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| 2 | The Problem with "Being Yourself"You are yourself. You cant ever be anyone other than yourself. By stepping out of your comfort zone, that sounds like you were just being you and learning more about who you are. Once you learn about who you really are, it's easier to be take pride and happiness in that fact. | /r/becomeaman | 13/06/16 02:59 AM |
| 9 | How to handle people who are much more dominant/confident than me and force their opinion and views?If anybody feels compelled to force anything upon you, you tell them to go fuck themselves. You should be open-minded enough to listen to their views, and try to empathize with their position, but draw your own conclusions and hold firm to them unless new and compelling perspective is presented. | /r/becomeaman | 06/01/16 03:32 AM |
| -1 | What are some characters in movies or TV shows that are good 'mentors' for basing certain personality aspects on?Just be yourself. Mimicking somebody will never feel genuine and will only come off as awkward/forced. Develop and love your own personality. | /r/becomeaman | 14/11/15 07:29 AM |
| 10 | [32m] My life is a joke. Huge changes neededYou eat what you kill. You don't kill, you don't eat. You desperately crave acceptance and approval, but the catch is you haven't been doing the things necessary to deserve acceptance. Which makes you crave it even more. Your perspective on women, sex, and love sounds grossly immature. Sex is great, but it sounds like that is your obsession and you've minimized the value of women down to only their genitalia. No female wants to spend the long term with a guy like that, so maybe it's time to reti… | /r/becomeaman | 22/06/15 11:50 AM |
| 1 | Achieving balance between authenticity and competitiveness?I doubt anyone views you as indestructible, even if you think they perceive you that way (to those that don't know you, it oft comes off as unlikable). That being said, I too am very cold and unforgiving to those who, through their own toxic actions, have lost the right to be treated kindly - I often find myself not giving them any piece of myself until they can "re-earn" it, so to speak. But I allow them to lose my authenticity/kindness, because by default everyone has access to the "real me", … | /r/becomeaman | 30/10/14 03:21 PM |
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