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What do you think would happen if they did that? It wouldn't be the positive support that women's issues get in the media. It would be hate filled propaganda that villifies men and calls them sexist and ignorant, the highest level of misogyny to exist etc. The men who did it would then lose their jobs, because what company would want to employ someone who has that much negative pressure focused on them. Their friends and families would probably distance themselves as they would be getting splash…
/r/MensRights16/08/26 10:59 AM
1

I read this earlier and laughed so much.
/r/MensRights13/08/26 04:11 PM
36

So they immediately said women and girls with no mention of men and boys. Typical
/r/MensRights12/08/26 04:02 PM
23

You could say the same about why does a female victim stay as long as she does. Coercion, fear, abuse, self confidence being torn down, isolated from support, and also the additional knowledge of if you leave there is the possibility of false accusations of domestic abuse or sexual assault that she can levy at you that will be most likely believed.
/r/MensRights24/07/26 07:13 AM
185

Had a hair cut done yesterday and there was one seat for waiting customers. Sat there waiting for my turn, a young woman comes in followed by an elderly woman with a walking stick. I stand to let the elderly lady sit and the you g woman just parks her ass on the seat instead. Literally was like "lady wtf are you doing?"
/r/MensRights12/07/26 09:08 AM
11

Gotta keep that job to pay for stuff like food, rent water energy...you know the kinda stuff that you need to survive.
/r/MensRights07/06/26 01:59 PM
17

So let me get this straight...it's men's problems so men should sort them out...but women's problems need to have support from men. Right..cus that makes SO much sense.
/r/MensRights18/01/26 02:44 PM
24

Just check your local laws about recording and consent. No point in opening yourself up for potential trouble.
/r/MensRights15/01/26 07:39 AM
2

Dude you are beyond hope. Apply something called common sense you Muppet. It might be a foreign concept to you but maybe look into it. The only example you're setting for your kid is a bad one. I feel really bad for her.
/r/MensRights26/12/25 06:36 PM
4

Yeah you're an idiot. Even if you just wanted to vent, which is understandable considering the situation with the courts, you literally put target on someone's face which has been a well known documented concept of a threat for years. You don't think it's a threat, imagine a teacher doing the same thing with your kids face. Would you still consider it just a vent from having a bad day? No, it's a threat and always has been. Don't be a dumbass.
/r/MensRights26/12/25 03:57 PM
8

They had to do research to figure that out? For crying out loud.
/r/MensRights21/12/25 03:52 PM
17

Hang in there buddy, you're a strong person for living through this. I hope you get all the help you need.
/r/MensRights07/12/25 08:17 AM
3

Auto translation. "I am so demanding and contrary that no man in his right mind has stuck around for me and clearly the problem could never be me so it must be the entire male gender".
/r/MensRights02/11/25 01:30 PM
11

I believe they are talking about the right to have a kid or not. Once a woman becomes pregnant it is her choice on what to do with the pregnancy. If a man sleeps with a woman and she gets pregnant from it and decides to keep the kid, even if he doesn't want to have a kid yet, or ever, that's it. He's on the hook for child support for eighteen years. He has no legal right to financially abort his responsibility to that kid even if he doesn't want to be a father.
/r/MensRights01/11/25 06:48 AM
1

Oh and make sure that OP makes notes of all possible details in the interactions he has with them along with making sure he is never alone with them. Don't want to think that an accusation might come his way but it's better to be safe than sorry.
/r/MensRights03/08/25 04:28 PM
12

He had me for a bit, and then he mentioned the pay gap ..and nope.
/r/MensRights06/07/25 08:59 PM
3

I read an article that stated women are more likely to wake up to a child crying and men are more likely to wake up if they hear something that could be an intruder/danger to family etc.
/r/MensRights06/07/25 08:45 AM
11

What's that phrase ... something about grass and greener?
/r/MensRights13/06/25 06:54 PM
7

That the best thing you can do for long lasting happiness is to focus on yourself.
/r/MensRights26/05/25 05:13 PM
14

I have emailed the head of the hospital trust I work for why there is a massive amount of celebration for women's day, for pride month, for black history month, for culture differences day (never heard of that before either), but on the international mens day November the 19th it is completely silent. So far I have not received any response back.
/r/MensRights24/05/25 07:34 PM
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So let me get this straight. People are saying boys are turning to more extreme views because...they get constantly told that they are in the wrong they are guilty by just existing and they are privileged by nature of the fact that they are male. Wow who woulda thunk that they would look elsewhere for support.
/r/MensRights25/03/25 03:21 PM
17

Doesn't matter who you vote for all parties are fairly consistent in screwing blokes and boys over.
/r/MensRights23/03/25 12:39 PM
29

Because every time you do you get shouted down by the people in charge. And you have to think about survival. If I said some of the stuff that I believe, nothing bad, but things like kids needs fathers, circumcision is male genital mutilation, the wage gap doesn't exists etc. all of which is true and easily provable, I would potentially lose my job for being sexist and discriminatory.
/r/MensRights23/03/25 11:53 AM
1

..why are you getting a gift for women's day? I mean birthdays and cultural celebrations like Christmas I get...but women's day? Why?
/r/MensRights09/03/25 06:48 PM
9

Remember that you are a strong person, and that you are incredibly brave for surviving this.
/r/MensRights08/03/25 10:34 PM
11

Well when you get told constantly that you are privileged and that your concerns and problems don't matter and you have it soooo easy...
/r/MensRights03/03/25 01:40 PM
27

At that time I was going through a very hard period of my life. I had the usual teenage angst going on, my grandma had just passed away, my brother had just gotten his girlfriend pregnant and we found out that my dad was cheating on mum. All I wanted to do during lunch was sit and read and try to escape reality for 50 minutes.
/r/MensRights01/03/25 09:08 PM
56

Got accused of being a creep at school in 2005 because I liked to sit in the library at lunch and read books. Apparently this was "weird". Only found out months afterwards that one of them was into me and was butt hurt that I never really made any effort beyond being friendly.
/r/MensRights01/03/25 08:48 PM
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Figured it was going to be a joke when I saw it was the daily mail and then when I saw it mention the "ever growing wage gap". Pfft yeah sure.
/r/MensRights26/02/25 09:12 PM
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I have been trying to figure out what to do with my life for nearly 35 years. A chap I knew had the same issue and was in his fifties. So I will say the same thing that he said to me. "Sometimes life is shit. Doesn't mean that you have to be shit. You don't have a big goal to aim for? That's fine. Just aim to get through the day. If you find something you enjoy them go and look into that. Life isnt always about the destination. You gotta journey to get there." At the time I thought he was full o…
/r/MensRights03/01/25 10:20 PM
51

What a brave young man.
/r/MensRights14/11/24 06:04 PM
46

Want to bet how long that would last before it was lambasted for misogyny?
/r/MensRights26/05/24 06:16 AM
2

Not about abusive women, but Dax's "Be a man" hits so hard. It really feels absolutely 100% spot on.
/r/MensRights21/05/24 05:00 AM
15

Yep. I'm in my early thirties and still live with my mum simply because neither of us could survive on the wages we earn in the area we live in. Moving to a different area would be equally challenging so it's basically a damned if you do and damned if you don't situation.
/r/MensRights07/05/24 06:39 AM
7

I saw a clip on YouTube that creased me up about this. The man at the end said "I appreciate the bear taking one for the team though".
/r/MensRights01/05/24 06:05 PM
14

As a single man, I'm at the bottom of the priority list for social housing. I got removed from the local council property list after a few months of not applying when I was made redundant. I queried it and they said that because I wasn't applying clearly I didn't need new housing. I wasn't applying because I didn't have a stable income so there wouldn't have been much point in trying to get a place at the time. They said it was standard policy, but I queried this due to a friend of mine being in…
/r/MensRights15/04/24 05:36 AM
3

I can't really feel anything these days. I remember when I was a child I used to feel different emotions and be able to identify them. Now I can't really feel much of anything, and what I can feel is like viewing a landscape through a window. You can see it but you can never fully interact with it. I thought that I had done it to myself because I was simply tired of being hurt by people. Family, so called friends, partners...I just had enough of being the punching bag for others so I guess I tho…
/r/MensRights04/04/24 05:34 PM
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Never understood why they would name a female character Michael tbh. I mean Michelle, Michaela sure...but Michael? Nope can't wrap my brain around it.
/r/MensRights22/12/23 07:59 AM
18

You get told that everything is your fault or you're guilty just because you are a man and it's not surprising when you consider the lack of support available to men.
/r/MensRights06/12/23 05:44 PM
3

I work in an admin department of a hospital. I'm the only bloke in a big office filled with maybe around forty women. I don't really interact with them other than sharing relevant information about patients (i.e. got this patient booked in at X date for X test) and saying good morning and have a nice evening. Other than that I'm on my own. It's a bit lonely but it's safer that way for me. They also find it weird that I haven't got a girlfriend or kids and have no desire to have either.
/r/MensRights02/12/23 02:52 PM
1

Don't worry they do that in their home country as well.
/r/MensRights21/11/23 01:28 PM
4

I decided that today is the day I get up off my butt and start working on myself. Been on the exercise bike for fifteen minutes and done some weights. Just easing myself back into it. I'm gonna get there though.
/r/MensRights19/11/23 03:39 PM
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I work for the NHS in the UK. I made a mention of it to my boss and basically got shut down. Says something that the place responsible for health and care of everyone in the UK ignores it...
/r/MensRights16/11/23 09:37 PM
12

I am absolutely disgusted this happened to you. Glad that you both are doing all right.
/r/MensRights10/11/23 09:46 PM
18

I hope you and your child are both doing ok
/r/MensRights10/11/23 06:38 PM
23

Hope your nephew is doing ok.
/r/MensRights06/11/23 07:05 AM
5

Wow. That poor bloke.
/r/MensRights28/10/23 03:46 PM
19

I'm sorry but in what reality would a person who is a serial killer answer that honestly with a "yes"?
/r/MensRights21/10/23 06:21 PM
4

When I was younger I got hurt quite a bit by so called friends and ex girlfriends. It got to the stage where I don't bother with dating at all because why would I voluntarily put myself in that situation? Problem is now, all my emotions are for lack of a better word "blunted". I don't really feel enjoyment anymore. It's just oh another day... personally I don't think it's worth going to therapy or anything because it just doesn't feel (pun intended) worth it.
/r/MensRights20/10/23 03:43 PM
2

I told a group of women coworkers "if I don't have any input on how you be a woman, you have zero input on how I be a man." They did not like it.
/r/MensRights19/10/23 10:01 AM
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Agreed I read that and was like "clearly we are living on different planets, because that has never been seen as admirable"
/r/MensRights16/10/23 06:04 AM
5

Yep I know i asked instead if they would like to be called wench instead since they clearly didn't like the respectful terminology.
/r/MensRights30/09/23 03:38 PM
6

I got told off for using the word "lady" being told it came from an archaic and even more patriarchal time. I absolutely cracked up.
/r/MensRights29/09/23 10:23 PM
2

I treat them as people, and as I would want to be treated. Respectfully and politely, unless they prove that they do not deserve it. Other than that I tend to limit my interactions with them to work environments where there are more potential witnesses in the case of something going horribly wrong. Some people might say "oh false accusations are rare" which I personally disagree with, but it only takes one to destroy your entire life.
/r/MensRights28/09/23 09:43 PM
12

Keep your legs closed responsibly? I am kinda curious about the shitstorm that would hit if someone said.
/r/MensRights15/09/23 06:38 PM
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I personally would tell her to take a long walk off a short pier and ignore her completely. Best of luck with everything.
/r/MensRights13/09/23 05:07 PM
11

I remember seeing a comment on a post on another subreddit about a wife who had to "pull her husband back from the extremist MRA views" a few other people asked how she did and praised her for being so brave and said that they wished there was organisations to help "guide lost men back to the right path". I found that particular comment absolutely vile and offensive, especially when it turned out that the reason hrr husband started looking up MRA stuff was because one, she made no effort to enga…
/r/MensRights29/08/23 05:36 AM
2

It does, but do you see it getting any funding at all for this despite it being a great idea.
/r/MensRights25/08/23 04:22 PM
14

Glad that it's getting more light shone on it but I have to admit it irks me that they put in about men not defending themselves because of their values and did not mention anything about how easy it is for the abuser to make false accusations against their victims.
/r/MensRights22/08/23 06:12 AM
20

I had a similar experience. I play an online game (probably can guess which it is if you look at my own history) and there was a streamer who was accused of assaulting another streamer. The sub basically tore them apart. I made a simple comment about the concept of innocent til proven guilty and I got lambasted by hate. They went through my own history and basically because of the fact I comment here, I was accused of being a women hater a rape apologist and a number of other comments I won't re…
/r/MensRights08/08/23 07:12 PM
1

Why is it that whenever I read an article like this it feels downright condescending.
/r/MensRights07/08/23 08:44 PM
5

To get your rocks on? I'm sorry I couldn't resist. Will see myself out.
/r/MensRights06/08/23 11:38 AM
4

A friend tried to persuade me to go and see it with her and a few of her girlfriends. I declined but she kept pushing until I suggested a deal. I go with them to watch Barbie, but in return she and her friends and watch the Red Pill. She was not receptive to the idea which made me laugh.
/r/MensRights30/07/23 09:33 PM
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Good on them for holding their ground. I hope their parents ripped into the school
/r/MensRights29/07/23 05:24 AM
20

I was on the bus a few years ago. I was looking out of the window minding my own business when I heard a clang from the other side of the vehicle. I turned and glanced over and saw a woman had dropped something out of her handbag, think it was a hairbrush with a metal handle, she saw me looking and called me a creep and a perv for that. I literally glanced over for maybe three seconds because I was surprised by the noise. Apparently that is offensive behaviour.
/r/MensRights21/07/23 06:00 AM
6

For me it was something that just happened naturally. I try to look at all sides of an argument or discussion before taking a side, and I noticed in secondary school that there was plenty of talk about women's rights, women empowerment women's disadvantages etc. But there was nothing about the issues that's men faced. Now as a man as well this felt..wrong? As by this point I had already got my backside slapped when walking home from town, already had an older women try to tongue me without my co…
/r/MensRights15/07/23 07:58 AM
2

Because I disagreed with a group of women at work.
/r/MensRights07/07/23 04:33 PM
14

But don't you realise that the boys are lucky to have the chance to sleep with their teachers? /S just in case it wasn't blindingly obvious
/r/MensRights05/07/23 07:34 PM
2

I'm not religious at all, so would it be possible for you to give some examples of homosexual relationships in the bible? Genuinely curious.
/r/MensRights05/07/23 07:32 PM
3

I play a mmo because I like the story. Don't really follow much else about it apart from watching groups of players come up with new and amusing ways to troll each other on the game. Anyway recently a player was accused of sexually assaulting another streamer. No formal charges have been filed, no idea if any police investigation is going to happen, but he is being ripped to shreds by the online community. I made a comment that I thought everyone was supposed to be presumed innocent until proven…
/r/MensRights02/02/23 08:46 PM
5

The werewolf comment had me laughing.10/10.
/r/MensRights28/01/23 11:41 AM
11

But let's be honest what self respecting conscious of their own safety man would actually do that? If a bloke did that I doubt they would actually be alive when the police arrived, because they'd be literally crucified by members of the public and fellow staff members.
/r/MensRights28/01/23 11:40 AM
1

Yep. I put my name on every single petition regarding that. Still pisses me off.
/r/MensRights25/01/23 06:24 PM
51

Remember HR is not your friend. They are not on your side. They are on the companies side, which doesn't want to appear out of touch with the issues women face which is a load of bull. Good luck!
/r/MensRights25/01/23 06:00 PM
4

I live in the UK and I have to say that sadly this ford not surprise me.
/r/MensRights25/01/23 07:38 AM
15

Done that a few times and I got the expected response. I then called them out for their blatant discrimination against men and then got a message from a mod about my comments breaking the rules. I sent back a message of a laughing emoji.
/r/MensRights16/01/23 09:14 PM
19

I really enjoyed the fight scene in the first episode where it showed just clearly how much stronger and quicker a Witcher is than a normal human. It felt so savage and I loved it.
/r/MensRights18/12/22 07:34 AM
4

True, i was deliberately poking the hornets nest as it were. I just wanted to see if anyone else thought similarly to me. Apparently not
/r/MensRights12/10/22 06:38 PM
5

I remember a extra lesson at school, this is going back 16 years now? It was one of those lessons that are supposed to make you think about things that could happen outside of school. This lesson was about abortion. The overwhelming outcome was that it was the woman's choice. I agreed, but pointed out that men should have the option to "abort their rights and responsibilities" along with the financial obligations that came along with having a child. You would not believe the amount of vitriol I …
/r/MensRights12/10/22 04:09 PM
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The fact that it was deleted and you banned should give you the answer about how much society values men. So I guess in a way it served a purpose.
/r/MensRights12/10/22 12:03 PM
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Male. Walking home from town one day and a couple of random women who I have never met or even seen before grabbed my ass and my crotch. When I told them to stop it they said "oh you're a guy, you love it." I am a guy and did not love it.
/r/MensRights08/10/22 08:35 AM
1

Thanks for the corrections, but honestly with the day I am having I honestly don't give a damn.
/r/MensRights23/09/22 11:57 AM
1

I stopped watching after the first couple of episodes because she Hulk was a favourite comic book hero of mine when I was a kid. But yeah I just couldn't believe some of the stuff in the show, like them bringing up how captain America lost his virginity. You know switch it around and it would of been banned and the director producer and writer, along with everyone else involved in the creation of it would of been hunted down in the streets by a mob with pitchforks and flaming torches. Okay maybe…
/r/MensRights23/09/22 06:40 AM
2

Unfortunately not. It's close to where I live and the next one in the same organisation is an hour's drive away. I'm going to start looking elsewhere in the trust to see if there's any other options available. Problem is that management is crap right from the top and the problems roll down hill.
/r/MensRights21/09/22 06:53 PM
2

Honestly? Pretty crap. My bosses have changed the way we do things and have basically pushed it to the point of no return. This affecting not just my department, but every other department in the hospital I work in. There have been numerous complaints and I have been shifted from usual job I do and moved to a different one which I absolutely detest. I have tried to explain to them it's not working and it's just causing everyone more stress and upset and they are failing in the hospitals primary …
/r/MensRights21/09/22 04:55 PM
2

I don't know how anyone can look at the word "discrimination" and think "hmm yes! What a great idea!"
/r/MensRights26/08/22 05:11 PM
3

...right I should of remembered.
/r/MensRights20/08/22 05:02 PM
3

How is she not being penalised for hate speech?
/r/MensRights20/08/22 02:52 PM
4

That the designers of work desks are sexist because they were designed to tall because the men creating them are women haters. Was like "really?"
/r/MensRights20/08/22 07:08 AM
2

I gave up on approaching women for a romantic dating reason. I'm reasonably content with my life. Why would I need a woman to make it better when in all honesty, they'd probably be making it worse.
/r/MensRights20/08/22 07:07 AM
6

And here is the daily does of man hating especially aimed a straight men who aren't "perfect" for women to date. What a shit world we live in.
/r/MensRights20/08/22 07:01 AM
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Just watched the new She Hulk on Disney plus, as she was one of my favourite cartoon characters when I was kid I was really looking forward to it. I didn't dislike the episode as it were, but all of the crap that her cousin Bruce went through is constantly belittled and disregarded, whilst she's saying that she's "completely in control". I went to have a look on the marvel reddit and basically every comment that mentions the same thought as I have, is replied to as "fragile masculinity". Pisses …
/r/MensRights19/08/22 05:47 AM
2

Jesus Christ. Thanks for letting me know. Hope he gets through this, it ain't gonna be easy.
/r/MensRights19/07/22 04:45 PM
1

People in general will always feel more sympathetic to the apparent "victim" and very few will actually try to look past what is presented to them as fact by society and try to dig a bit deeper. In that the majority are what I refer to as sheep, happy to be herded and moved this way and that without actually having to think.
/r/MensRights17/07/22 08:34 AM
1

The thing is the advert is blatantly stating that it's men sending the threats through. I have a female colleague who is football mad, you would not believe some of the stuff that comes out of her mouth regarding the game. I would say she's just as likely to send a death threat as a male football fan. When it comes to stuff like that gender is irrelevant, whoever is the one sending the threats should be found and dealt with according to the law.
/r/MensRights16/07/22 07:33 PM
1

Even if they went to the media it would get no where. It seems to me that unless it's a story about a woman being the victim very few are interested. Sad testament to the world we live in.
/r/MensRights16/07/22 07:31 AM
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I'm filled with sympathy...oh wait no I am not. The women where I work come in to work with skirts, and dresses in the summer, meanwhile I'm there sweltering in black trousers. I asked if I could switch to shorts but apparently that is unprofessional, pointed out the double standards and I basically got told dont be a baby. I give up
/r/MensRights14/07/22 05:37 AM
6

Sad to say that unless he leaves her at some point he's going to become another murder statistic. What an idiot. Someone points a weapon at you, regardless of whether it was loaded or not? Get the fuck out.
/r/MensRights13/07/22 09:17 PM
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I'm 32 and single, have been for the last 14 years. People give me the same look when I say I'm perfectly content with being single. I have had women at work trying to set me up on tinder. Shut that down as soon as I found out about it, despite them saying oh we've found a lovely girl for you to go on a date with. No fucking thank you.
/r/MensRights13/07/22 02:58 PM
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Sexism is everyones problem to deal with. It doesn't matter if it's discrimination against a woman or against a man. Both are completely unacceptable and need to be dealt with. Shoving all the responsibility for on to a single gender is going to cause that gender to feel more isolated and that the rest of the country/world doesn't give a shit, which in turn could lead some of them to more extreme views/groups. Surely it is not that hard to understand right?
/r/MensRights10/07/22 06:10 AM
1

As someone who lives in the UK I can tell you my reaction. He's a twat who is wanting to hold on to power for as long as possible. He needs to go.
/r/MensRights08/07/22 04:33 PM
9

...not to encourage a murder but in that case surely Johnson would be the first target? The fact that he's still alive surely provides compelling evidence that such a crime is not becoming more common.
/r/MensRights08/07/22 04:11 PM
5

They sound like a completely deranged and blind to reality bunch of idiots.
/r/MensRights08/07/22 04:09 PM
1

Don't suppose you can remember the response that garnered?
/r/MensRights06/07/22 08:04 PM
6

Why on earth should he take the hit for a lie that was made up by someone else who kept such an important fact from him? I mean it's quite clear that her family had his contacts details since they were able to message him? Surely one of them should of been able to see that not telling him was the wrong thing to do?
/r/MensRights05/07/22 01:52 PM
2

The problem I have with it, is that in the vast majority of cases where someone is circumcised is that it was done not for health reason, but more a social or religious one, and when they were extremely young and could not give their consent. Bottom line is that someone forcibly removed a part of an individuals body that did not need to be removed. That to me counts as mutilation. If someone wants to be circumcised when they are older and are in full possession of the facts that is their choice,…
/r/MensRights05/07/22 07:19 AM
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And not cause drama amongst the colleagues. That's my other big concern.
/r/MensRights02/07/22 08:03 AM
3

Way I look at it, takes two to tango. If she knew he was married then that makes her just as guilty as him.
/r/MensRights30/06/22 11:01 AM
1

I am honestly surprised that the colleges are allowed to do that. I would of thought it would open them up to a world of lawsuits. I know there have been a few but they seem to be a minority.
/r/MensRights24/06/22 01:50 PM
1

Can the accused say that they won't attend any hearing without their lawyer? What would happen then? Would the hearing still take place without them present?
/r/MensRights24/06/22 05:12 AM
13

It's good to see someone on the side of the victims of false accusations for a change.
/r/MensRights23/06/22 07:49 PM
2

This made me chuckle.
/r/MensRights22/06/22 08:01 PM
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One, fuck them Two, congratulations on losing the weight!
/r/MensRights22/06/22 02:34 AM
7

So sorry for your loss
/r/MensRights19/06/22 01:25 PM
14

First thing I did this morning, phone dad up and tell him thank you for everything you have done for me throughout my life. He responded that's great I'm going back to bed. Love him so much 😂
/r/MensRights19/06/22 01:24 PM
6

The TV adverts for Sheila's wheels pissed me right off. There was one, think it was one of the later ones where a man and a woman are sitting on a couch, and at the end of it the woman pressed a button and the man got ejected backwards off of it. The advert ends with her sitting there looking extremely smug.
/r/MensRights19/06/22 11:05 AM
2

You say the "leader" of the country. Legally that's correct. Morally? He's a lying cheating scumbag who refuses to do the decent thing and step down because of his actions.
/r/MensRights08/06/22 04:57 PM
5

I'm not taking it as shes getting paid more because she's a woman. The part I'm annoyed with is the fact that she is working less hours, for basically more money if you look at the wage per hour. In the article she says that she likes working a four day week because it gives her extra time to spend with her kids. I imagine there a number of men who would love the same chance, but I honestly don't see it happening.
/r/MensRights08/06/22 04:37 PM
37

Sounds like the teacher doesn't actually have much knowledge. If the boy is making a skull, it's not going to have a nose because the nose is cartilage not bone. Bit strange the teacher doesn't seem to understand that.
/r/MensRights04/06/22 07:44 AM
1

Not really a fan of mustard, think I'd replace it with mayo or salad cream.
/r/MensRights03/06/22 07:09 AM
11

On to the important question now, since I don't really want to give that abusivet vile woman anymore of my brain power. What type of sandwich are we talking here?
/r/MensRights02/06/22 02:48 PM
5

I seriously hope that this verdict makes the producers of aquaman 2 reconsider her in the movie. But bottom line I'm so glad that Depp won this. He bloody well deserved it. Her lawyers have accused him of playing around whilst waiting for th verdict, but personally I think that he's just trying to get on with his life, ignore the fact that he could of lost this case to by focusing on something that he enjoys.
/r/MensRights01/06/22 08:44 PM
1

Sounds like one epic kid. Like father like son huh? Hope you both have an amazing time!
/r/MensRights29/05/22 05:45 PM
3

By saying that men's right advocates are on the same level as extremists is basically proving that toxic femininity does exist though?
/r/MensRights29/05/22 04:45 PM
3

You sound like an epic dad. Your son is one lucky kid, and I really hope that he has an awesome time at the gig!
/r/MensRights28/05/22 10:25 PM
4

Your dad sounds like an absolute legend. I've started communicating with my dad more, which is sometimes a bit of a challenge because we have a slightly rocky relationship sometimes, but bottom line is he's my dad and I love him.
/r/MensRights28/05/22 07:42 AM
5

Yeah I'm alright, had this week off from work, which is both a plus and minus. Yay! Don't have to go to work. Oh, more time for my messed up brain to run a PowerPoint presentation of regrets, embarrassing moments, and memories that make me feel all together shit.
/r/MensRights27/05/22 02:29 PM
2

The only good thing I'm taking from this is on the UK Amazon the reviews are basically all disgusted people demanding that Amazon take the book down.
/r/MensRights27/05/22 02:27 PM
3

It's this type of hate that makes me concerned about the result of the Depp Vs Heard trial. What will it say to women if he loses and she wins? And what will it say to the thousands of men across the globe who have been suffering from abuse? That they don't matter. I'm hoping that he wins, but I'm pessimistic enough to think that based on society there is a significant chance that he won't.
/r/MensRights24/05/22 06:41 AM
79

I find it hysterical that they try to add in to the mix "lower class men" Uhh no it doesn't help them. It usually ends up with them being the one who gets screwed over if they are involved in anything like that.
/r/MensRights23/05/22 07:22 AM
3

Not a lot. You cannot have pirates of the Caribbean without Johnny Depp as Captain Jack Sparrow. It just won't work. The fantastic beasts is a tricky one in my opinion because personally the image I had of Grindelwald was of a completely different appearance. And there's also the additional fact of the negative image of JK Rowling at the moment so it would trickier to say the it would only be because Johnny Depp wasn't in it if it tanks.
/r/MensRights21/05/22 06:34 PM
3

Thanks I appreciate the words of support. Doesn't help that I suffer from a chronic lack of self confidence but I'm working on that to One day at a time is my motto at the moment.
/r/MensRights21/05/22 05:38 PM
93

If I go to a protest about men's rights I will most likely lose my job. I need my job to pay for food, rent, bills, and also it helps maintain my mental health by giving me something outside of the house to focus on ( I'm a bit of an introvert, slowly trying to get out a bit more but it's tough).
/r/MensRights21/05/22 03:38 PM
2

It does answer my question, yes. I'm sorry you had to go through all of that. Best of luck in the future.
/r/MensRights16/05/22 09:38 PM
5

Just out of curiousity, and I am certainly not judging you, but may I ask why you didn't try to put your view across when the issue was first raised?
/r/MensRights16/05/22 05:12 AM
37

Apparently there was a male crew member who survived can't remember his name, and he went back home to see his mother. His mother was so ashamed of him as he had survived she slammed the door shut in his face and never spoke to him again. Charming world isn't it?
/r/MensRights15/05/22 08:57 AM
3

For some reason I heard this in Yoda's voice.
/r/MensRights15/05/22 08:14 AM
28

To be honest I would of thought the break free and run principle would be a good thing for everyone to learn. The longer a person is in any sort of fighting the more chance of being potentially hurt.
/r/MensRights14/05/22 05:38 PM
16

This is so wrong, on every conceivable level. That poor man. The fact that none of the authorities made actual genuine efforts to either understand the situation, or listen to the father is disgusting. I hope those boys realise that their father never gave up on them.
/r/MensRights14/05/22 09:19 AM
1

May I ask, how hard was it to shave it all off? I mean when I think about it I know I'm resigned to it as an eventuality but it still makes me quite anxious.
/r/MensRights12/05/22 09:27 PM
2

I get where you are coming from. I have had to toughen up because of it. But the worst part is when I look at myself in the mirror and I see the rather noticeable (at least to me) bald spot at the top of my head. Thinning hair that only seems to make it more obvious. I have actually started thinking is it worth just biting the bullet and shaving it all off.
/r/MensRights12/05/22 06:57 PM
9

I'm in my early thirties and I am losing my hair. It's destroying my self confidence and I get quite ticked off by people who make a joke of it.
/r/MensRights12/05/22 04:06 PM
6

One of the main things I like about this sub is that, unless you're being an absolute troll, you can have a completely different opinion than other people and yet you don't get shouted down. It's refreshing to have that courtesy and respect from others on here.
/r/MensRights11/05/22 06:32 AM
13

It's so wrong and it sets up an attitude in society which can only be a detriment to the development of the entire population as a whole.
/r/MensRights07/05/22 06:08 PM
26

I got in trouble at work (work in a hospital) because when I was doing my yearly renewal of the training. This includes the safeguarding for adults and children. I noticed that despite the fact that they do make it clear that anyone can be an abuser and anyone can be abused, both videos that are shown show a woman and a girl bring abused by a man. I felt that this wasn't very helpful as it needed both sides being shown, with both men and women being the victim and the abuser. I mentioned this to…
/r/MensRights07/05/22 12:58 PM
2

I have suffered from depression on and off throughout my life since I was thirteen. I am now thirty two years old. The number of times I have got told to "man up" and "get over it" are a extremely high number.
/r/MensRights05/05/22 04:33 PM
3

Sounds like you have a solid dad.
/r/MensRights28/04/22 05:57 PM
4

Honestly can't understand why people see her as hot. I mean I know everyone has different tastes and all but to me she looks ...not ugly but distinctly unattractive.
/r/MensRights28/04/22 04:40 PM
8

If I'm being completely honest I'm not sure I would of just been able to let it go with just not speaking to him. You have a much greater level of self control than I do. Hope you're doing much better now.
/r/MensRights27/04/22 08:28 PM
23

Some friend. Hope you dropped him like a rock as well.
/r/MensRights27/04/22 04:29 PM
2

If she's a cabinet does that mean you can take her to a scrapyard and Chuck her?
/r/MensRights23/04/22 12:07 PM
15

...how exactly could they not help? I mean surely it's part of their job?
/r/MensRights22/04/22 04:17 PM
5

...why would anyone in their right mind want her to jump in bed with them? I mean clearly she is completely nuts.
/r/MensRights21/04/22 09:20 PM
1

I certainly hope so. From what I have seen and read it's a messed up situation that he was in.
/r/MensRights20/04/22 08:30 PM
108

Anyone willing to place a bet that she will get any sort of meaningful punishment? Any takers?
/r/MensRights16/04/22 07:45 PM
12

My mum works in a school in the UK as a cleaner. She always knocks on both the girls and the boys toilet main doors and shouts out "this is the cleaner, is anyone in there as I am about to begin cleaning", she puts up obvious signs to say cleaning is in progress, and if someone barges in requests politely they use another facility. If they ignore her she then steps outside of the toilet and waits till they come out, then reports them to their head of year once the individual has been identified.
/r/MensRights11/04/22 04:40 PM
15

...So if I treat a woman like crap in my private life and courteously in my public life that's okay? Good to know. /S
/r/MensRights11/04/22 04:34 PM
2

Hey was worth a shot.
/r/MensRights09/04/22 07:14 PM
14

I wil admit it did annoy me when you saw on the news people going "hundreds have turned out to remember her" Did they all know her? No? How can they remember her then? Was her death a tragedy? Of course it was. No one should have their life taken from them. No family should have to go through what her family did. But at the same time I wonder how many men were killed during the months when her name was mainstream news?
/r/MensRights09/04/22 06:09 PM
6

I'm impressed with the parents restraint. If that has been me I would of been hard pressed to keep a cool head.
/r/MensRights09/04/22 07:21 AM
7

Just out of curiousity, did you buy one?
/r/MensRights09/04/22 07:10 AM
8

To be honest whilst you say you might not be the best person to go into it, just knowing that someone else is out there who gets where you are coming from and understands what your feeling, it can make a world of difference. Don't sell yourself short.
/r/MensRights04/04/22 09:08 PM
3

Because of the imperial days of countries like the UK France and Germany when they all had very large empires it's an easy target. In a way I suppose it is the same kind of thing when they say "all men are potential rapists". Such statements require next to no thinking and they have immediately identified the "bad side" which must mean they are the "good side". Actually putting some time into this and thinking things through in a rational manner may be far to much effort for people who only want…
/r/MensRights02/04/22 05:27 PM
2

A work colleague of mine thinks there's something wrong with me because I don't really have any urge to get into a relationship with a woman. I'm not gay or bisexual, not that there is anything wrong with either of those, but I just have no desire to be in a relationship. People are different, there is nothing wrong with someone who wants to be happily married or in a stable relationship. Similarly there is nothing wrong with the opposite. Do what works for you. Not anyone else.
/r/MensRights02/04/22 12:25 PM
16

The things that got me were that there's a "garden variety homophobia". You don't make such sweeping generalisations about a group of people based on a single trait, in this case the male gender. It is so dumb and so short sighted.
/r/MensRights02/04/22 12:11 PM
3

I don't have any more ideas other than what's been suggested, however it would be interesting to see what it looks like when you have done it. Would it be possible for you to post an update? Best of luck!
/r/MensRights01/04/22 06:15 AM
3

If there was issues then he and his wife should of perhaps spoken to the comedian after the ceremony and requested an apology, or gone through the official channels. Violence is never acceptable except in the course of self defense or defense of another (obviously meaning a physical threat to their safety).
/r/MensRights30/03/22 05:38 PM
2

Yeah I know it's not tied to my worth, all I'm saying is that I can see how someone might view it as an offensive comment. It's all about individualism. I might laugh at something that you find offensive and vice versa. Does that mean you or I have a wrong perspective? No it means we are different, which is perfectly fine. Also I think that having a joke like that said in a private setting opposed to a setting which has a large number of people in and thousands more watching is a significantly d…
/r/MensRights29/03/22 09:30 AM
-15

I don't know that I would call it an inoffensive joke. As someone who is in their thirties and has started losing their hair it is confidence crushing and when people mention it to me even in a polite way, it really stings. Now don't get me wrong that doesn't excuse the physical attack, not by a long shot. But I can certainly see why it might have hit a nerve.
/r/MensRights29/03/22 05:38 AM
1

Seriously banned for posting something? How pathetically petty and immature are the mods over there? "Oh no! Someone I don't know and have likely never laid eyes on has said something that I do not agree with and posted it in a place I do no visit! Whatever shall I do?"
/r/MensRights22/03/22 05:43 PM
3

Are you trying to apply logic to this situation? Because based on the description of events that have occurred I very much doubt rational thought would get you very far.
/r/MensRights21/03/22 01:55 PM
3

I'm not disagreeing with any of the points you made but remember bottom line is he's the one who has to make that decision and live with the consequences which could be a dragged out court case. If he files charges, no doubt she would then file sexual harassment against him which would tie up any judiciary process that comes of it.
/r/MensRights21/03/22 11:11 AM
9

There is. Top right hand corner where the little cog for "settings" tape that and report is in there.
/r/MensRights17/03/22 10:31 AM
15

I can't tell if you're being sarcastic or not based on the fact that Netflix is ridiculously sexist.
/r/MensRights15/03/22 06:27 PM
0

Got in trouble at work because I changed the background of my computer screen to plain black because one the IT department had changed it to a god awful purple colour (hate purple) and two they had put up comments about it being international women's Day and to #breakthebias bullshit. Apparently I was being misogynistic. I queried why they hadn't out anything up for international men's day on the 19th of November and they were dead silent. I went on to mention I found it quite discriminatory if …
/r/MensRights08/03/22 07:41 AM
1

I feel terrible that this happening and that there isn't a damn thing that can be done to realistically stop it right now. Have had to switch off from the news because otherwise my head gets totally messed up.
/r/MensRights06/03/22 08:33 PM
11

I saw Michael j Fox at a garden centre one time. He had his back to the fuchsias. Saw him there another time driving in a Porsche. I asked him "where's your delorian?" He responded with" I only drive it from time to time" (Sorry saw a opportunity to make a bad joke and I took it)
/r/MensRights06/03/22 07:50 AM
1

You are one strong individual to have lived with this. I wish you all the best in your life. Stay strong, you will get there.
/r/MensRights04/03/22 06:48 PM
1

What a horrible individual.
/r/MensRights04/03/22 06:46 PM
263

The problem I have is when you try and point out the issue, you either get a "woman hater! You want women to die!?" Bullshit stuff. Or you get the "don't you think that there's more important stuff to worry about now?"
/r/MensRights02/03/22 05:53 PM
9

So male patients react poorly to being told by feminist therapists that it's men's fault for basically everything. Jeez who'da thunk
/r/MensRights28/02/22 05:32 PM
1

So by that same logic the same could be said about femaleness.
/r/MensRights26/02/22 08:39 PM
2

I saw this earlier and it pissed me off. Doesn't surprise me though I saw a video earlier about self defense classes for women for wartime footing. No mention of the same for men. This is clearly brought how society view men.
/r/MensRights25/02/22 05:43 PM
78

When my nephew was young I took him to a park where he went on the swings. He loved it, but of course there were other kids who wanted a go, so after him refusing to get off the swings several times and then throwing a tantrum I picked him up and walked over to a bench to calm him down and let the other kids play. Some police came soon after as a woman had reported a man acting in a suspicious manner with a young child. It too me ages to actually resolve the solution and my nephew was in floods …
/r/MensRights23/02/22 05:23 PM
17

The mod seems extremely aggressive and rude.
/r/MensRights21/02/22 07:55 PM
12

Regardless of how they reacted, you spoke up and stated facts in a polite and respectful manner. That is something to be proud of. Damn good work.
/r/MensRights19/02/22 08:22 AM
2

What about blokes who get lied to about their partners being on the pill and then get slapped with a child support bill for a kid they didn't expect or feel like they wanted?
/r/MensRights18/02/22 07:12 AM
8

I hope he recovers and seeks help to process this. I find it disgusting that it took them months to respond to this even though it was reported straight after the attack.
/r/MensRights18/02/22 07:08 AM
0

At least she was fired.
/r/MensRights18/02/22 06:45 AM
1

Think the cars were maybe a year apart in age and the mileage was maybe 5000 difference between them
/r/MensRights16/02/22 05:20 PM
1

Around about 2012?
/r/MensRights16/02/22 05:19 PM
1

In the UK they do. When I started driving my insurance was £1300 a year. A friend of mine the same age who was driving for maybe a month longer? I think, had a quote of £800. Apparently young men are statistically more likely to get in accidents and stuff like that. No idea if it's true but that is what the insurance company said when I queried it.
/r/MensRights16/02/22 07:09 AM
4

...they seem to be ignoring the fact that if these potential individuals don't do any criminal activities this wouldn't be a problem.
/r/MensRights16/02/22 07:04 AM
11

See I usually do this, unless the train or bus I am currently on I'd getting crowded and then I remove the item to my lap. If I am on the other side of the situation, i.e. the person who wants a seat I would politely say to the individual "excuse me, would you mind moving your bag so I can sit down?" Only had one person in the entire time I have used public transport kick off about that.
/r/MensRights13/02/22 10:54 AM
1

Fair enough.
/r/MensRights11/02/22 10:42 PM
1

From the title I honestly thought it was a twisted screwed up song
/r/MensRights11/02/22 06:34 PM
4

...who the hell writes a song titled "Rape Me" in the first place?
/r/MensRights10/02/22 08:18 PM
6

Also did you know that whilst the women were strangled before being burnt at the stake for treason, men where subjected to being hung drawn and quartered and never offered an escape from that horrific experience. The only reason I could find for this was to protect public modesty apparently. So it was apparently alright to have a man stripped naked and have his genitals removed in public, but heavens forbid a woman exposing her body in the public eye even if she was guilty of committing treason.
/r/MensRights10/02/22 06:42 AM
7

I think the answer is fairly obvious.
/r/MensRights09/02/22 08:30 PM
11

..and clearly the metaphorical is lost on you as well, unless you are attempting to be deliberately obtuse.
/r/MensRights09/02/22 08:14 PM
18

Glad you see yourself in the mirror. I hope you use it as a wake up call that manners, respect and empathy cost nothing.
/r/MensRights09/02/22 08:00 PM
24

Cowards are people who sit behind a keyboard and type tough words on the internet to a faceless person to make themselves feel better about themselves.
/r/MensRights09/02/22 07:36 PM
91

Hardly a supportive or empathetic comment is it?
/r/MensRights09/02/22 06:06 PM
10

See it's good to have this sought of banter in social situation. Have a laugh have a joke, a little humour makes things so much better in the majority of situations in my opinion.
/r/MensRights08/02/22 08:14 PM
7

It's a disgrace that you have to rely on her fucking up to prove to the courts that you are the good parent.
/r/MensRights08/02/22 08:11 PM
2

Regardless of how they react, congratulations on your marriage and I wish you both the best of luck going forward.
/r/MensRights06/02/22 01:29 PM
2

Partly. Also partly because the individual I posted the question to is notorious for being a troll, so was curious how they would react.
/r/MensRights05/02/22 03:42 PM
3

It's extremely sad and depressing that just because you want to break up and move out that this sort of thing is now necessary. Says a lot about the state of the world we live in today
/r/MensRights05/02/22 01:17 PM
8

Just out of curiousity would you say the same thing about a man who was referred to as obese?
/r/MensRights05/02/22 01:12 PM
3

I just remember being sad that the incident happened, especially by a serving member of the police, followed by absolute fury that things like "a curfew for men" were actually being discussed on the news in spite of its ridiculous notion.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 07:10 AM
1

My personal opinion about stuff like this is people can dress look and act like they want as long as it is in legal fashion (not committing any crimes etc) other than that have a blast.
/r/MensRights23/01/22 03:30 PM
1

What did I just read? I think I lost brain cells just trying to understand what she was on about it.
/r/MensRights20/01/22 05:27 PM
3

Wouldn't put a number on it but I will say I believe a high percentage. Also I think that society has put it out their that men can't be raped, can't be sexually assaulted by women, they must of enjoyed it etc. Basically victim blaming, that a lot of people don't even realise that it happened to them.
/r/MensRights16/01/22 08:06 AM
5

...so there is literal scientific irrefutable evidence that the child is not his and it's being completely ignored? Also they said that he should of fought it, but the evidence suggests that he never actually knew about it? What the actual hell?
/r/MensRights15/01/22 05:43 PM
1

That is disgusting and a blatant abuse of power. She should be removed from that position immediately if she thinks it's alright for anyone to tell an elderly cancer patient that he ought to go to jail for something he was physically nearly unable to do.
/r/MensRights14/01/22 05:42 PM
2

Interesting but I note that they still only mentioned that the attitudes they were discussing are "starting to hurt women" They mentioned nothing that I could see about the damage that such attitudes could inflict on men and boys.
/r/MensRights04/01/22 04:30 PM
2

It's good this is coming to light more and more in the public eye, and I hope that it continues to become more acknowledged throughout society.
/r/MensRights03/01/22 07:38 PM
2

So are they gonna start counting the deaths of men caused by women as a separate thing as well?
/r/MensRights01/01/22 12:13 PM
1

How exactly was it "involuntary" when she literally told him to go kill himself and go die? Seems fairly voluntary to me.
/r/MensRights24/12/21 05:22 PM
12

I actually watched the episode of the big bang theory that you are talking about recently. I did think it was quite offensive especially when she said that she was going to put her business card in his back pocket apparently groping his butt at the same time and that was completely fine. Double standards suck so much.
/r/MensRights17/12/21 06:18 PM
1

Good luck dude. Sending all the best wishes I can!
/r/MensRights17/12/21 05:36 PM
1

I'm so glad I wasn't the only one going wtf? At that.
/r/MensRights06/12/21 04:42 PM
7

I want the problems men face take seriously, and real underlying issues looked at. I don't want them brushed off and blamed on "the patriarchy" or "toxic masculinity".
/r/MensRights03/12/21 03:17 PM
1

I wish you the best of luck. Truly I do. Unfortunately I work for the NHS in the UK and despite the fact that they have a 45 minute video presentation on the fact that anyone can be an abuser and anyone can be a victim of domestic violence, when I queried why the only example video clip they showed was of a male abuser and a woman victim I was basically shut down, despite the fact that I suggested perhaps adding in a video clip of a man being abused by a woman.
/r/MensRights22/11/21 10:12 PM
6

Called me a pessimist but I would wait til next 19th November and see if it happens before celebrating. I don't have much faith in organisations doing the right thing unless it benefits them. And I can see this having potential to have a lot of push back and bad publicity.
/r/MensRights22/11/21 05:49 PM
2

I find it laughable that she says about the fear of women. At the moment I would say men have more reason to fear women than at any other point in history, to my knowledge. You have false rape accusations, the ability to have your career ripped apart by a single complaint (whether legitimate or not), divorce where you get taken to the cleaners and end up with nothing, paternity fraud, family court prejudice, inability to see your kids. All of this boils down to a woman/women holding the power ov…
/r/MensRights17/11/21 07:45 AM
1

I thought this is was common knowledge. Social media can screw anyone up, regardless of whether you are a male or female.
/r/MensRights15/11/21 06:01 PM
2

Out of curiosity does that still apply if someone is feeling threatened? For instance if someone is shouting at you threatening you with bodily harm and all horrible stuff like that? I don't live in the US so I'm genuinely curious about this.
/r/MensRights06/11/21 08:06 PM
11

I'm impressed that the topic was even accepted. Good for you!
/r/MensRights04/11/21 06:58 AM
2

I don't care what gender the author is or identifies as. Is the book good? Yes! Sweet Where's the next one? No! Right sorry putting it in the resell pile.
/r/MensRights27/10/21 04:44 PM
2

I honestly don't know what I believe. I think that the idea of organised religion is dumb. We are all different so why would what we believe be the same?
/r/MensRights27/10/21 04:42 PM
4

So proud of you dude. I know I'm just a random stranger of the Internet but well done!
/r/MensRights22/10/21 04:58 PM
24

I got my butt groped by a random woman in the street followed by her yelling "nice ass!" when I was in my early twenties. So yes. There are some women who do so, just as some men do so. It's not a gender thing, it's an individual thing.
/r/MensRights22/10/21 04:56 PM
1

... Uhh what?
/r/MensRights20/10/21 05:30 AM
2

Agreed. Just because other people lower the tone, doesn't mean that you need to join them.
/r/MensRights18/10/21 04:36 PM
1

Ava max with King's and Queens. It basically says that if kings have their queen's on their throne there wouldn't be any conflict, and people would be happy etc blah blah blah.
/r/MensRights18/10/21 06:01 AM
6

You may be joking, but I hardly feel like that is one going to be helpful and two appropriate.
/r/MensRights18/10/21 05:57 AM
11

The thing I feel that she is overlooking, and society at large is that it's easy to turn to anger and hate and lash out at people when you are facing real problems and no one gives a damn. In fact they will blame men, in general, and you specifically for contributing to the problems you have to deal with. If people accepted that men face problems, that men often need help and support just like women do, I feel that alot of these "haters" on social media would not be so hateful.
/r/MensRights18/10/21 05:55 AM
6

More like a kids cartoon series from the 80s.
/r/MensRights16/10/21 08:09 AM
1

Agreed I got more serious stuff in life to worry over.
/r/MensRights10/10/21 02:16 PM
3

I did ask her, and she said that reading fantasy/sci fi books was a complete waste of time as it doesn't inspire people to actually contribute to the world, and that it's no wonder I didn't have a girlfriend. I'm assuming that she thought that because of course no self respecting woman would ever date a man who enjoys fantasy novels. I ignored her. Ain't worth my time responding to such garbage.
/r/MensRights10/10/21 01:17 PM
3

I agree. Just because the other people are being unpleasant and rude is no reason for you to stoop to the same level,as tempting as it might be sometimes.
/r/MensRights09/10/21 06:56 PM
15

Told a few colleagues what I have had said to me by random strangers in the street who have nothing to do with me. "such a chauvinistic pig" for simply holding a door open for a group of teen girls. "nice arse" after getting said arse pinched by a random woman in the street. "what do you actually contribute to this world" said by a woman in a book shop when I was browsing through the fantasy/sci-fi section. "man up, your pathetic" after getting my foot squashed by a box by a former work colleagu…
/r/MensRights09/10/21 07:57 AM
2

Did the teachers get disciplined or fired?
/r/MensRights07/10/21 05:11 PM
3

I live in the UK. If I went and protested I would lose my job and the reasons they would give for my dismissal would be something along the lines of "inciting hate speech". It wouldn't be true but when does that matter these days? I need my job to live, to pay hills and buy food etc. I cannot afford to lose it. That is why I don't go out and protest.
/r/MensRights06/10/21 04:13 PM
1

Kind of a misleading title really?
/r/MensRights05/10/21 05:24 PM
15

The feeling of uselessness because I'm in a low paying job, no higher education to speak of, no clue what I want from life and seeing no way out.
/r/MensRights04/10/21 08:29 PM
11

Never understood what they actually mean when they say "potential medical health benefits". I mean they are mutilating a infants body. What benefit could that possibly bring?
/r/MensRights03/10/21 08:56 PM
1

Man this hits hard.
/r/MensRights02/10/21 06:39 PM
3

Well this made up my mind. Was ambivalent about seeing it. Now just not gonna bother.
/r/MensRights02/10/21 07:59 AM
6

As someone who works for the NHS, I can't speak to the actual money side of things, but all I can say is that the management wastes what money is given, and puts new managers in positions that don't actually need managers. I think in the trust that I work in at least two departments have more managers than actual workers. You want to fix the NHS? Deal with the absolute crap that is the management system there.
/r/MensRights28/09/21 07:55 PM
3

Idiot panic buying of fuel?
/r/MensRights28/09/21 07:53 PM
9

The only thing I have trouble controlling is my smart ass mouth some idiot makes a comment that's so laughably dumb.
/r/MensRights25/09/21 06:21 PM
5

It says that they hope the film resonates with the daughters and sons who want their fathers in their life's. That's all well and good, but the what I hope is it resonates with judges who do horrible stuff like this. It probably won't, but I can hope.
/r/MensRights25/09/21 07:20 AM
5

That would be fantastic!
/r/MensRights24/09/21 04:05 PM
1

My mistake. In my defence when I typed this it was early morning and I am not a morning person.
/r/MensRights23/09/21 09:03 PM
43

Would love to see that for the laugh. Just imagine him trying to put on a glass shoe.
/r/MensRights23/09/21 08:19 PM
19

I find it disgraceful that his career has been damaged, potentially extremely badly, whilst his ex has continued on without gaining a single blemish. He is a brilliant actor, and he makes the roles "his" which is why I don't think any pirate of the caribbean or fantastic beasts film that doesn't have him in there will be any good what so ever.
/r/MensRights23/09/21 05:49 AM
-3

I can see both sides. If they have a trusting relationship then he should of accepted her word that it wasn't her test, but on the flip side don't see why she couldn't tell him that it was a friend's who wanted to keep it quiet. She didn't have to name names and point fingers but if she had given him a bit more of a reasonable explanation this whole thing could of been avoided.
/r/MensRights21/09/21 02:35 AM
6

The problem with security systems like this is usually that it is only held for a certain length of time. In my old job that was three months. If someone outside the company wished to view the cctv footage they would have to submit a request via the official methods which can take time. Ofc in that job as soon as a request was made the footage of the event I suppose you could call it was saved on to a separate system and a copy of it sent offsite for backup in case of fire, system corruption etc…
/r/MensRights17/09/21 06:01 AM
1

I was under the impression that the reason for termination had to be provided to the employee who was being fired? Would it be possible to get that information and go from there?
/r/MensRights17/09/21 05:56 AM
2

Not going to ask any questions. All I will say is that it's disgraceful and to wish you the best of luck!
/r/MensRights17/09/21 05:54 AM
10

I haven't had sex in years, does that make me an incel? Quite frankly I don't give a damn about it or not, I just haven't met a woman I have liked enough for it.
/r/MensRights16/09/21 06:16 PM
2

We get compliments? Huh. News to me.
/r/MensRights14/09/21 04:32 PM
20

They can certainly be cold blooded sometimes
/r/MensRights14/09/21 06:10 AM
1

Expulsion for definite. It's not a case of boys vs girls here, it's a fact that behaviour like this is unacceptable for anyone to do or receive.
/r/MensRights12/09/21 04:15 PM
9

If I'm being honest that's a very jaded and sad viewpoint.
/r/MensRights09/09/21 02:44 PM
62

Double standards and utter bullshit.
/r/MensRights08/09/21 10:23 PM
2

The comments supporting her seem to be missing quite a key component in my opinion. The part that really gets me is the fact that they have been living together for a year and she hasn't told him. That is massive warning flag.
/r/MensRights08/09/21 10:22 PM
2

The way I look at it, is people are stupid. Every time you think that they can't do things any dumber than they have, they do. Individuals can learn. People as a group, can not.
/r/MensRights07/09/21 09:12 AM
14

Honestly I don't know if I can feel things anymore. I remember being able to feel emotions quite well as a child, but as I grew older and got through the teen years (which were extremely stressful, thank you hormones) my emotions became, I don't know, blunted? And then eventually I am unsure if I am feeling anything. I just empty inside. No idea if there's something wrong with me or how to fix it if there is.
/r/MensRights02/09/21 05:47 AM
6

I think the fact that this is place for men to talk and get support, even if it's someone who they don't know, about problems they face, the upset they go through the feelings of not being valued by friends/family makes it very vital.
/r/MensRights01/09/21 06:50 PM
1

Yeah. I honestly can't understand why people cannot see this. It seems so obvious to me.
/r/MensRights30/08/21 09:48 AM
2

I see. Either way it's disgusting that situations like this are becoming "normal"
/r/MensRights30/08/21 09:12 AM
2

Spoken to a lawyer who said this was a normal thing. Umm what? Why the hell is it viewed as normal?
/r/MensRights30/08/21 06:34 AM
8

Just because I'm walking behind you doesn't mean I'm looking for an opportunity to attack you. It just means I'm going the same way as you, probably with my headphones in!
/r/MensRights28/08/21 04:08 PM
2

Never heard of that term before? May I ask what it is supposed to mean?
/r/MensRights26/08/21 05:43 AM
2

Voted but I doubt anything will ever change. Hasn't the last 3 times this petition has happened.
/r/MensRights23/08/21 05:42 AM
1

It could potentially be one. A lot of people come here to talk and vent because they feel like they don't have anywhere else to go. That anyone who they talk to is going to be disbelieving then straight up. If they come out here and pour their troubles out and then see its been classed as "unconfirmed" it's going to be sending them a clear message that they aren't being believed or supported.
/r/MensRights21/08/21 07:30 AM
5

Perhaps but it's everyone's personal choices,and whether we think they are right or wrong, we have to respect that.
/r/MensRights21/08/21 07:24 AM
13

So let's reverse the situation. 6ft Woman suffers from ptsd from previous employment and is told she is not being flexible enough. Her boss, a 5ft 4 man calls her into the office. She feels uncomfortable and wants to leave. He puts his foot in the door to prevent her leaving. Yeah.. Gross misconduct right there.
/r/MensRights21/08/21 07:22 AM
19

I doubt I will ever understand people who think that mutilation of a child is the correct and proper thing to do.
/r/MensRights19/08/21 05:45 AM
1

I'm impressed you managed to get a ps5 considering the shortage. Good for you! Have a blast!
/r/MensRights18/08/21 05:04 PM
1

As someone who works in a hospital department which doesn't have air conditioning I can say I don't feel liberated.
/r/MensRights14/08/21 11:57 AM
7

No it wasn't about making the other sub look bad. It was pointing out that the double standard exists. Should women be vilified? Of course not. Should men be vilified? Of course not. Here people are allowed to express opinions, whether they controversial or not, and not get banned. I myself have had discussions with other people here that have become heated, and yet we have all gone our separate ways with no bitter feelings. Try the same thing on some of feminist subs or the femaledating one and…
/r/MensRights14/08/21 07:22 AM
1

That's an interesting point of view that I hadn't actually considered. Thank you for bringing that up.
/r/MensRights26/07/21 05:33 PM
177

I just don't get how people cannot see the hypocrisy of "drafting women is wrong, but drafting men is okay!" I mean it's literally written out in plain simple easy to understand English.
/r/MensRights25/07/21 08:55 PM
2

Yep, but why apply logic and rational thought to this kind of stuff. After all such decisions were made by the people in charge who are of course so much better than us!
/r/MensRights24/07/21 07:01 AM
4

Yep even more reason to delay the games.
/r/MensRights24/07/21 02:43 AM
24

I think that the idea to hold the Olympics when we are still in a global pandemic is one of the Dumbest fucking things that I have seen in the last year, and that includes people panic buying.
/r/MensRights23/07/21 08:51 PM
6

I think i just thew up in my mouth. Disgusting doesn't even begin to cover what I'm feeling.
/r/MensRights23/07/21 04:16 PM
1

I like this. It made me chuckle before going to work. Thanks!
/r/MensRights23/07/21 05:47 AM
14

Did not know that about the female nipples. Guess you learn something new every day.
/r/MensRights21/07/21 06:11 AM
15

Yeah this was the most awkward thing ever in secondary school. Just sitting down getting on with school work, not thinking about anything but this annoying trigonometry problem (which I have never ever used in my life outside of school despite the teacher saying "oh it will really help you" HA) and then all of a sudden boom. Just prayed that it would get back to normal before the bell rang and had to stand up to go to the next class.
/r/MensRights21/07/21 06:10 AM
56

Not really, it's trying to get people to look at a problem/situation from another perspective which can open someone's mind to an alternative answer. Not sure how that can be classed as a "bad thing"
/r/MensRights21/07/21 06:07 AM
1

It makes me wonder, do these blokes have any idea what is going to happen to them? Because if they do and they go along with it that's even more fucked up.
/r/MensRights14/07/21 08:48 PM
1

Implying that there is actually any justice.
/r/MensRights14/07/21 05:46 PM
8

Despite at least I think two or possibly three petitions that I have seen posted on this website in the last year.
/r/MensRights14/07/21 05:47 AM
2

Got to admit I laughed at the comment that said "men have access to the same outlets as women for anger" Really? Could of fooled me.
/r/MensRights07/07/21 04:21 PM
2

I think to be honest it's not a gender thing, it's a people thing. My sister in law was so lazy (haven't spoken to her for two years) my brother came home after a long day working and cooked cleaned up and put the kids to bed. On the other hand a coworker daughter had a traumatic birth and her partner hasn't done anything to help her. So bottom line is it doesn't matter what gender you arr/identify as, don't be a twat.
/r/MensRights05/07/21 06:36 AM
33

Not trying to judge you or anything, but may I ask whether you tried to let him know? Sorry if that came across as offensive, just genuinely curious.
/r/MensRights01/07/21 10:57 PM
3

... Why are people "liking" this utter disgusting garbage?
/r/MensRights01/07/21 10:55 PM
5

Doesn't matter how "fragile" someone is. No one should be allowed to hit someone else for anything other than self defense. Obviously exceptions exist to that rule like sports such as boxing and MMA etc. But other than those? Nope.
/r/MensRights01/07/21 06:04 AM
8

Personally I feel that men are seen as more violent because of the media reporting on the fact. Women abusers are rarely put forward in the news about the harm they have done to their partners.
/r/MensRights27/06/21 07:47 PM
5

It wasn't a personal issue though from my understanding. He was the minister for health. We ar currently still in a global pandemic (hopefully on the way out of it but still). The government that he was part of implemented rules in order to keep people safe as best as they could, based on scientific information and evidence. He broke those rules willingly. As a member of that government, and ESPECIALLY as he was in charge of the health care for the country, he should of followed those rules even…
/r/MensRights27/06/21 06:18 PM
36

Either way short reign. May have to do some research.
/r/MensRights23/06/21 08:32 PM
188

Didnt expect anything different tbh. Also didn't know about Louis xix reign. 16 hours? Interesting
/r/MensRights23/06/21 07:41 PM
2

That's fair enough. It's hard to stand your ground, especially when the consequences could potentially be life altering (ie. Losing a job/house/family etc). Sometimes as much as you might want to let rip at someone, the best thing is to keep your head down and get on with the job. Would suggest keeping a note of who mentioned it and at what date the meeting was. Might come in handy later on, who knows?
/r/MensRights21/06/21 05:11 PM
14

Should of responded with "no matter what a man does, it doesn't give a woman the right to strike a man"
/r/MensRights19/06/21 07:25 PM
1

It's not a competition.
/r/MensRights19/06/21 09:30 AM
11

That is horrible, and I am wishing you all the very best of luck! I hope that by venting here you will gain at least a little bit of peace.
/r/MensRights19/06/21 06:47 AM
7

Bottom line is life sucks. For everyone.
/r/MensRights17/06/21 09:36 PM
6

So does Peter Griffin.
/r/MensRights17/06/21 04:07 PM
7

Yeah it's a real shame because the actors and the chemistry between them are really good.
/r/MensRights16/06/21 06:19 PM
33

I recall watching an SVU episode (earlier seasons) where a man was tied to a bed and raped by three women. They got one to flip on the other two for a reduced sentence, but the other two were found not guilty because "men cannot be raped by women". Pissed me right off.
/r/MensRights16/06/21 03:57 PM
5

Jesus christ. This makes me ashamed of my country.
/r/MensRights16/06/21 05:38 AM
1

Like the last comment.
/r/MensRights14/06/21 03:49 PM
3

Same here. Was like... She's just looking at the meter?
/r/MensRights14/06/21 03:48 PM
8

Did you request her to stop using as sexist derogatory term?
/r/MensRights13/06/21 07:58 AM
3

That guy is a fucking legend.
/r/MensRights12/06/21 09:11 AM
3

Happy birthday! Wishing you all the best and hoping you get to see your boys soon!
/r/MensRights11/06/21 04:09 PM
4

Read it. Discarded it.
/r/MensRights11/06/21 04:05 PM
2

See I have no issue with women only areas as long as one, I'm not paying for them, and two, there are men only areas, which the women aren't paying for.
/r/MensRights10/06/21 09:41 PM
1

Yes I have. And I get told "never say never." My response? "Never"
/r/MensRights10/06/21 09:38 PM
4

Honestly? No. Because I haven't been in a relationship long enough for that to have happened for me. Sad self burn but there it is. Been single since my late teens,and am now 31.got hurt so many times by people to the point of me going "fuck it, why bother?" so I haven't. I mean I'm not going to lie, there are days when I feel envious of people who have someone to go home to, but most of the time I just enjoy my life the way I want to without having to worry about someone else getting upset beca…
/r/MensRights10/06/21 09:34 PM
2

My main concern is the fact that society, not just feminism, allows the use of, and in some ways encourages, a term that can only be described as a sexist hate phrase designed to deliberately provoke a harmful response against half the worlds population.
/r/MensRights10/06/21 05:48 PM
28

Like how she said he was dumped resulting in heartbreak because he wasn't ambitious. I mean some people don't want to reach higher than they can. Nothing wrong with that.
/r/MensRights10/06/21 04:14 PM
11

To be honest after getting hurt many times by people when I was younger it feels like I either "cut off" or "blunted" my emotions. I have a hard time feeling things, and an even harder time trying to identify what it is I actually feel. When I have tried to explain this to people I have gotten laughed at, blank stares or awkward silences followed by change of topics.
/r/MensRights08/06/21 04:10 PM
7

Not sure where you went to school in the UK but my secondary school had a "no extreme hairstyle" rule which of course included long hair on boys. Girls were not allowed to wear trousers until recently, but boys have never been allowed to wear shorts outside of P.E. A relative of mine works there so I hear regular updates regarding it and it's still the same after the 15 years since I left. Ironically the relative got a talking to because they applied the same rule to a transgender student about …
/r/MensRights04/06/21 03:57 PM
1

Intentions don't really matter when you basically insult half the worlds population.
/r/MensRights03/06/21 07:31 PM
1

In that case it would of been better to say "people who can't control their sexual urges are weak".
/r/MensRights03/06/21 04:03 PM
1

I felt a whoosh there as that flew possibility flew right over people's heads.
/r/MensRights31/05/21 06:27 PM
2

I doubt that will help. Instead it will just make the idea of men's rights and you specifically hated even more so.
/r/MensRights28/05/21 03:47 PM
2

The problem have i have with stuff like this is it 9 times out of 10 degenerates into swearing, which actually detracts from the original statement. I get that people are angry, frustrated, and upset, but swearing at random people on the Internet isn't going to be of much help is it?
/r/MensRights28/05/21 06:05 AM
13

Impressed you managed to last 2 weeks! I would of been out by the end of the first day.
/r/MensRights24/05/21 04:25 PM
5

Think you mean illegal.
/r/MensRights20/05/21 04:10 PM
1

Your friend doesn't sound like much of a friend tbh.
/r/MensRights15/05/21 08:07 PM
1

Are you fucking kidding me? (not addressed to anyone here BTW)
/r/MensRights14/05/21 04:37 PM
5

I had stupid emails sent to me in my last job too. Nothing as dumb and sexist as that but still enough to get me irritated for the day. So I just created a rule that sent every email from that particular group to the deleted folder. Peace of mind and felt so much better after that.
/r/MensRights13/05/21 06:27 AM
1

Personally I don't really care about what industry is dominated by which gender. My only concern is that people who do the jobs do them well and without causing drama.
/r/MensRights12/05/21 05:20 PM
2

Hmmm how about they can take that list and shove it?
/r/MensRights07/05/21 07:49 PM
2

When I was in school most of the times if a boy had a problem with another guy there would be a shouting match followed by a few punches and it would be fine with. The girls on the other hand, shaming and verbal abuse was extremely common and would go on for days if not weeks leaving the poor victim ostracized by the rest of her friends and classmates.
/r/MensRights06/05/21 06:42 AM
5

Imagine that, title IX destroying someone's life. Shocking isn't it?
/r/MensRights05/05/21 05:38 AM
3

Yeah it is. Problem is that society allows people, both men and women, to make disparaging comments like that about men, masculinity even young boys, with no repercussions. So of course they don't learn that it's actually not acceptable.
/r/MensRights04/05/21 04:33 PM
1

If it ws truly about equality we wouldn't be here on this sub reddit. maybe it was at some point about true equality, but only someone who is willfully ignoring the sexist comments, the blatant hate speech, the decrying of problems that men face such as higher levels of homeless, suicide workplace deaths, lifespan, mandatory military service in certain countries, socially accepted genital mutilation, and much more, can honestly say that feminism is still about true equality.
/r/MensRights04/05/21 05:49 AM
8

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/entertainment-arts-56969187 There you go.
/r/MensRights04/05/21 05:43 AM
5

Never understood the desire to send scantily clad or nude pictures to another person. I mean how can people not see how that can backfire?
/r/MensRights03/05/21 09:08 PM
47

The part that got me in the bbc news article regarding this is her comment about "men are weak" What an offensive generalisation.
/r/MensRights03/05/21 09:05 PM
10

Jesus just hearing it, he seems so withdrawn and small on that sofa. Poor guy, sending him all the best of luck.
/r/MensRights01/05/21 04:29 PM
2

No pity, just pure respect.
/r/MensRights24/04/21 05:12 PM
11

I don't honestly understand why people feel that it's acceptable to mess around with people like this. I mean would they like it if someone acted in the same fashion towards them? Deliberately setting them up to at the very best, look like a sexual offender, and at worse potentially opening them up to prison time and grievous bodily harm. Am I the only one who cannot understand the this?
/r/MensRights24/04/21 05:02 PM
3

Totally agree with you. If a bloke doesn't want to have sexual intercourse then that's their choice. Nothing wrong with it. Likewise, if a woman wants to go and have lots of it, nothing wrong with it either, just hope she takes precautions for her own sake.
/r/MensRights11/04/21 07:45 PM
1

Sorry if I'm asking a stupid question, but is there another official reporting line regarding this? I mean in most organisations you have a clear hierarchy so if one position fails/screws up you can contact the onr above them to try and get the issue resolved. I don't know if reddit falls into the same category though, so sorry if its a dumb question.
/r/MensRights07/04/21 06:32 PM
5

I agree, I'm in my 30s (yuck) and haven't had a partner since my late teens, due to a variety of reasons. Does that mean any of my opinions hold any less weight? That my voice means less than others in relationships? No its completely and utterly bullshit.
/r/MensRights04/04/21 10:04 PM
24

Why do people seem to think that just because a person hasn't engaged in sexual intercourse their opinions, views, lives, hold little to no meaning? People, both men and women, are far more than just their genitalia.
/r/MensRights04/04/21 10:25 AM
9

I know right? How stupid is it that this sort of situation backed up by statistics is ignored at best and downright laughed at at worst?
/r/MensRights03/04/21 04:24 PM
16

Alot of people were talking about the fact that dad's don't show how proud they are of their kids. I know my dad didn't, but that was because he didn't know how to express himself. We had a chat a few weeks ago, and it really hit home how proud he is of me from what he said. Don't get me wrong, I wish I could of had that told to me when I was younger, but I feel grateful that he was able to explain it to me, and it made me appreciate how much he did for me throughout my childhood.
/r/MensRights03/04/21 03:12 PM
21

I did not know about the child mortality rates. Holy fuck.
/r/MensRights03/04/21 10:23 AM
8

Don't worry your mot missing out on anything. It's the same old spiel. You know you'd think they would come up with something different, just for the sake of variety.
/r/MensRights30/03/21 09:06 PM
13

Completely agree.
/r/MensRights30/03/21 09:54 AM
22

Got told I was "scum" for being a man in the middle of the street by a random stranger. Got my backside groped by a woman when i was walking home from work when I was in my early twenties. Wasn't taken seriously. Get told to "man up" "killallmen" etc. Got told I was a "chauvinistic pig" for holding a door open for a group of girls (didn't even realise they were girls). Got the cops called for picking my nephew up when he wouldn't get off the swings to let others have a go. The officers were very…
/r/MensRights26/03/21 06:59 PM
1

What the fuck. I mean what the actual fuck? I apologise for the language but wow, I cannot believe this was allowed. Its damaging to both the boys and the girls.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/03/21 06:38 AM
1

Exactly why I would of thought they would be involved right from the beginning, not the second meeting.
/r/MensRights25/03/21 06:48 PM
1

May I ask the reasoning behind that? Not disagreeing but I would of thought considering the circumstances the legal guardian would be involved straight away.
/r/MensRights25/03/21 04:53 PM
2

Not going to tell you what to do, that's your own choice, but have you sat down with her and had an honest and open chat with her about your mental and emotional state? Literally just laying it all out there, holding nothing back? I went through a battle with depression when I was younger (still get days like it now, luckily few and far between) but I only talked about it years later, and neither of my parents actually knew how bad it got.
/r/MensRights25/03/21 07:09 AM
2

Just wish there was more I could do.
/r/MensRights25/03/21 06:57 AM
6

To be honest I don't think it's vital that you have her name. I mean don't get me wrong it would certainly help, but you can put a general complaint in saying something like "I was admitted on this date to this ward in this room, and I overheard a nurse talking to a security guard about etc." hospitals have to take stuff like this seriously, because it could potentially leave them open to liability issues. Other than that, I'm so sorry to hear that you were pushed to that level. I wish I could m…
/r/MensRights25/03/21 06:54 AM
2

Would you advise that the legal guardian also be present considering the fact he is still legally a minor?
/r/MensRights25/03/21 06:48 AM
2

You see I don't understand why people make a big thing about stuff like this. You're black? You're white? You're a Christian, a Muslim, a jew? So what? If I like someone I'm going to like them for who they are not because of something like that. If I dislike someone, it's not because of something like that, it's because I think they are a dick.
/r/MensRights25/03/21 06:43 AM
4

Yeah I don't get it either. Personally I didn't really give a damn about her (except that I wished she would hurry up walking, as it was a narrow path on by a busy main road and I wanted to get home), I was just listening to music on my phone. She turned looked at me, I saw her lips move, paused my music said that I was listening to music and didn't hear what she had said.
/r/MensRights24/03/21 07:50 PM
3

Well I told her that I'm sorry if she feels uncomfortable but that's her problem, not mine. I carried on walking and stepped past her listening to some music. If she said anything else then I didn't hear it.
/r/MensRights24/03/21 06:43 PM
4

Strangely enough, when I was walking home from work today I got asked by a woman to cross the street as I "made her feel uncomfortable" whilst walking behind her.
/r/MensRights24/03/21 05:38 PM
8

I know where you are coming from, and believe me I wish I could wave my hands click my fingers whatever it is and make these problems vanish. Unfortunately I can't. It sucks. But knowing there are other people, men and women who understand how tough it can be, and who don't judge and don't tell me what to do? Well it makes things a little bit more bearable for me.
/r/MensRights22/03/21 10:33 PM
37

We all need to vent and rant, especially when it seem that very few people we know take the problems men face seriously. No one here is going to judge you for ranting, especially when the feelings you are writing about are so common these days.
/r/MensRights22/03/21 09:33 PM
2

I get that this is inflammatory and discriminatory, but let's not resort to violence. It very rarely produces a positive outcome, or a sincere change of a persons views.
/r/MensRights22/03/21 08:06 PM
2

I don't bother with social media. It's not worth the stress upset or hassle.
/r/MensRights21/03/21 10:08 PM
13

So she messaged you and then because she didn't like what you said, she told you to leave her alone and threatened to report you? Wonderful.
/r/MensRights21/03/21 06:17 AM
1

I hold doors for everyone. I don't care if it's a man, woman, elderly, or child. Its common courtesy and politeness. They don't like it, well not much I can do about that but they can fuck off.
/r/MensRights20/03/21 08:35 AM
8

Really? I haven't encountered much of that in this sub. I'm not disbelieving you, but could you provide examples of this?
/r/MensRights15/03/21 06:58 PM
9

Oh. That. Yes that needs to go. That being said, I honestly haven't come across much of that (for which I am eminently grateful for). Is it common where you live?
/r/MensRights15/03/21 06:38 PM
11

And what view might that be?
/r/MensRights15/03/21 06:31 PM
16

I don't think it's a cult. That includes brainwashing and following dogma. People for the most part on here and other platforms that I am a part of have been courteous and polite, even when they may disagree with the other person's point of view. I'm not going to deny there are a few bad apples, but they are the minority. If you are looking for dogmatic views and an inability to see that you might be wrong or may be relying on faulty statistics, then I suggest that you look to the feminist subre…
/r/MensRights15/03/21 06:18 PM
2

My Brain hurts just reading those comments. Why do they seem to make it "Them vs Us"? We all have problems, so why not work to fix them instead of creating more?
/r/MensRights15/03/21 05:14 PM
2

The thing is about the gathering is that England is still under a national lockdown, which means that by attending a large scale gathering (and from the news video that I saw, with very little social distancing) they were breaking the law.
/r/MensRights14/03/21 10:42 AM
4

I do as well. But unfortunately I very much doubt it.
/r/MensRights14/03/21 10:06 AM
16

That's brilliant!
/r/MensRights14/03/21 10:00 AM
6

It's a guilt I have to bear on a daily basis.
/r/MensRights13/03/21 08:58 PM
20

The curfew statement really concerned me. Not because it's likely to be put into effect, but because of the fact that the person who said it first (as far as I'm aware) was a politician, and it was said in an environment where there were other elected officials who are supposed to be representing the people who elected them. And not one person called her out over the deliberately sexist offensive and down right reprehensible statement.
/r/MensRights13/03/21 08:53 PM
9

The only time I ever said that was when I s sitting at a table and my then girlfriend asked me to pass the gravy. It slipped and spilled on her. She glared at me as did her mother. So that's when I said "sorry but she did ask for it" But that is the only time I have ever used it.
/r/MensRights13/03/21 06:21 PM
8

Not sold on the idea, just a thought that popped into my head. I believe however the point remains a valid one. Men do get treated poorly by society and by governing bodies in numerous ways and there does need to be something done about it.
/r/MensRights13/03/21 11:58 AM
31

Makes me feel like we should start our own project something like MaleLivesMatter.
/r/MensRights13/03/21 10:09 AM
3

So if someone sees someone else blinking from the side (ie they can only see on eye) they can cry sexual violence?
/r/MensRights13/03/21 10:07 AM
2

The fact that she's able to say it in a political environment with no consequences regardless of how likely it is to be passed onto law is the main concerning part for me.
/r/MensRights12/03/21 05:17 PM
1

See this is why I don't go on social media. I got enough shit in my life that needs dealing with already without exposure to all of the shit that's on there.
/r/MensRights12/03/21 06:52 AM
3

And what exactly is "walking in a non threatening way"? Never been able to get a decent explanation. I mean if I'm walking, then I'm walking. I'm not going out of my way to look suspicious.
/r/MensRights12/03/21 06:49 AM
3

Considered filing a complaint for sexist behaviour and discrimination against her but then I just thought what's the bloody point.
/r/MensRights12/03/21 06:47 AM
3

Stupid. That's all I can say.
/r/MensRights12/03/21 06:42 AM
4

I have never understood the issue with "just not attracted to them". It's their choice so what's the problem? They aren't getting all offensive about it so why make it a big deal.
/r/MensRights12/03/21 06:40 AM
2

This is why I don't bother with social media.
/r/MensRights11/03/21 06:11 PM
2

To which I say piss off.
/r/MensRights11/03/21 06:09 PM
3

Yeah I'm not into pain so I'm going to pass on that
/r/MensRights06/03/21 06:42 PM
6

I watched it out of pure curiosity, well I tried to watch it, but honestly I couldn't last more than 20 minutes of the film. I don't know whether to say congratulations for being able to make it though the whole film, or commiserations for the same thing.
/r/MensRights06/03/21 04:24 PM
19

The concept of killing someone, whether they be a man or woman, should never be a joke.
/r/MensRights06/03/21 07:45 AM
2

True I don't know you or your girlfriend. But based on this, if you value your safety get out!
/r/MensRights01/03/21 05:25 PM
5

The thing that I don't like in both anime and manga is where a character says basically "your a man aren't you? Men don't moan!" or a variation of that. Really pisses me off.
/r/MensRights01/03/21 05:23 PM
1

In a way I suppose I'm guilty of this. My brother (who I haven't spoken to for a couple of years for unrelated reasons) grew a short styled beard. It looked really great, and since he has quite angular features it helped to soften his face which made him look that much better. Then he started to grow it out. And out. And out some more. Until it was halfway down his chest. It looked awful, and made him look so much older than he is. And what was worse is that he didn't keep it shaped. It was just…
/r/MensRights01/03/21 05:21 PM
2

... She just classes it as nagging and harassing, and "focusing on the negative". I doubt very much that she sees what she was doing as abusive.
/r/MensRights01/03/21 05:15 PM
3

Even if he can't sue for reparations for his destroyed career based on the evidence that the defence provided which clearly shows that he is innocent, surely the bare minimum the prosecutors could do would be apologise? I mean part of being a responsible person who standing up and admitting that you were in the wrong? Or am I living in a dream world?
/r/MensRights27/02/21 07:21 PM
3

I can where you are coming from but at the same time, I still feel its not that a simple right/wrong situation.
/r/MensRights27/02/21 10:29 AM
6

This might sound a bit strange but I'm of two minds on this. I mean if the egg has been fertilised whilst they were together and it was fully informed consent on his part then, then it kinda sounds a similar situation to when a girl says she's been raped when she regrets having a one night stand. On the other hand i can see how it's unfair that he should be financially responsible for the child. I don't mind if you downvote me as it's honestly my opinion and I think quite clearly it's not a situ…
/r/MensRights27/02/21 08:02 AM
10

I need men's rights because it makes me feel I'm not alone in noticing the hypocrisy of society the media and the government when it comes to recognising the fact that men have their own problems. That there are other people who have seen it and are trying to change things for themselves their children and the generations after them.
/r/MensRights27/02/21 07:30 AM
1

Tbh I gave up talking to people like her a long time ago. Saves on wasted brain cells you know.
/r/MensRights21/02/21 01:26 PM
1

When have men been taught its s good thing to be violent? Don't remember that from my childhood.
/r/MensRights21/02/21 11:57 AM
7

...i don't understand this sort of stuff. I'm not particularly fussed if ever have kids, but if someone does fair to them. However if a woman wants kids surely she's aware of the process of how a kid is born, which involves pain. So I'm not sure why they keep on bringing it up as if it its a path to sainthood. Its like lady you're not special, thousands of other women go through this every day.
/r/MensRights20/02/21 09:57 PM
4

It's the same with that film "moxie" that's being released later this year on Netflix. I mean it's been a while since I was in school (and I live in the UK) but I don't recall anyone holding an unofficial vote of which girl is the most "bangable" or "best ass" "best rack" etc (those are direct quotes from the trailer by the way). No idea if the schools over in the US are actually like that.
/r/MensRights19/02/21 10:43 PM
3

The part that really got me is that the term "mansplaining" is a generally accepted term.
/r/MensRights19/02/21 10:25 PM
9

Why do they always bring the concept of "oppression" in to stuff like this. Sexism is about discrimination based on an individuals gender. Oppression has nothing to do with it.
/r/MensRights16/02/21 02:30 PM
5

I have had arguments at work with people who I normally get in with when they use the phrase "man up". I mean what does that actually even mean? We all know what's expected of us if we get told to man up, but if you look at the phrase its actually really meaningless. They also seemed quite shocked when I spoke to them about it, like it had never even occurred to them.
/r/MensRights15/02/21 09:56 PM
3

Is it possible to raise the issue higher with the head of the department? Or the head of the school? Hell maybe even look into options for contacting Ofsted?
/r/MensRights15/02/21 11:43 AM
3

On Google I have had to write men's rights reddit Web page. If I typed anything else it comes up with a comment of "what the hell is wrong with the men's rights movement!!?". Not exactly helpful.
/r/MensRights10/02/21 06:40 PM
5

Damn! Well done you mate! Good for you!!
/r/MensRights10/02/21 06:37 PM
1

Either way it's a damn shame.
/r/MensRights08/02/21 01:37 PM
3

My understanding of education was to impart knowledge to others, to make them think. That requires opening their minds and eyes to different ways looking at things, which at times can be controversial. I would rather have a controversial teacher in school than someone who insists on just "following the narrative".
/r/MensRights08/02/21 12:22 PM
5

So what happens to her then? I mean she basically ruined that guys life for at the very least those two years, but far more likely laid a "stain" of sorts on him for the rest of his life. Somebody please tell me that she got something.
/r/MensRights08/02/21 12:11 PM
35

I'm turning 31 next week, I haven't had a partner since I was 18, I don't have a high paying job, never attended university, and find it hard socialising. I have suffered from depression on and off since I was 13 and have zero self confidence. But yes women who are the same age as me (or near enough) and have a high paying job with degree from university an active social life, their own homes, well yes, clearly they have it so rough. Excuse me whilst I grab a tissue to dab away these tears....
/r/MensRights05/02/21 05:13 PM
14

This is something that pises me off. Got no problem with women soldiers and no problem with women in other physical jobs. My only concerns are can you do the job and do you cause drama? No to both? Welcome aboard.
/r/MensRights02/02/21 06:17 PM
2

Never knew that sort of thing existed in the UK. You are a absolute legend.
/r/MensRights02/02/21 07:15 AM
8

Never understood why people think that labelling others as a virgin makes them: 1.any less of a grown person 2.their opinion carry any less weight. I haven't been in a relationship with anyone since I was 18.im going to be 31 next week. I keep on getting told I need to "go out and meet that special someone". Why? I'm perfectly content with my life at the moment and I don't really want add extra stress. (just making sure, this isn't a dig at you or your comment, just a general overview of an opin…
/r/MensRights02/02/21 07:11 AM
1

How exactly would the human race continue though? I mean surely even they must realise that it takes two to tango.
/r/MensRights01/02/21 05:24 PM
2

Got a demand from two uni students in October demanding me walk on the road so they could pass me at a "safe distance" now we are in a pandemic so i don't know if they meant social distancing or what. However, just considering the fact that its a main road at its busy period I said no and pointed out that there a two of them and they should walk one behind the other and allow me to walk one one side of the pavement with them on the other side. They ignored my suggestion and tried to barge pass m…
/r/MensRights29/01/21 09:11 PM
5

My approach is live and let live. Do I care who people are attracted to? Not really. It's their own life to do what they want to with it. Its the same with racism. Never made any sense to me. They have a different colour skin/religion/ethnicity than me. .. And your point is what exactly? If I dislike someone it's not about any of that. It's because I think they are a twat.
/r/MensRights26/01/21 05:05 PM
3

This country has certainly gone to the dogs.
/r/MensRights23/01/21 10:41 PM
2

Never said that people shouldn't be "challenged" and I'm certainly not saying that topics need to be blocked off because they are uncomfortable or politically incorrect. I said to switch the term "men" with "women" and questioned how the "movement" would lead him down a dark path. People seem to equate "not getting laid" with not being a successful man or being "pathetic losers". It kinda makes you sound like one yourself. So what if people don't have sex? It's their choice. It's their body afte…
/r/MensRights22/01/21 05:57 PM
3

Thanks for the clarity.
/r/MensRights22/01/21 07:09 AM
2

Try reversing the situation that OP was telling us about, switch the "men" with "women" and let me know if you still think it's not wrong and that this "movement" will lead him down a "dark path", whatever you mean by that anyway.
/r/MensRights22/01/21 07:06 AM
1

... People seem to always say about "people of colour" Isn't white a colour as well?
/r/MensRights21/01/21 06:40 PM
7

Well in the continuation of the species both genders are pretty dependent on each other.
/r/MensRights20/01/21 05:18 PM
2

Personally I think it is partly to do with the fact that if we did the chances of us having more serious impacts on our lives in general is significantly higher. For example, if you went to a mens rights rally that was organised to protest about... Say higher suicide rates in men, and your boss found out I feel that the chances of you losing your job because of sexist attitudes (which would be a load of bullshit) would be quite higher than if a woman went to protest at a feminist rally. Just my …
/r/MensRights16/01/21 11:36 AM
2

Why were you given a warning when she was the one discriminating against a gender which is basically half the worlds population ?
/r/MensRights16/01/21 08:08 AM
2

Exactly. Whilst I might not agree completely with the point about women having more pressure on them than men, I find it very strange and quite stupid that some people view it in a similar fashion to a competition to see who has it harder.
/r/MensRights13/01/21 10:12 PM
2

The thing that this little rant does is just focus on one side. Let's be honest both men and women can suffer from unrealistic and often unachievable beauty standards. It's a society thing, not a gender thing. Its like someone saying I broke my leg, and then someone else saying well I broke both legs and my arm. Yeah that sucks but it doesn't change the fact that you still have a broken leg.
/r/MensRights13/01/21 05:09 PM
3

Personally I couldn't understand why people thought it was acceptable to gather in such large groups during the middle of a pandemic.
/r/MensRights11/01/21 05:33 PM
2

To be honest, they shouldn't be going out to just do that. If they are doing that and going for a walk then yes fair enough. But that being said, it's getting even more grim in the hospital where I work, and I would really like people to obey the rules.
/r/MensRights11/01/21 05:31 PM
1

My sister in law has a victim complex, she's always the one who's been hurt blah blah blah. Makes me glad I don't have to deal with her anymore.
/r/MensRights02/01/21 09:09 AM
2

When I first heard it, I thought that my hearing or my mind had given out. Then I realised it hadn't. Disgusted doesn't even begin to describe what I felt.
/r/MensRights02/01/21 09:05 AM
8

What I don't get is why they saying the age of consent is different for adults and teens?
/r/MensRights23/12/20 06:56 AM
1

That still sounds like a shitty sexist practice to me.
/r/MensRights09/12/20 06:53 AM
2

"happens to men to derailing" Umm wut
/r/MensRights08/12/20 06:06 PM
2

I think they were making a reference to a wider situation, more a generalisation rather than a specific individual. At least that's how I read it.
/r/MensRights30/11/20 07:35 AM
3

Kind of I guess? I live in the UK and I left secondary school at the age of sixteen nearly fifteen years ago. We would occasionally have random weeks where lessons would be placed with things like discussions about euthanasia, ethics politics, finance, and abortion. It was interesting for the most part hut with the abortion I got sent to my head of tear for saying that men should be given the chance to "abort" their parental rights and responsibilities if they so chose to, as women are able to d…
/r/MensRights25/11/20 05:13 PM
2

Well thank you for that response. I don't agree with it, but I appreciate your direct approach.
/r/MensRights20/11/20 10:08 PM
1

Key word there being "supposed" to be.
/r/MensRights20/11/20 05:15 PM
13

Also, can the phrase "man up" be struck from the language entirely? Its a meaningless phrase that encourages men and boys to not express themselves, not ask for help and marginalised their problems by never acknowledging them
/r/MensRights20/11/20 05:06 PM
10

That's amazing! Will admit I do feel a little bit sorry for the woman though. What a embarrassing moment when you realise that they aren't for you.
/r/MensRights20/11/20 05:03 PM
8

Seems ironic since I gave had it the other way around. Friends talking to me about their boyfriends (yuck to much information), work colleagues talking about their husbands, brothers, sons. Family members talking to me about their work colleagues. Yet after I listen through all of that they zip off before I can even ask a simple question about a situation I'm in.
/r/MensRights19/11/20 12:06 AM
6

Well whenever I get told or hear someone use the phrase "man up" or "you're a man, deal with it" I flip and have a go at them.
/r/MensRights10/11/20 05:09 PM
9

So sorry to hear that you had to endure that horrible situation. Best of luck with the courts, and you look after yourself and get better okay? Rooting for you buddy!
/r/MensRights08/11/20 09:50 AM
1

In that case I apologise for butting my nose in with a nonsensical comment. Either way that type of TV show is completely trash.
/r/MensRights06/11/20 06:06 PM
1

My apologies I thought it was obvious I was being sarcastic.
/r/MensRights06/11/20 04:59 PM
6

I got complained at once because I walked past a woman in the dark and she didn't know I was there. I was walking home from work, headphones on thinking about a hot shower (it was freezing). I didn't think that I was being quiet or anything, but I still got yelled at by her.
/r/MensRights06/11/20 07:16 AM
2

Yes, because we all know that have morals is a bad thing nowadays.
/r/MensRights06/11/20 07:13 AM
4

I hope that the doctor gets some serious repercussions from it. Rest in Peace Buddy.
/r/MensRights05/11/20 10:30 PM
1

Lawyers and ethics rarely go together.
/r/MensRights03/11/20 05:00 PM
1

Regardless of whether he abused her or not, he's not standing there in front of the cameras garnering sympathy from the public.
/r/MensRights03/11/20 04:57 PM
1

Absolutely. Someone attacks me? Well I'm sorry but my safety is more important to me than theirs. Also might want to edit the spelling. You put psychically,when it's actually physically.
/r/MensRights03/11/20 06:50 AM
1

Just watching the news, it came on, and she is there talking about how all of the support she received made her so strong in the fight against domestic abuse. She was the bloody abuser!
/r/MensRights02/11/20 06:46 PM
5

As far as I'm concerned people should be able to wear what they like. If someone's bothered by a bloke in a dress that's their problem.
/r/MensRights01/11/20 12:21 PM
1

I might download this later, but even if I don't, I just want to say thank you for this.
/r/MensRights29/10/20 06:08 PM
18

Sexual violence against men is treated just as seriously by the law. Riiiiight if you believe that I have a nice plot of land on the moon to sell you.
/r/MensRights25/10/20 07:46 AM
2

... That's a woman?
/r/MensRights24/10/20 08:39 PM
8

Circumcision is something that I personally disagree with. I know it's part of religions, but that still doesn't make it acceptable. If someone wants to be circumcised then they should have to wait until they are a legal adult, and after having a thorough explanation of all risks and possibilities that could arise from it, and only after that should the medical professional be allowed by law to go through with it.
/r/MensRights24/10/20 05:50 PM
3

I have been there, and it sucks. I was 18 and the girl 19, working on a Sunday shift. I had talked to a few of my friends for advice because I wasn't very confident (even worse now though, yay!) who encouraged me to ask her out on a date at a zoo (she loved animals) so I was talking to her about random stuff as you do, when she brought up this chap she went to university with exclaiming over his blue eyes and broad shoulders and saying she looked forward to seeing him on Monday. Heart crushed. S…
/r/MensRights24/10/20 05:46 PM
21

... Why doesn't he just bloody talk to his son? Oh let's get the advice of random strangers on the Internet instead actually sitting down with my son and actually talking to him about this stuff! I mean personally I think alot of those comments are just straight up sexist and completely and utterly ignorant of reality but hey.
/r/MensRights08/10/20 06:55 PM
19

All of my immediate managerial chain are women in my workplace. We get told fuck all.
/r/MensRights08/10/20 06:17 PM
1

I tend to suffer from IBS so I'm uncertain whether or not that would be a good idea. The results could be.... Extremely unpleasant and uncomfortable.
/r/MensRights07/10/20 07:14 PM
1

Nope.
/r/MensRights07/10/20 04:13 PM
9

Good luck, we are cheering for you!
/r/MensRights07/10/20 06:03 AM
8

... What does "women are like tea" even mean? I mean I find tea bland and unpleasant. Does that mean I'm supposed to find women the same?
/r/MensRights06/10/20 08:05 PM
1

I'm not sure about the military but I know NHS staff get discounts. I don't bother using mine, at the end of a day its just a job and I get paid for it. I also get really pissed off when I see people taking the mick. "I'm buying a coffee, nhs discount please!" Really?
/r/MensRights30/09/20 11:26 PM
4

I had the literal same thing happen to me. Heard that song was like huh that's pretty catchy. Download it on to my phone, start walking home from work it pops on (the play list is on shuffle) and I'm listening and it's like... Umm wait what?
/r/MensRights30/09/20 11:21 PM
1

Can't have people falling off the wagon now can we?
/r/MensRights28/09/20 09:51 AM
4

Does that mean if I hate my job I am disqualified from going to it?
/r/MensRights27/09/20 01:48 PM
9

First up, that seriously sucks. I'm so sorry for you. Secondly, "man up" is the most useless pointless comment ever invented. So those people who tell you, I suggest you ask them politely to remove themselves from your vicinity. Thirdly, although I wish I had a quick "cure all" I don't. It's going to hurt for a while, Lord knows it did for me, and nothing we say can make that go away I'm afraid. Just try and do things that you enjoy, watch a movie go out for a walk, read a book. Whatever you enj…
/r/MensRights26/09/20 07:02 AM
2

I'm a bloke, and I'm absolutely fucking terrified of snakes. Does that make me less of a man? No, it just means I have a phobia.
/r/MensRights24/09/20 05:11 PM
2

Learn something new everyday.
/r/MensRights23/09/20 06:00 AM
1

If you're into fantasy and magic I would recommend the Exiles series by Melanie Rawn. There are only two books atm but she is apparently going to be working on the last one fairly soon.
/r/MensRights23/09/20 05:53 AM
17

Have they tried talking to HR? At the very least they might get more information regarding the official policies.
/r/MensRights23/09/20 05:49 AM
6

You'd like to think so, but I work for an NHS Trust in the UK, and they update policies without notifying staff. They also don't communicate important information across about a variety of other stuff such as which areas are covid or not.
/r/MensRights23/09/20 05:48 AM
4

I remember sitting in the bathroom with my dad when I was younger watching him shave talking about the little things that don't seem to matter at the time but are actually really important. I also remember him showing me how to shave for the first time, how to deal with cuts the best way to hold the razor, and talking to me about how I would need to figure out what was best for my skin after shaving. I'm not actually close with my dad, which is a shame, not through lack of effort from either par…
/r/MensRights20/09/20 12:26 PM
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Life endangering? Sure take the poor kid out of the place where he has a higher chance of survival. That makes absolutely perfect sense.
/r/MensRights13/09/20 08:06 AM
2

That's really bad, I had no idea about this, as I live in Winchester. I also suffer from IBS as well, so I can sympathise very much do with your plight. I would say raise it as an issue for as long as it fakes to get it sorted.
/r/MensRights12/09/20 06:19 AM
1

I won't. It's a bloody disgrace though.
/r/MensRights11/09/20 04:07 PM
5

Mandatory circumcision? What the actual fuck?
/r/MensRights10/09/20 05:39 PM
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I hope they face criminal charges or at the least an investigation. They won't of course but damn do they deserve it.
/r/MensRights10/09/20 05:34 PM
5

Hey, at least you realised it. That's more than some people.
/r/MensRights09/09/20 03:52 PM
22

I don't think we are idiots. I think that it's that we are so used to having our problems brushed over ignored or plain laughed at that we get to the point of saying "what's the point of bothering to try, I'll go it alone because that's the way I have always had to do it" Edit:spelling because my phone hates me
/r/MensRights08/09/20 05:59 PM
7

I don't get how people can be so indoctrinated to not see the flimsiness and hypocrisy of their own arguments. I mean surely it's quite clearly blatantly obvious?
/r/MensRights08/09/20 04:42 PM
2

I can't write my initial thoughts of this as they would probably get me banned. Just wow. Some people are really drinking the kool aid.
/r/MensRights08/09/20 04:40 PM
17

I agree, when I go out at night, I feel more on edge than during the day, and my senses seem to be unconsciously on a higher level of alertness. When I get back in, there's a definite relaxation of muscles that I didn't even know were tensed.
/r/MensRights06/09/20 09:48 AM
1

I got nothing to say except I'm do sorry that you wen through this and that I hope things start going right for you. I'm cheering for you and wishing you the best!
/r/MensRights05/09/20 06:59 AM
10

I really don't get stuff like this and how it's a big deal. When I meet up with a friend of mine, one time I pay for the meal and she pays for the drinks, the next time she pays for the meal and I pay for the drinks. Neither of us make a big deal out of it, it's juts normal to us. This one time though this woman and man started having a go at me for being sexist (she was paying for the meal this time) and how I should be a gentleman and pay because that's what good men do (ignoring the fact that…
/r/MensRights03/09/20 06:41 PM
1

For a split second I thought you meant Prince Philip the husband of Queen Elizabeth. Was like... I don't remember seeing that on his wiki page...?
/r/MensRights02/09/20 05:33 PM
9

Well said. Change comes from communication and communication comes from discourse. If we close our minds and ears to things just because we don't like them it slows and stops progress, not just for a cause or belief but for ourselves as humans,as people.
/r/MensRights29/08/20 08:33 PM
4

Clearly they are the ones with a problem if they cannot handle debate arguments and criticism, things that might force them to open their eyes and see that things may not be they way they expected. All in all, I have no urge to go over there and post or comment on stuff.
/r/MensRights29/08/20 05:29 PM
2

One bad experience does not make the entire system bad. I'm not going to say its a perfect system, because it is not. That being said it's better than nothing where children didn't have any knowledge or experience of the acts the dangers or the consequences.
/r/MensRights24/08/20 07:33 PM
4

That seems an attitude that would strangle inquisitiveness and the ability to confront possible awkward situations. If you can't talk about sexual education in schools, what's next? No more talking about drug abuse and alcoholic abuse in the classroom because it's an awkward topic?
/r/MensRights24/08/20 04:51 PM
2

Agree with that as well.
/r/MensRights21/08/20 04:10 PM
6

I will admit that I get annoyed about stuff like this, when they "lower the standards" especially in jobs where standards can literally mean someone's life is on the line. I had a discussion with an old work colleague in my previous job when they were talking about lowering the requirements for firefighters to get more women in the force. I said that I thought that was stupid and dangerously irresponsible, to which I got told was a sexist attitude. My response was that I don't give a damn what g…
/r/MensRights21/08/20 06:15 AM
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No, I agree. If I want to run at night we'll I'm lucky in that I have a sizable back garden that I can jog around as many times as I want. Running in the night outside of the garden? Nope.
/r/MensRights07/08/20 06:39 AM
2

I am a 30 year old man, I still live with my mother because of being made redundant and not being able to find work for a year and a half so my savings went down the drain. I have also come to realise that somehow I am blunted from most emotions I guess you could say? I can still feel stuff but it's like looking at something through a smudged window. I decided to just enjoy my life to the best of my ability, which varies somewhat as I have been suffering from depression since I was 13 on and off…
/r/MensRights01/08/20 09:04 PM
7

From what I read there that definitely sounds like someone I don't want teaching kids.
/r/MensRights01/08/20 06:59 AM
5

Exactly.
/r/MensRights01/08/20 06:52 AM
1

I would actually have thought that that would be considered more sexist to women as it kind of implies that they are so bad at driving they have to be kept away from the male parking because it might result in damage to other cars.
/r/MensRights31/07/20 04:29 PM
15

Does anyone else find it hypocritical and extremely ironic when they say about "educating yourself on gender issues from another perspective" Also the reason I don't wear pink? I just don't like the colour. Simple as that. It's not that I consider it "degrading" or "gay", I just don't like it and it certainly doesn't suit me. As far as I know, I think it's still okay to not like a colour.
/r/MensRights26/07/20 07:37 AM
1

Sooo by this logic we shouldn't do sports either?
/r/MensRights20/07/20 04:29 PM
1

She made a choice. If that choice didn't work out for her well that's not our problem. You made your bed.
/r/MensRights18/07/20 06:50 AM
9

The part that I don't understand is why people get all angry in a personal fashion about how people were treated historically. They weren't there. They didn't have to endure the treatment and yet they still use it justify their outrage.
/r/MensRights06/07/20 06:17 AM
4

I I'm assuming that since it's a boys locker room they were doing things like, I don't know, getting changed? Maybe gave a shower? Because good cleanliness and correct clothing are not good things /s
/r/MensRights16/02/20 06:27 PM
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Well one, I'm going to call it whatever I want to. And two in a way it is a crime, but not by the person who took there own life, but by the people who ignored that person's problems until they saw no other option but to end it. Three there's something called freedom of speech. It's why you get idiotic people still using sexcist terms like manspreading and mansplaining. You don't like it? Tough.
/r/MensRights13/09/19 05:53 AM
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So it clearly states in the article that men are three times more likely to commit suicide, yet they then immediately go on about focusing on how tragic the numbers of suicides are for women within the next few words? The sheer bloody one track mindedness of some people boggles my mind.
/r/MensRights13/09/19 05:46 AM
4

Completely agree. You are paid to do a job, so why should I tip you for doing it?
/r/MensRights21/07/19 05:09 PM
1

Can confirm. A lady i work with complimented my smile today, made my entire day just light up. It's sad that it takes a single phrase to make a day feel so much better.
/r/MensRights18/07/19 09:31 PM
3

Good point. Dad did always seem to favor him more.
/r/MensRights24/02/19 08:40 AM
17

This is what my dad told me. "If you get hit by anyone, you can hit back, depending on the situation. Gender, age, size. None of that matters." Strangely enough he got annoyed when i used that to justify hitting my older scumbag brother. Can't think why
/r/MensRights24/02/19 08:21 AM
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"I'm sorry that my biological growth which i have no control over is scary" What a bunch of idiotic dumbasses
/r/MensRights24/02/19 08:18 AM
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Thing is the kid doesn't have a choice in the matter. So sure there might be some who are like you who have never been bothered by it, which is fair enough to you. However there might also be people who feel like they were deliberately mutilated for no reason whatsoever. Your son had to be circumcised for a medical condition. Alright, thats a legitimate reason. But the others? unlikely.
/r/MensRights17/02/19 09:19 AM
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The thing is the mother is making it about her. "this is what i believe in, gender stereotypes are wrong blah blah blah" and she has completely forgotten or ignored the fact that actually its her son who is going to be facing the consequences of her actions.
/r/MensRights16/02/19 09:23 AM
3

Good luck. I would say be prepared for, even if the teacher agrees with you, potentially suffering from bullying from classmates. Arm yourself with facts as has been suggested in other comments. Most importantly though, at least in my opinion, remain calm and polite. If it degenerates into insults being thrown at each other, your point is going to be ridiculed even more so.
/r/MensRights11/02/19 08:39 PM
2

Brilliantly written, came across calm, professional, and to the point. I just hope that when people read it some are encouraged to look into it.
/r/MensRights26/01/19 09:31 AM
21

So by alienating their old customer base which probably outnumbers the new ones by a significant margin, they gain new customers? Yeah really such a great idea. Clearly worked wonders for them.
/r/MensRights26/01/19 09:14 AM
1

Indeed. If someone reports a rape to the University then the only thing they should do is separate the individual who reported it and contact the police.
/r/MensRights20/01/19 05:48 PM
6

I find it so sad that none of the four are alive to hear that. I mean what an absolute disgrace.
/r/MensRights13/01/19 09:28 AM
2

So after debating she decided to block me because she was pissed It's the same with my brother's wife. She has him completely under her thumb, and she is, from what i have seen, guilty of emotional and mental domestic abuse, constantly belittling both my brother, and their three children. Not much I can do about it though because of a situation that occurred on Christmas eve 2018 where she accused my mother of "ruining Christmas" for them because my mum wanted to see her grandchildren open the g…
/r/MensRights13/01/19 09:18 AM
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Personally what i'm more impressed with is that she actually got the school to admit to the fact that it was discriminating against men.
/r/MensRights13/01/19 09:10 AM
4

It is stupid really. I hold the door open for anyone, men, women, children, the elderly. I don't care what gender or age they are, to me it's a sign I was raised by people who instilled manners in me. The fact that this is now being classed as sexist is beyond idiocy.
/r/MensRights13/01/19 09:01 AM
2

It's a sad situation, both the fact that there is a gender gap in death rate, and the fact that even when you ask them a honest question question requesting an honest thought out answer all you seem to get is abuse thrown back at you.
/r/MensRights07/01/19 07:36 AM
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Regardless of whether or not she did suffer psychological abuse from him, she willingly admitted to killing another person.That in itself is a heinous crime, that deserves punishment. Would they even be having this conversation if the person she killed was another woman? I consider it unlikely.
/r/MensRights04/01/19 07:38 AM
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Yeah....drop her like a hot rock. Also, arent women more emotionally manipulative? I know my brothers wife is. Always manages to twist things around so she looks the wronged party. She told me at christmas that they are a "normal loving family" during an argument that we had. I have never laughed so hard.
/r/MensRights03/01/19 08:07 PM
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The thing that I have found about this sub is that people are actually open to different opinions, and have discussions and despite the fact that they might disagree with the other person they don't devolve into a shouting match which is what i have observed happen many times in real life.
/r/MensRights27/12/18 07:13 AM
6

I'm not entirely sure why this was even published in the first place. It's not exactly noteworthy. In any election no matter the size, someone wins, someone loses. It's not exactly rocket science.
/r/MensRights20/12/18 07:43 AM
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First up, I am truly sorry you had to go through this. It is absolutely disgraceful that another person can do this to someone and get away with it. Secondly that neighbor is a complete dick. I sincerely hope you get the help you want and need, and I really hope you feel much better soon :) All the best!
/r/MensRights15/12/18 08:24 AM
2

Domestic-abuse services, historically designed for women, are adjusting accordingly Really?
/r/MensRights15/12/18 08:17 AM
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I find this ironic in so many ways, as at work the other day a group of women were discussing men getting the hair replacement operations, saying it made them vain and showing a lack of confidence and personal pride if they need to get their hair thickened. It is a issue that strikes deep to me, as i am unfortunately one of the men who are losing their hair at an early age of 28 (thank you Nan, who has the thin and wispy hair I inherited >.>). I then made a comment that it was similar to the fac…
/r/MensRights09/12/18 09:06 AM
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Hope you both feel better soon!
/r/MensRights02/12/18 08:30 AM
1

So basically...because they made a choice to take time off from work they are then moaning about the consequences of earning less money because of that choice? It feels sorta like circular logic there from their point of view.
/r/MensRights01/12/18 07:44 PM
1

For what it's worth, my own experience does seem to back up what you have said. I think in part it's because men are told to "man up" or "stand up and take it like a man" from a young age, and that sort of attitude, which can be very damaging to young boys, also pushes men to take responsibility for their own actions.
/r/MensRights01/12/18 07:42 PM
1

The annoying thing was apart from a basic verbal slap on the wrist nothing actually happened. The teacher left of her own free will five years after i left.
/r/MensRights30/11/18 06:17 AM
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Yeah I had a go at a female teacher at school when I was 14 years old, going back well lets say a while back :D Anyway she came into the changing rooms demanding to know what was taking the boys so long to change. Since we had just spent the last hour running around in freezing cold rain and mud, and the girls had spent it playing around doing basketball in the sports hall, it was fairly obvious to me and the rest of the group that we were going to take longer to change. She then said that she w…
/r/MensRights29/11/18 09:37 PM
1

Considering the fact that these False Accusations ruin peoples lives, just like other crimes...well it is common sense to punish them surely?
/r/MensRights20/10/18 08:11 AM
2

The exact same thing can be said about women accusing men of misogyny as soon as he says something she doesn't like, or for tenuous things Thought that as soon i as i started reading the article.
/r/MensRights18/10/18 02:29 PM
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It would be a good idea in some ways, but a lot of people would probably cry violation of their privacy which would open up another can of worms.
/r/MensRights18/10/18 02:24 PM
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The best way to combat sexual assault Well actually I think that currently the best way to improve the response to sexual assaults is to get the police more likely to take the allegations seriously if a guy comes to them and says " I was sexually assaulted by a woman".
/r/MensRights10/10/18 07:11 AM
2

Had an argument with someone i used to work with regarding stuff like this. She said when i told her that claims need to first be investigated from an unbiased view, "Oh so you're saying let rapists go free? Blame the victims? You are scum" My response (which was heard and backed by a visiting HR staff) was " No I am not saying that. I am saying that if a claim is made, then of course it needs to be investigated. However the accuser shouldn't get away free if it is proven that the accusation is …
/r/MensRights07/10/18 08:29 AM
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I'm feeling sick. How can anyone...?
/r/MensRights16/09/18 04:19 PM
2

They always do this. It's always stuff like " The teacher was in a relationship with the student" if the teachers a woman, but flat out say it was rape if the teachers a man. Its bloody well the same thing! It's Rape. Sexual Assault. How more bloody clear can it get?
/r/MensRights16/09/18 04:17 PM
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Where's the apology from Serena Williams though?
/r/MensRights15/09/18 08:38 AM
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People are less likely to think something is wrong if they see a kid who is upset or crying with a woman than if they see them with a man. Had personal experience with this when a woman called the police when she saw me acting in a "strange manner" towards my nephew when he was five. All I bloody did was pick him up off the swing so other kids could have a go (he'd been on there a good while) and he didn't like it so he started crying. Because a man acting like a mature adult in a kids life is c…
/r/MensRights27/08/18 09:45 AM
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Personally, I feel like the "other patrons" who requested he be asked to leave get a ban for that place. It won't happen of course but it feels to me like it would be fair.
/r/MensRights27/08/18 09:38 AM
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What kinda person thinks that it's okay to lie about being rape just for an attention grab? It is stupid beyond belief, and trivializes the suffering and traumatic experiences that those who have actually been raped go through. So she has ruined two guys lives, because despite the fact that its a load of rubbish that she spewed out, that stigma is going stick with them throughout their lives, and is only getting what amounts to a slap on the wrist in comparison to what those guys have suffered? …
/r/MensRights25/08/18 04:55 PM
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I agree. It worries me a fair amount as I have an older brother who is married to an...unpleasant shrew of a woman who basically walks all over him like a doormat. I have told him that he needs to stand up for himself, not just for his sake but the sake of his three children, a boy who is nearly 11 and twin 8 year old girls. He refuses to listen and as such his children are having practically no consistent positive male role models or having no example of a healthy relationship. I do what i can …
/r/MensRights25/08/18 09:41 AM
1

I remember discussing a rape accusation with a colleague of mine a few years back. She said that the accuser should be believed 100% straight from the moment the accusation is made. I disagreed and said that whilst the accusation should of course be investigated, the investigators should not go into it with a closed mind as it is unfair to the individual who has been accused as they are already deeming them guilty. She didn't speak to me for a month (childish i know) even after it was found that…
/r/MensRights25/08/18 09:28 AM
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If he wasn't made aware of the kid, how can he abandon it?
/r/MensRights17/08/18 07:56 AM
1

So let me get this straight. A woman files a rape accusation that she KNOWS is false, knowing that regardless of the validity of the claim its going to ruin the accused's life in a myriad of ways, and all she gets is what basically amounts to a slap on the wrist? Can the justice system even be classified as providing justice anymore?
/r/MensRights16/08/18 07:39 AM
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Good luck and please let us know how it goes!
/r/MensRights16/08/18 07:32 AM
4

A fox will still eat a rabbit even though the rabbit is harmless. This doesnt really apply here in my opinion. A fox is a predator that preys on prey smaller than itself. A rabbit meets that requirements. It's more to do with biology and nature rather than morals and rationality.
/r/MensRights30/07/18 08:06 AM
2

Good luck!!
/r/MensRights07/07/18 10:11 AM
2

And once again this just proves that the world is going to hell in a hand basket.
/r/MensRights06/07/18 08:03 AM
1

Well here we go again, some idiots taking offence at a simple photo
/r/MensRights01/07/18 09:09 AM
6

So sorry to hear this, I haven't gone what you have, but I have suffered from severe depression. It ain't fun, and it is certainly not a walk in the park. It was hard enough to fight it whilst getting on with a relatively normal life. I can't imagine the strength it would of taken to fight it whilst going through this. Good luck and all the best for the future!
/r/MensRights01/07/18 09:03 AM
3

Well that is strange. In my opinion all chores can have a negative effect on a relationship if only one person does them all of the time. I switch around with them, sometimes cook, sometimes clean, putting washing out (which in my opinion is by far the most mind numbing awful chore ever) etc. Having one person do the same type of chores is bound to create friction. I thought it was common sense.
/r/MensRights01/07/18 08:57 AM
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If this is real someone needs to slap some sense into this person before they ruin their sons life.
/r/MensRights02/04/18 06:33 PM
3

Wow. This woman is batshit crazy. I mean totally off her head i'm the mad hatter crazy.
/r/MensRights18/03/18 07:00 PM
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Sounds like a politer version of inviting parents to neglect and abuse their sons by actively downing them and any achievements they make.
/r/MensRights09/03/18 09:33 AM
8

Yeah I had a discussion on Discord with a bunch of people i play an online game with. One of them mentioned about international womens day and the other made a joke about not mentioning it because it would "trigger" me. I will admit i got a bit pissed off about the whole thing because as i pointed out the reactions to International Womens day and International Mens day are completely different, and brought up the fact that people treat men as disposables, and don't discuss issues men face such a…
/r/MensRights09/03/18 09:26 AM
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I am not sure how legally this is allowed as surely it breach equality laws which makes it illegal to discriminate against certain characteristics, including gender. If there was a book titled "How to destroy a woman" i doubt it would ever be published let alone sold.
/r/MensRights17/02/18 09:55 AM
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I can't speak to the being denied funding, because to be honest i did not pursue higher education (more fool me) but i completely agree with you. I am a white male between the age of 25 and 30. I have never broken any laws, never injured anyone (except my brother, but let's be honest who doesn't fight with their sibling) and never own slaves or persecuted anyone for the sexual orientation, religious beliefs or color of their skin. Yet throughout my teen years i was made to feel like white men ar…
/r/MensRights02/02/18 08:18 AM
4

It met the Threshold Test? Well it sounds to me that this test needs to be reviewed ASAP
/r/MensRights02/02/18 07:48 AM
1

When this all started with the journalist who quit (think it was Carrie Gracie) because she got paid less it really annoyed me. Firstly, because there was no clarification about the other factors that could be involved in why she was apparently being paid less. These could be things like length of service, willingness to work unsociable hours, negotiation of salary and actual on air time. All this woman leaving accomplished was to prove that she left for practically no reason.
/r/MensRights30/01/18 10:53 PM
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I am kind of worried about this as well. I don't have kids, but my nephew is ten years old, and i think is starting to hit puberty sooner rather than later. But I have no idea about how to talk to him or his dad about this possibility. Edit: Btw did anyone else notice that the author wrote that the rape victims going through the trial were all women? Bit presumptuous imo.
/r/MensRights28/01/18 04:36 PM
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Nope, the police didn't even talk to her. The only reason i knew who it was that made the call was because she came over and told me saying "You can't be too careful with men and little children" The only reason I didn't rip her a new one was because i didn't want to upset my nephew anymore than he already had been. I did tell her though that the fact she automatically assumes that all men are a danger around little children says far more about her than it does about the men. She looked quite in…
/r/MensRights26/01/18 08:56 PM
1

Sorry to hear about this, all i can say is good luck to you and your son. Hang tough and get through this!!!!
/r/MensRights26/01/18 07:52 AM
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Yeah I have also been questioned by the Police when playing with my nephew in a park, who were notified by a mother in the park of a "strange man" acting in a "disturbing manner" near a childrens park. ALL I FUCKING DID WAS TELL MY NEPHEW THAT HE SHOULD SHARE THE SWING WITH OTHER CHILDREN AND WHEN HE GOT STROPPY PICKED HIM UP AND CARRIED HIM OVER TO A BENCH TO DEAL WITH IT FFS!!!
/r/MensRights26/01/18 07:47 AM
1

...Say what? Please someone tell me this is an early april fools joke and that the person who wrote this is really just messing around?
/r/MensRights25/01/18 10:43 AM
2

So we have another mother scarring her sons mental states. Lovely. The minute you see someone holding a sign saying "RADICAL FEMINIST" you stay the hell away from them.
/r/MensRights23/01/18 04:39 PM
1

True but by then it is to late. The rumor mill has already started. And then it cascades, and before you know it, your life is near enough destroyed.
/r/MensRights23/01/18 03:03 PM
1

I think that whilst this is true, we also need to look at one of the main causes behind this. Trial By Social Media. How many people actually find out about accusations, false or otherwise, just by looking on social media?
/r/MensRights23/01/18 09:52 AM
1

I truly hope that he finds some semblance of peace, but it is an utter disgrace that he was driven to this.
/r/MensRights23/01/18 09:47 AM
1

Demand that it be removed as it is sexist and derogatory. Unbelievable
/r/MensRights23/01/18 09:18 AM
2

Normally i am against violence, but i sincerely hope that someone slaps some sense into this idiot -_-
/r/MensRights20/01/18 06:26 PM
5

I unfortunately would have to agree with you on this. It's become more a society where the criminals get more help and support from the justice system than the victims. It is an utter disgrace, but none of the people who actually can affect the changes that are needed seem to give a rats ass about it.
/r/MensRights20/01/18 06:19 PM
1

What annoys me is that the comment underneath by this Harriet individual got more shares and likes than the other reasonable and rational comments.
/r/MensRights20/01/18 06:01 PM
3

Logic+Feminism= Don't mix
/r/MensRights17/01/18 04:13 PM
4

Reading your post was heartbreaking, especially the fact that the courts were so completely biased against you despite the practically overwhelming evidence that you were the victim here. I am so glad things are starting to look up for you, and i hope they continue to do so. Good luck, and wishing you all the best!!!!!!!!
/r/MensRights15/01/18 10:20 AM
2

Wow. I mean you were brilliant but she was just...wow. I think the term delusional applies rightly here.
/r/MensRights07/01/18 08:47 PM
2

I actually felt sick reading those. I think i saw one woman who said its not okay.
/r/MensRights01/01/18 10:01 AM
5

Not really a challenging guess
/r/MensRights26/12/17 09:07 AM
2

In my experience, if someone wants to bitchy and upset about something they will find something to justify it with. This applies to both men and women from what i have had to put up with in the past.
/r/MensRights21/12/17 05:41 PM
2

Thats one of the most fucked up things i have heard. I mean i have seen scenarios like this on TV shows (The Closer for example) but to hear about it in RL? This world is seriously screwed up when people find things like this funny.
/r/MensRights21/12/17 05:36 PM
1

I have no idea what this Women Studies or Gender studies actually even attempts to teach.
/r/MensRights20/12/17 02:55 PM
2

The only thing the colleges should be responsible for is once a complaint has been made to the college, contact the police, and keep the complainant separate from the other students until the police arrive.
/r/MensRights16/12/17 12:38 AM
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And yet, the accusers name is not mentioned, yet the poor guys is.
/r/MensRights15/12/17 07:31 PM
4

So that still kinda leaves the rest...you know the 75%? What are they?
/r/MensRights15/12/17 08:00 AM
8

So wait, i still don't get what the New Yorker considered inappropriate behaviour? And how exactly is saying that the woman involved was someone who he dated, any attempt at silencing her through intimidation?
/r/MensRights12/12/17 09:49 AM
1

That woman sounds like an absolute idiot. And disgusting. The fact that she finds it funny that someone else (regardless of gender/ethnicity/sexual preferences) is being in a position where they are being hurt/sexually abused/frightened says a lot about her personality.
/r/MensRights12/12/17 09:44 AM
2

That last comment really gets me. "That Gay people have been facing for decades" Now this is probably true, especially in the 20th century. However just because they suffered that, does that mean that its right for the same pain to be inflicted on others? I do not think so.
/r/MensRights07/12/17 04:27 PM
1

So let us reverse the statement. Women's health is NOT mens responsibility. Stop Guilting Men. Just imagine the outcry that would bring.
/r/MensRights07/12/17 03:41 PM
1

Is this for real? I mean she seriously cannot be deluded to actually believe this garbage?
/r/MensRights01/12/17 08:38 AM
4

So on average women like guys who are confident and have a life thats on track with ambition. Hmm Lets see... Zero self esteem. Check Currently unemployed. Check Suffering from depression. Check Yeah, i am royally fucked.
/r/MensRights28/11/17 11:31 PM
9

Someone please tell me that this is some extremely early April fools prank?
/r/MensRights26/11/17 11:42 AM
9

Yeah thats the thing i looked at as well. I mean one nutjob like this is easy to brush off, but when the better part of a thousand people are approving of that comment its just unbelievable.
/r/MensRights26/11/17 11:25 AM
3

Throughout a persons life, they will be put in situations where they will be uncomfortable, irritated and every other sort of emotion which can effect a persons choices. Why should the educational system be any different?
/r/MensRights25/11/17 11:33 PM
10

Not saying it will turn into a legal situation, but be careful how you interact with this individual from now on. This isnt legal advice, but i would say never be in a room alone with her. Make a note of every interaction you have with her as well, just in case.
/r/MensRights25/11/17 11:21 PM
1

Oh definitely. My Dad cheated on my mum throughout their marriage and she only found out when i was 18 which was 10 years ago. She was completely heartbroken and furious as one might imagine. It took me years for me to repair my relationship with my dad, and sometimes even now i think is it worth this much hassle? Even worse? He refuses to admit that he did anything wrong.
/r/MensRights25/11/17 11:15 PM
2

I can see where you are coming from, and it is a well reasoned point. However I don't think i am going to budge on my opinion.
/r/MensRights25/11/17 10:48 PM
1

Perhaps only one of the two made a vow, but I find it hard to understand why someone would, after finding out the other person was married, sleep with them. It makes both of them equally responsible in my eyes.
/r/MensRights25/11/17 12:34 AM
1

First up, you don't know me, so you can take all you said about me flaunting fake morals and shove it. Secondly, I am aware of the situations across the world where people are in far worse circumstances than I, suffering from lack of proper food, water, shelter, abuse of all kinds. Yes, I do wish that i could change it, that i could make it all better. Am i in a position now to do so? No. Will i ever be in such a position where i can effect such a radical series of changes? Extremely unlikely to…
/r/MensRights25/11/17 12:30 AM
1

But you would also be involved in causing that? How can you not see something so obvious as this? Or are you actually that callous and uncaring that you would feel no guilt about taking part in an act that would guarantee someone else feeling pain and betrayal?
/r/MensRights24/11/17 09:15 PM
7

So what if the individual you slept with had children? And what if because You slept with this individual they went through a divorce, which would cause those children upset and pain, watching as their parents fought each other for custody and being caught in the middle? Would you still hold yourself blameless in this situation?
/r/MensRights24/11/17 05:19 PM
4

So you would feel no shame or guilt for taking part in the act that would cause so much pain and upset, the possible breaking of a family and putting possible children through the torturous process of having to watch their parents fight and scream at each? Well, that makes you a terrible person in my opinion.
/r/MensRights24/11/17 05:15 PM
20

I am liking this idea. I am liking it a lot.
/r/MensRights24/11/17 04:55 PM
6

So if you slept with a married individual, would that mean you were blameless in that situation?
/r/MensRights24/11/17 04:54 PM
13

Legally, she may not be responsible, no. But morally? Yes she is. Lets break this down. He knew he was married. (kinda obvious but still) She knew he was married. They both consented to have sex despite knowing this. Since both of them had prior knowledge of the circumstances, and both agreed to and participated in the act, both are as the judge said "shabby and immoral" You say the world owes you no fidelity. This is true, it does not. But the same time, there is such a thing as Personal Respon…
/r/MensRights24/11/17 03:51 PM
17

Point was, they both knew that he was married. Yes he is at fault for cheating on his wife, but she agreed to sleep with a married man, which makes her equally guilty of being "shabby and immoral". Not exactly rocket science to understand this.
/r/MensRights24/11/17 03:09 PM
2

some women will never speak out because they don't know if they will be believed And this of course does not apply to men, right?
/r/MensRights24/11/17 03:07 PM
506

I am seriously hoping that she gets fired for this comment. I mean lets face it, if it was a bloke who made a similar comment he would be out so fast the door wouldn't have a chance to hit him on the way out.
/r/MensRights24/11/17 02:51 PM
9

Well unsurprising, but still disappointing.
/r/MensRights19/11/17 06:55 PM
13

So what about Vulnerable men? Oh wait i forgot, they dont matter. /s
/r/MensRights19/11/17 03:56 PM
-1

Was a curiosity question. Wanna take a random guess?
/r/MensRights19/11/17 12:23 AM
48

And when you actually do put it on social media, how many people will report it as sexist hateful etc...
/r/MensRights18/11/17 11:21 PM
12

Isn't it more arrogant for someone who hasn't been in that position to tell someone who has what it is like? So are you saying that you Have been in this position? Because surely, if you have then you have literally just undermined all of your arguments. And also, i did say that I personally have been told to "man up" whilst battling depression. Please provide examples of when the accuser in the false claim got punished. It would be interesting to see what punishment they actually got. And i am …
/r/MensRights13/11/17 11:31 PM
11

I have never seen or experienced that and I presented as a guy for twenty five years Without trying to sound sarcastic, so you are saying that because you have not seen or experienced it means that it does not happen? That sounds remarkably arrogant in that context. the false accusation rate isn't the issue with child sexual assault, it's the lack of reporting and the difficulty getting convictions The lack of reporting of rape/sexual assualts of all kinds is a major problem, with all genders. H…
/r/MensRights13/11/17 11:11 PM
11

Well someone got on their high horse and rode off into the sunset. Jeez cool it down. All i was trying to point out, that if it was any group purporting anything other than feminism who were using the same tactics and providing the same type of data (biased/untrue/unfounded etc) then it would be ignored at worst, actively decried at best. I am not entirely sure why you are thinking that i don't support the rights of women as well as the rights of men. I support both. Each gender has their own is…
/r/MensRights13/11/17 10:29 PM
71

The ironic thing about this is if it was anything other than the feminist movement it would already have been seen for what it was and actions would of been taken against it.
/r/MensRights13/11/17 07:09 PM
2

I used to be sort of like that. I always thought the feminism was about equality and womens rights as they were the ones who still suffered disadvantages in the world. It was around about 10 years ago when it slowly started to seep into my mind that actually hold on, guys have it rough to. But it wasnt until three or so years ago that i actually came to realize things weren't always so clear cut. It started when i was on another subreddit, for a game i play. Final Fantasy XIV. I got in an argume…
/r/MensRights12/11/17 11:15 AM
3

Damn good job! If you make even one person question the usual rhetoric garbage that is spewed out in the education systems these days, it was well worth the effort. Keep up the good work!
/r/MensRights12/11/17 10:55 AM
3

I am sorry to hear about your situation. Best of luck with everything and i hope things work out for you.
/r/MensRights11/11/17 05:56 PM
3

Thing is, with all these allegations you don't know which are true and which are jumping on the band wagon. for all we know they all might be true, or they all might be false. Problem is, you are getting the usual trial by social media going at the moment and all the news outlets are running at least one story regarding these allegations.
/r/MensRights10/11/17 11:28 PM
1

So what is it called when a woman explains something to a man? Womansplaining? Cus i am sure i would be equally annoyed by a woman explaining something to me that i already knew as a man doing the same.
/r/MensRights06/11/17 09:48 PM
7

Stab and twist, right in the heart. But still, he says he will never give up on looking for his daughter. Damn straight because thats what parents are supposed to do.
/r/MensRights05/11/17 05:27 PM
3

That is absolutely disgraceful. I do not understand how people think it is "okay" to lay a false rape accusation against anyone, for any reason. But just because she was pissed off at him because he wouldn't lend her money?
/r/MensRights05/11/17 05:21 PM
13

I am glad it got sorted out for you. Best of luck in the future :)
/r/MensRights29/10/17 08:15 AM
6

I don't really know much about American Politics as I am English and don't really pay attention to them, but can you explain why Hillary Clinton is referred to as a a "war criminal"? I am honestly curious about this as I haven't heard any reason she would be called that.
/r/MensRights21/10/17 09:32 AM
1

Epic. I am going to try that next time!
/r/MensRights20/10/17 12:17 PM
2

..That's a weird image you just conjured in my head.
/r/MensRights20/10/17 09:36 AM
6

To be fair Jehovah witnesses offend me. Repeatedly. The last two months i have had four visits from them knocking on my front door saying they are here to "save my immortal soul from eternal damnation". I usually find telling them thanks but no thanks has very little affect on them so even though its rude i just shut the door on them and proceed to ignore them.
/r/MensRights20/10/17 09:34 AM
1

The things that i don't get is that they publish his picture when it's not even proven one way or another yet, and that they are going to invite all the students to discuss it during an open discussion or something. So basically the feminist nutjobs are going to say they piece and shout down anyone who infringes or disagrees with their idealogy. Sounds like an absolutely wonderful evening.
/r/MensRights13/10/17 11:31 PM
6

I know its completely SHOCKING isn't it
/r/MensRights13/10/17 07:32 PM
12

I know its completely SHOCKING isn't it
/r/MensRights13/10/17 07:29 PM
2

My advice? Get the hell out of there. She sounds like an abusive individual. If she is like this now, and is getting away with it, what do you think she is going to be like a year or five years from now? Get Out.
/r/MensRights12/10/17 01:34 PM
1

No injuries as such, but I had to do internal Health and Safety Investigations into Accidents/Incidents etc at my old workplace. I distinctly remember one investigation that i did where a woman supervisor fractured her fingers because she was pushing a cage in the incorrect way. I did everything by the book, covered all potential sources of info and when she was finally told that it was her fault she tried to file for discrimination in the workplace. Even when she was shown CCTV of her pushing t…
/r/MensRights12/10/17 01:31 PM
4

Sounds like a horrible mother in this aspect.
/r/MensRights07/10/17 04:31 PM
1

Whilst I think that the Ex Wife and the Clinic are out of order, the fact that the father is asking for the Clinic to pay for the child's expenses over her entire life including her wedding seems a bit over the top.
/r/MensRights07/10/17 04:29 PM
4

All the best! Hope things are getting better
/r/MensRights07/10/17 08:47 AM
14

The truth hurts. Apparently some people can't take it and find it offensive
/r/MensRights07/10/17 08:45 AM
1

That is so fucking stupid, pardon my language. I hope thins are okay for you now
/r/MensRights06/10/17 08:12 AM
6

I hope the little guy gets better. It is a procedure that should only be performed for a valid medical reason. To do this for a religious or social reason is a barbaric and cruel system.
/r/MensRights03/10/17 11:51 AM
1

because I know women are usually more self conscious To be honest this isn't really as true these days as it was in the past. Due to the easy access to the internet and films, people from both genders are seeing what is commonly being looked upon as " the perfect figure". My nephew is ten years old (just last month) and when i asked him what he wanted for his Christmas present (i try to get a head start because you ask them later and you get the "i don't know" comment) he asked me to get him som…
/r/MensRights03/10/17 11:41 AM
5

Unsurprising, but did anyone else notice that the comment she made (i am assuming it is a woman from the comments as i can't really see the picture) about her destroying his property got six likes? Apparently it is okay to destroy other peoples stuff now. Good to know
/r/MensRights03/10/17 11:34 AM
7

So is this saying women are bad drivers and they need their own specially designated parking spaces to be able to park properly? Cus that's what i am getting from it/
/r/MensRights01/10/17 07:53 AM
1

I just looked at this post after seeing that a white female young lady who was training to be a doctor got no jail time for stabbing her boyfriend. I am so glad to see that people have their priorities straight in the justice systems all around the world.
/r/MensRights26/09/17 12:09 PM
5

...What a colossal idiot. I am amazed that these people are actually able to survive.
/r/MensRights26/09/17 12:03 PM
0

Oh dear it would damage her career. Boo fucking hoo. (pardon my language) I mean come on she bloody STABBED someone. Regardless whether they were minor injuries or not, she got a knife and stabbed someone. How the hell she can get away without any realistic punishment is beyond me. This is stupid to the highest degree. They need to make it so that both genders get equal sentences for the same type of crime, none of this namby pamby bullshit we see so often. Its a bloody disgrace.
/r/MensRights26/09/17 11:54 AM
5

I live in the UK so i don't have to deal with all this title IX shit, but all i will say is Best of luck!!!
/r/MensRights22/09/17 11:56 PM
3

This really gets me. I got into a discussion a while back, and the topic of false accusations came up. It wasn't even about false rape, just false accusations in general. One of the guys i was talking to couldnt see the big deal after all, " they can just get on with their life now right?" I was completely and utterly flabbergasted. I mean how could he not see that false accusation or not their life would be damaged by a minor accusation like petty theft and completely destroyed by a major one l…
/r/MensRights22/09/17 01:34 PM
1

My mum is a cleaner, and has been for the better part of 20 years. She works in a school near where she lives, and goes there and puts up with rude children rude staff and some of the most disgusting habits that people can come up with. And what does she get? She gets looked down on by people because she is "just a cleaner". It makes me flip every bloody time i hear someone downing people who do the jobs that people turn their noses up at. In this case, I don't think its about being a man or bei…
/r/MensRights28/05/17 08:01 PM
1

Damn straight!
/r/MensRights25/05/17 01:21 PM
2

I am glad i am not the only one who has had trouble deciphering the meaning of this.
/r/MensRights14/05/17 05:34 PM
6

This is me Yes, which makes you an idiot then doesn't it -_-
/r/MensRights14/05/17 05:30 PM
1

Hypocrisy, thy name is Feminism
/r/MensRights13/05/17 10:08 PM
2

You deal it out, you'd better be prepared to take it.
/r/MensRights07/05/17 09:17 AM
3

Don't care. Still got what i meant so it can shove off :D
/r/MensRights03/05/17 06:28 PM
6

You think she would actually believe it?
/r/MensRights03/05/17 12:52 PM
3

whatever.
/r/MensRights03/05/17 09:15 AM
1

So they said in the article that they get their statistics from another organisation called Statistics Canada, yet the others are saying they distort them. Well why don't they ask to see the original statistics then? I would have thought that those statistics would be open for viewing by the public.
/r/MensRights03/05/17 09:02 AM
1

Thing that i dont get, is how the court/judge said that the sperm belonged to the woman? I mean, if a woman produces breast milk, then its still her breast milk regardless?
/r/MensRights28/04/17 08:25 AM
1

Logic need not be applied /s
/r/MensRights14/04/17 08:09 AM
3

I wonder if the University made any response?
/r/MensRights14/04/17 08:07 AM
5

In a Facebook video of the meeting, one man claimed: “It’s in everybody’s head by default that they think rape is OK.” Really? What sort of idiots actually believe that.
/r/MensRights23/03/17 10:22 AM
4

I laughed when i read the article...well at least part of it. I kinda switched off a quarter of the way through.
/r/MensRights18/02/17 06:59 PM
5

Think it was the Hitler thing?
/r/MensRights18/02/17 06:56 PM
2

So it mentions that women are more likely to pursue a degree than men, and ignores that for the rest of the article.
/r/MensRights30/01/17 09:08 AM
3

I was told when i was young, and i always tell other people, including my nephew and nieces, If you don't want to take it, don't give it.
/r/MensRights14/01/17 08:03 AM
7

The difference between the amounts awarded mentioned at the end of the article are completely laughable. True we don't know the extent of the sexual harassment, but the difference between half a million and 80 million? Yeah.
/r/MensRights14/01/17 08:02 AM
3

There were some good points in there, but the minute i saw that they used Buzzfeed as a source i lost interest.
/r/MensRights25/12/16 09:33 AM
1

How sad that they think this.
/r/MensRights22/12/16 06:36 AM
2

Best of luck!!!!!!!!!!
/r/MensRights15/12/16 08:13 AM
2

Before you start quoting the "patriarchy statistics" why don't you actually look up independent research statistics that aren't based on biased studies?
/r/MensRights15/12/16 08:01 AM
8

That is so screwed up I don't even know where to begin. What kind of people actually do this?
/r/MensRights15/12/16 07:57 AM
1

What the actual fuck is wrong with some people.
/r/MensRights14/12/16 07:47 AM
2

Ah the joys of double standards.
/r/MensRights14/12/16 07:33 AM
2

Serious?
/r/MensRights13/12/16 01:16 PM
1

Well to be fair, he is a complete and utter whackjob who is never gonna get into power.
/r/MensRights10/12/16 05:50 PM
3

Not really got any other info that the others havent given you, but could you let us know how it goes? It's always interesting in these situations to see how people react to cold hard irrefutable facts.
/r/MensRights08/12/16 11:52 PM
2

I just don't get stuff like this. How can people look at situations like this, or similar to this and think that it's ok? Why do people not use common sense?
/r/MensRights04/12/16 09:47 AM
1

I have seen a lot of strange stuff, but this takes the biscuit.
/r/MensRights04/12/16 09:31 AM
4

Whilst he was innocent of that crime, he wasn't completely guilt free. Edit: What I meant to is that the title makes it sounds like he was completely innocent of any crime but when you read the article you can see he was a drug user and a thief, and when he fought with an arresting officer over a stolen car he got charged with attempted murder because the gun went off during the struggle.
/r/MensRights01/12/16 08:06 AM
1

To be fair if i had to listen to anyone talking non stop for half an hour i would probably interrupt them as well.
/r/MensRights30/11/16 08:20 PM
1

Yeah my nephew told me the other day he and the other boys in his school had to take a "pledge to never hit a girl". He didn't have a clue what it represented. He's bloody NINE FUCKING YEARS OLD! My brother has already filed a complaint with the school and has a meeting with them this week.
/r/MensRights28/11/16 08:07 AM
14

This the thing that makes me laugh, because it is actually becoming like this. And surely anyone with an ounce of sense would see that by not being responsible for their own actions actually demeans them.
/r/MensRights28/11/16 07:57 AM
3

Don't bother trying to apply logic or rational thought. Won't work.
/r/MensRights19/11/16 07:15 PM
3

Well I am sorry, but she's an idiot. If some guy or girl is harrassing you on social media, which you voluntarily have to access, then just either block them, or don't go on there. How simple is that? It's not about you being a victim or anything, it's just goddamn common sense.
/r/MensRights19/11/16 07:14 PM
3

Asking if there was sexism behind the men not voting for Hilary? Oh for fucks sake are you not even bloody allowed to dislike or disagree with a woman without it being fucking classed as sexism? Absolutely ridiculous
/r/MensRights04/11/16 08:12 AM
2

I can't really add anything to what everyone else has, but in my opinion best thing you can do along with gathering all the facts is keep your cool. Don't lose your temper. Stay calm and answer politely and professionally. People always make more mistakes when angry. When debating the worst thing you can do is lose your rag. Best of luck!
/r/MensRights30/10/16 10:01 AM
5

Exactly. I don't care what gender you are, what colour skin you have or what religious beliefs you follow (unless you know, extremism and radicalization etc). The main question is, Can you do the job? Yes? Great welcome aboard. No? Sorry tough luck, next please.
/r/MensRights30/10/16 09:57 AM
4

Well the wookies are more reasonable and willing to listen.
/r/MensRights29/10/16 08:42 AM
2

Came here to make this comment. Saw you had already made it. Well done :)
/r/MensRights27/10/16 08:25 AM
4

I'm not salty over this joke. What I am salty over is the fact that this stuff happens in real life and is ignored. "doesn't take no for an answer" yeah imagine how that would go down with a bloke who wouldn't take no for answer.
/r/MensRights27/10/16 08:18 AM
3

Right lets go through the checklist: She sleeps with her student. Check She gets found out. Check She tries to turn it around and blame her student. Check She is of course the victim now. Check Yeah sounds about par for the course.
/r/MensRights24/10/16 08:32 AM
7

Personal attacks, strawmanning, and general uncharitable interpretation So basically anyone whose opinion doesn't match with theirs.
/r/MensRights23/10/16 07:01 AM
1

I'm not sure if this is known, but I have seen a lot about this Title IX which I know is American, but does anyone know if there is an equivalent of it in the UK?
/r/MensRights22/10/16 09:01 AM
79

"and women do spend so much more money throughout their lives" Yes. Yes they do. Don't worry though. Most of it is their husbands -_-
/r/MensRights15/10/16 05:36 PM
8

What the actual fuck? So they are saying "education will end the circle of family violence" when its been proven that a significant number of incidents of physical, mental and sexual abuse is caused by women? Seriously. What the fuck?
/r/MensRights15/10/16 05:34 PM
7

Surely equality by definition does mean treating everyone the same though. How do they even think that works?
/r/MensRights07/10/16 07:30 AM
1

Could you let us know how it's received? It would be interesting to know how the teacher(s) and the rest of the class react.
/r/MensRights05/10/16 08:01 AM
1

To be honest if its a choice of being there whilst the mrs goes shopping or going and doing the shopping with her...well i will stay at the pub i think. Though i will admit the double standards and the actual wording are offensive.
/r/MensRights02/10/16 07:51 AM
1

I have seen this before, and nothing has changed in my opinion of it. Still good, still open and honest and the woman in it is a bit of a muppet in my opinion. "safe spaces" my ass.
/r/MensRights21/09/16 07:50 AM
12

Dude GET OUT. NOW. If she is talking about it like that then it's only a matter of time before it does actually happen.
/r/MensRights14/09/16 07:57 AM
3

i got quite annoyed at the comment by the adoption agency that it was standard practice to avoid giving any information to the biological father. I mean can you imagine the outcry if an adoption agency said " we refuse to give any information regarding this child ,that has been put up to be adopted without the knowledge of one of the parents, to the mother" I think it would cause an absolute shitstorm.
/r/MensRights08/09/16 12:14 PM
1

As i said i wasn't commenting on the article. My eyes kind of glazed over when i tried. My comment was directed solely at the image. Regardless of whether it was their right of free speech or not, those teenagers were such idiots that they failed to understand the concept of decency. In my opinion, you don't put a sign up like that, as it can be considered rude and downright offensive, not to mention downright pathetic and tacky beyond belief, but thats just my opinion. If you disagree that's yo…
/r/MensRights07/09/16 11:00 PM
2

Never said that university did have a right to come down on them. All i said was that it was tasteless and probably designed to cause problems and that teenagers will be idiots regardless of location. I never condoned any violent conduct or any hate speech. I just pointed out something regarding the picture, not the actual article.
/r/MensRights07/09/16 12:06 PM
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To be honest its fairly tasteless and designed to cause problems. It seems that teenagers are going to be idiots regardless of gender or geographic location.
/r/MensRights07/09/16 06:56 AM
9

This is what i felt like when i found this place. I was a supporter of equal rights from a very young age, and of course as a kid, and a teenager i had no compunction or question about swallowing the same bullshit propaganda that the media put out about women being the oppressed sex and its unfair blah blah blah. You know that rubbish. And then when i was at college something, i don't even remember just clicked, starting the process of actually thinking about it. Then when my brother nearly got …
/r/MensRights07/09/16 06:49 AM
2

I was surprised that she didnt even bother trying to find one.
/r/MensRights07/09/16 06:36 AM
2

Yeah, been there done that. In my case tho it was a woman who called a couple of policemen over concerns that a strange man (me) was exhibiting worrying behavior around a small boy (my 4 year old nephew). The worrying behavior in question was that i was PLAYING with him in a park. So i got questioned by a couple of police for a good 10 minutes, in FRONT of my nephew who got very scared and upset. Was most pissed off as you can imagine. when everything was explained to the police they were very a…
/r/MensRights04/09/16 06:19 AM
2

Well done that man! I am guessing from the general grumpiness of the boy that he is in his teens though :D
/r/MensRights02/09/16 11:26 PM
2

I'm not seeing any problem with this idea. Why is it "punishing women"? As far as i can see the only punishment that they get is being forced to be truthful which in my opinion would be the decent and moral thing to do anyway.
/r/MensRights02/09/16 11:22 PM
2

I think my heart just broke, and then got shattered into a thousand pieces, then ground into dust.
/r/MensRights31/08/16 09:49 AM
3

If you're big enough to deal it out, you're big enough to take it. You don't like it? Well don't deal it out then. That's what i got taught.
/r/MensRights31/08/16 09:43 AM
3

Ahh the joys of dealing with whackjobs. 'tis such fun
/r/MensRights29/08/16 12:20 PM
1

Let us know how it goes.
/r/MensRights28/08/16 06:53 PM
5

ignoring the fact that women who are concerned can just take BC themselves This is the thing that gets me. Women say "oh i wouldn't trust a man to take a birth control pill" Well lady, there isn't anything stopping you from taking your own birth control. In fact it probably will make it safer if you do.
/r/MensRights28/08/16 07:52 AM
2

That's rough man.
/r/MensRights27/08/16 02:44 PM
9

So you get screwed over for doing the right thing?
/r/MensRights27/08/16 08:48 AM
2

Sorry, i can't really help you as i don't know much about the legal system, all i can say is from what wrote you sound like a great dad and i wish you all the best and hope it works out for you :)
/r/MensRights20/08/16 05:27 PM
4

I honestly do not see how the prime minister can actually suspend him when all he has done is quote facts and statistics and backed them up with actual evidence that the Government has had all along.
/r/MensRights18/08/16 11:21 PM
9

It says alot about some of the members of our society then doesn't it?
/r/MensRights14/08/16 07:33 PM
3

Some how ....I am not surprised
/r/MensRights14/08/16 04:29 PM
74

I still can't believe what i read on that story. I was so completely flabbergasted that someone could even 1. come up with that crap, and 2. Actually phone the police regarding it. What made it worse was that we had a nutjob at work who is a big time feminist ( I stay clear of her as much as possible) who was completely supporting the whole thing. She got very disgruntled about it when myself three guys and around about 5 women on their lunch break cracked up about when she mentioned it.
/r/MensRights14/08/16 04:19 PM
7

Please let us know the response :)
/r/MensRights12/08/16 06:46 AM
6

Ok...lets go back to the reverse the situation again. A guy pulls a womans pants down when she's drunk and takes a picture of her ass. He sends it to a guy who's got the major hots for her. Now let's look at the resulting situation. As you said, outcry would occur. Now in such a situation would you say that she would be justified in going to the police and filing charges against the person who did that? Would she not want to ruin someone's future job prospects because they did something that pis…
/r/MensRights01/08/16 12:08 PM
6

I would say she is still one even IF she apologises.
/r/MensRights01/08/16 12:02 PM
8

The thing is to actually be "un-ignorant" requires more thought and more questioning, and to be honest unless something shakes their view they are more than happy to keep drinking the Kool-Aid.
/r/MensRights31/07/16 05:56 AM
1

That's before i was born.
/r/MensRights16/07/16 07:51 AM
2

Come to the dark side we have cookies
/r/MensRights13/07/16 07:54 AM
1

I think i feel sick. No, I know i feel sick. How could she have done this? Even with all the craziness that these idiots embrace and preach. That poor kid. And why the fuck did the doctors allow it?
/r/MensRights04/07/16 07:53 AM
1

To be honest I am not really sure, however it is my opinion. May i ask what basis of your opinion?
/r/MensRights29/06/16 07:02 AM
1

No doubt, however it is the women who i believe are worse off in those sorts of countries.
/r/MensRights28/06/16 11:15 PM
1

Thing is from where I am standing you're advocating that people take a step up and assume a form of "personal responsibility" which most seem to lack these days. So as far as i am concerned your wife is being blindly ignorant.
/r/MensRights28/06/16 07:05 AM
1

I'm thinking the countries like Saudi Arabia etc.
/r/MensRights28/06/16 06:52 AM
1

Sure, there are areas in the world that women have it worse off than men. We admit that, however what most feminists do not admit is that there are problems and issues that affect men. i.e. Shorter lifespans, joint custody, unequal prison sentences for the same crime when compared to women, suicide rates are significantly higher in men than women etc. Mention any of these to a feminist and they will blurt out about the "wage gap" which has been proven to be a whole bunch of crap, or the "rape cu…
/r/MensRights27/06/16 07:27 AM
11

It sounds like he's trying to convince himself.
/r/MensRights27/06/16 07:13 AM
2

Wish i could change this so it said "ran into my boss" instead...
/r/MensRights24/06/16 08:15 AM
2

Strange usually its the other way around in my experience. Maybe i'm just lucky like that.
/r/MensRights24/06/16 08:13 AM
2

Well that is ...weird. You would of thought 1, if it happened all the time she would be used to it and 2, she would have the backbone to actually reply herself. What her BF is doing is actually very sexist and not a little controlling actually.
/r/MensRights24/06/16 08:12 AM
1

If they want to do that then fine, be my guest. Think its a stupid idea personally but meh.
/r/MensRights22/06/16 06:59 AM
1

That seriously sucks :( I hope things work out for you
/r/MensRights20/06/16 07:36 AM
13

That article left me fuming for the rest of the week after i read it. There's a woman at work who is in that situation, the father only recently being allowed equal custody. He took them on holiday for a couple of days during half term, nothing major just took them down to Cornwall as he has family down there apparently. She was bemoaning the whole time about how unfair it was. I mentioned how it must of been unfair for the bloke to be feeling that way before getting equal and everyone in the of…
/r/MensRights19/06/16 11:23 PM
1

Why did i even bother to read this? As soon as i saw the thread title i knew it was going to be one of those idiotic types. It makes me laugh when people accuse organisations/businesses etc of sexism because a man got the job/position over a woman. And when i mention that maybe, just maybe, they might have gotten it because they were more friendly, they had better knowledge of the role or they just did a better interview they look at me like I am crazy. As far as i am concerned i don't care if a…
/r/MensRights19/06/16 06:38 AM
1

single mothers celebrate on fathers day I think that is remarkably stupid, and invalidates the whole concept of fathers day. So to combat that we give single fathers the same thing rather than take it away from the mothers Why not take it away instead? Especially when it isnt right that they be celebrated on Fathers day anyway? And as for being idealistic, it's being foolishly idealistic, and completely unrealistic as well.This reality will not change. You may as well accept it.
/r/MensRights19/06/16 06:25 AM
1

Sorry but both are bad Not really. As for sharing the celebration and everyone being happy, i don't think that's going to happen. I also don't think it's a good idea either. The two days are too publicized, too popular and make companies too much money for it to ever change. Regardless of what happens, someone will be unhappy. It is part of life. Someone feels wronged, someone feels ignored and unhappiness follows. You are looking at it as too much of an idealistic concept, not as reality.
/r/MensRights19/06/16 05:22 AM
1

No it's not. It is saying to stop using father's day to celebrate mothers. Men don't use mothers day to celebrate mothers so its fair to expect the reverse.
/r/MensRights18/06/16 05:54 PM
6

What annoys me the most is his mum is saying that she is proud of him for not retaliating. To hell with that in my opinion! I think personally if you're big enough to deal it out then you're big enough to take it. If you don't like the results then tough you shouldn't of been behaving like that in the first place.
/r/MensRights16/06/16 06:54 AM
3

Well yes. Don't you know that the cause of all problems in the world is the fault of men? /s
/r/MensRights15/06/16 07:42 AM
3

Considering the fact you are not man...well how about you stop telling us how to be "better"
/r/MensRights15/06/16 07:38 AM
1

You see i wouldn't mind teaching, but the fact is there are two problems with that in my opinion. Teachers have no power these days-kids can basically get away with doing whatever and the teachers aren't able to do anything about it. The risk of being accused as a rapist or pervert- all it takes is one false accusation and your ruined for life. It doesn't have to be a student, it could be a fellow teacher, one of the admin staff etc. Once its done, even when you're innocent you are basically fuc…
/r/MensRights12/06/16 08:31 AM
7

I found it fairly typical that one of the moderators said "just be supportive of OP"... even when she is being completely and utterly sexist?
/r/MensRights12/06/16 08:24 AM
1

Never said it wasn't. You don't really make much sense...
/r/MensRights10/06/16 06:53 AM
1

I'm pretty sure that men have asked for them or asked for a reduction in price in compensation for the hours they aren't allowed to use the gym during, and got turned down flat. No idea where i read it though.
/r/MensRights09/06/16 07:11 AM
1

Why not? equality is a two way street. If they have them, then so should we otherwise it could be classed as discrimination. Which is illegal if i remember correctly.
/r/MensRights08/06/16 06:38 AM
1

Ah yes i keep on forgetting to apply that logic considering the fact that it doesn't actually exist :D
/r/MensRights07/06/16 08:58 AM
2

The term "Idiot" can be safely applied here i think.
/r/MensRights07/06/16 08:37 AM
3

The problem is though with that, we Don't get any "men only hours".
/r/MensRights07/06/16 07:20 AM
9

Try reversing the situation. A private company who have men only hours. I think there would be a fair amount of public denunciation. I'm not against the concept of women only hours, but in return i think there should be men only hours, or like the bloke said charge men less due to the hours they miss.
/r/MensRights07/06/16 07:09 AM
1

Oh for fucks sake. Seriously? Its a goddamn MOVIE! Its a piece of fictional work for crying out loud.
/r/MensRights05/06/16 07:47 PM
1

Nailed it in one.
/r/MensRights05/06/16 05:02 PM
1

So in that case, there is actually no legitimate reason for it then.
/r/MensRights05/06/16 05:58 AM
2

That's stupid beyond belief. Why the hell is that even allowed?
/r/MensRights05/06/16 04:15 AM
3

Seriously? That is so messed up.
/r/MensRights04/06/16 10:07 AM
3

I dont get why she needs it. I was under the impression that she was independently wealthy already?
/r/MensRights02/06/16 07:40 PM
1

How about you have a look down that cliff, then i plant my steel toe-capped boot up your dumb ass Arthur Chu?
/r/MensRights02/06/16 07:39 PM
7

So the other three are men...and surprise surprise no one actually gives a damn. It is disheartening seeing stuff like this. I just can't understand why some people are so willingly blind when presented with information that is so completely and utterly obviously stupid.
/r/MensRights02/06/16 08:58 AM
9

I hope they get what they deserve. Utterly disgusting. I always try think of what the situation would be like if it was reversed and the victim was female. Can just imagine the outcry if photos were taken of a girl instead of a bloke. Would be so much worse, despite it being the same situation.
/r/MensRights28/05/16 08:12 AM
6

How surprising -_-
/r/MensRights28/05/16 08:06 AM
2

Well I would say I am shocked...but I'm really not. It still makes me laugh seeing how deluded some people are refusing to even consider that their point of view may be wrong when presented with facts and the studies that back it up.
/r/MensRights26/05/16 07:37 AM
1

Logic doesnt apply to feminists.
/r/MensRights21/05/16 08:41 AM
7

I have no idea what to say except that i wish to god that this never happened. May he rest in peace.
/r/MensRights14/05/16 07:03 AM
1

what an absolute idiot. people like this really need to wise up before opening their mouths.
/r/MensRights14/05/16 07:01 AM
1

Yes. They screw up the lives of the people who they accuse, making them lose friends, family, jobs and shattering their confidence and ability to trust others. Then they can walk away without so much as a slap on the wrist in most case with their name and picture withheld from the press so no one else know what scum they are.
/r/MensRights14/05/16 06:56 AM
3

Immediately noticed that the accusers identity and picture was not published.
/r/MensRights13/05/16 07:29 AM
8

I really hope this gets around to her boyfriend.
/r/MensRights13/05/16 07:07 AM
1

Dont worry the British government (and yes I am British) spends money on crap all the time. Still pisses me off but you sort of become numb to it after a while.
/r/MensRights07/05/16 07:13 AM
3

Not really a good idea, videoing the kids. Can lead to all other sort of accusations and trouble.
/r/MensRights05/05/16 07:25 AM
1

Do i detect a slight hint of sarcasm there :)
/r/MensRights01/05/16 07:14 AM
24

Oh my god that poor bloke. I feel sick just seeing the pictures, I cant imagine what it must of been like to have been there. All I can say is i wish him the best of luck and I hope that he heals quickly, and wins full custody.
/r/MensRights01/05/16 06:57 AM
1

Most women living in refuge have given up their homes, their jobs, their security, their finances, Yes...funny how it doesn't matter that men usually have to suffer this when they get divorced.
/r/MensRights27/04/16 07:05 AM
7

Some people cant actually handle it when someone calls them on their bullshit. The minute the views they expressed get challenged, especially when the facts are all against them, and they back down, and slink away to hide in a corner. I just wish that they would actually LEARN from the experience. Instead they don't they just wait for a bit and then go back to spouting off the same old rhetoric that just got disproved.
/r/MensRights26/04/16 08:17 AM
2

I think the guy had a lucky escape there.
/r/MensRights19/04/16 11:01 PM
3

If someone said that to me, i would ask " how is that my problem?" Seriously though, why couldn't the theoretical woman get off her backside and get a job? If i had kids with her then yes i would provide child support, but as for providing for her? Hell no. She can do what the rest of us do and work for a living.
/r/MensRights17/04/16 10:42 PM
1

To be honest, i don't really care about the sexual pleasure thing. It's the fact that they think its ok to mutilate the male genitals.
/r/MensRights15/04/16 07:14 PM
3

I would probably put a big cross through the whole of the page and hand it in like that, and when asked about it explain that it states that men are the only ones who need to gain consent, which is not only untrue, but completely offensive and sexist.
/r/MensRights14/04/16 07:55 AM
1

Not really got any insight, but all i can do is wish you the best of luck possible, and i hope that you get through this.
/r/MensRights09/04/16 09:57 PM
3

Exactly. I think though sometimes you need to go through that phase to actually get to the better view point.
/r/MensRights03/04/16 02:06 PM
6

This is something i had to realise by myself. I never actually HATED women, but since reading all the stuff on here, and hearing about the shit that men go through...well it automatically makes me assume the worst about women. It's taken a while for me to be able to take a step back and looking at the situations i come across from a objective standpoint.
/r/MensRights03/04/16 01:55 PM
1

Well considering the fact that she didn't even actually ask, and instead relied on body language and gestures which are far more easily misinterpreted. Personally if it was a friend of mine i would of told them to get off their high horse.
/r/MensRights02/04/16 06:22 AM
1

Why do people not see this? I just don't get it.
/r/MensRights01/04/16 07:46 AM
2

What has she got to be re-traumatized about?
/r/MensRights31/03/16 07:00 AM
3

It's not just this video, there are several radio averts of this, all different but all the same. Men are the perpetrators and abusers and women are the victims. Gets me so riled up its unbelievable.
/r/MensRights31/03/16 06:58 AM
3

Get a lawyer. Make a note of EVERYTHING regarding your contact with her that you can remember include times and dates, and witnesses. Do NOT wait for this to blow over. It most likely wont. Best of luck
/r/MensRights29/03/16 07:50 AM
1

You and me both. I have seen the ad on TV and it made me so angry. Went to work and heard around about four different versions of similar garbage to this on the radio. Worse thing? The people at work were actively encouraging people to support this. Was like What the actual fuck.
/r/MensRights28/03/16 11:44 PM
1

Didnt realise someone else was annoyed about it :D great. Signing it now!!!
/r/MensRights28/03/16 11:40 PM
6

Well I watched it. Was very impressed by him. Then got annoyed when the Shadow Justice Minister said that the facts don't lead to the same conclusion. I'm not sure how that works, since if they are facts, and statistics, surely it is unlikely they do actually indeed lead to an alternate conclusion.
/r/MensRights27/03/16 05:36 PM
2

she's been banned from ok cupid for a while now, harrassing men on the site Why am i not surprised -_-
/r/MensRights23/03/16 08:38 AM
3

Oh my god. And she says that men are entitled? what a fucking joke.
/r/MensRights23/03/16 08:37 AM
2

The thing is it doesn't only work this way. I have a work colleague who's a woman. Her partner is classed as "unfit to work" due to some debilitating physical injuries he suffered when he was younger when he was actually working. But he still able to do stuff around the house, so whilst she's at work he tidies the house up, and gets food ready for the evening meal. It seems fair enough to me.
/r/MensRights20/03/16 06:57 AM
14

I would say I'm surprised...but I'm really not.
/r/MensRights17/03/16 12:02 AM
6

I like to ask for proof And there's your problem. You want proof. Evidence. So do people here. Feminists don't really like proof unless it agrees with their views. On here people accept proof is proof, regardless of whether it validates their own views or whether it proves them wrong.
/r/MensRights16/03/16 12:59 PM
1

The thing is I have never asked a girl i date to go and put make-up on. If they don't wear make up i'm not really bothered. if they do wear make up i'm not really bothered. It's their choice to wear it not mine. Also "don't know when men are going to rape us or kill us" are they actually that deluded by the media? Do people have NO common sense anymore T_T
/r/MensRights09/03/16 10:32 AM
7

Really? In my experience its the opposite way around at work. Women are the first to speak up about stuff.
/r/MensRights09/03/16 10:28 AM
1

They should all be locked up and they key thrown away. You can guarantee that the woman , even if she does get prosecuted will get a far more lenient sentence.
/r/MensRights09/03/16 08:19 AM
6

Reverse it so it says Men run the world, sit back and watch the outcry. Preferably grab some popcorn for the fun of it.
/r/MensRights09/03/16 08:16 AM
1

By all means tell the boy off, as the parent its a mothers and fathers right to punish him, and i have no issue with her making the kid buy the girl a new pair of shoes with his birthday money. HOWEVER there was no need to post it on facebook and publicly shame him. Jeez keep it private.
/r/MensRights07/03/16 11:12 AM
5

I don't get why people think that this is a good thing. It's not about have equal gender representation in jobs like this. If you can do the job then great, congratulations, but if you can't and you insist on the standards being lowered so you can do it, then in my honest opinion take a hike. It's a job where lives literally depend on your physical strength. If you're not strong enough, people could die because of it.
/r/MensRights06/03/16 06:02 PM
13

Wow she nailed it in one. If you hit someone, be it a man or woman, expect to get hit back.
/r/MensRights06/03/16 05:58 PM
2

Poor kid. It's absolutely disgusting that this happens, to anyone, whether it be a boy or a girl, man or woman.
/r/MensRights06/03/16 08:35 AM
2

Nailed it in one.
/r/MensRights04/03/16 08:29 AM
2

Damn good news. Hope it happens over here in the UK as well.
/r/MensRights27/02/16 12:00 AM
2

I hold the door open for anyone. Doesn't matter if they are male or female to me.
/r/MensRights26/02/16 09:42 AM
4

Perhaps I didn't put it across as well as it sounded in my head. It's easy to consider yourself as JUST the victim. Poor little me, me against the world etc.
/r/MensRights21/02/16 10:37 PM
3

I will freely admit that i was one of the latter group. However lately i have been thinking, really thinking to myself. Its so easy to jump up and point a finger at a person, a group, anything and say that THEY are the ones to blame. But if i do that what type of person does that make me? How am I any different from those who blame an entire group of individuals instead of the single bad apple? It's very easy to see yourself as the victim, to see the group you associate yourself with as a victim…
/r/MensRights21/02/16 10:18 PM
1

what an idiot
/r/MensRights21/02/16 09:44 PM
1

May we hear what her reaction was?
/r/MensRights21/02/16 07:51 PM
8

Oh my god. I hope this is fake because if not it just broke my heart.
/r/MensRights21/02/16 07:50 PM
1

Very true.
/r/MensRights21/02/16 08:36 AM
3

You have got to love people who make judgements about forums like this one when they have quite likely never even visited one.
/r/MensRights21/02/16 08:29 AM
2

You know where you made you're first mistake right? You used logic and rational thought in a conversation with a feminist, along with standing by the way that due process works. How very dare you/s
/r/MensRights21/02/16 08:28 AM
3

Which is far more than the average person makes. Oh the Humanity!/s
/r/MensRights21/02/16 08:25 AM
1

Thank you. Was fairly interesting, though the young chap looked so fake that i thought he would melt if you put him next to a radiator.
/r/MensRights20/02/16 05:22 PM
1

Do you have a link to a video of this discussion?
/r/MensRights20/02/16 10:17 AM
0

What the actual fuck. That Judge needs to have his head checked.
/r/MensRights19/02/16 09:33 AM
2

Yeah, i am ok, Just been going through some rough patches lately. Thanks for asking though :)
/r/MensRights19/02/16 08:46 AM
6

I'm a bit unsure of why the BBC did this as they aren't the most supportive of Men's Rights, but at the same time it hit me so hard. Especially the end part where he just calmly puts his clothes back on, hiding all of the stuff under them. It's so like that in my life. It really hit home.
/r/MensRights17/02/16 05:02 PM
3

The thing that annoys me with stuff like this is not so much the article, its when you try to explain to people that its not just men who are domestic abusers, but women as well. Then you get that Are you being serious look followed by the I don't even know where to start look.
/r/MensRights17/02/16 04:56 PM
7

The title of the thread made me laugh, because my immediate thought was well yes that is a possibility, however what about the fact that as it remains now, it wrecks the lives of many men? Double Standards. You got to love them /s
/r/MensRights17/02/16 08:11 AM
1

I'm not having a go at you. I just find the whole thing about cowardice to be distasteful. I do not like fighting. I would always try to avoid fighting if possible. Does that make me a coward? No. But the way it was said in the article makes it sound like all men who wish to avoid fighting are cowards.
/r/MensRights16/02/16 04:38 PM
1

Perhaps but i still find the whole concept to be offensive. If you put someone in a situation that has the potential for death or serious harm to themselves, likelihood of them freezing up is i would say fairly significant.
/r/MensRights14/02/16 03:39 PM
3

Some men will simply be too afraid, and allow that fear to impede action. Cowards. I find this part to be extremely offensive. So a person who is scared of something that could end in his or her death is a coward? Absolutely charming.
/r/MensRights13/02/16 04:15 PM
2

Thing is, if a man does "chase her" and "pursue her" etc he's accused of being too pushy stalkerish creepy etc. Just can't win.
/r/MensRights13/02/16 03:38 PM
1

Yeah, you could tell that she was trying to find a way out of the conversation when all in fact she was doing was digging herself deeper.
/r/MensRights12/02/16 08:32 PM
2

I'm so sorry for your loss. I hope that wherever he is now he finds some measure of peace.
/r/MensRights03/02/16 07:56 AM
4

So all four of her kids have different fathers. And she is thinking that there is something wrong with each man? uhuh...might want to look a bit closer to home lady.
/r/MensRights31/01/16 10:27 PM
2

Was going to mention this. I think it should of been written as Violence perpetrated by woman is often not recognised.
/r/MensRights31/01/16 10:10 PM
1

How the heck do they think thats ok?
/r/MensRights31/01/16 10:06 PM
32

That is sick.
/r/MensRights29/01/16 09:29 AM
5

Sexual risk orders were introduced in England and Wales in March last year and can be applied to any individual who the police believe poses a risk of sexual harm, even if they have never been convicted of a crime. Did i just read this right? Seriously someone please tell me i read this wrong.
/r/MensRights23/01/16 07:53 PM
2

Do people actually honestly believe that? O.O
/r/MensRights19/01/16 09:19 AM
6

Good heavens will she just shut up and bugger off?
/r/MensRights17/01/16 11:46 PM
8

Run. Get her out of your life, it's not worth it. Anyone who makes that threat has the potential to follow through with it. This relationship is not worth the rest of your life being destroyed because thats what will happen should she ever actually make that claim.
/r/MensRights17/01/16 10:25 AM
1

Are they for real? Jeez get a life.
/r/MensRights06/01/16 10:46 PM
2

Pretty much sums it up rather succinctly.
/r/MensRights05/01/16 01:33 PM
4

What. the. fuck. Please let that boy be safe. Please.
/r/MensRights30/12/15 12:44 AM
3

Wait...what. Did i just read that correctly?
/r/MensRights30/12/15 12:43 AM
1

This always makes me chuckle. I had a discussion similar to this with a co-worker. My conclusion was it doesn't matter what gender you are as long as you can do the job properly.
/r/MensRights28/12/15 08:52 AM
9

Completely on the womans side here. Call it what you want, but a parents number one priority are their kids. She did right here.
/r/MensRights28/12/15 08:50 AM
1

Might not be what you want to hear, but in my opinion just get it over with. It's going to suck, and it's going to take time to heal, but move on with your life and stay clear of her. From what you have said its not worth it.
/r/MensRights28/12/15 08:48 AM
13

2, you absolutely cannot trust either your ex or her attorney. 3, you absolutely cannot trust either your ex or her attorney. Cant emphasize this enough.
/r/MensRights28/12/15 08:43 AM
2

socially normal Well maybe it is the social norm there. However that doesn't make it right. (Not saying you find it right either)
/r/MensRights25/12/15 12:17 AM
12

What an absolute fucking disgrace. How any parent can do that to their child is beyond me. A parents role is to nurture guide and PROTECT. I am not seeing the protection here. Fucking sick.
/r/MensRights24/12/15 09:33 PM
3

Under Utah law if a couple isn’t married the mother has the right to give a baby up for adoption without the father’s consent. This law has been challenged before, and it may be challenged again. What i want to know is why ,if the law has been challenged before, it has not been changed? Surely if laws are challenged like this one the least that people in positions of authority can question why it is still in place?
/r/MensRights29/11/15 05:14 PM
1

Would of asked that they made everyone including the girls and switched from "women" being hurt to "everyone" otherwise would of stayed seated.
/r/MensRights26/11/15 09:39 AM
3

Oh my god, that is absolutely awful. How could they do that? And how could the people wishing to adopt still push for the adoption when he obviously didn't want to give up his daughter? I feel sick just reading that.
/r/MensRights21/11/15 08:29 AM
1

Great! Best of luck!
/r/MensRights15/11/15 09:00 AM
1

I don't have any off the top of my head atm (its 6am in britain and i have to go to work) but could you let us know how this works out? would be interested in seeing the result.
/r/MensRights14/11/15 06:49 AM
2

will let him pay for the date Wow and here i thought generosity was dead. Really to kind of her /s
/r/MensRights09/11/15 08:09 AM
1

Despite being an adult, if my parents found that i had been rude like that ...i shudder to think of the consequences...
/r/MensRights08/11/15 09:17 AM
1

You're a damn good father.
/r/MensRights07/11/15 08:04 AM
6

their biased views of the situation. That's not fair to the kids. I don't think its a biased view. She killed their father. THAT'S not fair to the kids.
/r/MensRights05/11/15 07:53 AM
1

Thanks, it did make me smile a bit. thanks for the reply :)
/r/MensRights27/10/15 12:12 PM
6

Now, i'm a fairly shy guy. In fact I am so shy and lacking in confidence when it comes to women that i have been single for 8 years (i am 25 btw). I don't do the "regular" stuff that allows guys and girls my age to mingle, ie going to nightclubs and bars and getting completely and utterly shitfaced, so i have a harder time to actually meeting any women. Anyway, i was in town the other day and i saw this woman, and all of a sudden i felt an urge to go and talk to her. So despite my lack of confid…
/r/MensRights27/10/15 08:42 AM
2

Some people are complete idiots. I have had this conversation or one like it so many times, and the people i explain it to are still ignoring the basic fact of why should things be different just because you reverse the genders?
/r/MensRights27/10/15 08:32 AM
1

Personally I would walk out of there that evening, regardless. If she wants to do something stupid then its on her not me. True i might feel some guilt over that but not so much that it would stop me. HOWEVER, i can understand that not all people feel like that. I hope he is able to get out of the situation safely and get on with his life. All the best of luck!
/r/MensRights27/10/15 08:29 AM
4

To the jerk who put that there...go jump of a cliff.
/r/MensRights26/10/15 09:47 AM
7

When people know of me but they don’t really know the work, they hear the term ‘feminist’ or ‘sexual-violence prevention,’ they think, ‘super-extreme, bra-burning feminism,’” Not really, i think " hmm person who doesn't allow a bloke to defend himself against accusations that could be false, is also denied the right to question his accuser and then get thrown out of the college without a single eyebrow being raised by the staff" But other than that I'm sure she's a swell young lady :D
/r/MensRights25/10/15 11:46 PM
1

Would of gone in anyway, and if asked to leave would of said "ok, just let me know when the shop is open for men only"
/r/MensRights21/10/15 11:09 PM
3

I read an article about this on another webpage when i was at work and i was completely furious. When asked by my manager why i was so angry i pointed this story out to him. He still didn't get it. I told him, that unlike what the article said, its not just "non-consensual sex" it is RAPE. He was completely taken aback by it and told me i was overreacting. I told him " Ok then, how about you reverse the positions? say its a man that is stepping down?" He immediately said that would be rape. He t…
/r/MensRights17/10/15 08:45 AM
5

Like everyone else has said: Get out. Now. Not legal advice as i am not a lawyer, but maybe look into legal options of keeping her away from you, just in case they are needed.
/r/MensRights14/10/15 08:45 AM
3

Just out of curiosity did you show this to the friend who told you about the "male privilege"? and if you did, how did she react? I find it interesting, as in my experience you get the nutjob feminists who refuse to believe any fact that contradicts their belief in their own oppressed victimhood state, and those who actually are open-minded and willing to listen.
/r/MensRights14/10/15 08:30 AM
1

is a gift to misogynistic men." personally i think its a gift for everyone.
/r/MensRights10/10/15 08:24 AM
1

Are they fucking serious? I mean jeez!
/r/MensRights07/10/15 07:25 AM
1

I dont think i have ever seen my dad cry. And if i do, i honestly dont know how i would cope with that. we have had our disagreements but he has always been this unshakable rock in my life, the one who would always be there standing tall regardless.
/r/MensRights04/10/15 04:13 PM
3

Damn straight. And well said!
/r/MensRights04/10/15 07:48 AM
3

There is nothing wrong with a male showing children affection. I do exactly the same with my nephew and my nieces, and have been told by them that i spend more time with them than their mother who just does what the hell she wants to and leaves them to get on with stuff. Im sorry you're having to go through this, and i wish you and Emily all the best!
/r/MensRights04/10/15 07:45 AM
1

I knew i shouldnt of clicked on it as it would just make me mad. Unfortunately i was right.
/r/MensRights03/10/15 04:28 PM
3

Like when someone says "Not all men" and feminists say "thats not the point, stop making this all about you" Had some annoying feminist say that to me a while back, and i was like "yeah, but since your disparaging blokes, and i AM a bloke, it is all about me" Pissed me off something chronic because it was at work, so she filed a complaint with the manager saying that i had been abusive to her (complete bullshit) and had disciplinary action filed against me. It got sorted out soon after, but man …
/r/MensRights02/10/15 08:19 AM
1

Thing is she is damn attractive and then she opens her mouth and talks about feminism and she loses all appeal.
/r/MensRights01/10/15 08:24 AM
1

Personally I'm impressed that your husband was able to remain calm. If it was me i would had a fair few things to say to the people who said that, none of them complimentary.
/r/MensRights27/09/15 10:58 PM
2

Took the words right out of my mouth. Damn Straight they bloody well count!
/r/MensRights27/09/15 10:56 PM
1

Huh. Must of missed that. On the other hand ...Kinda thought it was to good to be true.
/r/MensRights27/09/15 06:21 PM
2

I'm of two minds about this. Whilst I'm happy that they admit that Men need a DV helpline, i'm not happy about the fact that the women's one is open 24/7 whilst the men's one is open only for 15 hours. Still, I'm happy to take progress in small steps.
/r/MensRights27/09/15 06:36 AM
3

Well done that supervisor.
/r/MensRights23/09/15 11:09 AM
2

Yeah read this article the other day. Got in an argument with someone at work about who turns out to be a white knight. Joy.
/r/MensRights19/09/15 08:11 AM
5

The part that made me laugh was the fact that she was going on about not needing to provide statistics, and then she went on to say "there's a correlation". Correct me if i am wrong but surely correlations are to do with statistics.
/r/MensRights19/09/15 08:06 AM
8

Damn onions....
/r/MensRights19/09/15 08:01 AM
111

So what else could he of done? Somehow run a background check on her without having any hope of doing so?
/r/MensRights18/09/15 11:03 AM
2

Well that certainly clears that up. No chance of confusion now huh?
/r/MensRights17/09/15 11:37 PM
5

Ok first up wtf? All I meant by that comment was that daily mail isnt exactly known for publishing cutting edge journalism.not sure what hell you mean by " you are not fooling anyone". And secondly WHY exactly would I want to fool anyone? Especially regarding such laughable article's? Next time address me in a more polite manner if you please. EDIT: grammar
/r/MensRights11/09/15 09:05 PM
1

So what would she actually have to speak about if they told her that she needed to discuss other issues?
/r/MensRights11/09/15 12:55 PM
-2

Didn't see them on here read them on the daily mail website, so its probably fairly full of rubbish in addition to the actual truth.
/r/MensRights11/09/15 12:45 PM
53

Even a broken clock is right twice a day.
/r/MensRights11/09/15 03:49 AM
19

I get the same experiences. I tried to explain to a couple of people (one woman and one white knight who thought the sun shone out of feminism backside) and despite the fact that i was backing the points up with facts and studies i would of had better luck talking to a brick wall.
/r/MensRights11/09/15 03:45 AM
14

Saw both those stories. What a bunch of idiots.
/r/MensRights11/09/15 03:40 AM
-1

Nice to see that the understanding of the English language is still high checks again Oh...wait...never mind.
/r/MensRights11/09/15 03:38 AM
5

It made me laugh when it said "undeniable benefits". It may do if you have a career in mind, but at the end of the day if you go there and don't have a clue what you want to do, all your going to end up with is a ton of debt and a degree you probably won't ever use.
/r/MensRights07/09/15 07:01 AM
3

Yes I am in the UK. And my nephew is a little young for me to explain this stuff to him, he's only seven. I will wait for a few more years before i introduce him to this fact of life.
/r/MensRights07/09/15 06:26 AM
1

Of course not! We would have to pay for them of course, I mean why give blokes something for free when we can pay for stuff? /S
/r/MensRights06/09/15 07:10 AM
1

Personally I would sit back put my feet up grab a beer and toast the complete and utter destruction of all rational sense.
/r/MensRights06/09/15 07:08 AM
1

join the club.
/r/MensRights06/09/15 07:07 AM
8

I agree with you that if feminism didnt exist then in all likelihood MRA's wouldnt need to exist. It would be brilliant! BUT it does exist and so MRA's do need to exist. Reality sucks sometimes.
/r/MensRights06/09/15 06:36 AM
12

Well arent you the lucky one. Let me tell you a little fun scenario that happened to me a few years ago. I was in a playground with my four year old nephew and my mum. She had to use the toilets in the nearby leisure centre, so i was left with my nephew alone. There was a group of mothers who had arrived just before my mum had left, and a few minutes had passed when i noticed that they were looking at me strangely. I didnt think anything of it, and kept on playing with my nephew. A few minutes a…
/r/MensRights06/09/15 06:22 AM
1

So does that mean all single fathers get the extra thanks on mothers day?
/r/MensRights06/09/15 06:04 AM
11

It exists in the real world, not just on the internet. I wish things like this weren't necessary, but the fact remains that they are. And just because you haven't seen a woman in real life who oppresses men doesn't mean they don't exist.
/r/MensRights06/09/15 05:59 AM
5

Oh my god. Please tell me that this women is suffering from a serious delusional breakdown and is seeking professional help.
/r/MensRights05/09/15 05:04 PM
2

Sounds about right. Idiocy at its finest.
/r/MensRights05/09/15 01:52 PM
1

Now I'm pretty sure that "positive discrimination" 1. Is still discrimination and 2. is still a bad thing. Some idiots just make me wonder how they actually are able to think straight if they believe shit like that.
/r/MensRights05/09/15 08:16 AM
1

Well I'm from Britain and I would take it.
/r/MensRights03/09/15 08:37 AM
15

That last part made me cough up my drink. “It was my life, it was what I wanted to do,” she says, holding back tears. Sorry Lady, things dont always go according to plan in life. Sometimes you fall down and you have to climb back up on your feet. It happens to people all the time. Get over it.
/r/MensRights03/09/15 08:36 AM
2

Yeah...I know my own worth, and sorry but I'm not sharing it.
/r/MensRights01/09/15 11:42 PM
2

I managed 5 seconds. Then I yawned and turned it off.
/r/MensRights31/08/15 08:14 AM
1

Jeez someones grumpy. I'm no lawyer and since like you said I made an "emotional argument" its my OPINION, we are still allowed to have those here are we not? However, at the end of the day, Im just glad that she is facing some punishment for it.
/r/MensRights31/08/15 07:12 AM
1

She should be charged with murder. She encouraged him to do it, as far as i am concerned that makes it murder.
/r/MensRights30/08/15 08:46 AM
2

Huh must of missed that memo...
/r/MensRights28/08/15 08:57 AM
2

The thing that makes me laugh is that they sound so surprised by this.
/r/MensRights23/08/15 08:28 AM
1

Until you find a feminist who disagrees with you because of... y'know reasons.
/r/MensRights21/08/15 09:04 PM
2

You have my utmost sympathies. I can't even begin to imagine how hard it must of been to come to that heartbreaking decision. All i can say is good luck, and all the best!
/r/MensRights20/08/15 11:31 PM
2

I was going to say I don't even know where i would start with that one, but it seems that everyone else has written exactly what i wanted to say, so i will add one thing. Such deluded idiocy renews my faith in the fact that feminists are completely and utterly 100% bonkers.
/r/MensRights20/08/15 11:29 PM
2

Seriously, some individuals actually believe this crap?
/r/MensRights16/08/15 07:25 PM
2

Journalistic integrity To be honest i wasn't even aware that this existed anymore, and i appreciate being shown that i was wrong.
/r/MensRights16/08/15 07:20 PM
1

I am mortified :D
/r/MensRights12/08/15 11:04 PM
9

I hadnt seen that article before. Oh my god.That is disgusting.
/r/MensRights12/08/15 11:04 PM
14

I shouldnt laugh because its unfortunately true. you bring something like this up and you get the cold look of disgust and the compulsory speech about women being oppressed and needing to rise up and defend their rights by oppressing mens rights, cus y'know thats OK!
/r/MensRights12/08/15 10:59 PM
2

Seriously? WTF?
/r/MensRights11/08/15 07:56 AM
2

These days it's getting to the point where you need to see a form of Identification like a driving licence or passport before you have sex.
/r/MensRights11/08/15 07:44 AM
1

WTF?
/r/MensRights08/08/15 05:57 AM
6

For me, my personal one is that whenever Men's Rights are brought up into the limelight in society, they are immediately bashed and brutalized before being shoved to the dark damp corner where no one needs to look at the ugly truths. And to make matters worse people seem to actually encourage this behavior as well. Oh and a second one is the White Knight syndrome. You bring up anything that could make women or feminism look bad or cause people to question it, these idiot men who's rights your tr…
/r/MensRights05/08/15 08:03 AM
3

I find it extremely irritating that its taken this long for them to realise when it's so obvious.
/r/MensRights29/07/15 07:07 AM
2

Think they forgot to put the /S after the supporting equal pay thing.
/r/MensRights26/07/15 07:13 AM
22

She says she doesn't hate the woman who killed her son. Well she's a more forgiving person than I am.
/r/MensRights13/07/15 12:29 PM
5

Hell, it doesn't have to be an older man. I was playing with my nieces in a park and I got verbally abused in front of them by a group of teens. I am 25, and my nieces are 5. We were playing on the swings, (them being on the swings and me pushing them) and to this day i do not understand how anything bad can be construed from that.
/r/MensRights12/07/15 06:22 AM
7

Redditors are apparently members of Pao's (former) "workplace" now Does that mean we can get paid XD
/r/MensRights12/07/15 06:18 AM
6

Wow. Thats dumb. Like REALLY dumb.
/r/MensRights10/07/15 11:07 AM
3

Yeah, saw a story about this. A woman complaining that if her benefits get cut to 20K a year then she will be homeless. She has eight children. Most common responses are " Children aren't a money ticket" and " If you can't afford them, dont have them".
/r/MensRights10/07/15 11:06 AM
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Whilst i don't condone violence, it was clearly self defence in that circumstance. Yet the company has stated that due to that incident both employees have been fired. So he got fired for defending himself? Or am i missing something?
/r/MensRights10/07/15 11:02 AM
2

It doesn't go without saying, but it damn well SHOULD go without saying.
/r/MensRights25/06/15 11:02 AM
2

Yeah, My Dad and I had a rough relationship when i was a kid, nothing bad, just not close. But now that I am an adult i can look back and see all the stuff he did for me, and all the things he taught me. And the fact that people automatically seem to assume these days that the Dad=deadbeat pisses me off something chronic. Sure there are gonna be Dads who are not good role models or good fathers, but the same could be said for mothers.
/r/MensRights22/06/15 11:55 AM
15

Yeah. Someone where I work put a sign similar to this up. I complained to management about pointing out the sexist attitudes towards men, and they took it down. However the fact that it got put up in the first place, and the fact that I had to POINT out that it was sexist still pisses me off. Of course I got told by other staff that I was "overreacting" and that it was "just a joke". I then pointed out that it wouldn't be a joke if it was aimed at women, and they looked like I had just said some…
/r/MensRights21/06/15 06:52 AM
1

I hope he rips them a new one (financially speaking)
/r/MensRights21/06/15 06:44 AM
10

I got taught when i was a kid: If your big enough to deal it out, your big enough to take it.
/r/MensRights17/06/15 11:59 AM
1

That is Great! Have Police across the whole world do this please!
/r/MensRights17/06/15 11:56 AM
1

true, but from experience the words Journalism and Integrity usually are at opposite ends of the spectrum.
/r/MensRights08/06/15 07:23 AM
1

Why is it always portrayed as a bad thing? Equality for everyone I mean. We don't deny that there are women who suffer from DV or sexual assult/harrassment, so why do they deny that the same things happen to men?
/r/MensRights08/06/15 07:22 AM
5

More toxic spiel. One has to wonder how delusional these idiots actually are to even believe what they are saying. To the feminists: In my humble opinion, why dont you shut the hell up for a change?
/r/MensRights08/06/15 06:54 AM
7

This has happened to me with my nephew. Near enough the same thing. Didn't get an apology either. Was able to give the woman a piece of my mind or two though before she left.
/r/MensRights05/06/15 09:51 PM
4

Wow. For the first time i find myself agreeing with jeremy kyle...
/r/MensRights05/06/15 11:24 AM
3

Hmm, yeah i recognize the description. very accurate that.
/r/MensRights02/06/15 12:11 PM
1

the patriarchy has failed to inform me that I'm supposed to feel that way Disgraceful! See your local Club leader!
/r/MensRights01/06/15 10:09 PM
3

Those comments were rather entertaining. Especially that one person who kept on trying to defend it with the other constantly ripping them apart. Made me chuckle.
/r/MensRights01/06/15 10:07 PM
3

Just out of curiousity, has anyone actually ever queried her on this statement? I would love to hear the discussion that followed such a question.
/r/MensRights28/05/15 12:27 PM
9

And reading this is the official highlight of my day. What an absolutely brilliant tale to read before going to work! Thank you very much for sharing!!
/r/MensRights27/05/15 11:58 AM
1

I know this is going to make some readers livid, but stay with me: Yeah. Stayed with you. Still livid. I have to admit that this is the one of the dumbest things i have ever read. How on earth people are taking this seriously is beyond me.
/r/MensRights27/05/15 07:50 AM
2

So sorry to hear that. RIP
/r/MensRights27/05/15 07:41 AM
7

I thought when i started to read this that it couldnt be that bad. How wrong was I? This is unbelievably disgusting and completely out of line. How dumb do the people who make up this stupid crap have to be?
/r/MensRights25/05/15 06:15 AM
5

Well that's extremely disgusting, both from the mother and the fathers points of view. Why the hell would you do this to your child who you care for more than life itself?
/r/MensRights22/05/15 08:31 PM
1

You're assuming that the people who created that room actually care about the law when it disagrees with them. And if it does, well its the Patriarchy at work again, repressing them /s
/r/MensRights21/05/15 07:08 AM
1

Saying things like "well she would do it to you if she had the chance" As far as I'm concerned the fact that you aren't doing it makes you a better person than she is. In my opinion, you need to to do the best by yourself and your daughter, and if not bringing the debt up is the best thing then do that.
/r/MensRights19/05/15 08:10 AM
2

Yeah and of course men don't feel like they have high standards to live up to of course do they. It's not like they are pressured to look like models or celebrities. Of course not, its only women who have these problems /s
/r/MensRights18/05/15 10:39 AM
2

That disgusting.
/r/MensRights18/05/15 10:35 AM
6

I find it rather hypocritical tbh. True, she went through as horrific experience with cancer and chemo, and i'm glad for her that she survived. HOWEVER, she herself said that she wished she had been less concerned about being fair to him. now, imagine if you would, the situation being reversed and the man being the one who had to deal with this. Somewhat different ending methinks.
/r/MensRights04/05/15 07:30 AM
5

You sound surprised.
/r/MensRights03/05/15 08:23 AM
3

As an avid player of the final fantasy games (especially FFXIV A Realm Reborn!) all i can say is that i honestly dont care about the characters as long as i get to enjoy the game.
/r/MensRights01/05/15 11:31 AM
15

They never put their heads down in the first place it seems.
/r/MensRights01/05/15 11:25 AM
21

...Wot? reads again ....Wot?
/r/MensRights01/05/15 11:25 AM
1

I hope he sues that woman for everything she's got.
/r/MensRights28/04/15 09:04 AM
3

Well done that Innocence project! Keep it up!
/r/MensRights28/04/15 09:01 AM
28

"If we use proof in rape cases, then we fall into the pattern of rape deniers" I...I don't even know where or how to start with this one.
/r/MensRights28/04/15 08:53 AM
1

The main one that i find to be a double standard is that woman get the option of getting out of the responsibility of parenthood with the option of abortion. Now i'm not saying its easy, and i'm not saying that there are no consequences from either, but men simply do not get the option. If a man gets a woman pregnant, and she wishes to keep the child, he is stuck paying child support whether or not he wishes to be involved in the childs life or not. I honestly cannot see why there can't be a law…
/r/MensRights17/04/15 06:47 AM
6

I know its tough mate, but you gotta stick with it. You're doing the right thing for yourself. It's not easy. It's goddamn painful and feels like your ripping your heart out. But as hard as it is, this is the first step on a difficult journey to escape this nightmare. Good luck and all the best :)
/r/MensRights16/04/15 08:08 PM
12

Can you point out please where the improvements for the mens reproductive rights are taking place?
/r/MensRights16/04/15 07:46 PM
16

First up, CONGRATS! Secondly, I find it disgusting (but not surprising) that you had to go through this entire rigmarole just to see your kids again. I hope this goes well for you and that you get to see your daughters again. I'm betting that they have missed their dad!
/r/MensRights16/04/15 07:09 PM
4

Indeed. If I was in a sarcastic mood I would be asking for bets on how long the post would last before being deleted XD
/r/MensRights16/04/15 05:59 PM
1

They cleverly set this idea up? Yeah so far nothing clever about it. If I went to buy something and found out that they were charging me more than a woman I would tell them to not even bother as I wouldn't be buying anything from there.
/r/MensRights16/04/15 05:57 PM
12

Yeah, and please inform us about the reactions you get there. I'm not being insulting or anything for anyone who reads this, I honestly wish to know their reactions.
/r/MensRights16/04/15 05:41 PM
6

Out of curiosity has any teacher/students spoken to you regarding these? I can imagine there would of been quite an uproar when they realised that you were saying men could be the victims as well.
/r/MensRights15/04/15 08:27 PM
2

How dare you the daily mail has always been a bastion of truth and integrity! /s
/r/MensRights15/04/15 08:20 PM
1

I never said that what she did was acceptable. In fact i think it was way over the line. The experiences he had suffered through because of that were out of order. I don't disagree. Also this comment I never physically harmed her" true he might not have harmed her physically, but emotional pain can be just as bad as the physical. However, there's a certain moral code. You don't cheat on your partner. And as such he set himself up for the fall. I'm not gonna argue anymore, but as someone who has …
/r/MensRights15/04/15 07:54 AM
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Yeah in those two examples you are correct, however in my example I was talking about the car driver who went in to the back of someone, not the one who was hit. If the car driver knew that his brakes were faulty and went out regardless then ended up in an accident, then declined responsibility. That is the angle I was coming from.
/r/MensRights14/04/15 02:47 PM
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Perhaps you can clarify something for me. In your post you are saying that the two of you "eventually got back together at the end of the summer". Was it an actual relationship or were you just looking for sex?
/r/MensRights14/04/15 02:43 PM
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Yeah, but that's my point exactly. There's no doubt she went overboard in getting her "own back" on him as were, but he pretty much set himself up for something bad to happen. If he wasn't happy with this girl and he wanted someone else, then he should of told her outright. Yeah, it would of been unpleasant. Yeah it would of been downright awful probably. But it's doubtful he would be in the same boat as he is now.
/r/MensRights14/04/15 01:51 PM
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With all due respect are you saying this wasn't his fault? If he hadn't cheated on her, then she probably wouldn't of lied, he wouldn't of ended in jail, and he would still have the money. As far as i can see this isn't "victim-blaming" its take responsibility for your own fuck ups. It's like a car driver in an accident saying " It's not my fault i ran it to the back of you, the brakes weren't working properly" despite the fact that as its their car it's their responsibility to make sure that it…
/r/MensRights14/04/15 07:50 AM
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Bitch at men? /s
/r/MensRights13/04/15 08:57 PM
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The saying? Its full version is the pot calling the kettle black. another way of saying someone is a hypocrite.
/r/MensRights13/04/15 08:30 PM
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Well, I feel sorry for you about the situation you've been in, but tbh if you were seeing other women behind her back when she was your gf you didn't exactly do yourself any favours did you? Anyway, good luck and all the best.
/r/MensRights13/04/15 06:29 PM
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