VargaLaughed Archive

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1	How to take things to next level Take the initiative to work deeper topics about yourself into the conversation. Like maybe you talk about what you two do for a living on a superficial level and then you bring up your deeper, long term career goals and why you love your career. And you can then see how she reacts from there, like maybe if she stays something positive you can ask her about her career. You could read Models: Attract Women Through Honesty by Mark Manson	/r/seduction	12/05/21 09:15 PM
1	The single mom contradiction What’s the comparison between single mothers vs bad parents? And what’s the comparison between statistics where the law is in place and not in place?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/20 09:23 PM
1	The single mom contradiction For the same reason people argue for the right to free speech for people who are against free speech. As a consequence of having the right to do good for living things, it’s properly within your rights to do some bad for living things. And violating rights on behalf of the latter ends up worse for both the latter, overall, and the former. The War on Drugs, Prohibition, completely banning abortion etc. There are so many problems with forcing a man to be a father. Women can trap men creating more …	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/20 09:21 PM
0	Can men develop attraction to a woman based on something besides looks? Yes. Appearance might be more important on average for men than for women, but ugly women can find relationships. Males can get aroused more easily by visuals than women. I think beauty is objective, but people have different needs for beauty and can have subjective beauty standards to some extent. Just look at other cultures and history and current tastes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/20 09:07 PM
1	Is monogamy a lie/doomed to failure? In that case, why does monogamy exist? Simply, because romance is better with best person for you. Spending time together, dating, cohabitating, living together and sex, the highest physical/emotional/spiritual pleasure you can have with someone else, is best with the best person for you. And it isn’t the case where there are two people who are the best for you over a period of time. No one is the same. Part of this is that there simply isn’t the time to live the best life, career/hobbies/health…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/20 08:54 PM
2	Q4All: Where did you get your beliefs? Currently, from reality. There is masculinity and femininity objectively, as a matter of the nature of males and females. Simply put without any explanation why that’s the case, masculinity is initiating within a romantic relationship, and only when in a romantic relationship, while femininity is going along with that. Look at what’s involved in a courtship, in a relationship developing from start to finish, and initiating along those steps is masculine while going along with the others initiati…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/20 06:43 PM
1	how do you not get attached to a girl you like Self-esteem. Live for yourself, make your career your purpose for living and achieving your happiness. The best lover for can come close to being to main part of part of your life, but never the main part. This isn’t gender specific. If she’s not compatible with you, then that’s good. You now know you can find someone better for you.	/r/seduction	09/06/20 12:40 AM
2	Concept of Putting Yourself First Than Others I’m all for putting yourself first, but putting yourself first is not easy. This sort of thing is a problem all people who want to put themselves first in their life face. And it’s good for you that you’re facing it. You can’t just do whatever you feel like. That’s whim worshipping or hedonism. That’s not actually putting yourself first. I’ve read Models. It’s a great book, but he doesn’t give you a particularly good guide in that book on how to actually put yourself first. To put yourself first…	/r/seduction	19/04/20 06:12 PM
2	Losing all momentum, need encoragement And what’s success? What goal were you looking to achieve? You did succeed in losing weight, approaching more women, getting better clothing etc.	/r/seduction	18/04/20 06:04 AM
1	Losing all momentum, need encoragement Why were you doing all of it? Why did you accomplish all that?	/r/seduction	18/04/20 05:41 AM
5	Balance between self improvement and dating You can’t focus on self-improvement and on getting laid frequently. You have to put your goals in a proper hierarchy and not sacrifice less important goals for more important goals. What is self-improvement? It depends on your choices. If you choose to live as yourself, both as a human being and as an individual, then that requires you putting your career over your romance in your hierarchy. How much you date and improve with women and “get laid frequently” depends on how much you can do so with…	/r/seduction	17/04/20 05:47 PM
1	Texting Models by Mark Manson will explain what you’re doing wrong probably. You generally don’t ask a woman you’re just getting to know if she likes you.	/r/seduction	12/04/20 02:50 AM