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| 17 | Paying on dates, are we discouraged to go 50/50 on just the first date or first few dates?I like his response! I can see why you’re going to feel uncomfortable not offering on the 2nd date since you offered on the 1st but just make sure to let him plan the 2nd date and (if he invites you to something that interests you) show up on time with the appropriate presentation and energy. He invites, you accept graciously, you 2 continue getting to know each other, everyone should be happy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/21 03:20 PM |
| 21 | What did he say? Oh wait, I don't care ^_^ (FDS art by me)Love your art | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/21 10:56 PM |
| 56 | Can’t wait to see the male commenters of DM collectively lose their tiny minds.I guess the idea is our daily pleasure (from seeing an attractive partner, being in a pleasant environment, eating good food, not working too hard, having our emotional needs met) is not something women are entitled to and they should accept being a bang maid to, for example someone who looks like Harvey Weinstein but is also poor. We should be virtuous and only think of men’s enjoyment of life and sacrifice basic building blocks of happiness for them. They each deserve a patient gorgeous woman … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 04:32 PM |
| 16 | Can’t wait to see the male commenters of DM collectively lose their tiny minds.Well at least they’re honest with saying “should be avoided.” They should add that FDS also suggests improving yourself , not acting low value and not being best friends with low value or narcissistic women, so you know avoiding low value women and being low value, not JUST the men, how is that misogynistic if it’s advocating high value for everyone?! Other outlets/comments seem to act as if categorizing men as low value has some implications worse than “avoiding” them, as if we want them to be … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 04:26 PM |
| 10 | I don’t even know where to start.I hope she can afford some travel, therapy, moving to a place she’s wanted to live, and to change her name and get a lawyer if necessary. She should not be “at a loss”, that person is such trash. How does she still care what he says and about his health. Protect your assets ASAP and let him die, honestly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 08:24 PM |
| 36 | "In my head, girls are clean"😒He might have a sex doll | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/21 09:08 AM |
| 55 | Big Clit Energy Right Here!She has a unique energy! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 11:05 PM |
| 10 | Legit fucking terrifying that men like this exist.He apologized because people who do that as normal don’t like to hear him say it’s extreme, I’m guessing? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 11:02 PM |
| 3 | Tl;dr I hate that my girlfriend is more successful than me and takes decisions about her life without consulting meI think if you like someone none of that would bother you. You’d be proud, happy they are so compétant and choosing you, and you wouldn’t think their decisions are /bad since they all work out. But he does like her and want to date her or he wouldn’t need advice. I think he is not comfortable / capable of liking a woman as an equal, he wants to like a woman who has a dependent and subservient role. Also, it’s fine to change your mind about someone after 4 months , you don’t like piercings and ta… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 06:53 PM |
| 159 | The Porn Paradox | Megan Johnson | TEDxGreenvilleMany of us want to have a male partner / husband to have children with or even a pet. We want to trust that person. But part of trust is shared values, I think. And if they regularly look at completely absurd and inhuman videos, that’s going to affect the shared values part | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/21 04:53 PM |
| 21 | Hating cats... a red flag or the biggest red flag?I pretty much don’t like dogs, I mean they’re fine but living with one would be a deal breaker, and part of it is a smell and feeling. I know cats have some smell in some peoples homees (even clean people if the home is small) and a fur /scratch issue so I can’t blame anyone who is too anal to want to live with one if he’s a clean and hardworking person. If he doesn’t like them to an extreme level I guess that would be odd | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/21 10:15 PM |
| 17 | I’m home free!Also maybe get some advice if someone who just threatened suicide and murder. should see his daughter. Get it on record that he did that asap. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/21 09:57 AM |
| 5 | Refinery29 Article: I Earn Much Less Than My Partner, But We Split Costs Evenly. How Do I Stop Resenting Him?Im pretty sure that site had cringe articles about sex lately too (pro sex work and kink kind of things.) it’s a very woke site for racism and body positivity but incredibly naive for the problem(s) with men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/21 09:50 AM |
| 9 | Reddit hates women who say size matters.They have preferences for our size (both side to side and top to bottom) shape, hair texture, hair length, hair colour, skin colour, skin texture /perfection , boobs, eye nose lip and face shapes, do I need to go on? And they love to joke about /mock women and girls that have any one « flaw. » and they do it from a young age TO girls of a young age up to women of any age. Hilary clinton didn’t have a particular flaw so the media decided « pant suit » is a relèvent and funny insult. I wouldn’t ha… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/21 05:02 PM |
| 29 | It's only okay when males practice seperatism bit lord forbid FDS is females only (2 slides)To be fair I don’t think a lot of our critics are well travelled, well read, cultured or religious. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 11:26 AM |
| 22 | "If he wanted to, he would." Stops hurting so much in time when you see it for what it is.This is why it’s not weird to want the guy to pay (and not only pay but be polite in every way). Guys are willing to hang out with women they aren’t that into. He could even think the woman is unattractive but be lonely and still up for sleeping with her. He could want a friend for some other reason, he could even want a free meal! If there’s something to take he’s likely to be fine taking it. If you’re looking for a (good!) relationship only continue if the person is enthusiastically treating y… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 10:38 AM |
| -4 | The Pink Tax and Makeup CultureI find hard core makeup fans and bodybuilders kind of narcissistic, having a hobby that’s so focused on their own appearance. Tattoo /piercing enthusiasts too. Mainly because all that money and time could help people but there are these subcultures that spend so much on their own appearance, which, personally I just don’t get it. (Especially since I think most people don’t look better with a lot of makeup or any unnatural change) Anyways, my point is, men have that «pink tax » too at least those… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 07:59 PM |
| 4 | Some examples of men who have hit the wallHaha the last one made me laugh as I guess I’m too young to have every thought of him as attractive. The first 2 are brutal. I think for Leo it’s genes and Johnny it’s um bad habits | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 12:41 AM |
| 10 | Opinion | Pornography is more than just sexual fantasy. It’s cultural violence.- Porn Awareness is spreading! I am so happy.Thank god. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 05:34 PM |
| 3 | I hate how women have been brainwashed by libfem. No, you're not a bad girlfriend for wanting to be monogamous. It's NOT a dealbreaker!After she gets over the break up she’ll be thrilled that she’s not tied to that nasty older guy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 09:40 PM |
| 39 | Women Experience More RejectionGreat point . It’s because men hang out with women they couldn’t care less about to meet their needs. If that woman actually likes him, she’ll get hurt. Sad part of our society right now | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 09:15 PM |
| 15 | If ANY sex work was empowering, men would be against it. Libfem is a plague to women as a whole and why we will never progress. This is one of the truest things I've ever heard. MEN DO NOT WANT US TO EVER BE EMPOWERED. REMEMBER THAT.Concise, true, easy to understand. Nice graphic | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 08:31 PM |
| 34 | Currently multi-dating and reached 2 months with one guy, he dropped off some flowers as a present:-)That bouquet is totally my taste! 😍 Looks like it smells great too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 03:11 PM |
| 14 | The Most High Value Response I’ve Seen on RedditYeah he negged her. But before that he had Instagram of other women (not just his friends and family) that is such a deal breaker. She shouldn’t have been fine with that, I get that she’s confident and gorgeous but it’s not about jealousy / confidence it’s a nasty inappropriate habit, a totally red flag and I feel we should all consider that a deal breaker. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 06:32 AM |
| 11 | A religious, Q-Anon following white man targeted and killed 8, most of whom were female Asian sex workers. The news is only focusing on the race aspect and not the gender or sex work aspect. Never doubt the danger men pose.They probably didn’t choose to be prostitutes “because they’re so empowered” etc, or choose it at all, they may not even have been paid. But it’s still connected to lib fems who are so enthusiastic to keep women’s bodies something to buy and sell, to the point that these business operated freely. I agree with those who say the cops are in on it. Sick men | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 05:40 AM |
| 98 | 5 lies about FDS in Vice's latest hit pieceVery true. Her article is so poor and dishonest that she actually could be double-trolling and trying to help women find FDS! I know some women are weak and in bad situations (enabling LVM) and I’m pretty over that because it’s understandable given their life experiences in such an imperfect world. but for even one woman to be actively evil enough to publish this article is completely unbelievable and beyond disturbing. Do journalists not read before they write? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 05:04 AM |
| 6 | 5 lies about FDS in Vice's latest hit pieceI’m absolutely disgusted with that standard of journalism. Hope the author gets blasted and learns a lesson. There was additional disingenuousness beyond these good points you made. I don’t see anything anti - trans here. There is lots of anti porn and anti sex work (which I completely agree with FDS stance on) funny how that was not mentioned. The main point of fds that comes across to me is: 1. being happy while single so you don’t get trapped in something harmful, valuing yourself and working… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 04:46 AM |
| 81 | I want to share an eye opening conversation i had with a guy friendThat’s what I was going to say! No one is making other guesses because it’s so uncommon ! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 08:26 PM |
| 13 | I want to share an eye opening conversation i had with a guy friendI happened to watch 4 ted talks about this a couple days ago and they were all quite interesting. It’s such a disturbing phenomenon | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 08:23 PM |
| 2 | Happy Vday, I hope everyone is showing themselves love and kindness ❤️ from @violetclair instaLove this art style | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 02:30 PM |
| 15 | Your presence is a present 🎁I like how she got specific about the cookies and card lol. Otherwise people will misinterpret and still try to give something | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/21 03:38 PM |
| 4 | Has anybody been following the Armie Hammer situation? When they say consensual BDSM isn’t abusive...For sure but I thought maybe it was tied to men being bored (nothing going on) lonely, sad or having suffered some trauma themselves | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/21 02:05 PM |
| 76 | Has anybody been following the Armie Hammer situation? When they say consensual BDSM isn’t abusive...So this guy was born rich, grew up in a tropical paradise, tall fit and handsome, had a successful, I assume fulfilling, career in the arts , beautiful wife and healthy children..... and he’s still messed up. First he said (paraphrasing) publicly that sex with his wife is vanilla as he can’t do all the crazy stuff he wants to do with her becuase he wouldn’t want to do that nasty stuff to his loved wife (I guess he’d like to do it to a woman he doesn’t love) . Then we find out he’s told at least … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/21 12:57 AM |
| 7 | There's an all-women African village. They wanted to escape abusive husbands, old pedophiles, genital mutilation, and so on. Now, many living there don't even want a husband at all anymore, and work together in their village. It's a facscinating short documentary well worth the watch.Great video, great journalist. I’ve enjoyed many videos and other media shared here. Thanks to all who take the time to share. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 12:00 AM |
| 15 | YouTube Dating Coaches creating PickmesWow I didn’t know that. I haven’t seen his stuff for a while but I thought it was actually similar to FDS. Another one I feel is similar to FDS is Alexandre cormant (in French) but now I don’t know if my analysis is off ha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 12:59 AM |
| 5 | Twitch Bans “Virgin, Incel, and Simp”I mean if it’s also preventing men from going on and on (in nasty and rude ways) about how they have to marry a virgin and body count, there could be benefits to banning that word maybe? Reduce those pigs and incels from waxing on in circles. I don’t use that site so idk really | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 02:10 PM |
| -2 | I feel like I wanna throw up 🤢Well because it’s not part of the religion. It may be part of many of the cultures which practice the religion, and men in some cultures may twist facts to claim the religion is the reason a woman has to xyz, however it’s not literally part of the religion, no matter how much overlap there is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 02:06 PM |
| 29 | You don't deserve her neckbeardThat’s true. And Japan is not the place to go for that. I know one Japanese woman married to a white guy and they are both lovely and the same age. She didn’t need to marry him for anything as she came to my city after college for fun. I know another Asian woman who grew up here and married a good looking white guy, she is pretty too and it seems like a normal relationship. I feel it’s not a wmaf thing as much as ANY man who goes to a poorer country looking for marriage or targets new immigrants… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 01:00 AM |
| 37 | “I don’t even like banana laffy taffys”I agree, seems like he might have a nice mom. Next time maybe she can teach him to answer questions on the date politely instead of being evasive and offensive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 03:00 AM |
| 11 | That moment this woman discovered she is with a NVMI hate the 50-50 thing if the man is making way more. That’s a red flag to me🤷🏼♀️. If you both make ok money and are making a big investment like a house I don’t mind 5050 after marriage. Otherwise it just seems quite insulting to the woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 11:25 AM |
| 3 | When even men like Bill Maher can acknowledge and criticize the abusive,rapey and misogynistic nature of modern porn, what's the excuse of the rest of the scores that play stupid?I think there was a controversy about the n word . Also some people consider things he’s said islamaphobic. Maybe anti Semitic as well? But for sure he’s said that all religions are no good but that Islam is ‘worse’ than others. Although I disagree with him about Islam, I kind of like him. I like that he seems genuinely curious. Don’t have time to watch his stuff though. Obviously I love what he’s saying here. And that he said it, like you all are saying men don’t care what women think or often … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 02:31 AM |
| 35 | No 50/50 birthdayYes. Without even considering the money, how does it make you feel that he changed it? How does his attitude towards the bday make you feel? And it’s a big bday too. I’m disappointed on your behalf! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 01:30 AM |
| 57 | No 50/50 birthdayI’m not looking at the post history myself but just from this story: I don’t like how he made the reservation and then asked her to pay half a while later. Don’t break your word without a good reason. People who do that always end up having some other deal breaker in their personality (any gender not just males a lady may be wanting to date.) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 01:28 AM |
| 24 | On Disclosure: Your Past is None of His BusinessThat’s a good point. But I want to make it clear also, just because he doesn’t ask your number or push about your past doesn’t mean he’s not insecure and also doesn’t mean he won’t cheat. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 12:12 AM |
| 5 | Scrote actually put 'thigh gap' as an 'interest' 🤮Since he takes care of himself and values athleticism of course he has the right to want a girl who takes care of herself/s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 07:36 PM |
| 3 | All good until the last one... Why is it so difficult for women to realize that porn and sex work is not liberating and exists solely for male pleasure?I’m pro sex worker in that I’d like sex workers to be able to report crimes and report violent dangerous men without fearing their own criminal record or fines. It would only help everyone to be protected from violent men! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 07:27 PM |
| 4 | “Girls Mature Faster than Boys” and other classic hits from LVMGood compilation! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 07:01 PM |
| 5 | Racial fetishization and pedophilia. He wonders if he should learn to speak Chinese so he can have a better chance of targeting women that have the body type of school boys. Reddit is a cesspool of depraved LVMsHe barely needs to learn chinese. There are people that speak a bit of English everywhere. He can go to china and find someone poor enough that marrying him is « a good deal » considering the blessings / hardships she’s been given in her life. He shouldn’t worry about whether she « likes nice white guys » like him though, as long as he has the right paperwork she’ll act like she likes him for quite a while . Hope he gets totally screwed. (Sorry that was not meant to reply to you directly :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 06:46 PM |
| 11 | Racial fetishization and pedophilia. He wonders if he should learn to speak Chinese so he can have a better chance of targeting women that have the body type of school boys. Reddit is a cesspool of depraved LVMsBest case scenario if we really look on the bright side: he once dated or obsessively crushed on an east Asian woman with that body type and he can’t get over the obsession. Even in that case, not really desirable human behaviour , and a horrible way to express things YIKES | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 06:35 PM |
| 8 | Racial fetishization and pedophilia. He wonders if he should learn to speak Chinese so he can have a better chance of targeting women that have the body type of school boys. Reddit is a cesspool of depraved LVMsEven with a great career American citizenship could’ve made it worth it for her? It’s an asset for anyone who ONLY has chinese citizenship. Probably more important than height personality or morals. Sad truth which makes it possible for men with citizenship in certain countries to go to assorted other countries and “get a wife”— essentially putting the woman into years of quasi-slavery even if she eventually divorces him after finishing her immigration goals. Hope the lady mentioned eventually h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 06:33 PM |
| 3 | So I made a collage of a modern desi girl's worst nightmares..to remind myself of the kind of toxicity that's ready to suck me in if I don't run fastGreat attitude!:) I love the comment someone brought up today that (paraphrased) men have tricked us into dreaming of marriage when they need it and benefit from it more than us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 12:02 AM |
| 4 | Used or new, we will run you overGood points. I’m not at all familiar with mormons and totally forgot about how prison actually does seem to make men want to rape each other and also have intimate relationships. Interesting about the deranged requests lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 12:00 AM |
| 17 | um... I’m hoping this is a jokeYes that was actually a joke:) The top answer was “step one give her the money step two tell her where to buy it” or something. In Islam the man is supposed to pay for the home, the food/expenses and for sure his own toys/stuff. The woman is entitled to keep her money earned (if she choses to work) aside along with a financial gift with the proposal. (Not saying it always or usually happens!) And that’s a fairly serious sub, not liberal/ not “open minded.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 07:43 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered September 10 2020I’ve really enjoyed the group this week! Thank you for sharing your collages! I have a recommendation for any ladies learning French or who already understand or are francophone. You tuber Alexandre Cormont is a relationship coach and I have a heard time finding any differences between his philosophies and FDS. I’m not one to listen / enjoy any old French podcast but I find him extremely easy to understand. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 04:44 PM |
| 3 | Used or new, we will run you overThat’s interesting. I want to guess that it’s not that the repression makes more people turn gay. I feel like these comments are implying that it makes men want to be gay but I don’t believe that’s possible. Although I hope I didn’t misinterpret anyone’s idea. In my opinion it’s just the fact that they cannot have a real relationship so they have to use prostitutes because they’re obviously married to women and even if they aren’t if they want to appease their families could not risk being seen … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 01:55 PM |
| 14 | You should always be the most beautiful to himYes I don’t want to be negative but imagine it reversed! Kind of annoying right? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 12:33 PM |
| 3 | I WILL Make This HappenAdorably cozy! Love your plans :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 12:17 PM |
| 10 | So I made a collage of a modern desi girl's worst nightmares..to remind myself of the kind of toxicity that's ready to suck me in if I don't run fastLoving these collages y’all are making. Don’t like noisy kids eh! What’s the pink paper? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 12:13 PM |
| 20 | I mentioned the steps I’m taking to invest in real estate in the near future with my SO. Interestingly he began using “we/us” pronouns surrounding the decisions that will be made with my money.That’s a good response. I’m not an expert for sure but I’d like to add my approach if I were in your (lucky!) position. I’d act as if he’s volunteering to « help » like put out the same amount I am and say something like 1. that’s amazing! if you’re investing too we can get a much better investment :). Or 2. Wow, I’m happy to hear you want to do this together, I didn’t realize it would be possible for you due to xyz tasteful words about his situation. My idea is if he wants to change the which i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 09:18 PM |
| 3 | Please don’t stop posting screenshots of your messages for both good and bad experiences. They are so helpful and I learn a lot from them and the comments!!You make some good points! I like those posts too! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 10:57 PM |
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