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That men and women can't be friends. Well they can be, but the guy probably wants to fuck you. Teach her the importance of gun ownship and combat sports Also, don't be a slag
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 08:40 AM
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It's still a transaction, the currency being your attention and affection. The currency people spend on free porn are their attention, dopamine, and overall drive
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 05:54 AM
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Porn is basically cancer anyways, if something is free then you are the product.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 02:08 AM
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Im bringin em back
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 02:26 PM
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The male equivalent of makeup and pushup bras would be to wear lifts, maybe some shoulder padding and a stuffed animal in the banana hammock to make our junk look bigger. If we did that it would be frowned upon and rightfully so. Women don't want to admit to the normalization of false advertising.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 01:08 PM
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Long winded version of alpha fucks beta bucks
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 01:19 AM
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Because men are competitive as fuck, including myself. It's also a reflection of yourself, if youre not the first choice then there is someone out there better than you. Point is that when blackpillers advocate for extreme social change, their status as an unwanted loser still stands, even if they were to find a wife. I'm in the middle ground, the courts are too harshly in favor of women, we should probably stop mutilating male genitalia at birth, I'd also like to see welfare and emtala abolishe…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 03:55 PM
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Nope, even witha retrictive religious culture. You might be more likely to land a decent wife, but the cat's out of the bag. You likely are still not her first choice. You would be living a lie
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 07:04 AM
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Ultimate form of cuckoldry, unless its casual
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 06:57 AM
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You know the rules
/r/seduction19/07/22 04:13 PM
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I'm already red pilled and agree with a lot of what he says, still I believe he's a grifter and a shill
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 04:33 AM
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You're getting tunnel visioned on that detail, point is too high of an N count bars you from relationship material in any self respecting man's eyes
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 04:18 AM
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A crazy perspective I know, just trying to point it out brings out the vitriol. At least I wasn't insta banned for once
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 05:16 PM
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Okay, go ahead and LTR or marry a woman with a high N count then.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 04:48 PM
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Nobody is holding a gun to anyone's head. You are your own person, women have the choice and right to roast it up and bag as many dicks as they want. I'm just saying that no self respecting man will accept her for LTR material. I sure as hell won't, every fwb I've had that wanted to become exclusive has failed the n count test. Not settling for it, and until somebody puts a gun to my head and forces me to be exclusive i'm not going for it. I'll keep my money, sleep, and sanity
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 04:14 PM
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Until the virgins and incels stop being universally shamed by both women and men for being virgins and incels, i'm gonna dismiss the idea that's all my own insecurity and in my own head. We hold men to the ideal standard of being able to sleep with many women, and the opposite is true for women. Biological, cultural, don't care about why, just that it's the case. Blame me all you want, but I don't have a reason to flip my opinion on the subject.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 04:10 PM
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Doesn't matter, the attraction is still there and she will try to lock the HVM down. We both know you would rather take the dude with a higher N count than the lower, assuming same looks/status. Something must be wrong with the virgin, hence them typically being shamed
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 04:07 PM
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Yes, they're called alpha widows
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 03:08 PM
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Whether or not you want kids isn't the point here. The point is that we evolved to be wary of whether or not the woman we're committing to will bear us children that are ours. It's simply a biological imperative. Of course you don't care if the guy you're dating has fucked a bunch of women. In fact, women want to know that their man is sexually successful. This is why we culturally shame men for being incels/virgins. It's a double standard yes, a different standard but we hold eachother to stand…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 02:08 PM
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Difference being that i have the burden of having to prove that ive had multiple partners. You think its a double standard, but its really just another burden of performance. Take note of how men are shamed for being virgins/incels, we are held to a different standard but it is a standard nonetheless.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 01:46 PM
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Cool, they can be sluts but im not gonna settle for one. Of course ill have my fun with them in the meantime though
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 01:44 PM
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Red pill/mens rights. Stop watching porn. Figure out what your true calling is. Go to the gym, dont worry about women. They will come as you work on yourself and establish your mission in life. Stop poisoning yourself with shitty food/drugs. Game is overwhelimingly simple. If you can establish a social group, all you have to do is pick up on when a woman is interested and escalate. Also learn how to deal with failure. And go the fucking gym. Also faking confidence is bullshit, earn your right to…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 01:36 PM
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I'm not pornsick, read what I said. I was exposed to it from an early age like most men in my generation, and I don't consume porn at all anymore. I already accepted that some men have a different opinion, but I'm telling you straight from the the horses mouth that they are a minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 01:29 PM
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I'm betting if we were to tally the men that agree with me, i'd get at least 90 percent. The other 10 percent is largely made up of dishonest men, men in denial, and thirsty men looking for simp points. There's probably a small percentage of red pill men that disagree with me, but that's only because they're not thinking about LTR material in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 01:23 PM
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Or you just can't fully grasp the concept because you're not a man, you don't have to compete with other men. It's uncanny that I have to argue this at all, it should be common knowledge that men generally don't like the idea of their SO having a high N count.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 01:19 PM
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I'm not a nice guy by any means, brutally honest and unapologetically so if anything. Is it really me being unable to accept sexuality, or am I just seeing the differences in the sexes or what they are? I think it's the latter, you think it's the former.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 01:16 PM
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You aren't a man, again I don't expect you to see it from my POV, but I'm certain that most men would agree with me on this. Women are different, they would rather their men be attractive to most women, having multiple partners as a man is a great indicator of this. A common insult women throw at men revolves around them being virgins or incels, proof is right there The opposite is true when a man vets a woman for an LTR, they absolutely seethe at the idea of the woman they "love" having a high …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 01:13 PM
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Have fun raising someone elses kid, cuck
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 01:08 PM
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So you were a virgin and married the only man you banged. Good on you, of course he wouldn't be obsessed with the idea of your sexual past assuming you're telling the truth. I don't care if you date men that care about your sexual past or not, first off you're married, and second nobody is holding a gun to your head. Do what you want
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 01:06 PM
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If you're serious about what you're saying and not joking, then you are a pathetic excuse of a man and also unironically a cuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 01:00 PM
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Incidentally I was never able to respect a man with liberal views. Men who simply don't care about a woman's sexual past are either lying, have learned to begrudgingly accept it, or are desperate for whatever they can get (so they have to accept it for semi-regular access to sex). Also I don't get why you types always have to accuse your opposition of dealing with absolutes. Do I seriously have to write "as a general rule" all the time when I'm talking about the general rule?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 12:59 PM
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Past tense, watched too much porn. Grew up in the age of the internet, and I agree with you. Tbh it's a traumatizing experience as a ten year old. My consumption was maybe once or twice a week until adulthood, even that was far too much. Not to go on a nofap tangent here, but I agree that porn is one of the worst "drugs" out there, and i stay away from it. The truth still stands though, the man will always subconsciously question if the child is his and will be tormented by the idea of some ogre…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 12:48 PM
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Anything contrary to your ill conceived outlook is extremism. I challenge you to use that word for people like me after you've lived a year or two in some backwards islamic state. You have no idea what real misogyny is and what it looks like
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 12:40 PM
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Seems like you have a preconceived idea that is manifesting the worst assumptions in what I'm saying, could be from bad experiences. Let's clarify some shit. Common grounds I agree with women on (either from here or from lurking on FDS), there should typically a lot of foreplay, she must feel safe, and of course you don't just go full on ramrod porn mode and try to humiliate her. Typically she wouldn't even have to verbally express that you're crossing a line, because it's not too difficult to t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 12:23 PM
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All men do, some can try to ignore it. It's not so much the female sexuality that irks me, but that i know im going to be compared to the x amount of dicks she sucked. Evolutionary explanation is that the more partners she has been with, the less likely the child is your own. Of course it's going to hurt the ego, and it's for a damn good reason too. You will always have the burning image of the woman you love being used with her face covered some other asshole's spunk. Don't know if ill ever set…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 11:36 AM
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Only inexperienced weak men or virgins echo your sentiment. No shame in that, ive been there. Of course im not saying that you should force her to blow you, but you do need to be assertive and dominant. If you can't fill that role, she'll probably find someone else that does. I've had a woman straight up tell me i was boring when all i was doing was trying to play it safe and treat her like some delicate flower. They do not want you to be supplicative, they want to be subjugated. Consensually of…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 11:24 AM
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Thats just being platonic friends with extra steps
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 09:02 AM
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I've been talking to a homosexual this whole time? The "redpill" this and that is almost exclusively applied to the social/sexual dynamics between men and women due to their differing biological imperatives and overall makeup. Still, you're clearly filling a void where the man would be in the relationship, and I have serious doubts about women being able to adequately do so for their partners the long term. Question, how was your relationship with your father? What was he like generally speaking…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 07:28 AM
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To clarify, if a man doesn't fulfill a traditional gender role (since nobody is perfect of course), then he should be fulfilling most others. Women generally just don't want to be the "man" in the relationship, and even the men that claim to be progressive will eventually feel emasculated and resentful if they aren't respected and/or performing. So it doesn't always have to be the man that makes the big decisions, but in general he should be providing his part. Counter example: The women general…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 04:52 AM
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Never been with a dominant woman, even the ones that were tomboyish and carried themselves with a somewhat masculine demeanor did a complete 180 as soon as I took them to bed. If we're talking about the bed specifically, i've yet to find a chick that's legitimately dominant. Some light role reversal takes place once in awhile, but overall the man has the responsibility to lead in the bedroom. Outside of bed, the masculine role doesn't necessarily mean you have to make all the decisions. What it …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 04:22 AM
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We all know that most communication isn't verbal. You can be upfront about your vulnerabilities without seeming insecure if that makes sense. As long as you're not too neurotic about it then you should be fine. That being said, don't disclose too much as the man and don't put the burden of your emotional state on the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 04:06 AM
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Not sure what answer you're looking for. Short answer us that it's just the way things are. Why would a woman want to be with a man that can not lead, provide, make them feel safe? You would have to be in a whole nother league of looks as a man if you're not bringing those things to the table, but even that wouldn't be enough for a long lasting relationship unless she is seriously desperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 03:54 AM
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Oral is a form of worship. If you're not leading, playing the role correctly, or just out of shape then she's probably not going to be enthusastic about blowing you. In other words, be worthy of worship. Otherwise you've probably demonstrated weakness on some level or she's not really into you for whatevet reason. You also have to be dominant in bed, politely asking for a bj is probably not going to work. Also, never go down on her first even if you're into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 03:26 AM
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Absolutely not
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 02:27 AM
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The man should always be in the masculine role, simple as
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 02:23 AM
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There is no wage gap. Adjusted for hours worked and job title, women only make 7 percent less on average. It's fair to say that men on average are just that tad bit more competitive than women, accounting for small difference. If busineds owners were straight up allowed to just pay women less for the same job title, there would be no incentive to hire men at all in the workforce.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 10:21 AM
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Nobody is really going to police it, just wont be able to get it officially. We'll be working on cutting the government gibs, soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 12:32 AM
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I've always enjoyed being propositioned by older women. Had one in her forties coming at me, she's a doctor, was kinda hot actually. Couldn't imagine it's that much different the other way around. If you take care of yourself and have your shit together then yeah, it's a thing for older men to date younger women. The main difference is that there isn't much pretext of a younger dude dating an older woman being as serious as the other way around... for obvious reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 11:51 PM
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Sounds good, use your own money please
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 11:44 PM
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We're fighting for YOUR right to own a gun and to fend off potential rapists. Gun rights are women's rights, plain as day Nobody knows when life begins, no matter how confident they say it. Is it conception? First heartbeat? Brainwaves? Right before birth? Nobody can clearly define it without some amount of arbitrary/faulty reasoning. Point is that you dont know, which is why the child's right to live supersedes the womans right to kill it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 12:59 PM
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You dont have to definitely say life begins at contraception. I'm pro life too, but my argument is more along the lines of nobody actually knowing when life begins. I see arguments surrounding heartbeats, brainwaves, ect. Theyre all sensible, but all somewhat arbitrary. Point is are you willing to take that risk of actually killing another human being? Thats why im pro life. If the convo steered more towards the philosophy of when life begins, you will probably have a more receptive audience whe…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 12:41 PM
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Nope, im not paying even more taxes just so you can sleep around. Neither am i willing to pay more taxes to fund your illegitimate single motherhood. My money my choice. Seethe
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 12:37 PM
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10 percent, good lord. Just aim for 15 percent and you're good.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 04:48 AM
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Does not matter if it'a realistic or not. All that matters is that a lack of self worth/confidence will always impede on your results.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 01:09 AM
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Option A if she doesn't agree to option C
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 01:05 AM
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They do, they can give it up for adoption or force the rest of society to subsidize you for your life choices
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 06:01 PM
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Cool story, doesn't mean men shouldn't have the right to opt out financially if it means women have the right straight up murder their kid with no recourse. Equal rights or bust
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 05:44 PM
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Overgeneralization. Thats like me saying women are just too lazy and stupid to take care of their offspring, so they would rather just get an abortion in order to shirk their responsibilty. Which can be true in some cases, as it is with the case you pointed out. Another common denominator. Middle ground, my support of pro choice is contingent upon the mens choice to opt out.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 05:15 PM
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False equivalency, also assuming that the burden (or right) to custody is granted to the woman. Again, raising the child is the common denominator. Ill be pro choice for women when women are pro choice for men
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 05:09 PM
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Raising the child is already the common denominator between the parents, again cant fall back on that argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 05:04 PM
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Raising the child is already the common denominator between borh parents, you can fall back on that argument but it just makes you look stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 04:57 PM
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They have the right to refuse service and potential litigation. Healthcare is not a right. Alao get a job and pay for it instead of pushing for laws forcing everyone else to do so, leech
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 04:55 PM
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This was always a christian nation founded on christian principles with christian founding fathers. Go start a secular nation based on moral relativity. Id love to see how well women fare against physically dominant and more aggressive beings that will literally take what they want when they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 04:53 PM
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Using a fringe tint fraction of a percent scenario to justify your own take on how the world should conduct itself. Wahmen smart
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 04:47 PM
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This country was literally founded on christian principles. The principles that delivered us from the law of the jungle. What is the law of the jungle? Simpy most of human history. Rape, pilaging, murder, torture and survival of the fittest/most violent. You have no clue on the scope of what you're talking about. Go start your own secular nation. We dont want you here anyways. Useless noncontributing leeches
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 04:43 PM
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And we're still bearing the brunt of the performance/financial burden. Ill trade wageslaving a year for one painful birthing process anyday
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 04:39 PM
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Goddayumn, popcorn is ready for the seething responses to this one
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 04:36 PM
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Why the fuck does anyone care is my opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 03:09 PM
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Best I can do is the body wash
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 12:15 AM
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They also are typically locked down in the hospital 60-80 hours and even more each week. Tbh if i could do it all over i woulda just went into trade school. Now I'm just taking my excess fiat and learning the crypto market and focusing on fitness. Also have time to play guitar and do whatever I want working 30 ish hours a week and earning 60k a year. I personally would never sacrifice my time unless i was really into medicine. It really all depends on how you want to invest your time and energy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 03:20 AM
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We come from a long history of war, raiding, raping, pillaging, getting raided, getting raped/pillaged. Raising another man's kid with your time and resources likely fucks with you on a fundamental level, like you're literally a conquered slave and your woman isn't truly yours or you failed to protect her. I don't expect women to understand the levels of seethe we experience at the thought of this. Can also just chalk it up to not wanting to invest time/resources on a seed that isn't even ours. …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 07:17 PM
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Honestly, It seems to apply to them as well even if they're lacking in both looks and game. They typically shine when they take charge in intense situations, and they're still knowledgeable/competent. When they're in their element, you see those two things transmute to confidence and respect from others. I don't claim to know what goes on behind closed doors for them, but I see opportunities for them at the very least. Nurses seem to dig them at times. The manager from the other department that …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 07:08 PM
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Been hit on by two female docs. One was very obvious about it, the other a bit more subtle. Wanted to go for it, but I'm not about to potentially throw my comfy healthcare away. Hospitals are crawling with high status men as well, of course there are plenty of good looking residents in their mid twenties-mid thirties that are drowning in nurse poon or at least the opportunity. Nowadays the risk is too high, nobody wants to get "metoo'd" so they probably dont act out on it mostly out of caution. …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 03:20 AM
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Where can I learn more about this? Asking for a friend
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 02:25 AM
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Red pill. Do what you want to do, nobody is holding a gun to your head. However if your goal is lock down a man with any sense of self respect, NEVER bring up your sexual past, ever. Unless you want to burn the image in your loved one's mind of you getting a train ran on you while guzzling loads from other men. Doesn't take a genius to understand why that would hurt your marriage in the long term. The truth also has a way of getting out regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 09:28 AM
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I think it's one contributing factor in why we're all fucked up in the head. Rampant mood disorders does not sound like traditional masculinity to me at all. Circumcision itself is not to be classified as traditional masculinity, but rather a fairly recent factor in its attack.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 09:15 AM
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First off, it's only one aspect I highlighted. The damage done is also highly correlated with chronic mood disorders. There's a lot of implications of irreversible brain damage at birth. But if you want to say that it's a tradional practice and go off that, then go for it. It's still a major issue in my eyes. Btw it's a fairly recent adoption in the USA at least, literally just wikipedia. Mostly a jewish religion thing, it started to become adopted as a medical practice sometime around the 1900'…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 09:09 AM
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We now know that it causes brain damage, studies on it are largely dismissed or even intentionally silenced. I don't claim to know what the scope of implications are. All I know is that I (and millions of others) experienced some serious trauma at birth just so some hag can feel better knowing she subdued a few wringles. See link https://youtu.be/b7JzdcZPvzg
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 08:51 AM
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Raised by women, took advice from them to no results. This was before the red pill was even a thing btw... Basically was not attractive at all until I decided to pursue wrestling/gym and other interesting hobbies. Eventually got fit near the end of highschool, female attention was something I was not ready for. Had some short term flings, even the nasty hot monkey sex. Still felt like I wasn't enough, biological insecurities arose along with all the baggage that came with it. Begs the question t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 08:42 AM
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Traditional masculinity has been and currently is under constant attack. See male genital mutilation, dissassembly of the nuclear family and by extension lack of father figure, phytoestrogens, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 08:20 AM
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Incoming red pill bomb, no man wants to be your friend. There is no such thing, even if the man tells himself otherwise. There will always be a sexual undertone when dealing with the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 12:29 PM
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Literally what the red pill tells billy beta to do. Own up to your mistakes, work on yourself, and don't waste your time on someone that's only willing to do the bare minimum. So we agree here
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 11:52 AM
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