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| – | Would you be concerned if a girl you were dating, liked being watched by other people while she had sex?The post even suggest they've done that multiple times... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/24 01:05 AM |
| – | Would you be concerned if a girl you were dating, liked being watched by other people while she had sex?Damn I feel really sorry for these two roommates to suffer you retards. Hope they piss in your food. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/24 12:51 AM |
| 1 | If the majority of women "hate" players, how the hell does a guy become a player in the first place?A close friend of mine is a people pleaser, and these types of men catch onto it very fast, unfortunately. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/24 08:28 PM |
| 9 | If the majority of women "hate" players, how the hell does a guy become a player in the first place?"Players" know to target more vulnerable and naive women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/24 05:13 PM |
| – | Barring disability, short straight men play the dating game on the hardest difficultyI'm 21 and most of the women I've talked to wanted someone taller than them. I remember getting the side eye when I've said it didn't really matter to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/24 12:58 AM |
| – | Cold approaching a woman but she isn’t available, should she respond in this scenario?Ah, I see now. I had coworkers/acquaintances in mind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/24 06:21 PM |
| – | Cold approaching a woman but she isn’t available, should she respond in this scenario?She's at work. That's very obtrusive. But why, though? Is this a cultural thing ? It's common to find your partner at work here. Hell, I'm the product of that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/24 06:06 PM |
| – | Cold approaching a woman but she isn’t available, should she respond in this scenario?Well, I mean I'd just ignore it if I wasn't interested. If the guy is a regular and I'd still see him, I'd made my stance clear, and if there's any trouble, then it's HR. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/24 04:56 PM |
| – | Cold approaching a woman but she isn’t available, should she respond in this scenario?I don’t really see the problem with this approach. It's less intrusive as being directly asked and leaves you time to make your decision. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/24 04:46 PM |
| – | Cold approaching a woman but she isn’t available, should she respond in this scenario?You'd have better luck on r/askmen with those types of questions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/24 04:41 PM |
| 1 | Women should not compete with each otherTriangulation is part of the manipulation tactics the redpill uses. It's the actual psychological term. "Dread game" is linked to it but doesn't necessarily involve multiple people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/24 12:23 AM |
| 3 | People should stop caring that some women want to fuck serial killers.Abuse is not necessarily physical. Women know men are physically stronger than them and will resort to other alternatives if they want to get to you. Men also have a dual mating strategy... we just never talk about it here. Yeah, it is. Quite frequently even. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/24 12:11 AM |
| 4 | People should stop caring that some women want to fuck serial killers.I see. I was under the impression that at least for Quinn, men would consider the "crazy" as a big factor, on par with looks. I've read a bit about hybristophilia and it does seem to be overepresented in women. Crazy. I've known this was a thing for some women, but I just saw it as a mental illness for the most part. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/24 08:41 PM |
| 14 | People should stop caring that some women want to fuck serial killers.I don't think attraction towards evil characters is majoritarly a female thing. There's a whole trope - the femme fatale - build around hot female villains. Harley Quinn and Lady dimitrescu come to mind as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/24 07:40 PM |
| 73 | People should stop caring that some women want to fuck serial killers.Reminds me of that twitter account called "Mugshawties" (dunno if it's the exact name) that posted mugshots of female criminals and the comments were littered with men being like "I'll fix her" or "i'll let her abuse me". There's weirdos on either side. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/24 07:11 PM |
| 3 | Women should not compete with each otherIt does happen. Some men have tried to do that to me. It's one of the emotional manipulative tactics the redpill teaches : triangulation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/24 06:49 PM |
| 6 | Women should not compete with each otherI've once had a guy who wanted me to fight for his attention with another girl, but thanks to my social ineptitude, I never noticed his approaches towards me. I then told him that he and x would look cute together, and he became ultra pissed. I just find this kind of attitude insecure and kinda desperate in general. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/24 06:19 PM |
| – | Yes - your past does matterI don't. Weird thing to assume. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/24 04:04 PM |
| – | Yes - your past does matterEren fans tend to be ...interesting sometimes to say the least. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/24 02:45 PM |
| – | Yes - your past does matterI've seen the AOT subs on your profile. Are you one of those Eren worshippers ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/24 02:39 PM |
| – | Yes - your past does matterSomeone who needs to tell people on reddit out of all places that they fuck does in fact validate that they don't fuck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/24 02:32 PM |
| – | Yes - your past does matterThis reads like a self-insert fanfiction of a 16 year old. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/24 02:13 PM |
| – | Why do some men care so much about body counts?The only women I've known to prefer a man with a high number of partners are promiscuous themselves. Sometimes the man is able to outbalance a promiscuous past but its itself not viewed as a positive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/24 11:04 AM |
| – | Why do some men care so much about body counts?There isn't a species where the male is naturally more promiscuous than the female. What happens often in promiscuous mating systems is that males either use physical force to restrain female choice or kill off competing males. ability to pair bond gets eroded away and she is far more likely to divorce a man if she's had ten plus partners as opposed to two or three. The studies that refer to "pair bonding" indicate that the strength of a bond lessens with an increase in sexual partners in both s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/24 09:55 AM |
| – | Do you think it is a good idea to try to be extra macho to get women's attention?Of course. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/24 06:00 PM |
| – | Do you think it is a good idea to try to be extra macho to get women's attention?In my experience, the macho attitude/look attracts red flags. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/24 05:48 PM |
| 8 | Do most men really want “traditional women” or to receive treatment they imagine top tier Chads receive from women?The chad cult is getting creepier by the day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/24 09:24 PM |
| 7 | Do most men really want “traditional women” or to receive treatment they imagine top tier Chads receive from women?I would consider myself to want a "trad" wife, but not in the common definition I see insecure women here using. What would your definition be ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/24 08:25 PM |
| 13 | Do most men really want “traditional women” or to receive treatment they imagine top tier Chads receive from women?they are actually sincere in their desire of a traditional lifestyle. They aren't. That's the point. These men often accuse "Western women" to want the benefits from the more modern lax views while simultaneously keeping the old norms that benefit them when they're doing exactly the same. I think they want to the treatment they think “Chads” get from women, They want women to serve them regardless if they wish to be "Chad" or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/24 08:22 PM |
| – | Question for autistic womenThe same exists for men, as we can see in the manosphere. It isn't exclusive to one gender lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/24 09:42 AM |
| – | Question for autistic womenDifferent social behaviours, really. I do not believe any is harder to read than the other. The dynamic of ribbing is pretty strange for someone on the outside as well. walk around eggshells more with men, since they care about cohesion less. Since there's not a strong group attachment amongst men, they can permit themselves to be more socially confrontational without much risk since they'd be easily able to find another group. At least that's my interpretation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/24 01:24 AM |
| – | Question for autistic womenI do not have autism but I've been raised around men and women having themselves been raised by men. The reason I'm being precise on the latter is because the genders are being socialised to communicate differently, and such behaviours can be passed to members of the opposite sex. I struggled a lot to fit in female groups when I was younger because I just wasn't taught the social behaviour to adopt. From what I could experience, female social groups tend to value in group cohesion way more than … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/24 01:02 AM |
| 10 | Men struggling with OLD need to better curate their profile to the feminine gaze, shitty profiles dont get you likesProbably my biggest issue with dudes' selfies is that they almost never smile and end up looking like that one trump mugshot. A lot of them try too hard to seem cool/intimidating and forget to look approachable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/24 07:45 PM |
| 10 | When you're dating a guy who's a long term / serious prospect, how do you decide whether to hook up with him first or delay sex until you're both serious/exclusive?I'm also in Europe. The progression around me has been more like: Meet someone > become friends > have chemistry > go on dates > relationship > sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/24 09:48 PM |
| 2 | When you're dating a guy who's a long term / serious prospect, how do you decide whether to hook up with him first or delay sex until you're both serious/exclusive?I think it would be a great idea for a post and would cut through the ones that get recycled every week. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/24 03:12 PM |
| 2 | When you're dating a guy who's a long term / serious prospect, how do you decide whether to hook up with him first or delay sex until you're both serious/exclusive?I wouldn't think of someone who has to pretend not to be interested in others as "high value" regardless of gender. Although I don't disagree with the reality of said phenomenon. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/24 03:02 PM |
| 2 | When you're dating a guy who's a long term / serious prospect, how do you decide whether to hook up with him first or delay sex until you're both serious/exclusive?It does actually but thank you for your concern ! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/24 02:57 PM |
| 1 | When you're dating a guy who's a long term / serious prospect, how do you decide whether to hook up with him first or delay sex until you're both serious/exclusive?Would be fantastic, but sadly we don't live in a Utopia. We have to protect ourselves as much as we can, especially as women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/24 02:48 PM |
| 3 | When you're dating a guy who's a long term / serious prospect, how do you decide whether to hook up with him first or delay sex until you're both serious/exclusive?Christ, talk about dealing with absolutes. I've said that by being careful with how you engage with your intimate relationships, you can reduce the amount of risks you'd be potentially exposed to. Base risk always exists. That's life. Be careful with who you're being intimate with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/24 02:30 PM |
| 4 | When you're dating a guy who's a long term / serious prospect, how do you decide whether to hook up with him first or delay sex until you're both serious/exclusive?The point is to not put yourself in unessecary risky situations that you could perfectly avoid. As you've stated, sexual abuse can happen in families, and unfortunately, in many cases, it's out of your control. While being taken pictures of you unbeknownst to you is also out of your control, you can choose to mitigate the risks by not engaging in intimate relationships carelessly. The same is true with pictures (or any other personal information, really)online. The less ammo people have, the les… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/24 02:10 PM |
| 2 | When you're dating a guy who's a long term / serious prospect, how do you decide whether to hook up with him first or delay sex until you're both serious/exclusive?Lol, why is keeping yourself safe technical incompetence? I'd say it's the opposite since you'd understand the potential risk of sharing personal identifying information with other people. I dont share my cloud services with anyone but myself, so no one has access to them in name, but of course, hacking (or a databreach for the matter) is unfortunately always a thing, so the best I can do is to be smart about the stuff i can control. Big compagnies do have copies of stuff I put in there in their… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/24 01:50 PM |
| 3 | When you're dating a guy who's a long term / serious prospect, how do you decide whether to hook up with him first or delay sex until you're both serious/exclusive?I don’t post them online, and neither do they :) Sounds to me like you're full of shit. <image> | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/24 01:39 PM |
| 2 | When you're dating a guy who's a long term / serious prospect, how do you decide whether to hook up with him first or delay sex until you're both serious/exclusive?That's precisely why I said in my last comment why I don't post ANY pictures online and never will. A primary school kid has better reading comprehension than you. Quite embarassing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/24 01:30 PM |
| 6 | When you're dating a guy who's a long term / serious prospect, how do you decide whether to hook up with him first or delay sex until you're both serious/exclusive?I don't have Facebook, so yay me ! Jokes aside- what I put on my social media accounts is something I have control over. I have no pictures of myself online, especially because of potential bullshit like AI, Photoshop, or identity theft. Also, "all this" ? Chief, I don't have suggestive pictures online, and the only way my family would have access to sexually explicit content of me would be if a shitty hookup/partner took pictures of me without my consent and decided to share them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/24 12:56 PM |
| 7 | When you're dating a guy who's a long term / serious prospect, how do you decide whether to hook up with him first or delay sex until you're both serious/exclusive?They should try dancing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/24 12:49 PM |
| 15 | When you're dating a guy who's a long term / serious prospect, how do you decide whether to hook up with him first or delay sex until you're both serious/exclusive?If I have to "compete" with other women, I'm dropping the guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/24 12:40 PM |
| 22 | When you're dating a guy who's a long term / serious prospect, how do you decide whether to hook up with him first or delay sex until you're both serious/exclusive?I've been raised in a somewhat conservative and Catholic environment, so starting a relationship with sex is off the table. Besides, I can't understand how people can jump to the sheets with someone they don't know well or aren't exclusive with. I'd be too afraid of STDs or potential abuse during the act. Not to mention, it has been reported that some men remove the condom without your consent. Also, the whole issue with being potentially filmed/taking your picture during sex, revenge porn, AI p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/24 12:34 PM |
| 2 | Women who are open to being approached, how exactly would you like a guy to go about it?No problem 😊 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/24 09:06 AM |
| 6 | Women who are open to being approached, how exactly would you like a guy to go about it?It's pretty much the same as you. You've explained it well in your other comment further down. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/24 09:04 AM |
| 6 | Women who are open to being approached, how exactly would you like a guy to go about it?I agree 100% with your take. The only cold approaches I've entertained were because the guys didn't mention my appearance and weren't pushy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/24 08:49 AM |
| 2 | For Every 16 IQ Points Above 100, a Woman Is 40% Less Likely to Get Marriedbut I do relate to difficulties in socializing as the scope of most normies' conversations is very limited. This issue tends to come up fairly often for more intellectually minded from what I could see in my own experience. I've had several friends tell me they couldn't maintain friendships/relationships with people outside of that sphere because they'd soon run out of topics to talk about or relate to. My brother is gifted and cried about the lack of mentally stimulating people he had to deal w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/24 10:20 PM |
| 7 | What does someone finding you attractive feels like?People are way more accepting of you making social "faux pas." I'm awful at reading the room/reacting to social cues, and my appearance is a real crutch. I definitely wouldn't have this amount of grace if I wasn't conventionally attractive. Otherwise, being seen as physically attractive brings me nothing since it doesn't validate me on an individual level. I do like the social privileges, though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/24 10:55 PM |
| 9 | Women: How many of you want men to improve their social skills?I would be open to help in theory, but any time I've tried to be helpful, they ended up being into me. It ended up being too uncomfortable to put up with, so I've since stopped. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/24 10:49 PM |
| 8 | Were you more physically attracted to your hookups/situationships/fwbs compared to your more serious partners?Right ? This comment section got me scared for a bit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/24 02:31 AM |
| 3 | The problem with the paternity test debatePaternity tests can only be retrieved in a legal matter (preferably by a court order) because the biometric law forbids any processing of genetic information that is done by private institutions. That is why we don't have any ethnic census here either. Stop talking about things you're clueless about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/24 04:42 PM |
| 1 | SOLUTION: Men get to ask for a DNA test as long as the GF/wife gets to randomly check his phone/tablet/computer and check that’s he not abusing the child.It’s a bit lopsided, that’s for sure. Oh, absolutely. I was only pointing out that the grift also existed on the women's side, and one should be critical enough to recognize it before getting pulled into the abyss. Red pilled men consistently demand concessions from women and use inflammatory and manipulative language in the process. It's an ideology that provides simple answers to complex problems. I would have thought people learned from the build-up to ww2 to not fall for the same reductive l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/24 03:32 PM |
| 2 | Is sex a product of a good relationship or is it a pre-requisite to one?before a new couple has agreed to commitment. So in the vast majority of cases, sex comes first. That's crazy to me. I'd never accept to have sex with someone I'm not already in a relationship/committed to. It's just asking for problems, in my opinion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/24 03:11 PM |
| 0 | SOLUTION: Men get to ask for a DNA test as long as the GF/wife gets to randomly check his phone/tablet/computer and check that’s he not abusing the child.While the whole paternity hysteria is a male issue, I also see moral outrage on the female side, as unfortunate as it is. The grifters there target issues women are sensitive to and let the fun continue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/24 03:08 PM |
| 6 | SOLUTION: Men get to ask for a DNA test as long as the GF/wife gets to randomly check his phone/tablet/computer and check that’s he not abusing the child.Why be in a relationship at all? This sounds miserable. People need to stop feeding the paranoia. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/24 12:37 PM |
| – | Modern women want conservative masculine men but who are politically liberal, to go along with their other long list of demands.People of either gender can be at fault of that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/24 10:41 PM |
| 7 | If there was a test that could confirm cheating, would you make your man take it?seems impossible to convince these men that it is in fact rude to implicitly accuse your partner of cheating and paternity fraud. They straight up don't want to admit that it's an accusation of cheating and will go to the moon and back to spin the argument around. I'm impressed at this point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/24 10:08 PM |
| – | The recommendation to stick to older women makes me giggle.A lot of times, when men state their preferences, they simultaneously treat anyone else who doesn't fit their ideal as subhuman. Like jesus fucking christ let people live. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/24 06:30 PM |
| – | Modern women want conservative masculine men but who are politically liberal, to go along with their other long list of demands.What is the bad choice in this case ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/24 06:13 PM |
| – | Modern women want conservative masculine men but who are politically liberal, to go along with their other long list of demands.That would be their personal problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/24 04:24 PM |
| – | Modern women want conservative masculine men but who are politically liberal, to go along with their other long list of demands.And forcing women into a way of life they don't want isn't? Not all of us want to "stay at home". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/24 03:38 PM |
| – | Modern women want conservative masculine men but who are politically liberal, to go along with their other long list of demands.Oh no, women wanting to have a choice over their lives. How awful. Won't someone think of the men ?! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/24 03:25 PM |
| – | Modern women want conservative masculine men but who are politically liberal, to go along with their other long list of demands.Americans and their political brainrot. Name a better combo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/24 03:18 PM |
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