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| 15 | Most guys who struggle in dating struggle because they don't have a social life.Fuck off with your gaslighting bullshit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 12:50 AM |
| 1 | What do women mean when they say they're attracted to intelligence?Depends on her IQ. Very high IQ women only go for very high IQ men in my experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 04:18 AM |
| 1 | Beyond over if you missed out on high-school loveHelps forsure | /r/AllPillDebate | 16/10/23 01:53 AM |
| 1 | Beyond over if you missed out on high-school loveMy point is that there are surgeries available to you after highschool and a lot of guys who did ok early on in highschool never had the genetics to be attractive as an adult (the really short ‘cute’ ones) | /r/AllPillDebate | 16/10/23 01:52 AM |
| 2 | Beyond over if you missed out on high-school lovePretty average in the beginning of highschool, by the end I was in the top 3 probably. Gained another inch after highschool. By the time I got my height and lost the weight I was too far behind to really find any success in senior year. | /r/AllPillDebate | 16/10/23 01:51 AM |
| 1 | The reason why tall men are seen as more attractive is because height is a wealth signifierUnfortunately until I get jaw / facial surgery my face area looks too fat when I’m at a higher body fat percentage. I’ve been lifting 10 years and an athletic look works best for me at the moment. I can actually seen hollow cheeks and my cheekbones at this body fat, not so much at 20% bf. I’m a forester so focussing on aesthetics gives me a pretty fit, toned overall look. Still 200lbs at my lightest so I’m not exactly stickly. I naturally have wide shoulders so I look decently big even when I’m … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/23 11:58 PM |
| 1 | It’s over if ur 5.5 inchesYeah because of how girth scales up an inch of girth changes the overall volume quite a bit. Like my dick is still bigger than like a 7.5 inch dude with a 5 inch girth. And yeah that would be my guess for you, your length is pretty decent. I think your dick does the job it’s just not gonna evoke compliments unless you really know how to work it. Can still get BJs but it’s been teethy a couple times and they seem to need to take breaks quite a bit. | /r/AllPillDebate | 15/10/23 03:12 PM |
| 1 | It’s over if ur 5.5 inchesThat’s bone pressed. 6.2 non pressed. Girth is pretty uniform. I think it’s my girth that does it. I have bottomed out on a few chicks though, not all are deep. | /r/AllPillDebate | 15/10/23 03:06 PM |
| 3 | It’s over if ur 5.5 inchesI’m 6.7- 6.9 long with a lot of girth (5.7) and I’ve been told so many times that it’s big, or that they’re sore after, or even that it’s the biggest they have ever seen so I don’t think it’s all that bad. | /r/AllPillDebate | 15/10/23 02:51 PM |
| 3 | The reason why tall men are seen as more attractive is because height is a wealth signifierCope | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/23 12:21 PM |
| 0 | The reason why tall men are seen as more attractive is because height is a wealth signifierThat was my original assumption growing up (which was a terrible thing to think growing up) my personality is actually one of my greatest assets.Its a clinical level of bone structure deficiency there. I had undiagnosed sleep apnea growing up. It’s a major aesthetic flaw which I don’t necessarily blame women for not overlooking. Sucks but is what it is. I wouldn’t date a girl with a crazy underbite or something so I get it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/23 12:21 PM |
| 1 | The reason why tall men are seen as more attractive is because height is a wealth signifierSomewhere between those two. I’ve seen plenty of worse cases in the jaw surgery sub Reddit ( my upper jaw is perfect but my lower jaw and chin are quite recessed). Big enough where it’s a major issue in terms of aesthetics and health but small enough where it’s a pretty simple fix for most surgeons. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/23 12:19 PM |
| 1 | The reason why tall men are seen as more attractive is because height is a wealth signifierExactly. My beard becomes part of my neck if I tilt my chin down (and I’m 6 5” so I do that a lot) not a good solution at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/23 12:17 PM |
| 2 | The reason why tall men are seen as more attractive is because height is a wealth signifierHave had a well maintained short one for years, (don’t have great facial hair genetics) it doesn’t fix my clinical levels of recession and my sleep apnea (just gives me a neckbeard look) so I’m dealing with it the hard way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/23 12:16 PM |
| 2 | The reason why tall men are seen as more attractive is because height is a wealth signifierCheers man. I was chatting with another redditor who had him and his results were quite reassuring. quite experienced, has an interest in focusing on aesthetics, and fixes a lot of other surgeons botches. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/23 03:42 AM |
| 2 | The reason why tall men are seen as more attractive is because height is a wealth signifierSeeing if jaw surgery and infraorbital implants do anything. I suspect it will lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/23 03:34 AM |
| 4 | The reason why tall men are seen as more attractive is because height is a wealth signifierIf you got the face to back it up. I’m 6 5” and got a put work in for meh results because I’m not gifted in the jawline dept. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/23 03:11 AM |
| -7 | Beyond over if you missed out on high-school loveDisagree, I have a friend in high-school who went out with Stacy’s and Becky’s and now is just sitting around home single working at the dollar store on the edge of roping, full on incel mode. Meanwhile I went from only getting one kiss towards the end of high-school at a prom party to now where I find a new 4-7 girl to fuck every month on average. Growing to 6 5”, losing my fat, gymmaxxing and working extremely dangerous jobs has shaped me into a more physically attractive and interesting / bet… | /r/AllPillDebate | 14/10/23 04:26 AM |
| 2 | Women advising unattractive men to see prostitutes is disingenuous.Risky bidness even if ur wearing a rubber. Done it and I wouldn’t do it again. Tbf I get pussy (just have a hard time getting lasting relationships) so it’s not the same as someone who gets nothing. | /r/AllPillDebate | 14/10/23 01:54 AM |
| 2 | Brutal: sub5 black woman refuses to get out of car after curry betabux takes her to the cheese factoryFunny enough my ugly ass got told the other day by the 5-6/10 slim 35 year old that I’m seeing that I don’t need to take her out to any nice dine In restaurants and that we could just do McDonald’s drive thru and fuck. Part of me is thinking she just wants the dick and doesn’t want to be seen around me lmao. | /r/AllPillDebate | 13/10/23 04:03 AM |
| 1 | what makes someones face attractive ?90% of women are definitely not seen as attractive by most males. I’m pretty average overall smv wise and maybe 50-60% of women anywhere near my age are remotely fuckable. | /r/AllPillDebate | 12/10/23 03:10 AM |
| 1 | My cousin showed me his Hinge profile….I partially agree with your logic but tbh I think it’s a bit of a cope. I’d much rather have a dangerous level of access to women than have a trickle of attention and have less room to filter out crazies. Like right now I have to accept a certain level of red flags and lack of interest on their part to even get relationships/ dates / laid. I’d much rather have a huge volume of women who are super into me. Getting jaw surgery and infraorbital implants so if I do ascend enough I’ll let you know if… | /r/AllPillDebate | 12/10/23 02:54 AM |
| 1 | My cousin showed me his Hinge profile….I’d agree most chads go for a relationship like you say. There’s enough chads left over to create a situation where lots of women are hooking up with the same guy though. Not all guys can control their urges (like most women) or aren’t intelligent enough to see these obvious risks. | /r/AllPillDebate | 12/10/23 01:08 AM |
| 2 | My cousin showed me his Hinge profile….True most ex chads I know (35-45 year olds) have ex wives and kids they can’t afford. | /r/AllPillDebate | 12/10/23 12:14 AM |
| 2 | Which pill is the most brutal?If there was a face pill I would have chosen that but height is defintely the next biggest followed probably by dick then race. | /r/AllPillDebate | 09/10/23 07:58 PM |
| 0 | Can't even blame em tbhIt’s nice in the moment but then it actually feels like shit after knowing that you don’t meet her standards as someone she would want to keep around. Feels like coming off of a hard drug. I’ll take it over nothing but I’m not really any happier or content now than when I was a virgin in highschool. The money shot is finding someone that desires your company long term and wants to show you off and build a future with. | /r/AllPillDebate | 08/10/23 11:51 PM |
| 0 | Can't even blame em tbhWhat bugs me is getting a little trickle of casual sex from them when they’re getting a dopamine hit from all my attention but then them deciding they actually aren’t looking for something real after going on about how much they wanted that before. This is a common trend in my life. They want to have it both ways. | /r/AllPillDebate | 08/10/23 11:44 PM |
| 1 | Are you guys ok?Appreciate it man. Wish it was just a confidence thing. I’m actually probably too confident for how I look haha. Attractive women hover around but it’s clear that they have a hard time stomaching the idea of sharing themselves publicly with a guy that looks like me facially even if they’re down to fuck. My expectations are pretty grounded but having a good jaw and sharp eye area should make me a lot closer to what women typically go for. From the front my face shape it pretty good, have good che… | /r/AllPillDebate | 08/10/23 06:44 PM |
| -1 | Are you guys ok?Just found out a girl I had invested a good amount of time and hooked up with blocked me. This is months after another relationship going south in a hurry. Starting to get sad again. Thankfully I will have a jaw surgery and infraorbital implants in a few months hopefully so I’m not giving up, I have a decent frame and am 6 5”. Im turning 25 pretty soon so I feel the fomo in ways I didn’t before. I’m worried by the time I’m fixed up and get myself where I need to be it will be too late. Late nigh… | /r/AllPillDebate | 08/10/23 09:18 AM |
| 2 | is it just me or the blackpill is going mainstream now?Lmao I think someone who misses a incel reference more likely isn’t over | /r/AllPillDebate | 26/09/23 12:51 PM |
| 4 | is it just me or the blackpill is going mainstream now?Outshining someone in-front of women. Mogging is winning just by your existence. You can mog someone in terms of general looks, height, muscle, etc. I’m 6 5” so I mog almost all dudes jn terms of height. A model would mog other dudes in terms of looks. | /r/AllPillDebate | 26/09/23 02:24 AM |
| – | "lock a man down in your 20s" is illogical adviceBecause what matters to you will change. Oh sweet summer child | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 01:15 PM |
| – | "lock a man down in your 20s" is illogical adviceIf you’re 20 you’re still a baby and don’t know shit. I believe people are referring to finding someone in your 20s. Not necessarily right out of highschool like you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 01:14 PM |
| 0 | Rate YourselfHeight: 6 4” or 6 5” (very tall) enough to get me lots of attention in real life and be seen as a novelty to women. Face: 4.5-5.5 /10 I have grey eyes, high cheekbones, ok nose, good dimpling, good hairline and masculine eyes brows eye lashes etc, very short chin and mandible and lack of support in my infraorbital rim area giving my eyes a bit of an open and droopy look. Once I get jaw surgery and infraorbital rim implants I could see myself being a 7. My gonial angle and relitavely long midface… | /r/AllPillDebate | 22/09/23 12:48 AM |
| 1 | What does Chad look like to you?sound dumb as fuck go away | /r/AllPillDebate | 20/09/23 01:12 PM |
| 2 | What does Chad look like to you?The YouTuber Blake Bachert is what comes to mind when I think of a typical chad type. Super tall, good facial structure, good hair, early mid 20s, etc. | /r/AllPillDebate | 20/09/23 02:20 AM |
| 1 | How many guys here were neither an incel nor a Chad (in terms of partner count) but also see the dating scene as a post-apocalyptic hell zone?I’m a athletic 24yo 6 5” dude with a recessed lower jaw and lack of bone support under my eyes making the whites of my eyes pretty big. Overall I’ve pulled a decent amount and have some ability to be selective but it’s required me to max myself out and still is a pretty tough go with a lot of younger women wasting my time. I can hook up with a new 5-7 looks girl every month or two so it’s not too bad. Feels like they don’t want to keep me around long. I think getting my surgeries to deal with fa… | /r/AllPillDebate | 18/09/23 03:42 AM |
| 1 | What are your opinions on short guys in terms of attractivness?At about 6 5” I can assure you that the women who aren’t attracted to me aren’t filtering me out due to my height. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/23 03:39 AM |
| 1 | So Chad pumping and dumping is actually not a bad thing?!Below average men wouldn’t even get the chance to | /r/AllPillDebate | 10/09/23 12:33 AM |
| 19 | First 1000 rejections are just a warm up bro!He’s also black… | /r/AllPillDebate | 12/08/23 11:40 PM |
| 1 | If 'Chads' are truly the only ones who are getting sex then the average women's body count would have to be low.As a 6 4/5” average dude I can confirm that it’s possible to slay in my position. Just having one physical trait that makes you stand out like those you mentioned goes a long way. | /r/AllPillDebate | 31/07/23 05:11 PM |
| 2 | Reminder for guys if you aren't 8/10 and 6ft women literally hate you.You need something to set you apart, you can be an attractive short guy and do pretty well, you can be an average looking super tall guy like me (6 5”) and do well. If you have no redeeming physical traits it’s going to be hard to get anywhere, | /r/AllPillDebate | 31/07/23 05:05 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Red pill is dangerous for autistic menWhat you’re talking about is an anecdote because your life experience or worldview doesn’t reflect general human experience, just your own. That’s the reason why what you are talking about are exceptions to the black-pill. The black pill is just a simplified explanation of studied human behaviour in regards to dating, it’s not intended to exactly describe everyone’s life experience. A key difference shaping our opposing perspectives is a generational difference. The dating culture is completely … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/23 11:42 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Red pill is dangerous for autistic menThe exception is not the rule. If we’re just talking anecdotally I can’t think of a single unattractive guy I know who has an attractive GF. There’s the odd situation where the guy is like a 5 and the girl is like a 6 and it works out because everything else is there but in the vast majority of situations being below the females attractiveness range knocks you out from the get go. I can think of so many more guys who are dating women equal or even far below their looks level. It’s all about that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/23 11:10 PM |
| 2 | Does anyone here have pictures of male celebrities/ influencers/ etc (not regular people) that are “good men” in terms of looks?Not part of physical attraction which is all we are talking about | /r/AllPillDebate | 22/07/23 01:23 PM |
| 5 | Why are redpillers so insecure about BM/WW couples?To women manly does not equal attractive necessarily. Besides the only way in which black men are manlier is in terms of fast twitch muscle mass. White men are still taller, generally grow better facial hair, have better hair and eyes, more likely to actually behave like men and not spoiled children, etc. black people are over represented in media because of the victim narrative and hollywoods doing, not because of merit. And no white women don’t care what racist old grandpas have to say and if … | /r/AllPillDebate | 22/07/23 12:27 PM |
| 2 | Does anyone here have pictures of male celebrities/ influencers/ etc (not regular people) that are “good men” in terms of looks?Your personality is not part of your looks rating. He’s a little above average but he’s clearly not “chad” material. Doesn’t have the cheekbones, eyes or jawline of a chad. | /r/AllPillDebate | 22/07/23 12:23 PM |
| 2 | Does anyone here have pictures of male celebrities/ influencers/ etc (not regular people) that are “good men” in terms of looks?It’s somewhat subjective. I’d consider mr beast a decent example of a high tier normie / normie | /r/AllPillDebate | 22/07/23 03:44 AM |
| 3 | Does anyone here have pictures of male celebrities/ influencers/ etc (not regular people) that are “good men” in terms of looks?Those “exhibits” don’t prove your point at all. Date a chad if you are a Stacy, if you’re not then youre gonna get ran thru. | /r/AllPillDebate | 22/07/23 02:52 AM |
| 9 | Why are redpillers so insecure about BM/WW couples?Yeah because black dudes will happily fuck obese 2/10s | /r/AllPillDebate | 22/07/23 02:46 AM |
| 2 | Why are redpillers so insecure about BM/WW couples?I think that speaks more to black women having low smv than black men having high | /r/AllPillDebate | 22/07/23 02:46 AM |
| 8 | Why are redpillers so insecure about BM/WW couples?Nope because the reason white women aren’t attracted to black men is because of their features not because of racism. In fact some more left leaning white women have a guilt complex and are going to be more willing to give a black guy a chance because of that guilt. Until black guys start magically having blue eyes and Caucasian facial features they will not be the preferred option. | /r/AllPillDebate | 22/07/23 02:43 AM |
| 17 | CMV: Red pill is dangerous for autistic menBlackpill is simply accepting that looks and genetics mater the most. People do with that information what they like. For me that meant going beyond my initial gym / dieting / career / life experience grind and to look at fixable aesthetic issues I have with my bone structure. Having a good body is huge but it doesn’t override women’s standards for facial attractiveness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/23 01:13 AM |
| 2 | Men want a woman who is as into him as possible, women want a man who ticks as many checkboxes as possibleKey word top tech people, that’s not representative of the dating market really anywhere except for a few big cities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 02:35 PM |
| 3 | Men want a woman who is as into him as possible, women want a man who ticks as many checkboxes as possibleI mean I do know some chicks that like their porn but I don’t think it’s something a man is going to give af about. And yeah I totally believe that, my point is more that it’s pretty damn rare to be in that income bracket. Unless the female is pulling in well in 6 figs a 550 income requirement is pretty out there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 02:29 AM |
| 5 | Men want a woman who is as into him as possible, women want a man who ticks as many checkboxes as possibleYeah 550k is almost unheard of. That’s Like you own your own fairly successful business or are a CEO type income. Even in big American cities 250k is still pretty impressive. Heck 100k will impress most women in most places in North America. I’m 24 and make 75k cad and I feel rich compared to the women I’m dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 12:22 AM |
| 2 | Do you get turned off when you see a chick you thought was feminine and attractive rapping along to vulgar, trashy lyrics on TikTok?I’m much more interested in if this somehow translates into their personality. If they just like the music who cares. | /r/AllPillDebate | 05/07/23 10:23 PM |
| 1 | Gen Z men have to know we likely won't have as fulfilling of a youth and life as our fathers and grandfathersGive it a try, won’t hurt unless you do it too much (tmj). Look into seeing a maxillofacial surgeon if ur recessed. Aesthetics usually follow functional issues which can sometimes be covered by insurance. I’m getting mine mostly covered because it will cure my sleep apnea. You won’t really know how your jaw is gonna turn out for a couple years. Tbh if you don’t have a chad jawline by now it’s probably never going to happen, could improve a bit though. | /r/AllPillDebate | 05/07/23 10:05 PM |
| 1 | Gen Z men have to know we likely won't have as fulfilling of a youth and life as our fathers and grandfatherscould possibly help development if you’re younger than 17 or 18. If youre much older than that all it will do is strengthen your masseter muscles, your jaw bones won’t grow. I’m getting jaw surgery to fix it. | /r/AllPillDebate | 05/07/23 08:55 PM |
| 1 | When men say they don't want a career woman, it's not that they don't want a woman who has a career, they just don't want a "boss babe".My job is a million times harder than being a nurse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/23 12:08 PM |
| -3 | It's truly overI think you’re slightly overstating things. Fat ugly women typically don’t even get to touch chad at all. I’m like a 5 facially and 6 5” and that’s enough for me to get the occasional hookup with a 6.5 and relationships with 5s. I match with only 6s and 7s and even 8s on tinder because im selective. I don’t need to touch women below 4s even when I’m down bad. If I was an actual chad or chadlite I wouldn’t even have to think about anything below a 6. If you’re just a straight down the middle guy … | /r/AllPillDebate | 28/06/23 12:36 AM |
| 1 | When men say they don't want a career woman, it's not that they don't want a woman who has a career, they just don't want a "boss babe".“Just go switch your career completely if you don’t agree with me” lol I dated a nurse, it’s a shitty job but it’s nothing compared to other jobs out there. You’re pretty sheltered if you think being a nurse is that bad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/23 12:35 PM |
| 1 | When men say they don't want a career woman, it's not that they don't want a woman who has a career, they just don't want a "boss babe".I would take a girl in your position I just live in an area where almost all the women in the 18-25 range seem to be in school (lots of universities around here that attract people from other parts of Canada because we don’t have as shit weather) The ones who aren’t in school tend to be either cokehesds or just not attractive, or they are in some trades and are super butch. If there was the right girl who didn’t have any job prospects I wouldn’t look down on it if she was intelligent otherwise. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/23 05:21 AM |
| 2 | When men say they don't want a career woman, it's not that they don't want a woman who has a career, they just don't want a "boss babe".Maybe you view parenting as simply a chore but many women value being able to stay at home and raise their kids, especially in formative years. Not every woman wants to work full time. Some would be most happy working part time. Some would be most happy not working at all. That’s all I’m getting at. Some view university programs and their career as a default thing they need to do because in todays world most people need to work and college is a fun and valuable experience. That doesn’t mean they… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/23 04:51 AM |
| 2 | When men say they don't want a career woman, it's not that they don't want a woman who has a career, they just don't want a "boss babe".I personally am not looking for boss babe type women anymore in my search. I’m looking for college girls who take care of themselves and have are at least somewhat conventionally attractive, have some sort of career drive beyond a dead end job and don’t seem to fall into the hedonistic shit a lot of young people do (social media clout, binge drinking, mainstream media consumption, hypergamy / trading up culture). There actually are a decent amount of women that seem to fit this category. Whether… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/23 04:28 AM |
| 1 | When men say they don't want a career woman, it's not that they don't want a woman who has a career, they just don't want a "boss babe".I don’t know a single nurse who has been almost blown up with dynamite or fallen off to 200m rock bluff or almost gotten eaten by a bear or had to hike around 50lb of gear on mountainsides. Stress, mean people, long hours, gross stuff blah blah is tough but everything is relative. A job as a nurse in 2023 is a cakewalk compared to the average job of a man even 50 years ago. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/23 04:17 AM |
| -1 | When men say they don't want a career woman, it's not that they don't want a woman who has a career, they just don't want a "boss babe".Women are naturally meant to be the primary caretaker of their children, that’s not a product of modern economics. Modern economics are the only reason women work for the most part. Children should not be thrown into childcare. I understand why women want to protect their interest by making sure they are self sufficient but that’s not what Im talking about. What we’re talking about is women whose egos are defined by the strong independent woman status. I’m fine with a wife with a career but it h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/23 03:44 AM |
| 5 | When men say they don't want a career woman, it's not that they don't want a woman who has a career, they just don't want a "boss babe".To be fair women’s jobs are generally much easier than male jobs. Even nurses etc have a cakewalk compared to a lot of male dominated jobs. Not saying women don’t have stressful careers with long hours etc, but they don’t understand what men who have more blue collar jobs have to go through. I agree that if the woman is working as much as the man then there shouldn’t be extra household expectations on her. That being said there are few women out there that would understand the exhaustion a lot o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/23 12:39 AM |
| 2 | Caring about women is pointless in 2023Made sure the bitch paid my the money I was entitled too. Pretty humiliating going from having a really nice rental in a brand new neighborhood in the good part of town while she was living with her parents to her having a nice rental and me living in my parents basement. I make like 75k a year so I can move out but I’m getting jaw surgery soon so I’m living the loser life for the time being and stacking paper. Replaced the cunt with a model 3 performance. | /r/AllPillDebate | 26/06/23 11:07 PM |
| 2 | Caring about women is pointless in 2023We moved in together. I had my own rental and she was living with her parents since her and her bf had splitted up like a year ago and had a place. I’m honestly not completely sure why it happened. I got a new job working out in camp so I would have been gone 9 days at a time then home for 5. She said it was a combination of realizing she wanted to be “single” and that she was happier on her own. She was also going to start school again in September so I’m thinking she probably wanted to be sing… | /r/AllPillDebate | 26/06/23 10:49 PM |
| 3 | Why did you became blackpilled(or any another pill here)?Because I spend my late teenage years to about 20 or 21 trying to self improve as much as possible, hitting the gym everyday, dieting to a dangerous degree, following all the advice people gave me (be yourself, be funny, be confident, be nice, be exciting, etc) despite all that I had no prom date, lost my virginity to some gross rave slut a few months after highschool, didn’t have an actual gf till 19, none of my early partners were remotely attractive etc. despite the fact that I had more going… | /r/AllPillDebate | 26/06/23 02:09 AM |
| 4 | Caring about women is pointless in 2023Just not possible with my lifestyle. I work in a remote work camp with all men. I don’t have any or many hobbies where a platonic female friend would make sense. I’m hoping by the time the women I’m dating have gotten through their hoe phases I’ll be able to find someone trustworthy. If not I know a nice fundamental Christian Cambodian architect chick I’m going to go after. | /r/AllPillDebate | 26/06/23 12:08 AM |
| 3 | Caring about women is pointless in 2023Have a great relationship with my mother and not really no. There’s women I get along with well that are not on my sexual radar but wouldn’t call them friends. (Edit have one female friend but it started off as dating and she’s given me head in the past) | /r/AllPillDebate | 25/06/23 11:18 PM |
| 8 | Caring about women is pointless in 2023Yeah I’ve realized that all the women that “care” about me only do so because of physical attraction and that if that went out the window they would find the next best bet. If I wasn’t perceived as out of their league they wouldn’t want me. For me to have a similar level of relationship with a more attractive girl it’s just a game of getting to the point where I’m more attractive than her. All of these relationships seem pointless to peruse. Made the mistake of dating a girl for 4 months and mov… | /r/AllPillDebate | 25/06/23 10:59 PM |
| 3 | Blackpill Thread: People hating on a white male asian female couple because the male is unattractive.How is she even a 4.5 or a 5? That’s more like a 3 or 3.5. I feel like a 4.5 or a 5 will have a decent body and a meh face or a meh body and a cute face or pretty down the middle with both. This chick is overweight and not facially attractive. | /r/AllPillDebate | 24/06/23 12:04 AM |
| 3 | How many men here would date a woman who has a criminal record?Any woman who’s not hideous or severely overweight has many options to choose from. If a psycho is who you think is the best you can get then you’re not looking at the persons personality traits at all. | /r/AllPillDebate | 23/06/23 02:44 AM |
| 3 | How many men here would date a woman who has a criminal record?Nobody thinks that | /r/AllPillDebate | 23/06/23 12:31 AM |
| 11 | Why are so many women so casually accepting of the fact they’re attracted to toxic men?See that’s not an argument at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/23 05:04 AM |
| 8 | Why are so many women so casually accepting of the fact they’re attracted to toxic men?How can you generalize like that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/23 05:01 AM |
| 5 | The Y-Pill: the Average Chump's defense against Dead Bedroom syndromeDoesn’t matter how good your fuck game is if she decides she isn’t interested anymore | /r/AllPillDebate | 10/06/23 01:48 AM |
| 1 | I'm convinced, male beauty standards are too high. How does this gorgeous man think he's ugly?Eye area isn’t masculine either | /r/AllPillDebate | 03/06/23 03:37 AM |
| 12 | Why do the least attractive people take the most issue with men complaining about dating? Pssst: we aren’t talking about you!I’d say this isn’t exclusive to ugly people but a lot of ugly people will try to parrot attractive people (even to their own detriment) to garner social brownie points (usually unsuccessfully). | /r/AllPillDebate | 01/06/23 10:36 PM |
| 5 | only women can determine if men are tall or short, average does NOT countNot like that. That’s a big gap. An inch or two sure but 5 inches is very noticeable. | /r/AllPillDebate | 31/05/23 07:57 PM |
| 2 | I thought international daters were human traffickers? 🤔It’s funny because those European guys don’t want them or if they do it’s for the same reason Eastern European women go for Americans, the green card. | /r/AllPillDebate | 29/05/23 11:05 PM |
| 1 | Height radar is a thing for femalesI think it depends. For a 5 6” guy with a 6-7/10 face it would be harder at the club compared to tinder where face photos matter so much. For me the clubs should be a little easier than tinder since my height is so much more noticeable in person being 8 inches taller than the average dude. With about a 5/10 face I’m still getting mogged by 7/10 5 9” chadlites but not by much. I’ve had attractive drunk women approach me at clubs before. | /r/AllPillDebate | 29/05/23 12:53 PM |
| 1 | Height radar is a thing for femalesI totally believe that, it’s super gross. Stuff like that makes me think I should give up seriously dating chicks from tinder and hit the clubs instead. | /r/AllPillDebate | 29/05/23 12:08 AM |
| 1 | Height radar is a thing for femalesYup can relate. Feels like a win when a dude is with his girl and his girl gives you the fuck me eyes. | /r/AllPillDebate | 28/05/23 11:41 PM |
| 2 | Is it unfair of me to be height pilled if the guy is my male height equivalent?Yeah some “blackpill” people seem to be bluepilled in the sense that they still think they can convince women to ignore their instincts in terms of attraction because it’s not “logical”. They are just upset and are failing at being manipulative. I’m 6 5” so I see all the height advantages when it comes to women. It’s a real thing. I also have no chin / mandible and need support below my eyes so I find this stuff interesting. Nobody tries to convince women that they should be attracted to men wit… | /r/AllPillDebate | 28/05/23 11:27 PM |
| 2 | Is it unfair of me to be height pilled if the guy is my male height equivalent?You’re fair in feeling this way. If you’re above average it’s fair that you would prefer to be with an above average guy. All the guys spazzing in here are just coping. | /r/AllPillDebate | 28/05/23 10:59 PM |
| 2 | Gen Z men have to know we likely won't have as fulfilling of a youth and life as our fathers and grandfathersDisagree. As a dude your smv is going to top out somewhere between 25-30, definitely not 20. Your maxilla and whatnot doesn’t stop developing until mid 20s. I think it may only be to late after 20 if you haven’t developed any social skill / are still a virgin. Without even having any jaw surgery or anything my options have expanded greatly over the last few years. I’ve gone from hooking up with 3s to hooking up with 6s simply by maturing / growing a career. | /r/AllPillDebate | 27/05/23 10:42 PM |
| 5 | Gen Z men have to know we likely won't have as fulfilling of a youth and life as our fathers and grandfathersOnly way out of this hole is to looksmax and statusmax to oblivion. | /r/AllPillDebate | 27/05/23 02:52 AM |
| 1 | Dating a short man requires a level of maturity, wisdom and security that most women don't haveWell not everyone lives in places with “cholos”. And again as I said, women are wired to want tall dudes, fit and attractive ones in particular. doesn’t matter what you tell them or how many weapons or whatever you have. | /r/AllPillDebate | 15/05/23 02:24 AM |
| 1 | Dating a short man requires a level of maturity, wisdom and security that most women don't haveNeed and benefit from / want are different things entirely. Women definitely want dudes in part for protection in public. I literally have been told that by every GF I’ve had. | /r/AllPillDebate | 15/05/23 12:21 AM |
| 1 | Dating a short man requires a level of maturity, wisdom and security that most women don't haveThat’s where them choosing the right partner matters. They are going to choose the big guy if everything else (or most other things) are equal any ways so I don’t see what you’re getting at. And nowhere in your stats does it specify big guys, anecdotally it’s only been short men that I know that physically abuse women. | /r/AllPillDebate | 14/05/23 11:35 PM |
| 1 | Dating a short man requires a level of maturity, wisdom and security that most women don't haveDepends on who you are partners with and where you live. Acting like women don’t benefit from having strong men to protect them is silly. | /r/AllPillDebate | 14/05/23 10:59 PM |
| 1 | Do you notice a difference in attractiveness between the guys and girls in zoomer couples?Accurate | /r/AllPillDebate | 12/05/23 05:03 AM |
| 1 | Dating a short man requires a level of maturity, wisdom and security that most women don't haveThe protection thing is real. Just being tall and athletic is enough to not get messed with in public. | /r/AllPillDebate | 10/05/23 11:49 PM |
| 1 | Dating a short man requires a level of maturity, wisdom and security that most women don't haveThe protection thing is real. Just being tall and athletic is enough to not get messed with in public. | /r/AllPillDebate | 10/05/23 11:45 PM |
| 2 | The following is from a 35 year old virgin.Take your own advice then | /r/AllPillDebate | 09/05/23 07:18 AM |
| 2 | why do women post stories and memes of black men nowNordic chad is at the top of the throne but light skin Tyrone isn’t far behind, has more appeal from certain demographics | /r/AllPillDebate | 05/05/23 08:45 PM |
| 2 | How the Bluepill hurts people/ How the Blackpill helps peopleI’d say red pill puts less focus on improvements related to surgery and more so on “go Jim bro” “confidence bro” | /r/AllPillDebate | 05/05/23 05:50 AM |
| 1 | At a certain age, it is completely pointless to chase women, even if you have a chad transformationStill relationships split so if you can glow up to a similar level as og chad you have a shot if you are doing better financially, etc. | /r/AllPillDebate | 04/05/23 05:44 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts on limb lengthening surgery ?Ok but if this became a prevalent thing I could just become 6 11”. The naturally tall dudes are always going to be taller. As I said before everyone who gets it looks weird. That dudes calves look super unnatural. | /r/AllPillDebate | 02/05/23 11:20 PM |
| 1 | Truth Hierarchy of The PillsBut the same thing applies Vice versa | /r/AllPillDebate | 02/05/23 11:54 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts on limb lengthening surgery ?Lol can never catch up to me in the same way I couldn’t ever catch up to someone with a great facial harmony regardless of surgery. Putting stilts in your legs isn’t fooling anyone for long. One of the best parts of being tall aesthetically is also being wide. I’m yet to see someone with limb lengthening who looks normal. If you want to be a cripple have at it tho | /r/AllPillDebate | 02/05/23 11:48 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts on limb lengthening surgery ?Bro you would look like a lanklet if you got LL (not that it could even make you tall at 5 8”) Lanklets look stupid because they look awkwardly long but also weak / frail at the same time. That’s exactly what you would look like after putting longer legs on a short dude body. If you’re a tall guy with normal proportions “lanklet” is just a funny word as all of your dimensions scale up. | /r/AllPillDebate | 01/05/23 01:47 PM |
| 1 | Yellow fever weirdosYou’re the one coping little guy. Average black guys are getting almost no white women and the ones they get are fat blue haired freaks. | /r/AllPillDebate | 01/05/23 01:36 PM |
| 0 | Yellow fever weirdosYeah ugly white women lol. White women go for the best overall partner in their eyes. If it’s a well to do Tyrone they are going pick it over a normie white guy working at McDonalds. If it’s a equally charismatic and intelligent and wealthy Tyrone vs a chad the chad wins 10/10. White Women typically don’t want their kids being brown. | /r/AllPillDebate | 01/05/23 01:29 PM |
| 0 | Yellow fever weirdosLol In the west Asian women like white dudes because many are tall and look like guys from Hollywood movies. It’s truly a physical thing. Some of them are ashamed of being asian / don’t want short kids. The ones that go to Asia and pick up women tend to fall more into the money / passport camp. Even then the local women are more attracted to tall white dudes compared to 5 7” Cambodian locals (for example). And with white women going for black and brown guys isn’t a preference, it’s simply a pref… | /r/AllPillDebate | 01/05/23 01:09 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on limb lengthening surgery ?Cope dude. That’s not how it works. Your dick size is the only thing that doesn’t really correlate to height and even then it does. Even roided up 5 8” dudes are dimensionally smaller than me. | /r/AllPillDebate | 01/05/23 12:56 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on limb lengthening surgery ?Lol but these guys would have a lot more short than just their arms. As I said if you want to look like a tall f*gg$t then throw in some shoe lifts or do the lengthening but it’s not going to look good at all. Women like tall guys not only for the height difference but for the bigger overall scale. | /r/AllPillDebate | 01/05/23 12:55 PM |
| 2 | Yellow fever weirdosThe autism is strong over here | /r/AllPillDebate | 01/05/23 12:52 PM |
| 4 | Thoughts on limb lengthening surgery ?The cope is thinking leg lengthening will do anything to make you more attractive. Will make you taller but will make your body less attractive and harmonious. There’s a big difference between being a tall guy with a big torso and wide shoulders and being a tall guy with narrow shoulders and a small head and awkward long and skinny legs. | /r/AllPillDebate | 01/05/23 06:02 AM |
| 7 | Thoughts on limb lengthening surgery ?Doesn’t make the rest of you bigger. Unless you already had missive proportions everywhere but your legs it’s not going to make you look any better. | /r/AllPillDebate | 01/05/23 01:26 AM |
| 3 | Yellow fever weirdos‘98 gang shit | /r/AllPillDebate | 01/05/23 12:19 AM |
| 7 | Yellow fever weirdosThat’s totally false lmao | /r/AllPillDebate | 30/04/23 11:56 PM |
| 8 | Yellow fever weirdosMust feel shitty getting mogged by the lowest of the low white dudes | /r/AllPillDebate | 30/04/23 11:56 PM |
| 2 | Men are 57% of all rape victims and women are most of their rapists, per CDC data. Feminist propaganda about rape is false.Doubtful. Anecdotally this just doesn’t line up with reality. Prison rape included maybe but outside prison not a fucking chance. | /r/AllPillDebate | 30/04/23 12:19 AM |
| 3 | Just take the showering improvement personality pill alreadyTake the no insecurity pill bro, just act like there’s nothing wrong all the time and that everyone likes being around you. | /r/AllPillDebate | 29/04/23 01:02 AM |
| 1 | Truth Hierarchy of The PillsSo you’re autistic? Height doesn’t instantly mean people are attracted to you lol. | /r/AllPillDebate | 28/04/23 11:19 PM |
| 3 | Truth Hierarchy of The PillsEverything you are saying resonates with me. I tend to believe that my sacrifices at this stage of my life will come to pay off and that it’s crucial that I find satisfaction in whatever life I come to live. All the procedures I’m looking at have a low likelihood of making me look worse. At worse they will not make me look better or worse. From a engineering / architecture mindset its plainly obvious to me where my faces problem areas lie. I know what is missing. Other aspects of my body I don’t… | /r/AllPillDebate | 28/04/23 02:18 AM |
| 2 | Truth Hierarchy of The PillsI think your first reason is pretty specific to you or other people. My job makes regular manual labour jobs seem like pussy shit and my history with addiction have given me quite a tough past. I have no concern about projecting weakness or doing myself a disservice in terms of personal growth. For me it’s simply a pragmatic realization that I have several medical / genetic issues which put me in a much tougher position for no good reason. I’ve tried all the red pill / blue pill advice over the … | /r/AllPillDebate | 28/04/23 01:36 AM |
| 4 | Truth Hierarchy of The PillsI’d say the surgeries in the black pill stage can be warranted. I’m 6 5” and got some decent features so if I simply fix my jaw, infraorbital region and get my eyelids done I’d be in a much better position. I’m on the cusp where I can get laid fairly frequently with average to below average girls and can get in the odd solid relationship. I’m confident that these surgeries would at least solidify my position in the dating world even if it doesn’t give me access to more attractive women. | /r/AllPillDebate | 28/04/23 12:51 AM |
| 3 | Whitepill is the keyFinds one girl to take him and he’s feeling like chad | /r/AllPillDebate | 27/04/23 11:46 PM |
| 2 | Is a ‘Giga’ Chad just a really tall Chad?Yup | /r/AllPillDebate | 19/04/23 01:54 AM |
| 1 | What **exactly** is a blackpillFalse. | /r/AllPillDebate | 19/04/23 01:24 AM |
| 1 | What **exactly** is a blackpillEven in construction being good looking would help. | /r/AllPillDebate | 19/04/23 01:23 AM |
| 8 | Is a ‘Giga’ Chad just a really tall Chad?Not necessarily. Giga chad is the upper echelon of chad. To be a giga chad you would have to be over 6 foot simply because you need to be well above average in every regard. | /r/AllPillDebate | 19/04/23 01:19 AM |
| 2 | CMV Most men cant rate attractiveness of other Men properly, and that leads to delusion.I agree with most of this except for the part about being too big. As someone else mentioned the vast majority of guys aren’t gonna get too big due to genetics. The only time where too big is bad is when: A) it’s mostly body fat B) you have terrible proportions and have made yourself more disproportionate C) you are doing roids and look like you have a bunch of veiny dicks for arms | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 11:21 PM |
| 2 | Theory: Men are genetically predisposed to give money and affection to women.Subconsciously holding out for a better partner worthy of it. | /r/AllPillDebate | 18/04/23 04:48 AM |
| 0 | If white men believe they have the upper hand in dating, why would they marry a non-white woman?It’s untrue because some people who are equally attractive can be attracted to each-other and satisfied. Not everyone is morally deprived. | /r/AllPillDebate | 17/04/23 02:08 AM |
| 1 | r/inceltear blackpillsI’m telling you, don’t even need to make a proposition like that. Just invite a stoner girl over to smoke a bowl with you. You will know the type based on their bios. Watch a movie together at home. Try to break the ice fast and get her laughing. If a girl is down to smoke and watch a movie with you at your place on the first date then you’re pretty much in. Just get on a couch together and like 5 minutes in or somethin casually put your hand on her thigh and see how she responds. You can pretty… | /r/AllPillDebate | 16/04/23 04:44 AM |
| 2 | r/inceltear blackpillsI’m kinda in between myself too and it seems to work well enough as long as I stay fit. Get super lean but with a bit of mass still and that will do you a lot better than ogremaxxjng will. Being tall and in shape is a blessing. Even if you can’t compete with the top tier facial / hair genetics or the best physique’s, as long as you’re tall and pretty fit you look good to women. You got this. If you don’t already, start smoking weed or something. Much easier to get pussy with stoner chicks. | /r/AllPillDebate | 16/04/23 04:04 AM |
| 3 | r/inceltear blackpillsStats don’t really lie. Look at the statistics for dating apps and the relative success Asian men have. This totally disproves the idea that being Asian is somehow in rn. Sure if you’re a really handsome tall Japanese / Korean / Chinese dude that looks like a K pop dude or some actor you will do well. For the majority of Asian dudes this is not the case. Even Asian women often times avoid dating Asian men. There are the odd white girl who will have a Asian fetish (often rooted in Kpop or anime) … | /r/AllPillDebate | 16/04/23 03:49 AM |
| 1 | r/inceltear blackpillsIt’s not black and white. It’s a combination of things. If you’re an Asian dude who’s attractive and funny etc, there’s gonna be women who aren’t interested due to being Asian but there will be some equally attractive women who don’t mind. Same with most of those other attributes you mention. My Gf for instance is maybe a 5-6 and she’s very attracted to me even though my lower jaw is recessed and I have ptosis. Another girl who is 4 might find me completely unattractive even if I see myself as a… | /r/AllPillDebate | 16/04/23 03:24 AM |
| 1 | r/inceltear blackpillsYeah I’m barely tall enough where it gets me some attention. In public I’ll catch people staring at me fairly often. In terms of perception there’s a notable difference between how people perceive normal tall guys 6 1”- 6 3” and very tall guys 6 4”+. The blackpill has effected me heavily but I have enough to work with where red pill advice has helped me grow. Baseball cap maxx and try to get yourself as close to being a pretty boy as possible (surgery, cloths, demeanour, etc.) and you will get s… | /r/AllPillDebate | 16/04/23 03:17 AM |
| 3 | r/inceltear blackpillsI think that is exactly what the black pill is about. The black pill explains why actual incels exist (they are so unattractive that even unattractive females can do better or would rather be single) it explains why ugly- average guys end up getting cucked by fat / undesirable women. And it explains why chads get all the pickings. That’s all the black pill is. The point is that below a certain level of attraction people are simply getting in relationships because it’s their only option, not beca… | /r/AllPillDebate | 16/04/23 03:01 AM |
| 3 | r/inceltear blackpillsWho cares if they had dates? I’m like a 4/10 in the face and even at my lowest point I could get dates. That didn’t mean I didn’t feel outcasted and generally unwanted for a long time. Clearly these people are undesirable and the people they were dating were similarly unattractive. I think the whole incel thing is silly when many non incel people have terrible sex / dating lives and might as well be an incel due to lack of attraction for their partner. Talking generally, 20 percent of guys get m… | /r/AllPillDebate | 16/04/23 02:44 AM |
| 3 | How does women being pickier in choosing partners benefit men?It’s not about pussy for most, it’s about companionship and feeling wanted. | /r/AllPillDebate | 16/04/23 02:06 AM |
| 1 | Do women realize their chad in shining armor will never arrive after their 20s?I still have issue with the term Caucasian used in the other article. It’s much too broad. Many Europeans, especially at the fringes of the continent have limited genetic similarities to other whites / Caucasians. | /r/AllPillDebate | 16/04/23 01:50 AM |
| 1 | Do women realize their chad in shining armor will never arrive after their 20s?Perhaps, but I’m simply referring to aging. I’m poking holes in this study because the sample groups they use are meaningless. Are Finnish people even Caucasian having a Uralic origin? My point is that you’re painting with a broad brush and it’s simply not accurate to every European ethnic group. | /r/AllPillDebate | 16/04/23 01:42 AM |
| 1 | Do women realize their chad in shining armor will never arrive after their 20s?Then why do Finnish people who have one of the lightest skin tones age so well? | /r/AllPillDebate | 16/04/23 12:37 AM |
| 2 | Do women realize their chad in shining armor will never arrive after their 20s?Ever seen older Finnish people? The study design is poor and is based on highly subjective definitions of aging. Also uses archaic and meaningless terminology such as Caucasian. Doesn’t take into account geographic location or behavioural differences between the groups. Perhaps a Nigerian man living in LA will age better than a Swedish man living in LA but a Finnish person living in Finland will age better than a Nigerian person living in Nigeria. | /r/AllPillDebate | 16/04/23 12:02 AM |
| 3 | Who Slays ?I’m going with the 6 3” dude forsure. If it was normal height and high tier normie instead I would choose that. If youre average height and face it’s probably gonna be a hard go at it. With my height and a 4/10 face I’m in a pretty decent position. Can hook up with a 6/10 with a little effort and can get in a relationship with a average girl in the 4.5-5.5 range | /r/AllPillDebate | 15/04/23 11:44 PM |
| 1 | Who Slays ?This. I’m fetishized by some women out of my league but fairly often I run into women who are far from interested in me even though I’m overall out of their league. Funny how preferences work | /r/AllPillDebate | 15/04/23 11:36 PM |
| 0 | Do women realize their chad in shining armor will never arrive after their 20s?That’s such bullshit. Asian women instantly become grandmas after 45. You rarely see attractive black women in the Middle Ages either. Some Hispanic women age well but most of those are Hispanic women who have a mostly white admixture. Ethnics coping with the whole aging better thing. | /r/AllPillDebate | 15/04/23 11:26 PM |
| -1 | The chadfish account is easy mode fr. Women do approach. Snap out of the bluepill Disney programmingLooks like you matched with a bunch of average women. I’m like a 5/10 but tall and I can pull better than this. I got messaged first quite often also. Seems like your chad bio was missing rizz. | /r/AllPillDebate | 30/03/23 11:57 PM |
| 1 | How do Blackpillers explain the phenom of the normie that through great social skills + charisma gets laid kinda often?I only know one example of a charisma bro who is ugly and short but can pull women. I think it’s all due to social networking and putting himself out there and creating / going to social gatherings which he uses to coax chicks into hanging out with him. He constantly goes on about the women he’s snapping or even sometimes hooks up with but it almost always results in him eventually admitting that they’re “just friends” or how she’s not emotionally available. I think it’s all a social / media clo… | /r/AllPillDebate | 30/03/23 07:58 PM |
| 2 | Is dumpster diving, or keep lowering your standards to you get a bite a good strategy to get casual sex for an average or slightly below average guy?Marriage would never happen for me in North America. Move in yes but I’m gonna be careful about becoming common law to maintain my independence if we split up. | /r/AllPillDebate | 29/03/23 02:47 PM |
| 3 | Is dumpster diving, or keep lowering your standards to you get a bite a good strategy to get casual sex for an average or slightly below average guy?Just start hail marrying ugly girls on tinder and forget your ego at the door. Get good at hooking up with ugly girls and pulling average girls will become attainable. | /r/AllPillDebate | 29/03/23 12:26 AM |
| 3 | Is dumpster diving, or keep lowering your standards to you get a bite a good strategy to get casual sex for an average or slightly below average guy?This is just it. Lost my virginity when I was 17 to a pansexual chubby rave chick who probably had a body count of 50 or more. Next couple years of swiping lead to a few more low value hookups, all slightly better than my first. At 21-22 or so things began picking up for me and I found I was starting to hook up with women more frequently and some of them were becoming closer to someone I’d be happy dating. At 23 I had my first really proper long relationship with a ‘normal’ girl in terms of attr… | /r/AllPillDebate | 29/03/23 12:24 AM |
| 1 | why is your average black woman and Indian man so unattractive?Indian men = negative nerdy stereotypes. More likely to be short than white men. A lot of the Indian immigrants tend to be the nerdy / geeks and not the chadpreet types. Black women= negative hood / aggression related stereotypes. Tend to have a lot of overweight and a lot who carry themselves in a less attractive / classy manner. The farthest thing from white beauty standards. A lot of the women representing black beauty are half white or mixed. | /r/AllPillDebate | 29/03/23 12:14 AM |
| 1 | if you have an average face being Tall doesn't increase your Looks, it increases StatusNo but id say the same thing applies to men who are sub 5 5” or 5 6” regardless of how attractive in the face. Ultimately there’s a point of no return with each. At least with my height and frame I’m not worried about some chad coming by and trying to emasculate me in front of my girl. If I was a short “chad” with a Becky GF I’d be constantly worried about needing to stand up for myself out in public. It’s nice being big enough that the steroid monkeys at my gym don’t even think about starting s… | /r/AllPillDebate | 26/03/23 05:03 PM |
| 1 | if you have an average face being Tall doesn't increase your Looks, it increases StatusNah this is false. I’m 6 5” and have an average face and I can say for certain that my height has helped my looks. Status can’t be conveyed in many situations looks can. | /r/AllPillDebate | 25/03/23 11:08 PM |
| 1 | "just date women your own age" is harder than you thinkI’m 24 and I find that women my age aren’t interested in me usually. Probably also for not looking super old. All the interest comes from 18-22 year olds. My GF is 22 and it seems to be a good age gap. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/23 03:42 PM |
| 0 | LVW Vs LVM LifeI wish dog. My body could be chad level if I got tats and got on TRT. Face pre determines that’s I’ll never be above a chad lite even if I got a bunch of surgery done.. | /r/AllPillDebate | 17/03/23 07:01 PM |
| -1 | LVW Vs LVM LifeFacts. I’m pretty average. Maybe a 6/10 because of my athletic build and being 6 5”. Mostly nice features (grey eyes, thick dark brown hair, high cheekbones) but terribly droopy eyelids and hollows under my eyes with a short chin and mandible. Growing up my dating life more resembled an incels until I eventually accepted my situation and started hooking up with really low tier women. Only after improving myself and growing up a bit (24 now) have I gotten to the point where I can get the chad tre… | /r/AllPillDebate | 13/03/23 10:06 PM |
| 4 | 2 weeks from now will be my birthday. I will be turning 25. I'm going to go to an escort and just get it over with.98 was a tough year | /r/AllPillDebate | 04/03/23 04:28 AM |
| 4 | What are all these short kings doing that the rest of us are not?As a dude with a slightly messed up face this always hurts to see. Being 6 4” or 6 5” seems to somewhat compensate for this. | /r/AllPillDebate | 26/02/23 03:57 PM |
| 2 | Riddle Me This, APD“Just fuck a diseased riddled drug addict for money bro” if you’re paying it doesn’t count | /r/AllPillDebate | 18/02/23 04:02 PM |
| 2 | once again going to reiterate surgerymaxxing is literally the only thing that can make a noticeable difference in your dating life.I feel so blessed to have found the black pill at about 21 or 22. I’m now 24 and hopefully by 25 will have completed a lower jaw surgery, infraorbital plants and a upper blapheroplasty to fix my ptosis, recessed jaw and chin / sleep apnea and to support my under eye area and neutralize my canthial tilt. As a relatively intelligent dude who’s 6 4”/5” and Northern European descent, high cheekbones, good hair, eye colour etc, I’ve been able to get some success over the last couple years due to impr… | /r/AllPillDebate | 18/02/23 01:30 AM |
| 5 | Riddle Me This, APDThere are 100% men out there who are pulling nothing and shooting at everything. 25 year old male virgins aren’t that uncommon whereas 25 year old female virgins are almost unheard of outside of heavily religious circles. | /r/AllPillDebate | 18/02/23 01:21 AM |
| 1 | “Go to Asia” is imprecise advice at bestI’m sure you can do well without it but you get treated like a unicorn if you’re tall. In person it just wows them, instant panties off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/23 03:16 AM |
| 2 | “Go to Asia” is imprecise advice at bestAnd being tall. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/23 11:34 PM |
| 1 | PPD blind spot on "asia"This is so true. When I went on Tinder while travelling in Cambodia and other countries there definitely were village girls I was matching with but the girls that were the best matches for me were the wealthy and well educated ones. Even the poor ones weren’t desperately poor, just in a typical situation for someone living there. One girl in Cambodia was from a wealthy family (driving range rovers) she was pretty, in architecture school (we were both 20 at the time) and spoke impeccable English … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/23 03:39 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: You wake up a man, how long would it take you to have casual sex and how do you go about itIf you are even average looking as a woman you could just hang out at a bar and have multiple options of men to sleep with immediately. On tinder if you put yourself down as casual and swipe right a bunch you would have dozens of options at your disposal, all coming to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/23 08:08 PM |
| 3 | Q4W: You wake up a man, how long would it take you to have casual sex and how do you go about itYou’re possibly forgetting that this is Reddit and many of the women you are talking to are 200+ pounds. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/23 12:48 AM |
| 2 | Height requirements is shallow, preferences are notYeah once your brain creates a pattern there’s a tendency to defend it even if it doesn’t stand up to questioning. I’m sure there’s the odd tall guy that has a fetish for sleeping with the smallest women possible but for the average tall dude it’s just a headache. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/23 02:03 AM |
| 2 | Height requirements is shallow, preferences are notI’ve never once met a tall dude that preferred that. Would be Interesting to see data on that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 02:19 PM |
| 2 | Height requirements is shallow, preferences are notI think some of what you’re saying makes sense but I think one thing you’re missing is the fact that there’s simply less likelihood you will see a tall guy with a tall lady because it’s statistically more likely he will run into an average height woman who is interested. You’re seeing all these 6-6 3” guys with short women because most women fall into that 5 3” to 5 5” range. There are still many more 5 2” women compared to 5 9” women. The average guy cannot afford to be picky enough to select e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 06:24 AM |
| 1 | Height requirements is shallow, preferences are notA lot as in a small minority then yes. Vast majority of tall guys are going to prefer a woman who’s physically compatible. Even more so when the ideal height for a woman in pop culture is around 5 9”. I’ve seen tall dudes date short women but generally it’s because that was their best option overall, not because they have a fetish for small people. Being 6 5” and dating women a foot shorter than me is a massive hassle. A 5 or 6 inch difference is much better than 1 foot plus. The sweet spot is a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 01:32 AM |
| 5 | Height requirements is shallow, preferences are notI don’t see why though. If there are enough men 5 inches taller than her then why not. That 5 inches is what gives her the feeling small and protected effect that being 5 4 and having a 5 9 boyfriend would. The only person she’s hurting by being selective on that is herself by limiting her options. At 5 9 it’s really not that hard to find a man who’s 6 2” if you’re on a dating app with thousands of men. At 6 2” a woman might need to start considering going lower since men who are 6 7” are so rar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 07:43 AM |
| 1 | It does not imo make any biological/logical sense to claim "men age better than women", since women have evolved-very possibly through male sexual selection- to be highly neotenous. Considering physical ageing to be "attractive" in men is not equal to men ageing "better".I don’t know why this is even controversial. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/23 12:33 AM |
| 2 | Do people think most couples aren’t similar in attractiveness?I think the rating scale is universal even if subconscious. But you raise a good point that men all get filtered into those approximate categories. Seems like the only good relationships I have are in category 3 even though most of the more attractive women I’m able to get with would put me in number 2. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/23 07:53 PM |
| 4 | Do people think most couples aren’t similar in attractiveness?I’m from Metro Vancouver / Vancouver Island in Canada and am 24. I think in 80 percent of the cases the guy is between half a “point” uglier and being one and a half points more attractive. Definitely more common to see a guy who’s a 7.5 with a girl who’s a 6 compared to seeing a girl who’s a 7.5 with a guy who’s a 6. There are occasions where the guy is slightly less attractive due to a variety of other attractive features besides looks carrying the guy. And then of course there’s situations wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/23 06:34 AM |
| 1 | RP men what is your age and what is the age range of women you’d be willing to *seriously* date?If they give their best years to you they deserve that loyalty imo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/23 07:48 PM |
| 0 | RP men what is your age and what is the age range of women you’d be willing to *seriously* date?Just turned 24. I’d seriously date a 19 year old if they had the right combination of traits and seemed worth the investment. Wouldn’t date anymore more than a year older than me. So women turning 26 this year are the max I’m interested in. I find girls a couples years younger than me seem to be the sweet spot of maturity and not being washed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/23 07:45 PM |
| 2 | Women ghost after sex just as often as menYeah this happened to me with 2 girls recently. Both of them quite a bit younger and a bit outta my range so I guess they got their fun and then decided to keep looking. I’m not bad in bed either, have the right equipment and have had partners before and after compliment my performance. Some girls I can make orgasm multiple times in a single round. It sucks but there’s a variety of reasons they could be doing this and I’m not trying to create a cope. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/23 08:33 PM |
| 4 | Men who worry about the look of their offsprings/genetics, would you care if your found out your SO had some plastic surgery done to her face?So if someone got jaw surgery to fix their sleep apnea that’s a no? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/23 10:14 PM |
| 0 | I think there is unfair criticism towards unsuccessful daters.Fair enough you’re just making observations about nature. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/23 08:25 AM |
| 5 | I think there is unfair criticism towards unsuccessful daters.So you’re supporting eugenics? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/23 07:57 AM |
| 1 | "Just work on yourself, bro" is a polite way of gaslighting menYou’re right about that forsure. I think one of the issues rn in society though is that those men in their late teens and early twenties don’t get a shot at things until later on in life and the more conventionally attractive guys get the cream of the crop from the beginning. This is why men get bitter. My options now at 24 are significantly better than my options at 18 because I was and still am kinda ugly (albeit 6 5”). It’s just all a bit saddening knowing that I can easily maintain a relatio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/23 11:25 PM |
| 2 | "Just work on yourself, bro" is a polite way of gaslighting menYessir, I think you’re right about trying to accomplish it holistically. I’m open to improvement in all areas of my life. Quitting caffeine and porn recently has really helped me cut out the crap in my diet and improve my overall well-being. I’ve added glucosamine sulphate, collagen , greens and probiotics to my supplement stack also and I’ve noticed that my youthful happiness and energy has bounced back hard. A shroom trip or two has also been nice for killing my ego and looking at my life from… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/23 11:18 PM |
| 0 | "Just work on yourself, bro" is a polite way of gaslighting menI’m in my 20s and most attractive people are in relationships. There’s lots of guys my age out there that are single not by design. It’s not that they just want to fuck around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/23 10:49 PM |
| 1 | "Just work on yourself, bro" is a polite way of gaslighting menI’m not going to do Botox or lipo or anything. The jaw surgery is getting mostly covered by insurance because I have sleep apnea. It will make my breathing and posture better long term. The eye lift is because I have ptosis so my eyelids droop into my peripheral vision. It will help my eyesight. The only purely aesthetic one is the implant which is to address the fact that I seem to have bimaxillary hypoplasia like symptoms. I get that my body isn’t something I should just modify like it’s a vid… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/23 10:44 PM |
| -1 | "Just work on yourself, bro" is a polite way of gaslighting menYour own stats show that over 50 percent of men in the 20-30 range are single Lmao. Thanks for proving his point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/23 07:22 PM |
| 1 | "Just work on yourself, bro" is a polite way of gaslighting menI’ll let you know how the lower jaw surgery with genioplasti, eye lift and infraorbital implants go. Im 24 fit and tall and it seems that the only girls who don’t have “Compatible personalities” just so happen to be slightly below me in overall smv meanwhile women who are a bit over my smv will only give me a pity fuck one off at best then throw me to the back of their roster while hunting down chad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/23 07:18 PM |
| 1 | Where are all the good men? South East Asia...Women rarely get rejected unless they’re trying to lock down someone way out if their league. Even attractive single guys will jump on the opportunity to be with someone equally as attractive as them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/23 06:55 AM |
| 1 | Where are all the good men? South East Asia...What do you define as sex tourism? The only sex tourists you will see down there are the old fat guys. Everyone else clearly has other motives beyond sex.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/23 06:54 AM |
| 2 | We know women love hot guys. But the average guy doesn't focus on looks-maxxing. Why?1: Most guys don’t know about looks maxxing and if they do it’s only red pill stuff (have a shower, go to the gym, wear nice cloths). They have no idea about jaw surgery, eye lifts, rhinoplasty, etc 2: Most guys are genetically fucked and are already out of the race before they began. If you have a combination of weak facial structure, are short, have weird proportions, etc you probably will have no to little options even if you do everything right. I’m like 6 5”, pretty fit with broad shoulders… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/23 02:00 AM |
| 7 | Most men on OLD are of a similar attractiveness to the women.I would say that generally men are lucky to find a woman who is his “looks match” and generally women will pull a guy slightly higher in attractiveness due to hypergamy. When I have Hooked up with women who are at the upper end of my range (6.5-7) their interest comes and goes and is pretty fleeting outside of the initial hookup. Basically one night stands only if they’re hot. If I want to have a solid relationship I need to “settle” for like a 5.5 since at that attractiveness I’m pretty competi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/23 06:58 AM |
| 1 | If you start doing looksmax prepare to be ridiculed (by other men)When I tell other guys about my dieting it ranges from them them being too old and not getting it since they’re so worn down, to the young who mostly understanding it but tell me I don’t need it. Never really been criticized. Although if I was in highschool I could see it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/23 02:25 AM |
| 6 | What are the signs that a man doesn’t “get” women?I think it’s in these girls thoughts but it has to be the right guy. They just have no shame about using the guys they don’t want when it suits their fancy. What I had going for me is that I’m 6 5”, fairly social, didn’t pressure them into anything, have a decent job, my own place, let them take their sweet time to reply to me. What I had going against me was that my overbite looks fucked right now since I got teeth extracted in preparation for jaw surgery, I got ptosis so my eyes lids look pret… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/23 03:41 AM |
| 3 | What are the signs that a man doesn’t “get” women?Yeah I went on two dates with girls I was very attracted to, hooked up, sex was good (I certainly did my job) and they have no further interest in me. It’s pretty fucked but I’d be a liar if I said I hadn’t done the same thing to women I felt I was above. It’s cold out there unless you’re at the top of the totem or are willing to date women far below your own level of physique. Everyone wants to trade up. Especially youngins | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/23 03:25 AM |
| 1 | Old man dating young women: bluepill perception vs realityI go for 18 year olds because they are the ones that go for me (24). If it’s so creepy then I don’t know why they are so down for it while women my age don’t give me a chance | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/23 06:21 AM |
| 6 | Sisters, I want you to explain this graph to me..I just turned 24 and the only women who will touch me seem to between 18-22. Almost never my age or older. Which is fine cuz they washed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/23 03:17 AM |
| 5 | The group photo of the Men's PPD Meet Up! Thanks for coming everyone! Great fun was had and interesting opinions on women were shared.Fuck I’m dumb I misread your comment I thought you said if you look like one of these guys, didn’t see the dont. Yeah that’s pretty accurate then. I’d be surprised if I got even that if I didn’t have the height flex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/23 03:12 AM |
| 1 | So true lol.If I wasn’t 6 5” I’d be fucked | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/23 02:49 AM |
| 1 | The group photo of the Men's PPD Meet Up! Thanks for coming everyone! Great fun was had and interesting opinions on women were shared.There’s no way. I’m 6 5” but pretty recessed and got dem droopy eyes and I still get at least 5 - 10 likes a week. Usually adding 1-2 new girls on Snapchat or insta per week. And I don’t live in a big city just within 70km of one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/23 02:43 AM |
| 1 | It is much harder to be a conventionally attractive man.Mixed results sometimes but in almost all cases looks quite a bit better. I’m hoping that jaw surgery with possible ptosis surgery after will save my looks. I’m so close to being in a good place otherwise. 6 4” with wide shoulders brown hair and grey eyes. Premolars are extracted so I’ll know in 6 months. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/22 07:22 AM |
| 0 | cmv: Height double standards in tall men and short men.What success do you have? How old are you? Are you in good shape? Do you have many defects? I’m your height, 24, and have a bad overbite but otherwise am pretty decent looking and I can pull decently well now. Mostly average girls but some of them are fairly attractive. Slay might be the wrong word but successful compared to many. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/22 06:08 AM |
| 1 | Women who’ve dated tall men. Are you able to go back to shorter/average height men or have you?Ok shorty | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/22 08:52 AM |
| 1 | Women who’ve dated tall men. Are you able to go back to shorter/average height men or have you?I’m 6 5” so I haven’t come across one of these 1 in 800,000 women taller than me. If a woman was my height I wouldn’t consider her a good choice because 6 5” women aren’t known to have normal proportions… if she did I would want to try to scoop her up for D1 babies | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/22 08:51 AM |
| 1 | Men who don’t value friendships with women also don’t value relationships. They just want sex.My argument is I’m a busy person and women friends tend to require a bit more maintenance then male friends. For that reason and since my childhood friend group is mostly men those are the ones I have time for. If life had unlimited time female friends may be worth the effort. I find they take up the same amount of time a girlfriend would which makes having a real relationship harder. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/21 09:22 PM |
| 1 | Careerist women are the exception, not the rule, so why are guys here focusing so much on them?I understand that. I just believe with the opportunities men have at least in North America you would be wasting your time if you aren’t making at least what the average woman does. The average woman at least in my age group has either a waitress job or like a healthcare assistant type job. That probably averages to less than $20 an hour. If you haven’t picked up a trade or gotten your foot in the door with a construction company or mill then I just don’t know what to say. Unless you’re on the l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/21 01:12 AM |
| 2 | Careerist women are the exception, not the rule, so why are guys here focusing so much on them?Albertan oil money is only one small but currently successful example, men dominate plenty of industries which will always be relatively high paying. If your car breaks down who is getting paid 85 an hour to fix it? If a sawmill needs maintenance who’s gonna come repair the heavy duty equipment? Welding? Iron working? Ship building? Logging? Fishing? Have you seen Law firms ratios? Upper level software architecture and computer hardware engineering? Civil engineering? Pilots? Who are doing these… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/21 12:50 AM |
| 2 | Careerist women are the exception, not the rule, so why are guys here focusing so much on them?Canada. If a woman is making more than u you have basically failed as a man. The average career woman usually will become a lower level healthcare worker or a teacher or something to that effect. Most of these jobs pay 40-80k a year. Any guy working in natural resources or trades or stem should be hitting 80k easily by 30 or so. If you’re making less than them then you chose a bad career or didn’t even have a career to begin with and work minimum wage jobs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/21 02:24 PM |
| 2 | Careerist women are the exception, not the rule, so why are guys here focusing so much on them?They aren’t going anywhere, they’re dead end jobs I’m talking about. The only advantage in sticking around is gaining seniority and then getting a pension. If you consider making a living a success then they are succeeding, if you consider excelling economically or finding an amazing job as success then most don’t. Most men don’t have great jobs either but men never had the choice not to work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/21 02:13 PM |
| 1 | Careerist women are the exception, not the rule, so why are guys here focusing so much on them?Very true. Some of them will do anything to be able to pull the “I’m a strong successful woman” card even if their life is objectively dog shit and the only reason they’re being payed 20 bucks an hour is because their job is mind numbingly awful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/21 01:04 PM |
| 1 | Careerist women are the exception, not the rule, so why are guys here focusing so much on them?If women of your age bracket are making more money then you that’s a pretty good indication you chose the wrong career. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/21 01:00 PM |
| 1 | Men don't care about a woman's education, career, or money. The salesman doesn't get to decide what the buyer wants. If you want a good man you should be willing to provide what that man's looking for.If you have a family with no man you may as well just be a child abuser while you’re at it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/21 01:52 AM |
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