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| 12 | Friendly reminder: we don’t have an expiration dateThis hits hard because there have been so many times when I’m thinking: “oh, I’m 22, in 3 years time I will be as old as my mum was when she had me”. Or oh all of my friends are like super successful and are investing successfully or are already at a high paying job. Stuff like that and the moment I started giving credit where credit is due(even if it’s the small things). I started realising that I’m just beginning my adulthood and I will get somewhere in life if I keep being passionate about th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 05:02 PM |
| 14 | Saw this on Witches vs Patriarchy. It was also discussed on a recent FDS podcast and is very important to remember. Being empathetic to the point of destruction is self harm.Theres many posts on there that remind me of FDS tbh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 03:18 PM |
| 1 | Just picked up a second-hand copy of The Gift of Fear!! Just the foreword has me hooked!Once I’m done with my uni material this is the first thing I’ll read 👍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 04:33 AM |
| 6 | Just picked up a second-hand copy of The Gift of Fear!! Just the foreword has me hooked!It’s going to my tbr, don’t know when I’ll get to it though since my tbr is miles long 🙃 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 02:38 AM |
| 2 | How to find out if a man watches porn: it’s easier than you thinkI had a weird experience with my ex since he wanted to only speak in English (not our mother tongue and his parents didn’t even speak English at all) and all of his sex related vocab was obviously from porn. He never used “having sex” or anything neutral like that it was always “fucking” and so on. I didn’t mind it at time because I thought that his English was just bad, which it was. It started to bother me once he didn’t really take no for an answer. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 05:38 AM |
| 1 | Yes, women can be pornsick too.Honestly I couldn’t agree more. My ex made me watch porn with him and most of the time it was such a turn off for me that it either ended up him forcing himself onto me or I just left the room and did something else until he was finished. I’m so sad that it took me almost two years to understand that he was ruining my life and my health with his “love”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/21 05:16 PM |
| 12 | More women have died at the hands of a loved one, then men have died in all of the wars put together! This is why it’s so important to vet because men have the potential to kill you.I don’t know the statistics here but it’s also quite bad here. Especially now during covid times. We are on lockdown no 2 and I have the privilege to still normally go to work. And whilst walking to work I’ve been seeing so much more police cars with sirens on and violence on the streets in general. So this post has definitely made me want to research the topic more. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/21 03:06 AM |
| 1 | This is such a great argument for why “don’t bring up what happened in the past” is such bull. Men just wait for you to calm down so they can brush everything under the rug, and then do the exact same thing again. LVM truly do not care about their partners.My ex used to be the opposite even if his previous actions were unrelated to the current issue at hand he would say “oh, look, I’ve come so far from xyz issue I’ve had. You surely shouldn’t be so annoyed with me”. If i tried to point out that this is completely unrelated then he turned it around and started blaming me instead. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/21 02:48 AM |
| 4 | Almost burnt outThis is so nice of you. I know if I had been that 9 yr old then my life had definitely been changed. My experience with hair has always been horrible. The teachers in kindergarten always used to hurt me because they were so rough whilst brushing my hair. I had a very tender scalp back then and I almost always cried when my hair was brushed by someone else that my parents. This would have made the world of a difference for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 05:30 PM |
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