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Such an angry man.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 09:40 PM
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Any adult that play-pretends(or worse) they're casting spells IRL is retarded. You're entitled to an opinion, but not to purvey it as fact. I won't engage rest of your post There's a shock. vague nonsense like "connecting with people on an emotional or intellectual level" that you yourself don't even know what means. I do know what means.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 08:07 PM
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witchcraft What does this entail, and why is she practicing or interested in it? window shopping What's she looking for? Why? Also, do you never browse stuff and then not buy it? You window shopper. swiping through insta The alternative version of swiping through reddit. What's she looking at? I am literally doing her a favor by treating her like a sex object. Because you have nothing else to offer? You seem incapable of connecting with people on an emotional or intellectual level. If I were to …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 07:10 PM
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I was referring to how men look at women’s physical components, not women all together. The difference between physical attraction and objectification.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 07:06 PM
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No it doesn't, because cuckoldry is non monagomous sex with the partners consent and encouragement. You can't have non monagomous sex if you aren't in a relationship. You have your preference, but you don't get to reframe it as something entirely different, nor as a societal problem, since you haven't even done a poll, let alone any study worth a damn to get results.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 09:24 AM
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Citation needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 09:21 AM
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They probably are though
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 09:21 AM
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Its not difficult to recognise things that you have had experience with. It's more sad than funny though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 11:44 PM
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You couldn't be more beta than that. You could be on Reddit claiming a man you've never met who's in a happy relationship with a woman you've never met, raising his child without sparing you a thought, is somehow inferior to you. A man with no child, no partner, and no ability to rectify that because he's so consumed with concepts like alpha and beta life is passing him by.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 09:54 PM
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You’ll never come first or second in the relationship. You shouldn't come first in that relationship whilst the kids awake. After it goes to sleep is the time to be a couple at first, until you learn to adjust. You don’t have any authority, but all the responsibility. Wrong. No guarantee that the child will like you. It's really not that difficult to bond with a child. But hey, you think your own biological offspring are guaranteed to like you? Your money is paying for another kid, that could go…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 08:11 PM
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I've seen suggestions of reciprocity. And I've seen those suggestions labelled unreasonable because of expectations, or traditions, or just because. Relationships are built on and last with reciprocal attention, amongst other things. When people don't want to, it's selfishness and not a long-term success strategy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 07:43 PM
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cause their skin/hair type doesn't satisfy you So, not the perfect person for her then no? Because if he was, he'd have those traits. 1 & 2 would be 4 if the 1 was a 2. Yeah, but it isn't, so it's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 05:51 PM
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Its not strange for that guy, its so normal to him to remain angry and bitter that he can't accept those are two of his biggest limiting factors. Have a look at some of his replies and ask yourself, if you were a woman reading them, would you want to meet the guy writing them?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 05:48 PM
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Pidgeonhole them so they're easier for you to try and attack. You just don't like the answers you're getting, because it means you might have to work on yourself. Welcome to the competition.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 05:45 PM
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You're seriously thinking that way? No wonder you're struggling, it doesn't matter about your height or physical appearance, you're oozing unattractive qualities
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 05:43 PM
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These guys are bitter af. Its eye opening.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 05:41 PM
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You dont need to know someone's body count for any of those examples. Ask directly about them and require what proof you want but any of them are possible from 1 past experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 05:13 PM
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I’m open to things that a normal man in the dominant position would do. That’s why this “you should take it up the ass for love” doesn’t make sense. Yeah because no man has done things that make him uncomfortable because he wants his partner to be happy. Oh wait. I done uncomfortable things they wanted to do because I wanted to satisfy what they wanted. Not to worry then, that's just your line in the sand.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 01:47 PM
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Very very few adults have only stable relationships. Learning how to correctly be intimate physically, emotionally and intellectually with another human long term takes practice. No having that bond is generally damaging to humans, as mentioned elsewhere in the replies. Sexual encounters form an important part of matiruing as a person, past the physical progression to adulthood. Obviously, there are outliers but this will hold true for most people.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 06:08 PM
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I see you've got time to continue insulting other people, but not reply to you own fallacious mistakes. Awkward.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 08:59 PM
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Come back when you have a rebuttal, not thinly disguised ad hominem, child.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 04:51 PM
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You didn't return because your premise is wrong, and your attempt to shut me down was logically wrong as well. That feeling you have is shame. The truth hurts.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 03:56 PM
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Take your time, I understand that being completely wrong hurts.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 11:59 AM
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No, you've incorrectly identified. You've changed the definition of degeneration. Start there, since that's where you've gone wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 05:51 PM
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Nope. You need to start with a sound logical premise. You cannot redefine a word to suit your opinion and then assume the universe has changed. Try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 04:06 PM
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Your opinions are not objective. Your ability to communicate with others is objectively damaged though.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 03:46 PM
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Its certainly hurting you
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 10:53 AM
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You've changed the definition of degeneration. The rest or your argument is based on your opinion of the meaning and is a reflection of your feelings. As such, it's not a factual discussion and is moot.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 10:47 AM
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Yeah? You don't need to be shit faced to dance do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 12:52 PM
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Wow. You actually will argue with anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 12:51 PM
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Its an interesting read, but a sample size of 3000 is not exactly representative of the rest of the US, let alone Western Europe.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 02:28 PM
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"Everyone" What percentage of this 23 - 24% doesn't last? What's the measurement here? 4 months? A year? 5 years? What's their success rate in comparison to the other 76%?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 01:26 PM
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23 to 24% is not an insignificant number
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 10:40 AM
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You dont speak for all women, just yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 10:29 AM
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The irony of your inability to hold a debate because you deny and double down on your denying is staggering.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 05:47 AM
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He said women pretend to care about being called whores, he didn't deny or claim that it didn't happen
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 11:08 AM
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For sure, it's not a nice word to use. I dont. But not liking it is not the same as reshaping what's been said and responding to that instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 10:26 AM
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I've met plenty. Now our joint anecdotal experience cancels out. Yay.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 10:10 AM
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You really need to grasp that studies provide wide averages, if done well. They can be predictive models. They do not represent the reality of the wider population unless the study was 1:1 And spoiler. It wasn't. Stop arguing that your studies mean actual experiences (statistically unlikely or not) do not exist, it's embarrassing and asanine.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 10:08 AM
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As another dude, man are you reaching. Let the lady do what she wants. You aren't being coerced. You just don't like what she does because it doesn't match with your desires.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 10:04 AM
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I think he said care about being called a whore. Not denying it happened. What a weird twist to a sentence you directly quoted.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 09:58 AM
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Ah. Three cherry picked extreme examples to attempt to prove your point. The conversation is done.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 08:14 PM
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Yeah, and they're unhappy and alone. And guess what? The people who work on themselves get better results.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 07:09 PM
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It is absolutely not the only way. It's the only way you think it can be done but again, statistics are so heavily against you that it's absurd for you to be even trying to push this narrative. People (not just men) get rewards for achieving all the time. Just because you do not get this, or perhaps do not value it, again this does not mean that others are in your boat. Your version of fair is not a majority consensus. Explain the phrases betabuxx and post wallers and I will respond further to t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 05:44 PM
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I'm arguing against your disingenuous and dangerous assumptions, based on the quantitative and qualitavie data accessible to everyone with access to the Internet. Not only have the studies been done, they are being done to measure change. What you are advocating is a non sustainable relationship for most people, and is actively damaging to people with a shattered sense of self worth and self identity. I cannot believe that you do this in good faith, knowing as you surely know that plenty of peop…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 07:19 PM
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So what you have is a dataset of 1. Whereas, I have a dataset of at least 5. That's leaving aside the larger trends observed in social studies that have been taking place over the last 70 years involving (obviously) a significantly larger number. That aside, why is it that you seem to think your gender is more relevant than mine, when you so blithely argue that you know better than I do regarding what men really want?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 07:08 PM
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No, you don't. You think you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 06:56 PM
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You aren't in the pickme subreddit, nor is that a desired outcome for most men and women. Ergo, you shouldn't be blithely commenting as an authority and using phrases like "most women". Also, if you'd like to prove that women who want families want large families, you go right ahead and prove that. Otherwise I will dismiss this without evidence as you've supplied it with none. Again you talk for large amounts of women. Where is your dataset for this? Is it in the popularity of the pickme subredd…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 06:55 PM
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You know what one man likes. You know what other men say they would like. What you do not know, clearly, is how to appeal to men generally.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 06:50 PM
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You should definitely stop assuming you speak for all women. As a small piece of anecdotal evidence you certainly do not speak for any of the women in my life. Statistically you do not speak for women. You also (confusingly) conflate families with being poor. Then you carefully adjust the metric of family to big family. Close, but you'll have to do better if you want to successfully move the goalposts. The reality is vastly more complicated and different than you describe, however your perceptio…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 06:47 PM
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As a man, I'd say they're pretty good odds.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 06:43 PM
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What you want is change, not progress.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 06:42 PM
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You're telling me that in the face of evolutionary biology, women as a general rule do not want families and children? Odd that you then make a reference to 100 years ago, when women still attempted to better their own living conditions by marrying upward. More so than now, given the reduction in barriers to female success in the economy. This is why even though you talk a half decent (if twisted) game, you are ultimately wrong to attempt to shift the narrative from reality to your preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 06:29 PM
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You perceive that you are attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 06:25 PM
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No. You mix social progress with your own desires and attempt to combine them purposely in discussion areas where susceptible people with low self esteem and confused processing skills are. It's despicable to prey in the regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 06:24 PM
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I was sat here thinking this was even more nonsense than usual, then I saw the person who'd posted the comment. Please stop trying to peddle your opinions as a new wave, its degrading and statistically unlikely to produce long term success.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 03:44 PM
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Because that has been working well for you hasn't it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 03:18 PM
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You say you don't have the time. You're prolific. But on your terms. I still don't understand why you are so hyper focused on a small subset of men and repeatedly insisting they represent the rest of us, or pretending that women have it harder now than they used to. Almost everything I've seen from you screams anger and bitterness, but a complete lack of acceptance of your own role within it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 08:37 AM
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Or in the pickme subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 08:25 AM
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Thank you, I'll read those. Still a shame you can't reply with as much vigour to the rest of the raised points. Then again, I don't know why I am slightly surprised that you have so much time for this particular facet of the conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 08:23 PM
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Later in the hearings, Minassian confessed having lied about being motivated by an "incel rebellion" which he only used as a veneer to get attention on social media. His primary motivation was that he was about to fail in his job and live an insignificant life, so he decided instead to achieve notoriety through a mass murder.> From wiki. That aside, again I ask. Does this represent the rolling back or progression? Do you view singular acts of terrorism as condemnation of the entire culture or re…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 07:24 PM
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Come again? How many times has this happened? You're telling me without sources that we're rolling backwards as a global society based on one(?) event? Edit - This will be the 2019 Toronto event? Why are you ascribing this as an attack against women? The dude apparently ploughed into everyone in his way.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 06:31 PM
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How severely anecdotal of you. Damn near everywhere across the western world women have risen closer to equality and mutual understanding than (generally speaking) any other point in recorded history, and yet because your grandpa treats his partner correctly you ignore this? Again, you refuse to engage.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 06:00 PM
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I've read an awful lot of your comments and your post. The closest you got to meaningful discussion with another lady elsewhere devolved into you saying "Why should I bother to try and communicate my needs to someone". Elsewhere you have rejected mens comments about their own motivations for casual sex, even though it tallies with your data. Beyond that, you have shut down discussions by refusing to entertain the idea that men and women have different motivations, even though this has been prove…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 05:57 PM
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Its hardly contribution if the entirety of your position is "I will not make an effort because I feel that other people do not make an effort. I will not consider changing my approach to my own situation and will instead repeatedly post about it" This is not a gendered attack. If a man was saying and doing the same, they would get the same response. Please don't play that card.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 05:14 PM
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You have a mouth. Use it to speak. If you aren't getting responses then find someone who does respond. Don't double down on being sulky and wonder why noone speaks
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 04:02 PM
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Like one precludes the other. Either way your responses indirectly (and in some cases directly) show a clear issue with communication. When you say you don't want to communicate because men don't, you show that you are unwilling to be the better person OR to find a better person. If you aren't changing your approach you're going to yield the same results. To then whine about this is a waste of your time.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 04:01 PM
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You do see how childish that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 03:52 PM
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The issue you seem to be missing in this instance is that men and women have different motivations for sex. By refusing to acknowledge this, you are unable to draw a reasonable conclusion from the data you have provided. This has been mentioned before.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 03:52 PM
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She says, not being a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 03:23 PM
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Thas your issue then isn't it? Don't opt for disappointment and then complain that you're disappointed.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 03:21 PM
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Its not really much of a or b. Op is c. C is "I am unable to communicate what I want, so I have hidden behind data as justification for my bad sex life"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 03:07 PM
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Yeah no I checked his wiki. It's very Finnish focused. I've also had a browse through your other posts and decided to dismiss your conclusions.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 09:54 PM
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Can you provide me with the certification as one if the worlds premier sexologists please? My concern is that with all 3 studies based in Finland, he may well have hit the nail on the head for you guys, but that doesn't really say much for the rest of the world does it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 09:35 PM
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Thats fine jeez, I just haven't seen him referenced before. I ready said I'm going to read.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 09:46 AM
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I'll have a read, but I am logging concerns at the lack of citing by other professionals, and the lack of peer review of assumptions?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 09:18 AM
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At your convenience then. Still slightly curious how someone wrote "the book" on Sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 08:48 AM
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"nope" like you somehow have stats. And then you use your imaginary stats to make a series of logic leaps that failed at the first hurdle because you cannot base your opinion in reality. And therein lies your problem. Mad how all the healthy couples I know are both content with their sex lives, but your views leave men out in the cold, with not enough sex and not enough of their favourite type. Get a grip.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 11:05 PM
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Yes, I imagine it probably is, if that's your standard for entertainment
/r/PussyPassDenied10/05/21 11:32 AM
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