Various-Fix-3803 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
67	Redpillers can't fall in love		Various-Fix-3803	/r/ExRedPill	17/07/25 01:38 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Redpillers can't fall in love None taken!	/r/ExRedPill	17/07/25 07:30 PM
3	Redpillers can't fall in love Defining it is too much for me to tackle. I'm not up for it. It feels like defining the experience of color. I think I get your point, but I'm not up for the undertaking. A disproportionate amount of all human creativity has been devoted to romantic love. It is pretty close to a universal experience. Yes, I do feel sorry for asexuals. I don't mean to be condescending when I say that, but maybe.	/r/ExRedPill	17/07/25 05:34 PM
7	Redpillers can't fall in love I'm not so interested in the definition of love, personally. And I am speaking from experience; it wasn't a logical decision I made to place it where I do. You're talking to someone who used to believe that , so I wouldn't say nobody. I take RP ideology to making similar claims. My point is that the biological description of romance doesn't have to detract from the conscious, human experience of it. And yes, hoards of men are opting out of the experience of love due to their understanding of the…	/r/ExRedPill	17/07/25 04:50 PM
10	Redpillers can't fall in love >At some point you are going to have to recognize that your fucked up belief system is attractive to certain women so that it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy. This is fascinating--and probably true. What you lead with will attract people who are attracted to that thing. Lead with money and attract women attracted to money. Lead with your body and attract women who want your body. Lead with your authentic self and attract women who are actually attracted to you. Sounds plausible, at the very l…	/r/ExRedPill	17/07/25 04:34 PM
12	Redpillers can't fall in love I agree with most of this, I just contextualize it differently. Humans are incredibly complex. So much so that the biological story of us, while true, is just one layer. We are both unconscious patterns of stardust and conscious representations of those patterns with an entire universe of internal experience. It is true that my wife was interested in me, in large part, due to unconscious biological drivers. But on the human level, where she exists as a distinct human being rather than a robot, s…	/r/ExRedPill	17/07/25 03:18 PM
7	Redpillers can't fall in love Interesting--thanks for your thoughts. Why do you think falling in love causes one to lose frame? I think another way of saying this is that men tend to become a lesser versions of themselves over time in relationships. The nagging wife trope, to the extend that it is true, comes hand-in-hand with the incompetent husband trope. Why are you putting the onus on the wife, here? If RP ideology was stripped of the bitterness and nihilism, it would leave behind some really solid self-help tools for me…	/r/ExRedPill	17/07/25 01:58 PM
4	How to respond to dread game If you're not in a relationship with him, it's not DREAD. If you are in a relationship with him you need to decide what your boundaries are and enforce them. Try, "Hey, I'm not comfortable with you flirting with X. That is a boundary of mine and I need you to respect it." If he can't do that, you should probably break up with him.	/r/ExRedPill	17/07/25 01:26 PM