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Whe you are a half decent looking human beeing, girls will be attractet to you Every girl, will meet a guy who "doesn't look like the guys she use to date" You can be that guy You are not safe from foolishness, most guys drive girs away with their lack of charisma or tryhardness. Go out develope good socialskills and charisma. Develop empathy. Understanding the person you like is very important, so you can calibrate and feel comfortable. When you dont know what you are doing, you get nervous or …
/r/seduction14/07/17 08:24 AM
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Girls dont build flocks arround you just because you are cool.. You have to show intention and be cool. Also playing with the dynamic of flirting
/r/seduction18/06/17 08:10 PM
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there is a difference between "needing" something, and "wanting/liking" something. And the worst thing is, to believe "I am just a person that needs a logic advice, and explanation. I am very rational." Its not a thing, that you will find in a pure logical context. Its like the sentence "if you haven't got it in your head, you must have it in your your legs" its relly easy to understand. it makes SENSE. but you don't really say "wow, thats eye opening". Its only when you are in a situation, wher…
/r/seduction30/05/17 02:41 PM
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What do you want to hear? Its not like there is a special trick oder gimmick. You don't beg. Value women as a real human beeing like you are. Thats all. The thing is, you can't solve a problem at the level it occurs. You have to go above it or below. And my approach to that problem of the "belief" of what you are and seem to be, is to just go against the resistance of overthinking an assuming the outcome. You don't try to sell you self the idea of "we are all humans who like social interactions,…
/r/seduction30/05/17 08:31 AM
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Long story short. You cant change a whole gender, just for your own confort to not overcome your approach anxiety or fear of rejection. You won't like the fact, that dating is kind of competitive, but most girls have options. They don't need to talk to you. It would only make your life easier. Bruce Lee — 'Do not pray for an easy life, pray for the strength to endure a difficult one' Accept what you can not change. It only makes you more mature to overcome those "challenges".
/r/seduction29/05/17 12:03 PM
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go out more. No shit. When you go out, you will develop a certain kind of "i dont care attitude". The more social interactuons you have the better. Your texts mirror your way you "overthink" every step. As long as you need more tha 30 seconds to think about "what should i text her?" You dont go out enough. You lack the indifference. You dont vibe over text. When I use Tinder or something like that, i use rarely more than 10 Messages or gifs to get a Number. Like, you know that this is a app TO M…
/r/seduction26/05/17 05:25 AM
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Just read again, what you just wrote. Do you want do be in that part of lifestyle? Do thing women like that are desirable? There are a lot of clever beautiful girls. That would appriciate that lifestyle but would not use it as criteria to dicide if you are an attracitve person. Befriend the beautful girls by just beeing an cool non creepy guy, you will be the +1 on the guestlist, and if you are cool you will get a lot of options with those girls.
/r/seduction08/05/17 11:13 AM
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I push for the date as soon as Possible. First interaction within few textmessages and funny/flirty statements, I go for the meetup and exchange numbers. Don't game over text, go for the meet up. Women have like 1 million Matches with guys, when you are like derping arround like most of the guys she loses interest. You have to implant the seed of "we are going to have a date" as soon as possible in her head. No girl wants a "correspondence with a pen friend" on tinder. Make it real to her.
/r/seduction16/01/17 02:30 PM
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You get what you deserve. Some people need to slay more dragons to even understand the worth of the princess. Some people never slay a dragon, and start to marry the dragon because they dont even know what the real difference between a dragon or a princess is, because of the lack of slaying expirience. Some people, slay so many dragens that they lose the faith in the existance of the Princess. But slay some and get some. Life is a crazy cycle of "I wasnt as expireinced as i thought i was" (Sorry…
/r/seduction24/12/16 07:34 PM
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This is the Method for "regualar texting". Its only vibing via text. thats it. But a lot of people over think it, and don't want to go for the things that are in their "dangerzone". Its the Blueprint of what a cool person texts. The aggregant of those little things can help you. But if you don't be able to vide in real life, then you might not be able to vibe via text that good. quick tip to get answers in Tinder and OK cupid . Write bullshit. thats it. not an awesome text or some super opener i…
/r/seduction13/01/15 07:34 AM
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Texted girls oftene before we "met" for the first time. When i get the numbers of girl in the club or via tinder. And i Close on a steady basis. I struggled at the beginning with text, but now its like, vibing... only via text.
/r/seduction12/01/15 07:28 PM
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most of the time when i had this problem I haven't established "physicality" from the beginning, and even tho she liked me already, it was hard for me to do be physical then because it was weird. (i never touched her... when i touche her now its strange) Be a physical guy, it helps a lot with flirting and come to the next step because if you were physcial all the way you are more likeley to give your self permission to be a little more agressive. You can create a nice flow also in a "fuck buddy"…
/r/seduction19/11/14 06:15 PM
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"Wait until the right girl comes your way" - and on the path (age 17-28) to her she gets fucked by the fun player dudes.... but then it's ok, be happy that she settles down with you, because she already had all the fun... why should you learn to have the same fun... just settle down and pay for her stuff.... just settle down... mr nice guy....
/r/seduction19/11/14 06:10 PM
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Bitches go crazy for beasty Hugs Be smiling and joyfull Express joyfullnes not through. Action is the answer : "when im happy an joyfull i alwys get clos to girls hug them give them eskimo kisses on there cheek when i walk next to them, i carry them arraung, grab their hand pull them dance a little bit, bite their hand etc etc. " when you "day 2" them ALWAYS hug them smile look at them while hugging ask somthing chill casual "How are you ?" "how was your day?" etc. etc. bit be still aware of her…
/r/seduction19/11/14 02:28 PM
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Dude.... do whatever you want. But there is one thing everyone tells you in the PU-Community. If you are not expirienced with girls, DON'T DO SOCIAL CIRCLE GAME - wich means: workplace, College/Uni. , school, Friends of friends. If this is still such a deal to ask a girl out, you are not ready for "social Circle game". Gain field expirience. Trust me. I did the same shit. you can lie to yourself... but 99,99% this tend to fuck up. When you are expirenced it's not a deal anymore to ask a girl out…
/r/seduction18/11/14 07:37 AM
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its not like i know their lifes a fucked up in the beginning , those are some pretty girls. But the more time i spend with them the more i realise they are fucked up or awesome. And if they are awesome ... fuck up even i fucked them already and established something like a releationship with them, i feel how i get nervous even though i know them already, i feel like they are supirior to me and can drop me whenever they want. And i know its not my standarts or my "game" its this feeling inside me…
/r/seduction13/11/14 07:05 AM
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I don't think its my outward appearance. I do a lot of sports, and i might say i have a quite good style. The girls ar not fat, they are skinny fat but its like i know how they will gain weight, they are not ugly either. But thats not the thing. I read a lot, i also listen to a lot of Audiobook about self improvement, while im training. I have quite good paying job have my own flat, and studying the thing i like. It's like those girls are easy for me to get , the look pretty, i don't know them, …
/r/seduction13/11/14 06:55 AM
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Stop Weaving girls. You don't need a excuse to talk to them go to them asume they like you because your are cool "Ask how is class?" simple shit. Stop gaming your established social circle. Don't try to get with girls in you social circle (for now). Instead become friends but keep in mind she should always think: "i don't know what i should think from this guy" . Be playful but treat the girle like friends but hug girls passionate when you meet them again , look them in the eyes say give little …
/r/seduction07/11/14 01:02 PM
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Get to know someone. if you get laid while your drunk , you already know someone. This person is now your friend. Go with them to the club Have fun, approach just rush in the middle of the group the girls, especcially when the have a dance-circle with purses in the middle. Just stumble over the purses help them then "sorry, btw I'm "bekommen" and you are? :) " have a conversation isolation pull you get laid or not
/r/seduction25/10/14 04:25 PM
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wait a day. She is just a girl. One day you are angry as fuck and after you slept, a night you almost forgot why you were angry in the first place. don't try to palaver her into thinking something you would like hear. Just accept, she's a little creeped out, and probably don't want you to interpret more into this releationship. Just act like you don't care. Get another date.
/r/seduction25/10/14 08:40 AM
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the problem is the voice in my head it will make me feel uncomfortable whatever i will say next because its convinced how can i be louder than the voice in my head
/r/seduction17/10/14 05:17 PM
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Ok, I did a small edit. What about an actuall advice ? (english is just my second language )
/r/seduction17/10/14 12:19 PM
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Sorry for mistakes english is not my first langueage. Hmmm. some of those problems remind me of myself. Everyone should find their own path. but here some things i did. I couldn't talk to strangers or have more the one second eye contact so I forced myself into situation where i had to talk and keep eye contact - how ? : I started a side job as a Waiter 2 days a week after work for 6 hours at evening. Its a little extra money and you must talk and its the best to keep eye contact and be a little…
/r/seduction28/03/14 07:42 AM
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