill / alt right / anti SJW rabbit hole Feminism as a whole does not understand basic points or ignores them and therefore can’t be taken seriously For instance, that women want greater representation in prestigious careers but are fine with all trash collectors being men And that 50% of all engineers should be women when women are much less likely to want to be engineers The left takes it as a sign of intelligence to believe things that do not pass the sniff test	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/24 01:47 PM
14	“I want a man that takes the lead” doesn’t free women from taking initiative Women want simultaneously contradictory traits and behaviors in men much more than men want that in women Women reply “well you want us to be a freak in the sheets but a lady in the streets” But this (be sexual with me but don’t be sexual publicly in the form of dressing or acting like a whore) is much more clear cut than “be dominant when I want but not in a way that goes a bit too far in my estimation and do it where I feel it in a positive way only”	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/24 01:33 PM
-1	The debate on men and women's positions on infidelity and divorce needs to be settled We have at least 3 possibilities Women don’t think it should matter because they are more rational or evolved and it not mattering is correct (I disagree here, if a woman betrays me then she is especially not entitled to part of my pay) Women cheat more (not likely, but I do think it is more equal than stats show and more common than stats show because the stats cannot account for being in denial or self deception which are both common) Women get alimony more often and so it is motivated reasoni…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/24 08:00 PM
-4	The debate on men and women's positions on infidelity and divorce needs to be settled Women don’t think it should matter because they usually get alimony if any is exchanged Duh	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/11/24 09:02 PM
1	Misandry hurts women. Yep A vote is not a love letter	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/11/24 06:48 PM
1	There’s too much casual misandry on the internet There’s a reason why psychologists have always wanted to experiment with certain substances to help patients	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/11/24 12:38 PM
1	Women can't complain that men voted for Trump, men are just sticking up for themselves Also illegal immigration	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/24 08:59 PM
0	Wanting left winged groups to win requires more support to men Affect is a verb Effect is a noun Most women buy groceries more often than they kill fetuses	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/24 08:58 PM
2	Feminist hate and lies helped Trump to win He’s just socialism light It doesn’t work on a large scale You can create a toy universe of “well if everyone does this and this then it will be great” But it does not align with human nature or how economic systems actually work	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/24 08:42 PM
2	Feminist hate and lies helped Trump to win For some reason, I don’t think your idea of reasonable voices align with the basic human nature of us apes (i.e. we are mostly selfish assholes and that won’t change)	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/24 08:35 PM
-1	There’s too much casual misandry on the internet Honestly THC or mushrooms can knock people out of that Bad trips are often the scales falling from your eyes after the rationalization engine in your brain gets paused	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/24 08:05 PM
2	Feminist hate and lies helped Trump to win My father told me to never trust anyone with a word for how they think. -George Carlin	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/24 07:46 PM
–	Feminist hate and lies helped Trump to win It isn’t a branding or perception thing Liberals need to stop believing dumb shit that doesn’t work We went from Bill Clinton saying illegal immigration was a serious problem to liberals saying that if you don’t want a literal invasion then you are racist because most of the invaders are brown	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/24 08:24 PM
1	The Type of Women Normally Chased by Men You are speaking for all women when I’ve witnessed women that at least partially do it for attention	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/24 10:48 PM
5	What can a man do to become more sexy and provocative "instantly"?! I think “Why don’t this bitch have hair plugs on her titties?!?” Listen, I can’t believe you don’t see I’ve been joking this whole time	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/24 06:03 PM
5	The reason there's not much support for men's rights (and there won't be) Such as dying in dumb wars That’s why they recruit young men that feel invincible still and then brainwash them Guys in their 40s would be like “no that’s a dumb plan, I’m not gonna listen to some jackass and get killed”	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/24 05:54 PM
3	What can a man do to become more sexy and provocative "instantly"?! You’re saying personality trumps hair plugs!?!	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/24 05:52 PM
1	The reason there's not much support for men's rights (and there won't be) This is crazy You are faulting me for not understanding how you misunderstood me	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/24 05:21 PM
3	What can a man do to become more sexy and provocative "instantly"?! You don’t need one if you have all that	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/24 05:18 PM
2	The reason there's not much support for men's rights (and there won't be) You asked me what I’m doing now that I don’t want to do for women It makes no sense And now you are doubling down	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/24 05:18 PM
6	What can a man do to become more sexy and provocative "instantly"?! Shoe lifts, hair plugs, neck beard, nipple rings	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/24 05:01 PM
-2	The Type of Women Normally Chased by Men It has been shown that men are aroused by 2 groups of women that match the male version of dual mating strategy Beautiful (who they want to have kids and invest in) Seem easy to bed (no investment gene spreading) Men chase both types Women don’t get this and get a tattoo and piercings and men start hitting on them They think these things made them more beautiful when what it did was move them into category 2 A woman can be almost dog ugly but if she has a hot body and dresses and acts slutty the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/24 04:39 PM
2	The reason there's not much support for men's rights (and there won't be) That sentence of mine does not imply what you are asking I can’t help you if you can’t parse simple sentences and ideas	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/24 04:36 PM
3	The reason there's not much support for men's rights (and there won't be) This is word salad disconnected from my point	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/24 04:02 PM
–	Women: You're dating a guy and find out he's excited to attend a "White Dudes for Kamala" event. Do you question his sexuality? Modern libs are authoritarian, pro war, and pro censorship….wrapped in a rainbow flag so that everyone knows they are good people They were so easy to fool Corporations, military industrial complex, and big pharma just had to appeal to their vanity They turned their enemies into their supporters Started happening as a way to diffuse occupy Wall Street Creating and appealing to their trump derangement syndrome was the final act	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/24 03:41 PM
–	Women: You're dating a guy and find out he's excited to attend a "White Dudes for Kamala" event. Do you question his sexuality? lol What a troll post	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/24 03:39 PM
6	The reason there's not much support for men's rights (and there won't be) Um Not talking about strangers at the mall You’re a young woman and so your opinion here is invalid on this topic It also varies and is less so in large cities or certain subcultures And I’m not talking about young single guys But rather men past the age when most settle down Why do you invalidate my lived experience, shit lord? lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/24 03:34 PM
4	The reason there's not much support for men's rights (and there won't be) I’ve had several women go after me, thinking poor single sex deprived guy will jump all over this opportunity, and they call me gay when I decline Some were old and fat It’s a way to save face	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/24 03:27 PM
7	The reason there's not much support for men's rights (and there won't be) Being a husband or dad and sacrificing for them	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/24 03:25 PM
2	The reason there's not much support for men's rights (and there won't be) They use their brains to actively resist changing their minds	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/24 03:24 PM
5	Hookup culture is largely the result of societal pressure, commitment issues and unhealthy coping mechanisms It isn’t enough evidence or the right kind but it is strongly suggestive…. By knowing a few true chads, I have seen or heard of their exploits with women you would not expect I’ve known several chads to target a woman and then take her home that night	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/24 03:14 PM
12	The reason there's not much support for men's rights (and there won't be) People also assume all men are horn dogs that prioritize sex over everything If you are single by choice, the common assumption is you are closeted gay or a pervert No one thinks that of single women	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/24 03:02 PM
18	The reason there's not much support for men's rights (and there won't be) I am a lifelong bachelor with no kids and several LTRs but often single If you are not seen as somehow helping women and children then you are suspect People can’t see it because all that you wrote is part of the neural net they use to interpret the world People are not typically self-reflective in a way that makes them question themselves Otherwise you’d see people changing their minds on various topics regularly and you simply do not	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/24 02:24 PM
2	The Self Improvement that TRP Teaches Seems Pointless Sometimes. Damn I hope you are better now Gonna hug my parents next time I see them	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/24 02:01 PM
0	The Self Improvement that TRP Teaches Seems Pointless Sometimes. Some good points But ending was psycho	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/24 01:59 PM
-2	The Self Improvement that TRP Teaches Seems Pointless Sometimes. And if they are middle class then go to where women are poor and want US citizenship Hence mail order brides Which are so common I have 3 acquaintances who ordered them	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/24 01:43 PM
1	The Self Improvement that TRP Teaches Seems Pointless Sometimes. Improve for yourself Also, a lot of guys improve and it makes them more physically attractive I gained 30 lbs of muscle and it is night and day	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/24 01:23 PM
2	The shy girl-next door will often come out on top in the dating game Shy girls struggle with giving indicators of interest I think some shy girls think they can ignore men and a man will find them attractive and then approach a stranger that acts like she doesn’t want to be approached I’ve been guilty of this and going after women that made it clear And it didn’t end well	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/24 11:40 AM
–	Most men basically worship women. You’d think feminists would not only tell women to be self sufficient but also spread this message to men That they generally don’t is why I consider modern feminism to only be a female lobbying group	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/24 11:35 AM
2	In what ways are men and women most different? That’s not how intelligence is usually defined though	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/24 08:36 PM
2	In what ways are men and women most different? Men have stronger upper and lower bodies There’s this lie that women have stronger lower bodies but the truth is that the difference there is just less extreme The difference in upper body is extreme I go to a gym with my state’s female strong woman champion She eats for strength and has a huge butt and thighs and seems high testosterone for a woman (maybe she’s done ‘roids but I don’t know) Her lower body is stronger than most guys at the gym but almost every guy over 180 lbs that has trained f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/24 08:33 PM
1	When You’re Single, Half The Women You Date Already Got A Man Absolutely Plus I’ve always been tall and slender and not scary in my demeanor I would be afraid the boyfriend would come and want to fight etc I’ve seen guys that are big or just scrappy that hit on women in front of their men in a way to dare the guy to say anything That’s not me I’ll defend myself but I hate confrontation due to a childhood full of it I can’t imagine how men have the balls to get married women to cheat I’d be afraid the husband would shoot me	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/24 08:00 PM
1	Curious what women view as "good guys" I’m going to introduce you to a useful word other than subjective or objective, which is the wrong framing And the word is….drum roll please Universal I cannot prove objectively that pizza tastes better than dog shit but I can show it is nearly universal Now imagine how much you could learn if you had an open mind	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/24 08:42 PM
6	Alot of guys dont learn about ‘female nature’ from experience. It comes from their own prejudice. Ok You are engaging with the weakest of your enemies then declaring victory Cool!	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/24 08:28 PM
8	Alot of guys dont learn about ‘female nature’ from experience. It comes from their own prejudice. Cool So by anecdote you are determining guys use anecdotes The jokes write themselves	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/24 08:23 PM
1	Men are attracted to women who are good for themselves, Women are attracted to men who are a danger to themselves and others He exaggerated and now that is all you blue pillers can see His point is valid Women often do things to bring men into conflict on some level	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/24 08:18 PM
2	Men are attracted to women who are good for themselves, Women are attracted to men who are a danger to themselves and others You’re not leaving the house Go to a bar and watch men fight over things the woman precipitated in way where she should have known better	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/24 08:17 PM
1	Men are attracted to women who are good for themselves, Women are attracted to men who are a danger to themselves and others Women do sometimes pit men against each other in subtle ways Like letting a stranger get too friendly in public in front of her man etc I’ve had this happen and had to confront the guy and my GF at the time now exGF was super turned on by it	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/24 08:09 PM
10	Alot of guys dont learn about ‘female nature’ from experience. It comes from their own prejudice. You folks are like that whack a mole game	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/24 08:03 PM
–	Q4W: would you like being apporached in a bar when you are with your girl friends for a night out? If so, how? A lot of drunk women having a hen night will assume you’re trying fuck all of them and intrude on their good time and they aren’t nice about it Men who approach groups of women have balls of steel	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/24 07:55 PM
13	Alot of guys dont learn about ‘female nature’ from experience. It comes from their own prejudice. A lot of guys were blue pilled and got hurt repeatedly and then changed and things made more sense You’re acting like all men that disagree with you have no experience with women and only learned about them on the internet	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/24 07:45 PM
1	Question for the men, who do you think is going to start men advocacy centers and fight on behalf of men? He is a leftie and identifies with that because it makes him feel like a smart and good person He can’t possibly view things he is attached to accurately because he is an ideologue	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/24 07:40 PM
5	Question for the men, who do you think is going to start men advocacy centers and fight on behalf of men? Apex fallacy Powerful people, mostly men Women Men In that order Women will say “but women couldn’t vote before” Big deal, talk to me about now	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/24 07:39 PM
1	Question for the men, who do you think is going to start men advocacy centers and fight on behalf of men? Let me guess, you’re a progressive leftie that thinks believing what you do makes you a smart and good person without actually doing or knowing anything	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/24 07:35 PM
2	When You’re Single, Half The Women You Date Already Got A Man I was told by two different women to start going after taken women. It seems this is expected among those with less than stellar morals.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/24 07:20 PM
2	OECD fakes the Social Institutions & Gender Index to paint women as victims at all cost How about you’re throwing stuff at the wall to see what sticks? I do not tailor MY decisions based upon a hypothetical person that is not me. If we did that and just applied blanket preventative treatments based upon worst case scenarios then you wouldn’t like it at all. There is no argument here. You sound like a Branch Davidian arguing that David really was god. Whenever I hear someone talk like you about this issue it’s alway a cope from a circumcised person, a parent that did it to their son…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/24 07:15 PM
1	The fearmongering about modest women being a bad choice cuz they are bad in the bed is absolutely ridiculous and it denotes massive pick-me and porn rotten behavior Any woman that cares about you and wants to please you will be good The 2 promiscuous women i dated were off putting They had a mental map of every nerve ending in male genitals and all the moves to try and would Rolodex through them until they found the one Too professional and formulaic	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/24 03:13 PM
13	OECD fakes the Social Institutions & Gender Index to paint women as victims at all cost Most of the justifications for male circumcision at birth are very weak and only make sense for people in poor countries where washing your wiener correctly is an actual challenge	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/24 07:57 PM
22	OECD fakes the Social Institutions & Gender Index to paint women as victims at all cost The religious purpose is to limit male pleasure as stated in their books Just say it is wrong to do to little boys without their consent It isn’t hard You won’t melt	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/24 07:55 PM
1	I don’t believe men are primarily valued for how many women they sleep with It’s the opposite arrow of causality Most people don’t admire some thug womanizer But men that are valued (money, looks, status, whatever) tend to have more sexual access	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/24 03:29 PM
1	q4a: is sex a need? I think most men can survive just by masturbation and it’s easier as you get older. I’ve also had sex many times, so that probably makes it easier than if I hadn’t. I’ve been voluntarily celibate for around 5 years. I can’t understand straight men in prison that start hanging sex with other men. I can confidently say that I’d rather go my whole life with no possibility of sex with a woman before doing that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/24 12:59 PM
3	The Guy Tiers in The 80/20 Rule of Single Women Chasing Men When your ego is involved it is hard to stay objective Especially if you struggle with self esteem Let’s say a female 5 gets the eye from a male 9 She doesn’t want to think “he only wants me for easy sex”	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/24 09:15 PM
14	The Guy Tiers in The 80/20 Rule of Single Women Chasing Men This is where women think “really confident men don’t care about your past”. Yeah, that’s because when you were on that date with a “really confident guy” they were sizing you up for something causal and so the more promiscuous you are the better. When the same woman dates a normie for something serious, she is off put by the fact that this guy with a notch count of 5 doesn’t want to get serious with a woman that has had lots of causal sex. People hardly ever explore alternative hypotheses to ex…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/24 09:12 PM
12	Why do men pursue women with traits or lifestyles they don’t approve of once they are in a relationship? Whole thing is busted now An ex flirted with me and we started dating Then she would flirt with other men in front of me and said “You knew I was a flirt when you met me” At some point, a little old fashioned common sense has to kick in But this is restrictive so people don’t like that Cake and eat it too yadda yadda	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/24 08:42 PM
-1	N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD Might just be a virtue signal Almost all men 8 look or above and 30 or older that didn’t marry young have a count over 12	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/24 06:34 PM
4	What role does IQ play in a man's attractiveness? It also makes you funnier. True wit requires it and might be why women like funny men also.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/24 05:55 PM
13	What role does IQ play in a man's attractiveness? It follows a power law that partly explains why roughly 20% do 80% of the useful work within groups. As the speed and efficiency (etc) at which your brain increases it will help you perform any task better given any set of tools. However, it has the further benefit of helping you pick tasks better, pick your tools better, and have a better overall perspective. So it is not linear. For instance, a single person with a 145 IQ could compete against 5 people with 115 IQs in some problem solving chal…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/24 05:53 PM
5	If you are a late bloomer / socially stunted, you may never fully catch up I’ve been voluntarily celibate for 5 years If I start dating again, I might make up a cover story	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/24 06:43 PM
1	If you are a late bloomer / socially stunted, you may never fully catch up Sometimes you catch up but you can still see social situations from an outside perspective For instance, you won’t go to great efforts to have a killer pad and throw parties simply because that makes people like you more Being an outsider for a while, you might be more keen to notice more things and superficialities	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/24 06:42 PM
1	Do we have to pin women down to a science. Cluster b folks are tragic They want connection and such so badly that they tend to ruin it and drive others away They are like someone drowning in a pool that gets on your back to save themselves but start pushing you under, and so you have no choice but to push them off and swim away lest you both drown	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/24 06:39 PM
1	Do you think most people would meet their own standards if they were applied to them? Yep because mine are rather low for women, just don’t have a dealbreaker Like don’t be mean and crazy Don’t be obese etc	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/24 09:34 PM
1	To women, how would you feel if your partner spent a lot of money on his past partners but is relatively frugal with you? I edited it prior to seeing you had replied. I don’t do the internet etiquette that isn’t real. If I wrote something and then think better of it and the person hasn’t replied yet, then I change it. Big deal.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/24 07:44 PM
–	To women, how would you feel if your partner spent a lot of money on his past partners but is relatively frugal with you? Did I say routinely? See you can’t argue honestly even if you try The reason I’m like this is because you folks are tiresome and predictable The reason why I’m sure I’m right and you’re wrong is that it is incredibly obvious I know why you think the way you do and why it is wrong Modern liberals have been sold a bill of goods that distills down to “believe these things and you will be a smart and good person without ever doing anything” and so you all walk around so smug while often making littl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/24 07:09 PM
–	To women, how would you feel if your partner spent a lot of money on his past partners but is relatively frugal with you? One day you might grow self-awareness and be able to say “yeah, fair enough” instead of having to always pretend you are right But I doubt it	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/24 06:49 PM
–	Do we have to pin women down to a science. I suspect a lot of rad fem women are either on the spectrum or have cluster b disorders So they will naturally fight with men on the spectrum that disagree with them A match made in hell	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/24 06:37 PM
5	To women, how would you feel if your partner spent a lot of money on his past partners but is relatively frugal with you? How would you know if she had anal with an ex? Same answer.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/24 06:24 PM
1	CMV: Males aren't hypergamous because of insecurity Why would I not want a woman that is taller than me? Because I’m over 6 foot and women taller than me are either weird looking sticks or if proportional or big boneded then they weigh so much that I can’t move them around the bed during sexy time or save them from a house fire	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/24 06:11 PM
1	To women, how would you feel if your partner spent a lot of money on his past partners but is relatively frugal with you? Not always It can also be frequent and enthusiastic sex with a ex and twice a month starfish with you	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/24 06:09 PM
1	Women are partially responsible for men not believing what women say. The holding of contradictory traits I believe is what makes a guy mysterious and thus interesting	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/24 06:06 PM
1	Men need to stop believing and spreading the idea that having sex with a lot of women is more ideal than just having sex with women you can find through your passions This is dependent upon the male and his views, obviously	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/24 06:04 PM
1	Women mostly judge what you CANNOT change. Men mostly judge what you CAN change. Self owned so bad they deleted their account They actually conceded my point here without realizing it But I’m the pseudo intellectual lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/24 06:02 PM
50	What are some things you envy about the other sex that are NOT commonly talked about? Women are trusted around children	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/24 06:00 PM
1	Women mostly judge what you CANNOT change. Men mostly judge what you CAN change. Yes This is why the “tale of the tape” doesn’t include height or reach stats Oh wait, it does Nevermind	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/24 02:06 PM
1	Women mostly judge what you CANNOT change. Men mostly judge what you CAN change. You folks are so predictable	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/24 12:40 PM
1	Women mostly judge what you CANNOT change. Men mostly judge what you CAN change. Are you unfamiliar with ceteris paribus? I pinned your argument And so you become dishonest Someone uses the basis of the scientific method and logical thought, by prefacing things with all else being equal, and then your type comes up with a fanciful scenario to supposedly poke a hole It’s not deep It’s not smart Yeah, I didn’t mean all 6 foot guys are tougher than all 5 footers I’m surprised you didn’t pull out “well what if the tall guy is in a wheelchair and the short guy has an uzi? What sa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/24 11:45 PM
1	Women mostly judge what you CANNOT change. Men mostly judge what you CAN change. Well All else being equal a 6 foot guy is a better protectors than a 5 foot guy	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/24 08:00 PM
4	Women mostly judge what you CANNOT change. Men mostly judge what you CAN change. If you don’t think most women love being with a man that makes them feel physically safe, then we live in very different areas or cultures	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/24 08:00 PM
1	Women mostly judge what you CANNOT change. Men mostly judge what you CAN change. I’m somewhat tall (6’1”) and once skinny but now wiry (185 lbs, slender but muscled and strong looking). It works.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/24 07:23 PM
1	Women mostly judge what you CANNOT change. Men mostly judge what you CAN change. As a guy that was too skinny for years, this is 100% true. Also, women don’t want to date men that make them feel big or fat.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/24 07:21 PM
1	Women mostly judge what you CANNOT change. Men mostly judge what you CAN change. When want to select good genes for their offspring. So it impresses them more if a guy is a natural versus tried too hard. For instance, don’t show her pics of when you were too skinny prior to working out. Your hardworking won’t impress her as much as she’ll subconsciously not want to have your weak babies.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/24 07:20 PM
1	Q4W: What is a creep? Unattractive men that show interest in them Or Any man but a giga chad that is past a certain age and not married and:or has kids (past like 35, men are supposed to be serving women and children in some way)	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/24 05:13 PM
2	How honest are you with your sexual history, and how honest would you want your partner to be? Good point	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/24 01:29 PM
1	How honest are you with your sexual history, and how honest would you want your partner to be? But you know which one is more common orally and commonly referred to as such So you’ve been just being weird this whole time	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/24 08:30 PM
1	How honest are you with your sexual history, and how honest would you want your partner to be? Omg You knew exactly what I meant and that I was correct, as you now admit, but you went through this whole exercise to prove something based upon me not saying Herpes Simplex 1 and 2	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/24 07:57 PM
5	How honest are you with your sexual history, and how honest would you want your partner to be? What? You think a guy saying he is solidly above average without being “model or Chad tier” is so odd that you have to draw some non sequitur? Also, actress is a broad category which includes character actors etc.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/24 07:42 PM
2	How honest are you with your sexual history, and how honest would you want your partner to be? I think she’d be surprised that half these guys just want an easy lay and would never commit if it came down to it	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/24 07:39 PM
1	How honest are you with your sexual history, and how honest would you want your partner to be? Omg You’re a pain If you get the oral variety on your genitals then the outbreaks are even less common then what is called genital variety on the genitals It’s because of the environment the viruses are adapted to It’s like how pubic lice and head lice are adapted to different hair textures Goodness you are exhausting in your bizarre nitpicking while the other person’s correct points fly over your head	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/24 07:38 PM
1	How honest are you with your sexual history, and how honest would you want your partner to be? No There are 2 different viruses You can get oral on the genitals but it typically lies dormant in most people or they only get 1 or very rare outbreaks	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/24 06:22 PM
4	How honest are you with your sexual history, and how honest would you want your partner to be? You are mistaking hypocrisy and double standard with a diversity of opinion within a diverse group For instance If you have 2 men (an atheist and a holy roller), then the “group” holding different and incongruous views means nothing I don’t blame you, no one is taught sound argumentation now	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/24 06:19 PM
4	How honest are you with your sexual history, and how honest would you want your partner to be? You are purposefully conflating oral vs genital herpes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/24 04:56 PM
5	How honest are you with your sexual history, and how honest would you want your partner to be? Do some men do this? Yes That’s hardly a point. Do I expect to tell a woman this and get no reaction? No because I’m only about a 7 and I’m also not dumb as fuck.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/24 04:56 PM
2	How honest are you with your sexual history, and how honest would you want your partner to be? If you told me, with that backstory “I’ve been tested and don’t have herpes” I wouldn’t believe you And yeah I know all about diseases	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/24 03:29 PM
7	How honest are you with your sexual history, and how honest would you want your partner to be? In the past, the chances that a guy would be okay with this within a LTR were so low as to not be a consideration, unless you targeted guys in the fetlife type community to begin with I’m just imagining what it would still be like for 95% of men to hear this on a first date I would personally run like hell or just have a short term fling or FWB with you while wearing a condom, and I’d still be nervous that you’d give my herpes or HPV	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/24 02:53 PM
1	It doesn't make sense that men complain about promiscuous women but also complain that women's standards are too high You need to understand that a group can’t be hypocritical unless the group adopts an official opinion What you are complaining about is diversity in male thought As a collective, some men judge female promiscuity and some don’t, this isn’t hypocrisy You have to notice the contradiction within a single decision making entity	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/24 02:41 PM
5	How honest are you with your sexual history, and how honest would you want your partner to be? Yeah that’s wild	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/24 02:39 PM
14	How honest are you with your sexual history, and how honest would you want your partner to be? Wow So you tell guys on a first date that you are casually fucking other people at that time What a wild time to be alive	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/24 02:05 PM
2	Women uphold “toxic masculinity” more than men do I have with two exGFs My last GF was submissive and somewhat masochistic, and she kept wanting me to increase intensity I have no idea where her boundary was because I tapped out due to my morals well before approaching her limits	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/24 02:02 PM
1	Men's low standards make women more picky on the apps. Male thirst is real and counted on Women as they age often expect middle aged men to chase them the same, even if they’ve gained weight etc In my mid 40s, I had a fat 50 year old woman call me gay because I didn’t date her after she made her interest known lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/24 07:24 PM
1	"Divorce is better for the kids than their parents not loving each other" actually, I am not sure this is true. If my parents had divorced, then my mother would’ve ended up living in a tent and drinking Schlitz	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/24 07:10 PM
2	Women’s desires from a partner are simply more antagonistic for relationship building than men’s Total spin job to avoid saying anything negative about women and positive about men	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/24 05:15 PM
6	Women uphold “toxic masculinity” more than men do I’m jealous of gay men also My very masculine and straight presenting but gay uncle has had 3 partners, the first 2 died They were all also masculine like him They were just best friends that lived together and I guess banged (lol) and got along great Raised water fowl hunting dogs, went hunting, etc Better than any hetero marriage I’ve known well and in person	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/24 01:03 PM
1	The Overlooked Female Power Fantasies in Media and Dating: A Critique of Feminist Discourse Yeah Lift is a stereotypical frat boy that is always right If you disagreed with him in person, guaranteed he would just keep reiterating the same point while raising his voice and acting aggressive/insulting	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/24 09:17 PM
2	Does the average guy have low standards? I’ve given up mostly because any woman on my level intellectually, psychologically, and financially would want a better guy than me, unless she is butt ugly So woman with her shit together that is ugly or knows she can do better or a cute girl that is a train wreck I dated several women roughly like me but they set the relationship up to where they were way more important and they subtly let me know they could find someone else easily	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/24 07:59 PM
0	There is no excuse to be attracted to shitty women, especially when you berate bad boy chasers. The issue is that borderlines etc often present as unicorns There are so few unicorns, that thinking you’ve found one is actually red flag as there are more that pretend If a woman seems amazing, is super into you, and banging your brains out….you’ve been warned	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/24 07:03 PM
16	Women uphold “toxic masculinity” more than men do This is just the classic Beauty and the Beast thing I was around 25 when a woman explained to me exactly what she wanted/fantasized about in an ideal man Basically, soft heart only she can access but to the rest of the world a huge scary dominant prick I remember thinking “this is dysfunctional as fuck” and “this bitch is either going to die alone or make a man miserable” I had no idea it was common It’s like when my first serious GF wanted us to role play consensual nonconsent I thought “this b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/24 06:41 PM
6	Many women use sex as a reward and most men fall for it. Also, there is a genre of porn with bodybuilder women that have obviously done steroids I recommend any man that wants to get better at oral to watch some of this because when the clit is huge (which steroids cause) you will see how it is like a mini penis and can learn by analogy to yourself (and apply to a normal clit) Anyways, those ‘roided women are horny as fuck and it is genuine	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/24 04:32 PM
2	Resistance and switching roles I don’t even do that anymore. That’s why the other user saying me attaching my ego to playing with computers all day is funny. When I was earning my PhD, and afterwards when I was more active in research for around 10 years, I would use pre-existing data sets to perform statistical analyses and hypothesis tests on human-dominated ecosystems. These analyses were spatial/geographic and would often require extensive pre-processing using algorithms I designed and coded. I would then code simulation …	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/24 02:33 PM
1	Resistance and switching roles Nope don’t even do that anymore Learning to program at a high level was only one part of my previous research (part of which earned a PhD)	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/24 09:42 PM
1	Resistance and switching roles You re right…..most childcare workers are better at it	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/24 09:22 PM
1	Resistance and switching roles lol You’re a bot maybe? Why is that early childhood ed majors vs computer science or other STEM majors show significant differences in SAT and other scores?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/24 09:18 PM
1	Resistance and switching roles This isn’t an argument I’ve never designed a rocket or a spatula But I know which one would be more difficult	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/24 09:14 PM
1	Resistance and switching roles Well your username checks out It is my contention that as the difficulty of a thing increases then how well you can do it or judge by watching goes down This has to be the case Could you learn how to play tic tac toe or chess more easily simply by observation? Which has subtly that would more easily be missed just by observation or even talking to the players? There is a relatively broad and fuzzy threshold that separates these 2 categories….raising a toddler is on one side of it and I’ll let yo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/24 08:57 PM
1	Resistance and switching roles This is like claiming I don’t know what it is really like to build a bird house after watching it done 100s of times Give me a break	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/24 08:26 PM
-1	Resistance and switching roles “Playing with code” I’m not talking about writing a simple webpage or Hello World I’m talking about designing a complex system that requires at minimum 2 SD above mean ability (and that’s just barely enough)…2 SD is roughly Mensa admission level and is partly why really smart people don’t fuck with Mensa You don’t know what you are talking about versus I’ve seen people raise kids plenty You probably think coding is clicking with a mouse with some software that guides you through it and then you …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/24 08:17 PM
0	Resistance and switching roles It depends upon what you do at the desk If you are programming spatial simulation models with 1,000s of lines of code Then the desk job is harder You can’t win here because you are obviously wrong and just throwing stuff at the wall in order to to change your mind	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/24 07:55 PM
1	Resistance and switching roles This is dependent upon the person My aunt was very low IQ, she found learning how to use a cash register difficult (she was in a fire as a toddler and it damaged her brain) You have to try to objectively rank these things	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/24 07:44 PM
1	Resistance and switching roles Difficult meaning stress or time management, which can be said about working at a busy fast food place It is not intellectually or physically difficult compared to many other things	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/24 07:39 PM
7	Resistance and switching roles People also don’t get that how vital your job is as a collective is not the sole determinant of your wage Otherwise, all nurses would be millionaires Longshoreman currently aren’t getting this It’s how many people can do your job in comparison to demand All nurses combined are probably more important as far as sheer quantity of humans saved/made not to suffer than all neurosurgeons combined But only maybe 1 in 200 people or less have the brains to become a neurosurgeon Stay at home parents don’t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/24 07:31 PM
1	8 possible reasons why Women don't approach Men. If a woman is a 6, then she doesn’t approach the men that approach her (7s and down) but she will approach the men that won’t approach her (above 7) Most women are way more average than we like to think, male horniness is basically permanent, mild beer goggles	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/24 07:28 PM
11	8 possible reasons why Women don't approach Men. Only men that look like catalog models get actively approached in a way that has no plausible deniability (these same men have random women say “you’re fucking hot!”) Right below that tier, the women just give strong indicators of interest or they just put themselves near you, like if you go to the bar for a drink they’ll go get a drink and stand next to you I’m probably a 7 and get the second paragraph, a few of my friends that are 8s have gotten the first paragraph in front of me (like women a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/24 07:12 PM
2	Benevolent sexism is more attractive to a lot of women than hostile sexism. Should be a marvel character with back story	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/24 05:34 PM
0	Normalize saying you have a big vagina instead of "size queen" Larger framed women do tend to have larger vaginas But petite women can adapt to a larger penis over time and start preferring that Large objects do temporarily stretch the vagina canal (why sloppy seconds is a thing) but rad fems fight this because they are so afraid that people will believe that them being sluts will literally make them a loose woman Any woman that thinks a woman can take foot long girthy cock everyday for a year and not have stretched vagina muscles to accommodate the larger …	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/24 04:25 PM
3	Benevolent sexism is more attractive to a lot of women than hostile sexism. People take superficial social smoothness as confidence. You could literally have the smartest guy on Earth that knows he can solve all kinds of stuff…but if he isn’t smooth with women then women will say “he’s just not confident like Joe that works at the car wash”.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/24 02:05 PM
5	Benevolent sexism is more attractive to a lot of women than hostile sexism. It’s like skinny Antifa members throwing rocks at corn fed country boys that hunt. It is only occurring because the country boys are better people. They could snuff it out in an instant if they chose.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/24 02:03 PM
3	Benevolent sexism is more attractive to a lot of women than hostile sexism. A central sin is these ideologues have no stopping criteria (aka when will they finally shut up?). They also have the unstated assumption that everything they can connect to their pet issue is due to the pet issue. And their ideology is so flexible that it can explain everything (including diametric opposites) which they take as a strength but it actually makes them conform to Popper’s definition of pseudo-science (unfalsifiable due to being underspecified and that which explains everything expl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/24 01:59 PM
7	Benevolent sexism is more attractive to a lot of women than hostile sexism. Many beautiful women become bitter or confused as they age because suddenly the sunshine being blown up their ass begins to peter out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/24 01:41 PM
4	Benevolent sexism is more attractive to a lot of women than hostile sexism. Women don’t even notice benevolent sexism (people, particularly men, treating them better than they do men) until they begin to age and they start to get less attention and favors. Before that, attractive women sometimes think everyone experiences life as they do. When that changes a little , especially post menopause, then they often become bitter and/or fight hard to appear more youthful. It’s the female version of a mid-life crisis. Except they get fake boobs instead of a Harley. I have heard…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/24 01:40 PM
0	Why is men’s dating advice “you are wrong”, and women’s “he is wrong”? I’m 6 foot 185 lbs with slightly visible abs and a 225 lbs bench (at 48 years old) I also live in a fat rural state All the fat women at work call me skinny or scrawny because I can see my penis What it is is they have no perspective and I make them feel bad about themselves Women here think of fat OR jacked to the gills as the only acceptable male body types and they have no clue about male anatomy and physiology They probably think “go to the gym a few hours a week and then eat a lot and you’l…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/24 03:13 PM
-1	The "Why don't men uplift other men?" argument as a reply to "Why don't women support men?" is a bad faith argument that's counterproductive Why? Why does group A not supporting something germane to Group B doing so? I don’t think that makes sense.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/24 08:55 PM
-1	Women have an advantage over men in the ability to earn by sex work Yeah The straight guys doing straight porn probably aren’t doing it mostly for the money All those steroids and boner pills are probably expensive and hard on your body also	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/24 08:53 PM
1	Women have an advantage over men in the ability to earn by sex work What? Performers in gay porn (even if straight) probably make more Hence my question Why are you so awful and think you know everything including why someone is asking something? I hope you’re just young and that’s why	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/24 04:36 PM
1	Women - do you judge your friends who engage in affairs with married men? When you aren’t in need of companionship from a person, then no need for any devils I give people chances depending on how well I know them or what happened, but I’ve walked on many friendships	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/24 04:31 PM
0	Women have an advantage over men in the ability to earn by sex work Because gay performers get more work They even call it like Pay for gay Or something Perhaps you won’t reflexively jump to bad conclusions, but I hold out little hope	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/24 04:29 PM
2	Bars are one of the only real social spaces left where one can meet women. But they’re problematic for so many reasons. I’ve reported you and I hope you get banned	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/24 02:22 PM
-4	Women have an advantage over men in the ability to earn by sex work Were those gay or straight male performers? I think you’d find that the straight ones rarely do more than 1 scene a week. $500 a week is poverty. I don’t think you know what you’re talking about at all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/24 02:22 PM
-1	Women have an advantage over men in the ability to earn by sex work How many days do they work a year at each wage? Sure, they make more per hour.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/24 01:49 PM
-1	Women have an advantage over men in the ability to earn by sex work And you know this how? The men on average make way less, probably less than a full time Walmart worker that has been there for years	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/24 01:41 PM
2	Bars are one of the only real social spaces left where one can meet women. But they’re problematic for so many reasons. You’re a troll and should be banned	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/24 01:38 PM
2	Bars are one of the only real social spaces left where one can meet women. But they’re problematic for so many reasons. Um I guess you have special balls I can be right up to the point of orgasm and stop and it just goes back to normal in 10 minutes or wherever	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/24 12:42 PM
1	Women - do you judge your friends who engage in affairs with married men? Yep Every time I’ve kept trusting a person that has proven themselves untrustworthy with others, eventually something bad happened It speaks to the extreme impracticality of the extreme liberal mindset that most posters jumped over that and went straight to some philosophy of blame or some such	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/24 12:40 PM
2	Women - do you judge your friends who engage in affairs with married men? I didn’t advocate cutting contact But if you look at them the same and view them as good or trustworthy, then you’re a damn fool I’m an atheist, by the way	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/24 10:37 PM
2	Bars are one of the only real social spaces left where one can meet women. But they’re problematic for so many reasons. What? Blue balls isn’t a thing my dude.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/24 10:01 PM
5	Women - do you judge your friends who engage in affairs with married men? It means you probably can’t trust the bitch	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/24 07:23 PM
1	Women - do you judge your friends who engage in affairs with married men? It’s not puritanical Just because you can call it a word doesn’t mean anything	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/24 07:21 PM
6	Women - do you judge your friends who engage in affairs with married men? Gee Morals by technicality! We all know this is BS, well at least people with a moral compass. This is like not helping a lost person by smugly announcing “not my responsibility!” I know this feels deep to you, what you wrote, but it’s not	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/24 07:20 PM
1	As far as dress sense and outfits go, what is your favourite type of clothes on your man or on men in general? Oh So super assless, I see	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/24 07:17 PM
3	Bars are one of the only real social spaces left where one can meet women. But they’re problematic for so many reasons. I’m generally anti modern feminist But that is rape If you’re going to town and the woman says stop for any reason Then you stop I can’t imagine any reason to keep going or what that would look like (well I know what it would look like) You do know sex isn’t like skydiving where once you jump you can’t just stop and get back in the plane? That isn’t a gray area like “if we’re both drunk and willing then that still makes the guy a rapist”	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/24 07:13 PM
22	“Watch what they do, not what they say” is just a tactic to paint women in a negative light. What would you suggest if someone says one thing but does another? What if a guy had a mismatch between words and behavior?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/24 07:06 PM
3	As far as dress sense and outfits go, what is your favourite type of clothes on your man or on men in general? By definition, all chaps are assless I like to think of visors as chaps for the head	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/24 06:45 PM
1	Women - do you judge your friends who engage in affairs with married men? Dude here But I had a friend that was okay to me but was a horn dog that would try to sleep with taken women Just hypersexual Well, we got drunk on 2 occasions and twice he tried to get me to give him oral (and I’m very straight and straight presenting) After the first time, he made a weird excuse like he was joking Second time, I cut him off I’m not homophobic but it was too bizarre Moral of the story: there is no such thing as a dirt bag that won’t eventually be a dirt bag to you also	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/24 06:30 PM
11	If you're not making $100k or more looks don't matter as much as you think. Now it makes sense She wanted you to make more than her, which is pretty standard like how women want you to be taller and stronger and an added kicker if smarter too Basically, to make a woman happy we have to date one we exceed in about every way and then pretend like we are equal	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/24 12:34 PM
2	Most Women Use Dating Apps Like Men Wish They Could I’m happy and at peace I just don’t like most people and don’t want to date right now I’m happy in my smaller social group doing my own thing and hobbies	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/24 11:48 PM
–	Most Women Use Dating Apps Like Men Wish They Could This is somewhat normal I wish I wasn’t so jaded because now I just see interacting with women in this way as stress and I’m just waiting for them to start treating me poorly What you’re talking about isn’t online attention farming and is wholesome	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/24 11:12 PM
1	Prostitution should be legalized I had an exGF cut me off as a manipulation yet still wanted cuddles at night in her panties and tank top with no bra. After a few weeks, I just left her for several reasons. But her doing that to me was incredibly cruel. I literally felt like I was losing my mind, and by that point I’d had over 10 sexual partners, several LTRs, and had had sex 100s or 1,000s of times. Women think they understand men, but they don’t and them talking and not listening doesn’t help.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/24 07:26 PM
8	Most Women Use Dating Apps Like Men Wish They Could Just everything with you is a supposed mic drop that calls men out and favors women. You know damn well women aren’t attention farming simply because they are more social.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/24 07:22 PM
9	Most Women Use Dating Apps Like Men Wish They Could Yeah If women like being social in a sexual context (that isn’t going anywhere)more than men then that’s probably something worth knowing and indicates a difference.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/24 05:40 PM
23	Most Women Use Dating Apps Like Men Wish They Could You spin everything to let women off the hook to the point of often saying things that don’t make sense.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/24 05:26 PM
2	Most Women Use Dating Apps Like Men Wish They Could It depends upon the location and pic. I live in a rural state and have some hunting pics that I haven’t used (not on OLD) that would attract women here. It’s because I’m with monster bucks with a bow and in a tight base layer top. I look like a somewhat sexy savage that is good at stalking the mountains to bring my lady her protein. Of course, smug liberal urban elite women would shun this despite their personal humidity levels.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/24 05:00 PM
2	Most Women Use Dating Apps Like Men Wish They Could I used match dot com back when it was expensive and shameful. I was a poor grad student that wouldn’t even list my income and didn’t know how to take a good picture or present myself, but I still had decent success.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/24 04:55 PM
46	Most Women Use Dating Apps Like Men Wish They Could Women enjoy sexual attention and banter and flirting way more than most men enjoy getting it. I do not enjoy sexual tension with female friends but women on average are different here. It’s partly why many women keep around male friends that like them sexually. Online dating for many women is like a free phone game that raises their self esteem and occasionally makes them tingle between their legs. Men see it totally different and can’t relate to this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/24 04:53 PM
23	Most Women Use Dating Apps Like Men Wish They Could Hence women getting the “ick” over everything imaginable	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/24 04:50 PM
12	Most Women Use Dating Apps Like Men Wish They Could Hoemath is way smarter and more subtle than you give him credit for here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/24 04:50 PM
1	Women hate sluts more than men do Yeah My point is that this extreme accountability crap Is dumb I have a friend into it and no matter what happens he strains to see how the person caused the thing to happen to them It’s just tired and pseudo deep	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/24 03:06 PM
2	Rejecting anyone for any reason is fine, the end, dating is inherently selfish, discriminatory and judgemental. Agreed. Also women think any man rejecting a woman for promiscuity is a hypocrite. This just shows that they don’t understand how hypocrisy works.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/24 09:19 PM
2	Prostitution should be legalized You’re not a man, that’s why. Men get so horny that it causes physical pain and mental issues.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/24 08:35 PM
1	Prostitution should be legalized By that logic, I’m not a willing participate in my 9 to 5 job because I wouldn’t go if I weren’t paid:	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/24 08:12 PM
–	Prostitution should be legalized Did I say 100% or just say that many men could be helped by experiencing a normal thing (sex)? You should be ashamed by the way you argue.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/24 08:09 PM
–	Prostitution should be legalized I’m thinking abstractly Something your ilk can’t do	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/24 06:19 PM
9	The best thing any man can do is to stop chasing women. This is probably why hospitals are known for so much infidelity I dated a registered nurse and have known quite a few, many talk about nurses cheating on husbands with co-workers or doctors as if discussing the weather I’d never date a nurse or a woman that works in a hospital again	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/24 02:31 PM
1	Prostitution should be legalized I knew some woman would come along with this tripe. “Oh so women should sacrifice their bodies to losers to keep us safe?!?” I said no such thing as you’re implying. In Japan, for instance, there are escorts that of their own free will cater to physically disabled men. Would you be so overwrought regarding that? There’s literally nothing a man (that isn’t a soy boy ally) can say that won’t make women like you mad and overreact and twist things, so long as I’m not saying exactly what you believe	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/24 02:29 PM
1	Prostitution should be legalized In my scenario (having had sex with multiple willing women) then yes somewhat. In the situation these guys are in, I think it would be a pressure release valve. If using an escort always made men feel as you think, then they wouldn’t do it and it wouldn’t be a thing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/24 02:24 PM
1	Prostitution should be legalized This is one area where a lot of rad fems and conservative Christians agree In fact, I can’t think of another area….oh except the idea that women should be entitled to the production of men…the means by which they want to achieve just differs (cons think via male devotion to a family and rad fems through affirmative action and whatever taxes and social programs they can dream up)	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/24 02:10 AM
5	Prostitution should be legalized Yep because you have to have a good or service before you can trade it for sex So if a cave dude traded a fur for some….cave girl fur….:then the fur trapper would precede the hooker	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/24 02:07 AM
1	Prostitution should be legalized Almost all massive shooters are below 30 and seemingly kissless virgins I believe that if they could go get affection and touch from a legal escort that they might not lose their minds as badly Being disliked by your peers and all women can take a fragile person and push them over the edge	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/24 02:04 AM
3	What is flirting to you? Very good run down Thanks	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/24 06:29 PM
1	If men could get pregnant abortion would be outlawed Exactly	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/24 03:54 PM
2	If men could get pregnant abortion would be outlawed This is obviously incomplete otherwise there would be no men paying child support for kids they have nothing to do with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/24 03:00 PM
1	If men could get pregnant abortion would be outlawed A single mom can give up a child and walk A man that impregnates a single mom cannot How can you not see this?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/24 10:39 PM
-1	Would you stay in a relationship if you were not the best sex of your partner's life? Did I say “every”?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/24 09:38 PM
8	The Reason Most People Don’t Enjoy Dating Is Women’s Unmanaged Expectations, and Top Men Who Exploit It You’re missing something You’re an ex frat guy that works out You enjoy meeting new people because they probably mostly treat you well and don’t try to play stupid dominance games on you Unless you are one of the elect, people are pretty shit and not fun to be around a lot of the time	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/24 08:48 PM
0	If men could get pregnant abortion would be outlawed That’s not a point A mother can have sex or not Use protection or not Just like a guy But she also has plan b, abortion, and adoption The man does not and has no say in those decisions but is financially beholden to her decisions If she doesn’t want to pay for a kid etc, she can give it up right now at any point and be done The man cannot It is amazing that people can’t get this very basic point It’s that you are an ideologue around this point and so by definition you cannot think clearly regard…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/24 08:40 PM
1	If men could get pregnant abortion would be outlawed Don’t even try to argue with these women that worked hard to get As and Bs in a crappy small public school and that makes them feel smart	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/24 04:06 PM
2	If men could get pregnant abortion would be outlawed And women with their eggs	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/24 03:41 PM
3	If men could get pregnant abortion would be outlawed Women can legally abort or give up the child The male is financial slave to this decision which he does not necessarily get to be a part of making So yeah people don’t give a shit about men	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/24 03:16 PM
5	A root cause of the issues in dating today is that dating advice is not balanced for pro-social men You just hit upon an issue People seem to jump right to full sex I graduated high school in 1994 and started dating and having sex in college Back then, most women would make you wait a bit even if they really liked you Modern young men or incels or PUAs probably don’t know this What we did though is slowly escalate My first serious GF we were buck naked in bed getting each other off manually for months before we did the deed So if you don’t have sex on the third date or whatever you should at l…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/24 02:39 PM
2	Normal men don't care about women who are attracted to terrible people. Liking bad boys and being seen with decent men are not mutually exclusive That’s not a complete argument, but it’s just so easy to poke holes in your approach	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/24 01:22 PM
2	Normal men don't care about women who are attracted to terrible people. Why don’t you understand “common” doesn’t mean “every woman I’ve ever met or heard of”?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/24 01:07 PM
2	Normal men don't care about women who are attracted to terrible people. Did I say that? Why in the heck are people that can’t debate their way out of a wet paper sack on a debate forum?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/24 12:50 PM
1	Would you stay in a relationship if you were not the best sex of your partner's life? It has a few effects One is that moderately fat women think they are hotties (so long as they have a waist that is smaller than boobs/hips/butt) And if a woman is actually in shape her ego is so inflated and she has so many men that it’s just dumb I look around and see a bunch of brain stems attached to and operating jelly sacks	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/24 12:19 PM
-7	Would you stay in a relationship if you were not the best sex of your partner's life? I’ve dated a few women that genuinely couldn’t keep their hands off me It was great It sets a high bar I’m older now (late 40s) and the chance of one of the obese sea hags common for my age being like this seems slim	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/24 12:13 PM
1	There’s nothing wrong with high standards. Yeah This is all non controversial common sense The only people that would disagree would be some sort of crazy person	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/24 12:10 PM
1	Normal men don't care about women who are attracted to terrible people. Numbers are similar most likely but women are more allowed to be dysfunctional because they are not held as accountable as men and also women avoid accountability. It’s in little things too. Like how they don’t want to suggest a restaurant for a group. I told a female friend once “you want me to choose so that if it’s bad it won’t be your fault.” She was shocked then thought and then said “well yeah” as if that’s common sense. Women have an entire industry of people blowing smoke up their ass in…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/24 12:06 PM
1	Normal men don't care about women who are attracted to terrible people. It’s just annoying. And many many women like cocky bad boys that are often mentally ill or just so overly dominant that other more chill men hate them. It’s annoying that this is so common and yet women either lie or blow some sort of smoke about it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/24 12:03 PM
3	Lie that won't die: No, women do not serve longer prison sentences after killing abusers. Men are discriminated against in sentencing. What? It has been well known for years that attractive people and women get off easier. Someone has been lying and stating the converse?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/24 12:01 PM
8	The best thing any man can do is to stop chasing women. I’m at the hospital with my mom this morning (outpatient surgery). I’ve already been eye fucked by multiple nurses. However I do nothing about it and so nothing happens. I’ve been voluntarily celibate for years.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/24 11:55 AM
7	The best thing any man can do is to stop chasing women. I take utter pleasure in ignoring the attention of women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/24 11:54 AM
1	The expectation for men to be completely self-actualized before even entering the dating market is absolutely ridiculous. Human emotional responses are so often strategic from an evolutionary perspective. But if we know this then it makes it less effective. So simultaneously, our mind feeds us BS reasons and rationalizations. Most people aren’t willing to realize this about themselves and others because they are so deflated by not feeling spiritually and cosmically “special”. For instance, folks can go to the zoo and see great apes and think they are fascinating and so cool. Then tell them “humans are classified as…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/24 11:42 AM
3	Women hate sluts more than men do You probably haven’t watched much porn But there is a reason why the men speak to the women the way they do That’s because that’s the way promiscuous men think when they sleep with promiscuous women Tell them “you like it when I use your body, don’t you?” No man wants to know there wife was the kind of person that would let a frat house run a train on her while they laugh and slap high fives outside the door It isn’t nice Men that do this aren’t nice But it is what it is And I’ve been around eno…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/24 09:43 PM
0	Men aren't attracted to their aging partners Age, scars, and tattoos can make people look more rugged Which is masculinizing A guy with a big scar on his face looks “hard to kill” or some shit This is in part why men age better on average and don’t look as weird if they are heavily tatted	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/24 05:22 PM
–	Women are not attracted to being treated badly. They are treated badly by men they are attracted to. Treating them badly as a low value man is not effective This reasoning of “if I treat women badly they’ll like me because I saw a Chad do it” Is matched with why so many women now are taking on sassy rude boss babe as a personality type They see a famous woman act like shit They think “hey if I’m an entitled bitch then I’ll be like that too” It’s so dumb and just underlines for me that so many are dumb AF	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/24 04:56 PM
–	Women are not attracted to being treated badly. They are treated badly by men they are attracted to. Treating them badly as a low value man is not effective And has an 8” penis that is made of chocolate and ejaculates money	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/24 04:53 PM
–	Women are not attracted to being treated badly. They are treated badly by men they are attracted to. Treating them badly as a low value man is not effective As a transparent virtue signal but also because the truth doesn’t sound nice when said explicitly and out loud	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/24 04:52 PM
0	Women hate sluts more than men do No I used a clear example of jumping past any reasonable threshold I did not imply that 100 at 30 was the threshold or that there was a clear one That is why I used the term “for instance” Listen, I have a background and ability set that I don’t mention online because people would call me a liar I have been formally trained in analysis at institutions that you could never get into You are overestimating yourself so badly here that it is annoying	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/24 04:50 PM
4	Women hate sluts more than men do This is why men don’t want to marry a slut or have a daughter be one They might not have done it But they know very well how many men view and treat sluts and the thoughts the men have while having sex with one They often view them as free hookers and the thought process is one of Look what this slut is willing to do with a man she hardly knows and/or doesn’t really care about her…but more graphic Men that sleep with promiscuous women, when young, will discuss this somewhat	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/24 02:26 PM
6	Women hate sluts more than men do Yep That’s why when I start a business I plan on hiring nothing but exCons	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/24 02:21 PM
0	Women hate sluts more than men do They aren’t implying anything You’re arguing by using a logical fallacy called Argument from adverse consequence And you’re not even doing a good job of it and you’re likely mixing in some other fallacies	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/24 02:21 PM
1	Women hate sluts more than men do Listen You’re one of these mildly above average people that thinks they are brilliant Or you’re actually noticeably smart and you’re either on the spectrum or super young or super liberal But you’re annoying AF	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/24 02:18 PM
1	Women hate sluts more than men do Yeah because you can’t turn everything into an Fing math equation	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/24 02:17 PM
2	Women hate sluts more than men do There’s no hard line To insist on one is to use the continuum fallacy Just because I can’t tell you exact follicle density at which a man should be classed as bald doesn’t mean bald men do not exist As such, I don’t consider a woman an obvious slut until she reaches any reasonable definition of the word For instance, if she is 30 years old and has willingly banged 100 men, she’s a slut if that word exists and has meaning	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/24 02:16 PM
7	Women hate sluts more than men do Yeah But this is Dr Phil pop psychology Where every relationship issue is 50/50 because 2 people are involved And the common denominator in all your past relationships was you Etc It’s just lazy platitudes instead of thought	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/24 02:13 PM
15	Q4M: Do males actually hate sluts? He didn’t say there are no fugly ones	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/10/24 07:26 PM
0	CMV: Gynocentricism was created by and exists mainly because of religious/conservative men You get my point though You re correct of course But I wanted to highlight the reproductive bottleneck with an extreme example	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/10/24 04:33 PM
–	do your friends admit to you that they don't find their husbands physically attractive? Does this make it not happen or just a dumb decision? Do you not see people make dumb decisions all day? I’ll never understand that line of reasoning It’s like saying People don’t shop lift, I mean why would you go to jail over a $10 item, it makes no sense!	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/10/24 11:04 AM
–	do your friends admit to you that they don't find their husbands physically attractive? BS They often marry when only somewhat attracted Then the ravages of time, familiarity breeding contempt, and the newness being gone puts the nail in the coffin This is pretty common When you folks have these unsupported takes (which admittedly mine is as well as in no data) that seem to be both sunnily naive and not matching reality I just think you’re a young idealist that doesn’t want the world to be like it is and you fight it in your mind	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/10/24 11:01 AM
–	do your friends admit to you that they don't find their husbands physically attractive? Yep Attraction is not self reflective If a guy starts at 180 lbs and gains a 1 lbs a week There isn’t some magical threshold at 300 lbs or something where he looks around and thinks “Ya know, morbidly obese women were hot as hell all along, what a fool I have been!”	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/10/24 11:00 AM
-2	CMV: Gynocentricism was created by and exists mainly because of religious/conservative men Gynocentrism exists because a tribe of 100 women and 1 man can survive and grow 100 men and 1 woman would be awful for everyone and you’d be wiped out It isn’t super complicated Women are the reproductive limiting factor Most men are more disposable It’s always been this way We dress it up though and people deny it because it sounds bad It also explains why young men do dumb shit and get themselves killed	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/24 10:30 PM
1	Most men are what Esther Vilar called 'The Manipulated Man'. There was a good YouTube video called something like The plow horse and the princess	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/24 06:25 PM
11	Attractive men don't have better skills when talking to women, they often never had to develop them It’s amazing that once you stop being self conscious that your social skills improve It’s just a paradox Worry about making a fool of yourself and you soon might	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/24 06:25 PM
–	Would you trade places with women in the dating game? Women make the first move often by indicating interest in a way that has plausible deniability	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/24 01:22 AM
8	CMV: Sex Robots should be banned You can’t be nice to some people	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/24 05:59 PM
1	LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD Most “satanists” are just edgy atheists that want to shock conservatives The ones that actually believe in satan and want to worship him are crazy people	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/24 05:59 PM
3	LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD 100% women do not want to date a man that makes them feel big and fat	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/24 05:39 PM
1	LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD Still way better to be totally bald than a weird comb over or hair on sides bald on top etc or the worst a “hair system” I have a full head of hair at 48 but if I didn’t I’d shave that crap off and keep rocking my trimmed facial hair	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/24 05:38 PM
1	CMV: Sex Robots should be banned The real question here is: what should be done (if anything) regarding the sex bots that are small and could be construed as simulating a very illegal and immoral behavior? OP’s original take is so laughably stupid as to not even be interesting to ponder. So I’ve inserted something that might actually be debate worthy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/24 03:55 PM
7	CMV: Sex Robots should be banned People like you (drastically overestimate themselves) get on my nerves and I like deflating your ego	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/24 03:48 PM
1	A man expecting women to accept them when they are young and broke is like expecting men to accept a women when she fat The idea young men often have is: we both don’t have shit so let’s build a life together and get some shit. Of course, in the ruthless calculus of the craps table, it is advantageous for women to go after a guy that already has shit. That’s why young men from rich families don’t have much trouble dating so long as there isn’t something repulsive about them. It’s also while some form of sugar baby or gold digger dynamic has been known for 1,000s of years but just called something different. Here’…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/24 03:45 PM
1	Why are there such different responses from telling men to have realistic standards vs women? I’ve wanted to write something here on the following, which I think explains a lot, but I don’t want to bother crafting a post perfectly that follows all of the stupid rules. Here goes in brief: Attraction is not self-reflective You can’t get a little pregnant Women are being guided by their lizard brain and their conditioning/nurture might modify it but doesn’t create their attraction cues The female lizard brain is always making probability calculations that change over time as more informatio…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/24 03:36 PM
9	CMV: Sex Robots should be banned So you’re okay with full sized dolls, so long as they are poorly done and in the uncanny valley/creepy? I bet if it were lonely cat women riding Ken dolls with vibrating pricks….you wouldn’t care at all. Frankly, if you are serious, then your opinion is ridiculous on its face. And you should not have such confidence and should go rethink your life approach and philosophy. If you can’t see how easily your views are defeated here, then that says a lot.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/24 03:21 PM
8	CMV: Sex Robots should be banned Where is your threshold? What about dildos and vibrators? Fleshlights? Those weird torsos with no legs or upper body but with a vagina? What about the old full sized blow up dolls that are creepy and most men wouldn’t want? It seems your threshold is “I can imagine an average male might actually enjoy it once in a while” Is this for you something like “I can’t easily prove logically from the ground up that Mozart is a better musician than Bieber but it should be obvious to most humans?” I get th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/24 01:48 PM
1	We all need to realize that nice =\= good, The apparent “nice guy” that isn’t a good person has been a trope in fiction for hundreds of years If someone doesn’t get it, then they have an issue If they are a not good person that acts nice, then they are mentally ill or damaged This is obvious to anyone over 35 with an IQ over 115 that isn’t mentally ill This is right up there with realizing that being cocky and arrogant doesn’t mean you have authentic self-confidence (which oddly too many women don’t get…but the ones that don’t are usuall…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/24 01:45 PM
0	q4a how much of sex is acting for you? Almost all human interactions involve a bit of a facade or mild manipulation Young people often rail against this because they are still in their young adult idealistic phase where they are not yet wise or self-reflective and still have this dream that their life can be perfect (and think they are right and older people for some reason are all dumb) This isn’t helped by spiritual texts that are basically bullshit and lie about these perfect or enlightened people (which don’t exist) Am I 100% my …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/24 01:40 PM
–	Men's lust clouds their judgement and makes them see women as evil In modern day America, I’ve literally never heard a man blame women for his sexual misconduct and be taken seriously by many men. The only men here that would agree with “that woman dressed sexy so it’s okay I was harassing towards her” are obvious trolls or people that are so far gone that they are obviously irrational or mentally ill	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/24 01:34 PM
–	There is a lack of empathy and understanding that generally comes from attractive men and women when it comes to men’s frustration with dating. If women were played the track in men’s minds while a man that doesn’t care about them has sex with them, it would put them off casual sex And this is largely why men want their daughters to not be promiscuous and want their wives to have not been promiscuous Only really kinky women would get into it Basically, the men are getting off on using your body like a slut	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/24 10:46 PM
–	There is a lack of empathy and understanding that generally comes from attractive men and women when it comes to men’s frustration with dating. Young kids don’t know about dvd drives	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/24 10:43 PM
–	There is a lack of empathy and understanding that generally comes from attractive men and women when it comes to men’s frustration with dating. There’s a general lack of empathy from many humans Because we are apes and only the one raised correctly or genetically lucky (highly intelligent, etc so that they can understand and transcend their animalistic nature to some degree) aren’t absolute trash	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/24 10:41 PM
–	Women don’t put more effort into their appearance Fun fact The group with the largest average bicep size is 30 to 39 year old women Because fat women tend to get “fat-ceps of peace” for some reason Look at them guns!	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/24 05:00 PM
5	It seems like males slow to commit AND slow to break up Not anymore it seems So many people here say it is normal for people to have multiple ongoing sex partners while looking for the one and then once you are maybe sure then you wait to become exclusive for a bit So you’re supposedly developing feelings for this woman while knowing she’s having sex regularly with one or more other guys Shits gross That wasn’t normal in most American subcultures until like a minute ago If I have to have sloppy seconds to find an LTR Then I’ll just beat off the rest …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/24 04:50 PM
3	It seems like males slow to commit AND slow to break up If I really like a girl, I don’t want her banging other guys So I’ve always wanted to be exclusive with women I like pretty fast	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/24 03:52 PM
1	It seems like males slow to commit AND slow to break up Depends on the guy I’ve left every woman I’ve dated and in all cases but one we were still having sex regularly Most women suck at sex and in only 1 of 7 LTRs was the sex still interesting after 6 months	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/24 03:47 PM
4	Women require men to be judgemental about how women are dressed. Why do women do so much subtle and complex communication with the sexual parts of their body? Why express yourself via camel toe when you could learn to play the guitar? What you wrote is pure cope. You have a complex rationalization for what is obvious.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/24 03:04 PM
3	Women require men to be judgemental about how women are dressed. And we know women don’t dress sexually because it’s comfortable That’s a big a lie as the obese woman that always only eats half her meal and gets a doggie bag Or they say they dress slutty to feel confident Yeah you feel confident because men are looking at you and being extra nice because they want to bang you The number of women that deny this is hilarious Do gay men in leather thongs at pride parades tell such facing fibs? “Yeah my balls and taint are exposed because it’s hot out and your bo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/24 02:57 PM
2	There is more to personality than being nice You’re right that this is human nature for basic people that run off their hindbrain most of the time Some of us don’t lose respect for people etc	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/24 02:46 PM
-2	Women's "pickiness" really isn't that deep as it pretends to be Yeah and you haven’t talked to everyone so you don’t know what a random man would do Duh	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/24 02:37 PM
13	Women's "pickiness" really isn't that deep as it pretends to be You don’t know what they would do	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/24 01:51 PM
1	Trauma-Bonding is the most effective means of keeping a women's emotional investment in you News at 11: women with borderline personality disorder and no self esteem are easy to sexually exploit	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/24 04:40 PM
32	Approaching women in a limited pool of your social circle poisons this pool for you Yep Nobody wants to be the guy that tries to bang or date every single woman within a friend group I’d say you get one shot per year or so	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/24 04:38 PM
4	A case study into AITA’s gender bias (favouring women) and how it aligns with TBP Sure It’s just less likely all else being equal	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/24 04:37 PM
9	A case study into AITA’s gender bias (favouring women) and how it aligns with TBP Do you live in some crap hole or somewhere like Saudi Arabia and you’re surprised men act like animals towards women?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/24 03:34 PM
12	A case study into AITA’s gender bias (favouring women) and how it aligns with TBP If you think men on average aren’t more likely to side with women then you don’t live in the US or aren’t seeing things clearly	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/24 03:17 PM
17	A case study into AITA’s gender bias (favouring women) and how it aligns with TBP Questioning yourself and calling yourself on your own BS is kind of a super power nowadays It’s the equivalent of adding 10 or 15 IQ points	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/24 03:06 PM
17	A case study into AITA’s gender bias (favouring women) and how it aligns with TBP Studies show men are biased in favor of women You live in a delusion where the worst of men or the crappy men you’ve been around your idea of men	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/24 03:04 PM
7	Women ask men to improve emotionally, yet their dating preferences often incentivize men to focus on material success and physical appearance Women lie about it a lot I remember my shock in my 20s when some women started telling the truth around me Also, several very normal women have told me that if the guys were all hot and no one would know that they would be an escort	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/24 01:29 PM
1	Women ask men to improve emotionally, yet their dating preferences often incentivize men to focus on material success and physical appearance I had match.com account back when it was shameful and like $30/month I’m taller than average with about a 6.5 face and back then I didn’t work out and was a bit too skinny I still banged like 10 women off there, if I messaged women 1 hour per day then I got a new sex partner once per month on average I haven’t messed with modern dating apps	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/24 01:25 PM
11	A case study into AITA’s gender bias (favouring women) and how it aligns with TBP You don’t think people should care that women are massively biased towards other women?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/24 01:19 PM
–	A case study into AITA’s gender bias (favouring women) and how it aligns with TBP This same experiment has been done by social scientists The results show that women are MASSIVELY biased towards other women and that men are somewhat biased towards women Men have a negative ingroup bias while women have a large ingroup bias You’d think that women here, if they know this, would stop and question themselves as in “is this actually rational or am I just reflexively siding with women?” But alas I expect too much Accounting for your own weakness and mental blind spots is kinda nece…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/24 01:18 PM
1	For Every 16 IQ Points Above 100, a Woman Is 40% Less Likely to Get Married “The studies” sounds like autistic copium	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/24 07:59 PM
32	Isn't it weird that it is normalized to berate and hate on men? Reminds me of how if you make a woman upset in public then men will pile on without even knowing the situation I’ve seen men tell women perfectly valid things that upset the woman and then the husband comes with “you upset my wife” Yeah maybe she deserves it	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/24 06:31 PM
3	N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD lol Ohh you got me	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/24 05:36 PM
2	Women are poor communicators Women communicate with each other in this subtle way their whole lives and then wonder why men don’t get the secret girl codes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/24 04:27 PM
1	Question for men. If you could fix men's biggest issues Americans will do those jobs Just not at the wages that are offered with those wages being offered precisely because the companies know there are illegal immigrants that will take the offer “Well no American will pick cotton for minimum wage” Yeah and that’s all you’re offering because you know the Juan that has been here 5 minutes will take the offer That’s partly why elites like this Flooding the labor market while increasing demand for goods and services If you don’t care about your country t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/24 03:53 PM
5	N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD I know that you’ve had your brains literally banged out but I’ll write this slow Hypocrisy and a double standard are individual behaviors You can’t look at a group of men and notice some like hoes and some don’t And then lump them all into team MEN and declare the collective to be hypocritical In your defense, this ridiculous logic has been used so much that it probably makes sense to you just via repetition Edit: hypocrisy can also be a group behavior if the hypocritical beliefs or actions are …	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/24 03:06 PM
–	There is nothing wrong with not being selected by women I just don’t want to jump through all the hoops required to be considered by a decent woman. I’ve already maxed out education and make a decent living. I have hobbies and friends. But I’m not going to make my condo attractive as a female nest. I’m not going to change how I dress or do things. I’d rather be single and crank it to the hub a few times a week than to expend extra energy to compete for an emotional creature that, unless I’m lucky and score big via competition, will just lower my qual…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/24 02:29 PM
0	Question for men. If you could fix men's biggest issues How about not laughing when men in jail for nonviolent crimes are raped? Can’t help but notice that anti sexual violence groups don’t say anything about the most common rape victims….men in prison	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/24 02:20 PM
1	Question for men. If you could fix men's biggest issues I live in a particularly fat state Women with discernible hips and boobs (can tell they are female from 100 yards, aren’t just series of bumps) think they are hot shit They strut around bars and if you don’t feel blessed by their attention then they think you must be gay These are women that are the size of extra plus models, but because they have big boobs, butt, and their waist is at least 1” smaller than boobs/butt…then they are a hot item	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/24 02:17 PM
0	Question for men. If you could fix men's biggest issues Disagree Most pressing issue is the tide of unvetted illegal immigrants flooding our borders and the half the country doesn’t know because liberal news sources ignore and lie about it	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/24 01:55 PM
1	For Every 16 IQ Points Above 100, a Woman Is 40% Less Likely to Get Married Isn’t the high IQ and autism thing mostly a movie and TV trope to help average people cope with the reality that folks with very high IQs are better at pretty much everything (ceteris paribus)?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/24 01:22 PM
0	Feminists talk about a glass ceiling preventing women from being President. I think that's BS Yep Universities are the most liberal place in the US If women think they aren’t being hired there enough (I guess just based on faculty demographics with the desire they be 50/50 or more in everything) then it just shows they are delusional Women can be the majority faculty in a humanity, but the only thing they’ll look at is how the physics staff is mostly men Earth to women….more men go into physics and the majority of people really good at math and that type of thinking are men You can point…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/24 11:59 AM
1	societal norms against fornication foster egalitarianism. It’s because they worship their emotions They don’t realize that the reason most mammals have obvious emotions analogous to our basic emotions is that emotional response is how your brain guides behavior Sad and ironic that they think logic is somehow less evolved than that which you share with your dog	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/24 09:15 PM
–	societal norms against fornication foster egalitarianism. There’s a reason most advanced civilizations developed this social technology that was then enforced by religion Just look at the societies that did not for comparison The laughable irony is that people think throwing off that which made us and following your emotions (aka genetic instincts) is progress snd enlightenment Liberal hippies actually think that leaning into your proclivity to shag random people (because it feels right to them) is some mark of them being deep or something It’s sad and…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/24 02:50 PM
-1	Feminists talk about a glass ceiling preventing women from being President. I think that's BS They also think that they are discriminated against in STEM While a grad student, I was on a faculty search committee They very explicitly moved females higher in the stack because they wanted “diversity” This was over 15 years ago They came out and said it “oh here’s a woman” or “oh here’s a nonwhite male” and everyone nodded like “yeah…diversity!” Shit should be illegal	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/24 01:57 PM
1	Women's dating advice comes from a place of ignorant privilege First, you’re wrong philosophically and you can’t justify it…no debate…:people smarter than you have weighed in for a few 1,000 years Lastly, you have to tack on extra crap regarding sympathy (that I don’t mention) in order to try to really justify things PS And you’d rather say outlandish things in the hopes of appearing correct than to actually self-improve	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/24 01:28 PM
–	Women's dating advice comes from a place of ignorant privilege That doesn’t answer my question Do you think that truth is only worthwhile if you can point to an immediate tangible benefit?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/24 01:20 PM
3	For Every 16 IQ Points Above 100, a Woman Is 40% Less Likely to Get Married Pretty, smart, sane Pick 2 I’ve dated several pretty women that were very smart, with advanced degrees, and their levels of entitlement because of this was very high They very explicitly wanted separate rules for the 2 of us	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/24 01:19 PM
–	Women's dating advice comes from a place of ignorant privilege Autism spectrum liberal women are a good insight They aren’t good at hiding what they really think and feel Their hatred for men leaks everywhere in my experience They are similar to turbo dykes	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/24 01:10 PM
–	Women's dating advice comes from a place of ignorant privilege You think truth is only worthwhile if it has a benefit?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/24 01:06 PM
–	Women's dating advice comes from a place of ignorant privilege It’s the extreme level of dishonesty and also the non-recognition of what is going on, how things have changed, and what this current approach will soon bring I mean if someone wants to drink prune juice all day, that’s cool Just don’t tell us it’s grape kool aid and try to make us all affirm that In other words, if women were just honest and not hurtful then you’d hear less complaining It’s like the whole women dressing sexually and then saying “I dress like this because it is comfortable” or “…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/24 01:05 PM
1	There is a difference between showing weakness and wallowing in self-pity all the time. Also, women have less physical jealousy than men. I think it is partly because women are more likely to be bisexual or bi-curious. A woman just commented to me here that it turns her on to imagine her BF with other women. As usual, in the areas that men deviate from women, the male impulse is pathologized. Most men are unattractive to women. Therefore, many women are with men they aren’t physically aroused by. I think the whole “let’s be okay acting open to other people” is due to this asymmetry…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/24 12:40 PM
2	There is a difference between showing weakness and wallowing in self-pity all the time. Don’t conflate “normal” with common, healthy, or tending to cause stable relationships. You can look at anything and say “well 5% of people do it, must be normal then” People with “alternative” relationship strategies have been trying really hard to normalize their behaviors for years Like all the swingers that act like they do what they do because they are enlightened	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/24 12:35 PM
2	There is a difference between showing weakness and wallowing in self-pity all the time. Also, if a woman has a really hot boyfriend that she knows other women want and even want for casual sex, then she’s suddenly usually not cool with him having a 1 on 1 dinner date with an exGF “just to catch up”. Your GF being okay with you being around other women alone socially is a sign she doesn’t think you are particularly physically attractive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/24 12:34 PM
5	There is a difference between showing weakness and wallowing in self-pity all the time. PS Many non-human animals display mate guarding and chimps are capable of emotions like jealousy, anger, and hatred The genetics of “jealousy” in humans likely pre-dates our split with our common ancestor with chimps It’s crazy that women in the 21st century suddenly want us to ignore this It’s the equivalent to a female lioness wanting the male leader of her pride to be okay with her hanging out with the male from the next pride over and walking around with her tail in the air when in heat in f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/24 01:23 AM
5	There is a difference between showing weakness and wallowing in self-pity all the time. This is the only time in history when men are supposed to be okay with their female mates talking to other men in private (Facebook etc) daily, acting sexually in public and receiving sexual attention (thirst trap photos, going to the mall with camel toe and boobs on display), flirting with other men strongly, and going on one on one activities with other men alone. A guy here commented about how his wife goes hiking alone with other men often. When I asked if he was bisexual he confirmed it (cu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/24 01:08 AM
3	Women: What do you bring to the table? I dated a woman that sounds similar My best was never good enough	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/24 08:41 PM
8	There is a difference between showing weakness and wallowing in self-pity all the time. Yep Don’t get serious or bonded too fast They will all usually do or say something bizarre early on Something that a sane and rational person that cares about you and sees you as a human wouldn’t say or do That is your cue Believe them and nope out right then No long talks where they reassure, apologize, and gas light you In the last case for me, she ignored me when around an attractive man and talked to him and gushed for way too long When I confronted her, she played dumb (what that’s not norm…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/24 08:25 PM
1	What hope is there for guys that aren't confortable with hookups? If you are religious at all Go find a girl that is religious and actually believes it I’m an atheist and don’t like promiscuous women So you I’m kind of screwed because it seems most non religious women go through a phase where they bang way too many guys casually	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/24 08:14 PM
7	There is a difference between showing weakness and wallowing in self-pity all the time. My last 2 exGFs were cluster b freaks Both cheated Both were strongly repelled when I showed weakness even once	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/24 08:06 PM
1	How do you guys stay positive and avoid things like insecurity and self-esteem issues in the face of rejection? Most things in life like this handled by just going forward and becoming desensitized The trick is you can’t quit when you want or you’ll never achieve your goal Of course, quit if you change your goal For instance, I hated public speaking and was nervous Then I taught at a university for years Weird thing to do for someone with that issue I hated the first few months, after a year it didn’t bother me at all and drastically increased my overall confidence I no longer teach but have no issue talk…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/24 03:14 PM
4	As a man with mental illness, you are worse off in the current datingmarket then a woman with the same issues. Duh This is a natural extension of women having lower libidos and you not having a vagina men desire Don’t overcomplicate this one	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/24 07:09 PM
1	Why do cheaters beg to keep the relationship? Some people get off on taboo and betrayal For them, oddly, to get the hottest sex, they need to be in a relationship which they are stepping out on There’s an entire genre of pron based on this	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/24 06:35 PM
4	Why do cheaters beg to keep the relationship? Sadly Cheating at anything (sports, school, marriage) is seen as rational to a person without a strong conscience, so long as the chance of being caught is sufficiently low and the upside sufficiently large. Being bothered by your actions changes things.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/24 06:33 PM
10	Why do cheaters beg to keep the relationship? They are somewhat easy to spot. A lady in my office hardly spoke of her husband and never nicely. She also would park where she wasn’t supposed to and generally had a “it’s my world and you’re just living in it” attitude. I’m pretty sure she banged the building super (for a month whenever she left for lunch at random times (we don’t clock in) then he would also leave like clockwork and it was all times 11 am to 2 pm). And now that I’ve spent time around her, she’s been touchy feely and her eyes …	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/24 11:38 AM
3	Why do cheaters beg to keep the relationship? They are selfish people and want both partners or to at least not have repercussions. Some people think cause and effect is punishment. I have a relative who road rages. No one will ride with him. He thinks other people are wrong and mean.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/24 11:35 AM
1	The people at the top of the patriarchy are men, but that does not mean they have the best interests of their fellow men at heart. People are at the top usually because they put themselves first and have no other loyalties CEOs are on their own team of one and form alliances only as it benefits them	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/24 12:18 PM
3	The problem with the paternity test debate When else do you commit to 18 years and a huge amount of money based solely on someone’s word? The argument against this can also be used against prenups. If you’re a wealthy woman that would want a guy to sign a prenup, then I can’t see how you’d view this differently. Almost every time I didn’t take care of myself explicitly in life, it somehow hit my butt later.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/24 12:14 PM
5	Harmless Joke or Disrespect? This is the most common form of bullying between adults The joke that isn’t really just a joke	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/24 10:56 AM
3	The “sisterhood” is an echo chamber of narcissism and emotional manipulation. Why do people think “This isn’t 100% true in all cases” is a debate point? Literally nothing is always true outside of maybe formal logic, some math systems, and perhaps physics Everywhere else in life, there are always exceptions	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/24 01:09 AM
2	The “sisterhood” is an echo chamber of narcissism and emotional manipulation. Main thing I see groups of women do that is dysfunctional is help each other rationalize the bad behavior of group members in the hopes of supporting her and soothing her emotions A woman can be dumped by a great man for some bad shit the woman did The other women don’t want to kick her when she’s down and want to attend to her immediate emotions more than they want to help her long term growth and connection to reality So they will take turns spit balling rationalizations that let the hurt woma…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/24 01:04 AM
1	The reason men are so obsessed with virginity and sexual performance is because most women are Based	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/24 06:08 PM
4	You should absolutely never acknowledge any inherent disadvantages you have when it comes to dating. One thing I advise men not to do is talk about when you did not have a good trait Let’s say you’re now muscular Don’t show your new GF pics of when you were scrawny Your journey will not impress them and they’ll subconsciously decide that you have shit genetics	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/24 05:55 PM
1	Modern women want conservative masculine men but who are politically liberal, to go along with their other long list of demands. I’ll look at sources I’m sure they don’t define fit by strength but BMI which is notoriously inaccurate for muscular people A “healthy” BMI can be achieved via meth	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/24 05:01 PM
0	Why do so many men believe if women ghost after sex it's because "sex was bad"? Ok Still orthogonal Even if true	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/24 04:46 PM
1	Harmless Joke or Disrespect? That’s not even funny, all else aside If you’re going to play on the edge, at least be funny She probably thinks it is funny but that is a “dumb person” kind of joke	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/24 04:07 PM
8	High earning women don’t intimidate men from dating them Most high earning women are strongly Type A I find those women insufferable because they are never satisfied A woman being wildly successful is a turn off because they will never be content in the relationship	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/24 04:05 PM
1	Why do so many men believe if women ghost after sex it's because "sex was bad"? Orthogonal to my point Unless you think “one should not make note of that which one is so alpha as to side step”	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/24 04:03 PM
1	There isn't more solidarity among women than men Nah Was just in a hating the stupid mood You people would try the patience of the Buddha	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/24 03:56 PM
1	Why do so many men believe if women ghost after sex it's because "sex was bad"? You’re a troll	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/24 03:55 PM
2	Paternity test is not fidelity test I think you are redefining the word It is called that because a monkey doesn’t let go of one branch before having another in hand Holding 2 branches is a breach of trust almost by definition unless she’s like “Hey I’m gonna have coffee with Greg from work because I’m tired of you and I might want him more” Staying with someone while wanting someone else is sneaky by definition Maybe young people just have their heads warped as far as what is expected in trusting relationships	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/24 03:52 PM
2	Paternity test is not fidelity test What exactly did they do while monkey branching that was hidden and would be considered a breach of trust? Most meet up in secret and are physical on some level to make sure the deal is sealed. But yeah I’m not talking about the most innocent type imaginable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/24 10:18 PM
0	Paternity test is not fidelity test If you count all forms of infidelity, including at the end of the relationship when monkey branching is happening (and the excuse is “well it was basically over anyways”) Then I’d say around 75% of the people I know that were not married at age 35 and were not celibate have cheated on at least one partner they’ve had in their life	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/24 07:38 PM
-4	Modern women want conservative masculine men but who are politically liberal, to go along with their other long list of demands. So barely liberal now lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/24 06:32 PM
–	Modern women want conservative masculine men but who are politically liberal, to go along with their other long list of demands. Depends upon level of liberality and also time period A modern day hardcore left wing male is typically weak as hell, but of course you’ll find a few exceptions The Overton window has shifted that anyone formerly a middle of road liberal should feel like their party moved out from under them if they are paying attention and not brainwashed	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/24 04:50 PM
–	Modern women want conservative masculine men but who are politically liberal, to go along with their other long list of demands. 20 years ago, as I became more mentally healthy and strong, made more money, and became physically stronger…I became politically independent while formerly liberal and my worldview took on more conservative elements Extremely liberal men are much more likely to be mentally ill and physically weak and to have the look of someone with low testosterone It’s easily observable Also, the more attractive a woman is the less likely she is to be a hardcore feminist that hates men	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/24 04:38 PM
1	If you demand a paternity test, you are calling your baby mama a cheating whore. Both sexes holding grudges is not a point We are discussing what most women will hold a grudge and be upset over in this specific context	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/24 04:36 PM
3	Why do so many men believe if women ghost after sex it's because "sex was bad"? What I wrote does not involve a conspiracy at all And you just admitted I’m correct People in higher demand due to physical attraction get away with more As such a female 7 is lusted after and catered to about x100 more than a male 7 Then you state that weaker people get away with more Guess what? Average guy is how many times less frail and more dangerous than average woman? All you’ve done is fleshed out the mechanism of the thing which you disagreed with those hoisting yourself on your own pi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/24 04:18 PM
4	Why do so many men believe if women ghost after sex it's because "sex was bad"? BS You are likely looking at globally or in shit neighborhoods or subcultures In middle America, around decent men, women have way more leeway and you’re either: living in a shithole area/culture and so don’t know this, lying to help your argument, or so embedded in this that you can’t see it like a fish in water 100% women get away with BS that would get a man arrested or punched, it’s not up for debate Decent men assign you the social accountability of teenagers and you don’t even know it	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/24 03:19 PM
1	Why do so many men believe if women ghost after sex it's because "sex was bad"? Women are socially more allowed to shit on men because they are “punching up”	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/24 03:05 PM
3	Why do so many men believe if women ghost after sex it's because "sex was bad"? Women will say in one breath “All women are unique and you have to learn what gets her off” And then in the next breath “He didn’t know how to fuck me” when speaking of a ONS I suppose (if they are smart enough to come up with this) they’d talk about general competence that transcends all women and then woman-specific competence But at the end of the day it’s just BS they are throwing at the wall	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/24 03:02 PM
1	If you demand a paternity test, you are calling your baby mama a cheating whore. This is a specific type of toxicity common to women If you don’t think most women will be secretly pissed at this and bring it up at some point, then you’re young, naive, luckiest guy on earth, simp, or women around you are hiding this	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/24 01:53 PM
5	Why do so many men believe if women ghost after sex it's because "sex was bad"? Women often don’t take any responsibility for their sexuality and don’t realize they are bad at their own sexuality….they have men as scape goats though to stop personal growth Often they do not communicate even when asked, they don’t give any instruction because real men are supposed to just get it while also believing all women are sexually unique, they don’t deal with their hang ups and body issues, and some use a damn Hitachi enough that it makes it hard to cum with a guy In comparison, wome…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/24 01:29 PM
12	Why do so many men believe if women ghost after sex it's because "sex was bad"? Most women still hold these thoughts and they reveal themselves as their secret weapon to hurt men It all revolves around attacking our manhood By calling us gay Impotent Small in the pants Doesn’t know how to fuck Short Weak Women do it here too by calling men they disagree with incels They can get away with it more so they use it	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/24 01:25 PM
1	If you demand a paternity test, you are calling your baby mama a cheating whore. No way in hell most women will not hold a grudge over this You haven’t dealt with women as a man	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/24 01:19 PM
1	If you demand a paternity test, you are calling your baby mama a cheating whore. And it doesn’t even matter if they are actually cheating If you are not being paranoid, but you think your partner is the type to cheat Then just end it You’ll never have peace unless you’re a cuck I had an exGF like this, she just didn’t know how to build trust and had no idea (or didn’t care) the impression her behavior gave She thought you started all relationships with maximum and complete trust and only modified that if you had smoking gun evidence of a betrayal and from the looks of it pro…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/24 01:15 PM
1	Ozempic will be the most important change in the dating market since the invention of birth control Biggest change will be when the woman gets a doggie bag to take half her meal home, it won’t just be for show with her eating it the first moment she is alone	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/24 01:13 PM
8	Telling struggling guys to go to bars/clubs/parties is literally the worst and most hilarious advice ever You show a lack of understanding for anyone not like you Your advice to weak people is get strong Sure but your prescription to do that is born of a purposeful lack of understanding	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/24 12:33 PM
7	Telling struggling guys to go to bars/clubs/parties is literally the worst and most hilarious advice ever If someone has low social confidence Then they need wins Even if just mild wins I would suggest they find the most accepting crowd possible and volunteer there and mildly socialize and then slowly progress Examples would be church stuff (I’m an atheist but still), volunteering around big hearted people (animals, disabled etc) The dumbest thing is stick them in a shark tank (club etc) and have them go home with more bad experiences The internet is way too easy to use now and that’s why you have s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/24 12:32 PM
–	Formulas lead to the highest % success in sex/dating/relationships/reproduction/sexual dynamics/etc Using formulas is intelligence….nah Just throwing math at crap randomly is not useful I agree math is useful however	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/24 12:29 PM
2	There isn't more solidarity among women than men Oh gee String together some made up BS that you think will get my goat Oh boy that’s effective I’m sure it’s not in your propaganda films but anytime your black clad skinny jeans soy boy dating pool are dumb enough to pick on men with measurable testosterone levels….they get wrecked Often hilariously so There’s the one video where a single guy that can grow a thick beard and weighs over 200 lbs beats up like 5 or 10 Antifa members in a row and at least one he disarms first (I think soy boy had a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/24 12:15 PM
1	Would you prefer to date in the West or Asia as a Man In contrast to a figurative Asian woman…which would be trans	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/24 07:28 PM
–	Formulas lead to the highest % success in sex/dating/relationships/reproduction/sexual dynamics/etc How did you not bring in trigonometry by referencing the angle of the dangle?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/24 07:15 PM
–	Formulas lead to the highest % success in sex/dating/relationships/reproduction/sexual dynamics/etc Trying to fuck according to formulas is called Asperger’s	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/24 07:14 PM
5	There isn't more solidarity among women than men Yeah they are on that high strength soy Please We’ve all seen what happens when your Antifa boyfriends actually meet resistance from someone other than an easy target There’s a small town of 1,000 people that borders where I live I’m guessing just the men there could take all of Antifa in the US, if they felt like it	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/24 06:42 PM
2	There isn't more solidarity among women than men A good man loves a woman in a way that women cannot fathom I’ve almost died instinctively saving an exGF’s life	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/24 06:17 PM
1	There isn't more solidarity among women than men A woman once said she was jealous of men because we actually deeply like each other more often and get along I think it is because masculine men tend to learn to nip shit in the bud and then let it go….less mind games and such Also I am not jealous of them and celebrate each others success I have 2 friends of over 30 years That’s rare in general but more common in men	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/24 06:15 PM
-5	q4w: what logical reasons can you, as a (voluntarily) never-married woman, put forth to justify a random man risking his life to save yours? Interestingly This is a hypothetical that would only be presented to a man Women are told not to help in these scenarios and typically have no protective instincts towards men they don’t know They might yell and then call on their phones Even worse, a sizeable chunk of women would not risk their lives to save their husband But if a husband didn’t die or nearly die trying to save his wife then he’d be called a coward for the rest of his life Women don’t see this because they benefit from it	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/24 06:11 PM
1	Why Do Women Think Their Feelings Matter More Than The Truth? Your question is right up there with When did you stop beating your wife?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/24 05:35 PM
1	Why Do Women Think Their Feelings Matter More Than The Truth? No one worth influencing needs my takedown of your ideas just like they will not be moved by your absurd and overwrought “reasoning” So I’m done I only have to underline your statements because you refute yourself	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/24 04:42 PM
4	In 2024, Women Are More Valued Than Ever in the Dating Market I’ll show my wiener for a pop tart	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/24 04:40 PM
1	Why Do Women Think Their Feelings Matter More Than The Truth? Yeah and you made it about escaping abuse Your dirty trick is thinking that discussing a general thing means that I am making a specific statement about every unique occurrence you can dream up connected to that general thing It’s like me saying “lying is generally bad” And your retort is “oh well then you think it is wrong to lie to Nazis to save Jews then. Answer me yes or no if that is what you think!!!!”	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/24 03:40 PM
–	The fight for Equality has become a weapon to sideline most men They don’t want equality They want equity Kamala started with equality and then spun it into being equity in one of her speeches Common dirty trick	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/24 03:18 PM
1	Why Do Women Think Their Feelings Matter More Than The Truth? You are nuts I am not your monkey If anything, you bringing up the abuse angle is changing the subject as the original point was comparing paternity test to money diverted Making the money diverted a matter of life or death in order to “win” is a dirty trick and is YOU and folks like you changing the subject So I will not answer your dumb question because you will misconstrue my answer into you winning and then you’ll parade around like you’ve done something	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/24 03:17 PM
1	Why Do Women Think Their Feelings Matter More Than The Truth? You are misconstruing what I said in order to fit your purposes You are a dishonest person in your arguments Do better I am stating that a woman diverting funds in secret could be seen as a violation And you have to jump to me meaning that I want battered women to be helpless to escape their abusers Please If the only way you can win is in this way, then debate isn’t your thing or your just a young wokester	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/24 03:04 PM
1	Why Do Women Think Their Feelings Matter More Than The Truth? Yes And I keep addressing that and you keep repeating yourself as if you can’t imagine anyone disagreeing with the things you say and if someone does disagree then they must not have heard or understood you (common in solipsists)….and so you’ll keep repeating yourself I understand you and think you’re wrong	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/24 12:41 PM
1	CMV: Dating is being ruined with entitled people Duh They aren’t doing that consciously Take any abstract description of a psychological phenomena and you’ll find that people matching that aren’t doing it in their head the way the textbook describes the underlying process	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/24 12:27 PM
1	THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD The insistence on personal flair here is stupid and means everyone here is using a throwaway account and therefore this place is especially ripe for trolling and abuse I can’t believe the mods are so dumb that they don’t see this	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/24 11:59 PM
2	Most Women are too trendy to trust their dating advice, so asking them is pointless You act like you’re in my own head and know why I do things You don’t You’re wrong And you’re also a seemingly dreadful person I do know why people buy luxury fashion items because it’s obvious But for you to declare that I don’t want healthy food is you just being a dreadful stereotype Also, the fact that it is actually difficult (you might not know because you might not leave the house) matters in comparison to just buying things For instance, juggling builds coordination and probably stimulat…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/24 11:56 PM
1	Most Women are too trendy to trust their dating advice, so asking them is pointless Bringing you joy isn’t useless then Purses and things like Rolexs are largely for other people and require no skill and the only productive bit is that it makes them feel good and maybe raises social standing Are you high on glue that obtaining my own healthier meat is not useful just because i can divert funds to buy a usually inferior and less safe product from a store? Really this has totally discredited you or revealed you as a troll You also are totally off the rails if you don’t see the di…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/24 11:45 PM
1	Most Women are too trendy to trust their dating advice, so asking them is pointless You’re equating buying a lifetime object I can use for 2 hobbies that are not useless To walking around with a purse that makes other women jealous? Are you a serious person?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/24 10:58 PM
1	Most Women are too trendy to trust their dating advice, so asking them is pointless That’s cool There are differences among people But it is very common for American men to go to Asia and get tons of female attention (even in developed countries where they don’t see you as a walking dollar sign) No Japanese guy experiences this coming to the US	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/24 10:46 PM
0	Most Women are too trendy to trust their dating advice, so asking them is pointless I hunt for healthy food but also shooting and hunting is a hobby I guess carrying a purse can be a hobby….for people with no skills	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/24 10:42 PM
1	Most Women are too trendy to trust their dating advice, so asking them is pointless Sure, jewelry But why do women sell their used Coach bags for next to nothing at yard sales or give them to Goodwill? I assume by high fashion (things that actually increase in value) you aren’t talking about the trendy things women spend money on at the local mall (like that ugly thing that says Coach 100 times in different colors)…you’re talking about things only bought by people truly in the upper class No?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/24 10:40 PM
4	CMV: Dating is being ruined with entitled people What? People aren’t assessing the looks of people they might want to date?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/24 09:27 PM
1	CMV: Dating is being ruined with entitled people Women bring looks and then female genitals, which men have an unhealthy obsession around, that’s why	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/24 09:26 PM
1	Why Do Women Think Their Feelings Matter More Than The Truth? When you are married, the typical assumption is that both parties know the others income streams and that unless stated otherwise that the income and debt is collectivized This can vary But if it is the case, then one party squirreling away money in secret is a violation of trust and does not decrease debt but does decrease collective income For similar reasons, this is why large purchases are discussed first and parties don’t just buy a car without a talk etc How the heck is this not obvious to…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/24 09:23 PM
1	Most Women are too trendy to trust their dating advice, so asking them is pointless You think a coach pursue retains its value like high end optics, firearms, tools, etc? You know nothing about	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/24 09:09 PM
1	Even if the percentage of dangerous men is low, the chance of meeting him is high Yep I was a somewhat attractive but passive guy when young I waited for women to not only give indicators of interest but start coming after me Those women were all nuts	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/24 09:07 PM
1	Even if the percentage of dangerous men is low, the chance of meeting him is high Also coming off as overly nice and understanding can cause it too If your mom or dad had issues, then you likely are trained to put up with crap And they can smell it on you So overcome that	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/24 07:56 PM
2	Most Women are too trendy to trust their dating advice, so asking them is pointless Um I know Mexico isn’t in Asia There’s nothing I wrote that would indicate that I don’t know that I mentioned Mexico as an aside Duh	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/24 07:55 PM
1	Even if the percentage of dangerous men is low, the chance of meeting him is high Listen to your gut and be willing to walk early when your gut pings	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/24 07:30 PM
2	Even if the percentage of dangerous men is low, the chance of meeting him is high Same with cluster b women, sort of Many have short relationships all the time and pursue men they find attractive or are just very flirty and open to male attention (low hanging fruit) So many men end up dating one despite them being somewhat rare There’s also men that are crazy magnets (I used to be one)	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/24 07:16 PM
-1	Why Do Women Think Their Feelings Matter More Than The Truth? People typically have sex around 3rd date And talking seriously before that is a mood killer I don’t think you understand dating from a male perspective If you’re a decent looking woman, then you have different rules	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/24 07:10 PM
1	Q4W: Do you hold your female friends accountable for how they treat good men in a relationship? This is why if a woman has no or few females friends and says “women are drama” then I now run These women are the drama Typically, only people that want to bang them can stand them and they typically act inappropriately around the men of other women (attention seeking etc)	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/24 04:41 PM
1	Q4W: Do you hold your female friends accountable for how they treat good men in a relationship? Never been to Walmart?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/24 04:39 PM
–	Most of the advice here just tells men to NOT be proactive in finding a girlfriend If you have women in your social circles then you don’t need to pursue if you are handsome The women that want you to ask them out will make it obvious or have another woman tell you I would never in a million years try to convince a woman to go out with me in the hopes that attraction would build	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/24 04:35 PM
–	Most of the advice here just tells men to NOT be proactive in finding a girlfriend Women do tend to like brunette men more though	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/24 04:33 PM
–	Most of the advice here just tells men to NOT be proactive in finding a girlfriend Women imagine the perfect scenario for them in their head and then counsel men on how to make that a reality For instance, a woman that is a former sex worker would advise men not to judge women by their sexual past	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/24 04:31 PM
1	Most Women are too trendy to trust their dating advice, so asking them is pointless If you look at distributions for many traits, women have a smaller standard deviation Such as intelligence, there are more male geniuses and also idiots	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/24 04:29 PM
-5	Most Women are too trendy to trust their dating advice, so asking them is pointless It’s simple Even Asian women like non-Asian men The reason is that on average Asian men have the lowest testosterone levels and also the smallest physical size (actually 2 shortest countries are China and Mexico) I’m from the US and I’ve met only a few Asian men in real life that were my size or larger If I went to China, I could rest my chin on half of all men’s heads Women respond strongly to this in all cultures	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/24 04:27 PM
-2	Most Women are too trendy to trust their dating advice, so asking them is pointless Just look at how closely they follow fashion as if it is obviously right and spend $500 on a purse to show off the label I just spent $500 but it was on a rifle scope that cost $1000 regular price and I’ll be able to leave it in my will The reason is simple In an ancient environment women couldn’t survive at all without the protection and provision of the group and so social ostracization meant death	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/24 04:24 PM
1	Why Do Women Think Their Feelings Matter More Than The Truth? There is a difference between a married couple transparently having their own money vs the man thinking the money is pooled and they take from it but the woman has a secret stash I am so perplexed by reddit Are you folks just young and so think your first impression is alway right? Are you engaging in motivated reasoning and don’t realize it? Are you trolls? Or what? But I am just perplexed by so many people being so obviously wrong so often	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/24 04:17 PM
1	Why Do Women Think Their Feelings Matter More Than The Truth? I work in a field where I understand statistics and testing and error rates And I never mentioned a paternity fraud case I was very obviously talking about how a suspicious dad could get an initial screening Of course, if both different methods and different analysts came to the conclusion of “not the dad” then I’d move to a formal medical test from a doctor visit or go to a lawyer for advice	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/24 04:14 PM
-1	Why Do Women Think Their Feelings Matter More Than The Truth? “If you don’t have an awkward conversation that only works if you’re taking weeks or months to get to know each other prior to sex then you can’t complain when the person does something immoral to you” Got it That’s the gist of what you wrote but you are using words as magical incantations from lady land	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/24 04:12 PM
0	Why Do Women Think Their Feelings Matter More Than The Truth? You can say that because you’re a woman If you are hot, you could ask the guy to wear a mullet wig and quote Joe Dirt lines as part of a kink You want a guy that has a hot and horny woman panting and grabbing his junk to say “hold on missy….how do you feel about abortion and paternity testing, before you get the Willy?” Get out of here Are you a bot?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/24 11:45 PM
1	Why Do Women Think Their Feelings Matter More Than The Truth? Didn’t know that Given error rates I’d probably do that and the 23andme And only trust if both say same thing	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/24 11:43 PM
0	Why Do Women Think Their Feelings Matter More Than The Truth? And I’m a guy So it was probably my fault	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/24 11:42 PM
1	Why Do Women Think Their Feelings Matter More Than The Truth? You write words as if they magical incantations to get your way	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/24 11:42 PM
0	Why Do Women Think Their Feelings Matter More Than The Truth? You took that the wrong way on purpose Shame on you, sophist	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/24 11:41 PM
1	Watching porn is not cheating and it is controlling to stop people watching it. No shame in that you accuse me of the bad argument you also did That is what should shame you Being a rank hypocrite and also it seems not even good at debate/analysis	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/24 03:29 PM
1	Why Do Women Think Their Feelings Matter More Than The Truth? No analogy will work on women Because we are discussing women and their vaginas According to women it is the most unique and important confluence So you can’t compare it to anything else	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/24 03:27 PM
1	Why Do Women Think Their Feelings Matter More Than The Truth? It used to be common to have them at the start of LTRs where you’d have sex without a condom Young people don’t do that as much now Now paternity is one and done by definition So you’d have to fix your metaphor a bit	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/24 03:25 PM
1	Why Do Women Think Their Feelings Matter More Than The Truth? Good chance? You need to study decision theory If something being true is really bad, then you act even if the odds are relatively low	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/24 03:21 PM
-2	Why Do Women Think Their Feelings Matter More Than The Truth? Well, $20,000 diverted from the family budget actually affects the family A test doesn’t and has zero downside	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/24 03:20 PM
1	Why Do Women Think Their Feelings Matter More Than The Truth? I’ve had 7 LTRs 2 of them, I would close to 100% trust Last 2 cheated on me The other 3 were somewhere in the middle, they were solipsistic enough to rationalize betraying me	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/24 03:19 PM
2	Why Do Women Think Their Feelings Matter More Than The Truth? If you want to avoid doctors Just get two 23andme tests, one for you and kid, and then do them under fake names and mail to your work or a PO Box The tests show family relations plus you can look at ancestry and it should make sense	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/24 03:17 PM
-3	Why Do Women Think Their Feelings Matter More Than The Truth? You’ve just discovered why most chess grand masters are women…..oh wait	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/24 03:16 PM
0	Why Do Women Think Their Feelings Matter More Than The Truth? If you are afraid of patent fraud then discuss that on a first date? Are you serious?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/24 03:15 PM
1	Why Do Women Think Their Feelings Matter More Than The Truth? I think some women get so desperate for a child that they’ll lie A close friend couldn’t conceive with his wife He wouldn’t go to a fertility doctor She was 35 and had baby rabies My friend said she was depressed and starting fights and sleeping on the couch Suddenly she is pregnant and the world is right but she systematically tried to cut her husband’s friends out…the people that might hurt her plan 15 years late and this boy is absolutely nothing like my friend in anyway…..zero personality or…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/24 03:12 PM
2	Watching porn is not cheating and it is controlling to stop people watching it. You mentioned level of horniness indicators I respond Now I’m off topic Do you have no shame in a discussion?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/24 03:06 PM
7	Why Do Women Think Their Feelings Matter More Than The Truth? Yes And all contracts are accusations Not giving my friend my PIN at the ATM when he’s driving is the same The list goes on There are differences in the details of relationships But yeah that’s the mechanism Anyone looking out for their own interest is an accuser I guess, we just have to figure out if it’s warranted	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/24 01:19 PM
5	Why Do Women Think Their Feelings Matter More Than The Truth? True All tests have a false positive and false negative rate	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/24 01:16 PM
1	Watching porn is not cheating and it is controlling to stop people watching it. If you told the average single 20 year old man “If you walk 20 miles to her house, this model will sleep with you” And showed him a pic of a Victoria secrets model How many would do it? Now, switch genders	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/24 01:12 PM
2	What some people get wrong about flirting Light teasing?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/24 01:00 PM
3	I feel like people see dating as some sort of rpg skill check A tall male with a 7 face will do similar to an average height male with 8 face or short male with a 9 face Unless the female in question has a height fetish Height helps but not a ton	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/24 10:11 PM
1	Inexperienced men should lie about their lack of sexual history My buddy was an undercover cop He knew you and followed your advice to be a moral absolutist He walked into the crime lair he had infiltrated and just spilled his guts They were so impressed that they killed him fast instead of slow Oh wait I lied about that to make a point I’m a naughty boy too! Not nearly as smart and good as a math teacher must be	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/24 09:54 PM
1	Inexperienced men should lie about their lack of sexual history No She’s a female math teacher Have you met many women that are very good at math or computer programming? If you have, then you have your answer	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/24 09:52 PM
5	Inexperienced men should lie about their lack of sexual history Read Schopenhauer On Women	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/24 09:49 PM
–	I DON'T buy that men who date a younger woman do it because they're easier to manipulate Yeah Math shouldn’t have been invented	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/24 09:39 PM
1	The saying "women mature faster" is a lie. Women mature faster physically and also want to do the right social thing earlier etc But with all the famous male philosophers etc it is a bit absurd to think that women have a significant advantage that doesn’t go away somewhat over time as we age	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/24 07:46 PM
0	What some people get wrong about flirting Thanks This makes sense It’s just not how I’ve had to operate I’m catnip to certain women, and I can tell they like me because they have a strong reaction For bookish type girls, I’d say I’m a chad When I see that, and I like them, I just ask for their number This has bit my ass though also because the women that make it too easy can be trouble	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/24 07:38 PM
2	What some people get wrong about flirting It’s partly that my uncle is gay and so I’m not homophobic at all Gay men are so used to straight guys avoiding them (at least in more conservative areas) that the fact that I don’t makes them shoot their shot	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/24 07:33 PM
1	Watching porn is not cheating and it is controlling to stop people watching it. So you’re disagreeing with men being hornier? Or that men want sexual variety at least more than women? Maybe it was my use of methadone in a snarky way And how do you know your libido is normal?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/24 05:08 PM
0	Watching porn is not cheating and it is controlling to stop people watching it. You’d be surprised My estimate is 10% of women treat men like absolute shit in relationships	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/24 02:53 PM
-1	Watching porn is not cheating and it is controlling to stop people watching it. You’re a woman and therefore your horniness is likely much lower than men Also men crave sexual variety more and porn is like methadone to stave off doing it in real life I know women think they get as horny as men, and that’s very cute	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/24 02:21 PM
5	Watching porn is not cheating and it is controlling to stop people watching it. I read where BDSM is huge at MIT because the spectrum people like the rules	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/24 02:19 PM
14	What some people get wrong about flirting Yeah That’s the issue I am very good at joking with and teasing people without being offensive Because I’m good at this, I do it continually, when appropriate, it takes no effort People that aren’t naturally warm and funny have to put in effort and therefore might think I’m putting in special effort for them, which I am not I’m straight and masculine without being hypermasculine ….and I’ve been hit on by so many gay guys it’s unreal It makes me paranoid almost As usual, people view things as if …	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/24 01:57 PM
32	What some people get wrong about flirting Other than making suggestive comments or talking sexually, I have no idea what flirting is And I never talk sexually/suggestively to women I’m not alone with etc (ie we are purposely in a private setting because they are interested) because it’s cringe to me If flirting is just being friendly and funny, then I do that with everyone and no wonder so many gay men have subtly asked me out/pursued me	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/24 01:26 PM
1	Men are worse off than women in all developed countries. This is so controversial that UN falsifies the Gender Development Index to hide this fact You basically agree with me You just have low reading comprehension Or maybe no ability to read between the lines of statements	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/24 01:11 PM
0	Men are worse off than women in all developed countries. This is so controversial that UN falsifies the Gender Development Index to hide this fact You did not read and comprehend what I wrote You are arguing a foreign point to my own And actually the opposite Read what I wrote and not what you think I wrote	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/24 11:20 AM
3	Men are worse off than women in all developed countries. This is so controversial that UN falsifies the Gender Development Index to hide this fact lol The fact that I am garnering semi serious replies speaks for itself	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/24 06:22 PM
9	Men are worse off than women in all developed countries. This is so controversial that UN falsifies the Gender Development Index to hide this fact Yeah They won’t be able to electrocute us in our breeder cages if there are no men to design and run power plants	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/24 06:21 PM
1	THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD It’s just gotten worse	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/24 08:27 PM
1	Positivity Time! Say something nice about the opposite sex, or say something you feel bad the opposite sex has to deal with! You think you smell dirty dick everywhere? Come on Troll	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/24 07:49 PM
3	Positivity Time! Say something nice about the opposite sex, or say something you feel bad the opposite sex has to deal with! You think that uncut men in developed countries with good hygiene have dirty stinky wieners? They don’t You just have to be a somewhat clean person	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/24 07:48 PM
1	THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD It’s gotten worse Like people suggesting I let my father nurse my male bosom Or just the dumbest takes ever that no one over 14 with an iq over 80 could believe	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/24 07:39 PM
1	THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD The only woman that ever treated me as she wanted to be treated was on the autism spectrum. I left her because she hardly ever spoke. I still miss her quite a bit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/24 07:36 PM
3	THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD Also No women ever thought “Why didn’t she jump off the door and let him have it?” The fact that the man died for the woman Makes it even more romantic for women Is normal and expected in that scenario It’s all gross as hell	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/24 07:33 PM
2	THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD Start reporting trolls Either this place is being targeted by trolls or literally the dumbest people on Earth have started posting	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/24 07:29 PM
1	The case of Gisèle Pelicot has me wondering, what percentage of guys would rape if they thought they could totally get away with it? Omg I am using the term opportunity not in “Exciting job opportunity” But as in “it could have been done if I desired that but do not” Is this sub being bombarded by trolls or just young and dumb people? You twisted that as far as you could You should be ashamed	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/24 07:27 PM
0	Men need to learn to be happy being single Dude You make no sense	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/24 07:25 PM
1	Men need to learn to be happy being single No You’re applying your definition of happiness to others As in not being single is required for your happiness So this must be the case for others as well Which is wrong on its face	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/24 06:49 PM
1	Should the man tell his partner that he is going to get a paternity test? I can’t believe women don’t understand that male paternity is never 100% and that committing to support another human for 18+ years is a huge deal But you know female fee fees and all The reasons it is seen as hurtful is 1 women are just built to find shit like this hurtful 2 paternity tests are a recent invention and so there is no historical tradition or precedence to fall back on and 3 lying sluts hardly ever consider themselves as such I had a friend that was in a position where a GF of 6 mo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/24 03:12 PM
46	Men are worse off than women in all developed countries. This is so controversial that UN falsifies the Gender Development Index to hide this fact It’s just a female lobbying group now There’s no stopping criteria In 100 years, women could have men locked in cages and used only for sperm And some purple haired harpy will still be prattling on about some BS grievance and pushing for greater voltage in the electrocutions used to punish men for women not getting the vote until the 1900s	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/24 02:44 PM
1	Men need to learn to be happy being single I don’t know I have pretty much ruled out marriage and cohabitation I’m sure I’ll date again	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/24 12:42 PM
1	Men need to learn to be happy being single Then you’ve admitted defeat and aren’t smart enough to realize it	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/24 07:14 PM
-1	Widespread internet usage killed romance, not feminism or the economy Divorce rates will tend to drop as marriage rates drop It has to be interpreted in that sense Of course if only people super madly in love with each other (to illustrate with an extreme…I know that breaks brains here because half of you can’t think abstractly or use bad logic when it suits your argument) get married instead of almost everyone, then divorce rate as percent of those married will drop.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/24 02:05 PM
2	Relationship experience is overrated and essentially meaningless General social experience should be enough Anything else is more “how to navigate the crazy side of women that they hide from the world” No thanks	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/24 02:02 PM
1	Men need to learn to be happy being single You folks are all smoking glue and playing with definitions to suit your own whatever You can improve your mental state Full stop	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/24 01:58 PM
1	Not the apps, the people. Could it be that what people prefer is very rare or out of their league? Like I prefer women that are not overly emotional but I haven’t dated many because they hardly exist and the one that do have been snatched up. If you looked at my dating history you’d think I don’t prefer that when I do but was just always unsatisfied.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/24 04:58 PM
1	Not the apps, the people. You’re not going to tell us the question are you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/24 04:53 PM
0	Women should consider how the economic status of a man affects who he is Most people aren’t struggling to find HEALTHY love? Have you looked around outside?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/24 04:49 PM
3	Why is there such a significant disconnect between what many women say they want in a man and what they actually pursue? You hide the degree of it and how looks can swamp it Your insistent that women are honest and when you are less so you have good reason Is frankly hilarious	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/24 04:39 PM
7	Why is there such a significant disconnect between what many women say they want in a man and what they actually pursue? So being deceptive is allowed so long as others should realize it according to you Good to know	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/24 04:37 PM
1	Why is there such a significant disconnect between what many women say they want in a man and what they actually pursue? When women don’t mention looks at all but other things Any fair person would assume either looks are not at the top of the list or that other traits can seriously make up for looks	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/24 04:36 PM
8	Why is there such a significant disconnect between what many women say they want in a man and what they actually pursue? A man that acts like an average woman is usually despised by other men because we consider him a weasel etc Women can perform a thought experiment here How would you view a straight man that wanted to date you but psychologically was exactly like a standard female (yeah you’ll say there are no average people! And you’re not smart, that isn’t a point here)? And he also acted like that? You’d think he was cringe and gross.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/24 04:34 PM
1	Why is there such a significant disconnect between what many women say they want in a man and what they actually pursue? It is implied and mentioned by you because women will not come out and say unpopular things when not anonymous They are cowards in this regard because antiquity being expelled from the group meant certain death for a woman and any kids she had That’s why women obfuscate and dissimulate like a fish swims and this has been written about for centuries	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/24 04:30 PM
1	Men need to learn to be happy being single I’d love to meet you face to face People like you are such horrible cowards and live such shitty lives	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/24 04:00 PM
1	Men need to learn to be happy being single Yeah let me sacrifice my well being to be my dads dad and do something he should have done for himself simply because there is a small chance it could help him You’re either a troll or just out to lunch	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/24 03:17 PM
1	Inexperienced men should not be very forthcoming about their sexual history Or say it’s not their business	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/24 03:09 PM
2	Jordan Peterson tells young men to sacrifice themselves and endure. Young men should suck it up. It is my belief that men have the right to opt out of a society that discriminates against them. Jordan Peterson is a smart man but a lot of his reasoning comes off as motivated by reaching the conclusion that he’d like or because of the good consequences of the belief. For instance, his views on Christianity.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/24 03:08 PM
3	Men need to learn to be happy being single Are you serious or just being weird? Because that is literally the most unhealthy shit I can imagine someone thinking.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/24 02:59 PM
4	Men need to learn to be happy being single Did I say that? You don’t believe in a dominant cultural narrative or zeitgeist?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/24 02:58 PM
0	Men need to learn to be happy being single We are just screwing around with definitions then at this point	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/24 02:57 PM
1	Men need to learn to be happy being single That’s something that can’t be explain in a Reddit comment But it must be true or all people that were unhappy would die unhappy or get pulled out of it by luck Too many stories to the contrary Grab your nuts and take responsibility for your internal state	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/24 01:36 PM
7	Men need to learn to be happy being single The underlying sense you get when you watch mainstream media and news and talk to a liberal.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/24 01:35 PM
11	Men need to learn to be happy being single My dad was fatherless. This reminds me of him. He’s 71 and still fantasizes about having a dad and writes poetry about it. He’s allowed it to partly ruin his life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/24 12:28 PM
-1	Men need to learn to be happy being single You can learn to be happy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/24 12:26 PM
6	Men need to learn to be happy being single You don’t think that the cultural narrative is largely catering toward women?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/24 12:26 PM
5	Men need to learn to be happy being single It might be different in large cities and in certain demographics where single women past their 20s pack up, drink, and get ran through and given attention while looking for “the one”. But my experience is women are secretly miserable when single and also often scared when they live alone. They are however viewed more positively. Single men past around 35 are seen as inherently creepy where I live.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/24 12:25 PM
1	The expectation for men to be completely self-actualized before even entering the dating market is absolutely ridiculous. Ok So you’ve admitted you’re talking about yourself That’s fine But you’re talking about a different thing	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/24 12:18 PM
1	Who is going to be the first gender to post the sexual encounter between their humanoid ai bot and themselves? Women have sex toy buying parties Like Tupperware parties back in the day It’s not super common but exists Google it	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/24 01:49 AM
1	What Do You Think Of Chris Williamson? There is no way you can clearly write a true thing that I would not immediately understand	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/24 12:30 AM
3	The expectation for men to be completely self-actualized before even entering the dating market is absolutely ridiculous. You think people only comment on or care about things that directly negatively affect themselves? If so, that’s scary	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/24 11:53 PM
2	Who is going to be the first gender to post the sexual encounter between their humanoid ai bot and themselves? Yeah you’re confused because you don’t want to be a hypocrite and you’re self aware	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/24 11:52 PM
6	CMV: males often use the ol "I'm not a mind reader" to excuse their laziness Really? Pumping up supposed victim groups with unreasonable crap is equally represented along the political spectrum? Don’t think so	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/24 11:06 PM
2	CMV: males often use the ol "I'm not a mind reader" to excuse their laziness True But I know when I’m doing it often enough My logical and emotional parts of my brain are more parallel and not intermeshed I know when I’m about to do something out of emotions and when emotions are influencing me It’s not perfect But I’m roughly 100x better at this than the average woman (but I’m also better at it than most men) It helps that I’m over 3 SD above the mean	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/24 11:05 PM
1	Who is going to be the first gender to post the sexual encounter between their humanoid ai bot and themselves? Because you’re such a good person you don’t realize that most women view men very harshly compared to how they view themselves and other women	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/24 11:02 PM
0	Who is going to be the first gender to post the sexual encounter between their humanoid ai bot and themselves? lol If men vetted women for being accepting of such things, first how would that work? Second it would eliminate most women. I think you have a bias that other women are like you. They aren’t And like most people The majority are somewhat dreadful	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/24 09:20 PM
-1	You're on a date & everything is going well, then they tell you they were falsely accused in the past... They do once they hit menopause and then slowly become less desirable A lot of formerly hot women become either jaded or enlightened as they realize people were nice to them just because of them being a female and their looks That’s why some of them freak and get plastic surgery	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/24 09:15 PM
21	CMV: males often use the ol "I'm not a mind reader" to excuse their laziness This is what happens when ultra liberals pump young girls with girl boss memes The American dream now is to raise a narcissist	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/24 09:06 PM
6	CMV: males often use the ol "I'm not a mind reader" to excuse their laziness A lot of men are tired of the female hyper emotionality negatively impacting their lives I don’t want to live with a creature that makes decisions based upon feels and their decisions can negatively affect me So I’ll never marry	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/24 09:05 PM
4	What Do You Think Of Chris Williamson? Um An analogy about water doesn’t mean anything here I can say Snap into a slim Jim Or something That and $5 will get you a happy meal	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/24 08:59 PM
3	How to reconcile: [Lying about sexual past] X [Men who care are not worth relationships] X [Sexual past does not matter]? Don’t forget to add in the 100s of articles that basically say Men shouldn’t care for XYZ reasons Therefore men don’t care Or As you said Therefore men that care are shit And then of course the men that care staying silent	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/24 08:18 PM
5	What Do You Think Of Chris Williamson? Women settle for your average guy you described They hardly desire him	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/24 08:04 PM
5	Who is going to be the first gender to post the sexual encounter between their humanoid ai bot and themselves? Women will be allowed to Just like they have dildo parties but a guy has to hide having a fleshlight for fear of mockery Women will never get it They will spin it as of course that’s right	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/24 06:35 PM
2	A view of opposite sex friendships through the lens of Instagram etiquette and duo trips. There was a guy here that was posting about how his wife goes on hikes alone with male friends (but one on one, just multiple different guys) I asked if he was bi He said he was and seemed surprised I called it Incidentally a lot of men into cuckolding, open relationships, and swinging are bi, bi-curious, hypersexual, or so narcissistic that they can’t really love their wives and use them as bait	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/24 06:21 PM
6	There are going to be very bad social consequences of women making 6-7 figure salaries via sex work. Women that get rich being porn stars and play their cards right and retire early and rich Have already decided they can’t or won’t fit society’s definition of a “good woman” So they don’t care and satisfy themselves with laughing all the way to the bank If you told Riley Reid “You’re a slut” She’d say “Yes and so?” As she fanned herself with $100s What I don’t like are the ones that do porn for a decade and then cry about how people look at them funny now It’s like the guy that gets a spider nec…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/24 06:16 PM
3	What Do You Think Of Chris Williamson? Sure They ask a player Do you like women? Of course they say yes That provides almost no info	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/24 06:14 PM
5	What Do You Think Of Chris Williamson? But you aren’t blue pilled it seems I’m no pill because having a name for how you think is stupid I am just aware that the mainstream narrative is bullshit, I see the patterns I see, and I understand science, evolution, and logic So whatever that makes me, I’m it I do believe modern women are largely delusional and don’t really give a shit about men	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/24 06:13 PM
1	The expectation for men to be completely self-actualized before even entering the dating market is absolutely ridiculous. Your list in practice is more like Don’t be deformed or morbidly obese Don’t be crazy or abusive Etc Dealbreakers Now it is as you listed for hot men But the problem is that below average women expect a lot from men that the women cannot do themselves	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/24 04:04 PM
1	The expectation for men to be completely self-actualized before even entering the dating market is absolutely ridiculous. The thing is that life and civilization and society didn’t come about to maximize personal happiness. But we’re blessed because we are at a point where this is more easily noticed and we are advanced enough to somewhat ignore these things and try to maximize our own happiness without something bad happening Sex and relationships are there to create healthy children That’s it They were never to make the individual happy and the promise of happiness and the little bit of pleasure you get is there …	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/24 03:59 PM
1	The expectation for men to be completely self-actualized before even entering the dating market is absolutely ridiculous. They could also get away with being somewhat unpleasant to be around	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/24 03:51 PM
2	The expectation for men to be completely self-actualized before even entering the dating market is absolutely ridiculous. Men’s immediate need and love is greater Women’s longer term need they feel within them is greater It’s because in antiquity a woman that was expelled from the tribe had zero chance of pleasant survival This is also why women are so much more concerned with their social position	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/24 03:50 PM
2	The expectation for men to be completely self-actualized before even entering the dating market is absolutely ridiculous. Also many young people The irony of almost all young people is that they always think the reason why old people disagree with them is that old people are dumb I can even tell a younger person I was the same way and regret not listening more, and it will have no effect on them I think it is a biological mechanism for them to develop autonomy and potentially disperse form the group, because it is so common that there has to be a mechanism I’ve told people on Reddit that I caught a girlfriend cheat…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/24 03:46 PM
1	The expectation for men to be completely self-actualized before even entering the dating market is absolutely ridiculous. Having fun and being happy can be a mission	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/24 03:42 PM
1	The expectation for men to be completely self-actualized before even entering the dating market is absolutely ridiculous. Interesting that women claim to be more emotional and also just as if not more logical than men. So therefore closer to perfection. But we all know that in almost all cases as one becomes more emotional then it is at the expense of logic. I won’t marry because I don’t want an overly emotional creature making emotional decisions that impact my life. The reason women are more emotional Is to help with child rearing and to persuade men to take care of them. This is the evolutionary reason and it is…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/24 03:41 PM
8	The expectation for men to be completely self-actualized before even entering the dating market is absolutely ridiculous. Some come here to shit on men as a sport	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/24 03:36 PM
1	The expectation for men to be completely self-actualized before even entering the dating market is absolutely ridiculous. Yeah It’s because they are trying to help a specific guy in the moment They can’t reasonably give the advice of “we should all start a movement that makes women view men more reasonably” because how is that going to happen quickly enough to matter for that person? A guy very well might have a few dealbreakers that are easier to fix. If the guy has BO and is so fat he can’t see his penis, then yeah start there. But the wholesale “every man has a dealbreaker and we just have to find it” is busted.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/24 03:33 PM
3	The expectation for men to be completely self-actualized before even entering the dating market is absolutely ridiculous. How’s their relationship? I’ve found if a woman isn’t enthralled by you then eventually you’ll make them mad, the switch will flip, and they’ll look over and think “why am I with this guy anyway?”	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/24 03:31 PM
2	The expectation for men to be completely self-actualized before even entering the dating market is absolutely ridiculous. Except don’t ever call women out in any scenario where they can harm your life. Because eventually one will.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/24 03:30 PM
1	The expectation for men to be completely self-actualized before even entering the dating market is absolutely ridiculous. Different context, but an evolutionary biologist told me “given enough time, that which can happen in a given situation will happen at least once.” It’s like how many people that can cheat (in business, relationships, and sports) and think they can get away with it, will. Human morality is there to try to tame our selfish and animal instincts.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/24 03:29 PM
1	The expectation for men to be completely self-actualized before even entering the dating market is absolutely ridiculous. Men have expectations but they are more reasonable on average. It’s more “don’t be fat to the point of being unhealthy and not having anything like a female figure”. That is much easier than a slender guy adding 20 lbs of lean mass in the gym. Like 100x easier.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/24 03:24 PM
1	The expectation for men to be completely self-actualized before even entering the dating market is absolutely ridiculous. Only do what actually helps you in a way that matters to you. For instance, I work out for my health and so that everyone treats me with more respect. I now have women check me out as a result and take a subtle pleasure in ignoring them and watching their face drop.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/24 03:23 PM
5	The expectation for men to be completely self-actualized before even entering the dating market is absolutely ridiculous. Men would approach more and things would go more smoothly if the female mindset, where it goes wrong and deviates from being reasonable, was rectified instead of amplified. The cliff notes are women need more empathy and humility as a collective and in a real sense. Not volunteering at the humane society and then having everyone on Facebook agree you are enlightened.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/24 03:18 PM
2	The expectation for men to be completely self-actualized before even entering the dating market is absolutely ridiculous. I believe most of this is true. What you are doing though is synthesizing the actual gist of the collective advice men are given and how women view men. Therefore, even if it is largely true, women will not see it and they will pick you apart on details instead of addressing your larger point. Or they will construe you as saying “men can be slobs that bring nothing to the table and they are still owed a relationship”, when you are obviously discussing a matter of degrees. The reason is that they…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/24 03:04 PM
8	Blue pillers and Red pillers agree on somethings, one of which is "The guy has to wait his turn" You just smuggled in good looking while proving that point went over your head	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/24 03:12 PM
7	Blue pillers and Red pillers agree on somethings, one of which is "The guy has to wait his turn" Good break down I love reciting back to people what their convoluted BS actually means when not sugar coated They then always say “that’s not what I said” And then they repeat back the convoluted BS that still means the same thing It’s kind of a combined IQ and character test They act like if you disagree then you must not have heard or understood them….classic	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/24 02:58 PM
–	The case of Gisèle Pelicot has me wondering, what percentage of guys would rape if they thought they could totally get away with it? You shouldn’t be a mod here	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/24 01:55 PM
–	The case of Gisèle Pelicot has me wondering, what percentage of guys would rape if they thought they could totally get away with it? It doesn’t say explicitly that the men were all from the same town If it does it implies it falsely He was posting to an internet chat room that was specifically for this crime	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/24 07:58 PM
1	CMV: SAHMs should always have an exit plan No able bodied adult should be unable to escape another adult This is partly why I will never marry I do not want another human to be able to hurt my life by their decisions without me being able to easily leave A marriage contract is from a rational perspective with a historic view…absolutely stupid If it were for business, no sane person would sign it Unless you are a gold digger marrying a rich person	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/24 07:17 PM
1	CMV: You should be your partner's ONLY source of sexual fulfillment You also should not be exchanging sexual energy with other people Looking at you married women that like to dress with your tits out and flirt with other men	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/24 07:00 PM
1	The case of Gisèle Pelicot has me wondering, what percentage of guys would rape if they thought they could totally get away with it? So you are agreeing to me about how we both agreed with her?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/24 06:58 PM
–	The case of Gisèle Pelicot has me wondering, what percentage of guys would rape if they thought they could totally get away with it? You need to ask yourself the question “Why are these places shit holes to begin with?” That will help you know why the people there act like the kind of people that would create a shit hole to begin with	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/24 06:47 PM
–	The case of Gisèle Pelicot has me wondering, what percentage of guys would rape if they thought they could totally get away with it? You’re going way too far The vast majority of men have the opportunity to rape I’ve been around many women that were passed out etc Normal men do not rape or abuse even when given the chance Just like most men don’t use prostitution	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/24 06:45 PM
–	The case of Gisèle Pelicot has me wondering, what percentage of guys would rape if they thought they could totally get away with it? People that are treated poorly when very young sometimes develop cluster b personality disorders They become so self absorbed and devoid of the ability to feel empathy that they rationalize anything	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/24 06:43 PM
–	The case of Gisèle Pelicot has me wondering, what percentage of guys would rape if they thought they could totally get away with it? Thank you for thinking well of men The percentage of men that would risk their lives to save a female stranger from rape is higher than the percentage of men that would rape Many of the women here, I fear, have been around the worst of men and have no idea how most of us actually are	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/24 06:38 PM
–	The case of Gisèle Pelicot has me wondering, what percentage of guys would rape if they thought they could totally get away with it? They should never let someone spend time in a place like that alone or for long periods or without support Having said that, I’m guessing the detective was already struggling	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/24 06:35 PM
5	It's more socially acceptable to slut-shame men than women It’s more acceptable to do every negative thing to men Including sexual assault Women laugh about men in jail being sexually assaulted	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/24 02:36 PM
2	Women will talk about male "Locker room talk" then go on to write a novel about their sex life to their friends It’s a specific type of abstraction Men are simply better at it on average Or at least the people past a certain threshold where they are excellent at it are almost all men Someone not good at math probably thinks that only geometry problems can be visualized like this Nope When I was in grad school, I would work on probability and statistics problems while driving and pull over at rest stops to write notes as I came up with things	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/24 02:31 PM
6	Women will talk about male "Locker room talk" then go on to write a novel about their sex life to their friends Main reason men kill them at math is that men had to navigate long distances and build things This requires the ability to visualize spatial relationships and do things like imagine and then rotate things in your head, etc As someone that achieves perfect scores on standardized math test (SAT, GRE, etc) and is gifted in that area, higher level math is in part turning problems into something you can see in your head People that suck at math think it is just something you do on paper with symbols	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/24 03:25 PM
2	The Myth Of Confidence This is why children that were not nurtured at early stages grow into adults that Often both desperately want love and drive others way It is horribly sad that the people that want and need love the most often drive most healthy people away I’ve seen it too many times	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/24 03:13 PM
5	How are women able to walk away from a guy so easily? If a woman is cute, she can get another guy easily and they know it. Often times, the other guy is already lined up. They can also easily go have some casual sex easily and this breaks the pair bond with the old BF. That’s why half of all women go act like a drunk ho for a few weekends after a break up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/24 01:39 PM
2	Being laid back and uninvested is not what makes men attractive, women are attracted to men who act like that because those men are already attractive True There’s also hot men that are kind of high strung and they still do okay, better than an average looking chill guy This reminds me of women trying to act like entitled starlets….they don’t realize sometimes that that isn’t what makes the starlet…the starlet can just get away with it	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/24 02:28 PM
-4	I believe women have a personal motivation to lie about their desires Anyone with any actual life experience knows that on average women tend to lust after “bad boys” It’s not up for debate This isn’t all women But the majority	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/24 04:20 PM
1	What exactly does a ‘Chad’ look like? That’s nice	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/24 11:51 PM
5	What exactly does a ‘Chad’ look like? Oh I have By overweight cheese hogs no less	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/24 07:14 PM
1	What exactly does a ‘Chad’ look like? True Chads are 8s in the face, not short, decent personality, usually good body The type of guys that have women approach them at bars regularly with the woman wanting to go home with him Or guys that routinely have stranger or acquaintance women tell them that they are hot/cute/whatever	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/24 07:14 PM
0	Promiscuity and hookup culture is ruining our society. Then you’ve defined it so that it is no longer a useful term Cool	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/24 06:03 PM
1	Promiscuity and hookup culture is ruining our society. Always right spectrum person detected	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/24 06:02 PM
1	Promiscuity and hookup culture is ruining our society. Are you confusing English literature with a history book?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/24 03:35 PM
–	If you could make the opposite gender accept one thing as FACT, what would it be? I think what men don’t like is 1 female 3s thinking they deserve a male 8 female 3s getting run through by male 8s that use them for sex, this then makes the woman feel like she’s an 8 and all men are assholes, then she eventually settles down reluctantly with a male closer to her level but by now she has a high notch count and bad attitude	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/24 02:28 PM
–	If you could make the opposite gender accept one thing as FACT, what would it be? A problem more common women that is supported by some others	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/24 02:19 PM
1	Promiscuity and hookup culture is ruining our society. How far back are we going? In the Middle Ages there was hookup culture? Back then, promiscuous women were promarily prostitutes You think that young women a few hundred years ago were giving up those cheeks to random men on the regular? Come on	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/24 01:55 PM
7	To be successful at a SOCIAL interaction with another human (a.k.a. dating / relationship), SOCIAL skills are the most important thing. This is as obvious as the sky is blue, yet some people on this sub keep doubling / tripling down on the desperate lie that social skills are irrelevant. For long term success, yes For short term, it helps, but being hot is enough	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/24 01:53 PM
3	Being the safe and secure option isn't worth it most of the time I’m Gen X and my parents are boomers My mother very much subtly came with the perspective of women are always right and I would get with an angel and men had to be informed on how to treat these angels It was never explicit Just.industrial scale simping and pussy worship Watch women’s day time TV from the 80s and 90s They wore this “women just get it” thing on their sleeve in a hilariously not self-aware manner	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/24 01:17 PM
–	Just like #badboy fantasy is a fixation for (some) women, it has it's equivalent among (some) men: The hot, damaged/dangerous woman who is a livewire, mercurial, neurotic but also very pretty. That’s not an argument and is not accurate	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/24 01:15 PM
3	Telling struggling men to be gay is not a valid solution. Honestly, I’m jealous of gay men. They get treated a lot better by their partners than the average heterosexual man. If turning gay were an option, I’d consider it. And I have no problem attracting women. It’s that the small sliver that would be a decent partner for me are almost all in committed relationships at this point.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/24 04:50 PM
3	Just like #badboy fantasy is a fixation for (some) women, it has it's equivalent among (some) men: The hot, damaged/dangerous woman who is a livewire, mercurial, neurotic but also very pretty. I think you were surrounded by what most men would consider manic pixies You were like a fish not knowing water is a thing	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/24 03:39 PM
3	Just like #badboy fantasy is a fixation for (some) women, it has it's equivalent among (some) men: The hot, damaged/dangerous woman who is a livewire, mercurial, neurotic but also very pretty. Well then your experience is very limited	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/24 03:38 PM
2	Just like #badboy fantasy is a fixation for (some) women, it has it's equivalent among (some) men: The hot, damaged/dangerous woman who is a livewire, mercurial, neurotic but also very pretty. I stupidly used to look for crazy women to love bomb because that’s what I thought falling in love was.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/24 03:37 PM
1	Just like #badboy fantasy is a fixation for (some) women, it has it's equivalent among (some) men: The hot, damaged/dangerous woman who is a livewire, mercurial, neurotic but also very pretty. Manic pixie dream girl thing One thing about damaged women, especially ones with a lot of body art…if they really like a guy, they have sex like a pornstar (often, enthusiastically….often all 3 holes with swallowing) That’s the quiet part out loud part about “crazy girl” sex I dated one for a year and it probably ruined me No normal and healthy woman will likely be like that (e.g. request anal and enjoy it)	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/24 03:26 PM
4	Being the safe and secure option isn't worth it most of the time Hilarious that women think just being near a female is on its own a prize	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/24 03:22 PM
0	Women resent men by default, so they shouldn't act so shocked about men having negative views on them too. She’s mean as hell and always thinks she’s right. What do you expect?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/24 02:22 PM
1	Women resent men by default, so they shouldn't act so shocked about men having negative views on them too. What if I told you I’ve turned down more direct offers of sex OR women that were so into me that I would have had to go on 2 dates max with them…more times than I can recall? I’ve turned down more women than I’ve slept with. It’s in part because I have self control and dislike drama and/or mentally ill people. And I can’t be the only guy like this. So, you are amplifying one message while viewing all men as if they conform to it. I’ve read your posts here and you’re often gratuitously nasty to m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/24 02:21 PM
1	Why aren't males attending singles events anymore? Points….at least quote me right Yeah, if you only concern yourself with what benefits you, then you should feel bad and want to change and the fact you don’t care only underlines it You’re missing out on a key part of being human	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/24 07:36 PM
1	Why aren't males attending singles events anymore? My coworker down the hall is decent in the face and fit But short, bald, and unpleasant He got a mail order bride from Ukraine like 30 years ago And I’m the only one that figured it out (based upon his timeline and what he says and doesn’t say) Thank goodness he’s set to retire	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/24 06:43 PM
1	Why aren't males attending singles events anymore? If you only stand for what you can benefit from and think this is obvious Then you have an empathy problem, which points to autism or a cluster b personality disorder	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/24 06:40 PM
5	Why aren't males attending singles events anymore? Women just have to not be fat, not stink, not be severely mentally ill, not be super mean, not be deformed, have sex with the guy you are dating And you’ll have decent men, most of which exceed you, lined up Just don’t have a serious dealbreaker And many can’t accomplish this	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/24 06:33 PM
1	Blue pillers just don't want "unworthy" people to date or have relationships. Funny thing about radical acceptance of what is observable and actually makes sense without your emotions involved….it kills all your coping mechanisms first….and then will eventually make you stronger and more clear headed. You have to pass through a lake of mental fire first where you accept being an intelligent ape on a rock hurtling around a fusion reaction.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/24 05:02 PM
1	Blue pillers just don't want "unworthy" people to date or have relationships. You ever meet a guy that defines his success in life by the fact that a semi-decent looking woman is willing to be with him? And that’s about the sum total of what might be good about the guy? That’s how some blue pillers come off.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/24 04:56 PM
2	Blue pillers just don't want "unworthy" people to date or have relationships. What in the heck does it mean to be a blue pilled male anyway? Just anti red pill? A simp that thinks women better than men? Someone that believes the mainstream narrative at the time? Male feminist? Religious person that thinks men are to protect women?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/24 04:21 PM
2	Men don’t love romantically either, they’re just coming from a place of scarcity Your wife is watching over your shoulder as you type, isn’t she?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/24 03:05 PM
5	Men don’t love romantically either, they’re just coming from a place of scarcity Hitler liked cake Meditate on that sentence until you have a moment of enlightenment and then get back with me Ok, I realized you’ll never get it Just because I share one or a few thoughts with a community doesn’t mean anything I’ll look into your point But I’d caution off going off of averages It’s like you folks left stats class after they covered averages and thought “well that’s obviously the only way to think about data” In other words, male shit asses exist and your average includes them T…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/24 09:15 PM
3	Men don’t love romantically either, they’re just coming from a place of scarcity Most men are shit like, like most people But the most romantic and honorable people are almost men Women simply do not love men as much as men love women It’s obvious	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/24 07:05 PM
3	Men don’t love romantically either, they’re just coming from a place of scarcity I’m not pilled But I believe a man in love loves his woman much more than the the equivalent woman loves her man In fact, I barely identify female love as love as it does not fit my definition And I’ve had several women in love with me, the closest to how a man loves was a woman that was mildly autistic and if she had talked more I would have married her Men are capable of loving a woman down to her soul and soles of her feet to where he will give his life for her Women are not like that They on…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/24 06:58 PM
1	Men don’t love romantically either, they’re just coming from a place of scarcity Other than church, what venues are you talking about for nontoxic people? We all know that drunk bars and party spots are where the toxic folks congregate often.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/24 06:54 PM
3	By evolutionary logic, we wouldn’t have evolved to be attracted to things about people that they can control Nope Evolution by natural selection is the most misunderstood thing because people think it is so obvious how it works that they don’t have to study it. You are forgetting that a woman’s impulse might be to have healthy kids with good genetics that also survive. So, a man that can display wealth has excess resources that can assure the kids she has with him survive. Sometimes it even creates weird situations like the male peacock where it starts to be a detriment. So, go read a textbook or take …	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/24 05:45 PM
1	Most "nice guys" drop clear signs that they like you, women just play dumb and pretend its him just joking It addresses your point of how being excited doesn’t have to be slutty. Of course, all social things require reading others. That isn’t in dispute by any thinking person.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/24 05:38 PM
4	Most "nice guys" drop clear signs that they like you, women just play dumb and pretend its him just joking They don’t have to do a back flip in a mini skirt with no panties on. For instance, smiling and blushing slightly while not disengaging and giving you the eyes that women often don’t know they give…:is a moderate green light showing restrained interest. You have to be wise enough to differentiate this from trying to play off nervousness not caused by attraction. I think what he means is if you have to convince her of anything, then move on. As far as women’s eyes, they do this extreme version of…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/24 05:29 PM
2	Would you knowingly get into a serious long term relationship with someone who has a fetish for your type? If it was just a strong preference, then 100% and that’s ideal. If it something creepy and like I don’t matter just my characteristic, then no. But I would 200% not date a woman that has a strong type and broke it for me. For instance, a woman that only dated Latino men for 20 years and has a serious thing for them, and I’m the first guy of European descent they’ve dated. I’d assume eventually they’ll leave me for or cheat with their more common preference. This also applies to women that always…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/24 11:22 PM
1	"Learning to read the room" is a way for women to retain plausible deniability on their part If you get a woman alone at your place for dinner and drinks, then you’re at the 5 yard line and ready for a field goal. You don’t have some awkward talk about sex or a relationship. First thing is break personal space (taboo around touch) by just being a bit touchy in a natural way (I.e. not creepy but not “im afraid of this woman”). You do this by acting like nonsexual touch isn’t a big deal without trying hard. Next, when the time is right, you kiss her. And escalate naturally from there. Fir…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/24 05:48 PM
1	The feminist idea that it’s “natural” that dating for men is hard is peak toxic masculinity You’re mixing up evolutionary psychology in principle versus how some people you don’t like talk about it In fact, shortening it to “evopsych” is something you are doing on purpose because it makes it seem like a fringe club If you called it something like “human behavioral biology”, then your preachments would have less impact	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/24 04:58 PM
1	CMV: A man isn't obligated to step in and save a woman from being mugged or assaulted. Yep If it is obvious BS, then I am more than qualified to point that out	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/24 07:23 PM
0	CMV: Hooking up as a man isn’t the same as hooking up as a woman Of course, this situation doesn’t always play out due to human diversity, the fact that a minority of us actually know that we can influence our emotions and desires instead of worship at their altar, and also some women just get the man of their dreams But for the all too common scenario of women settling for the man they can get, you’ve made a very astute observation This also helps explain women filing for divorce so often, the correlation between body count and divorce, and also that women h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/24 01:04 PM
10	CMV: A man isn't obligated to step in and save a woman from being mugged or assaulted. My eyes glazed over from BS overload and so I just assumed it was copied from libertarian forum Listen, i feel like I’m talking to a flat earther Anyone that is fully onboard with true libertarianism is too far gone and I’m not going to spend my time dissecting it It is enough to say that literally all other sides think you guys are ‘tarded Start there and read the millions of critiques of your ideas	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/24 07:30 PM
9	CMV: A man isn't obligated to step in and save a woman from being mugged or assaulted. Yeah And you notice that no actual famous philosophers or public intellectuals believe in that crap You can copy and paste whatever, but it is a half cocked absolutist philosophy that isn’t believed by any highly intelligent people that are moral and also have basic perspective and common sense Now I myself incorporate some libertarian principles in my thinking but true libertarianism is about as workable as the polar opposites of Marxism, socialism, or communism	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/24 07:20 PM
–	CMV: A man isn't obligated to step in and save a woman from being mugged or assaulted. Libertarians believe that it is moral to step over a person in distress when you could easily render aid without incurring risk or cost Simply because “I don’t owe you anything” ? Ok, that’s retarded Because it is totally devoid of a basic thing which is: Humans are social animals and mentally healthy and typical humans all possess empathy Also, it is divorced from the basic moral philosophy starting point which is to erect a veil so you don’t know which side of the moral dilemma you are on In t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/24 06:25 PM
–	CMV: A man isn't obligated to step in and save a woman from being mugged or assaulted. lol Having a properly formed morality is on a high horse Good one	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/24 06:13 PM
–	CMV: A man isn't obligated to step in and save a woman from being mugged or assaulted. Your entire morality is based upon “owe” Weird	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/24 05:50 PM
–	CMV: A man isn't obligated to step in and save a woman from being mugged or assaulted. No worries here Constitutional carry state filled with people that want to be a hero 2 men robbed a store here and the local civilians mag dumped their getaway car so bad that the cops found the car in the ditch a few miles away and both perps had bled out	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/24 05:03 PM
–	CMV: A man isn't obligated to step in and save a woman from being mugged or assaulted. You have a version of morality that is so indifferent to others that I don’t see how it can be useful or coherent Your version of morality seems to only be “don’t do anything to actively harm someone else” which are the morals of a sociopath, nonfunctional autist, or maybe small child	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/24 05:01 PM
–	Women & Stolen Valor You know full well that all supposed victim groups lean greedily upon the past for justification You can’t admit that because if you did you’d have to admit to yourself and others that you have been wrong Or you have to double down and look unhinged to most by stating “yeah and that’s solid morals and logic to coast off your dead relatives like that” So your only options is what you are doing right now, sans personal change	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/24 03:03 PM
15	Question for women: Have you tried making a fake dating profile as a man to see how it would go on tinder/bumble/any other dating service? Best was a bodybuilding forum user that found an unattractive woman and photoshopped her to make it worse and then wrote an obnoxious bio. Decent men from all over were complimenting her and wanting to fly to see her on a date. It was ridiculous. Its so famous you can find it on google in 5 minutes if the algorithm doesn’t hide it because it is ouchie to people	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/24 02:19 PM
1	Being your authentic self slaughters your chances If you were decent looking and advertised vampire services to horny middle aged women in a large city I bet you’d have clients Just act like some goofy movie or book vampire, just don’t actually hurt anyone	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/24 01:33 PM
1	Being your authentic self slaughters your chances They won’t post needed job positions But they have time to produce bullshit training videos that I’ve literally never learned a single thing from	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/24 01:32 PM
1	Being your authentic self slaughters your chances You know those HR women all talk to the managers of stores at least once a week They all seem like cluster b crazies	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/24 01:31 PM
1	Men can't date/marry out of their league with career success and money Totally false There are more than a few gold diggers Do you not consume any celebrity media?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/24 01:27 PM
–	Women & Stolen Valor It’s never explicit like that Rewind to the riots of 2020 Did anyone have the exact conversation of “inner city blacks should not destroy and loot their own neighborhoods” and a liberal sniped back “welll their great great great grandma was a slave so checkmate!” No But the same exact logic was hidden in plain sight everywhere So now this subs arguing technique is “Make things bleedingly explicit until it no longer resembles human communication patterns. State that it isn’t done just like this. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/24 12:52 PM
–	Women & Stolen Valor No one is going to say that explicitly But they will rationalize suboptimal behavior or their desires etc based upon a past they weren’t directly involved in But no, people thinking irrationally never state it cleanly so that it’s seen through, it’s a spaghetti mess on purpose and it helps them believe it too Most of affirmative action and DEI is like this “I need X because Y happened in the past”. But there’s no stopping criteria. Imagine 200 years from now and women still saying well “300 year…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/24 12:41 PM
2	All things considered the best suggestion for men in USA dating wise is to be sociopathic I’ve been called gay to my face by 2 rejected women Are many men calling women lesbians like this? Seems more rare Women are allowed to be bitches when mad or upset	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/24 12:14 AM
1	If you found a study saying that men who cheated on their wives had on average 230% more previous sexual partners than men who did not. Would that make you more concerned about body count than you currently are? You do not judge everyone separately in a vacuum without using past experiences, pattern recognition, and common sense I know you don’t do this because if you practiced what you preached you wouldn’t be alive still because you’d be this naive person continually surprised by life Your entire framing of this speaks of “modern young person that was never taught how to think and not even aware of how they actually do but rather virtue signaling on the internet”	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/24 07:51 PM
1	If you found a study saying that men who cheated on their wives had on average 230% more previous sexual partners than men who did not. Would that make you more concerned about body count than you currently are? PS You also did standard modern woke thing of “Opponent uses an analogy or metaphor….take exception to the metaphor not being perfect OR the example used and ignore the actual thought process they are trying to illustrate” For instance, if you had reviewed the screenplay for Forrest Gump you’re the type that would say “Well life isn’t actually chocolates in a box, you know. Also, talking about brown candies in a confined box seems racially insensitive.”	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/24 06:15 PM
1	If you found a study saying that men who cheated on their wives had on average 230% more previous sexual partners than men who did not. Would that make you more concerned about body count than you currently are? Nope I’ve dated 2 promiscuous women, against my better judgment, and they were absolute nightmares I’ve had 7 relationships of at least 1 year duration (I’m 48) And those 2 were the worst and it’s not even close	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/24 05:57 PM
–	Why is it wrong to say that if men are in the mood and women are neutral (but not agaisnt it) they should have sex with their SO? If the woman isn’t super aroused, then more foreplay is in order But If it routinely takes you 30 minutes to get ready for penetration Then see a doctor or get a more attractive lover	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/24 05:34 PM
2	If you found a study saying that men who cheated on their wives had on average 230% more previous sexual partners than men who did not. Would that make you more concerned about body count than you currently are? It is a clear enough indicator to be useful for predictive purposes Correlations are useful, people forget that as they mime “correlation does not equal causation” as they lick Cheeto dust off their fingers You don’t have to figure out every cause And I don’t have time to figure everyone out I use heuristics Yeah not every rotten looking apple tastes like crap, but it is easier to just pick an apple that is appetizing because it is the best thing to do given self interest and limited time	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/24 05:29 PM
3	All things considered the best suggestion for men in USA dating wise is to be sociopathic Me too If I know the woman wants more (so I will end up hurting her) or it will cause drama, then I turn down situations that would lead to sex pretty quickly And ironically these women I am acting as to not hurt have often gotten mad at me and even called me gay I guessed they’d prefer me to have a fling with them and then they could just get more mad later	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/24 06:06 PM
0	CMV: (long) You'd see less guys flocking to the ''manosphere'' if people were honest about the unfairness of dating. You’re logic chopping The average partner count for heterosexual men and women should be about the same based upon math But this does not entail that a man deemed average, looking at them, will typically have the same count as a woman deemed average If this doesn’t jump out as obvious, then stop making math statements	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/24 02:32 PM
2	If you found a study saying that men who cheated on their wives had on average 230% more previous sexual partners than men who did not. Would that make you more concerned about body count than you currently are? According to your hypothesis In real life, people that are hypersexual or crave attention and validation via sex cheat more It’s plainly obvious	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/24 01:28 PM
5	All things considered the best suggestion for men in USA dating wise is to be sociopathic So long as you can get away with it and it won’t hurt your social standing or mental well being, then of course it is always personally advantageous to act selfishly. This isn’t an endorsement of it. I have a strong conscience and I can’t act badly because I’ll beat myself so much it isn’t worth it. When I meet someone that is amoral or immoral and I have to be around them, I actively hate them. That’s the gamble of shitty behavior. It is all good until you go to jail, get beat down, become soci…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/24 12:55 PM
1	If you found a study saying that men who cheated on their wives had on average 230% more previous sexual partners than men who did not. Would that make you more concerned about body count than you currently are? Body count obviously correlates It would be shocking if it did not	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/24 12:49 PM
1	The feminist idea that it’s “natural” that dating for men is hard is peak toxic masculinity Did I say that? I said that the same critiques he has of Marxism applies to feminism. At least try to use sophistry effectively.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/24 12:38 PM
2	The opposite side of the War Bride dynamic is that men are natural rapists under certain circumstances It first has to be genetically encoded That’s one reason why we aren’t all “perfect” If the mutation doesn’t arise to be selected, then it doesn’t happen	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/24 05:00 PM
1	The opposite side of the War Bride dynamic is that men are natural rapists under certain circumstances Uh huh You think evolution by natural selection is “The best thing happens” That isn’t the case	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/24 04:16 PM
0	The opposite side of the War Bride dynamic is that men are natural rapists under certain circumstances I ve forgotten more about this subject than you currently know	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/24 03:56 PM
8	If a lady is not being intimate with you, it means you are not attractive enough or not trust worthy enough Some women still want to wait to be sure you aren’t asking them out simply for sex. This was pretty standard 20 years ago. The younger generation has a bizarre relationship with sex they spin as progress or something.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/24 02:23 PM
2	The opposite side of the War Bride dynamic is that men are natural rapists under certain circumstances The size difference is easily explained Muscle mass etc takes calories If you need one person for child care and around the camp tasks and another to slay the mammoth, then why make both big enough to slay the mammoth and thus increase calorie demands?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/24 01:19 PM
0	The opposite side of the War Bride dynamic is that men are natural rapists under certain circumstances It isn’t primarily that It’s likely that in an ancestral environment (before men built a civilization that women could safely live in alone), women and children were very vulnerable alone And this is down to starvation and predators and such just as much as anything else	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/24 01:16 PM
0	The feminist idea that it’s “natural” that dating for men is hard is peak toxic masculinity Please explain what evo psych is and how it differs from behavioral biology viewed through the lens of evolution by natural selection And PS I’ve forgotten more about science than you’ll ever know	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/24 01:00 PM
1	The feminist idea that it’s “natural” that dating for men is hard is peak toxic masculinity Spoken like the type of person Popper critiques	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/24 12:28 PM
0	The feminist idea that it’s “natural” that dating for men is hard is peak toxic masculinity It’s laughable paeudoscience Look up Karl Popper’s critique of the core of how Marxists theory, and it applies equally to feminism and most woke-isms It is scathing and decisive, if you can stomach it and give it a chance then it should change you, if you understand it He doesn’t attack it on facts, but rather shows the thought process to be inherently wrong He is the most famous philosopher of science (now deceased)	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/24 01:34 AM
-1	The feminist idea that it’s “natural” that dating for men is hard is peak toxic masculinity Feminist theory is throwing man hating tripe at the wall to see what sticks	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/24 11:02 PM
0	The feminist idea that it’s “natural” that dating for men is hard is peak toxic masculinity You’re right Evolution didn’t affect our brains and thus how they function to create our psychology/consciousness Nope stopped at the neck	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/24 11:02 PM
11	The feminist idea that it’s “natural” that dating for men is hard is peak toxic masculinity It’s also a descriptive and not prescriptive statement In other words, it doesn’t end with “and this is right and good and should continue without criticism or resistance”	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/24 11:00 PM
1	The feminist idea that it’s “natural” that dating for men is hard is peak toxic masculinity They wouldn’t like it if someone pointed out that men are naturally much stronger and so it would only be natural if men ordered women around because what are you gonna do about it?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/24 10:59 PM
1	"Women might be pickier, but their preferences are also unique to each one of them", actually they're rather similar I tried google imaging Nerdy girl And Girl Nextdoor But just found models made up that way or porn stars, lol I’m just easy A woman simply can’t have a dealbreaker And I’ll find something hot about her Dealbreakers would include obese (not just curvy or a few extra pounds), missing or rotten teeth, horrible cystic acne, leprosy or really bad skin comditon such as really bad psoriasis, very manly features, balding, facial hair, body odor as routine, not just big but huge nose or ears, deformed, e…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/24 08:23 PM
1	"Women might be pickier, but their preferences are also unique to each one of them", actually they're rather similar I don’t find her funny and don’t like her personality, but she is a good example of a woman that isn’t conventionally attractive but that I find cute and would bang. I’d date her if she wasn’t famous, was down for that, and had a better personality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/24 08:14 PM
–	"Women might be pickier, but their preferences are also unique to each one of them", actually they're rather similar It’s more common in women than in men because men find way more women at least cute. I find all sorts of women that most men would say are 5s somewhat cute because of something about her. The lower sex drive of most women means they need super stimuli to get horny and it’s also why they are the first to get sexually bored in a relationship usually. I guess it would be nice if women were hornier but then you’d have to worry even more about cheating. It’s a shit sandwich.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/24 06:01 PM
4	Why does it seem many Mainstreams dating apps like Tinder, Bumble, Hinge, paint themselves as "Progressive" and "Female Friendly" yet make most of their money from a large Male audience? When has advertising “straight male friendly” ever helped anyone in current year? I mean you could probably get away with it if you tailored it to straight men of color. But that’s about it. It’s just noise to me now. I take almost no modern social movement seriously other than to be worried it will spread more.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/24 05:29 PM
–	"You're just jealous" is becoming overused and is a low form of conversation in these debates “Jealous” and “insecure” are the new shaming and silencing tactics used against men. I had an exGF that would seemingly try to make me jealous or get back at me by flirting pretty hard with strange men in front of me. She countered with calling me jealous. Um….is that wrong when your behavior is probably designed for that and would make almost all men that care jealous? Isn’t that a bit like calling someone a scaredy cat because they don’t swim with sharks?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/24 05:09 PM
22	There are two ways of talking to women: 1) treating them as people and 2) treating them as people you want to have sex with With certain women, if you can tease them and be funny and then drop a smart observation or also surprise them with your depth….it’s catnip I think it partly makes you mysterious because you hold what they think are contradictory traits	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/24 02:50 PM
1	There are two ways of talking to women: 1) treating them as people and 2) treating them as people you want to have sex with You can be playful like in #2 without bringing up anything remotely sexual or changing how and where you look at the woman/etc It will still be better than option #1 and safer in most contexts	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/24 02:47 PM
1	With respect to attraction, what is considered a "healthy male hobby"? I’m not amused	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/24 02:33 PM
1	hook ups, fwb and long term dating... I’m making simple statements of fact over here and you’re having an emotional rant over there Guess what that usually means?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/24 02:19 PM
2	Do you think that showing direct signs of sexual attraction diminishes social value for women? You gave a part of the answer “He’s a good looking guy” Some women will actively go after (online and off) good looking guys once they pass a certain threshold	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/24 01:53 PM
1	There's a huge difference between what younger women want and what older women want which I believe causes a lot of confusion between what works best for dating Because I’m a guy talking and so I’m wrong	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/24 01:47 PM
1	Do you believe shit tests are real? Um You assume I’m only talking about random strangers or where I have zero knowledge other than looking Listen, you’re trying to get me You think you’re smarter than me, you’re not Move along	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/24 01:46 PM
2	Can men and women be "just" friends" How do you feel about your SO having friends of the opposite sex? Friends with ex's? Friends with former FWBs? The most dangerous is friends with former FWB They are around someone they are less likely to have had relationship drama with and they were hot enough for to have NSA sex with	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/24 01:35 PM
1	With respect to attraction, what is considered a "healthy male hobby"? I have to explicitly type out an “often” or something so that you don’t straw man me in an attempt to be clever? It’s not clever	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/24 01:28 PM
1	hook ups, fwb and long term dating... You can type all you’d like, my simple “all else being equal” style statement is still correct and you know it	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/24 01:26 PM
1	There's a huge difference between what younger women want and what older women want which I believe causes a lot of confusion between what works best for dating Gee I guess I should couch all talk around the utility of various actions based upon some bartering transaction system	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/24 01:24 PM
1	Do you believe shit tests are real? Gee someone making an observation based upon their everyday life experience in the absent of studies on it and not said with 100% certainty underlined I’m sorry We haven’t met, are you the new member of the MS thesis committee?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/24 01:22 PM
1	Do you think men not caring about your career, income and status is a good thing? Oops	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/24 06:38 PM
1	CMV: The requirement that your spouse be your best friend is gendered Very astute. I’m lucky in that my 2 best friends are also best friends and we’ve known each other since junior high. So, they are my two strongest connections. But your larger point for most situations is true. Your point also explains why both of my best friend’s wives have tried to interfere with our friendship at least somewhat. Women don’t like competition for that emotional connection. It doesn’t help that both of their wives don’t have many female friends. They also know that we seek each …	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/24 05:28 PM
2	The vast majority of whining about society online comes from people whose personally lives have failed. It doesn't mean society is collapsing. It doesn't mean the West Has Fallen Billions Must Die. It doesn't mean that all women are evil. It just means that you suck and are looking for why I never mentioned my own thoughts or feelings If English is your second language, maybe try to feel it less and dissect it more	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/24 04:38 PM
4	With respect to attraction, what is considered a "healthy male hobby"? Women smile when I mention I solo bow hunt in the mountains on large tracts (so I know how to navigate etc)	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/24 04:15 PM
1	Do you think men not caring about your career, income and status is a good thing? Even better to make money for yourself and also marry some rich guy	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/24 04:13 PM
1	Do you think men not caring about your career, income and status is a good thing? You think women don’t care about a man’s money? Excuse while I go laugh until I throw up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/24 04:12 PM
1	Do you think men not caring about your career, income and status is a good thing? Men want very badly to be valued for who they are and not their job etc.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/24 04:11 PM
3	Do you believe shit tests are real? The most common one is flirting with other men. Many are subconscious	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/24 03:44 PM
1	Do you believe shit tests are real? The most common male shit test men don’t even know they are doing They try to sleep with a woman too fast and if she does it then we figure she’s been ran through by a ton of men and then don’t take her seriously	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/24 03:41 PM
9	"Women might be pickier, but their preferences are also unique to each one of them", actually they're rather similar When women say things like “I love men in glasses” They typically mean “If a guy is hot, then glasses make him even hotter” Glasses don’t raise him more than a fraction of a point Also, for women that can’t get a man they find hot, this is also a cope “Well Tom isn’t much to look at, but at least he is tall and smart….I’ll lean into my preference for tall and smart men then”	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/24 03:38 PM
3	CMV: The women on Bear Grylls' The Island would have created a better place to live than the males' island PC feminist clap trap Of course Bear had to say that And the women winning would’ve been desired No one is against you ladies, you can’t outperform men even when we are handicapped in order to help you	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/24 03:35 PM
3	The vast majority of whining about society online comes from people whose personally lives have failed. It doesn't mean society is collapsing. It doesn't mean the West Has Fallen Billions Must Die. It doesn't mean that all women are evil. It just means that you suck and are looking for why So you disagree that people most benefiting from a thing will be the most likely to defend a thing? Okey dokey You’re just framing this in a specific way and can’t see the plausibility of another framing because then you’d have to make a concession and you can’t handle that	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/24 02:50 PM
1	hook ups, fwb and long term dating... I’m saying out loud what many men think but keep to themselves	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/24 01:45 PM
1	It takes a high level of intelligence to not be against dating or having children with someone who’s had a lot of sex Wasn’t speaking about myself I don’t date promiscuous women seriously, at least when I dated I take it back I did twice and they were the worst GFs I’ve ever had, I never trusted them, and I have no hard proof but I suspect they both cheated	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/24 01:44 PM
2	There's a huge difference between what younger women want and what older women want which I believe causes a lot of confusion between what works best for dating Yes Half of it is just comforting dressed up as advice Would we be better off being brutal and telling a teenage boy “You need to shower, take care of your skin and hair, dress better, and get into shape where you at least have some visible muscle” ? Would probably hurt some feelings	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/24 01:42 PM
2	The vast majority of whining about society online comes from people whose personally lives have failed. It doesn't mean society is collapsing. It doesn't mean the West Has Fallen Billions Must Die. It doesn't mean that all women are evil. It just means that you suck and are looking for why No it’s just a common sensical observation Of course people thriving in situation X like the situation more than those not thriving And they’d answer the complaint with “gee you must not be thriving in situation X” It’s just a tautology of sorts	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/24 01:39 PM
3	There's a huge difference between what younger women want and what older women want which I believe causes a lot of confusion between what works best for dating True But I’m not talking about that. It’s more “How should I handle this situation?” And the woman tells you how they think you should handle it but it isn’t clear that they are heavily biased towards helping the woman they might not even know whether than you, the male friend that she is speaking with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/24 01:38 PM
-2	hook ups, fwb and long term dating... And you don’t seem to get that women that engage in casual sex but then make the relationship men wait are usually even more mentally unhealthy than a woman that is just consistent in her promiscuity. You have this convoluted thinking that it makes sense to be a rando’s slut but then another guy’s lady. In practice it doesn’t make sense or work. Almost all men with self respect and options will avoid a serious relationship with a woman with a long history of causal sex. But they will positively …	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/24 07:34 PM
22	There's a huge difference between what younger women want and what older women want which I believe causes a lot of confusion between what works best for dating My point is that she gives you “advice” not for your benefit but for the benefit of the woman you are discussing. In other words, “how should I handle this?” is heard as “what should I do for this woman’s benefit?”	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/24 07:31 PM
1	hook ups, fwb and long term dating... You are confused about the arrow of causality here It’s sorta like Spider tattoos on people’s necks don’t change their nervous system, but people that get them usually have underlying issues Same here No sex doesn’t necessarily change a woman (but it can) but women that routinely engage in casual sex outside of relationships usually are less functional within relationships and these issues are what contributes to their flippant attitude towards sex to begin with	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/24 06:56 PM
14	The vast majority of whining about society online comes from people whose personally lives have failed. It doesn't mean society is collapsing. It doesn't mean the West Has Fallen Billions Must Die. It doesn't mean that all women are evil. It just means that you suck and are looking for why Gee, people that benefit from the current structure and narrative like it more than people that suffer under it. You don’t say!	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/24 06:52 PM
8	Most of what gives women the "ick" are just perceived shortcomings of masculinity This fits but replace women for men here and benefit for salary, in other words women are largely blind to things that benefit them or at least don’t harm them “It’s difficult to get a man to understand something when his salary depends upon his not understanding it.” -Upton Sinclair More directly to your point, the only women I’ve seen really understand and have compassion for men are healthy women with sons that they unconditionally love in a healthy way. I consider all other women a lost caus…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/24 06:49 PM
2	hook ups, fwb and long term dating... Nah All sorts of hookups are super hot for both parties Hookups are not masturbation This is absurd	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/24 06:24 PM
4	Q4W: Are men and women not so much different? I think women often start with the assumption “Women just get it and men don’t” And what they think they mean by “it” is reality but what they actually mean is “reality as most women see it” Men can have the same bias but it isn’t openly expressed as often because it’s misogyny when they do it	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/24 02:30 PM
4	Q4W: Are men and women not so much different? Men and women are more like each other than they are similar to squirrels This is true However, in ways that matter, we are quite different on average (but not with 100% coverage) and it has to do with how our genetic differences cause chemical and structural differences in our bodies But I agree that women can be just as bad as men, but it is often expressed differently This is why I am puzzled when so many women automatically side with women when they are in opposition to a man….despite every …	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/24 01:44 PM
41	There's a huge difference between what younger women want and what older women want which I believe causes a lot of confusion between what works best for dating If you ask a woman for advice, at least 50% of the time they put themselves in the woman’s place and tell you what they’d want you to do if it were them You can see them look right through you as they discuss the woman they either know or are imagining	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/24 01:10 PM
1	Why is it wrong to say that if men are in the mood and women are neutral (but not agaisnt it) they should have sex with their SO? Sorry that happened but that’s a rare example I feel like everyone with some sexual experience should know that the most common ending to “Woman isn’t in the mood at first but allows her partner to begin kissing and caressing her….” Is the woman naked, aroused, and glad she decided to give it a shot that day	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/24 12:29 PM
-1	Why is it wrong to say that if men are in the mood and women are neutral (but not agaisnt it) they should have sex with their SO? Most healthy women, barring illness or temporary stress/etc, quickly become aroused and willing once touch is initiated and she makes the decision to go for it….assuming her partner is attractive to her and has some sexual skill My point is that women should know that they can go from 0 to 60 This should be common sense but judging from some things online I read, people sometimes talk about sexuality in a politically correct way that might lead people astray in their own evolution	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/24 12:27 PM
0	Give her the chaos she craves The ultimate cause, I believe, is that men with absent, bad, or highly flexible morals will do whatever it takes to fulfill their goals This includes taking the resources and partners of men that are more submissive and pro-social This selection has happened from before we were modern humans and likely for millions of years So, it’s simply more efficient to want to be with the male that will just take you and/or your resources anyways in the end Also, groups have invaded each other and stolen wo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/24 12:17 PM
1	How would the world change if men only had medium to low libidos? Interesting thought question If this had always been the case, then the course of human history would be entirely different	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/24 12:08 PM
1	Most of what gives women the "ick" are just perceived shortcomings of masculinity That’s both sexes and I think it is a feature and not a bug	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/24 12:04 PM
2	The people who claim most women "like bad men" are lying to you. Ignore the liars' tiny sample size, American-bubble "studies" which "prove women like bad men" and just look at it from a women's self-interest perspective. Bad men will hurt them and make their lives worse. We are defining dominant differently probably, although I see your point. I’m not talking only about naturally very masculine men that other men tend to defer to. I’m also talking about men that go out of their way to impose their will on others without proper consideration for others or the group. Those men are immoral assholes in my view. Because the act is kinda asshole behavior by definition.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/24 12:02 PM
1	A real man wouldn't avoid single mothers when dating Pure motivated reasoning What is the alternative? Sit around and think “gee, I fucked up”? Nope, much easier to blame others	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/24 07:52 PM
1	Women grossly exaggerate the prevalence of drink spiking Sometimes people drink too much, do something bad, and then say their drink was spiked.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/24 07:49 PM
1	It takes a high level of intelligence to not be against dating or having children with someone who’s had a lot of sex Women here say loyalty and promiscuity aren’t related. BS As shown throughout my life experience and observing others. Women that easily share their bodies with strangers are way more likely to get swept up in a feeling and do something wrong. Anyone actually thinks a woman that only sleeps with LTRs isn’t more likely to be sexually loyal than a woman that has been with 100 men? This is on average and predicting. Of course, some woman here will think “I’ve been with 200 men and never cheated” is…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/24 07:43 PM
2	It takes a high level of intelligence to not be against dating or having children with someone who’s had a lot of sex He linked it to intelligence because he is humble bragging. He probably took an online IQ test that said he was very special and you could print a certificate if you gave them $20.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/24 07:40 PM
1	It takes a high level of intelligence to not be against dating or having children with someone who’s had a lot of sex It makes you better able at coping though. A smart guy is dating a former escort and he uses his big brain everyday to combat his gut that is screaming at him. A dumb guys just nopes out. I will say that smart guys are probably more likely to have cerebral kinks, like getting off on the fact that a woman is sexually betraying someone and getting into the psychology of that. Dumb guys just want to see titties and butts.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/24 07:37 PM
1	Most of what gives women the "ick" are just perceived shortcomings of masculinity Everyone should learn to call themselves on their own BS. I know some people that do this, and it’s all men. Women routinely mistake being emotional with empathy, compassion, and self-awareness. “I mean of course I’m more evolved than my husband. I cry when I watch Lifetime movies.”	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/24 07:31 PM
8	Most of what gives women the "ick" are just perceived shortcomings of masculinity Yep If it were common then it wouldn’t be a joke	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/24 07:28 PM
4	Most of what gives women the "ick" are just perceived shortcomings of masculinity Men are more likely to have real hobbies (that take skill and time and sometimes money). These would include things like serious bench rest shooting with reloading etc. Female hobbies are usually BS like reading, watching movies, dinner with friends, wine tasting, and travel. In other words, just time killing things, pleasure seeking, easy things. Women often see a man’s hobbies as competition for his time and resources and so she doesn’t like them. This is often the reason she doesn’t like his …	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/24 07:25 PM
7	Most of what gives women the "ick" are just perceived shortcomings of masculinity If men openly talked about women the way women do about men, there would be congressional hearings over it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/24 07:17 PM
1	The people who claim most women "like bad men" are lying to you. Ignore the liars' tiny sample size, American-bubble "studies" which "prove women like bad men" and just look at it from a women's self-interest perspective. Bad men will hurt them and make their lives worse. They like men that are nice to them but dominant and intimidating to other men. And will take what they want if it benefits them or their families without care for anyone else. Beauty and beast thing	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/24 06:56 PM
2	Why do you assume bluepill=simp ? It isn’t somewhat mature to think better of it and then delete an unkind response that you regret? It’s better just leave it there rather than delete within minutes? You kids and your weird ass special Internet forum etiquette that makes no sense.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/24 06:53 PM
2	Why do you assume bluepill=simp ? The default is no belief regarding an issue.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/24 06:03 PM
1	Why do you assume bluepill=simp ? No I thought you aren’t skilled at communication You’ve proven me correct	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/24 06:01 PM
–	A lot of mens problems would be solved if they date women who are pick me's Debate men all the time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/24 05:03 PM
4	Why do you assume bluepill=simp ? Your comment implied blue pill was the default by not taking the red pill. Whereas taking the blue pill in the movie is a conscious action.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/24 05:00 PM
2	Why do you assume bluepill=simp ? More lessons from communist dictatorships: The natural way humans get food is by standing in a bread line in a rain storm. Keep the lessons coming!	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/24 04:35 PM
3	Why do you assume bluepill=simp ? Watch the movie again. There’s a blue pill in it also. It’s what you take to forget and go back to sleep.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/24 04:33 PM
1	Why do so many straight men seem to want anal sex with their women? Will you be in an LTR with a woman if she says she abhors the idea? Actually, if a woman is relaxed and enjoys it….you can pretty much go to town after a little warm up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/24 07:59 PM
1	Why men today struggle in dating Yes Covid changed human interaction	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/24 07:49 PM
1	The "nice guy" trope is a defense mechanism which women deploy to divert attention from the fact that they are rejecting a guy based on a lack of physical attraction Ant spray for lube	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/24 07:06 PM
2	The "nice guy" trope is a defense mechanism which women deploy to divert attention from the fact that they are rejecting a guy based on a lack of physical attraction Tempered chocolate 2 rubbers	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/24 06:49 PM
14	The "nice guy" trope is a defense mechanism which women deploy to divert attention from the fact that they are rejecting a guy based on a lack of physical attraction Grow an 8” penis made of chocolate that ejaculates money.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/24 06:36 PM
1	CMV: more matches don't mean anything if they're all poor options Women have never been as content as men. It’s a feature and not a bug. It is how women get men to do things for them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/24 06:34 PM
1	It takes a high level of intelligence to not be against dating or having children with someone who’s had a lot of sex Without perspective, mental health, and common sense, a person’s high intelligence often functions to rationalize BS. Does extra brain power help a desperate nerd fight his gut feeling? Sure.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/24 06:29 PM
–	Why do so many straight men seem to want anal sex with their women? Will you be in an LTR with a woman if she says she abhors the idea? You’re wrong. Women have nerve endings in the area and you can hit their g spot from the butt.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/24 06:00 PM
–	"Don't judge a book by his cover"? I spoke specifically about what can be controlled. Of course, my metaphor was not perfect. They never are.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/24 05:32 PM
1	Why "Marriage Material" isn't a compliment to men and being the "hookup guy" is often superior The ideal for me is only lean to a point. If your body fat is too low, you don’t feel as good. Also, if SHTF I want some stored fuel. I’m 48 and my ideal at this age is lean enough to where you can see my abs but not a six pack ( more like a 4 pack). Too much work otherwise and I’m fine just being in top 10% for my age.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/24 09:03 PM
–	Some research or survey came out saying 45% of men aged 18-25 have never approached a women. And yet after I explain that I’m not discussing a conspiracy, you still bring it up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/24 04:02 PM
–	Some research or survey came out saying 45% of men aged 18-25 have never approached a women. First class people hire other first class people, second class people hire third class people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/24 04:01 PM
6	A lot of mens problems would be solved if they date women who are pick me's “Pick me” is just some garbage slander that feminists concocted to avoid having to actually debate Oh, woman said something I don’t like? Hmm…let me dig into my feminist utility belt and get this BS out so I can smear them and not have to do anything else. That will make me win and seem smart for sure.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/24 01:46 PM
1	Would you date someone who is bisexual? Nope Every bisexual woman I’ve known has a high body and a history of cheating Now before someone here that is bi says “that’s not 100%” Yeah, duh It has my experience that the odds stack up too high though A lot of bisexual women are just kind of hyoersexual or use their sexuality or something is just off Also, now you have to worry about them cheating with anyone, not just men	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/24 01:44 PM
1	"Don't judge a book by his cover"? That’s because the woman likely doesn’t even know why she doesn’t like the guy, if it’s enough of a subtle thing So how in the heck is the guy going to figure it out?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/24 01:39 PM
7	"Don't judge a book by his cover"? My favorite response to this is “That’s why books have covers” The publishing house designs the cover the way they do because people are going to see it. When you craft your “cover” (your look and behavior) you should also know people will see and judge it. If you don’t care, then that will show and is also a signal you are sending. For instance, I’d never hire someone with hand, neck, or face tattoos. Not because I think ink changes the person at a chemical level that matters. But they knew tha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/24 01:37 PM
–	Some research or survey came out saying 45% of men aged 18-25 have never approached a women. They claim empathy because they take care of kids and also they like to plan and control social arrangements and get togethers	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/24 01:22 PM
–	Some research or survey came out saying 45% of men aged 18-25 have never approached a women. The type that are likely twice as smart as your smug, jock at the back of class yelling at the teacher, butt You fail to understand how individual or small group behaviors can scale up Probably because it helps your argument to have this type of lack of imagination	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/24 01:20 PM
–	Some research or survey came out saying 45% of men aged 18-25 have never approached a women. You re somewhat wrong If it would have an effect in a small social setting, then it can possibly have an influence that scales up You are confusing the level of analysis with the level of action	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/24 01:19 PM
–	Some research or survey came out saying 45% of men aged 18-25 have never approached a women. Interesting take I don’t wanna do the conspiracy thing of “X caused Y therefore someone planned it and that is why X happened” but Weird that DEI keeps women strongly in the workforce (thus lowering the price of labor while stimulating demand….same thing that the illegal immigration crisis is doing) while also facilitating the female sexual strategy If someone thought all that out, then they are an evil genius	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/24 01:18 PM
–	Some research or survey came out saying 45% of men aged 18-25 have never approached a women. Women wanted to become a Veblen good (demand increases with price due to human delusion/neurosis/social signaling, like doubling the price of a purse so more people want it as a status symbol), but it didn’t work out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/24 01:07 PM
37	Some research or survey came out saying 45% of men aged 18-25 have never approached a women. Yep Imagine if half the time you struck up a conversation with a member of the same sex they ended up making you feel like crap. You’d stop doing that behavior.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/24 12:21 AM
28	Some research or survey came out saying 45% of men aged 18-25 have never approached a women. Of course women want as many safe offers as possible to drive up their collective value. If you ran a business, wouldn’t you want more people after your product to drive more sales and at a higher price? Of course women are shaming them instead of having a productive conversation that leads to a solution.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/24 12:19 AM
1	Why "Marriage Material" isn't a compliment to men and being the "hookup guy" is often superior Big, lean, natural You can only pick 2 I go to a small town gym and I’d say at least 1 in 5 guys there has done at least 1 cycle	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/24 10:57 PM
1	CMV: People put way more more sexual performance pressure on men than on women. You know what I mean and you’re not getting it on purpose There is no honor in “winning” a debate via deceit	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/24 10:56 PM
1	CMV: People put way more more sexual performance pressure on men than on women. Women cannot survive without the social network. There are no stories of a woman heading out into the woods to live off the land by herself that doesn’t end horribly and quickly. This is baked into their genetic expression so much they don’t even see it. It is why women never take accountability willingly and also are hyper aware of their place in the social network and sisterhood and when they become single it is a problem that the woman and her friends try to quickly fix. Ejection from the tri…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/24 09:06 PM
–	Women saying that men would be more attractive if they were more confident is a double-bind. Also, people view “confidence” in an odd and 1D way that is often self-serving. What is meant is social or sexual confidence. Imagine a guy that got a BS in engineering from MIT and went on to be an astronaut. He is extremely competent and confident in his own abilities….the top tier. But he had bad acne in high school and got picked on and passed over. As a result, he doesn’t like big parties and approaching women makes him nervous. The “galaxy brains” among us would view him and say “he’s not …	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/24 08:49 PM
1	CMV: People put way more more sexual performance pressure on men than on women. We went off on a tangent and now you are taking my comment to be expressly about the original point	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/24 07:51 PM
-3	CMV: women aren't empathetic caring individuals Women only truly care about men that they are genetically related to.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/24 07:45 PM
1	CMV: People put way more more sexual performance pressure on men than on women. You have this Buddhist view of things that doesn’t actually map onto humans except in an abstract sense using definitions and imagination And then throwing in the external validation thing further conflates If you care about someone, truly, and then they turn out to think of you negatively, then it’s going to hurt everyone except for an enlightened Buddha or someone that is not neurotypical	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/24 07:42 PM
3	Why "Marriage Material" isn't a compliment to men and being the "hookup guy" is often superior Actually, you can as a man if you are smart and have experience with women. I dated in the 1990s back when “ghetto ho that has banged 200 men” was still an insult All my LTRs had low body counts and would slowly progress physically while obviously holding back and being turned on People had more self control back then maybe It was actually a delicious tease and once you finally had full sex it was electric for both of you I miss that	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/24 07:38 PM
2	Why "Marriage Material" isn't a compliment to men and being the "hookup guy" is often superior If a woman told me You’re for sex not marriage I’d feel like she was saying I’m a mess If she said I’m for marriage and not casual sex Then I’d feel ugly	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/24 07:31 PM
1	Why "Marriage Material" isn't a compliment to men and being the "hookup guy" is often superior You mean the disgust women have for most men? Or the disgust men have for women after they learn how women view men?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/24 07:26 PM
1	Why "Marriage Material" isn't a compliment to men and being the "hookup guy" is often superior Nothing wrong with it because it benefits them and is just seen as the default way of how things are This is why many men think women are solipsistic	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/24 07:25 PM
3	Why "Marriage Material" isn't a compliment to men and being the "hookup guy" is often superior Women don’t understand that most men can’t have a nice body simply by not being fat If a woman has decent genetics to hold weight in boobs, butt, hips…then at least when young all she has to do is move around some and not overeat to have a body attractive to most men A man gaining lean muscle mass to have definition without gaining a belly is at least 10x harder and often causes injuries	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/24 07:24 PM
2	Why "Marriage Material" isn't a compliment to men and being the "hookup guy" is often superior See, I’d rather someone think I’m mean than stupid. I will never understand people that feign incompetence. Do they have no self-respect?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/24 07:20 PM
3	Why "Marriage Material" isn't a compliment to men and being the "hookup guy" is often superior Worst women are the ones that are actively turned on by asshole behavior and they go after men with antisocial personality traits	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/24 07:11 PM
3	Why "Marriage Material" isn't a compliment to men and being the "hookup guy" is often superior Doesn’t mean they are in good relationships	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/24 07:08 PM
1	Why "Marriage Material" isn't a compliment to men and being the "hookup guy" is often superior I saw a woman today walking with her BF I could see the dynamic so clearly that she might as well been wearing a shirt that said “I have the pussy, so I make the rules”	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/24 07:07 PM
7	Why "Marriage Material" isn't a compliment to men and being the "hookup guy" is often superior This is what happens when you blow smoke up women’s butts to the point where they think they are superior to men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/24 07:05 PM
1	Why "Marriage Material" isn't a compliment to men and being the "hookup guy" is often superior Good point If a GF was making me feel sexy, then I’d know she didn’t mean it in a bad way	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/24 07:03 PM
1	Why "Marriage Material" isn't a compliment to men and being the "hookup guy" is often superior I agree But it’s high time women start trying to understand men a bit more and also stop acting like women are so damn evolved	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/24 07:00 PM
1	Why "Marriage Material" isn't a compliment to men and being the "hookup guy" is often superior Yep Men are the opposite to women Desperate men will bang an obese woman they’d never even take to dinner Women will marry an average guy that they have to force themselves to have sex with	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/24 07:00 PM
2	Why "Marriage Material" isn't a compliment to men and being the "hookup guy" is often superior Women talking anonymously on the internet has been the greatest gift to men It freaks women out and they contort themselves into all sorts of things for damage control and to regain control of the narrative	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/24 06:53 PM
1	Why "Marriage Material" isn't a compliment to men and being the "hookup guy" is often superior Female solipsism It’s the same reason women call men dumb simply because most of us don’t think like women	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/24 06:51 PM
7	Are guys who have more success in their 30s actually out for revenge like some narratives here suggest? For some women, the answer to their problems is penis Just had a breakup and feel bad? Better go find some penis It’s gross I broke up with an ex that promptly went on Facebook and stated how she wanted a guy to take her out to drink whiskey to get over me I’m sure her inbox got flooded as she was pretty cute No way I was taking her back after seeing that “Gee how much jizz did it take to spackle over the whole I left in your heart?”	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/24 06:38 PM
2	Are guys who have more success in their 30s actually out for revenge like some narratives here suggest? I don’t want revenge But having women send me signals and I ignore them is somewhat delicious	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/24 06:36 PM
0	CMV: People put way more more sexual performance pressure on men than on women. That’s the rub If you don’t care what someone thinks, then you don’t actually care about them	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/24 06:35 PM
0	CMV: People put way more more sexual performance pressure on men than on women. You’ve just revealed the BS mind games women play with men around sex and then wonder why they have a bad time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/24 06:26 PM
1	Intelligence and Promiscuity It might be a bit of a chicken and egg. The more intelligent you are the more likely you are to move away from home to a larger city for school and work. This also leads to more liberal views. Many super smart women I know try to out think their own instincts or what narrative they were told. This sometimes makes them miserable. Like the logic out why it shouldn’t matter if they are super promiscuous and then the various consequences surprise them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/24 05:44 PM
2	The Issue is Men I believe men and women are significantly different on average Therefore, because I believe my eyes, I’m sure many think I am sexist	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/24 05:37 PM
1	If there is "someone for everyone out there" how do so many men struggle to find one (1) woman that likes them back? “There’s someone for everyone” Is just a platitude Like believing karma always gets people When it doesn’t always Just crap your grandma says to make the world seem better	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/24 05:04 PM
0	CMV: People put way more more sexual performance pressure on men than on women. You don’t have to be obsessed with it Obsession isn’t even a debate point here But anyways, tons of women are interested in dick size	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/24 05:02 PM
–	Average guys are made to feel "dirty" for having a sexual desire I thought sex was something women did for men to make the man happy	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/24 05:01 PM
2	CMV: People put way more more sexual performance pressure on men than on women. You need to realize women bully too I think half the women here realize women have been awful to them But turn around and take the woman’s side every time when their is a male to female conflict It’s like women are all brainwashed in this regard and you can’t help it	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/24 05:00 PM
0	CMV: People put way more more sexual performance pressure on men than on women. Do they just randomly say that with no proof? Do you see how that is different than a woman that has seen it talking about it in detail?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/24 04:58 PM
1	CMV: People put way more more sexual performance pressure on men than on women. If they do it is a total joke. Have one of my oldest friends ever said something like “hey you look like the kind of guy with a little dick”? Probably Do I remember or did it hurt me? No Do men talk realistically about other men’s dicks? Not straight men past the age of 18 or something. Half the women here might be on that ‘tism and don’t know the difference between guys joking without knowledge versus a woman being vicious.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/24 04:55 PM
0	CMV: People put way more more sexual performance pressure on men than on women. Um…the fact that men do it more means what here? That we shouldn’t notice when women do it? Please explain.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/24 04:52 PM
2	CMV: People put way more more sexual performance pressure on men than on women. I’m significantly above average without being a monster. About the size of a pornstar that is just big enough for film. And only one woman among 20 ever complimented me or recognized I am above average. I think women are often super weird and unhealthy regarding their sexuality but the women here will just blame men for that and so they don’t have to work on themselves. It’s the job of men to fix their heads too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/24 04:51 PM
1	CMV: People put way more more sexual performance pressure on men than on women. Just like women laugh about men being sexually assaulted in jail.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/24 04:40 PM
–	Average guys are made to feel "dirty" for having a sexual desire I was like that. I didn’t think women enjoyed sex until I was 18. My mom would s batshit and raised me under the assumption that any woman I dated would be a princess that I kissed the ass of, like what she expected from my dad.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/24 03:41 PM
0	Why do the majority of people find their life partner between the ages of 25-30? What happens during this time to cause this phenomenon? People that want kids know they better get started preparing along that path before the eggs go bad. Also, people look around and others are doing it and so there is peer pressure. I’d bet people that don’t want kids are less likely to marry and those that do marry at a later age.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/24 12:35 AM
1	While it can be annoying for women to be expected to shave their legs, I think it's preferable to the complete lack of uniformity of body hair grooming standards for men No Modern young people think that their little ankle tattoo and their pit hair and their purple mohawk is some big part of their personality When it is a substitute for one It’s just stupid and gross to me	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/24 09:13 PM
–	While it can be annoying for women to be expected to shave their legs, I think it's preferable to the complete lack of uniformity of body hair grooming standards for men Folks need to realize that how they dress and how they do their body hair is not who they are And you don’t have to be “I’m an independent boss babe” on your sleeve 24/7 Guess what I would do if the perfect woman asked me to shave my groin? I’d shave because it’s just fucking nut hair I bet you have a reason for why I should do that but a woman should never do a nice little thing for a man	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/24 07:30 PM
2	Rejection is far better than manipulation Here we have it boys The peak female pickiness Brad Pitt in fight club is unattractive because he isn’t a hairy beast with a fatty liver	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/24 07:24 PM
2	Rejection is far better than manipulation You can’t picture a 6 foot 185 lbs man that works out and has low body fat at that weight? To give you a reference, Brad Pitt in fight club was 5’11 and like 160 lbs	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/24 04:06 PM
–	Women saying that men would be more attractive if they were more confident is a double-bind. Women hate ugly and/or incompetent men that are more confident than they think they should be. It is creepy cringe and awkward to them….the trinity of female kryptonite	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/24 03:10 PM