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Maaaaybe. I do know that heartbreak made me into an emotional fortress. I go out and have fun and make intimate connections, but I'm never vulnerable again.
/r/seduction21/03/21 05:37 AM
1

I hear ya brother. You're preaching to the choir. Let's just enjoy our lives as best we can and maybe something falls into place for us eh?
/r/seduction17/03/21 05:50 AM
3

Lol. I seem to get recognition for it about once a year. You made the quota for 2021 quite early. Have a wonderful day!
/r/seduction15/03/21 02:57 AM
15

Thanks stranger! I'll heed your wise words.
/r/seduction15/03/21 02:55 AM
42

I can totally understand this statement. I just want to add that the thought of working for years on something this late in my life (40) kind of terrifies me.
/r/seduction14/03/21 08:02 PM
1

So girls like attractive guys. Thanks for the tip!
/r/seduction28/01/21 01:02 AM
1

So after finding out causes "literally everything associated with Covid", you decide to "don’t buy ANY of it"..... Interesting reasoning.
/r/seduction20/11/20 12:13 AM
1

BTW, there have been many reports of long term residual symptoms even after getting covid.
/r/seduction19/11/20 10:52 PM
6

https://enteringmanhood.com/making-touch-natural-the-kino-escalation-ladder/
/r/seduction11/11/20 06:30 PM
6

Too early in my opinion. Also, at this stage, you might want to see it more as leading and being dominant rather than just being an initiator.
/r/seduction10/11/20 08:20 AM
2

Sure. In that context with your grandma it's fine. But let's say a middle-aged man has to be more careful with a teenager intern at work. I understand that flirting can be made without sexual intent. But there's still that creep factor. You make some valid points. I'm just pointing out awareness of boundaries.
/r/seduction27/04/20 07:56 AM
5

I would like to have the mindset of flirting with everybody, but in this sensitive day and age you're gonna get a sexual harassment label sooner or later
/r/seduction26/04/20 11:39 PM
1

Wait, when did hot girls want to be treated normal? I never heard this before.
/r/seduction21/04/20 01:42 AM
1

In moderation and briefly near the beginning is fine. But will get old quickly if it seems like a winless game. Keep in mind that there are probably other prospects in the picture and that he can easily just move to some else who shows more interest
/r/seduction27/11/19 08:19 AM
5

Get hobby. Something to make you happy using your free time
/r/seduction21/10/19 02:42 AM
1

"I know! The SAME thing keeps happening to me"
/r/seduction27/09/19 06:27 AM
2

Insults are not really shit tests.
/r/seduction20/08/19 02:51 AM
9

Are you in high school?
/r/seduction02/02/19 07:26 AM
1

Kiss her.
/r/seduction07/08/18 06:00 AM
2

My man, it seems that you have a good chance of being with the person you want to be with. How bout this? Give it like 3 weeks. You still feel this way about her, then cut everyone else out and give this one a shot. At some point you have to take a risk. There's that idea that something better might be around the corner. Well that something might be here. Worst case? Doesn't work out and you go back to the apps and steam rolling dates. Sounds like you're doing well anyway.
/r/seduction07/08/18 05:58 AM
4

No, girls generally like to have their hand held. Just grab it when you cross the street, file through a crowd of people, or just walk for one place to another. Act casual about it like it's no big deal.
/r/seduction22/07/18 07:48 PM
1

RELAX dude. Just be confident you can eventually deliver. She's still interested. Just don't ooze insecurity and neediness.
/r/seduction06/03/18 06:37 AM
2

Definitely be holding her hand and definitely kiss her DURING the date. Don't wait till the end.
/r/seduction20/12/17 05:14 AM
1

How do I get it? I can't really see my doctor giving me a prescription for that.
/r/seduction10/12/17 06:40 AM
1

Whaa?! Hibachi in the California bay is like $40 dollars :(
/r/seduction05/07/17 06:58 AM
6

Exactly. To me, it's like the equivalent to asking a girl if she's sleeping with anyone else the minute right before you sleep with her. You're already there.
/r/seduction22/06/16 06:10 PM
1

You can sleep with her only if you want to. In the meantime, start meeting other girls. The best way to let her know that you have other things going on is to actually have other things going on. Remember, the time you spend with her is time you aren't spending with someone else.
/r/seduction18/06/16 05:30 AM
3

Well, I get the impression she has to still back off and be standoffish since she did straight up tell you that she doesn't want a relationship and you pretty much replied that you'll will be waiting in anticipation. The other guy should not be a factor. You two hang out, have fun, and just leave it at that. Don't hold your breath. Something may or may not develop. You have to respect that she was honest to tell you what she is looking for. And you have to be prepared to deal with the possibilit…
/r/seduction07/02/16 01:50 AM
4

Lol. Maybe he just wants to ask her if she was jealous.
/r/seduction19/12/15 09:13 AM
5

Still confusing. You don't want to be just friends. But you won't ask her out. Which is it? Why don't you just direct the conversation where you want it. Worst case is it goes nowhere. No different than the last 8 months.
/r/seduction19/12/15 09:11 AM
0

She doesn't have to initiate. You're the man. It's your responsibility. If she doesn't respond the way you like, then drop her and move on. The longer you wait, the more awkward your first move will be.
/r/seduction03/12/15 05:55 AM
1

Pssh. Yeah, bravo. Happy hunting!
/r/seduction31/10/14 12:19 AM
8

Dang it. I'm a kindergarten special education teacher. I would actually spend the time to talk to them by breaking it down into the simplest terms and talking about consequences or role play. This would make women furious!
/r/seduction05/09/14 02:25 AM
1

Only if your heels are as smooth as glass. It will snag skin you can't even feel with your fingers
/r/seduction29/08/14 06:21 AM
2

If she is looking at your hands, perhaps she is trying to estimate the size of your penis.
/r/seduction31/03/13 02:13 AM
1

Jesus, are you serious? Just smile and grab his hand when you talk to him.
/r/seduction04/03/13 03:26 AM
4

Don't get comfortable. The game never ends.
/r/seduction28/01/13 07:00 AM
12

I hope the comment of this caliber transcends this page
/r/seduction14/12/12 06:19 AM
1

Dude, just give her a time a little early to meet with you so you can give her the ticket and hang out with her. Even in front of the building. Why is this a hard question to solve? Short and sweet. You guys can talk about whatever when you actually see her. Game on.
/r/seduction23/11/12 08:40 PM
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Took me years to get over this one girl. Stop worrying so much about your love life and focus more on your LIFE. The things you enjoy and love to do. Make yourself fun-loving and interesting. As for wasting time on people who obviously don't give a damn, use your time on yourself instead. Invest more into yourself than others. In short, do yourself and be happy. They will come.
/r/seduction03/11/12 03:03 AM
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