ValasDream Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Do you feel more appealing to woman as you get older? [32yo male] Kudos to Scrubs, then. I think Occam's Razor could help us out a fuckton, if more people actually took it into consideration.	/r/seduction	03/02/18 12:40 AM
3	Do you feel more appealing to woman as you get older? [32yo male] +1 for going straight to Occam's razor.	/r/seduction	02/02/18 08:26 PM
2	Can't think of anything to say? Try this. If you're going to post someone else's content, at least give them credit. This is verbatim, I think, from BeardStrokings.com.	/r/seduction	30/01/18 06:42 PM
1	I was dumped this morning after three dates because the girl didn’t feel a connection, this keeps happening. How do you create a connection? To quote Brene Brown: "vulnerability is the path that connection uses."	/r/seduction	08/01/18 08:35 PM
2	Girl is asking to see my FB profile after I asked her out. Am I the only one majorly turned off by this? Please CMV about this I'd love to know why this isn't weird. Yup, right with you. I have zero regrets that I don't have Facebook.	/r/seduction	06/01/18 03:48 AM
7	Girl is asking to see my FB profile after I asked her out. Am I the only one majorly turned off by this? Please CMV about this I'd love to know why this isn't weird. Delete your Facebook. Problem solved.	/r/seduction	05/01/18 06:29 PM
5	highly effective inner game strat You're a good storyteller, man. You should keep writing.	/r/seduction	11/12/17 03:24 AM
6	28 years old female virgin There's obviously a major emotional/psychology knot there for you regarding sex. A therapist will help you understand what's going on inside of you, so you can tackle it. Honestly, if you're resistant to seeing a therapist, that seems just like more of a sign that you're subconscious is giving more pushback to actually untying that knot.	/r/seduction	29/11/17 05:05 PM
1	From being the funny kid who had no game to the confident man who happens to be funny, Seddit taught me a lot. Here are some of my own personal tips that I have learned outside of here: swoons	/r/seduction	02/11/17 08:42 PM
5	From being the funny kid who had no game to the confident man who happens to be funny, Seddit taught me a lot. Here are some of my own personal tips that I have learned outside of here: Yeah, same here. Seems difficult as fuck to change. I feel like I have a much better understanding of what's going on, insofar as I'm recognizing patterns from childhood and what's really going on emotionally/psychologically (instead of bullshit rationales like saying "I'm just really nice and unselfish"). But I'm still having the damnedest time changing myself.	/r/seduction	02/11/17 08:41 PM
0	She's fine with my kino, but doesn't reciprocate. Sounds like she digs you but just isn't one for initiating. I mean, it is the guy's job to move things forward.	/r/seduction	06/05/16 02:08 PM
6	10 Very Real Fears Only Single Introverted Men Will Understand Wow this article really speaks to me. I feel like each one of those points has come up at one point or another, and a few of them reach pretty deep inside too. Thanks for the link!	/r/seduction	07/03/16 08:24 PM
1	What is "vulnerability"? “Vulnerability is uncertainty, risk, and emotional exposure.” That's the definition Brene Brown gives for vulnerability. If you're not familiar with her work, check out her original TED talk here. Her work is centered around connection, shame, and vulnerability. My understand from working with her concepts for some years is that vulnerability isn't something you do or don't do. Life is vulnerable inherently. What it comes down to is how you engage with vulnerability, and recognizing that vulnera…	/r/seduction	24/02/16 06:52 PM