| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 4 | Affection vs physicality | Escalation & Calibration | Various-Adeptness173 | /r/seduction | 12/10/20 07:01 AM |
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| 1 | Ladies, be honest: is a guy wearing apple watch/smart watch a turn off on a first dates?That's like saying it's ok to wear flip flops with your suit though. The outfit has to match. If you're wearing a suit, a smartwatch will throw the look off. Just get an affordable dress watch for when you dress up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 04:03 AM |
| 1 | How to increase my desire?Yeah. That indeed is a pretty solid number. Now if it were in the 300’s technically you would be in normal range but 300’s is actually low | /r/seduction | 09/10/21 12:37 AM |
| 2 | How to increase my desire?What’s the number? A lot of times doctors say “they’re fine” because they’re just a general doc and don’t have a profound understanding of hormones like an endocrinologist does | /r/seduction | 08/10/21 07:35 AM |
| 7 | How do you respond to "you're tall"?The fact that you feel like you need a special response to everything is going to hinder you with women. Convos have to have natural flow. It’s not a chess game where you’re calculating and reacting to every move the other person makes. I would say to respond the same way you would if anyone else said it. Obviously you should be flirtatious with girls that you find attractive but you don’t have to use the tall thing as a way to flirt either. | /r/seduction | 01/10/21 04:59 AM |
| 0 | How to nicely tell girl that I want something casual?Facts | /r/seduction | 29/09/21 01:26 AM |
| 1 | Saying "life isn't fair" for dating inequality is the same as "life isn't fair" for economic inequalityWe’re conditioned to get jealous like that. If monogamy wasn’t even thought about and the social norm was everyone has sex with whoever they want and the idea of a monogamous couple didn’t exist, it wouldn’t even occur to you to get jealous | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/21 01:59 AM |
| 1 | Saying "life isn't fair" for dating inequality is the same as "life isn't fair" for economic inequalityNo it’s not natural. It’s what humans have been brainwashed into believing is natural. Two different things there. If monogamy was natural then there would be no cheating and we all know cheating happens often. You would have to twist somebodies arm to get them to cheat if monogamy was our true natural state | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/21 09:26 PM |
| 0 | Saying "life isn't fair" for dating inequality is the same as "life isn't fair" for economic inequalityMaybe the solution is to abolish monogamy which is not natural in humans anyway and is just a social construct. Get a girlfriend and be in an open relationship. Let her fuck whoever she wants and you get the benefit of fucking whoever you want and if both of you are truly the non-jealous type you can have threesomes together and then everybody is happy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/21 09:27 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]No it’s not. It’s only weird if you think it is cause then your vibe will come across as weird | /r/seduction | 27/07/21 11:18 AM |
| 1 | Do girls mind being approached?You can’t generalize and put all women in the same basket. The answer is that some women do mind and others don’t mind. It’s as silly as asking “do girls like sushi?”. You’re going to run into both types of girls so just approach man. Who cares if they mind or if they don’t. If they’re not interested then you move on. It’s not illegal to talk to women. | /r/seduction | 09/07/21 06:16 AM |
| 1 | Guys - how did you go in for the kiss on your date?Stop looking at it as “the thing to do” and putting so much importance on it. Do it because it feels good and it’s what you genuinely want to do. Also, look at it as a sign of affection. It’s something that you’re giving to the girl. Don’t look at it as something that you’re taking. | /r/seduction | 02/06/21 05:09 AM |
| 2 | I paid for sex again, and it's making things worseIs it really that hard for you to get laid from cold approaching or online dating? I mean paying gives you the option of literally choosing whatever girl you want and having her fit your exact profile of looks but still. It’s costly and not worth it. This is coming from someone who’s paid for it before and it just isn’t as good as being with someone who generally is turned on by you and wants to fuck you | /r/seduction | 02/06/21 05:07 AM |
| 1 | To me, it feels like I can only approach a girl if we meet in a place where that's "socially acceptable", be it at a bar, work or school. How do you approach a girl who's just trying to mind her own business that you met at some random coffee shop?That’s easier said than done when you have a high sex drive and a random girl who’s not looking at you at all makes you insanely horny. I’d rather shoot my shot and see what happens than to wait for choosing signals from her. If you’re not very good looking you won’t get many choosing signals anyway so that strategy you’re talking about won’t work for everyone | /r/seduction | 02/06/21 05:02 AM |
| 12 | How do I get girls?If you’re very good looking, try dating apps. If not, go out and approach women. Since you said “settle down” try daytime places instead of bars and clubs | /r/seduction | 01/06/21 07:28 AM |
| 1 | Girl only wants me to call her when I'm with my friendsDamn. At this point i would assume that maybe she wants to fuck one of your friends. But you said she doesn’t talk to them anyway so it might not even be that. Maybe she’s just strange and it’s time to move on to a new chick | /r/seduction | 28/05/21 03:55 AM |
| 1 | Girl only wants me to call her when I'm with my friendsJust communicate with her directly and ask her then | /r/seduction | 28/05/21 03:52 AM |
| 1 | Girl only wants me to call her when I'm with my friendsMaybe she thinks you have no friends and she’s looking for proof | /r/seduction | 28/05/21 03:28 AM |
| 1 | Sex is overratedMaybe you’re masturbating too much and watching too much porn so the real thing doesn’t feel any good | /r/seduction | 23/03/21 07:35 AM |
| 1 | Kevin Samuels gives good advice to womenI find it funny how blunt he is lol | /r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre | 05/03/21 02:43 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone find that women's resting btch face and other "defensive" techniques doesn't really deter you from approaching them?A lot of times the RBF girls are very nice. They just have that face sometimes without even realizing it. I’ve also had sets where the girl LOOKED like the nicest girl in the world and when i did the approach i got a hard nasty rejection. You never know what you’re gonna get so just approach and find out. | /r/seduction | 30/01/21 01:34 PM |
| 2 | Three dates - I can't escalateStart looking at the escalation as being affectionate. When you reframe it like that, it becomes easier. Why? Because society has created a stigma around being sexual but with affection it’s ok. They’re more or less the same thing though. The only difference between the two is that with the “escalation” you’re doing it with someone you actually wanna fuck | /r/seduction | 07/11/20 04:02 AM |
| 2 | Where do you meet women during the pandemic?Just approach them at the grocery store while they’re buying their food. It’s a bit awkward cause everyone has a mask but just think of it as self amusement and since she can’t see your smile just kind of laugh a bit so you come across as friendly. Not a big laugh but you know what i mean. It’s not likely you’re gonna have a good set during this whole facemask in the grocery store era anyway, but it’s a good thing to do just to stay sharp so you aren’t rusty once this bullshit ends and you step … | /r/seduction | 23/10/20 12:07 PM |
| 1 | In my opinion everyone has their own gameThat sounds like playing the lottery. There’s no system for success behind that. And why do you want to do this anyway? Is it that painful to actually open your mouth and talk to her? If that’s the case then what are you going to do if luckily that paper thing works and you land a date? You can try anything you want to try but i wouldn’t do that because it’s very unlikely that it would work, whereas if you actually speak to her, your chances go up immensely | /r/seduction | 17/10/20 08:53 PM |
| 1 | Is it a good opener to say hi to a girlIt’s not what you say. It’s how you say it. Most communication is body language | /r/seduction | 15/10/20 08:26 PM |
| 9 | Yo this crazyYou sound like a newbie. The newbie stage is very fun and exciting | /r/seduction | 13/10/20 11:14 AM |
| 2 | I envy guys with gfs/women in their livesSo you just want to play the victim card and give up? Why not just fix whatever you need to fix and go out and get the things you want in your life? I don’t know you personally so i don’t know what you need to fix but just from reading this post, i can tell you that your mindset is a good place to start. | /r/seduction | 13/10/20 07:58 AM |
| 1 | Why is it so hard or even impossible for most men to have casual sex?Cold approach never works for guys who don’t put enough effort into it. I’m sure if you did it every day and spent time around others who are better than you and learn a little bit from them every day, it would work | /r/seduction | 12/10/20 09:08 PM |
| 1 | Went from extremely motivated to completely given up. How do I overcome this?Get your testosterone levels checked. Same thing happened to me and turns out my T was low. If it’s not related to T then all i can say is just force yourself to do like 3 sets a day or if you can only do one, then do one every day. This keeps you in a constant flow so that you’re not starting off ice cold whenever you do decide to go out for another hardcore session | /r/seduction | 12/10/20 12:06 PM |
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