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Seriously crap like this doesn't belong on here, it's not conducive to getting laid.
/r/seduction23/03/11 02:00 AM
1

So let's not define what people need to achieve to become successful with women? Makes no sense...
/r/seduction21/03/11 04:23 PM
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You need to change your definition of nice guy, the douchebags you speak of don't supplicate. The nice guy people on here are talking about supplicate and make the woman their only reason for living, which does not attract women. There is a difference between doing nice things occasionally for your long time girlfriend and kissing some girl you hardly know's ass. While most advice from females is wrong, this explains it in more detail: http://www.heartless-bitches.com/rants/niceguys/niceguys.sht…
/r/seduction15/03/11 11:01 PM
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I almost always come up some kind of nickname(based on a tease/joke between us) or revert to simple childhood insults like dork. It helps assume the dominant role, and most of the competition will be too busy supplicating. I also think that its important to make jokes only you share, I know this girl who has a boyfriend who will always verbally spar with me and lose(she's 7 years younger). Sometimes she tries to take it too far to see if I get mad and will tell me she's just kidding. I now make …
/r/seduction15/03/11 03:00 AM
1

If it was Brad Pitt, I doubt you would turn him down...
/r/seduction15/03/11 02:55 AM
2

Here it is http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/fpmcq/pinker_on_language_and_social_relations/
/r/seduction15/03/11 02:51 AM
2

I don't see how any of this advice is conflicting, almost all of it works like ingredients in a recipe. Which is way better than winging it and just talking about stuff and ending up in the friend zone. You can alternate between being aloof and interested, you can alternate between being cocky/funny and vulnerable. You can use one technique but they all fit in the grand scheme because based on my own experience if you are PREDICTABLE girls get bored. PS: I don't get your statement about direct v…
/r/seduction15/03/11 02:46 AM
1

I don't understand why people seem to assume that all canned material is about lying. A majority of the popular ones are stories/games/fun facts. Even if someone does use a false story they get an idea of how to apply those ideas from facts in their own life and it can cement AA out of their head when they realize people respond to random things. Also a lot of them show how to structure attraction, I see it like learning the chords of another song before you write your own. A good example of my …
/r/seduction15/03/11 02:33 AM
1

She already invited you out, and you hooked up before. I don't see any issue unless your become socially awkward around people you don't know. I would just inquire about her invite, imply you haven't decided what your doing and go from there.
/r/seduction15/03/11 02:16 AM
1

Asking for a fb close after going direct is like asking "wanna fuck?" then going into comfort. To me it screams that he had no balls. I've had girls who weren't totally into me turn down a phone number for an fbclose but I denied them since it doesn't feel like an investment.
/r/seduction15/03/11 02:12 AM
2

I wouldn't have took her number from facebook, to me that screams being needy(possibly creepy). She did add you which is better then you seeking her out but it puts you in the frame of chasing her.
/r/seduction15/03/11 02:08 AM
1

I don't think following them to the car would have been a good idea unless you saw any kind of hint that something was going to happen. To me it looks like you care too much, I would have just said "See ya!" since it would give off an abundance mentality.
/r/seduction15/03/11 02:04 AM
2

I agree and this elaborates: http://roissy.wordpress.com/2011/03/03/tiger-blood-game/
/r/seduction14/03/11 10:26 PM
1

I keep a picture of my dog that passed away two years ago as the wallpaper on my phone. I find it useful for emitting good feelings and starting some rapport. Using this has proven to me the whole theory on "change her mood not her mind" works.
/r/seduction13/03/11 02:26 AM
1

She is making the conscious choice to cheat, creating attraction isn't some kind of witchcraft that takes away consent.
/r/seduction13/03/11 02:23 AM
2

I think it would make more sense to have something like [?] in the title, so the people who hate reading these can easily filter them out. Reddit should really have categories inside of the sub-reddits for separating posts.
/r/seduction12/03/11 11:40 PM
1

Sorry, assholes finish first.
/r/seduction08/03/11 06:58 PM
1

Someone posted a video, I'm trying to remember/find the link. I'll try to link you to it tomorrow.
/r/seduction07/03/11 05:26 AM
1

This is interesting, is this in any way related to the other animation someone posted about how we hide motives? I mean in the sense that it's the same person, I can't remember where to find the other one.
/r/seduction06/03/11 04:13 PM
1

UPDATE: I gave her some attention in class today and she engaged me socially, I ended up spending like an hour talking to her in the parking lot and got a lot of kino using my favorite excuse: comparing how small her arms and hands are to mine. Attempting to get a date going in the city where it doesn't suck.
/r/seduction24/02/11 12:51 AM
1

I get the hatred for the walmart thing but I've seen crazier suggestions come out of the community. My plan is to to get her to the city where I have social proof and know where venues and shit is located.
/r/seduction24/02/11 12:47 AM
1

Yup was thinking of this song when I wrote this, but the girls actually hot unlike the video.
/r/seduction24/02/11 12:42 AM
1

Great idea I had something similar in mind, ironically enough I started talking with her and all the sudden she was talking to me for an hour in the parking lot. And I found many excuses to kino including me comparing how diminutive her hands are to big ol' manly me.
/r/seduction24/02/11 12:40 AM
1

I like straight edge bands but don't follow it. H20 is awesome.
/r/seduction24/02/11 12:33 AM
1

I doubt she is old enough to know enough to know new york hardcore, but the definitions changed. She's more green day/emo than a slamdancer lol. But yea I figured she would be getting more fucked up then me.
/r/seduction24/02/11 12:33 AM
1

Shes cute, likes a lot of the shit I do and actually has a personality. It's kind of rare to run into a girl that likes stuff like screaming vocals in music where I'm located. She's only shy in the sense of progressing shit physically, otherwise i would have been like fuck it cause most girls are so vapid. I have others numbers in progress ;)
/r/seduction24/02/11 12:31 AM
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I was thinking of this song when I wrote the title, but shes not an old school street punk. Think more mainstream :)
/r/seduction24/02/11 12:24 AM
1

Nope nor is it Molly Connelly or Jenny DeMilo ;)
/r/seduction24/02/11 12:22 AM
2

This is awesome.
/r/seduction22/02/11 02:44 AM
2

I made it clear to the target that I put the other girl in the friend zone. I'm confused by her coldness then random openness more then anything. From personal experience I'm used to friend zoning or there being clear sexual tension. This is like hitting on a nerdy girl who isn't nerdy. Meh I'm confused!
/r/seduction22/02/11 02:31 AM
1

Don't worry I'm looking for input. You invited her. That's your job. You should be taking the lead and coming up with something to do. your invitation text should be something like, "I'm going to X to do Y, you can come if you promise to behave" It was last minute(used to no response), I really didn't have time to plan. I don't personally know much about the county we were in since I started going to school there otherwise I would have been properly prepared. I was asking people I knew out there…
/r/seduction22/02/11 02:24 AM
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I didn't consider it gaming in any way shape or form. I ignored her because I became under the impression that she had no interest in talking to me(after the events). I should have mentioned that me and the target had an inside joke poking fun at the other girl for being all over me. I can't physically read this girl because she is so reserved, I've never had this problem before. I don't know if she is shy or just weird.
/r/seduction22/02/11 02:03 AM
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Check this out, it's a perfect example of what I'm talking about. Semi-FR, but related, I just don't see the point because I feel like people only want to validate techniques rather then help people find their missteps.
/r/seduction19/02/11 09:03 PM
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I would post field reports but they don't get upvoted unless you were successful defeating the point of coming here for advice...
/r/seduction18/02/11 09:26 PM
2

I honestly think Mystery would have been better off not doing the show, because the way it was edited further caused more confusion and belief in stereotypes.
/r/seduction10/02/11 05:06 AM
2

I think your confused. All the methods work they are just different parts of a bigger complex recipe. For example: You can be aloof when talking to a girl if you normally aren't(or never were before reading PUA material) but you can't only do this and expect it to work. You still actually have to talk to them, this is the biggest problem people have with understanding women. It's just like when someone tells you that you have to be confident but not so confident it's apparent your over compensat…
/r/seduction10/02/11 04:47 AM
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I've used the old "agree and exaggerate" and had success since it throws people off. Example: Guy: Dude you got guido hair! Me: Oh hell yeah, I don't know if you can tell but there is a camera crew following me around. Most people won't even react and if they do it usually works in your favor and shows that you don't care.
/r/seduction06/02/11 07:02 PM
1

No don't fucking do this, it will make you feel worse in the long run because you weren't even attracted to the girl. And then you will doubt your self even more when it comes to getting quality women. Just don't be so picky that it has to be your dream/idealistic girl. Find a cute girl and go for it.
/r/seduction06/02/11 06:18 PM
1

This isn't really specific, what exactly did you say? Unless you tore her down for liking you I doubt you missed your opportunity. I can easily see her wanting you a bit more if you casually brushed it off as a joke. I would flirt/kino more the next time you see her and be direct. Otherwise, find one of the million other girls out there.
/r/seduction06/02/11 06:06 PM
6

Some of these are legit, and some of them sound like stuff I've heard and seen in the friend zone.
/r/seduction06/02/11 05:27 PM
1

I have something like this happening to me in class, this girl laughs at my jokes, talks to me, and even has the option to get me to stop talking to her. But I'm only seeing negative body language, maybe she is shy.
/r/seduction04/02/11 05:16 AM
1

The only thing I would be worried about is acting like their age is a big deal, I find that they will give you shit for it if you aren't fun to be around. But in reality there is some kind of innate attraction to older men regardless of societies views on it. I feel like I have an advantage at 26 hitting on younger women because the younger men are still figuring all this out.
/r/seduction04/02/11 05:04 AM
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I don't see how this doesn't apply to this subreddit. Its part of the courting process and not everyone is in a great financial situation.
/r/seduction01/02/11 06:09 PM
2

The community never states that it's impossible to get out, it's just extremely hard and NOT a place you ever want to be with a girl your attracted to.
/r/seduction01/02/11 12:54 AM
1

I'm going to add this to the original post.
/r/seduction20/01/11 12:25 AM
1

I like this, databanking it in my brain!
/r/seduction19/01/11 11:04 PM
1

I never stated anything about bumming a cigarette off of someone, I mentioned that people have a habit of offering you things if they like you.
/r/seduction18/01/11 06:51 AM
2

Edited to reflect what you said, it depends on the venue too. (Might just have a big dude who ID's)
/r/seduction18/01/11 02:24 AM
7

You put it better then I did.
/r/seduction18/01/11 02:09 AM
16

If you visit a venue enough they'll start talking to you. "Hey, you new here never seen you here before?" "Man it's slow tonight man I've never seen it like this" "Sports blah blah blah" "This girl blah blah, what should i do?" "Hi" "Hey look at the girl, man she's drunk, hot etc. Same things other people would small talk to you about in your day to day routines, like another person said. Bouncers usually like to talk to people because they aren't doing anything and they're encouraged too, no on…
/r/seduction18/01/11 02:04 AM
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Haha, he's been working there for awhile. Generally if you know anyone at a bar they will hook you up unless their bosses hate them. Right after I had socialized with the dude he was forcing the "shot girls" to pass me and one of his closer friends shots, one of which I took to another friend who thought I had paid for it. Later on he had the bartender mixing mixed drinks for us to finish off. Think of it like an employee discount with an incentive to get people to come. It can vary by place tho…
/r/seduction18/01/11 01:42 AM
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I'm the first guy he met up with, and I'm kind of surprised by all of this. My original intent was to find like minded people who aren't afraid of talking to girls, I have a lot of buddies who both can and can't talk to women. So I figured I'd expand my already big circle with more people who have a similar goal. I was a little wary of him; he was high and severely underdressed for going out in public. I smoked one joint(weed), I guess there are still a lot of people in society who still look do…
/r/seduction17/01/11 11:36 PM
2

Obviously you don't understand the concept then, like most people who never had a problem attracting women you already subconsciously did the things discussed here. You just didn't think of them consciously because you learned it over time naturally. I can't comment on your personal history but usually people who condemn or find the idea of scientifically studying social interactions never had a problem or never felt like they needed to improve. There are a huge majority of men who have been fem…
/r/seduction14/01/11 08:09 PM
1

Most people here would advise you to not wait, but based on general consensus I would escalate into a sexual relationship asap. If you spend too much time hanging with her you will become a friend and later angry when it hasn't progressed further. You can always take a FWB into a LTR, getting out of the friend zone is hard as shit.
/r/seduction14/01/11 07:42 AM
2

I think most people (myself included) still don't realize how powerful this is in terms of attracting women. A buddy of mine recently had a girl out because he didn't have the mindset of chasing or being needy. And it dawned on me like many people here that it was probably why I messed up the last one. That or genuine flakeyness.
/r/seduction14/01/11 07:37 AM
2

Why are you apologizing? Your supplicating when you have no reason to. I would simply say Hey I've been busy, then continue on to whatever you were going to do, presumably asking her out.
/r/seduction14/01/11 07:35 AM
1

It's not so much about trust I can see it being harder to escalate with her around. On top of it I don't see why she needs to come. I've seen girls do this with guys and the other girl isn't a friend and it doesn't seem to turn out well.
/r/seduction14/01/11 07:33 AM
2

It does but you have to be doing it from a non-reactive state. Something I still mess up on. I guess a good way of explaining it would be not being goofy for the sake of the reactions you get, instead it's just part of who you are and how you react to the world around you. I think you can get away with this once you've hung around someone for a bit because it doesn't come off as you trying to impress them.
/r/seduction14/01/11 07:18 AM
1

I'm kind of suspicious of the other friend coming along, it could hinder you from getting further. I'm assuming you know the other person well though.
/r/seduction14/01/11 07:10 AM
1

I disagree with your points but the video doesn't piss me off. Lol.
/r/seduction13/01/11 09:26 PM
-1

I don't really see Mystery as a fringe element, he's still one of the people who pull newbies into the community and people misunderstand the ideas he proposes. A good example was how in the video they were trying to "neg", granted this is just a joke video making fun of the concept they're still not fully understanding the concept, which is why you see them making fun of it. I still see a lot of people on this forum say that they negged someone when they were just playing asshole game, which is…
/r/seduction13/01/11 12:04 AM
2

It's funny, but I can't necessarily like it because it is stereotyping us. This is how most people outside of the community see us. On top of it, it furthers the whole crazy people can't get laid and should just be themselves.
/r/seduction12/01/11 11:25 PM
1

I do this regularly at the bar and one of my buddies always gets on me since it doesn't work at stopping the girl. Which I'm really doing it for the purpose mentioned in the title, to get in a good mood.
/r/seduction11/01/11 09:50 PM
6

I love how everything the OP described is exactly what every AFC complains about, and how they followed this kind of advice and got no where with women. OP=Riveting Tale Chap!
/r/seduction10/01/11 01:00 AM
2

Yes opening guys can help just as much, I even met a wing I hang out with one time over a ridiculous conversation we had at the bar.
/r/seduction08/01/11 10:14 PM
1

Uhm yeah I'm surprised your town doesn't have an 18 and up bar/club. I know of at least 2. Obviously they will let you in but you can't drink.
/r/seduction08/01/11 08:15 PM
6

This is the problem, celebrities and athletes have done bad things but no one associates the concept of the sport with those people. The same thing can be said for anyone who releases something to the public. The problem is once the media finds out it will become evil since the concept of learning to get laid isn't accepted by the mainsteam. Attempted Murder + Teaching People to Get Laid = Shock and Awe. Just like any celebrity whose done a good movie or made good music I don't think your opinio…
/r/seduction06/01/11 08:22 AM
1

I agree.
/r/seduction06/01/11 05:53 AM
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Heartbreak? At least females actually want to fuck you.
/r/seduction05/01/11 03:14 AM
1

Sent a general funny what's up text today, no response. Not worried, I think I finally accept the flakey nature of women.
/r/seduction04/01/11 01:08 AM
1

I figure you learn just as much from peoples mistakes as you do from their successes. Oh well... I figure I might send a text on monday if she bites I'll try and get her out on my terms, if not NEXT. Besides I have other numbers in my phone.
/r/seduction02/01/11 09:39 PM
3

This is why I'm losing faith in Seddit, I write a lengthy FR but since it had no Fclose it gets downvoted past the point of anyone able to see or read it. Thus eliminating any point of me putting any effort into writing it since I won't get any objective and helpful criticism. But some girl makes a statement that we've heard a million times before and it gets upvoted. WTF
/r/seduction02/01/11 09:34 PM
5

I've made female friends(two HB6's) that blur the line between being attracted or being just friends. It has helped me improve my game but in ways I didn't think it would. If your uncomfortable being around women or talking to them this will help you improve simply by hanging with them. You can also use them to expand your social circle if it isn't big. I find when I go out to the club/bar it does give you preselection but I'm still not sure how much since they aren't 8 or 10s. But it does seem …
/r/seduction02/01/11 09:18 PM
2

No
/r/seduction02/01/11 09:06 PM
1

I feel like this would only be applicable once your in a LTR, definitely not something you should be doing when courting a girl.
/r/seduction02/01/11 09:02 PM
1

I actually did that and it worked, when she was sitting next to me she pushed me away and I stopped as she moved away. After a few minutes of her not feeling my kino she ironically returned as I asked her too. I think I finally have control over not caring about the outcome. PS: This is why I don't like submitting or asking questions here, everything I submit gets downvoted away from any actual discussion or advice, and I put time into writing something well written even if I did not get an Fclo…
/r/seduction02/01/11 08:27 PM
2

OP as troll confirmed.
/r/seduction01/01/11 06:03 PM
1

I dunno weed helps me improve my game. As does alcohol as long as you don't get shitfaced/super retarded and learn self control. To me it's more a matter of not going into it with the mindset that you HAVE to get fucked up.
/r/seduction31/12/10 11:25 PM
6

Yay! more feminist who don't get the satire of someone like Roosh who uses legitimate and normal every day techniques to get laid.
/r/seduction30/12/10 02:57 AM
3

I'm going to agree with it, it's been over a year and a half of self improvement and I still haven't gotten a fruit.
/r/seduction23/12/10 08:36 PM
1

I texted her saying: If you want to study hit me up, I need a good excused to study besides an A. She texted back: true, lol maybe next week. Sounds bad oh well NEXT.
/r/seduction08/12/10 02:32 PM
1

I've only texted her 3 times ,total one was mass happy thanksgiving message with a small back and fourth discussion. And the one about 2 days ago on the paper I turned in today. I'm not exactly hammering her. Originally I think I came on too fast and needy. I don't know what to say which is disappointing because normally I would.
/r/seduction07/12/10 01:10 AM
1

I went to the club with them awhile ago, the lesbian chick made out with me then I thought I would have gotten an fclose but didn't. 2 days later she got back with her boyfriend. Let me touch her in ways that her boyfriend wouldn't then pretty much told me no because she was back with him. Last week she got back with him, fuck that bitch. Sadly I have a school project to work on with them. After that I'm done conversing with them.
/r/seduction02/12/10 09:28 PM
2

The nicknames in "The Game" were mostly used to keep the PUA's private lives/identities separate from what they did in the community; similar to how people have usernames here on reddit. Since most of the people here are giving advice on real nicknames that people would have, I'll give mine: I have one that my friends gave me and eventually I tell girls the backstory of the whole thing. They usually end up calling me by my nickname after they hear the funny story or see my friends using it. I th…
/r/seduction22/11/10 05:33 AM
15

I disagree with your statement on not building attraction online. It's not as powerful as gaming someone in real life, but it still exists. It's all in whether or not your profile sucks. If all you have is a profile showing how boring or anti-social you are a girl is going to form an opinion of you based on it, and you can definitely manipulate this opinion easier online then anywhere else. Pictures of you hanging with other people, specifically women and you doing "attractive things' IE: not yo…
/r/seduction17/11/10 02:59 PM
1

I was drunk, high, and had 4 hours of sleep. I pushed to fuck her she backed off then I didn't care. 2 days later she gets back together with her boyfriend and now she is complaining that I've been rude lately. It's like duh bitch I don't want to hang with you anymore.
/r/seduction10/11/10 08:04 PM
1

I agree, what is the point of this post if your not going to tell us how the community helped...
/r/seduction06/11/10 03:45 PM
1

I think this is being unfairly downvoted. There are a lot of claims of pheromones working, mostly from online websites. Maybe there is some truth to it, most outsiders see this community as bull shit.
/r/seduction05/11/10 10:33 PM
2

I had this happen recently too, I felt like the conversations we had were all typical of the friend zone. But every time I would kino went I was always allowed to escalate. So I entirely stopped and she would reciprocate and pretty much just asked me if I was mad that I didn't fuck her when I stopped giving her attention. Now she just put it out there to fuck her.
/r/seduction03/11/10 11:03 PM
1

I'm actually confused right now because I want to fuck someone that isn't conventionally attractive. But for some reason I still want too...
/r/seduction03/11/10 10:06 PM
1

Nor do I, she hasn't stated that it's a relationship.
/r/seduction03/11/10 08:07 PM
1

Nope, what kills me is the fact that they would say shit like I get too high when I'm horny then do odd playful shit like try and bite me when I would playfully nudge them. Maybe I still don't understand chick logic.
/r/seduction27/10/10 09:02 PM
1

I've stopped putting up with peoples shit and all it's done is piss everyone off. It's not that simple, I've been spending a year doing this.
/r/seduction27/10/10 01:20 PM
1

I think she is messing around, total resistance yesterday when I was hanging out.
/r/seduction27/10/10 01:16 PM
1

All I got was resistance the other day. This is why this shit gets old, it makes no fucking sense!
/r/seduction27/10/10 01:15 PM
1

Well I guess I was completely wrong. I kept kino and joked heavily while fucking aroundand they accused me of being too horny while high. Then some jokes about not being to handle them and that I need to get laid. I tried my hardest to hold my frame. Maybe it's because their together and we're just riding around instead of isolated who knows... At this point she wants to go to a gay club where she claims straight people go but I guess I'll just use her as a pivot. Sorry I'm all emo when I post t…
/r/seduction27/10/10 01:11 PM
2

I figured that too, that I was going to get the standard "derrr she's using you" answers but anytime I hang with a girl I don't do favors unless they have "first".
/r/seduction25/10/10 11:05 PM
1

The thing is I'm not doing any favors or kissing their ass you know? We share weed. They drove me home from the bar etc. It's at least a two way friendship if it's that. I don't necessarily validate them in ways that I think could be an orbiter. I never heard of orbiters getting that kind of kino from a girl... I like hearing different perspectives, I feel like I've platued and I'm stuck at getting an fclose with any girl I interact with. Edit: the one I want to fuck is a lesbian but had a boyfr…
/r/seduction24/10/10 10:33 PM
2

I intend to try, the whole dynamic just confuses me. Ironically I seem to notice that they both kind of fight for my attention. Whenever I hang out with them it's the both of them. At the same time the lesbian trash talks about the now "ex" to me.
/r/seduction24/10/10 07:37 PM
4

The basic concept is this: Generally when you hang out with a girl who has a boyfriend they automatically put you in the friend zone, and by default they will complain to you about their boyfriend. Most guys will just try to trash talk the boyfriend and assume the girl will agree. All this will do is have the girl disagreeing and associating negative feelings with you. The solution is to talk positively about the boyfriend and she being the female she is will disagree and point out his flaws thu…
/r/seduction24/10/10 07:33 PM
2

At 5'7 I'll never understand why there are tall guys who complain, I can understand it being harder to gain rapport because your not around their height. But that's instance attraction, I constantly see super tall ass dudes who look like the stereotypical nerd surrounded by hot girls.
/r/seduction24/10/10 06:05 PM
2

See I definitely reframed it to them chasing me when they said shit like that, but the logistics weren't right.(At school like no privacy and not sure if one or the other sister would fuck awhile the other was still around). This shit still confuses me cause she told me about banging another dude via text today, I played it cool like I don't care.
/r/seduction24/10/10 06:03 PM
1

I don't see you doing anything wrong except restricting yourself because your afraid to say the wrong thing. A better way to frame the "Does that mean it's a good time to take advantage of you right now?" would be: "Drunk girls drive me nuts, the only have one thing on their mind".
/r/seduction23/10/10 03:52 PM
1

I think he is just asking how to get non-interest girls interested?
/r/seduction23/10/10 03:47 PM
1

Check your mailbox.
/r/seduction23/10/10 03:36 PM
4

I fucking love this, I will have to use it sometime.
/r/seduction21/09/10 04:47 AM
1

Get back into it unless something is physically stopping you.
/r/seduction21/09/10 04:33 AM
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If she gets insecure about it your doing it wrong... Making casual observations about a females personality is a good way to up your game and make you stand out from the "Damn girl you is sexy" crowd.
/r/seduction21/09/10 04:30 AM
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Why can't he just get into exercising? I'm bored as all hell about sports and wouldn't play one for social status.
/r/seduction20/09/10 04:05 AM
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Not necessarilly on topic but I've use "Shy Girl" as a nickname for a lot of girls effectively. Call her out on it a bit in a playful way and she might try to disprove it to you.
/r/seduction20/09/10 03:58 AM
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I wasn't there so I can't truly judge how loud it was; but I've found that the longer I practiced the louder my voice got without seeming like I was yelling. I think initially my anxiety caused me to not speak loud enough because I knew the music was there. I would at least toy with this notion a bit. Even try gesturing her to come closer if she can't hear.
/r/seduction20/09/10 03:55 AM
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If anything it will probably work to your advantage unless she is extremely attractive and has options. It seems from personal experience that the more I ignore them the more likely I will get a sudden invite to hang.
/r/seduction20/09/10 03:49 AM
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I think there has to be some merit to the whole fapping thing. I've noticed what many other people here have mentioned, but look at the big picture. We're all here for that one specific issue that we're trying to fix in our lives. There is obviously a more positivie biological response to sex over masturbation, or we wouldn't be here theorizing how to get it. I think the biggest issue is that back in the day men didn't have so many resources for easy pleasure like we do today.
/r/seduction20/09/10 03:47 AM
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I haven't really paid attention but I think it might be people asking the same general questions without any real detail. I have definitely noticed people trolling against standard PUA practice because they are probably AFC and still think buying a girl shit is the way to her heart, that or r/2X being whiny.
/r/seduction14/09/10 04:40 AM
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Seriously disagree with this, it sounds so AFC. Your in a social environment; be social, you think standing around is making you look cool? Social proof works and I've rolled to the bar many times solo and had girls open me because I was social. Also you caring that a girl is doing the same thing is a good way to scare them off.
/r/seduction12/09/10 04:06 PM
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I would use this as a last resort of if nothing else is working. I could see them potentially trying to grab you back into the conversation also. A valid tactic nonetheless.
/r/seduction07/09/10 11:33 PM
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I would text first and see if you get a response, especially if you are younger(I have the theory that people only make phone calls now a days for something important). Another good thing is to not leave immediately after you get the number to help solidify the connection(could be your weak point). The waiting rule is bullshit and has always been bullshit, just don't make yourself sound needy. I usually text her with in 30 minutes of getting the number with something non-needy. Good Example: Hey…
/r/seduction07/09/10 11:29 PM
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Upvoting this because it was unfairly downvoted by people who don't belong in this community.
/r/seduction07/09/10 11:13 PM
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This type of crap further confirms my belief in "game"
/r/seduction07/09/10 10:47 PM
3

You could easily sexualize your text messages and see if she bites. She has obviously done this before so you don't need to carefully build up to it like you would with a new girl. Examples: Her: I'm only a brat to those I like to torture You: Torture? So that's how you flirt with cute guys huh. If she bites roll with it. A better example of this would be to subtly use innuendo. I was recently texting a Nurse and role played about her taking care of me, eventually I said in the text that "she wo…
/r/seduction06/09/10 02:30 AM
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Interesting story, I think you pretty much did what would work. Him trying to start shit with you lowers his value. A lot of guys confuse being a screaming dickwad with being Alpha. The only difference between me and you is if he actually did try to hit me I would fight back.
/r/seduction06/09/10 02:20 AM
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Going to a bar/club is the quickest and fastest way to get better at socializing with people. Once you get used to socializing there, every other situation will be easier. I used to have a similar mindset, that only certain types of people went to clubs. And I've met an astounding number of people who are into things that I thought weren't mainstream.
/r/seduction06/09/10 02:17 AM
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I wonder if anyone has tips for this in community college, it seems like most people already have establish social circles and kind of ignore trying to expand it. I could probably change that though. Btw, I hit up bars in baltimore all the time so hit me up if your interested in a wingman.
/r/seduction06/09/10 02:03 AM
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One of the moderators should really put this on the right side of this reddit for noobs. It's a pretty common PUA term.
/r/seduction31/08/10 11:54 PM
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Ask her how early she has to get up.... push for the meet up. If she still declines ignore it like it doesn't bother you. Try again at a more opprotune time.
/r/seduction31/08/10 08:47 PM
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I don't see how it relates to seduction then. Help me oprah I'm confused...
/r/seduction31/08/10 06:52 PM
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It is a sexual stereotype, it does not mean that it is the only one out there. Nor does it mean that it is the only thing that turns that specific woman on. Never pay attention to what a woman says; pay attention to what she does.
/r/seduction31/08/10 06:49 PM
2

Make friends with everybody, I have a personal theory that the cool guy has a tendency to be friends with everyone and treat them the same. Don't take my word for it though.
/r/seduction31/08/10 06:46 PM
2

I agree, lately I keep seeing people use neg as an interchangeable word for teasing. When it serves an entirely differet purpose. Also the environment the orignal poster is talking about is unlikely to have bitch shields.
/r/seduction31/08/10 06:45 PM
3

Not worth the trouble.
/r/seduction31/08/10 06:42 PM
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I can attest that if you just walk through anywhere with confidence it can definitely have an effect on the women around you. Women can sense this way more then men and will pick up on it. I can't count how many times I've gone up to some attractive cashier who was in "mindless work mode" and before I even open my mouth they are in "talkative mode"; simply because I was emnating confidence. FYI: You shouldn't be negging a HB6, also negs aren't teasing. From the context of your post it seems like…
/r/seduction31/08/10 06:39 PM
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I disagree, most of the popular canned openers work because they've been field tested millions of times and do work. I see them as a starting point like learning someone elses song on the guitar before you write your own. Most people's biggest fear is not knowing what to say when they see the girl. Another great advantage is if you use one multiple times you will get a great idea of what conversational threads you can use to further or continue the conversation. Once they use canned openers and …
/r/seduction31/08/10 06:30 PM
1

Now this is an actual field report!
/r/seduction29/08/10 08:37 PM
3

She's flirting with you, flirt back. What are you afraid her brothers are going to cockblock you? I don't get why this is confusing.
/r/seduction28/08/10 07:00 PM
1

Don't even think, just approach. Like another poster said by setting some sort of imaginary deadline you are internally making yourself more nervous. This end up also making the whole thing into a bigger deal then it really is, and makes you give off a vibe that is a big deal. Girls can sense it.
/r/seduction27/08/10 01:32 AM
1

I don't think this is going to help with your AA simply because it's connected to you meeting someone and building a real life connection first. Rather then feeling the safety of the net and using it as an excuse to be able to talk to a random stranger. I don't see this fundamentally helping you with your main probelm.
/r/seduction27/08/10 01:25 AM
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I agree this is stupid, but when I was younger before I had any kind of AA I used to run up and say stupid things to people in the mall. I kind of got into the feeling of that mindset to get rid of my AA. I think there is some connection, but realistically he isn't learning anything.
/r/seduction27/08/10 01:20 AM
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I disagree, most of those actors are Alpha even in real life. Sure Tom Cruise sucks for being a Scientologist, but he has stood by his opinion(albeit shitty one) even under constant scruntiny. That alone is Alpha, most people would change their mind and follow the crowd. Most of those guys couldn't pull their character off if they at least didn't pretend to live it somewhat in real life. And most of the people on here aren't going to attain Alpha status without pretending until it becomes who th…
/r/seduction26/08/10 06:34 AM
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I'm confused, did you actually approach any other women and they had bitch shields or did you assume? I honestly can't see females having huge bitch shields outside of a club/bar environment unless you were nervous in your apporach. Your biggest mistake is assuming they will have one though, going in with that mindset will create issues where there are none.
/r/seduction26/08/10 06:29 AM
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I don't think I've ever had someone make a jab at me in the process of talking to a girl. I've had it happen if I was in a set and I didn't engage the dude first, which sets off his instincts that I'm trying to take his women. When I'm in the middle of a set and a guy comes in with the whole "friendy" attitude, I just dominate the conversation by talking to him. Example: -handshake- What's your name?, What are you doing here? Oh that's cool bla bla blah, -introduce the girls like you know them- …
/r/seduction26/08/10 06:25 AM
1

Brown hair girl theory, If only it were that easy!
/r/seduction26/08/10 06:16 AM
1

Anything specific you talked about? Looks like she was attracted before you even engaged.
/r/seduction26/08/10 12:16 AM
3

How far from bmore? PM me.
/r/seduction25/08/10 11:49 PM
2

Baltimore
/r/seduction25/08/10 11:47 PM
1

I agree with this, one of the biggest revelations I've had after approaching so many people was that you can find commonalities with anyone(barring any personality issues). My biggest problem socially used to be that I could talk forever but only when it pertained to nerdy subject matter. I always blamed the issue on other people being close-minded, and that people disowned nerds. Once I realized it was a skill I could improve I found it was mostly my point of view, not my interests. I don't see…
/r/seduction24/08/10 04:30 AM
1

I agree with this as long as you don't brag about what your doing.
/r/seduction24/08/10 03:54 AM
2

I don't see anything wrong with texting, if anything texting has made communication easier without forcing people to stop what they're doing in their busy lives. I believe unless they were born in the 60's most people expect texting unless your having a deep/important/in-depth conversation. In terms of PUA I think at some point your going to have to call her up for a meet-up. Texting also technically let's you remind them that you exist without pestering her in a needy way. I ocassionally yet ra…
/r/seduction24/08/10 03:51 AM
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I definitely need to put this idea into practice with mixed sets. It's kind of funny how when I take my AFC friends out they poke fun at how I pick up dudes. Yet I end up getting a free beer/pizza/guy introducing me to his female friends/brother letting their guard down around their sister/expanded social circle. Use this to your advantage.
/r/seduction24/08/10 03:36 AM
2

I'm 5'7 and haven't personally decided yet. I mean obviously if your under the average height it's going to be apparent in public gatherings. Which is the only reason it seems to bother me; when I go out I notice that the majority of people are taller then me. I haven't experienced anyone flat out tell me that is the reason they rejected me either. The only thing I have noticed outside of it sometimes messing with my inner game is that when I'm in a crowded bar people have a tendency to be less …
/r/seduction24/08/10 03:27 AM
3

Interesting concept, I will have to try it. One interesting thing I've noticed since I started practicing my PUA skills was my ability to "shoot-the-shit" with any random guy in a bar. I've used this to literally make instant-friends/wingmen for the night who end up being so impressed with my ability to open sets that I end up with free beer or pizza. I might try this tactic with the few guys who seem to be unsociable or even on AMOGs in mixed sets.
/r/seduction22/08/10 06:10 PM
1

That's what I was going for, I'm a bit confused that people thought I was trying to neg her because it wasn't my intent.
/r/seduction22/08/10 05:47 PM
1

It kills your confidence after a certain point, I'm sure most people have felt like this. I feel like once I get the end result it would definitely push that mindset away. Let's be realisitc trying so hard for so long can kill the initial rush of being able to open sets.
/r/seduction22/08/10 05:45 PM
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Maryland
/r/seduction21/08/10 11:19 PM
1

You make a great point but I don't think I was unintentionally going for a neg, I was using the tease to try and start a possible conversation thread off the topic she gave me, then it backfired for the reasons your stating. The age thing usually goes like this: *Me: you look kind of young to be in here(to early 20 year olds) *Girl: why? *Me: I think you snuck in with a fake ID. *Girl: So are you a pedo or gets mad that I implied she was young Age is something I'm definitely avoiding in conversa…
/r/seduction21/08/10 10:54 PM
1

I'm pretty sure I do. I have asked friends if I do but most guys wouldn't pay any solid attention to body language.
/r/seduction21/08/10 10:01 PM
2

Good advice, definitely didn't see that line from that point of view.
/r/seduction21/08/10 09:14 PM
2

I'm definitely going to pay more attention to it, I think calibrating it right and not going for a flurry of teases might help balance me out. Cause when it works it works extremely well for me.
/r/seduction21/08/10 09:08 PM
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I meant in terms of kino escalating or getting a #close/Fclose. There have been times when I launched a 30-40 min conversation from a cold approach but I felt like I didn't create enough sexual tension. So I just became the entertaining guy at the bar rather then the guy who she would have sex with.
/r/seduction21/08/10 08:59 PM
3

I would definitely like to see some opinions on this. I'm 5'7 myself and sometimes it can be hard to ignore all the stereotypical 6 foot muscle bound guys who populate bars/clubs. I've gotten over worrying about it but it still seems to effect peoples initial perception of you.
/r/seduction21/08/10 08:38 PM
1

See the thing is I usually take teasing to the point that it seems to piss them off rather then be into me. A recent example was an HB6 who said to me she can roll blunts well, I said in a teasing manner: "All girls say that, but none of them can roll well". She got super pissed at me and talked shit about me to a friend, I bounced around the room working some sets during this. Another example is when I try to tease a girl for being too young to be in the venue and it ends up offending them. May…
/r/seduction21/08/10 08:22 PM
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