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Nah I’m just holding you to account to debate fairly
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 06:08 PM
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I said something You said something that made no obvious sense I point that out Now you want me to offer more? That is wild How about you make sense first ?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 10:21 PM
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That’s not true Some of the most promiscuous women I know are smart but crazy and attention hungry
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 10:20 PM
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You don’t think there is a correlation between extreme promiscuity or sex work and mental issues? I’m talking about consensual sex here to be clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 08:00 PM
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Nope Your comment is still orthogonal to my own What I said makes all the sense in the world. Something having an implication you or others don’t like has nothing to do regarding with if it is true or not. I should not have confused you with my aside regarding hypothesis testing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 07:58 PM
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How does your comment have any bearing on mine? Implications of statements don’t make the statement true or false, unless the implication is part of hypothesis testing (by way of data prediction and comparison)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 05:07 PM
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No Mentally ill women or those with no self worth are the easiest to bang
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 04:46 PM
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Yeah you have a fetish
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 04:38 PM
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You’ll take a fat woman with a pretty face over a gym goer? Why is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 04:15 PM
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I have also liked the feminine girl next door type that isn’t high maintenance and is cute but not hot Subconsciously I know it is because women hotter than them will either reject me or treat me poorly Even within that 5 to 7 range within which I’ve dated, the 7s treated me more poorly They are roughly on my level which of course made them think they could do better because they regularly got male attention
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:55 PM
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They don’t like them A lot of gym bros are compensating for being short, ugly, on the spectrum, or something else They get fit and the hot women still don’t want them
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:52 PM
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What? Unmarried men are feared and assumed either a loser or pervert or closeted gay Women can be seen as just doing her own thing You have this backward in the US at least
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 06:41 PM
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Non feminine boss babe chicks with a colored short Karen cut and body art are kind of scary to many men I expect a huge attitude Feminine women that appear kind are approachable
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 05:20 PM
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This is area specific and for certain areas and certain properties is dumb advice
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 04:46 PM
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Yes Please start liking men It would do a lot for us
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 09:10 PM
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My parents rented for years and had some bad renters What I figured out from the outside is that the people that charmed their pants off, so to speak, at the first meeting were the worst renters Con man vibe Good and genuine people hit different You need to observe others and learn to spot this
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 07:49 PM
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Yep slutty Chads interact with a lot of women Similarly Cluster B women go through a lot of men, so even though probably less than 10% of women have those strong traits, most men end up dating one at least once
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 07:47 PM
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They are attracted to personality once the minimum physical attraction is met. So few men are hot to women, that women don’t even know how to act around legit top 1% men. You all don’t realize it but you behave so goofy and obvious even with your husband next to you. At bare minimum, you blush, act nervous, and start Fing with your hair. Men find around 1/4 of women pretty damn hot, so we are practiced as far as how to act around them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 04:57 PM
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As a woman that does not play the same in the male dominance hierarchy, you probably view what makes a guy an asshole differently. Let’s consider the domineering, overly assertive guy that subtly is always trying to dominate other men and get their way, but he’s confident and charismatic about it. Another guy with self respect will often get tired of his crap. Women are much more likely to spin this as masculine and ambitious or whatever that explains the tingles.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 02:28 PM
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But they feel way less weird or guilty about you spending money on them than the converse, most likely.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 02:25 PM
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Some more reserved people just don’t like most other humans because most people are kind of dumb and dysfunctional I for one don’t play dominance hierarchy games I do not seek to dominate or be dominated, and half of all random social interaction is just that, whether you realize it or not I can and have been in dominant positions many times, where others were kissing my ass, and it does nothing for me except make me want to build them up
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 05:39 PM
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What super libs think of as progress is often just reverting to a feral state Like all these Karens thinking getting in touch with and following your emotions is enlightenment No, your emotions are how the primitive parts of your brain influence what makes you different from other animals, which is your human intellect
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 05:37 PM
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I asked a specific person a specific question And then you give me your usual, which is to argue with a specific person by referring to vague others You should highly consider that you aren’t as smart as you’d like to think I detect some mild ‘tism from you, and all folks I know like that overestimate themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 05:12 PM
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People feel it is okay to snipe at people or judge people harshly that they feel are in a superior position. This can come down to physical size. An average man is massively stronger than the average woman, especially in upper body strength but also lower. So, we are these big ogres walking around. I’ve seen way more men make an honest attempt at understanding women than the converse.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 02:27 PM
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Humans are insanely tribal We break out into groups for freaking sports and then fight over it Most humans are dumb as fuck and let someone else think for them and care too much what others think and about fitting in with a group
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 01:31 AM
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How do you know how women act privately in romantic relationships? Also, I think the male and female definition of toxic is different and solipsistic For instance, there’s probably some stuff your friends do to men that you don’t consider toxic but you would find it unacceptable if they did it to you or another woman
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 01:30 AM
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They don’t want to be saved.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 02:00 PM
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Well It could also be that recently pregnant and crazy woman uses it as a get out of jail free card
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 01:09 PM
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Doesn’t change the point even if true And the infidelity surveys are marred by women being less likely to admit infidelity and also more likely to spin it as not infidelity For instance, women and their friends will often agree that cheating to secure a new boyfriend at the end of a failing relationship isn’t really cheating because the relationship was basically over anyway They would answer that they have not cheated My sense is that at least 25% of both men and women have cheated at least onc…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 11:16 PM
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It’s a women are wonderful thing If a woman kills her kids, then everyone jumps to post partum depression in order to let her off the hook Same as when a woman cheats, it’s due to things outside her always
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 10:17 PM
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Yeah, most folks don’t set aside Saturday only for their new interest. Now, it’s typically bang after knowing each other 2 weeks, and if it was good for both people, then they want to replicate that at least every 3 days or so, unless they are super used to casual sex and so sex isn’t even a big deal. A former supervisor is on the spectrum, and he would schedule all his work out a year in advance (which is unreasonable for what we did) and then freak when he couldn’t do on a certain day what he …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 08:23 PM
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He’s spacing them out at 1 week intervals and so reasoning 1.5 months is 6 dates That’s the issue If you meet someone and really hit it off, no way you’re only seeing each other once a week The 1.5 months to be exclusive is maybe typical But in that 45 day time you’ve hung out probably 20 times, talk a bunch on the phone, and been banging for a few weeks That is if you both really like each other, no way you wait more than 3 days to see each other unless unavoidable
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 04:39 PM
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Expected response from someone that preemptively corrects grammar in their tag line
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 02:49 PM
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Unless she is painfully shy around new people or has social anxiety You can usually tell the difference though Still might not be something you want to deal with Also, common for two people to be chatty at the beginning and then become quiet as they realize they don’t really have enough in common and then break ups occur
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 08:04 PM
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Yep It’s weird that people here think that men should not bond with a woman until they have close to full knowledge or that you can get close to full knowledge so easily by talking and looking at their Facebook or something In almost all break ups, people think “if I’d known what I know now, I wouldn’t have gotten involved.” Take me and my worst 2 exes The person they were the first few months was a farce and that combined with my rose colored glasses made me bond with them Then their true selve…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 02:28 PM
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You hear this But let’s say you meet a woman out at a bar She is dressed skimpy You think “maybe this is just because she is single and wants to meet a guy” You get in a relationship and fast forward a few months you go out to a bar She goes with tits and camel toe out I think “well I was like this when you met me” is a bit hollow This also goes with behavior An ex flirted with my male friends and family too much and just paid them way too much attention compared to other women and even me at ti…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 01:47 PM
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Men have agency. You don’t need this mythical “free will” to have a will and agency. The entire free will debate is improperly framed and I can’t believe more philosophers don’t see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 05:25 PM
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Electronic communication is now seen as throwaway and not important But it is important Modern folks can’t imagine a time when communication was land line, letter, or in person Women had a much harder time keeping up these supposedly innocent communications with other men And if a guy was calling her, writing her, or visiting her then it was suspect Now it is considered normal for your GF to have nearly daily hidden communications with other men This would be seen as crazy by past generations In…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 08:09 PM
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And this is why women report lower infidelity rates than men also
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 06:18 PM
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And this is why those surveys are flawed and underestimate female cheating in part because women will even lie to themselves that something was cheating “Well it was towards the end of the marriage and he was mean, so that isn’t cheating” Etc They should design a survey somewhat like this thread For instance, if almost every woman says her best friend has cheated, then guess what that means? I’d put lifetime cheating at at least 25% for both genders
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 06:13 PM
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I think if a man was submissive to a woman that derived sexual pleasure from that and then he gets a new girlfriend and she is similar and wants to dominate him Then it’s fair the woman would feel a bit cheated It’s a weird version of he ate one girl out but not another (unless her vagina has a foul odor or taste because then it isn’t apple to apples) It’s just that so few men want to be pegged or will allow it and there are so few women that enjoy the act of pegging, that this never comes up So…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 02:28 PM
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It’s not entirely due to liberalism directly, it’s just a correlation and so an indicator Mentally ill women, women without an outside source of morality, women with troubled families or women that crave attention cheat more and most of these women are liberal If you see a woman with colored hair and body art drinking at a bar and eye balling or talking to a bunch of men, that isn’t who you look for for fidelity She also almost 100% super liberal
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 02:26 PM
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The replies here are conflating romantic love with familial love and also other forms “Love isn’t a scam because I love my grandma” Yeah, not a point
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 10:51 PM
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Friendship and familial love doesn’t require you to believe and feel unrealistic things about another person Romantic love is irrational
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 10:49 PM
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The only way a woman loves a man the way a man defines love is if the woman is star struck almost and thinks she can do no better She cannot actually love a man she considers a secondary choice At that point, it’s just a mercenary deal
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 10:48 PM
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Women simply do not on average love or empathize with or understand men the way men are encouraged to for them Men finally see this because the internet allows everyone to talk anonymously And the replies will kind of prove my point Women will just dismiss this and say “yes we do” which is what you would expect if my statement was true If my statement was false, they would actually take it seriously But women probably can’t wrap their head around that one It’s like if someone I respect told me “…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 10:43 PM
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They are both often cluster b disordered But it varies in expression Are they dumb and blatantly self destructive? Probably low class and often jailed Are they instead smart and just totally self interested to an antisocial degree? Clintons
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 03:20 PM
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Are you trying to ironically prove his point?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 03:16 PM
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Life was way different pre internet and smartphone People did things because many things simply for lack of easy stimulation TV was more boring etc You had to do something to fill your time because wasting time was more excruciating
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 07:56 PM
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Oh yes The fact that I like peanut butter and jelly indicates that I like peanut butter less than someone that doesn’t like jelly
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 07:38 PM
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Women finding most men unattractive, including average women finding average men unattractive, could indicate that they simply have very high standards or require a super stimulus for arousal due to lower baseline libido. Your argument is similar to saying a connoisseur does not like food as much because they are “too good” eat a hot dog.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 04:40 PM
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Empathy isn’t the same thing as compassion
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 08:41 PM
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You’re describing a domineering asshole that you’ve heard of on the internet or saw in movies. It’s no one I admire. It’s enough simply to have balls and a spine. Asserting yourself over others and not giving a shit is a modern idea about what a real man is born from weak men on the internet. Men that are really like this have been traumatized and mentally ill. So you’re basically talking about a narcissist with the physical and/or mental chops to actually pull it off.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 03:26 PM
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I did not mention a contract I meant that if a woman wants no porn then her being nonsexual as well isn’t going to work well
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 04:19 PM
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So a woman spilling the beans without thinking she did isn’t a thing? Come on
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 05:10 PM
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You asked how a man would know without watching And I told you That’s all
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 04:54 PM
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Partly But it goes too far in people’s thoughts For instance, I’m a bow hunter and I primarily hunt large bucks for the challenge A family member that isn’t successful wants to act like it’s all luck to explain away their lack of success It is always a good bit of luck But let’s say with skill I can raise my odds on a given day from 1% to 5% Still a lot of luck but over time my success rate will be 5X if we hunt the same amount So it’s like black jack….but with card counting
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 04:52 PM
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Women will straight up let stuff like this slip that provides strong clues Sometimes it is on purpose to hurt or manipulate the partner Sometimes it’s because the woman talks about herself too much For instance, I learned my last partner was likely highly promiscuous at certain points just by letting her talk and noting timing and what she said and didn’t say etc When we broke up, I told her “one reason for this is that you constantly lie about your past and so I don’t really know you” and she s…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 04:32 PM
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I think the pretext is more that they found out after some time and feel somewhat deceived or exploited It isn’t something where they built a life with eyes fully open
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 04:29 PM
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If a woman wants a man to stop watching porn She should be having sex with him a minimum of 3 times a week
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 03:44 PM
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Nope I’m in STEM So I’ve just known a bunch of them Including a supervisor This got me interested and I have read about it and looked at the reddits and such for those folks
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 03:39 PM
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So now you are resorting to the “most” qualifier (51%) Gee I didn’t know that was the assumption You just can’t be even slightly wrong or needing to modify or qualify Congrats Must be a difficult life
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 03:18 PM
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Sure Are all limestone rocks exactly similar? No Is it still useful to have the category limestone in comparison to sandstone? Yes What you are parroting is one of the primary coping mechanisms of the autistic community Do some people overgeneralize? Sure Does that disprove the utility of careful generalization (which is what categories are for)? No
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 02:55 PM
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If they are all so different Then why is it a category? You can’t have a category of totally dissimilar things
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 02:44 PM
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I don’t think you get it I know all these things You are giving advice on how to deal with a woman with decent mental and sexual health I’m saying fewer women than you think have that health This is similar to a book on how to deal with people that specifies the person has no significant issues as a starting condition
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 02:22 PM
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Yep, I agree But then if you don’t immediately know how to get them off, they can be upset about that Honestly, I think it comes down to how attractive you are to them When I dated women where I was there exact type, they were more orgasmic and these sexual issues didn’t exist I didn’t have to read their minds as much
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 06:05 AM
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The discussions here often take into account the full range of men, including dysfunctional ones But it seems that when discussing females we are to stick to normal healthy and typical I’d guess 25% of women have significant sexual dysfunction due to trauma, medication, or something else For instance, one woman would only have sex in the missionary position because she enjoyed symmetry and doggy and cowgirl felt slutty
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 09:54 PM
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They had strong nonverbal clues perhaps by being naturally more sexual people Not hard to figure out
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 08:29 PM
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I have had around 15 partners. I’ve had women that provided guidance as I did to them in a sexy way. It’s hot to teach each other about our likes. But of course this is stereotypically male. I would more have a mildly dominant, nice trainer vibe and all women responded well to that. I’ve had women that were evident in their arousal but it was mostly nonverbal. But I’ve had one that didn’t even know how to get herself off, one that sat back and silently judged me for not knowing her idiosyncrasie…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 05:35 PM
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The ideal sexual man is kind of a sex god robot though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 05:30 PM
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You’re assuming a stereotype in your head that lets the woman off the hook and blames the guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 05:26 PM
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Women say in one breath that every woman is different and in the other they judge a man for not knowing how to get them off and want the guy to just get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 09:53 PM
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It’s true of men in a way If you are the guy without a family you are considered odd and they want to try to figure it out If you ask a guy if he wants to do a manly thing even but one on one (like shooting basketball, gun range etc) then if you are single many men will assume you are gay and hitting on them As a woman, you don’t see this subtle dynamic It is much safer to meet men through family stuff first, prove you aren’t a creep or something, and then transition to being one on one friends …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 09:41 PM
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One difference is that now I realize that if I am not at least engaged to the woman that she feels entitled to meet other men and see if they are a better match The only real taboo is that you shouldn’t get physical until you leave the relationship But this thing of not looking around or entertaining options until completely single is gone from my head as far as how I expect anyone I date to behave This is in part why women fight so hard to be able to have male friends that they communicate with…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 09:26 PM
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I live in a town of 15,000 Socializing past a certain age is largely child-centric, unless you go to bars and put up with those downsides I’m over 40 and male and reasonably attractive and so people just think I’m odd, troubled, or gay
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 09:21 PM
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Men excel in all those things because past a certain high threshold (pick an iq level like 150) it’s mostly men based upon how the distribution curves look This idea that women don’t win Fields Medals due to discrimination is tired
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 04:50 PM
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I would never get serious with a woman that was much wealthier or more successful than me. There’s many reasons. One is that I don’t like being super concerned with pleasing assholes that I don’t like, which is basically half of what work is for most people. So, she would likely be perplexed why I’m fine with working below my potential and staying in a technical field that only leaves me middle class pay. It’s because I put in my time to live and then fuck these people, I’m out.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 02:26 PM
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It doesn’t Something that explains everything actually explains nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:13 PM
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As a guy, I can only open up to family and my 2 male friends I’ve had since childhood. Men you meet later in life will not be okay with this. And if you ask them to grab a beer outside of a group or shared hobby, then they will think you are hitting on them. And you know what? Women are some of the biggest enforcers of this because they like being this important to men. The wives of my 2 best friends are jealous of our friendship because it isn’t about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:03 PM
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Why do you think using those words are a magical spell that wins debates? You forgot “insecure” Just tell a guy “you sound insecure” and you ein, didn’t get that memo?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 03:54 PM
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I see hardly any hot women with ugly men unless it’s obviously the guy was once good looking but let himself go
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 03:10 PM
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Yes, if you disagree with blue piller or lib then they demand a PhD dissertation or a formal logical argument progressing from first principles
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 03:09 PM
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Red pill now means anything “based” and not standard narrative
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 02:30 PM
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You don’t have to know Tate to agree with some red pill truths when stated in a more gentle fashion
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 02:29 PM
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This is largely due to social media and women communicating anonymously on the internet and men sharing notes and stories on the internet It’s similar to how only boomers and diehard libs still trust the mainstream media
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 02:29 PM
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Most men just don’t talk about it People have this weird thing where if someone doesn’t disagree with them openly (but also does not actively agree) then they assume the person does agree with them
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 02:24 PM
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Does that mean no parent’s love unconditionally? I think your bad examples should be limited to those examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 06:40 PM
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It can from parent toward child.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 06:39 PM
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The most effective way for average men to get sex short term is to lie and act like you are wanting a relationship with the woman It’s sad but it has always been this way It’s why I’ve counseled female friends to take things slower, which they sometimes construed as slut shaming rather than advice It’s called evil beta game
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 07:14 PM
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I have no idea what the red pill is exactly now However in the past the idea was to fix what you can and that improvement is possible
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 05:13 PM
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If you have to check in verbally and consciously then the sex is bad
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 04:54 PM
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You are extremely closed minded and seemingly narcissistic
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 04:53 PM
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I’m saying that neurotypicals don’t need all these weird rules
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 04:52 PM
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It’s wrong in that a straight man wants no gay men sexually Vs a straight woman probably wants some men sexually Where it is accurate is the feeling straight guys get when a gay or bi guys goes after them and especially when they are insistent I’m not married so this has happened to me countless times
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 04:51 PM
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True Also, if you are the rare non-degenerate around degenerates Then expect that eventually their problems will visit you You are not special
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 04:45 PM
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Some women here seem reasonable and lovely Some seem to have personality issues and to hate men I’d date the former, even if they were nominally blue pill I’m more MGTOW which is now considered non-existent or incel Both red and blue pill can agree they don’t like voluntarily celibate men
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 04:41 PM
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You need help
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 04:38 PM
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Thankfully People are still mostly smart enough to know a married woman having begrudging duty sex isn’t an SA victim simply because she was annoyed and treated it as a chore one time However give the SJWs time on this one
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 04:37 PM
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No I think it is more that autists came up with all this crap to begin with when it wasn’t a problem that needed detailed for the rest of us So don’t apply your world view to one you can’t understand that is what most others experience
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 04:27 PM
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You are interpreting enthusiastic consent in a way that makes sense and not as SJWs mean it For instance, you have a functioning brain and so if a woman has been naked with a man for an hour and he is erected and she puts a condom on him and then climbs on top as he is smiling and guiding her hips Sounds fine? Nope, she’s a potential grapist SJWs want you to say some loud awkward shit and then reaffirm it regularly I’m sure they have a math formula…like once per 20 strokes
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 04:24 PM
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What if both people are super drunk and both consent?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 04:15 PM
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All or nothing Characteristic of autists and cluster Bs and ideologues and young people Are you now surprised Reddit is filled with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 04:14 PM
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No You are inserting the idea that the men are making incorrect generalizations that they apply to all individuals
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 03:16 PM
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Being taken by a strong and dominant male that is overcome by their desire Is not primarily due to slut shaming This is just feminists trying to turn something about women into men’s fault, which is typical Being desired by a strong and bold male makes obvious evolutionary sense However, parts of this are also evolved coping mechanisms for what unfortunately happened to women a lot in the past (and now but less so) before the rule of law Invaders would kill the men and take the women, and it is …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 03:13 PM
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A lot of this is pushed by weird autistic cat ladies that have never had good sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 02:35 PM
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I recall a study where men across cultures valued loyalty in women above all other non-physical traits. So, ladies, your soy boy that is cool with you hanging out alone for drinks with your male friend from work is the exception that proves the rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 08:59 PM
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I’ve dated mean/mental women that tried to make up for it with wild sex whenever I wanted it. Eventually it got old and I moved on. It’s kind of gross and makes you lose respect when “give coochie” is a woman’s primary relationship skill.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 07:03 PM
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The difference is that when a man treats another man poorly then other people notice and also there are society approved steps….including physical altercations in extreme cases. This is not nearly the case when women treat men poorly.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 03:54 PM
1

The folks that think wokeness has gone too far and needs to be put in its place…. is a huge and diverse crowd. Painting them with a broad brush is ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 03:52 PM
1

What? I said voluntary abstinence of something (like dieting and food) is easier than involuntary. How is that not reasonable? Then you say I don’t make sense. Please.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 01:39 PM
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Women are very visual They just have very refined taste It’s because you have lower baseline libido and so need a strong stimulus In comparison, men are like that time you were starving and that McDonald’s burger tasted like the best thing ever
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 03:01 PM
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It got called Men Sent Their Own Way By the red pill, PUAs, and man hating feminists I guess they couldn’t compute straight men not prioritizing sexual relationships with women It united both sides, which is hilarious and telling
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 02:53 PM
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It’s largely a way for low T soy boys to feel tough. They are tough because they want other people to die. Also, it moistens their mangina like how some women like seeing men fight. These guys probably have never shot a gun or been in a real fist fight (slapping and pulling hair in 3rd grade doesn’t count).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 02:26 AM
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I’ve been voluntarily celibate for years I have family, friends, and hobbies Ive also had GFs and have had sex I now take care of my urges by wanking it a few times a week, so I guess I’m not totally celibate It gets the poison out and I go about my day I’m fine If I’d never had sex and this wasn’t voluntary then it would probably feel bad Sorta like how hunger from dieting probably hits different than hunger from poverty You bringing up jail and such is only a distraction
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 08:43 PM
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Men going their own way Check it out Yeah mgtows are mostly live and let live moderate libertarian types that don’t want to bother others or be bothered Wise man that lives alone on the outskirts of the village vibe So unless you hurt people or try to push ideas then they wouldnt care
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 08:38 PM
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I’ve been voluntarily celibate for years. I get female indicators of interest all the time. Hell, a married co-worker wants to have an affair with me right now. It’s more people projecting onto you. For instance, a good friend is obese and drinks a 6 pack a day for the last 20 years. He’s on his second marriage to a woman on her fourth marriage. He’s worried about me though because I don’t have a GF. Lmfao I love the guy like a brother, but he thinks like that because being married is one of the…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 07:18 PM
2

Huh? You can’t be literal. I’d agree that without human interaction we go nuts. But you act like people die if they ho without sex for too long.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 07:12 PM
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I certainly wouldn’t let people know my net worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 07:08 PM
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You can’t say that women and men are similar or whatever and also say women don’t lie about things like this. The mental gymnastics of people to hold both beliefs is amazing. I’ve known women that I 100% believe would lie about sexual assault. Everyone has.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 07:07 PM
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BS The entire MGTOW is this. I guess they got rebranded by folks like you as incels and forgotten about. MGTOWs reject chasing women and the standard dominant and submissive paradigm that you are supposed to fit into. I’m somewhat of this stripe. I am fine with emotions, but I don’t cast my pearls before swine or emote around people that will use it to hurt me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 07:02 PM
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They certainly did promise that. You’re just unaware.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 08:58 PM
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Your reaction to it is what shows that. Basically, read the opinions of people that disagree with you. I’d probably start with Glenn Greenwald. He’s gay so your programming won’t allow you to immediately hate him.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 08:56 PM
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The west promised many years ago that NATO would not expand and they have expanded and become too large a threat They are simply too stupid to out themselves in the shoes of Putin or think that sometimes they might be acting in their own rational self interest Western politicians love to act tough towards Putin for political points You are caught in the middle The politicians that fund you don’t actually give two shits about you or they would not have done this All the help they now give only en…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:50 PM
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No idea what that is Im an independent All this is incredibly obvious and tons of independent journalist and thinkers say this The fact that you think only caricatures disagree with you means you are yourself one Shouldn’t you be sniffing Pelosi’s farts in a jar you purchased?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:46 PM
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It’s incredibly obvious if you aren’t a brainwashed ideologue Any explanation I could type here would be wasted on you given that this suggestion is foreign to you, when literally 1,000s of hours have been spent outside your echo chamber detailing this My suggestion is to google and read some of things the bad boogeymen outside your inner sanctum have to say In short, liberals support a massively destructive war that is a political statement and a way for people to get rich….it violates every id…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:43 PM
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Your country and the west (mostly the west) did everything possible to provoke this You are now fighting a war of attrition that you will lose while others get rich off of it You should negotiate a peace treaty now while there’s still something left This should have been done a long time ago Once you remove emotions, this is all obvious I’m an american citizen
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:21 PM
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Entire war is a shit show and underlines that moderns libs have no principles but rather engage in groupthink and are easily manipulated
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:17 PM
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Isn’t it weird how women instinctively try to benefit women they don’t even know at the expense of men they do know? Very hive mind and NPC ish Your own mother will even do it It’s like a brain sickness that makes smart people stupid through reflexive action with no perspective or self analysis
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 03:57 PM
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If you’re serious Get help And leave people alone By the way, everyone genuinely like that is a deceptive coward Because if they were upfront, then they couldn’t operate and in times past you’d be rejected by the tribe and die alone in your misery
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 03:32 PM
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Kind of false dichotomy There exist cool and compassionate men that are also extremely confident and outgoing
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 03:32 PM
1

No You’re not picking up what I’m putting down Never mind
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 07:46 PM
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Can Sure, you are pretending I’m using absolute statements because it helps you Here’s the thing You meet a dominant guy and submissive wimp Which one is more likely to be into domination in bed?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 07:16 PM
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No I can’t know “hey that guy is into scat?” Unless maybe he stinks and has dirty fingernails But dominant people tend to be dominant in all areas etc It isn’t perfect but how someone behaves in one area of life is decent predictor for others
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 06:56 PM
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There’s a difference between dating down and dating a broke lazy woman that will be a sponge
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 06:50 PM
0

Huh? Your personality impacts everything about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 06:43 PM
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Weird one is no crotch shaving Men groom down there some in part because it makes oral sex more pleasant for their partner Hippy women with a full jungle bush means you get hair in your mouth more Also, after a day of peeing and such…women with full bushes have a urine odor in their bush and also more body odor down there Source: 2 of my 7 LTRs had jungle bush, 2 fully shaved, 3 just trimmed it neat
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 02:07 PM
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I’m a bow hunter Guys with cute wives that bow hunt with them are envied bigly
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 08:15 PM
1

Women that read a lot of books (or consume other media) with male leads that they make their “book boyfriend” have a strong tendency to do this. Reading a ton ton of fiction is a yellow flag to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 03:13 PM
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Sorry man Life isn’t fair
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 06:52 PM
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I have worked with several people on the spectrum. One male and one female, recently. They are annoying as fuck and there’s no way I could be in a relationship with one. These are STEM folks. Every person I’ve met on the spectrum enough that they don’t or can’t mask AND they are somewhat above average….think they are always right and act like they are the smartest person ever, even when they are only like top 5%. They will also correct people rudely when the other person is actually correct. So …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 07:14 PM
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All moderated or tweaked spaces with modern liberal owners and workers turn into shit holes, since these folks are typically narcissistic authoritarians now (the cool old hippies with principals they haven’t abandoned don’t fuck with you people much anymore). I’d actually prefer narcissistic authoritarians that just said “it’s this way because it benefits me in some way.” Instead, we have these (self) deceptive assholes that dress it up as them doing it for every one else’s benefit, which they a…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 03:12 PM
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Slight agree I still contend that they are not respecting the fact that words have specific meanings and that if you want to change that then it needs to be explicit and hopefully agreed upon So word salad light
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 02:39 AM
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Not true Chads and Chad Lites still get flirted with all the time and women really enjoying just being near them and interacting with them
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 06:23 PM
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This sums up why I’m voluntarily celibate I screwed up and prioritized school and career and dated women not in a hurry for marriage and kids Now, the remainders are usually “last socks left in the bin at the thrift store” and I’d rather just enjoy my own company I will say that I have a lot of women around my age or older shoot their shot and then get mad, embarrassed, or insulting when I decline
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 06:18 PM
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What made you laugh? The bird part? It’s true and they so nasty. Ornithologists call it cloacal kissing. They bang their holes together through which semen or eggs and their mix of urine/feces (exact term escapes me) both pass. That’s like dirty scissoring or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 05:53 PM
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Because lifelong monogamy is not natural to us but rather imposed as a technology to promote a healthy and stable society in which to live and raise children This is why every society with it started without it and the societies that independently developed it tend to thrive more (but there’s also a chicken and egg thing in effect as well which doesn’t change things as much as some would hope) Also, every pair bonding species studied cheats sexually Even those birds building a nest together are …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 02:22 PM
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Yes, every man dreams of a woman wanting him for his economic security It’s a true panty dropper
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 08:17 PM
3

That is word salad
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 08:09 PM
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No I just don’t like people like you and it often shows
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 08:09 PM
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No, you are smuggling your specific definition of “movement” into this conversation. Even if I accept your premise, then there is still an obvious spectrum.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 04:23 PM
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Men are punished for it and it is seen as “acting like a woman”. Women do it much more and often don’t notice (like breathing) or have a justification. Masculine men (aka benevolent patriarchs with measurable testosterone) call each other out on this all the time, often saying “stop acting like a woman.” It’s common but you probably don’t know many men like that (aka have testicles larger than pistachios).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 04:08 PM
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Yes when it is a radical and ideologically driven movement But there are certainly movements that aren’t like this
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 03:01 PM
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Nowadays? So long as a guy isn’t a stereotypical patriarch or male chauvinist or the woman submissive; women have way more power in relationships. They have society, the law, nagging, manipulation, and pussy power in their corner.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 02:58 PM
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Modern feminism is now a female lobbying group with no stopping criteria. The more mundane their complaints (like toy stores sorting toys by gender with girl toys being pink more likely), the more sure we can be that society is doing okay. In 200 years, based on current trajectory, feminists will be complaining about absolutely stupid or scary shit that we could hardly imagine (like a man not saluting a woman and averting his eyes ritualistically according to their dictates). I think if they cou…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:59 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 05:22 PM
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One thing they get wrong is that women that don’t bang immediately aren’t attracted to you There’s tons of women that don’t want to get ran through by jerks and maybe only kiss on the first date
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 02:54 PM
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Casual clothing
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 02:51 PM
1

As a guy, you either find a true unicorn or relish your role as a disposable utility
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 02:23 PM
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While wearing a velvet track suit and slippers
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 02:19 PM
1

Um Most things are complicated
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 01:04 PM
1

Now they often aren’t telling people they have herpes The modern reason is “well most people have it even if they don’t have outbreaks” I’m sure genital warts and HPV are even worse per this reasoning
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 04:58 PM
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I was taking loneliness as overall and not just female companionship People ijn general are lonelier now
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 09:17 AM
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Most Gen Xers would disagree We clearly remember pre cell phone
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 12:23 AM
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Why did it accelerate after smart phones and social media ?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 08:39 PM
2

This epitomizes why I don’t like interacting with you
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 03:32 PM
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I can’t imagine going to Thailand to use my big American money to bang the local men’s women right under their noses I’d assume they would hate me and I’m surprised more sex tourists don’t come up missing I know if like Canadians were traveling to my neighborhood and had enough money to bang people’s daughters then men would be taking shots at their cars with deer rifles
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 03:25 PM
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I don’t always read usernames
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 03:22 PM
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Yeah That’s the issue Even so, if you are hot, then men with no self respect will date you and many horny men will have sex with you and keep it casual You should be able to find a simp or a fuckboi
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 03:20 PM
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I didn’t realize I had replied to you I won’t discuss anything with you again
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 03:19 PM
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No social skills in that you are shy? Or on the spectrum? Or no social skills in that you come off mean and/or not mentally well? Only the last point would explain what you’ve experienced A hot autistic girl will have nerd boys drinking her bath water
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 02:59 PM
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Most people attempt to avoid accountability for their actions, all of them when the outcome is or could be negative However, women do this more and also women are excused for doing it So accountability for everything When women have a bad outcome, for instance, the thing now is to blame men and misogyny
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 02:57 PM
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No one is going to read your unsolicited novel
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 02:45 PM
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Well, you want to avoid accountability so anyone bringing anything up like this probably feels oppressive
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 02:42 PM
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It’s like libs blaming swing state voters while not realizing that Texas being red also impacted the election
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 02:40 PM
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I think it is a feature not a bug This weird mix of emotions which doesn’t make any sense allows a woman to rationalize rejecting any man that does not hit their reproductive and survival urge in the right way If a man is tall, strong, rich, and handsome Then women suddenly become more reasonable and conciliatory If she starts to think she can do better, then suddenly the poor guy gets caught in a mine field of her wanting contradictory traits with his needle needing to sweep as she internally d…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 02:38 PM
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Same reason why a single mom can give up her kid entirely but she can keep some ONS dude on the hook for 18 years if she wants It’s about protecting women and her feels but also getting a guy to pay so the state is relieved of their burden somewhat
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 02:15 PM
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I mean I don’t get it If you were raised thinking God exists and built your life around that and then suddenly realize God doesn’t exist….why would that make you uncomfortable at all and want to talk about it? I mean you are getting upset over something that doesn’t exist, right? /s You people are utterly ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 01:57 PM
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Feminism as a whole does not understand basic points or ignores them and therefore can’t be taken seriously For instance, that women want greater representation in prestigious careers but are fine with all trash collectors being men And that 50% of all engineers should be women when women are much less likely to want to be engineers The left takes it as a sign of intelligence to believe things that do not pass the sniff test
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 01:47 PM
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Women want simultaneously contradictory traits and behaviors in men much more than men want that in women Women reply “well you want us to be a freak in the sheets but a lady in the streets” But this (be sexual with me but don’t be sexual publicly in the form of dressing or acting like a whore) is much more clear cut than “be dominant when I want but not in a way that goes a bit too far in my estimation and do it where I feel it in a positive way only”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 01:33 PM
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We have at least 3 possibilities Women don’t think it should matter because they are more rational or evolved and it not mattering is correct (I disagree here, if a woman betrays me then she is especially not entitled to part of my pay) Women cheat more (not likely, but I do think it is more equal than stats show and more common than stats show because the stats cannot account for being in denial or self deception which are both common) Women get alimony more often and so it is motivated reasoni…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 08:00 PM
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Women don’t think it should matter because they usually get alimony if any is exchanged Duh
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 09:02 PM
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Yep A vote is not a love letter
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 06:48 PM
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There’s a reason why psychologists have always wanted to experiment with certain substances to help patients
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 12:38 PM
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Affect is a verb Effect is a noun Most women buy groceries more often than they kill fetuses
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 08:58 PM
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Honestly THC or mushrooms can knock people out of that Bad trips are often the scales falling from your eyes after the rationalization engine in your brain gets paused
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 08:05 PM
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It isn’t a branding or perception thing Liberals need to stop believing dumb shit that doesn’t work We went from Bill Clinton saying illegal immigration was a serious problem to liberals saying that if you don’t want a literal invasion then you are racist because most of the invaders are brown
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 08:24 PM
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You are speaking for all women when I’ve witnessed women that at least partially do it for attention
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 10:48 PM
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I think “Why don’t this bitch have hair plugs on her titties?!?” Listen, I can’t believe you don’t see I’ve been joking this whole time
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 06:03 PM
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Such as dying in dumb wars That’s why they recruit young men that feel invincible still and then brainwash them Guys in their 40s would be like “no that’s a dumb plan, I’m not gonna listen to some jackass and get killed”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 05:54 PM
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You’re saying personality trumps hair plugs!?!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 05:52 PM
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You don’t need one if you have all that
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 05:18 PM
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Shoe lifts, hair plugs, neck beard, nipple rings
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 05:01 PM
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It has been shown that men are aroused by 2 groups of women that match the male version of dual mating strategy Beautiful (who they want to have kids and invest in) Seem easy to bed (no investment gene spreading) Men chase both types Women don’t get this and get a tattoo and piercings and men start hitting on them They think these things made them more beautiful when what it did was move them into category 2 A woman can be almost dog ugly but if she has a hot body and dresses and acts slutty the…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 04:39 PM
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That sentence of mine does not imply what you are asking I can’t help you if you can’t parse simple sentences and ideas
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 04:36 PM
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This is word salad disconnected from my point
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 04:02 PM
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Modern libs are authoritarian, pro war, and pro censorship….wrapped in a rainbow flag so that everyone knows they are good people They were so easy to fool Corporations, military industrial complex, and big pharma just had to appeal to their vanity They turned their enemies into their supporters Started happening as a way to diffuse occupy Wall Street Creating and appealing to their trump derangement syndrome was the final act
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 03:41 PM
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lol What a troll post
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 03:39 PM
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Um Not talking about strangers at the mall You’re a young woman and so your opinion here is invalid on this topic It also varies and is less so in large cities or certain subcultures And I’m not talking about young single guys But rather men past the age when most settle down Why do you invalidate my lived experience, shit lord? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 03:34 PM
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I’ve had several women go after me, thinking poor single sex deprived guy will jump all over this opportunity, and they call me gay when I decline Some were old and fat It’s a way to save face
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 03:27 PM
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Being a husband or dad and sacrificing for them
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 03:25 PM
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They use their brains to actively resist changing their minds
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 03:24 PM
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It isn’t enough evidence or the right kind but it is strongly suggestive…. By knowing a few true chads, I have seen or heard of their exploits with women you would not expect I’ve known several chads to target a woman and then take her home that night
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 03:14 PM
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People also assume all men are horn dogs that prioritize sex over everything If you are single by choice, the common assumption is you are closeted gay or a pervert No one thinks that of single women
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 03:02 PM
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I am a lifelong bachelor with no kids and several LTRs but often single If you are not seen as somehow helping women and children then you are suspect People can’t see it because all that you wrote is part of the neural net they use to interpret the world People are not typically self-reflective in a way that makes them question themselves Otherwise you’d see people changing their minds on various topics regularly and you simply do not
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 02:24 PM
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Damn I hope you are better now Gonna hug my parents next time I see them
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 02:01 PM
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Some good points But ending was psycho
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 01:59 PM
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And if they are middle class then go to where women are poor and want US citizenship Hence mail order brides Which are so common I have 3 acquaintances who ordered them
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 01:43 PM
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Improve for yourself Also, a lot of guys improve and it makes them more physically attractive I gained 30 lbs of muscle and it is night and day
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 01:23 PM
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Shy girls struggle with giving indicators of interest I think some shy girls think they can ignore men and a man will find them attractive and then approach a stranger that acts like she doesn’t want to be approached I’ve been guilty of this and going after women that made it clear And it didn’t end well
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 11:40 AM
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You’d think feminists would not only tell women to be self sufficient but also spread this message to men That they generally don’t is why I consider modern feminism to only be a female lobbying group
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 11:35 AM
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That’s not how intelligence is usually defined though
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 08:36 PM
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Men have stronger upper and lower bodies There’s this lie that women have stronger lower bodies but the truth is that the difference there is just less extreme The difference in upper body is extreme I go to a gym with my state’s female strong woman champion She eats for strength and has a huge butt and thighs and seems high testosterone for a woman (maybe she’s done ‘roids but I don’t know) Her lower body is stronger than most guys at the gym but almost every guy over 180 lbs that has trained f…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 08:33 PM
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Absolutely Plus I’ve always been tall and slender and not scary in my demeanor I would be afraid the boyfriend would come and want to fight etc I’ve seen guys that are big or just scrappy that hit on women in front of their men in a way to dare the guy to say anything That’s not me I’ll defend myself but I hate confrontation due to a childhood full of it I can’t imagine how men have the balls to get married women to cheat I’d be afraid the husband would shoot me
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 08:00 PM
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I’m going to introduce you to a useful word other than subjective or objective, which is the wrong framing And the word is….drum roll please Universal I cannot prove objectively that pizza tastes better than dog shit but I can show it is nearly universal Now imagine how much you could learn if you had an open mind
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 08:42 PM
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Ok You are engaging with the weakest of your enemies then declaring victory Cool!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 08:28 PM
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Cool So by anecdote you are determining guys use anecdotes The jokes write themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 08:23 PM
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He exaggerated and now that is all you blue pillers can see His point is valid Women often do things to bring men into conflict on some level
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 08:18 PM
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You’re not leaving the house Go to a bar and watch men fight over things the woman precipitated in way where she should have known better
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 08:17 PM
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Women do sometimes pit men against each other in subtle ways Like letting a stranger get too friendly in public in front of her man etc I’ve had this happen and had to confront the guy and my GF at the time now exGF was super turned on by it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 08:09 PM
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You folks are like that whack a mole game
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 08:03 PM
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A lot of drunk women having a hen night will assume you’re trying fuck all of them and intrude on their good time and they aren’t nice about it Men who approach groups of women have balls of steel
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 07:55 PM
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A lot of guys were blue pilled and got hurt repeatedly and then changed and things made more sense You’re acting like all men that disagree with you have no experience with women and only learned about them on the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 07:45 PM
5

Apex fallacy Powerful people, mostly men Women Men In that order Women will say “but women couldn’t vote before” Big deal, talk to me about now
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 07:39 PM
2

I was told by two different women to start going after taken women. It seems this is expected among those with less than stellar morals.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 07:20 PM
2

How about you’re throwing stuff at the wall to see what sticks? I do not tailor MY decisions based upon a hypothetical person that is not me. If we did that and just applied blanket preventative treatments based upon worst case scenarios then you wouldn’t like it at all. There is no argument here. You sound like a Branch Davidian arguing that David really was god. Whenever I hear someone talk like you about this issue it’s alway a cope from a circumcised person, a parent that did it to their son…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 07:15 PM
1

Any woman that cares about you and wants to please you will be good The 2 promiscuous women i dated were off putting They had a mental map of every nerve ending in male genitals and all the moves to try and would Rolodex through them until they found the one Too professional and formulaic
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 03:13 PM
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Most of the justifications for male circumcision at birth are very weak and only make sense for people in poor countries where washing your wiener correctly is an actual challenge
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 07:57 PM
22

The religious purpose is to limit male pleasure as stated in their books Just say it is wrong to do to little boys without their consent It isn’t hard You won’t melt
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 07:55 PM
1

It’s the opposite arrow of causality Most people don’t admire some thug womanizer But men that are valued (money, looks, status, whatever) tend to have more sexual access
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 03:29 PM
1

I think most men can survive just by masturbation and it’s easier as you get older. I’ve also had sex many times, so that probably makes it easier than if I hadn’t. I’ve been voluntarily celibate for around 5 years. I can’t understand straight men in prison that start hanging sex with other men. I can confidently say that I’d rather go my whole life with no possibility of sex with a woman before doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 12:59 PM
3

When your ego is involved it is hard to stay objective Especially if you struggle with self esteem Let’s say a female 5 gets the eye from a male 9 She doesn’t want to think “he only wants me for easy sex”
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 09:15 PM
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This is where women think “really confident men don’t care about your past”. Yeah, that’s because when you were on that date with a “really confident guy” they were sizing you up for something causal and so the more promiscuous you are the better. When the same woman dates a normie for something serious, she is off put by the fact that this guy with a notch count of 5 doesn’t want to get serious with a woman that has had lots of causal sex. People hardly ever explore alternative hypotheses to ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 09:12 PM
12

Whole thing is busted now An ex flirted with me and we started dating Then she would flirt with other men in front of me and said “You knew I was a flirt when you met me” At some point, a little old fashioned common sense has to kick in But this is restrictive so people don’t like that Cake and eat it too yadda yadda
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 08:42 PM
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Might just be a virtue signal Almost all men 8 look or above and 30 or older that didn’t marry young have a count over 12
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 06:34 PM
4

It also makes you funnier. True wit requires it and might be why women like funny men also.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 05:55 PM
13

It follows a power law that partly explains why roughly 20% do 80% of the useful work within groups. As the speed and efficiency (etc) at which your brain increases it will help you perform any task better given any set of tools. However, it has the further benefit of helping you pick tasks better, pick your tools better, and have a better overall perspective. So it is not linear. For instance, a single person with a 145 IQ could compete against 5 people with 115 IQs in some problem solving chal…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 05:53 PM
5

I’ve been voluntarily celibate for 5 years If I start dating again, I might make up a cover story
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 06:43 PM
1

Sometimes you catch up but you can still see social situations from an outside perspective For instance, you won’t go to great efforts to have a killer pad and throw parties simply because that makes people like you more Being an outsider for a while, you might be more keen to notice more things and superficialities
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 06:42 PM
1

Yep because mine are rather low for women, just don’t have a dealbreaker Like don’t be mean and crazy Don’t be obese etc
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 09:34 PM
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I suspect a lot of rad fem women are either on the spectrum or have cluster b disorders So they will naturally fight with men on the spectrum that disagree with them A match made in hell
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 06:37 PM
5

How would you know if she had anal with an ex? Same answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 06:24 PM
1

Why would I not want a woman that is taller than me? Because I’m over 6 foot and women taller than me are either weird looking sticks or if proportional or big boneded then they weigh so much that I can’t move them around the bed during sexy time or save them from a house fire
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 06:11 PM
1

Not always It can also be frequent and enthusiastic sex with a ex and twice a month starfish with you
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 06:09 PM
1

The holding of contradictory traits I believe is what makes a guy mysterious and thus interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 06:06 PM
1

This is dependent upon the male and his views, obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 06:04 PM
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Women are trusted around children
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 06:00 PM
1

Are you unfamiliar with ceteris paribus? I pinned your argument And so you become dishonest Someone uses the basis of the scientific method and logical thought, by prefacing things with all else being equal, and then your type comes up with a fanciful scenario to supposedly poke a hole It’s not deep It’s not smart Yeah, I didn’t mean all 6 foot guys are tougher than all 5 footers I’m surprised you didn’t pull out “well what if the tall guy is in a wheelchair and the short guy has an uzi? What sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 11:45 PM
1

Well All else being equal a 6 foot guy is a better protectors than a 5 foot guy
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 08:00 PM
4

If you don’t think most women love being with a man that makes them feel physically safe, then we live in very different areas or cultures
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 08:00 PM
1

As a guy that was too skinny for years, this is 100% true. Also, women don’t want to date men that make them feel big or fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 07:21 PM
1

When want to select good genes for their offspring. So it impresses them more if a guy is a natural versus tried too hard. For instance, don’t show her pics of when you were too skinny prior to working out. Your hardworking won’t impress her as much as she’ll subconsciously not want to have your weak babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 07:20 PM
1

Unattractive men that show interest in them Or Any man but a giga chad that is past a certain age and not married and:or has kids (past like 35, men are supposed to be serving women and children in some way)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 05:13 PM
2

Good point
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 01:29 PM
5

What? You think a guy saying he is solidly above average without being “model or Chad tier” is so odd that you have to draw some non sequitur? Also, actress is a broad category which includes character actors etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 07:42 PM
2

I think she’d be surprised that half these guys just want an easy lay and would never commit if it came down to it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 07:39 PM
4

You are mistaking hypocrisy and double standard with a diversity of opinion within a diverse group For instance If you have 2 men (an atheist and a holy roller), then the “group” holding different and incongruous views means nothing I don’t blame you, no one is taught sound argumentation now
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 06:19 PM
4

You are purposefully conflating oral vs genital herpes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 04:56 PM
5

Do some men do this? Yes That’s hardly a point. Do I expect to tell a woman this and get no reaction? No because I’m only about a 7 and I’m also not dumb as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 04:56 PM
2

If you told me, with that backstory “I’ve been tested and don’t have herpes” I wouldn’t believe you And yeah I know all about diseases
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 03:29 PM
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In the past, the chances that a guy would be okay with this within a LTR were so low as to not be a consideration, unless you targeted guys in the fetlife type community to begin with I’m just imagining what it would still be like for 95% of men to hear this on a first date I would personally run like hell or just have a short term fling or FWB with you while wearing a condom, and I’d still be nervous that you’d give my herpes or HPV
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 02:53 PM
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You need to understand that a group can’t be hypocritical unless the group adopts an official opinion What you are complaining about is diversity in male thought As a collective, some men judge female promiscuity and some don’t, this isn’t hypocrisy You have to notice the contradiction within a single decision making entity
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 02:41 PM
5

Yeah that’s wild
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 02:39 PM
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Wow So you tell guys on a first date that you are casually fucking other people at that time What a wild time to be alive
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 02:05 PM
2

I have with two exGFs My last GF was submissive and somewhat masochistic, and she kept wanting me to increase intensity I have no idea where her boundary was because I tapped out due to my morals well before approaching her limits
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 02:02 PM
2

Total spin job to avoid saying anything negative about women and positive about men
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 05:15 PM
6

I’m jealous of gay men also My very masculine and straight presenting but gay uncle has had 3 partners, the first 2 died They were all also masculine like him They were just best friends that lived together and I guess banged (lol) and got along great Raised water fowl hunting dogs, went hunting, etc Better than any hetero marriage I’ve known well and in person
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 01:03 PM
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I’ve given up mostly because any woman on my level intellectually, psychologically, and financially would want a better guy than me, unless she is butt ugly So woman with her shit together that is ugly or knows she can do better or a cute girl that is a train wreck I dated several women roughly like me but they set the relationship up to where they were way more important and they subtly let me know they could find someone else easily
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 07:59 PM
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The issue is that borderlines etc often present as unicorns There are so few unicorns, that thinking you’ve found one is actually red flag as there are more that pretend If a woman seems amazing, is super into you, and banging your brains out….you’ve been warned
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 07:03 PM
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This is just the classic Beauty and the Beast thing I was around 25 when a woman explained to me exactly what she wanted/fantasized about in an ideal man Basically, soft heart only she can access but to the rest of the world a huge scary dominant prick I remember thinking “this is dysfunctional as fuck” and “this bitch is either going to die alone or make a man miserable” I had no idea it was common It’s like when my first serious GF wanted us to role play consensual nonconsent I thought “this b…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 06:41 PM
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“Playing with code” I’m not talking about writing a simple webpage or Hello World I’m talking about designing a complex system that requires at minimum 2 SD above mean ability (and that’s just barely enough)…2 SD is roughly Mensa admission level and is partly why really smart people don’t fuck with Mensa You don’t know what you are talking about versus I’ve seen people raise kids plenty You probably think coding is clicking with a mouse with some software that guides you through it and then you …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 08:17 PM
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It depends upon what you do at the desk If you are programming spatial simulation models with 1,000s of lines of code Then the desk job is harder You can’t win here because you are obviously wrong and just throwing stuff at the wall in order to to change your mind
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 07:55 PM
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This is dependent upon the person My aunt was very low IQ, she found learning how to use a cash register difficult (she was in a fire as a toddler and it damaged her brain) You have to try to objectively rank these things
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 07:44 PM
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Difficult meaning stress or time management, which can be said about working at a busy fast food place It is not intellectually or physically difficult compared to many other things
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 07:39 PM
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People also don’t get that how vital your job is as a collective is not the sole determinant of your wage Otherwise, all nurses would be millionaires Longshoreman currently aren’t getting this It’s how many people can do your job in comparison to demand All nurses combined are probably more important as far as sheer quantity of humans saved/made not to suffer than all neurosurgeons combined But only maybe 1 in 200 people or less have the brains to become a neurosurgeon Stay at home parents don’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 07:31 PM
1

If a woman is a 6, then she doesn’t approach the men that approach her (7s and down) but she will approach the men that won’t approach her (above 7) Most women are way more average than we like to think, male horniness is basically permanent, mild beer goggles
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 07:28 PM
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Only men that look like catalog models get actively approached in a way that has no plausible deniability (these same men have random women say “you’re fucking hot!”) Right below that tier, the women just give strong indicators of interest or they just put themselves near you, like if you go to the bar for a drink they’ll go get a drink and stand next to you I’m probably a 7 and get the second paragraph, a few of my friends that are 8s have gotten the first paragraph in front of me (like women a…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 07:12 PM
2

Should be a marvel character with back story
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 05:34 PM
0

Larger framed women do tend to have larger vaginas But petite women can adapt to a larger penis over time and start preferring that Large objects do temporarily stretch the vagina canal (why sloppy seconds is a thing) but rad fems fight this because they are so afraid that people will believe that them being sluts will literally make them a loose woman Any woman that thinks a woman can take foot long girthy cock everyday for a year and not have stretched vagina muscles to accommodate the larger …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 04:25 PM
3

People take superficial social smoothness as confidence. You could literally have the smartest guy on Earth that knows he can solve all kinds of stuff…but if he isn’t smooth with women then women will say “he’s just not confident like Joe that works at the car wash”.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 02:05 PM
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It’s like skinny Antifa members throwing rocks at corn fed country boys that hunt. It is only occurring because the country boys are better people. They could snuff it out in an instant if they chose.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 02:03 PM
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A central sin is these ideologues have no stopping criteria (aka when will they finally shut up?). They also have the unstated assumption that everything they can connect to their pet issue is due to the pet issue. And their ideology is so flexible that it can explain everything (including diametric opposites) which they take as a strength but it actually makes them conform to Popper’s definition of pseudo-science (unfalsifiable due to being underspecified and that which explains everything expl…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 01:59 PM
7

Many beautiful women become bitter or confused as they age because suddenly the sunshine being blown up their ass begins to peter out.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 01:41 PM
4

Women don’t even notice benevolent sexism (people, particularly men, treating them better than they do men) until they begin to age and they start to get less attention and favors. Before that, attractive women sometimes think everyone experiences life as they do. When that changes a little , especially post menopause, then they often become bitter and/or fight hard to appear more youthful. It’s the female version of a mid-life crisis. Except they get fake boobs instead of a Harley. I have heard…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 01:40 PM
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I’m 6 foot 185 lbs with slightly visible abs and a 225 lbs bench (at 48 years old) I also live in a fat rural state All the fat women at work call me skinny or scrawny because I can see my penis What it is is they have no perspective and I make them feel bad about themselves Women here think of fat OR jacked to the gills as the only acceptable male body types and they have no clue about male anatomy and physiology They probably think “go to the gym a few hours a week and then eat a lot and you’l…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 03:13 PM
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Why? Why does group A not supporting something germane to Group B doing so? I don’t think that makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 08:55 PM
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Yeah The straight guys doing straight porn probably aren’t doing it mostly for the money All those steroids and boner pills are probably expensive and hard on your body also
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 08:53 PM
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When you aren’t in need of companionship from a person, then no need for any devils I give people chances depending on how well I know them or what happened, but I’ve walked on many friendships
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 04:31 PM
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Because gay performers get more work They even call it like Pay for gay Or something Perhaps you won’t reflexively jump to bad conclusions, but I hold out little hope
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 04:29 PM
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Were those gay or straight male performers? I think you’d find that the straight ones rarely do more than 1 scene a week. $500 a week is poverty. I don’t think you know what you’re talking about at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 02:22 PM
-1

How many days do they work a year at each wage? Sure, they make more per hour.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 01:49 PM
-1

And you know this how? The men on average make way less, probably less than a full time Walmart worker that has been there for years
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 01:41 PM
1

Yep Every time I’ve kept trusting a person that has proven themselves untrustworthy with others, eventually something bad happened It speaks to the extreme impracticality of the extreme liberal mindset that most posters jumped over that and went straight to some philosophy of blame or some such
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 12:40 PM
2

I didn’t advocate cutting contact But if you look at them the same and view them as good or trustworthy, then you’re a damn fool I’m an atheist, by the way
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 10:37 PM
5

It means you probably can’t trust the bitch
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 07:23 PM
1

It’s not puritanical Just because you can call it a word doesn’t mean anything
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 07:21 PM
6

Gee Morals by technicality! We all know this is BS, well at least people with a moral compass. This is like not helping a lost person by smugly announcing “not my responsibility!” I know this feels deep to you, what you wrote, but it’s not
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 07:20 PM
1

Oh So super assless, I see
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 07:17 PM
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I’m generally anti modern feminist But that is rape If you’re going to town and the woman says stop for any reason Then you stop I can’t imagine any reason to keep going or what that would look like (well I know what it would look like) You do know sex isn’t like skydiving where once you jump you can’t just stop and get back in the plane? That isn’t a gray area like “if we’re both drunk and willing then that still makes the guy a rapist”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 07:13 PM
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What would you suggest if someone says one thing but does another? What if a guy had a mismatch between words and behavior?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 07:06 PM
3

By definition, all chaps are assless I like to think of visors as chaps for the head
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 06:45 PM
1

Dude here But I had a friend that was okay to me but was a horn dog that would try to sleep with taken women Just hypersexual Well, we got drunk on 2 occasions and twice he tried to get me to give him oral (and I’m very straight and straight presenting) After the first time, he made a weird excuse like he was joking Second time, I cut him off I’m not homophobic but it was too bizarre Moral of the story: there is no such thing as a dirt bag that won’t eventually be a dirt bag to you also
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 06:30 PM
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Now it makes sense She wanted you to make more than her, which is pretty standard like how women want you to be taller and stronger and an added kicker if smarter too Basically, to make a woman happy we have to date one we exceed in about every way and then pretend like we are equal
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 12:34 PM
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I’m happy and at peace I just don’t like most people and don’t want to date right now I’m happy in my smaller social group doing my own thing and hobbies
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 11:48 PM
8

Just everything with you is a supposed mic drop that calls men out and favors women. You know damn well women aren’t attention farming simply because they are more social.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 07:22 PM
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Yeah If women like being social in a sexual context (that isn’t going anywhere)more than men then that’s probably something worth knowing and indicates a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 05:40 PM
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You spin everything to let women off the hook to the point of often saying things that don’t make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 05:26 PM
2

It depends upon the location and pic. I live in a rural state and have some hunting pics that I haven’t used (not on OLD) that would attract women here. It’s because I’m with monster bucks with a bow and in a tight base layer top. I look like a somewhat sexy savage that is good at stalking the mountains to bring my lady her protein. Of course, smug liberal urban elite women would shun this despite their personal humidity levels.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 05:00 PM
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I used match dot com back when it was expensive and shameful. I was a poor grad student that wouldn’t even list my income and didn’t know how to take a good picture or present myself, but I still had decent success.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 04:55 PM
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Women enjoy sexual attention and banter and flirting way more than most men enjoy getting it. I do not enjoy sexual tension with female friends but women on average are different here. It’s partly why many women keep around male friends that like them sexually. Online dating for many women is like a free phone game that raises their self esteem and occasionally makes them tingle between their legs. Men see it totally different and can’t relate to this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 04:53 PM
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Hence women getting the “ick” over everything imaginable
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 04:50 PM
12

Hoemath is way smarter and more subtle than you give him credit for here.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 04:50 PM
2

You’re not a man, that’s why. Men get so horny that it causes physical pain and mental issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 08:35 PM
1

By that logic, I’m not a willing participate in my 9 to 5 job because I wouldn’t go if I weren’t paid:
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 08:12 PM
9

This is probably why hospitals are known for so much infidelity I dated a registered nurse and have known quite a few, many talk about nurses cheating on husbands with co-workers or doctors as if discussing the weather I’d never date a nurse or a woman that works in a hospital again
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 02:31 PM
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I knew some woman would come along with this tripe. “Oh so women should sacrifice their bodies to losers to keep us safe?!?” I said no such thing as you’re implying. In Japan, for instance, there are escorts that of their own free will cater to physically disabled men. Would you be so overwrought regarding that? There’s literally nothing a man (that isn’t a soy boy ally) can say that won’t make women like you mad and overreact and twist things, so long as I’m not saying exactly what you believe
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 02:29 PM
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In my scenario (having had sex with multiple willing women) then yes somewhat. In the situation these guys are in, I think it would be a pressure release valve. If using an escort always made men feel as you think, then they wouldn’t do it and it wouldn’t be a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 02:24 PM
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This is one area where a lot of rad fems and conservative Christians agree In fact, I can’t think of another area….oh except the idea that women should be entitled to the production of men…the means by which they want to achieve just differs (cons think via male devotion to a family and rad fems through affirmative action and whatever taxes and social programs they can dream up)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 02:10 AM
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Yep because you have to have a good or service before you can trade it for sex So if a cave dude traded a fur for some….cave girl fur….:then the fur trapper would precede the hooker
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 02:07 AM
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Almost all massive shooters are below 30 and seemingly kissless virgins I believe that if they could go get affection and touch from a legal escort that they might not lose their minds as badly Being disliked by your peers and all women can take a fragile person and push them over the edge
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 02:04 AM
3

Very good run down Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 06:29 PM
1

Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 03:54 PM
2

This is obviously incomplete otherwise there would be no men paying child support for kids they have nothing to do with.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 03:00 PM
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A single mom can give up a child and walk A man that impregnates a single mom cannot How can you not see this?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 10:39 PM
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You’re missing something You’re an ex frat guy that works out You enjoy meeting new people because they probably mostly treat you well and don’t try to play stupid dominance games on you Unless you are one of the elect, people are pretty shit and not fun to be around a lot of the time
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 08:48 PM
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That’s not a point A mother can have sex or not Use protection or not Just like a guy But she also has plan b, abortion, and adoption The man does not and has no say in those decisions but is financially beholden to her decisions If she doesn’t want to pay for a kid etc, she can give it up right now at any point and be done The man cannot It is amazing that people can’t get this very basic point It’s that you are an ideologue around this point and so by definition you cannot think clearly regard…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 08:40 PM
2

And women with their eggs
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 03:41 PM
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Women can legally abort or give up the child The male is financial slave to this decision which he does not necessarily get to be a part of making So yeah people don’t give a shit about men
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 03:16 PM
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You just hit upon an issue People seem to jump right to full sex I graduated high school in 1994 and started dating and having sex in college Back then, most women would make you wait a bit even if they really liked you Modern young men or incels or PUAs probably don’t know this What we did though is slowly escalate My first serious GF we were buck naked in bed getting each other off manually for months before we did the deed So if you don’t have sex on the third date or whatever you should at l…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 02:39 PM
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Liking bad boys and being seen with decent men are not mutually exclusive That’s not a complete argument, but it’s just so easy to poke holes in your approach
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 01:22 PM
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Why don’t you understand “common” doesn’t mean “every woman I’ve ever met or heard of”?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 01:07 PM
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Did I say that? Why in the heck are people that can’t debate their way out of a wet paper sack on a debate forum?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 12:50 PM
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Yeah This is all non controversial common sense The only people that would disagree would be some sort of crazy person
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 12:10 PM
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Numbers are similar most likely but women are more allowed to be dysfunctional because they are not held as accountable as men and also women avoid accountability. It’s in little things too. Like how they don’t want to suggest a restaurant for a group. I told a female friend once “you want me to choose so that if it’s bad it won’t be your fault.” She was shocked then thought and then said “well yeah” as if that’s common sense. Women have an entire industry of people blowing smoke up their ass in…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 12:06 PM
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It’s just annoying. And many many women like cocky bad boys that are often mentally ill or just so overly dominant that other more chill men hate them. It’s annoying that this is so common and yet women either lie or blow some sort of smoke about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 12:03 PM
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What? It has been well known for years that attractive people and women get off easier. Someone has been lying and stating the converse?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 12:01 PM
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I’m at the hospital with my mom this morning (outpatient surgery). I’ve already been eye fucked by multiple nurses. However I do nothing about it and so nothing happens. I’ve been voluntarily celibate for years.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 11:55 AM
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I take utter pleasure in ignoring the attention of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 11:54 AM
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Age, scars, and tattoos can make people look more rugged Which is masculinizing A guy with a big scar on his face looks “hard to kill” or some shit This is in part why men age better on average and don’t look as weird if they are heavily tatted
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 05:22 PM
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This reasoning of “if I treat women badly they’ll like me because I saw a Chad do it” Is matched with why so many women now are taking on sassy rude boss babe as a personality type They see a famous woman act like shit They think “hey if I’m an entitled bitch then I’ll be like that too” It’s so dumb and just underlines for me that so many are dumb AF
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 04:56 PM
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And has an 8” penis that is made of chocolate and ejaculates money
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 04:53 PM
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As a transparent virtue signal but also because the truth doesn’t sound nice when said explicitly and out loud
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 04:52 PM
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He didn’t say there are no fugly ones
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 07:26 PM
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You get my point though You re correct of course But I wanted to highlight the reproductive bottleneck with an extreme example
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 04:33 PM
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Does this make it not happen or just a dumb decision? Do you not see people make dumb decisions all day? I’ll never understand that line of reasoning It’s like saying People don’t shop lift, I mean why would you go to jail over a $10 item, it makes no sense!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 11:04 AM
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BS They often marry when only somewhat attracted Then the ravages of time, familiarity breeding contempt, and the newness being gone puts the nail in the coffin This is pretty common When you folks have these unsupported takes (which admittedly mine is as well as in no data) that seem to be both sunnily naive and not matching reality I just think you’re a young idealist that doesn’t want the world to be like it is and you fight it in your mind
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 11:01 AM
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Yep Attraction is not self reflective If a guy starts at 180 lbs and gains a 1 lbs a week There isn’t some magical threshold at 300 lbs or something where he looks around and thinks “Ya know, morbidly obese women were hot as hell all along, what a fool I have been!”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 11:00 AM
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Gynocentrism exists because a tribe of 100 women and 1 man can survive and grow 100 men and 1 woman would be awful for everyone and you’d be wiped out It isn’t super complicated Women are the reproductive limiting factor Most men are more disposable It’s always been this way We dress it up though and people deny it because it sounds bad It also explains why young men do dumb shit and get themselves killed
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 10:30 PM
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It’s amazing that once you stop being self conscious that your social skills improve It’s just a paradox Worry about making a fool of yourself and you soon might
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 06:25 PM
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Women make the first move often by indicating interest in a way that has plausible deniability
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 01:22 AM
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You can’t be nice to some people
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 05:59 PM
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Most “satanists” are just edgy atheists that want to shock conservatives The ones that actually believe in satan and want to worship him are crazy people
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 05:59 PM
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100% women do not want to date a man that makes them feel big and fat
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 05:39 PM
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Still way better to be totally bald than a weird comb over or hair on sides bald on top etc or the worst a “hair system” I have a full head of hair at 48 but if I didn’t I’d shave that crap off and keep rocking my trimmed facial hair
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 05:38 PM
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The real question here is: what should be done (if anything) regarding the sex bots that are small and could be construed as simulating a very illegal and immoral behavior? OP’s original take is so laughably stupid as to not even be interesting to ponder. So I’ve inserted something that might actually be debate worthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 03:55 PM
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People like you (drastically overestimate themselves) get on my nerves and I like deflating your ego
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 03:48 PM
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The idea young men often have is: we both don’t have shit so let’s build a life together and get some shit. Of course, in the ruthless calculus of the craps table, it is advantageous for women to go after a guy that already has shit. That’s why young men from rich families don’t have much trouble dating so long as there isn’t something repulsive about them. It’s also while some form of sugar baby or gold digger dynamic has been known for 1,000s of years but just called something different. Here’…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 03:45 PM
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I’ve wanted to write something here on the following, which I think explains a lot, but I don’t want to bother crafting a post perfectly that follows all of the stupid rules. Here goes in brief: Attraction is not self-reflective You can’t get a little pregnant Women are being guided by their lizard brain and their conditioning/nurture might modify it but doesn’t create their attraction cues The female lizard brain is always making probability calculations that change over time as more informatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 03:36 PM
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So you’re okay with full sized dolls, so long as they are poorly done and in the uncanny valley/creepy? I bet if it were lonely cat women riding Ken dolls with vibrating pricks….you wouldn’t care at all. Frankly, if you are serious, then your opinion is ridiculous on its face. And you should not have such confidence and should go rethink your life approach and philosophy. If you can’t see how easily your views are defeated here, then that says a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 03:21 PM
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Where is your threshold? What about dildos and vibrators? Fleshlights? Those weird torsos with no legs or upper body but with a vagina? What about the old full sized blow up dolls that are creepy and most men wouldn’t want? It seems your threshold is “I can imagine an average male might actually enjoy it once in a while” Is this for you something like “I can’t easily prove logically from the ground up that Mozart is a better musician than Bieber but it should be obvious to most humans?” I get th…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 01:48 PM
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The apparent “nice guy” that isn’t a good person has been a trope in fiction for hundreds of years If someone doesn’t get it, then they have an issue If they are a not good person that acts nice, then they are mentally ill or damaged This is obvious to anyone over 35 with an IQ over 115 that isn’t mentally ill This is right up there with realizing that being cocky and arrogant doesn’t mean you have authentic self-confidence (which oddly too many women don’t get…but the ones that don’t are usuall…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 01:45 PM
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Almost all human interactions involve a bit of a facade or mild manipulation Young people often rail against this because they are still in their young adult idealistic phase where they are not yet wise or self-reflective and still have this dream that their life can be perfect (and think they are right and older people for some reason are all dumb) This isn’t helped by spiritual texts that are basically bullshit and lie about these perfect or enlightened people (which don’t exist) Am I 100% my …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 01:40 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 01:34 PM
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If women were played the track in men’s minds while a man that doesn’t care about them has sex with them, it would put them off casual sex And this is largely why men want their daughters to not be promiscuous and want their wives to have not been promiscuous Only really kinky women would get into it Basically, the men are getting off on using your body like a slut
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 10:46 PM
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Young kids don’t know about dvd drives
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 10:43 PM
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There’s a general lack of empathy from many humans Because we are apes and only the one raised correctly or genetically lucky (highly intelligent, etc so that they can understand and transcend their animalistic nature to some degree) aren’t absolute trash
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 10:41 PM
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Fun fact The group with the largest average bicep size is 30 to 39 year old women Because fat women tend to get “fat-ceps of peace” for some reason Look at them guns!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 05:00 PM
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Not anymore it seems So many people here say it is normal for people to have multiple ongoing sex partners while looking for the one and then once you are maybe sure then you wait to become exclusive for a bit So you’re supposedly developing feelings for this woman while knowing she’s having sex regularly with one or more other guys Shits gross That wasn’t normal in most American subcultures until like a minute ago If I have to have sloppy seconds to find an LTR Then I’ll just beat off the rest …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 04:50 PM
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If I really like a girl, I don’t want her banging other guys So I’ve always wanted to be exclusive with women I like pretty fast
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 03:52 PM
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Why do women do so much subtle and complex communication with the sexual parts of their body? Why express yourself via camel toe when you could learn to play the guitar? What you wrote is pure cope. You have a complex rationalization for what is obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 03:04 PM
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And we know women don’t dress sexually because it’s comfortable That’s a big a lie as the obese woman that always only eats half her meal and gets a doggie bag Or they say they dress slutty to feel confident Yeah you feel confident because men are looking at you and being extra nice because they want to bang you The number of women that deny this is hilarious Do gay men in leather thongs at pride parades tell such facing fibs? “Yeah my balls and taint are exposed because it’s hot out and your bo…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 02:57 PM
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You’re right that this is human nature for basic people that run off their hindbrain most of the time Some of us don’t lose respect for people etc
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 02:46 PM
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Yeah and you haven’t talked to everyone so you don’t know what a random man would do Duh
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 02:37 PM
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You don’t know what they would do
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 01:51 PM
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News at 11: women with borderline personality disorder and no self esteem are easy to sexually exploit
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 04:40 PM
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Yep Nobody wants to be the guy that tries to bang or date every single woman within a friend group I’d say you get one shot per year or so
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 04:38 PM
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Women lie about it a lot I remember my shock in my 20s when some women started telling the truth around me Also, several very normal women have told me that if the guys were all hot and no one would know that they would be an escort
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 01:29 PM
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This same experiment has been done by social scientists The results show that women are MASSIVELY biased towards other women and that men are somewhat biased towards women Men have a negative ingroup bias while women have a large ingroup bias You’d think that women here, if they know this, would stop and question themselves as in “is this actually rational or am I just reflexively siding with women?” But alas I expect too much Accounting for your own weakness and mental blind spots is kinda nece…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 01:18 PM
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“The studies” sounds like autistic copium
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 07:59 PM
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Americans will do those jobs Just not at the wages that are offered with those wages being offered precisely because the companies know there are illegal immigrants that will take the offer “Well no American will pick cotton for minimum wage” Yeah and that’s all you’re offering because you know the Juan that has been here 5 minutes will take the offer That’s partly why elites like this Flooding the labor market while increasing demand for goods and services If you don’t care about your country t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 03:53 PM
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I know that you’ve had your brains literally banged out but I’ll write this slow Hypocrisy and a double standard are individual behaviors You can’t look at a group of men and notice some like hoes and some don’t And then lump them all into team MEN and declare the collective to be hypocritical In your defense, this ridiculous logic has been used so much that it probably makes sense to you just via repetition Edit: hypocrisy can also be a group behavior if the hypocritical beliefs or actions are …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 03:06 PM
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I just don’t want to jump through all the hoops required to be considered by a decent woman. I’ve already maxed out education and make a decent living. I have hobbies and friends. But I’m not going to make my condo attractive as a female nest. I’m not going to change how I dress or do things. I’d rather be single and crank it to the hub a few times a week than to expend extra energy to compete for an emotional creature that, unless I’m lucky and score big via competition, will just lower my qual…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 02:29 PM
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How about not laughing when men in jail for nonviolent crimes are raped? Can’t help but notice that anti sexual violence groups don’t say anything about the most common rape victims….men in prison
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 02:20 PM
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I live in a particularly fat state Women with discernible hips and boobs (can tell they are female from 100 yards, aren’t just series of bumps) think they are hot shit They strut around bars and if you don’t feel blessed by their attention then they think you must be gay These are women that are the size of extra plus models, but because they have big boobs, butt, and their waist is at least 1” smaller than boobs/butt…then they are a hot item
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 02:17 PM
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Disagree Most pressing issue is the tide of unvetted illegal immigrants flooding our borders and the half the country doesn’t know because liberal news sources ignore and lie about it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 01:55 PM
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Isn’t the high IQ and autism thing mostly a movie and TV trope to help average people cope with the reality that folks with very high IQs are better at pretty much everything (ceteris paribus)?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 01:22 PM
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Yep Universities are the most liberal place in the US If women think they aren’t being hired there enough (I guess just based on faculty demographics with the desire they be 50/50 or more in everything) then it just shows they are delusional Women can be the majority faculty in a humanity, but the only thing they’ll look at is how the physics staff is mostly men Earth to women….more men go into physics and the majority of people really good at math and that type of thinking are men You can point…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 11:59 AM
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It’s because they worship their emotions They don’t realize that the reason most mammals have obvious emotions analogous to our basic emotions is that emotional response is how your brain guides behavior Sad and ironic that they think logic is somehow less evolved than that which you share with your dog
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 09:15 PM
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There’s a reason most advanced civilizations developed this social technology that was then enforced by religion Just look at the societies that did not for comparison The laughable irony is that people think throwing off that which made us and following your emotions (aka genetic instincts) is progress snd enlightenment Liberal hippies actually think that leaning into your proclivity to shag random people (because it feels right to them) is some mark of them being deep or something It’s sad and…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 02:50 PM
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They also think that they are discriminated against in STEM While a grad student, I was on a faculty search committee They very explicitly moved females higher in the stack because they wanted “diversity” This was over 15 years ago They came out and said it “oh here’s a woman” or “oh here’s a nonwhite male” and everyone nodded like “yeah…diversity!” Shit should be illegal
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 01:57 PM
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That doesn’t answer my question Do you think that truth is only worthwhile if you can point to an immediate tangible benefit?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 01:20 PM
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Pretty, smart, sane Pick 2 I’ve dated several pretty women that were very smart, with advanced degrees, and their levels of entitlement because of this was very high They very explicitly wanted separate rules for the 2 of us
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 01:19 PM
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Autism spectrum liberal women are a good insight They aren’t good at hiding what they really think and feel Their hatred for men leaks everywhere in my experience They are similar to turbo dykes
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 01:10 PM
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You think truth is only worthwhile if it has a benefit?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 01:06 PM
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It’s the extreme level of dishonesty and also the non-recognition of what is going on, how things have changed, and what this current approach will soon bring I mean if someone wants to drink prune juice all day, that’s cool Just don’t tell us it’s grape kool aid and try to make us all affirm that In other words, if women were just honest and not hurtful then you’d hear less complaining It’s like the whole women dressing sexually and then saying “I dress like this because it is comfortable” or “…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 01:05 PM
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Also, women have less physical jealousy than men. I think it is partly because women are more likely to be bisexual or bi-curious. A woman just commented to me here that it turns her on to imagine her BF with other women. As usual, in the areas that men deviate from women, the male impulse is pathologized. Most men are unattractive to women. Therefore, many women are with men they aren’t physically aroused by. I think the whole “let’s be okay acting open to other people” is due to this asymmetry…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 12:40 PM
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Don’t conflate “normal” with common, healthy, or tending to cause stable relationships. You can look at anything and say “well 5% of people do it, must be normal then” People with “alternative” relationship strategies have been trying really hard to normalize their behaviors for years Like all the swingers that act like they do what they do because they are enlightened
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 12:35 PM
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Also, if a woman has a really hot boyfriend that she knows other women want and even want for casual sex, then she’s suddenly usually not cool with him having a 1 on 1 dinner date with an exGF “just to catch up”. Your GF being okay with you being around other women alone socially is a sign she doesn’t think you are particularly physically attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 12:34 PM
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PS Many non-human animals display mate guarding and chimps are capable of emotions like jealousy, anger, and hatred The genetics of “jealousy” in humans likely pre-dates our split with our common ancestor with chimps It’s crazy that women in the 21st century suddenly want us to ignore this It’s the equivalent to a female lioness wanting the male leader of her pride to be okay with her hanging out with the male from the next pride over and walking around with her tail in the air when in heat in f…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 01:23 AM
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This is the only time in history when men are supposed to be okay with their female mates talking to other men in private (Facebook etc) daily, acting sexually in public and receiving sexual attention (thirst trap photos, going to the mall with camel toe and boobs on display), flirting with other men strongly, and going on one on one activities with other men alone. A guy here commented about how his wife goes hiking alone with other men often. When I asked if he was bisexual he confirmed it (cu…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 01:08 AM
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I dated a woman that sounds similar My best was never good enough
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 08:41 PM
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Yep Don’t get serious or bonded too fast They will all usually do or say something bizarre early on Something that a sane and rational person that cares about you and sees you as a human wouldn’t say or do That is your cue Believe them and nope out right then No long talks where they reassure, apologize, and gas light you In the last case for me, she ignored me when around an attractive man and talked to him and gushed for way too long When I confronted her, she played dumb (what that’s not norm…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 08:25 PM
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If you are religious at all Go find a girl that is religious and actually believes it I’m an atheist and don’t like promiscuous women So you I’m kind of screwed because it seems most non religious women go through a phase where they bang way too many guys casually
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 08:14 PM
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My last 2 exGFs were cluster b freaks Both cheated Both were strongly repelled when I showed weakness even once
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 08:06 PM
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Most things in life like this handled by just going forward and becoming desensitized The trick is you can’t quit when you want or you’ll never achieve your goal Of course, quit if you change your goal For instance, I hated public speaking and was nervous Then I taught at a university for years Weird thing to do for someone with that issue I hated the first few months, after a year it didn’t bother me at all and drastically increased my overall confidence I no longer teach but have no issue talk…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 03:14 PM
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Duh This is a natural extension of women having lower libidos and you not having a vagina men desire Don’t overcomplicate this one
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 07:09 PM
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Some people get off on taboo and betrayal For them, oddly, to get the hottest sex, they need to be in a relationship which they are stepping out on There’s an entire genre of pron based on this
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 06:35 PM
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Sadly Cheating at anything (sports, school, marriage) is seen as rational to a person without a strong conscience, so long as the chance of being caught is sufficiently low and the upside sufficiently large. Being bothered by your actions changes things.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 06:33 PM
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They are somewhat easy to spot. A lady in my office hardly spoke of her husband and never nicely. She also would park where she wasn’t supposed to and generally had a “it’s my world and you’re just living in it” attitude. I’m pretty sure she banged the building super (for a month whenever she left for lunch at random times (we don’t clock in) then he would also leave like clockwork and it was all times 11 am to 2 pm). And now that I’ve spent time around her, she’s been touchy feely and her eyes …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 11:38 AM
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They are selfish people and want both partners or to at least not have repercussions. Some people think cause and effect is punishment. I have a relative who road rages. No one will ride with him. He thinks other people are wrong and mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 11:35 AM
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People are at the top usually because they put themselves first and have no other loyalties CEOs are on their own team of one and form alliances only as it benefits them
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 12:18 PM
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When else do you commit to 18 years and a huge amount of money based solely on someone’s word? The argument against this can also be used against prenups. If you’re a wealthy woman that would want a guy to sign a prenup, then I can’t see how you’d view this differently. Almost every time I didn’t take care of myself explicitly in life, it somehow hit my butt later.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 12:14 PM
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This is the most common form of bullying between adults The joke that isn’t really just a joke
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 10:56 AM
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Why do people think “This isn’t 100% true in all cases” is a debate point? Literally nothing is always true outside of maybe formal logic, some math systems, and perhaps physics Everywhere else in life, there are always exceptions
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 01:09 AM
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Main thing I see groups of women do that is dysfunctional is help each other rationalize the bad behavior of group members in the hopes of supporting her and soothing her emotions A woman can be dumped by a great man for some bad shit the woman did The other women don’t want to kick her when she’s down and want to attend to her immediate emotions more than they want to help her long term growth and connection to reality So they will take turns spit balling rationalizations that let the hurt woma…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 01:04 AM
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Based
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 06:08 PM
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One thing I advise men not to do is talk about when you did not have a good trait Let’s say you’re now muscular Don’t show your new GF pics of when you were scrawny Your journey will not impress them and they’ll subconsciously decide that you have shit genetics
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 05:55 PM
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Ok Still orthogonal Even if true
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 04:46 PM
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That’s not even funny, all else aside If you’re going to play on the edge, at least be funny She probably thinks it is funny but that is a “dumb person” kind of joke
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 04:07 PM
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Most high earning women are strongly Type A I find those women insufferable because they are never satisfied A woman being wildly successful is a turn off because they will never be content in the relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 04:05 PM
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Orthogonal to my point Unless you think “one should not make note of that which one is so alpha as to side step”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 04:03 PM
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Nah Was just in a hating the stupid mood You people would try the patience of the Buddha
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 03:56 PM
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I think you are redefining the word It is called that because a monkey doesn’t let go of one branch before having another in hand Holding 2 branches is a breach of trust almost by definition unless she’s like “Hey I’m gonna have coffee with Greg from work because I’m tired of you and I might want him more” Staying with someone while wanting someone else is sneaky by definition Maybe young people just have their heads warped as far as what is expected in trusting relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 03:52 PM
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What exactly did they do while monkey branching that was hidden and would be considered a breach of trust? Most meet up in secret and are physical on some level to make sure the deal is sealed. But yeah I’m not talking about the most innocent type imaginable.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 10:18 PM
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If you count all forms of infidelity, including at the end of the relationship when monkey branching is happening (and the excuse is “well it was basically over anyways”) Then I’d say around 75% of the people I know that were not married at age 35 and were not celibate have cheated on at least one partner they’ve had in their life
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 07:38 PM
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Depends upon level of liberality and also time period A modern day hardcore left wing male is typically weak as hell, but of course you’ll find a few exceptions The Overton window has shifted that anyone formerly a middle of road liberal should feel like their party moved out from under them if they are paying attention and not brainwashed
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 04:50 PM
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20 years ago, as I became more mentally healthy and strong, made more money, and became physically stronger…I became politically independent while formerly liberal and my worldview took on more conservative elements Extremely liberal men are much more likely to be mentally ill and physically weak and to have the look of someone with low testosterone It’s easily observable Also, the more attractive a woman is the less likely she is to be a hardcore feminist that hates men
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 04:38 PM
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Both sexes holding grudges is not a point We are discussing what most women will hold a grudge and be upset over in this specific context
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 04:36 PM
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What I wrote does not involve a conspiracy at all And you just admitted I’m correct People in higher demand due to physical attraction get away with more As such a female 7 is lusted after and catered to about x100 more than a male 7 Then you state that weaker people get away with more Guess what? Average guy is how many times less frail and more dangerous than average woman? All you’ve done is fleshed out the mechanism of the thing which you disagreed with those hoisting yourself on your own pi…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 04:18 PM
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BS You are likely looking at globally or in shit neighborhoods or subcultures In middle America, around decent men, women have way more leeway and you’re either: living in a shithole area/culture and so don’t know this, lying to help your argument, or so embedded in this that you can’t see it like a fish in water 100% women get away with BS that would get a man arrested or punched, it’s not up for debate Decent men assign you the social accountability of teenagers and you don’t even know it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 03:19 PM
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Women are socially more allowed to shit on men because they are “punching up”
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 03:05 PM
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Women will say in one breath “All women are unique and you have to learn what gets her off” And then in the next breath “He didn’t know how to fuck me” when speaking of a ONS I suppose (if they are smart enough to come up with this) they’d talk about general competence that transcends all women and then woman-specific competence But at the end of the day it’s just BS they are throwing at the wall
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 03:02 PM
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This is a specific type of toxicity common to women If you don’t think most women will be secretly pissed at this and bring it up at some point, then you’re young, naive, luckiest guy on earth, simp, or women around you are hiding this
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 01:53 PM
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Women often don’t take any responsibility for their sexuality and don’t realize they are bad at their own sexuality….they have men as scape goats though to stop personal growth Often they do not communicate even when asked, they don’t give any instruction because real men are supposed to just get it while also believing all women are sexually unique, they don’t deal with their hang ups and body issues, and some use a damn Hitachi enough that it makes it hard to cum with a guy In comparison, wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 01:29 PM
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Most women still hold these thoughts and they reveal themselves as their secret weapon to hurt men It all revolves around attacking our manhood By calling us gay Impotent Small in the pants Doesn’t know how to fuck Short Weak Women do it here too by calling men they disagree with incels They can get away with it more so they use it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 01:25 PM
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No way in hell most women will not hold a grudge over this You haven’t dealt with women as a man
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 01:19 PM
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And it doesn’t even matter if they are actually cheating If you are not being paranoid, but you think your partner is the type to cheat Then just end it You’ll never have peace unless you’re a cuck I had an exGF like this, she just didn’t know how to build trust and had no idea (or didn’t care) the impression her behavior gave She thought you started all relationships with maximum and complete trust and only modified that if you had smoking gun evidence of a betrayal and from the looks of it pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 01:15 PM
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Biggest change will be when the woman gets a doggie bag to take half her meal home, it won’t just be for show with her eating it the first moment she is alone
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 01:13 PM
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You show a lack of understanding for anyone not like you Your advice to weak people is get strong Sure but your prescription to do that is born of a purposeful lack of understanding
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 12:33 PM
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If someone has low social confidence Then they need wins Even if just mild wins I would suggest they find the most accepting crowd possible and volunteer there and mildly socialize and then slowly progress Examples would be church stuff (I’m an atheist but still), volunteering around big hearted people (animals, disabled etc) The dumbest thing is stick them in a shark tank (club etc) and have them go home with more bad experiences The internet is way too easy to use now and that’s why you have s…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 12:32 PM
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Using formulas is intelligence….nah Just throwing math at crap randomly is not useful I agree math is useful however
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 12:29 PM
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Oh gee String together some made up BS that you think will get my goat Oh boy that’s effective I’m sure it’s not in your propaganda films but anytime your black clad skinny jeans soy boy dating pool are dumb enough to pick on men with measurable testosterone levels….they get wrecked Often hilariously so There’s the one video where a single guy that can grow a thick beard and weighs over 200 lbs beats up like 5 or 10 Antifa members in a row and at least one he disarms first (I think soy boy had a…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 12:15 PM
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In contrast to a figurative Asian woman…which would be trans
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 07:28 PM
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How did you not bring in trigonometry by referencing the angle of the dangle?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 07:15 PM
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Trying to fuck according to formulas is called Asperger’s
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 07:14 PM
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Yeah they are on that high strength soy Please We’ve all seen what happens when your Antifa boyfriends actually meet resistance from someone other than an easy target There’s a small town of 1,000 people that borders where I live I’m guessing just the men there could take all of Antifa in the US, if they felt like it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 06:42 PM
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A good man loves a woman in a way that women cannot fathom I’ve almost died instinctively saving an exGF’s life
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 06:17 PM
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A woman once said she was jealous of men because we actually deeply like each other more often and get along I think it is because masculine men tend to learn to nip shit in the bud and then let it go….less mind games and such Also I am not jealous of them and celebrate each others success I have 2 friends of over 30 years That’s rare in general but more common in men
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 06:15 PM
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Interestingly This is a hypothetical that would only be presented to a man Women are told not to help in these scenarios and typically have no protective instincts towards men they don’t know They might yell and then call on their phones Even worse, a sizeable chunk of women would not risk their lives to save their husband But if a husband didn’t die or nearly die trying to save his wife then he’d be called a coward for the rest of his life Women don’t see this because they benefit from it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 06:11 PM
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I’ll show my wiener for a pop tart
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 04:40 PM
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They don’t want equality They want equity Kamala started with equality and then spun it into being equity in one of her speeches Common dirty trick
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 03:18 PM
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Duh They aren’t doing that consciously Take any abstract description of a psychological phenomena and you’ll find that people matching that aren’t doing it in their head the way the textbook describes the underlying process
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 12:27 PM
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You act like you’re in my own head and know why I do things You don’t You’re wrong And you’re also a seemingly dreadful person I do know why people buy luxury fashion items because it’s obvious But for you to declare that I don’t want healthy food is you just being a dreadful stereotype Also, the fact that it is actually difficult (you might not know because you might not leave the house) matters in comparison to just buying things For instance, juggling builds coordination and probably stimulat…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 11:56 PM
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Bringing you joy isn’t useless then Purses and things like Rolexs are largely for other people and require no skill and the only productive bit is that it makes them feel good and maybe raises social standing Are you high on glue that obtaining my own healthier meat is not useful just because i can divert funds to buy a usually inferior and less safe product from a store? Really this has totally discredited you or revealed you as a troll You also are totally off the rails if you don’t see the di…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 11:45 PM
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You’re equating buying a lifetime object I can use for 2 hobbies that are not useless To walking around with a purse that makes other women jealous? Are you a serious person?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 10:58 PM
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I hunt for healthy food but also shooting and hunting is a hobby I guess carrying a purse can be a hobby….for people with no skills
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 10:42 PM
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Sure, jewelry But why do women sell their used Coach bags for next to nothing at yard sales or give them to Goodwill? I assume by high fashion (things that actually increase in value) you aren’t talking about the trendy things women spend money on at the local mall (like that ugly thing that says Coach 100 times in different colors)…you’re talking about things only bought by people truly in the upper class No?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 10:40 PM
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What? People aren’t assessing the looks of people they might want to date?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 09:27 PM
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Women bring looks and then female genitals, which men have an unhealthy obsession around, that’s why
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 09:26 PM
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Yep I was a somewhat attractive but passive guy when young I waited for women to not only give indicators of interest but start coming after me Those women were all nuts
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 09:07 PM
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Also coming off as overly nice and understanding can cause it too If your mom or dad had issues, then you likely are trained to put up with crap And they can smell it on you So overcome that
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 07:56 PM
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Um I know Mexico isn’t in Asia There’s nothing I wrote that would indicate that I don’t know that I mentioned Mexico as an aside Duh
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 07:55 PM
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Listen to your gut and be willing to walk early when your gut pings
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 07:30 PM
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Same with cluster b women, sort of Many have short relationships all the time and pursue men they find attractive or are just very flirty and open to male attention (low hanging fruit) So many men end up dating one despite them being somewhat rare There’s also men that are crazy magnets (I used to be one)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 07:16 PM
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People typically have sex around 3rd date And talking seriously before that is a mood killer I don’t think you understand dating from a male perspective If you’re a decent looking woman, then you have different rules
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 07:10 PM
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This is why if a woman has no or few females friends and says “women are drama” then I now run These women are the drama Typically, only people that want to bang them can stand them and they typically act inappropriately around the men of other women (attention seeking etc)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 04:41 PM
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Never been to Walmart?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 04:39 PM
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If you have women in your social circles then you don’t need to pursue if you are handsome The women that want you to ask them out will make it obvious or have another woman tell you I would never in a million years try to convince a woman to go out with me in the hopes that attraction would build
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 04:35 PM
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Women do tend to like brunette men more though
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 04:33 PM
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Women imagine the perfect scenario for them in their head and then counsel men on how to make that a reality For instance, a woman that is a former sex worker would advise men not to judge women by their sexual past
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 04:31 PM
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If you look at distributions for many traits, women have a smaller standard deviation Such as intelligence, there are more male geniuses and also idiots
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 04:29 PM
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It’s simple Even Asian women like non-Asian men The reason is that on average Asian men have the lowest testosterone levels and also the smallest physical size (actually 2 shortest countries are China and Mexico) I’m from the US and I’ve met only a few Asian men in real life that were my size or larger If I went to China, I could rest my chin on half of all men’s heads Women respond strongly to this in all cultures
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 04:27 PM
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Just look at how closely they follow fashion as if it is obviously right and spend $500 on a purse to show off the label I just spent $500 but it was on a rifle scope that cost $1000 regular price and I’ll be able to leave it in my will The reason is simple In an ancient environment women couldn’t survive at all without the protection and provision of the group and so social ostracization meant death
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 04:24 PM
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I work in a field where I understand statistics and testing and error rates And I never mentioned a paternity fraud case I was very obviously talking about how a suspicious dad could get an initial screening Of course, if both different methods and different analysts came to the conclusion of “not the dad” then I’d move to a formal medical test from a doctor visit or go to a lawyer for advice
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 04:14 PM
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“If you don’t have an awkward conversation that only works if you’re taking weeks or months to get to know each other prior to sex then you can’t complain when the person does something immoral to you” Got it That’s the gist of what you wrote but you are using words as magical incantations from lady land
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 04:12 PM
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You can say that because you’re a woman If you are hot, you could ask the guy to wear a mullet wig and quote Joe Dirt lines as part of a kink You want a guy that has a hot and horny woman panting and grabbing his junk to say “hold on missy….how do you feel about abortion and paternity testing, before you get the Willy?” Get out of here Are you a bot?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 11:45 PM
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Didn’t know that Given error rates I’d probably do that and the 23andme And only trust if both say same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 11:43 PM
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You write words as if they magical incantations to get your way
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 11:42 PM
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No shame in that you accuse me of the bad argument you also did That is what should shame you Being a rank hypocrite and also it seems not even good at debate/analysis
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 03:29 PM
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No analogy will work on women Because we are discussing women and their vaginas According to women it is the most unique and important confluence So you can’t compare it to anything else
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 03:27 PM
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It used to be common to have them at the start of LTRs where you’d have sex without a condom Young people don’t do that as much now Now paternity is one and done by definition So you’d have to fix your metaphor a bit
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 03:25 PM
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Good chance? You need to study decision theory If something being true is really bad, then you act even if the odds are relatively low
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 03:21 PM
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I’ve had 7 LTRs 2 of them, I would close to 100% trust Last 2 cheated on me The other 3 were somewhere in the middle, they were solipsistic enough to rationalize betraying me
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 03:19 PM
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If you want to avoid doctors Just get two 23andme tests, one for you and kid, and then do them under fake names and mail to your work or a PO Box The tests show family relations plus you can look at ancestry and it should make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 03:17 PM
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If you are afraid of patent fraud then discuss that on a first date? Are you serious?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 03:15 PM
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I think some women get so desperate for a child that they’ll lie A close friend couldn’t conceive with his wife He wouldn’t go to a fertility doctor She was 35 and had baby rabies My friend said she was depressed and starting fights and sleeping on the couch Suddenly she is pregnant and the world is right but she systematically tried to cut her husband’s friends out…the people that might hurt her plan 15 years late and this boy is absolutely nothing like my friend in anyway…..zero personality or…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 03:12 PM
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You mentioned level of horniness indicators I respond Now I’m off topic Do you have no shame in a discussion?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 03:06 PM
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Yes And all contracts are accusations Not giving my friend my PIN at the ATM when he’s driving is the same The list goes on There are differences in the details of relationships But yeah that’s the mechanism Anyone looking out for their own interest is an accuser I guess, we just have to figure out if it’s warranted
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 01:19 PM
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True All tests have a false positive and false negative rate
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 01:16 PM
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If you told the average single 20 year old man “If you walk 20 miles to her house, this model will sleep with you” And showed him a pic of a Victoria secrets model How many would do it? Now, switch genders
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 01:12 PM
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Light teasing?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 01:00 PM
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A tall male with a 7 face will do similar to an average height male with 8 face or short male with a 9 face Unless the female in question has a height fetish Height helps but not a ton
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 10:11 PM
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My buddy was an undercover cop He knew you and followed your advice to be a moral absolutist He walked into the crime lair he had infiltrated and just spilled his guts They were so impressed that they killed him fast instead of slow Oh wait I lied about that to make a point I’m a naughty boy too! Not nearly as smart and good as a math teacher must be
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 09:54 PM
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Read Schopenhauer On Women
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 09:49 PM
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Yeah Math shouldn’t have been invented
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 09:39 PM
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Women mature faster physically and also want to do the right social thing earlier etc But with all the famous male philosophers etc it is a bit absurd to think that women have a significant advantage that doesn’t go away somewhat over time as we age
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 07:46 PM
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Thanks This makes sense It’s just not how I’ve had to operate I’m catnip to certain women, and I can tell they like me because they have a strong reaction For bookish type girls, I’d say I’m a chad When I see that, and I like them, I just ask for their number This has bit my ass though also because the women that make it too easy can be trouble
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 07:38 PM
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It’s partly that my uncle is gay and so I’m not homophobic at all Gay men are so used to straight guys avoiding them (at least in more conservative areas) that the fact that I don’t makes them shoot their shot
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 07:33 PM
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So you’re disagreeing with men being hornier? Or that men want sexual variety at least more than women? Maybe it was my use of methadone in a snarky way And how do you know your libido is normal?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 05:08 PM
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You’d be surprised My estimate is 10% of women treat men like absolute shit in relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 02:53 PM
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You’re a woman and therefore your horniness is likely much lower than men Also men crave sexual variety more and porn is like methadone to stave off doing it in real life I know women think they get as horny as men, and that’s very cute
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 02:21 PM
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I read where BDSM is huge at MIT because the spectrum people like the rules
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 02:19 PM
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Yeah That’s the issue I am very good at joking with and teasing people without being offensive Because I’m good at this, I do it continually, when appropriate, it takes no effort People that aren’t naturally warm and funny have to put in effort and therefore might think I’m putting in special effort for them, which I am not I’m straight and masculine without being hypermasculine ….and I’ve been hit on by so many gay guys it’s unreal It makes me paranoid almost As usual, people view things as if …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 01:57 PM
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Other than making suggestive comments or talking sexually, I have no idea what flirting is And I never talk sexually/suggestively to women I’m not alone with etc (ie we are purposely in a private setting because they are interested) because it’s cringe to me If flirting is just being friendly and funny, then I do that with everyone and no wonder so many gay men have subtly asked me out/pursued me
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 01:26 PM
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You basically agree with me You just have low reading comprehension Or maybe no ability to read between the lines of statements
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 01:11 PM
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You did not read and comprehend what I wrote You are arguing a foreign point to my own And actually the opposite Read what I wrote and not what you think I wrote
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 11:20 AM
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lol The fact that I am garnering semi serious replies speaks for itself
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 06:22 PM
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Yeah They won’t be able to electrocute us in our breeder cages if there are no men to design and run power plants
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 06:21 PM
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You think that uncut men in developed countries with good hygiene have dirty stinky wieners? They don’t You just have to be a somewhat clean person
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 07:48 PM
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Dude You make no sense
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 07:25 PM
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No You’re applying your definition of happiness to others As in not being single is required for your happiness So this must be the case for others as well Which is wrong on its face
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 06:49 PM
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I can’t believe women don’t understand that male paternity is never 100% and that committing to support another human for 18+ years is a huge deal But you know female fee fees and all The reasons it is seen as hurtful is 1 women are just built to find shit like this hurtful 2 paternity tests are a recent invention and so there is no historical tradition or precedence to fall back on and 3 lying sluts hardly ever consider themselves as such I had a friend that was in a position where a GF of 6 mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 03:12 PM
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It’s just a female lobbying group now There’s no stopping criteria In 100 years, women could have men locked in cages and used only for sperm And some purple haired harpy will still be prattling on about some BS grievance and pushing for greater voltage in the electrocutions used to punish men for women not getting the vote until the 1900s
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 02:44 PM
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I don’t know I have pretty much ruled out marriage and cohabitation I’m sure I’ll date again
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 12:42 PM
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Then you’ve admitted defeat and aren’t smart enough to realize it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 07:14 PM
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Divorce rates will tend to drop as marriage rates drop It has to be interpreted in that sense Of course if only people super madly in love with each other (to illustrate with an extreme…I know that breaks brains here because half of you can’t think abstractly or use bad logic when it suits your argument) get married instead of almost everyone, then divorce rate as percent of those married will drop.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 02:05 PM
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General social experience should be enough Anything else is more “how to navigate the crazy side of women that they hide from the world” No thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 02:02 PM
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You folks are all smoking glue and playing with definitions to suit your own whatever You can improve your mental state Full stop
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 01:58 PM
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Could it be that what people prefer is very rare or out of their league? Like I prefer women that are not overly emotional but I haven’t dated many because they hardly exist and the one that do have been snatched up. If you looked at my dating history you’d think I don’t prefer that when I do but was just always unsatisfied.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 04:58 PM
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You’re not going to tell us the question are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 04:53 PM
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Most people aren’t struggling to find HEALTHY love? Have you looked around outside?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 04:49 PM
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You hide the degree of it and how looks can swamp it Your insistent that women are honest and when you are less so you have good reason Is frankly hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 04:39 PM
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So being deceptive is allowed so long as others should realize it according to you Good to know
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 04:37 PM
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When women don’t mention looks at all but other things Any fair person would assume either looks are not at the top of the list or that other traits can seriously make up for looks
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 04:36 PM
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A man that acts like an average woman is usually despised by other men because we consider him a weasel etc Women can perform a thought experiment here How would you view a straight man that wanted to date you but psychologically was exactly like a standard female (yeah you’ll say there are no average people! And you’re not smart, that isn’t a point here)? And he also acted like that? You’d think he was cringe and gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 04:34 PM
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Yeah let me sacrifice my well being to be my dads dad and do something he should have done for himself simply because there is a small chance it could help him You’re either a troll or just out to lunch
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 03:17 PM
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Or say it’s not their business
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 03:09 PM
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Jordan Peterson is a smart man but a lot of his reasoning comes off as motivated by reaching the conclusion that he’d like or because of the good consequences of the belief. For instance, his views on Christianity.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 03:08 PM
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Are you serious or just being weird? Because that is literally the most unhealthy shit I can imagine someone thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 02:59 PM
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Did I say that? You don’t believe in a dominant cultural narrative or zeitgeist?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 02:58 PM
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We are just screwing around with definitions then at this point
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 02:57 PM
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That’s something that can’t be explain in a Reddit comment But it must be true or all people that were unhappy would die unhappy or get pulled out of it by luck Too many stories to the contrary Grab your nuts and take responsibility for your internal state
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 01:36 PM
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The underlying sense you get when you watch mainstream media and news and talk to a liberal.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 01:35 PM
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My dad was fatherless. This reminds me of him. He’s 71 and still fantasizes about having a dad and writes poetry about it. He’s allowed it to partly ruin his life.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 12:28 PM
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You can learn to be happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 12:26 PM
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You don’t think that the cultural narrative is largely catering toward women?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 12:26 PM
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It might be different in large cities and in certain demographics where single women past their 20s pack up, drink, and get ran through and given attention while looking for “the one”. But my experience is women are secretly miserable when single and also often scared when they live alone. They are however viewed more positively. Single men past around 35 are seen as inherently creepy where I live.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 12:25 PM
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Ok So you’ve admitted you’re talking about yourself That’s fine But you’re talking about a different thing
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 12:18 PM
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Women have sex toy buying parties Like Tupperware parties back in the day It’s not super common but exists Google it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 01:49 AM
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Yeah you’re confused because you don’t want to be a hypocrite and you’re self aware
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 11:52 PM
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Really? Pumping up supposed victim groups with unreasonable crap is equally represented along the political spectrum? Don’t think so
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 11:06 PM
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True But I know when I’m doing it often enough My logical and emotional parts of my brain are more parallel and not intermeshed I know when I’m about to do something out of emotions and when emotions are influencing me It’s not perfect But I’m roughly 100x better at this than the average woman (but I’m also better at it than most men) It helps that I’m over 3 SD above the mean
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 11:05 PM
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Because you’re such a good person you don’t realize that most women view men very harshly compared to how they view themselves and other women
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 11:02 PM
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lol If men vetted women for being accepting of such things, first how would that work? Second it would eliminate most women. I think you have a bias that other women are like you. They aren’t And like most people The majority are somewhat dreadful
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 09:20 PM
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They do once they hit menopause and then slowly become less desirable A lot of formerly hot women become either jaded or enlightened as they realize people were nice to them just because of them being a female and their looks That’s why some of them freak and get plastic surgery
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 09:15 PM
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This is what happens when ultra liberals pump young girls with girl boss memes The American dream now is to raise a narcissist
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 09:06 PM
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A lot of men are tired of the female hyper emotionality negatively impacting their lives I don’t want to live with a creature that makes decisions based upon feels and their decisions can negatively affect me So I’ll never marry
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 09:05 PM
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Um An analogy about water doesn’t mean anything here I can say Snap into a slim Jim Or something That and $5 will get you a happy meal
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 08:59 PM
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Don’t forget to add in the 100s of articles that basically say Men shouldn’t care for XYZ reasons Therefore men don’t care Or As you said Therefore men that care are shit And then of course the men that care staying silent
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 08:18 PM
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Women settle for your average guy you described They hardly desire him
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 08:04 PM
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Women will be allowed to Just like they have dildo parties but a guy has to hide having a fleshlight for fear of mockery Women will never get it They will spin it as of course that’s right
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 06:35 PM
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There was a guy here that was posting about how his wife goes on hikes alone with male friends (but one on one, just multiple different guys) I asked if he was bi He said he was and seemed surprised I called it Incidentally a lot of men into cuckolding, open relationships, and swinging are bi, bi-curious, hypersexual, or so narcissistic that they can’t really love their wives and use them as bait
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 06:21 PM
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Women that get rich being porn stars and play their cards right and retire early and rich Have already decided they can’t or won’t fit society’s definition of a “good woman” So they don’t care and satisfy themselves with laughing all the way to the bank If you told Riley Reid “You’re a slut” She’d say “Yes and so?” As she fanned herself with $100s What I don’t like are the ones that do porn for a decade and then cry about how people look at them funny now It’s like the guy that gets a spider nec…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 06:16 PM
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Sure They ask a player Do you like women? Of course they say yes That provides almost no info
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 06:14 PM
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But you aren’t blue pilled it seems I’m no pill because having a name for how you think is stupid I am just aware that the mainstream narrative is bullshit, I see the patterns I see, and I understand science, evolution, and logic So whatever that makes me, I’m it I do believe modern women are largely delusional and don’t really give a shit about men
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 06:13 PM
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Your list in practice is more like Don’t be deformed or morbidly obese Don’t be crazy or abusive Etc Dealbreakers Now it is as you listed for hot men But the problem is that below average women expect a lot from men that the women cannot do themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 04:04 PM
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The thing is that life and civilization and society didn’t come about to maximize personal happiness. But we’re blessed because we are at a point where this is more easily noticed and we are advanced enough to somewhat ignore these things and try to maximize our own happiness without something bad happening Sex and relationships are there to create healthy children That’s it They were never to make the individual happy and the promise of happiness and the little bit of pleasure you get is there …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 03:59 PM
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They could also get away with being somewhat unpleasant to be around
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 03:51 PM
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Men’s immediate need and love is greater Women’s longer term need they feel within them is greater It’s because in antiquity a woman that was expelled from the tribe had zero chance of pleasant survival This is also why women are so much more concerned with their social position
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 03:50 PM
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Also many young people The irony of almost all young people is that they always think the reason why old people disagree with them is that old people are dumb I can even tell a younger person I was the same way and regret not listening more, and it will have no effect on them I think it is a biological mechanism for them to develop autonomy and potentially disperse form the group, because it is so common that there has to be a mechanism I’ve told people on Reddit that I caught a girlfriend cheat…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 03:46 PM
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Having fun and being happy can be a mission
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 03:42 PM
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Interesting that women claim to be more emotional and also just as if not more logical than men. So therefore closer to perfection. But we all know that in almost all cases as one becomes more emotional then it is at the expense of logic. I won’t marry because I don’t want an overly emotional creature making emotional decisions that impact my life. The reason women are more emotional Is to help with child rearing and to persuade men to take care of them. This is the evolutionary reason and it is…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 03:41 PM
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Some come here to shit on men as a sport
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 03:36 PM
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Yeah It’s because they are trying to help a specific guy in the moment They can’t reasonably give the advice of “we should all start a movement that makes women view men more reasonably” because how is that going to happen quickly enough to matter for that person? A guy very well might have a few dealbreakers that are easier to fix. If the guy has BO and is so fat he can’t see his penis, then yeah start there. But the wholesale “every man has a dealbreaker and we just have to find it” is busted.…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 03:33 PM
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How’s their relationship? I’ve found if a woman isn’t enthralled by you then eventually you’ll make them mad, the switch will flip, and they’ll look over and think “why am I with this guy anyway?”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 03:31 PM
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Except don’t ever call women out in any scenario where they can harm your life. Because eventually one will.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 03:30 PM
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Different context, but an evolutionary biologist told me “given enough time, that which can happen in a given situation will happen at least once.” It’s like how many people that can cheat (in business, relationships, and sports) and think they can get away with it, will. Human morality is there to try to tame our selfish and animal instincts.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 03:29 PM
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Men have expectations but they are more reasonable on average. It’s more “don’t be fat to the point of being unhealthy and not having anything like a female figure”. That is much easier than a slender guy adding 20 lbs of lean mass in the gym. Like 100x easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 03:24 PM
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Only do what actually helps you in a way that matters to you. For instance, I work out for my health and so that everyone treats me with more respect. I now have women check me out as a result and take a subtle pleasure in ignoring them and watching their face drop.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 03:23 PM
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Men would approach more and things would go more smoothly if the female mindset, where it goes wrong and deviates from being reasonable, was rectified instead of amplified. The cliff notes are women need more empathy and humility as a collective and in a real sense. Not volunteering at the humane society and then having everyone on Facebook agree you are enlightened.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 03:18 PM
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I believe most of this is true. What you are doing though is synthesizing the actual gist of the collective advice men are given and how women view men. Therefore, even if it is largely true, women will not see it and they will pick you apart on details instead of addressing your larger point. Or they will construe you as saying “men can be slobs that bring nothing to the table and they are still owed a relationship”, when you are obviously discussing a matter of degrees. The reason is that they…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 03:04 PM
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You just smuggled in good looking while proving that point went over your head
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 03:12 PM
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Good break down I love reciting back to people what their convoluted BS actually means when not sugar coated They then always say “that’s not what I said” And then they repeat back the convoluted BS that still means the same thing It’s kind of a combined IQ and character test They act like if you disagree then you must not have heard or understood them….classic
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 02:58 PM
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It doesn’t say explicitly that the men were all from the same town If it does it implies it falsely He was posting to an internet chat room that was specifically for this crime
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 07:58 PM
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No able bodied adult should be unable to escape another adult This is partly why I will never marry I do not want another human to be able to hurt my life by their decisions without me being able to easily leave A marriage contract is from a rational perspective with a historic view…absolutely stupid If it were for business, no sane person would sign it Unless you are a gold digger marrying a rich person
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 07:17 PM
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You also should not be exchanging sexual energy with other people Looking at you married women that like to dress with your tits out and flirt with other men
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 07:00 PM
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You need to ask yourself the question “Why are these places shit holes to begin with?” That will help you know why the people there act like the kind of people that would create a shit hole to begin with
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 06:47 PM
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You’re going way too far The vast majority of men have the opportunity to rape I’ve been around many women that were passed out etc Normal men do not rape or abuse even when given the chance Just like most men don’t use prostitution
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 06:45 PM
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People that are treated poorly when very young sometimes develop cluster b personality disorders They become so self absorbed and devoid of the ability to feel empathy that they rationalize anything
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 06:43 PM
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Thank you for thinking well of men The percentage of men that would risk their lives to save a female stranger from rape is higher than the percentage of men that would rape Many of the women here, I fear, have been around the worst of men and have no idea how most of us actually are
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 06:38 PM
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They should never let someone spend time in a place like that alone or for long periods or without support Having said that, I’m guessing the detective was already struggling
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 06:35 PM
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It’s more acceptable to do every negative thing to men Including sexual assault Women laugh about men in jail being sexually assaulted
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 02:36 PM
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It’s a specific type of abstraction Men are simply better at it on average Or at least the people past a certain threshold where they are excellent at it are almost all men Someone not good at math probably thinks that only geometry problems can be visualized like this Nope When I was in grad school, I would work on probability and statistics problems while driving and pull over at rest stops to write notes as I came up with things
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 02:31 PM
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Main reason men kill them at math is that men had to navigate long distances and build things This requires the ability to visualize spatial relationships and do things like imagine and then rotate things in your head, etc As someone that achieves perfect scores on standardized math test (SAT, GRE, etc) and is gifted in that area, higher level math is in part turning problems into something you can see in your head People that suck at math think it is just something you do on paper with symbols
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 03:25 PM
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This is why children that were not nurtured at early stages grow into adults that Often both desperately want love and drive others way It is horribly sad that the people that want and need love the most often drive most healthy people away I’ve seen it too many times
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 03:13 PM
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If a woman is cute, she can get another guy easily and they know it. Often times, the other guy is already lined up. They can also easily go have some casual sex easily and this breaks the pair bond with the old BF. That’s why half of all women go act like a drunk ho for a few weekends after a break up.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 01:39 PM
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True There’s also hot men that are kind of high strung and they still do okay, better than an average looking chill guy This reminds me of women trying to act like entitled starlets….they don’t realize sometimes that that isn’t what makes the starlet…the starlet can just get away with it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 02:28 PM
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Anyone with any actual life experience knows that on average women tend to lust after “bad boys” It’s not up for debate This isn’t all women But the majority
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 04:20 PM
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That’s nice
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 11:51 PM
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Oh I have By overweight cheese hogs no less
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 07:14 PM
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True Chads are 8s in the face, not short, decent personality, usually good body The type of guys that have women approach them at bars regularly with the woman wanting to go home with him Or guys that routinely have stranger or acquaintance women tell them that they are hot/cute/whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 07:14 PM
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Then you’ve defined it so that it is no longer a useful term Cool
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 06:03 PM
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Always right spectrum person detected
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 06:02 PM
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Are you confusing English literature with a history book?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 03:35 PM
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I think what men don’t like is 1 female 3s thinking they deserve a male 8 female 3s getting run through by male 8s that use them for sex, this then makes the woman feel like she’s an 8 and all men are assholes, then she eventually settles down reluctantly with a male closer to her level but by now she has a high notch count and bad attitude
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:28 PM
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A problem more common women that is supported by some others
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:19 PM
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How far back are we going? In the Middle Ages there was hookup culture? Back then, promiscuous women were promarily prostitutes You think that young women a few hundred years ago were giving up those cheeks to random men on the regular? Come on
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:55 PM
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For long term success, yes For short term, it helps, but being hot is enough
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:53 PM
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I’m Gen X and my parents are boomers My mother very much subtly came with the perspective of women are always right and I would get with an angel and men had to be informed on how to treat these angels It was never explicit Just.industrial scale simping and pussy worship Watch women’s day time TV from the 80s and 90s They wore this “women just get it” thing on their sleeve in a hilariously not self-aware manner
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:17 PM
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That’s not an argument and is not accurate
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:15 PM
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Honestly, I’m jealous of gay men. They get treated a lot better by their partners than the average heterosexual man. If turning gay were an option, I’d consider it. And I have no problem attracting women. It’s that the small sliver that would be a decent partner for me are almost all in committed relationships at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 04:50 PM
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I think you were surrounded by what most men would consider manic pixies You were like a fish not knowing water is a thing
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 03:39 PM
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Well then your experience is very limited
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 03:38 PM
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I stupidly used to look for crazy women to love bomb because that’s what I thought falling in love was.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 03:37 PM
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Hilarious that women think just being near a female is on its own a prize
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 03:22 PM
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She’s mean as hell and always thinks she’s right. What do you expect?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 02:22 PM
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What if I told you I’ve turned down more direct offers of sex OR women that were so into me that I would have had to go on 2 dates max with them…more times than I can recall? I’ve turned down more women than I’ve slept with. It’s in part because I have self control and dislike drama and/or mentally ill people. And I can’t be the only guy like this. So, you are amplifying one message while viewing all men as if they conform to it. I’ve read your posts here and you’re often gratuitously nasty to m…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 02:21 PM
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Funny thing about radical acceptance of what is observable and actually makes sense without your emotions involved….it kills all your coping mechanisms first….and then will eventually make you stronger and more clear headed. You have to pass through a lake of mental fire first where you accept being an intelligent ape on a rock hurtling around a fusion reaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 05:02 PM
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You ever meet a guy that defines his success in life by the fact that a semi-decent looking woman is willing to be with him? And that’s about the sum total of what might be good about the guy? That’s how some blue pillers come off.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 04:56 PM
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What in the heck does it mean to be a blue pilled male anyway? Just anti red pill? A simp that thinks women better than men? Someone that believes the mainstream narrative at the time? Male feminist? Religious person that thinks men are to protect women?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 04:21 PM
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Your wife is watching over your shoulder as you type, isn’t she?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 03:05 PM
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Hitler liked cake Meditate on that sentence until you have a moment of enlightenment and then get back with me Ok, I realized you’ll never get it Just because I share one or a few thoughts with a community doesn’t mean anything I’ll look into your point But I’d caution off going off of averages It’s like you folks left stats class after they covered averages and thought “well that’s obviously the only way to think about data” In other words, male shit asses exist and your average includes them T…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 09:15 PM
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Most men are shit like, like most people But the most romantic and honorable people are almost men Women simply do not love men as much as men love women It’s obvious
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 07:05 PM
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I’m not pilled But I believe a man in love loves his woman much more than the the equivalent woman loves her man In fact, I barely identify female love as love as it does not fit my definition And I’ve had several women in love with me, the closest to how a man loves was a woman that was mildly autistic and if she had talked more I would have married her Men are capable of loving a woman down to her soul and soles of her feet to where he will give his life for her Women are not like that They on…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 06:58 PM
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Other than church, what venues are you talking about for nontoxic people? We all know that drunk bars and party spots are where the toxic folks congregate often.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 06:54 PM
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Nope Evolution by natural selection is the most misunderstood thing because people think it is so obvious how it works that they don’t have to study it. You are forgetting that a woman’s impulse might be to have healthy kids with good genetics that also survive. So, a man that can display wealth has excess resources that can assure the kids she has with him survive. Sometimes it even creates weird situations like the male peacock where it starts to be a detriment. So, go read a textbook or take …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 05:45 PM
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It addresses your point of how being excited doesn’t have to be slutty. Of course, all social things require reading others. That isn’t in dispute by any thinking person.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 05:38 PM
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They don’t have to do a back flip in a mini skirt with no panties on. For instance, smiling and blushing slightly while not disengaging and giving you the eyes that women often don’t know they give…:is a moderate green light showing restrained interest. You have to be wise enough to differentiate this from trying to play off nervousness not caused by attraction. I think what he means is if you have to convince her of anything, then move on. As far as women’s eyes, they do this extreme version of…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 05:29 PM
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If it was just a strong preference, then 100% and that’s ideal. If it something creepy and like I don’t matter just my characteristic, then no. But I would 200% not date a woman that has a strong type and broke it for me. For instance, a woman that only dated Latino men for 20 years and has a serious thing for them, and I’m the first guy of European descent they’ve dated. I’d assume eventually they’ll leave me for or cheat with their more common preference. This also applies to women that always…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 11:22 PM
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If you get a woman alone at your place for dinner and drinks, then you’re at the 5 yard line and ready for a field goal. You don’t have some awkward talk about sex or a relationship. First thing is break personal space (taboo around touch) by just being a bit touchy in a natural way (I.e. not creepy but not “im afraid of this woman”). You do this by acting like nonsexual touch isn’t a big deal without trying hard. Next, when the time is right, you kiss her. And escalate naturally from there. Fir…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 05:48 PM
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You’re mixing up evolutionary psychology in principle versus how some people you don’t like talk about it In fact, shortening it to “evopsych” is something you are doing on purpose because it makes it seem like a fringe club If you called it something like “human behavioral biology”, then your preachments would have less impact
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 04:58 PM
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Of course, this situation doesn’t always play out due to human diversity, the fact that a minority of us actually know that we can influence our emotions and desires instead of worship at their altar, and also some women just get the man of their dreams But for the all too common scenario of women settling for the man they can get, you’ve made a very astute observation This also helps explain women filing for divorce so often, the correlation between body count and divorce, and also that women h…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 01:04 PM
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Libertarians believe that it is moral to step over a person in distress when you could easily render aid without incurring risk or cost Simply because “I don’t owe you anything” ? Ok, that’s retarded Because it is totally devoid of a basic thing which is: Humans are social animals and mentally healthy and typical humans all possess empathy Also, it is divorced from the basic moral philosophy starting point which is to erect a veil so you don’t know which side of the moral dilemma you are on In t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 06:25 PM
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lol Having a properly formed morality is on a high horse Good one
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 06:13 PM
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Your entire morality is based upon “owe” Weird
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 05:50 PM
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No worries here Constitutional carry state filled with people that want to be a hero 2 men robbed a store here and the local civilians mag dumped their getaway car so bad that the cops found the car in the ditch a few miles away and both perps had bled out
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 05:03 PM
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You have a version of morality that is so indifferent to others that I don’t see how it can be useful or coherent Your version of morality seems to only be “don’t do anything to actively harm someone else” which are the morals of a sociopath, nonfunctional autist, or maybe small child
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 05:01 PM
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You know full well that all supposed victim groups lean greedily upon the past for justification You can’t admit that because if you did you’d have to admit to yourself and others that you have been wrong Or you have to double down and look unhinged to most by stating “yeah and that’s solid morals and logic to coast off your dead relatives like that” So your only options is what you are doing right now, sans personal change
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 03:03 PM
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If you were decent looking and advertised vampire services to horny middle aged women in a large city I bet you’d have clients Just act like some goofy movie or book vampire, just don’t actually hurt anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 01:33 PM
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They won’t post needed job positions But they have time to produce bullshit training videos that I’ve literally never learned a single thing from
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 01:32 PM
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You know those HR women all talk to the managers of stores at least once a week They all seem like cluster b crazies
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 01:31 PM
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Totally false There are more than a few gold diggers Do you not consume any celebrity media?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 01:27 PM
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It’s never explicit like that Rewind to the riots of 2020 Did anyone have the exact conversation of “inner city blacks should not destroy and loot their own neighborhoods” and a liberal sniped back “welll their great great great grandma was a slave so checkmate!” No But the same exact logic was hidden in plain sight everywhere So now this subs arguing technique is “Make things bleedingly explicit until it no longer resembles human communication patterns. State that it isn’t done just like this. …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 12:52 PM
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No one is going to say that explicitly But they will rationalize suboptimal behavior or their desires etc based upon a past they weren’t directly involved in But no, people thinking irrationally never state it cleanly so that it’s seen through, it’s a spaghetti mess on purpose and it helps them believe it too Most of affirmative action and DEI is like this “I need X because Y happened in the past”. But there’s no stopping criteria. Imagine 200 years from now and women still saying well “300 year…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 12:41 PM
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I’ve been called gay to my face by 2 rejected women Are many men calling women lesbians like this? Seems more rare Women are allowed to be bitches when mad or upset
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 12:14 AM
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PS You also did standard modern woke thing of “Opponent uses an analogy or metaphor….take exception to the metaphor not being perfect OR the example used and ignore the actual thought process they are trying to illustrate” For instance, if you had reviewed the screenplay for Forrest Gump you’re the type that would say “Well life isn’t actually chocolates in a box, you know. Also, talking about brown candies in a confined box seems racially insensitive.”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 06:15 PM
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Nope I’ve dated 2 promiscuous women, against my better judgment, and they were absolute nightmares I’ve had 7 relationships of at least 1 year duration (I’m 48) And those 2 were the worst and it’s not even close
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 05:57 PM
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If the woman isn’t super aroused, then more foreplay is in order But If it routinely takes you 30 minutes to get ready for penetration Then see a doctor or get a more attractive lover
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 05:34 PM
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It is a clear enough indicator to be useful for predictive purposes Correlations are useful, people forget that as they mime “correlation does not equal causation” as they lick Cheeto dust off their fingers You don’t have to figure out every cause And I don’t have time to figure everyone out I use heuristics Yeah not every rotten looking apple tastes like crap, but it is easier to just pick an apple that is appetizing because it is the best thing to do given self interest and limited time
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 05:29 PM
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Me too If I know the woman wants more (so I will end up hurting her) or it will cause drama, then I turn down situations that would lead to sex pretty quickly And ironically these women I am acting as to not hurt have often gotten mad at me and even called me gay I guessed they’d prefer me to have a fling with them and then they could just get more mad later
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 06:06 PM
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You’re logic chopping The average partner count for heterosexual men and women should be about the same based upon math But this does not entail that a man deemed average, looking at them, will typically have the same count as a woman deemed average If this doesn’t jump out as obvious, then stop making math statements
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 02:32 PM
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According to your hypothesis In real life, people that are hypersexual or crave attention and validation via sex cheat more It’s plainly obvious
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 01:28 PM
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So long as you can get away with it and it won’t hurt your social standing or mental well being, then of course it is always personally advantageous to act selfishly. This isn’t an endorsement of it. I have a strong conscience and I can’t act badly because I’ll beat myself so much it isn’t worth it. When I meet someone that is amoral or immoral and I have to be around them, I actively hate them. That’s the gamble of shitty behavior. It is all good until you go to jail, get beat down, become soci…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 12:55 PM
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Body count obviously correlates It would be shocking if it did not
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 12:49 PM
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Did I say that? I said that the same critiques he has of Marxism applies to feminism. At least try to use sophistry effectively.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 12:38 PM
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It first has to be genetically encoded That’s one reason why we aren’t all “perfect” If the mutation doesn’t arise to be selected, then it doesn’t happen
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 05:00 PM
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Uh huh You think evolution by natural selection is “The best thing happens” That isn’t the case
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 04:16 PM
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I ve forgotten more about this subject than you currently know
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 03:56 PM
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Some women still want to wait to be sure you aren’t asking them out simply for sex. This was pretty standard 20 years ago. The younger generation has a bizarre relationship with sex they spin as progress or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 02:23 PM
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The size difference is easily explained Muscle mass etc takes calories If you need one person for child care and around the camp tasks and another to slay the mammoth, then why make both big enough to slay the mammoth and thus increase calorie demands?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 01:19 PM
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It isn’t primarily that It’s likely that in an ancestral environment (before men built a civilization that women could safely live in alone), women and children were very vulnerable alone And this is down to starvation and predators and such just as much as anything else
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 01:16 PM
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Please explain what evo psych is and how it differs from behavioral biology viewed through the lens of evolution by natural selection And PS I’ve forgotten more about science than you’ll ever know
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 01:00 PM
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Spoken like the type of person Popper critiques
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 12:28 PM
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It’s laughable paeudoscience Look up Karl Popper’s critique of the core of how Marxists theory, and it applies equally to feminism and most woke-isms It is scathing and decisive, if you can stomach it and give it a chance then it should change you, if you understand it He doesn’t attack it on facts, but rather shows the thought process to be inherently wrong He is the most famous philosopher of science (now deceased)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 01:34 AM
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Feminist theory is throwing man hating tripe at the wall to see what sticks
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 11:02 PM
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You’re right Evolution didn’t affect our brains and thus how they function to create our psychology/consciousness Nope stopped at the neck
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 11:02 PM
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It’s also a descriptive and not prescriptive statement In other words, it doesn’t end with “and this is right and good and should continue without criticism or resistance”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 11:00 PM
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They wouldn’t like it if someone pointed out that men are naturally much stronger and so it would only be natural if men ordered women around because what are you gonna do about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 10:59 PM
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It’s more common in women than in men because men find way more women at least cute. I find all sorts of women that most men would say are 5s somewhat cute because of something about her. The lower sex drive of most women means they need super stimuli to get horny and it’s also why they are the first to get sexually bored in a relationship usually. I guess it would be nice if women were hornier but then you’d have to worry even more about cheating. It’s a shit sandwich.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 06:01 PM
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When has advertising “straight male friendly” ever helped anyone in current year? I mean you could probably get away with it if you tailored it to straight men of color. But that’s about it. It’s just noise to me now. I take almost no modern social movement seriously other than to be worried it will spread more.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 05:29 PM
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“Jealous” and “insecure” are the new shaming and silencing tactics used against men. I had an exGF that would seemingly try to make me jealous or get back at me by flirting pretty hard with strange men in front of me. She countered with calling me jealous. Um….is that wrong when your behavior is probably designed for that and would make almost all men that care jealous? Isn’t that a bit like calling someone a scaredy cat because they don’t swim with sharks?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 05:09 PM
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With certain women, if you can tease them and be funny and then drop a smart observation or also surprise them with your depth….it’s catnip I think it partly makes you mysterious because you hold what they think are contradictory traits
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 02:50 PM
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You can be playful like in #2 without bringing up anything remotely sexual or changing how and where you look at the woman/etc It will still be better than option #1 and safer in most contexts
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 02:47 PM
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I’m not amused
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 02:33 PM
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You gave a part of the answer “He’s a good looking guy” Some women will actively go after (online and off) good looking guys once they pass a certain threshold
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 01:53 PM
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Because I’m a guy talking and so I’m wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 01:47 PM
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Um You assume I’m only talking about random strangers or where I have zero knowledge other than looking Listen, you’re trying to get me You think you’re smarter than me, you’re not Move along
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 01:46 PM
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The most dangerous is friends with former FWB They are around someone they are less likely to have had relationship drama with and they were hot enough for to have NSA sex with
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 01:35 PM
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I have to explicitly type out an “often” or something so that you don’t straw man me in an attempt to be clever? It’s not clever
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 01:28 PM
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Gee I guess I should couch all talk around the utility of various actions based upon some bartering transaction system
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 01:24 PM
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Gee someone making an observation based upon their everyday life experience in the absent of studies on it and not said with 100% certainty underlined I’m sorry We haven’t met, are you the new member of the MS thesis committee?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 01:22 PM
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Oops
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 06:38 PM
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Very astute. I’m lucky in that my 2 best friends are also best friends and we’ve known each other since junior high. So, they are my two strongest connections. But your larger point for most situations is true. Your point also explains why both of my best friend’s wives have tried to interfere with our friendship at least somewhat. Women don’t like competition for that emotional connection. It doesn’t help that both of their wives don’t have many female friends. They also know that we seek each …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 05:28 PM
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I never mentioned my own thoughts or feelings If English is your second language, maybe try to feel it less and dissect it more
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 04:38 PM
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Women smile when I mention I solo bow hunt in the mountains on large tracts (so I know how to navigate etc)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 04:15 PM
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Even better to make money for yourself and also marry some rich guy
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 04:13 PM
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You think women don’t care about a man’s money? Excuse while I go laugh until I throw up.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 04:12 PM
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Men want very badly to be valued for who they are and not their job etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 04:11 PM
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The most common one is flirting with other men. Many are subconscious
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 03:44 PM
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When women say things like “I love men in glasses” They typically mean “If a guy is hot, then glasses make him even hotter” Glasses don’t raise him more than a fraction of a point Also, for women that can’t get a man they find hot, this is also a cope “Well Tom isn’t much to look at, but at least he is tall and smart….I’ll lean into my preference for tall and smart men then”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 03:38 PM
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PC feminist clap trap Of course Bear had to say that And the women winning would’ve been desired No one is against you ladies, you can’t outperform men even when we are handicapped in order to help you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 03:35 PM
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So you disagree that people most benefiting from a thing will be the most likely to defend a thing? Okey dokey You’re just framing this in a specific way and can’t see the plausibility of another framing because then you’d have to make a concession and you can’t handle that
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 02:50 PM
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Wasn’t speaking about myself I don’t date promiscuous women seriously, at least when I dated I take it back I did twice and they were the worst GFs I’ve ever had, I never trusted them, and I have no hard proof but I suspect they both cheated
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 01:44 PM
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Yes Half of it is just comforting dressed up as advice Would we be better off being brutal and telling a teenage boy “You need to shower, take care of your skin and hair, dress better, and get into shape where you at least have some visible muscle” ? Would probably hurt some feelings
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 01:42 PM
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No it’s just a common sensical observation Of course people thriving in situation X like the situation more than those not thriving And they’d answer the complaint with “gee you must not be thriving in situation X” It’s just a tautology of sorts
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 01:39 PM
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True But I’m not talking about that. It’s more “How should I handle this situation?” And the woman tells you how they think you should handle it but it isn’t clear that they are heavily biased towards helping the woman they might not even know whether than you, the male friend that she is speaking with.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 01:38 PM
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And you don’t seem to get that women that engage in casual sex but then make the relationship men wait are usually even more mentally unhealthy than a woman that is just consistent in her promiscuity. You have this convoluted thinking that it makes sense to be a rando’s slut but then another guy’s lady. In practice it doesn’t make sense or work. Almost all men with self respect and options will avoid a serious relationship with a woman with a long history of causal sex. But they will positively …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 07:34 PM
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My point is that she gives you “advice” not for your benefit but for the benefit of the woman you are discussing. In other words, “how should I handle this?” is heard as “what should I do for this woman’s benefit?”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 07:31 PM
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You are confused about the arrow of causality here It’s sorta like Spider tattoos on people’s necks don’t change their nervous system, but people that get them usually have underlying issues Same here No sex doesn’t necessarily change a woman (but it can) but women that routinely engage in casual sex outside of relationships usually are less functional within relationships and these issues are what contributes to their flippant attitude towards sex to begin with
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 06:56 PM
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Gee, people that benefit from the current structure and narrative like it more than people that suffer under it. You don’t say!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 06:52 PM
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This fits but replace women for men here and benefit for salary, in other words women are largely blind to things that benefit them or at least don’t harm them “It’s difficult to get a man to understand something when his salary depends upon his not understanding it.” -Upton Sinclair More directly to your point, the only women I’ve seen really understand and have compassion for men are healthy women with sons that they unconditionally love in a healthy way. I consider all other women a lost caus…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 06:49 PM
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Nah All sorts of hookups are super hot for both parties Hookups are not masturbation This is absurd
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 06:24 PM
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I think women often start with the assumption “Women just get it and men don’t” And what they think they mean by “it” is reality but what they actually mean is “reality as most women see it” Men can have the same bias but it isn’t openly expressed as often because it’s misogyny when they do it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 02:30 PM
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Men and women are more like each other than they are similar to squirrels This is true However, in ways that matter, we are quite different on average (but not with 100% coverage) and it has to do with how our genetic differences cause chemical and structural differences in our bodies But I agree that women can be just as bad as men, but it is often expressed differently This is why I am puzzled when so many women automatically side with women when they are in opposition to a man….despite every …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 01:44 PM
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If you ask a woman for advice, at least 50% of the time they put themselves in the woman’s place and tell you what they’d want you to do if it were them You can see them look right through you as they discuss the woman they either know or are imagining
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 01:10 PM
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Sorry that happened but that’s a rare example I feel like everyone with some sexual experience should know that the most common ending to “Woman isn’t in the mood at first but allows her partner to begin kissing and caressing her….” Is the woman naked, aroused, and glad she decided to give it a shot that day
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 12:29 PM
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Most healthy women, barring illness or temporary stress/etc, quickly become aroused and willing once touch is initiated and she makes the decision to go for it….assuming her partner is attractive to her and has some sexual skill My point is that women should know that they can go from 0 to 60 This should be common sense but judging from some things online I read, people sometimes talk about sexuality in a politically correct way that might lead people astray in their own evolution
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 12:27 PM
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The ultimate cause, I believe, is that men with absent, bad, or highly flexible morals will do whatever it takes to fulfill their goals This includes taking the resources and partners of men that are more submissive and pro-social This selection has happened from before we were modern humans and likely for millions of years So, it’s simply more efficient to want to be with the male that will just take you and/or your resources anyways in the end Also, groups have invaded each other and stolen wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 12:17 PM
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Interesting thought question If this had always been the case, then the course of human history would be entirely different
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 12:08 PM
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That’s both sexes and I think it is a feature and not a bug
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 12:04 PM
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We are defining dominant differently probably, although I see your point. I’m not talking only about naturally very masculine men that other men tend to defer to. I’m also talking about men that go out of their way to impose their will on others without proper consideration for others or the group. Those men are immoral assholes in my view. Because the act is kinda asshole behavior by definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 12:02 PM
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Pure motivated reasoning What is the alternative? Sit around and think “gee, I fucked up”? Nope, much easier to blame others
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 07:52 PM
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Sometimes people drink too much, do something bad, and then say their drink was spiked.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 07:49 PM
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Women here say loyalty and promiscuity aren’t related. BS As shown throughout my life experience and observing others. Women that easily share their bodies with strangers are way more likely to get swept up in a feeling and do something wrong. Anyone actually thinks a woman that only sleeps with LTRs isn’t more likely to be sexually loyal than a woman that has been with 100 men? This is on average and predicting. Of course, some woman here will think “I’ve been with 200 men and never cheated” is…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 07:43 PM
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He linked it to intelligence because he is humble bragging. He probably took an online IQ test that said he was very special and you could print a certificate if you gave them $20.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 07:40 PM
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It makes you better able at coping though. A smart guy is dating a former escort and he uses his big brain everyday to combat his gut that is screaming at him. A dumb guys just nopes out. I will say that smart guys are probably more likely to have cerebral kinks, like getting off on the fact that a woman is sexually betraying someone and getting into the psychology of that. Dumb guys just want to see titties and butts.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 07:37 PM
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Everyone should learn to call themselves on their own BS. I know some people that do this, and it’s all men. Women routinely mistake being emotional with empathy, compassion, and self-awareness. “I mean of course I’m more evolved than my husband. I cry when I watch Lifetime movies.”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 07:31 PM
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Yep If it were common then it wouldn’t be a joke
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 07:28 PM
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Men are more likely to have real hobbies (that take skill and time and sometimes money). These would include things like serious bench rest shooting with reloading etc. Female hobbies are usually BS like reading, watching movies, dinner with friends, wine tasting, and travel. In other words, just time killing things, pleasure seeking, easy things. Women often see a man’s hobbies as competition for his time and resources and so she doesn’t like them. This is often the reason she doesn’t like his …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 07:25 PM
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If men openly talked about women the way women do about men, there would be congressional hearings over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 07:17 PM
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They like men that are nice to them but dominant and intimidating to other men. And will take what they want if it benefits them or their families without care for anyone else. Beauty and beast thing
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 06:56 PM
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The default is no belief regarding an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 06:03 PM
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Debate men all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 05:03 PM
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Your comment implied blue pill was the default by not taking the red pill. Whereas taking the blue pill in the movie is a conscious action.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 05:00 PM
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More lessons from communist dictatorships: The natural way humans get food is by standing in a bread line in a rain storm. Keep the lessons coming!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 04:35 PM
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Watch the movie again. There’s a blue pill in it also. It’s what you take to forget and go back to sleep.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 04:33 PM
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Yes Covid changed human interaction
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 07:49 PM
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Tempered chocolate 2 rubbers
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 06:49 PM
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Grow an 8” penis made of chocolate that ejaculates money.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 06:36 PM
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Women have never been as content as men. It’s a feature and not a bug. It is how women get men to do things for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 06:34 PM
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Without perspective, mental health, and common sense, a person’s high intelligence often functions to rationalize BS. Does extra brain power help a desperate nerd fight his gut feeling? Sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 06:29 PM
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You’re wrong. Women have nerve endings in the area and you can hit their g spot from the butt.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 06:00 PM
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I spoke specifically about what can be controlled. Of course, my metaphor was not perfect. They never are.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 05:32 PM
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The ideal for me is only lean to a point. If your body fat is too low, you don’t feel as good. Also, if SHTF I want some stored fuel. I’m 48 and my ideal at this age is lean enough to where you can see my abs but not a six pack ( more like a 4 pack). Too much work otherwise and I’m fine just being in top 10% for my age.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 09:03 PM
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And yet after I explain that I’m not discussing a conspiracy, you still bring it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 04:02 PM
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First class people hire other first class people, second class people hire third class people.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 04:01 PM
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“Pick me” is just some garbage slander that feminists concocted to avoid having to actually debate Oh, woman said something I don’t like? Hmm…let me dig into my feminist utility belt and get this BS out so I can smear them and not have to do anything else. That will make me win and seem smart for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 01:46 PM
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Nope Every bisexual woman I’ve known has a high body and a history of cheating Now before someone here that is bi says “that’s not 100%” Yeah, duh It has my experience that the odds stack up too high though A lot of bisexual women are just kind of hyoersexual or use their sexuality or something is just off Also, now you have to worry about them cheating with anyone, not just men
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 01:44 PM
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That’s because the woman likely doesn’t even know why she doesn’t like the guy, if it’s enough of a subtle thing So how in the heck is the guy going to figure it out?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 01:39 PM
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My favorite response to this is “That’s why books have covers” The publishing house designs the cover the way they do because people are going to see it. When you craft your “cover” (your look and behavior) you should also know people will see and judge it. If you don’t care, then that will show and is also a signal you are sending. For instance, I’d never hire someone with hand, neck, or face tattoos. Not because I think ink changes the person at a chemical level that matters. But they knew tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 01:37 PM
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They claim empathy because they take care of kids and also they like to plan and control social arrangements and get togethers
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 01:22 PM
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The type that are likely twice as smart as your smug, jock at the back of class yelling at the teacher, butt You fail to understand how individual or small group behaviors can scale up Probably because it helps your argument to have this type of lack of imagination
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 01:20 PM
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You re somewhat wrong If it would have an effect in a small social setting, then it can possibly have an influence that scales up You are confusing the level of analysis with the level of action
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 01:19 PM
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Interesting take I don’t wanna do the conspiracy thing of “X caused Y therefore someone planned it and that is why X happened” but Weird that DEI keeps women strongly in the workforce (thus lowering the price of labor while stimulating demand….same thing that the illegal immigration crisis is doing) while also facilitating the female sexual strategy If someone thought all that out, then they are an evil genius
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 01:18 PM
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Women wanted to become a Veblen good (demand increases with price due to human delusion/neurosis/social signaling, like doubling the price of a purse so more people want it as a status symbol), but it didn’t work out.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 01:07 PM
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Yep Imagine if half the time you struck up a conversation with a member of the same sex they ended up making you feel like crap. You’d stop doing that behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 12:21 AM
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Of course women want as many safe offers as possible to drive up their collective value. If you ran a business, wouldn’t you want more people after your product to drive more sales and at a higher price? Of course women are shaming them instead of having a productive conversation that leads to a solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 12:19 AM
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Big, lean, natural You can only pick 2 I go to a small town gym and I’d say at least 1 in 5 guys there has done at least 1 cycle
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 10:57 PM
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Women cannot survive without the social network. There are no stories of a woman heading out into the woods to live off the land by herself that doesn’t end horribly and quickly. This is baked into their genetic expression so much they don’t even see it. It is why women never take accountability willingly and also are hyper aware of their place in the social network and sisterhood and when they become single it is a problem that the woman and her friends try to quickly fix. Ejection from the tri…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 09:06 PM
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Also, people view “confidence” in an odd and 1D way that is often self-serving. What is meant is social or sexual confidence. Imagine a guy that got a BS in engineering from MIT and went on to be an astronaut. He is extremely competent and confident in his own abilities….the top tier. But he had bad acne in high school and got picked on and passed over. As a result, he doesn’t like big parties and approaching women makes him nervous. The “galaxy brains” among us would view him and say “he’s not …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 08:49 PM
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Women only truly care about men that they are genetically related to.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 07:45 PM
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Actually, you can as a man if you are smart and have experience with women. I dated in the 1990s back when “ghetto ho that has banged 200 men” was still an insult All my LTRs had low body counts and would slowly progress physically while obviously holding back and being turned on People had more self control back then maybe It was actually a delicious tease and once you finally had full sex it was electric for both of you I miss that
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 07:38 PM
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If a woman told me You’re for sex not marriage I’d feel like she was saying I’m a mess If she said I’m for marriage and not casual sex Then I’d feel ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 07:31 PM
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You mean the disgust women have for most men? Or the disgust men have for women after they learn how women view men?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 07:26 PM
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Nothing wrong with it because it benefits them and is just seen as the default way of how things are This is why many men think women are solipsistic
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 07:25 PM
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Women don’t understand that most men can’t have a nice body simply by not being fat If a woman has decent genetics to hold weight in boobs, butt, hips…then at least when young all she has to do is move around some and not overeat to have a body attractive to most men A man gaining lean muscle mass to have definition without gaining a belly is at least 10x harder and often causes injuries
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 07:24 PM
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See, I’d rather someone think I’m mean than stupid. I will never understand people that feign incompetence. Do they have no self-respect?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 07:20 PM
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Worst women are the ones that are actively turned on by asshole behavior and they go after men with antisocial personality traits
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 07:11 PM
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Doesn’t mean they are in good relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 07:08 PM
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I saw a woman today walking with her BF I could see the dynamic so clearly that she might as well been wearing a shirt that said “I have the pussy, so I make the rules”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 07:07 PM
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This is what happens when you blow smoke up women’s butts to the point where they think they are superior to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 07:05 PM
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Good point If a GF was making me feel sexy, then I’d know she didn’t mean it in a bad way
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 07:03 PM
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I agree But it’s high time women start trying to understand men a bit more and also stop acting like women are so damn evolved
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 07:00 PM
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Yep Men are the opposite to women Desperate men will bang an obese woman they’d never even take to dinner Women will marry an average guy that they have to force themselves to have sex with
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 07:00 PM
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Women talking anonymously on the internet has been the greatest gift to men It freaks women out and they contort themselves into all sorts of things for damage control and to regain control of the narrative
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 06:53 PM
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Female solipsism It’s the same reason women call men dumb simply because most of us don’t think like women
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 06:51 PM
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For some women, the answer to their problems is penis Just had a breakup and feel bad? Better go find some penis It’s gross I broke up with an ex that promptly went on Facebook and stated how she wanted a guy to take her out to drink whiskey to get over me I’m sure her inbox got flooded as she was pretty cute No way I was taking her back after seeing that “Gee how much jizz did it take to spackle over the whole I left in your heart?”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 06:38 PM
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I don’t want revenge But having women send me signals and I ignore them is somewhat delicious
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 06:36 PM
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That’s the rub If you don’t care what someone thinks, then you don’t actually care about them
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 06:35 PM
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You’ve just revealed the BS mind games women play with men around sex and then wonder why they have a bad time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 06:26 PM
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It might be a bit of a chicken and egg. The more intelligent you are the more likely you are to move away from home to a larger city for school and work. This also leads to more liberal views. Many super smart women I know try to out think their own instincts or what narrative they were told. This sometimes makes them miserable. Like the logic out why it shouldn’t matter if they are super promiscuous and then the various consequences surprise them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 05:44 PM
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I believe men and women are significantly different on average Therefore, because I believe my eyes, I’m sure many think I am sexist
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 05:37 PM
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“There’s someone for everyone” Is just a platitude Like believing karma always gets people When it doesn’t always Just crap your grandma says to make the world seem better
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 05:04 PM
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You don’t have to be obsessed with it Obsession isn’t even a debate point here But anyways, tons of women are interested in dick size
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 05:02 PM
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I thought sex was something women did for men to make the man happy
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 05:01 PM
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You need to realize women bully too I think half the women here realize women have been awful to them But turn around and take the woman’s side every time when their is a male to female conflict It’s like women are all brainwashed in this regard and you can’t help it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 05:00 PM
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Do they just randomly say that with no proof? Do you see how that is different than a woman that has seen it talking about it in detail?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 04:58 PM
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If they do it is a total joke. Have one of my oldest friends ever said something like “hey you look like the kind of guy with a little dick”? Probably Do I remember or did it hurt me? No Do men talk realistically about other men’s dicks? Not straight men past the age of 18 or something. Half the women here might be on that ‘tism and don’t know the difference between guys joking without knowledge versus a woman being vicious.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 04:55 PM
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Um…the fact that men do it more means what here? That we shouldn’t notice when women do it? Please explain.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 04:52 PM
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I’m significantly above average without being a monster. About the size of a pornstar that is just big enough for film. And only one woman among 20 ever complimented me or recognized I am above average. I think women are often super weird and unhealthy regarding their sexuality but the women here will just blame men for that and so they don’t have to work on themselves. It’s the job of men to fix their heads too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 04:51 PM
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Just like women laugh about men being sexually assaulted in jail.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 04:40 PM
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I was like that. I didn’t think women enjoyed sex until I was 18. My mom would s batshit and raised me under the assumption that any woman I dated would be a princess that I kissed the ass of, like what she expected from my dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 03:41 PM
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People that want kids know they better get started preparing along that path before the eggs go bad. Also, people look around and others are doing it and so there is peer pressure. I’d bet people that don’t want kids are less likely to marry and those that do marry at a later age.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 12:35 AM
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Folks need to realize that how they dress and how they do their body hair is not who they are And you don’t have to be “I’m an independent boss babe” on your sleeve 24/7 Guess what I would do if the perfect woman asked me to shave my groin? I’d shave because it’s just fucking nut hair I bet you have a reason for why I should do that but a woman should never do a nice little thing for a man
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 07:30 PM
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You can’t picture a 6 foot 185 lbs man that works out and has low body fat at that weight? To give you a reference, Brad Pitt in fight club was 5’11 and like 160 lbs
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 04:06 PM
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Women hate ugly and/or incompetent men that are more confident than they think they should be. It is creepy cringe and awkward to them….the trinity of female kryptonite
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 03:10 PM
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Of course Do you know what they call guys over 6 foot that are stocky and also have low body fat? Former division 1 college athletes or maybe Navy Seals Pretty rare walking around The fact that you don’t realize that fat women don’t like more slender men (I’m hardly skinny) because of their own emotions is telling And why do you think fat women tend to like fatter men? It’s in part because women want to feel small and protected I’ve never had a woman of a healthy weight randomly call me skinny o…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 01:31 PM
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I misspoke I meant commonly among women The only women that don’t do this (pick a guy they can control and leave easily) seem to genuinely like men, have a good family/dad, or feel genuinely good about themselves in a healthy way The worst thing we did to women was tell them they are great just the way they are….most people aren’t and need to grow, especially today
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 10:27 PM
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Gender pay gap disappears when you control for decisions and performance Yeah, secretaries make less than underground coal miners Duh
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 07:49 PM
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It is for the vast majority of feminine and mentally healthy women
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 07:48 PM
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I’m confused then You are contradicting yourself it seems
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 07:07 PM
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Walking up to a woman you don’t know without introduction and without her first showing interest (looking at you and smiling etc) is a cold approach
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 07:01 PM
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Men desire sex Most women need a relationship because humans are all still operating on cave person brain Women feel vulnerable without a man and any that don’t are lying or not neurotypical It’s because ancient human females alone could not survive while men could
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 06:49 PM
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I m a volcel in my 40s and I’ve turned down more women than I can count At this point, not needing a relationship makes me less attractive and odd to women They can’t compute a man that isn’t preoccupied by vagina Women know there is no way they can manipulate or abuse me…I’ll voice my concerns but will walk in an instant
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 06:45 PM
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And why you pick lesser men and then make their lives miserable
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 06:38 PM
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I agree that this is the case on average. It’s in part because the unspoken threat is that the woman can cheat or find another man and leave way easier. This is why the invention of internet and social media (where women go to get attention) has made this way worse. Now, you make your wife mad, and you know she can be chatting up some dude in private within 5 minutes if she isn’t already. Women generally don’t care so long as it advantages them. The way most modern women view men is gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 06:37 PM
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Knitting boxed wine and litter box cozies.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 06:19 PM
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Often just dude sees hot chick Dude walks up and starts talking Now this was often at bars or parties and so the women there were drinking and probably open to it since they were out I agree that just surprising women by walking up to them with no signal at the grocery store is cringe However very attractive men pull that off too Maybe you’re just low libido…because hornyish women that like men pretty much always like hot men coming up to them
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 06:17 PM
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On you it didn’t work or so you heard I’ve seen too many of my male friends pull randos from bars to agree with you
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 06:03 PM
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Because most people don’t identify arm pit hair with their true self
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 05:21 PM
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I think you sound stubborn and conceited as hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 04:53 PM
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I miss women making me wait while also being turned on by me and slowly escalating. It’s a delicious tease and you know she is less likely to cheat later on.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 04:52 PM
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Yes She’s quite cute
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 04:42 PM
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So let’s say you are some misguided hippy jungle woman that attaches emotions to her long flowing pit hair You meet the man of your dreams and he doesn’t like that you have Don King in a headlock You wouldn’t shave your pits for him? Seems like a weird and hairy hill to die upon and within the realm “ok honey”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 04:38 PM
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I always wondered if any hairy guys shave just around the junk to facilitate oral and also make the bean pole look longer It is a funny visual to think of a hairy dude with just one bald patch at his junk
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 04:33 PM
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Everyone knows this Banker meets a female pizza delivery person and falls in honest love? Awesome story everyone believes. Reverse the genders? And it’s a weird story people tell while laughing and commenting on how the guy must have a big wang.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 04:26 PM
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The women are often part of this without knowing it. They know that men often don’t like them. So, the women offer sex early as a way to get the guy hooked and sticking around to get to know her. It doesn’t work out and then she’s upset. It’s sad really. If a woman likes me but seems to have low self esteem, then (back when I dated) it was predictable what would happen next. When I was young and horny, I’d take them up on it but then I started feeling bad about it and would turn them down for se…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 03:58 PM
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I’m 6 foot, 185 lbs, middle aged and in good shape. Fat middle aged women that weigh more than me are regularly telling me I’m too skinny. The truth is that I make them feel fat simply by existing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 03:53 PM
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I’d disagree on the age 25 is still horn dog territory I’d say 35
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 03:46 PM
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Penis on a stick
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 03:45 PM
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No Pre iPhone and when most men had measurable testosterone levels and feminists hadn’t made us all afraid of our own shadows….men walked up to hot women all the time. I’m guessing you are young or just not experienced.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 03:24 PM
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All it means is that you are pleasant enough to talk to and be seen with in public. So long as you are not creepy or ugly, women will enjoy the attention and know that nothing will come of it. This is why I never approach women unless they give a signal (catching my eye and holding eye contact, big smile, etc).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 03:22 PM
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Outside of urban areas, the acceptable ways for adult men to make new friends are at work, through a hobby, or through family and friends. A bachelor just trying to strike up a friendship with another bachelor is often seen by one party as a possible gay date invitation. Men aren’t homophobic so much as we generally don’t want to go grab a drink with a gay guy hitting on us. I am generally friendly and have had this happen several times. A guy that seems straight acts happy to see me and wants t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 02:58 PM
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The worst is when a woman murders her kids and women are like “what was wrong? Did she have post partum depression? That’s a thing you know”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 02:28 PM
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You are not straining because your muscles are built up in this regard via repetition
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 04:54 PM
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Actually, a lot of attractive women don’t realize that people are nicer to them than other people. When they get older, they often get bitter, have a realization, or try desperately to hold onto their looks. It’s their version of a mid life crisis.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 04:45 PM
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I think women either do this on purpose or just aren’t told enough “hey you aren’t always right and should have empathy towards men” I had an ex that during dirty talk wouldn’t say “I like doing X with you”. She would just say “I love doing X”. You can imagine that X was some act. Instead of it being towards me and making us closer, it hit wrong and like she was for the streets with a long history of loving doing these things with various men. Women probably won’t get this because I’m a man talk…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 04:42 PM
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And about every species studied that has monogamous, pair bonding tendencies also cheats on their partner Those male and female birds tending a nest together? Decent chance those aren’t the male bird’s chicks. I make peace with it knowing we are just animals and none of these urges are in me to make me happy and guide my life. It’s the same urges all mammals have to keep the species going.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 04:27 PM
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Women as a group are incapable of saying Men sometimes have a point and women are sometimes wrong In comparison, men call other men out all the time regarding how they treat people It’s fucking gross Women are like die hard sports fans that paint their chest and fight in the parking lot for team woman
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 04:24 PM
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Yep The whole “well I just saw you as a fuck boi anyway” is usually pure cope
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 04:20 PM
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This thread is a prime example of what women and liberal men love to do: Get so lost in subtly that you neither see nor recognize what the overarching thing is. For instance, instead of noticing that illegal immigrants are flooding the US at an sustainable rate, they’ll focus on the one little boy that crossed with his mom and was able to get his cleft palette fixed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 04:12 PM
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Because you’re a woman straining to support a sister and with zero regard for or understanding of men
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 04:09 PM
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Yep Women hardly ever have a casual thing with guys they wouldn’t date They just hope and then later delude themselves The type of women that have casual sex with no hope for or desire for more are even bigger train wrecks usually
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 04:07 PM
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You realize you are approaching this with the usual “Strain to Interpret women in the best possible light, even if it involves projection and filling in the dots” Thing that men know women do and do the opposite for men It’s like you can’t help it and your brain just fires this way
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 04:03 PM
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Women need to get over this Sassy boss babe thing It’s basically be rude or edgy, especially towards men, to look cool and like you are funny and have a personality I’ve called exs out and their justification was just “I was being sassy” What a goal
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 04:00 PM
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The most important thing was that she justified how this woman and other women and perhaps herself views things. Being rational was never a consideration.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 03:59 PM
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Yeah spin it in a complicated way that lets the woman off the hook. Predictable and boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 03:57 PM
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It’s beyond an ego thing. It’s totally rational. Why would you enter into a long term monogamous sexual relationship with someone that isn’t hot for you? It’s like starting a business with someone that isn’t sure about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 03:56 PM
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It’s evidence of solipsism that so many women don’t get this obvious point. Another example, is a guy that spent a lot of money on previous women quickly but tells one “I’m splitting everything 50/50 with you and not buying any small gifts or flowers because I’m serious about you and I’m making sure you aren’t a gold digger. I took other women on vacations and stuff by now. But you’re special.”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 03:55 PM
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Many women do not tell men what they like because 1. They are afraid it will sound slutty and 2. They want a man that just gets it and explaining it ruins something for them. I think women need to own up to half of y’all being psychological messes. Women also don’t want to compliment men, especially in bed. A lot of women here can’t compute that they do not represent most women and that us men might be onto something sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 07:59 PM
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Or people will look at your comments here on other platforms and bring up “I’d expect nothing less from someone into rifles” or something
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 02:41 PM
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I’ve been yelled at, pushed off bar stools, and had drinks thrown in my face by drunk women at bars. Men have a form of “mutually assured destruction” and I’ve never been treated like that by a man in public once an adult. Men know they’ll get arrested or maybe knocked out. Women here all pretend that their own views and that of their female friends is reality and question men that have interacted with typical women. Women can size a man up and know they can safely be a bitch to him in public. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 03:40 PM
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Because modern feminism is largely a pro-female lobbying group. If given the power to do it, they would exploit men and treat us like trash while using the past and their feelings as poor justification.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 05:10 PM
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Often, women at least don’t say anything as not to cause problems. If my SO was being continually asked out by the security guard at work, I’d want to know. But she might not tell me for various reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 03:22 PM
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Tangent, but an ex GF told me her first story of being with a woman. She said it was with her roommate and casually dropped it was while she was dating a guy exclusively and he didn’t know. I said “so you cheated on Alex with a woman?” The look of “cannot compute” in her eyes was hilarious in hindsight. She was kicked to the curb within a few weeks. Women are actively encouraged to view themselves as having less accountability than men and they are raised like this and don’t even see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 03:17 PM
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You’re sure these percentages are the same based upon what?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 03:13 PM
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No You don’t understand abstract thought “Imagine the Sun like a spinning ball” “So you’re saying I can play basketball with the Sun” “Timmy please calm your ‘tism”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 05:27 PM
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No It explains the observation I was responding to That the sexes cheat at roughly equal rates despite men having a higher sex drive This was so obvious that I must assume you wanted to see misogyny
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 05:04 PM
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You need to understand how metaphors work Life is like a box of chocolates Should vegans be offended?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 03:54 PM
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What if it is mostly true in how women view male romantic partners? I mean can’t a rattlesnake claim that humans are so anti-venomous snake and that is wrong? I’m not saying it’s all true. I’m saying you can’t just use misogyny as a reverse uno card because it’s dumb AF.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 02:57 PM
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Only in that messed up parents mess up their kids. Nothing in the brain goes from mom to child. There is no evidence of this or plausible mechanism. The only possibility is that maternal stress could influence the fetus, but that would be just as likely to influence the pancreas as it would the brain. And any brain effects would not be channeled towards the mother’s trauma but rather something more random like cortisol causing a higher likelihood of some issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 02:45 PM
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Women need to realize men aren’t dumb and some of us have self-respect. If a woman wants to break up with me as some sort of mind game test, then I’m out. I had a ex that would flirt with other men to make me jealous. She was shocked when I left her at a bar because of it and didn’t get back with her. You ain’t all that, sweetie.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 02:16 PM
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They want to defend women. The red pill says ouchie things about women. The red pill can help men “win” in the battle of the sexes. Women recoil from both these things. When evo psych or someone says something about female nature that is not positive, women usually don’t stop and think “is this true?” before they attack it. When a man wants to act in a way that benefits him but might not benefit women, women typically don’t look at things from his perspective with empathy. It doesn’t help women …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 02:04 PM
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Epicureanism?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 01:18 PM
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Unlike many here, I realize that much of human behavior is genetically influenced by a long time span of adaptation from before we were modern humans even. Where the red pill is correct, it makes me view people as highly intelligent (in some ways) apes that are often dangerous and self-absorbed and cruel. I view history and the behavior around me as often ghastly and always have.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 01:16 PM
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“Here we see the male gazelle at the watering hole. He looks around nervously at the lions in the distance. What an insecure animal. What is his issue?” -David Attenborough
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 01:06 PM
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If a man is insecure, it’s the man’s fault. If a woman is insecure, it’s a man’s fault. As a child, I was watching Oprah with my mom and asked “why is everything on this show a man’s fault?” Out of the mouth of babes….. It is so baked into female consciousness that they don’t see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 01:02 PM
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I agree it is more than 10%, but I was illustrating a point. I can’t believe women have been convinced that modern progress and liberation looks a whole lot like strange men being able to see their cleavage and camel toe at the grocery store. But they are so scared of men that they dress like a worm dangling on a hook, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 12:53 PM
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Sure In an ancestral environment, women could not survive without men. Now once men have built an advanced civilization you don’t need us because of Amazon and Starbucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 11:23 PM
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Is it? If I say “even if I buy a new car, then eventually it will breakdown and I’ll eventually sell it” is that similar enough to make you think maybe these negative people are just realists?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 10:09 PM
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You longer have any coherent philosophy other than a victimhood hierarchy where victims are good people and everyone else is not. Basically, all modern liberal positions, that aren’t such basic common sense that moderates agree, can be easily defeated if they are made specific enough so that you can’t weasel your way out of a logical chokehold using word salad.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 06:29 PM
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Well that’s good to know!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 06:14 PM
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I’m a former liberal that is now an independent. The left has lost its collective mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 06:14 PM
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The female equivalent is men calling them promiscuous, Karen, or a cat lady.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 06:12 PM
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I was also surprised to learn that many people think until you are engaged that they should be free to actively look for better options, even if exclusive. And this would involve talking to them behind your back and going on mini dates to test the waters. And all this is fine and not considered cheating or unethical so long as you do not become physical. Also, if you want to end things and you are checked out, then they don’t consider it cheating as much even if they do get physical because “it …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 06:11 PM
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If you think an escort is safer than a UPS driver then you will not be pervious to any future argument I might make.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 05:47 PM
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Just proof that you can’t be liberal enough for some people unless you do not judge at all certain behaviors, judge all conservative ideas harshly, are a member of a so called victim class, and also are neurodiverse and get up to some weird shit yourself. Basically, modern extreme liberalism is basically mental illness.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 05:47 PM
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As if reacting to insanely strong emotional responses is illogical.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 05:38 PM
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Go off the odds and not just possibility. Who is more likely to be safe on average? Female escort or female UPS driver?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 05:36 PM
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Good point. Forced meaning compelled to if they do not want to be alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 05:12 PM
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It’s harder to be mad at someone you want to bang.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 04:57 PM
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It’s 2 or more different men saying different things. A diverse population cannot be a unit for hypocrisy. It’s like women saying “it’s hypocritical that men and studs and women are sluts for the same behavior.” But that is not how hypocrisy works.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 04:11 PM
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Drive X opportunity These things are multiplicative and not additive Men have more drive for it on average Women have more opportunity The 2 even each other over the population
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 03:58 PM
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You couldn’t be trying harder not to get my basic point. The convoluted nature of your argument makes it obvious that if you talk plainly and to my point that you will have to admit that I’m correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 03:56 PM
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Yep If you want to marry, find a family oriented girl early on and lock her down. I prioritized looks and intelligence too much and dated a bunch of crazy women as a result. Otherwise, it’s all baggage and leftovers.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 03:55 PM
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Good post. We are similar in these views. People get so hung up on lack of full trust from the start (and not earned) but it doesn’t make sense. Trustworthy people know that they are imperfect. So they don’t put themselves in bad situations all the time. Like if they are horny and mad at their spouse, they don’t go drinking alone with someone they are attracted to that also likes them. It’s like I lock my truck doors but also don’t leave my truck all night in sketchy locations because I’m not du…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 03:52 PM
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None of this was meant to make us happy because nature doesn’t care. Also, strong physical attraction is the most important thing. It smooths out the emotional bumps in the road and keeps you attached and trying. This sounds bad and isn’t attainable for some people, so pop psychology tells us “no, physical attraction is less important.” It’s all BS.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 03:38 PM
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My office’s secretary is very liberal and openly talks smack on male nature. If I did that, I’d be fired by now.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 03:35 PM
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No The soldiers storming Normandy knew they were being treated as expendable. It had nothing to do with his sense of self, it was just reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 03:31 PM
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Also, average men have to put in effort and take risks to cheat and so are more likely to get caught or have a reputation. Or they cheat by using sex workers. Women can wait until the perfect chance and even have the man do things to help her not be detected. My grandfather told me a story about a cheating wife back in the 1940s that made her lover hide in the woods and wait until her husband left for work to sneak in. Do you know many women that would hide in the woods like this? It’s why girls…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 03:29 PM
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It might be because the very worst men (serial killers etc) are usually weird outcasts. But most awkward men are harmless. But the loud masculine drunk dude at the bar is probably more of a problem overall…,but rarely has heads in a jar somewhere. Life gets easier once you realize many people are either dumb or not mentally well.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 03:11 PM
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Women now consume so much biased media that they have a highly distorted view. I often feel derision from women I’m perfectly friend to or that don’t even know me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 03:08 PM
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If I was dating a woman that worked out of town and was social, then I’d assume that eventually the stars would align for her to cheat on me. One day, she’ll be somewhere with a perfect cover story staying in a hotel and she’ll be mad at me for some reason….and decide to put on a little dress and go get a drink at the bar and see what happens. That’s just an off handed example. The whole thing is like having a big stack of uncounted 100 dollar bills and thinking in 10 years time the person will …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 03:05 PM
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If my GF wanted to appear single, online or otherwise, then I would assume there was a reason for it that was connected to her loyalty. Or in one case, a girl I dated routinely went through so many men that she didn’t mention any of them because she didn’t want a justifiable reputation as a man eater.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 03:02 PM
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Well It’s going in the opposite direction
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 02:50 PM
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This true but if let’s say 10% of women dress provocatively, then some men will be forced to date them or be alone. Just how it will work in the aggregate. I don’t think people are going to sort it out so that people get with their actual preference. So we will always have complaining. But what you said is good individual advice, especially for someone with options.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 02:24 PM
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As men withdraw like this, then society will continue to decline due to fewer people investing their productive capacity in things that benefit everyone. This is why marriage and monogamy were invented independently in so many cultures. It produces better societies. We are reverting to a more primitive state that people call progress.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 02:08 PM
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I think men are more likely to love the whole person versus women are more likely to view a man as a collection of traits they can benefit from. For instance, if I truly loved a woman, then I would not be tempted by my hot secretary. However, if I were married and my wife started working with an attractive guy that inherited millions, then I’d assume she might leave me for him if he wanted her.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 02:06 PM
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Sure. The fact that this is also inside me doesn’t change my point. But a celebrity is different than someone in person. And even the celebrity thing can go too far. I dated a girl that saved pictures of her celebrity crushes (had folders filled with their shirtless pics etc). I thought that was weird behavior. Some people are just naturally jealous I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 01:37 PM
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I didn’t state that something being a kink makes it bad. My point is calling something a kink doesn’t make it less questionable than if the activity was not related to sexuality. You are logic chopping. Sexuality is good and natural This thing is related to this person’s sexuality Therefore this thing is good Doesn’t work. We have been studying human physical and mental health long enough to not just take someone’s word for it. Like if someone claimed that running a fever if their idea of physic…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 01:35 PM
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People often can’t understand being truly okay with yourself. The black and white thinking is insecure OR cocky to the point of being more proud and confident than what is rational. The classic case are rednecks that barely graduated high school but are so proud that they think they are always right. These types think a grounded person that admits when they are wrong or unsure are somehow lacking in confidence, where it’s the opposite and true confidence means you can be wrong and that’s okay. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 01:26 PM
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A lot of women believe this caricature. To the point where when I’ve turned down old fat women they think I’m gay (obviously to protect their egos). Middle aged women remember when they were younger and better looking and the men were hornier and/or had less impulse control and holistic decision making. Then they interact with middle aged men like we are all sex addicts or 20 year old horn dogs. They need to update their beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 01:23 PM
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I think some of us have been fed a romanticized version of life to the point where what is normal is bad. For instance, if I was married, I wouldn’t want my wife looking at other men she finds more physically attractive than me and then lusting over him and fantasizing about him. However, the reality is that both men and women do this. It’s just that some people don’t think about it, aren’t bothered by it, or actively like it. I live in an especially obese area of the country. I’m also taller th…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 01:20 PM
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Some people like eating poop or getting beat up. Just because someone likes a thing doesn’t mean anything but that there are unhealthy people that like unhealthy things. You’re playing the trick of if you can attach something to sexuality now it suddenly is healthy. It’s an overcorrection from when people thought being gay was horrible. It’s like if I purposefully got beat up for non sexual reasons but due to self loathing then everyone would be concerned. But if I want someone in a sex dungeon …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 12:29 PM
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Not telling everyone everything about you is not lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 12:26 PM
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I don’t mean natural in gear or not. I mean natural in that it didn’t take Herculean effort and will go away once you stop working out a lot, etc. Natural as in naturally musically talented, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 04:54 PM
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You want the woman to think that your physique is genetically based and somewhat natural to you. For instance, are you more impressed by someone that hardly tried in college but was so smart that they got a physics degree with a 3.8 GPA or by someone that worked at it 8 hours a day and got a 3.9?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 03:57 PM
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Executioners still existing does not change my point. However, in the US there are people that perform executions but there are no people with that job title. My point remains that if 2 things are both paid labor then that does not confer any other similarity to those things. “All jobs are similar morally because they are all jobs because you get paid” is an argument that is wrong on its face and obviously what’s called motivated reasoning. We all know being a whore is a horrible thing. I don’t …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 03:55 PM
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Sex work is a form of work However saying that statement implies an equivalence As in “escorting is therefore the same in the most important way to nursing” and that’s not true Getting paid to do something doesn’t mean anything Executioners were also paid And probably some of them were psychos and that’s why they wanted the job Since being a doctor is also paid, does that make the 2 equivalent? No The answer here is for people to pull their head out of their butt Being a sex worker is degrading …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 07:55 PM
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Everything is a man’s fault yet women are strong and the same. Also, funny to hear overweight women that don’t take care of themselves complaining their hubby can’t get it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 07:31 PM
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Orthogonal to my comment Congrats Look up orthogonal
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 12:46 PM
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Or at odds. If you are attractive, then women often do the same thing they accuse sneaky men of doing. Which is staring as friends and then wanting more. Also, they act goofy around you just like how they complain about men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 05:32 PM
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Oh you really got me there…pointing out that something meant as an anecdote is an anecdote. That’s gonna sting for a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 05:30 PM
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Yeah, especially as you age. It’s literally wetness rubbing your ding dong. I’ve noticed when I’m taking excellent care of myself and feeling great mentally and physically that I still get horny but it is less of a preoccupation and more one integrated life aspect. Being over sexed is like a drug. Healthy people have less of a preoccupation with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 05:28 PM
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Did I in anyway say that my worldview is solely informed by porn or rather was it an offhanded supporting anecdote? I swear the motivated reasoning in this place makes people look really bad. You only please your lil echo chamber.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 12:49 AM
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The tooth decay would often kill them before starvation Face full of bacterial rot close to the brain and all
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 05:43 PM
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Or the men are bisexual and/or fetishize their promiscuity Tons of amateur porn where the husband cheers the wife on as she’s getting gangbanged I’m guessing these men seek out these women or turn them A lot of swinger men use their wives as bait so they can be with other women It’s all pretty gross in my view It’s like “there’s more to life than sex, people”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 05:38 PM
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They just lie. I dated a woman that I wouldn’t be surprised if she was once an escort (just so dysfunctional regarding men and sex). Nothing she said lined up and she’d occasionally say weird, vague and troublesome things about her past. Just destroyed my trust in her. The only relationship where I was paranoid about infidelity.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 05:34 PM
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It’s a chicken and egg thing. Most women I know that slept with a lot of men had issues before that. If a woman already has issues bonding then of course they will go through more men and interact with them unhealthily. Of course, the mileage just adds more fuel to the fire. Women have healthy families with dads they are close to usually settle down earlier and tend to not have wild phases.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 05:24 PM
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I see you swim in the pools of possibility rather than probability Horrible strategy Unless someone writes in a way to state explicitly that they are making a 100% statement, then you should take it as if they are stating it as “in many instances” or “in most instances” But if you did that then you wouldn’t have your bad faith debate trick anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 07:13 PM
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They are also going for men outside their league. Moms and grannies used to caution their average looking daughters if a smooth talking, very attractive man suddenly showed strong interest in them. Now, the grannie is wearing yoga pants and the mom has a notch count in the 100s and they cheer her on.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 03:18 PM
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She’s going to nitpick the shit out of you eventually
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 07:46 PM
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I don’t hate single moms I just find their desire to lock down a guy to help with their bad decisions or bad luck to be off putting I’ll never lower my quality of life for a dead beat dad’s kid
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 07:44 PM
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I just don’t care And my HR is dog shit and they will then target me for not staying under the radar
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 05:37 PM
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Yep, I like the analogy And if a man blames the stripper for taking his money, everyone laughs
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 06:02 PM
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Good point Alimony after infidelity is so dumb Alimony in general isn’t much better except in limited circumstances Get a job and be a human and move on Sorry your plans went sideways Half of it is to keep the state from paying welfare to a lazy person Of course the low iq lazy person tells the judge “I was fixing to be a doctor, but he wouldn’t let me”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 02:56 PM
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Probably a marginally lower chance of infidelity Since so many affairs are at work
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 02:48 PM
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Looks are inherent Wealth can be taken and is fully external You’re still loving the person as your body is part of you
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 02:18 PM
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My office secretary is mildly autistic and extremely woke liberal. She openly man hates and no one says anything. If I talked crap on women, I’d get da bidness.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 04:47 PM
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I’ve always been confused by this. I’m naturally friendly and funny (been told I should try stand up by several people, etc) and I naturally tease people (especially women) in a funny and harmless way that doesn’t hurt their feelings. Is this why gay men always go after me? I’m having an existential crisis that perhaps I am considered flirting all the time and don’t know it. I’ve always thought “gee the only way I could flirt is to compliment women or saying vaguely sexual stuff.” But that’s not…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 04:22 PM
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Well it doesn’t help that about 10% of people absolutely suck (and are universally disliked) and we’d all be better off if they hadn’t been born. It’s hard not to talk shit on those people. A universal shit talker sucks. But I’ll continue to discuss a-holes with my trusted friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 04:06 PM
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Sassy has now become a personality type. Woman acts badly and then justifies it with “I’m being sassy.” It’s just a way for dull people to feel funny or something. Most of the time they are just being the b word.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 04:03 PM
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Marriage and lifetime monogamy are a social technology independently invented in multiple places to create a more stable civilization where most men invest and to provide a stable unit for child rearing. It was never had people’s happiness as a goal. Now people think everything should be for their happiness. Hilarity ensues.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 09:43 PM
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Uh huh
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 12:45 AM
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No men are still stronger in their lower body than in their upper body As in almost all men squat more than they bench and the squat also includes your own body weight
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 12:36 AM
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But we don’t claim to be infinitely good
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 12:31 AM
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Also, once you gain confidence and value, be prepared to find a new social group You are already defined in their minds and they want to keep you in that box or role This is in part why a jacked dude showing his GF pics of when he was fat or scrawny is a bad idea
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 12:47 AM
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There are women here that reject all evolutionary thinking and that’s dumb Prior to law and civilization, if you were with a nice guy, a big bad guy would just take whatever was the nice guy’s including his female companion I don’t think we realize how brutal humans are without laws and luxury So, women likely developed a genetic hack where they just got with the big bad guy to begin with in order to help along what was already inevitable
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 11:58 PM
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If they want to downplay which is most with a high number…. They count all men you will hear about from family and friends and via their social media Then they look at gaps in time and include a few to make it believable (like if they were single for 5 years they will count like 2 or so men as short term in there) Then to really sell it they admit to gasp a single one night stand or FWB….they figure if they admit to one bad thing then it makes the rest sound good They just try to make it as low …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 11:40 PM
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I don’t The god in your bible is a monster
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 11:36 PM
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Women do not have stronger lower body strength than men that is a lie based first on people not understanding simple statements and then it sounded good so they propagated it On average, women are closer to men in lower body strength than they are in upper body strength For instance a man might have twice the upper body strength as a female but only 50% more lower body (as a simple example with made up numbers) That’s the truth and it is easily verified if you spend 2 minutes
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 11:36 PM
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lol I’m an atheist and now I think you’re trolling
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 09:53 PM
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Why? Because I think a female fighter with the upper body strength of an 8th grade boy shouldn’t be running into house fires to rescue people? If you’re a woman, do me a favor and challenge the weakest looking adult male you know (that isn’t like in a wheelchair from MS or something or over 70) to arm wrestle and report back here.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 09:49 PM
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They have drank the kool aid that all the masculine atttubutes are the good ones Instead of just building up female attributes They tear down men and want to make women into men For instance, wanting to lower physical requirements for being a firefighter Which is dangerous and hilariously stupid It’s okay to be a woman and stay in your lane You’re not carrying a grown man on your shoulder, sweetheart
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 07:30 PM
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Actually Through out history people have been punished for the truth In the last century, the guy that discovered plate tectonics had his career ruined by other geologists that were too dumb to have discovered the same thing and didn’t want their life’s work to be exposed as wrongly based
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 03:24 PM
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Men are expected to call other men out Women are not expected to do the same and they do not They instead often act strategically as in “the enemy of my enemy is my friend’ It is gross and cowardly
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 03:21 PM
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What? Women lie about their past very regularly
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 02:02 PM
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Yep And women minimize casual sex encounters Everyone knows this
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 02:01 PM
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Ok I deleted it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 12:36 AM
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You have no sense of humor I was obviously joking
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 12:38 PM
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Impossible
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 11:27 PM
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Just talk to everyone when it is socially appropriate, including hot women And don’t ask for the number of every hot woman that talks to you I went to a local concert last Saturday I talked to at least 10 people, half of which were strangers You do that and you’re just approaching life Women see that and it’s attractive You get mini successes and lessons just talking to guys, old ladies, whatever Then you don’t have to pick a woman at the mall and like make a weird bee line at her for no reason
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 08:00 PM
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I’m highly mental in my sexuality I can find something sexy about banging heavy women or whatever I can find something hot about sex with any non relative adult woman so long as she doesn’t stink and isn’t badly disfigured I think you can find a woman and get freaky But just don’t shoot way outside of what you think your league is
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 07:54 PM
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The way guys are That place would be filled with gay guys “Men only” or “men’s hour” is pretty much code for gay guys Ari has a bit on YouTube about it My former gym had the pool and sauna area segregated MWF just women TThSa just men All the gay men that never came to the gym otherwise would go on men’s pool day and strut around nude I’m not homophobic, I just don’t want to be surrounded by the type of gay dudes that flounce around
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 11:53 PM
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Don’t do it for women Do it because being an out of shape poor slob with a shit personality is no way to live
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 11:52 PM
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Everyone desires attractive people Attraction is not self reflective Like as you gain weight there isn’t some magical switch that makes you start liking obese people However men have an advantage in that we find more women attractive than women find men This combines with 5 men not being able to offer 7 rated women sex in exchange for attention describes most of what I see
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 10:24 PM
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Also You can’t just use cowardly as an argument “Go jump in that lion cage for no reason” “No I’m good” “What a coward you are” All the common buzz words used as supposed argument trump cards (like insecure, jealous, coward, selfish) have no meaning without context because all those human emotions are there for a reason and perfectly normal in many instances Like I caught an ex texting her ex secretly I mentioned it She of course told me “you have trust issues” With someone like you? Yeah for su…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 09:43 PM
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I’m sure you’ve seen many people have children for selfish reasons Being a parent can be a selfless or a selfish act
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 09:39 PM
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Yeah I’m not willing to do voluntary shit to bail people out of positions they got themselves into But I’m the selfish one, not the person wanting my time money energy Another abused concept is teamwork Person has outrageous work demand You say no They accuse you of not being a team player Just thinking via buzz words
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 09:37 PM
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It was a rhetorical question
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 09:35 PM
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Yeah I read it It isn’t the argument you think it is You might be like a former boss of mine that would just repeat his argument because he couldn’t fathom someone hearing it and not agreeing
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 08:42 PM
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A lot of women like older men I look young for my age, but at 47 I get looks and smiles from women in the 28 to 32 year old age range pretty regularly
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 07:52 PM
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It tends to confirm some of their talking points
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 07:51 PM
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What? People can do what they want You wouldn’t judge a similar woman like this at all I’m starting to think black pill dudes are creating fake accounts here just to make women look bad I just had a “woman” tell me that men that will not tolerate a dead bedroom are selfish
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 07:44 PM
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I’ve been called gay twice in public by women I didn’t want It’s such an obnoxious look I can’t imagine the tortorous hellscape their mind must be to do that
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 07:42 PM
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Yep Witness obese ugly women taking shit about the looks of celebrities When you know they would clamor for someone with half their looks and life position
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 07:40 PM
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Old dogs (aka over 30 or 35) outside big cities still do I say you bring it back
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 09:16 PM
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Nope 5’10” is just considered not short 6’4” is probably most attractive height
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 06:42 PM
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Hobbies are a way to expand a social circle, as you mentioned. You’ll meet people, have cookouts related to the hobby maybe, etc. Someone might set you up, etc. There’s no down side unless you pick a hobby you don’t like.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 06:17 PM
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This is just human nature especially among the average lazy and low integrity person (maximize reward and minimize cost) However we aren’t supposed to notice that most women are basic just like most men
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 02:18 PM
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Thanks and predictably not a single woman says “you might have a point”. They are having a one-sided gender war over there, after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 12:36 AM
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Pretty huge height range You aren’t getting doxed by giving an exact height
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 11:24 PM
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I’m not sure I understand you. Most definitely there is a long process of testing and that is called selection. For instance, the long walk is like an 80 mile or so timed hike in the mountains with like 100 lbs in your pack. If you fail any of the tests, you do not pass selection. Maybe this is a terminology thing. I’ve read and watch enough that I understand it pretty well. I’d also say the physical part is harder than the mental you speak of because many active duty basic infantry guys have ki…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 08:59 PM
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Men are more likely to play positive sum games While women more often view things as zero sum games It’s easy to see why evolutionarily
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 08:05 PM
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Military leaders are suggesting it They have tried to send multiple women through selection They fail horribly
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 08:02 PM
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It is happening Google it Way to be ignorant in an aggressive manner though It’s a good look
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 07:27 PM
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As long as they don’t lower requirements for various jobs then it’s cool by me. For instance, some folks want a Delta Force or Seal Team 6 female operator really bad. This is total retardation. These men are the top 1% of all men. There might be 1 woman on Earth that can meet their current standards. And their physicality saves lives and keeps us safe. Folks that disagree typically have no knowledge of these most elite organizations.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 07:19 PM
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I had one ex that I think just craved dominant male energy. I let her get away with shit because I was young. I regret not sharply putting her in her place early on because she was otherwise amazing. So it somewhat varies. I had another ex from when I was older and she would behave badly and I’d call her out. She would get super happy and then want to have sex. It was a similar thing, she wanted to feel my masculinity as reassurance or something. Both girls had daddy issues. And it’s exhausting …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 07:08 PM
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I was a kid when Oprah first was on air. We had 1 TV as was typical then. I was pretty young (7? 9?) watching Oprah with my mom and I remember turning to her and asking “on this show why is everything a man’s fault and women are always right?” Out of the mouth of babes comes perfected wisdom. I had common sense drilled out of me. I remember my dad working in the cold and doing the hard stuff while my mom complained about baking cake inside, as if those things are equivalent. I knew at age 6 that…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 06:59 PM
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I’ve found if you just stoically ignore someone trying to make you jealous, then they just increase the intensity of the behavior until they get the result they are after. I’d say maybe 10% of women want to make their SO jealous. It does something for them. The women here sometimes act like they don’t know any toxic women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 06:53 PM
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There is no popular media that young women consume that calls them on any common toxic behavior. There is, however, no shortage of information telling them men ain’t shit and the problem and that basically anything a woman wants is her right. Then add smart phones and social media and dating apps. The pendulum has swung to where we are in an overcorrection phase with no stopping criteria. Very predictable. It’s amazing more women don’t see this and the ones that do are called “pick mes” or somet…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 06:48 PM
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To answer your question, I stupidly prioritized intelligence and looks and assumed hot smart women would also be nice/moral. I was wrong. I was also busy with school (many degrees) and career and wanted a girl not in a hurry to settle down and have kids. Those women with no maternal drive also tend to be mean to men. I was dumb and learned my lesson. I’ve slept with more men than average, but I didn’t try hard and turned many women down. If I was a playboy I could easily have a 100+ notch count …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 06:15 PM
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So did I. My mom assumed all women were gonna be angels like her and she had to train me how to treat these special beings.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 06:12 PM
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You have to learn from mistakes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 06:05 PM
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You are discussing this like we need to be fair. I’m not. I’m describing what generally is. Is it fair that women like taller men with muscles when height can’t be changed and muscles are way harder to build than it is for a woman to stay attractive just by being slim? No. Is it generally true and so people should know and navigate life? I’d say yes. There’s all sorts of unfair emotional decisions on both sides that aren’t going anywhere. We are in a position where older women are telling younge…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 03:13 PM
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I can get away with drunk driving, but I know from observing reality and others that it is typically a bad move. I do not base my worldview primarily on what I personally experienced as a result of my own decisions. To do so is solipsistic. I can assure that the vast majority of men do not want (to use your words) a slut that is willing to be their slut. I mean if you think good sex is so complicated that it requires a lot of practice with different teachers, then I’d say to go ahead and not sig…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 04:36 AM
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It’s not about you and your story. I predicted that a female exception with an anecdote would give her story as the rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 04:14 AM
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I would consider moving. I lived in a city of 1/2 million and now one of 15,000. It’s better here in about every way. Having a cool art exhibit to look at and more dining options isn’t enough to change that. Here you go somewhere random and everyone is nice and you see 3 people you know and catch up for 5 minutes. It’s an actual community.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 03:04 AM
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Sexual jealousy is stronger in men on average. Your social network is young people in NYC. You live in a Petri dish and don’t even know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 02:53 AM
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Being an island in part, NYC reminds me of that island where bonobo chimps just laze around and fuck each other all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 02:52 AM
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This is why I’m glad I don’t live in a big city. Also, your point about cute girls that aren’t slutty/crazy being in high demand is true and their relationships tend to last. That’s a point in my favor, even though I know you basically agree here. If I knew what I know now, I would have locked down a country girl with a good family and strong father….like 20 years ago. I had to learn the hard way.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 02:51 AM
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I didn’t address that on purpose. Of course some men do this too. I am talking about the original post which is about how women sabotage themselves. Also, in my experience great relationship guys are less likely to do this. And lastly, men and women are fundamentally different and this is a dealbreaker for more men than it is women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 02:46 AM
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I predicted this in an edit. It happening before some exclusivity talk doesn’t matter. When you have a gut emotional reaction to something do you say “hold up, what would Socrates say about this?” I didn’t say “this makes you a bad person and you violated a contract.” I said this great guy is less likely to want to be serious with you. How could it not? Could it possibly help anyone but a cuck? So it is at best neutral but we both know it isn’t on average. All else being equal, no man says “no I…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 02:39 AM
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American women that sleep with several men at the same time while looking for “the one” are sabotaging their ability to get into relationships. This great guy you are imagining will be less likely to take you seriously if during the first month of getting to know each other, before exclusivity, he finds out you are getting your back blown out by several other men weekly. His feelings for you are less likely to grow. Some women will just assert I’m wrong or have the anecdote about how her man did…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 02:28 AM
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Then English isn’t your first language? That sentence means there are good men that haven’t done that it does not mean all men that have done that are bad. I should have used date-able or some such and not good. But I’ll say it isn’t a marker of virtue.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 01:36 AM
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If I was a woman, I wouldn’t date Johns. Too many good men that haven’t done that and wouldn’t take that risk. In most of the US, you are risking ruining your life by soliciting. So it shows you also do dumb impulsive stuff. Having said that, and even though I would not partake, I think it should be decriminalized like it is in much of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 12:30 AM
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This is true. Of course sometimes they are flirting, but that doesn’t mean they want you to act on it. I never have. It must be frustrating for a woman working one of these jobs and she sees (maybe several times) a guy she is super into and he just assumes she being nice because of her job. I’ll say that if you’re young and working a job like at a grocery store that coworkers hook up all the time. So with coworkers it depends. Also there are tons of workplace affairs.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 12:14 AM
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lol It was crazy enough for a group of young guys that I had to hear them bring it up laughing for years It’s 100% true though They even had a nickname for the incident
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 11:48 PM
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I need no concept to explain that gay and bisexual men are more sexually liberal than straight men on average. This isn’t a slander on them. It’s simply a brute and easily observable fact. As far as wokester, it’s a slur to describe modern young liberals that are insufferable. I was a lifelong democrat until COVID hit and that’s when I left all political parties.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 10:22 PM
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By modern people I mean young liberal wokesters Straight men are obviously different than bisexual men regarding their female partners on average I don’t need a study, it’s common sense and easily observed Let’s compare straight and gay men You don’t think gay men are on average more sexually liberal? Come on, do you have eyes?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 10:14 PM
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You’re talking possibility in a probabilistic argument. Doesn’t work. Modern people think pointing out one exception is always an argument or pointing out some lack of 100% certainty.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 09:54 PM
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She as a 6 got gangbanged by I’d say one 7 and four 8s Other than that I have no idea what you’re talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 09:50 PM
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All 5 guys were 7 or above She got the treat she wanted I’m probably a 7 and ended up in a friend group when young where I was the ugliest guy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 08:26 PM
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To get out of this, if it isn’t taught or enforced, you need people that are both intelligent and virtuous/mentally healthy, this is too rare. The way it is, being good actually makes you the sucker. Many people have had the dark night of soul thought of “are the people that take advantage for their own benefit the smart ones because they get what they want without guilt? Whereas by trying to be a good person even when no one is looking am I the dumb loser that they use?”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 08:00 PM
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People are self-interested, hypocritical at times, and pick and choose. Women and men are the same in this. The difference is everyone recognizes and condemns this in men when it is too much. Women get passes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 07:57 PM
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I have seen women throw themselves at gigachad. Not quite as extreme, but I was at a bar where the bartender had a models face, probably 6’4”, and so jacked he probably did juice. He is probably the best looking guy I’ve seen in real life. I was with a few couples and the way the taken women looked at him and whispered to each other and interacted with him when getting a drink was bothersome. I felt bad for the guys. They sat there stoically like they didn’t notice.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 07:49 PM
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Partly because the women won’t use it. If she is willing to put herself out there and take risks and pursue these things, then she can achieve a lot. I wasn’t there but a group of my friends when we were in our early 20s were hanging out with a cougar at a bar that one friend knew. She was getting married soon and wanting to sow her oats. She took 5 of my friends to her house and they took turns all night. She was maybe a 6 out of 10 in looks. I knew of her and saw her later.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 07:34 PM
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I concede that not every possible female fantasy can be achieved by any female. Especially if the male is not getting much out of it or it is a negative for him. Like do I think a very unattractive woman can easily get 20 men to just lick her? It would take some work. Could a hot woman? Probably. Also, I don’t get why you think women don’t crave penetration. They very obviously do usually. Could a woman with some weird sadist fantasy get a man to humiliate himself or be in pain for her pleasure?…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 07:28 PM
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What? The topic was not if something is more common in men or women at all. We were discussing the possibilities of what women can accomplish. I mentioned gangbangs. You then said it isn’t a female fantasy, which is a perhaps inadvertent universal statement. I then offered a few anecdotes to disprove your statement, which is perfectly valid. You can’t be wrong so you did a logic pretzel. If you want to be taken seriously, then argue in good faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 07:14 PM
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Yeah it varies For just easy sex outside relationship, it’s mostly looks (face, body, height) I’ve known men that could probably get a BJ from your aunt that is a nun if he wanted it and was alone with her regularly
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 07:03 PM
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That’s false. I’ve had several exGFs (to my chagrin) discuss some dark fantasies and gangbangs were included. You are going off yourself and what your brunch buddies admit to and discuss. If you watch amateur porn (my preference because the women are enjoying themselves), then you would find many women enthusiastically (with all physical signs of extreme arousal) doing such things.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 06:55 PM
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Of various sorts, perhaps If you are rich but goofy and ugly, you’ll get gold diggers or you can use escorts But I read relationship and not just sex To have a decent relationship and genuine sexual attraction, then you have to meet a threshold for important traits For most women, you can’t be super hot but in debt $1 million with no job, etc I think my plant analogy is relatively unscathed You are right that the limiting factor varies based upon the male, as I mentioned, but you did add an impo…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 06:46 PM
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Well we’ve went away from behaviors that everyone but weirdos think is cheating We agree that sex and sexual talk and touching are off limits That’s not interesting to discuss and we’ve gotten into a side convo about inappropriate behaviors and people’s views of things Most men are not okay with their wife hanging out with dudes that want to bang them, regardless of the wife’s behavior You also sound very different from most people You sound extremely forthright and that all men in your sphere k…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 06:31 PM
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Well that was just an example So what? We are talking about a spectrum of behaviors and what people think of them Unless someone breaks down and tells you their internal life, then we go off of behaviors to determine what they are thinking and feeling
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 06:05 PM
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I say this as a guy that has had many female friends that wanted more These emotional bonds tend to grow and morph If you are a woman that has had many close emotional bonds with men that are not your SO or a family member, then I think that is atypical It is absurdly common for women to complain about male friends trying it on Maybe you are just very exceptional But I don’t base my life or opinions on the existence of a few exceptional circumstances or people
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 06:02 PM
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Of course A pudgy woman can get on fetlife and organize a gangbang with men all more attractive then her etc Anyone that denies this is sheltered/naive/doesn’t say ouchie truths out loud Somewhat of a tangent, but this is why swinger guys want their woman to be as hot as possible (fake boobs, workout, tan, etc) because she acts as more effective bait for him to get what he wants Any women 4 or above can get whatever she wants But this is like a decent looking guy being able to get many first dat…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 05:58 PM
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This is like arguing which is more important to plants: water, nutrients, sunlight, or carbon dioxide They are all required and any being too low are “dealbreakers” What biologists do is look at the current limiting factor So if a man has acceptable looks, money, status levels….then his limiting factor might be social skills It’s a nonsense debate
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 05:55 PM
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Its relative If a guy makes $80k and owns his home, then a woman working for minimum wage with no benefits will think she won the lottery if she marries him
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 05:47 PM
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Yep I assume everyone is average or potentially represent anywhere on the distribution prior to knowing anything about I then adjust my beliefs based upon observation
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 05:43 PM
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But modernity tells us “everything is on the table unless expressly forbidden” We are screwed
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 05:40 PM
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I’ve experienced women that you’d think never cheat having a very good opportunity and being overcome I didn’t act but could have easily Zero chance of being caught does something interesting to humans
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 05:39 PM
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Yep Newly recovering alcoholics often subconsciously put themselves in situations where the temptation to drink will be more than they can take at that point in their healing….thus their lizard brain gets what it wanted Trustworthy people know they should not put themselves in certain situations, if for no other reason than the horrible optics but often more Trustworthy people also don’t think everyone should automatically fully trust them and know they need to build and maintain trust
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 05:31 PM
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To be more clear I think that men share many of the same genetic impulses However, they are overpowered away or amplified by local culture and your peers The existence of weird cults shows this The Heaven Gates guys were all convinced to castrate themselves This is utterly bizarre from the standpoint of common sense, genetic impulses, and basic self care But related to genetics, I cannot underline enough the differences between low and high testosterone men, they almost behave like different spe…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 05:06 PM
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I’ve lived in vastly different cultures in the US, from small town redneck ville to a huge city where I went to grad school in one of the most liberal universities in the country There is a huge impact I’m going by probability not possibility here The hipster is much less likely to do what you described…much
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 04:58 PM
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We are making different assumptions You are making the assumptions of it being as harmless as humanly possible in context I’m basing it on what usually happens among typical interactions of this sort It usually isn’t “I’ve known Tiffany and her husband for 20 years and we sometimes grab a quick lunch because we work nearby” I do believe in trust but not total I do believe in male / female friendships but totally platonic ones from both sides are rare If a guy is cool with his wife having a once …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 04:55 PM
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Local culture has a huge impact You might not realize the subtle interactions among men Talk a bit too long in a platonic way to a high testosterone country boy’s wife, he will catch your eye and stare you down as a message Men and women play in different dominance hierarchies with different signals It’s like when a woman leaves a room and all other women recognize she was being a bitch and the guys are kind of clueless
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 04:50 PM
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You’re wrong that most people are okay with their SO spending time alone with the opposite sex one on one on a regular basis, outside of required things like work Have a hot guy have one on one dinner dates with various women all the time and see how well his wife or GF likes it If she is okay with that then either her BF is not attractive or she is too trusting and naive Again, it is partly a subculture thing Going by surface area of the USA, what I said is true except for perhaps a urban cente…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 04:47 PM
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That’s just the lip service paid Many many gay men cheat because it is as simple as buying a Big Mac
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 04:43 PM
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That’s just the lip service paid Many many gay men cheat because it is as simple as buying a Big Mac
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 04:43 PM
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It’s because they are sexually attracted to the person their SO will cheat with It is similar to more straight men being okay with a FMF 3some with their wife than a MFM
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 04:42 PM
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The only mentally healthy men that love their wives that will share them are bisexual men. And even then they might be bi and also nuts or not caring for her. Otherwise, the guy doesn’t love her or has some weird unhealthy fetish. A lot of swingers use their wives as bait to get other women. There are all sorts of justifications and claims that fall flat. But the diagnosis is sometimes in the action. To be extreme, I don’t care what backstory you have, if you have a scat eating fetish then you a…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 04:35 PM
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