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DISCUSSIONValuableReception4/r/RedPillWomen24/07/20 10:18 PM
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Typical. They never want to take responsibility. "But God, it was the woman you gave me." Lol. In him responding like that, Adam indirectly blames God too! Just weak!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 08:59 PM
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Thanks 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 08:56 PM
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This would make sense. The Holy Spirit is to represent a female deity, but the Bible does a good job at NOT emphasizing that. I think it was intentionally interpreted that way on purpose. The Holy Spirit is Powerful and is NOT subordinated. In fact, to blaspheme the Holy Spirit is the only unforgivable sin in the Bible. That in itself says alot. The Truth of a woman's worth and true role has been hidden from us by men!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 08:55 PM
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Normal logic: checking out other people of interest in front of the person you're interested in or while you're out with them is disrespectful abd distasteful. Their logic: you're being insecure for desiring self respect. Get out of that situation if you haven't already done so!!!!! Putting up with that for too long would do a number on your actual self-esteem and confidence, for sure. Will have you second guessing your very existence if you let him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 03:09 AM
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Like how dare you have self-respect and NOT want to cheat on your husband?! 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 01:50 AM
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I don't miss: •Anxiety from having to figure out if he will actually do what he says, and not cancel plans last minute. •Waiting for him to initiate conversation for once. •Having to fake that I like his homeboys who I know would condone is cheating on me. •Having to worry about if this whole relationship is psyop because deep down he hates women and is a red pill, and f*cking me is actually his warfare against women. Sigh ....of relief!!! Thank God I'm single! 😌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 01:43 AM
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🤣😂🤣🤣😂😂🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 12:25 AM
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So, is being a male a developmental deformity? All fetuses supposedly start off female. Then some of them turn into male along the way. Makes me question if God actually created Eve first, and then created Adam out of Eve's ribs. It would only make sense being that we're the gender that can have the children and sustain life in our bodies. I think it was actually Eve who named all the animals. There's no way a man is that patient and detail oriented. Then it was Adam who didn't listen to the ins…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 11:27 PM
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Yeah, good observation... why are most of them so ugly looking and out of shape??!!! Oh well. Meanwhile they expect us to lose every centimeter we gain only days after childbirth, and go back to dressing like we're 21 again and breastfeed our newborn in 3 inch heels. Him - you changed since having the babyyyyyy. Boooohoooo!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 10:51 PM
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They want you to be submissive AND confident. You know, confident in your submission to them! Smh!! It's about them and their ego.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 05:05 PM
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🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 02:56 PM
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Men commit over 90% of rapes and murders, and if not all known serial killers are men.... so there you have it! Most of them are ticking time bombs, with hypersexual urges that they can't seem to contain. Yeah, men are TRASHHHHHHH!!!!! Edit: typo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 02:41 PM
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Yes. Same here! Most women I meet tell me how confident I am. Men, the exact opposite. I experienced this recently before this whole covid 19 thing earlier this year in Jan. I was in class and one of my male professors pointed out how more confident I needed to be when giving my presentations. He repeatedly said this to me throughout the beginning of this semester. A bit later on in the semester before they switched us to finishing the semester online, we had guest judges come and critique our p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 02:30 PM
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Talk about "dodged a f*cking bullet". 😱
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 12:54 PM
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I've also had men tell me how more "confident" I need to be. I found this to mean I need to dress more provocatively, and seek their validation more. As if I haven't been a victim of their misogyny and being over sexualized since I started to develop breasts. I think the male gender are inherently sociopaths, who foams at the mouth at the sight of anything with a vagina. Heck, they'll even fuck an apple pie!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 12:42 PM
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He was hoping your self esteem would be low enough to give into his low level mind games! He's most likely the type the practices the pump and dump concept. I said this exact same thing in another subreddit!! Ladies, no sex for months with him!!! It weeds out the ones just looking for sex. One response I got was men will not wait months. But yes they will, if he's a true HVM! Weed out the simps!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 01:17 AM
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EXACTLY!! Well said! Thanks for sharing your male perspective with us women.
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/20 12:07 AM
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You not wanting to wait is okay too. If that's what You want. But the woman who made this post pointed out that her self confidence takes a ding everytime the relationship fails. I suggested she waits on sex to keep her feelings from getting hurt. Often times with women, it's the fact that they had sex that makes a breakup more hurtful. It's not dangling sex like a carrot. It's protecting your feelings. You seem to be fine with what you're doing, that's good for you. But to say a man is not goin…
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/20 12:02 AM
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Exactly! Which is why women should make them wait 8 months. The ones who aren't motivated to stick around will be vetted. And another thing you're right about is women are more reliant on love for happiness. Too reliant. Women should focus on loving themselves first. I know it sounds cliché, but we women need to hear this. If casual sex is all you want that's okay too. There's absolutely NOTHING wrong with that. I'm all for it actually, if you can handle it. Because I believe women shouldnt have…
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/20 11:33 PM
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With all due respect, that's low-self esteem talk. What is it about you that makes you think men who wait are simps? It's funny people clowned Russell Wilson when he put out that they wanted to wait till marriage for sex (given we don't know if they actually did wait). It was actually his decision from what we know. In the media, they clowned him by saying he was a virgin and a simp. Now, their relationship is "goals" for a lot of women. My own relationship is going on 2 years and we waited a wh…
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/20 11:16 PM
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Exactly. Men can sense the desperation. This is why I advised for single women to focus on themselves. After your confidence taking a hit after every failure. Stop dating for a while. I find that some women AND the old version of me would jump to the next situation without healing from the last one. When you're not healed, you're more inclined to miss the red flags and seem desperate. Get emotionally and mentally grounded first before you get back into the dating pool, AND make them wait. Some w…
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/20 10:54 PM
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This is a perfect example of the types you will be dodging. These are the type of guys you want to avoid. Just the thought of having to wait 8 months makes them run. If you're worth it to him, HE WILL WAIT (without having someone else on the side). No man is going to wait is a tactic men use to try to take your power of moving at your own pace away from you. They know women (not all women) in general want to eventually find a good guy, and settle down. This is a fear tactic. Don't believe them.
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/20 09:40 PM
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👍Lol!! Yes, most of them will get vetted by month 4 for sure. And yes, lemme see them std/herpes test results!!!!
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/20 04:03 PM
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Yeah, but if your concern is self confidence from the relationships crashing after you've already invested time and sex, waiting will help. Most guys looking for only sex (or have other issues) will not wait until 8 months to have sex with you (or will show their true colors by then). Some douche bags will wait (like you said), but they have someone else in the side too. And that's the whole point of waiting. It's up to you to use your decernment and look out for the red flags during the waiting…
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/20 03:08 PM
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I've had a guy ask me to meet him at a restaurant. We worked together. This was our first date and he was 25 minutes late. I got up and left. Texted him that I left the restaurant and couldn't wait any longer. He replied that he was 15 minutes away. He never texted me to tell me he would be late. He finally responded to my message and it had already been well over 30 mins and said he would be there in 20 minutes. I didn't reply. When I saw him at work afterwards, I acted like I wasn't the least …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 02:36 PM
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It sounds like you're having sex with these men too soon? Correct me if I'm wrong. Try not having sex with them within the first 6 to 8 months. But the thing is not to tell them that you're making them wait that long. This will reveal if they're sticking around just for the sex. If they aren't consistent and talk to you everyday for at least an hour (not text) they're not that interested, and you can move on. Of course more goes into it than that, but my message would be too long if I listed eve…
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/20 12:38 PM
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Run!
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/20 08:02 AM
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Oh trust, he is not an outlier. Plenty of men are like this. Plenty are just emotionally unavailable. They get married and have kids for the status and image it brings them to be married. Studies show, in business, men that are married are more trusted than men that are not. Unfortunately, the kids suffer too and grow up with a dad that's not affectionate. This hurts little girls because they grow up thinking that's what they should accept in men, and little boys grow up thinking this is how the…
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/20 01:32 AM
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They say law school is a jealous mistress or boyfriend lol. Maybe you've been more aloof like he's said. Law school is stressful AF. Also, I agree with him that certain things should have been vetted and discussions about individual emotional needs should have been discussed before the marriage. But it's not fair for him to just put that on you. He should have discussed what he was able to give you emotionally too. Him blind sighting you now with not being romantically attached is not fair!!! It…
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/20 01:25 AM
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I so envy you! I want to continue learning my body! I want to have full body orgasms too!!!!! 🤤🤤🤤. And you're right, it's my vagina and touching it as many times as I want should not be an issue!!
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/20 06:14 AM
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No one said anything about men shamelessly cheating. Do not put words in my mouth. But men are seen as "The man" based on how many women they sleep with, while women are viewed as whores and sluts. If you're a married man (or in a committed monogamous relationship), you should feel ashamed for cheating on your wife/girlfriend, in my opinion. But, I wasn't specifically talking about married men when I said men sleep around without thinking twice about it. I'm talking about the bachelor single men…
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/20 05:58 AM
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You keep yourself for your husband? That's good if that's what makes you happy. I'm all for women doing what makes them happy. And it's good to hear you (and other women in this comment section) admit that they have high sex drives. Some even said theirs were higher than their boyfriends/husbands. Not that it's a competition of course. But it's good to hear women sexually express themselves too. Men seem to have an easier time doing that. Also, I would agree with you that using the imagination w…
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/20 05:46 AM
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Any man who is too lazy to even want to figure out how to please you and only care about catching his climax only, is not an ideal partner. Sex is important to us women too!!!
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/20 05:01 AM
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Thank you, I'm kinda new to reddit... a month or so. I'll look into it!
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/20 03:06 AM
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Thank you luv, I will!!
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/20 03:04 AM
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See this is what I mean. Soooooo many women cannot admit what you just said and I commend you for doing this. Women LOVE sex just as much as men and a lot of times, our sex drives are stronger and higher. Sadly, we've been conditioned to suppress these desires. Meanwhile men don't!! At all! They sleep around and dont think twice about it. Now, I'm not encouraging you to sleep around if that's not what you wanna do. BUT you should express your sexual needs to your man and he should deliver and PL…
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/20 03:03 AM
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Nope I'm a young woman who LOVES sex and LOVE to talk about it, watch it, and explore it! I think you've been conditioned to think that only a man can question sex so boldly and talk about it so carelessly. We women have to stop that. Sex is to be had and talked about freely by women who choose too without the taboo attached to it!
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/20 02:58 AM
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I would agree! Women are conditioned to not be sexually expressive. There seems to always be shame attached to women who masturbate (with or without toys), watch porn, and just like to have recreational sex.
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/20 02:55 AM
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Thank you! I'll look her up.
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/20 02:53 AM
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Thanks for sharing. It's good to know that there are women out there with higher sex drives than there male partners. 😊
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/20 01:52 AM
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I think I read that somewhere too!
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/20 11:04 PM
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Thanks for sharing. Do you have any sex/romance novels you can recommend? Besides 50 shades? Lol
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/20 11:02 PM
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Thank you for the resources, I'll look into them. But seee it's not even about my man not being able to perform. Although it is true that I don't climax everytime with him. I just enjoy watching porn and masturbating. Sometimes I make him watch me masturbate. It turns me on even more!
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/20 11:00 PM
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Nope!! I'm a 29 year old woman! This goes to show how women are just not used to seeing other women freely talk about sex in such a carefree way. Why must this read like it's from a man? What about this post makes it so that a woman couldn't write it? When women are carefree about sex, we are labeled whores or loose. Meanwhile, men are seen as cool and accomplished for being carefree about sex.
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/20 10:55 PM
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Thanks for sharing. Looks like masturbation does not cause any issues in the marriage. I'm not married but I masturbate too, and it's nothing to be ashamed of!
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/20 10:50 PM
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Me too. I masturbate all the time. Almost everyday. I don't watch porn as much though. I find that masturbation gives me a guaranteed climax EVERY SINGLE TIME. But, with my man it's a hit or miss. Also, because I'm not married and we don't live together he's not always available for sex. So a girls gotta do what a girls gotta do. Idk why women are so shy to talk about this subject. I think it's social conditioning. The men are not in the porn films by themselves. There are women acting and havin…
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/20 10:49 PM
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Thank you for sharing. But why state that it's TMI on this platform? I mean I think this space is safe. I think the way you started that response just proves how shy women are too talk about this, or the taboo stigma it has. But with that said, there might be some truth to what you're saying about the orgasm issue due to being exposed to clitoral orgasms first.
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/20 10:48 PM
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Idk. But I've heard men in my family say that it's worse when women cheat because when women cheat they are looking for emotional connection and the sex means more. In contrast, when men cheat they are just wanting to catch a quick nut or to get some variety (mixing things up) as opposed to just sleeping with one woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 10:27 PM
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