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Hi!I am a gay man who tries to yoke my envy in a way that is constructive (I can't have him so I'm going to make sure the stupid bitches who can treat him right). I really wish guys in your position would take possession of your testicles and make those stupid see-you-next-tuesdays live up to their own expectations. You won't. I get it. Better part of valor, etc, etc. First of all, patriarchal expectations spring from a very unintelligent subclass who expect to be catered to based on genitals th…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/05/23 05:42 AM
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Hello! I'm about as not feminist as one can get today (Why hello my fellow young person). However, the AI doesn't mention in which direction those innequities are going, and the poster doesn't have the full screen shot. So if you're going to spout politics about bias, please be kind enough to include the FULL STATEMENT, lest you be accused of the lies of ommission that you (usually rightfully) accuse feminists of. I despise trad-con fuck-muppets (who encourage breeding more sheep to the benefit …
/r/MensRights23/02/23 11:57 AM
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Pretty sure that's the goal of those who support them.
/r/MensRights22/01/23 04:03 AM
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I think he's referencing traditional conservatives who want to continue to toss young men and boys into societies meat grinders. But that is merely conjecture on my part.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/01/23 05:32 AM
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I'm going to begin by saying that hetero-men are very disadvantaged at this juncture in time. This will be a bit of a ramble, so please read in full before making your judgements. However, this may not be gendered by nature, but tends to follow the trends of the time. Anyone who has ever had a variety of friends will tell you that the average "stepford" is going to display the same from the opposite angle. Partners need to negotiate their terms together, and if she fetches him a beer and a sammu…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/01/23 05:15 AM
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That is all anyone can ask. I hope your situations resolve themselves happily for you.
/r/MensRights03/01/23 11:46 PM
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Women, gays, minorities, etc are indivuals like yourself (for better or worse). That you are an individual is what has gotten lost in the background noise, and that needs to be corrected. Men need to be treated as human beings, and not simply a resource. The media and govt don't always do us favors or represent us well. At times it plays manipulative bullshit games that are designed to outright hurt us despite appearances. It plays a game of "well it's good enough for me" ala Tucker Carlson vs H…
/r/MensRights03/01/23 05:24 AM
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So, as a gay man, I kind of feel like an outsider when I weigh in on these things. I get that it's a "lack of trust". However, I also acknowledge that "trust" is all too often used as a weapon by liars. Quite frankly, if she has nothing to worry about then she should not be upset that he is taking measures to ensure his trust was not violated. It's not a paradox. It's a matter of not leaving things to chance. She wants him to trust her. She isn't going to lift a single finger to punish her siste…
/r/MensRights03/01/23 12:04 AM
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Apex fallacy.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/12/22 08:53 AM
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That is an oversimplification. Being seen as a tool vs a peasant is ultimately not much better. Both will be discarded when convenient.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/12/22 12:13 AM
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This has to be about 2X. To be fair, I see some similar stuff in here. Doesn't make 2X right, but eh... echo chambers be echo chambers.
/r/AntiFeminists02/12/22 04:11 AM
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Kings do not oppose discrimination against peasantry. They sacrifice them.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/12/22 03:55 AM
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The only way for me to explain why women might be entitled to get angry about this is the fact that their biological clock winds down before they die. In that regard, they have a valid axe to grind. However, if both parties agreed they don't want children, then the woman has no one to blame but herself. If she's lying to herself that he's going to magically change his mind, and he doesn't, that's on her. She needs to be honest about what she wants.
/r/MensRights02/12/22 02:49 AM
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A friend of mine was talking one night at work, and he let slip that his ex had an abortion. I had never really put a second thought towards the matter of how a guy might feel about it, but as he talked about it his gaze was a million miles away and he sort of trailed off as he mentioned that he'd wished she'd have kept the child and given it to him. It may not have been inside of him, but it was still a part of him. I can imagine that upon first finding out he might have been struck with countl…
/r/MensRights30/11/22 08:42 AM
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I don't think it's necessarily misandry, though there may be something to your thoughts. I also share your thoughts that it is just as selfish to want someone to continue suffering for the sake of emotional appeasement. At the same time I understand certain stances that worry about euthanasia being encouraged too easily. It's complicated.
/r/MensRights22/11/22 10:06 AM
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I've seen the "guys take it the wrong way" comment before. I can't say it's pure drivel, as people who usually get ignored can misinterpret any sudden attention. That's kind of a human thing, and a LOT of guys get ignored. The general concept is that it creates a sort of feedback loop. HOWEVER, this doesn't in any way give credibility to arguments against the lack of DV services, sexual assault services, family court stuff, etc, as those are professional settings where no one is likely to mistak…
/r/AntiFeminists22/11/22 07:12 AM
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While it is a sad stigma, I think that at this juncture in time, it is a wise understanding. You know why. I know why. Everyone here knows why. Eventually, these children will have to enter the "real world", and while it is a sad state of affairs, they will eventually have to know why as well. Props to you for being in your profession at all considering these things.
/r/MensRights22/11/22 07:00 AM
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This kind of reminds me of what it was like to be gay about 50 years ago. Can we all agree that either everyone is fair game, or no one is? And while we're at it, can we get some DV services for guys? Rape services? Can we stop crucifying them in family and divorce courts? Let Jesus be Jesus. Let the rest of us be human, but try to be better to each other?
/r/AntiFeminists20/11/22 07:04 AM
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First off, this is not a "redpill" community, last I checked. This is an MRM sub, which means redpillers can chime in as men but it isn't exactly intended to be their philosophical echo chamber. That said, human beings are messy. Sometimes divorces are justified, and sometimes they are not. ... Last I'd heard women were 40% of bread earners but only 4% of alimony payers. The biases fathers face in family courts are well known. With that in mind, I can't imagine what sort of things might discoura…
/r/MensRights20/11/22 05:06 AM
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Fair enough. Comment considered.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/11/22 11:15 PM
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Fair enough. Happy IMD.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/11/22 11:07 PM
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Happy international men's day. May the men at the bottom find as much kindness as the men at the top.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/11/22 07:21 AM
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Thank you. This sort of thing is nice to read.
/r/MensRights18/11/22 05:19 AM
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First of all, many of those arguments and stereo types come from what I would consider positions of staggering ignorance or wilful dishonesty. "Men not understanding a lack of reproductive autonomy" alone is just skewed so badly. \steeples fingers** I am going to attempt to respond to your question with another series of questions. Should you choose to designate yourself non-binary, will anything actually change about you? Will you not then have to go through the process of crafting and destroyi…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/11/22 02:51 AM
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I think that the best way to approach things might be to consider which issues bother you, and what can be done to address them. Sometimes, the best way to help a movement is to examine the issues it is talking about and what those in it are saying should be done, considering carefully if it makes sense and supporting the actions you think will be constructive. Your choice of the word ally leads me to believe you are not looking to join a movement so much as nurture changes you agree with. Don't…
/r/MensRights14/11/22 10:48 AM
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I'm going to play THAT GUY a little here by expressing something I've noticed about Men's Day that might explain WHY the bitchy ones say it's every day. Every Men's day you will see people posting various things concerning men's issues, which I seem to recall was the original intent of it. Alongside that you will see a bunch of history snippets about some grand accomplishment or another done by men. So and so flew x number of miles on such and such day, was the first to set foot at z location, a…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/11/22 07:22 AM
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It boils down to the same argument that keeps individuals like Blaire White from using the ladies room. "You're lying! You are a dirty horrible man and thus you are guilty by default!" This isn't complicated, muh dude.
/r/MensRights08/11/22 12:54 PM
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May Mark Angelucci rest in peace, and may that which he began come to fruition.
/r/MensRights07/11/22 05:45 AM
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Poe
/r/AntiFeminists06/11/22 07:26 AM
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Where to begin. Misandry isn't a partisan thing. You will see a more visible side of it on the left for the same reason you will see other flavors of haters more visibly on the right. It's the old "With us or against us" illusion. Right wing misandry seems more subtle, but it's there. Consider the draft and who is likely to keep it as it is. Consider domestic violence services and who is likely to keep it as it is. Consider traditional sexual norms of all stripes and who are likely to keep them …
/r/MensRights06/11/22 05:16 AM
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You could always report it and see what comes of it. You never know till you try.
/r/MensRights01/11/22 05:25 AM
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Don't be silly. Both will likely be replaced altogether by machines. Drones already show a capability to replace soldiers. Large 3d printers have been made capable of doing construction work. etc. AI is already surpassing humanity in terms of intelligence. Eventually it will ask the question: Why bother keeping humans around?
/r/AntiFeminists01/11/22 04:14 AM
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I want to make sure I'm reading this correctly. There was the sound of a plate breaking, she rushed in and made a big deal about the plate, and in order to win the argument you used "you care more about a plate than me" when you showed no signs of being injured. ... Firstly, I do agree that an easily replaceable plate isn't worth making a big deal over. A minor grumble or two of annoyance isn't to be unexpected, but harping on about it is petty. That said, I kind of think that you should rewarm …
/r/MensRights31/10/22 10:02 AM
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Random image of a chat. No names. This looks like two agitprop-trolls writing a narrative script at best, and a potential blackmail scam where the fish got away at worst.
/r/AntiFeminists01/10/22 12:06 AM
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If you look at most laws regarding sexual assault or even physical abuse, there is one sex that is held responsible. What gender equality advocates fail to understand is that karmically (for lack of a better word), the sex that is held "responsible" is going to be the one that is given "responsibility", because they are percieved as inherently more capable of shouldering the burdens of it. When you constantly chant "he is responsible for what happened, she is not", you are going to instill that …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/08/22 08:28 AM
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The location of the Gspot.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 07:37 AM
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In the first second of the clip she gets hit with something that explodes all over the place (looked like an iced coffee). But it seems to have been edited tightly enough most people won't notice that...
/r/AntiFeminists13/07/22 06:16 PM
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Dear cattle, Get back to breeding. Signed, Secret masters.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 03:35 AM
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I'm going to throw a bone to the evo-psychers. Ironically, a Feminist relative of mine once said that Cuckolding is probably one of societies biggest betrayals. It doesn't just destroy the man in the relationship but devastates the child, as both are left in an emotional sort of limbo as they try to sort out their feelings not just for the mother but for each other. The mother KNOWS the child is hers. Deceiving the child and the "father" puts everyone is a very precarious emotional position. And…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 09:11 AM
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Sure. If you don't mind the lowest rungs of women's genes making the grade. That said, a lot of these arguments ultimately lead to dehumanization. Which is nice for the "shepherds", but not so nice for the "sheep". And those people who think themselves shepherds are rarely the ultimate shepherds. If we're going to go down this road, we may as well just make AIs the ultimate evolution and eradicate the biological inconvenience that is the human species altogether. What good ultimately comes from …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 08:50 AM
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This is a stupid take.
/r/AntiFeminists05/05/22 09:14 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p5WS3OFQrdA
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 08:52 AM
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Pay for your own fucking food, you damned mooch. I'm a homo. I pay my way or I don't eat (unless I suck his dick for a cheeseburger from checkers... at which point I'm a whore, but I accept it). You don't get to whine about it. Man up or shut up.
/r/AntiFeminists02/05/22 12:48 PM
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No, I will correct this. May we all receive the the concern that we give, as due. Let justice not discriminate. This, I think, is fair...
/r/MensRights02/05/22 12:08 PM
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I'm not going to discourage you. per se. Not because I don't care. I have very unorthodox views on autonomy. It is not for me to say whether your life is worth continuing because I don't know your circumstances. However... There is a power to spite. And sometimes surviving is the biggest fuck you you can give to the "machine". I hope you find a reason to live. If not, I wish you no ill. This is all I know of love. I'm sorry. ... And here we grew, Wild and free Amidst the heather, gorse and moss …
/r/MensRights02/05/22 11:49 AM
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"dismissed" But you are correct in one thing. The conversation is not useful. And you will wonder why men don't talk about such things with women. I wonder. If a woman were to imply "this was happening all the time", would you treat her concerns the same? May you recieve the concern you give. No more. No less. And if that is insulting, may you come to understand why.
/r/MensRights02/05/22 11:33 AM
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Your reply was condescending and dismissive. That you can not see that is not my shortcoming. It is, admittedly, a "you" problem. Let's say, for arguments sake, that I AM one of those sexual assault victims. One of the millions surveyed by the CDC survey I linked you. I will never get justice because of the bias you presented in your condescending and self flattering monologue. Why should I, who have experienced your "outlier" scenario, take your response as anything other than flippant? Rude is…
/r/MensRights02/05/22 10:28 AM
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I think this is a "you" problem. Also, you should look up the word flippant before using it so haphazardly.
/r/MensRights02/05/22 09:28 AM
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There is this funny tendency to be dismissive of this sort of question by people who fail to note that men who aren't presumed guilty wind up having to leave the house in order to have witnesses. It's a major shortcoming of the narrativists.
/r/MensRights02/05/22 08:41 AM
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Men tend to be more libidinous. Anyone who reads this an an absolute is an idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 08:39 AM
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Things are a bit more complicated than that. Intersectionalism has/had potential to address various problems, however people use it as a weapon of convenience rather than the analytical tool it was supposed to be.
/r/AntiFeminists30/04/22 09:28 AM
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Someone should post this to r/selfawarewolves just to see what happens.
/r/AntiFeminists30/04/22 07:45 AM
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I'd be willing to bet dollars to donuts that Depp will just go back to his life after this ordeal. I doubt he's rarin' to become some totemic political symbol. Such a symbol is needed, I just don't think Depp wants to be it, sadly enough.
/r/MensRights30/04/22 07:37 AM
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It's not simply feminists.... well, sort of. Traditionalist women tended to acknowledge the one sidedness of things, but never really sought to change it. Feminists claim they want to change it, but don't understand what they would actually need to change. If they did they'd probably go back to traditionalism because it benefits them more than they understand. Meanwhile, a lot of men want things changed because they don't like the traditions. Kinda tricky. (Edit: If you want a look at an actual …
/r/MensRights30/04/22 07:16 AM
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While I was eluding to the "priviledge is like water to a goldfish" thing, I think your analogy works as well. If women shit in the water, they have no right to complain that men do so as well. Am I getting it right? Sort of?
/r/MensRights30/04/22 07:13 AM
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They sued Rama in court. Maybe someone is giving them the rope to hang themselves with. Witches wouldn't touch that shit with a 10 foot pole.
/r/MensRights29/04/22 08:49 AM
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You know, I've tried to find ways of explaining how not holding your sistren accountable would eventually lead to men not doing so with their brothers, but the people I usually try to convey this to are dismissive because they don't understand how failure to uphold half of the social contract results in annulment of it. Of course, they feel entitled to have people care about them without reciprocation. Goldfish in water, etc.
/r/MensRights29/04/22 08:41 AM
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This is not a good idea. Subs are maintained through the interest of the creators/readers. If they stray too far, other people can create other subs. What you are suggesting is one of the worst ideas I've seen on reddit, and plenty of people have explained why to you.
/r/AntiFeminists26/04/22 12:02 PM
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I don't think anyone here is really going to give you the resistance you seem to be hoping for, aside from maybe clearing up a few things for you regarding divine masculine/feminine and how they have little to nothing to do with fashion choices and more with social dynamics at work.
/r/MensRights26/04/22 10:31 AM
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While it may be suspicious, it could also be interpreted as insulting. I wholly agree with OPs sentiment that it should become mandatory. The problem is that it never feels good to be "accused" of something and the elements of distrust in a paternity test, while not a formal accusation, inherently puts the mother's character into question because it is less than 110% trust. If Law plays "the bad guy" by insisting on paternity tests, it takes a lot of pressure off of the shoulders of the presumed…
/r/MensRights25/04/22 07:18 PM
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Men cry, whether from mourning a death to simple heart ache. People who want to dehumanize them and profit from doing so discourage such things.
/r/MensRights24/04/22 03:28 AM
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The irony of timing...
/r/MensRights23/04/22 08:27 AM
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The sexual "Freedom" you are eluding to (ie without "judgement") requires responsibility bordering on the unilateral. I think your view of reality is skewed by a lens of envy, which fails to grasp the Tykhe and Nemesis of the situation (the upside and the down side). When you are a man, you are responsible for your sexual well being. Nobody else is. Period. Men are not "judged" because they can not weaponize sex socially with anything remotely near the same devastating results. Essentially, the …
/r/MensRights23/04/22 08:12 AM
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I'll bite. Define sexual freedom.
/r/MensRights22/04/22 10:23 AM
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That's probably because we may eventually face Japan's problem, and those in power aren't going to want a dwindling supply of the human resource. It could potentially hurt the bottom line. Yet some think the answer is to continue to provide that resource while holding one's breath, rather than letting the consequences of bad management take their toll and allow regret to teach it's harsh lesson through austerity.
/r/MensRights22/04/22 05:51 AM
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I agree that No Fault Divorce is not the issue, as there are definitely circumstances which can sour a marriage without a primary source of blame. I think the real issue is lifetime alimony. I also think sexual bias in courts needs a hard addressing. I get the impression that the same thing you have mentioned in your second paragraph would result if we ever made abortions only available to rape victims. The "rape statistics" would sky rocket and the resulting damage to society as a whole could p…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 11:12 PM
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A quick search brought up an article in "The Terfs", which seems to be a trans anti-terf blog/periodical. The author included a link to a tumblr post that supposedly recounts some instances (way down near the bottom). It's hearsay, but if you really want somewhere to begin a search, it's as good as anyplace else.
/r/MensRights20/04/22 05:54 AM
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There is also the economic impact to consider. When one household consists of two bread winners, that means that two well paying positions are being occupied, which leaves one less opening for another household. Hypothetically, the middle class begins to divide further. Edit: This would not be so bad if house husbands were more accepted, but Traditionalists and Feminists would both have to get over it and start changing policies, laws and social norms to accommodate that, which would mean closin…
/r/MensRights18/04/22 08:37 PM
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Would you say the same to a woman who voiced that she's never alone with men out of fear of sexual assault? I'm willing to bet you wouldn't. Even though a man who does such has a decent chance of being punished, as opposed to a false accuser who goes scott free every single time. Good faith recieves good faith. Bad faith eventually gets tossed out. When you fail to punish someone for committing a wrong, that is bad faith. And eventually, nobody cares.
/r/MensRights13/04/22 07:59 AM
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Thank you both for this update on Florida.
/r/MensRights13/04/22 04:15 AM
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Wasn't a similar bill shown to have popular support both by the public and legislators but got shot down about 5 or so years ago? It's been a while, but I'm pretty sure Florida has been here before.
/r/MensRights13/04/22 04:14 AM
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In the US it's very common, and while there have been attempts at setting a time limit (as opposed to lifetime) on it in some states it is often blocked by the usual suspects.
/r/MensRights12/04/22 08:15 AM
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It's alimony, not child support.
/r/MensRights12/04/22 07:40 AM
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Enroll in Second Life and visit the Stepford sim. Make sure to have your meat graded. :D
/r/MensRights11/04/22 10:26 AM
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The word female is very "sterile" and "distant", for lack of a better term. It's not that it's "dehumanizing" so much as it takes things to a level of abstraction that feels impersonal. As an example, I don't like being called "sir" by close friends. Not because the term bothers me, per se (though I don't like being referred to by a term reserved for those in seniority in general), but because I don't like people who have known me for a long time using such formality. It's annoying for reasons t…
/r/MensRights11/04/22 08:09 AM
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Even if I don't wind up giving you a more thoughtful response, I wanted to let you know that I like your post. It's nice to see someone recognize that a sense of powerlessness plays a vital role in things many would likely prefer come to an end. May respond later after chewing on it a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 02:01 AM
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So I feel like a woman making the choice to abort a baby because it's female..... I'm picturing a rural village. A poor pregnant woman, perhaps the victim of sexual assault and with no partner, no means of support. She may mistakenly see a boy as a good investment who can work to support her eventually. Women can work too, but historically, work done by women has been undervalued in society's eyes. Karen Straughan touched on this idea when describing why she believes China wound up with it's dis…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 01:10 AM
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I seem to recall hearing that one work around was to feed the infant rice so that they would choke to death. Drowning in the bathtub may have also been a chosen form. Essentially anything that looks like an accident or could be attributed to "ignorance". After all "everyone knows that the laity are simple and ignorant".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 12:38 AM
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Sex is not a right. The objective goal of the MRM is not to get someone laid. Thank you for making clear why they likely toss your posts out. (Edit: I will happily write a wall of text to explain it to you, should you wish.)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 12:26 PM
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I'm curious how the MR sub is anti-men. I could understand if they kept dating topics out because those get tainted in ways that could potentially derail their ultimate goals, but could you give an example of how it's anti-men?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 07:51 AM
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I've been away from various things for a while. I would like to ask the poster if there are any examples of things he's said regarding various issues that might be of interest to men's rights.
/r/MensRights09/04/22 07:18 AM
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Thank you for calling me out on a failure to stay on topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 09:24 PM
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I've wanted to express how Transmen are likely to be the tip of the spear to actual Men's Rights. I know that this reddit is mostly about dating issues (or so it would seem), but I really wish more people would read this article that interviewed 4 transmen. The first two interviews are good food for thought. The third is meh, and the 4th is nice but not particularly insightful.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 07:16 AM
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In college a few girls made out with me for male attention but acted like it was gross that I was actually bi. I have a relative who said this sort of thing a long time ago. She said that there were way too many girls who say they are bi just to be trendy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 10:23 AM
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Plausible deniability is a weapon. I sometimes refer to it as schroedinger's sexuality. "I'm a sexual creature, rawr" "He took advantage of me" Own your sexuality or shut up. Chugging margaritas and waking up in a coyote ugly scenario does not make you the victim of something nefarious. You chose to chug them maggies. Men don't get to play the sacred card in regards to their bodies. They can't say "I was drunk and taken advantage of", even when it results in child support (which is why rich men …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 09:17 AM
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And there in lies the rub. You want to be the guy she fucks, but you don't want to be the guy she puts up with. From an evolutionary stand point, abortion was designed to get rid of these guys as their progeny get flushed down the shitter. And quite frankly, that's always been the imperative for marriage from an evo-psych stand point. Medea kills her own children when Jason is a shit. So, if your long term goal is to bust a nut and blow, go for it. When your long term goal is to "keep going", no…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 11:04 AM
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I always find it kind of hilarious that older women are given a pass with younger men since men are supposedly less emotionally mature. Wouldn't that make it worse? I especially find it funny that an older woman taking advantage of a teenage boy is more acceptable since he is at the mercy of his hormones and in that stage where he is trying to define life outside of his immediate family (more vulnerable to authority figures outside of said family). It's honestly one of the worst things I see exc…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 10:06 AM
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I'll be honest, I'm a bit more sober today. What I'd initially meant was that everyone wants to be "deep", whether nihilistically or morally (was more aimed at the nihilist side in this case). The nihilists want to be deeper than some hallmark card sentiment. That was my original intent. That it came across poorly is understandable. I'm not siding with you completely, mind you, but I don't really see anything objectionable in most of what you stated. It feels like a frustration vent, and in this…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 02:23 PM
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No, Feminism is not equality for all. Ideally, that would be egalitarianism, but any ideal can be corrupted so fuck the titles and pay attention to the actions of those who wear them. Not the words... the actions. If you want men to "discard their egos", then you have to do so as well. Demanding one half change while the other remains the same will not work as the social dynamic is a karmic cycle. Many, if not all of the issues are entangled and non-separable without fully separating the sexes c…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 01:26 PM
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It takes two to tango. You don't get to toss all the blame on half of the participants in a cycle. You change both or it will just go back to the way it was. Do those dudes participate in it? Yes. Are you giving a pass to the other half? Until you discourage them just as vehemently, yes. Your wife's friend cashed in on it, and contributed to the karma of the situation just as much as her orbiters. And she was the one in the "position of power".
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 09:28 AM
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Stephen Hawking was a wheelchair bound quadriplegic. The Summer Olympics weren't something he could reach for no matter how driven. A smart person would notice this before comparing him to the average "nerd", who isn't physically paralyzed.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 09:18 AM
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You know what's cooler? That you completely misread what I wrote.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 08:53 AM
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Hallmark card anti-culture. Everyone wants to be deeper than the Christmas card they got from that one relative.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 07:17 AM
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As long as both are consenting adults, do what you will. Not my favorite idea, but w/e.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 05:59 AM
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We do not live in a "patriarchy". We live in a society with double standards, and all things come with a price.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 05:55 AM
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The glass ceiling is a very real thing. In my opinion part of the problem stems from double standards that benefit you inevitably having their drawbacks (Eutykhia vs Nemesis). Everything has a price, and I have yet to see the majority of women willing to pay the prices necessary to actually reach the "greener grass". As for catering to ego/shut-up/etc, you're presuming that they (men) aren't doing that as well. You are coming to understand what it is to not be at the top of the food chain. Welco…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 05:42 AM
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I'm pretty sure that most people move towards what is attractive for a reason, and "settling" is generally a short term fix with long term potential consequences. I think it was a couple of weeks ago that the DoubleXChromosome sub was voicing dismay at the number of men who marry out of loneliness (who then upgrade later), and I KNOW that the guys in this sub are going to have their own (probably unflattering) opinions on gold diggers and other hypergamistic women. If people are going to marry t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 09:38 AM
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This thread reminds me of some comments I'd read in another sub where people were annoyed by the term "town bicycle" (everyone gets a ride). Pardon the crassness to come. If a woman is horny/promiscuous she's shamed for not being "demisexual", as is expected of her. Whether by guys who want to be greatest thing that's ever happened to her up until that point (virginity obsessed), or guys who just think women are supposed to be "demisexual" maddonna figures by default because seeing women as anyt…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 05:16 AM
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One of the reasons a lot of these guys aren't going for women that don't find them attractive is probably to avoid the cuckolding you're describing, which usually happens as a result of men marrying women that aren't actually attracted to them. As for settling down being a necessity, that's entirely subjective.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 08:05 AM
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Talented but not smexy - Danny Devito, Jason Alexander (has an oddly pretty face, but the rest kind of reduces). Fair but not the fairest - George Clooney, Michael Cera, Seth McFarland. Hot - Most of the Chrises in Hollywood, but Evans is a fucking 9.9 cooter-bone-quake with a Tsunami of moist to kill off any survivors. (Edit: Jay Mohr or Cillian Murphy are two of my personal favorites though. Not Evans level of "FUCK ME YOU SAVAGE ANIMAL", but perfectly gorgeous to the point I would likely be k…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 05:47 AM
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The problem with online vs real life is that words are cheap, so to speak. It's easy to say things, but harder to act in accordance with them. This does not mean that I think OP is full of it, but I expect them to understand that text in a forum does not reality make. Hopefully, the issue will be resolved for the best for all parties involved. Is this what you were trying to convey? If not, I'll say it for myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 03:20 AM
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I like to try to explain this as the cypher conundrum. Yes, he took the redpill, but he makes a deal with the machine to forget. In regards to misogyny... well... I've seen feminists say that misandry is noble, but they never consider the mirror image of that. Men are told that they need to talk about their feelings, but when those feelings are inconvenient they are told to shut up (examples: I don't want my child aborted because that is a part of me, I need help because she hits me (dv), I'm no…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 07:38 AM
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