| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 2 | No spark | Fundamentals | Various-Replacement | /r/seduction | 14/01/20 10:04 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Pull back gone too farSo what does that mean for me in practical terms? She’s done or I just need to chase more | /r/seduction | 20/07/22 09:15 AM |
| 1 | Pull back gone too farIs it too late to chase now? Did I fuck it? | /r/seduction | 20/07/22 09:03 AM |
| -1 | Pull back gone too farAhhh should I message now then? | /r/seduction | 18/07/22 03:40 PM |
| 0 | Pull back gone too farDo you think she could be waiting for me to make a move because she’s sick of always initiating | /r/seduction | 18/07/22 03:39 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I think that might be the case her longest relationship was just over a year and that was 5years ago. I’m trying to keep contact dates to minimum and she’s initiating communication and dates and I’m still dating so hopefully I won’t fall too hard. | /r/seduction | 13/07/22 10:47 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]When I say super hot I mean I think I’ve peaked in what I can pull Hahahah. I don’t mind boring tbh I’m boring at heart but being single for the past year I’ve been teaching myself to go out of my comfort zone and be more fun and out going which was doing wonders for me. So as she’s not following my script I was doubting my self. Also I just remembered I think she did she she’s a home body and doesn’t have much hobbies but I didn’t really correlate that until you said. | /r/seduction | 13/07/22 07:20 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Just super hot to be honest and very accommodating and thoughtful to me. Like when she gets going it’s good she likes to please but the lead up is very awkward and stiff I think. Maybe she doesn’t think so though because she’ll message how happy she was when I was with her and when she can see me again and cook for me etc. | /r/seduction | 13/07/22 07:10 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]You might be right. I never really struggle with anyone else like it’s always effortless usually so it could be compatibility. But saying that I may not be the best judge a lot of dates I think went well doesn’t lead anywhere and a lot of dates I think went bad end up leading somewhere… not so much the case anymore but it still happens time to time. The first time we went out was good but she was just making a story on her phone out of every thing which was annoying. We went out to eat that was … | /r/seduction | 13/07/22 05:28 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Just to clarify we’ve been out 2/3 times then gone back to hers and while we was out it was a similar vibe as well as back home. So maybe me/the event wasn’t that interesting issuing your breakdown. I also think I find it more difficult to find common ground maybe due to the age gap. I guess I should do some digging into what she enjoys and pick that next as an activity to take the pressure off of me making it fun? | /r/seduction | 13/07/22 04:20 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]My other dates would be intimate hugging kissing etc. If I initiate she doesn’t seem too interested. | /r/seduction | 13/07/22 01:19 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]1/2 times a week is too much? My other dates would be intimate hugging kissing etc. If I initiate she doesn’t seem too interested. What else do you suggest? | /r/seduction | 13/07/22 01:19 PM |
| 1 | Invited my self over to a girls house not sure about replySee post update | /r/seduction | 12/05/22 12:09 AM |
| 1 | Invited my self over to a girls house not sure about replySee post update | /r/seduction | 12/05/22 12:09 AM |
| 1 | Invited my self over to a girls house not sure about replySee post update | /r/seduction | 12/05/22 12:09 AM |
| 1 | Invited my self over to a girls house not sure about replyOk got all the information from her. She also added a joke Forgot to practice the magician tricks I could entertain you with. Maybe we can play rock paper siccors?. | /r/seduction | 11/05/22 04:04 PM |
| 1 | Invited my self over to a girls house not sure about replyOk that makes sense. Lol @ the blind part! 🤝 | /r/seduction | 11/05/22 03:56 PM |
| 1 | Invited my self over to a girls house not sure about replyAh gotcha! 😉 | /r/seduction | 11/05/22 03:48 PM |
| 1 | Invited my self over to a girls house not sure about replyThanks and How can you tell so I know for next time etc. | /r/seduction | 11/05/22 03:47 PM |
| 2 | Invited my self over to a girls house not sure about replyWait what gave you the clues so I know for next time? | /r/seduction | 11/05/22 03:43 PM |
| 3 | Invited my self over to a girls house not sure about reply🙌 thank you guy | /r/seduction | 11/05/22 03:42 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Don’t respond Even though she has a ? At the end I’m not waiting for her I’m still seeing other people but I just liked her the most that’s all. Sad times | /r/seduction | 09/05/22 08:27 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]😔 thanks man | /r/seduction | 09/05/22 07:25 PM |
| 1 | No sparkIt was more because the rooms are next door but if I have no choice then I might have too or if I get aggressive enough I guess I can playful ask when they’re inviting me over etc. I’ve been watching tons of videos by Cory and alpha male strategies and everything I’m hearing is all making sense now. Like she was late and I brushed it off saying it’s ok take your time not realising I failed the shit test. Also I wasn’t even attracted to her pics they did her no justice but in real life she blew m… | /r/seduction | 15/01/20 05:14 PM |
| 1 | No sparkSome people say they don’t entertain the shit test they move on. What’s your thoughts? | /r/seduction | 15/01/20 11:16 AM |
| 1 | No sparkIt’s not working for me that’s why I need help creating that “spark” | /r/seduction | 15/01/20 09:59 AM |
| 1 | No sparkThanks a lot for taking the time to write this. I think your right. The first part was so accurate it was like you was on the dates. I have that tv style. Where I’m probably allot more aggressive over the phone to get to the date phase then I fold. I also think because I’m nervous I actually talk to much and give to much away. The most successful dates are those I’m not interested in which is probably because I’m more relaxed and not trying to be a perfect “tv date” Thinking about the date, she … | /r/seduction | 15/01/20 09:55 AM |
| 1 | No sparkHmm. Maybe their expectations isn’t meet in the sense I’m probably way more confident while we speak over the phone text. And it’s hard for me to carry it over in person. When I see them I melt perhaps i seem like a different person to them? I’m not quiet I carry the convo but I’m thinking as some one else pointed out maybe my body language or maybe I over compensate knowing this? It’s hard to say | /r/seduction | 15/01/20 09:32 AM |
| 1 | No sparkI’m not. Some times when we text I might say I like them and compliment them etc. | /r/seduction | 15/01/20 12:03 AM |
| 1 | No sparkI definitely try to sell so I guess I give off that vibe | /r/seduction | 14/01/20 11:09 PM |
| 1 | No sparkDo you also think I should read the book the art of seduction? | /r/seduction | 14/01/20 11:07 PM |
| 1 | No sparkThanks a lot could you give me some examples of tensions building? Another Redditor have me a few examples of physical escalation such as touching legs back etc. | /r/seduction | 14/01/20 11:06 PM |
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