ValiantMotivation Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
22	The one thing I noticed about men and women who seem to have alot of partners, and a paper trail of scorned lovers	CMV	ValiantMotivation	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/22 10:48 PM
12	The 5 Types of RedPill Men and Why They Turn Toward Redpill! (An Original Post)		ValiantMotivation	/r/ExRedPill	24/03/22 10:34 PM
4	Why I almost took the Red Pill and why I'm glad I didn't		ValiantMotivation	/r/ExRedPill	23/03/22 06:03 PM

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0	Why do some men still believe in pick up artistry(RSD community)? To generalize all PUA as some dude that "use women to get sexual validation" is kinda retarded.. bnecause these days when women do that, we say "they're just having fun. they're just being liberated and free". so stop the nonsense. I don't know hat you think PUA's are.. some evil typeof narcissists or something. but ive met many and hung out with them, and some of them just generally love women. Some are great dudes.. who are just simply taking advantage of the casual dating game. Casual dating …	/r/ExRedPill	25/03/22 07:09 PM
1	Why do some men still believe in pick up artistry(RSD community)? No. PUAs are guys who love women and having sex and being players/rico suave types...but at times over exaggerate their skills. They might speak to 30 diff women and only have sex with 5 or 6 for example.	/r/ExRedPill	25/03/22 05:51 AM
1	Why do some men still believe in pick up artistry(RSD community)? You sound really out of touch. PUA's are no different than anyone who loves sex with different people. Before PUA's would simply go out and perfect their game in the real world.. Now they use a combination of Online Dating and Pickup. Its no different than a woman who likes to sleep with lots of hot guys, scrolling through Tinder and choosing who to sleep with.. it just takes alot more work than that for PUA's. Some PUA's do kinda overexaggerate their lifestyles to sell courses, yes. I never rea…	/r/ExRedPill	25/03/22 04:45 AM
0	The 5 Types of RedPill Men and Why They Turn Toward Redpill! (An Original Post) Hey man you make some GREAT points here. It seems like there's so LITTLE emphasis on men's mental well-being and emotional health. I've been studying psychology for a while and it's like unless a man is labeled with some disorder, no one seems to really highlight emotional issues that men have. And when they are labeled with a disorder of some kind, "oh its because he's got <label>"	/r/ExRedPill	25/03/22 03:04 AM
1	The 5 Types of RedPill Men and Why They Turn Toward Redpill! (An Original Post) I went for the more nuanced characters instead of specific or more blatant/extreme examples. But thanks for mentioning that as well.	/r/ExRedPill	25/03/22 01:42 AM
1	The 5 Types of RedPill Men and Why They Turn Toward Redpill! (An Original Post) I'm sorry you had that experience. I know of some dudes who've been through similar. Some people just stake out nice dude as partners not letting the nice dude know they have issues. Sometimes they are not aware of the issues they have. I noticed nice dudes tend to not see red flags as well as others. Once you are fixated in someones mind as a nice guy and pushover, it's hard for them to take you seriously when you finally stand up for yourself. I bet you grew from that experience.	/r/ExRedPill	25/03/22 01:40 AM
3	The 5 Types of RedPill Men and Why They Turn Toward Redpill! (An Original Post) Definitely a type I would say I should have added! I honestly was thinking about ones that are a bit more nuanced as opposed to ones that might be more blatantly understood. I might remake this in the future and add it on. Sorry I missed it :(	/r/ExRedPill	25/03/22 12:37 AM
5	The 5 Types of RedPill Men and Why They Turn Toward Redpill! (An Original Post) Hey thanks! I appreciate that.	/r/ExRedPill	25/03/22 12:33 AM
1	The one thing I noticed about men and women who seem to have alot of partners, and a paper trail of scorned lovers yep. I'm glad alot of peolpe understand the stuff I'm saying.. It can easily be misinterpreted but I guess I'm explaining it in a way most people understand.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/22 04:10 AM
2	The one thing I noticed about men and women who seem to have alot of partners, and a paper trail of scorned lovers There's alot I see wrong with what you'res aying, becaus eone you're assuming character and personality traits and you're also looking at this through a very weird lens, not realizing I came up with this conclusion from being very sexually promiscuous myself when I ws younger, and also knowing men and women who can be deemed players and seeing/hearing their own experiences while knowing how they view the opposite gender I feel like i really need to explain it to you in a way you wont look at it …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/22 02:24 AM
1	If prostitution became legalized and normalized, how do you think that would affect relationships among cis gendered straight couples? Prostitution has been legal in alot of palces, and despite it not being legal, it operaates as if it is practically legal ... There are blatant prostitution websites all over the net, and many dating websites have tons of women prostituting through there, using secondary phones to operate their business. How it affects relationships is what u see right now.. Infidelity is at an all time high, and its just becaus eof the culture of dating right now and how popular sex is... we're constantly being…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/22 02:15 AM
1	The one thing I noticed about men and women who seem to have alot of partners, and a paper trail of scorned lovers Nah not at all. I think that difference is that some mature and along with that mature and learn more about emotional intelligence, and some just dont really learn too mcuha bout the emotional intelligence of the opposite sex because they're either not concientious enough or simply haven't seen whats past the casual sex and lustful nature of alot of their relationships, much of which give superficial ideas on social dynamics between man and women	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/22 01:56 AM
1	The one thing I noticed about men and women who seem to have alot of partners, and a paper trail of scorned lovers Good point. thanks for this. Some people mature but still don't mature when it comes to emotional intelligence amongst opposite genders i guess	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/22 01:54 AM
1	The one thing I noticed about men and women who seem to have alot of partners, and a paper trail of scorned lovers Well its not about thinking badly, at least what I'm menitonning has nothing to do with that and its all subconcious what im referring to..	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/22 01:54 AM
1	The one thing I noticed about men and women who seem to have alot of partners, and a paper trail of scorned lovers "Spending time with them" we're not talking about the same ting. I'm talking about people who casual date/just have sex with different partners with NSA., ie what people consider players and all that and I didnt mention superiority in a sense that you can't love a person or love women. Its nothing to do with that and its all subconcious what im referring to as opposed the dudes who kinda conciously put women on the same level as them.. when clearly men and women are different in many ways, thoug…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/22 01:52 AM
3	The one thing I noticed about men and women who seem to have alot of partners, and a paper trail of scorned lovers Hey thanks for the kind words and yeah man you got it.. only the last part, i would say that some women who fucc around alot are also kinda masculine in their own energy in alot of ways and thus go for even more masculine guys sexually but might still date or sleep with some more sensitive guys that allows them to play their masculine vibe out. It gets a bit weird but for the most part youre right about women wanting the more masculine types but may keep a less masculine type around to play the …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/22 12:31 AM
0	The one thing I noticed about men and women who seem to have alot of partners, and a paper trail of scorned lovers Idk man you come off as way too analytic for me lol. But what i meant in what you are referencing is that i found that i needed more of a connection with someone before i felt like banging em unlesss they hsd some superficial qualities. I been dating casually and serious dating for nearly 15 yrs now lol. It just seemed weird how u had to draw a line between u and then the exteme of redpillers and incels. Two terms i rarely if ever use.. i thought that was weird like u were tryng to basically say…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/22 12:23 AM
1	The one thing I noticed about men and women who seem to have alot of partners, and a paper trail of scorned lovers I think while what you're saying is true for many people, I think that the more partners a person has, the less emotionally involved they get into sexual relationships from what I noticed. Ive been in friend groups where people slept with each other from time to time but never had any attachment or wanted more or anything either. I was never one for sleeping with friends but it happens very often. I do understand what you're getting at though and yeah ofc i think people want to date and find the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/22 12:17 AM
1	The one thing I noticed about men and women who seem to have alot of partners, and a paper trail of scorned lovers Idk its wrong for me to assume anything but in the past alot of internet communities ive been to where people talk about dating and social dynamics regarding women and men , theres always been alot of people who seem to be trying to act as if theyre far more experienced than they are but alot of what they say raises eyebrows. I jus made this post because itssomething ive realized time and time again as i got older and changed from a casual serial dater to someone looking for something more meani…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/22 12:03 AM
1	The one thing I noticed about men and women who seem to have alot of partners, and a paper trail of scorned lovers Ngl i think ur cappin about having a big bodycount. Idk why these subs always attract dudes who feel.the need to say sht like that.. First time going to or posting in this sub and im jus how realizing that i forgot people on these type of subs are usually filled with dudes who are still trying to figure basic levels of dating dynamics lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/22 11:56 PM
1	The one thing I noticed about men and women who seem to have alot of partners, and a paper trail of scorned lovers I think you kinda get it but feel youre overthinking what im getting at. Sad part is you sound like someone who lacks experience when it comes to these social dynamics. Maybe im wrong but thats the vibe i get.. especially with how you worded some of what u said and some of the things u mentioned	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/22 11:53 PM
1	The one thing I noticed about men and women who seem to have alot of partners, and a paper trail of scorned lovers Idk what no positivity is but if you're trying to assume you have more experience than someone else on reddit im not surprised as to why you dont understand theres literally a buncha sound minded people who have casual sex for fun and not because they are broken or something	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/22 11:51 PM
2	The one thing I noticed about men and women who seem to have alot of partners, and a paper trail of scorned lovers I dont think it has to be a dysfunction always. Many people who are healthy and sound minded well rounded people just operate differently. Its like a lack of spiritual consciousness and more just programmed by culture and society. Its also personality. Men feel more comfortabke around chicks who are dumber or superficially feminine because they feel more like they can play their masculine role more easily and dont have to worry about the analytic/emotional dilemmas with people who seem to lack e…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/22 11:49 PM
1	The one thing I noticed about men and women who seem to have alot of partners, and a paper trail of scorned lovers The whole point of casual sex is for fun bud. Why do you think they call it casual dating as opposed to looking for something serious? Casual sex doesnt necessarily need a cynical reasoning to it. Were simply sexual beings in a culture that enjoys sex. And yes people are always down to date if they find an ideal partner. But the point is to not sit around waiting or hoping. Theres alot of peoole who dont even search or seek for an ideal partner and simply look for an ideal sex partner. I mean th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/22 11:41 PM
1	The one thing I noticed about men and women who seem to have alot of partners, and a paper trail of scorned lovers Great observation man. Something i noticed as well!!!!	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/22 11:31 PM
1	The one thing I noticed about men and women who seem to have alot of partners, and a paper trail of scorned lovers Lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/22 11:30 PM
2	The one thing I noticed about men and women who seem to have alot of partners, and a paper trail of scorned lovers Glad to hear it man. Just means you're woke and probably been through enough experiences and change to become aware of this stuff. Not woke in the internet sense but woke as in conscientious about these type of things.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/22 11:27 PM
1	The one thing I noticed about men and women who seem to have alot of partners, and a paper trail of scorned lovers Well most of the people referred to are those who go for casual dating and relish off having that attention and fun that makes them feel fulfilled. It probably isnt good in the long term and eventually theyll wake up like I did but maybe some never do and simply find a partner that can match or make up for their lack of emotional sensitivities.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/22 11:26 PM