Vadoff Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
0	Why do men believe they peak in their 50s? Almost no men think this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/26 04:19 PM
1	The gender ratio of single men and single women in most offline places is worse than on apps. Apps are statistically the best way to meet women for the average guy. ⁠Mutual Friends- Highly overrated after college imo. You pretty much have to make female friends And why is that hard?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/26 10:11 AM
4	Mem are not that desperate irl Irl men HAVE standards, most women cannot walk up to a man, ask him out and then they have a relationship. For a committed relationship? Probably not. For a hookup? Probably yes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/26 08:26 PM
9	Do autistic guys get a bad reputation for hook up culture because fiction often portrays them as demisexual? Naw, it's cuz their social skills are trash and they ruin any chance of a hookup even if they're hot.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/26 12:42 AM
0	Conspiracy : We will see never seen levels off self improving in the next Years for Men, and it will get really bad. Good. Most guys do the bare minimum if even that. Most are overweight, completely sedentary, don’t exercise/gym, have no skincare routine, terrible wardrobe/style, and take terrible pictures of themselves.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/26 06:10 PM
5	Society made it so that women can earn equal to men and now women can no longer find someone who earns more than them. Women today have been so masculinized that they don't even find men attractive. There’s still plenty of women attracted to men and wanting to have kids, even with modern day issues. These women may have higher attraction to men, higher levels of bonding, sexuality, fondness for cute things/children, maternal/paternal instincts, or other elevated traits. Regardless of what the reason, they’re willing to get into relationships and have kids where others won’t, and their genes (and traits) will be passed onto the next generation. Conversely, those that don’t will have their ge…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/26 02:06 AM
24	Aside from it being morally wrong, there’s no logical reason to be against recognizing the pay gap between genders there are absolutely studies out there showing that even when all factors are taken into account (type of job / hours worked / education level / etc) - there is still a gap between the genders which needs to change. What studies are you looking at exactly (please cite your sources)? From all the data I've seen, if you control for those factors they're paid exactly the same (within 1% pay gap). The often cited pay gap of 81 cents for every dollar men earn, is the result of taking the average pay …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/26 04:44 PM
3	Having kids and pets is the main cause of relationships between men and women not lasting Overpopulation is why everything is so expensive and wages are so low. It’s a huge part of why corporations can get away with abusing us. No it’s not. It’s almost completely irrelevant compared the real reasons why there’s wage stagnation and rising prices: Overprinting of money/rapid inflation. The rise of global/online businesses concentrate wealth at the top more than ever before. Stocks go up, but wealthy people benefit inordinately compared to the rest. Because of the growing wealth divide/…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/26 07:06 PM
24	High value men mostly end up with high value women You don’t see wealthy men or women out in clubs or at the bar. Yeah you do, all the time. Tons of celebrities and high net worth individuals frequent clubs/lounges (in New York). But they're usually high end ones and they always have tables.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/26 09:32 PM
3	Only Mid Girls give up sex freely Because there aren’t tons of hot guys with good stats willing to commit to her. She doesn’t want to settle down with someone hot that’s poor/uneducated, that might be fine for a hookup though. Hot men with status/wealth/intelligence/good personality are way more rare, and often have dozens of hot women wanting to be with them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/26 11:20 PM
2	The gap in attractiveness if favor of women is just social myth to prevent women from seeking attention from others On the base/genetic level, I don't think women are more attractive than men. It's equal. That said, I do think there are more attractive women than men out there for a number of reasons. 1) Women tend to take better care of themselves, especially when it comes to grooming and hygiene 2) Women use makeup drastically more than men do 3) Women get cosmetic surgery drastically more than men do 4) Women are more into fashion and are better styled/dressed/accessorised 5) Women don't need to be physica…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/26 06:35 AM
4	The red pill is delusional about single mom dating options An 8-10 dating a 5 (average man) is a huge step down compared to before she had kids. She could easily have dated an 8-10 man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/25 11:28 AM
18	The red pill is delusional about single mom dating options Single moms can still date, but their prospects will shrink considerably compared to before they were single moms. Same for single dads. People generally want to date people without kids already.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/25 11:25 AM
–	Women who hate video games and reject guys because of it aren't mature, they're just boring. Hmm, I've never seen this be an issue, at least with girls that are gen z/young millennials. Pretty much every girl I know has familiarity with video games or actively plays themselves. Pretty much every ultra successful guy I know plays as well (at least occasionally).	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/25 11:33 PM
-1	Why do so many young men think they shouldn’t be grinding for professional success and for women in their twenties If your family can’t afford to pay for college, that’s what grants and loans (subsidized and unsubsidized) are for. That’s how I paid for college. If you don't qualify for meaningful scholarships or have parents you can rely on, you're functionally locked out Dang, I guess 65% of all college students (% who take loans) were all able to avoid being “locked out”.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/25 03:54 AM
2	Why do so many young men think they shouldn’t be grinding for professional success and for women in their twenties if you were a young adult during the 90s You're talking about Gen X, Gen Y (Millenials) graduated college/started working between 2003-2018.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/25 08:56 PM
3	Why do so many young men think they shouldn’t be grinding for professional success and for women in their twenties There's a huge difference between wanting to be rich (wishing it would magically happen without any effort) and truly wanting it (working towards it like your life depends on it, and researching/planning/doing everything it takes to ensure that it happens). Most people I know are the former.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/25 08:48 PM
4	Why do so many young men think they shouldn’t be grinding for professional success and for women in their twenties Most high earners (STEM/Law/Medicine/Finance/Business) don't inherit anything.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/25 08:44 PM
1	Q4M: Is it common for men to fantasize about being with a billionaire? Men lean dominant, women lean submissive. A woman having power, wealth, status, fame, or success don't typically increase our sexual attraction towards her. The same cannot be said if the genders were flipped. If anything, a woman having high levels of some of these traits such as dominance/assertiveness can actually be a turn off.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/25 02:44 PM
1	Men choose to have half their stuff taken in divorce What country is this?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/25 06:55 AM
1	Men choose to have half their stuff taken in divorce You should move to a communist country, you'll be happy to find they share the same economic philosophies that you have.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/25 05:35 AM
1	Men choose to have half their stuff taken in divorce Is it fair that someone makes 200$ an hour while others barely crack 10$/hour? They are both spending an hour of their life working... A skilled and powerful hunter hunts and kills 2 deer, gathering 800 lbs of meat. Another guy is frail and can't particularly hunt well, so he gathers berries from a bush. The both spent an hour working, so their resources should be taken and split up evenly right? A brilliant engineer helps create a new energy technology, making energy cheaper and more affordable…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/25 08:18 PM
1	Q4M- Why don’t men believe the women who express that the fit and strong photo on the left is sexy, sensuous, sensual, broad, masculine, and generally better looking and more arousing to her than the photo on the right? Well, the before image is literally one full head taller... The head is the same size in both images (you can measure it pixel by pixel), yet his body extends almost a full head taller in the before image (so much so that his feet are cut off). It's probably a difference in camera angle, but regardless, that's a massive difference in percieved head-to-body ratio... If the after image was reshot so that the head-to-body ratio matches the before image, peopel would likely vote very differently.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/25 01:03 AM
5	Q4M- Why don’t men believe the women who express that the fit and strong photo on the left is sexy, sensuous, sensual, broad, masculine, and generally better looking and more arousing to her than the photo on the right? His head is the same size if you measure it by pixel for both images, yet his body length is almost an entire head taller in the "before" image. It's probably the camera angle, but regardless, that's a massive difference in percieved strength by head-to-body ratio alone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/25 12:34 AM
–	Cheating should be first step for a man in a deadbedroom scenario. Or instead of cheating, how about communicating your needs? And if it still remains unsatisfactory, then leaving?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/25 06:20 PM
5	Why do divorced men seem to struggle so much even when financials are not an issue? Divorced men are 9x more likely to kill themselves than divorced women. Numerous studies have shown that women just get over heartbreak faster than men do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/24 07:25 PM
6	Women basically dominate the male sex. Ngl, you sound too immature for most ppl to want to date.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/24 06:38 AM
4	Women basically dominate the male sex. How about if when 95% of men see a bug, they handle it, but you freak out and refuse to, and she sees that as an ick. Blame her or the men? All the things I’ve described the vast majority of men do, and they’re considered manly traits as well. The ability to provide, to take care of her, to treat her gently, to plan, to initiate, to handle things/danger. A failure to do so is your right, but it’s also her right to not want to continue to date you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/24 06:33 AM
4	Women basically dominate the male sex. If 95% of men hold open the door for a girl, but you don’t and the girl is disappointed, do you blame her or the men? If 95% of men initiate and plan the date, but you don’t and the girl is disappointed, do you blame her or the men? The girl has other options to choose from, by the vast majority of men willing to do these things to the point that it’s a social norm and expected. It’s rude not to.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/24 06:23 AM
10	Women basically dominate the male sex. It’s supply and demand, I don’t think it’s unreasonable. If 95% of men are willing to pay for the meal enough for it to become a social norm, and you aren’t, then should you blame women or blame the men?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/24 06:16 AM
–	Every woman is a gold digger… Yes, that’s why I said usually. It’s hard to say what the actual difference would be without doing massive surveys, but from my anecdotal experience I would say when I ask my acquaintances/friends this: Is it a turn off if your date (serious dating/dating for marriage) earns half of what you do (not temporarily)? I’d say roughly 90% of girls said that it’d absolutely be a major turn off, with almost all that said yes saying it would be a dealbreaker on its own. I’d say roughly 25% of guys said t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/24 06:53 AM
-1	Every woman is a gold digger… To be fair, even women who don’t want kids usually have the same sentiment. The man can’t make significantly less than they do, that’s an absolute no no.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/24 11:02 PM
3	Autistic men should accept that autism is a serious condition and people have the right to not want to date an autistic man It’s literally the reason why we’re all here, and why Humans are as intelligent/social as they are.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/24 06:09 PM
1	The way women test their Lover's love is so wrong The way women test their Lover's love is so wrong The way "this one girl who was probably on the spectrum" test her Lover's love is so wrong FTFY	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/24 07:55 AM
1	Rich guys are not on reddit Lol, definitely not. Did you forget the /s?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/24 12:04 PM
–	your physical/material attributes aren’t the reason why people don’t want to date you. cmv! Beautiful + horrible personality still has it 10x easier than ugly + good personality though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/23 10:18 AM
–	Cmv: American women are hypocritical children compared to non American women due to how they view splitting bills such as on first dates A couple hundred for her share? Are you doing first dates at Michelin stars + ordering drinks?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 09:32 AM
2	Men don’t have commitment issues any more than women but women tend to go for guys who have no reason to commit Cool, and if they had amazing personalities, I'm sure there would be 10x as many into them. Maybe the ones constantly hovering around/into them are superficial, but you don't get to see the ones that were repelled by their personalities and absent.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/23 09:48 AM
1	Men don’t have commitment issues any more than women but women tend to go for guys who have no reason to commit even if criminals look good, people strangely begin to defend them. 🤷 It's called the halo effect, yeah. Also, when it comes to dating, if you have a genuinely good character, you still might not have a chance even against someone who is much more average-looking, not to mention attractive ones. You say no chance, but are you sure the guys were even into you (physically) to begin with? If they were, then went for someone else that was better looking but with a terrible personality, that would be…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/23 09:31 AM
2	Men don’t have commitment issues any more than women but women tend to go for guys who have no reason to commit For what? A casual hookup? Or for dating? Because if it’s the latter, I can assure you both genders do not. Once they hit the physical attraction bar (they’re cute/hot), then personality/compatibility/values/etc plays a huge part. That said, if you didn’t hit the bar, you were never a romantic/sexual consideration to begin with, as there’s no physical attraction there, so it’s not superficial since they were literally not physically interested.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/23 09:09 AM
1	Men don’t have commitment issues any more than women but women tend to go for guys who have no reason to commit I eventually understood that people, regardless of gender, are opportunistic and superficial. Physical attraction is the absolute minimum for a romantic/sexual relationship. If it played no part, then people would choose their same gendered best friend as their partner, or a relative, etc. It's only superficial if they prioritize looks well over their personality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/23 06:41 AM
5	Men don’t have commitment issues any more than women but women tend to go for guys who have no reason to commit Naw, the average guy wants an average girl. The average girl however, wants a top 20% guy (hypergamy), and thinks the average guy is well below average (numerous studies show this).	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/23 06:33 AM
5	People should admit that women are just as shallow as men , just better at rationalizing it I know women who are less attractive than I am with far higher looks standards than I have, and they absolutely can't attract the men they want A lot of times they can, but it'll be only be for a hookup - with the guys having absolutely no intention to commit (usually being honest about it too). But after sleeping with them, these women feel they can nab a boyfriend/husband at that level. But then complain about all the fuckbois that won't commit, when they can't.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/23 10:00 AM
3	If you cant get casual sex easily then you are unattractive Not true, most guys have much lower attractiveness standards for people they're willing to sleep with vs who they want as their girlfriend. There are many instances where a guy will sleep with you but you were never a girlfriend candidate to begin with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/23 08:16 AM
6	Could it be that women just do not like men that much? Only 5.9% of males reproduced throughout history while nearly every female did Did you even read the article? Once upon a time, 4,000 to 8,000 years after humanity invented agriculture, something very strange happened to human reproduction. Across the globe, for every 17 women who were reproducing, passing on genes that are still around today—only one man did the same. Then, as more thousands of years passed, the numbers of men reproducing, compared to women, rose again. Also some simple math (a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/23 10:38 PM
–	Women and girls are reading the manosphere forums and subs, that makes them less likely to date. Do you not have many male friends or interact with men much? The attitudes in those forums are very rare compared to the general population.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/23 01:09 AM
3	You can't complain about older men dating younger women if you're a young woman who only dates men who make $80,000 or more. It's why high earning women find it so difficult to date, because they're only willing to date men who earn just as much / more than they do. While men usually don't mind. If you're a top 1% earner, and only willing to date other top 1% earners, you're effectively reducing the dating pool that otherwise meets your standards by a further 100 times.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/22 08:56 AM
4	Women often complain about lack of male friendships and getting "fuckzoned". But the truth is, women generally just aren't as good of friends as men. Can't relate, but maybe because I don't fish, camp, or play sports. If I want someone to go to a concert, rave, restaurant, hike, run, movie, or play video games with, then I'd love to do those with my female friends too. I don't really have many "guy only" activities. I'm also not romantically interested in 95% of them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/22 09:51 AM
3	Women often complain about lack of male friendships and getting "fuckzoned". But the truth is, women generally just aren't as good of friends as men. I've had excellent male friends who'll readily buy me drinks, treat me to a meal, give me a long car ride somewhere, fix a toilet for me, etc. Women generally do not do such favors for their male friends. It might happen sometimes, but it's exceedingly rare compared to the other way around. I've had female friends give me car rides (maybe not long ones, but I don't impose this on my guy friends either), bring beers, give me cookies/pastries/cakes/etc they've baked, cook me a meal, give me plants…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/22 08:45 AM
7	The notion that women expect Gigachad because of social media is projection by men onto women. For Instagram, it's officially called the "Search & Explore" or just Explore page.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/22 04:59 PM
-1	The notion that women expect Gigachad because of social media is projection by men onto women. Pretty sure any normal guy can bring home a new woman every weekend too if they wanted, just not a super attractive one.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/22 04:53 PM
2	Delusion is strong with this one. Well then what's the male equivalent of actress then? It's actor. Also, most people use actress when describing a female actor, so there's bound to be a lot of male results for "actor". Another word that could be gender neutral is "waiter", but most people use it to refer to males and "waitress" to refer to females. People probably use the gender neutral version of waiter a lot less than actor, but you get the point.	/r/PussyPassDenied	29/03/17 06:43 PM