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I'm not sure what you are arguing? I don't disagree that children agree under distress. But just because men can't punish their girlfriends as parents would punish children for saying no, that does not mean that women can't feel stressed/ in distress about an answer. And a "yes because saying no would cause a fight or would mean you give me the cold shoulder for the rest of the night" is not an enthusiastic yes. When it comes to sex, personally I would not feel comfortable with anything but an e…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 05:27 PM
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This means that almost all couple are under reciprocal duress How so? Do you regularly annoy your partner with questions until they agree to do stuff?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 05:13 PM
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Yes and if you tell your child to do something harmful like for example hit their head against the wall this would be classified as abuse even if the child agreed to it. But with children we as a society decided that it's okay to make them do things as long as it's good for them, even if they dislike the process eg studying
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 05:10 PM
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She might claim to be a feminist but actions speak louder than words
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 02:11 PM
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I would like to see your sources for this claim, that most people do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 11:09 AM
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I think makeup is preferable over stuff like bonesmashing
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 11:04 AM
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Why would you put on heavy makeup if it decreases your chances and not just subtle makeup?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 11:03 AM
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High Heels originally were made for men. It used to be very common for men to wear makeup and wigs. Who is stopping you from doing these things now?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 10:59 AM
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I don't know about othere countries but here it is just very unattractive to have children Having a child means a higher poverty risk at old age for women You need space for your child and rent ist already too high as it is Higher rent but less income, if I have a child I want to raise it so I would have to cut back on work. With what money am I to finance this child? And unlike many women in third world countries, I have access to birth control so I can avoid pregnancy and I have no social pres…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 10:21 AM
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You are delusional if you think there is no exploitation in porn Sure some women like it but with mainstream porn you can't be sure
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 07:29 AM
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Whatever noises are natural for him. Don't force yourself to stay quiet and don't fake grunts
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 04:46 PM
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Depends are they just complaining or are they trying to educate and actively change things? If they are just complaining but don't do anything to change it, then it can get annoying and usually I just listen but don't feel a need to do anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 04:07 PM
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Then you can still du kegel exercises to strengthen your muscles. Again just because you can accommodate something big does not necessarily mean you can't clench down on something small
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 01:56 PM
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I don't want hook-ups For relationships: They must have a personality that matches with mine in a way that I could be best friends with them. And I must find them at least somewhat attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 01:44 PM
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I mean a vagina can stretch to the circumference of a baby's head... Vaginal depth is not really something women are shamed for so not really a "self-own" either. And that is something you can "train", again stretchy material so even if you start out with a short vaginal canal, it doesn't necessarily stay short And you can be both flexible and strong so being able to stretch does not necessarily mean you can't clench down Or else having baby's would be nearly impossible
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 01:41 PM
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I think the intention of the lie is what is important. Is it because he thinks the truth will upset me or is is he hiding a surprise he is planning for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 05:34 PM
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The point is the man can't know if he might terrify the woman if he keeps pursuing her, is that worth the small possibility that he might get what he wants?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 11:20 AM
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Okay so your logic is "occasionally it works so it is okay that it is terrifying to women when it doesn't"?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 10:56 AM
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I mean they can use fake pictures with current apps
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 12:13 PM
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You could still decide there is no attraction/ not enough attraction during the first date
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 12:09 PM
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No, since you communicate from the very beginning that you are only interested in her as a potential partner and not as a friend, I think this is the best approach to handling the rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 08:45 AM
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Sure but there isn't really any reason to assume that they would be less crazy if they had lower standards like some people are just bitter and a bit crazy. that applies to both men and women
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 07:32 PM
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I know they could hurt them with physical violence but I am not aware that it is a common phenomenon that 50+ year old women start fistfighting random men in the streets. Like sure occasionally there will be a case of a violent woman but this happens only in rare cases and I do not know any men who is afraid of going outside because a woman might attack him? Lie this is not a real threat. Same with false accusations. Sure occasionally this happens but this is not a common issue? And if you claim…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 06:57 PM
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How are men affected by their bitterness and resentfulness
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 05:51 PM
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Well if the problem is that they are complaining then you can simply not listen to that. Simply remove yourself from the conversation. Also statistically speaking single women are a quite happy demographic, I think you are overestimating how many women will regret their choices later in life
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 04:54 PM
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If the woman is okay with being single than what is wrong with her having high standards even if that means she will never find a partner? Like most women are aware that they could date if they lowered their standards but apparently most come to the conclusion that they would rather be single than to do that. What is wrong with that choice?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 02:09 PM
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Dark romance and smut books with violet content are heavily criticised. Where are you getting the idea that they are seen as less problematic than hentai?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 01:04 PM
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Too high in regards to what? Too high for the average man to meet? too high so not all man can meet it? Too high for any man to meet? Everyone can set their standards as high as they want, as long as they don't annoy people by complaining about being single.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 08:47 AM
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Op said so himself, the question is what expectations were not met
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 08:43 AM
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There are also a lot of smut noveels that do not involve any violence, that's just usually not a topic of conversation. Just like public discussion about porn videos will talk about violence in porn but not about the non violent vanilla porn. I would also like to point out that violence in video porn will basically always mean a real woman will be subjected to this violence. If a woman gets slapped in porn, they usually don't bother faking that (like they would in Hollywood). If violence is happ…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 05:41 AM
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What reason is there for a guy then?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 11:07 AM
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So you genuinely see no reason for entering a relationship besides getting things paid?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 10:39 AM
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Go to female doctor It's hard enough to get a doctor's appointment as it is, even without excluding half your options female cop So I can now only report crime when a female police officer is working and available? That's your solution? Women-only workplace? And how many of those exits? With how many available jobs? Basically none because it's a shitty business model to hire based on gender and not on skill Segregate completely I have no words it makes no sense to have a relationship, apart from…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 09:48 AM
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I'm not sure what you are trying to discuss in your post. Is it that women have to overcome their, as you called it "built-in disgust for man"? Would you like men to stop dating women who think like that? Or would you like men to defend their choice of dating women like that and discuss your stance on thinking it is "weird to date them"? Or something completely different?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 09:37 AM
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How involved is he in the children's lives how old are they
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 01:13 PM
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Single Dad as he is the primary caretaker of the child(ren) and they live with him full time? Is the mother co-parenting, dead or just not in the picture? How old are the children in question I don't think I could answer in general but only for a specific case Like a windower with a 2 year old is very different from a man who's ex wife is still co-parenting and the "child" in question is already a teenager/ almost 18
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 01:09 PM
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Is that a thing people actually worry about?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 11:49 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 11:48 AM
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You have not mentioned any arguments for non married relationships. Many women are expected to do the domestic labour for free while their male partner keeps his income to himself (apart from shared bills where depending on the type of relationship they might pay 50:50). I don't think being "indirectly paid" because your partner is able to work longer in a paid job. Sure while the marriage is still going great it might not be an issue. But the reason being a SAHM is no longer popular is because …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 07:38 AM
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Everyone knows it's annoying that's why people should stop doing it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 06:45 PM
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And does it feel good to have that happen to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 05:47 PM
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Being frustrated is valid. Letting frustration out on other people is not
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 02:56 PM
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1 this doesn't necessarily apply to all marriages 2 the same could be said the other way around. Most women do have jobs themselves and are not financially dependent on their man. So they do bring assets into the relationship as well
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 01:57 PM
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What does AWDTSG mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 04:00 AM
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I don't treat men differently but I sometimes feel that men treat me differently. I have only a few really close male friends and we can be colourable with each other, just as much as I can be with equally close female friends. But occasionally there are some male friends that I do like but would not consider to be close friends. And I know they have several male friends who they are closer to than me. Yet for some reason they want me to console them, when they are having a bad time. And don't g…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 10:43 PM
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It would be stupid to say "people want to kill because they want to kill in video games", just as it is stupid to say "women want to be treated like the women in dark romance books"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 11:32 AM
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I would be surprised if any got fuckt by a 300 year old millionaire vampire.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 11:15 AM
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There is at least one video game in existence that includes rape, fine maybe not GTA. That's not the point and you know it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 11:14 AM
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None of the things i see in these videos.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 11:10 AM
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I watch cooking videos all the time in 999/1000 cases I will not recreate anything. I love baking shows I would never recreate any of their creations. Just because I find a good Bob Ross Video relaxing doesnt mean I want to start painting, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 11:06 AM
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"if most men don't want to murder women then why are horror movies so popular with men?" "If men don't want to run around and kill people, then why do they do it in video games?" "Men who rape/steal/etc in videogames must want to do it in real life too." *Edit no rape in GTA
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 11:03 AM
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women make laws Male politician passed these laws and yet you only blame women. Maybe men make women hate them by blaming them for everything. Or women call short men women and hate short men. Okay? And? Women get called "men" for having short hair, not removing their body hair, being too tall, having too many muscles and the list goes on... And we are not making a post how this sort of thing makes us despise men
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 08:31 AM
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What a wild claim to say, women are responsible for men's decision because some of them voted for these men. Do you also see all American men responsible for the decisions trump is currently making, since the majority of his voters were men?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 08:20 AM
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You act as if men on dating apps don't filter by looks
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 10:29 PM
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So what world would this revolution create, like what is the goal?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 09:32 AM
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What is there to discuss? Of course they can do this and many people are currently doing it?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 09:16 AM
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So you don't mind settling for someone but you don't want them settling for you? Do you define settling as going for less than perfect or how would you define it?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 12:18 PM
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Sure but some women like their men hairy some don't. Some like a jawline some don't Some like their partner as tall as possible some prefer a short king. Some like small/straight noses.... So just because a man is objectively handsome and a model does not mean that he's perfect. So again to find a perfect looking partner who also thinks of you as perfect is a small chance But just because they are not how you would have described your perfect partner does not mean you are actively bother by thei…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 12:09 PM
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I don't know maybe they have small dicks, who knows
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 11:56 AM
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Depends on important it is for you personally I guess. Some men openly admit to liking big boobs would it be settling for them to be with a small chested girl? And I mean how likely is it really that your partner is perfect for you in every single way? Isn't there always something that isn't "ideal"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 11:18 AM
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How exactly did you fix it? I thought the main point of your post is these people, for whom this is terrible advice, have no chance at dating. So what would be the fix?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 05:02 AM
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When women say size doesn't matter it's more of an "a man with any size can please a woman" and "a specific penis size won't automatically mean the sex will be great" Of course some people have a size preference but it's different for everyone and only a tiny minority of people would make decision based on that. Many man assume bigger is better but for many women it can become painful if it's too big. Sure some women like it huge but not everyone. And even if you like them big, that doesn't nece…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 08:56 AM
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A lie would imply she is aware that her statement is incorrect. If she actually believes that you are not looking for a genuine connection, even though you did, then it's only a false accusation and not a lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 06:00 PM
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Personally I agree with the top comment, that the word bangmaid is dehumanising and also like the comparison to calling a man your "wallet". I do want to say though if you are openly communicating what you expect in a relationship (cooking cleaning sex etc) and are openly and honestly communicating what you are willing to provide in return (eg paying for dates) and you find a women who agrees to these terms. Then I see nothing wrong with that. Some men who are looking for that kind of women are …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 05:55 PM
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No that it would be beneficial for men to start doing so, and why you think that, assuming tests are good, women should test men less
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 03:33 PM
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Do you have any evidence that "many women do"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 03:09 PM
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I don't test men and if a men was testing me I would lose interest immediately
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 02:11 PM
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Can you give a concrete example for what political views women are not willing to compromise on? And what you think a good compromise would be?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 08:36 PM
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You know it's really hard to explain but someone who is confident in their abilities and looks just carries themselves through the world differently. Like imagine identical twins. Technically they look the same but only one of them is confident. You will notice and that twin will have more success with women. Everyone shows their confidence or lack there off in their own unique way but when you see people and talk to them you will notice
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 11:20 AM
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That's why I said hyperthetically
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 11:05 AM
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Under the assumption that the guy who pays for sex, pays a woman who willingly does sex work and is not forced into the job (by another person or environmental factors) lying is worse. If a man pays for sex and can at least suspect that the woman is forced into the situation then that's worse imo
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 10:02 AM
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Everyone defines what their "bare minimum" is for themselves. And I'd argue that you are allowed to set whatever standards you want for your partner, as long as you are fine with being alone. Also why would a man want to date a women with extreme views like "I hate all white people" for me that is a valid deal-breaker. That's not something you can talk about and find a middle ground on
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 08:44 AM
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Well then suggest a way that would work? I'm no expert, what environment would stop men from being violent?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 12:56 AM
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Yes but if a mentally ill person hurts someone in a delirium we say "oh he could not help it so it doesn't make senuto punish them" we just try our best to help them. So hyperthetically if men were biologically incapable of resisting violence it would not make sense to punish them for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 12:55 AM
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Okay but if environment has an influence we should strive for an environment that results in the least violence, should we not? Maybe afterwards we still have more violent men than women but we have fewer violent humans than we do now
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 06:38 PM
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Sure but the choices we make are also influenced by how we were raised. If someone grows up in an environment where violence is normalised, don't you think these people are then also more likely to choose violence? I'm sure being biologically more aggressive also has an influence but it's not like environment has no influence. Nevertheless biology doesn't make one choose violence. Some people are biologically more likoto get addicted but that does not mean that they have no other option than to …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 06:15 PM
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Then why punish people for being violent if they had no choice?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 05:50 PM
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Being aggressive is technically not an issue as long as you have your aggression under control. I think all men are capable of (learning how to be) handling their emotions in a healthy way without resorting to violence. After all men are not animals, they can be held to a higher standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 05:15 PM
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My partner is nerdy too. So not for me
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 08:35 AM
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Well if you want to be that literal I technically didn't speak I tipped
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 05:01 PM
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In my comment I am not talking about women in general I am talking about me. So it doesn't really matter how hard it is for the average woman to reach orgasm You are framing it as men try to make women cum but it's harder to make women cum so its understandable that men fail. But when a man doesn't ask what a woman likes and or does not do what she tells him to do. Then imho it's his fault that the woman doesn't orgasm
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 03:25 PM
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What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 02:39 PM
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Theres always exceptions to a rule don't take the statement that literally And just because I say something can make sense in a context does not necessarily mean I approve of it in this context
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 10:53 AM
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Casual Sex does not cure loneliness
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 09:59 AM
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Yeah but since some American schools are not required to teach accurate information, that's not really a good argument. Some schools also teach kids that they are like a piece of gum. And once they had sex with one person anyone else will see them as a a chewed piece of gum. Depending on age it can also makes sense to teach the most extreme form. You also say "don't drink and drive" and not "it would be best to drive completely sober but let's be honest most people will still drive after one bee…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 07:22 AM
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No one is saying a woman can't consent to sex after a glass of wine
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 05:28 PM
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Why am I not allowed friends but friends that are somewhat related to my? Also does the love of my life have friends and am I allowed to be friends with his friends and their partners?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 09:16 AM
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What if I consider my cousin's or their husbands /wife's friends? Since I am not allowed friends in the first scenario
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 08:52 AM
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What about the family I already have parents siblings cousins...?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 08:30 AM
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I don't want to be around people I want to be around friends And what did you mean when you said "children are optional, without you'd have no outside family" are the children all the outside family I get or do I only acces to my parents if I have kids
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 08:15 AM
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I usually don't perceive women as a threat even if they are obviously physically stronger than me. I have never heard a story of a lesbian becoming violent after being rejected. I also don't know anyone who was ever attacked by a woman. So I usually don't consider the option that a woman could be a safety concern. A muscular butch woman would not make me scared unless she is behaving weird. But I'm socially awkward and I generally do not want to talk to strangers. So no matter if man or woman I …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 08:12 AM
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Seccond option while I love my partner and always love to spend time alone with him, I would still miss having other people around once in a while. Having no friends andvno family besides my husband and possibly children just sounds lonely especially if he has to work 40+h weeks an I'm just home alone in the meantime. If I already know from the beginning that I won't find love anyway, I can plan my life around that. And still be happy I think
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 07:47 AM
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Seek happiness outside of relationships make sure you are happy with your life. A partner you will actually be happy with in the long run, will love the way you are. Changing yourself in order to get a partner might work for a while but won't lead to happyness in the long run. Being fit and healthy is generally a good idea but thats something you also should do for yourself. But trying to do something, with the intention to get a partner will just frustrate you if it doesn't work. And you can't …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 09:59 PM
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No advice ever is applicable to all women. With anything you Wil find at least one person to disagree with you
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 03:05 PM
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Most women agree on a few fundamental basics these basics like being nice will increase your chances but will not automatically get you laid. These are the general advice things people can and will give out. Anything more specific will turn off as many women as it will attract because most things are individual taste. So recommending anything would not be very helpful. What part do you not comprehend?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 02:50 PM
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There isn't one way to get all women though? Like what do you expect? And even if you want any woman since every woman wants something else you would have to pick a specific woman and then do what she wants. Or apply some specific advice and hope that you meet a woman who is into these specifics
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 02:33 PM
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"just treat women like humans" lacks any actionable steps. A surprising amount of men doesnt do this though. And into how many steps do you need it to be broken down? It should not be this hard to treat women like humans? Okay, how would I improve my running technique? Generic running advice could be information on which part of your foot should touch the ground first to put the least strain on your joints. If you have already applied this technique this obviously doesn't help you much but again…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 12:58 PM
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Well the advice "have the kind of personality the woman you are speaking to finds attractive" is not really helpful either but it would be the best advice to follow Being nice is one of the most common denominator of what women want with almost everything else you will turn off as many women as you will attract
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 11:22 AM
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Because generic dating advice increases your chances but not necessarily to 100% but that doesn't mean it did nothing? Imagine someone tells you how to improve your running technique and it is generic advice. Just because you improved your technique doesn't mean from now on you will win every race
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 10:23 AM
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When women say "you need to be a nice person to get laid" what they mean it is necessary but not sufficient to be nice if you want to sleep with women (at least for a majority of women) if you hear it and think "as soon as I am nice all women will want to have sex with me" and are then disappointed that this doesn't work. It's not on us. Do you want to sleep with anyone as long as they fulfill one minor quality? I believe that most people are nice and it's not hard to be nice. So while I would n…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 10:18 AM
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I don't see a reason not to, if I was single
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 09:47 PM
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You do realise that trans women can be attracted to and date (exclusively) women
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 09:47 PM
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I never said that women don't profit from relationships and I specifically mentioned that what I said does not apply to all relationships? Actually I specifically mentioned one benefit women had when getting married so I at least implied that they do profit from marriage in some way. Edit : But the way women profit from marriage is not the topic of the post
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 07:29 AM
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What is he promising that he is not getting in return when married? Isn't the point of marriage that you promise not to leave and that a contract stops you from just leaving
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 03:32 PM
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Can you elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:17 PM
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You can think so but women might see it as filtering out men who don't like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 12:25 PM
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Well it has an effect. But there is a difference between saying "I don't wanna sleep with a bad person" and claiming "I would sleep with anyone as long as they are nice" For many women morality and niceness is a necessary but not sufficient prerequisite for sex
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 12:17 PM
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Yes it's dumb to assume someone is a bad person just because they don't get laid, but thats a different topic
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 12:13 PM
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"women don't want to have sex with a man who is a bad person" =/= "women want to sleep with anyone who are somewhat nice" It's not that women don't want those attributes, but they want it in a guy they are actually attracted to first Do men not want a partner they are attracted too? If I just want a person to split the bills, spend time with, who is nice to me and helps with chores, even though I am not attracted to them. Then I can just get a platonic friend/roommate.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 12:09 PM
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They mostly profit from long term relationships from women. But if you make it clear to a woman that you have no intention of marring her, she might leave you. Why would she give all these benefits to someone who could leave at any point and is not promising her anything in return for her efforts (again not all relationships)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 11:39 AM
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One Thing you don't consider is, many benefits listed in 1) also apply to long term relationships before marriage. I also wanna say that of course this doesn't necessarily apply to all relationships but in a relationship where a man gets all these benefits after marriage he probably already gotten them before marriage. So as one guy put it "why would I buy the cow if I can get the milk for free?" From a woman's perspective, she puts all the work into a relationship with no "guarantee" that it wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 10:45 AM
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I think this could be a better argument if you gave an example of what kind of behaviour you are talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 07:09 AM
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Honestly I have seen only a handful of women claiming they like to "be chased" most women I know would agree that if they are interested in a guy they would not expect that and that chaceing them would only negatively effect a guy's chances. And if you ask me personally if I was a guy and a women would expect me to chance her while putting in zero effort herself, I would loose all interest anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 03:01 PM
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If communicating with your partner and making sure she feels good is such a chores for you then yeah just divorce her. She's better off without you
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 02:29 PM
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I think the vast majority of people who “decenter” the opposite sex, talk about the opposite sex like it’s a bad old job they resented I don't think that's true
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 08:34 PM
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No it isn't. Decentering= something used to be the center of your life and now you are actively deciding that it should play a less important role in your life So imagine a person made their career the center of their life for years. 60-80h workweeks zero free time, stress all day every day, no time for family and friends. Now they are decentering their career. That doesn't necessarily mean they quit their job and never work at all again. But that their career will no longer be the most importan…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 07:58 PM
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Historically marriage was not really about love. Staying single as a woman was not really an option, it would have made you an outcast and would have seriously negatively impacted your quality of life. So yes many people have entered relationships in the past that were not about love at all. And yes from the women's POV it was mostly about having a provider. Nowadays women have jobs and don't need a provider anymore. So they don't need a man to provide for them. Therefore if a women chooses to h…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 07:34 PM
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Well since 95% of women are apparently lesbians only around 5% would have romantic feelings for men
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 09:15 AM
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Because women do not have a passion for life and love?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 09:18 AM
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It would probably become a lot easier to get a hysterectomy and or be sterilised as a woman too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 07:09 AM
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Putting aside the fact that society would almost instantly crash without men's labor and efforts You do realise that men would not disappear instantly, yes? And during wars when most men had to fight and women had to to their regular day jobs society did not crash either
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 07:06 AM
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Yeah but hopefully not at the same time and 100 people is a lot even more if there is a X year period where you only slept with one person
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 07:02 AM
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fairies OP suggested robots so fairies would be the preferred option if you ask me And OP talked about artificially controlling the size of societies that doesn't sound like individuals/couples deciding to have baby's by artificial wombs
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 05:20 PM
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Because if you are looking for a long term relationship you don't go for the person who has a new partner every week
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 04:59 PM
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The wall e People did have baby's though
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 04:01 PM
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But with a universal income and no need to work don't you think having a family and raising children will rise in popularity anyway? And then women would be much more willing to give birth
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 02:42 PM
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Yeah so if you wait for people to want children it will not be enough to get a stable society size like op suggested
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 12:55 PM
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Men are not even now willing to pay for their children. Even if the single mom does all the work In that scenario you are describing you would still have to find people willing to pay for children The number one reason people in developt countrys report for not having children is "financial reasons/too expensive"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 12:32 PM
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Who is going to pay for their food and other expenses? Who will decide what values to teach them?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 12:07 PM
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Yeah but why should women not get the right to choose having girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 12:05 PM
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What rights would be curb? No one would be forced to do IVF no fetus would have to be aborted because of their gender. Men are allowed to exist
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 11:45 AM
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I'm not saying I want that, I just thought we were sharing insane ideas on how to stabilise the size of society. And it would be more efficient to just increase the amount of people able to give birth instead of hoping for a technology that doesn't exist to replace them
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 11:19 AM
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But let's be honest it would be much more time and cost efficient to just erase men out of the equation. Even in developt countrys we still have a birthrate of slightly more than one child per woman. And 1.x birth per human would be enough to sustain a society. So the real problem is that men don't give birth. But we have enough sperm in sperm banks to repopulate the entire earth several times. So by collectively deciding to only do IVF and only with female sperm, we could create generations tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 11:07 AM
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We tell that about smartphones too but see how inseparable it has become Does mean it's a good thing And also emotions etc can be programmed Well I guess someone who wants an AI girlfriend would not see an issue with children also only receiving artificial love Already kids don't spend much time near their parents if both are working Two things 1. The fact that kids have to spend so much time without their parents is not unproblematic either 2 they are not left unsupervised, there are adults hum…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 08:41 AM
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Great idea. We all know humans are not social creatures and having our children raised by emotionless machines will probably have no negative side effects whatsoever
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 08:01 AM
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So on the one hand you have a problem with women birthing children and spending their time raising them, because they don't work, but when they work they are not birthing enough children?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 07:59 AM
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Being a parent and raising children is a lot of work though. So who is going to do that for artificial womb children? Maybe the women who have been doing it for free, for their own children so far? They are experienced and need a job anyway. But who will pay them?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 07:53 AM
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You do know that 4B has like 50'000 members which is a lot but insignificant compared to the population size
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 07:50 AM
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Still leaving the question of raising the children Also egg donations are a lot more complicated and therefore expensive
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 07:46 AM
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Does that not also apply to men? Most people will have at least one previous partner. Very little people start dating their first love and stay together for the rest of their lives
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 07:45 AM
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If a country has a low birth rate part of the reason is usually because people don't wanna raise children. And even a child born from an artificial womb needs someone to take care of it during the first years of their lives. Who is going to do that? Also even with an artificial womb you'll most likely need a woman's eggs, so they are still somewhat dependent on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 07:41 AM
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Quick question, a surprising amount of men walk out in their children. So who is going to raise the artificially born children? I mean you want enough to stabilise the size of society
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 07:33 AM
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A mommy who rewards them with sex for being good boys
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 09:36 PM
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But there are many forms/directions of "radicalisation". The current form of men listening to sex traffickers does scare people into demanding action. But these people are not part of the radical men group. They want to prevent more men being radicalised in that direction. And yes now most people know about male loneliness but has anything changed for the better since then? Would it not be more productive if men presented solutions to their problems and be radicalised in a way they demand these …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 07:33 AM
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Why does he make an effort not to cum too quickly instead of just investing minimal effort to make me cum? And not every woman can cum while riding him and him doing nothing. Being held and loved is nice but also something I want to get outside of sex. And if he did that only during sex then he can go fuck himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 03:59 AM
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Of he comes off as entitled totally depends on the way he is expressing his frustrations. Of course it is frustrating to not find love. That is a valid feeling, don't we all wanna feel loved in some way? Imagine you co-worker get a promotion and you don't. It is totally okay to want a promotion too, we all need money to survive and everything is getting more expensive. So it is okay and doesn't make you unlikeable to say "I wish I got a promotion too. I feel like no one is recognising how hard I…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 12:10 AM
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If I wanted to make myself orgasm I would just masturbate. If a man wants me to prefer having sex with him over masturbating, then he will have to make an effort to make me cum. Otherwise I'll do it myself without him. Tell me why would I have sex with a men, who shows no interest in making me cum and risk pregnancy? (No birth control is 100% effective)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 01:12 PM
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Perfekt example of how dating apps don't discriminate based on how sensitive people are
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 05:25 PM
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So sensitive men can't use for example dating apps? The problem is not that women are bothered by men, when they just wanna do something like read a book in the library. The problem is that there is no dedicated signal/ space where approaching people is the norm/ acceptable. Sensitive men are afraid to bother people they would not be afraid if a single woman would be sitting in a cafe with a sign "feel free to approach me, I love meeting new people". Like a real life dating app
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 12:01 PM
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What is what?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 07:39 AM
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I mean no one can dictate your feelings. The problem is usually not what one feels but how one reacts based on these feelings. You wanna talk shit with your peers about people you hate, little to no harm done (compared to what hate can lead too). Advocating that the group you hate should have fewer rights? really problematic. Being violent or excusing violence against said group, obviously not acceptable. But you wanna do what women do, talk shit and try to avoid contact? Go ahead, no one can st…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 07:09 PM
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Go touch some grass man
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 09:03 AM
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Did you not read the second half of my comment? I literally wrote because...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 09:00 AM
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Ah yes "talk to women" and then use things that happen online as evidence. How about you talk to some actual women, you know in real life?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 08:01 AM
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Again r/askfeminst is not a good base for an argument. Unless you have concrete proof that they are representative of feminism as a whole. And just saying "ohh they should be a random sample size" is not proof. Because it is not random. If there are a lot of very Vocal men haters on this subreddit, many feminist who don't hate men will leave the subreddit as to not be associated with these people
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 08:00 AM
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Of course in this case I am referring to the behaviour described in the post, because the person who replied to my comment claimed that a majority of feminists behave in that way and he provided no proof
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 07:57 AM
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Yes but I doubt the subset of feminist on this subreddit is truly random and is therefore not representative of feminism
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 07:55 AM
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I want proof that a majority of feminist actually behave that way
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 07:14 AM
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You are repeating yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 05:30 AM
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they have to agree with men talking about all women, to be fair. Yeah and react with "not all women"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 07:05 PM
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Yeah but every time women talk about men as a group the response is always "not all men" so it's only fair to respond to a post like this with "not all feminists"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 05:20 PM
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And all feminists are in this sub Reddit? And you are sure no feminist ever left that subreddit because it took an odd turn?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 05:19 PM
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I do and I can honestly say that rather disproves your theory
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 05:16 PM
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Proof?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 02:59 PM
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"Feminists" is not a coherent group. It's like saying people with a certain style of clothing behave in a specific way. Some do for sure but not all.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 01:47 PM
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The main problem I see is that many men seem to have no idea what women actually find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 10:12 AM
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I'm more jealous of the fact that you can have so many in one session and not the fact that you need so many, you know
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 10:52 AM
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Wow I'm kinda jealous ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 10:34 AM
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I feel the same way
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 10:33 AM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 03:26 AM
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Seems like their reason is more "I don't wanna be reminded of my ex while being on a date with my current boyfriend" and executing this horribly by talking about their ex afterwards. From what I have seen these type of people are usually not over their exes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 03:06 AM
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The question is not if he would want to, my question was if he should. Or what you would do as a consequence of a problem like this. Is your point that if you partner does not treat you equivalently to your ex "it is okayto be upset" or "it is okay to break up over it" or "your partner should reflect on their behaviour and adjust it accordingly"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 02:58 AM
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I don't think that is a common issue. But as with every feeling you have, it is something you should be able to communicate with your partner honestly and without pressure. But to get to you own example. If a guy took his ex to the Maldives and he has just as much money as back then (and no other rational reason not to take her). Should he take her too? Just to avoid making her feel a certain way? Would you consider it valid for her to break up over this if he didn't? Sure you are entitled to ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 09:13 PM
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No one owes anyone any kind of sex. Period. But you do realise some women enjoy kinky sex right?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 02:45 PM
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No I wouldn't support it, but I would not stop it either. I think I would be pretty indifferent about it. I also don't think it would need support, considering people are already using AI Chat bots as replacements for partners, shows that there would be a market for such a thing and that there is money to be made in that area. So I think wether I support it or not it will eventually become a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 08:05 PM
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You can’t then turn that experience into a generalization of an entire group, that just makes things worse for you. As I said for me it's really less about personal experience and more about seeing how many others relate to this experience. Imagine I was bitten by a dog, while quite a painful experience and maybe even traumatising and giving me a temporary fear of dogs. Rationally I still know that most dogs are not dangerous and I can work through my fear. But now imagine me saying, I was playi…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 07:46 PM
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While I believe you that drastic things like abuse in relationships and cases of rape happen to all genders in roughly equal numbers These are drastic things and the majority of people thankfully do not have to experience these. And they are usually "isolated instances" confined to one specific abuser. Just because you have been in one abusive relationship doesn't mean that you will forever be scared of people with the same gender (after working through your trauma) I think the smaller instances…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 06:59 PM
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I didn't say that men don't have bad experiences with women. I asked a question. Sure this implies that I think that generally women have more negative or worse negative experiences with men than the other way around. But this obviously stems from me being a woman and only experiencing this side of things. That's why I started it as a question and not a fact of "women make worse experiences than men do". I am quite open to hearing how the majority of a gender experiences interactions with the ot…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 06:25 PM
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In relationships maybe but most women have negative experiences with men outside relationships too.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 06:08 PM
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girl, be honest, are you closeted? No I am openly queer lol. Never said I was straight. What are you on about? why isnt it the same for men? And I'm telling you I don't know. Is there as much male gay porn on porn hub as there is lesbian porn?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 10:32 AM
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I'm not that into the porn game, I don't know. Maybe other websites have better gay porn. Like grinder is specifically for male gay dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 10:12 AM
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If you ask these 80% of men what their worst experience with a woman was, and then ask the 70% of women what their worst experience with a man was. What do you think the answers will be like?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 09:39 AM
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Again where are you getting this information? Sure there are women who watch lesbian porn but what makes you think they are straight
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 02:26 PM
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Yeah but lesbian who watch porn would probably watch lesbian porn and around 10% of women are lesbians. And a significant portion of bisexual women will at least occasionally watch lesbian porn. And some straight women might watch lesbian porn out of curiosity (for example to see if they like it). That could be enough to make lesbian the most popular category without a significant portion of straight women watching it to get off.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 12:26 PM
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Some women like it but there are definitely more popular books on the market
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 12:18 PM
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(think Morning Glory Milking Farm) Could you pick a worse example
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 11:23 AM
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Then you should seriously reconsider your sources for female attention And there are definitely men beating it to male gay porn, but people wouldn't assume it's the straight guys
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 11:21 AM
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Show me where porn hub explicitly said that straight women watch lesbian porn, not just women in general explicitly straight women. Please include the number of straight women who do that because if only a small percentage of straight women does it, then it's not representative. I wanna see where it says a significant amount of all straight women, not just any women on Porn hub, regularly watches lesbian porn to get off
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 07:33 AM
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Why are you hoping for straight women to fantasize about other women?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 11:58 PM
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Femtasy (erotic audios) is quite popular amongst women Other women use their thoughts Some read stories
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 07:30 PM
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Well not all deer are extinct despite the fact that females prefer bigger antlers. So this specific kind of deer did not necessarily just go extinct because of their horns. The most popular theory on why female deer prefer larger horns is because they are a disadvantage. Therefore a male you can survive and grow into adulthood and survive long enough to mate must have extremely good survival skills counteracting his disadvantage of big horns. A deer who is hindered and can't cope with his antler…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 03:49 PM
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When will men stop pretending that it is common for (straight) women to masturbate to lesbian porn?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 01:01 PM
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Well "bare minimum" and "not making my life harder" is basically expressing the same thing for me at least
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 02:28 PM
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Do you only date women because of the things she can do for you? What does a woman have to do, for you to date her?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 01:36 PM
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I don't expect more than the bare minimum from my partner. I am with my partner because I love him. Because I like his personality. The reason I prefer living with my partner over a female roommate is because I like my partner more than the average woman in my life. I enjoy spending time with him. But I also don't date him because he does the bare minimum, I would not date someone who is not willing to do the bare minimum. But apart from that I date someone who I find attractive and like as a pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 01:29 PM
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That's a reasonable expectation? What is your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 01:21 PM
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Something what?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 09:53 AM
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Ok let's look at man's achievements -most men who are pro womens rights are not actively fighting for women to keep their rights or get rights they currently do not have (you could fight for the rights of women in other countries if they already have equal rights on yours) and I'm not saying you have to do activity fight for women's rights to deserve a partner. I'm just saying not actively trying to take women's rights away should be the default and is not something you should need a reward or p…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 08:16 AM
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Bare minimum: if my female roommate also does these things without making a big deal about it then I expect a partner to do the same. Like come on not hitting your partner is not an achievement. Considering most men are not sole providers and the woman goes to work too, sharing chores should be normal. All the things (besides sexual stuff) are things I also get when I have a woman as a roommate. And she doesn't need to be praised for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 07:44 AM
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I have not heard of this trend until now Can you give some sources?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 07:46 AM
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Oh surprise, being able to follow social rules doesn't say much about you as a person. Yeah being a gentleman has about as much to do with being a "real man" as shaving has to do with being a "real woman". But that doesn't stop some men from crashing out when they hear a woman has body hair
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 07:32 AM
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Women you are willing to sleep with other women usually are not heterosexual. But I doubt that the majority of heterosexual women would prefer to sleep with a woman than a below average man. So unless you have a study to prove this "fact" it doesn't indicate anything. And even if most women are bisexual, what does it matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 08:17 AM
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Physical touch as a love language does not necessarily imply sexual touch. It can be hugges, back scratches, massages, hand holding, cuddling whatever. This can but doesn't have to be combined with considering a frequent and active sex life important for your relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 06:33 PM
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Right I'm sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 02:37 PM
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I have heard so many women describe exactly this
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 11:58 AM
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I would, I don't see any downside* to becoming a man *That would apply to me
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 10:30 AM
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What if he was
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 10:26 AM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 09:33 AM
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Stehen Männer oft unter Generalverdacht? Ja klar. Ich kann einem Mann ja nicht ansehen ob er mich nicht vielleicht umbringen würde. Also ja wenn ich in ne fast leere U-Bahn steige und außer mir ist da nur ein Mann dann finde ich das immer beunruhigend. Aber ganz ehrlich viele Männer halten sich für "einen der guten" sind aber eigentlich Teil des Problems. Wenn du sagst du hast schon öfter beobachtet dass Männer Frauen belästigen oder versuchen sie zu vergewaltigen, hast du dann was gemacht? Die …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 04:11 PM
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The study I was referring to went viral (so no need to specially mention it). Later it got taken back, due to major flaws, I was unaware of that when I made the comment. But someone else in the comments already pointed that out. So would you really want a link to the source that is flawed?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 07:58 AM
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Someone else already pointed out that the study got taken back. You can read through the comments if you want
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 10:43 PM
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But being the primary caregiver of a disabled person also means a lot of work so it would have to be a lot of money in order to be a good deal (if you don't love the guy)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 10:41 PM
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So why did you bought it up in first place? Because I was responding to a comment that made an additional claim, and in response to that additional claim it made sense to bring up Women cant monkey branch in their 50s/60s thats when most people get seriously ill/sick Being the primary caregiver of a disabled person is more work than being alone. So if those women don't love their husband they are better off alone Not to mention there will be a social backlash for leaving your sick partner If all…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 02:10 PM
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The post is about "women only love men for what they can do" then the logical question is "why would women stay with men when they can no longer do as much/ anything" For OPs original claim it is irrelevant whether it is true that men are more likely to leave their sick wife's
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 01:56 PM
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Then the more relevant question. Why don't we see a almost 100% divorce rate when the husband becomes sick/disabled Since women only love them for what they can do
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 01:36 PM
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Then tell us why women don't leave when their partner becomes sick/disabled where men tend to leave in the same situation. Almost as if women love their partner even after they can no longer provide services for them
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 08:58 AM
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And somehow men are much more likely to leave their partner if the partner becomes sick/disabled. Weird how women tend to stick by their partner even if that partner can no longer do anything for them while men tend to leave. Even though women apparently only love men for the services they provide
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 08:55 AM
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If you are actually not acquiring any muscle while eating enough protein and calories then you should go talk to a doctor. And start eating even more. Some people just have an extremely high calorie requirement even if they don't do much. Just their base level because their metabolism just works that way. Maybe you are one of them
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 10:13 PM
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Men do have thirst trap accounts on Instagram and they do work. I have seen them Many women have a "men objectify us anyway, might as well profit off it" attitude and it is an ongoing debate if that mindset intensifies the problem or not
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 04:24 PM
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Well that's where personal standards come into play.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 10:32 AM
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If your peace is that fragile then I'm really sorry for you
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 10:31 AM
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Yeah sure if you leave out the other half of the sentence. But that also really changes the meaning of what I said We compromise a lot but never has any compromise threatened the peace
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 10:19 AM
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both of you just put demands and are not willing to listen to each other. What makes you think that
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 09:57 AM
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Sad if op actually feels that way
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 09:51 AM
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I think marriage is a bit more than just a number game
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 09:49 AM
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A woman can want a relationship while also not wanting a relationship with just anyone. A good relationship is better than being single but being single is better than a bad relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 09:40 AM
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Sounds like your relationship just suck I've been in the same relationship for years and neither my partner nor me has ever had to agree to a compromise that threatened their respective peace. We each put time and energy into our relationship but it doesn't feel like work, yet both our lives are better with the other person in it. Even though we were content and at peace with being single before entering the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 09:33 AM
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When I was single, I did not rank men. And I was only ever seriously interested in one guy at a time. And that was based on my feelings and not on knowing his status in life. Ever since I've been in a relationship I have not seriously considered another man as a romantic option/ possible partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 07:51 AM
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I can acknowledge that they are in good shape but no sexual attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 02:10 PM
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That just supports OPs claim
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 10:59 AM
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But you could be exceptional in a different aspect than other guys. Just because the guy next door is exceptional at playing football does not mean the guy who is an exceptional tennis player has achieved less
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 11:21 AM
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as a potential means to improve their stations. Isn't OPs point that this won't work?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 06:29 AM
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Yes I would
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 06:18 AM
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Very interesting that you repeatedly refer to the relationship in these books as "bromance" Can I ask, have you ever read one of those books?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 04:52 PM
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Still if women were not sexually attracted to men at all, like op claims, they would not want to read about naked male bodies
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 03:49 PM
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Women who read gay stories are less focused on the sex and more the plot. I mean the plot is of course usually more important but the main story line would work just as well without the details in the sex scenes, so if the sex scenes were not as interesting then why are they so detailed and not left out or really short
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 03:05 PM
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Yes, but these romantic stories would also work without detailed description of the sexual intimacy. But since these scenes fill several pages of these books it seems they are an important part of why women read these books. Otherwise they could read non-spicy romance books
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 02:11 PM
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But why would women, who according to you are not attracted to men, want to read about two men having sex? I mean women could write romantic stories with complex characters dynamics about straight or lesbian relationships too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 12:50 PM
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How do you explain the massive interest of heteroromantic women in male gay romance/sex in forms of shows? like heated rivalry as well as the books they are based on. The main audience of gay male love stories are women and many fanfictions (manly written and read by women) centre around the love and sex between two men. How does that fit into your hypothesis?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 11:40 AM
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Many people are willing to let the perceived slight of a PC answer go. What do you mean exactly and why are you applying my argument only to PC answers Lying and telling the truth only require the ability to speak then. No difference at all I do agree with you that the lie itself is not harder than telling the truth but the expectations towards the conversation styles are different. Personally I would not consider you "successful" in this "avoid confrontation style", if the person you are talkin…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 12:53 PM
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No it does not require that skill. Someone can lie ignorantly and succeed by factors outside of their control. But to have that happen repeatedly and consistently without you doing anything to make it happen is highly unlikely What do you think happens after the politically incorrect statement is made? The conversation becomes much more difficult to continue when its tense so more skill is required right? You are talking about what happens after though that's a different argument. It is easy to …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 12:15 PM
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But to lie in order to avoid a certain reaction you must realise and know that this certain reaction is about to happen. So if Op claims that women lie to avoid something he must recognise that women possess the skill of anticipating that a negative reaction would be the result of the truth. A successful lie also requires the skill to anticipate what kind of lie would lead to a more favourable reaction. The same goes for not straight up lying but simply avoiding terms that are no longer politica…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 10:59 AM
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they lack the skill of anticipating and reacting to how someone will take bad news? I don't think they lack the skill. I think they choose not to deal with their negative response. Do you see a difference
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 09:43 AM
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How exactly is it a skill to be honest and say whatever you are thinking without considering consequences or other people's feelings? This seems like the easiest thing to do. I mean the opinion that it would be better if everyone was saying exactly what they think is valid but it's not that women can't communicate that way is wrong. Many might choose not to but not because they lack the skill to be honest. Whereas many people who just say what they think, without considering what reaction it wil…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 09:04 AM
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And what would stop women from dating their best friend to avoid sleeping with men?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 07:11 PM
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Should lesbians also agree to sex with men or are they allowed to friend zone men, what about women in relationshis? Do men have to provide the same service for gay/bisexual men?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 06:53 PM
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What do you expect women to do instead? Sleep with everyone who wants to sleep with her?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 06:31 PM
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But women don't try to keep men in the belief that they might sleep with them to trick them into friendship? Friend zoning is just women communicating what they want from this relationship. They are being honest, they don't trick men. And most women accepte when the man in question refuses the friendship and leaves. Sure it sucks for the guy but he wasn't tricked. A man lying about his intentions and telling a woman he's looking for a long term relationship but actually just wants quick sex. Tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 06:16 PM
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I have more than one male friend around that age who as far as I know are still virgins. I don't think about that much I also have virgin female friends that age. It's not as uncommon as you might think
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 10:27 AM
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If he masturbates a lot (or used to) maybe he has a death grip. So he got used to a lot of pressure and a lot of stimulation, something hard to replicate with a mouth. Tell him that if he masturbates not to grip too hard or keep his hands off himself for a while. Otherwise ask him what kind of blowjobs he likes best. There isn't one perfect way to do this. Every man is different and enjoys different things. For the jaw lock take breaks and use your and in the meantime also including your hands d…
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/26 11:46 AM
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Sounds like your point should be Dating a controlling person/ someone who acts like an insecure teenager sucks. Which is not a controversial take at all? But to frame it as the concept of "exclusively dating one person at a time" sucks, is a hot take. If you don't date unsecure people you won't fake the issues you described in your post
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 10:55 PM
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I don't deny that but that is a separate issue from women not getting to be sterilised
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 04:29 PM
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And that sure sucks for men but can we acknowledge that the opposite also sucks for women. It's not just that society doesn't care about men but also that it cares too much about women. Like it doesn't have to be a tragedy to not be fertile not if you choose it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 03:44 PM
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So you would give up the kids entirely? Since this is the only alternative OP gives
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 12:58 AM
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Even if she is not a fair person, she would still have to do so. Or is it different in the US? Because the child is the one who has a right to be supported by both parents. So even if the woman does not want to go to court the man could just take her to court anyway. He doesn't need your permission to sue you, does he?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 12:57 AM
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Yeah, why would I want a one time surgery that would fix a problem forever? After all I can just rely on the fact that no future partner of mine would mind having to wear a condom for the rest of our sex life. I mean we all know men love wearing condoms, especially in monogamous relationships. Oh and not to forget about all the other great options like hormones, sure the list of side effects is long enough that I could use it as a blanket, but if you have no libido thanks to the pill you are als…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 12:51 AM
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What does that have to do with men who regret their decision showing up at the doctor's and complaining?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 12:27 AM
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Then why is it so much easier for men to get vasectomies at the same age
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 07:23 PM
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I can name several women who have experienced this. Including one woman with a medical condition that makes pregnancy really dangerous and possibly life threatening, who regularly passes out because of endometriosis and her doctor will still not recommend a hysterectomy, even though she doesn't want kids. Because her hypothetical husband might be willing to risk her life to have a biological child.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 07:22 PM
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Please tell that to gynecologist that won't perform sterilisations because sure you might not want kids but what if your future husband does
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 11:44 AM
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Who is complaining about not being approached anymore? Haven't heard this complaint from a woman and if I did I would tell her to just approach the men she's interested in. It's not that hard
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 11:41 AM
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I am friends with several men and yes to me there isn't much of a difference between my guy and girl friends. Depends more on the person than on their gender honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 10:57 AM
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Yes I would date a trans guy Yes I would date someone, who has previous dated a trans woman
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 08:02 PM
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Das ist schon eine steile These dass besonders intelligente Personen Politiker werden. Naja grundsätzlich hast du Recht, es gibt bei Männern mehr Extremfälle darstellen. Zum Beispiel extrem intelligente Männer, aber dafür gibt es bei Frauen mehr sehr intelligente Frauen. Also mit überdurchschnittlichem IQ. Diese Männer mit tollen Eigenschaften geben diese Eigenschaften ja auch an ihre Kinder weiter, sowohl an die Söhne als auch an die Töchter. Wenn sie diese Eigenschaften nicht vererben würde, d…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 01:09 AM
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No as far as I understand the Redpill mindset. We women are only attracted to like 20 % of men (Chads) who are extremely attractive and/or very rich. These 20% of men have a very easy time and get to sleep with all the women and have like 5 women at a time swooning over them. The rest of the men so 80% have to do all the courting, buy us expensive shit, take us to dinner and can consider themselves lucky if we sleep with them after several dates. For them it is basically impossible to get casual…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 11:18 AM
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But again the ratio of supply and demand is better So how can you say that men don't have sex work/porn as a backup option
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 05:33 AM
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You could also tap into the somewhat straight male market by doing a femboy act. I hear the fetishization of "girl with dick" can be quite lucrative
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 01:06 AM
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The average demand for men might be smaller but there are also way less men doing onlyfans so you have less competition. And the average woman, who starts onlyfans now, would be lucky if she earned more than a dollar during her first month. Simply because most likely no one will even find her profile with so many other women on the platform
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 01:02 AM
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Your argument why men can't do porn is because women would not want to see that. Correct? Pay for Gay is apparently a thing in the porn industry. What is keeping you from making only fans for a male viewership?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 12:47 AM
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He meets my expectations, I'm happy. What more do I want
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 11:18 PM
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That depends a bit on the circumstances. Do I earn enough to support my partner, because currently I could not support him simply because I simply don't earn enough to feed two people. I assume in this hypothetical scenario I would earn enough? The next question would be, why do I have to support my partner? If he wanted to just be lazy and chill all day that would be a very different situation than for example if he was in an accident and couldn't work, or did jobs that paid really badly.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 07:36 PM
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Well ok then
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 06:49 PM
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No? If you edit a comment, like I did this one, there should be a little note that the comment was edited
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 03:37 PM
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Yes I understand that, but that's not what my comment was about. And what one woman decides to do is a very individual issue. What is she doing to show she is attracted to him? And why did she decide to not have sex with him? This is a very specific case and I can't give you a general answer. Personally if he is so upset he doesn't get sex on the first date, I would loose attention. So he would end up being right
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 03:18 PM
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See the difference here is it is the same man. I'm saying woman A does not necessarily feel comfortable with sex on the first date even if she is very attracted to the men, even if Women B,C and D might be. If you wanted to make an equivalent it would be: All my friends have partners who buy them expensive gifts and mine does not buy me expensive gifts. Do I think this means he is less attracted to me. The answer to that would be. No, not if he shows his attraction some other way
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 02:44 PM
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I agree that a woman who is truly into you will show that, but in what way is very individual. Just because some women choose to have casual sex with men they have met the same night in a bar, does not mean every woman would agree to sex the first day if they are "attracted enough" by the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 01:43 AM
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Nobody deserves being lied to. That has to do with basic respect. Cheating implies lying. If you agree to be in a monogamous relationship but cheat then your agreement was a lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 11:33 AM
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Yes, I don't deny that? But you specifically talked about a virgin man so I also talked about a virgin man. I also think you can and should shame a man who has plenty of sex despite his misogynistic view for said misogynistic views. Just like it is okay to call a sexually successful woman out if she is for example racist for said racism
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 05:23 PM
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Again I said its okay to shame people for their reasoning. If their reason is something like "it's my first time to and I want this to be as special for them as it is for me" then there is nothing to shame about that. If this man in question is only a virgin because he is a misogynist and disrespects women then his virginity should not be an excuse for his behaviour
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 04:47 PM
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I agree with you that no one should lie about their sexual history and that anyone can have any standard for their potential partner. So if a man only wants to date virgin women he should be free to do so. What I do want to point out though is that these men are in many cases not shamed for wanting a virgin woman, but for their reasoning behind their preference. So if a man said he wants virgin women because he sees non virgin women as less valuable, then this is a misogynistic take and it is ok…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 03:09 PM
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The "traditional way" of living is what some people want for their lives and that's okay. As long as you acknowledge that it's not this way for everyone. People should not force their way of living on anyone else. Feminism should be about getting to choose and if you make the informed decision to devote your life to your husband and family then this is up to you, and you alone (and your husband ig). Just make sure you also think about things like, what happens if he gets injured/sick/ dies, or l…
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/26 10:35 AM
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Yes but then what is leading to the denial?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 10:16 PM
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But would it not be strong to free yourself of the desire for/ dependency on women? I mean admitting the "weakness" was just the first step of your proposal, was it not? Getting rid of a weakness requires more strength than to deny it exists
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 07:23 PM
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You should tell that to the guy I was replying to
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 12:58 PM
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Why would you expect me to make a response, referring to a specific age range, if I don't know the age of the person I am responding to? I would make the claim, most younger men are emotionally vulnerable with their male friends. Which is another way of saying, no you would not make the claim that most men are emotionally vulnerable with their friends. Just because it is starting to be more common amongst younger men does not change the fact that it does not apply to most male friendships.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 11:22 AM
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Would you really make the claim that most men, across all ages, are emotionally vulnerable with their male friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 11:06 AM
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love, connection, emotional care, intimacy, support and so on Are things that girl friendships also provide (the intimacy being non sexual) and of course I appreciate that he does that too, but is that not what you would expect from a partner? To love you and be there for you. The bare minimum, even though that word is over used. I mean I recognise that this takes effort so to say "I take that for granted in a partnership" also feels wrong, but honestly? If a partner repeatedly fails to provide …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 10:12 AM
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Girl friendships are notoriously shaky and fickle. What are you talking about The "bare minimum" guys expect of their friends is being loyal and a cool guy And yet most men (seemingly) can't open up emotionally to their friends and depend solely on their partners for emotional support and suffer from loneliness as singles... I prefer girl friendships over that any day
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 09:32 AM
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Honestly I'd prefer that over vacation any day
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 09:27 AM
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The girlfriend experience probably costs extra
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 09:26 AM
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Have you ever been in a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 09:25 AM
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You can have the opinion that it would be better if we talk about the people we attract, instead of who we would like to date. But when people talk about their type that's not what they talk about. Just like when someone asks me about my dream house I won't tell them what is in my budget I will tell you what I dream about. And asking for one's type will get you a description of their dream partner and not someone "in their budget"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 11:56 PM
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" they don't wanna make a meal for their husband who is proving for them" How many men in western society do you know who are the sole providers for their household and who's wives do not work at all? I would cook a three course meal every day if that would mean that I don't have to work anymore, but men nowadays don't provide anymore. Women have to work too. And then the question arises when men don't have to do their husbandly duties why do women have to fulfill their wifely duties additionall…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 07:52 PM
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I don't think this is just a porn problem Sure porn might give him ideas and in porn his behaviour might be normal, but we really need to stop acting like men who watch porn only do these things only because of porn. He is a grown men he is responsible for his own actions. You have repeatedly told him what you want in bed and how he should treat you. He knows what you want and what you don't want and he chooses to ignore that. He doesn't care about your pleasure. He doesn't care that he's disres…
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/26 07:36 PM
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Nein Männer wären genauso picky, wenn sie genauso viel Auswahl wie Frauen hätten. Männer machen sich aber weniger Gedanken darüber wen sie alles aus filtern würden, weil sie eh davon ausgehen können selbst ausgefiltert zu werden. Also es gibt wirklich Männer die zu jeder Frau ja sagen würde. Ich kenne einen Mann der auf Nachfrage behauptet hat ihm würde genau eine Frau einfallen (von allen Frauen ungefähr in seinem Alter die er kennt) die er nicht attraktiv genug findet um auf ein Date mit ihr z…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 09:10 AM
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Yes but the possibly toxic partner also tells you their secrets (and if not I would not tell them mine) so you have just as much to weaponize or disclose about them, so they should think twice about whether they want to go this route. Also it is "just one" irl partner Vs possibly dozens of people who could theoretically access your data. So statistically who is more likely to contain a toxic person the group of one or the group of 12+ people?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 11:17 PM
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Don't have sex. If you do have sex, use birth control. This doesn't negate anything I said about abortion laws and why they exist. Also bold if you go assume a Redditor has sex. Wrong. Men put their bodies on the line to support the lives of people all of the time. I guarantee you that at least one man has died while providing you with a service that you take for granted. Fatality rates in agricultural work are particularly high. This would be a great argument if no women ever died while providi…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 12:56 PM
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Women can choose to be pregnant well highly depends on where you live. In some places choosing to end (have someone end) the pregnancy in your own body is just as illegal as ending the pregnancy in someone else's body without their consent. In these places neither men nor women get a choice. Look at the US, it is getting increasingly harder to access safe abortion without penalty. Some states even discuss the death penalty as a punishment for abortion. And it's not just the US in some countries …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 09:03 AM
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Fair enough, I mean anyone can decide that for themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 03:16 PM
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Almost as if different women have different priorities, but no it can't be that
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 03:02 PM
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"funny how women can filter for things that are obvious from the start but have trouble filtering for personality and things people can be deceptive about"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 03:01 PM
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If you feel good about sharing your thoughts and feelings with a big tech company and be dependent on them, then go ahead and get yourself an Ai girlfriend. But if AI girlfriends/partners become more popular these companies will probably try to get as much money as possible out of their customers. And suddenly you have to pay X $ every month to talk to your girlfriend or maybe pay per message and of course your data might be sold. And I'm not trying to talk you out of it I'm just saying be aware…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 02:54 PM
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I only address that a lot of men were getting matches that didn't amount to anything. Which could be true even if women put a lot of effort in the chats that they do start I didn't specify how many matches they were actually getting I didn't comment on the amount of matches men are getting either then when they did finally get matches they weren't getting responded to But I think it's because women get so many matches that it is unrealistic to expect them to have engaging conversation with all o…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 06:46 AM
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So on the one hand you say that really attractive men get a lot of messages on the other you claim that women don't reach out to people? And you don't see a flaw in your logic? Also just because women on bumble don't automatically have to chat with their matches does not necessarily mean they will have fewer matches. Hypothetically (I don't know if it's actually the case though) women might give out more likes to men compared to other dating apps, leading to more matches, because they can still …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 11:26 PM
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Ok so if I write a big text with many made up statements it is automatically assumed true because it's a big text
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 05:17 PM
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So I'm not sure if I would call it a feminist act to be picky about what kind of man you date but since feminist don't have a hive mind it doesn't really matter. Some might call it a feminist act, some will not and many will tell you that it comes down to the individual woman's reasoning. What I can say is, yes there are women for whom looks and status is an important factor when choosing their partner. But there are also men who do the same thing. and honestly why would anyone care about who th…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 05:02 PM
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Can I ask how you define being sexual because for me being sexual and trying to look attractive/sexy might overlap but are not the same thing? There are women I've seen every day for years at the gym that never did a arm workout. Okay and? Some people don't want big arms and consider a muscular ass attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 03:05 PM
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Sure women can sexualise themselves too but even if I twerk on stage that says nothing about how sexual I am as a person. I can be asexual regarding attraction to other people and still enjoy dancing in a way that others will perceive as sexual. But op makes it seem like all women think about is sex. I don't think about sex or even men when i dress sexy and dance sexy
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 01:16 PM
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Women are more sexualised than men. Yes when women try to get in shape it is framed as becoming sexy. But just because attractive women are highly sexualised. Everything women do gets sexualised. I do know asexual women who still enjoy "sexy" dancing and putting on makeup. But that doesn't mean they are sexual people
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 01:09 PM
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But just because they are unhappy single doesn't mean they would be happier in a relationship either? This argument works both ways
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 11:15 PM
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Could you give a concrete example of what you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 10:25 PM
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I'm sorry if you have had bad experiences with women but I don't think this is a woman exclusive problem. I hope it is no surprise to you when I tell you I have also witnessed many men treating women with absolutely zero respect, especially after the women (politely) rejected them. So I think there is a general lack of respect nowerdays
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 07:16 PM
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Even if my reasons are superficial why would you care? I for example would never date a smoker because I can't stand the smell. Others might call that superficial because it has nothing to do with their personality and maybe they would be my perfect match otherwise. But why does that matter? I don't wanna date them. And I'm not crying about being single I'm not trying to change men. So what exactly would be the issue with having superficial standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 07:12 PM
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Why would I care if they consider something a moral failure? A vegan might consider it a moral failure to eat animal products but that doesn't stop me from eating cheese either Edit spelling
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 02:02 PM
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Most men I have met I would not date. Not because of their physical attractiveness, because I don't think we would be compatible. But I have been in the same monogamous relationship for the past years. So it worked out just fine for me. So there is no "me Problem" I also don't blame men for not being compatible with me. I mean it's not a moral failure to not share my interests. So also not a Male problem
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 11:31 AM
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Well I know he's not meeting anyone irl so not to great
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 09:54 PM
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psychological terrorism antimale May I ask what falls in this category
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 09:08 AM
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And why do you think that is?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 03:16 PM
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I can't speak up against that because I haven't heard anything about it. I have no idea who these people are
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 01:33 PM
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Feminist do not possess some sort of hive mind and just because some feminist (that might be very prominent in your social media bubble) do something does not mean all feminists find this behaviour acceptable. Many people from all kinds of social circle, men women, feminist and people who are not feminist, use buzzwords to detail conversations and to bring the audience on their side by making them emotional. I think the main problem is many people, not just feminists, not just women but in gener…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 10:35 AM
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Sure buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 05:39 AM
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It's not that complicated of a lie? And you don't have to leave a trace of your hoe phase Not that I consider lying ok, but if you wanted too, I don't think it would be hard to make a believable lie
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 05:31 AM
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No there are men obsessed with women's body count and they will ask, they will care and they will judge But you don't have to date anyone who cares about that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 05:28 AM
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Then you also can't predict that women will choose the same 20% of men tomorrow
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 12:36 AM
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There is a phenomenon called conformation bias If you hear an information that confirms a belief you already have, or justifies your behaviour, you are much more likely to not question it any further and believe it too. But this phenomenon does not just target information about men. Many studies are flawed or were founded by companies who have a clear interest in a certain outcome but they get shared and published anyway. Like these old studies that tell you a little bit of wine is actually good…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 11:19 PM
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I asked first
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 11:14 AM
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No I don't
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 11:10 AM
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But what benefits does the government get?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 10:59 AM
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Why do you think the government that allowed the holocaust to happen would give you tax benefits for signing a contract involving them in your relationship? Now I'm really just interested in what your explanation would be for that
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 10:55 AM
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You do realise that we have gotten a new government since the 1940s?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 10:43 AM
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I don't know what it is like in other countries but in Germany marriage usually means tax benefits. So that's a not very romantic but practical reason to sign this legal document. Apart from that if my partner is in a Hospital a girlfriend doesn't necessarily get any medication information a wife does. If I had an accident and someone needs to decide whether to pull the plug or not, I would trust my partner most to do it (yes I know there's a specific legal document for that but if you are marri…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 10:29 AM
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A few factors to consider when comparing lesbians to straight women. Lesbian couples on average have less sex than straight couples, but when they do they are more likely to orgasm than straight women. And they can relax better since there is no risk of pregnancy. Ask yourself would you risk getting pregnant when you can't even expect to have an orgasm? Women on average just have a lower sex drive than men. Because testosterone is good for libido and women have less testosterone. Hormonal birth …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 11:20 PM
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As a woman I have to disagree What makes you think that
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 10:21 AM
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Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 06:47 AM
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My partner and I are the opposite. If it wasn't for him I would barely go on vacation
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 07:10 AM
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Look wise the following things are nice to have but not all of those are necessary for me to be attracted to someone Preferably type tall dark and handsome, if I can pick no receding hairline, healthy weight, but his clothes should be baggy on me. Not too many muscles but enough to pick me up. He should have a similar humour as I. He needs to be passionate about at least one thing. He should have at least one female friend and at least one hobby that doesn't involve a screen. I think there are s…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 10:55 PM
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Maybe he's also 5'5 and just wants a relationship at eye level
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 10:34 PM
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Yeah but some people are not actually open to discussion, they just claim that they are because they want to convince you that they are correct and are not interested in hearing your arguments at all. These people will waste your time and it's best to just step back and not engage anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 05:36 PM
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Well it highly depends on your phrasing because the way you wrote that makes you come across as an annoying know-it-all. See there is a polite way to educate people and then there are people who just make the other person feel stupid for not knowing everything. And the latter are usually not very good company.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 03:06 PM
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I'm not op it's not my question. But why do you answer a post that asks for a detailed explanation by basically saying that you won't give an explanation and to just look it up somewhere. Like no one is forcing you to post here, if you don't want to explain things then just don't
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 12:08 PM
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Well this is not my personal belief set either. But I didn't add any new information to what the original commenter said. You just have to abstract the matrix information
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 11:40 AM
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It is not a tool it is a set of tools and you pick and choose according to your needs and wants. Still if I don't know what kind of tools are in this set of tools, I can't know what I can do with the tools. Like if a friend tells me he will bring me a set of tools that were useful to him then this information is about as useful as telling me he'll bring me a bunch of objects made from a variety of materials. Cool what do I do with this information? Well I can't really do anything until I see wha…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 11:38 AM
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Why do I need matrix for that though? Would this not suffice as an explanation [Blue pill] represents everything society expected from [us]. It really has a lot of ramifications covering all areas of life, but considering this is mostly a dating forum, we might [use the example of] limiting sex to monogamous marriage, probably with the intention of raising children within the nuclear family structure. So, everything that supports pushing a normative lifestyle onto everyone is blue pilled. Suppor…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 11:22 AM
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But just saying "tool" does not give you any meaningful information. If I tell you I use a set of tools for my day to day life, this tells you nothing about what I actually do all day?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 11:15 AM
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Same personally I wouldn never date someone who smokes but I know people who do or did in the past
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 12:46 PM
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You could make the same argument for a non smoker married to a smoker of the same age. But love isn't rational. Plus worst case you can still hire a caretaker or leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 10:14 AM
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Well there will definitely be a lot of women for whom this is a deal-breaker, I'm not gonna lie to you on that one. Personally I would not put it in my dating profile because it's my personal medical information and the people who don't want to match me don't need to know. I mean it's your decision in the end and everyone will have a different opinion on that. Personally I would do it after the first irl date so it doesn't tint the first impression. But before they become invested it becomes som…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 10:06 AM
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Well if you warn me about your clinical depression I can adjust my expectations and my energy
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 05:35 AM
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Sorry I don't really get your point now. Could you maybe elaborate a bit more. Do I understand you correctly. So 100 percent of women you have tried to date made you feel like the dancing monkey? And that sucks, obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 03:53 PM
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Well if that's the definition it seems pretty obvious why someone would not want to feel that way?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 03:33 PM
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From what I understand the dancing monkey has to put more effort in than the other person right? Personally I expect my potential partner to at least 1 make time for me (a reasonable amount of time) and 2. Show an interest in me as a person. I will obviously do the same in reverse And apart from that I want a potential partner to be as excited about me as I am about them. So I want them to match my energy (unless life gets temporary in the way of that). So if I am made to feel like the dancing m…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 03:31 PM
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Again legally okay but would you respect an adult reciprocating a 14 year old's advances? Would you consider it okay for them to do that
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 10:34 AM
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But more women does not necessarily mean less men if there are enough jobs for everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 10:11 AM
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Well a friend of mine studies law and her professor literally said (in a dark humour why not to express personal interest) that at 14 you are "Freiwild" Not sure how you would translate that. But eventually means free to be persued But to break it down officially it would be legal for a 14 year old to sleep with a 40 year old. BUT the sex must be consensual and the child must not be talked into it. And let's be honest most people would assume that the 14 year old did not come up with the idea, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 10:06 AM
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Here in Germany the age of consent is 14 but I would not call it anywhere closer to socially acceptable for a grown man to admit being into a 14 year old. They would very much be hesitant to call anyone under 18 attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 09:47 AM
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Of course there are some women out there who choose a bad man? Like that is not a surprise. Women do not possess some sort of hive mind where we collectively discuss our taste in man and all adapt what the majority wanted. Yes there are women who go for looks over personality, yes there are women looking for gold to dig, yes there are women who are looking for casual sex. But that doesn't negate the fact that most women who are looking for a serious long term relationship would be okay with dati…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 09:36 AM
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Do you have numbers on how many men are unable to find physical labour jobs due to a woman having been hired instead? I don't know what it is like in your country but here it would be very easy to get a physical labour job if you are skilled and willing to do it. This branch is currently understaffed because most people don't want to do physical labour
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 08:57 AM
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You do know you can discuss this with your partner and you don't have to participate in this right? And there is a difference between being honest about important things and just voicing every thought you ever had out loud. And you (as a couple) get to decide what amount of honesty you want in your relationship. It's not that hard
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 09:07 AM
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Well this does not consider two things Even the most attractive man only has so much time to spend with women. And even if monogamy didn't exist, I would say that most women would still not be a fan of a quick "pump and dump". (Most women want an emotional connection, enjoy cuddling and even if we are only looking at sex take longer to orgasm and could have multiple orgasms) so a less attractive man could make up for his looks by having more time for his partner's. The second thing that seems to…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 04:17 PM
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Actually there are studies on this and he is correct. A man watching straight porn usually focuses most of his attention on the woman. Women on the other hand tend to watch "the entire scenery", they are giving equal attention to both the man and the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 12:24 PM
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What kind of "straight" women do you know that you got the impression that was common behaviour
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 12:20 PM
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As long as they don't complain about being single they can be as superficial and picky as they want
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 09:20 PM
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Im so sorry for your wife and you that you experienced this
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 11:22 PM
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Not only the American health care system in this case. In Germany we also have a problem with violence in the delivery room
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 08:27 PM
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They don't say it, but they are most likely thinking it. Again how is what they are thinking relevant. They can't demand a relationship so it will only lead to them being single. And that's their problem and theirs alone (I am open to changing my view on this see my following point below) Those women then vote in a way that disenfranchises men, so yes it does affect me (and everyone else). Could you please elaborate on what you mean by this? I have not seen or heard any politician promising hand…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 08:16 PM
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But that pretends wr have mind control over men. No I don't expect man A to protect me or other women from men B. I expect man B to not endanger me in the first place. The ones who will atacj you will attack you. You can't expect them not to because people do whatever the fuck they want. But it would be basic human decency to not attack people. You can't expect men to keep you safe e ither. Especially at a cost to themselves I am not expecting man A to defend me against man B but it costs B noth…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 08:06 PM
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Women deserve to be safer *Safer from men (I assume that is what's implied here because men have no control over accidents, so demanding them to make women safer in regard to those would not make sense) This is not entitled. This is basic human decency. I should be able to expect a man not to actively hurt me. This does not inconvenience him in a significant way. As I said anyone should be able to expect others to leave them alone. If I walk around with a gun it is reasonable for you to expect m…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 06:01 PM
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"I deserve a handsome husband". This is indeed entitled, but personally I don't know any women who would say that. So I doubt that this applies to all women This is true, yet women tend to crash out when they don't have their fairytale husband by the time they hit their mid-late 30's. Ok? So what if they do? Why do you care if they crash out? Or is their crashout affecting you somehow? A lot of women won't realize it's too late until after they've hit the wall. Not your problem, is it? If I stay…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 05:46 PM
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But who is demanding that? I only heard "the women deserve better" statement in regards to their partners but always in a sense of "why is woman not breaking up with this person, they deserve better" not in a "the person/man should change independent of dating woman" only in a sense of "they should change if they wanna keep dating her" as the women would be better off without them
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 05:41 PM
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As I said "better" can also mean being alone. So "I deserve better" could also mean "you are no longer part of my life" which results in you not having to do anything for me. Women are entitled to the choice of who they spend time with and who is part of their life. But so are man As I said you can't expect anyone to change, but you should be able to expect people to leave you alone
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 05:21 PM
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You are correct in a sense that you can't demand a man to change but what you miss is that being alone is better than being with a "bad" (whatever that means for you personally) partner So a woman can make the statement "I deserve better than to be treated this way by you" without the man having to change. Because if the man is no longer in her life she will not be treated by him this way And no woman or man is entitled to a relationship. So if for a man, finding someone willing to date him, is …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 05:14 PM
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I don't know the exact length. I mean I don't take out a measuring tape afterwards
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 10:56 AM
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Less of ideal size more of a hopefully it's not too big
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 09:19 AM
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Just like men have different lengths, women have different depths
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 09:16 AM
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Good addition
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 11:17 PM
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This is a very open statement you make here. So it's really impossible to disprove or argue against anything you say simply because it is very vague. Autistic communication is very direct and in theory it would be the ideal way to communicate. But as many autistic people will tell you, not only women but many neuro typical people often interpret the direct communication of autistic people as "rude" or dislike it for some other reason. So it's not a woman specific problem, rather that non autisti…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 04:14 PM
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What is your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 10:00 PM
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You didn't answer the question though, do you think it is wrong that the biological parents of a child are held financially responsible for this child
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 05:15 PM
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Would you consider it wrong for the mother to also be financially responsible for the child she is not willing to raise? I mean if she was unable to hide the pregnancy from the father she wouldn't get the choice to just walk away either
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 04:30 PM
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But we are not really allowing the woman to do it we just haven't found a way to stop her from doing it, right? And two wrongs don't make a right )
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 04:11 PM
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There are probably a lot of "straight" women who are technically at least a bit bisexual but haven't really considered the possibility. So they identify as straight because they are not interested enough in women that they would feel the need to come out as bisexual. Whereas many lesbian's start out as expecting to be straight but realising men are not interesting to them at all. They probably considered bisexuality as a label but actively decided against it because of lack of interest in men. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 02:19 PM
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I'm not sure about Safe Haven laws because I am not American and my country's laws are probably different. So if you, as a man know, your ex sexual partner is now pregnant and you suspect you are the father and for nine months you see her belly grow but after nine months she is not walking around with a baby. Could you not go to the police and tell them "I think I am the bio dad of a recently surrendered baby and I would like custody for my child, as I was not consulted"? Pretty sure for adoptio…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 09:31 AM
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"progressive" country like germany Two things. 1. Germany as a country might be more progressive than some other countries, but Germanys abortion laws are not really considered progressive and there is an ongoing debate that the laws regarding abortion need to be updated. 2. Late term abortion/ abortion after 14 weeks are regulated and not everyone is granted access but they are possible in Germany Also aside from what other countries can or cannot do. Look at statistics of people who actually g…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 09:18 AM
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What makes you think that having 100 likes on tinder is a great experience for women? I mean yes the "feeling desired" part is probably nice but why do you think women are not overwhelmed with their choices?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 12:29 AM
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So imagine a hypothetical scenario where there is a process of removing the fertilised egg /embryo/ fetus (that is equally invasive as an abortion would be at the same state of pregnancy) and continuing the pregnancy without the woman being possible (artificial wombs). Now imagine a woman is pregnant and doesn't want the child but the father would want the baby. Because of bodily autonomy the woman would have the right to have the pregnancy removed from her uterus. Do you think that in this scen…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 12:17 AM
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No "that dude" was in reference to the dude (very much a concrete person who also realised I was referring to him specifically) you were replying to not the "average dude"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 03:43 PM
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Where did I say anything about the struggle of men? I made a comment where I specifically said "that dude", why would you assume that a comment about "that dude" applies to men in general?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 01:22 PM
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So then why are you speaking for struggling men?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 11:44 AM
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Perhaps women express it with the expectations that men should "Do better" Well I don't know why women do it, but if the intended effect is making men "do better" it is not very successful. I think men's reaction is more getting annoyed by women's behaviour. But if you want to try out an unsuccessful strategy, feel free to go ahead. Just don't be surprised if women's reaction is more similar to men's actual reaction and not to the intended reaction
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 11:41 AM
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Are you able to choose your feelings? Why would you want to hate someone? Famous quote from someone "hating someone is like drinking poison and experiencing the other person to die" And you base it on the premises of that woman resenting men, so what if we don't agree with the premise? Also no one can really give you permission for your feelings and noone can forbid them either so I dont really see a point to this post? As long as you don't start miss treating people because of your resentment f…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 10:49 AM
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No if that dude has problems dating it is because women don't appreciate how he talks about other women
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 10:38 AM
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I can empathize with the problems of men and believe it or not there are some women in this world who also experience the "male perspective" of dating. No one is showing interest in them, they get rejected when they make advances. Just because the majority of women face a different reality than most men doesn't mean the world is black and white. So yes, I think I have empathy and many problems I do understand even if I haven't experienced them myself. But my understanding has its limits because …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 10:33 AM
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So they are then part of the "absolute bottom of the barrel" women?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 10:11 AM
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I have honestly never seen that argument used unless it was in response to the claim that "only the top <=10% of man have a chance at getting a woman interested in them" Because that's the only context it makes sense in. Just because other average men date, doesn't mean an individual man can't struggle. But it does contradict the claim that no average man has a chance
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 10:08 AM
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until they have no choice and it’s either settle Are the then dating below, or average men?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 10:02 AM
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Well fair. As long as you are okay with this arrangement.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 11:49 AM
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what’s the point of sex if I have to please him AND myself? What's the point of sex if only he gets pleasure? I mean you do you girl. I'm not gonna force you to masturbate during sex if you don't want to but personally I would rather masturbate during sex and enjoy myself than not masturbate and not enjoy myself. And again just my personal experience but for me penetration feels better if my clit is stimulated at the same time. So for me it does make penetration better and my partner penetrating…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 11:25 AM
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Not strange at all (depending on how I feel that day I can be the same), but it might be worth trying it. You can just communicate with your partner beforehand that this time you want to try it and you need less overall movement. And if it doesn't work you can go back to the usual way. You have nothing to lose
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 11:02 AM
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Clitoral stimulation is also possible during sex and without going into much detail, for me personally it makes sex better, a lot better.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 10:58 AM
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Have you tried stimulating your clit with your hands during penetration?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 10:42 AM
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Fellow Woman here and why would you use penetration for Masturbation if you don't like it? I mean masturbation for women can happen without any kind of penetration? Like your clit, the equivalent of the penis, is on the outside of your body. You can very much stimulate it without putting anything inside you. Most men don't stimulate their prostate, despite it being the equivalent of the G spot, during masturbation either. Maybe try finding out what kind of stimulation you actually like instead o…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 10:40 AM
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The need in this case would be the relationship though?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 04:37 PM
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I think the main argument for women being happier than men about being single is that many women are single by choice. Of course you get a biased opinion, if you ask two people if they like their situation and one person actively chooses to be in this situation and could change their situation at any time, and the other person has no choice but to be in this situation. Well then it's an easy guess who is more likely to be happy about their situation. So therefore it is not surprising that, simil…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 12:11 PM
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What do you mean
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 12:01 PM
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Ok so you are not selective because that's the only way you will get matches, reasonable if your only goal is to get matches. But usually the goal is not to get matches, but to get dates. Of course a match is a necessity to get a date, but getting matches with women you do not want to date is beneficial how exactly? Women are so selective because if they are not they will get more matches than they can handle. Because you don't wanna chat with ten+ people at a time (personal limits may vary) So …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 05:55 PM
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If you really think the men on this sub are an accurate representation of most men irl then I would highly recommend you go outside and touch some grass
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 10:22 AM
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This graph shows what age they find most attractive it says nothing about what age they find unattractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 10:14 AM
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It seems unrealistic that a 50 yo could find a 45 year old attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 10:09 AM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 10:24 AM
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And you spent time with people that make you feel like shit or why are you friends with people?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 03:38 PM
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I literally just explained that it is not about being helpful. Did you not read a word I said? I think I like my friends because I enjoy talking to them and I'm happy when I spend time with them And yes I hope my friends feel the same way about me
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 02:08 PM
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Sorry I don't understand what you mean? Could you elaborate
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 08:35 AM
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That is a fair criticism of my phrasing maybe I can explain myself a little better. I used the word "value" to make the connection between the expression "low-value men" that OP used. In a regular day to day life I would probably not have expressed it in such a way. And what value is in this case is very subjective. A value would for example be that I enjoy having conversations with them (because they bring up interesting topics or because they have similar interests etc). So I would consider th…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 08:30 AM
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Maybe you were just not her type. What a woman considers "low value" is very individual. Personally I would not call a person "low value" even if they don't bring value into my life, but I also won't actively seek their company either. And if you mean specifically in a dating context, it would be a person that is not "your type". Not only based on their looks (but lets be honest it is important that you feel attracted to your partner) but also personality wise. Personally it doesn't matter how g…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 12:10 AM
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then complain about being unable to find a partner. That's the real issue, if you are not annoying people with your complaints about being single then you can absolutely set unrealistic expectations for your partner. You just have to also be okay with not finding one
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 03:13 PM
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Of course not all women are happy to be single, but dating subs are highly biased. Why would a woman who is happy about being single spend time on a dating sub? So dating subs are not really an indication on how the average single woman feels
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 03:11 PM
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Honestly communicating that you are not interested in casual sex is overcomplicating things how exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 08:31 PM
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No there is a difference between choosing not to have casual sex plus a lower libido and demisexuality, which is not feeling sexual attention to strangers but only after some sort of relationship is formed (not necessarily a romantic one) Because in one scenario the woman thinks "yes he's sexually attractive, but I'm not in the mood for sex right now and I don't want to do it with a stranger" vs demisexual women who would see a man they dont know and not be sexually attracted at all, just like a…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 06:55 PM
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Most women are not demisexual but most women also don't claim to be demisexual? Is that a thing and I'm just not hearing about it? Demisexuality is real though, but it is not just choosing not to have casual sex. Also if the problematic behaviour is that they are moralising their sexuality then you can just say that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 05:40 PM
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I don't really get what exactly your problem is. It's not like an attractive man can go to any women and she will immediately jump him. But yes an attractive man will have an easier time finding casual sex, but only with women who are open for casual sex. And not every woman wants casual sex even if it is with an attractive man. Most women have a lower desire for sex than the average man. And on average women enjoy casual sex less than men. So many, if not most women, choose to mostly have sex, …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 01:41 PM
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You can't just copy one person's behaviour and gain their Rizz. But a friend of mine had a partner and when I first saw a picture I thought more along the lines of "what does she see in him?" Because he wasn't my type at all. But then I met him, and he had Rizz. And then I understood the appeal of dating him. But rizz is something uniquely intertwined with you. Just because a shirt looks good on someone else, doesn't mean the colour will suit you. And picking clothes out of a stylish person's cl…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 03:11 PM
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What kid? Wtf are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 04:21 PM
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It's okay to limit your own dating pool to nothing more than a puddle, as long as you are okay with being single. You could even limit it to a single person and say I either date the richest person alive or no one at all. But you have to be okay with being alone. This kind of behaviour is only bad if they are constantly complaining about being single.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 10:47 PM
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I have never heard someone explaining the claim, that women are better at masking, by saying that the evidence for that is that they are less likely to be single than men. The "evidence" I have heard of always was along the lines of "autism is under diagnosed in women because women are masking more (effectively)." And the reason why women mask more/better is usually explained as "women are taught social roles more in depth as children and there is a greater expectancy towards women to behave in …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 04:24 PM
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I wear clothes that make me feel good either because they are comfortable or because I feel pretty in them. Some of the clothes that make me feel pretty are revealing but the kind of attention they will get me from men (besides my partner) is what I consider a downside of these clothes. They might also get me attention from women but a different kind of attention. Honestly I would dress sooo much sluttier if I knew not a single man would see me. I don't dress to get attention at all, I dress so …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 10:45 PM
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Never heard of these terms before reading this post. And honestly they sound pretty stupid. I don't know anyone who picks their partner based on their genitals size and bigger does not necessarily mean better. And usually you don't know how much someone is packing until you are already in bed with them
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 03:11 PM
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more breakups shorter relationships To be fair, relationships especially marriages are statistically more likely to be ended by a woman. So a lesbian relationship with two women is more likely to be ended, period. Is it an escape fantasy Most likely yes, usually this is said while frustrated by dating experiences with men. Women who are happy in their straight relationship usually don't say that Is it a fetishization of wlw relationships I don't think fetishization is the best word for it. I thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 12:08 AM
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Would ugly average men not want women who are objectively out of their league? If they got the chance would they say "no you are too good for me" Women might recognise that a man is about as handsome compared to other men as she herself is compared to other women, but that doesn't mean she has to give him a chance. If she is okay with being alone then she can refuse as many men as she wants. Imagine someone is on a diet and is really into it, they will not cheat on their diet for sweets that are…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 07:59 PM
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That's okay women don't want to be in relationships with men who have an attitude like yours
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 01:41 PM
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Nevertheless you knew this would happen if you married and divorced her. You are aware of what the law in case of divorce looks like. It's a risk (best case would of course be that the marriage works out) you were willing to take in order to not be alone. You made your choice so don't cry about it later.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 08:55 AM
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It's not much of a legacy if the child doesn't even know your name
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 12:08 AM
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Men need to be in the mood too. It's just that for most men it's enough for the opportunity of sex to present itself to get in the mood or they are just constantly in the mood unless something kills their mood. One very important reason for this is the higher testosterone in men. High levels of testosterone increase one's Libido. So yes in general women tend to want less sex, but man like you act like it's a moral failing of women because they don't tend to men's needs. Women need to be in the m…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 11:26 PM
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Well if you ask me at a random moment of the day to choose between having a piece of chocolate now or having sex with my partner. Then it is very likely that I am not in the mood for the second option but I never say no to chocolate. Now does that mean I prefer chocolate over sex? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 05:03 PM
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Maybe she's asexual the "I prefer cake/chocolate/garlic bread over sex" statement is very common here r/asexual
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 04:58 PM
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Situationships are hardly categorized as a serious relationship (you also don't marry them and unless you have one with your roommate, you also don't live with them) therefore even women who participate in situationships would count as single in the study you linked. So they do not explain the gap
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 09:16 AM
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Do you think women overestimate or underestimate the success rate of men
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 08:08 PM
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Yes men who go to the gym usually date women who also go to the gym but when women go to the gym they usually focus on other body areas than men. Most men don't want to date women who's arm muscles are as big as their own
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 11:41 AM
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You are aware that when men ask out women there are women involved in this process so they are aware of your success rate
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 11:39 AM
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When men ask out women ther are usually women involved in the process so they are aware about your success rate
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 11:38 AM
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Yes but most of these things are gender specific. Muscles and a chiseled jawline are not what is considered to make women especially attractive. So are muscular men and muscular women in the same league?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 09:04 AM
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Women know you also struggle when asking out women "in your own league"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 08:53 AM
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Yes before my current relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 12:14 PM
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Do you actually think a woman feels good after getting whistled at or cat called? And I am not asking if you would feel good after something like that And being touched during a casual conversation? I don't need no man for that, I do have physical contact with my female friends and yes we give each other compliments too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 08:21 AM
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What do you mean by act of sexual affirmation?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 12:51 AM
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I'd rather be single for the rest of my life than be with a person who expects me to be their personal clown 24/7
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 12:02 AM
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So far that's just a statement if you keep repeating it and state this unprompted then it turns into complaining
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 08:40 PM
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As long as they are not complaining about being single then everything is fine Are allowed to have the standard "I only date people who treat me like Chad/Stacy" but if you set such high standards you must be okay with staying single.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 05:00 PM
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Why would you want to be in a relationship with a woman like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 03:59 PM
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I think most women know that they will never have a serious relationship with a "top 10% man" even if it's just for the statistical reason that there are not enough of these men that it's realistic they get one. What men often seem to not realise is that most women would rather be single than date an average man. This is mostly because past relationships were not better than being single. The risk of entering a bad relationship is not worth it to women who are already happy "even though" they ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 09:18 PM
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This has to be the most ****** argument I've ever seen This is not an argument for why they should be taxed but why I would not care if they are taxed slightly more when there is no real downside for them. Sorry but if you get a million dollars every hour you can't tell me that your life would change even slightly if you instead get 900k every hour. Sure they would not be happy about it but I think they would survive. They couldn't spend all this money in a lifetime even if they tried and for wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 11:13 PM
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The rich pay taxes Yes I am not saying they are not paying taxes. I am saying they don't pay their fair share. they are paying a disproportionate amount of money because (for example) a lot of their earnings and wealth come as shareholders in companies and that is technically not money so they don't have to pay taxes on that but Elon musk (for example) could use his shares to pay for Twitter. So it can be used like money but is not taxed. The "average Joe" gets paid in regular money and has to p…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 03:55 PM
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You started with the abortion thing? I didn't bring this up, and you made no comment on the tax thing
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 03:16 PM
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I am not saying that the state should take away their money and give it to me? Why are you acting like I am saying that for my personal benefit. I don't gain any benefit that you would not gain too. And I am paying taxes too, why should rich people not do the same? Plus who would pay for shit like road repairs? Everyone is benefiting from those but no individual person will pay for the road to be repaired, that's something the state needs to pay for and tax money should be used for things like t…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 02:53 PM
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This is exactly what I am not saying. You and your grandpa's house is not making you even close to being rich or part of the top 10%. And I did not say take everything away from them. And why are you calling me greedy? It's not like I collect the taxes This is what I was talking about. People ask to tax the top 10% of rich people, taxing them not taking everything, and people like you jump in and say "why do you want to steal the house I will inherit from my grandparents"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 02:15 PM
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So what exactly are you disagreeing on?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 02:00 PM
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Well most people who are rich are rich because they inherit lots of money. Not sure if having dead ancestors and having the luck of them being rich is "earning money" And I'm not saying take all of their money I am also not saying that only rich people should pay taxes. Everyone should pay their fair share of taxes, and currently rich people are paying way less than what would be their fair share
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 01:58 PM
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And you think the reason for that is that rich people are in charge?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 12:23 PM
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I'm not saying you should care about all the things I care about I intended to convey a "something does not necessarily have to affect your own life, for you to form an opinion about it and care" There are some things where I care deeply and cannot grasp how someone else can feel indifferent about these things and sure I might say things like "how can you not care?!" but in the end it won't keep me up at night. If you don't care about people's bodily autonomy being restricted then don't but don'…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 12:22 PM
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Question have you read the part where I said "And no you should not only care about the things that affect you personally that is not what I am saying"?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 11:52 AM
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?I don't know what you mean by that
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 11:28 AM
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Well not every country votes for millionaires as their politicians. Ours are just bribed by millionaires to keep their taxes low
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 11:26 AM
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The people responsible for taxes? Like a regular person pays taxes too and someone has created the laws that say that you have to pay taxes and how much taxes you have to pay? Paying taxes is not a new concept and using tax money to benefit society is also not s new concept?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 11:21 AM
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Why is expecting rich people to pay their fair share of taxes naive? Please explain in a way the naive person can understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 11:14 AM
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"eat the rich and taxing the top 10%" Could someone explain to me why there are poor, regular and well off people (everyone who is not in the 15% of richest people) who defend rich people from being taxed and eaten? Like it will never ever affect you, that it will ever do is about as likely as winning the lottery ten times in a row (and even if you did win that often you would not even be close to the richest people) And no you should not only care about the things that affect you personally tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 10:31 AM
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What is your point? No one has denied that attractive men have an easier time getting casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 07:37 AM
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Well OP didn't say you have to be happy about it just accept it. Arguing/being bitter about it will not make women suddenly want to sleep with you
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 07:30 AM
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How would this prove or disprove something?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 07:28 AM
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Have you considered your sample of "women on tinder" might be a bit biased and might not represent the average woman? Because you know that tinder has a reputation of being often used to find casual sex, right? So maybe the women who are not open to something casual don't look for something serious on an app like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 07:25 AM
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My experience is the complete opposite women love sleeping with and hooking up with attractive men. Is your experience seeing a set of average women who all decide to go after some chad eventually or does your experience stem from seeing/ being the "Chad" who regularly has women over? Because if it is the second one then it doesn't prove OP wrong. OP said that there are women who enjoy casual sex and that they probably will go after the hottest person "chad" they can find. So just because "Chad"…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 07:13 AM
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Well let's hope for the woman she also had a choice the first time. But in a lifetime of approximately 80 years two events with low impact and few barriers are not a lot. If I ate lobster exactly twice in my life you wouldn't say I had it on a regular basis. It was a choice to have lobster but it was a rare occurrence for people to see me having some.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 07:06 AM
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Just because someone did something in the past does not mean they would still do it now. I know many people who say they don't drink and always reject alcohol when offered some, but all of them have tried alcohol at least once in their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 06:58 AM
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Some men seem to experience some "baseline attraction" to every woman they see even if that woman is not their type. But most women do not experience the same. For most hetero women a man she is not attracted to is as interesting of a partner as another woman would be. So women don't say "imagine if only women that are not your type want to sleep with you" because men would still like that, we say "try thinking of all the men who would be willing to sleep with you, there are plenty of gays who w…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 10:48 AM
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Well as I said personally I prefer one over the other. But since I expect that the reader is able to think critically, they can conclude that my personal opinion might have influenced my phrasing and I guess they have also watched enough movies to know what gaze they prefer to see. So I don't really see the issue
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 09:22 AM
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I never said one is superior to the other. My personal preference is the female gaze, but well I am a woman and the female gaze is per definition made to appeal to women. The male gaze was made with the male viewer in mind. But just because one is made for women and one is made for men, does not one is superior to the other. But since the female gaze is made with women in mind, women are of course asking for more female gaze movies. Surprise if a group of people prefers one thing over the other …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 09:01 AM
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No the male gaze can also look at men and the female gaze can also look at women and the female gaze is not just "close up depiction of random body parts"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 08:54 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 02:01 PM
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The movie "portrait of a lady on fire" is a perfect example of the female gaze Male Vs female gaze is originally used in the context of movies and how the characters are portrait. Essentially it boils down to if the person is portrait and the main focus is "look at their body and how sexy it is" "lock at her curves/ his muscles" basically the person is just a sexual object in this scene and there is unnecessary focus on their body its "male gaze" think Megan Does in transformers (the car scene) …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 02:00 PM
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But OPs claim implies that it keeps getting harder to find boys who are not like that
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 08:33 AM
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Well being allowed to vote was not the only privilege that men had at that time so that argument is very flawed Again Google is free 7 and here I was thinking Americans disliked Nazis, well apparently you are an exception. Btw these laws are way older than the AFD
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 08:27 PM
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4 why is it a historical wrong that only men used to be drafted, but not a historical wrong that only men were allowed to vote? 5 good 6 I will not provide you with links to AI porn, you are a grown man. if you want to see porn I am confident you will be able to look it up yourself. Just look up female politicians that are important enough for people to know their names, and continue your search with their names. Btw you still haven't provided proof either. Usually the person making the claims h…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 02:27 PM
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4 even if what you say would be true, you now you want men to have less responsibility (only drafting women) and therefore following your logic to keep things fair and "even it out" we would have to take away men's rights. Well you can't blame women for how men set their priorities? If they don't advocate for their gender because getting laid is more important to them that's not women's fault There is definitely ai porn of female politicians, maybe no one bothered to make a whole statue but wher…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 10:02 AM
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I don't get how "woman in close proximity" equals no more male friendships? Okay there now is a girl in the boy scouts group. How exactly is this stopping the boys from becoming friends with each other?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 05:45 AM
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3 yeah I guess it is 4.[...]There’s also the righting a historical wrong argument where only men were drafted in the past, so for the next war, let’s only draft women It's very interesting that you think that. Would you also apply this logic to other historical wrongs? Should men only be allowed to open bank accounts with the permissions of their mother or wife for the next few years? How about giving some man that a woman sees as behaving irrational, a lobotomy? Let's have men do all the care w…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 11:06 AM
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That’s my source. I'm sorry maybe I'm stupid but I don't see how this says anything about the nerves that are inside the foreskin and how these nerves are cut away? That is what I wanted a source for. This only says that the tip of a circumsised penis shows less reaction to stimulation. Which makes sense since it is exposed more and therefore stimulated constantly (not in a sexual way but eg underwear rubbing against it) and to avoid overstimulation your brain gets trained to react less end blen…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 10:41 AM
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Well I don't know what kind of penis you come in contact with, but the penis I got to know was attached to a person who was able to communicate what feels good and where the sensitive areas are
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 02:50 PM
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Women are privileged in the legal system. Look at the Austrian woman Walpole who got only 7.5 years (and can be out on parole in 4.5) in prison for immolating a male “friend”. Compare that to the sentence nonviolent male offenders like Rod Blagojevich received. Here are examples of Australian men who did the same thing as Walpole getting harsher sentences than her. Michael John Price - set girlfriend on fire, served 6 years. Matthew John Davey - set girlfriend on fire, sentenced to 18 years. Nic…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 01:43 PM
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Routine male circumcision [...] the loss of half of the skin on your genitals, containing 3/4 of the nerves Would you mind sharing your source for this claim? Because I don't have a penis but all penises I have come into contact with were uncircumsised and the foreskin itself was definitely not 75% of the sensitivity lol. But sure don't take my word for it "There are many people, though, who are vehemently against circumcision. They claim it is akin to genital mutilation, [...] that foreskin con…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 01:43 PM
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Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 03:28 PM
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Why do they ruin sex for you, if I may ask
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 10:51 AM
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Well consent is sexy some people just think that verbally asking for consent is unsexy
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 04:44 PM
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In some countries married couples can just make up a new family name. I quite like that Personally I would take my man's last name, because if I get married I would like to share a last name to indicate that we are now a family. My last name is often misunderstood and people never know how to spell it. That's annoying and that's why I would not want us to share my current last name. And making up a new name is not very common here and I probably could not decide on a new name.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 09:49 PM
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I think big clit energy has a ring to it. So agree to disagree on that one
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 07:46 PM
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You can have a large penis and still not be confident Yes that's why I said it is not actually indicating the size of their penises. “little titty energy" Would not make much sense since you can clearly see how big or small someones chest is why not say "big /small clit energy" men are the only people that will be insulted by the size of their genitalia. Wrong, there are several women who feel the need to get cosmetic surgery for their labia because they were made to feel like it's too big. And …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 07:41 PM
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Virginity has nothing to do with penis size unless it is so huge that you can't find a woman who would be able to get it inside (very unlikely) And small dick energy does NOT mean "oh his dick is probably too small to satisfy a woman" it means "the way he is acting makes it seem like he is compensating the size of his penis/ like he is insecure about the size of his penis " it has nothing to do with actual penis size or a woman's opinion on what the perfect dick size is. It is all about what men…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 03:42 PM
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Oh no you misunderstood me, I admit it was bad phrasing on my part. I can only support as in "the only thing I would consider doing" is support your approach not as "the only sensible thing about what you say is the conclusion you draw" So I like your solution of "men should stop chasing women" and when someone likes a solution the only reasonable thing to do is support the solution But since I am a women and don't profit from the reason you listed as they are more about the benefits for men the…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 03:07 PM
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Where did I claim that they are not true? I just said that they are not the reason for my support
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 12:26 PM
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Just because you can't come from only PIV doesn't mean you can't cum during PIV. It just means you have to add clitoral stimulation. But sure if a woman is not enjoying PIV and is only doing it for her partner and he doesn't care that she is not having fun then this is not my definition of a healthy and happy relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 11:46 AM
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We met in school and started dating a year before graduation
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 11:40 AM
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No working from home does not make you less masculine
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 11:39 AM
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No he doesn't need to act masculine to turn me on. But that's just my opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 11:38 AM
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As a woman I can only support the "men stop chasing women" sentiment. Not necessarily for the reason you listed but I support the results
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 11:36 AM
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but menstruation is far more akin to masturbation than to having a cold Please elaborate Young boys shouldn’t be told about those things. It’s not appropriate for them, Why not? that age What age are you even talking about? When should boys learn about periods then? How is it a bad message to tell them mommy gets drunk on vodka? I can't believe I have to explain this to an adult but ok here we go.Telling a child their mom is drunk on vodka is harmful because it sends the wrong message about alco…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 10:35 AM
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Again masturbation=/= menstruation. There is a difference. It's not gonna traumatise a child to get an age appropriate explanation of what a period is. But I do think it sends a wrong message to children if you tell them oh yes in one week of every month mommy gets drunk on vodka for 5 days straight but that's okay we just take extra care of her during that time. Instead of telling them well your mommy has what is called a period. It is something every woman has starting from a certain age. And …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 10:01 AM
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Because a period is a normal part of life. It is not something that you need to hide having. There is no reason to cover up the fact that you have a period by telling everyone that you have an illness that doesn't exist. Why would I not say "I'm on my period"? normal people don't immediately start visualizing blood gushing out of my vagina just because I mention having a period and if you do that's your problem. In what world is having a hangover and normalising getting so drunk that you feel sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 11:36 PM
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Yes I noticed, nevertheless nocturnal emissions as you call it are usually associated with sexual dreams and what is even more important usually don't affect you much the next day. Being on your period also affects your day, your hormones are affecting you a lot, you might be in pain. It's a bit like saying sorry guys I'm a little bit sick but don't worry I'm not contagious but I might not be at 100% today. Boys should know because it is affecting the people around him. Why is mommy needing extr…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 11:36 AM
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Earlier this year, Olivia Rodrigo talked about being on her period on stage, and the audience included all ages. Imagine if a male artist talked about the wet dream he had had the previous night in front of an all-ages audience. What is it with men always comparing periods with ejaculations? A period is not something inherently sexual!there is nothing inappropriate about a period. You can talk to your children about periods and you should. Some girls get their period at the age of 10 some even e…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 09:42 AM
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So we are talking only looks and not anything actually endangering the hyperthetic child? And he wants to pick out the doner egg alone and just one day shows up with it. Then he can go fuck himself. No one can guarantee that beauty standards don't change during the next generation neither can you guarantee that the child will inherit a certain trait from their parents. And it's borderline eugenics to say that only beautiful people are allowed to have biological children And I think it's really w…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 03:22 PM
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Just because you never struggled with it doesn't mean no one else does
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 11:36 AM
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You said " if men behave like women they get their head caved in" I never suggested that a man should behave like a woman. I said if a man and a woman behaved the same way. This could also mean that a man behaves the same way as he always does and the woman behaves the same way said man does. Who said anything about loneliness? The original comment I responded to. That person said men are objectively lonelier. And that women solve their loneliness by making friends more easily than men
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 11:30 AM
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By that logic that post last week that was like "as a man I don't see value in friendships with women" should have gotten an overwhelming response of men saying "no I am only friends with women because they are less threatening" Because we are not talking about would you feel safer in a group of women or in a group of men but would you like to be friends with this person even though they are a man. And if not even men are willing to be friends with men then there is no way to help you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 10:15 AM
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Yeah I know that women are seen as less of a threat on a social level. But we are talking about the individual decision of a person asking themselves "do I want this person as a friend or not". And if this person is a man and still thinks of all other men as creepy ugly and dangerous then there is no saving you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 10:09 AM
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1 I said men and women acting the same, not man acting like woman, the woman could also adapt the mand behaviour for this to be accurate 2 one doesn't need many friends to be less lonely so even if it requires more effort initially to find friends that is not really a good reason to not have any at all
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 09:46 AM
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Even if that's true there are many men who say they only want male friends (there was a post on this sub recently of a guy saying that he doesn't see value in friendships with women and many men agreed) so it's not like men have 0 access to friendships. And one doesn't need a hundred friends, a few really good friends are enough to make you less lonely. So even if you might have to put a little more effort in initially to find your friends it's not impossible. Personally I think it's more about …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 09:41 AM
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being perceived friendly which gives them access to more friends Sir do you know how friendship work. Are you implying that if a man and a woman would behave exactly the same, the woman would gain more friends because she would be seen as the friendlier of the two?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 11:22 PM
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May I refer you to the comment of u/ladyindev " [...] https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2020/08/20/a-profile-of-single-americans/ [...] Men are far more likely than women to be on the dating market: 61% of single men say they are currently looking for a relationship or dates, compared with 38% of single women. The gender differences are heavily concentrated among older singles. While men and women younger than 40 are roughly equally likely to not be looking for a relationship or dates (3…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 10:11 PM
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But no one is forced to subscribe to only fans and it is not like only fans is the only platform where you can consume porn?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 04:30 PM
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The sperm of most men would not be accepted by sperm banks. The quality of sperm goes down on average and sperm banks only take high quality sperm. They need an above average count of healthy moving sperm cells. So sure you can try donating sperm but more than 50 percent of men who try to donate get turned down.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 04:22 PM
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Then why do you care what American women do?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 04:18 PM
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I would probs not get a known violent convicted criminal into my house to be my fuckbuddy. Most women wouldn't. I'd say your mom is the exception not the rule
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 10:19 AM
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I mean they would try and then soon find out that most women only make peanuts in only fans and that men who pay for sex usually don't bother with making the sex enjoyable for her. And then they would probably re-evaluate if this is what they want to do for the rest of their lives. There is a reason most women would not go prostituting themselves even if there was a safe way of doing it and no stigma around it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 10:17 AM
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Wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 05:00 PM
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No we don't
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 11:59 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 11:59 AM
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Well I guess OP wants to look hot for men. Men seem to think of muscles as peak attractiveness
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 11:58 AM
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I use the metric system so yes I have no idea how long 7 inches are. But also I could not tell you the size of my partners penis in cm either. Because I simply don't care how long it is
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 11:58 AM
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That's very interesting. I certainly have topics where I would only ask female friends about it because I feel like a man would not be able to give me much valuable input. I'd still say there are plenty of topics that do not require advice that is specific to my gender and even if it does I often appreciate getting a male perspective on things even if it is not "helpful" for my case. And of course you are free to choose your friends and if you happen to bond more easily with men that's fine. Con…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 11:34 PM
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Because it is highly unlikely that there are no women who share any of your interests... And then it's a question of why doesn't he like any of the women who share his interests. It's a bit like someone saying "all my exes are crazy" there is a common denominator you. Its just suspicious you know What about your current relationship? Do you not consider your partner your friend?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 10:03 PM
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Well 50% of marriages fail and boomer humer often includes the ",I hate my wife" jokes So I feel like basing your relationship on sex and financial support might not be the best idea. Just because the people in our grandparents generation didn't divorce that does not necessarily mean they were happy
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 09:57 PM
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Well I can only go of the women I know ... I do not conduct statistical research asking all women. So from my personal, obviously very biased point of view it does seem like it would be a significant amount of women. But to be fair I don't know a woman who's willing to date a "red pill man" so the women I know would not be in his dating pool either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 06:31 PM
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Not saying it makes sense But women choose a Bear over men so compared to that another woman seems very reasonable
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 06:22 PM
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That's why I said the woman I know and not all women in general
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 06:13 PM
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Yes and? I never said that it is logical for them to do so, or that it would prevent them from having bad experiences. But almost every woman I now would choose to be a lesbian (yes we have talked about it and the main reason was just I don't wanna risk going on dates with men because too often they are creeps) other reasons were: no more worrying about pregnancy, and some of the Pros OP mentioned just the "woman version"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 01:13 PM
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Well most had bad experiences with men...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 12:50 PM
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Since in this thought experiments world you could choose your sexuality y many women (90+% of the single women I know for example) would choose to be gay. So all of those women would not be available and from the remaining women it's only those willing to date a red pill man. Your dating pool would be much smaller than you apparently think. The more men take this pill the bigger your dating pool and a gay men becomes. Someone has to take the first step and if you are unsuccessful or have no luck…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 09:34 AM
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I know. I literally said that in the comment you just responded to? I was simply criticising that you just threw in one case and acted like that one case is enough prove. You could have referred to actual statistics if you want to talk about a systematic issue
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 02:18 PM
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I was incorrectly remembering the details he was a firefighter https://muenchen.t-online.de/region/muenchen/id_100561946/muenchen-milde-strafe-fuer-vergewaltiger-damit-er-beamter-bleiben-kann.html
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 02:15 PM
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Well I'm not saying that it is good that the woman to get a light sentence but for every woman who gets off easy there is a guy who gets off easy. To say it is female privilege would only be valid if OP referred to the statistics that show that women across the board get lighter sentences for the same crimes as men. Having one case of a woman who wasn't punished severely has no value
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 05:35 PM
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There's a case of a young guy who admitted to rapring a woman, he got an extremely light sentence because a harder punishment would stand in the way of his ~teaching career~ *I remembered incorrectly the case I was thinking of just said becoming a civil servant (and in my country and social buble becoming a teacher is the most common way to achieve that) He was in fact a firefighter
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 05:10 PM
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Let's be honest the average woman has enough options that she could just go on a date with someone else who is willing to pay. Now is that fair? No. But is it the reality yes. And if men collectively said we won't pay for dates anymore then women could not do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 04:53 PM
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And why do you care if someone like that gets offended
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 08:48 PM
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Well I am not stopping the penetration to masturbate I touch my clit during sex and just "push myself over the edge"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 08:43 PM
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I mean I am just using my hands to push myself over the edge it's not like I don't get enjoyment out of the penetration
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 08:36 PM
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Well I would not sleep with such a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 08:32 PM
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As a woman I can put my hand on my clit without having it be "in the way" in most positions. I might have to adjust the position a little but usually that doesn't effect what spots he hits Of course all women are different, but I can't relate to her critique
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 09:48 AM
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I was thinking the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 09:42 AM
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Yes women usually don't cum from piv alone but why don't more women touch their clits during piv? Especially if the guy is on top they have hands they can use them. Op is not completely wrong, if you can't cum from only a penis but you can cum with only your hand when you are alone why not combine the two
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 11:22 PM
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Well first of all that's only for marriage and not for every relationship, if you don't want to be forced to pay alimony then simply don't get married. Second if your wife has a job and her career is not impacted by the marriage and you don't have children you usually don't have to pay her. Thirdly it is not a law written specifically for women to get money. If your wife made more money and you were a stay at home husband you would also profit from this law. Because this law was made with the in…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 12:51 PM
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Why is that relevant? As OP said those men are not entitled to their partners if the "submissive wives" standard changes and she no longer wants to deal with the man it is her right But just like the man can't make her stay in the relationship, she can't force him to be a better husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 12:42 PM
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There is a difference between not wanting bad sex and not wanting sex. And the fact that you don't seem to understand the difference says a lot about the kind of sex women could have with you If men were better at pleasing women, women would not avoid having sex with them lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 09:51 PM
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It made me more sceptical of men in general. If I wasn't in a committed relationship already I would really think twice about whether dating men was worth the risk at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 10:04 PM
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I personally am in a monogamous relationship since the age of 16, not having casual hookups for me is more about my unwillingness to destroy my relationship than my willingness to have sex with strangers. Apart from that my partner has a similar sex drive than I do, so I am not "proof that I am less horny" But from what my female friends tell me sex with strangers is usually not that good for women so if they are looking for an orgasm they masturbate and if they want human connection they meet u…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 04:11 PM
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Women prostitutes are greater in number than male prostitutes. Yes but it's way easier to get free sex for women than it is for men and would be judged way more than men. Plus many women tend to not desire sex with strangers even if they are horny and might just masturbate instead. But choosing to not have sex with strangers and not wanting sex at all are two very different things. Men consume porn more than women do They consume more porn videos than women. But studies show that women are just …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 10:17 PM
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Well re-experiencing a traumatic situation in a controlled and safe environment like your bedroom only watching it happen in a video. It can give a sense of control back. And it's not like men who have experienced physical violence avoid videos about physical violence afterwards. They might not fantasy's about it but most men enjoy action movies that include lots of physical violence. And yes I am aware that most men do not get turned on by action movies but the attacker in their experience with…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 01:21 PM
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Men and women reacting different to their trauma? What a shocking realisation?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 01:05 PM
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Just because a woman was not raped and is not part of the 25% does not necessarily mean that she did not experience sexual violence that she deals with in such a way. Also had a rape fantasy =/= thinking regularly about violent sex to get turned on.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 12:46 PM
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Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 09:02 PM
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NEET?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 03:13 PM
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Yes but even if she admitted that she did not buy it at all even though she claimed she would, I doubt the court will see this as a reason to make the child suffer the consequences. The guy in this situation should have known that there is at least a 20% chance the pill has no effect and they'll get pregnant anyway and he willingly and knowingly took that risk. Plus She could just say something like "oh I had Mittelschmerz (pain during ovulation) the next morning before going to the pharmacy and…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 10:42 AM
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I don't know what country you are from but here in Germany this would not be easy to implement. Mainly because the child is the one entitled to sue for financial support (a parent can do it on their behalf). And the child had no hand in the divisions involved in their conception. Sperm donors sign a long contract to free them of payment obligations but children are giving their contact information. I think (pls do your own fact checking) technically the child could sue the sperm facility for chi…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 10:32 AM
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I would not be so sure about that, plan B only works if ovulation has not happened yet. So there is a chance that even if she ran to the pharmacy right away and took the pill immediately there would be no effect on the possibility of pregnancy. The plan B pill only delays ovulation by about 5 days hoping that all sperm has died by then. Assuming ovulation would happen within these 5 days if no one intervened (else there is no risk of pregnancy) there is a 20% chance it occurs on day one and plan…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 10:19 AM
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If a man and a woman agree to have children and that the mother will give up her career to take care of the kids under the assumption that the man will provide for her and the children. Then yes the man should also pay for the woman after the divorce. Of course she can find a job but she will not find a good job after several years of being a stay at home mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 12:22 AM
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It's not due to feminism that men have hardly any options when it comes to birth control? Quite the opposite actually. Feminists criticise that birth control is treated as the woman's responsibility
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 02:11 PM
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No the worst case scenario (that is not illegal because rape and other crimes are a different topic) is that someone creepy wants to sleep with you and does things that are technically not illegal but make you feel extremely uncomfortable and maybe even scared because you can never be sure that they won't do something illegal eventually Best case would be they tell you in a polite way that doesn't make you uncomfortable and you want it too (highly unlikely since there is basically no weird way t…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 09:53 PM
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Well most men a straight women could have sex with are men she is not attracted too. And gay men are men who straight men are not attracted too. Just because someone has the "right" genitals does not inherently imply some sort of baseline attraction, at least for the people I have talked to (fair enough those are mostly women so I can't speak for a male perspective)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 06:39 PM
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Well there are probably plenty of gay men who see straight men and think yeah I'd sleep with him is that privilege too?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 06:25 PM
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Yes if men would put more effort in and women would be able to expect a good time during a ONS then maybe they would be more likely to hook up with men
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 05:36 PM
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It's more like being lactose intolerant and getting a lifetime supply of milk. Taking advantage of it would usually just make you feel sick What a fun privilege
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 05:30 PM
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I am a bit confused by the first point. While I agree with you that the loneliness epidemic, as it is often referred to, affects men more than it does women, I would like to understand your reasoning better. It seems to me you are saying that straight women are less lonely because they can simply start to date a man and their problem is solved. Whereas men essentially need to wait until a woman picks them. Of course it makes a difference if you can actively decide to end the loneliness Vs having…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 11:31 AM
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Women don't need to change their standards if they are happy with being single. Women today often view a relationship as a nice addition to life and no longer as a necessity. And therefore they can set their standards as high as they please.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 11:03 AM
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I think the real question is, why should anyone "lower their standards"? Presumably this advice means "you are single because you will not be able to find anyone who meets all your standards and wants to date you too. So in order to get into a relationship you need to lower your standards." Correct me if I am wrong on this part because the rest is based on. This assumption. If we can agree on that part then the reasonable question for the person receiving this advice would be "would I be happier…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 09:41 AM
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Yeah and when women say they like choking guys with their thighs you accuse them of murder
/r/PussyPass20/02/23 10:59 PM
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What country are you from?
/r/PussyPass20/02/23 04:25 PM
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Was the Police already involved at that point because making false statements is a crime and at least in my country you could have sued them for basically dragging your name through the mud. I mean as you said you went almost to jail so there had to he authority's involved and wasting their time for a prank usually doesn't go unpunished either.
/r/PussyPass20/02/23 04:18 PM
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Did they come clean or why didnt you go to jail?
/r/PussyPass20/02/23 02:45 PM
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Because most people are intelligent enough to stop, think for a microsecond and realise that this is not meant to encourage hate against the male gender in general
/r/PussyPass20/02/23 02:42 PM
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