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Heavy is the Crown
/r/MensRights22/07/25 11:37 PM
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“I’ve never been judged for opening up to a woman, therefore no one ever has because my life is the one and only true experience.” Do you have any idea how retarded you sound?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 02:23 AM
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What sucks is that neurodivergent women don’t want neurodivergent men either. Women place far more value on their partner not having social difficulties than men do, even if they are neurodivergent themselves.
/r/MensRights12/05/25 05:34 AM
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I hate these kind of platitudes. “Will” is a strong word, in reality a lot of men do those things and the right one does NOT ever come and they die alone.
/r/MensRights12/05/25 12:40 AM
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I did all of those things and still wasn’t getting any women. The most important factor to getting women is genetics, plain and simple. Particularly neurotypicality, if you’re neurodiverse at all as a man it makes you essentially unlovable unless you have really good looks(also genetic).
/r/MensRights12/05/25 12:36 AM
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100% of those “advocates” are grifters.
/r/MensRights16/04/25 03:15 AM
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I totally get it dude, I feel exactly the same way. All these people are saying get off the internet, as if women aren’t awful in general irl too.
/r/MensRights16/04/25 03:10 AM
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Very well said, it really is exactly like that. And anytime dating is mentioned in one of those subs, they’ll immediately deflect to “autistic women are way more likely to be in abusive relationships/manipulated”, as if autistic men aren’t just as likely to be abused/manipulated. They’ll make up all kinds of bullshit to avoid admitting dating is a million times easier for autistic women than autistic men.
/r/MensRights15/04/25 06:05 AM
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You suck. Good on you for being honest but still, you suck. Men are real people with deep emotions and thoughts. Many men experience sadness and despair deeper than you could imagine. I’ve been hurt by multiple women like you and it caused me to not be able open up to/get close to women anymore. Pls don’t have kids.
/r/MensRights13/04/25 07:20 AM
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Every friendship I’ve had with a woman as an adult has boiled down to me being used for emotional support, which is never returned. I actually don’t consider them friendships looking back, all they seem to do is use.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 04:40 AM
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“Hurr durr yeah so what if men are overwhelmingly the victims of violent crime, the <1% of men that are the ones committing the crimes cancel out the victimhood of the other 99% who DON’T commit the crimes” it’s hilarious that you don’t even realize how retarded you sound.
/r/MensRights28/03/25 11:26 PM
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The problem here is that you basically sound like a rich person telling a poor person how being rich isn’t all that great. Like yeah, there are unique problems you deal with when you make a lot of money, but having lots of money is objectively better than being poor and struggling to even get by.
/r/MensRights28/03/25 12:46 AM
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“Just as many single women as single men”is false. Over 60% of young men are single but only 30% of women are: https://thehill.com/blogs/blog-briefing-room/3868557-most-young-men-are-single-most-young-women-are-not/amp/ You may be a boomer who is unable to process how skewed dating is now because it wasn’t like that when you were younger. And it’s not a “society of lesbians” but because modern women refuse to date average men(even when they themselves are average), they’d rather share a top 20%e…
/r/MensRights28/03/25 12:33 AM
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Profound counter argument. Calling others an incel doesn’t make you not an incel btw
/r/MensRights26/03/25 01:03 PM
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It’s not crazy at all. They don’t genuinely care about those men, just what the men can do for them. If/when the men are no longer useable they get thrown into the trash like the emotionless garbage they are. The only male that a woman can truly love/care about is her son, and even that’s not guaranteed.
/r/MensRights26/03/25 02:51 AM
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Pure facts. The amount of women that would be incels if they were men is absolutely staggering.
/r/MensRights26/03/25 02:34 AM
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It’s definitely not bullshit, it’s called the Pareto principle and it’s been all but proven in multiple studies. Women straight up lie about what they want to make themselves look better. Not all, but most. I’ve observed it first hand repeatedly. Any dude not in that 20% will almost certainly get cheated on and abandoned eventually even if they do get a partner, which shows in divorce statistics. Clearly you’re a part of that 20%, and thats great for you, I’m happy you have such a great fucking …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 07:20 AM
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Profound counter-argument. Shame and insult rather than engage the point directly because you know it’s true
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 06:48 AM
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Remember folks, when a woman says 5/10 she really means 8-9/10. It has been consistently shown that women think the bottom 80% of men as below average. Hell, being 6’ tall alone is less than 15% of the male population, and the vast majority of women won’t even consider you if you’re below that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 04:01 AM
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Most of what you said is solid but “Guys go for looks” is completely false. If it were true you wouldn’t have 1k+ matches. Most men literally just want companionship and love with someone that has a personality that they vibe with. The reality is that men go for personality, and women go for status AND looks.
/r/MensRights18/02/25 06:02 AM
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Provide examples of these blanket statements please. If you really think racism is the reason for not wanting tens of millions of undocumented people coming into your country over a short period of time, then I really don’t know what to say other than you’re just genuinely retarded. 🤷‍♂️
/r/MensRights17/01/25 08:36 AM
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Not mass deportations of immigrants, ILLEGAL immigrants. Love how you conveniently leave that word out. You’d be hard pressed to find an American against legal immigration.
/r/MensRights17/01/25 03:15 AM
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Do you actually think this 15 year old just walked into a shop and bought a gun?
/r/MensRights18/12/24 02:05 AM
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This woman is absolutely disgusting, creepy, and a predator and needs to be put in prison for a very, very long time.
/r/MensRights09/12/24 03:37 AM
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It was made illegal in various states because the majority of voters in those states voted for it to be illegal in what is called a “democratic” process. I voted for it to be legal in my state because I’m pro choice. It hasn’t been banned nationwide which is what they think is trying to be done..
/r/MensRights02/11/24 06:24 AM
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Because they aren’t as logical as men on average; they generally think and vote purely based on emotion. It’s not logical to consider abortion the most important issue when it hasn’t been and won’t be banned. Especially in the midst of a potential WW3.
/r/MensRights02/11/24 05:46 AM
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Yep, that’s because abortion is the only political issue they care about.
/r/MensRights02/11/24 05:27 AM
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Reaching out to their friends/family when they’re going through mental health issues.
/r/MensRights30/09/24 12:13 AM
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Perfectly written, absolute facts.
/r/MensRights09/09/24 06:43 AM
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Exceptions don’t disprove the general rule. Nice high horse you’ve got there, gaslighter. “Men have lots of problems but only the ones that affect me are real”.
/r/MensRights04/09/24 03:26 AM
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Why even bring it up then? If men are victims too then you shouldn’t be saying men have it easy because they “don’t walk at night with fear” even though 99.9% of men absolutely do, and with good reason since they are far more likely to be attacked in some way. The majority of the offenders are men, sure, but they constitute maybe 0.1% of all men at the most, and you lump the other 99.9% of men in with them like they are somehow also responsible for the crimes.
/r/MensRights25/08/24 07:56 PM
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What gets me is that they say it’s personality that really matters and that nice men aren’t actually nice, but then choose to date men who physically/emotionally abuse them and are generally dickheads to everyone around them. Highest rates of single motherhood ever, but apparently the men who they let impregnate them who are abandoning their children have wonderful personalities. So much cap, I don’t know why they can’t just be honest.
/r/MensRights10/08/24 09:34 PM
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Exceptions don’t disprove a general rule, obviously there will always be exceptions for anything but when 99%+ of a group displays certain actions I think it’s pretty fair to refer to the whole group
/r/MensRights07/08/24 04:56 PM
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Where do you think confidence comes from? Logically, why would you be confident about something when you’ve been shit on your entire life for it?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/08/24 02:52 PM
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Well that’s just delusional.
/r/MensRights06/08/24 06:44 PM
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You really gonna sit there and imply all of the 2/3rds of young men that are single aren’t doing all these and more?
/r/MensRights06/08/24 06:25 PM
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Acknowledging the disparities between genders and pointing out the lies and hypocrisy of modern feminism is not equivalent to hating women.
/r/MensRights31/07/24 06:11 PM
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Absolutely. I’ve tried doing therapy twice and both times it was an absolute joke that did nothing to help my somewhat extreme mental health issues. If you are a man who is struggling the industry has no interest in actually caring for or helping you, they just want your money and spew a bunch of low-effort bs that you’ve already heard a thousand times that clearly hasn’t helped you. The industry is built around women and helping women, most therapists actively despise men.
/r/MensRights26/07/24 06:57 AM
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Your perspective is absolutely welcomed. I think the reason for your experience, as well as most of us here, is simply apex fallacy. Feminism tells women from a young age that men have all this power, influence, and privilege, when in reality only an extremely small % of men at the very top experience that. The vast majority of men literally have none of that.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/07/24 12:35 AM
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How is it a false premise? It’s highly unlikely you haven’t seen the data that shows over 60% of young men are single and only 30% of women are. Clearly men are at a disadvantage and getting lonelier but you deny the statistics because it doesn’t fit your narrative.
/r/MensRights22/07/24 09:05 AM
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Amazing post. Also, it is my belief that there aren’t actually more autistic men than women. Many, many autistic women go undiagnosed and I believe it’s because autism doesn’t affect women’s lives nearly as negatively, especially when it comes to dating.
/r/MensRights15/07/24 05:19 AM
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The upsides that they get are so overwhelmingly huge that any kind of downside is really just completely negligible
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/07/24 08:36 AM
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Same here bro. I’ve tried ending it a few times and it isn’t easy at all. Our survival instincts as humans are insanely strong. All I can say is I relate to every part of your post. You aren’t alone in what you are feeling.
/r/MensRights16/06/24 01:07 PM
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I’m struggling and have been for a long time now. Taking it a day at a time but the older I get the more I feel like im not meant to be in this world. Made so many mistakes. Just turned 28 and have no close friends, significant other, or support system. My only significant accomplishment is getting off of drugs. I’m about 2 years away from an engineering bachelors, but I suspect it’s not going to be any different if I make it that long. Some small part of me has some hope and that’s why I’m stil…
/r/MensRights14/06/24 02:47 AM
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You must be literally one in a billion! In my experience and many others here, talking about mental health issues with women is literally repulsive to them. Not only is it repulsive but they think it’s funny.
/r/MensRights05/06/24 06:32 AM
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Yeah you’re either trolling or completely misinterpreting. I’m saying you’re not applying the same logic to both things. A higher percentage of women are OnlyFans girls then % of men that commit murder/grape. You say it’s wrong to say OF girls represent all women, but then turn around and say all men are bad. No one says that seriously here, I’m just pointing out the flaws in your logic
/r/MensRights05/06/24 12:00 AM
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That’s not what I said at all. Is that what you’re saying?
/r/MensRights04/06/24 11:52 PM
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Here’s your logic thrown back at you, relating to the Man vs Bear thing from late. Less than .1% of men commit murder or rape. Acting like this EXTREMELY tiny outlier somehow represents men is CRAZY.
/r/MensRights04/06/24 10:54 PM
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What’s crazy is that they still will choose that(or some form of it like fwb) over even considering being with an average looking guy.
/r/MensRights04/06/24 06:23 PM
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There is absolutely no way women are more empathetic than men. Not even close.
/r/MensRights04/06/24 06:16 PM
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Not only that but dogs actually care about you, unlike wymyn
/r/MensRights03/06/24 06:56 AM
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I choose the dog!
/r/MensRights03/06/24 06:55 AM
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Dating apps only work for Chads and women. Women are biologically programmed to form harems around Chads instead of giving average men the time of day.
/r/MensRights03/05/24 04:16 PM
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I agree you should be improving yourself for yourself. But the problem is you’re implying that’s a guaranteed way to find a mate when it’s not. Many men spend YEARS improving for THEMSELVES and are still alone, and being told by people like you that they aren’t trying hard enough and that they’re “only improving for a relationship”. Are they supposed to just be okay with being alone forever? We’re biologically wired to mate and procreate. Frustration is inevitable.
/r/MensRights30/04/24 01:59 AM
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Yet again, another idiot implying that all incels aren’t doing anything to improve themselves, when the vast majority of them are working harder to improve themselves harder than you ever have and still getting no results due to things out of their control.
/r/MensRights30/04/24 12:26 AM
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It is shallow though because y’all choose men based on things out of their control and you only choose the men in the top 10%, meaning it’s not subjective. Men who aren’t in that top 10% are used by you until you can cheat with/monkey branch to one that is. Men, on the other hand, literally do not care about anything other than weight and personality. I’ve never met a single man that gives a crap about hair color… what a delusional statement. Weight and personality are completely in a woman’s co…
/r/MensRights26/04/24 02:55 AM
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No you’re not crazy, you’re 100% right. Women are far more shallow than men actually. Their preferences are for things that are out of men’s control like height, d size, hairline, neurotypicality etc. 99% of straight men have a single preference: don’t be a land whale. That is literally it. And guess what? That’s something that 99.9% of women have control over and can change. Much less shallow.
/r/MensRights25/04/24 07:21 PM
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The crazy thing is that the way women are forming harems around the small amount of most attractive men is not liberal at all, it’s literally taking them back thousands of years. It just shows that biology is hardwired and can’t be changed, that women still would rather be in a harem of one man than consider an average man to be a person that thinks, sees and feels and is capable of being a mate.
/r/MensRights22/04/24 05:51 AM
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Feminists are zero-sum thinkers.
/r/MensRights21/04/24 07:10 PM
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What do you mean “improve”? You and I could both list countless horrible men who never have any problem getting poon, and also countless men who are genuinely good intelligent humans who are improving themselves every day yet are chronically alone. Your argument implies that 50+% of men aren’t trying to improve themselves. You really think that’s the case?
/r/MensRights10/04/24 05:29 AM
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Whatever is happening no longer seems natural. Technology has caused it to become artificial selection. The amount of men that women genuinely find attractive now is incredibly small thanks to hyper-sexualization. Call it natural selection if you want, but I believe problems will arise if women continue to be so overly picky, and it could cause extinction of humans if it continues.
/r/MensRights09/04/24 06:44 AM
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I think he’s referring to men being put down for things like their height, member size, baldness etc. All of these things are socially acceptable to put men down for, despite the fact that they are out of a man’s control and completely down to genetics. Furthermore, it isn’t socially acceptable to say anything negative about being obese, which is something that 99% of the time IS in a man’s control.
/r/MensRights09/04/24 06:25 AM
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You don’t see as many people preaching about men’s mental health because it isn’t as socially acceptable. Sticking up for men in any way gets you labeled an incel and/or cancelled. It will for sure get you banned from certain subreddits. You can thank feminism for that.
/r/MensRights09/04/24 02:02 AM
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YOU don’t care because it doesn’t affect YOU and you seem to think the world revolves around you. Clearly people do care because there are many posts relating to it, and it absolutely does tie into men’s rights. Not only that but it very clearly states in the group description that conversation around men’s general experiences and issues in society are allowed. It’s obvious you’re just an insecure little man who made this post to try to make yourself feel superior to others by putting them down …
/r/MensRights06/04/24 03:36 AM
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So men’s issues aren’t real unless they affect YOU personally. Got it.
/r/MensRights06/04/24 02:00 AM
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I lean left. I really don’t understand why this sub is considered to be conservative, if anything it’s liberal since the idea is being progressive regarding MR issues.
/r/MensRights26/03/24 03:33 PM
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“GuyS who SAy TheyRe nIce arEnt rLY NiCE!!!” chooses to date/fuck Chad who’s been to prison multiple times, has 4 kids all from different women and doesn’t pay child support, who cheats on and abuses her and generally treats everyone around him like shit The cap is insane.
/r/MensRights23/03/24 08:42 PM
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My brain instantly thinks of sex because you’re using the word incel doofus. Incel stands for “involuntary celibate”, celibate means not having sex. Using the word as an insult means you’re tying a man’s worth to how much sex he has. If it’s not about getting laid why aren’t you using a different word? Btw your point makes no sense because you and I surely both know plenty of genuinely repulsive men that have no problem getting women.
/r/MensRights03/03/24 06:47 AM
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Same. OP is humble-bragging
/r/MensRights03/03/24 04:46 AM
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“I literally never said that” immediately says it again lmao.
/r/MensRights03/03/24 03:01 AM
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You and I both agree that capitalism is a problem. The “patriarchy” is just capitalism distorted by those at the top to keep people fighting an invisible problem. The problem is that it’s not MEN who hold the power, it’s the capitalists, oligarchs, bourgeoisie whatever you wanna call them, at the top. Also women are the ones who sexually select the hyper masculinized men, hence feminism being the reason.
/r/MensRights29/02/24 02:27 AM
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Most of the answers to those questions is feminism lol. Explain to me one way in which the patriarchy exists that isn’t an apex fallacy.
/r/MensRights28/02/24 04:58 PM
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The patriarchy does not exist, period. End of story. It hasn’t existed in a long time.
/r/MensRights28/02/24 04:52 PM
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Having a lot of money isn’t a top 3 thing for happiness for people who were born into a wealthy family - similar thing here. Yeah money isn’t the be all end all but it’s extremely important and having no money/being homeless fucking blows. You only say that about having a partner because it’s not something you’ve ever had to think about or put effort into, women are basically guaranteed a mate just by existing.
/r/MensRights25/02/24 06:45 AM
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You prob at least have a partner tho. And if you don’t you could find one easily. That’s where the link is, it’s MUCH easier for women when it comes to getting a partner. Having someone to be emotionally intimate and loving with makes these things significantly easier ti deal with. Being alone and not given a shit about for extended periods of time causes SIGNIFICANT amounts of emotional pain and can easily lead to self harming thoughts/actions. Hence the fact that men commit 80% of suicides.
/r/MensRights24/02/24 10:54 AM
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Yes man, it is. I relate to your post SO much. I asked myself did I write this?? I am in a similar place in life and same age. I wish I was born female too, for the same reasons you listed. Would be life on tutorial mode compared to what we have to go through for sure. I think about ending it all every day but I’m doing college and holding on to the hope of having an actual good job when I finish. However like you said, having a good job isn’t enough, to be happy you need at least one solid frie…
/r/MensRights24/02/24 10:45 AM
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How much adderall are you on? Goddamn lol
/r/MensRights22/02/24 02:09 AM
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Good question. It’s similar to someone bragging about being good at a video game when they’re openly using hacks/cheats. makes no sense lol.
/r/MensRights15/02/24 04:18 PM
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Yep, it’s mainly a modern phenomenon being experienced by young millennials and gen z. If you were born in the 80s or early 90s you were able to date before dating apps became widespread and women were still able to be attracted to average men.
/r/MensRights10/02/24 02:01 AM
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It’s not even a question. Dating for 90% of women is quite literally tutorial mode, it’s not even a challenge at all they literally don’t have to do anything but exist. for about 90% of men it is veteran difficulty and extremely difficult to even get a date, and if you do you will inevitably get cheated on or broken up with for one of those top 10% guys. This will get accused of incel rhetoric but it’s not, there are plenty of statistics to show this is what is actually happening rn.
/r/MensRights10/02/24 01:22 AM
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Nope, still wrong. Plenty of people with actual shitty personalities who have no problem getting women. Like I said there are literal millions of men working hard to improve themselves everyday and you’re shitting all over them by saying because of your anecdotal experience they ALL either have: a “shitty personality” or trying to get with 10s. Come on, you know that’s not true.
/r/MensRights05/02/24 03:56 AM
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“Aren’t willing to bust their ass and become the very best version of themselves” downvoted for implying men who aren’t getting laid are inherently not busting their asses to improve because it’s not even close yo being true. Some maybe, but most are doing everything they can and still getting no success.
/r/MensRights05/02/24 03:39 AM
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This sub is not “far-right”. A large amount if not most are left-leaning, myself included. Tell me you’re a misandrist without telling me you’re a misandrist.
/r/MensRights04/02/24 07:08 AM
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This makes sense. It also explains why women are perfectly fine with actual weirdos/creeps cold approaching them/harassing them as long as they’re over 6 ft, have full head of hair, neurotypical etc. It’s socially acceptable for them to be narcissistic and play victim whenever it suits them.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/01/24 12:06 PM
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Creep 99% of the time just means you are not genetically gifted enough for the woman in question. Usually she herself isn’t genetically gifted and is a certified land-whale but demands 6 feet, no neurodiversity, and 6 inches. Also must have a nice face. It’s a socially acceptable way to reject people based on things that they have no control over while also portraying yourself as a victim.
/r/MensRights28/01/24 11:50 AM
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They quite literally have everything. They live better than any men in the history of men; even higher than the highest of kings. Meanwhile the average man lives either equivalent or less than the lowest of peasants. That’s how unbalanced the sexual marketplace has become. A really small amount of men at the very top of the genetic lottery getting ALL the pussy, with the vast majority of the bottom 90% getting literally no pussy at all, and the few that are are because they have been able to mak…
/r/MensRights28/01/24 06:38 AM
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There is no one more homophobic than a modern feminist. They sexually select for top % of men(6 ft tall, six figs, socially masculine(abusive, narcissistic) etc) and then complain when that tiny percent of men have all the power(patriarchy) and complain about “ALL men” even tho it’s that less than 1% that THEY gave the power to that have control over everything. Body positivity this, body positivity that, until it’s a man that’s less than 6 ft tall or has a dick that’s less than 6 inches, then i…
/r/MensRights28/01/24 06:32 AM
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Roma army or whatever she’s called is the fakest shit ever. Makes all these “men’s rights” videos just to end up being an OF grifter. She preys on lonely men to get rich and it’s sickening
/r/MensRights23/01/24 08:41 PM
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ShE LiEd to YUo bEcAusE of the pAtrIarChY!! ItS MENS faUlT ShE dId ThAt!!! /s
/r/MensRights23/01/24 01:27 PM
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Nothing but truth OP, everything you wrote is so spot on. Most women genuinely have no idea what it is like to be ACTUALLY lonely and how shitty it feels for the average man. If you’re not in that top 10% as a man you’re literally INVISIBLE.
/r/MensRights23/01/24 04:50 AM
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Stupidity/low intelligence/misandry is the answer.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/01/24 01:46 AM
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Most pop music is low-effort corporate manufactured slop tailored to the lowest common denominator to make the most money. People who only listen to pop 100% deserve to get shit on for it
/r/MensRights21/01/24 05:12 AM
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Unless you have a solid plan for how you’re going to make money without a degree, GO TO COLLEGE. I know STEM gets pushed alot but it really is the way. Find a STEM career that you enjoy, it doesn’t have to be your absolute passion in life but it will be able to fund your passions, traveling, and general quality of life. I’m 27 and still have 2 yrs of engineering school left and kick myself for not starting earlier. I spent my early adulthood addicted to drugs and constantly being broke as fuck a…
/r/MensRights20/01/24 06:40 AM
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They already are sharing. They would rather share a top 10% man than even consider dating a genetically average man. Women naturally form harems and would prefer it that way.
/r/MensRights12/01/24 01:22 PM
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Hey there, I’m sorry for what you’ve been through and I relate to you a lot. I’m also behind in life and struggle to be intimate. And my experience is exactly the same - if you tell women you went through this stuff and you show any kind of emotion they soon break up with you/cheat with Chad. I was molested by an older female relative when I was a kid and it haunts me every day, and people literally think that it’s funny if you’re a man. It’s sickening
/r/MensRights12/01/24 01:11 PM
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I’m sorry that happened, but pls don’t associate everyone who has BPD with these acts. I’m a dude with suspected BPD and it has made my life a living hell, and I didn’t choose to be fucked in the head. but I’ve NEVER done anything close to that. Generally it’s only women with BPD who do this horrible stuff in my experience, since it’s socially acceptable for women to have mental health issues unlike men. If you’re a male with BPD you’re basically worthless, at least that’s how it feels.
/r/MensRights10/01/24 11:37 PM
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Yep, this is so true. I’ve never understood why women are considered the more “empathetic”/“emotional” sex when the most vile, selfish, non-empathetic people I’ve known have been almost all women.
/r/MensRights10/01/24 11:17 PM
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Imagine how much of a nightmare it would be to date her. I feel bad for who she’s going to inevitably divorce, whether it’s Chad or Betabux.
/r/MensRights02/01/24 08:09 AM
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Unfortunately most marriages end in divorce, so you’re an outlier. Also finding a partner at all as a man is significantly more difficult now than it was 23 yrs ago, let alone an actual GOOD partner.
/r/MensRights30/12/23 09:11 PM
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False, I do all of those things and haven’t been laid in years
/r/MensRights25/12/23 11:28 PM
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Idk I have almost no hope at this point tbh. I’m 27 and not getting any younger. I’ve tried and focused on those inconveniences. Worked extremely hard to be a better person, turn my life around, and pursue happiness and growth, and had no success. Meanwhile many of the people I went to high school with including the pieces of shit lowlifes are all in relationships, been in a bunch, or married have kids etc. its been 4 years since I’ve even dated anyone. It’s fuckin’ depressing as shit, wouldn’t …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:47 AM
6

As that lonely super-sensitive guy I can say that trauma has built up in me and caused me to be in a mental hell. I try to hang out with people and make friends but my anxiety continues to get worse, not better and I can get triggered by seemingly small things but my trauma response is to shut down and isolate. I lose all sense of rationality and ruin my friendships. Then when I feel mentally normal again I have no one left. I’ve lost quiet a few friends because of this. It’s possible the people…
/r/MensRights17/12/23 05:19 AM
3

Yes!! So true. The reality is that women don’t know what it’s like to be actually lonely. They always have or could have someone that cares about them, wants to hang out, talk with them etc. for many men we go months without anyone even trying to contact us. They don’t realize how utterly destructive it is to mental health. Men commit 80% of suicides for a reason.
/r/MensRights17/12/23 04:30 AM
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PREACH dude. Nothing but truth spoken here. Women’s “preferences” are based on things that are out of men’s control. If you’re not part of the 10-15% of men that were lucky enough to be born with those preferences there’s no point in even trying to date; no human being will ever truly love you or care about you and you’re going to die alone. I’ve been trying to come to terms with this for awhile and it really does hurt. Life is a pointless, sad existence for men with unlucky genetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 04:20 AM
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I feel ya man, I’m right there with you but probably older. I’m in school for STEM as well and the few women there are aren’t any different from non-STEM women, they all still want Chad Thundercock and won’t acknowledge your existence for any reason other than to help them on an assignment/try to get you to do schoolwork for them etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 04:10 AM
6

I tried explaining to my mom that dating as an average modern man is nearly impossible and that it is a depressing and shitty existence. I tried telling her about how the vast majority of modern women absolutely refuse to even acknowledge your existence unless you’re 6 feet, 6 figs, 6 inches and highly socially adept(which comes with having the former traits and not being autistic). She couldn’t wrap her mind around how much of a nightmare dating is for men unless you’re Chad, women can’t compre…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 04:06 AM
1

Toxic masculinity is directly linked to masculinity though. Women absolutely sexually select toxically masculine men. If women didn’t choose to be with toxic masculine men and suck their dicks every day, there would be no toxic masculinity.
/r/MensRights05/12/23 05:31 AM
3

The difference is that being fat is a choice 99% of the time, being short is not. Women’s preferences are entirely based on things out of men’s control, whereas men’s preferences are the opposite.
/r/MensRights29/11/23 02:37 AM
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False. People definitely think lower of men who are not actively having sex and make jokes about it all the time. Define “being a bitch about it”, it’s perfectly understandable for someone to be frustrated over not being able to experience a basic experience of life that others don’t even have to think about. Especially when they are putting in more effort to improve than the people who have partners, but failing because of things out of their control. Humans naturally want a partner and to proc…
/r/MensRights27/11/23 06:53 PM
2

Nope, it’s definitely easier for women overall.
/r/MensRights23/11/23 10:57 PM
1

Yes. I genuinely wish I had been born female. I would be far more accepted for who I am and would never have to experience genuine loneliness.
/r/MensRights20/11/23 07:00 AM
3

This is the same person that unabashedly BODY SHAMED men who have small dicks in an interview. Absolute hypocrite and completely delusional
/r/MensRights15/11/23 03:19 AM
7

“The way they held themselves” suuuuure.
/r/MensRights06/11/23 08:22 PM
11

“A lot of women don’t like when men are emotionally open with them and view them as weak” Very well said. This is 100% true, I would say more than a lot though. More like most women if not all.
/r/MensRights05/11/23 08:00 PM
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Idk I haven’t been in a relationship or had sex for 4 years now and it’s getting really depressing tbh. We are animals and are programmed to want to mate and have an intimate loving relationship. I’d say give it a go but be careful!
/r/MensRights05/11/23 07:58 PM
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Truer words have never been spoken brother. To add to that: according to feminists, there are no actually good guys. Apparently all of the good guys are just faking it to get pussy, which they claim to be “entitled” to.
/r/MensRights04/11/23 06:33 AM
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Stop the cap. Claiming they “aren’t doing anything about it” is a way to shift the blame onto the struggling men. I can tell you the vast majority ARE trying to do something about it to no avail. And the ones that aren’t, maybe they DONT know what to do about it or where to go? And women like you continue to virtue signal while treating sensitive men like trash. You on the other hand, women, have all sorts of help available to you. People actually care about your mental health and want to help y…
/r/MensRights31/10/23 04:32 PM
3

They do approach, but only if you’re a Chad. Don’t get it twisted - women only want Chad. This is an undisputed fact at this point. If you’re not in the top 10%, you’re NOT attractive, period, and you never will be. They will settle for you for your money, but will never be truly attracted to you and will cheat with Chad the first chance she gets. It’s the nature of women.
/r/MensRights29/10/23 04:12 AM
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Because 99% don’t have the option to fuck “tons” of women, only extremely attractive, high value men are able to do that. They don’t “deserve” good women, but they get them because women are way more superficial than men and only want the best of the best genetics. Women on the other hand, even the ugliest/oldest of women, can have sex whenever the hell they want. It’s not a challenge for women to get laid. They literally don’t have to do anything, they don’t even have to try to look good becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 05:02 PM
1

If the “aspects of their personality” bullshit was true then we wouldn’t see horrible men that are bathing in poon, yet we do everyday. Women complain all the time about horrible men who they CHOSE to be with.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 04:57 PM
1

“She has 4 dogs because she couldn’t find a good man” this is literally dog pill bro. It’s real!
/r/AllPillDebate25/10/23 05:04 PM
2

I’m sorry man, I seriously feel your pain and relate so much. I also feel extremely isolated and alone and it’s hell. Women literally do not give an inkling of a fuck about anyone but themselves and Chad. If you’re not a neurotypical Chad then your only purpose on this earth is for them to use you for emotional/monetary support with nothing in return and that’s a fact. Not one woman on earth who isnt like this unfortunately. And fuck the people who say “you don’t need a partner to be happy” who …
/r/MensRights25/10/23 03:08 AM
1

Because being treated like shit is exciting, and being happy is boring. When you’re being treated like shit you have something to look forward to, when you’re happy and content with life, you have nothing to look forward to anymore. Note, the guy also has to be over 6 feet, have a big dick, and not be autistic and many more.
/r/MensRights22/10/23 05:26 AM
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Your claim makes absolutely zero sense. You say it has “absolutely nothing to do with height” and then in the next sentence say that they are confident BECAUSE they are tall. EXACTLY.
/r/MensRights16/10/23 05:11 PM
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Weird replies here, like anecdotes somehow disprove statistics. It’s literally statistically proven that tall men make more money than short men. Also something like 60% of CEOs are over 6 ft despite only 14% of the population being 6 ft or taller.
/r/MensRights16/10/23 02:28 PM
2

Look at their post history, they’re a teenager. Explains it.
/r/MensRights13/09/23 03:46 AM
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What’s the point of even trying when modern women won’t even give you a chance unless you’re basically a perfect human, genetically and socially? And if they do give you a chance, they cheat on you or abandon you for Chad as soon as they get the chance, and you’re left with a torn-apart heart. There’s no point of even trying anymore if you aren’t a “Chad”.
/r/MensRights12/09/23 07:56 PM
35

Incel has fully moved into buzzword territory. It no longer means “involuntarily celibate”, it is used by people who don’t have an argument who are resorting to insults. Many people who get laid regularly are being called incels now, just for not subscribing to the idea of women being “oppressed” in 2023. It’s very sad how feminists reduce a whole ass person with thoughts, feelings, and memories into an insult that basically means they’re lower than dirt since they’re alone. Insulting someone fo…
/r/MensRights11/09/23 05:25 PM
1

You said that men can walk down the street without fear of being raped/harassed, which is complete bullshit. Men constitute the majority of victims of violent crime, and if you consider prison statistics MEN are raped at a higher rate as well. Again, you blame all men for the actions of a fraction of a percent of them. What’s crazy is that it’s this fraction of a percent of men that you also find attractive and love to cheat on with.
/r/MensRights04/09/23 11:15 PM
1

Literally all of this is wrong. Particularly, I had a female supervisor who sexually harassed me several times, including slapping my ass. I also experienced someone try to literally murder me in cold blood, unprovoked, TWICE. And guess what? No one cares. Why? BECAUSE IM A MAN. And I need to man up and stop being a pussy about it. This is what you feminists say, complete hypocrites.
/r/MensRights04/09/23 01:41 AM
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Agreed. We need to be there for each other. Unfortunately a lot of men are toxic but at least men can genuinely care about others. I don’t think men and women can truly be friends tbh. Even if the man views the woman as a friend, women lack the ability to view men as anything other than A. Someone to use get something/things from and to ghost as soon as soon as they get what she was using him for , or B. A romantic partner to monkey-branch to and extract resources from until the next best thing …
/r/MensRights02/09/23 11:52 PM
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She’s just another privileged little narcissistic girl who has never had to experience any kind of real struggle or challenge herself to put herself into anyone else’s shoes. So pathetic
/r/MensRights19/08/23 12:00 PM
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Imagine thinking even the majority of men have access to this “help”. What is the help exactly? Therapy? Will therapy cure autism and make me taller?
/r/MensRights18/08/23 12:39 AM
5

BUT ITS MEN WHO CREATE THE BODY STANDARDS BECAUSE PATRIARCHY /s (feminists actually use this whenever you bring up a male societal issue)
/r/MensRights17/08/23 03:00 AM
3

Yep. I had a female manager who literally slapped my ass once on the job, and no one cared.
/r/MensRights16/08/23 04:22 AM
1

There is not
/r/MensRights01/08/23 09:02 AM
1

If I could start my life over as a woman I would do it in a heartbeat. God isn’t real btw.
/r/MensRights31/07/23 04:12 AM
9

Yes. Making actual friends that give a shit about you and aren’t just using you for something is much harder as a man.
/r/MensRights31/07/23 04:04 AM
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I thought it was hilarious how the teenager went on a rant about facism and shit and then immediately got into her moms expensive car while living in a house in LA, the most expensive place to live in the US. Her oppressed mom’s “boring” job sure seems to pay well.
/r/MensRights31/07/23 01:06 AM
3

Just saw the movie and yes, it really did seem that way. It pushes the idea of the patriarchy and how men have it so easy and all the problems in the world are their fault, when really it’s only an extremely tiny percent of men at the top of the ladder who are actually contributing to this. This movie is just another piece of propaganda assembled by those men(and some women) at the top to continue to mislead the general public believing in/fighting a fake problem(men supposedly having all of thi…
/r/MensRights31/07/23 01:02 AM
2

Exactly! Just pure, unadulterated narcissism. The movie shat all over the average man, many of whose life experience is akin to Michael Cera’s character who just gets treated like shit and like he doesn’t exist.
/r/MensRights31/07/23 12:55 AM
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Just saw this today and wow; even ignoring the overt man-hate it was just a genuinely bad movie, does not deserve the ratings it’s getting.
/r/MensRights31/07/23 12:53 AM
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Wanting a life partner is not equivalent to viewing them as objects tho?
/r/MensRights18/07/23 05:01 AM
4

I’m not misunderstanding. You’re labeled as entitled for being frustrated even when you value yourself and others as you said. In my experience valuing others like that often doesn’t form real bonds, just gets you taken advantage of and thrown away like trash when you’re no longer needed.
/r/MensRights17/07/23 04:54 PM
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Absolutely not. It’s an extremely, ridiculously small fraction of men at the top that feminists use to generalize the “privilege” of all men and claim they’re oppressed. They put them there, btw. Most CEOs, leaders and whatnot mostly just so happen to be over 6 feet. Guess who women only want to give the time of day to?
/r/MensRights16/07/23 05:01 AM
1

No it’s the fact that she got out-bulldozed. Guarantee she has no problem bulldozing men with her special interests but as soon as a man does it to her, boom - dead to her; lower than dirt.
/r/MensRights15/07/23 10:54 PM
1

I didn’t say it was?
/r/MensRights15/07/23 06:38 PM
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Not sure what your argument is because that comment only confirms that it’s 1000% easier for autistic women. Clearly they had no problem going on all sorts of dates with NT and ND people whilst autistic men are lucky to go on any dates at all. And she basically said that it’s okay for her to have a special interest but not her partner. Lame.
/r/MensRights15/07/23 06:34 PM
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That’s one way. I’m using carbon monoxide inhalation myself(burning charcoal in a tent)
/r/MensRights15/07/23 10:37 AM
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