| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 46 | Just take the L | Inner Game | Valuable-Factor-5468 | /r/seduction | 16/01/22 12:16 PM |
| 1 | How to get good at this | Fundamentals | Valuable-Factor-5468 | /r/seduction | 12/12/21 08:18 PM |
| 1 | A decade of game (manifesto) | Fundamentals | Valuable-Factor-5468 | /r/seduction | 06/12/21 02:31 PM |
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| 2 | A super non-threatening way to ask a woman for her numberThis works but wouldn't it just be better to be more forward, "Hey, I'm about to bounce but you're cute and I want to see you again, can I get your number?". Make it obvious why you are asking for her number and what you want from getting her number. Generally speaking you want to be clear and straight forward to screen out girls who aren't interested in the same way you are. So you will get a lot of numbers being non threatening and vague but how many will convert into dates? This is a common m… | /r/seduction | 17/01/22 10:36 AM |
| 1 | Has pickup artist or dating coach advice worked for you?Most PUA's are delusional, guys who are actually good with women don't make youtube channels about it. | /r/seduction | 17/01/22 10:26 AM |
| 1 | We made long eye contact about five times, what is the next step.You go up and talk to her, you tell her you think she's hot/attractive, you make a move towards intimacy. | /r/seduction | 17/01/22 10:19 AM |
| 2 | What inspires confidence?Adversity's overcome, hardships endured. Confidence comes from knowing you are capable of something, the only way to know that is to test your mettle. Get out in the world and do things that scare you or seem difficult. | /r/seduction | 17/01/22 10:17 AM |
| 1 | Just take the LYou learn from your failures, you test different things to see what works, you try new things. You don't just blindly approach, fail, rinse and repeat. | /r/seduction | 17/01/22 09:02 AM |
| 14 | Just take the LThe fact the advice doesn't apply to the few, doesn't detract from the fact it applies to most. If things are really that bad then there is no advice out there that will do anything of value to you until you fix yourself and get help. I'm really tired of this narrative that some guys are just so hopeless that no advice can apply to them and I call bs on it. We act like every guy out there with low esteem is suffering a unique and incurable disease, literally you and every other human being suffe… | /r/seduction | 16/01/22 03:05 PM |
| 1 | The Attractive Male Personality or The Masculine PersonalityMan really said a whole lotta nothing | /r/seduction | 16/01/22 01:49 PM |
| 0 | Being early 30's and going to a venue of university aged womenIt's really not that big a deal unless you make it a big deal, what makes you think these girls aren't already smashing 30's guys. I know girls who are 20 and are. | /r/seduction | 15/01/22 07:33 PM |
| 2 | As a guy in your early 20’s, what should you be doing/how should you be acting?You accept that you must wait to get these girls, young men have like zero value to women. You just don't have the experiences and successes that build an attractive character yet, better to spend time working on getting those than girls in their prime. | /r/seduction | 15/01/22 07:28 PM |
| 2 | What to do on a “sleepover”You smash, that's it. That should be your entire game plan. Any plans you make will be cut short by bedroom fun so who cares honestly. Buy some wine at least. | /r/seduction | 15/01/22 07:19 PM |
| 4 | Coworker is quitting. Help me please!?What are you afraid of them finding out that you are a straight single guy who is looking to date, god forbid they find that out. Look you either do or you don't pick which, live with the consequences. | /r/seduction | 15/01/22 07:14 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Also if you wait around for a hot girl who doesn't have at least a few talk to them. If you weren't planning on approaching why are you playing eye games for hours? Also if you wait around for a hot girl who doesn't have at least a few guys in competition for her then you will be waiting a loooooong time. Accept that male competition is part of this and get used to it. | /r/seduction | 15/01/22 10:46 AM |
| 1 | Considering just forgetting about women?And this relates how? did you chat to girls, did you at least be proactive? focusing on yourself does not equate to locking yourself away... | /r/seduction | 15/01/22 10:40 AM |
| 4 | Coworker is quitting. Help me please!?I've had a crush on this girl at work for the past year You should have done something about it before now, anything you do now will be out of desperation and scarcity. She isn't an idiot and will realize this which isn't a good look for you at all. If you still want to try, be honest and address it. "When you decided to leave, it made me realize that I like you and I'd still want to see you again. Can I take you out for drinks/dinner next week?". | /r/seduction | 15/01/22 10:29 AM |
| 1 | Do you agree of disagree with the phrase "If it's not a fuck yes, it's a no"?Absolutely, I'm not interested in bargaining or pleading with someone when it comes to dating, if their is hesitation from her, take the L and move on. | /r/seduction | 15/01/22 10:20 AM |
| 6 | Where do you find the energy to go out every weekend?You'd be far better off not going out Friday or Saturday and reserving your energy for more interesting things. Go for hikes, cycles, runs or do side projects. Most other people are drunk or hungover all weekend and then the next week is on them and they made zero use of their free time. Also I don't see the hype at all for night game, it's awful in my opinion and there is something very wrong about seeing guys running around chasing girls all night. Most high quality guys are meeting women thro… | /r/seduction | 15/01/22 10:17 AM |
| 5 | Considering just forgetting about women?I did this last year, after a bunch of failed dates and frustration I said fuck this, I have far better things to be doing than chasing women who want to play games. Life improved drastically and dating was so much easier, women had more respect for me and behaved differently. You shouldn't give two shits what women like if I'm being honest, you present yourself as a high value man, if they don't want it, their loss, bye bye | /r/seduction | 15/01/22 09:48 AM |
| 1 | Considering just forgetting about women?I guarantee that if you forget about women for a year and focus on yourself you will end up attracting more women | /r/seduction | 15/01/22 09:33 AM |
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