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100% on the taking notes. I still remember being a teenager and seeing one where a woman, as she was being murdered, scratched and bit down on parts of the car, leaving teeth/nail impressions that directly helped solve the case. I had thought, "If I'm ever in that situation, I'll remember to do this." There's also a sense of relief and happiness on behalf of the (almost always women) victims that the person (aka man) got caught. Context matters. That being said, some of them are definitely along…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 02:37 PM
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Yeah, sorry, nah. I'm a grown woman and I don't need anyone, mom or not, to tell me I can't decide something. That's what men do to us; we don't need to be doing it to each other.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 02:13 PM
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For sure. OP did a great job of tapping into the contextual differences while still being an obvious parody of the original... 'art.'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 10:22 PM
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The danger sticker on the last one is (sadly, in a way) my favorite part. This is amazing. We need more things like this where we turn the tables rather than keep trying to just Be Kind (TM) and/or keep our head down and hope hateful dudes will eventually stop treating us worse than garbage. This is the kind of thing that emboldens and promotes real conversation among women. I hope to see more from you, OP!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 10:20 PM
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FDS shifted my mindset on things I mistakenly thought made me a Cool Girl. When my SO said he thought I "wasn't the type" to "worry" about having a ring if we got married, I told him that was fine, but would mean wiggling my fingers and asking "You see a ring?" whenever another man asked if I was with anyone. Needless to say, my new ring answers loud and clear. Most importantly, FDS showed me how vital it is for women to have communities where they can't be talked over by men, what can be accomp…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 01:55 PM
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If one post by a stranger is enough to discourage someone to the point of hopelessness, they need to work on leveling up their self-worth and accountability. The world is not going to coddle anyone and people are always going to have different views and opinions, some of which won't be rainbows and kittens. Have more hope for yourself and hope for the future will come naturally.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 05:08 PM
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Same here! And as someone who likewise loves my spouse I can say from experience that "a good relationship is better than being single but being single is better than a bad relationship!" is such a load. I am happy but I was JUST AS happy single. It's nice to have someone there to, say, help with things if I'm sick or always have someone around to have good conversation with. It was just as nice to not have anyone else to consider and watch, eat, listen to, and do whatever I want 24/7. Had I nev…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 04:33 PM
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Yeeeep. They drop the hammer on here I'm out too. Remember to keep up #reddithateswomen, ladies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 03:08 PM
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I'm sorry you went through that. I've heard this same story over and over from women who found themselves in this situation. I hope you're doing better now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 03:06 PM
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Funny, isn't it? I'm busty, big butt, in good shape, and my body hasn't changed much over the years. I remember being insulted for my ass on the regular while in school in the '00s. Now it's called "THICC"and it's the in thing. I also have Asian relatives and white relatives. I watch the former hide from the sun like they'll immediately burst into flames and the latter spend hours at tanning beds lest they end up pale. Don't chase beauty standards, ladies. The only "standard" thing about them is…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 03:00 PM
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Just when I thought I'd seen it all some new type of pornsick bullshit appears before me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 06:55 PM
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Wow, this ruined my day. Normally I'm ambivalent to celeb deaths but what a treasure she was. Not just anyone could have pulled off such an amazing character so flawlessly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 06:44 PM
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I have a man as HVM as they come (make of that what you will) and I adore him. He is generous, great with kids, kind, among other things. But even then I see the difference between us and our level of inherent responsibility and accountability towards running a household. Before we moved in together, we established what the chore division would be. He does what he said he would, but he lags and procrastinates about it semi-regularly, and if he does anything extra, he will announce to me that he'…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 03:18 PM
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Amen, especially to that last part. Ladies who are scrambling to justify yourself to every whiny male, ask yourself why you value these men's opinions so highly, and what good it has done you to do so.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 02:56 PM
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Right? Back when I was a Cool Girl, a pornsick ex (bf at the time) admitted to me he had once paid for a prostitute in Vegas (whom he still had limpdick with, imagine that, but I digress). Her price? 2k USD per session. These guys couldn't afford prostitutes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 02:54 PM
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He has another chance. Another chance to be a decent human and leave you tf alone so you can move on with your life. Stay steady, sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 02:42 PM
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Hey sis. Same boat here. Early 30s, and before the pandemic, I was asked by a librarian if I'd be signing up for the summer reading program... for teenagers. Before my office closed, an 18-year-old intern found out my age and went around repeating it to everyone in shock. I don't know what the solution is, just offering solidarity. I know I find the "You'll be thankful when you're older!" comments and such can really grind the gears when it can be a huge burden professionally to have baby face. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 02:16 PM
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Heed this. This is FACTS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 08:01 PM
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Is the discord server still around? How do we get invited?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 03:14 AM
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Don't even give him the satisfaction of regret. Look at him more as a stepping stone, face down in a puddle of his own entitled man-tears.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 04:36 PM
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Not to mention they've tricked women into perpetually attacking female-based interests such as Twilight as worse than male-based interests such as the extreme number of anime that show underage girls in sexual poses, skirts flying up, panties visible. Can't stand Twilight. Never could. And yet women rushing to slander it to show they are NoT LikE Other GIrLs while constantly defending things like anime (a metric shit ton of which is trash -- and I say that as someone who is a big fan of those wh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 01:50 PM
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Because men's fee-fees get hurt and they refuse to acknowledge the dangers women face not ghosting because THEY (or so they claim) would NeVEr Do ThAt and NoT ALL MeN and why can't we ungrateful harlots just tune into our psychic abilities to tell which men will and will not harm us? Sadly, some women throw their sisters under the bus for being "rude" for prioritizing their safety either because it's never happened to them (so it must not happen at all, right???), they care more about men's feel…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 06:54 PM
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Look into Google Voice as well. Free under circumstances which are very easy to meet and you can even make calls from it on your regular phone. If a dude starts stalking you / threatening to kill you because you told them there'd be no second date, delete the number and get another. ONLY contact men from these numbers for safety reasons. It has helped me more times than I can count when I was dating. Currently settled down with my HVM, but if he ever changed and I had to walk away from him, I'd …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 06:52 PM
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Not knowing the circumstances I can't say for sure, but IF they live together and she is mobile, then I definitely agree. It's true women get called all sorts of names for wanting basic decency and good treatment, but in this case, if indeed those are the circumstances, it comes off as ringing a bell to come have your butler attend to you which is creepy at best. This new age of neediness / inability to communicate without 'cutesy' novelties like this is baffling to me from either sex and if my …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 03:56 PM
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There was an article posted in here earlier in which a porn star recalls how she was sexually assaulted by her brother's friends at age 9. That is a victim, not an enemy, and she is one of many. While there are some women who are honest-and-truly irredeemable trash humans, they are few and far between. They ARE your sisters, they've just let men and a system that caters to men lead them astray, as almost everyone here has done at some point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 02:10 AM
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This is for sure a lovely young man, but it's also sad that simply acting like a decent person warrants so much praise and special mentions. This should be the default.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 01:23 AM
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For real. My male "friends" would never call/message/DM first, never once ask how I was doing including in dire times (example: death of a beloved relative) and without fail made excuses for it when confronted ("You seemed like you had it handled!). Then they'd turn around and try to get me to do things for them for free (in relation to the field I work in), expect me to listen to them rant about their poor relationships or other woes, only to vanish into the void when my service was done, never…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 05:02 PM
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I feel very sad, but very proud, of women like this. I hope she finds the life she deserves. This is not the kind of man we want our sons to become either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 04:54 PM
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Agreed. I've always found it a bit odd how many women call video games juvenile here, but are themselves extremely invested in reality TV. In the end, all of us have interests that are dumb to someone. That being said, I'm not gonna standard-shame, and I fully understand why women avoid men in the hobby. As far as the risk-reward ratio goes with 'gamers,' I would never date another one myself. I have never dated 'a gamer' who is capable of holding a civil discussion when angry (versus fucking of…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 04:46 PM
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Another one is if a dude gets pissy their pet likes YOU. Had an ex who, prior to meeting his cat, kept insisting the cat would not come near anyone but him, didn't like anyone but him, on and on. I befriended the cat. He seethed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 03:50 AM
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In that analogy, the person involved is a child. You are, presumably, an adult, as are the vast majority of people here. You don't like the dog barking? Then move away from the dog, rather than tell other people not to own dogs because they bark and you don't like it. As for stress stirring up anger... So? Women should be angry. We should be angry with how we are treated, with how our sisters are treated, our daughters, our friends. You think we earned the right to own property, vote, run for pr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 03:45 AM
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Preach. So tired of seeing "I don't like it, so get rid of it entirely!" masqueraded as holier-than-thou "good vibez only!" Women are silenced enough by men, we don't need to be silenced by other women, much less in one of the ONLY remaining women's-only spaces anywhere. The "negativity" is "triggering" you? Then filter your flairs accordingly. You're a grown up, act like it and take some personal responsibility rather than trying to bend everyone around you to your will. I'd even go so far as t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 02:26 AM
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How old is your friend? If she's your age, it sounds like she's being manipulated and groomed too. That being said, unfortunately, if she's refusing to listen and it's altering your well-being for the worse, you know what you have to do. Maybe one day she'll see the situation for what it is. As for the processing, I had almost this exact same situation happen to me. I was 18, he was 34. Now I'm just into my 30s and more disgusted with the situation than ever. When I see a teenager or young 20-so…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 05:01 PM
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"only on Tuesday" lmao Because of the ticket discounts?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 03:49 PM
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Sorry for your loss. Mostly for that of your grandfather, but also of time spent on this piece of shit person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 03:34 PM
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The point I'm making is the venn diagram of men who will use a woman just for sex and the men who lie to women and lead them on is a circle. It doesn't matter what you do or what your intentions are, this is how THEY function. I'll leave this here since we're not going to agree, but I truly hope your method hopes you find happiness one day. Every woman deserves to be treated decently. Good luck to you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 04:25 PM
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That's how I found this place originally. "Grrr, gold-diggers! Grr, incel females! Grr, they're just as bad as manosphere hate groups who promote murder and rape on the regular!" Wow, that sounds terrible! ...wait a minute, these women are just talking about bad experiences and encouraging each other to take less BS and improve themselves and their dating lives. There are some rules I don't always fully agree with but I sure have never seen "they should force men to marry us and be sex slaves!!!…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 04:20 PM
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The reason these FWB men are not being honest with you about their desire for a real relationship is because the kind of men who are looking for a real relationship are not interested in FWB. FWB is inherently them using (mutually or not) someone to get laid until they find the person they actually want to pursue. I am not trying to bring you down, but my read my post again. "Sex positive," you say. My man is the best I've had, does not choke, spit on, slap me, nor does he want to. How is THAT n…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 04:02 PM
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So true! I work in a very competitive career and I'll tell ya, ladies, always be wary of people and groups who do nothing but hug-box. It's typically not them having your best interests in mind, just people who don't want to level up in life and are trying to convince everyone else not to so they feel less guilty for their laziness. Edit: Unrelated, just saw your username. Butterfree is my favorite! :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 03:51 PM
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We can only change the future. I'm glad you're doing better now and from one stranger to another I am really proud of you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 03:45 PM
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It's not necessarily about "getting attached," it's about self-respect and weeding out men who are only looking for a lay or to get their dick sucked. By making them wait a bit, you are asserting right off the bat you have boundaries and they WILL be respected or you will not give this person the time of day. It sets a principle that, aside from the most determined genuine narcissists, will drive off NVM; they will bail immediately to go look for easier prey. I kept encountering man after man wh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 03:21 PM
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Not sure why the aggression but I am not from NYC, so no, all my info is secondhand. It's possible she is, but she also lives in one of the most affluent areas with a high cost of living and has multiple children. I am not going to say more than that or where for obvious reasons. Chillax.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 03:00 AM
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Surprised I didn't see more people asking about this. I wonder too. My (female) friend lives in NYC, makes over 100K more than that, and still sometimes struggles to afford her lifestyle, which is comfortable, but not exceptionally lavish.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 11:46 PM
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Absolutely this. I dated a lot of older men (unfortunately) before I got wise to the nonsense they pull and the reasons for their wanting to date their juniors, and this is how all the break ups went. Whenever you're tempted, think: What advice would I give my best friend or my adult children in this situation, being treated this way? It would be to STAY AWAY. Block, block, block. Do not give him the time of day. Do not share the air he breathes. You are worth that same respect. Stay strong, OP!…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 06:04 PM
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This is a really good idea!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 05:37 AM
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You already know without anyone telling you what to do, but I'll chime in anyway: Sis, you need to leave. No one, man or woman, will change until and unless THEY want to. Been there, done that, with sooo many dudes. Living a life where every morning starts with a "How should I act today?" strategy is no way to live. These men are living in single player mode. You do not owe it to anyone to live up to what their idea of perfection happens to be that day and lose your real self in the process.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 03:51 PM
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I feel for you because I'm in this exact same situation, and I have not only heard of it but seen it happen with my own eyes a number of times. That's part of why I continue to visit this place: as a reminder to not get too comfortable. You just never know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 03:46 AM
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Yeeep. I dated a NVM who hated children. Not even disliked them, hated them. Yet I was expected to birth for him "little Joshs" because he wanted to "hear the pitter-patter of little Joshs." It was over 10 years ago (he was also in his mid-30s, dating a teenager) and I still can't believe he said that with a straight face.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 05:11 PM
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You are ONLY in your 30s. J. K. Rowling was 32 when Harry Potter was published, and whether someone likes her or her work or not, no one can deny that she is extremely successful. There are tons of examples like this. Fretting you are x age is just giving into to a society that tells us our worth stops when we're out of our 20s. You are ONLY in your mid-30s, not already in your mid-30s. You have so, so much time to learn and accomplish things with effort and discipline and with the wisdom age br…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 04:58 PM
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It's not understandable. If young men populated subreddits about how to harm and celebrate harming dogs, reddit would take issue, including many of the very same men in these women-hating groups. But for some reason it's okay when it's women because they're young! Uneducated! Inexperienced! They don't know better! Nah, sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 07:53 AM
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Own it, and if need be, fire back. Don't give them that power over you. If anyone ever finds/sees them and brings it up in an aggressive or suggestive way, mock them. I've never sent nudes per se, but I did send an obviously erotic/suggestively-posed picture to someone I was dating. I was hesitant to send that, but hey, I had been 'friends' with him for sixteen years, nearly all our lives, before then! So he definitely was 'safe,' right? Male depravity knows no bounds. He sent it to others well …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 03:22 PM
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My favorite is how they'll scream to the heavens that romantic comedies are to blame for shitty male behaviors but the second someone says video games cause violence, woo boy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 04:25 PM
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Afuckingmen. I have a male acquaintance who is extremely beloved, and wanted by many women who don't know better, for the most part because of his grand gestures. They are many, varied, and to the untrained eye, impressive. Behind the curtains, he is needy, co-dependent, cannot manage his money, crumbles under the slightest hardship, and treats life like one of the romance anime he watches constantly. He caught feelings for me and referred to another mutual friend as his "love rival." We are all…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 02:45 AM
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I'm a long-time lurker, first-time poster who originally arrived at this sub with contempt for what it stood for. Refusing to split the dinner bill? Never! Wedding rings? Psh, what an outdated, gold-digger concept to even care! You don't want men to choke you during sex? What are you, a prude? To make it worse, I was considered within my circle a total, take-no-shit badass. I viewed myself that way as well. But because of the LVM posts, my eyes were opened overtime as to the BS I had been puttin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 04:59 PM
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