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My wife will never earn more than me so it's not even worth thinking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/20 03:47 AM
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Man likes woman so he ignore her. How does she know he is ignoring because he likes her vs. she doesn't exist. This isn't what's happening so your whole premise to this question is wrong. What should the women do if interested. Become hotter and more available. Send nudes Should she ignore him should she be neutral if a breadcrumb is thrown Being cold and high maintenance isn't going to make a guy more interested. Just be happy with your breadcrumbs.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 07:23 PM
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I also think that many also think that the average-looking guy who they are not attracted to is also not attracted to her when he is being friendly to her. They assume that he also sees that their attractiveness is not on the same level as hers, or that he also sees that there just isn't a spark between the two of them. In short, women assume that men have the same social awareness as they do. You hit the nail on the head so hard it went through the board. This comment probably deserves a thread…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/20 08:28 PM
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Every time they're proven wrong they do the same feigning ignorance trick. "Ya, obviously this is true. Why did you need a study? Lol. I never disagreed with this. Obviously this is common knowledge" Cue them contradicting this research any time a similar discussion comes up.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 02:57 AM
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No, FDS is just one giant pity party and coping sub. How many of the top posts are about self improvement, before/after photos, etc.? Versus just getting virtual hugs when the guy they wanted stopped texting them and they now call him scum. Also they have no respect for how language actually works. Like they even say in their sub a "high value man" is however anyone wants to describe it and no one should be judged on their choices. Society has an objective definition of high value men. Tall, han…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/20 02:34 PM
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No he doesn't have to. But if a stripper or prosti is asking for $$$. It's nothing on him if he wants to pay for the convenience. Also by them paying there's less risk. All it takes is banging one crazy fan before you get rape accusations, fake pregnancies, stalking, whatever. At least when you use a pro you're also paying them to leave after.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/20 03:18 PM
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It's a true as fact line. Multi millionaire athletes and musicians use prostis and escorts all the time. Why the fuck would they spend the time to take a girl on a date when they can just have their pick of the insta thots, fly them out to their houses or just straight up pay for the sex. It's like buying a cup of coffee to the average person. And these guys could get any women they want any way if they dated by normy standards, but the best pussy for time/money value is just hitting up 9s and 1…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/20 02:45 PM
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Yup. MBTI = Horoscopes for autistic people. While we're at it love languages is a bunch of BS as well. That gives narcissists an explanation why treating their partner like shit isn't their fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 06:37 PM
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It doesn't. People just like to make up bullshit about TRP on here and then just pretend it's fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 06:25 PM
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A lot of women virtue signal about not wanting kids to their friends at a certain age because saying you want to be a mom goes against the herd. It's very tradcon for a 20s woman to say that over living their hot girl summer life. Even if they actually want kids r/childfree is a bunch of older women (and men) in denial. It's a giant coping sub like MGTOW. A lot of these people may have wanted families at one point or jealous of their friends who are financially stable enough to support raising k…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 03:17 AM
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For men that short it's better to be jacked and a high BMI than to be 150. Seriously a grown man weighing 150? Lol you gonna get brushed over by a gust of wind, or can't even handle a German Shepherd. And women are supposed to feel protected by you? The only men respectable at 5'8" are the UFC fighter types who might weigh 180 but are completely jacked. Being a small, petite, twig boy is definitely below average. As far as 5'8" being the average height goes. That data is not reliable or not up t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 12:51 AM
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This idea is supposedly a beta guy who a woman made more alpha herself and then he dumps/cheats on her. Women generally don't date beta guys they view as "below" them. These broads are reframing that they were not able to keep a man, who upgraded from them. Likely because these guys were out of their league. Sure, some may have been in longer relationships with these dudes vs a one night stand. But women also love to assume the relationship. A ONS is a guy she "dated", a guy who played her for a…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 07:04 PM
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This is basically alpha widow reworded to make it palatable for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 05:59 PM
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I’m a 20 year old male, 5’8 150 pounds at most. You are far below average. So get bigger and make more $$. Height will always be against you cause you're tiny. Hopefully you have good hair going for you at least?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 01:11 AM
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Most "MILF" porn is women age 28-35. And it has nothing to do with them actually having kids if you're somehow implying that men are attracted to single moms on the basis that they're mom's? Hell I've seen some porn actresses go from teen/stepsister videos to milf/stepmom videos in like 6 years. I work with a lot of 40+ women with kids and trust me, none of them have bodies or skin like you see in milf porn. I'd be willing to bet most of those women are around my age (33).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 02:15 AM
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Why is it always about sexuality, I thought us humans were more sophisticated than that. Why would you think that? Millions of years of evolution, thousands of different mammals that we can observe mating behaviour from without moral panicking. Humans aren't some divine beings sent from god, we share the same traits with a lot of other species. The more I see these POVs from modern bluepill/woke/feminist types, the more obvious that their philosophy is some type of new psuedo-religion in place o…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/20 09:34 PM
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most of the collection of traits FDS calls "high value" seem to be the exact set of traits the majority of the internet/Reddit would call "insecure creep" You're not missing anything here. This is standard operating procedure from the Feminist crowd, to just completley use words and language incorrectly, and act like people understand what you mean, or being deliberately obtuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/20 05:38 PM
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While there is truth to this birth control/attraction theory. This is the most important information in this post: I also started working out in the last year and feel like I put a lot of effort into how I look where as maybe he doesn’t do the same. I watch what I eat but it seems he doesn’t really care about doing the same A woman can be sedated on 12 types of birth control, but it is almost without question that when they start getting a fitness schedule and putting a lot of effort into their …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/20 01:58 AM
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I have noticed a rash (for lack of a better word) of posts over approximately the last two weeks that are getting removed after about an hour or a little less. But, the other thing that I seem to detect with these posts is that, frankly, RP is "winning the argument." It's been like this for a while. Take it as a badge of honor if you are debating someone on here and the mods end up shutting the whole thread down so no one can see the exchange. I can't even count the number of times this has happ…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/20 03:01 AM
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When the definition of "abusive" means "this person disagreed with me", then ya, it's pretty overstated. Or, the word is now meaningless.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/20 04:36 AM
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Right? Who the fuck would get married if they're not gonna have kids. I feel like the only reason TO GET married is if you want kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 03:04 AM
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I keep getting Facebook memories from the year I was heavy into coke and man did I look good. Never had cheekbones like that before or after that year.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 02:25 PM
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Because women have to deal with thirsty guys hitting on them 24/7. When she's out with her man, and another man approaches her, it's great to not have to be confrontational and have her man to tell the guy to fuck off for her. Recluding to your shell like a scared tortoise while you watch another guy hit on your girl isn't "stoic", it's passive pussyboy behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 09:53 PM
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It's always acceptable, and it's often desired from women. One of the few things RP is absolutely wrong on. I don't care if she's talking to other guys, they try and hit on her, and tell her how beautiful she is. Actually that's kind of an ego boost imo that other guys find her appealing. Thays an easy way for a woman to lose respect for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 09:39 PM
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Just rawdog enough Tinder hoes and you'll get your wish.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 04:54 AM
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So much virtue signalling from the men here. Or maybe they actually believe their "honorable code" bullshit. These guys just straight up don't have the opportunity to have no strings attached sex with other beautiful women or they'd be doing it. As a man of options in a LTR who actually has had the opportunity to cheat dozens of times, I've only taken the opportunity a handful of times over the years. This isn't because of my moral virtue, but because of how many things need to line up right and…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 05:07 PM
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We don't live in a super special time, and feminism isn't some renaissance of thinking it enlightenment. You are vastly over estimating the social importance of some academic theories of today. These are natural gender behaviours and points of view that have been argued about among humans for millennia.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 01:22 PM
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Also I can see a situation where she leaves the guy because he is lazy, doesn't give her enough attention, and isn't passionate about anything. Not true. These are usually the rationalizations for leaving after she has already locked down a superior man. I've seen women stay with absolute bums who are dickheads, where even she pays the bills, and is perfectly happy and would never leave because she still sees him as the most attractive man she can get. I've also seen successful guys be called "n…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 12:41 PM
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When people were out of the house all day it was much easier to have affairs in their cars or hotels during lunch breaks at the office. Now that everyone is at home all the time, these married people can't actually meet up with their side pieces anymore and are with the spouse they're unattracted to all the time. Only way to get their sex life back on track is divorce to get some privacy
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 05:48 PM
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I only have 1 Reddit account at a time. But I do routinely delete them and create new ones every couple months. You'd be surprised at how much information can be gleaned by comment history. Also I literally just watched an ex-colleague's professional reputation get assassinated after he got in a mundane Reddit argument about jaywalking or some shit. Other person looked through their history, saw photos of his dog, reversed image searched and found his dog's instagram, which found the guy in ques…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 01:50 PM
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Ya speak for yourself. That doesn't reflect my feelings and I don't see how complaining about women on IG is in any way masculine behaviour or consistent with RP. I will defend insta thots all day. I think they get too much hate from both sides. Insta thots are maximizing their value as young attractive women, it's the natural RP equivalent for females. Much more than FDS. I think the hate on IG models is more coming from the neckbeard Reddit crowd, the same type who say "social media is for los…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 01:15 PM
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Cause I'm the only one spitting facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/20 09:14 PM
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Like Chelsea Clinton takes her fathers money to improve her own life but I doubt she thinks highly of him. She probably wouldn't bring her girlfriends around him. LMAO. Youre just assuming Chelsea Clinton doesn't respect her president dad???? Jesus what a cope. Like the ex-wife of Tiger Woods, Elin, she's out there living her best life dating a 32 year old professional athlete while spending Tigers money and everybody is cheering her on. LOL again, who's cheering Tiger's ex wife on? What does sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/20 08:48 PM
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Okay so what? OoooOOOOOohh, hypocrisy. If that's a deal breaker for a woman than I let her walk. No issues from my end. If we're talking about being a wealthy famous person there's plenty of other women who are willing to put up with that hypocrisy See: pro athleltes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/20 08:09 PM
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Naw I'd leave her easily. I wouldn't deal with that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/20 07:52 PM
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Explain how anything I said is hypergamous or branch swinging? You have no idea what those terms mean. Men are polygamous not hypergamous. I just said I'll cheat on a 10 with a 6. That's the opposite of hypergamy
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/20 07:48 PM
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Yup. And if she decided to leave it would be the same thing for any future woman. I wouldn't see myself looking to "upgrade" my relationship or be monogamous in that scenario. Don't care if it's Emily Ratajalowski, there's no single woman that can compete with the variety of thousands of beautiful woman. It would be like a wife asking her husband to never watch porn and only have any sexual release with her. Only with that level of fame and wealth it doesn't have to be fantasy, you can actually …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/20 06:53 PM
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In a LTR for 7 years. Fame and wealth to a significant degree would mean my girl needs to get on board with the pro athlete lifestyle. She can still be my wife, have our kids and a family together. But I will be indulging in the 1000s of thots who will be throwing themselves at me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/20 06:24 PM
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However, little is spoken about AMALT (all men are like that). Are there certain behaviours that are characteristic of all males and if so, are there any examples? Lol, are you serious RN? All men are like that is the default morals of society. All men are potential predators so women need to carry weapons, not be alone at night, etc. All men are violent and will fight eachother if you push the envelope All men are willing to fuck any option of a woman they have. Tiger Woods cheating on his supe…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/20 08:48 PM
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Apex fallacy for the millionth time. You're assuming the majority of men in the past were wealthy accomplished people with families because those are the only stories you hear about. You think the laborers building the pyramids felt like they had a "stake" in society? What's going on is that the more a population grows the more strained resources become for everyone. We are used to having much more frequent wars that cull a good portion of the male population. But now these guys are sticking aro…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 06:17 PM
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I was afraid most people would say they would never date a transgender person. The question assumes that for some reason you would want to. Well that is a silly assumption in the question because most people aren't going to be down for that. You may as well be asking what my strategy would be for dating a horse For the sake of the question I imagine men cosplaying as women are just as desparate to fuck anything like most men (incl gay men) so it would probably require less effort than fucking th…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 04:06 AM
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What do you think causes transgenderism? Is it biological, “brain in the wrong body,” mental illness, societal pressure, or something else? It's probably similar to homosexuality being genetic and I struggle to see where that line is drawn. I have a feeling a hell of a lot of gay adults today would have been convinced or pressured to identify as the opposite gender/trans if they were teenagers today. Is affirming transgenderism and medically transitioning beneficial to the person, or harmful? Is…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 03:44 AM
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Because they're not official bf/gf. She's just one of many girls he's dating and she's hoping if she sticks around long enough he'll get bored of the other girls and commit to her. Most women just assume the relationship and lie to their friends and family about having a "boyfriend" when it's really just a guy who hits her up for booty calls. These friends of yours at least have a level of self awareness to know where they stand.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 05:27 PM
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If you see the counterargument of "just go get a prostitute lol" just acknowledge that you won the argument. It makes no sense and another example of these broads online all reading from the same script. Prostitution is hella expensive. I live in a major city and pros are ~ $200HH / ~ $350HR. That's not pocket change for 90% of the male population. I make over six figures and that's a pretty big expense if you're seeing these girls once a month at least. Prostitution is hard to access. Not sure …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 04:11 AM
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You're an absolute moron if you think a woman wouldn't know whether you came in her or not. As soon as she goes to pee it would be obvious. Also nothing in women's bodies replicate cum like that. Your description sounds like you're banging a lot of women with yeast infections You sound like a 14 year old who had sex one time and thinks he's an expert. Cringe city
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 05:53 PM
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Well, can't fake it if you're raw dogging.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 05:27 PM
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Almost every single time I've finished busting a nut in a rando. Bonus repulsion points for raw dogging.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 06:40 PM
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But in your analogy it would be like if all the companies (women) were like "we want a rockstar corporate executive but only want to pay him $50k. If everyone agrees to not pay him more than $50k then it should work" All it takes is one company to be like, shit I really want this guy for the job, I'll pay $100k. And then your false price fixing doesn't work. High value men (real high value men) do not have to wait for sex or anything because women compete for his attention and resources. Just li…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 02:00 PM
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Men would win this 100% Women are the sexual selectors and in a market economy they set the buying price. If 99% of women refuse to have sex with a man before dating for 3 years. All it takes is 1 woman to say "hey, if I fuck this guy now, I may be able to lock in this hot, succesful dude while all these other girls are playing hard to get" Just like undercutting the buying price, the women who break rank will have their pick of top tier men. Meanwhile if all men were acting red pilled and one b…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 03:42 AM
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They exist. They're called spinsters, crazy cat ladies, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 12:40 AM
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That is a way too literal and borderline autistic This is more or less a gender debate sub around the topic of dating and sexuality. Saying "ackshully that isn't specified in rule 2 of some Redpill sidebar post from 7 years ago so it's off topic and needs to be banned an reposted in a different sub" is just a overly logical way of censoring topics you don't like. Redpill, Blackpill, FDS, any of it should be open for debate here. What's the point of staying stuck in some 2013 view of the world?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/20 04:35 PM
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Uhhhh, yeah? How weak minded are you that if you were to simply see a post on anti vaxx or flat earth you'd just run with it and believe everything? Why should conspiracy theories be banned? I disagree with banning those topics as well. All these things should be allowed to be openly talked about and debated. And flat earthers will get clowned on. Have some convictions and actually use your brain. If all it takes is one upvoted post to change your beliefs and make you believe the sky is actually…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/20 03:52 PM
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All women are like that. Even female Reddit mods. Block your number, block social media, dump friends, change cities, and censor any speech or thoughts that don't confirm their worldview. If they're actually faced with self reflection it's much easier to just erase whatever was making them look bad/feel bad. Out of sight. Out of mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/20 03:35 PM
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The term simp used to be a word that was only used in the redpill community Come on dude, simp has been a word used in rap music for decades. It's not a Redpill thing. Sippin on Some Syrup came out in like 1998 and it's the first one that comes to mind: I'm trill, working the wheel, a pimp, not a simp / Keep the dope fiends higher than the Goodyear Blimp / We eat so many shrimp, I got iodine poisoning / Fck nggas make me sick with all that pinching and bargaining
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/20 02:05 PM
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And you've chosen to ignore the fact that, after making no moves to marry the pickmeisha, he is then keen tom marry another woman. How do you know he is keen with the new woman? How do you know he doesn't have the exact same type of relationship with both? Do you have cameras monitoring your exes or these guys lives? Fact is, most people are ready to marry around 30-35 regardless. Given how expensive weddings are and how people are still figuring out what they're doing in their 20s If a couple d…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/20 01:25 AM
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Why would anyone be entitled to a ring after 3 years of dating? It depends a lot on the age people get together and where they're at in their careers and life stages. Thinking about the plethora of weddings I've been to in the past 3 years off the top of my head here's how long the couple's had been dating prior to marriage: 9 years 3 years 6 years 8 years 11 years 5 years If a couple gets together in college it's ridiculous to call the girl a forever girlfriend or pickmeisha if they aren't marr…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/20 12:58 AM
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No, they love it. The amount of women on here who can't understand that is astounding to me. I had a FDS type call my relationship/girlfriend a "bangmaid" in a different thread. And I'm like....uh yeah? As opposed to what? a girlfriend who doesn't clean, doesn't cook, and doesn't have sex? Who the fuck would want that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 09:25 PM
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Put effort into being a meek, passive, pushover girl? Yes, because that's the type of woman dominant attractive men desire for long term compatibility. I thought pickmes accept forever gf status making them losers ....cause no marriage You realize the only way people get married is if they have a multi year happy long term relationship. The majority of women you're calling "forever girlfriends" do in fact end up married to their guys. Sounds like jealousy to me. There is no reality where people …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 08:05 PM
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Because submissive women are attracted to dominant men. And dominant men are attracted to submissive women. Since most women are not attracted to meek, passive, pushover guys. Simps get made fun of and are unsuccessful. Which is also why I don't really think pickmes are a thing. It's just a shaming term from unattractive women who don't want to out in effort. But most men don't see those type of women in a negative way. So what these broads are calling "pickmes" is just what a successful female …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 07:26 PM
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Just grab an 8 ball and tell her you have blow at your place and she'll be naked in no time.
/r/askTRP15/08/20 04:12 AM
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I'm 23 now and have still only had 2 sexual partners total and both times, I'd wanted them to be a life long relationship. Okay, so you're definitely not part of "hookup culture" then. Feel like this post would be more valuable from someone who had that experience. For one, people are completely unapproachable in person. Making friends is basically impossible as an adult. You can't just come up to strangers and even if you're lucky enough to have a good conversation with a stranger, odds are the…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 01:20 PM
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I am wondering when to have sex for the best relationship outcome in the long run There is literally no correlation between when to have sex and a good relationship outcome. I know these beliefs are hardcoded into you so you're not going to be able to comprehend that. But I'm telling you that's the way these things work. Some people fuck on the first date and fall in love, get married and live happily ever after. Some people fuck on the first date and one person never calls the other back and th…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 02:22 AM
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You are using a different approach to what women use (AF/BB). You are doing what I do (I think). Assessing women as the relationship progresses and if they get so far, it moves to the next phase. Ya, we approach relationships the same way But I don't think OP is representative of most women here or AF/BB. I didn't realize till I read her replies that she's a 30+ virgin, without much/any dating experience She's way too emotionally invested into each potential date where she is expecting the guy t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 09:49 PM
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Studies are great as a foundation for an argument. What is stupid is asking for a source or saying that an argument is invalid if it does not have a peer reviewed academic journal source. Studies help support anecdotal experience. But anecdotal experience isn't invalidated by not having a study. That's some weird ass autistic bullshit you only see on Reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 02:47 AM
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I [23F] was a slut (kiss-count of 34, n-count of 25) Yoooo, this girl is either a raging whore with no standards or lying about her kiss count. We really doing kiss count? Really? Even when I was a virgin in highschool I had made out with a dozen girls from parties or whatever. At college it was makeout every few nights out at the bar but women didn't put out THAT easily. My n-count is somewhere around 30, but my makeout count has to be 200+ If this girl is having sex with 75% of the guys she ki…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 02:17 AM
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Neither of us has made the final decision. The point is that I want my first time with my soulmate-- whoever he may be-- to be significant. If I have sex within months of dating, that is not going to happen. I'm not talking about making the decision, I'm talking about even entertaining the thought that someone you've only just met is marriage material. It seems like you go into each date with the hope and expectation that this person will be the person you will marry and have kids with. That is …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 10:02 PM
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I'm so confused by the thread title and OP Literally everything in mainstream society: "Men prefer to date younger women cause they're prettier and easier to manipulate (read: get along with)" OP: Let me tell you the REAL REASON men prefer younger women PPD: okay...... OP: Men prefer to date younger women cause they're prettier and easier to manipulate (read: get along with) Great insight there chief...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 09:30 PM
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Your exact OP question is: When you are considering a woman for marriage, how long do you prefer to wait before you have sex? This makes zero sense to me other than you assuming that guys consider who they want to marry before even dating them? There is no reality where marriage is considered before sex happens. So the question of how long do you prefer to wait for sex when considering someone from marriage makes no sense. Marriage is only considered multi years down the line and you only get to…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 09:06 PM
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The level of narcissism of OP to think that any man would consider marrying her before having sex/dating for a long time is off the fuckin charts. Who are YOU to assume that you're so god damn special that men should see you as a lifetime partner they want to marry right after they meet you or early stages of dating? Guess what, you aren't special so let's start there. Now, the entire premise of this thread is backwards. I would only consider marrying someone who I have had a happy relationship …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 08:33 PM
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I've never hated women. I think women are just as capable of being as shitty as men. That means MISOGYNY
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 08:26 PM
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I don't think I've ever needed emotional support. It's a weird concept to me. For ex my female coworkers routinely cry at work or during performance reviews. I don't think Im even physically capable of crying cause we didn't hit our revenue quota this quarter. I was laid off from a dream job last year and was pretty chill about it. Wished the team luck and bounced. Had a beer with the other people in my department who were effected and there were a lot of impromptu bathroom (read: crying) seasio…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 08:43 PM
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Guess what? Woman of any age find young fit men attractive too. That's literally the opposite of what the OP and half the comments from women in here are saying. Most women are saying, they actually change what they consider attractive. That the hot, fun, buff guys they fuck around with in their youth ARE NOT sexually attractive to them as they "mature" and "priorities" change. And that they honestly are more attracted to stable beta guys. If you're saying that women of all ages still consider t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 05:45 PM
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This isn't some stupid rule of 80/20 or whatever. I'm just making the obvious statement that the vast majority of men just have to take what they can get. The % is irrelevant. The average man doesn't have the luxury of options to make the AF/BB comparison make sense to begin with. The guys who are so attractive they can have pretty much any girl they want usually just fuck around till their hearts content and usually marry a very attractive, non slutty, pleasant woman age 25ish. They for sure do…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 04:56 PM
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I was responding to the comment that said most men she knows have high standards. And I disagree and question how much she knows about men's dating lives cause lots of attractive guys hook up with below average women just to get a nut and it's not something that she would be aware of if she's just judging by the girlfriends they bring around. Who by default would be a higher value woman. As for your comment Nobody has the choice to marry their absolute dream person, not gendered. I 100% agree an…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 04:52 PM
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Yes some wives may get upset if their husbands have a hot young assistant, but some husbands also get upset if their wives go for lunch with a male friend or co-worker. I have seen so many posts in the manosphere from men asking what to do about their gf or wives’ male friends who they see as a threat. Okay? I'm not denying that. I don't know why you keep going sideways in your arguments. I said men's preference for young, beautiful women never changes with age. They don't change what they find …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 04:45 PM
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but that doesn’t mean 20 year old girls are interested in much older men just because she is in the most desired ideal for what men are attracted to Never said this was the case. I'm arguing against the AF/BB dynamic applies to men as well from the OP. Men don't desire hot sluts in their youth and then mature and want stable partners. That is pure female projection. Men always want to smash young, beautiful women, theres no point where they want less attractive women as they get older. It's just…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 01:43 PM
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Oh here we go "hmmm, I don't have a counterpoint to this.....ah ha! INCEL CONTENT please remove" fuck outta here with that. Also I highly doubt you know that level of detail about the men you know's dating life. I've always been successfull with women and so were the guys I rolled with since we all played sports together. Most guys smash their fair share of fatties and 2:30 dirties or bat below their level on occasion. They would never be caught on a real date with these ladies but thats the gam…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 01:36 PM
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90% of men don't have a choice in who they can actually have sex or get in a relationship with. It's never a "preference" or maturity in later ages for men. They will fuck pretty much any woman who let's them and commit to the hottest + most pleasant one they can get with. Also, men's preferences don't change with age. Men are actually consistent about what they find attractive. Teenagers, to young men, to middle aged men, to grandpa, all find 18-25 year old women who have pretty faces and nice …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 12:57 PM
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There's nothing more cringeworthy in this sub than people who have this inaccurate romanticized view of the past like everyone was in perfect relationships and these old gender stereotypes were iron clad. Guess what, you never heard about your grandma getting a train run on her as a teenager in Poland because they would never tell your parents or you about that. Doesn't mean it didn't happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 01:57 AM
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Lesbians don’t care about TRP, and most, like me, think it’s fucking stupid. I’m asking redpillers how lesbians fit into the AWALT idea. What? Your exact topic is literally: How do lesbian women and gay men fit into the RP theory? And nowhere in your OP do you even mention AWALT. So why are you changing the subject? You asked how gay men and lesbians can apply/fit into TRP and I answered why it would be less relevant for both groups. Typical response though, changing the topic when you're losing…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/20 03:46 AM
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Lesbians have rich sex lives and have relationships as deep and passionate as heterosexual ones Literally every study ever done on this topic has shown that Lesbian couples have the least amount of sex, then heterosexual couples, and gay men have the most. It's been repeated so much it's been dubbed "lesbian bed death" It's also not in any way surprising just given the differences between men and women's sex drives. Women are generally more passive and react to advances. Men have higher testoste…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/20 03:09 AM
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Lesbians don't have sex with eachother. So TRP advice on how to be attractive and desirable to women to get the sex you want, isn't as relevant for them. Since they're happy to just "be in a relationship" for the sake of being in a relationship. Gay men are less relevant to RP advice since they're men, and don't need to attract women. But it's not surprising to me that gay men fuck around on eachother in relationships and everyone's down to bang everyone all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/20 02:53 AM
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Marry rich and don't have a victim mentality. She'll go further than 90% of women with those few tips.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/20 08:59 PM
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I know a lot of attractive women and absolutely zero of them would be posting on Reddit at all, let alone a gender debate sub. But yes, let's sit back and listen to the 170lb mult colored hair girls who think they're attractive because the neckbeards in there dungeons and dragons group hit on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 04:14 PM
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Well you sure as shit didn't make that point with "ok misogyny". Ooooh, fantastic argument right there hun.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 05:01 AM
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The problem is, people that are overweight know they need to lose weight but are usually in denial or don’t have the discipline to do so, so telling them that will get you nowhere. Ahh this feigning ignorance BS again? "Obviously this person needs to lose weight and become more physically attractive. That's why our advice is that looks don't matter. Because it's already implied that they are the most important thing" This is another language trick BPers use. And I find it funny every time women …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 04:58 AM
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Yeah? And what's your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 04:47 AM
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Women don't give good advice period. It's not just to men. I don't even know if women can actually grasp the concept of advice. Cause what women consider advice is just giving platitudes to make people feel good. I guess to them feeling good is better than actually solving a problem. But they give terrible advice to their female friends and colleagues as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 04:13 AM
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You still don't get. There's no mechanics or body movements that magically make her orgasm. It's how she feels about the guy period. Some of these good looking guys do nothing but thrust for 10 mins. No foreplay, don't eat pussy, minimal kissing. Just smash and go, and the women STILL have heavy orgasms cause the guy is sooooo hot and it's validating. Keep coping thinking you spelling out the alphabet while licking pussy is making you a sex champ. Meanwhile chad puts in no effort and all his par…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 08:40 PM
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Ah yes, please cry to the mods to remove facts that challenge your worldview. Let's label all wrongthink incel Content Btw here's the study for anyone reading this before this post gets taken down for wrongthink: The current research replicates and extends previous results addressing the relationship between male partner’s attractivenessand female copulatory orgasm (Shackelford et al., 2000; Thornhillet al., 1995). Furthermore, the current research documents a linkbetween perception of other wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 08:17 PM
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Female orgasm is just based on how good looking the male partner is. In studies that have attempted to explain the orgasm gap the only obvious cause was how good looking the male was perceived to be. If you were to ask women what the best sex they ever had was it will always be without a doubt the hottest guy they hooked up with. Could have no foreplay, no oral, maybe it was a quick 5 mins of thrusting in a parking lot outside the bar. But since he was hawt she orgasmed and it was the best sex e…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 07:00 PM
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If my gf said this to me I'd probably laugh cause she acted super attracted to me by putting out asap, seeking me out and always putting our plans as her #1 priority in the beginning of the relationship, always being game for sex even after 6 years, and well, I know I'm an attractive man to the majority of women so I'd question what kind of standards she has if I'm not in that threshold. Basically one of the red pill mantras is watch their actions not their words. Since her actions were clear th…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 02:32 PM
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Ya I mean if I was a professional athlete or something I would definitely have girls on retainer and that amount of cash is nothing. But the counterpoint to men who can't get laid of "well just hire a sugar baby or pay an escort" is dumb cause those options are expensive or dangerous. It's not viable for most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 04:08 AM
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You'd be surprised. I looked at SA with my buddy who works in finance in a major city. The absolute floor for what these girls were expecting were $800 purses for a meet and greet that wasn't even guaranteed sex. SBs are often more expensive than escorts and you run the risk of someone who catches feels or can't emotionally handle the situation. Pros are at least honest about what they are and leave when you want them too. The hot down to earth college student that will be a sugar baby and is ga…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 03:49 AM
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"sugaring" starts at $2000 /month minimum. Most guys don't have that type of disposable cash.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 03:37 AM
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Well, with human interaction and domestication making all of their needs met, this has changed their behaviors. Either with over breeding or socialization, their biological instincts have been dimmed Their biological instincts have been dimmed because we cut their balls off and spay their ovaries you nitwit. How much time have you spent with a domesticated group of animals? You realize that farmers don't keep Bulls in the same pasture with cows or a bunch of intact dogs in the same kennel togeth…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 12:09 AM
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Your comment thread is going to be deleted very quickly. Mods are always quick to remove any race realism discussions. Saw a bunch of posts removed last month about the hypocrisy of white feminists promoting black lives matter while their Tinder matches are more Aryan than the Third Reich.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 11:59 PM
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Still, I feel like you're misinterpreting some article you read at one point, because that thing about mating habits doesn't sound scientific at all. Again, you're handwaving clear behavioural evidence because it conflicts with your worldview. I didnt misinterpret a random article I read once. And I'm not the type of person to take any article or video at face value. There's a thing called critical thinking. I don't know why I have to explain why humans are mammals and we're closely related to o…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 11:37 PM
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I'm far from suffering, probably have one of the highest amount of sexual partners on this sub, and I got in a relationship at 27 (that is still great 6 years in) so probably missed some prime pussy slaying years. I'm just saying what's obviously true instead of gaslighting all the sexually rejected males and pretending they're crazy or wrong because it hurts your just world view. My advice to incels would be move to a third world country where you have a better chance at being a top % male (esp…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 10:07 PM
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Female/Male mating habits can be observed in literally every other mammal species on earth. Where the strongest male leads the pack or mates with all of the females and is territorial about other adult males encroaching on their mates. And 90% of the males are incels. Somehow BPers think all humans are super special unique snowflakes that were created by God out of some magical fairy dust that means they have no behaviour or genetic patterns similar to literally every other mammal. Because reaso…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 09:44 PM
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Completely opposite in my experience. If you're reasonably good looking enough and social, sometimes even just being in the right place right time you can get sex without a whole lot of effort. I have no doubt blue pill guys get laid every now and then Relationships? Are you kidding me, there's a reason TRP says marriage/relationships is red pill on Hard Mode. Give me one piece of blue pill advice that would benefit men in a fulfilling relationship? It's always the bluepill guys I know who end u…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 09:38 PM
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"Incel Content" is just used as a bludgeon to remove any content or threads where RP/BP handidly win the debate or make some of the mods/fav users here look foolish. I can't even count the number of threads or comments where a woman is just proven unequivocally wrong and all of a sudden Mrs_Drgree shuts the entire thing down so no one can ever read the exchange again.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 02:44 PM
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It was for my best friend's bachelor party and I spent about half of my time walking around outside of it because I didn't want to be inside. Some best friend you are, way to be a fuckwit at your "best friend's" bachelor party. You're such a pussy you can't even just sit in the club and have a drink with your bro who's about to get married, and ditched him to pace circles around the outside of the club like an autist?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 01:38 PM
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This is cringe AF dude
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/20 11:05 PM
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It's guys sharing notes. I don't "believe" that Dread works, I've seen it in my own life and relationships around me. Dread 100% works btw. Don't have to like it but it's true. I got daily blowjobs for a week after my GF saw texts come through from a side piece. And that was not happening often before.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/20 03:46 AM
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So do men. That's why they cheat more and go to strip clubs despite being married. They aren't looking for someone better though. Cheating and going to strip clubs is because men like looking at naked women for the sake of looking at naked women. No man walks into a strip club thinking "wow this woman is better than my wife, I wonder if I'm settling in my current relationship" That's just because men would take on a loser if she sucks his dick well enough. And???? Not sure what your point is her…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 03:19 PM
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Is this simply a coping mechanism having realized women find them unattractive? Yes. For every 1 actually desirable man who decides to just stay single and live the bachelor life forever while still being sought after by women, there's 10,000 incels in denial. It's the "you can't fire me, I quit" of sexual strategy and frankly embarassing to read as another man.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 03:09 PM
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ASS, ASS, ASS, ASS (ass, ass, ass, ass).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/20 09:05 PM
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Women complaining is just their default behaviour. It's like asking why men get in fights. They just do. Those same women complaining about LVM, would be complaining about their partners if they did lock down a Chad. They'll never be happy. So just drown it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/20 09:03 PM
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Men don't fight for custody because they're trying to minimize the cost of an already expensive divorce. If it's a question between a $20k lawyer bill and no custody, or a $160k bill with a pretty good chance of ending up with no custody anyway, the choice is already made for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/20 07:03 PM
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At 6'5" / 220 yes I would be concerned if a woman was larger or stronger than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 07:48 PM
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But saying it's a necessity for men to have a job, but not for women, makes me feel uncomfortable. It makes me feel that if one day I cannot work, if I go through rough times, she will leave me. Well it doesn't really matter what you feel about it. That's the way the world is. Chris Rock had this bit in the 90s, if you lose your job she might not leave you that day, but the countdown is ON. https://youtu.be/KiZSG2vDMIo
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 07:46 PM
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These guys are literally saying they're in for the relationship right after meeting them. If they're just casually seeing eachother and then it breaks off its no different than what you've outlined in the 4 steps above. If you were sleeping with multiple women in your scenario but expecting them to not sleep with other men, you'd be a hypocrite So what? If a woman is exclusive to me while we haven't had that conversation that's on her. And it's a plus in my eyes that she's that keen on me. If sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 04:46 PM
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Right? I'm shocked this is the minority view. I and most of my buddies operate in the same way. Agreeing to a relationship after one date or one week is stupid AF. You don't even know that person yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 04:29 PM
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Some of these answers make no sense to me. I'm assuming a lot of the guys on here are inexperienced romantically. There is no way I would be interested in a relationship with a woman after a couple of dates. I barely know the person and im supposed to tether my life to them cause we had drinks, dinner and fucked? What? It's more of a question of how long can I casually date a woman without her disqualifying herself from a relationship. Most disqualify themselves as relationship material within 1…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 04:27 PM
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No, I've actually never heard of this guy, but this is a good read. Feels like I could have written that whole article word for word. I don't think it's too hard to come to the same conclusions for people who were engaged politically during the Bush era though today. But I rarely see these commentaries being made.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 09:16 PM
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I don't think successful women are LESS desirable to men though? If they are I think it's probably men who have to adjust their expectations. No, they're not less desirable. It just doesn't matter very much. Men are attracted to most women by default. So having a good job wouldn't make much of a difference for her dating life. And would be way less important than a gym routine and keeping fit. I also think that you'd be surprised how many women "marry down" both in terms of their economic status…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 08:21 PM
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If these women are as desirable as you say I don't see how they wouldn't be able to lock down a partner while also furthering their career even if they opt to not have children Being more educated and earning more than their peers doesn't make women more desirable to men, it just raises her own standards to what she thinks is her equal. So it makes dating more difficult. A cashier who makes $30k is satisfied settling down with a factory worker who makes $60k and starting a family. That same fact…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 08:08 PM
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Most women who refuse to have children by the time they hit menopause and no longer can are going to be child free for life of their own choosing See, you're talking about 50 year old women today. I'm talking about the 20 year old women today in 30 years. The older unmarried women who wanted children/family and didn't happen for them are a minority of the female population that grew up in the 70s-80s. So of course you don't hear a lot of policies and news media pushing their narrative. In 2020, …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 06:32 PM
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100%. You already see some of this through the enclaves of remote work digital nomads are setting up in central/south america, and south east asia. As western governments continue to implement policies that punish straight white males by virtue of existing I think you'll see even more exodus of Americans, Brits, Canadians, etc. to these countries where there's a growing expat community.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 06:23 PM
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The right favors personal freedom and the left favors sexual freedom, so not sure there would even be a large enough base to support these measures. This wasn't always the case. Political opinions aren't static and morals change over time. As someone who grew up in the 80s/90s the right did not value personal freedoms at all. The moral majority was the older white Christians, and it was the conservatives who were practicing their "cancel culture" against punk rock, hip hop music, blaming video g…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 05:13 PM
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Will be a reversion back to puritanical Christian bullshit just without the guise of religion. Higher age of consent laws to remove competlition of younger women for older women. Age gaps beyond 5+ years will be considered a criminal offense Dating a woman will require a chaperone, having sex without committing to a relationship would be a crime, and having a relationship without a commitment to marriage will also be a crime. Women will demand to be supported by guys they simply book up with and…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 02:52 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 12:42 PM
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A lot of guys settle for the first girl who will have sex with them. Especially younger dudes. Seen it a ton of times.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 04:19 AM
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That's because sex is the main/only thing of value you can offer a man. So once you have sex, that's pretty much it, your cards are on the table, you likely want a relationship, and it's more "vulnerable" for you. For a guy the thought process after sex is more like "ohhhh shit, there's a person attached to this pussy."
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 04:16 AM
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Apex Fallacy. The only men they actually try to date have everything going for them. Looks, money, social life, all the girls want him. They end up in his bed, get a glimpse of his life, and find it unfair how much better a guy like that has it compared to her. And she gets frustrated said hot guy doesn't want to settle down and marry her but would rather play the field. 90% of the male population doesn't exist to most women. They can't even comprehend that the average man on the street would ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 05:11 PM
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If she's really hot and I didn't know she was a feminist until mid date via conversation I'd probably still try to close the deal unless she says or does something super red-flaggy. Not gonna be a sperg and get up mid date because feminists make my feelings hurt or some shit. But ya if she's an outspoken feminist probably not worth pursuing for a real relationship. I believe this is already answered but yes. Just watch out for red flags and tread lightly. For example if the topic of rape ever co…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 04:11 AM
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FIVE drinks????? Da fuck. If she agrees to a fifth drink you coulda had her home after drink 1. I guarantee you during those 5 drink dates that lead to sex the guy is socially autistic and is just repeating the same action for 2 hours and finally the woman is like, "I'm about to black out we need to have sex already".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 11:55 PM
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However, to another group of women, being young is actually your biggest selling point. Go to places where the median age is more 30-40 year old. Wait until you're shamelessly hit upon by older women. No, they aren't hot. Yes they are likely alcoholic, crass, inappropriate etc. but they are available for a bang, and that's all. They don't want a relationship with you. Don't be too proud, don't dream of relationships with the perfect girl just yet.. Hell, even the things that normally fucks you o…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 04:05 PM
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I'm surprised TAL aired this. Talking about testosterone's impact on behaviour is absolute wrongthink in 2020. Blank-slatism and social construction is a cornerstone of the modern moral left. Speaking to how chemicals and biology play a part in gendered behaviour is a big no no.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 03:35 AM
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Very little. There's tons of valid male criticisms. I think MGTOWs are pathetic, #notallmen is stupid, women have a right to assume "all men are like that", I think men are by definition more shallow with their dating preferences which is part of the reason why it's easier for a women to get men (be pretty, nothing else matters) However the reverse from feminists is rare. Becauae women don't operate in the world of logical consistency, and especially the women in here. The reason why you see the…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 10:15 PM
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That is not the answer of someone with a satisfying sex life. But I'm sure your ok with your dead bedroom while your agreeable husband dotes on you. You just have to understand that that is the exact type of marriage men want to avoid. Hence, don't make that sandwich.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 06:32 PM
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How often do you have sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 05:59 PM
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Of course in that moment it's just a sandwich, but it's still a death by 1,000 cuts. It's subconscious. If he's too agreeable and doesn't challenge you you'll lose attraction over time. This is the "my wife left me because of dirty dishes in the sink" in reverse It's not the sandwich, it's the thousands of sandwiches over the course of the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 05:51 PM
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Honestly, ya. This is the death by 1,000 cuts dilemma. I know how silly it sounds to be a RP autist and "hold frame" in this scenario but this is exactly what happens over multiple years of a long term relationship, and with each comfort test women lose more and more attraction to their man. So this response is probably the right one even if in most cases the guy is just gonna do what he's asked of because it's such a small favor.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 05:33 PM
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Sadly, when women usually ask from their man this it's a stupid test. So as banal as it seems, I'm saying no in this situation. Especially since I'm not already in the kitchen making myself a sandwich. I literally had this happen with a girl I was dating who asked me to get the light from bed. Which also made sense cause I was the one who got in bed last. But she admitted it's weird that I'm so nice and just do what she tells me, it was a test in her mind that I failed. I told her it's a fuckin …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 01:53 PM
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Well that’s the problem right there.. You’re the type of guy who would punch a drunk man for shoving you but give a drunk woman some slack. Honestly? I don’t think you should punch any drunk person for shoving you I had that approach when I was 18 and some drunk guys wanted to fight my friend after the bar. No reason to hit anyone right. I was punched in the head, knocked to the ground, kicked in the rib, which broke, and had to go to the hospital along with my friend who honestly got it worse. …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 01:17 PM
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Yep. They talk over the top of women. Dismiss their ideas. Talk to them in condescending tones. Men get promoted over women who are better at the job. I didn't see much of men interrupting each other - I really only saw them doing that to women. They would listen intently when another man spoke and take him seriously. You're honestly showing why we can't treat everyone as individuals. Men absolutely do interrupt, shout over eachother and dismiss each other's ideas all the time. You know what the…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 12:59 PM
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Women don't get preferential treatment or kindness from men. Yes, they absolutely do, in comparison to how men treat other men. Have you ever worked in a male dominated office compared to a female dominated office? Men insult eachother, are direct, interrupt eachother, challenge ideas. Sooooo many behaviours that would be automatic HR violations in female office settings. I also manage a team of 4 ppl, 2 women, 2 men. Both women, even the super confident career type woman, have cried during perf…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 04:35 AM
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No, that's the point. Everyone is more polite, nice and helpful to women (both men and women). It's like how we treat children vs adults. So when I hear you should treat everyone as individuals that means no one gets treated with kid gloves and women will be greeted coldly and directly challenged in social spaces. A quick example, I am a tall guy (6'5") and often block people's views at concerts. Sometimes people ask me to move to the side, which is difficult to do, some women try to squeeze in …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 04:05 AM
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But that's my point. Men do not treat other men in an inherently different way, it's largely on an individual basis which is what you're asking. So if we all treated everyone like an individuals, women would think it's the most oppressive patriarchy that ever existed compared to how they're currently treated because they would get no preferential treatment or kindness.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 03:37 AM
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Wow that's actually the opposite experience I had on the askmen sub. I find that 90% of the "men" on that sub are 24 year old nerdy dudes inexperienced with women. Self depricating losers giving advice to even bigger losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 03:10 AM
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The most misogynistic thing a man could do is treat a woman like he treats any other man.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 12:23 AM
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That is in no way a dad bod? Wtf. Dude is built like a football player. Literally just google "dad bod" and you'll see none of the thousands of pictures look as ripped as this guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 09:33 PM
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Well his wife was literally alpha widowed by her dead ex-BF 2pac before they got together. Will got cucked cause he picked wrong. And he picked wrong cause he was a nice guy with beta tendencies. Real alpha would have next'd Jada knowing she still wasn't over her ex-BF who was in jail. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 05:35 PM
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Will Smith was always pretty beta though. Dude made "Parents Just Don't Understand" as a rapper in his 20s. He was the Lil Dicky of the 80s. LL Cool J was way more alpha than Will and his wife stayed with him for decades while I'm sure he fucked around as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 02:56 PM
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It starts off with the bad boys and what not, but really that's the more aggressive suitors pursuing her, taking advantage of her youth and naïveté, and she learns lessons about what she likes and doesn't like, and eventually becomes more and more selective in finding that LTR she actually wants. But she had to open a lot of oysters to find a pearl Lollll, this invalidates View B entirely. Women do not self reflect and learn lessons and actively choose less attractive mates. If the super hawt gu…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 02:13 PM
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At 14-16? their descion making is extremely poor, that's why you can only hold a proper job at 18 & vote Ahhh, so at 16 these teens are fully incapable of making decisions, have no agency, and probably require supervision if they're so incompetent. But magically, when they turn 18, boom, fully cognitive adults. Right.... That's not how people mature or behave in reality. And this is all back to moral relativism. If that line for voting and legal adult status was 16 instead of 18, this thread wou…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 04:42 PM
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Ok, so what, the moment they turn 18 a random lighting bolt shoots from the sky and gives them cognitive abilities? This is right back to moral relativism. You're in a society which says at 18 a person is fully capable of making decisions but apparently one day less than that and they're an incompetent child who require constant supervision, and surely can't make any decisions on their dating choices. If that line was age 16 instead of 18 you wouldn't care at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 04:38 PM
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But not mentally, and the guys fucking them weren't much older. Ahhhhh, the old women have no agency and girls are really incompetent children argument. Always comes up. Boys absolutely do not mentally mature faster than girls. It's patronizing nonsense to play to puritanical social norms. There are plenty of 16 year old girls who......gasp......consciously choose to pursue relationships with men they're attracted to. And often older boys/men who are more physically mature or established (say 25…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 04:16 PM
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The Ladder Theory website Before Theredpill, bodybuilding forums, before even social media or smart phones. Ladder theory was the OG Redpill.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 03:59 PM
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Girls physically mature much faster than boys the same age. And for the majority of human civilization we were mating with 14-16 year olds no different from other women. Also, threads that espouse the moral relativism of your culture are not very interesting or worthwhile. ie. If you were born in France, you would not think having sex with a 16 year old to be horrific. Since it's legal and morally accepted.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 03:52 PM
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Naw. Reddit banned that sub the other week. They had a lot of threads about how Karen is a slur though.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 01:52 PM
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Right? Karen's are the post wall FDS women. When they're strategy doesn't work out and they find themselves old, and grey, and alone, resenting younger women, they will 100% be Karen's. I also remember the Gendercritical sub users getting all in their feels about the Karen meme because it hit too close to home.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 04:55 AM
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I'm shocked at how many people on this sub STILL can't grasp the 80/20 rule and female sexual selection. If every single male on the planet was 10% body fat, 6+ feet tall, jacked, and a face like Henry Cavill or whoever, guess what, 80% of them would STILL be unattractive. It's not men's looks, women only want to mate with the best possible male among a group. That's why you also see below average guys with hot GFs sometimes, because sometimes these people meet in niche communities where the ugl…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 12:31 AM
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Am I being immoral or smart by lying? Both. These are not mutually exclusive. You do what you gotta do, not gonna knock it and it's hard to relate to as a guy. But stop looking for emotional validation that you're "a good person" You're an immoral cunt, but a smart one. So be it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 04:48 PM
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Yo buddy, this isn't an escort thing. It's normal for a lot of guys their first few times. I had the same issue back in college, could smash for an hour but never finish. If you jack off your whole life it's hard to replicate the feeling with sex. So you will likely have the same issues with regular women as well. Keep trying in missionary or doggy position and your body will figure it out eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 04:29 PM
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Really???? 144 comments and none of y'all know this song? https://youtu.be/Y1ZJiBHh-Yw This was a #1 hit in the 50s. This ain't new wisdom. "If you want to be happy the rest of your life, just make an ugly girl your wife"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 03:15 PM
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And? What's your point? Women aren't men. That's just how they are. Expecting to hold them to the same level of integrity & male thinking patterns is as useless as expecting men to feel stronger emotions than they actually do as if they're women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 02:04 PM
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Morality isn’t based on any sort of conclusions that are personally drawn but rather whatever the rest of the flock believes. This makes evolutionary sense for women though. When villages were invaded and a different tribe killed your husband and forces you to adopt a different culture. Or when a young woman is sold off to another man she doesn't know, the ones who prospered were the ones who quickly adapted to the heard and did not have any strong morals or honor. It's all relative to the group…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 03:08 AM
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The amount of men that I know - whose mistresses I personally know - who hamster the “my wife just doesn’t get me,” “we’ve grown apart,” “she’s so cruel to me,” etc. excuses? That's just what they say to butter up the women they're cheating with. Because no women would be receptive to "I love my wife and kids and am just looking for some strange cause I'm a selfish asshole". They like to give their side pieces hope there's a chance they'll be together or they have a connection. But they don't ac…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 03:05 AM
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FDS isn't actually strategy for dating or how to be more attractive to males. It's a huge coping sub for unattractive women and a bit of a pity party. TRP actually is a sexual strategy for males to better themselves. And how to become more attractive to women. So if everyone followed these subs what I would imagine happening is FDS women would still break every "rule" they impose on themselves and on men, for a chance with Chad, since he has options and is in control. And for men the bar for att…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/20 11:18 PM
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I'm sure there's an angle you're omitting in that story though. Was probably a "girls learn to code" event of something.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/20 12:43 PM
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Also I can't hang alone with women without them thinking I'm trying to date them, every time I've asked a girl to have some drinks they always show up all dressed with thight cloaths, lots of perfume and make up... Like, yeah I could bang you but I only wanted to talk This is so true. I re-connected with an old coworker who was looking for work, and having just gone through a bout of unemployment and having not chatted in a couple years went for after work drinks. It was apparent from the get go…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/20 02:41 AM
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I did a woodworking course and there was 1 woman and like 8 guys. Like it or not it's very uncommon for women to be into woodworking. I'm sure there are men who are into makeup art as well but that doesn't mean the exception disproves the generalization.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/20 02:35 AM
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Yeah? That's not really that strange of a statement. Romantic love is based on physical beauty for men. A man could love and commit for the waitress at his local bar if she is pretty and they have a good connection. Hell the entire profession of stripers is based on trying to make men fall in love with them so they become return customers and you know they don't respect the strippers like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/20 02:29 AM
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Yes I believe that they have a hormonal imbalance while developing before birth that affects their brain chemistry. A lot of the more effeminate features seem to be inherit with a lot of gay men than it just a learned behaviour. Obviously you'll have your exceptions like burly bear gay guys, which I'm sure one of these "exceptions invalidate the argument" people will jump on this post about. But for the most part it seems a lot of gay guys are inherently more feminine. And definitely same thing …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 07:57 PM
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I don't know when it happened but there was a big shift in academia on this recently, which then bled into all of society. When I went to uni in the 00s, it was still very much nature & nurture. And there was an evolution of sex course that was offered that was very nature oriented that would never be allowed to be taught today. And our psychology 101 class was almost 100% neuroscience, zero on culture. In the 2000s there were a lot of lauded books and pop science around how evolution drives beh…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 07:37 PM
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Here's another example, I had a group group of friends from college that all hung out a lot with 1-2 girls, and the 4-5 guys. When we would go out for food/drinks as a group and the bill came, we'd always be short when one of our female friends joined. She'd drop a $20 when she ordered $40, or not include a tip. And just expect one of the other guys in the group to pick up the difference in the tab if the bill was like $120. It wasn't her being cheap because I doubt the same would apply if it wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 03:31 PM
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Out of the question. Would rather be single than in a relationship with a terrible personality 8-9. I honestly don't even see how it would get far enough where that's a legitimate decision to make because at some point during the casual dating process our personalities would clash in a way where IDGAF about losing her at all and would just move on to the next. I don't think a good personality balances out looks though. Doesn't matter how nice someone is, there is a minimum threshold for looks th…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 11:19 PM
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I have never, ever, been more attracted to a woman I didn't think was hot at first look because she has a "good personality". This doesn't happen IMO. What does happen is that physically attractive women can have off-putting personalities which make them less attractive, and I might prefer the company of a pleasant 6 over an insufferable 8. So looks is by far the most important thing. But the silver lining is the bar isn't that high. Id say probably 40% - 60% of 20 - 25 year old women are hot en…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 10:42 PM
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Naw I'm totally good with all men are rapists. Men are trash. No virtue signaling here. I agree with women who are apprehensive or fearful of men, gotta be careful out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 11:25 PM
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I think it's less that looks matter, and how much more everything else doesn't matter. Look @ the chadfish experiments. You can directly be racist, misogynistic, rude, and aggressive, and women who say they want a guy who has xyz qualities (assuming looks matter still) will drop everything to hook up with the chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 10:45 PM
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