Varathane Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
51	Best tips for flirting!	Resources	Varathane	/r/seduction	14/06/21 03:00 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
7	Skipping foreplay, rushing, and not using your fingers are the biggest mistakes you can make during sex oh yup, for sure. You just posted a lovely list of suggested activities for people to run by their partner, see what they like, or if they don't know what they like -- what they are excited to try out and see if it does anything for them.	/r/seduction	04/10/21 08:22 PM
24	Skipping foreplay, rushing, and not using your fingers are the biggest mistakes you can make during sex Amen. Also just ask what she likes, some of us don't get much out of nipple play - others do. Everyone is different. Also toys! Toys are fun and not just for solo-play!	/r/seduction	04/10/21 07:31 PM
1	What’s your biggest piece of sex advice? ASK what the other person likes, how do they like to be touched, what words/phrases do they like to hear? If they aren't sure how they like to be touched talk about what some options are and whichever ones you are both game to try - try those. Every single person is going to be different, so you can't take a list of things like "slobbery kiss their neck" and go for it with everyone. But those lists are a great for ideas that you can offer your partner, or ask for you from your partner. Only have…	/r/seduction	03/10/21 05:13 PM
26	Do small women even like small guys? Why would you want to date someone who considers height in who they date? Anyway... advertise yourself to other shorties as someone you don't have to crink your neck to look at/kiss.	/r/seduction	20/09/21 05:01 PM
1	[deleted by user] The thing to consider here is how she is going to feel if she doesn't want to be approached. Is this a safe care-free environment? Or is it a personal one? Work is personal.Her place of work is just that. She has to be there, she is expected to be friendly, and she is likely going to be there day after day. So being asked out there feels inappropriate because it is. She is trying to work, not looking to pick up. And if she says no she has to worry that you'll come back, that you'll stalk her at …	/r/seduction	19/07/21 03:29 AM
6	Where can I find a sub like r/seduction but for women? You could start a thread on r/TwoXChromosomes I think you'll get some good replies. I was raised and presented as a woman for while, and still do sometimes. (I am genderfluid) I think my best advice is to pay attention to who YOU like, not necessarily who is interested in you. Who do you connect with? Who do you find attractive? And then you approach them and be clear about what you want. If you want to get to know them and grab coffee, ask for that. Keep arranging hangouts and spend more time t…	/r/seduction	25/06/21 05:01 PM
0	As a man are low body counts attractive to you? No such thing as too low or too high for how many times a partner has sought out sexual pleasure with another person. Sex and pleasure are a renewable resource!	/r/seduction	25/06/21 02:52 PM
8	If you’re hung up on one person who is not invested in you, think of the regret you will eventually have over the precious time, opportunities, and emotional energy you wasted This can easily be said even if your dreams come true and you end up in a relationship with that person. Pay attention to how they treat you, who they are vs idealizing and romanticizing them when they don't value you.	/r/seduction	16/06/21 01:21 AM
1	Best tips for flirting! Where did it lose you? I has a bit sad she didn't have many actual flirting lines, but as others will say on here and my bro friends it doesn't matter what your initial introduction line is, it is about connecting with the person and I think she did that really well.	/r/seduction	15/06/21 02:30 PM
1	I’m 29m with aspergers and I have no social life That makes it challenging. Do you feel up to creating your own meetup for your age group? The perk there being that you get to pick the activity/event that you all go to. Build it and they will come! Could even be something simple to like a hiking group or board game night?	/r/seduction	14/06/21 04:10 PM
1	I’m 29m with aspergers and I have no social life Do people plug meetup.com here? I think they should. You can pick an event that you have an interest in, and you'll get the bonus of meeting people who have a common interest, plus all the people there are up for meeting others. Whereas just walking up to others at a mall or park or whatever they might not be so prepared to chat and get to know someone, or be looking for hookups there. Good place to find friends as well! This you-tube video on how to flirt gave so many great little scenarios act…	/r/seduction	14/06/21 03:38 PM